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Speaker 1: Scrubbing In with Becca Tilly and Tanya rap An iHeartRadio podcast.

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Speaker 2: Hello everybody, we are scrubbing in, scrub it up dumb.

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Speaker 3: Today we have Oh wait, I.

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Speaker 1: Didn't tell you guys. I was driving. I was driving

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Speaker 1: the other day and I'll actually I'll post this. We

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Speaker 1: saw this car that had a license plate that said

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Speaker 1: it looks like it said let's scrub in. Its like

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Speaker 1: l E S. Hold on, it was like L E S.

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Speaker 1: Scrub and then like in and so Robbie and I

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Speaker 1: pull up next to the car and we're like, like

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Speaker 1: thinking it was a scrubber or something, and we're like, oh,

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Speaker 1: it's a license I let's scrub in like and he

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Speaker 1: was like, yeah, less carbon. I was like, it was

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Speaker 1: like an electric car. Yeah, so its not what I

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Speaker 1: thought it was, but it could have been. It could

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Speaker 1: have been.

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Speaker 4: Your license plate.

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Speaker 1: Please send us, Please send it, because I was so

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Speaker 1: excited to be the scrubber and just wanted this person

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Speaker 1: wild less carbon.

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Speaker 2: Yeah you found an environmentalist, yes, yeah, so valuable.

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Speaker 3: Yeah. Yes, also we need those people too.

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: So sorry derail this because we have a really great

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Speaker 3: Yeah, we have.

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Speaker 2: She's a huge social media influencer, and she started her

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Speaker 2: career in twenty twelve when she was just nineteen years old.

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Speaker 2: She now hals over one point seven million followers on

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Speaker 2: Instagram and has started a haircare brand, Divvy.

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Speaker 1: She is married to Jordan Ramirez and has two kids,

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Speaker 1: Stella and Stratton.

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Speaker 2: And she also has her own podcast called de Influence,

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Speaker 2: where she talks unfiltered about her life as a mom, influencer, wife,

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Speaker 2: and much more.

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Speaker 3: Please help us.

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Speaker 1: Welcome Danny Austin.

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Speaker 3: Welcome.

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Speaker 1: I left the intro a hello, as you should be

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Speaker 1: our guest. I'm excited. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: We were just talking about how you recently launched a

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Speaker 2: podcast and it's a new new venture of your many

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Speaker 2: ventures that you take on. Is your personality, like I

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Speaker 2: always need to be trying or doing something new?

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Speaker 5: Do you know the enneagram? Are you all familiar?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, so I'm a three. So I was always like,

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Speaker 5: which one is that?

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Speaker 1: The achiever?

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Speaker 5: It's hard to be married to me because my end

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Speaker 5: and my husband's a perfection.

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Speaker 1: She's a one. I'm a one two?

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Speaker 3: Really?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? Oh, you guys are tough too, because you can't like,

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Speaker 1: you can't start anything because that's perfect has to be

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Speaker 1: perfect exactly and you have you have to do it

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Speaker 1: your way. Yeah.

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Speaker 5: So yeah, I just always liked to just be busy.

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Speaker 5: Like in school growing up, I always played every sport.

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Speaker 5: I was like packed in the summers. I just liked having,

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Speaker 5: you know, that structure and schedule, and so it kind

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Speaker 5: of just trickled over to my adult years. But no,

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Speaker 5: I the whole thing started when I was nineteen. I

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Speaker 5: started a YouTube channel, like one of those like I'm

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Speaker 5: like an og where I was just sitting in my

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Speaker 5: I was like the.

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Speaker 5: But so yeah, I just started making videos in my

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Speaker 5: they were like middle school, high school, because that's who

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Speaker 5: little girls run up and they're like, Danny, we love

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Speaker 5: I feel like, what's so fun about it is because

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Speaker 5: in so many different directions. So yeah, I've just been

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Speaker 2: But to me sometimes that feels overwhelming because I feel

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Speaker 3: Like how do you keep up?

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Speaker 5: It's so stressful. I think the biggest thing that I've

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Speaker 5: so I remember when I was like nineteen twenty years old,

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Speaker 5: But also, I mean, I always have to remind myself

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Speaker 5: YouTube was it for a little bit. Then you know,

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Speaker 2: How do you your I think one of your something

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Speaker 2: that sets you apart is that you have maintained a

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Speaker 2: you do. Like it's rare to see people like I look.

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Speaker 2: I was looking at your page and I was looking

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Speaker 3: Exactly, and you've been able to maintain it since then,

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Speaker 3: The influencing like kind of that era was like yes.

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Speaker 5: So when I first started my Instagram and blogging, I

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Speaker 5: was like slobbering everywhere, you know, and I was talking about,

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Speaker 5: you know, wedding planning, being engaged, how much I hated

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Speaker 5: being engaged. I think engagement is like sometimes the hardest

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Speaker 5: Sorry, no, but it's hard actually, like because you're still

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Speaker 5: kind of sense that they felt it. I loved planning

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Speaker 3: You were like your mindset was like quality over quantity, Like.

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Speaker 2: You were exactly like if I can if I can

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Speaker 3: But they're gonna be my focus exactly.

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Speaker 5: And I think too, I how I looked at Instagram

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Speaker 5: I'm like, man, why do I do that? Like why

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Speaker 5: call it like the Danny mullet, Like I have a

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Speaker 5: I take them pretty much all the way till like

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Speaker 5: It's like workday, you know. So I just kind of

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Speaker 5: always like envisioned my day as like a reality TV show.

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Speaker 2: You kind of you literally created a miniature reality TV

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Speaker 2: dating show for your brothers, right, I did think, wait.

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Speaker 1: Did you almost date Taylor Swift?

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Speaker 5: I mean that would be cool. So what happened was

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Speaker 5: when speak Now came out, my brother did a cover

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Speaker 5: I love this cover of Sparks fly by Land in Austin,

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Speaker 5: and my brother was so excited. He lives in Nashville.

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Speaker 5: He went to Belmont University. He still lives there. He

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Speaker 5: You know. You know what's funny is since that happened,

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Speaker 5: I get so many emails that are like, hey, Danny,

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Speaker 1: You could do like random matchmaking, yes, and somebody specific

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Speaker 5: It is so so good, you'll have to watch. I'm

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Speaker 5: And it's really interesting because it's like basically shows like

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Speaker 5: I don't know, it's fascinating, Like I loved it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I love him.

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Speaker 2: Do you mentioned so you and your husband didn't live

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Speaker 5: We met in Austin and then I was living in

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Speaker 3: Wow, yeah, recommend it.

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Speaker 1: I wouldn't recommend it.

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Speaker 3: No, Yeah was that for a reason?

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Speaker 2: Like? Is that was that just a choice? Like you

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Speaker 5: I guess I kind of just like I think that's

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Speaker 2: What the heck did you have like that adjustment period

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Speaker 5: Yeah, and so there was definitely that adjustment where I

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Speaker 5: We're kind of like Yin Yin and yang.

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Speaker 2: Well, y'all have definitely figured it out because you now

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Speaker 5: I've been married well five years.

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Speaker 5: But if it's like a prank or something like silly,

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Speaker 3: But have you brought that out of him? Oh?

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Speaker 5: I was gonna say that number one or the dark

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Speaker 5: Every time you come here, Like yeah, I'm just curious,

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Speaker 5: Not every time, but a lot of times, so you know,

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Speaker 5: And so that was the first time. Second time was

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Speaker 2: Yeah wait, so what why is it when you're in LA?

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Speaker 5: I think it's coincidence, but it's just funny that it

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Speaker 5: So I think we have to real a lot of

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Speaker 5: know you. And so that's why I'm able to laugh

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00:20:08,680 --> 00:20:12,080
Speaker 5: about it now because I know for sure like even

443
00:20:12,119 --> 00:20:14,600
Speaker 5: when my audience like here's you know, all the details

444
00:20:14,600 --> 00:20:16,600
Speaker 5: of what happens, they're like, dude, like we know you,

445
00:20:16,640 --> 00:20:18,879
Speaker 5: Like it's fine, Like that was just somebody trying to

446
00:20:18,880 --> 00:20:21,640
Speaker 5: get clicks, you know. And so I think that's kind

447
00:20:21,680 --> 00:20:23,359
Speaker 5: of what gives me a lot of peace. And then

448
00:20:23,400 --> 00:20:26,159
Speaker 5: also like when you get offline and you're around all

449
00:20:26,200 --> 00:20:29,440
Speaker 5: your friends and your family and like nobody cares, then

450
00:20:29,480 --> 00:20:32,760
Speaker 5: I think you realize you're like, Okay, I'm only upset

451
00:20:32,760 --> 00:20:34,800
Speaker 5: because I keep scrolling and I keep reading all these

452
00:20:34,800 --> 00:20:37,120
Speaker 5: things that I just shouldn't be I shouldn't be reading,

453
00:20:37,200 --> 00:20:39,159
Speaker 5: and when I get off I'm like, oh, this is

454
00:20:39,200 --> 00:20:43,000
Speaker 5: actually real life. So so now I feel like it's

455
00:20:43,000 --> 00:20:45,600
Speaker 5: happened like I've been I've been doing this for ten years.

456
00:20:45,640 --> 00:20:47,879
Speaker 5: It's not like I'm like totally new to it. So

457
00:20:48,480 --> 00:20:50,680
Speaker 5: I feel like I kind of know the cycles of

458
00:20:51,040 --> 00:20:53,520
Speaker 5: hate now. And it still hurts, like you said, like

459
00:20:53,560 --> 00:20:56,680
Speaker 5: I still do the first week after, like I'm at home,

460
00:20:56,720 --> 00:20:58,560
Speaker 5: I don't want to leave, I'm so upset, I'm crying

461
00:20:58,560 --> 00:21:02,040
Speaker 5: in bed. Happened a lot with postpartum too, because I

462
00:21:02,040 --> 00:21:05,480
Speaker 5: felt like I was like extremely fragile, and when people

463
00:21:05,520 --> 00:21:07,280
Speaker 5: were saying, you know, you're a bad mom or you're

464
00:21:07,280 --> 00:21:09,320
Speaker 5: a bad thiss like you believe it because you're so

465
00:21:09,480 --> 00:21:11,800
Speaker 5: like you're not in a good place anyway, right, your

466
00:21:11,840 --> 00:21:15,800
Speaker 5: hormones are like raging, Yeah, exactly. So So No, it's

467
00:21:15,800 --> 00:21:18,119
Speaker 5: still really tough, but I just I think whenever it

468
00:21:18,200 --> 00:21:21,080
Speaker 5: happens now, I just say, oh, I'm getting hit again

469
00:21:21,119 --> 00:21:23,040
Speaker 5: and being canceled again, It's going to be okay.

470
00:21:23,960 --> 00:21:26,640
Speaker 2: I think sometimes we forget, like when you get offline,

471
00:21:26,760 --> 00:21:30,440
Speaker 2: especially your so much of your life is lived on

472
00:21:30,640 --> 00:21:34,359
Speaker 2: social media and online that like I think people I

473
00:21:34,720 --> 00:21:37,120
Speaker 2: forget sometimes, like if I just put my phone down,

474
00:21:38,240 --> 00:21:41,760
Speaker 2: I can feel peace, Like I can experience like normalcy

475
00:21:41,880 --> 00:21:44,359
Speaker 2: and like the people who love me, and and not

476
00:21:45,440 --> 00:21:49,399
Speaker 2: overthink strangers on the internet having an opinion about something.

477
00:21:49,720 --> 00:21:52,800
Speaker 5: Yes, do you have strict boundaries with like your social

478
00:21:52,840 --> 00:21:54,600
Speaker 5: media or what you're posting or your phone.

479
00:21:54,880 --> 00:21:55,360
Speaker 3: I don't have.

480
00:21:55,320 --> 00:21:59,439
Speaker 2: Strict boundaries with anything, unfortunately, but I do. I have

481
00:21:59,520 --> 00:22:02,840
Speaker 2: figured out that when I start feeling that really heaviness

482
00:22:02,840 --> 00:22:05,240
Speaker 2: and anxiousness, that I if I can trace it back,

483
00:22:05,280 --> 00:22:06,720
Speaker 2: like if I can go back to my day and

484
00:22:06,800 --> 00:22:09,280
Speaker 2: try to think of where that started, it typically started

485
00:22:09,280 --> 00:22:11,159
Speaker 2: from something I saw by looking at my phone. So

486
00:22:11,200 --> 00:22:14,120
Speaker 2: I'm like, Okay, if I put my phone down, then

487
00:22:14,200 --> 00:22:16,800
Speaker 2: I don't have to even put myself in the position

488
00:22:16,840 --> 00:22:19,440
Speaker 2: to feel this way, right, If I can go outside,

489
00:22:19,440 --> 00:22:21,400
Speaker 2: feel the sun, go to the beach, like do something

490
00:22:21,480 --> 00:22:24,240
Speaker 2: that feels like fuels me as opposed to just doom

491
00:22:24,280 --> 00:22:27,000
Speaker 2: scrolling and getting myself in deeper to a hole where

492
00:22:27,040 --> 00:22:29,080
Speaker 2: I'm like, what am I even? Like? Why am I

493
00:22:29,119 --> 00:22:31,399
Speaker 2: wasting my time and my energy on something that like

494
00:22:32,200 --> 00:22:34,119
Speaker 2: does My scrolling is always.

495
00:22:33,920 --> 00:22:36,560
Speaker 1: Like quotes and there was like dark quotes, you know,

496
00:22:36,720 --> 00:22:38,639
Speaker 1: and I just keep clicking and there's more quotes and

497
00:22:38,680 --> 00:22:40,000
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh yeah that one.

498
00:22:40,119 --> 00:22:41,359
Speaker 3: Oh oh, and.

499
00:22:41,440 --> 00:22:45,280
Speaker 1: Like it's always like triggering in some way. Yes, it does,

500
00:22:45,640 --> 00:22:49,040
Speaker 1: like knows my weaknesses. Are you in your dms? Yes,

501
00:22:49,200 --> 00:22:50,520
Speaker 1: My dms are quite lovely though.

502
00:22:50,520 --> 00:22:53,320
Speaker 5: Oh good, oyeah good, Yeah mine are for the most part.

503
00:22:53,520 --> 00:22:56,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I quite enjoy the DMS that I guess.

504
00:22:56,359 --> 00:22:58,199
Speaker 2: Well, I was gonna say, because you you do have

505
00:22:58,280 --> 00:23:02,120
Speaker 2: a massive following, and I think that with with a

506
00:23:02,160 --> 00:23:07,240
Speaker 2: big following comes the opportunity for more criticism and more negativity.

507
00:23:07,720 --> 00:23:09,720
Speaker 2: So have you found that, like as you've grown and

508
00:23:09,760 --> 00:23:12,679
Speaker 2: as you like notice like, oh I'm gaining a bigger follower,

509
00:23:12,760 --> 00:23:15,679
Speaker 2: I'm getting more you know, a bigger fan base that

510
00:23:15,720 --> 00:23:18,680
Speaker 2: there you notice an increase in in like the negative

511
00:23:18,720 --> 00:23:20,560
Speaker 2: DMS or the hate.

512
00:23:20,680 --> 00:23:23,359
Speaker 5: I guess I think that's only natural. Especially whenever you

513
00:23:23,400 --> 00:23:25,520
Speaker 5: do something that's a little like you put yourself out there.

514
00:23:25,680 --> 00:23:29,000
Speaker 5: I always know, okay, something might happen from it, whether

515
00:23:29,040 --> 00:23:31,480
Speaker 5: it's a podcast or you know, if I launch a

516
00:23:31,520 --> 00:23:34,800
Speaker 5: new product for Divvy or whatever it is. It's just

517
00:23:34,840 --> 00:23:36,919
Speaker 5: I think that's just kind of part of putting yourself

518
00:23:36,960 --> 00:23:40,080
Speaker 5: out out there these days. But but yeah, I think

519
00:23:40,160 --> 00:23:42,240
Speaker 5: I think that definitely happens. But like you said, I

520
00:23:42,320 --> 00:23:45,400
Speaker 5: overall my my audience is very kind, like my dms

521
00:23:45,440 --> 00:23:48,719
Speaker 5: are very kind. It's I think that the influx of

522
00:23:48,920 --> 00:23:51,919
Speaker 5: negativity comes maybe if it's like a Facebook group that's like,

523
00:23:52,080 --> 00:23:54,120
Speaker 5: let's go get her, you know, and then you can

524
00:23:54,119 --> 00:23:56,040
Speaker 5: always tell those days. I'm like, okay, we're just going

525
00:23:56,119 --> 00:23:56,479
Speaker 5: to get off.

526
00:23:56,520 --> 00:23:58,120
Speaker 2: Yeah today, I was gonna ask, do you have strict

527
00:23:58,160 --> 00:24:00,080
Speaker 2: boundaries with your well.

528
00:24:00,320 --> 00:24:02,760
Speaker 5: I mean I have two kids now, so it's I

529
00:24:02,760 --> 00:24:04,480
Speaker 5: don't know if it's like a strict boundary.

530
00:24:04,280 --> 00:24:05,320
Speaker 1: Like I have to.

531
00:24:05,400 --> 00:24:08,680
Speaker 5: Yeah, you know, but I will say, like after five,

532
00:24:09,040 --> 00:24:11,440
Speaker 5: you probably won't see me post a lot, so I

533
00:24:11,520 --> 00:24:13,000
Speaker 5: kind of treat it like a like a workday.

534
00:24:13,160 --> 00:24:14,399
Speaker 3: Yeah that's really smart.

535
00:24:14,520 --> 00:24:17,240
Speaker 1: Yeah that is really smart. Actually, but you mentioned Divvy

536
00:24:17,480 --> 00:24:20,480
Speaker 1: and when did you like launch that? What year was

537
00:24:20,520 --> 00:24:21,840
Speaker 1: that I launched that?

538
00:24:22,119 --> 00:24:26,160
Speaker 5: In man? Was that twenty twenty twenty one?

539
00:24:27,240 --> 00:24:28,840
Speaker 1: You didn't remember. I'm so bad with dates.

540
00:24:28,840 --> 00:24:34,440
Speaker 5: I'm like, yeah, so that was born out of in college.

541
00:24:34,600 --> 00:24:38,440
Speaker 5: I when I was doing YouTube, I was also studying

542
00:24:38,440 --> 00:24:40,480
Speaker 5: to be to go to physical therapy school. I was

543
00:24:40,560 --> 00:24:42,640
Speaker 5: just like stressed out all the time, didn't know how

544
00:24:42,680 --> 00:24:46,480
Speaker 5: to really manage my stress. Started picking my hair, lost

545
00:24:46,520 --> 00:24:50,600
Speaker 5: a lot of hair, and then got married tried to

546
00:24:50,600 --> 00:24:53,840
Speaker 5: cover it up, so I got like hair extensions, bleached

547
00:24:53,880 --> 00:24:55,359
Speaker 5: the crap out of my hair. I never had like

548
00:24:55,400 --> 00:24:57,480
Speaker 5: a lot of hair growing up. My mom doesn't either,

549
00:24:57,560 --> 00:24:59,399
Speaker 5: Like genetically, it was just not in the cards for me.

550
00:25:00,119 --> 00:25:04,080
Speaker 5: But so I started kind of working like on my

551
00:25:04,119 --> 00:25:06,960
Speaker 5: own scalps yagram as well. I went into wigs. So

552
00:25:07,040 --> 00:25:08,880
Speaker 5: I wore a wig for a year.

553
00:25:09,040 --> 00:25:12,840
Speaker 1: That was my goal. And the first.

554
00:25:12,720 --> 00:25:15,760
Speaker 5: Actually my first wig was was from La because in

555
00:25:15,840 --> 00:25:16,760
Speaker 5: Dallas they don't have a.

556
00:25:16,680 --> 00:25:17,280
Speaker 3: Lot of good wigs.

557
00:25:17,280 --> 00:25:20,600
Speaker 5: Oh yeah, but I was. It got to the point

558
00:25:20,600 --> 00:25:22,520
Speaker 5: where I was like newly married. I looked in the

559
00:25:22,520 --> 00:25:25,359
Speaker 5: mirror just started bawling and I told my husband Jordan,

560
00:25:25,720 --> 00:25:27,879
Speaker 5: I was like, I just don't even want to leave

561
00:25:27,920 --> 00:25:31,840
Speaker 5: the house, like I'm so embarrassed. And and he was like, Okay,

562
00:25:32,080 --> 00:25:34,640
Speaker 5: the Kardashians wear wigs, Like why can't you wear a wig.

563
00:25:34,680 --> 00:25:38,040
Speaker 5: I'm like, well that's different, you know, And he.

564
00:25:38,040 --> 00:25:38,639
Speaker 1: Was like no, it's not.

565
00:25:38,720 --> 00:25:39,080
Speaker 3: Let's go.

566
00:25:39,160 --> 00:25:41,399
Speaker 5: So we jed jumped in the car, went to like

567
00:25:41,440 --> 00:25:44,200
Speaker 5: the first wig place we you know, googled in Dallas

568
00:25:44,840 --> 00:25:47,840
Speaker 5: and like we walked inside, it's like neon pink wigs,

569
00:25:47,920 --> 00:25:50,680
Speaker 5: like sparkly wigs, like like plastic.

570
00:25:50,840 --> 00:25:51,399
Speaker 1: Yeah.

571
00:25:51,520 --> 00:25:54,719
Speaker 5: I was so like bombed and so this I was like, no,

572
00:25:54,920 --> 00:25:58,080
Speaker 5: this is not it. So long story short. Do you'all

573
00:25:58,080 --> 00:26:00,560
Speaker 5: know jeffree Star Yeah, on YouTube? I used to fall

574
00:26:00,760 --> 00:26:04,360
Speaker 5: on YouTube and he always talked about this.

575
00:26:04,800 --> 00:26:05,400
Speaker 3: The wig shop.

576
00:26:05,400 --> 00:26:10,240
Speaker 5: That's like, yeah, well shure, Okay. So my husband like

577
00:26:10,280 --> 00:26:12,159
Speaker 5: flew me out to la and we went to the

578
00:26:12,160 --> 00:26:16,440
Speaker 5: wig shop and got my first wig. And I didn't

579
00:26:16,440 --> 00:26:19,320
Speaker 5: tell anyone for a month because I just really wanted

580
00:26:19,320 --> 00:26:22,440
Speaker 5: to like figure it out myself, like feel confident in it.

581
00:26:23,040 --> 00:26:24,880
Speaker 5: I didn't tell my audience or anything because it looked

582
00:26:24,880 --> 00:26:28,400
Speaker 5: a lot like my natural hair. And I even went

583
00:26:28,440 --> 00:26:32,600
Speaker 5: on a family vacation to Chicago with Jordan's parents and

584
00:26:32,640 --> 00:26:35,240
Speaker 5: weren't the entire time, and they didn't say anything. Maybe

585
00:26:35,240 --> 00:26:39,000
Speaker 5: they noticed, but they didn't say anything. And so that

586
00:26:39,080 --> 00:26:41,919
Speaker 5: whole year I just really focused on like my overall

587
00:26:42,400 --> 00:26:45,600
Speaker 5: hair health, scalp health, and started making like I was

588
00:26:45,640 --> 00:26:47,880
Speaker 5: like a little chemist like in my in my bathroom,

589
00:26:48,000 --> 00:26:51,080
Speaker 5: started making these scalps rooms to like really just like

590
00:26:51,119 --> 00:26:53,639
Speaker 5: detoxify my scalp from like all the dry shampoo I

591
00:26:53,680 --> 00:26:55,080
Speaker 5: was using because I was trying not to wash it

592
00:26:55,119 --> 00:26:57,480
Speaker 5: as much and all the product build up and things

593
00:26:57,560 --> 00:27:00,240
Speaker 5: like that. And then people on my DMS, you know,

594
00:27:00,240 --> 00:27:02,000
Speaker 5: we're saying, can you please send me some like I'll

595
00:27:02,000 --> 00:27:04,120
Speaker 5: pay you, you know, fifteen dollars to ship it here.

596
00:27:04,720 --> 00:27:06,879
Speaker 5: So that's whenever I went to my husband, I'm like, hey,

597
00:27:06,920 --> 00:27:09,439
Speaker 5: I think we should you know, make this scalp serum

598
00:27:09,440 --> 00:27:11,280
Speaker 5: and send it to some of these girls. There's also

599
00:27:11,320 --> 00:27:14,000
Speaker 5: all clean ingredients, and then there were also some things

600
00:27:14,040 --> 00:27:15,480
Speaker 5: I wanted to put in the scalp serum that it

601
00:27:15,560 --> 00:27:17,240
Speaker 5: just couldn't get my hands on. So we worked with

602
00:27:17,280 --> 00:27:19,920
Speaker 5: a chemist and came out with our first scalp serum,

603
00:27:20,359 --> 00:27:23,560
Speaker 5: and then since then we've launched our hair vitamins, shampoo,

604
00:27:23,600 --> 00:27:27,199
Speaker 5: and conditioner, and it's been really cool because every product

605
00:27:27,240 --> 00:27:28,960
Speaker 5: is just kind of born from like what people want

606
00:27:29,119 --> 00:27:31,000
Speaker 5: more of. So I just kind of listened to them

607
00:27:31,160 --> 00:27:34,000
Speaker 5: and then we have like an amazing chemist and we were,

608
00:27:34,280 --> 00:27:35,800
Speaker 5: you know, just give them what they want.

609
00:27:35,920 --> 00:27:38,719
Speaker 1: It's fun. So the scalp serum isn't necessarily for hair growth.

610
00:27:38,760 --> 00:27:40,720
Speaker 1: It's to like get rid of all the like build

611
00:27:40,800 --> 00:27:42,360
Speaker 1: up and just like all the stuff that we put

612
00:27:42,359 --> 00:27:42,720
Speaker 1: in our.

613
00:27:42,600 --> 00:27:45,680
Speaker 5: Hair, it helps a lot with so it does stimulate

614
00:27:45,680 --> 00:27:48,520
Speaker 5: your scalp. It has a lot of caffeine in it

615
00:27:48,560 --> 00:27:52,040
Speaker 5: that also helps stimulate. It has amino acids and peptides

616
00:27:52,080 --> 00:27:55,359
Speaker 5: that create kind of like a stronger anchoring agent with

617
00:27:55,400 --> 00:27:57,600
Speaker 5: your hair, so it's like less likely to fall out

618
00:27:57,600 --> 00:28:00,959
Speaker 5: when you're putting in hair extensions or brushing hair. So

619
00:28:01,760 --> 00:28:04,280
Speaker 5: a lot of people see great results when it comes

620
00:28:04,320 --> 00:28:07,439
Speaker 5: to you know, maintaining their their hair or hair growth

621
00:28:07,520 --> 00:28:10,400
Speaker 5: or maybe dan drift whatever it is. But I think

622
00:28:10,440 --> 00:28:12,320
Speaker 5: just a lot of those like natural ingredients. It's probably

623
00:28:12,320 --> 00:28:14,159
Speaker 5: the first time that people are actually taking care of

624
00:28:14,200 --> 00:28:16,280
Speaker 5: their scalp. So it's kind of like, you know, the

625
00:28:16,320 --> 00:28:18,120
Speaker 5: first time that you put a moisturizer on, You're gonna

626
00:28:18,119 --> 00:28:21,760
Speaker 5: be like, wow, this feels amazing. So so that was

627
00:28:22,359 --> 00:28:24,280
Speaker 5: that was what was special, was kind of creating like

628
00:28:24,359 --> 00:28:28,720
Speaker 5: a scalp routine for people. Well, yeah, it's been fun.

629
00:28:29,080 --> 00:28:30,560
Speaker 5: I mean it's like a whole no I'm like, I

630
00:28:30,640 --> 00:28:32,600
Speaker 5: had no idea this is going to happen, And I think, dude,

631
00:28:32,600 --> 00:28:35,120
Speaker 5: it's you know, I don't have the most like perfect

632
00:28:35,359 --> 00:28:38,400
Speaker 5: beautiful hair. But I think a lot of people relate

633
00:28:38,480 --> 00:28:40,680
Speaker 5: to that too, because you see a lot of like

634
00:28:40,720 --> 00:28:43,800
Speaker 5: celebrities launching haircare brands and I'm like, okay, but like

635
00:28:43,840 --> 00:28:45,640
Speaker 5: we know she was born with that, you know, and

636
00:28:45,680 --> 00:28:47,280
Speaker 5: I want to know what the girls that have hair

637
00:28:47,360 --> 00:28:51,000
Speaker 5: like me are using. So it's been cool to connect

638
00:28:51,000 --> 00:28:51,760
Speaker 5: to my audience that way.

639
00:28:52,440 --> 00:28:54,680
Speaker 3: That's really that's a really good point.

640
00:28:54,800 --> 00:28:56,560
Speaker 2: Like there's people who will be like, this is what

641
00:28:56,600 --> 00:28:59,080
Speaker 2: I'm using, and you're like, you know, you're jennerfer Anison.

642
00:28:59,240 --> 00:29:03,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, like you've had the hair like that forever exactly.

643
00:29:04,120 --> 00:29:06,920
Speaker 2: But I think it's cool that people like are seeing

644
00:29:07,000 --> 00:29:09,480
Speaker 2: someone who's like you've gone through the.

645
00:29:09,360 --> 00:29:12,600
Speaker 3: Struggle of like all of that.

646
00:29:12,840 --> 00:29:16,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, when did you have the moment of feeling like

647
00:29:16,160 --> 00:29:19,240
Speaker 2: I'm ready to share that this is a wig and

648
00:29:19,280 --> 00:29:22,160
Speaker 2: I'm taking it off and I'm done like trying to

649
00:29:22,440 --> 00:29:23,640
Speaker 2: like cover this up.

650
00:29:23,720 --> 00:29:24,760
Speaker 3: Like what was that moment?

651
00:29:24,880 --> 00:29:26,680
Speaker 5: Like I think you just kind of get sick of

652
00:29:27,360 --> 00:29:29,360
Speaker 5: like feeling like you have to be perfect all the time,

653
00:29:29,640 --> 00:29:32,840
Speaker 5: and you're just like I don't want to do that anymore.

654
00:29:32,920 --> 00:29:34,600
Speaker 5: And if they're not going to accept me for that,

655
00:29:34,680 --> 00:29:37,320
Speaker 5: then like I'd rather just move in a different direction.

656
00:29:37,840 --> 00:29:40,760
Speaker 5: I think it just kind of gets old. And you know,

657
00:29:40,800 --> 00:29:42,400
Speaker 5: I was kind of known as like the wig girl

658
00:29:42,480 --> 00:29:44,640
Speaker 5: for a while, and I didn't mind that because I

659
00:29:44,640 --> 00:29:47,760
Speaker 5: think that once I did start talking about it, there

660
00:29:47,800 --> 00:29:50,320
Speaker 5: are so many women that were going through something similar

661
00:29:50,360 --> 00:29:53,280
Speaker 5: that like they're bawling in their you know, bedrooms, feeling

662
00:29:53,320 --> 00:29:55,800
Speaker 5: the same exact way. And so I'm like, Okay, well,

663
00:29:56,160 --> 00:29:57,840
Speaker 5: if I'm like, if this is where I need to

664
00:29:57,880 --> 00:30:00,440
Speaker 5: be creating you know, wig content instead of sharing my

665
00:30:00,480 --> 00:30:02,960
Speaker 5: outfit for the day, because it's more meaningful and actually

666
00:30:02,960 --> 00:30:05,280
Speaker 5: helps people, then like, that's what I want to do. Yeah,

667
00:30:05,400 --> 00:30:07,480
Speaker 5: even though maybe you know, I felt a little embarrassed

668
00:30:07,520 --> 00:30:10,400
Speaker 5: at first, but it gave me, you know, just more

669
00:30:10,400 --> 00:30:11,960
Speaker 5: purpose with the platform.

670
00:30:11,880 --> 00:30:13,360
Speaker 3: I was gonna ask, like I have.

671
00:30:13,720 --> 00:30:15,800
Speaker 2: What I've experienced is that the things that I feel

672
00:30:15,840 --> 00:30:19,040
Speaker 2: like insecure, nervous, or embarrassed about typically are the things

673
00:30:19,080 --> 00:30:23,000
Speaker 2: where people relate to the most or like feel connected

674
00:30:23,120 --> 00:30:25,680
Speaker 2: because they're like, oh, finally someone's talking about this.

675
00:30:26,200 --> 00:30:26,760
Speaker 1: I didn't know that.

676
00:30:26,920 --> 00:30:29,640
Speaker 2: And then you're like, why was I so fearful about

677
00:30:29,680 --> 00:30:31,720
Speaker 2: being honest and open about this when like.

678
00:30:31,840 --> 00:30:34,560
Speaker 1: Do you have specific examples? I mean, I had so many.

679
00:30:34,680 --> 00:30:37,600
Speaker 1: I wear granny panties every day, and I poop with

680
00:30:37,640 --> 00:30:40,560
Speaker 1: my feet on the toilet seat, just.

681
00:30:40,520 --> 00:30:41,640
Speaker 3: To name a few examples.

682
00:30:41,880 --> 00:30:43,000
Speaker 5: I'm just trying to imagine.

683
00:30:43,040 --> 00:30:44,480
Speaker 3: But oh, hey, I get it, I get it.

684
00:30:44,560 --> 00:30:46,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, it was like the Acrovac's there.

685
00:30:46,880 --> 00:30:48,440
Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, like that.

686
00:30:48,640 --> 00:30:49,720
Speaker 1: Yeah that's nice.

687
00:30:49,880 --> 00:30:50,160
Speaker 3: Yeah.

688
00:30:50,280 --> 00:30:52,200
Speaker 2: I mean my my big one was probably coming out

689
00:30:52,240 --> 00:30:54,880
Speaker 2: with my relationship with my girlfriend, just like wondering like

690
00:30:54,920 --> 00:30:57,080
Speaker 2: how my audience was going to react and like what

691
00:30:57,120 --> 00:31:00,440
Speaker 2: people would say and expecting the worst, you know, and

692
00:31:00,440 --> 00:31:04,600
Speaker 2: and of course I got negative yeah messages and stuff,

693
00:31:04,640 --> 00:31:06,239
Speaker 2: But I think for the most part, it was kind

694
00:31:06,280 --> 00:31:08,320
Speaker 2: of a reminder to give people the chance to like

695
00:31:08,520 --> 00:31:11,480
Speaker 2: literally show up and also give people a chance to

696
00:31:11,520 --> 00:31:11,880
Speaker 2: be good.

697
00:31:12,160 --> 00:31:13,320
Speaker 1: Yeah.

698
00:31:13,480 --> 00:31:16,360
Speaker 2: But yeah, I've always felt like those things where you

699
00:31:16,440 --> 00:31:19,520
Speaker 2: kind of feel like I'm scared, I feel awkward talking

700
00:31:19,520 --> 00:31:21,880
Speaker 2: about this or sharing this. Those are the things where

701
00:31:21,920 --> 00:31:25,400
Speaker 2: people like finally send their first message or do you

702
00:31:25,440 --> 00:31:27,360
Speaker 2: ever get those where it's like I never send dms,

703
00:31:27,400 --> 00:31:28,200
Speaker 2: and well, I have.

704
00:31:28,160 --> 00:31:30,080
Speaker 5: One that you posted. Actually I don't know if I

705
00:31:30,160 --> 00:31:31,840
Speaker 5: dm'd you about it, but I screenshot it because I

706
00:31:31,880 --> 00:31:36,160
Speaker 5: thought it was so sweet. When so I might get

707
00:31:36,160 --> 00:31:37,840
Speaker 5: this wrong, but I think you grew up like in

708
00:31:37,880 --> 00:31:41,440
Speaker 5: a religious household and then your girlfriend took you to church.

709
00:31:41,520 --> 00:31:46,600
Speaker 5: Even I thought that was I really was like here, ihot,

710
00:31:46,640 --> 00:31:49,760
Speaker 5: I showed my husband like this is the sweetest thing ever. Yeah,

711
00:31:50,640 --> 00:31:52,520
Speaker 5: but I'm sure you got a lot of like feedback

712
00:31:52,520 --> 00:31:53,360
Speaker 5: from that too.

713
00:31:53,640 --> 00:31:55,440
Speaker 3: Yeah. I think it's just one of those things.

714
00:31:55,520 --> 00:31:58,280
Speaker 2: Especially religion, I think is a very It's such a

715
00:31:58,320 --> 00:32:01,400
Speaker 2: sacred thing that people are connected to and that's so

716
00:32:01,400 --> 00:32:04,320
Speaker 2: important to people that I think sometimes those conversations are

717
00:32:04,360 --> 00:32:06,520
Speaker 2: hard and just being able to say like I don't

718
00:32:06,560 --> 00:32:09,400
Speaker 2: know exactly, like i don't know what I was taught,

719
00:32:09,480 --> 00:32:10,520
Speaker 2: but I'm figuring it out.

720
00:32:10,560 --> 00:32:12,560
Speaker 3: I'm living my life. I'm trying to figure it out.

721
00:32:12,840 --> 00:32:14,960
Speaker 2: And sometimes I think so many people are going through

722
00:32:15,000 --> 00:32:18,440
Speaker 2: that and they don't have a concrete answer, because isn't

723
00:32:18,480 --> 00:32:21,560
Speaker 2: that faith, Like just you don't have a concrete answer. Yeah, sure,

724
00:32:22,680 --> 00:32:26,520
Speaker 2: And I think even talking about that sometimes it's really scary.

725
00:32:26,560 --> 00:32:28,360
Speaker 2: But then people are like I'm going through the same

726
00:32:28,360 --> 00:32:30,640
Speaker 2: thing or I'm navigating this, like thanks for talking about it,

727
00:32:30,640 --> 00:32:32,680
Speaker 2: and it's like, oh, I've been so scared, feeling like

728
00:32:32,720 --> 00:32:35,480
Speaker 2: I wouldn't have anyone that relates to it. So I

729
00:32:35,480 --> 00:32:37,800
Speaker 2: didn't want to share it, and it's the complete opposite.

730
00:32:37,920 --> 00:32:40,040
Speaker 5: I'm like getting chills over here because I on my

731
00:32:40,120 --> 00:32:44,320
Speaker 5: podcast like two weeks ago, same thing where I've just

732
00:32:44,360 --> 00:32:47,520
Speaker 5: been feeling, especially with my faith, like I don't know

733
00:32:47,680 --> 00:32:50,280
Speaker 5: just the way that sometimes people use like oh I

734
00:32:50,320 --> 00:32:52,760
Speaker 5: felt like God spoke to me, or I felt like

735
00:32:52,800 --> 00:32:55,600
Speaker 5: God led me in this way, or you know, God

736
00:32:55,640 --> 00:32:58,000
Speaker 5: gave me a word. And I've just been kind of

737
00:32:58,000 --> 00:33:02,080
Speaker 5: confused on like what, like, was that just coincidence? Was

738
00:33:02,120 --> 00:33:03,640
Speaker 5: it actually something that you heard?

739
00:33:03,800 --> 00:33:04,000
Speaker 3: Was it?

740
00:33:04,320 --> 00:33:06,320
Speaker 5: And it's just something that I've been able to talk about.

741
00:33:06,360 --> 00:33:09,680
Speaker 5: And I was scared that people were going to be

742
00:33:09,960 --> 00:33:13,120
Speaker 5: upset that I wasn't like one hundred percent confident like

743
00:33:13,320 --> 00:33:15,440
Speaker 5: on that. But I a ton of people DM me

744
00:33:15,480 --> 00:33:17,640
Speaker 5: saying that they struggle with the same thing. Yeah, and

745
00:33:17,680 --> 00:33:20,040
Speaker 5: we're just figuring it out, Like I don't know the

746
00:33:20,160 --> 00:33:23,120
Speaker 5: answer just yet, but I mean it's something that we're

747
00:33:23,160 --> 00:33:25,440
Speaker 5: like we're all praying through together, we're all figuring out together.

748
00:33:25,600 --> 00:33:26,080
Speaker 3: Yeah.

749
00:33:26,200 --> 00:33:30,120
Speaker 2: No, it's true. I think more people with social media.

750
00:33:30,160 --> 00:33:32,600
Speaker 2: I think there was a time, especially when you started,

751
00:33:32,640 --> 00:33:35,040
Speaker 2: where it was all about like looking and presenting perfect.

752
00:33:35,160 --> 00:33:39,080
Speaker 2: Everything was esthetically pleasing. All the photos were edited to perfection,

753
00:33:39,200 --> 00:33:41,760
Speaker 2: and we've kind of taken this turn I think with TikTok,

754
00:33:41,800 --> 00:33:46,240
Speaker 2: where it's not doesn't need to be perfect all the time.

755
00:34:05,960 --> 00:34:09,799
Speaker 1: Well, I think two people with faith in particular, it's

756
00:34:10,000 --> 00:34:13,759
Speaker 1: very it's a very touchy subject and I feel like

757
00:34:14,040 --> 00:34:16,480
Speaker 1: everyone has like their opinion and it's just everybody wills.

758
00:34:16,520 --> 00:34:18,440
Speaker 1: Some people just want to be mad about something, you

759
00:34:18,480 --> 00:34:20,080
Speaker 1: know what I mean. Like I've gotten so many dms

760
00:34:20,080 --> 00:34:21,880
Speaker 1: of like how are you a woman of faith? But

761
00:34:21,880 --> 00:34:24,240
Speaker 1: you believe in the zodiac? And I'm like, cause it's fun,

762
00:34:24,440 --> 00:34:27,160
Speaker 1: like silly, Like it's not like I'm praying to the

763
00:34:27,239 --> 00:34:28,560
Speaker 1: zodiac gods like.

764
00:34:28,600 --> 00:34:32,239
Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean like they're just projecting yeah on you,

765
00:34:32,480 --> 00:34:34,080
Speaker 5: And like how are you supposed to know if we

766
00:34:34,360 --> 00:34:37,680
Speaker 5: don't actually meet and have a conversation, And like there's

767
00:34:37,719 --> 00:34:40,360
Speaker 5: just a lot of assumptions when it comes to religion.

768
00:34:40,440 --> 00:34:42,399
Speaker 5: I get it all the time to like I'll say

769
00:34:42,440 --> 00:34:44,279
Speaker 5: one word and they're like but I'm like, wait, I

770
00:34:44,320 --> 00:34:48,239
Speaker 5: didn't ever say that. Yeah, So it's crazy. But it

771
00:34:48,320 --> 00:34:50,719
Speaker 5: is a very touchy subject subject. But I think like

772
00:34:51,320 --> 00:34:54,279
Speaker 5: being like real about where you're at instead of My

773
00:34:54,320 --> 00:34:56,640
Speaker 5: biggest thing is like on social media, like are you

774
00:34:56,840 --> 00:35:00,560
Speaker 5: ever going to actually convince someone to sway their opinion

775
00:35:00,680 --> 00:35:03,520
Speaker 5: from like arguing them with them on a comment? Like

776
00:35:03,560 --> 00:35:05,480
Speaker 5: someone comments to me, I'm like, oh, you're right, let

777
00:35:05,480 --> 00:35:08,319
Speaker 5: me just switch everything. I think like it's never going

778
00:35:08,400 --> 00:35:10,880
Speaker 5: to happen. And so I feel like if you're going

779
00:35:10,960 --> 00:35:13,120
Speaker 5: to talk about it, like it's okay to be real

780
00:35:13,160 --> 00:35:15,920
Speaker 5: about it and not know like you were saying and

781
00:35:16,040 --> 00:35:18,960
Speaker 5: just be real. And and I think a lot of

782
00:35:18,960 --> 00:35:21,160
Speaker 5: people just want to come from judgment, maybe because it

783
00:35:21,200 --> 00:35:24,839
Speaker 5: makes them feel like they're in the right place, you know, Yeah,

784
00:35:25,680 --> 00:35:27,160
Speaker 5: but it's just doing more damage.

785
00:35:27,200 --> 00:35:28,160
Speaker 3: It's it's sad.

786
00:35:28,840 --> 00:35:31,400
Speaker 2: Something that really impacted me is when someone said that

787
00:35:32,120 --> 00:35:35,120
Speaker 2: I don't know is an answer, And I think people

788
00:35:35,160 --> 00:35:37,640
Speaker 2: forget they need like yes or no, they need to

789
00:35:37,680 --> 00:35:41,120
Speaker 2: be sure certain about something, and sometimes especially when it

790
00:35:41,120 --> 00:35:44,959
Speaker 2: comes to those that area of like faith, I don't

791
00:35:44,960 --> 00:35:47,480
Speaker 2: know is an answer because it's just faith.

792
00:35:47,719 --> 00:35:53,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, so sure. I wanted to look quick little sidebar

793
00:35:53,320 --> 00:35:56,520
Speaker 1: because I I there's so much you're doing so much?

794
00:35:57,239 --> 00:35:58,960
Speaker 1: Do you are all your days? Like are you you

795
00:35:59,000 --> 00:36:00,680
Speaker 1: said no you don't like this struck sure, but like

796
00:36:01,000 --> 00:36:04,319
Speaker 1: do you have a specific day to day how long

797
00:36:04,360 --> 00:36:06,480
Speaker 1: do you spend doing everything? Like how do you I'm

798
00:36:06,520 --> 00:36:08,760
Speaker 1: just fascinated by people's like a day in the life,

799
00:36:09,080 --> 00:36:11,120
Speaker 1: because how do you do it?

800
00:36:11,120 --> 00:36:11,319
Speaker 5: All?

801
00:36:11,440 --> 00:36:11,640
Speaker 2: Right?

802
00:36:12,160 --> 00:36:15,239
Speaker 5: So I have on Monday morning, we have like our

803
00:36:15,280 --> 00:36:17,960
Speaker 5: Monday morning meeting, and that's whenever we talk about everything

804
00:36:18,000 --> 00:36:20,400
Speaker 5: that's going on in the week, so you know what

805
00:36:20,520 --> 00:36:23,759
Speaker 5: brands that we're working with, different meetings that we have,

806
00:36:23,880 --> 00:36:25,760
Speaker 5: so that way we kind of get like an overall

807
00:36:25,800 --> 00:36:26,560
Speaker 5: feel for the week.

808
00:36:26,680 --> 00:36:27,640
Speaker 1: We my team.

809
00:36:27,920 --> 00:36:31,000
Speaker 5: Oh so my team comes to my house and we

810
00:36:31,080 --> 00:36:33,120
Speaker 5: have about how many people is it?

811
00:36:33,160 --> 00:36:34,399
Speaker 1: Four people on my team?

812
00:36:34,440 --> 00:36:34,839
Speaker 3: Are five?

813
00:36:36,320 --> 00:36:36,840
Speaker 1: Yeah?

814
00:36:36,880 --> 00:36:39,920
Speaker 5: Like four people like one contractor that comes over pretty

815
00:36:39,920 --> 00:36:44,120
Speaker 5: often and so they come over and we have like

816
00:36:44,160 --> 00:36:46,360
Speaker 5: a girl that does all the brands deal. So I

817
00:36:46,360 --> 00:36:48,600
Speaker 5: don't have like a management company. That's something that's kind

818
00:36:48,640 --> 00:36:52,520
Speaker 5: of unique about what we do. I haven't had one

819
00:36:52,600 --> 00:36:55,319
Speaker 5: for like nine years, and I just decided to build

820
00:36:55,360 --> 00:36:59,040
Speaker 5: it like all in house. So I basically like hired

821
00:36:59,040 --> 00:37:02,440
Speaker 5: people and just train them. And I don't know why

822
00:37:02,640 --> 00:37:04,680
Speaker 5: I do that now, I feel like, I mean, honestly,

823
00:37:04,680 --> 00:37:07,560
Speaker 5: it's because I have a strong connection with my team.

824
00:37:07,640 --> 00:37:11,359
Speaker 5: But it's a lot of work and so but I've

825
00:37:11,400 --> 00:37:13,439
Speaker 5: just enjoyed it because I feel like you're it's more

826
00:37:13,440 --> 00:37:17,360
Speaker 5: personal whenever I'm working with brands and working with my team.

827
00:37:17,800 --> 00:37:20,040
Speaker 5: So we have someone that does that. We have someone

828
00:37:20,080 --> 00:37:22,680
Speaker 5: that's helping with like brand, which is overall like where

829
00:37:22,719 --> 00:37:25,640
Speaker 5: are we going, what are we planning in the future,

830
00:37:25,640 --> 00:37:28,400
Speaker 5: what events are planning. We have someone that helps with

831
00:37:28,440 --> 00:37:31,480
Speaker 5: like our editing. We have someone that helps with LTK

832
00:37:31,719 --> 00:37:34,120
Speaker 5: or you on LTK, I mean I try to do.

833
00:37:34,120 --> 00:37:34,560
Speaker 3: It's a lot.

834
00:37:34,640 --> 00:37:37,360
Speaker 1: I have shot my shot my. It's like the same.

835
00:37:37,440 --> 00:37:39,520
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, it's like LTK, but a different version of it.

836
00:37:39,560 --> 00:37:41,640
Speaker 1: Shop it's called shot Mine.

837
00:37:41,640 --> 00:37:43,759
Speaker 5: I've heard a shot mine. Oh really, I've heard a

838
00:37:43,800 --> 00:37:46,759
Speaker 5: shop style. Yeah, shot mine might check it out. Well,

839
00:37:46,760 --> 00:37:50,040
Speaker 5: I might check out you. So, so for those of

840
00:37:50,120 --> 00:37:53,520
Speaker 5: y'all that don't know, LTK is like an affiliate affiliates,

841
00:37:54,760 --> 00:37:58,000
Speaker 5: and so they come over. We plan out the entire week.

842
00:37:58,400 --> 00:38:01,279
Speaker 5: About twice a week for an hour an hour and

843
00:38:01,280 --> 00:38:04,680
Speaker 5: a half, we have admin time where Nikki, who does

844
00:38:04,680 --> 00:38:07,839
Speaker 5: all of my brand brand deals, will sit down and

845
00:38:07,880 --> 00:38:10,000
Speaker 5: like she'll she'll present them all to me. So we

846
00:38:10,040 --> 00:38:11,799
Speaker 5: get to pick exactly like what we want to do,

847
00:38:11,840 --> 00:38:14,840
Speaker 5: what we don't want to do, and then everything in

848
00:38:14,880 --> 00:38:17,960
Speaker 5: between that like they'll be they work upstairs like two

849
00:38:18,080 --> 00:38:21,440
Speaker 5: or three days a week, but those two days a

850
00:38:21,440 --> 00:38:22,960
Speaker 5: week where like no one's in the house, Like that's

851
00:38:22,960 --> 00:38:24,560
Speaker 5: whenever I go ham, I'm like, I get to do

852
00:38:24,600 --> 00:38:27,000
Speaker 5: whatever I want, you know, I get to like prank

853
00:38:27,040 --> 00:38:30,080
Speaker 5: my husband. I get to just hang out with my kids.

854
00:38:31,080 --> 00:38:34,919
Speaker 5: So there's a lot of flexibility, but there is structure. Yeah,

855
00:38:35,000 --> 00:38:36,719
Speaker 5: what does your day look like? Didn't you film like

856
00:38:36,719 --> 00:38:40,040
Speaker 5: three three episodes or three chill shows? Yeah?

857
00:38:40,440 --> 00:38:44,719
Speaker 1: Yeah, what time did you start? I get up at

858
00:38:44,800 --> 00:38:49,120
Speaker 1: like four and then I make I'm back on coffee,

859
00:38:49,120 --> 00:38:52,480
Speaker 1: which is nice, So make my coffee at home in

860
00:38:52,960 --> 00:38:56,160
Speaker 1: I have like two breakfasts, but they're like half breakfasts,

861
00:38:56,200 --> 00:39:00,000
Speaker 1: so I eat space them out, and then around three

862
00:39:00,080 --> 00:39:02,120
Speaker 1: clock I kind of hit a wall. And that's when

863
00:39:02,160 --> 00:39:03,160
Speaker 1: I'm like zoned out.

864
00:39:03,360 --> 00:39:04,279
Speaker 5: So when you go to bed.

865
00:39:04,920 --> 00:39:06,919
Speaker 1: Uh, in a perfect world, I go down at eight.

866
00:39:09,080 --> 00:39:11,360
Speaker 3: We put her down at eight.

867
00:39:11,480 --> 00:39:13,960
Speaker 1: I like to go down at eight, And I'd love

868
00:39:14,000 --> 00:39:17,040
Speaker 1: to be a sleep by eight forty five. Man, that's amazing,

869
00:39:17,120 --> 00:39:19,839
Speaker 1: But it doesn't happen most nights. Most nights it's like ten.

870
00:39:20,000 --> 00:39:23,520
Speaker 5: So when is social time on the weekends? Yeah, or

871
00:39:23,680 --> 00:39:26,400
Speaker 5: with your work people. Yeah, and you film every day,

872
00:39:26,440 --> 00:39:30,279
Speaker 5: you record every day. Yeah, two shows every day.

873
00:39:30,440 --> 00:39:33,280
Speaker 1: No, no, no, but it's different. So like on Monday, on Mondays,

874
00:39:33,320 --> 00:39:34,719
Speaker 1: I do the podcast. So it's like that's a little

875
00:39:34,719 --> 00:39:37,520
Speaker 1: bit of a heavier day, not necessarily on Fridays. Fridays

876
00:39:37,520 --> 00:39:38,680
Speaker 1: are like chiller, you know what I mean. So it

877
00:39:38,760 --> 00:39:43,200
Speaker 1: kind of all balances out, and I, yeah, it all

878
00:39:43,239 --> 00:39:45,799
Speaker 1: balances out. I feel frantic for a couple of days,

879
00:39:45,840 --> 00:39:47,040
Speaker 1: and then I'm like, chill.

880
00:39:47,320 --> 00:39:48,840
Speaker 5: You know what I want to know the most for

881
00:39:48,920 --> 00:39:52,719
Speaker 5: people like you and honestly like the toast. So what

882
00:39:52,840 --> 00:39:55,960
Speaker 5: I find so fascinating is you do your job so well,

883
00:39:56,000 --> 00:39:58,480
Speaker 5: but then after you do this, you leave all of this,

884
00:39:58,600 --> 00:40:00,960
Speaker 5: you still have to go live life to have something

885
00:40:00,960 --> 00:40:02,360
Speaker 5: to talk about the next day.

886
00:40:02,719 --> 00:40:04,239
Speaker 1: Oh, I see what you're saying, you know what I mean.

887
00:40:04,280 --> 00:40:07,200
Speaker 5: Like Claudia's like she does so much in a day,

888
00:40:07,400 --> 00:40:09,160
Speaker 5: Like every day is like a new I'm like, how

889
00:40:09,160 --> 00:40:11,000
Speaker 5: do you have so many crazy stories?

890
00:40:11,520 --> 00:40:13,840
Speaker 3: Do you feel that? Yeah? She stays busy, Claudia.

891
00:40:13,880 --> 00:40:16,760
Speaker 1: They're always doing, they're always going out, She's always out.

892
00:40:16,880 --> 00:40:18,719
Speaker 1: You know what's so funny is like you find the

893
00:40:18,800 --> 00:40:21,120
Speaker 1: stories in the stuff that you do. So like at

894
00:40:21,120 --> 00:40:24,040
Speaker 1: my workout classes, I find like I've been like you know,

895
00:40:24,080 --> 00:40:26,040
Speaker 1: I make friends there and I hear stories there, and

896
00:40:26,080 --> 00:40:27,520
Speaker 1: like you kind of just like find it in your

897
00:40:27,520 --> 00:40:29,279
Speaker 1: everyday life, you know what I mean, Like the stuff

898
00:40:29,280 --> 00:40:30,920
Speaker 1: that you do with like your friends and your family,

899
00:40:31,040 --> 00:40:32,920
Speaker 1: Like it's kind of all in there. It's not like

900
00:40:32,960 --> 00:40:35,479
Speaker 1: going to the clubs, like I don't like coming back

901
00:40:35,520 --> 00:40:38,319
Speaker 1: and like sharing my story. It's just like all in that,

902
00:40:38,600 --> 00:40:40,279
Speaker 1: you know. Or you're like going to a dinner party.

903
00:40:40,280 --> 00:40:42,160
Speaker 1: You go to dinner. I've been talking about dinner party

904
00:40:42,239 --> 00:40:43,839
Speaker 1: so much lately, and like I don't think I've been

905
00:40:43,880 --> 00:40:46,080
Speaker 1: to a dinner party and forever, I guess I've just

906
00:40:46,120 --> 00:40:48,759
Speaker 1: been like social gathering. Yeah, people are talking about a

907
00:40:48,800 --> 00:40:50,520
Speaker 1: new show, so then you like check out the new

908
00:40:50,560 --> 00:40:52,120
Speaker 1: show and like all that kind of stuff, you know

909
00:40:52,120 --> 00:40:52,440
Speaker 1: what I mean.

910
00:40:52,719 --> 00:40:56,240
Speaker 5: Yeah, today I'm like today I changed a blowout, and

911
00:40:56,360 --> 00:40:58,720
Speaker 5: then my dog people on the ground, and then I'm.

912
00:40:58,600 --> 00:40:59,440
Speaker 3: Like this is my name.

913
00:41:00,320 --> 00:41:01,800
Speaker 5: But I guess for some people that's reliable.

914
00:41:01,920 --> 00:41:02,160
Speaker 1: I don't.

915
00:41:02,440 --> 00:41:05,600
Speaker 3: Yeah, what do your days look like like in La?

916
00:41:05,719 --> 00:41:07,239
Speaker 3: What do you have planned? What are you doing here?

917
00:41:07,440 --> 00:41:12,319
Speaker 5: So we're staying at the one so last night we

918
00:41:13,120 --> 00:41:14,560
Speaker 5: walked to dough Bricksha.

919
00:41:16,480 --> 00:41:19,760
Speaker 3: It's actually so good. You'll have to try. I love pizza.

920
00:41:19,880 --> 00:41:23,279
Speaker 5: If you love pizza, the spicy vodka is amazing. I

921
00:41:23,320 --> 00:41:25,160
Speaker 5: thought it was just all hype, Like I thought, just

922
00:41:25,200 --> 00:41:28,799
Speaker 5: people love David dough Brick. Actually amazing pizza. So we

923
00:41:28,840 --> 00:41:32,280
Speaker 5: did that. And then so since we're here, we reached

924
00:41:32,320 --> 00:41:33,759
Speaker 5: out to like a lot of brands that we work with,

925
00:41:33,800 --> 00:41:36,240
Speaker 5: and we're gonna be you know, meeting up with Rare Beauty,

926
00:41:36,800 --> 00:41:42,000
Speaker 5: Merit Beauty. I'm filming a podcast with the girl who

927
00:41:42,040 --> 00:41:46,200
Speaker 5: started Dulce Glow. She's sprays hands Like every single celebrity

928
00:41:46,280 --> 00:41:50,040
Speaker 5: under the sun, somebody hear her story. So just like

929
00:41:50,080 --> 00:41:51,759
Speaker 5: we reach out to people that we haven't you know,

930
00:41:51,800 --> 00:41:53,960
Speaker 5: that we just dm with try to make something like,

931
00:41:54,360 --> 00:41:57,000
Speaker 5: you know, out of it. But I don't know, do

932
00:41:57,040 --> 00:41:59,320
Speaker 5: you all have any recommendations of where we should go this?

933
00:41:59,320 --> 00:42:00,839
Speaker 5: This Texas girl doesn't really know.

934
00:42:01,400 --> 00:42:04,360
Speaker 3: Oh my god, we're probably the two most boring people

935
00:42:04,360 --> 00:42:04,719
Speaker 3: to ask.

936
00:42:04,960 --> 00:42:09,120
Speaker 1: No Ililah for sure. What's that fun? Yeah, it's like

937
00:42:09,160 --> 00:42:11,000
Speaker 1: a fun like I'm gonna say club.

938
00:42:11,280 --> 00:42:13,600
Speaker 3: It's not like Burlesqui, but it's a restaurant.

939
00:42:13,760 --> 00:42:15,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's a restaurant, like you go for dinner. I

940
00:42:15,719 --> 00:42:16,919
Speaker 1: like to be entertained while I eat.

941
00:42:17,120 --> 00:42:20,080
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's so it's yummy food. It's like it's like

942
00:42:20,760 --> 00:42:23,560
Speaker 3: Southern food, but like elevated.

943
00:42:23,719 --> 00:42:26,000
Speaker 5: Yeah, you're mine the South. Jay Z and Beyonce have

944
00:42:26,040 --> 00:42:30,319
Speaker 5: gone there. Oh then I have, Yeah, I just must.

945
00:42:30,719 --> 00:42:32,520
Speaker 1: Yeah you're from Sreport.

946
00:42:32,640 --> 00:42:35,640
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm from Streeport, just down the street across from you.

947
00:42:36,360 --> 00:42:37,399
Speaker 5: So far like a couple of hours.

948
00:42:37,520 --> 00:42:39,440
Speaker 2: No, Like if we needed to shop for like prom

949
00:42:39,520 --> 00:42:42,719
Speaker 2: or something, we went to Dallas, So that was like, Yeah.

950
00:42:42,320 --> 00:42:43,359
Speaker 5: Is your family still there?

951
00:42:44,040 --> 00:42:46,719
Speaker 2: No, I have like extended family in that area, but

952
00:42:47,000 --> 00:42:49,239
Speaker 2: I have my older sister lives in Baton Rouge, and

953
00:42:49,280 --> 00:42:52,160
Speaker 2: then my other family lives in Florida. We're all kind

954
00:42:52,160 --> 00:42:52,719
Speaker 2: of spread out.

955
00:42:52,960 --> 00:42:56,200
Speaker 5: So what do you miss about Streatport And like, what

956
00:42:56,280 --> 00:42:58,359
Speaker 5: do you feel like what is the difference between La

957
00:42:58,400 --> 00:43:00,480
Speaker 5: and Strept. Obviously it's it's a huge friends, But what

958
00:43:00,520 --> 00:43:02,240
Speaker 5: do you miss about it or do you miss anything?

959
00:43:02,680 --> 00:43:07,279
Speaker 3: H I miss some of my favorite restaurants.

960
00:43:07,360 --> 00:43:11,080
Speaker 2: You know. My best friend from high school still lives there,

961
00:43:11,160 --> 00:43:13,759
Speaker 2: so she like when I go visit, you know. And

962
00:43:13,800 --> 00:43:17,439
Speaker 2: then I obviously have family there, but I don't really

963
00:43:17,520 --> 00:43:20,879
Speaker 2: miss much. I don't have like a lot of attachment

964
00:43:21,000 --> 00:43:22,840
Speaker 2: to my hometown, which kind of.

965
00:43:22,800 --> 00:43:24,759
Speaker 1: Sid you're never leaving here, But.

966
00:43:24,719 --> 00:43:26,440
Speaker 2: Like when I go back, I'm not like, oh, I

967
00:43:27,040 --> 00:43:28,799
Speaker 2: can't wait to come back here one day, you know.

968
00:43:28,920 --> 00:43:31,360
Speaker 2: But there are certain things elements about the South that

969
00:43:31,440 --> 00:43:35,080
Speaker 2: I missed, and as a generalized you know, the food

970
00:43:35,280 --> 00:43:36,360
Speaker 2: and some of the things.

971
00:43:36,400 --> 00:43:38,840
Speaker 3: But I love it out here. I don't really So.

972
00:43:38,920 --> 00:43:39,879
Speaker 5: You think you'll stay here?

973
00:43:40,040 --> 00:43:41,399
Speaker 1: Are you saying in Dallas?

974
00:43:41,840 --> 00:43:42,000
Speaker 3: Oh?

975
00:43:42,000 --> 00:43:42,360
Speaker 1: Sorry?

976
00:43:42,719 --> 00:43:47,080
Speaker 5: Oh yeah, yeah, no, no, no, no, yeah, I miss her answers, Yes,

977
00:43:47,120 --> 00:43:47,640
Speaker 5: she's staying here.

978
00:43:47,680 --> 00:43:49,280
Speaker 3: I'll be here for the foreseeable future.

979
00:43:49,360 --> 00:43:49,560
Speaker 5: Yeah.

980
00:43:49,680 --> 00:43:51,279
Speaker 1: She tried to move to Nashville a couple of years ago,

981
00:43:51,280 --> 00:43:52,880
Speaker 1: and that did not go over well with me.

982
00:43:53,280 --> 00:43:56,319
Speaker 2: Oh I tried to move. I mentioned I could live

983
00:43:56,360 --> 00:43:58,600
Speaker 2: there one day. You're like, that's it extent of me

984
00:43:58,760 --> 00:43:59,839
Speaker 2: trying to move there?

985
00:44:00,640 --> 00:44:03,440
Speaker 4: Front door, Like, you're not going where she would. I

986
00:44:03,480 --> 00:44:05,840
Speaker 4: love Nashville though, Yeah, it's fun. That's probably where I

987
00:44:05,880 --> 00:44:08,600
Speaker 4: would live if I didn't live in Dallas. I don't, okay,

988
00:44:09,360 --> 00:44:11,040
Speaker 4: I don't love Dallas, and I'm sorry to all my

989
00:44:11,160 --> 00:44:11,840
Speaker 4: Dallas people.

990
00:44:12,160 --> 00:44:14,840
Speaker 5: I love the people in Dallas. I grew up in Dallas.

991
00:44:15,080 --> 00:44:18,200
Speaker 5: My parents are there, but it's just there's not a

992
00:44:18,239 --> 00:44:20,520
Speaker 5: lot to do. Like I come here and you can

993
00:44:20,680 --> 00:44:24,280
Speaker 5: hike and can be outdoors and the weather's amazing. Dallas.

994
00:44:24,320 --> 00:44:27,480
Speaker 5: It's like you shop and eat and drink and that's

995
00:44:27,480 --> 00:44:29,520
Speaker 5: about it. Yeah, but I mean I love doing those

996
00:44:29,520 --> 00:44:31,400
Speaker 5: things too, but you kind of it gets old.

997
00:44:31,560 --> 00:44:35,759
Speaker 1: So we're here here. Yeah, what's the future for you? Like,

998
00:44:35,800 --> 00:44:37,279
Speaker 1: what does the future look like?

999
00:44:37,280 --> 00:44:37,360
Speaker 5: Like?

1000
00:44:37,400 --> 00:44:38,719
Speaker 1: Do you want more products?

1001
00:44:39,000 --> 00:44:39,160
Speaker 2: Oh?

1002
00:44:39,200 --> 00:44:41,279
Speaker 5: Yeah, I want to definitely. We have a lot of

1003
00:44:41,320 --> 00:44:43,800
Speaker 5: products in the pipeline for Divvy, which we're really excited

1004
00:44:43,800 --> 00:44:47,839
Speaker 5: about where in Alta we'll be launching in like all

1005
00:44:47,880 --> 00:44:51,719
Speaker 5: stores pretty soon. And then uh, for as far as,

1006
00:44:51,719 --> 00:44:55,560
Speaker 5: like you know, our channels go, honestly, we'll just be

1007
00:44:55,600 --> 00:44:57,359
Speaker 5: doing like a lot of the giveaways that we're still doing.

1008
00:44:57,360 --> 00:44:59,319
Speaker 5: I want to host some more TV shows or you know,

1009
00:44:59,560 --> 00:45:03,000
Speaker 5: TV show inspired content, and I don't know. Then maybe

1010
00:45:03,000 --> 00:45:04,360
Speaker 5: I'll move to Nashville one day.

1011
00:45:04,280 --> 00:45:08,560
Speaker 3: It goes the options are endless. More kids?

1012
00:45:08,960 --> 00:45:12,000
Speaker 5: Oh yeah, that too, Okay, but not not anytime soon.

1013
00:45:12,040 --> 00:45:12,920
Speaker 1: I need a breather.

1014
00:45:13,239 --> 00:45:16,239
Speaker 5: Yeah, postpartum is not my jam.

1015
00:45:16,280 --> 00:45:19,799
Speaker 1: For both of your pregnancies, it was, Yeah, so very,

1016
00:45:19,960 --> 00:45:22,799
Speaker 1: very tough for both of them.

1017
00:45:22,880 --> 00:45:25,000
Speaker 5: I had never like taken a medication in my life,

1018
00:45:25,000 --> 00:45:26,760
Speaker 5: and then I was like, hit me up with anything.

1019
00:45:26,800 --> 00:45:30,200
Speaker 5: It got like it was really really tough, but it

1020
00:45:30,239 --> 00:45:32,520
Speaker 5: gets better. I have a friend that just had a baby,

1021
00:45:32,640 --> 00:45:36,240
Speaker 5: and she's like, it's like textbook. I'm like, dude, it happens.

1022
00:45:36,320 --> 00:45:39,520
Speaker 5: It's so common. It's like just stick it out. But yeah,

1023
00:45:39,560 --> 00:45:40,840
Speaker 5: your hormones are just wild.

1024
00:45:42,040 --> 00:45:44,640
Speaker 2: We had a guess Rachel Platten came on and she

1025
00:45:44,680 --> 00:45:48,520
Speaker 2: was telling her story about how it was horrible experience

1026
00:45:48,560 --> 00:45:51,239
Speaker 2: for her and and just like how finally being able

1027
00:45:51,280 --> 00:45:53,200
Speaker 2: to reach a point of being like I need help.

1028
00:45:53,239 --> 00:45:54,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, exactly.

1029
00:45:54,239 --> 00:45:56,799
Speaker 5: And I think that the hardest part for me was

1030
00:45:57,160 --> 00:45:59,480
Speaker 5: I had never dealt with anything like this before. So

1031
00:46:00,040 --> 00:46:02,440
Speaker 5: at first, you know, I had mystitis. I was feeling

1032
00:46:02,480 --> 00:46:05,640
Speaker 5: like really sick, ill, like feverish. So I just kept

1033
00:46:05,680 --> 00:46:08,920
Speaker 5: blaming like wanting to sleep, you know, fourteen hours, fifteen

1034
00:46:08,960 --> 00:46:11,520
Speaker 5: hours and stay in bed like all day on that.

1035
00:46:11,760 --> 00:46:13,400
Speaker 5: And you know, I just had a baby, and physically

1036
00:46:13,440 --> 00:46:15,680
Speaker 5: you're supposed to be within three months went by, and

1037
00:46:15,760 --> 00:46:18,760
Speaker 5: four months went by, and I had very physical symptoms

1038
00:46:18,800 --> 00:46:20,120
Speaker 5: like migraines.

1039
00:46:20,200 --> 00:46:22,080
Speaker 1: I was like very sensitive.

1040
00:46:21,640 --> 00:46:23,799
Speaker 5: To light, so like I would wake up and I

1041
00:46:24,000 --> 00:46:27,320
Speaker 5: like couldn't even open my eyes. And then to be honest,

1042
00:46:27,320 --> 00:46:29,680
Speaker 5: like I just started having really negative thoughts where I

1043
00:46:29,719 --> 00:46:32,600
Speaker 5: was like, man, I just like my my husband, like

1044
00:46:32,600 --> 00:46:34,480
Speaker 5: I'm just so much work for him on top of

1045
00:46:34,480 --> 00:46:37,880
Speaker 5: the baby, or like they'd probably be better off just like

1046
00:46:38,120 --> 00:46:41,719
Speaker 5: if I, like you know, moved, And it was just

1047
00:46:41,880 --> 00:46:44,560
Speaker 5: very it was very dark. And so whenever I started

1048
00:46:44,560 --> 00:46:46,759
Speaker 5: sharing those thoughts with my husband, he was like, this

1049
00:46:46,960 --> 00:46:48,880
Speaker 5: is not normal. I feel like we should talk to

1050
00:46:48,920 --> 00:46:52,200
Speaker 5: a doctor. But when you're in it, you don't think that,

1051
00:46:52,360 --> 00:46:54,200
Speaker 5: you don't think that there's anything like you just feel

1052
00:46:54,239 --> 00:46:58,120
Speaker 5: like this is like your new normal. Yeah, and so yeah,

1053
00:46:58,120 --> 00:47:00,360
Speaker 5: it was really sweet that my husban and took it

1054
00:47:00,360 --> 00:47:02,520
Speaker 5: pretty because I would never have even had the energy

1055
00:47:02,560 --> 00:47:04,840
Speaker 5: to make that appointment, to be honest, like I couldn't

1056
00:47:04,840 --> 00:47:07,000
Speaker 5: even I couldn't have done that.

1057
00:47:07,239 --> 00:47:07,640
Speaker 3: Yeah.

1058
00:47:08,000 --> 00:47:10,160
Speaker 2: I know, sometimes you just need someone to like be

1059
00:47:10,280 --> 00:47:13,000
Speaker 2: like I want to help you, and I'm gonna step

1060
00:47:13,000 --> 00:47:13,719
Speaker 2: in where I can.

1061
00:47:13,880 --> 00:47:16,720
Speaker 5: Yeah, but you can't if you don't share it with people, right, Yeah.

1062
00:47:16,560 --> 00:47:18,640
Speaker 3: Yeah, so that's important.

1063
00:47:20,920 --> 00:47:25,440
Speaker 2: I feel like you are a force in this world,

1064
00:47:25,640 --> 00:47:28,120
Speaker 2: and I really appreciate you taking the time to be

1065
00:47:28,200 --> 00:47:33,120
Speaker 2: on the podcast because I feel like you. When I

1066
00:47:33,280 --> 00:47:36,319
Speaker 2: have conversations with people about like the influencing space, they're like,

1067
00:47:36,400 --> 00:47:37,920
Speaker 2: Danny Austin, Danny Austin, Oh.

1068
00:47:37,840 --> 00:47:40,560
Speaker 1: My gosh, my friend Ashley is obsessed with you. Like literally,

1069
00:47:40,560 --> 00:47:42,640
Speaker 1: she takes me today. She's like, I cannot believe that

1070
00:47:42,680 --> 00:47:45,200
Speaker 1: Danny's gonna be on your podcast. I am obsessed with her.

1071
00:47:45,640 --> 00:47:47,920
Speaker 1: She like, I can't remember exactly what she said Verbandon,

1072
00:47:47,960 --> 00:47:50,359
Speaker 1: but she was like she could just be so like

1073
00:47:50,920 --> 00:47:53,799
Speaker 1: chill with her stuff, and she always outdoes herself, like

1074
00:47:53,840 --> 00:47:56,080
Speaker 1: she's always talking abou how you're always outdoing yourself.

1075
00:47:56,360 --> 00:47:58,560
Speaker 5: That's so sweet. My jaws to the floor because I'm

1076
00:47:58,560 --> 00:47:59,080
Speaker 5: not gonna lie.

1077
00:47:59,120 --> 00:48:00,200
Speaker 1: I was like, I'm all in.

1078
00:48:00,320 --> 00:48:01,120
Speaker 5: They don't know who I.

1079
00:48:01,080 --> 00:48:01,919
Speaker 3: Am, Like.

1080
00:48:03,560 --> 00:48:06,960
Speaker 5: They have no idea who, just like, you know, your

1081
00:48:06,960 --> 00:48:09,799
Speaker 5: producer probably reached out because maybe one video she saw

1082
00:48:09,920 --> 00:48:11,560
Speaker 5: so that makes me feel better.

1083
00:48:12,280 --> 00:48:16,560
Speaker 1: Told me this before. No, no, no, we're very excited.

1084
00:48:16,760 --> 00:48:19,560
Speaker 3: Like when we have guests on were we make sure

1085
00:48:19,600 --> 00:48:22,200
Speaker 3: that we know as.

1086
00:48:22,200 --> 00:48:25,960
Speaker 1: I don't just like have guests that we don't know

1087
00:48:26,160 --> 00:48:26,920
Speaker 1: or don't want.

1088
00:48:26,840 --> 00:48:28,600
Speaker 3: We did in the past, not that we don't want

1089
00:48:28,640 --> 00:48:31,160
Speaker 3: but that we didn't know. Yeah, we've had a couple

1090
00:48:32,040 --> 00:48:32,799
Speaker 3: just like years ago.

1091
00:48:33,000 --> 00:48:36,480
Speaker 2: Years ago, I don't have genuine interest in someone. It

1092
00:48:36,520 --> 00:48:39,120
Speaker 2: makes it hard to have a genuine conversation, you know

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00:48:39,120 --> 00:48:42,680
Speaker 2: what I'm saying. So I think that we definitely know

1094
00:48:42,719 --> 00:48:44,880
Speaker 2: who you are into today.

1095
00:48:45,080 --> 00:48:46,840
Speaker 5: I'm going to carry that for everything.

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00:48:48,120 --> 00:48:50,040
Speaker 1: Would you like me to read the text messages? Just

1097
00:48:50,040 --> 00:48:51,279
Speaker 1: like make you feel so much like.

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00:48:53,960 --> 00:48:54,239
Speaker 3: I was.

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00:48:54,440 --> 00:48:57,280
Speaker 2: I actually there was a friend of mine and he

1100
00:48:57,960 --> 00:49:00,839
Speaker 2: was working with like different brands stuff, and he was like,

1101
00:49:01,160 --> 00:49:02,960
Speaker 2: you know who you need to talk to, Like you

1102
00:49:03,040 --> 00:49:04,920
Speaker 2: just need to sit down with Danny Austin. He was like,

1103
00:49:04,960 --> 00:49:08,120
Speaker 2: I don't know anyone who who like converts like she does,

1104
00:49:08,160 --> 00:49:10,080
Speaker 2: Like she's incredible and how she like.

1105
00:49:10,719 --> 00:49:17,960
Speaker 1: So Danny Austin notes, page mind you stop it right yeah?

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00:49:18,000 --> 00:49:19,680
Speaker 1: And then she just texts me and goes, are you

1107
00:49:19,719 --> 00:49:22,239
Speaker 1: with Queen Danny yet? Tell her she dropped this and

1108
00:49:22,280 --> 00:49:25,640
Speaker 1: she put the crown emoji stop it because.

1109
00:49:25,440 --> 00:49:27,800
Speaker 5: Y'all have to understand, like I'm coming from Texas, like

1110
00:49:27,880 --> 00:49:31,520
Speaker 5: y'all are the big dogs, y'all are queens.

1111
00:49:32,600 --> 00:49:34,680
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, I got my hairt out this morning.

1112
00:49:35,760 --> 00:49:41,400
Speaker 3: Well that's great, kind of curled. My gosh, but thanks.

1113
00:49:41,480 --> 00:49:43,400
Speaker 2: I know that, like coming out to l A and

1114
00:49:43,600 --> 00:49:46,560
Speaker 2: having a busy schedule is a lot while you're on

1115
00:49:46,640 --> 00:49:46,960
Speaker 2: top of.

1116
00:49:46,960 --> 00:49:48,879
Speaker 3: Everything else you're doing. So thanks for taking the time

1117
00:49:48,960 --> 00:49:49,879
Speaker 3: to scrub in with.

1118
00:49:51,239 --> 00:49:53,719
Speaker 5: Nikey for having me. This is like a dream come true.

1119
00:49:53,800 --> 00:49:54,719
Speaker 5: You don't even know.

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00:49:55,360 --> 00:49:58,080
Speaker 3: And if people don't already, where can they follow you?

1121
00:49:58,120 --> 00:50:00,000
Speaker 1: On all the rain they get divvy Yeah, yeah.

1122
00:50:00,080 --> 00:50:03,920
Speaker 5: So Divivioficial dot com and then Danny Austen on Instagram.

1123
00:50:03,920 --> 00:50:05,880
Speaker 5: If you pretty much Google you can find all the things.

1124
00:50:06,040 --> 00:50:07,960
Speaker 5: But yeah, thank you guys so much, truly. What about

1125
00:50:08,000 --> 00:50:10,360
Speaker 5: your podcast? We didn't even get into the podcast on

1126
00:50:10,400 --> 00:50:13,840
Speaker 5: the podcast we're on season two. It's called de Influenced,

1127
00:50:13,840 --> 00:50:15,680
Speaker 5: where I kind of just wanted to like de influence,

1128
00:50:16,000 --> 00:50:18,319
Speaker 5: like influencing and just kind of be real about live.

1129
00:50:19,040 --> 00:50:21,560
Speaker 5: But that's on Spotify, Apple, all the places you can

1130
00:50:21,600 --> 00:50:22,200
Speaker 5: find podcasts.

1131
00:50:22,200 --> 00:50:23,680
Speaker 3: Okay, perfect season two.

1132
00:50:23,800 --> 00:50:25,800
Speaker 1: That's so interesting. So what's like a season?

1133
00:50:26,400 --> 00:50:29,240
Speaker 5: I don't know, So to be honest, the first season,

1134
00:50:29,480 --> 00:50:31,320
Speaker 5: I just wanted to do seven or eight episodes to

1135
00:50:31,320 --> 00:50:33,680
Speaker 5: see if I even liked it. Oh okay, well it's

1136
00:50:33,800 --> 00:50:35,520
Speaker 5: you know, so I wanted to have a cut off.

1137
00:50:35,680 --> 00:50:37,319
Speaker 5: That way, I didn't seem like a failure if I

1138
00:50:37,400 --> 00:50:39,680
Speaker 5: just like quit in the medal and then I did

1139
00:50:39,680 --> 00:50:42,319
Speaker 5: my seven or eight episodes and so like I liked it.

1140
00:50:42,520 --> 00:50:44,600
Speaker 5: So we came back for season two. And that's whenever

1141
00:50:44,640 --> 00:50:47,000
Speaker 5: we brought in some people to interview, got it.

1142
00:50:47,160 --> 00:50:47,960
Speaker 3: That's really smart.

1143
00:50:48,000 --> 00:50:50,040
Speaker 2: You're just like you're like, I don't I'm not really

1144
00:50:50,040 --> 00:50:51,640
Speaker 2: having a good time, and you go away forever.

1145
00:50:51,680 --> 00:50:52,960
Speaker 3: They're like, oh where'd you go?

1146
00:50:53,120 --> 00:50:55,520
Speaker 5: Yeah, like it comes to a net and then whenever

1147
00:50:55,560 --> 00:50:57,720
Speaker 5: you you end, you can take a break.

1148
00:50:58,200 --> 00:50:58,400
Speaker 4: You know.

1149
00:50:58,880 --> 00:51:01,120
Speaker 5: I took like three or four weeks off and then came.

1150
00:51:00,920 --> 00:51:03,560
Speaker 3: Back season We have no we are never.

1151
00:51:05,040 --> 00:51:09,040
Speaker 1: You go a year round. We are a never ending season. Correct, Yes, yeah,

1152
00:51:09,120 --> 00:51:10,920
Speaker 1: we are three sixty five.

1153
00:51:11,160 --> 00:51:14,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, our seasons are a year long. And then they

1154
00:51:14,840 --> 00:51:16,120
Speaker 2: continued the following year.

1155
00:51:16,239 --> 00:51:17,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, Gray's Anatomy.

1156
00:51:17,880 --> 00:51:18,040
Speaker 3: Yeah.

1157
00:51:18,120 --> 00:51:19,120
Speaker 5: Can I ask you a question?

1158
00:51:19,320 --> 00:51:20,200
Speaker 1: Yeah?

1159
00:51:20,480 --> 00:51:22,759
Speaker 5: Have y'all ever fought before you had to film a podcast?

1160
00:51:24,120 --> 00:51:27,120
Speaker 2: I don't think we've We've definitely had, I mean very rarely,

1161
00:51:27,160 --> 00:51:31,480
Speaker 2: but where we've had like a uncomfortable vibe.

1162
00:51:31,960 --> 00:51:35,960
Speaker 1: Vibe it started and it was like, yeah, not cozy.

1163
00:51:36,200 --> 00:51:37,799
Speaker 3: The most were kind of just like I didn't want

1164
00:51:37,800 --> 00:51:38,600
Speaker 3: to look at each other that.

1165
00:51:39,000 --> 00:51:41,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, but like honestly, I'd say less than a handful

1166
00:51:41,360 --> 00:51:41,800
Speaker 1: of times.

1167
00:51:42,080 --> 00:51:42,680
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yeah.

1168
00:51:42,719 --> 00:51:45,359
Speaker 2: And for this, we are coming up on our six

1169
00:51:45,440 --> 00:51:49,400
Speaker 2: years and I can say, like genuinely it hasn't happened

1170
00:51:49,560 --> 00:51:50,759
Speaker 2: as much as one would think.

1171
00:51:51,040 --> 00:51:54,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, Like we do it every single week together. Wow.

1172
00:51:54,280 --> 00:51:56,200
Speaker 5: See I sometimes I do with my husband.

1173
00:51:56,920 --> 00:51:59,480
Speaker 3: I do with my girlfriend. That's a different conversation.

1174
00:52:00,040 --> 00:52:01,920
Speaker 1: I actually think about that, Like I'm like if I

1175
00:52:02,040 --> 00:52:05,040
Speaker 1: because I've had my boyfriend Phil and Rebecca like once

1176
00:52:05,520 --> 00:52:08,920
Speaker 1: on the podcast, and I envisioned like working with him

1177
00:52:08,920 --> 00:52:10,960
Speaker 1: at some point in my life, and I'm like, I

1178
00:52:11,000 --> 00:52:13,160
Speaker 1: wonder what we would be like working together.

1179
00:52:13,120 --> 00:52:13,919
Speaker 3: When Haley did.

1180
00:52:14,040 --> 00:52:16,759
Speaker 2: Hailey was on our podcast last year right after we

1181
00:52:17,040 --> 00:52:20,680
Speaker 2: kind of went public with our relationship, and right before

1182
00:52:20,719 --> 00:52:22,960
Speaker 2: we were in San Francisco and we had gotten breakfast

1183
00:52:22,960 --> 00:52:25,239
Speaker 2: and we were running late to record, and I was

1184
00:52:25,320 --> 00:52:27,800
Speaker 2: so mad because it was like she had wanted to

1185
00:52:27,840 --> 00:52:28,920
Speaker 2: go to the spot and I was like, we don't

1186
00:52:28,960 --> 00:52:31,200
Speaker 2: have time until we got into this like bickering argument

1187
00:52:31,239 --> 00:52:33,040
Speaker 2: and then we had to sit down and start talking

1188
00:52:33,080 --> 00:52:35,080
Speaker 2: about how much we like met and loved each other,

1189
00:52:35,239 --> 00:52:37,279
Speaker 2: which like by the time we started talking about it,

1190
00:52:37,560 --> 00:52:38,920
Speaker 2: we had both like calmed down.

1191
00:52:38,719 --> 00:52:40,399
Speaker 3: And it was like, oh, yeah, we love each other.

1192
00:52:40,440 --> 00:52:42,799
Speaker 2: But yeah, there was that moment of like, I can't

1193
00:52:42,800 --> 00:52:43,920
Speaker 2: believe we're about tough to go.

1194
00:52:44,000 --> 00:52:48,279
Speaker 5: And that happened literally last week for our podcast. My

1195
00:52:48,400 --> 00:52:51,080
Speaker 5: husband had cut me off five times, Like I counted

1196
00:52:51,160 --> 00:52:53,200
Speaker 5: in my head. I was like one, two, and I

1197
00:52:53,200 --> 00:52:55,000
Speaker 5: was like, oh, let me start another conversation and see

1198
00:52:55,000 --> 00:52:57,279
Speaker 5: you feel it. And I got to five and I

1199
00:52:57,360 --> 00:52:59,359
Speaker 5: lost it and I was like, you know, you've cut

1200
00:52:59,400 --> 00:53:01,200
Speaker 5: me off, you know, and we on the podcast we

1201
00:53:01,200 --> 00:53:03,040
Speaker 5: were like bickering and we kept it in there.

1202
00:53:03,520 --> 00:53:04,040
Speaker 1: My gosh.

1203
00:53:04,280 --> 00:53:05,799
Speaker 5: So yeah, sometimes you kind of just had to keep

1204
00:53:05,840 --> 00:53:07,719
Speaker 5: it real because I'm like, I can't fake this, like

1205
00:53:07,800 --> 00:53:10,560
Speaker 5: I'm I'm frustrated and I can't act like I'm not,

1206
00:53:10,800 --> 00:53:12,120
Speaker 5: so let's just keep it in here.

1207
00:53:12,320 --> 00:53:15,680
Speaker 2: Yeah. Well, to be honest, if the cutoffs happened while

1208
00:53:15,680 --> 00:53:17,320
Speaker 2: it was being recorded, yeah.

1209
00:53:17,160 --> 00:53:20,439
Speaker 5: Oh no, it was right before we started. But still

1210
00:53:20,440 --> 00:53:21,840
Speaker 5: it was so annoyed, you know.

1211
00:53:22,160 --> 00:53:25,600
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yeah, there's a lot before we start. I

1212
00:53:25,640 --> 00:53:27,759
Speaker 3: just need to point out that's something that happened. Yeah.

1213
00:53:28,320 --> 00:53:29,920
Speaker 5: I was like, just so y'all know, we were kind

1214
00:53:29,960 --> 00:53:31,880
Speaker 5: of bickering, but we're good. Now we're going to work

1215
00:53:31,920 --> 00:53:32,279
Speaker 5: through it on.

1216
00:53:32,239 --> 00:53:36,560
Speaker 2: This podcast, so you know, yeah, little therapy session for

1217
00:53:36,600 --> 00:53:37,160
Speaker 2: everyone to hear.

1218
00:53:37,400 --> 00:53:40,920
Speaker 1: I'm actually proud that we've had like very little and

1219
00:53:41,000 --> 00:53:43,080
Speaker 1: everybody always asked me, like, what's it like working with

1220
00:53:43,120 --> 00:53:46,120
Speaker 1: your best friend, Like, I'm I want to get into

1221
00:53:46,120 --> 00:53:47,640
Speaker 1: a business with my best friend, and I'm scared because

1222
00:53:47,640 --> 00:53:49,759
Speaker 1: we have different like working styles, and I'm like, it

1223
00:53:49,840 --> 00:53:54,040
Speaker 1: works it Honestly, we've gotten into like very minimal disagreements.

1224
00:53:54,080 --> 00:53:56,600
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's like because I didn't answer her FaceTime or something.

1225
00:53:56,520 --> 00:53:57,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, which is annoying.

1226
00:53:57,600 --> 00:53:59,960
Speaker 5: Wait, I just realized, Oh, y'all have headphones on too.

1227
00:54:00,360 --> 00:54:02,360
Speaker 1: Yeah. I just realized I was probably like.

1228
00:54:02,320 --> 00:54:03,920
Speaker 5: The only dummy in the room with the headphones.

1229
00:54:04,000 --> 00:54:06,160
Speaker 3: No, you got them.

1230
00:54:07,000 --> 00:54:11,320
Speaker 5: We're gosh, but I've never forgiven myself.

1231
00:54:13,320 --> 00:54:14,960
Speaker 3: Thank you again for being here. I hope you have

1232
00:54:14,960 --> 00:54:17,319
Speaker 3: a wonderful time in l A and enjoy your trip.

1233
00:54:17,400 --> 00:54:18,320
Speaker 5: Are so sweet.