1 00:00:00,880 --> 00:00:03,520 Speaker 1: It is time now for today's Strawberry Letter. If you 2 00:00:03,560 --> 00:00:07,440 Speaker 1: need advice on relationships, on work, sex, parenting, and more, 3 00:00:07,720 --> 00:00:10,960 Speaker 1: please submit your Strawberry letter to STEVEVARBFM dot com. We 4 00:00:11,000 --> 00:00:14,080 Speaker 1: could be reading your letter live on the air, just 5 00:00:14,160 --> 00:00:16,279 Speaker 1: like we're going to read this one right here, right now. 6 00:00:16,320 --> 00:00:17,680 Speaker 1: You never know, it could be yours. 7 00:00:18,480 --> 00:00:20,439 Speaker 2: You never know. Buggle love and hold on tight. We 8 00:00:20,480 --> 00:00:21,080 Speaker 2: got it for you. 9 00:00:21,160 --> 00:00:21,320 Speaker 1: Here. 10 00:00:21,360 --> 00:00:22,680 Speaker 2: It is Strawberry Letter. 11 00:00:23,120 --> 00:00:26,080 Speaker 1: Thank you. A few subjects if it's not three, don't 12 00:00:26,079 --> 00:00:29,640 Speaker 1: call me Dear Stephen Shirley. I'm divorced and I met 13 00:00:29,680 --> 00:00:32,559 Speaker 1: a man that wanted a relationship with me, but I 14 00:00:32,600 --> 00:00:35,400 Speaker 1: wasn't ready for a commitment yet. He used to call 15 00:00:35,479 --> 00:00:37,960 Speaker 1: me his fun friend because we hung out and got 16 00:00:38,040 --> 00:00:40,720 Speaker 1: drunk and then we'd have a lot of great sex. 17 00:00:41,159 --> 00:00:43,480 Speaker 1: I could go a few days without talking to him, 18 00:00:43,520 --> 00:00:46,600 Speaker 1: but then he started getting caught up and he wanted 19 00:00:46,640 --> 00:00:49,440 Speaker 1: a relationship. I had to bring him back to reality 20 00:00:49,560 --> 00:00:53,080 Speaker 1: by doing a threesome with him and one of my coworkers. 21 00:00:53,440 --> 00:00:55,080 Speaker 2: Adding a woman to the mix. 22 00:00:54,920 --> 00:00:58,000 Speaker 1: Threw him off. He said that he really did like me, 23 00:00:58,400 --> 00:01:01,120 Speaker 1: but it is crystal clear that I'm just with him 24 00:01:01,240 --> 00:01:04,600 Speaker 1: for sex. He stopped calling me, and he wouldn't answer 25 00:01:04,720 --> 00:01:07,600 Speaker 1: my calls. I started to miss this man, and I 26 00:01:07,720 --> 00:01:10,600 Speaker 1: realized after about three weeks that I wanted to be 27 00:01:10,720 --> 00:01:13,679 Speaker 1: with him. So I popped up at the lounge where 28 00:01:13,680 --> 00:01:17,240 Speaker 1: we met. He noticed me and came over to say hello. 29 00:01:17,680 --> 00:01:20,760 Speaker 1: I poured my heart out and admitted that I was 30 00:01:20,880 --> 00:01:24,760 Speaker 1: stupid to let him go, and I apologized for bringing 31 00:01:24,800 --> 00:01:28,520 Speaker 1: my coworker to have sex with us without asking him first. 32 00:01:28,880 --> 00:01:32,040 Speaker 1: He told me it's all good, and he said he's 33 00:01:32,120 --> 00:01:35,880 Speaker 1: moved on and he is just going with the flow. 34 00:01:36,240 --> 00:01:38,399 Speaker 1: I asked if we could go to his house to 35 00:01:38,560 --> 00:01:41,800 Speaker 1: talk and have makeup sex. He said I could come 36 00:01:41,840 --> 00:01:44,840 Speaker 1: by later, so I went home to freshen up, and 37 00:01:44,880 --> 00:01:48,400 Speaker 1: when I walked into his house, my coworker that we 38 00:01:48,520 --> 00:01:52,520 Speaker 1: had the threesome with was on the sofa. He laughed 39 00:01:52,680 --> 00:01:55,520 Speaker 1: in my face that they've been hooking up since he 40 00:01:55,640 --> 00:01:58,800 Speaker 1: ghosted me. He said he should have known I was 41 00:01:58,840 --> 00:02:02,400 Speaker 1: trashy early on when I told him, if it's not three, 42 00:02:02,600 --> 00:02:07,000 Speaker 1: don't call me, meaning I'm into threesomes. I left hurt 43 00:02:07,040 --> 00:02:10,880 Speaker 1: and embarrassed. I thought that all men liked threesomes. I 44 00:02:10,960 --> 00:02:14,000 Speaker 1: was trying to be cool, but I had it all wrong. 45 00:02:14,320 --> 00:02:17,119 Speaker 1: Did he invite me over to be cruel and seek revenge? 46 00:02:17,360 --> 00:02:21,760 Speaker 1: But why all right? Listen, Yes, of course he did 47 00:02:21,800 --> 00:02:23,919 Speaker 1: all of that to get back at you. Yeah, laugh 48 00:02:24,000 --> 00:02:26,440 Speaker 1: in your face, all of that because you heard him. Obviously, 49 00:02:27,600 --> 00:02:30,799 Speaker 1: he was mad that you rejected him early on. He 50 00:02:30,880 --> 00:02:33,120 Speaker 1: was ready for a relationship, but you said you weren't 51 00:02:33,160 --> 00:02:37,080 Speaker 1: ready for a commitment, and so to you know, to 52 00:02:37,120 --> 00:02:40,680 Speaker 1: fend off his advances and everything, you introduced him to 53 00:02:40,760 --> 00:02:44,880 Speaker 1: a threesome with your coworker. That was your mistake. You 54 00:02:44,960 --> 00:02:49,240 Speaker 1: do realize that, and now you want the man back. Well, 55 00:02:49,280 --> 00:02:52,720 Speaker 1: a lot has happened in those three weeks you were gone, 56 00:02:52,880 --> 00:02:56,320 Speaker 1: and you missed out on a good man. He didn't 57 00:02:56,360 --> 00:02:59,720 Speaker 1: even want a threesome, and you basically forced it on 58 00:02:59,840 --> 00:03:03,200 Speaker 1: him because you say you thought that's what men liked, Well, 59 00:03:03,240 --> 00:03:06,639 Speaker 1: not this man. So the lesson here is that you know, 60 00:03:07,240 --> 00:03:10,040 Speaker 1: if the man doesn't bring it up threesomes, that is 61 00:03:10,120 --> 00:03:11,519 Speaker 1: why are you bringing this up? 62 00:03:11,680 --> 00:03:11,960 Speaker 2: Why? 63 00:03:12,080 --> 00:03:16,200 Speaker 1: Why are you introducing this into your relationship? Just because 64 00:03:16,240 --> 00:03:19,160 Speaker 1: you're not ready for a serious relationship, that doesn't mean 65 00:03:19,240 --> 00:03:23,280 Speaker 1: you should introduce your man to a threesome. Where's the 66 00:03:23,360 --> 00:03:27,480 Speaker 1: logic in that? I mean Threesomes aren't for everyone. There 67 00:03:27,520 --> 00:03:30,840 Speaker 1: aren't for everyone, and you were just doing something. Now 68 00:03:30,960 --> 00:03:33,560 Speaker 1: he no longer respects you, he no longer wants you, 69 00:03:33,960 --> 00:03:37,520 Speaker 1: and now he's with your coworker. He called you trashy, 70 00:03:37,840 --> 00:03:41,040 Speaker 1: but your coworker was also in that threesome. Maybe she 71 00:03:41,080 --> 00:03:43,560 Speaker 1: gets a pass because he didn't have feelings for her 72 00:03:43,600 --> 00:03:47,000 Speaker 1: at the time. Now you have to move on because 73 00:03:47,360 --> 00:03:49,560 Speaker 1: he clearly has, He clearly has. 74 00:03:49,960 --> 00:03:55,640 Speaker 3: Steve is doomed from the beginning. I don't understand people. 75 00:03:55,680 --> 00:03:57,640 Speaker 3: I mean, look, you can do what you want to do. 76 00:03:57,920 --> 00:04:01,480 Speaker 3: This is a free world, and it's a fallen one too, 77 00:04:01,560 --> 00:04:05,280 Speaker 3: So we more open about everything now that we've ever been, 78 00:04:06,120 --> 00:04:08,720 Speaker 3: you know so, And then you recorded and you got 79 00:04:08,800 --> 00:04:12,600 Speaker 3: cyberspace it. This whole thing is wrong from the beget go. 80 00:04:13,000 --> 00:04:15,480 Speaker 3: You divorced. You met a man who wanted to have 81 00:04:15,520 --> 00:04:18,080 Speaker 3: a relationship with you, but you wasn't ready for a commitment. 82 00:04:18,200 --> 00:04:22,479 Speaker 3: So he started calling you his fun friend. Y'all hung out, 83 00:04:22,600 --> 00:04:26,480 Speaker 3: got drunk, had great sex, and you could go some 84 00:04:26,600 --> 00:04:29,599 Speaker 3: days without talking to him. But then the man you say, 85 00:04:29,720 --> 00:04:34,640 Speaker 3: he got caught up, started having feelings for you and 86 00:04:34,800 --> 00:04:36,159 Speaker 3: wanted a relationship. 87 00:04:37,279 --> 00:04:38,840 Speaker 2: So this was your idea. 88 00:04:38,920 --> 00:04:41,680 Speaker 3: You said, I had to bring him back to reality 89 00:04:41,800 --> 00:04:45,400 Speaker 3: by doing a threesome with him and one of my coworkers. 90 00:04:46,640 --> 00:04:49,919 Speaker 3: That's how you bring him back to reality. That was 91 00:04:49,960 --> 00:04:53,720 Speaker 3: a good idea. Adding a woman to the mix threw 92 00:04:53,800 --> 00:04:57,800 Speaker 3: him off. He said, he really did like me. Now 93 00:04:57,880 --> 00:05:02,120 Speaker 3: this man really liked you, Crystal, and I'm just with 94 00:05:02,320 --> 00:05:04,960 Speaker 3: him for the sec So he stopped calling you, and 95 00:05:05,000 --> 00:05:09,240 Speaker 3: he wouldn't answer your cause because now you fooled it. See, 96 00:05:09,279 --> 00:05:12,839 Speaker 3: he thought he had something that you really weren't. And 97 00:05:12,920 --> 00:05:16,120 Speaker 3: he thought he had something special, and you don't even 98 00:05:16,160 --> 00:05:19,440 Speaker 3: think you special. See that's why I tell women all 99 00:05:19,480 --> 00:05:23,800 Speaker 3: the time, you always got to keep yourself special, because 100 00:05:23,960 --> 00:05:25,480 Speaker 3: that's how we gonna treat it. 101 00:05:26,400 --> 00:05:28,280 Speaker 2: See, we're gonna treat it the way you treat it. 102 00:05:28,600 --> 00:05:32,800 Speaker 3: If if you think your thing is special when we 103 00:05:32,880 --> 00:05:35,480 Speaker 3: get it, that's how we gonna treat it. But if 104 00:05:35,520 --> 00:05:40,920 Speaker 3: you don't think it's special, what you what you what 105 00:05:40,960 --> 00:05:43,400 Speaker 3: you want us to do? And this is a prime 106 00:05:43,480 --> 00:05:47,560 Speaker 3: example of that. You pass it around to the coworker girl. 107 00:05:48,000 --> 00:05:49,040 Speaker 2: And to him. 108 00:05:49,520 --> 00:05:51,640 Speaker 3: So he went, oh, okay, I thought she was just 109 00:05:51,720 --> 00:05:55,039 Speaker 3: right here, but she really ain't. Anyway, he stopped calling 110 00:05:55,080 --> 00:05:57,880 Speaker 3: you wouldn't take your calls. Then you started to miss 111 00:05:57,920 --> 00:06:00,640 Speaker 3: this man and realize that about three weeks that you 112 00:06:00,760 --> 00:06:03,880 Speaker 3: really wanted to be with him. So you popped up 113 00:06:03,920 --> 00:06:05,960 Speaker 3: at the lounge where we met. He noticed me, came 114 00:06:06,040 --> 00:06:07,840 Speaker 3: over to say hello, and pulled your heart out. 115 00:06:07,880 --> 00:06:09,919 Speaker 2: Admit it. I was stupid to let him go. 116 00:06:09,960 --> 00:06:12,400 Speaker 3: I apologize for bringing you cowork in to have sex 117 00:06:12,480 --> 00:06:15,040 Speaker 3: with his lines in first he said, it's all good. 118 00:06:15,160 --> 00:06:17,960 Speaker 3: Now he said, naw, i'd have moved on. I'm just 119 00:06:18,040 --> 00:06:19,240 Speaker 3: going with the flow now. 120 00:06:19,560 --> 00:06:20,240 Speaker 2: So okay. 121 00:06:20,440 --> 00:06:23,000 Speaker 3: So now, when I thought I could have something with somebody, 122 00:06:23,240 --> 00:06:25,719 Speaker 3: you tricked me and told me you was tricky. So 123 00:06:25,839 --> 00:06:27,960 Speaker 3: now I'm off that right now, I'm just going with 124 00:06:28,040 --> 00:06:31,240 Speaker 3: the flow. When we come back, I'm gonna show you 125 00:06:31,279 --> 00:06:36,120 Speaker 3: how to flow go because he told you at the lounge, 126 00:06:36,200 --> 00:06:37,200 Speaker 3: but you didn't. 127 00:06:36,920 --> 00:06:40,760 Speaker 2: Know, right, I tell you how to flow. Thank you, Steve. 128 00:06:40,880 --> 00:06:44,360 Speaker 1: Coming up at twenty three minutes after we'll recap today's 129 00:06:44,400 --> 00:06:46,920 Speaker 1: Strawberry letter, we'll have part two of Steve's response to 130 00:06:47,000 --> 00:06:49,800 Speaker 1: this subject is if it's not three, don't call me. 131 00:06:49,920 --> 00:06:53,239 Speaker 1: We'll get back into it right after this. You're listening 132 00:06:54,720 --> 00:06:58,080 Speaker 1: Morning show, all right, Come on, Steve, let's recap today's 133 00:06:58,120 --> 00:07:01,080 Speaker 1: strawberry letter. The subject if it's not three, don't call me. 134 00:07:01,960 --> 00:07:05,760 Speaker 3: Well, okay, you got a divorce. You met a man 135 00:07:05,880 --> 00:07:09,480 Speaker 3: really liked you. You wasn't ready for a commitment. Then 136 00:07:09,560 --> 00:07:12,480 Speaker 3: he after a while, he started catching feelings for you. 137 00:07:12,480 --> 00:07:15,240 Speaker 3: You thought you'd bringing back to reality about inviting the 138 00:07:15,240 --> 00:07:18,280 Speaker 3: threesome into y'all's bedroom. So you had a lady co 139 00:07:18,360 --> 00:07:20,400 Speaker 3: work at your job come over and y'all had a 140 00:07:20,480 --> 00:07:25,240 Speaker 3: threesome together. Okay, kind of threw the man off, and 141 00:07:25,320 --> 00:07:29,800 Speaker 3: so he said, Wow, he thought he had something special 142 00:07:29,840 --> 00:07:32,679 Speaker 3: with you because he really liked you. He got upset 143 00:07:32,760 --> 00:07:34,760 Speaker 3: because you brought this woman in. He thought he had 144 00:07:34,760 --> 00:07:37,200 Speaker 3: some special cause he really liked you. So now he 145 00:07:37,280 --> 00:07:39,440 Speaker 3: quit calling you and returning your calls and he don't 146 00:07:39,440 --> 00:07:41,080 Speaker 3: want to have nothing to do with you. And then 147 00:07:41,120 --> 00:07:43,360 Speaker 3: after three weeks, you missed the man and you realized, wow, 148 00:07:43,400 --> 00:07:47,000 Speaker 3: I like this guy, and so you decided to catch 149 00:07:47,080 --> 00:07:49,000 Speaker 3: up with him. So, since you wouldn't return your calls, 150 00:07:49,080 --> 00:07:51,120 Speaker 3: you went to the lounge where y'all met. He noticed 151 00:07:51,120 --> 00:07:52,960 Speaker 3: you over there, he went up to you and spoke 152 00:07:53,000 --> 00:07:55,280 Speaker 3: to you. Then you poured your heart out, admitted that 153 00:07:55,320 --> 00:07:57,520 Speaker 3: you was stupid to let him go. You apologize for 154 00:07:57,600 --> 00:08:00,400 Speaker 3: bringing your coworker and have sex with us without asking 155 00:08:00,440 --> 00:08:00,880 Speaker 3: him first. 156 00:08:00,880 --> 00:08:01,400 Speaker 2: He told me. 157 00:08:01,320 --> 00:08:05,240 Speaker 3: It's all good, he said, he'd have moved on, and 158 00:08:05,320 --> 00:08:09,040 Speaker 3: now he just going with the flow. See, you created 159 00:08:09,080 --> 00:08:11,680 Speaker 3: this monster. Now you went up. 160 00:08:11,760 --> 00:08:14,880 Speaker 2: Now you met the monster you created. He just going 161 00:08:14,960 --> 00:08:15,520 Speaker 2: with the flow. 162 00:08:16,160 --> 00:08:20,360 Speaker 3: So now you asked right there, here you go again 163 00:08:20,360 --> 00:08:22,960 Speaker 3: and taking it upon yourself. You don't know how to follow, 164 00:08:23,000 --> 00:08:25,720 Speaker 3: no lead, You always leaving. I asked, could we go 165 00:08:25,800 --> 00:08:30,000 Speaker 3: to his house to talk and have makeup sex. That's 166 00:08:30,000 --> 00:08:33,479 Speaker 3: what you said. You just went up to the lounge, 167 00:08:33,760 --> 00:08:36,000 Speaker 3: so you thought, give him a little bit more and 168 00:08:36,040 --> 00:08:38,600 Speaker 3: then y'all be right back to go. He said you 169 00:08:38,600 --> 00:08:41,440 Speaker 3: could come by later. So you went on to the 170 00:08:41,480 --> 00:08:44,720 Speaker 3: house and freshened up. Right then you walked into his 171 00:08:44,800 --> 00:08:47,199 Speaker 3: house and the coworker that y'all had the threesome with 172 00:08:47,960 --> 00:08:50,760 Speaker 3: was sitting on the sofa. 173 00:08:51,360 --> 00:08:53,079 Speaker 2: Uh oh. 174 00:08:53,160 --> 00:08:56,000 Speaker 3: He laughed in my face and said they've been hooking 175 00:08:56,080 --> 00:09:01,199 Speaker 3: up since he ghosted me, he said, And he should 176 00:09:01,240 --> 00:09:01,800 Speaker 3: have known. 177 00:09:02,200 --> 00:09:04,600 Speaker 2: I was trashy early on. 178 00:09:04,600 --> 00:09:09,920 Speaker 3: When I told him, if it's not three, don't call me. 179 00:09:10,520 --> 00:09:14,319 Speaker 3: Wait a minute, that's your that's your mantra. So now 180 00:09:14,320 --> 00:09:17,200 Speaker 3: you're sitting up in here, and now he told you 181 00:09:17,280 --> 00:09:21,840 Speaker 3: he knew you was trashy. And when you told him, 182 00:09:21,920 --> 00:09:24,280 Speaker 3: if it's not three, don't call me, meaning I'm in 183 00:09:24,320 --> 00:09:28,120 Speaker 3: the threesomes, I left hurt and embarrassed. 184 00:09:29,280 --> 00:09:32,600 Speaker 2: I thought, all men like threesomes? Have you been listening 185 00:09:32,600 --> 00:09:36,480 Speaker 2: to this show? I knew you were going to get 186 00:09:36,520 --> 00:09:39,280 Speaker 2: to that. I told you more than one time. I 187 00:09:39,320 --> 00:09:40,040 Speaker 2: feel about it. 188 00:09:41,960 --> 00:09:45,960 Speaker 3: I am not the one clear. It was something more 189 00:09:46,040 --> 00:09:49,840 Speaker 3: than I thought it would. I did not know what hell, 190 00:09:50,120 --> 00:09:53,280 Speaker 3: what's going on in here? It was one of the 191 00:09:53,360 --> 00:09:56,280 Speaker 3: most traumatic experiences of my life. I've scored from that. 192 00:09:56,559 --> 00:10:04,560 Speaker 2: I'm you it's grown now, isn't that? I was well? 193 00:10:04,679 --> 00:10:10,040 Speaker 2: I was in my forties, said my forties. 194 00:10:13,320 --> 00:10:19,960 Speaker 3: Anyway, And I ain't recovering from that one yet. 195 00:10:20,400 --> 00:10:24,480 Speaker 2: I ain't got quiet now, just talking right. No, I 196 00:10:24,559 --> 00:10:26,400 Speaker 2: was trying to be cool, but I had it wrong. 197 00:10:26,480 --> 00:10:28,840 Speaker 3: Did he invite me? I was trying to be cool 198 00:10:28,840 --> 00:10:30,480 Speaker 3: but I had it all wrong? Did he invite me 199 00:10:30,520 --> 00:10:32,200 Speaker 3: over to be cool and secretvenge? 200 00:10:32,240 --> 00:10:33,760 Speaker 2: But why? Well? 201 00:10:34,080 --> 00:10:39,520 Speaker 3: Yeah, he was being mean because you hurt him. He 202 00:10:39,679 --> 00:10:43,000 Speaker 3: wanted you for real, and then you introduced him to 203 00:10:43,040 --> 00:10:43,840 Speaker 3: the oakie dope. 204 00:10:44,559 --> 00:10:46,560 Speaker 2: So now he just going with the flow. 205 00:10:46,760 --> 00:10:48,880 Speaker 3: He don't even want the girl that's over there because 206 00:10:48,920 --> 00:10:52,280 Speaker 3: he already knows she trashy too, because he describes women's 207 00:10:52,280 --> 00:10:55,280 Speaker 3: who want threesomes as trashy. So now he just going 208 00:10:55,320 --> 00:10:57,560 Speaker 3: with the flow. Now he don't want a relationship. Now 209 00:10:57,720 --> 00:11:00,720 Speaker 3: he just flowing with the trashy type chicks. And your 210 00:11:00,760 --> 00:11:04,880 Speaker 3: girl trashy because she came in there, but she a 211 00:11:05,000 --> 00:11:07,920 Speaker 3: better trashy than you. Because see, at least he didn't 212 00:11:08,040 --> 00:11:11,480 Speaker 3: like her. So let me just go and stay with this, right. 213 00:11:11,520 --> 00:11:13,800 Speaker 3: See that's what a man Saund'm just going with the flow. 214 00:11:14,760 --> 00:11:17,880 Speaker 3: Oh that ain't a good thing, because that's the flow, 215 00:11:18,000 --> 00:11:21,680 Speaker 3: funky man. So now yeah they're gonna and then of 216 00:11:21,760 --> 00:11:24,439 Speaker 3: course he ain't gonna have nothing with her because he 217 00:11:24,559 --> 00:11:27,839 Speaker 3: know what she is, because he thinks women who invite 218 00:11:27,880 --> 00:11:30,760 Speaker 3: threesomes is trashy. That's his opinion. He has every right 219 00:11:30,800 --> 00:11:37,200 Speaker 3: to feel that way. So you know, she ain't got nothing. 220 00:11:38,240 --> 00:11:41,680 Speaker 3: She got what you didn't want, and now you want 221 00:11:41,800 --> 00:11:45,560 Speaker 3: what she got. But now what either one of y'all 222 00:11:45,559 --> 00:11:46,960 Speaker 3: got is just the flow. God. 223 00:11:47,120 --> 00:11:51,000 Speaker 2: Now let me. 224 00:11:50,960 --> 00:11:54,760 Speaker 3: Tell y'all something about threesomes that I've discovered threesomes have 225 00:11:55,000 --> 00:11:59,920 Speaker 3: no solid footing or future. Oh, it's probably exciting, it's 226 00:12:00,120 --> 00:12:03,160 Speaker 3: probably fun, and it's probably thrilling, and I can understand 227 00:12:03,200 --> 00:12:07,320 Speaker 3: how a person could feel that way. But threesomes have 228 00:12:07,480 --> 00:12:11,439 Speaker 3: no future. You know why, because you're dealing with three people. 229 00:12:12,120 --> 00:12:17,760 Speaker 3: It's hard enough to keep one mate happy and and 230 00:12:17,760 --> 00:12:20,800 Speaker 3: and and be compatible with one person over a period 231 00:12:20,840 --> 00:12:21,200 Speaker 3: of time. 232 00:12:21,520 --> 00:12:24,120 Speaker 2: There is no way to do it with three because 233 00:12:24,160 --> 00:12:25,000 Speaker 2: there's too many. 234 00:12:24,840 --> 00:12:30,880 Speaker 3: Won'ts, needs, desires, it's too many, too many different things 235 00:12:30,920 --> 00:12:32,240 Speaker 3: going on in the threesome. 236 00:12:32,480 --> 00:12:37,160 Speaker 2: You're trying to three people what you think, what you think, 237 00:12:37,360 --> 00:12:41,000 Speaker 2: what you think? What you think? But it's so cool 238 00:12:41,040 --> 00:12:42,200 Speaker 2: women and one man. 239 00:12:42,760 --> 00:12:47,880 Speaker 3: Yes, comment, But it has no future because you can't 240 00:12:47,920 --> 00:12:51,000 Speaker 3: build a solid relationship with three people. 241 00:12:51,960 --> 00:12:56,080 Speaker 1: Just car comments. Let us know what you think on 242 00:12:56,160 --> 00:12:59,800 Speaker 1: Today's Letter on Instagram at Steve Harvey FM, and check 243 00:12:59,840 --> 00:13:03,640 Speaker 1: out the Strawberry Letter podcast on the iHeartRadio app. Coming 244 00:13:03,720 --> 00:13:06,920 Speaker 1: up next, it is Sports Talk with Junior. Right after this, 245 00:13:07,559 --> 00:13:10,280 Speaker 1: you're listening to Dave Harvey Morning Show.