Speaker 1: It's time to catch a cheater.
Speaker 2: Only on the Jubile Show.
Speaker 1: Laura is on the phone today for to catch a
Speaker 1: cheater and she thinks that her husband of five years
Speaker 1: named Chris might be messing around, so we'll see if
Speaker 1: we can catch him if he is. In a second, Laura, sorry,
Speaker 1: you have to come on the show this way.
Speaker 2: What was going on? Why do you think Chris is cheating?
Speaker 3: Well, okay, so I mean, yeah, Chris, I've been married
Speaker 3: for five years, but we've actually been together for nine
Speaker 3: years total, so you know, it's a very long term relationship.
Speaker 3: There have been some rocky moments, but we've we've always
Speaker 3: been able to work through.
Speaker 4: Them in the past.
Speaker 3: So I'm in a little bit of a conundrum right now.
Speaker 3: I'm super in love with Chris. This is what I
Speaker 3: would call a pretty happy marriage. But last month I
Speaker 3: was on the couch, I was watching TV and Chris
Speaker 3: was sitting next to me. He had a phone by him,
Speaker 3: which is not unusual, and his phone lit up and
Speaker 3: I just kind of glanced at it because it distracted me.
Speaker 3: It wasn't like, you know, it wasn't anything weird. I
Speaker 3: just like caught it out of the corner. Of my eye,
Speaker 3: but it looked like a Tinder notification. Oh yeah, I mean,
Speaker 3: I you know, I've never used Tinder myself. Again, we've
Speaker 3: been together for nine years, but like I have single girlfriends,
Speaker 3: I know what Tinder looks like. So later that same night,
Speaker 3: we were lying down in bed, we were like, you know,
Speaker 3: ready for bed, just kind of like on our phone,
Speaker 3: and I saw it again, like I saw this notification
Speaker 3: flash and he very quickly picked up his phone and
Speaker 3: turned it off. And I was like, okay, that's a
Speaker 3: little bit weird, right, And again I didn't I didn't
Speaker 3: want to jump to conclusions because I mean, it could
Speaker 3: be anything, could be work, it could be whatever. But
Speaker 3: it was still bothering me the next day, so I
Speaker 3: got a brainwave and I don't know if it was
Speaker 3: a good idea, but it was definitely an idea that
Speaker 3: I ran with and I went ahead and I downloaded
Speaker 3: Tinder onto my own phone and I made fake profile picture.
Speaker 3: I said my name was Bailey, and I found Chris
Speaker 3: he was on Tinder matched. Yeah, so I matched with him,
Speaker 3: as you know, Bailey. And at first I didn't do
Speaker 3: anything about it. It was just sort of like you know,
Speaker 3: a gotcha moment, Like I was like, okay, he was
Speaker 3: on here and he matched with me. So finally though,
Speaker 3: I mustered up the strength to message him, and he
Speaker 3: was honestly just really nice. He wasn't weird, he wasn't aggressive,
Speaker 3: he was just super kind. He didn't ask me for nudes,
Speaker 3: he didn't like be like, you know, let's hook up
Speaker 3: or anything. He did. It seemed like he just wanted
Speaker 3: to talk. So as Bailey, we start talking together, and
Speaker 3: I knew that I should be like super pissed about this,
Speaker 3: as as Laura, as now my two personalities, like as myself,
Speaker 3: he should have been pissed, and I kind of was,
Speaker 3: but I really just wanted to see where this was going.
Speaker 3: So you know, I go into Bailey mode and started
Speaker 3: talking back to him and the truths. I kind of
Speaker 3: got addicted to it, like that little adrenaline rush, you know.
Speaker 3: And after a while of chatting over like the period
Speaker 3: of a couple of weeks, I knew when he'd leave
Speaker 3: the room to message her as me Bailey, you know,
Speaker 3: and I you know, kind of wait for the look
Speaker 3: on his face after he read whatever eye slash Bailey
Speaker 3: had sent him, and it was you know, it was
Speaker 3: a little bit cute.
Speaker 4: It kind of.
Speaker 3: Felt like that new relationship, like you know, when you're
Speaker 3: excited to talk to somebody, Like that's that's how he
Speaker 3: appeared a little bit. That's kind of how I felt.
Speaker 3: But you know, at the end of the day, it's
Speaker 3: still it's cheating. He doesn't know that it's me.
Speaker 2: If someone else though, I mean.
Speaker 3: That doesn't exactly exactly, and so that's my dilemma. Like
Speaker 3: I realized that I let it go too far, but
Speaker 3: like it was just really nice to kind of see
Speaker 3: my husband in a new light that wasn't and it
Speaker 3: wasn't like I said, it wasn't super gross or predatory.
Speaker 3: It seems like he just really does like talking to Bailey,
Speaker 3: but I don't know what he's doing with other people
Speaker 3: on Twitter and that.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that sounds very, very accepting of it.
Speaker 5: I think there's really one big takeaway here, honestly, is
Speaker 5: that I think roleplay maybe something that is exciting for you.
Speaker 5: I mean, I'm serious, it sounds like that's something that
Speaker 5: may work for you guys, once you get to the
Speaker 5: bottom of what's actually happening.
Speaker 3: Well, I hope we get to the bottom of it.
Speaker 3: I mean I'm it kind of depends on what else
Speaker 3: is going on on there. You know what I mean.
Speaker 1: You already told us what grocery store you guys are
Speaker 1: Rewards card members at. So we'll call him and pretend
Speaker 1: to be from the grocery store and say that he's
Speaker 1: this month's big winner of flowers from our Florida apartment
Speaker 1: to be sitting to wherever he wants.
Speaker 2: We'll see if he sends us to you or to
Speaker 2: somebody else.
Speaker 1: Okay, okay, all right, place, don't come back get your
Speaker 1: to Catch a Cheater next if you're just joining us
Speaker 1: for today's to Catch a Cheater. Laura is on the
Speaker 1: phone and she thinks that her husband of five years, Chris,
Speaker 1: might be messing around. So in a few minutes, we're
Speaker 1: gonna call him and see if we can catch him
Speaker 1: by pretending to be from the grocery store that they
Speaker 1: are reward card members at and say that every single month,
Speaker 1: we choose one Rewards Card member who gets free flowers
Speaker 1: delivered from our Florida department. We'll see if he sends
Speaker 1: those to his wife, Laura or to somebody else. Before
Speaker 1: we do that, Laura, why don't you catch everybody up
Speaker 1: on your situation.
Speaker 3: I think that my husband may be cheating on me
Speaker 3: because I saw a Tinder notification on his phone, and
Speaker 3: in order to find out, I made a fake profile.
Speaker 3: I said my name was this girl Daily, she doesn't
Speaker 3: need TIS. I made her up and he started chatting
Speaker 3: with her. But it hasn't gone beyond just talking. So
Speaker 3: I don't know if he's doing anything else on Tinder.
Speaker 3: I don't know what's going on. I just know that
Speaker 3: he's been talking to me as a girl named Dailey,
Speaker 3: and I want to figure out what's going on.
Speaker 2: All right? You ready for us to call on?
Speaker 3: Yeah?
Speaker 2: I guess, so here we go. Hello.
Speaker 1: Hi, my name is Gorvin calling from SIRS. I was
Speaker 1: looking for our rewards card member named Chris.
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, speak Chris.
Speaker 1: Please don't hang up. This is not a marketing phone call.
Speaker 1: I'm actually calling to say congratulations. You're the most big winner.
Speaker 1: Thank you very much for shopping with us.
Speaker 4: All right, well, what does that mean?
Speaker 1: Every single month, we choose one rewards card member who
Speaker 1: gets free flowers delivered from our floural department.
Speaker 2: It's our way of saying thank you for shopping.
Speaker 1: You've won thirty six long sim red roses, a box
Speaker 1: of chocolate or candy, and a card to be delivered
Speaker 1: to anybody that you want within the fifty United States
Speaker 1: of America.
Speaker 2: It's absolutely free. Oh wow, okay cool. Yeah. So here's
Speaker 2: how it works.
Speaker 1: If you know who you want to send the flowers
Speaker 1: to right now, I can take the information down over
Speaker 1: the phone in a matter of minutes.
Speaker 4: Well, we can knock it out right now. Oh, I
Speaker 4: got you?
Speaker 2: All right? Great?
Speaker 1: So what's the first and last name of the person
Speaker 1: you'd like to see them too?
Speaker 4: It's the same last name. It's just my wife, Laura. Okay,
Speaker 4: you have the address, but with the account.
Speaker 2: Uh, yes, I too. Do you want to put anything
Speaker 2: on a card?
Speaker 3: Well, just tell her.
Speaker 4: I love you very much and you're you're you're my one. Yeah,
Speaker 4: you're my one? Does that make sense?
Speaker 3: Yeah?
Speaker 2: Got it. How long you guys been married? By the way,
Speaker 2: five years? Oh boy, that's a long time. Do you
Speaker 2: ever have another one?
Speaker 3: Oh?
Speaker 1: No, Chris, this is actually the Jubil Show. It's a
Speaker 1: radio show. My name is Jubeil.
Speaker 2: Yeah, Hi, Chris, I'm mean. Also on the show, Hi
Speaker 2: and I'm Victoria.
Speaker 1: We do a segment call to catch a cheater and
Speaker 1: your wife, Laura is actually on the other line, and
Speaker 1: she has some questions for you.
Speaker 6: Hey, baby, Hi missed, took the right turn.
Speaker 3: What's happening. I just want to know if you've been
Speaker 3: with other women, or if you've thought about it, or
Speaker 3: if you're kind of leaning in that direction.
Speaker 4: I'm like on the radio right now.
Speaker 3: Well, the answer, regardless.
Speaker 4: Of whether I'm on the radio or not, is no,
Speaker 4: I've never been with anybody but you.
Speaker 3: In our marriage. Do you want to be with somebody else?
Speaker 3: Is there anybody else that you've been like thinking about
Speaker 3: getting together with?
Speaker 4: No, No, I haven't.
Speaker 3: If I ask someone named Bailey, what would she say?
Speaker 3: Do you know who I'm talking about? Do you know
Speaker 3: who Bailey is?
Speaker 4: No?
Speaker 3: Yeah, you do, because I'm Bailey. I'm Bailey. I made
Speaker 3: that account and I've been messaging you. I saw, I saw,
Speaker 3: I saw a tender on your phone. I saw a
Speaker 3: notification come up. So I made the Bailey profile. That's
Speaker 3: that's just a random photo of a random girl I
Speaker 3: found online.
Speaker 4: Okay, so we should probably like talk, Yeah.
Speaker 3: Yeah, can we please talk right now? Because like, as
Speaker 3: long as we've done this much on the radio, I
Speaker 3: just like to wrap this up so I don't go
Speaker 3: through like humiliated.
Speaker 6: Yeah, well you shouldn't be humiliated. I did something very stupid. This,
Speaker 6: this character you created was the only person I've been
Speaker 6: in contact with, which is you, which.
Speaker 2: Is probably in my mind, was kind of blown right now.
Speaker 6: I mean, as you can see, since you were very
Speaker 6: much in on this, like I wasn't. I crossed the
Speaker 6: line by opening it, but I wasn't like being inappropriate.
Speaker 6: I've talked to no one else, no one sent anything inappropriate.
Speaker 6: I've not gotten anything inappropriate from anybody. I was just
Speaker 6: chatting and I, you know, i'd like to ironically this
Speaker 6: Dailey was and I just wanted to talk. It kind
Speaker 6: of like felt like we were just things are stale
Speaker 6: with us or something, and I wasn't looking to cheat. Look,
Speaker 6: I'm I'm really sorry. I that was extremely stupid. But
Speaker 6: I can promise you that I'm not cheating or doing
Speaker 6: anything like that.
Speaker 4: Not that this wasn't wrong, but like I didn't I
Speaker 4: didn't step out in a way that was physical or
Speaker 4: even or even like well hopefully you can attest to
Speaker 4: like wasn't even like inappropriately conversing with.
Speaker 3: Anybody, you know, all right, Well, I mean clearly there
Speaker 3: was something we both got from this, Like it was
Speaker 3: thrilling for me in a certain way. It seems like
Speaker 3: it was thrilling for you to be able to talk
Speaker 3: to somebody else. But I feel like that's something we
Speaker 3: can work on in our relationship. Like I'm still kind
Speaker 3: of mad, but I can see what has been lacking,
Speaker 3: and I hope we can work through it.
Speaker 6: Yeah, I'm sorry.
Speaker 4: I'll show you all of it.
Speaker 2: You'll at least be.
Speaker 4: Somewhat self assured by that, but I'm really sorry.
Speaker 3: Thank you.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean it sounds like he wasn't cheating, but
Speaker 1: at least if he was going to, it would be
Speaker 1: with you.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 2: Yeah, you guys obviously got some stuff to work out,
Speaker 2: so good luck. Good luck is right.
Speaker 3: Thanks guys, This was actually really helpful. I really appreciate
Speaker 3: you helping me out with this. The double shows to
Speaker 3: Catch and Cheater