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Speaker 1: Legitimate compassion space, moment of silence, thoughts, prayers, everything for

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Speaker 1: Teddy Mellencamp. For like, it's just I haven't heard of

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Speaker 1: anyone having brain surgery, Like I don't. I've met her,

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Speaker 1: I think once in person. That is serious shit, And

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Speaker 1: like it's probably bringing her closer to her husband who

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Speaker 1: she's split up with. She has children, it's so scary,

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Speaker 1: Like her anxiety for her kids is probably bigger than

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Speaker 1: her anxiety for herself. You know, Like my biggest fear

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Speaker 1: in life is not being here for my daughter because

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Speaker 1: I'm the only one she has, and so in being

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Speaker 1: healthier and not drinking and just the way that I'm living,

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Speaker 1: it really is like a lot of it is because

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Speaker 1: of just my daughter. And so I don't even just

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Speaker 1: grace more than I mean, like thoughts, great, prayers, you know, great,

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Speaker 1: but like Grace, And you know what, there's been so

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Speaker 1: much shit thrown around in that despicable tox success pool

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Speaker 1: that she left, and I know that she's kind of

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Speaker 1: wanted to go back to. She probably has a lot

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Speaker 1: of perspective on what matters, and so does everybody else.

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Speaker 1: People just trashing each other and then something like this

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Speaker 1: happens which is like in life. In life, people trashing

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Speaker 1: each other and then all of a sudden something bad

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Speaker 1: happens and everybody forgets that. So why don't we just

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Speaker 1: like fast forward into if the worst happened? Would we

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Speaker 1: want to be operating like this with whoever this person is?

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Speaker 1: And that's like a good sort of barometer for us

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Speaker 1: in general, like is it worth it? Is it worth it?

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Speaker 1: My ix on social media went viral talking about X

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Speaker 1: with guys like people were making me cry. People were

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Speaker 1: talking about velcrow wallets that a man sat crisscross apple

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Speaker 1: sauce and they broke up with them, like people were

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Speaker 1: chiming in with I was like, I once I wanted

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Speaker 1: to break up with someone because they ate overnight oats. Okay,

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Speaker 1: that's what I said, and I meant it, and I

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Speaker 1: mean it now. GI a seed pudding, Okay, you have

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Speaker 1: a vagina. Not that there's anything wrong with a man

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Speaker 1: having a vagina. I'm just saying I don't want a

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Speaker 1: man in my relationships that has a vagina. So when

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Speaker 1: you ordered chia seed pudding, it doesn't work for me.

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Speaker 1: I can eat chiasted pudding every day, I can overnight oats,

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Speaker 1: I can put oats in a fucking sleeping bag and

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Speaker 1: have a slumber party with them. I can live with oats,

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Speaker 1: cuddle them, and wake up in the morning with them.

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Speaker 1: You're not allowed to have overnight oats. You're not even

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Speaker 1: allowed to have daytime oats and allowed to have quick

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Speaker 1: cooking oats. Oats are off. Men don't eat oatmeal that

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Speaker 1: date me. I don't know why, I just it's an ick.

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Speaker 1: So I thought I was crazy and after people like,

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Speaker 1: you're fucking crazy. Well, no, guess not because women were

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Speaker 1: Like I broke up with a man because he skipped once.

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Speaker 1: Not like he was skipping, he was walking, but like

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Speaker 1: in one second he skipped, wore birkenstocks over crisscross apple sauce. Goodbye,

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Speaker 1: velcrow wallet, peace out, says yummy tummy belly or delightful. Goodbye,

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Speaker 1: run it up the flagpole park that impactful bye. Going

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Speaker 1: out with my buddies. I'm going what are you fucking

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Speaker 1: twenty one? Going out your buddies? Okay, are you playing

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Speaker 1: darts in a bar? Is it nickel beer night? Go

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Speaker 1: out your fucking buddies. You could keep going, go out

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Speaker 1: your buddies and never come back. Because a grown man

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Speaker 1: should not be saying I'm going out with my buddies. Okay,

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Speaker 1: So we were crying at all the icks, I mean

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Speaker 1: they were endless, the ickx were and he sung in

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Speaker 1: the car. I'm like wow, And I could sing Celine

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Speaker 1: Dion and somewhere over the rainbow at the top of

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Speaker 1: my fucking lungs, I could sing let it Go from

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Speaker 1: by Elsa. It doesn't matter. You are not a let

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Speaker 1: to sing a goddamn lick in the car with me. Okay,

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Speaker 1: shut the fuck up. Don't smack your food, don't breathe,

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Speaker 1: don't sit close to me, don't order your own fucking

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Speaker 1: duplicate entree of mine, because that's goodbye. We're broken up,

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Speaker 1: We're done. We can be married for twenty five years

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Speaker 1: with kids and you order the same entree as me,

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Speaker 1: or have a velcrow wallet by People despise when men

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Speaker 1: have fish in their pictures, but that's more of a

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Speaker 1: dating profile. Ick. I don't know beer Cozy's and those

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Speaker 1: glasses that are on the back of your fucking hat

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Speaker 1: with the like foam connectors. What are you doing? What

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Speaker 1: of fishing? Absolutely not, those are icks. I mean, a

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Speaker 1: man can't say mommy, I can tell you that right now,

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Speaker 1: you'd be living with your mommy real soon. Let's talk

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Speaker 1: about lab grown diamonds. Speaking of things I don't want,

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Speaker 1: lab grown diamonds are things that I do want. Why

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Speaker 1: they are actual diamonds. They're actual diamonds. It's like a

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Speaker 1: vegetable grown outside or inside in like inside, like it's

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Speaker 1: still a vegetable, Like it's grown in a controlled environment.

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Speaker 1: A lab grown diamond is not naturally occurring in the

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Speaker 1: middle of like you know, another country, like a piece

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Speaker 1: and the prices are a fraction. And so now I'm

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Speaker 1: really confused because a lot of my natural diamonds more

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Speaker 1: unrelatable content I'm scared to wear. I'm gonna put a

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Speaker 1: turtleleg over my head. The earring's gonna come out, Like

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Speaker 1: I want the freedom of the lab grown earrings, like

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Speaker 1: sold all those bags, you know, I sold like fifty bags,

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Speaker 1: and because of this luxury revolution where I just think

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Speaker 1: it's so stupid and overpriced. I've kept some, but now

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Speaker 1: I'm about to move into jewelry. So i just sent

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Speaker 1: a pair of earrings and I'm gonna take a hit

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Speaker 1: on them, a pair of diamond big earrings that I

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Speaker 1: just to hurt my ears. You have to. I get

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Speaker 1: worried I'm gonna lose them if I'm traveling and they're

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Speaker 1: not on my body. I worry that they're in my purse,

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Speaker 1: like it's just like having an extra two children. I

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Speaker 1: want to lean out. All this stuff is making me crazy.

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Speaker 1: But lab grown diamonds are taking over, and girls who

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Speaker 1: have real who have natural diamonds are freaking out because

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Speaker 1: much bigger diamonds and they're actual diamonds, they have certificates,

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Speaker 1: they have much bigger diamond rings. And now the girls

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Speaker 1: who have the natural diamonds are all annoyed because they're like, wait,

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Speaker 1: I have a natural diamond that's you know, costs so

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Speaker 1: much more. I don't think in hears to come, it's

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Speaker 1: going to be worth so much more. That's the problem.

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Speaker 1: So people will say there's always going to there are

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Speaker 1: always there's always gonna be the market for naturally occurring

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Speaker 1: diamonds as an investment, et cetera. I don't know. I'm

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Speaker 1: just telling you that diamond business is tay and a hit.

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Speaker 1: So have watches, like the luxury space is feels like

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Speaker 1: but it feels like it is. Brennan and I experienced

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Speaker 1: stop talking about because it happens in many different places,

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Speaker 1: and I just want to talk about the way to

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Speaker 1: enrage someone. It's the same thing as like ignore by text.

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Speaker 1: We were in a store and there was a man

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Speaker 1: wasn't talking to him, where it do you know where

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Speaker 1: the blah blah blahs, I forget where were looking? There

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Speaker 1: And so she ignored us, and we thought, there's no way,

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Speaker 1: there's no way she doesn't hear us because we're talking

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Speaker 1: like a full volume. And then the guy checked out

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Speaker 1: and she was standing there and I think like she

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Speaker 1: had been annoyed that we had been talking to her

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Speaker 1: wash she was checking him out, and we asked the

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Speaker 1: question again, excuse me, and then like it was like hostile,

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Speaker 1: and we were just like, excuse me to you. And

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Speaker 1: it was crazy because it happens in many different places.

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Speaker 1: And I know people are frustrated and they're frustrated with

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Speaker 1: their jobs, but like sometimes you ever noticed at a bartender

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Speaker 1: or someone just doesn't want to respond to you, it

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Speaker 1: could be it's always someone in like the service business,

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Speaker 1: and we've gotten into a situation where the customer is

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Speaker 1: always wrong, like with cancelation and the way things go now,

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Speaker 1: the customer's always wrong and not allowed to complain. I'll

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Speaker 1: let to say anything. It's always the customer's wrong. But

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Speaker 1: when you catch someone who's pass ag and you can

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Speaker 1: you know the moment that you realize that they're definitely

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Speaker 1: fucking with you on purpose, but they're in the power

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Speaker 1: position because the customers always wrong. In twenty twenty five,

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Speaker 1: and you're just like and we kept and Brim is

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Speaker 1: like I'm gonna Brim was like, I'm gonna go louder

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Speaker 1: and louder. We're like, do you know why? Like it

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Speaker 1: was craty. See the woman just we talked about it

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Speaker 1: the whole vacation. She just never wanted to respond to us,

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Speaker 1: never wanted to respond to us. Oh my god, text responding?

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Speaker 1: How much does text suck? How much has text been

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Speaker 1: overused as a means of communication for everything? People are

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Speaker 1: expressing their feelings, people are really going through it, and

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Speaker 1: the death of human interaction. Text is the worst, and

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Speaker 1: gone out with that like I've gone out with, been

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Speaker 1: on the phone. You could be with someone, you could

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Speaker 1: the phone. I'm at the point where I think FaceTime

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Speaker 1: is critical, especially if you want to talk about something

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Speaker 1: like text is just the devil. And if someone doesn't

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Speaker 1: respond when you text, it's hostile. It's not necessarily intentionally hostile,

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Speaker 1: but let's put it this way. If you see that

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Speaker 1: don't respond to you in a meaningful fashion, then something's wrong.

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Speaker 1: There's something intentional, there's something blocked. There's something passive aggressive,

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Speaker 1: there's something hostile, there's something subconscious. People have to respond