1 00:00:00,360 --> 00:00:03,120 Speaker 1: Coming up at the top of the hour, and entertainment 2 00:00:03,160 --> 00:00:05,840 Speaker 1: news Jamie Fox announced as a one man show where 3 00:00:05,880 --> 00:00:08,840 Speaker 1: he plans to open up about his health crisis. Last year, 4 00:00:09,320 --> 00:00:13,039 Speaker 1: Peacock's Fight Night had a star studded premiere in New York. Yep, 5 00:00:13,160 --> 00:00:16,000 Speaker 1: and it's streaming right now. And there is a new 6 00:00:16,040 --> 00:00:19,640 Speaker 1: social media app called a Sneaky Link. Okay, that's all 7 00:00:19,680 --> 00:00:21,400 Speaker 1: coming up at the top of the hour. We'll tell 8 00:00:21,440 --> 00:00:24,200 Speaker 1: you about it right now. It is time to ask 9 00:00:24,320 --> 00:00:28,120 Speaker 1: the CLO. Our chief Love Officer, Steve Harvey is here. 10 00:00:28,840 --> 00:00:31,880 Speaker 1: This is from Ronnie and Columbia. Ronnie writes, my wife 11 00:00:31,920 --> 00:00:35,159 Speaker 1: got mad at me over something silly. I sent flowers 12 00:00:35,200 --> 00:00:39,280 Speaker 1: to her job five days straight. She still wouldn't talk 13 00:00:39,320 --> 00:00:42,559 Speaker 1: to me, so I ignored her back. She told me 14 00:00:42,600 --> 00:00:45,280 Speaker 1: that I hurt her even more when the flower stopped. 15 00:00:45,479 --> 00:00:48,320 Speaker 1: I can't do anything right. Please help, please. 16 00:00:49,360 --> 00:00:50,160 Speaker 2: I don't know man. 17 00:00:50,800 --> 00:00:54,560 Speaker 3: First of all, I don't know what you apologizing for, soul, 18 00:00:55,760 --> 00:00:58,120 Speaker 3: but the five days in a row and then it 19 00:00:58,240 --> 00:01:02,200 Speaker 3: hurt her feelings. When you stop, she ain't spoke to you, 20 00:01:02,440 --> 00:01:04,720 Speaker 3: so now you ain't speaking to her. 21 00:01:05,160 --> 00:01:06,759 Speaker 2: So well, here's the deal, bro. 22 00:01:08,200 --> 00:01:14,200 Speaker 3: All of this depends on what prompted the necessary apology. 23 00:01:14,440 --> 00:01:16,360 Speaker 2: That's really all this comes down to. 24 00:01:17,440 --> 00:01:24,800 Speaker 3: Now, the greater the violation, right, the greater the crawl back. 25 00:01:26,080 --> 00:01:31,680 Speaker 2: M hm. So you know that's it, but that's what 26 00:01:31,760 --> 00:01:32,440 Speaker 2: people do. 27 00:01:33,400 --> 00:01:36,000 Speaker 3: Have you ever just have you ever wronged somebody in 28 00:01:36,040 --> 00:01:40,360 Speaker 3: any capacity and then you apologized about it and now 29 00:01:40,400 --> 00:01:42,920 Speaker 3: you want it to be okay? Right now? God said, 30 00:01:43,000 --> 00:01:48,640 Speaker 3: I'm sorry. Well, the person can still be hurt. And 31 00:01:48,840 --> 00:01:52,520 Speaker 3: just because you're sorry, we are they're okay with that. 32 00:01:53,000 --> 00:01:55,600 Speaker 3: We know they appreciate you being sorry. But that don't 33 00:01:55,720 --> 00:01:58,240 Speaker 3: take that don't fix the healing process. So that don't 34 00:01:58,280 --> 00:02:00,880 Speaker 3: speed it up or you know, so you got to 35 00:02:00,920 --> 00:02:07,280 Speaker 3: give a person time, man, So I think sinam o flowers, Man, gone, 36 00:02:07,480 --> 00:02:09,120 Speaker 3: don't keep crawling all right? 37 00:02:11,320 --> 00:02:14,120 Speaker 2: He's mad, you know, you know, you know, see this 38 00:02:14,200 --> 00:02:19,600 Speaker 2: is what reverse psychology ain't gonna work, all right. See 39 00:02:19,760 --> 00:02:20,320 Speaker 2: great answer. 40 00:02:20,440 --> 00:02:23,800 Speaker 1: Linda in Seaside says, my husband and I were playing 41 00:02:23,880 --> 00:02:27,080 Speaker 1: cards at our neighbor's house. Their daughter is home for 42 00:02:27,160 --> 00:02:31,359 Speaker 1: a while. She's twenty eight and beautiful. My husband told 43 00:02:31,400 --> 00:02:34,320 Speaker 1: her that he's surprised she's not married yet. He told 44 00:02:34,360 --> 00:02:37,480 Speaker 1: me that it was just small talk. Was he flirting? 45 00:02:38,400 --> 00:02:42,560 Speaker 3: No, he just told the girl, I'm surprised you're not married. 46 00:02:42,639 --> 00:02:45,960 Speaker 3: It seemed like somebody would scoop you up by now, man, 47 00:02:46,000 --> 00:02:47,200 Speaker 3: that ain't that ain't flirting? 48 00:02:48,440 --> 00:02:48,880 Speaker 2: You sure? 49 00:02:49,760 --> 00:02:53,200 Speaker 3: I'm positive that ain't flirting. Now, I tell you what 50 00:02:53,360 --> 00:02:53,800 Speaker 3: it is. 51 00:02:54,240 --> 00:02:55,000 Speaker 1: What is it? 52 00:02:55,720 --> 00:03:01,160 Speaker 2: You know it's a form of wishful thinking. This is true? 53 00:03:01,639 --> 00:03:07,600 Speaker 2: Uh coming, it ain't blurt? Yeah, yeah, it ain't flirting. 54 00:03:07,919 --> 00:03:10,440 Speaker 1: Okay, what would What would he have said if he 55 00:03:10,520 --> 00:03:13,960 Speaker 1: were flirting in front of his wife? 56 00:03:14,000 --> 00:03:16,760 Speaker 3: Now? In front of the wife there, it's nothing you 57 00:03:16,760 --> 00:03:21,240 Speaker 3: could say in leo. No, I have none of that 58 00:03:21,280 --> 00:03:24,480 Speaker 3: for you, though, because none of this can be said 59 00:03:24,600 --> 00:03:25,400 Speaker 3: in front of you. 60 00:03:26,320 --> 00:03:28,960 Speaker 1: She's twenty eight and beautiful. My husband told her that 61 00:03:29,240 --> 00:03:31,040 Speaker 1: surprised she's not married yet? 62 00:03:33,360 --> 00:03:34,000 Speaker 2: That right there? 63 00:03:34,080 --> 00:03:40,480 Speaker 3: You can yeah right, I'll tell you what. You wouldn't 64 00:03:40,480 --> 00:03:42,000 Speaker 3: have to stay here if I was twenty. 65 00:03:41,720 --> 00:03:44,840 Speaker 2: Eight, All of that, all of that. 66 00:03:46,560 --> 00:03:51,120 Speaker 3: Cards that at twenty eight, twenty nine, thirty, you don't 67 00:03:51,120 --> 00:03:52,160 Speaker 3: have nothing to worry about. 68 00:03:55,560 --> 00:03:59,800 Speaker 2: Flip that table, girl, all right, you look nothing like. 69 00:04:05,600 --> 00:04:09,080 Speaker 1: Moving on to Monty and Lawton, Monty rights, I'm dating 70 00:04:09,080 --> 00:04:11,960 Speaker 1: a woman that loves country music and I can't get 71 00:04:12,000 --> 00:04:15,080 Speaker 1: with it. She bought us concert tickets because she is 72 00:04:15,160 --> 00:04:17,920 Speaker 1: determined to get me to like it? Am I supposed 73 00:04:17,920 --> 00:04:20,960 Speaker 1: to pretend like I like it? So I won't be 74 00:04:21,000 --> 00:04:23,359 Speaker 1: in the doghouse? Or can I be brutally honest? 75 00:04:24,360 --> 00:04:24,600 Speaker 2: Dog? 76 00:04:24,680 --> 00:04:28,560 Speaker 3: Especially if she got tickets to see Chris Stapleton Your 77 00:04:28,600 --> 00:04:29,360 Speaker 3: ass all the time? 78 00:04:30,240 --> 00:04:35,920 Speaker 2: That boy? Right? That cold? That boy cold? Go enjoy yourself? 79 00:04:37,000 --> 00:04:41,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, here you go. 80 00:04:40,960 --> 00:04:49,320 Speaker 2: Yeah Chris? All right? Last one? Why you want to 81 00:04:49,360 --> 00:04:54,279 Speaker 2: treat it so cold? Why you want to go in 82 00:04:54,360 --> 00:04:59,520 Speaker 2: and cut me like a night and put our love? 83 00:05:00,000 --> 00:05:10,200 Speaker 2: Oh boy? Right there? That's all red uh lyrics? Lyrics? 84 00:05:10,240 --> 00:05:10,480 Speaker 3: All right? 85 00:05:10,920 --> 00:05:11,400 Speaker 2: Yeah? 86 00:05:11,600 --> 00:05:15,400 Speaker 1: See all right, last one? See this is some journey 87 00:05:15,400 --> 00:05:18,280 Speaker 1: in Grand Rapids who says I'm pregnant and my boyfriend 88 00:05:18,279 --> 00:05:21,000 Speaker 1: broke up with me because I told him that it 89 00:05:21,120 --> 00:05:21,719 Speaker 1: might not. 90 00:05:21,680 --> 00:05:23,800 Speaker 2: Be his baby. God? 91 00:05:24,480 --> 00:05:28,560 Speaker 1: What how can she break up with me when he cheated? 92 00:05:28,839 --> 00:05:30,880 Speaker 1: How can he break up with me when he cheated 93 00:05:30,880 --> 00:05:33,719 Speaker 1: on me first? At least I was honest about mine. 94 00:05:33,960 --> 00:05:36,040 Speaker 1: Should I fight to get him back or just let 95 00:05:36,040 --> 00:05:36,360 Speaker 1: it go? 96 00:05:37,760 --> 00:05:40,160 Speaker 2: Fight to get him back? He got. 97 00:05:42,080 --> 00:05:45,720 Speaker 3: That statement right there. Fight to get him back? Fight, 98 00:05:46,200 --> 00:05:48,960 Speaker 3: fight to get back? Wait, fight to get who back? 99 00:05:50,800 --> 00:05:52,880 Speaker 3: Because right now I look like you got options on 100 00:05:52,960 --> 00:05:57,719 Speaker 3: who you needed. We we boyfriend, girlfriend, You get pregnant, 101 00:05:58,279 --> 00:06:01,920 Speaker 3: you tell me it might not be here, baby, and 102 00:06:02,080 --> 00:06:05,279 Speaker 3: what I'm going to sit here for for nine months? 103 00:06:07,040 --> 00:06:09,960 Speaker 2: Wow? Yeah? 104 00:06:10,080 --> 00:06:13,720 Speaker 1: But she says he cheated on her first. 105 00:06:12,640 --> 00:06:18,400 Speaker 2: But see, listen to me, here we go. 106 00:06:18,680 --> 00:06:22,120 Speaker 3: You have to under ladies, I'm gonna tell you like 107 00:06:22,200 --> 00:06:24,640 Speaker 3: my daddy told me. It's a double standard statement. But 108 00:06:25,000 --> 00:06:28,800 Speaker 3: nothing holds more true. You can't do what I do 109 00:06:28,920 --> 00:06:30,200 Speaker 3: and still be a lady. 110 00:06:31,839 --> 00:06:32,080 Speaker 1: Yep. 111 00:06:33,000 --> 00:06:36,640 Speaker 3: Now guess what he cheated on you? Wrong as hell? 112 00:06:38,240 --> 00:06:41,680 Speaker 3: You going out and cheating on him? Still wrong? 113 00:06:42,960 --> 00:06:43,799 Speaker 2: Yeah? 114 00:06:44,000 --> 00:06:49,560 Speaker 3: Now y'all back together, But now you pregnant and you'll 115 00:06:49,640 --> 00:06:54,400 Speaker 3: know who the daddy is. Which one of these is 116 00:06:54,480 --> 00:06:59,400 Speaker 3: starting to look like it had the greater consequences, because ladies, 117 00:06:59,400 --> 00:07:03,080 Speaker 3: you have to be careful because your consequences are much 118 00:07:03,160 --> 00:07:07,000 Speaker 3: more dire, because you are much more special. 119 00:07:07,680 --> 00:07:08,120 Speaker 1: Mm hmm. 120 00:07:09,560 --> 00:07:14,760 Speaker 3: Heavy is the head that wears the crown, and there 121 00:07:14,880 --> 00:07:19,840 Speaker 3: is no more powerful peace on the chessboard than the queen. 122 00:07:20,800 --> 00:07:22,640 Speaker 2: Yeah anymore. 123 00:07:23,280 --> 00:07:27,080 Speaker 3: I'm just telling you, man, you've got to You've got 124 00:07:27,120 --> 00:07:29,400 Speaker 3: to be careful. You got to be smarter than that. 125 00:07:29,680 --> 00:07:32,760 Speaker 3: You a man can go make a stupid mistake. You 126 00:07:32,760 --> 00:07:34,880 Speaker 3: you can't make that same stupid mistake. 127 00:07:35,360 --> 00:07:39,400 Speaker 1: Okay, question, should she not have been honest with him? 128 00:07:39,440 --> 00:07:39,640 Speaker 2: Then? 129 00:07:40,600 --> 00:07:45,600 Speaker 1: Should she not have? She said, at least I was 130 00:07:45,640 --> 00:07:47,640 Speaker 1: honest with mine, at. 131 00:07:47,560 --> 00:07:52,960 Speaker 3: Least how many times I'm talking about it? 132 00:07:56,160 --> 00:08:02,240 Speaker 2: So what you say, waited the baby damn moum get 133 00:08:02,280 --> 00:08:06,000 Speaker 2: a paternity test. He it might be a. 134 00:08:08,560 --> 00:08:18,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, all right, fellow, all good, All good today. Yeah, 135 00:08:18,520 --> 00:08:20,240 Speaker 1: coming up at the top of the hour, we'll have 136 00:08:20,320 --> 00:08:24,720 Speaker 1: some entertainment news for you. 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