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Speaker 1: Advice. Hello, welcome to the Naughty but Nisha. I'm your

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Speaker 1: host Rob Shooter. Joining us today is my friend Donnie

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Speaker 1: Meetcham from Okay Magazine dot com. Donnie, are you there?

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Speaker 1: I am here? Is that exciting to say? I love?

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Speaker 1: Donnie started this new job just a week ago. I

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Speaker 1: think it's been a week today, Donnie. How's it going.

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Speaker 1: It's going fabulous. The real launch has been amazing. People

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Speaker 1: check out Okay Magazine dot com. I'm having so much fun.

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Speaker 1: I love it. I love seeing your name to your

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Speaker 1: byline on the stories there it says Donnie Meetcham, you

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Speaker 1: took a little screen grab. You were so excited. How

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Speaker 1: did that feeling seeing your name for the first time.

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Speaker 1: It's kind of great because we all do this work,

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Speaker 1: and it's just like anything in life, it validates you

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Speaker 1: of dish and gossip, so congratulations again, Donny. You know

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Speaker 1: what time it is. It is tea time breaking story

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Speaker 1: of the day We've got Megan Markle's reaction to getting

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Speaker 1: birthday wishes from members of the royal family. So yesterday

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Speaker 1: Megan turned thirty nine years old, and her brother and

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Speaker 1: sister in law that would be Prince William and Kate

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Speaker 1: Middleton marked the occasion by posting on social media. They

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Speaker 1: put up a really sweet picture of Megan with a

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Speaker 1: young child smiling. It came from their official or their

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Speaker 1: official can't and it said wishing a very happy birthday

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Speaker 1: to the Duchess of Sussex. Now let's remember these four

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Speaker 1: have not been getting along. A new book Finding Freedom

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Speaker 1: actually is saying some quite shocking things about the Fab Four,

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Speaker 1: including that Kate ignored Megan in March at the Commonwealth Service,

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Speaker 1: her last public appearance in Britain. Megan tried to get

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Speaker 1: Kate's attention, catch her I and the Duchess barely acknowledged her.

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Speaker 1: Also to all this goes back to when William told

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Speaker 1: Harry to take as much time as you need to

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Speaker 1: get to know this girl. He was referring to Megan Markle.

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Speaker 1: Harry did not like the two words this girl. He

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Speaker 1: thought it was quite snobby. Also to the Queen, the

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Speaker 1: Queen has wished her a happy birthday and also her

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Speaker 1: in laws, Prince Charles and Camilla Parker bowls. My sources

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Speaker 1: tell me that Megan is actually not that excited by

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Speaker 1: these birthday wishes. Some of her friends think it's very,

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Speaker 1: very fake. Also to the way they did it is

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Speaker 1: a little bit tricky. If you remember, Megan and Harry

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Speaker 1: lost their social media platforms when they left the family.

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Speaker 1: It was part of the negotiation. It was the part

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Speaker 1: of the deal to step away from the family. So

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Speaker 1: to wish Megan a happy birthday on Instagram when Megan

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Speaker 1: and Harry's account has pretty much been shut down, that

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Speaker 1: did not go over well at all. Donny, have you

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Speaker 1: ever faked it? Do you ever wish people a happy

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Speaker 1: birthday on social media that you don't really care that

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Speaker 1: much about. Not that I don't. It takes time and

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Speaker 1: it takes effort. I have to go through my phone.

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Speaker 1: I have to find a picture, one or two pictures

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Speaker 1: us together, one where I look good, try to find

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Speaker 1: one where they look good. The problem here, as though,

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Speaker 1: is I think people think it's impersonal to do it.

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Speaker 1: But the problem also is that Megan is hurt and

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Speaker 1: she feels like she wasn't embraced by the family. So

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Speaker 1: there's nothing really that Kate and Harry can do ken

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Speaker 1: right or us? Maybe, like we know the history there,

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Speaker 1: we know they're not close, we know they've left the family.

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Speaker 1: But I do think that Kate and William couldn't win here.

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Speaker 1: If they didn't wish her a happy birthday, we would

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Speaker 1: be all over it. If they did, we're going to

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Speaker 1: be talking about it too. I hope that they reached

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Speaker 1: out privately as well. Let me tell you a little

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Speaker 1: bit about what Megan did yesterday for her birthday. She

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Speaker 1: didn't want anything extravagant. In the past, she's come under

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Speaker 1: a lot of criticism for throwing these big parties. If

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Speaker 1: you remember, she had a baby shower in New York

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Speaker 1: that looked like it was the Oscars. I had reporters there,

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Speaker 1: Nicki Gostin, our friend was in the lobby like trying

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Speaker 1: like the Oscars. There was a red carpet radar. I'm

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Speaker 1: so this was not a big affair. She didn't want anything.

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Speaker 1: Fancy sources are telling me too, she's actually learned a

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Speaker 1: which brings us to our poll question of the day.

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Speaker 1: Kate and William wished Megan a happy birthday. Do they

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Speaker 1: mean it or are they being fake? Fake or REALA

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Speaker 1: go and answer on our Twitter page at Naughty Nice

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Speaker 1: Rob or our Facebook page Naughty Gossip, where you can

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Speaker 1: leave a comment and we might even give you a

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Speaker 1: shout at on this show. Be sure to check back tomorrow. Donny,

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Speaker 1: what are you working on for? Okay, what's going on? Well?

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Speaker 1: Talking about a little I'm talking about a little throwback here.

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Speaker 1: They gave me all the field so we all know

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Speaker 1: Kristin Cavalry, which let people know Christin Cavalry. She has

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Speaker 1: a show on e Very Cavalry and with her husband Jay,

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Speaker 1: who they're going through a divorce right now. But she

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Speaker 1: was originally on a show called Laguna Beach. Oh I

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Speaker 1: love that show and Elsie. When the drama was there

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Speaker 1: was a boy named Vin Colletti and they would all

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Speaker 1: was like the little Laguna Beach bad boy. Well, Kristen

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Speaker 1: said is this or a throwback to two thousand and four, which,

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Speaker 1: of course all of us sparked rumors. My friend even

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Speaker 1: texted me a screen chet going are they back together? No?

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Speaker 1: Janet's me Brie Captain Brie, one of our friends on

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Speaker 1: the show. Brice said she had a lot of answers.

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Speaker 1: We're going to get to them, So this went wild.

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Speaker 1: What what are you going on between them? Are? The

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Speaker 1: sources are saying they're just friends. They've known each other

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Speaker 1: if you think about it, at least fifteen years, and

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Speaker 1: they really hung up. But I'm going to say this,

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Speaker 1: Kristen is changing the narrative. She's going through a hard

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Speaker 1: time right now with the divorce. Her e show got canceled,

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Speaker 1: so she kind of wants to be put out there

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Speaker 1: a little dig at Jay. Oh. I think you might

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Speaker 1: be right here. My sources tell me that there's nobody

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Speaker 1: better at being a publicist controlling the media. Then Kristen,

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Speaker 1: she's better than Bethany Frankel. Here, she's genius. She first

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Speaker 1: popped up on my radar. I was working for Jessica

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Speaker 1: She ended up on the cover of US Weekly, and

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Speaker 1: the time and they said, she's got the best publicist

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Speaker 1: in Hollywood. She just knows, yes, I think so. She

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Speaker 1: knows how to create these moments. So even though they

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Speaker 1: his genius. She has reminded us why we fell in

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Speaker 1: love with her all those years ago. Laguna Beach, the Hills.

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Speaker 1: It brings back nice, warm, fuzzy memories. It changes the

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Speaker 1: topic from the show getting canceled and the divorce. I

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Speaker 1: think it's just genius. Although it's a little bit naughty.

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Speaker 1: Get this one, Donny So Lance Basses ex boyfriend Lance

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Speaker 1: Bass from end Sync. That's right, Lance bas from encing

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Speaker 1: his ex boyfriend is saying there is some major drama

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Speaker 1: between Lance and justin timber Lake. So the ex boyfriend.

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Speaker 1: His name is Cedric Martinez. You know him from the

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Speaker 1: Real Housewives of Beverly Hills. He was like Lisa vander

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Speaker 1: Pump's sidekick. He was on the podcast Behind the Velvet

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Speaker 1: Robe with David Yo Tef. You know what, Donnie, We're

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Speaker 1: doing a special show with David on Saturday. It's going

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Speaker 1: to run this Saturday, and it's going to be all

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Speaker 1: about Bravo. Twice a month now, we tried to do

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Speaker 1: a bonus show, a weekend show, and so David and

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Speaker 1: I are going to sit down and tell you all

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Speaker 1: our Bravo secrets, who we've met, who we liked, who

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Speaker 1: we didn't. We'll give you all the dish about that.

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Speaker 1: If you've got any questions, let me know so. In

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Speaker 1: any case, back to the story. The boyfriend, Cedric sat

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Speaker 1: Justin had a big head and thought he was the

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Speaker 1: Justin has gone on to be acting and singing performing

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Speaker 1: star and Lance is really trying hard to restart his career.

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Speaker 1: What do you think A lot of the stems back

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Speaker 1: to when they were an insinct together. Think about it. Now,

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Speaker 1: Lance is an out gay man. He was not an

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Speaker 1: the other half. Is there is I want to say jealousy,

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Speaker 1: but I'm going to say envy. He envied Justin Timber like,

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Speaker 1: I Madonna's brother had a book out basically all about

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Speaker 1: his sister Madonna. So I went to have drinks with

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Speaker 1: him to interview him about the book. I annoyed him

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Speaker 1: Justin and it's it's frustrating. Oh. I asked him, actually,

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Speaker 1: That's all I wanted. I do. Wish him well. It

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Speaker 1: must be hard to try and reinvent yourself. Don't feel

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Speaker 1: too sorry. He's got millions of dollars. He doesn't need

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Speaker 1: And he's trying to reinvent himself. I think he did

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Speaker 1: a gay dating show on he was logo yeah, and

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Speaker 1: think the boyfriend though I love the gossip, but I'd

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Speaker 1: What is going on with the bachelors? D talked about

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Speaker 1: all the scoopid the better. Well, there's more drama coming

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Speaker 1: out of this show, the batch. They released the promo,

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Speaker 1: but there's no lead. There's no Bachelor Red in this

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Speaker 1: show because if we are remember correctly, the nuth came

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Speaker 1: out there clear who was originally the bachelor Red. She

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Speaker 1: fell in love four filming began. She's engaged to the man. Now.

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Speaker 1: It's just so bizarre because T Shirt Adams was replacing her,

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