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Speaker 1: Ever been left waiting by the phone? It's the Fred Show, Dylan,

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Speaker 1: good morning, welcome to.

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Speaker 2: The program, good morning, how are you very well? And

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Speaker 2: we're here to help, of course, in waiting by the phone.

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Speaker 2: That's what this really is is as a public service.

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Speaker 2: Quite frankly, I think we should probably get like psa

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Speaker 2: credit from the from the FCC for this we're trying

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Speaker 2: to you know, we're trying to put people back together,

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Speaker 2: you know, and I want to know what's going on

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Speaker 2: with this woman?

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Speaker 1: Eva?

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Speaker 3: Was it?

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Speaker 1: He went out with Eva?

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Speaker 3: Yeah? Eva?

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Speaker 1: Okay, how did you meet?

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Speaker 2: Tell us any dates that you've been on, and and

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Speaker 2: then what's going on now?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, so we met on Hinge and uh, I'm

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Speaker 3: going to be like, straight up, I thought she was

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Speaker 3: smoking hot, you know, like a ten Okay, yeah, I

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Speaker 3: mean I'm quickly jumping on you know, messaging and getting

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Speaker 3: her number because you know how these apps work, everything

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Speaker 3: moves that fast.

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Speaker 1: No, you do, like you really have to. You got

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Speaker 1: to get it going.

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Speaker 2: Like if if you're really trying to be competitive on

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Speaker 2: the app, you and somebody captures your eye, you've got

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Speaker 2: to assume there's like fifty other people to feel the

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Speaker 2: same way, and so you it feels aggressive, but it's

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Speaker 2: like boom, boom boom, what's going on? Give me your number,

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Speaker 2: what's going on a date? Let's do this?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, just you gotta jump on it or if somebody

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Speaker 3: else is going to jump on it. Yeah. So I

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Speaker 3: was able to cure a date with her, and I

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Speaker 3: was so pumped, like super super excited, and we ended

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Speaker 3: up going to dinner and it was great. And then

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Speaker 3: afterward we hit a fun bar and you know, had

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Speaker 3: some more drinks there and everything, and she ended up

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Speaker 3: sleeping over, and you know, we poled around and I'm

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Speaker 3: trying to do it all again.

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Speaker 1: But yeah, do that, man.

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Speaker 3: So I'm not sure what happened. I don't know if

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Speaker 3: I did something.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, i'd be bummed too.

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Speaker 2: You meet a ten and she's a ten in person,

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Speaker 2: and everything goes well enough that you have a sleepover

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Speaker 2: and you hook up and all of that, and you

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Speaker 2: can't get a hold of the person. That would be disappointing.

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Speaker 2: So let's see if we can get Eva on the phone. Well,

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Speaker 2: we'll ask her some questions for you. At some point.

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Speaker 2: You're welcome to jump in on the call and hopefully

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Speaker 2: we can straighten things out.

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Speaker 1: Dylan.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, all right, welcome back. Let's call Eva. You met

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Speaker 2: on on a dating app, right, you met on He's

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Speaker 2: the dating app which is like bumble and tender and

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Speaker 2: the rest of them really same premise. And you thought

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Speaker 2: she was smoking hot that those were your words. You

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Speaker 2: met her in person. She lived up to that. The

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Speaker 2: date went great. You wind up going back to her

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Speaker 2: or was it your place or her place? You want

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Speaker 3: We went yeah, we went back to my place.

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Speaker 2: Okay, perfect, and this goes great, except now she's not

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Speaker 2: responding to anything, and you want to know what happened.

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Speaker 1: Let's call her now. Good luck?

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Speaker 3: Dylan.

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Speaker 1: Hello, Hi is this Eva? Yeah speaking Eva? Good morning.

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Speaker 2: My name is Fred. I'm calling from the Fred's show

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Speaker 2: Starry to Bother. I do have to tell you though,

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Speaker 2: that we are on the radio and I need your

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Speaker 2: permission to continue with this call. Can we chat for

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Speaker 2: just a second on the on the show?

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Speaker 5: Okay, it's a little weird, but no, no.

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Speaker 2: It definitely is. But thank you for your time. We're

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Speaker 2: calling on behalf of a guy who reached out to us.

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Speaker 2: His name is Dylan. Says he met you on Hinge,

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Speaker 2: the dating app, and that you guys, you went on

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Speaker 2: a date.

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Speaker 1: You remember this guy?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, no, I remember him.

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Speaker 2: Okay, So he described, you know, he was very attracted

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Speaker 2: to you, actually called you smoking hot. He says that

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Speaker 2: you know, when you guys met in person, there was

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Speaker 2: chemistry talked about how the date went, well, I guess

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Speaker 2: it was back to his place and some stuff happened.

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Speaker 2: He was vague about that, but nonetheless it sounds pretty good.

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Speaker 2: Now he's trying to figure out why you won't call

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Speaker 2: him back.

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Speaker 5: Well, did he tell you he's a major douche because he.

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Speaker 2: Did not volunteer that he was a major douche? Why

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Speaker 2: what did he do? What happened?

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Speaker 5: Well, I mean what she said, it is all true,

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Speaker 5: Like we went out and hooked up, and you know,

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Speaker 5: I slept over and you know, all of that like

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Speaker 5: was no problem.

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Speaker 3: It was.

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Speaker 5: It was actually quite lovely. Otherwise I wouldn't have But

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Speaker 5: then the next morning it was awful. Well, so I

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Speaker 5: wake up right and I look over and I see

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Speaker 5: that Dylan was already awake and he's on his phone

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Speaker 5: and he's like going through some sort of spreadsheet and

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Speaker 5: I'm like, okay, and that's kind of weird. Maybe he

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Speaker 5: was working, you know, And I asked him and he

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Speaker 5: started laughing. He was like, no, no, no, no, no, the

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Speaker 5: that's how I organized my dating life.

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Speaker 1: Oh wow, with a spreadsheet.

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Speaker 4: Wow.

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Speaker 5: I don't know, because you couldn't have.

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Speaker 2: To do that, Like you can't update the spreadsheet a

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Speaker 2: little bit later on. Yeah, you got to get right

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Speaker 2: to it. I guess you don't want to forget any

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Speaker 2: any pertinent details.

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Speaker 1: I guess I.

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Speaker 5: Don't know, but it was so weird because it was

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Speaker 5: like this huge spreadsheet with every girl's name he's gone

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Speaker 5: on a date, with like personal information about them, like

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Speaker 5: where they went as well. And then I noticed there

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Speaker 4: And again he started laughing and told me that I

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Speaker 4: didn't want to know, and I'm like, no, I want

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Speaker 4: to know because I see that my name is Delighted

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Speaker 4: Red and come to find out, that's whether or not

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Speaker 2: The woman or not, and very useful to remember. You know,

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Speaker 2: it's you got to you gotta remember these things. I

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Speaker 2: mean sometimes, you know, if you have an extensive body count,

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Speaker 2: you know, you get a long spreadsheet. Sometimes you can't

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Speaker 2: remember these kind of details. I guess, Wow, Dylan, let's

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Speaker 2: I was agot to mention that Dylan is here. I'm sorry, Dylan,

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Speaker 2: Let's talk about it, man. We had to. We had

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Speaker 2: to get right to the spreadsheet.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, it's true I have a spreadsheet, But

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Speaker 3: like I feel like I'm kind of being judged a

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Speaker 3: little bit because at the end of the day, dating

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Speaker 3: dating me date is hard, it's just hard.

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Speaker 1: You stay organized.

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Speaker 3: King, Yeah, I want to be organized exactly.

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Speaker 2: I mean, but if you do this, Look, people meet

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Speaker 2: people before it. We all have a pass, we've all

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Speaker 2: dated and done other things. But you don't that's like private.

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Speaker 2: You don't have to other people don't have to see

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Speaker 2: this still there. Yeah, that's what I'm saying, Like she

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Speaker 2: didn't need to see that there was this extensive list

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Speaker 2: that came before, or that she was even being tracked

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Speaker 2: in some way, you know what I mean, Like, that's

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Speaker 2: that's awkward, Like why couldn't you have waited until she left?

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Speaker 3: I mean, you know, when I was updating it, she

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Speaker 3: was the fleet, and then it just kind of you know,

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Speaker 3: even woke up and she thought And I didn't want

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Speaker 3: to lie. I didn't want to be shady because you know,

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Speaker 3: she asked me if I was working. I wasn't working.

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Speaker 3: I was updating this and I thought I had time.

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Speaker 3: If I was hiding, man, I felt like that would

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Speaker 3: have been even worse.

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Speaker 2: Now, would you have any problem with somebody finding this?

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Speaker 2: Like what if you are dating somebody seriously enough and

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Speaker 2: they use your computer as something and they discover do

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Speaker 2: you really want you know? Written documentation of evaluations of

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Speaker 2: everybody you've been with and dated and what you did

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Speaker 2: and didn't do and all that. I mean, is that

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Speaker 2: really somebody you went out there? Potentially?

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Speaker 3: I would like to think that if I was dating

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Speaker 3: someone seriously as you're saying, then that spreadsheet would be

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Speaker 3: deleted and I wouldn't have it. I see, because you know,

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Speaker 3: this is keep myself organized to make sure that I'm

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Speaker 3: staying safe and membering and interesting.

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Speaker 2: I mean, have you ever had a reference the spreadsheet

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Speaker 2: to make sure that like someone you met you hadn't

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Speaker 2: already been with you have to other?

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Speaker 1: Do you put photographs in this thing? I mean, how

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Speaker 1: how detail are we talking about?

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Speaker 3: There's no photographs, but you know I have not had

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean that's just a pro tip. I mean

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Speaker 1: was for this picture. I don't really blame you, Eva.

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Speaker 2: Again, It's like some things are better left unsaid, Like

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Speaker 2: we can assume them and we know they exist, but

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Speaker 2: we don't have to we don't have to see it.

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Speaker 2: We don't have to see the inventory. Uh, And I

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Speaker 2: can feel like I can I can see how you

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Speaker 2: might feel, like like a commodity or a number or something.

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Speaker 3: You know.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean, I definitely just felt like it, I

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Speaker 5: don't know, almost like it was gamified, like he was

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Speaker 5: trying to see how many I understand, like sure, being organized,

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Speaker 5: it's tough out there, whatever, right, but like I think

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Speaker 5: she kind of gets off looking at a spreadsheet.

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Speaker 2: I'm good, all right. I don't really either. No second date, Dylan.

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Speaker 2: I'd recommend if you're going to keep these kind of

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Speaker 2: you know, detailed records, that maybe you do that in

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Speaker 2: your private time and not when the people are still

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Speaker 2: present in your home.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, for next time.

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Speaker 1: Okay, all right, good luck to both of you. Thank

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Speaker 1: you for your time.

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Speaker 4: Take care, ye