1 00:00:19,320 --> 00:00:21,720 Speaker 1: Hello, everyone, it's your girl Cheeky's and you've reached the 2 00:00:21,800 --> 00:00:24,239 Speaker 1: voicemail box for Dear Cheeky's. I'm here to give you 3 00:00:24,239 --> 00:00:27,200 Speaker 1: advice on anything and everything you need help with. Maybe 4 00:00:27,200 --> 00:00:29,320 Speaker 1: you're going through a breakup, maybe you're having issues with 5 00:00:29,360 --> 00:00:32,159 Speaker 1: your family, or maybe you need help figuring out how 6 00:00:32,200 --> 00:00:34,680 Speaker 1: to balance your checkbook or how to start a business, 7 00:00:35,000 --> 00:00:38,159 Speaker 1: whatever the cases, I want to hear from you. Remember 8 00:00:38,280 --> 00:00:40,639 Speaker 1: these are my thoughts and opinions. And if you're suffering 9 00:00:40,640 --> 00:00:42,839 Speaker 1: from an issue or hardship, you should seek help. 10 00:00:42,640 --> 00:00:43,920 Speaker 2: From a qualified professional. 11 00:00:44,280 --> 00:00:46,400 Speaker 1: All right, Now go ahead and leave your question at 12 00:00:46,400 --> 00:00:47,200 Speaker 1: the sound of the beat. 13 00:00:49,040 --> 00:00:52,159 Speaker 3: Hi, I want to first and foremost say how much 14 00:00:52,159 --> 00:00:54,080 Speaker 3: I love you and support you from the bottom of 15 00:00:54,120 --> 00:00:57,640 Speaker 3: my heart. You are a very important person that I 16 00:00:57,680 --> 00:00:59,920 Speaker 3: look up to and I wish you all the blessed 17 00:01:00,000 --> 00:01:02,960 Speaker 3: needs to come your way. Also, I can't wait to 18 00:01:03,000 --> 00:01:07,560 Speaker 3: see your perform again soon. Well, my issue is actually 19 00:01:07,560 --> 00:01:10,640 Speaker 3: with money. I get paid and the first thing I 20 00:01:10,720 --> 00:01:13,080 Speaker 3: do is pay whatever I need to pay it. So 21 00:01:13,160 --> 00:01:15,120 Speaker 3: like as far as like my cell phone. 22 00:01:14,880 --> 00:01:17,800 Speaker 4: Bill, the inn of the bill, and the gas bill, 23 00:01:18,280 --> 00:01:20,720 Speaker 4: and whatever I have left over, I do turn to 24 00:01:20,760 --> 00:01:24,399 Speaker 4: go shop or go up with my friends, but I 25 00:01:24,480 --> 00:01:27,800 Speaker 4: do end up wasting all my money. So my question 26 00:01:27,880 --> 00:01:30,200 Speaker 4: for you is I wanted to know if he could 27 00:01:30,200 --> 00:01:32,760 Speaker 4: help me out on giving me tips or advice on 28 00:01:32,840 --> 00:01:34,679 Speaker 4: how to manage and save money correctly. 29 00:01:36,560 --> 00:01:39,640 Speaker 1: Oh, papash, I love you, Thank you so much. I 30 00:01:39,640 --> 00:01:42,960 Speaker 1: can't wait for you to see me in concert again too. Okay. 31 00:01:42,959 --> 00:01:45,480 Speaker 1: So regarding your question, this is something I struggled with 32 00:01:45,560 --> 00:01:48,440 Speaker 1: as well. So I get you. I get it. We 33 00:01:48,520 --> 00:01:51,120 Speaker 1: have extra money, we want to spend it. It gives 34 00:01:51,160 --> 00:01:54,600 Speaker 1: us like a little like high, you know, So I understand. 35 00:01:54,920 --> 00:01:56,800 Speaker 1: I'm glad to hear that you're very responsible and you 36 00:01:56,800 --> 00:01:59,840 Speaker 1: pay your bills and all your responsibilities. First, good good job. 37 00:02:00,000 --> 00:02:01,960 Speaker 1: It's amazing because you have to take care of your credit. 38 00:02:02,040 --> 00:02:02,280 Speaker 3: Okay. 39 00:02:02,280 --> 00:02:05,200 Speaker 1: Credit is very important in this world. Doesn't matter how 40 00:02:05,280 --> 00:02:06,720 Speaker 1: much money you have. If you don't have credit, you 41 00:02:06,800 --> 00:02:08,720 Speaker 1: have nothing, Okay, So take care of your credit, all right. 42 00:02:08,760 --> 00:02:13,160 Speaker 1: So with that being said, after finishing with paying your 43 00:02:13,160 --> 00:02:16,839 Speaker 1: bills and your responsibilities, I would say, before you think 44 00:02:16,880 --> 00:02:19,480 Speaker 1: of even going out and buying yourself something, you have 45 00:02:19,680 --> 00:02:22,200 Speaker 1: to do. This you have to put even if it's 46 00:02:22,240 --> 00:02:26,119 Speaker 1: twenty dollars, Papa, fifty dollars, to the side and say 47 00:02:26,120 --> 00:02:27,399 Speaker 1: this is money I cannot touch. 48 00:02:27,440 --> 00:02:27,639 Speaker 3: Ever. 49 00:02:27,760 --> 00:02:29,200 Speaker 1: This is for a rainy day, This is for a 50 00:02:29,240 --> 00:02:31,840 Speaker 1: trip I want to take, This is for whatever. Take 51 00:02:31,880 --> 00:02:33,840 Speaker 1: it as one of your bills. It's one of your 52 00:02:33,840 --> 00:02:36,240 Speaker 1: bills every month that you have fifty dollars to my 53 00:02:36,280 --> 00:02:38,640 Speaker 1: savings account, and don't touch it. And make yourself that 54 00:02:38,720 --> 00:02:41,720 Speaker 1: promise because that is for your future. Make yourself that 55 00:02:41,760 --> 00:02:43,359 Speaker 1: promise that I'm not going to touch that because that 56 00:02:43,440 --> 00:02:47,280 Speaker 1: is for my future self. Okay, try that. That'll help 57 00:02:47,320 --> 00:02:49,280 Speaker 1: you a lot. And sometimes what I do, even now 58 00:02:49,320 --> 00:02:52,600 Speaker 1: to this day, I ask myself, is this a necessity 59 00:02:52,680 --> 00:02:54,799 Speaker 1: or is this a luxury. If it's a luxury, then 60 00:02:54,800 --> 00:02:56,880 Speaker 1: I can live without it. I ask myself, can is 61 00:02:56,919 --> 00:02:58,919 Speaker 1: this a live without or live with? And most of 62 00:02:58,960 --> 00:03:00,480 Speaker 1: the time I'm going to tell you it's like, okay, 63 00:03:00,480 --> 00:03:02,400 Speaker 1: I can live without this. Come on, and I talk 64 00:03:02,480 --> 00:03:04,600 Speaker 1: to myself literally out loud. I'm like, no, you don't 65 00:03:04,639 --> 00:03:06,400 Speaker 1: need this, Janet, you don't need this Chiky. Stop you're 66 00:03:06,440 --> 00:03:08,640 Speaker 1: being ridiculous, like and I have to I have to 67 00:03:08,639 --> 00:03:11,520 Speaker 1: tell myself that because you know, I'm like and then 68 00:03:11,560 --> 00:03:13,360 Speaker 1: at the end, I'm just like, damn, I spent money 69 00:03:13,360 --> 00:03:16,600 Speaker 1: on just ridiculous things. So ask yourself those questions, like, yes, 70 00:03:16,639 --> 00:03:19,720 Speaker 1: sometimes we want things, but is it necessarily the best 71 00:03:19,720 --> 00:03:22,120 Speaker 1: thing for us? So this is gonna take time. It's 72 00:03:22,160 --> 00:03:24,720 Speaker 1: gonna take time. It's still something that I do every day. 73 00:03:25,160 --> 00:03:27,400 Speaker 1: But put that money to the side. You owe it 74 00:03:27,440 --> 00:03:30,400 Speaker 1: to yourself because you work so hard that God forbid 75 00:03:30,840 --> 00:03:33,440 Speaker 1: we go into another quarantine. I don't know. You just 76 00:03:33,520 --> 00:03:36,119 Speaker 1: never know, because that happened and came and shocked us all. 77 00:03:36,680 --> 00:03:38,480 Speaker 1: Just never know what can happen for you to have 78 00:03:38,520 --> 00:03:42,840 Speaker 1: that cushion. Okay, so you're not like blindsided. So that 79 00:03:43,000 --> 00:03:45,280 Speaker 1: is my advice. Okay, I can't wait to hear how 80 00:03:45,320 --> 00:03:50,720 Speaker 1: much you save. All right, So our second question comes 81 00:03:50,760 --> 00:03:51,760 Speaker 1: from Nelly. 82 00:03:52,000 --> 00:03:55,720 Speaker 5: Hi Cheeky's I'm such a huge fan. I've followed your career. 83 00:03:56,040 --> 00:04:05,560 Speaker 5: Tell me Mida, yes the gases, I'm it's AnyWho. My 84 00:04:05,760 --> 00:04:10,240 Speaker 5: question for you today is how did you separate your 85 00:04:10,320 --> 00:04:13,880 Speaker 5: mom the superhero from your mom the flawed human. I'm 86 00:04:13,920 --> 00:04:17,719 Speaker 5: twenty four and I've grown so much this past year 87 00:04:18,240 --> 00:04:22,400 Speaker 5: and have come to the realization that my mom is 88 00:04:22,720 --> 00:04:26,360 Speaker 5: a real life human. And I think you can fully 89 00:04:27,200 --> 00:04:31,240 Speaker 5: grasp this perception only when you truly grow up, if 90 00:04:31,240 --> 00:04:33,880 Speaker 5: that makes sense. I've always had my mom on this 91 00:04:33,960 --> 00:04:39,000 Speaker 5: pedestal and you know that she's the all knowing, invincible superhuman. 92 00:04:39,400 --> 00:04:44,159 Speaker 5: But unfortunately, no, it's that's not the case. She's a 93 00:04:44,200 --> 00:04:48,360 Speaker 5: real person with real struggles, anxieties, hopes and dreams, and 94 00:04:49,440 --> 00:04:52,640 Speaker 5: I love her to death, but I'm having a hard 95 00:04:52,680 --> 00:04:56,279 Speaker 5: time seeing eye to eye with choices that she's made, 96 00:04:56,839 --> 00:04:58,920 Speaker 5: or choices that she she makes. 97 00:04:59,520 --> 00:05:02,360 Speaker 1: Nelly, well, first of all, you sound like a very 98 00:05:02,400 --> 00:05:05,839 Speaker 1: intelligent young lady. I love that, and thank you for 99 00:05:05,880 --> 00:05:07,880 Speaker 1: your question. I'm gonna tell you why because as I 100 00:05:07,960 --> 00:05:12,000 Speaker 1: was hearing it, I was thinking of my mom, and ah, 101 00:05:12,080 --> 00:05:13,920 Speaker 1: it made my heart. I don't know, it made me 102 00:05:13,960 --> 00:05:16,159 Speaker 1: want to cry because I was very hard on my 103 00:05:16,200 --> 00:05:18,599 Speaker 1: mom growing up, because I felt like she had to 104 00:05:18,600 --> 00:05:20,839 Speaker 1: be perfect. You're a mom and you can't go party, 105 00:05:20,920 --> 00:05:22,760 Speaker 1: and I was just I was hard on her. She 106 00:05:22,800 --> 00:05:25,000 Speaker 1: always said it, I was her worst critic and I was. 107 00:05:25,640 --> 00:05:29,719 Speaker 1: And like you said, understanding and compassion doesn't come until 108 00:05:29,760 --> 00:05:32,839 Speaker 1: you get older and until you realize, well, she's a 109 00:05:32,920 --> 00:05:36,360 Speaker 1: human just like me, and she is living her life 110 00:05:36,400 --> 00:05:38,360 Speaker 1: and trying to figure things out. And now that I'm 111 00:05:38,400 --> 00:05:41,320 Speaker 1: living certain things that she lived then I'm like, damn, 112 00:05:41,600 --> 00:05:44,440 Speaker 1: I say sorry out loud. I'm like, Mom, I'm so sorry. 113 00:05:44,480 --> 00:05:47,320 Speaker 1: I remember criticizing you for this, and little did I know. 114 00:05:47,400 --> 00:05:49,479 Speaker 1: Now I'm living it, and I have so much compassion. 115 00:05:49,520 --> 00:05:52,680 Speaker 1: I think the word here is compassion, babe. It's compassion 116 00:05:53,200 --> 00:05:55,760 Speaker 1: and just knowing it's okay. If she's making decisions that 117 00:05:55,800 --> 00:06:00,000 Speaker 1: you don't necessarily agree with, it's really none of our business. 118 00:06:00,880 --> 00:06:03,919 Speaker 1: Not it's her life, and she's the mother, and she 119 00:06:04,040 --> 00:06:06,680 Speaker 1: has all the right to make mistakes, just as you will. 120 00:06:06,960 --> 00:06:09,040 Speaker 1: You're gonna make mistakes, and you're gonna do things that 121 00:06:09,080 --> 00:06:12,600 Speaker 1: she isn't necessarily going to agree with, and that's gonna 122 00:06:12,600 --> 00:06:14,120 Speaker 1: be hard for her. It's gonna be a hard pill 123 00:06:14,160 --> 00:06:17,000 Speaker 1: for her to swallow. But I think it's just understanding 124 00:06:17,040 --> 00:06:20,440 Speaker 1: that we're here on earth trying to figure shit out, 125 00:06:21,160 --> 00:06:25,440 Speaker 1: you know, in our own way. And one thing that 126 00:06:25,480 --> 00:06:28,320 Speaker 1: I live by is living and let live live and 127 00:06:28,400 --> 00:06:30,919 Speaker 1: let live live and let live. And that also applies 128 00:06:30,960 --> 00:06:33,600 Speaker 1: to our parents, and we shouldn't be so hard on them. 129 00:06:33,920 --> 00:06:37,960 Speaker 1: So I love your question because I know that you're 130 00:06:37,960 --> 00:06:42,280 Speaker 1: trying to grow as a daughter and trying to you know, 131 00:06:42,560 --> 00:06:45,360 Speaker 1: you're looking for answers and I love that. That just 132 00:06:45,400 --> 00:06:48,080 Speaker 1: shows the maturity in you. So that's what I could 133 00:06:48,080 --> 00:06:51,200 Speaker 1: tell you. Come passion, babe, Come passion now more than 134 00:06:51,240 --> 00:06:53,239 Speaker 1: ever I feel it as I get older. I'm like, damn, 135 00:06:53,600 --> 00:06:56,799 Speaker 1: Mom was right. So it'll just come little by little. 136 00:06:56,960 --> 00:06:58,280 Speaker 1: Thanks for your question, and thank you for all the 137 00:06:58,279 --> 00:07:00,800 Speaker 1: beautiful things you said too. The minutes from go and 138 00:07:00,839 --> 00:07:07,480 Speaker 1: I can tell okay, so are there? Question comes from 139 00:07:07,760 --> 00:07:10,480 Speaker 1: Karen Hi Teeky's. 140 00:07:11,040 --> 00:07:12,840 Speaker 2: First off, I want to tell you how much I 141 00:07:12,920 --> 00:07:15,840 Speaker 2: love you and admire you and everything that you're doing 142 00:07:16,320 --> 00:07:19,560 Speaker 2: to represent our culture in such a positive light. I 143 00:07:19,640 --> 00:07:22,440 Speaker 2: recently had the pleasure of meeting you at the Night 144 00:07:22,480 --> 00:07:24,960 Speaker 2: of the Jack and it was such a pleasure just 145 00:07:25,000 --> 00:07:27,040 Speaker 2: to see how amazing you are in person and in 146 00:07:27,080 --> 00:07:30,040 Speaker 2: real life than you are, you know, as a celebrity 147 00:07:30,080 --> 00:07:33,480 Speaker 2: that you are. But anyways, my question to you is 148 00:07:34,080 --> 00:07:37,880 Speaker 2: how to get out of your own way. Have recently 149 00:07:38,240 --> 00:07:41,560 Speaker 2: decided to leave my very toxic job about a month 150 00:07:41,600 --> 00:07:45,080 Speaker 2: and a half ago, but I'm really struggling with what 151 00:07:45,160 --> 00:07:48,240 Speaker 2: to do next. I'm very lucky enough to still live 152 00:07:48,280 --> 00:07:51,520 Speaker 2: at home with my parents, who are just so supportive 153 00:07:51,720 --> 00:07:54,480 Speaker 2: and more than I could ask for. But I know 154 00:07:54,680 --> 00:07:57,920 Speaker 2: that I'm meant for something great. I just don't know 155 00:07:57,960 --> 00:08:00,000 Speaker 2: how to get out of my own way and do it. 156 00:08:00,400 --> 00:08:03,000 Speaker 2: Part of me is scared of failing, but I know 157 00:08:03,120 --> 00:08:06,080 Speaker 2: that it's inevitable. I just want to be able to 158 00:08:06,600 --> 00:08:09,160 Speaker 2: have the courage to be scared but do it. Anyways, 159 00:08:09,200 --> 00:08:11,120 Speaker 2: And you know, I know that you've gone through so 160 00:08:11,280 --> 00:08:14,240 Speaker 2: much in your life You've still been able to overcome 161 00:08:14,280 --> 00:08:17,320 Speaker 2: and do amazing things. So just help me find how 162 00:08:17,320 --> 00:08:18,960 Speaker 2: do I find that within me? 163 00:08:19,320 --> 00:08:19,640 Speaker 4: Help? 164 00:08:19,880 --> 00:08:22,600 Speaker 2: And I love you so much. Yeah, oh my god, 165 00:08:22,760 --> 00:08:23,160 Speaker 2: I met you. 166 00:08:23,480 --> 00:08:24,480 Speaker 1: That was such a fun night. 167 00:08:25,240 --> 00:08:25,680 Speaker 2: Anyways. 168 00:08:25,720 --> 00:08:28,440 Speaker 1: Okay, so Karen, hear me out. First of all, I 169 00:08:28,440 --> 00:08:32,280 Speaker 1: think it's great that you left your very toxic job, 170 00:08:32,320 --> 00:08:34,000 Speaker 1: because that's not easy. You just said you took a 171 00:08:34,040 --> 00:08:35,960 Speaker 1: leap of faith and you said this is what's best 172 00:08:35,960 --> 00:08:38,400 Speaker 1: for me, and that's great. A lot of people stay 173 00:08:38,400 --> 00:08:40,480 Speaker 1: in those situations because they're like, Okay, I got to 174 00:08:40,480 --> 00:08:42,360 Speaker 1: pay my bills, and like you said, you have the 175 00:08:42,400 --> 00:08:46,319 Speaker 1: blessing of living with your parents and they're supportive and 176 00:08:46,360 --> 00:08:50,600 Speaker 1: they're understanding. So that ooh, that's great. Now. I don't 177 00:08:50,640 --> 00:08:52,280 Speaker 1: know exactly what it is that you want to get into, 178 00:08:52,640 --> 00:08:56,560 Speaker 1: but I understand that it's scary because stepping into the 179 00:08:56,640 --> 00:08:59,200 Speaker 1: unknown is always scary because you don't know what's going 180 00:08:59,280 --> 00:09:03,760 Speaker 1: to happen. But imagine living with never knowing because you 181 00:09:03,800 --> 00:09:07,040 Speaker 1: were too scared to take that step, Like looking back 182 00:09:07,080 --> 00:09:09,199 Speaker 1: two years from now and saying, damn, if I would 183 00:09:09,200 --> 00:09:12,559 Speaker 1: have done it, where could I have been? I understand 184 00:09:13,160 --> 00:09:17,920 Speaker 1: that feeling scared and worried about failing. I mean, it's scary, 185 00:09:18,880 --> 00:09:22,240 Speaker 1: but that's what helps you grow. You grow as a 186 00:09:22,280 --> 00:09:27,960 Speaker 1: person when you do things that are scary, that are uncomfortable, 187 00:09:28,160 --> 00:09:30,800 Speaker 1: that maybe you try it and it just didn't work out, 188 00:09:30,880 --> 00:09:33,480 Speaker 1: but that's how you grow wisdom and you grow strength, 189 00:09:33,760 --> 00:09:36,320 Speaker 1: and it makes you and molds you into the person 190 00:09:36,400 --> 00:09:39,080 Speaker 1: that you're meant to be. So I would say, just 191 00:09:39,200 --> 00:09:41,640 Speaker 1: try it, whatever it is that you're thinking of doing, 192 00:09:42,400 --> 00:09:45,800 Speaker 1: and grow knowledge. I'm telling you as knowledge, I always say, 193 00:09:45,800 --> 00:09:47,920 Speaker 1: this knowledge is power. So whatever it is that you're 194 00:09:47,920 --> 00:09:50,760 Speaker 1: trying to get into, just fill your mind and your 195 00:09:50,760 --> 00:09:53,439 Speaker 1: body and your spirit with all of this knowledge of 196 00:09:53,480 --> 00:09:56,960 Speaker 1: this particular subject because we don't know what it is, 197 00:09:57,400 --> 00:10:01,000 Speaker 1: and just inform yourself, inform yourself, dive int to it completely. 198 00:10:01,040 --> 00:10:03,600 Speaker 1: So I said, as loyas Lovian, do it and go 199 00:10:03,679 --> 00:10:06,680 Speaker 1: all the way. And I mean, look, you have your parents. 200 00:10:06,720 --> 00:10:08,480 Speaker 1: Thank god, you have your parents that you can you 201 00:10:08,480 --> 00:10:10,120 Speaker 1: don't have to worry about I think, like paying the 202 00:10:10,120 --> 00:10:12,640 Speaker 1: bills or anything. So that's great. You already took the 203 00:10:12,679 --> 00:10:15,040 Speaker 1: first step and you left that job that wasn't making 204 00:10:15,080 --> 00:10:19,040 Speaker 1: you happy. Now you're on this pursuit of happiness. Actually, 205 00:10:19,040 --> 00:10:21,920 Speaker 1: watch that movie, The Pursuit of Happiness. It'll inspire you. 206 00:10:21,920 --> 00:10:24,080 Speaker 1: You will see how much he struggled and he made 207 00:10:24,080 --> 00:10:26,640 Speaker 1: it happen. Dude, So watch that movie. Oh I'm gonna 208 00:10:26,640 --> 00:10:28,160 Speaker 1: watch this tonight too, girl, I'm gonna watch it. Let's 209 00:10:28,200 --> 00:10:31,280 Speaker 1: watch it together. Okay, all right, I'm sending you a 210 00:10:31,280 --> 00:10:31,720 Speaker 1: big hug. 211 00:10:35,080 --> 00:10:35,480 Speaker 4: All right. 212 00:10:35,559 --> 00:10:39,199 Speaker 1: So this is our last question. It comes from Jessica. 213 00:10:39,440 --> 00:10:43,679 Speaker 2: Hey, Chi, gis, how is your experience talking to Carol. 214 00:10:43,520 --> 00:10:47,400 Speaker 1: G Ooh Jessica, Oh my gosh, this is such a 215 00:10:47,400 --> 00:10:53,400 Speaker 1: good question. Okay, Well, Carol is such a beautiful human being, 216 00:10:54,280 --> 00:10:57,920 Speaker 1: like such a beautiful human being. Like I love her music. 217 00:10:58,080 --> 00:11:02,120 Speaker 1: Obviously we see her. She's sexy as what. But when 218 00:11:02,120 --> 00:11:06,200 Speaker 1: we spoke, and we've spoken a couple times, like I 219 00:11:06,240 --> 00:11:08,680 Speaker 1: feel her soul and I even told her mom this, 220 00:11:08,800 --> 00:11:12,720 Speaker 1: and I told her sister. I understand now why she 221 00:11:12,840 --> 00:11:17,080 Speaker 1: is so successful, why she is where she is, because 222 00:11:17,080 --> 00:11:21,240 Speaker 1: she's truly humble. Like when I went to her concert 223 00:11:21,280 --> 00:11:23,720 Speaker 1: and we were backstage, she took the time to say 224 00:11:23,760 --> 00:11:25,920 Speaker 1: hi to everyone and hug them and looked at them 225 00:11:25,960 --> 00:11:28,640 Speaker 1: in their eyes and was really focused and present in 226 00:11:28,640 --> 00:11:31,920 Speaker 1: that moment and saying thank you for being here. She's 227 00:11:31,960 --> 00:11:37,760 Speaker 1: so grateful, she's so graceful. It was just beautiful, honestly. 228 00:11:37,840 --> 00:11:40,840 Speaker 1: And then the second time I saw her again, she 229 00:11:40,920 --> 00:11:42,680 Speaker 1: made me feel like I was the only person in 230 00:11:42,720 --> 00:11:45,040 Speaker 1: the room. She went and said hi to everybody. Her 231 00:11:45,080 --> 00:11:48,839 Speaker 1: parents are amazing. It helps that she was raised by 232 00:11:48,840 --> 00:11:50,760 Speaker 1: two amazing parents because you could tell they look they're 233 00:11:50,800 --> 00:11:53,880 Speaker 1: all very humble. Her sisters, everyone's just so nice. And 234 00:11:54,400 --> 00:11:57,439 Speaker 1: she's Carol g You know, she is a mega superstar, 235 00:11:58,000 --> 00:12:00,320 Speaker 1: but she's still Carolina, And I think that is the 236 00:12:00,320 --> 00:12:02,640 Speaker 1: most important thing. Is like, it doesn't matter how big 237 00:12:02,679 --> 00:12:04,400 Speaker 1: you are and how big you get. And I see 238 00:12:04,480 --> 00:12:07,760 Speaker 1: artists trust me right before my eyes. I've lived it 239 00:12:07,800 --> 00:12:10,680 Speaker 1: in my family. I've seen it with friends people even 240 00:12:10,760 --> 00:12:12,680 Speaker 1: right now, and I will never say their name where 241 00:12:12,679 --> 00:12:15,320 Speaker 1: they have changed right before my eyes, where I'm like, 242 00:12:15,400 --> 00:12:20,240 Speaker 1: what they are completely different people. But she I think 243 00:12:20,440 --> 00:12:22,719 Speaker 1: her success came a little not later. But she's a 244 00:12:22,720 --> 00:12:25,200 Speaker 1: little bit older, she's more mature, So I feel like 245 00:12:25,320 --> 00:12:27,440 Speaker 1: she has struggled so much to get her that she 246 00:12:27,520 --> 00:12:30,960 Speaker 1: really appreciates it. Like she is like so excited to 247 00:12:31,040 --> 00:12:34,280 Speaker 1: be on Saturday Night Live. Like she's just so grateful. 248 00:12:34,320 --> 00:12:35,959 Speaker 1: And I think that that's like the best thing you 249 00:12:36,000 --> 00:12:38,000 Speaker 1: could do is have an attitude of gratitude. And it 250 00:12:38,120 --> 00:12:40,120 Speaker 1: was just beautiful. And I'm so grateful that you asked 251 00:12:40,160 --> 00:12:42,120 Speaker 1: me this question because I've been wanting to tell people 252 00:12:42,480 --> 00:12:45,280 Speaker 1: like I tell people that like around me, but like 253 00:12:45,320 --> 00:12:47,480 Speaker 1: I need you guys to hear it, like she is 254 00:12:48,600 --> 00:12:53,320 Speaker 1: a beautiful human being. A beautiful human being la so Jessica. Yeah, 255 00:12:53,360 --> 00:12:55,679 Speaker 1: So if you listen to Carol g listen to it 256 00:12:55,720 --> 00:12:58,520 Speaker 1: with like I don't know, different ears, because what you 257 00:12:58,600 --> 00:13:01,640 Speaker 1: hear is really what you get. So all right, guys, 258 00:13:01,640 --> 00:13:10,840 Speaker 1: So this concludes this episode. 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