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Speaker 1: Rooking Jubils a second day Lydia. Is you've done online dating?

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Speaker 1: I have? Yeah? Would you screen a guy for like

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Speaker 1: six weeks before meeting up with him to make sure

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Speaker 1: he's not a creep? That's kind of what I did

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Speaker 1: with my first boyfriend. Really was about six weeks before

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Speaker 1: you actually met him? Yeah, all right, That's what Sandra

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Speaker 1: did with a guy that she met online. She emailed

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Speaker 1: us about a dude named Andrew. Hi, Sandra, how are

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Speaker 1: you hi? Guys? So you met this guy online and

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Speaker 1: then you screened him for like six weeks before going

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Speaker 1: out with him? Well, yeah, I just wanted to make

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Speaker 1: sure it wasn't a creep, and you know, I just

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Speaker 1: want to make sure we kind of feel some solid

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Speaker 1: friendship based before I started dating. It makes sense. I

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Speaker 1: don't think there's anything wrong. So there's a lot of

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Speaker 1: weirdos out there. But that's a month and a half.

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Speaker 1: That's a long time. Did you just email back and

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Speaker 1: forth for a month and a half? What it was like? Email?

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Speaker 1: And then we actually spoke on the phone a couple

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Speaker 1: of times, done text messages and make night Skype? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Is that just me said that you guys went out

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Speaker 1: for a romantic dinner. Explain to everybody what your email

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Speaker 1: said about that dinner. So, after six weeks of like correspondence,

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Speaker 1: we went to this Italian restaurant and it was really nice.

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Speaker 1: I mean he was really genuinely. He opened the door

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Speaker 1: for me. He kind of put his hand on the

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Speaker 1: small on my back, which I really liked. And I

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Speaker 1: don't know, I just thought it was a really perfect date.

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Speaker 1: And then at the end of the night, he didn't

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Speaker 1: even kiss me goodbye. Did you like put off signals like, hey,

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Speaker 1: get over here and kiss me. I did the usual flirting,

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Speaker 1: like I, you know, touched his arm and I was

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Speaker 1: talking to him and I smiled a lot, and I

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Speaker 1: of like looked away, right, I mean maybe since you

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Speaker 1: took six weeks to even meet him for a date,

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Speaker 1: he was just being cautious. Did you get that sense

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Speaker 1: at all? When he walked into the car, it was

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Speaker 1: just all of a sudden, so platonic, if that makes sense,

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Speaker 1: And he kind of was like, okay, well it was

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Speaker 1: really nice, not even like I'll call you later or

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Speaker 1: anything like. He gave me a hug and then just left. Oh,

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Speaker 1: so he didn't say he was going to call you

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Speaker 1: later because normally we get emails from people that are like, oh,

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Speaker 1: he said he would call me and blah blah blah.

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Speaker 1: So he just left. Yeah, that was and I was like,

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Speaker 1: did I do something wrong? A great conversation and you know,

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Speaker 1: did he pat you on the back as he hugged you?

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Speaker 1: Kind of was like once I would you know, Like, yeah,

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Speaker 1: that's for sure. Definitely. Have you tried to get a

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Speaker 1: hold of him. I did send him a text message

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Speaker 1: and he didn't respond. So I don't know if it's

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Speaker 1: something I did during dinner. I just thought after six weeks,

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Speaker 1: I thought it would be you know, moving forward. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: so you just wanted you you're willing to admit that

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Speaker 1: you probably did something that he didn't like what you

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Speaker 1: just want to know what it is? Yeah, I mean

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Speaker 1: I want to know because I don't make the same

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Speaker 1: mistake again. Okay, you're gonna play one song and then

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Speaker 1: we're gonna call him. Okay and get your second date update.

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Speaker 1: Are you nervous a little bit? I mean, I hope

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Speaker 1: it's nothing too bad or all right, Okay, hang on,

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Speaker 1: we'll call him in a second Okay, point five rucking

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Speaker 1: jubil in the morning. You know what I really enjoy

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Speaker 1: when you're on a date and like they know that

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Speaker 1: you're not into him, and then they start talking a

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Speaker 1: bunch because they get nervous. It's so awesome just to

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Speaker 1: go like, yeah, you are bombing so hard right now.

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Speaker 1: I feel like you ruined dates on purpose just to

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Speaker 1: get to that. All right, Sandra, you're ready to give

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Speaker 1: Andrew a call? Yes again, if you weren't listening, Sandra

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Speaker 1: went on a date with Andrew. They went out to eat,

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Speaker 1: had a nice dinner, but at the end of the

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Speaker 1: day you kind of knew that something had happened and

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Speaker 1: he wasn't that into you anymore, right, Yeah, yeah, Okay.

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Speaker 1: When I first met him, I thought, oh my god,

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Speaker 1: he's just living up to exceeding my expectations. And then

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Speaker 1: just the end of the night it just threw me off.

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Speaker 1: I just am blindsided. Yeah all right, And like we

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Speaker 1: said earlier, you are willing to admit that something probably happened.

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Speaker 1: You just would like to know what it was that

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Speaker 1: you did. Yes, please, all right, I'm gonna call him

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Speaker 1: right now, get your second date update. You can jump

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Speaker 1: in on the phone call whenever you want. Okay, Okay, Hello, Hey,

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Speaker 1: is Andrew there? Yeah, this is Andrew. Who's this? This

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Speaker 1: is Jewel from Brook and Jewel in the Morning. I'm

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Speaker 1: moving ninety two point five. How are you? I'm fine? Thanks?

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Speaker 1: How are you? I'm good? You got a second to talk? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I'm sure. What's what's it about? Somebody emailed us about

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Speaker 1: you and we want to give you a call to

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Speaker 1: talk about them. Okay, would you like more explanation on that.

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Speaker 1: We do a segment on our show called second Date Update.

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Speaker 1: It's where you go out on date with someone and

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Speaker 1: then blow them off or don't call them back. They

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Speaker 1: email us to call you and ask why so somebody

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Speaker 1: email us about you? Oh? No, yeah? Is it that bad?

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Speaker 1: I don't know. Do you already have a suspicion of

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Speaker 1: who might have emailed us about you? I guess there's

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Speaker 1: a few people. I just started doing some online dating,

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Speaker 1: so I guess it could be. I don't know. Have

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Speaker 1: you blown a lot of people off, like in the

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Speaker 1: past couple of weeks? I mean no, I haven't. I

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Speaker 1: guess I haven't blown a lot of people off. He's

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Speaker 1: kind of exciting about which I like about you, Andrew,

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Speaker 1: because you sound fun. Yeah, you went on on a

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Speaker 1: date with a girl named Sandra. Oh yeah, there you go.

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Speaker 1: Sandra emailed us about you. She said in her words

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Speaker 1: that she could kind of tell that at the end

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Speaker 1: of the night you turn and weren't really into her.

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Speaker 1: What happened, Well, I'm must say she tell you about

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Speaker 1: this date. She basically said that you guys talked online

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Speaker 1: for about six weeks and then went out to dinner

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Speaker 1: and she had a good time. She didn't go into

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Speaker 1: more detail than that. Really, she Okay, I can't believe

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Speaker 1: I'm even telling you this story. She asked if we

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Speaker 1: could order some dessert, so we decided on ordering some

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Speaker 1: kiramasou and then she kind of are urging me to

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Speaker 1: feed it to her. And she was doing this whole

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Speaker 1: like sexy baby boys. You know, She's like, hey, sexy baby,

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Speaker 1: you know, like just feed me this. Tearmy Sue. I

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Speaker 1: don't know. I like the way you're doing it. I'd

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Speaker 1: feed you tear me Sue any day. Andrew was. She

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Speaker 1: was like, yeah, you know, feed feed me, feed it

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Speaker 1: to me. No, get rid of the spoon, use your finger.

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Speaker 1: I want to lick it off your finger. It was

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Speaker 1: just really weird. Okay, hold on to my defense, I

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Speaker 1: did that once, and you're exaggerating the story. Andrew. Hey,

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Speaker 1: Andrew Sanders actually on the phone with us right now.

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Speaker 1: You're making me sound like a little freak. Thank oh baby,

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Speaker 1: can you please lick it off my finger? You know

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Speaker 1: I didn't do it like that. You know, I was

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Speaker 1: plateful and I was like, oh baby, you want to

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Speaker 1: lick it off my finger? It was very and a

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Speaker 1: really really hilarious attempt at at sexy. That's how you

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Speaker 1: all want to describe when you're being sexy, a very

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Speaker 1: hilarious attempt. Do you not see how Andrew could think

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Speaker 1: that's kind of odd? I just thought I was, you know, buzzed,

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Speaker 1: and I was eating, playful and free and having fun.

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Speaker 1: And I just, I guess I took it in the

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Speaker 1: direction that he wasn't comfortable with. It's like, you know,

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Speaker 1: I was just kidding around. Can you understand that, Andrew? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I mean it actually, looking back on it, it really

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Speaker 1: actually was kind of funny. You know. She she's like

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Speaker 1: maybe tipsy, being all like, oh, isn't this hot? You know, hey,

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Speaker 1: it could get great in the bedroom for you guys.

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Speaker 1: I don't know, No, sounds adventurous and confident, Andrew. Yeah, Now,

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Speaker 1: that she knows to maybe wait until the fourth date

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Speaker 1: to lick food off your finger. We will send you

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Speaker 1: guys out on a second date. We'll pay for it

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Speaker 1: if you'll go out with Andrew again and give it

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Speaker 1: another shot. Oh man, I did have a good time

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Speaker 1: with Sam, did so? Are you saying, yeah, let's go,

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Speaker 1: let's do it? You go there again? Okay? Cool finger

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Speaker 1: looking good time? Sandra? Sandra, do you want to go?

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Speaker 1: Do you want to go out with him again? Yes?

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Speaker 1: And I promise I will make you lick my fingers.

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Speaker 1: He's actually gonna order extra silverware when they get there.

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Speaker 1: Broken juicil in the morning,