1 00:00:03,160 --> 00:00:07,680 Speaker 1: Transmitting this. 2 00:00:10,560 --> 00:00:10,800 Speaker 2: Guy. 3 00:00:10,960 --> 00:00:14,200 Speaker 3: Welcome to Thursday Show Morning Studio. Mormy, you get to 4 00:00:14,280 --> 00:00:17,560 Speaker 3: know your GTK question of the day. Who is in 5 00:00:17,600 --> 00:00:21,040 Speaker 3: your life that you want to thank right now? Who 6 00:00:21,040 --> 00:00:23,000 Speaker 3: are you going to say thank you to right now? 7 00:00:25,360 --> 00:00:26,720 Speaker 3: It could be anybody in the whole world, but you 8 00:00:26,760 --> 00:00:27,480 Speaker 3: want to thank them. 9 00:00:28,120 --> 00:00:31,240 Speaker 2: All right, let's go, Amy, I'm going to do a 10 00:00:32,000 --> 00:00:34,760 Speaker 2: thank you in advance to my sister because I'm about 11 00:00:34,760 --> 00:00:38,280 Speaker 2: to hit her with a lot of questions as I move, 12 00:00:38,640 --> 00:00:40,000 Speaker 2: because I'm going to be moving. I'm going to be 13 00:00:40,040 --> 00:00:41,760 Speaker 2: selling my house and be moving to a new house. 14 00:00:41,840 --> 00:00:44,880 Speaker 2: And she has all the style and design and arranging tips. 15 00:00:45,080 --> 00:00:47,279 Speaker 3: Oh she has a reality showverybody that doesn't know that's 16 00:00:47,280 --> 00:00:48,000 Speaker 3: a good thing to tell you. 17 00:00:48,400 --> 00:00:51,280 Speaker 2: She had, yeah on ITHG TV. But her and her husband, 18 00:00:51,320 --> 00:00:53,320 Speaker 2: that's what they do. And it's not even just that 19 00:00:53,400 --> 00:00:55,160 Speaker 2: I need new things at all. It's sort of she's 20 00:00:55,200 --> 00:00:58,360 Speaker 2: just really good at arranging things. Like I'll put the 21 00:00:58,400 --> 00:01:00,520 Speaker 2: same pieces of furniture in a room one way, and 22 00:01:00,560 --> 00:01:03,520 Speaker 2: she'll come in and just rearrange them like totally different. 23 00:01:03,560 --> 00:01:05,040 Speaker 4: I'm like, how did your brain even think of that? 24 00:01:05,080 --> 00:01:06,600 Speaker 5: It's called establishing dominance. 25 00:01:06,720 --> 00:01:10,319 Speaker 2: So in advance I'd like to thank my sister for 26 00:01:10,360 --> 00:01:11,679 Speaker 2: how much will we be hitting her up in the. 27 00:01:11,640 --> 00:01:14,360 Speaker 5: Next month or so, lunchbox. 28 00:01:14,720 --> 00:01:18,039 Speaker 6: I would like to thank the lifeguards out there because 29 00:01:18,120 --> 00:01:23,039 Speaker 6: the pools open this weekend. The city pools open, and 30 00:01:23,080 --> 00:01:25,640 Speaker 6: that means we can take the kids and we can 31 00:01:25,720 --> 00:01:28,039 Speaker 6: wear them out, and we can learn how to swim 32 00:01:28,280 --> 00:01:31,520 Speaker 6: and we can have a great summer. Because the pools 33 00:01:31,520 --> 00:01:37,120 Speaker 6: are about to open, it's important, and the. 34 00:01:37,160 --> 00:01:38,560 Speaker 5: Ladies and the bikinis will be there. 35 00:01:38,720 --> 00:01:44,600 Speaker 3: Let's go, Hello, Mama, you had to make it weird, Eddie. 36 00:01:44,720 --> 00:01:47,080 Speaker 7: I want to thank Max the streaming service for bringing 37 00:01:47,160 --> 00:01:49,880 Speaker 7: back one of my favorite shows that I thought was 38 00:01:50,000 --> 00:01:53,360 Speaker 7: Dead Dude. In the early two thousands, I would watch 39 00:01:53,440 --> 00:01:54,960 Speaker 7: every episode of Cold Case. 40 00:01:55,560 --> 00:01:57,920 Speaker 5: You remember that show? Never watched it? Oh, it's so good. 41 00:01:58,000 --> 00:02:00,640 Speaker 7: It would always start with like a music mond, So 42 00:02:00,720 --> 00:02:03,360 Speaker 7: if the original crime happened in the seventies, it'd be 43 00:02:03,400 --> 00:02:05,880 Speaker 7: abb a dancing queen, and then'd be these girls dancing, 44 00:02:05,920 --> 00:02:07,480 Speaker 7: and then it would slowly fade away to like a 45 00:02:07,520 --> 00:02:10,320 Speaker 7: girl dead in like the canal, and then it would 46 00:02:10,320 --> 00:02:12,840 Speaker 7: go to current day and they'd be like, oh, remember 47 00:02:12,880 --> 00:02:15,360 Speaker 7: that girl in the canal. We found something out and 48 00:02:15,400 --> 00:02:18,600 Speaker 7: they solve it. It's so good and on mats now 49 00:02:18,639 --> 00:02:21,720 Speaker 7: they have the entire seasons, all of them. It's all 50 00:02:21,720 --> 00:02:23,440 Speaker 7: on Max. So all the old ones, but they're making 51 00:02:23,480 --> 00:02:25,760 Speaker 7: new ones. No, no, no, he brought back the old ones. 52 00:02:26,200 --> 00:02:28,480 Speaker 7: I think they started making it that they would show. 53 00:02:28,280 --> 00:02:31,240 Speaker 3: On like one of those weird networks that was like 54 00:02:31,280 --> 00:02:32,520 Speaker 3: a Fox Business or. 55 00:02:32,520 --> 00:02:34,800 Speaker 5: A t L. No, it's like CBS. This was a 56 00:02:34,840 --> 00:02:35,600 Speaker 5: major network. 57 00:02:35,760 --> 00:02:39,560 Speaker 3: Was Yeah, because sometimes they'll show like locked Up or 58 00:02:39,560 --> 00:02:40,320 Speaker 3: what are the prison shows? 59 00:02:40,680 --> 00:02:42,720 Speaker 5: That's good? What is that on? I don't even know? 60 00:02:42,919 --> 00:02:46,720 Speaker 3: Yeah to you maybe any but like I never know 61 00:02:46,760 --> 00:02:49,240 Speaker 3: the network and I really don't flip the channels anymore 62 00:02:49,240 --> 00:02:50,800 Speaker 3: because it's but it's all streaming. 63 00:02:50,880 --> 00:02:54,679 Speaker 5: Yeah, but Cold Case do what. I'm amazing. Shark Tank 64 00:02:54,760 --> 00:02:56,080 Speaker 5: is the show that I would do that. You should 65 00:02:56,120 --> 00:02:57,960 Speaker 5: watch it and watch it, watch it. Never know the network. 66 00:02:58,480 --> 00:03:00,799 Speaker 5: But that's a cold Case, Cold Case. I love it. 67 00:03:01,639 --> 00:03:06,000 Speaker 3: Yeah, all right, I want to thank Carol Taylor, and 68 00:03:06,240 --> 00:03:09,200 Speaker 3: I have a signed Larry Bird basketball right here, signed 69 00:03:09,200 --> 00:03:10,440 Speaker 3: by Larry Birds the basketball player. 70 00:03:10,680 --> 00:03:12,600 Speaker 5: Let me see that. No, nope, now let me tell 71 00:03:12,600 --> 00:03:13,200 Speaker 5: you what happened. 72 00:03:13,360 --> 00:03:18,519 Speaker 3: I had a Larry Bird basketball and Eddie signed it accidentally, 73 00:03:18,560 --> 00:03:20,919 Speaker 3: we were signing balls for our Too Much Access show, 74 00:03:20,960 --> 00:03:23,920 Speaker 3: which was basketball at the time, and my Larry Bird 75 00:03:23,919 --> 00:03:27,639 Speaker 3: ball was on as a prop on our podcast set 76 00:03:27,680 --> 00:03:29,160 Speaker 3: at my house. But we were signing balls right by 77 00:03:29,160 --> 00:03:30,920 Speaker 3: the chairs and Eddie actually grabbed the ball signed it. 78 00:03:30,919 --> 00:03:32,560 Speaker 3: I still have the Larry Bird and Eddie signed ball. 79 00:03:32,600 --> 00:03:34,160 Speaker 3: It was kind of mixed in with all the other balls, 80 00:03:34,240 --> 00:03:38,160 Speaker 3: so it was an accident run by Larry Bird ball. Hilarious, tragic. 81 00:03:38,480 --> 00:03:41,720 Speaker 3: But Carol sent me this ball signed by Larry Bird 82 00:03:41,760 --> 00:03:44,080 Speaker 3: because Morgan, can you help me with this? She has 83 00:03:44,080 --> 00:03:46,640 Speaker 3: a relative in that used to be in the Celtics. 84 00:03:46,720 --> 00:03:49,400 Speaker 4: Yes, so her uncle used to be the. 85 00:03:50,560 --> 00:03:54,280 Speaker 8: What's the religious thing for the Celtics, the religious Yeah, 86 00:03:54,280 --> 00:03:56,760 Speaker 8: I believe he was a priest for the Celtics and 87 00:03:57,280 --> 00:03:59,200 Speaker 8: for a long time, so he had a connection to 88 00:03:59,200 --> 00:04:03,400 Speaker 8: the Celtics's ball about and she hit them up and 89 00:04:03,440 --> 00:04:05,880 Speaker 8: they're like and she like, she jumped through some hoops, 90 00:04:05,880 --> 00:04:07,440 Speaker 8: got it signed and then send it. 91 00:04:07,400 --> 00:04:08,480 Speaker 5: Over to you. It's so nice. 92 00:04:08,480 --> 00:04:10,840 Speaker 3: So Carol, thank you, She wrote a note, Sorry it 93 00:04:10,840 --> 00:04:12,000 Speaker 3: took so long for this to get to you. 94 00:04:12,240 --> 00:04:13,120 Speaker 5: I appreciate all you do. 95 00:04:13,160 --> 00:04:14,960 Speaker 3: You're the best part of Monday through Friday, so you 96 00:04:15,000 --> 00:04:16,240 Speaker 3: want to do something for you to pay it forward. 97 00:04:16,279 --> 00:04:19,640 Speaker 3: Hope this brighten's your day. Thank you, Carol Taylor. That's 98 00:04:19,760 --> 00:04:22,240 Speaker 3: very kind of you, and I will keep it far 99 00:04:22,279 --> 00:04:22,799 Speaker 3: from Eddie. 100 00:04:22,839 --> 00:04:26,200 Speaker 2: Okay, this is bothering me because it's chaplain right, probably chaplain? 101 00:04:26,279 --> 00:04:27,480 Speaker 4: Oh yeah, that's that. 102 00:04:27,480 --> 00:04:28,240 Speaker 5: Sounds wind of right. 103 00:04:28,920 --> 00:04:31,440 Speaker 3: Celtics Catholic. I imagine I'm not Maybe it. 104 00:04:31,440 --> 00:04:34,000 Speaker 4: Is, but in my brain I couldn't think of like, you. 105 00:04:33,920 --> 00:04:36,320 Speaker 7: Know, we're just filling out the word Orish Catholic because 106 00:04:36,320 --> 00:04:37,279 Speaker 7: Celtics they're Irish. 107 00:04:37,800 --> 00:04:40,279 Speaker 2: But I mean you like at a hospital they have 108 00:04:40,440 --> 00:04:41,920 Speaker 2: that like and I was bothering me to you like 109 00:04:41,920 --> 00:04:42,240 Speaker 2: I could. 110 00:04:42,320 --> 00:04:43,880 Speaker 4: I was like, why is my brain not give it 111 00:04:43,880 --> 00:04:45,120 Speaker 4: this word? It's chaplain? 112 00:04:45,160 --> 00:04:47,920 Speaker 3: Okay, thank you Carol. That is super nice, super kind 113 00:04:47,920 --> 00:04:49,279 Speaker 3: to you. I do not deserve it, but I will 114 00:04:49,279 --> 00:04:55,720 Speaker 3: accept this gift with humbly and lovingly. How's that us 115 00:04:55,880 --> 00:04:57,160 Speaker 3: make fun of myself? I get a gift or something. 116 00:04:57,160 --> 00:04:58,080 Speaker 3: I'm just accepting. 117 00:04:58,120 --> 00:05:01,000 Speaker 5: So you drop fell off my death it's round it rolls. 118 00:05:01,680 --> 00:05:05,320 Speaker 5: Who knew. Let's open up the mail bag. 119 00:05:05,720 --> 00:05:08,280 Speaker 7: If you send him a name mail and Amy get 120 00:05:08,320 --> 00:05:08,960 Speaker 7: all the air. 121 00:05:09,279 --> 00:05:11,839 Speaker 5: Get something we call Bobby's mailbag. 122 00:05:12,120 --> 00:05:15,400 Speaker 3: Yeah, hello, Bobby Bones. I'm a sixty seven year old 123 00:05:15,440 --> 00:05:18,320 Speaker 3: father to a wonderful daughter. She's decided to stay with 124 00:05:18,320 --> 00:05:21,040 Speaker 3: her boyfriend, who recently got out of jail for stilling 125 00:05:21,040 --> 00:05:23,840 Speaker 3: two hundred thousand dollars from his grandparents. Because of this, 126 00:05:24,120 --> 00:05:25,760 Speaker 3: I'd not want to leave her a large sum of 127 00:05:25,760 --> 00:05:28,400 Speaker 3: money when I pass. My problem is how do I 128 00:05:28,440 --> 00:05:31,080 Speaker 3: tell her I'm removing her from my will. If I 129 00:05:31,120 --> 00:05:33,280 Speaker 3: tell her, I'm scared, she'll hate me and ind our relationship. 130 00:05:33,400 --> 00:05:35,080 Speaker 3: But if I don't tell her now, she'll be disappointed 131 00:05:35,120 --> 00:05:38,360 Speaker 3: whenever that time does come. Her boyfriend is already still 132 00:05:38,360 --> 00:05:40,560 Speaker 3: on two hundred dollars from her checking account since his 133 00:05:40,600 --> 00:05:41,320 Speaker 3: release from jail. 134 00:05:41,560 --> 00:05:42,080 Speaker 5: What is happening? 135 00:05:42,160 --> 00:05:44,400 Speaker 3: He has a gambling problem but continues to deny it. 136 00:05:44,440 --> 00:05:46,479 Speaker 3: I cannot take the chance that he wouldn't steal it 137 00:05:46,480 --> 00:05:48,880 Speaker 3: from her. On a larger scale, she stands to inherit 138 00:05:49,000 --> 00:05:51,080 Speaker 3: a lot of money. How do I tell her? I 139 00:05:51,120 --> 00:05:52,520 Speaker 3: know I can set up a trust for her, but 140 00:05:52,600 --> 00:05:55,800 Speaker 3: telling her my decision is the difficult problem. Signed planning 141 00:05:55,839 --> 00:05:57,680 Speaker 3: ahead in Florida. Well, here's the first thing. 142 00:05:57,720 --> 00:06:01,640 Speaker 5: You should know. What I think she knows? Bro When 143 00:06:01,640 --> 00:06:03,800 Speaker 5: you dieing will matter to you. Well, that's true. I 144 00:06:03,800 --> 00:06:05,880 Speaker 5: don't worry about it. That surprised you're gonna fix you at all. 145 00:06:05,880 --> 00:06:07,240 Speaker 5: You're dead a little bit of it. 146 00:06:07,279 --> 00:06:09,280 Speaker 3: You just have to decide you and your daughter in 147 00:06:09,279 --> 00:06:10,800 Speaker 3: that relationship and what you want to leave her, and 148 00:06:10,800 --> 00:06:13,200 Speaker 3: don't base it on exterior factors like her boyfriend. That 149 00:06:13,240 --> 00:06:16,200 Speaker 3: could change, it really could change. But also she's with 150 00:06:16,240 --> 00:06:18,840 Speaker 3: a freaking loser, So yeah, he steals. Yes, that's it, 151 00:06:18,920 --> 00:06:20,080 Speaker 3: she's a loser. You can't fix that. 152 00:06:20,200 --> 00:06:22,160 Speaker 5: You can't. You're not gonna be able to fix who your 153 00:06:22,240 --> 00:06:23,479 Speaker 5: daughter is with, not at this point. 154 00:06:23,520 --> 00:06:26,160 Speaker 3: If they're adults. Leave her in the will, you're dead. 155 00:06:26,200 --> 00:06:27,920 Speaker 3: If he steals on when you're dead again, it doesn't matter. 156 00:06:27,960 --> 00:06:29,840 Speaker 5: I'm sure you're gone. You don't want to. 157 00:06:30,000 --> 00:06:32,520 Speaker 3: Hurt that relationship with your daughter, and don't make a 158 00:06:32,560 --> 00:06:39,479 Speaker 3: decision on the future of your daughter based on factors 159 00:06:39,480 --> 00:06:42,479 Speaker 3: that may not even exist in the future with your daughter, 160 00:06:42,560 --> 00:06:43,400 Speaker 3: like a loser boyfriend. 161 00:06:43,400 --> 00:06:45,920 Speaker 2: But God, a conversation like this like maybe spur her 162 00:06:46,360 --> 00:06:47,800 Speaker 2: to be like, oh, maybe I should break up. 163 00:06:48,000 --> 00:06:49,520 Speaker 3: I think she knows. I think he comes out of 164 00:06:49,560 --> 00:06:51,279 Speaker 3: jail and she steals from him. I think she probably 165 00:06:51,320 --> 00:06:55,000 Speaker 3: already knows. Yeah, man, she's just with a loser. But 166 00:06:55,240 --> 00:06:58,760 Speaker 3: don't let that affect your relationship with her and something 167 00:06:58,800 --> 00:07:01,080 Speaker 3: that doesn't involve him, because he may not be around. 168 00:07:01,279 --> 00:07:03,040 Speaker 3: I'll tell you what, leave me, leave it to me, 169 00:07:03,560 --> 00:07:04,919 Speaker 3: Leave your money to me, and you're will give me 170 00:07:04,960 --> 00:07:05,480 Speaker 3: the executor. 171 00:07:05,960 --> 00:07:07,080 Speaker 5: No, I just want I just want the money. 172 00:07:07,200 --> 00:07:08,680 Speaker 3: And if I feel she's doing a good job on 173 00:07:09,120 --> 00:07:12,440 Speaker 3: a crumber, a bread crumber, Uh, leave her what you 174 00:07:12,440 --> 00:07:14,400 Speaker 3: were gonna leave her. You can't predict what's going to 175 00:07:14,440 --> 00:07:16,840 Speaker 3: happen in the future with her boyfriend. If she's smart, 176 00:07:18,040 --> 00:07:21,560 Speaker 3: she'll dump them. And if not, God, love them. But 177 00:07:21,640 --> 00:07:24,200 Speaker 3: that's not really your problem. You're dead and yeah really 178 00:07:24,240 --> 00:07:27,480 Speaker 3: won't be your Yeah you're dead. Yeah, it's the beauty 179 00:07:27,520 --> 00:07:29,680 Speaker 3: of death, I guess. Or you could just set up 180 00:07:29,680 --> 00:07:31,400 Speaker 3: a full trust and then let that be a half 181 00:07:31,400 --> 00:07:32,080 Speaker 3: surprise to her. 182 00:07:32,160 --> 00:07:32,720 Speaker 4: What does that mean? 183 00:07:32,840 --> 00:07:33,520 Speaker 5: I don't know what that is. 184 00:07:33,600 --> 00:07:36,560 Speaker 3: This is a trust, uh, dictating when it goes out, 185 00:07:36,720 --> 00:07:39,320 Speaker 3: who it goes to, how much at a time, at 186 00:07:39,320 --> 00:07:42,000 Speaker 3: what age X person gets X money type of thing. 187 00:07:42,200 --> 00:07:44,360 Speaker 3: You can do that, and again, she won't be totally 188 00:07:44,400 --> 00:07:45,840 Speaker 3: mad at you. She may be annoyed, but she won't 189 00:07:45,840 --> 00:07:46,960 Speaker 3: be totally mattered to dead dad. 190 00:07:47,480 --> 00:07:50,680 Speaker 4: You're twenty dollars a week, yes, but it's. 191 00:07:50,520 --> 00:07:52,559 Speaker 5: One hundred if you're not with him. Yes. 192 00:07:52,960 --> 00:07:54,480 Speaker 3: Yeah, that's a tough one. I would say, don't worry 193 00:07:54,520 --> 00:07:57,800 Speaker 3: about him. You can't predict future, so don't try so 194 00:07:57,920 --> 00:07:59,480 Speaker 3: do what you would do even if he wasn't in 195 00:07:59,480 --> 00:08:00,160 Speaker 3: the picture. 196 00:08:00,160 --> 00:08:00,720 Speaker 5: Not married. 197 00:08:01,320 --> 00:08:03,640 Speaker 3: If they're married to, probably a little different they're not married, 198 00:08:03,680 --> 00:08:05,240 Speaker 3: Thank goodness. All right, there you go, close it up. 199 00:08:05,440 --> 00:08:08,320 Speaker 3: We got your gammail and we laid it on her, 200 00:08:09,000 --> 00:08:11,119 Speaker 3: and now let's found the clothes Bobby failed. 201 00:08:11,160 --> 00:08:12,160 Speaker 1: Back here. 202 00:08:13,640 --> 00:08:15,600 Speaker 5: Here is Alyssa from North Carolina. 203 00:08:15,800 --> 00:08:18,040 Speaker 1: I have a question for the parents in the room. 204 00:08:18,360 --> 00:08:20,400 Speaker 1: I have a two and a half year old, and 205 00:08:20,640 --> 00:08:23,360 Speaker 1: I lately have noticed that when he is not in 206 00:08:23,400 --> 00:08:25,640 Speaker 1: a car with me, I'm listening to a lot of 207 00:08:26,120 --> 00:08:29,640 Speaker 1: heavy metal and rap music, which I think I'm drawn 208 00:08:29,680 --> 00:08:32,160 Speaker 1: to because normally we're listening to kids songs all day. 209 00:08:32,280 --> 00:08:35,360 Speaker 1: Do any of you do something similar when your kids 210 00:08:35,400 --> 00:08:37,560 Speaker 1: are not in the car, And what are your kind 211 00:08:37,559 --> 00:08:40,040 Speaker 1: of go to genres or artists? 212 00:08:40,400 --> 00:08:41,520 Speaker 5: Love the show, Well, that'll be. 213 00:08:41,520 --> 00:08:42,960 Speaker 3: A nightmare to have young kids and have to listen 214 00:08:43,000 --> 00:08:46,280 Speaker 3: to oh yeah, yeah, oh, yeah, Amy, Uh. 215 00:08:46,520 --> 00:08:48,760 Speaker 4: Can I listen to pretty much everything now. 216 00:08:48,679 --> 00:08:50,440 Speaker 5: Your kids are older now too, that's cool. Yeah. 217 00:08:51,320 --> 00:08:54,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, my daughter likes to listen to Nimmunogen more so 218 00:08:54,360 --> 00:08:56,240 Speaker 2: I listen to all more hardcore stuff when she's in 219 00:08:56,280 --> 00:08:56,600 Speaker 2: the car. 220 00:08:56,800 --> 00:09:00,520 Speaker 3: Yeah, Amy's daughter listen to hardcore stuff ever, because she's 221 00:09:00,520 --> 00:09:02,559 Speaker 3: listening to Eddie. No. 222 00:09:02,679 --> 00:09:05,040 Speaker 7: I believe we have a responsibility to teach our kids 223 00:09:05,040 --> 00:09:08,320 Speaker 7: the music. So I teach him all the classics. I mean, dude, 224 00:09:08,320 --> 00:09:10,640 Speaker 7: from when they were little. I start with the Beatles, 225 00:09:10,800 --> 00:09:12,880 Speaker 7: I go to the Beach Boys, I go to Elvis, 226 00:09:12,920 --> 00:09:13,920 Speaker 7: and by the time they're like. 227 00:09:13,880 --> 00:09:16,640 Speaker 5: Five, they know everyone. Do they ever get annoyed like 228 00:09:16,720 --> 00:09:18,880 Speaker 5: dad's teaching us Billy Joel. 229 00:09:19,240 --> 00:09:20,719 Speaker 7: No, because I'll give him the phone and be like, 230 00:09:20,720 --> 00:09:22,600 Speaker 7: all right, so and so you're picking the music for 231 00:09:22,640 --> 00:09:24,439 Speaker 7: like the next ten minutes, and they go straight to. 232 00:09:24,400 --> 00:09:26,240 Speaker 5: Elvis and they never get annoyed. You want to give 233 00:09:26,280 --> 00:09:29,640 Speaker 5: them multichoole stuff, No, dude, they love it. They love it, 234 00:09:29,679 --> 00:09:30,280 Speaker 5: I'm telling you. 235 00:09:30,360 --> 00:09:33,080 Speaker 7: And maybe my sixteen year old he'll be the only 236 00:09:33,080 --> 00:09:34,559 Speaker 7: one like, hey, Deck, can I play like some hip 237 00:09:34,600 --> 00:09:36,640 Speaker 7: hop like that? He's the only one that has like 238 00:09:36,679 --> 00:09:38,760 Speaker 7: special requests for what he wants to hear the rest. 239 00:09:38,960 --> 00:09:41,640 Speaker 5: I think I've trained him. Well, watchbox man, I ride 240 00:09:41,640 --> 00:09:44,200 Speaker 5: in the silence. Oh he hates music, that's right, man, 241 00:09:44,360 --> 00:09:46,680 Speaker 5: I don't understand that. I'll be honest. He runs in silence. 242 00:09:46,720 --> 00:09:48,320 Speaker 5: He rides. I like silence. 243 00:09:48,520 --> 00:09:50,800 Speaker 6: And sometimes when the kids are in the car, they'll say, hey, 244 00:09:50,800 --> 00:09:52,760 Speaker 6: can we turn on some music, which makes me question 245 00:09:52,840 --> 00:09:53,360 Speaker 6: their DNA? 246 00:09:54,280 --> 00:09:56,199 Speaker 5: But I put on anything. I gotta put on hip 247 00:09:56,240 --> 00:09:58,680 Speaker 5: hop whatever. But you don't care. I don't care. I 248 00:09:58,760 --> 00:10:00,679 Speaker 5: just turned into a station and all right, cool here, 249 00:10:00,720 --> 00:10:01,240 Speaker 5: listen to this. 250 00:10:01,440 --> 00:10:03,400 Speaker 7: But your wife loves music, so that's kind of half 251 00:10:03,400 --> 00:10:03,880 Speaker 7: their DNA. 252 00:10:04,080 --> 00:10:06,720 Speaker 3: Then, right, do you have and I'm asking this because 253 00:10:06,720 --> 00:10:09,000 Speaker 3: I didn't know some people didn't have this? Do you 254 00:10:09,040 --> 00:10:12,240 Speaker 3: have an internal monologue or an internal dialogue? 255 00:10:12,320 --> 00:10:12,720 Speaker 5: What do you mean? 256 00:10:12,760 --> 00:10:14,240 Speaker 3: Well, I guess monolog would be your You're not talking 257 00:10:14,280 --> 00:10:17,760 Speaker 3: to yourself, so an internal like a dialogue with yourself? 258 00:10:18,040 --> 00:10:18,240 Speaker 2: Oh? 259 00:10:18,280 --> 00:10:20,320 Speaker 5: Sometimes do you ever not have one? 260 00:10:20,720 --> 00:10:20,840 Speaker 3: Uh? 261 00:10:21,120 --> 00:10:23,599 Speaker 6: Yeah, like when I'm watching TV or something, or like 262 00:10:23,640 --> 00:10:25,160 Speaker 6: when I'm out for a run. Up, Man, there's a 263 00:10:25,200 --> 00:10:26,560 Speaker 6: nice run, you're running a good pace. 264 00:10:26,800 --> 00:10:29,440 Speaker 3: Look at that having one? That's a cool house, or 265 00:10:29,559 --> 00:10:30,720 Speaker 3: like you ever not have one? 266 00:10:31,120 --> 00:10:35,720 Speaker 5: Yeah, well, I'm watching TV. I'm just watching TV. Does 267 00:10:35,720 --> 00:10:39,080 Speaker 5: he sound like you, like, does he yell at you 268 00:10:39,240 --> 00:10:39,720 Speaker 5: my guy? 269 00:10:39,840 --> 00:10:39,960 Speaker 6: No? 270 00:10:39,960 --> 00:10:42,559 Speaker 7: No, no lunchboxes. Does he yell like, hey, that's a 271 00:10:42,679 --> 00:10:43,280 Speaker 7: nice house? 272 00:10:44,280 --> 00:10:46,640 Speaker 5: Huh? Like? Can you yell at everyone else? So? Does 273 00:10:46,679 --> 00:10:50,559 Speaker 5: your monologue? Yeah? Yeah? Does your inner inner voice sound 274 00:10:50,640 --> 00:10:53,600 Speaker 5: like your voice? No? I don't know. I don't. It's 275 00:10:53,640 --> 00:10:55,800 Speaker 5: like a sexty British one. It changes like we do 276 00:10:55,840 --> 00:10:56,280 Speaker 5: our GPS. 277 00:10:56,280 --> 00:10:59,200 Speaker 3: I don't really understand what that sound like. Anything that 278 00:10:59,200 --> 00:11:00,880 Speaker 3: sounds exactly like me. It minds me because and that 279 00:11:00,960 --> 00:11:02,880 Speaker 3: minds like to me. They're both talking at the same 280 00:11:02,880 --> 00:11:05,440 Speaker 3: time the time. Do this, but I remember, do this? 281 00:11:05,280 --> 00:11:05,520 Speaker 3: Do this? 282 00:11:05,559 --> 00:11:07,880 Speaker 2: What? I guess I just hear the I just know 283 00:11:07,920 --> 00:11:10,199 Speaker 2: their words, but I don't know that I hear it. 284 00:11:10,320 --> 00:11:13,760 Speaker 3: So I started to watch these tiktoks about and I 285 00:11:13,800 --> 00:11:16,319 Speaker 3: was shocked that some people do not have this. They 286 00:11:16,320 --> 00:11:19,720 Speaker 3: don't have an internal monologue or dialogue. If you think 287 00:11:19,720 --> 00:11:21,600 Speaker 3: you're talking with yourself, don't know what it is. But 288 00:11:21,640 --> 00:11:24,199 Speaker 3: they don't have that internal voice, and they just are 289 00:11:24,280 --> 00:11:27,000 Speaker 3: their voice when they think something, they say something, or 290 00:11:27,120 --> 00:11:30,439 Speaker 3: but there's not like things happening. 291 00:11:31,840 --> 00:11:32,400 Speaker 5: Ideas. 292 00:11:33,080 --> 00:11:36,240 Speaker 3: There's not like internal arguments, I wonder if I should 293 00:11:36,280 --> 00:11:37,800 Speaker 3: do this, And they say that for the most part 294 00:11:37,840 --> 00:11:39,400 Speaker 3: of the people that have way less other people that 295 00:11:39,480 --> 00:11:43,400 Speaker 3: are way less stressed, and that that voice is stress. 296 00:11:44,559 --> 00:11:45,400 Speaker 5: That voice is. 297 00:11:47,440 --> 00:11:49,560 Speaker 3: All the things that could possibly go right or wrong 298 00:11:49,640 --> 00:11:51,400 Speaker 3: that you're running through one hundred times over. 299 00:11:51,559 --> 00:11:52,920 Speaker 7: That's what they mean when they say like you're in 300 00:11:52,960 --> 00:11:55,760 Speaker 7: your own head, because like you're whatever's happening in your head, 301 00:11:55,760 --> 00:11:57,800 Speaker 7: talking to yourself, whatever it is you're thinking that you're 302 00:11:57,800 --> 00:11:58,600 Speaker 7: worrying about something. 303 00:11:58,640 --> 00:12:00,720 Speaker 5: Thirty to fifty percent of people don't have an inner voice. 304 00:12:00,800 --> 00:12:01,640 Speaker 5: That's wild. 305 00:12:01,760 --> 00:12:04,319 Speaker 7: Like two of my kids, they'll be like just staring 306 00:12:04,559 --> 00:12:06,320 Speaker 7: off into like the clouds, and I'll be like, what 307 00:12:06,320 --> 00:12:06,960 Speaker 7: are you thinking about? 308 00:12:07,640 --> 00:12:07,760 Speaker 1: Uh? 309 00:12:07,920 --> 00:12:08,280 Speaker 5: Nothing? 310 00:12:09,080 --> 00:12:11,440 Speaker 7: And I'm so shocked because if I'm staring at the clouds, 311 00:12:11,440 --> 00:12:14,439 Speaker 7: I'm thinking about something. That's the only time I'm staring off. 312 00:12:14,480 --> 00:12:16,000 Speaker 7: But them, no, they can stay at the clouds and 313 00:12:16,040 --> 00:12:17,160 Speaker 7: not think about a single thing. 314 00:12:17,240 --> 00:12:19,240 Speaker 5: Can you talk about anything? Yeah? 315 00:12:20,400 --> 00:12:22,000 Speaker 6: I can sit in the backyard and just sit there 316 00:12:22,040 --> 00:12:25,880 Speaker 6: and kids are running around. I'm just like, chill. 317 00:12:26,160 --> 00:12:28,320 Speaker 4: Would you define yourself as stressed in any way? 318 00:12:31,000 --> 00:12:34,360 Speaker 3: There's nothing to be stressed about in life, right, But 319 00:12:34,400 --> 00:12:38,040 Speaker 3: what about any sort of aspirations? 320 00:12:38,440 --> 00:12:42,800 Speaker 5: You can't stress about that. It happens not say stress, 321 00:12:43,920 --> 00:12:46,280 Speaker 5: Let's say intensely focus. 322 00:12:46,000 --> 00:12:51,280 Speaker 6: On Oh no, I'm not intentionally focused on anything. 323 00:12:50,840 --> 00:12:54,880 Speaker 5: No, no, nothing, Yeah, like what are you intendally focused on? 324 00:12:55,280 --> 00:12:57,920 Speaker 7: Like money's always kind of a thing. I'm just like, man, 325 00:12:58,240 --> 00:12:59,040 Speaker 7: am I going to pay for this? 326 00:12:59,160 --> 00:13:01,920 Speaker 5: How many? Like stress? Yeah? Always? Yeah, yeah, I'll see. 327 00:13:01,920 --> 00:13:03,959 Speaker 5: I don't stress about that. I just figured I'll figured. 328 00:13:03,720 --> 00:13:05,719 Speaker 7: Out my kid, like finals are coming up, like is 329 00:13:05,720 --> 00:13:06,440 Speaker 7: he gonna do well? 330 00:13:06,559 --> 00:13:09,439 Speaker 5: Like how's he gonna do? Stress out about it? Yeah? 331 00:13:09,559 --> 00:13:12,760 Speaker 4: Why say that? That's just stupid? Really, But I don't 332 00:13:12,760 --> 00:13:13,760 Speaker 4: loop as much as I used to. 333 00:13:13,800 --> 00:13:15,880 Speaker 2: You're right, Like if I was when I had a 334 00:13:15,880 --> 00:13:19,720 Speaker 2: little bit more anxiety, and I would loop thoughts over 335 00:13:19,840 --> 00:13:22,800 Speaker 2: and over and over. And I've that I've gotten that 336 00:13:22,920 --> 00:13:24,360 Speaker 2: under control, so that's better. 337 00:13:24,800 --> 00:13:27,959 Speaker 4: But so sometimes I'm thinking thoughts. Sometimes it's like, oh, 338 00:13:27,960 --> 00:13:29,640 Speaker 4: should I go do that right now? Maybe I shouldn't 339 00:13:29,640 --> 00:13:29,800 Speaker 4: do that. 340 00:13:29,840 --> 00:13:31,800 Speaker 2: If I go do that, then it's just this, Oh 341 00:13:31,800 --> 00:13:33,880 Speaker 2: what about in the fall if I do Oh, and 342 00:13:33,880 --> 00:13:36,440 Speaker 2: then we do the podcast and then oh yeah, if 343 00:13:36,440 --> 00:13:38,560 Speaker 2: I could get this person, yeah I mean, and then 344 00:13:38,600 --> 00:13:41,000 Speaker 2: it bounces back to the past, present, future. 345 00:13:42,720 --> 00:13:44,560 Speaker 4: Yeah, it's you know, it keeps me. 346 00:13:45,360 --> 00:13:46,240 Speaker 5: Oh man, he chills. 347 00:13:46,640 --> 00:13:48,800 Speaker 3: I wish I had more of that, Like that is 348 00:13:48,800 --> 00:13:52,320 Speaker 3: something I'm envious of, lunchbox of he can just chill. 349 00:13:52,240 --> 00:13:53,319 Speaker 5: Yeah, just chill. 350 00:13:53,520 --> 00:13:55,200 Speaker 6: Let me a little bit of stress. Is my fantasy 351 00:13:55,240 --> 00:13:56,840 Speaker 6: baseball team. I mean that's what I thought. 352 00:13:57,280 --> 00:13:59,320 Speaker 3: You know, I feel like I have a roundtable of 353 00:13:59,320 --> 00:14:01,800 Speaker 3: about six and sitting around the table, you're all talking. 354 00:14:01,920 --> 00:14:03,560 Speaker 3: It's like yelling at each other about different things and 355 00:14:03,559 --> 00:14:06,320 Speaker 3: finding what they mean is even gonna be about? But yeah, no, 356 00:14:06,360 --> 00:14:09,840 Speaker 3: I wish I had less of an internal voice fifty percent. 357 00:14:09,960 --> 00:14:12,520 Speaker 5: Don't have one. Anybody else not have an internal voice? Everybody? 358 00:14:12,559 --> 00:14:16,400 Speaker 5: Everybody does except the luchbox Here guys, boys talk to 359 00:14:16,440 --> 00:14:18,440 Speaker 5: you all the time. Yeah, talking to me right now? 360 00:14:18,520 --> 00:14:20,640 Speaker 4: By something else same, I'm sitting here. 361 00:14:20,680 --> 00:14:22,720 Speaker 5: Mine's tarking to meet in Spanish? Right really, No, that's 362 00:14:22,720 --> 00:14:26,760 Speaker 5: me dude. Thanks you talking? All right, It's time for 363 00:14:26,800 --> 00:14:28,400 Speaker 5: the good news. Ready. 364 00:14:32,360 --> 00:14:34,680 Speaker 7: The Pizza Roma is a pizza shop and they get 365 00:14:34,680 --> 00:14:36,480 Speaker 7: a call one day, right and they're like, oh, I'd 366 00:14:36,480 --> 00:14:39,600 Speaker 7: like to order sixteen pizzas. They go, okay, no problem, 367 00:14:39,640 --> 00:14:42,080 Speaker 7: put the order in, put the pizzas in the oven. 368 00:14:42,680 --> 00:14:45,400 Speaker 5: They're ready to go. No one picks them up and 369 00:14:45,480 --> 00:14:47,200 Speaker 5: didn't pay for them, did not pay for him. 370 00:14:47,200 --> 00:14:49,760 Speaker 7: They're like, oh my gosh, this is like two hundred 371 00:14:49,800 --> 00:14:52,160 Speaker 7: dollars worth of pizzas. So they go on social media 372 00:14:52,160 --> 00:14:55,320 Speaker 7: and say, hey, if anyone like baby forgot their pizzas, 373 00:14:55,360 --> 00:14:57,520 Speaker 7: like we made these pizzas, they're here, they're ready for you. 374 00:14:57,880 --> 00:14:59,240 Speaker 5: And they happened for like a week. 375 00:14:59,360 --> 00:15:01,800 Speaker 7: No one ever can came up and claimed the pizzas 376 00:15:01,920 --> 00:15:03,880 Speaker 7: until one guy says, you know what, man, I love 377 00:15:03,920 --> 00:15:05,080 Speaker 7: you guys, I love your place. 378 00:15:05,240 --> 00:15:06,960 Speaker 5: I'm an army veteran. I like to do good things 379 00:15:06,960 --> 00:15:09,040 Speaker 5: for people. Let me pay for the pizzas. I didn't 380 00:15:09,120 --> 00:15:11,040 Speaker 5: order them. So he went and he paid two hundred 381 00:15:11,040 --> 00:15:11,920 Speaker 5: dollars for all the pizzas. 382 00:15:12,160 --> 00:15:14,160 Speaker 3: Like they should do some sort of if it's like 383 00:15:14,200 --> 00:15:16,320 Speaker 3: more than four pizzas, some sort of deposit or pay 384 00:15:16,360 --> 00:15:16,920 Speaker 3: for them all. 385 00:15:16,880 --> 00:15:19,160 Speaker 7: Yeah, or don't start the order unless you know it's 386 00:15:19,160 --> 00:15:20,840 Speaker 7: for real, for real, well yeah, but that's why. That's 387 00:15:20,840 --> 00:15:24,160 Speaker 7: how you get a deposit, yeah, or or paying for 388 00:15:24,200 --> 00:15:26,000 Speaker 7: it at all. But I guess if I order a 389 00:15:26,040 --> 00:15:28,720 Speaker 7: pizza now, we pay for it all up front. Yeah, 390 00:15:28,800 --> 00:15:30,720 Speaker 7: maybe just some some local chains still do it the 391 00:15:30,720 --> 00:15:33,640 Speaker 7: old fashion way. Sure, say, don't do all fashion anymore? 392 00:15:34,440 --> 00:15:37,360 Speaker 7: He knew fashion. What about Amy's pizzas? Like they ordered 393 00:15:37,400 --> 00:15:38,920 Speaker 7: them to her house and they moved. They must have 394 00:15:38,960 --> 00:15:40,520 Speaker 7: been doing it old fashioned way. 395 00:15:40,400 --> 00:15:43,520 Speaker 3: They could pay for it for Yeah, and they brought 396 00:15:43,560 --> 00:15:44,960 Speaker 3: him and dropped them off her house and Amy's like, 397 00:15:44,960 --> 00:15:45,440 Speaker 3: I don't know. 398 00:15:45,520 --> 00:15:48,320 Speaker 5: Those are four and I'm gonna move? They moved. 399 00:15:48,520 --> 00:15:50,560 Speaker 7: Who would pay for those just to drop them off in? 400 00:15:50,760 --> 00:15:54,760 Speaker 5: Like you're paying for a joke. That's an expensive joke. 401 00:15:54,840 --> 00:15:55,840 Speaker 5: How many pizzas was it? 402 00:15:56,160 --> 00:15:59,080 Speaker 4: I think it's from four different places. I don't remember exactly. 403 00:15:59,720 --> 00:16:01,800 Speaker 3: H e bus for a joke. It was like, and 404 00:16:01,880 --> 00:16:03,080 Speaker 3: it's going to make her move out of her house. 405 00:16:03,120 --> 00:16:04,360 Speaker 3: That's a pretty solid's a pretty. 406 00:16:04,120 --> 00:16:05,880 Speaker 2: Sound investment because the first time it was like I 407 00:16:05,880 --> 00:16:06,760 Speaker 2: thought an accident. 408 00:16:07,000 --> 00:16:08,000 Speaker 4: It was like Papa John's. 409 00:16:08,040 --> 00:16:10,080 Speaker 2: And then like the next week it's to bring me 410 00:16:10,160 --> 00:16:14,240 Speaker 2: from Domino's. I'm like f And then and it was 411 00:16:14,280 --> 00:16:18,120 Speaker 2: like different like different name, different credit cards or I 412 00:16:18,120 --> 00:16:20,600 Speaker 2: can't remember something because I except looking at the receipt 413 00:16:20,640 --> 00:16:23,520 Speaker 2: to see if there were similarities, and I couldn't match anything. 414 00:16:24,400 --> 00:16:26,840 Speaker 3: See how long until you moved and you thought I 415 00:16:26,920 --> 00:16:27,640 Speaker 3: can't handle this. 416 00:16:27,760 --> 00:16:30,320 Speaker 2: Well, it was that incombination of a letter that was 417 00:16:30,360 --> 00:16:34,240 Speaker 2: put in my mailbox. So my mailbox was up at 418 00:16:34,280 --> 00:16:38,320 Speaker 2: my so I had a little fence around my front yard. 419 00:16:38,520 --> 00:16:40,160 Speaker 2: So you have to go through the fence and up 420 00:16:40,200 --> 00:16:42,520 Speaker 2: to the mailbox which was attached by my front door, 421 00:16:42,880 --> 00:16:44,520 Speaker 2: like and you lift up the lever and put a 422 00:16:44,680 --> 00:16:48,080 Speaker 2: letter inside. And I got this note, and I'm like, 423 00:16:48,160 --> 00:16:52,600 Speaker 2: this is this is odd that, like you're someone found 424 00:16:52,640 --> 00:16:54,520 Speaker 2: where I lived and it is dropping me notes now. 425 00:16:55,240 --> 00:16:58,520 Speaker 2: And then at the time when I was married, Ben 426 00:16:58,600 --> 00:17:02,520 Speaker 2: was going to Afghanistan like a lot and I was alone, 427 00:17:02,640 --> 00:17:03,080 Speaker 2: and I was. 428 00:17:03,040 --> 00:17:03,800 Speaker 4: Like, I am leaving. 429 00:17:04,280 --> 00:17:07,040 Speaker 3: So I talked to Daniel from Tiger Daniel who have 430 00:17:07,080 --> 00:17:09,760 Speaker 3: often said probably was the mastermind him or Lunchbox. And 431 00:17:09,840 --> 00:17:11,800 Speaker 3: Daniel has said, I'll come to a light detector, like 432 00:17:11,880 --> 00:17:15,280 Speaker 3: I did not do this. He's like, I will show 433 00:17:15,359 --> 00:17:17,600 Speaker 3: up because he lives in Tulsa. Now I will drive 434 00:17:17,640 --> 00:17:19,600 Speaker 3: to Nashville take a light detector. I don't think he 435 00:17:19,640 --> 00:17:21,760 Speaker 3: did it anymore. I think Lunchbox did it. I mean 436 00:17:21,760 --> 00:17:23,359 Speaker 3: he hasn't said anything this whole time. I know. I 437 00:17:23,359 --> 00:17:26,280 Speaker 3: think Lunchbox did it. But okay, Eddie, great story. Good 438 00:17:26,280 --> 00:17:27,320 Speaker 3: for that guy. Do you know the guy's name? 439 00:17:27,359 --> 00:17:29,639 Speaker 7: A Yeah, Travis Tuesdale. He's the only stepped up and 440 00:17:29,640 --> 00:17:30,120 Speaker 7: paid for that. 441 00:17:30,119 --> 00:17:32,800 Speaker 5: Travis. Good dude, That's what it's all about. That was 442 00:17:32,840 --> 00:17:33,800 Speaker 5: telling me something good. 443 00:17:35,680 --> 00:17:39,600 Speaker 3: Elder versus millennial, a trivia game, generational. It's been a 444 00:17:39,600 --> 00:17:42,919 Speaker 3: brutal season. It's lunchbox versus Abbey. Lunchboxes have three to 445 00:17:42,960 --> 00:17:45,600 Speaker 3: one lunch. You're gonna get your questions first. 446 00:17:45,680 --> 00:17:47,520 Speaker 5: Let's go. He's a captain of cringe. He says. All 447 00:17:47,560 --> 00:17:48,200 Speaker 5: he does is win. 448 00:17:48,440 --> 00:17:50,359 Speaker 3: He ended up driving back with his family on his 449 00:17:50,400 --> 00:17:52,760 Speaker 3: Atlanta trip, so now we all know his wife wears 450 00:17:52,760 --> 00:17:53,879 Speaker 3: the pants in their relationship. 451 00:17:53,920 --> 00:17:59,560 Speaker 5: It's lunchbox. No, it's called compromise. Alright ready Yeah. 452 00:18:00,040 --> 00:18:02,240 Speaker 3: Group released their debut album in two thousand and seven, 453 00:18:02,280 --> 00:18:05,560 Speaker 3: which gave them their first big hit, Love Don't Live Here? 454 00:18:08,320 --> 00:18:09,840 Speaker 5: What Group? What Group? 455 00:18:09,960 --> 00:18:12,640 Speaker 3: Released their debut album in two thousand and seven, which 456 00:18:12,720 --> 00:18:15,680 Speaker 3: gave them their first big hit, love Don't Live Here? 457 00:18:17,480 --> 00:18:21,240 Speaker 5: One direction incorrect? Abby, you can steal. 458 00:18:21,200 --> 00:18:22,840 Speaker 4: Don't live anymore? 459 00:18:22,920 --> 00:18:23,320 Speaker 5: Who is that? 460 00:18:23,400 --> 00:18:23,560 Speaker 3: Oh? 461 00:18:23,560 --> 00:18:34,160 Speaker 9: My gosh, love don't Live Here? It's a country, oh. 462 00:18:33,200 --> 00:18:36,120 Speaker 5: Lady, A oh, my gosh, why did that just do that? 463 00:18:36,520 --> 00:18:36,680 Speaker 3: Oh? 464 00:18:36,720 --> 00:18:39,240 Speaker 5: You gotta switch on with Gray Country on Me Lunchbox. 465 00:18:39,800 --> 00:18:42,120 Speaker 3: Blake Lively stars as the lead character on What TV 466 00:18:42,240 --> 00:18:49,440 Speaker 3: series about affluent teens living in New York City. Blake 467 00:18:49,520 --> 00:18:52,720 Speaker 3: Lively stars as the lead character and What TV series 468 00:18:52,720 --> 00:18:58,160 Speaker 3: about affluent teens living in New York City. 469 00:18:56,280 --> 00:19:05,480 Speaker 6: Uh, Sabrina the Teenage with wrong, Maddie, not gossip Girl? 470 00:19:06,040 --> 00:19:09,320 Speaker 5: What's your answer? You say, not gossip Girl? Gossip Girl? 471 00:19:09,320 --> 00:19:11,520 Speaker 5: What did you say that? He said not gossip Girl? 472 00:19:11,560 --> 00:19:12,720 Speaker 5: Originally that was in my head. 473 00:19:12,840 --> 00:19:14,800 Speaker 9: I said it out loud, gossip Girl. 474 00:19:15,000 --> 00:19:15,359 Speaker 5: Correct. 475 00:19:18,160 --> 00:19:20,800 Speaker 4: I forgot that gossip I don't really assume. 476 00:19:21,320 --> 00:19:22,560 Speaker 5: Next up. Yeah. 477 00:19:22,600 --> 00:19:25,280 Speaker 3: Matthew McConaughey and Kate Hudson started together in What two 478 00:19:25,280 --> 00:19:29,000 Speaker 3: thousand and three rom com about an advertising executive who 479 00:19:29,040 --> 00:19:30,120 Speaker 3: bets that he can make her. 480 00:19:30,040 --> 00:19:35,400 Speaker 5: Fall in love with him quickly. Oh. 481 00:19:35,480 --> 00:19:38,800 Speaker 3: Matthew McConaughey and Kate Hudson starred together in What two 482 00:19:38,880 --> 00:19:42,680 Speaker 3: thousand and three rom com about an advertising executive who 483 00:19:42,680 --> 00:19:44,399 Speaker 3: bets that he can make her fall in love with 484 00:19:44,480 --> 00:19:44,960 Speaker 3: him quickly. 485 00:19:45,600 --> 00:19:48,720 Speaker 5: How to Lose a Guy in ten Days? Correct? Wow? Okay, 486 00:19:49,000 --> 00:19:49,960 Speaker 5: after that round? 487 00:19:50,320 --> 00:19:55,080 Speaker 3: Boom, Abby two on two steals lunchbox one. Let's introduce 488 00:19:55,400 --> 00:19:59,080 Speaker 3: his opponent. She's our phone screener and producer. She's the 489 00:19:59,119 --> 00:20:02,399 Speaker 3: singer of the song Hey, They're downtown, and continues with 490 00:20:02,480 --> 00:20:04,720 Speaker 3: this game even though listeners what is. 491 00:20:04,720 --> 00:20:09,960 Speaker 5: It down, lady? Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah yeah. 492 00:20:10,000 --> 00:20:12,639 Speaker 3: She's the singer of the song hey their hometown, and 493 00:20:12,720 --> 00:20:14,720 Speaker 3: continues with this game even though the listeners want her 494 00:20:14,720 --> 00:20:15,280 Speaker 3: to step down. 495 00:20:15,600 --> 00:20:22,600 Speaker 10: Oh yikes, Abby, Abby, Ready, these are questions a little 496 00:20:22,640 --> 00:20:25,800 Speaker 10: older than you. Yes, what singer went number one on 497 00:20:25,840 --> 00:20:28,480 Speaker 10: the Billboard Hot one hundred and nineteen eighty one with 498 00:20:28,600 --> 00:20:29,879 Speaker 10: their song Physical? 499 00:20:30,320 --> 00:20:42,600 Speaker 9: Let's get physical Physical. Her name is Oh She's in Greece, Olivia, 500 00:20:42,760 --> 00:20:47,360 Speaker 9: Newton John Right, you were just passing lunchbox Hinds. 501 00:20:47,359 --> 00:20:52,080 Speaker 5: If you would, it wouldn't matter anyway, Abby. 502 00:20:52,119 --> 00:20:55,080 Speaker 3: The nineteen eighty Winter Olympics hockey game between the United 503 00:20:55,119 --> 00:20:58,199 Speaker 3: States and the USSR is often referred to as the 504 00:20:58,640 --> 00:21:05,160 Speaker 3: Blank on Ice. The nineteen eighty Winter Olympics hockey game 505 00:21:05,200 --> 00:21:08,240 Speaker 3: between the US and USSR is often referred to as 506 00:21:08,280 --> 00:21:12,560 Speaker 3: the Blank on Ice. The battle incorrect. 507 00:21:12,400 --> 00:21:15,600 Speaker 6: Lushbox, Abby, It's sort of like, if you win this game, 508 00:21:15,640 --> 00:21:16,840 Speaker 6: it's a miracle. 509 00:21:16,960 --> 00:21:19,399 Speaker 3: Miracle on Ice and the movie was called Miracle Became 510 00:21:19,400 --> 00:21:24,400 Speaker 3: that great? That is a miracle current score? 511 00:21:24,440 --> 00:21:26,760 Speaker 5: Abby three? Lunchbox two. Oh man, I need he to 512 00:21:26,840 --> 00:21:29,119 Speaker 5: miss and I need her to get it right. You 513 00:21:29,160 --> 00:21:30,480 Speaker 5: said that I needed to miss that I need to 514 00:21:30,520 --> 00:21:35,280 Speaker 5: get it. That's not what you said, Abby What? 515 00:21:35,400 --> 00:21:39,240 Speaker 3: Nineteen eighty five song features various artists and the song 516 00:21:39,320 --> 00:21:42,280 Speaker 3: was recorded to raise money for African famine relief. 517 00:21:44,880 --> 00:21:45,679 Speaker 10: Change This What? 518 00:21:45,880 --> 00:21:48,960 Speaker 3: Nineteen eighty five song featuring various artists was recorded to 519 00:21:49,000 --> 00:21:51,200 Speaker 3: raise money for African famine relief. 520 00:21:55,280 --> 00:21:59,320 Speaker 5: Change the World Incorrect, Lunchbox. 521 00:21:58,920 --> 00:22:04,080 Speaker 6: We Are the World a documentary? 522 00:22:04,320 --> 00:22:06,600 Speaker 5: Much box? Give you three questions? She can't steal? Yeah, 523 00:22:06,840 --> 00:22:08,360 Speaker 5: he's go, let's go. 524 00:22:08,920 --> 00:22:09,000 Speaker 2: What. 525 00:22:09,200 --> 00:22:12,040 Speaker 3: Disney Star transition to pop Princess with her two thousand 526 00:22:12,040 --> 00:22:15,440 Speaker 3: and three album Metamorphosis and featured songs like so Yesterday 527 00:22:15,480 --> 00:22:16,440 Speaker 3: and Come Clean. 528 00:22:17,320 --> 00:22:24,080 Speaker 5: So Yesterday, So Yesterday? Hillary? Correct? Yeah good? 529 00:22:24,480 --> 00:22:26,960 Speaker 3: What's the name of the South Korean artist behind the 530 00:22:27,080 --> 00:22:30,719 Speaker 3: twenty twelve viral hit Gangam Style Sign? 531 00:22:30,920 --> 00:22:31,360 Speaker 5: Correct? 532 00:22:32,920 --> 00:22:33,000 Speaker 2: What? 533 00:22:33,119 --> 00:22:35,959 Speaker 3: TV drama series set in a high school, followed the 534 00:22:36,000 --> 00:22:39,159 Speaker 3: lives of a group of students in Newport Beach, California. 535 00:22:39,560 --> 00:22:44,760 Speaker 5: Oh see correct? I just needed overtime, folks, wake me up. 536 00:22:46,000 --> 00:22:48,040 Speaker 5: I have to get this one. You have to, Abby, 537 00:22:48,240 --> 00:22:50,919 Speaker 5: just like doesn't even no pressure? Oh Abby? 538 00:22:50,960 --> 00:22:51,040 Speaker 8: What? 539 00:22:51,240 --> 00:22:54,920 Speaker 3: Artists released their Private Dancer album in nineteen eighty four, 540 00:22:55,600 --> 00:22:58,280 Speaker 3: Elton John and corrects. 541 00:23:00,480 --> 00:23:05,879 Speaker 4: Okay, hold on the Coaster, Private, that's a whole. 542 00:23:05,720 --> 00:23:12,400 Speaker 3: Different song, Private Dancing, Dancing for money, ideal music, will do. 543 00:23:15,400 --> 00:23:18,199 Speaker 5: Favorite? Okay that lunchbox four, Abby one? 544 00:23:18,280 --> 00:23:19,719 Speaker 3: Only one more game in this guy before we put 545 00:23:19,760 --> 00:23:20,880 Speaker 3: ourselves out of our own miserable. 546 00:23:20,960 --> 00:23:23,000 Speaker 5: I thought it was over, and you want it to 547 00:23:23,040 --> 00:23:23,280 Speaker 5: be over. 548 00:23:23,800 --> 00:23:27,600 Speaker 3: We can make it happen. There are a couple of 549 00:23:27,680 --> 00:23:29,760 Speaker 3: life hacks from Amy. The first one you've done? 550 00:23:30,080 --> 00:23:30,760 Speaker 5: Yes, what is it? 551 00:23:30,840 --> 00:23:31,320 Speaker 4: Ice cube? 552 00:23:31,320 --> 00:23:35,240 Speaker 2: And the burger like when you put the burger? When 553 00:23:35,240 --> 00:23:37,760 Speaker 2: you put the burger on the grill, like it's in 554 00:23:37,840 --> 00:23:40,520 Speaker 2: its patty, You just take an ice cube and stick 555 00:23:40,560 --> 00:23:43,640 Speaker 2: it in the center of the patty and then grill 556 00:23:43,760 --> 00:23:47,280 Speaker 2: flip accordingly to whatever, uh whatever you want. 557 00:23:47,359 --> 00:23:49,520 Speaker 4: Although I do think you should cook a burger well done? 558 00:23:49,600 --> 00:23:51,240 Speaker 5: Okay, what does it do? 559 00:23:51,760 --> 00:23:53,600 Speaker 4: It makes it more juicy? 560 00:23:53,720 --> 00:23:55,359 Speaker 5: Can you just pour water on it? Though that'd be 561 00:23:55,359 --> 00:23:55,920 Speaker 5: the same, but the. 562 00:23:55,880 --> 00:23:58,600 Speaker 4: Ice that would pour water all over your grill like the. 563 00:23:58,560 --> 00:24:01,000 Speaker 2: Ice cube is contained in the and then it spreads 564 00:24:01,000 --> 00:24:03,320 Speaker 2: out evenly as the ice cube melts, and it's just 565 00:24:03,359 --> 00:24:05,600 Speaker 2: this juicy, delicious burger. 566 00:24:06,440 --> 00:24:10,680 Speaker 5: As you're making the bring stuff at the day. I'm 567 00:24:10,720 --> 00:24:11,960 Speaker 5: just I'm interested here. 568 00:24:12,040 --> 00:24:14,119 Speaker 7: If you put as you're making the patty, do you 569 00:24:14,119 --> 00:24:16,520 Speaker 7: put the ice cube in there rather before you. 570 00:24:16,440 --> 00:24:17,080 Speaker 5: Put it on the grill? 571 00:24:17,160 --> 00:24:18,399 Speaker 2: You could do it that way like put in the 572 00:24:18,400 --> 00:24:20,359 Speaker 2: middle or once you lay the patty on the grill. 573 00:24:20,480 --> 00:24:21,000 Speaker 4: This is what we did. 574 00:24:21,080 --> 00:24:23,640 Speaker 2: We just had the ice cube and then just right 575 00:24:23,680 --> 00:24:25,679 Speaker 2: in the middle where you can still see the ice cube. 576 00:24:25,760 --> 00:24:28,119 Speaker 3: Would you have known it was extra juicy had you 577 00:24:28,200 --> 00:24:30,000 Speaker 3: not known there was an ice cube put on it? 578 00:24:31,840 --> 00:24:33,480 Speaker 5: Or were you like like, wow, let's see if this 579 00:24:34,080 --> 00:24:35,600 Speaker 5: I tate you know what I mean. 580 00:24:35,800 --> 00:24:36,760 Speaker 4: Yeah, that's a good point. 581 00:24:36,800 --> 00:24:38,480 Speaker 2: I don't know, because like I knew it was there, 582 00:24:39,000 --> 00:24:41,520 Speaker 2: but I could tell something was also different. 583 00:24:41,800 --> 00:24:45,760 Speaker 3: It makes sense though, to add juice makes the juice 584 00:24:45,880 --> 00:24:48,800 Speaker 3: or a little water, So okay, ice cube on the burger. 585 00:24:49,040 --> 00:24:50,399 Speaker 5: And what is your second life act? 586 00:24:50,760 --> 00:24:54,120 Speaker 2: Well, I keep seeing that people go into the shower 587 00:24:54,359 --> 00:24:59,439 Speaker 2: with their jeans because the well, hope I could never 588 00:24:59,480 --> 00:25:00,920 Speaker 2: shower with my jeans on I wouldn't be able to 589 00:25:00,920 --> 00:25:03,119 Speaker 2: get them off. But you just take them into the 590 00:25:03,160 --> 00:25:05,720 Speaker 2: shower with you and clean them in there and then 591 00:25:05,800 --> 00:25:06,639 Speaker 2: hang them to dry. 592 00:25:06,960 --> 00:25:08,639 Speaker 4: Because what's happening. 593 00:25:08,600 --> 00:25:11,440 Speaker 2: With our jeans in the washing machine is like they're 594 00:25:11,480 --> 00:25:15,000 Speaker 2: getting like stretched and pulled and they just get messed up. 595 00:25:15,160 --> 00:25:17,160 Speaker 2: So you take them in a shower. That way they're 596 00:25:17,200 --> 00:25:19,880 Speaker 2: not they don't get tangled up by the washing machine 597 00:25:20,200 --> 00:25:22,159 Speaker 2: and damaged. I guess is what people were saying. And 598 00:25:22,200 --> 00:25:23,720 Speaker 2: then you do the soap and you rent them out 599 00:25:24,280 --> 00:25:27,040 Speaker 2: and hang them. Yes, yes, yes you can. I guess 600 00:25:27,040 --> 00:25:30,160 Speaker 2: take your laundry detergent in there, or bar soap. Maybe 601 00:25:30,160 --> 00:25:32,879 Speaker 2: you could use your barcla whatever. You can clean the 602 00:25:32,920 --> 00:25:34,080 Speaker 2: certain parts that you want to clean. 603 00:25:37,760 --> 00:25:38,159 Speaker 4: I don't know. 604 00:25:38,240 --> 00:25:41,320 Speaker 2: It's like the guy that founded Levi's was first talking 605 00:25:41,320 --> 00:25:43,800 Speaker 2: about it or something. It's like washing machines are damaging 606 00:25:43,960 --> 00:25:45,800 Speaker 2: the jeens, So just take your jeans into the shower 607 00:25:45,840 --> 00:25:47,240 Speaker 2: with you. 608 00:25:47,320 --> 00:25:49,200 Speaker 5: What if you wear them into the shower and scrub 609 00:25:49,200 --> 00:25:49,919 Speaker 5: them while they're on you? 610 00:25:50,240 --> 00:25:52,240 Speaker 2: I could do that, But could you get your pants off? 611 00:25:52,800 --> 00:25:53,840 Speaker 2: I guess. 612 00:25:55,240 --> 00:25:55,680 Speaker 5: I guess. 613 00:25:57,119 --> 00:25:58,399 Speaker 4: They're not as tight. 614 00:25:58,480 --> 00:26:00,320 Speaker 5: I never heard it, but if I look it up 615 00:26:00,320 --> 00:26:01,560 Speaker 5: on TikTok. A lot of people are doing it. 616 00:26:01,680 --> 00:26:05,640 Speaker 3: Yeah, thank you for the life acts. That's amy got 617 00:26:05,680 --> 00:26:07,639 Speaker 3: some messages from listeners calling me a loser. So what 618 00:26:07,680 --> 00:26:09,919 Speaker 3: I did on my Instagram, which is mister Bobby Bones, 619 00:26:10,160 --> 00:26:13,040 Speaker 3: I posted a kind of a highlight reel of me going, Hey, 620 00:26:13,040 --> 00:26:15,000 Speaker 3: I want to play on somebody's rex softball team. Here's 621 00:26:15,000 --> 00:26:17,040 Speaker 3: some clips of me playing softball, like when recruits are 622 00:26:17,119 --> 00:26:18,400 Speaker 3: trying to get recruited by college. 623 00:26:18,800 --> 00:26:20,520 Speaker 4: Yeah, it's a professional video. 624 00:26:20,880 --> 00:26:22,480 Speaker 3: Well it's our show, too much access. But I was 625 00:26:22,520 --> 00:26:23,919 Speaker 3: playing ball. I just took clips from it, and I 626 00:26:23,960 --> 00:26:25,159 Speaker 3: was like, I want to plan on somebody's team. I 627 00:26:25,160 --> 00:26:26,920 Speaker 3: think I'm gonna play with the listener on their softball team. 628 00:26:27,200 --> 00:26:29,440 Speaker 5: Really when? Why are you laughing? 629 00:26:29,680 --> 00:26:32,159 Speaker 2: Because I just like, how when are you going to 630 00:26:32,240 --> 00:26:34,480 Speaker 2: do this? Like how do you add this to your schedule? 631 00:26:34,680 --> 00:26:35,160 Speaker 4: Like for real? 632 00:26:35,240 --> 00:26:37,680 Speaker 5: Oh that's your question. Yeah, you'll squeeze it in. Can 633 00:26:37,720 --> 00:26:41,400 Speaker 5: we buy tickets? I don't believe they're ticketed. Oh bums, 634 00:26:41,480 --> 00:26:44,280 Speaker 5: this is what we pin for. I think it's open 635 00:26:44,359 --> 00:26:45,240 Speaker 5: to the public. Let's go. 636 00:26:45,520 --> 00:26:47,240 Speaker 3: So the guy messed with me said we play on 637 00:26:47,240 --> 00:26:49,480 Speaker 3: this certain night, and I said what time? 638 00:26:49,880 --> 00:26:50,280 Speaker 5: They told me. 639 00:26:50,280 --> 00:26:53,280 Speaker 3: I said, I think I'm in, so not confirmed yet, 640 00:26:53,280 --> 00:26:55,399 Speaker 3: but I'll let you guys know. And I posted a 641 00:26:55,440 --> 00:26:57,320 Speaker 3: video because I tore my shoulder like a couple of 642 00:26:57,320 --> 00:27:01,040 Speaker 3: little me me Meani minor tears my rotator cuff and 643 00:27:01,359 --> 00:27:03,200 Speaker 3: I didn't happen in the yr playing catch about every day. 644 00:27:03,240 --> 00:27:04,760 Speaker 3: We just get the ball and throw it around in 645 00:27:04,760 --> 00:27:07,159 Speaker 3: the yard and people are like, you're not kids, you're 646 00:27:07,160 --> 00:27:09,240 Speaker 3: adult men. You did around to play catch. 647 00:27:09,080 --> 00:27:10,639 Speaker 7: Im, But Bobby really didn't have a dad growing up, 648 00:27:10,680 --> 00:27:13,040 Speaker 7: So I kind of feel my responsibility to. 649 00:27:14,480 --> 00:27:16,959 Speaker 5: Use How did you determine which team you went with? 650 00:27:16,960 --> 00:27:17,000 Speaker 3: Me? 651 00:27:17,119 --> 00:27:19,760 Speaker 5: Are you telling you that you're hold on standby? We 652 00:27:19,760 --> 00:27:20,280 Speaker 5: got two questions. 653 00:27:20,359 --> 00:27:23,280 Speaker 3: One here, I'm gonna go over first to lunchbox, go ahead. 654 00:27:23,480 --> 00:27:25,520 Speaker 6: How did you determine which team you went with? Because 655 00:27:25,520 --> 00:27:27,600 Speaker 6: I'm sure more than one listener offered you a spot 656 00:27:27,640 --> 00:27:28,360 Speaker 6: on their team. 657 00:27:28,280 --> 00:27:31,080 Speaker 3: Because this is a co ed wreck team where I 658 00:27:31,119 --> 00:27:32,760 Speaker 3: know they're not I will take it seriously, but I 659 00:27:32,800 --> 00:27:34,360 Speaker 3: don't want to show up and suck on a really 660 00:27:34,359 --> 00:27:37,040 Speaker 3: good team. I think I'm okay, And so I was 661 00:27:37,040 --> 00:27:39,280 Speaker 3: like it sounds fun, and he's like, you can play 662 00:27:39,280 --> 00:27:40,560 Speaker 3: first base? We have that we have it open I'm 663 00:27:40,600 --> 00:27:42,359 Speaker 3: left handed. I just played first base or outfield, so 664 00:27:42,400 --> 00:27:43,800 Speaker 3: I got some wheels on me. But I'm going to 665 00:27:43,840 --> 00:27:45,480 Speaker 3: play first base, and I think that's what I'm gonna do. 666 00:27:45,720 --> 00:27:47,760 Speaker 4: Like do they practice during the week too, so you 667 00:27:47,760 --> 00:27:48,160 Speaker 4: have games? 668 00:27:48,240 --> 00:27:50,600 Speaker 5: That's a great question. You must practice, I don't think so. 669 00:27:50,720 --> 00:27:52,760 Speaker 4: But you just show up and like know how to 670 00:27:52,760 --> 00:27:53,280 Speaker 4: work together. 671 00:27:53,920 --> 00:27:57,760 Speaker 7: Well, it's baseball, I know I kind of know what 672 00:27:57,800 --> 00:27:58,800 Speaker 7: to do when the ball gets hit. 673 00:27:58,800 --> 00:27:59,280 Speaker 5: I don't even know. 674 00:27:59,280 --> 00:28:01,880 Speaker 3: You haven't play a single game. But what's your team name? 675 00:28:01,920 --> 00:28:04,439 Speaker 3: I don't know anything about it. If I can't commit. 676 00:28:04,680 --> 00:28:06,200 Speaker 3: All I said was if it's a nine o'clock game, 677 00:28:06,200 --> 00:28:06,800 Speaker 3: I can't play. 678 00:28:07,280 --> 00:28:08,800 Speaker 5: Are are they younger? Older? 679 00:28:08,880 --> 00:28:10,800 Speaker 3: No? I did didn't look at their question. I just 680 00:28:10,840 --> 00:28:12,920 Speaker 3: blindly said I think I'm in because I want to 681 00:28:12,920 --> 00:28:14,480 Speaker 3: play that bad. And I had some other people offer, 682 00:28:14,560 --> 00:28:16,360 Speaker 3: but this person felt I was just in the mood 683 00:28:16,400 --> 00:28:17,080 Speaker 3: when I got that one. 684 00:28:17,359 --> 00:28:19,600 Speaker 5: A name of your question was you're. 685 00:28:19,440 --> 00:28:23,240 Speaker 2: Playing catch with Addie in the backyard, and it's like, okay, 686 00:28:23,359 --> 00:28:26,520 Speaker 2: you're not a child. Stop playing catch. Like if you said, 687 00:28:26,720 --> 00:28:28,480 Speaker 2: why don't have a dad growing up? So like if 688 00:28:28,480 --> 00:28:30,159 Speaker 2: your wife is like, hey, it's time to come in 689 00:28:30,200 --> 00:28:30,679 Speaker 2: for dinner. 690 00:28:30,760 --> 00:28:32,720 Speaker 5: I'm like, can I find more minutes? It's not dark 691 00:28:32,800 --> 00:28:33,360 Speaker 5: yet all the way? 692 00:28:33,560 --> 00:28:35,879 Speaker 2: Do you say, remember I didn't have a dad, and 693 00:28:35,920 --> 00:28:37,240 Speaker 2: this is me catching up on that. 694 00:28:37,560 --> 00:28:37,960 Speaker 5: She knows. 695 00:28:38,200 --> 00:28:40,239 Speaker 7: Do you remember Field of Dreams at the very end 696 00:28:40,240 --> 00:28:42,160 Speaker 7: where he's like, you know, playing catch with his dad. 697 00:28:42,480 --> 00:28:44,360 Speaker 7: That's kind of what it's like in the backyard, dude, 698 00:28:44,560 --> 00:28:45,120 Speaker 7: Eddie's the ghost. 699 00:28:45,480 --> 00:28:47,800 Speaker 2: So Eddie needs to get home to his family. But 700 00:28:47,840 --> 00:28:49,280 Speaker 2: he's like, you know, I'm just going to be dad to. 701 00:28:49,280 --> 00:28:50,840 Speaker 5: Bobby right now. We're like in a time machine. 702 00:28:50,880 --> 00:28:54,400 Speaker 3: Right now, we played catching a time machine in the yard. 703 00:28:56,480 --> 00:28:57,440 Speaker 5: Pile of stories. 704 00:28:57,480 --> 00:29:00,640 Speaker 2: All right, I have a relationship rules that actually work, 705 00:29:01,120 --> 00:29:01,920 Speaker 2: so I'll run through them. 706 00:29:01,960 --> 00:29:03,400 Speaker 5: You tell me how you the rules I have? Now, 707 00:29:04,040 --> 00:29:05,959 Speaker 5: maybe you could use some updating. All right. 708 00:29:06,320 --> 00:29:09,000 Speaker 4: Fights should be about solving the problem, not winning. 709 00:29:09,040 --> 00:29:12,880 Speaker 3: Winning only you know it solves the problem winning. Uh yeah, 710 00:29:12,960 --> 00:29:15,560 Speaker 3: but that's not just in relationship. That's all life. But 711 00:29:15,760 --> 00:29:18,479 Speaker 3: I'm not saying that's good the healthy thing. Yeah right, 712 00:29:18,920 --> 00:29:19,880 Speaker 3: you should be about. 713 00:29:19,800 --> 00:29:21,680 Speaker 5: For me, it's healthy solving the problem. I hear you 714 00:29:21,720 --> 00:29:22,080 Speaker 5: go ahead. 715 00:29:22,440 --> 00:29:25,280 Speaker 2: Never bring up past arguments, is ammo in a current 716 00:29:25,320 --> 00:29:26,600 Speaker 2: Fight's not pretty good at that. 717 00:29:26,640 --> 00:29:28,959 Speaker 5: Rule, But how do we know that one? I tend 718 00:29:29,000 --> 00:29:32,120 Speaker 5: to keep notes on everything, all of you really us. 719 00:29:32,280 --> 00:29:36,440 Speaker 4: Yeah, once it's forgiven, then we need to do it 720 00:29:36,440 --> 00:29:37,080 Speaker 4: and say forgiven. 721 00:29:37,120 --> 00:29:39,160 Speaker 5: But I bring it up is I've forgiven you for this, 722 00:29:39,280 --> 00:29:42,960 Speaker 5: but remember this. That's not forgiveness. That's not okay, Okay, I. 723 00:29:42,960 --> 00:29:45,080 Speaker 4: Love this one, just in any situation in life. 724 00:29:45,160 --> 00:29:50,280 Speaker 2: But assume the best, assume good intent until other evidence 725 00:29:50,360 --> 00:29:50,760 Speaker 2: is given. 726 00:29:50,840 --> 00:29:51,800 Speaker 4: Like, assume the best in people. 727 00:29:51,920 --> 00:29:54,600 Speaker 3: The evidence is while we're fighting, But what if you're 728 00:29:54,600 --> 00:29:56,120 Speaker 3: the one at faul that's. 729 00:29:55,920 --> 00:29:58,120 Speaker 2: Never the case, or like, don't get mad at them 730 00:29:58,120 --> 00:30:00,280 Speaker 2: for something when you don't know the full story. It's like, 731 00:30:00,320 --> 00:30:02,320 Speaker 2: assume the best in that person and then maybe you 732 00:30:02,360 --> 00:30:03,280 Speaker 2: can find us. 733 00:30:03,200 --> 00:30:06,080 Speaker 5: All all that. That's a human nature thing. I think. 734 00:30:06,960 --> 00:30:08,240 Speaker 5: I think I tried to do that, but I don't 735 00:30:08,280 --> 00:30:09,120 Speaker 5: do a very good job of it. 736 00:30:09,160 --> 00:30:11,520 Speaker 2: Okay, what about this one. Don't expect them to read 737 00:30:11,560 --> 00:30:11,960 Speaker 2: your mind. 738 00:30:12,040 --> 00:30:13,360 Speaker 5: I do with my wife to not with you guys. 739 00:30:13,360 --> 00:30:14,880 Speaker 5: This is a universal fighting thing for me to go. 740 00:30:14,880 --> 00:30:16,960 Speaker 2: Ahead, Yeah, don't expect them to read your mind, and 741 00:30:17,000 --> 00:30:19,000 Speaker 2: don't play mind reading games yourself. 742 00:30:19,000 --> 00:30:21,480 Speaker 5: I expected mine to be fully read and predicted. 743 00:30:21,800 --> 00:30:22,640 Speaker 4: They can't but I don't. 744 00:30:22,680 --> 00:30:24,960 Speaker 3: I guess I don't expect it consciously, but we're together 745 00:30:25,000 --> 00:30:26,920 Speaker 3: all the time. I'm like, oh, she definitely knows I 746 00:30:26,960 --> 00:30:28,560 Speaker 3: do this or think this, and it's not fair. I 747 00:30:28,600 --> 00:30:31,760 Speaker 3: would have I stuck with these rules, all of them. 748 00:30:32,080 --> 00:30:34,800 Speaker 4: Honestly, I know some of your ways. 749 00:30:34,880 --> 00:30:36,520 Speaker 5: You need to stop. Go ahead only. 750 00:30:36,280 --> 00:30:39,520 Speaker 4: Because you've shared. Okay, Uh, what can I do to help? 751 00:30:39,680 --> 00:30:40,880 Speaker 4: Is way more powerful? 752 00:30:40,920 --> 00:30:41,120 Speaker 1: Then? 753 00:30:41,440 --> 00:30:42,360 Speaker 4: Why didn't you. 754 00:30:44,160 --> 00:30:46,239 Speaker 5: Powerful? In what way? I feel better after why didn't you? 755 00:30:46,520 --> 00:30:48,280 Speaker 5: I feel more powerful when I say why didn't you? 756 00:30:48,400 --> 00:30:50,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, but you could come along and say, hey, well, 757 00:30:50,760 --> 00:30:52,080 Speaker 2: how can I help you with this? 758 00:30:52,440 --> 00:30:55,440 Speaker 5: But most fights aren't how can I help you with this? 759 00:30:56,080 --> 00:30:56,320 Speaker 1: See? 760 00:30:56,520 --> 00:30:58,200 Speaker 3: Most fights are I'm sorry, I didn't clean my feet 761 00:30:58,240 --> 00:30:59,800 Speaker 3: before I went to bed, that's all me. 762 00:31:00,160 --> 00:31:01,560 Speaker 7: Does it work to say, like, what do you want 763 00:31:01,600 --> 00:31:01,920 Speaker 7: me to do? 764 00:31:02,320 --> 00:31:02,400 Speaker 2: No? 765 00:31:02,640 --> 00:31:05,720 Speaker 3: It doesn't, Guy, I'll do the thing I'm so terrible 766 00:31:05,720 --> 00:31:06,920 Speaker 3: to fight with. I'm like, just tell me what to 767 00:31:06,920 --> 00:31:07,640 Speaker 3: say and I'll say it to you. 768 00:31:07,800 --> 00:31:08,640 Speaker 5: Right, That's what I'm saying. 769 00:31:09,680 --> 00:31:11,640 Speaker 3: ILL learn from that. I don't want to be he anymore, 770 00:31:11,640 --> 00:31:12,800 Speaker 3: so just tell me what to say. And she's like, 771 00:31:12,840 --> 00:31:14,360 Speaker 3: then you don't mean it. But then there's no way 772 00:31:14,360 --> 00:31:16,240 Speaker 3: I could possibly say it because I've already said to 773 00:31:16,240 --> 00:31:17,160 Speaker 3: tell me what to say. 774 00:31:17,360 --> 00:31:19,320 Speaker 2: These are just rules in a relationship. Not all of 775 00:31:19,360 --> 00:31:22,120 Speaker 2: them pertain to fighting. It's like you could get mad, 776 00:31:22,160 --> 00:31:25,040 Speaker 2: like Caitlyn could see you did something weird that you 777 00:31:25,080 --> 00:31:27,520 Speaker 2: never do with the laundry or the dishes or whatever 778 00:31:27,520 --> 00:31:30,120 Speaker 2: you do, and she could be like, why didn't you. 779 00:31:30,080 --> 00:31:30,800 Speaker 4: Do it this way? 780 00:31:30,920 --> 00:31:33,760 Speaker 2: She could say, how can I help you learn how 781 00:31:33,760 --> 00:31:35,000 Speaker 2: to do this right? 782 00:31:35,400 --> 00:31:38,320 Speaker 5: Like, I don't like your tone. 783 00:31:38,200 --> 00:31:42,000 Speaker 2: That yeah, okay, So have you ever been told facts 784 00:31:42,080 --> 00:31:42,600 Speaker 2: no printer? 785 00:31:43,320 --> 00:31:46,440 Speaker 3: Well? Yeah, I sent facts emojis when it's like, that's correct, 786 00:31:46,440 --> 00:31:48,480 Speaker 3: I's a over a fax machine, s a X. 787 00:31:48,680 --> 00:31:51,239 Speaker 5: Yeah, I's in a fact machine. You do Yeah, all 788 00:31:51,280 --> 00:31:51,640 Speaker 5: of us. 789 00:31:51,880 --> 00:31:55,920 Speaker 3: Millennials do that, okay, gin z So just my wife 790 00:31:55,960 --> 00:31:57,360 Speaker 3: does it all the time to me, she sends fax 791 00:31:57,520 --> 00:31:59,440 Speaker 3: machine if something she says and it turns out be true, 792 00:31:59,560 --> 00:32:00,480 Speaker 3: says me machines. 793 00:32:00,520 --> 00:32:01,760 Speaker 5: I've just started doing it because she does it all 794 00:32:01,800 --> 00:32:02,040 Speaker 5: the time. 795 00:32:02,200 --> 00:32:02,680 Speaker 3: Yeah. 796 00:32:02,760 --> 00:32:06,080 Speaker 2: So if your younger friends or your kids are saying 797 00:32:06,440 --> 00:32:09,240 Speaker 2: facts and then they add no printer, it's just a 798 00:32:09,280 --> 00:32:12,320 Speaker 2: way of saying like this is legit the truth. Like 799 00:32:12,360 --> 00:32:14,160 Speaker 2: what I'm saying is like, I don't even need to 800 00:32:14,200 --> 00:32:16,320 Speaker 2: print it out. I'm just gonna beopop it right on 801 00:32:16,400 --> 00:32:18,400 Speaker 2: over to you be a fax facts. 802 00:32:19,760 --> 00:32:20,400 Speaker 5: Okay, what else? 803 00:32:20,760 --> 00:32:23,040 Speaker 2: So the boot dot Com had this whole story about 804 00:32:23,160 --> 00:32:25,480 Speaker 2: what album you can't live without? Like if you're on 805 00:32:25,520 --> 00:32:28,000 Speaker 2: a deserted island and you only get one album the 806 00:32:28,000 --> 00:32:28,600 Speaker 2: rest of your. 807 00:32:28,440 --> 00:32:29,120 Speaker 4: Life, what will be? 808 00:32:29,480 --> 00:32:32,240 Speaker 2: And they asked Luke Holmbs about it and he said 809 00:32:32,280 --> 00:32:34,680 Speaker 2: it would either be Tom Petty or the Eagles. 810 00:32:35,320 --> 00:32:38,200 Speaker 3: That's not an album. Well, and can you say greatest hits? 811 00:32:38,200 --> 00:32:39,960 Speaker 3: Because I don't feel like that question. You can never 812 00:32:39,960 --> 00:32:40,680 Speaker 3: say greatest hits? 813 00:32:40,840 --> 00:32:41,560 Speaker 4: Well he did. 814 00:32:41,640 --> 00:32:45,160 Speaker 2: He said greatest hits because you get more bang for 815 00:32:45,160 --> 00:32:45,480 Speaker 2: your butt. 816 00:32:45,520 --> 00:32:47,560 Speaker 5: Well, that's not it. It's an album, like you have 817 00:32:47,600 --> 00:32:48,760 Speaker 5: to pick it a literal album. 818 00:32:48,800 --> 00:32:50,520 Speaker 4: Oh, because I was gonna say georgetreit box it. 819 00:32:51,160 --> 00:32:55,560 Speaker 7: Oh my gosh, you can't actually get to it. 820 00:32:56,400 --> 00:32:58,400 Speaker 3: Yeah. I don't think you can pick a greatest hits 821 00:32:58,440 --> 00:33:00,360 Speaker 3: for that question. What album do you you take? 822 00:33:00,400 --> 00:33:02,000 Speaker 5: Amy? No greatest hits allowed? 823 00:33:04,680 --> 00:33:06,400 Speaker 2: Well, yeah, all I have is i'd have to look 824 00:33:06,480 --> 00:33:09,400 Speaker 2: up what the hm hm, just look up what the 825 00:33:09,440 --> 00:33:10,120 Speaker 2: album is called? 826 00:33:10,760 --> 00:33:14,480 Speaker 3: Maybe a George Straight album. Yeah, yeah, Eddie Bob Marley Exodus. 827 00:33:14,680 --> 00:33:16,440 Speaker 3: Is it because you're on an island? Yeah, because I'm 828 00:33:16,440 --> 00:33:18,240 Speaker 3: gonna be on an island and I want Bob Marle. 829 00:33:20,200 --> 00:33:24,920 Speaker 5: Stranded. No, no lunchbox. I guess in M and M 830 00:33:24,920 --> 00:33:28,040 Speaker 5: and album which I mean music got him. I don't 831 00:33:28,040 --> 00:33:30,120 Speaker 5: even know the name of one. No, there's one called 832 00:33:30,240 --> 00:33:31,760 Speaker 5: I think there's one called Curtain Call. 833 00:33:32,240 --> 00:33:33,840 Speaker 3: Yeah, that's not the one you want, you know, I 834 00:33:33,880 --> 00:33:36,040 Speaker 3: don't think that's is that what it's called? 835 00:33:36,120 --> 00:33:38,200 Speaker 5: Well, yeah, well there's a few or an earlier one. 836 00:33:38,200 --> 00:33:39,760 Speaker 5: But I'm just saying I was impressed I knew the 837 00:33:39,840 --> 00:33:40,520 Speaker 5: name of an album. 838 00:33:40,680 --> 00:33:45,640 Speaker 3: Yeah, I probably go probably Counting Crows across the lab wire. 839 00:33:45,880 --> 00:33:47,880 Speaker 3: Oh a lot of album now, but that's the greatest hits. 840 00:33:47,920 --> 00:33:50,560 Speaker 3: So I'm probably gonna go counting that's August and everything after. 841 00:33:51,320 --> 00:33:53,920 Speaker 3: I do that August and everything after, or Casey Musgraves, 842 00:33:53,960 --> 00:33:55,120 Speaker 3: like same trailer, different parts. 843 00:33:55,160 --> 00:33:56,360 Speaker 5: That's a good one, man, But. 844 00:33:56,320 --> 00:33:58,240 Speaker 3: I can't do too that's shooting. I'm going counting Crows. 845 00:33:58,480 --> 00:33:59,280 Speaker 3: That's their first one. 846 00:33:59,440 --> 00:34:01,160 Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, all right, Amy, is that it? 847 00:34:01,480 --> 00:34:02,280 Speaker 4: Amy? That's my pile. 848 00:34:03,520 --> 00:34:07,000 Speaker 5: That was Amy's pile of stories. It's time for the 849 00:34:07,040 --> 00:34:13,760 Speaker 5: good News, which Bobby. 850 00:34:12,760 --> 00:34:16,560 Speaker 3: Pulpa families in the news because their entire community stepped up. 851 00:34:16,920 --> 00:34:19,759 Speaker 3: So they had a service dog and it went them 852 00:34:19,760 --> 00:34:23,600 Speaker 3: for a bit, helped them for different medical reasons, and 853 00:34:23,680 --> 00:34:26,800 Speaker 3: the dog went missing after a car crash. So Brian 854 00:34:26,920 --> 00:34:30,280 Speaker 3: Ainsworth was driving his car. The steering wheel fell apart. 855 00:34:30,320 --> 00:34:33,080 Speaker 3: It was an old rebuilt bar. The steering whell comes apart. 856 00:34:33,160 --> 00:34:38,000 Speaker 3: I can you imagine a cartoon. He crashed into a 857 00:34:38,040 --> 00:34:40,239 Speaker 3: creek and then he pushed his way out of the wreck. 858 00:34:40,560 --> 00:34:43,920 Speaker 3: Their dog, Tango, who obviously was freaked out by this 859 00:34:43,960 --> 00:34:47,160 Speaker 3: but was the service dog, took off running. His wife 860 00:34:47,160 --> 00:34:49,239 Speaker 3: shows up and he's all crying, not so much because 861 00:34:49,280 --> 00:34:51,879 Speaker 3: the car, because the dog's gone. And so they get 862 00:34:51,880 --> 00:34:54,399 Speaker 3: on social media and they're like, hey, uh, Tango, our 863 00:34:54,560 --> 00:34:57,600 Speaker 3: service dog is gone. So people that had never even 864 00:34:57,600 --> 00:35:00,279 Speaker 3: met them showed up and they started a huge like 865 00:35:00,360 --> 00:35:03,720 Speaker 3: search party in the community and they ended up finding Tango. 866 00:35:03,800 --> 00:35:06,640 Speaker 3: Somebody didn't even know found Tango because the victure they posted, 867 00:35:06,719 --> 00:35:08,959 Speaker 3: and they ended up coming to the search and Tang 868 00:35:08,960 --> 00:35:11,120 Speaker 3: goes back as a service dog. WIT's family because of 869 00:35:11,160 --> 00:35:13,000 Speaker 3: somebody who did not even have a relationship but just 870 00:35:13,000 --> 00:35:16,040 Speaker 3: saw somebody needed help. Also the steering will coming off. 871 00:35:16,080 --> 00:35:20,799 Speaker 3: Holy freak out, what did you forget to? Like? 872 00:35:20,840 --> 00:35:23,520 Speaker 5: Screw it? Was that a bowl? Wow? 873 00:35:23,880 --> 00:35:27,120 Speaker 3: That's from News on six and shout out to the 874 00:35:27,280 --> 00:35:29,600 Speaker 3: paulpa family and everybody in the neighborhood there in Oklahoma. 875 00:35:29,760 --> 00:35:32,759 Speaker 3: That's what it's all about. That was telling me something good.