WEBVTT - Wigging Out with Dani Austin 0:00:00.680 --> 0:00:04.880 Scrubbing In with Becca Tilly and Tanya rap An iHeartRadio podcast. 0:00:08.840 --> 0:00:12.639 Hello everybody, we are scrubbing in, scrub it up dumb. 0:00:12.880 --> 0:00:14.520 Today we have Oh wait, I. 0:00:14.440 --> 0:00:18.720 Didn't tell you guys. I was driving. I was driving 0:00:18.800 --> 0:00:22.240 the other day and I'll actually I'll post this. We 0:00:22.280 --> 0:00:24.560 saw this car that had a license plate that said 0:00:24.960 --> 0:00:27.120 it looks like it said let's scrub in. Its like 0:00:27.360 --> 0:00:32.160 l E S. Hold on, it was like L E S. 0:00:32.159 --> 0:00:36.640 Scrub and then like in and so Robbie and I 0:00:36.640 --> 0:00:38.920 pull up next to the car and we're like, like 0:00:39.720 --> 0:00:42.760 thinking it was a scrubber or something, and we're like, oh, 0:00:42.840 --> 0:00:45.199 it's a license I let's scrub in like and he 0:00:45.320 --> 0:00:51.839 was like, yeah, less carbon. I was like, it was 0:00:51.880 --> 0:00:57.440 like an electric car. Yeah, so its not what I 0:00:57.440 --> 0:01:00.320 thought it was, but it could have been. It could 0:01:00.320 --> 0:01:02.640 have been. 0:01:00.960 --> 0:01:02.680 Your license plate. 0:01:02.680 --> 0:01:05.600 Please send us, Please send it, because I was so 0:01:05.640 --> 0:01:09.120 excited to be the scrubber and just wanted this person 0:01:09.160 --> 0:01:10.080 wild less carbon. 0:01:10.160 --> 0:01:13.319 Yeah you found an environmentalist, yes, yeah, so valuable. 0:01:13.400 --> 0:01:15.520 Yeah. Yes, also we need those people too. 0:01:15.840 --> 0:01:16.040 Yeah. 0:01:16.080 --> 0:01:17.720 So sorry derail this because we have a really great 0:01:17.760 --> 0:01:18.280 guest today. 0:01:18.560 --> 0:01:19.240 Yeah, we have. 0:01:20.880 --> 0:01:23.560 She's a huge social media influencer, and she started her 0:01:24.000 --> 0:01:26.960 career in twenty twelve when she was just nineteen years old. 0:01:27.240 --> 0:01:29.960 She now hals over one point seven million followers on 0:01:30.040 --> 0:01:32.959 Instagram and has started a haircare brand, Divvy. 0:01:33.080 --> 0:01:36.000 She is married to Jordan Ramirez and has two kids, 0:01:36.040 --> 0:01:37.919 Stella and Stratton. 0:01:38.120 --> 0:01:40.920 And she also has her own podcast called de Influence, 0:01:40.959 --> 0:01:44.360 where she talks unfiltered about her life as a mom, influencer, wife, 0:01:44.440 --> 0:01:45.199 and much more. 0:01:45.600 --> 0:01:46.440 Please help us. 0:01:46.520 --> 0:01:48.560 Welcome Danny Austin. 0:01:51.480 --> 0:01:52.000 Welcome. 0:01:52.880 --> 0:01:57.520 I left the intro a hello, as you should be 0:01:57.640 --> 0:01:59.480 our guest. I'm excited. Yeah. 0:01:59.480 --> 0:02:02.080 We were just talking about how you recently launched a 0:02:02.080 --> 0:02:06.280 podcast and it's a new new venture of your many 0:02:06.800 --> 0:02:10.640 ventures that you take on. Is your personality, like I 0:02:10.680 --> 0:02:13.000 always need to be trying or doing something new? 0:02:14.480 --> 0:02:16.320 Do you know the enneagram? Are you all familiar? 0:02:16.400 --> 0:02:16.560 Yeah? 0:02:16.680 --> 0:02:19.120 Yeah, so I'm a three. So I was always like, 0:02:19.200 --> 0:02:19.960 which one is that? 0:02:20.320 --> 0:02:20.880 The achiever? 0:02:21.880 --> 0:02:24.200 It's hard to be married to me because my end 0:02:24.240 --> 0:02:25.240 and my husband's a perfection. 0:02:25.400 --> 0:02:26.600 She's a one. I'm a one two? 0:02:26.800 --> 0:02:27.080 Really? 0:02:27.160 --> 0:02:30.240 Yeah? Oh, you guys are tough too, because you can't like, 0:02:30.240 --> 0:02:32.520 you can't start anything because that's perfect has to be 0:02:32.520 --> 0:02:34.280 perfect exactly and you have you have to do it 0:02:34.320 --> 0:02:36.160 your way. Yeah. 0:02:36.200 --> 0:02:38.919 So yeah, I just always liked to just be busy. 0:02:39.040 --> 0:02:41.680 Like in school growing up, I always played every sport. 0:02:42.200 --> 0:02:44.840 I was like packed in the summers. I just liked having, 0:02:45.000 --> 0:02:48.040 you know, that structure and schedule, and so it kind 0:02:48.040 --> 0:02:51.840 of just trickled over to my adult years. But no, 0:02:52.000 --> 0:02:56.040 I the whole thing started when I was nineteen. I 0:02:56.080 --> 0:02:58.880 started a YouTube channel, like one of those like I'm 0:02:58.919 --> 0:03:01.240 like an og where I was just sitting in my 0:03:01.320 --> 0:03:03.920 dorm room filming videos of myself. But I couldn't tell 0:03:03.960 --> 0:03:07.120 anyone because it was so embarrassing, Like, you know, I 0:03:07.200 --> 0:03:11.360 was in authority at the time at the University of Yeah, kaya, No, 0:03:13.120 --> 0:03:14.560 I was like the. 0:03:14.480 --> 0:03:15.679 First sorority person ever. 0:03:15.760 --> 0:03:18.960 But so yeah, I just started making videos in my 0:03:19.000 --> 0:03:22.160 dorm room and didn't tell any of my friends. And 0:03:22.200 --> 0:03:25.280 the only reason why my friends found out is because 0:03:25.400 --> 0:03:27.760 at the time, I had a really young audience, you know, 0:03:27.800 --> 0:03:29.920 they were like middle school, high school, because that's who 0:03:30.040 --> 0:03:32.640 was consuming YouTube at the time. And I was at 0:03:32.639 --> 0:03:34.680 a music festival with all my friends and these like 0:03:34.720 --> 0:03:36.960 little girls run up and they're like, Danny, we love 0:03:37.080 --> 0:03:39.400 your holes or your YouTube videos. And my my friends 0:03:39.400 --> 0:03:42.360 were like, you're what because it was just so so 0:03:42.520 --> 0:03:46.240 different and so new. So yeah, since then, I just, uh, 0:03:46.720 --> 0:03:49.000 I feel like, what's so fun about it is because 0:03:49.080 --> 0:03:51.480 when you work for yourself like that and you're creating content, like, 0:03:51.520 --> 0:03:53.160 you can do so much with it. You can go 0:03:53.240 --> 0:03:55.840 in so many different directions. So yeah, I've just been 0:03:55.880 --> 0:03:56.800 kind of busy ever since. 0:03:57.440 --> 0:04:00.560 But to me sometimes that feels overwhelming because I feel 0:04:00.560 --> 0:04:02.600 like it's like a constant I'm trying to keep up 0:04:02.640 --> 0:04:06.720 with something new or like what everyone's doing, like because 0:04:06.720 --> 0:04:09.560 there's so many opportunities, Like I feel like there's people 0:04:09.560 --> 0:04:11.280 like you who see it as like I'm going to 0:04:11.320 --> 0:04:13.760 take that on and try something new and if it 0:04:13.760 --> 0:04:15.760 doesn't work out, whatever, I tried it, And then there's 0:04:15.760 --> 0:04:18.400 people like me who are like it's too much. 0:04:18.200 --> 0:04:19.400 Like how do you keep up? 0:04:19.640 --> 0:04:22.760 It's so stressful. I think the biggest thing that I've 0:04:22.800 --> 0:04:25.200 always tried to focus on, which I know this kind 0:04:25.200 --> 0:04:27.680 of sounds cliche, but like I truly think about like 0:04:27.720 --> 0:04:31.159 my girls, and I love listening to what they want 0:04:31.240 --> 0:04:33.040 and then giving them more of what they want. And 0:04:33.080 --> 0:04:35.440 so I remember when I was like nineteen twenty years old, 0:04:35.680 --> 0:04:37.640 I had this like kind of avatar in my mind, 0:04:37.680 --> 0:04:40.520 and I'm like, her name is Sam, She's also nineteen 0:04:40.600 --> 0:04:42.799 years old, maybe she's in college, she's trying to figure 0:04:42.800 --> 0:04:44.120 her life out, and so I would just create all 0:04:44.160 --> 0:04:46.599 this content like just geared towards her, and it made 0:04:46.600 --> 0:04:49.640 it less overwhelming when I just thought of like one person. 0:04:50.320 --> 0:04:52.760 But also, I mean, I always have to remind myself 0:04:52.800 --> 0:04:54.880 even if, like if you think of one hundred people 0:04:54.920 --> 0:04:57.640 in a room, that's like a ton of people that 0:04:57.680 --> 0:05:00.839 you're influencing. And so if I could kind of get 0:05:00.920 --> 0:05:04.080 over the numbers and really focused on like that one girl, 0:05:04.320 --> 0:05:06.279 it made it more fun for me, like kind of 0:05:06.279 --> 0:05:09.280 took the stress off. So yeah, since then, you know, 0:05:09.360 --> 0:05:11.480 YouTube was it for a little bit. Then you know, 0:05:11.839 --> 0:05:16.680 your Instagram came out and then switched to TikTok and 0:05:16.760 --> 0:05:19.360 blogging and all the different spaces, and so I've just 0:05:19.440 --> 0:05:22.920 kind of enjoyed popping around and just seeing where you know, 0:05:23.400 --> 0:05:24.200 we're inspired. 0:05:24.880 --> 0:05:29.239 How do you your I think one of your something 0:05:29.279 --> 0:05:31.880 that sets you apart is that you have maintained a 0:05:33.600 --> 0:05:39.640 really loyal fan base that's like so engaged with everything 0:05:39.680 --> 0:05:42.800 you do. Like it's rare to see people like I look. 0:05:42.839 --> 0:05:44.719 I was looking at your page and I was looking 0:05:44.760 --> 0:05:47.880 at just the comments, and I was like, it's it's 0:05:47.920 --> 0:05:50.680 really impressive, especially on Instagram. Now, I feel like to 0:05:50.760 --> 0:05:53.240 have that type of engagement in that following, like what 0:05:53.320 --> 0:05:55.520 do you think it was or what do you feel 0:05:55.520 --> 0:05:59.400 like you do that makes you different from from other 0:05:59.400 --> 0:06:01.599 people who've been because a lot of people have, you know, 0:06:01.640 --> 0:06:03.960 that was kind of the start of Instagram, was like 0:06:03.960 --> 0:06:06.640 that twenty fifteen era, right. 0:06:06.480 --> 0:06:08.719 Exactly, and you've been able to maintain it since then, 0:06:08.760 --> 0:06:09.520 Like what did you. 0:06:09.480 --> 0:06:11.120 Started Instagram twenty fifteen? 0:06:11.360 --> 0:06:14.880 Well, probably earlier earlier than that because it came out 0:06:15.000 --> 0:06:16.760 so I mean, oh, right, right, I was thinking two 0:06:16.800 --> 0:06:17.880 thousand and five for some right, like. 0:06:17.839 --> 0:06:20.839 The influencing like kind of that era was like yes. 0:06:21.320 --> 0:06:25.680 So when I first started my Instagram and blogging, I 0:06:25.760 --> 0:06:28.200 was trying so hard, you know, I had the hair extensions, 0:06:28.240 --> 0:06:30.440 and I was doing the outfit pictures. I'm traveling all 0:06:30.480 --> 0:06:33.800 over I'm posting like three instagrams a day, doing these 0:06:33.839 --> 0:06:36.240 outfit try ons and this sort of thing, and it 0:06:36.279 --> 0:06:38.560 was just I feel like at that point, like I 0:06:38.600 --> 0:06:40.320 don't know, it didn't feel real. And so I got 0:06:40.360 --> 0:06:42.960 to a point where especially when Instagram stories came out, 0:06:43.120 --> 0:06:44.640 I was like, you know what, I'm just gonna be 0:06:44.800 --> 0:06:47.880 myself and like take the hair extensions out, like just 0:06:47.960 --> 0:06:50.719 be like a goof, like just just see what happens. 0:06:50.880 --> 0:06:52.400 If people don't like it, then I'll just get a 0:06:52.400 --> 0:06:56.280 different job. And so I started doing that, and just 0:06:56.320 --> 0:06:58.680 like I started with this thing called retainer talks where 0:06:58.680 --> 0:07:00.800 I would get in bed at night and put my 0:07:00.839 --> 0:07:03.240 retainer in and just like talk about life. And I 0:07:03.360 --> 0:07:06.880 was like slobbering everywhere, you know, and I was talking about, 0:07:06.880 --> 0:07:10.200 you know, wedding planning, being engaged, how much I hated 0:07:10.240 --> 0:07:13.920 being engaged. I think engagement is like sometimes the hardest 0:07:14.040 --> 0:07:14.760 time in your. 0:07:14.640 --> 0:07:17.600 Life because a lot at the time, well I'm. 0:07:17.400 --> 0:07:20.880 Sorry, no, but it's hard actually, like because you're still 0:07:21.000 --> 0:07:23.760 you're merging two different lives. And you know, my husband 0:07:23.760 --> 0:07:25.880 and I are we didn't live together, so like he's 0:07:25.920 --> 0:07:28.440 living with my parents, I'm living at home, and we're 0:07:28.480 --> 0:07:30.640 trying to merge our two different lives, and it was 0:07:30.720 --> 0:07:33.760 just it was hard, you know, two different leases, two 0:07:33.800 --> 0:07:36.600 different friend groups, all these things. And so I just 0:07:36.640 --> 0:07:39.480 talked about like real things for the first time. And 0:07:39.640 --> 0:07:42.640 I think people just really related to that. And I 0:07:42.680 --> 0:07:45.600 think my biggest thing was just focusing on like building 0:07:45.600 --> 0:07:49.400 more so of like a loyal community instead of having 0:07:49.440 --> 0:07:53.520 a ton of followers. And I think that people could 0:07:53.600 --> 0:07:55.960 kind of sense that they felt it. I loved planning 0:07:56.000 --> 0:07:57.960 things where people could come together. We'd like needed a 0:07:58.000 --> 0:08:01.800 coffee shop, or I'd plan like a Taylor Swift listening 0:08:02.040 --> 0:08:04.320 night where they'd come over and maybe win like a 0:08:04.360 --> 0:08:06.440 ticket to come over and have like cookies or something. 0:08:07.440 --> 0:08:09.720 And so just trying to make the community feel smaller 0:08:09.840 --> 0:08:12.880 I think actually made it bigger, if that makes sense. 0:08:13.040 --> 0:08:16.840 You were like your mindset was like quality over quantity, Like. 0:08:16.800 --> 0:08:19.400 You were exactly like if I can if I can 0:08:19.440 --> 0:08:23.440 interact and connect with or people connect to me, then 0:08:23.920 --> 0:08:27.680 if they're engaged, then more will come if that's what's 0:08:27.720 --> 0:08:28.120 meant to be. 0:08:28.240 --> 0:08:30.560 But they're gonna be my focus exactly. 0:08:30.600 --> 0:08:33.600 And I think too, I how I looked at Instagram 0:08:33.640 --> 0:08:36.000 stories because that's kind of how I grew. I feel 0:08:36.040 --> 0:08:38.400 like my loyal audience, that's how I still take care of, 0:08:38.440 --> 0:08:42.200 which is so so annoying because they disappear. So sometimes 0:08:42.240 --> 0:08:44.280 I'm like, man, why do I do that? Like why 0:08:44.320 --> 0:08:46.600 am I not creating this content like on YouTube or 0:08:46.640 --> 0:08:49.200 somewhere it lists or whatever. I still don't know the 0:08:49.200 --> 0:08:51.680 answer to that, but I do feel like it helped 0:08:51.720 --> 0:08:55.160 me create a very like loyal engagement with my audience 0:08:55.200 --> 0:08:57.839 because I wake up with them, like from the moment 0:08:57.840 --> 0:08:59.920 I wake out of bed, and like I so they 0:09:00.040 --> 0:09:01.520 call it like the Danny mullet, Like I have a 0:09:01.600 --> 0:09:04.679 mullet whenever I wake up and I just walked through 0:09:04.679 --> 0:09:07.520 my day, I share like what products I'm using, things 0:09:07.520 --> 0:09:11.000 that I'm excited about, maybe things I'm struggling with, and 0:09:11.040 --> 0:09:12.840 I take them pretty much all the way till like 0:09:12.880 --> 0:09:14.840 five o'clock and then that's whenever I get off of it. 0:09:14.840 --> 0:09:17.320 It's like workday, you know. So I just kind of 0:09:17.320 --> 0:09:20.080 always like envisioned my day as like a reality TV show. 0:09:20.600 --> 0:09:21.079 It's fun. 0:09:21.520 --> 0:09:25.080 You kind of you literally created a miniature reality TV 0:09:25.559 --> 0:09:29.160 dating show for your brothers, right, I did think, wait. 0:09:29.080 --> 0:09:31.319 Did you almost date Taylor Swift? 0:09:32.280 --> 0:09:36.240 I mean that would be cool. So what happened was 0:09:36.400 --> 0:09:39.400 when speak Now came out, my brother did a cover 0:09:39.480 --> 0:09:44.920 of it, and she tweeted it, retweeted it and said, man, 0:09:45.040 --> 0:09:48.360 I love this cover of Sparks fly by Land in Austin, 0:09:48.960 --> 0:09:51.199 and my brother was so excited. He lives in Nashville. 0:09:51.280 --> 0:09:53.680 He went to Belmont University. He still lives there. He 0:09:53.760 --> 0:09:57.400 was so excited. He went to Harris Teeters, which is 0:09:57.440 --> 0:10:00.280 like their local grocery store, and he woul to go 0:10:00.280 --> 0:10:03.000 buy a cookie cake because he was so excited. That's 0:10:03.000 --> 0:10:05.120 how he celebrates, you know, with his buddies. And he's 0:10:05.160 --> 0:10:09.040 like celebrating that Taylor Swift retweeted him, and he's in line, 0:10:09.520 --> 0:10:12.440 and none other than Taylor Swift is behind him in 0:10:12.559 --> 0:10:14.079 line buying groceries. 0:10:14.559 --> 0:10:16.360 So my brother freaks out. 0:10:17.960 --> 0:10:21.560 He turns around, Taylor Swift freaks out, goes land in Austin, 0:10:22.120 --> 0:10:24.760 What what are you new? Yes? But you know this 0:10:24.800 --> 0:10:27.480 is also when I mean she was famous. Obviously she 0:10:27.520 --> 0:10:30.679 was still living in Nashville, but she wasn't like right right, 0:10:32.160 --> 0:10:34.760 and she's like land in Austin, I thought you lived 0:10:34.800 --> 0:10:38.280 in Australia, Like what the heck? And so they actually 0:10:38.679 --> 0:10:43.320 she gave him her dad's number and then Landon connected 0:10:43.360 --> 0:10:46.839 with her dad, went to her show in Knoxville, went backstage, 0:10:47.120 --> 0:10:49.920 hung out with mister and missus Swift the entire time, 0:10:50.440 --> 0:10:52.960 and he kind of like mister Swift kind of like 0:10:53.000 --> 0:10:55.240 mentored my brother for a little bit, took him the 0:10:55.240 --> 0:10:58.160 whole Cogan's house, which is so random, gave him like 0:10:58.160 --> 0:11:02.160 a bunch of like great advice. So yeah, that's crazy. 0:11:02.200 --> 0:11:04.440 You met Taylor Swift, you probably got better. I mean 0:11:04.480 --> 0:11:07.600 you probably yeah, you know, I mean, I think it's. 0:11:07.720 --> 0:11:10.960 Very serendipitous that that was during the Speak Now era 0:11:11.280 --> 0:11:14.200 yea and the re release with the feat Now and 0:11:14.320 --> 0:11:17.600 Taylor Swift is single? Is your brother single? You know what? 0:11:17.679 --> 0:11:18.880 I well, I don't know. 0:11:19.520 --> 0:11:21.880 But I had had a plan. 0:11:22.240 --> 0:11:24.600 I don't know for sure, So if you have anyone, 0:11:24.920 --> 0:11:27.080 I mean, Taylor Swift included, but I kind of already 0:11:27.120 --> 0:11:29.760 like let that ship say. I'm like, you know, yeah, it. 0:11:29.800 --> 0:11:33.480 Got a little bit aligning again, I don't know, I 0:11:33.480 --> 0:11:33.880 don't know. 0:11:34.200 --> 0:11:36.679 But you did the like many dating series for him, 0:11:36.720 --> 0:11:39.400 and that was through Instagram, right, that was through Instagram. 0:11:39.760 --> 0:11:43.400 Because so how that came about was my brother was 0:11:43.559 --> 0:11:47.240 so my brother's thirty four years old and he's just 0:11:47.280 --> 0:11:49.800 like a typical like he's just living life and he 0:11:49.840 --> 0:11:52.160 doesn't really like he didn't know when he wanted to 0:11:52.160 --> 0:11:53.880 settle down. I'm like, that's fine, but if I have 0:11:53.960 --> 0:11:56.800 any say, like I want to know who's going to 0:11:56.840 --> 0:11:58.360 be my sister in law, Like I'd like to have 0:11:58.400 --> 0:12:03.360 a say, you know. And so he came home to 0:12:03.440 --> 0:12:05.360 Dallas and a girl just blew him off, like didn't 0:12:05.360 --> 0:12:07.800 show up to a date. And so I was, you know, 0:12:08.080 --> 0:12:11.320 posting on stories and I shared what happened to Landon 0:12:11.600 --> 0:12:13.079 and all these dms started coming. 0:12:13.160 --> 0:12:15.440 They're like, i'll date your brother. I'm available. 0:12:15.920 --> 0:12:18.960 So light bulb went off and we created like a 0:12:18.960 --> 0:12:23.640 little mini Bachelor or a season for him within like 0:12:23.760 --> 0:12:24.600 twenty four hours. 0:12:24.640 --> 0:12:25.240 It was wild. 0:12:25.280 --> 0:12:29.120 We had girls videos, so we chose like the you know, 0:12:29.160 --> 0:12:31.800 three girls. He went on dates with them. We ended 0:12:31.880 --> 0:12:34.360 up doing season two and then he stayed with the girl, 0:12:34.400 --> 0:12:36.640 the winner, for like over a year and they broke 0:12:36.720 --> 0:12:37.920 up with the winner. 0:12:39.480 --> 0:12:40.920 The girl he loved. 0:12:42.040 --> 0:12:44.800 But it's pretty impressive. I was like, dang, I'm pretty 0:12:44.800 --> 0:12:45.120 good at this. 0:12:45.600 --> 0:12:48.680 Yeah, I hear, like your next venture just launching up dating? 0:12:49.360 --> 0:12:50.920 Is there? Like do you have a hosting bud now? 0:12:50.960 --> 0:12:51.360 Like there? 0:12:51.480 --> 0:12:52.200 Would you ever want to? 0:12:52.200 --> 0:12:55.160 Like? No, only if it's on my channels. I like 0:12:55.240 --> 0:12:55.960 having control. 0:12:56.720 --> 0:12:58.640 Oh interesting, Okay, Yeah, I don't know. 0:12:58.679 --> 0:13:01.200 I mean, if anything, I would do something like more 0:13:01.240 --> 0:13:03.640 like love is blind but I already tried twice for 0:13:03.760 --> 0:13:07.280 my brother, so he's out. I have to find someone new. 0:13:07.960 --> 0:13:11.240 Sorry, I'm sure you could have someone apply to uh 0:13:11.559 --> 0:13:14.080 have you set up their dating their dating scene? 0:13:14.160 --> 0:13:14.319 Well? 0:13:14.400 --> 0:13:17.040 You know. You know what's funny is since that happened, 0:13:17.040 --> 0:13:20.480 I get so many emails that are like, hey, Danny, 0:13:20.480 --> 0:13:22.360 like I heard you're a matchmaker, like. 0:13:23.080 --> 0:13:27.560 You could do like random matchmaking, yes, and somebody specific 0:13:27.679 --> 0:13:30.560 just like for different people. I'm down. 0:13:30.720 --> 0:13:32.800 Have you seen Jewish Jewish matchmaking? 0:13:32.880 --> 0:13:34.679 No, but I've heard a lot about it. 0:13:34.679 --> 0:13:37.559 It is so so good, you'll have to watch. I'm 0:13:37.600 --> 0:13:39.520 like inspired, like I would do that job. 0:13:39.760 --> 0:13:41.280 I've heard it's really amazing. 0:13:41.360 --> 0:13:41.920 You would love it. 0:13:41.960 --> 0:13:44.920 And it's really interesting because it's like basically shows like 0:13:44.960 --> 0:13:48.880 the different types of cultures like that, like some Jewish 0:13:48.880 --> 0:13:52.600 people like you have different like Messianic Jews you have, 0:13:52.840 --> 0:13:55.640 and how they all come together and like work through 0:13:55.679 --> 0:13:58.880 their different cultures that they've grown up in. And it's like, 0:13:58.960 --> 0:14:00.720 I don't know, it's fascinating, Like I loved it. 0:14:00.840 --> 0:14:01.439 Yeah, I love him. 0:14:01.720 --> 0:14:01.880 DD. 0:14:02.000 --> 0:14:03.920 Do you mentioned so you and your husband didn't live 0:14:03.920 --> 0:14:05.040 together before you got married. 0:14:05.840 --> 0:14:06.400 We didn't. 0:14:06.520 --> 0:14:10.160 We met in Austin and then I was living in 0:14:10.200 --> 0:14:14.319 a house with bloggers, a blogger hog house, a blog 0:14:14.360 --> 0:14:17.800 house with two other girls. And then he moved back 0:14:17.840 --> 0:14:20.640 to Austin but didn't have a place to live because 0:14:21.000 --> 0:14:23.200 he didn't want to sign a lease, so he he 0:14:23.240 --> 0:14:24.080 lived with my parents. 0:14:24.720 --> 0:14:27.960 Wow, yeah, recommend it. 0:14:28.160 --> 0:14:29.160 I wouldn't recommend it. 0:14:29.280 --> 0:14:31.560 No, Yeah was that for a reason? 0:14:31.680 --> 0:14:33.960 Like? Is that was that just a choice? Like you 0:14:34.000 --> 0:14:35.240 were like, I never want to love us, Like I 0:14:35.280 --> 0:14:37.120 don't want to live with someone before I get married 0:14:37.160 --> 0:14:37.440 to them. 0:14:38.000 --> 0:14:40.600 I guess I kind of just like I think that's 0:14:40.640 --> 0:14:43.240 just the way that I wanted to do it. I 0:14:43.240 --> 0:14:46.040 mean I think the least definitely came into play. But yeah, 0:14:46.080 --> 0:14:47.880 I think it made it so much more special, like 0:14:47.920 --> 0:14:50.520 whenever we finally moved in together, and. 0:14:51.720 --> 0:14:53.280 Yeah, like I really I loved it. 0:14:53.320 --> 0:14:55.680 I love whenever, Like I felt like the like we 0:14:55.680 --> 0:14:57.560 had something to look forward to. Yeah, you know, I 0:14:57.560 --> 0:14:58.200 thought it was sweet. 0:15:17.920 --> 0:15:20.000 Well, I was gonna ask was there an adjustment period? 0:15:20.040 --> 0:15:22.520 Because like, you learned so much about someone while you're 0:15:22.560 --> 0:15:24.360 living with them, and that's kind of like a you know, 0:15:24.400 --> 0:15:26.520 you kind of go through that phase of being like, yeah, 0:15:26.560 --> 0:15:28.880 you're annoying, and how you do this and then like 0:15:28.920 --> 0:15:31.280 sometimes it's a deal breaker for people because they're like. 0:15:31.480 --> 0:15:33.320 I didn't know that you did this, and now I'm 0:15:33.360 --> 0:15:33.880 living with you. 0:15:33.920 --> 0:15:36.760 What the heck did you have like that adjustment period 0:15:36.760 --> 0:15:38.040 of like living with someone like that. 0:15:38.440 --> 0:15:42.600 Oh yeah, So on our honeymoon, which of course, like 0:15:42.680 --> 0:15:44.480 it's gonna happen no matter what when you move in 0:15:44.520 --> 0:15:46.840 with something, I don't care what time standard, whether you're 0:15:46.840 --> 0:15:49.160 married or they're not, Like you're gonna have to work 0:15:49.160 --> 0:15:53.160 through those conflicts and okay, so my brother like my brother, well, sorry, 0:15:55.200 --> 0:15:58.160 my husband is a one like I told you. So 0:15:58.240 --> 0:16:02.320 we went on our honeymoon, and I'm like, uh, I 0:16:02.440 --> 0:16:04.840 liked I like spontaneity, Like I like to wake up 0:16:04.880 --> 0:16:07.680 and be like, what's gonna happen today. I don't love 0:16:07.720 --> 0:16:11.280 to have a like everything, like like I want adventure, 0:16:11.440 --> 0:16:13.240 but I want to be able to like figure it 0:16:13.240 --> 0:16:16.560 out all my own. And so my husband when I 0:16:16.600 --> 0:16:19.600 got home from our honeymoon, the first night that we 0:16:19.680 --> 0:16:22.520 woke up, I rolled over and there was like a 0:16:22.600 --> 0:16:25.880 full schedule of my day. It was like seven am 0:16:26.000 --> 0:16:30.000 to eight am, workout, eight thirty to nine pm, like 0:16:30.400 --> 0:16:34.000 you know, read the Bible and small you know, prey 0:16:34.280 --> 0:16:37.080 and then breakfast from ten. I was like, I took 0:16:37.080 --> 0:16:39.120 that piece of paper. I was like, like, rip that 0:16:39.160 --> 0:16:40.520 thing apart. I was like, you're not gonna tell me 0:16:40.560 --> 0:16:43.440 what to do. He was just very like structured like 0:16:43.480 --> 0:16:46.480 that and likes to run everything like my dream. 0:16:46.880 --> 0:16:47.360 Yeah. 0:16:47.480 --> 0:16:50.520 Yeah, and so there was definitely that adjustment where I 0:16:50.520 --> 0:16:52.280 was like, no, no, like I don't wear pants in the 0:16:52.320 --> 0:16:54.520 morning if I want to sleep in a little bit, 0:16:54.560 --> 0:16:57.720 like it's gonna be okay. But yeah, we figured it out. 0:16:58.080 --> 0:16:59.480 We're kind of like Yin Yin and yang. 0:16:59.600 --> 0:16:59.960 Yeah. 0:17:00.160 --> 0:17:02.640 Well, y'all have definitely figured it out because you now 0:17:02.680 --> 0:17:04.359 are how long have you been married. 0:17:04.640 --> 0:17:06.240 I've been married well five years. 0:17:06.400 --> 0:17:08.680 Okay, so but do you have two kids? You've two kids. 0:17:08.760 --> 0:17:12.119 You've advanced past the annoying quirks. 0:17:11.800 --> 0:17:15.000 Yeah, you know, but it has it's okay. But I 0:17:15.040 --> 0:17:16.960 feel like, because you say you're not structured, but I 0:17:17.000 --> 0:17:19.480 feel like, at least from what I see on your 0:17:19.480 --> 0:17:21.680 social media, do you have like a like a plan 0:17:21.760 --> 0:17:23.080 like you're like, Okay, this is what I'm going to 0:17:23.160 --> 0:17:24.439 do this week and I kind of get up and 0:17:24.440 --> 0:17:26.160 do it. Or do you just kind of like as 0:17:26.200 --> 0:17:28.199 a day as the days go, that's kind of what 0:17:28.240 --> 0:17:28.600 you do. 0:17:29.080 --> 0:17:32.720 I so most day fifty fifty. I would say fifty 0:17:32.760 --> 0:17:34.879 to fifty. But we do like typically will look at 0:17:34.920 --> 0:17:37.240 the calendar and be like, Okay, let's do this this week. 0:17:37.320 --> 0:17:39.479 But if it's like a prank or something like silly, 0:17:39.760 --> 0:17:43.280 that's always in the moment. But like, for example, we're 0:17:43.280 --> 0:17:46.360 here in LA and this morning Jordan called me is like, hey, 0:17:46.359 --> 0:17:49.000 what about if we go to the BlackBerry farms in 0:17:49.480 --> 0:17:52.720 Tennessee like right after this trip. And I'm like, okay, 0:17:52.720 --> 0:17:54.359 but we didn't pack for it. No, let's just go. 0:17:54.600 --> 0:17:56.360 So things like that like just. 0:17:56.560 --> 0:17:57.480 Kind of like spreare the moment. 0:17:57.840 --> 0:18:01.080 But have you brought that out of him? Oh? 0:18:01.160 --> 0:18:05.080 I was gonna say that number one or the dark 0:18:05.119 --> 0:18:09.160 side of having fun in life? We can enjoy ourselves too. 0:18:10.040 --> 0:18:12.199 We were talking about this before you came in. We 0:18:12.240 --> 0:18:14.160 saw on your Instagram story that you said you get 0:18:14.160 --> 0:18:17.000