1 00:00:00,040 --> 00:00:02,200 Speaker 1: Hello, Hello, Hey, what's up? 2 00:00:02,240 --> 00:00:02,400 Speaker 2: Man? 3 00:00:02,680 --> 00:00:03,280 Speaker 3: Is this Lyle? 4 00:00:04,080 --> 00:00:06,800 Speaker 1: Yes? Sir? Who am I? Who am I speaking with? 5 00:00:06,880 --> 00:00:07,320 Speaker 1: Right now? 6 00:00:07,560 --> 00:00:07,760 Speaker 4: Oh? 7 00:00:07,760 --> 00:00:08,760 Speaker 3: My god? This is Bryce? 8 00:00:09,320 --> 00:00:10,640 Speaker 1: What's up? Bryce? How's life. 9 00:00:12,960 --> 00:00:13,200 Speaker 5: Man? 10 00:00:13,520 --> 00:00:15,800 Speaker 3: It's great, dude. I'm so cheese to be talking to 11 00:00:15,840 --> 00:00:18,680 Speaker 3: you right now. This is insane. I'm a longtime listener, 12 00:00:18,720 --> 00:00:25,200 Speaker 3: first time caller. I guess yeah, yeah, absolutely, brok Yeah, 13 00:00:25,239 --> 00:00:27,000 Speaker 3: what are you doing? How's your night? Treating you? Happy 14 00:00:27,040 --> 00:00:27,840 Speaker 3: Valentine's Day? 15 00:00:28,240 --> 00:00:31,920 Speaker 1: Happy Valentine's Day? Brother? How's my night going? 16 00:00:32,000 --> 00:00:32,200 Speaker 3: Well? 17 00:00:33,120 --> 00:00:37,680 Speaker 1: It's eleven is am where I'm at right now. I'm 18 00:00:37,760 --> 00:00:40,559 Speaker 1: drinking a coffee. I'm having a good morning. I've been 19 00:00:40,600 --> 00:00:42,279 Speaker 1: on a lot of kicks. I've been having a lot 20 00:00:42,280 --> 00:00:47,160 Speaker 1: of epiphanies lately. I don't know if it's too early 21 00:00:47,200 --> 00:00:50,960 Speaker 1: for me to share them, but I've been on I've 22 00:00:50,960 --> 00:00:55,760 Speaker 1: been on a big like like I've I've been going 23 00:00:55,760 --> 00:00:58,320 Speaker 1: through like a kind of a crazy like existential crisis 24 00:00:58,360 --> 00:01:00,360 Speaker 1: and feeling like my brain is broken and it will 25 00:01:00,400 --> 00:01:02,840 Speaker 1: never be fixed, and then I'm doomed. And it's crazy 26 00:01:02,880 --> 00:01:05,160 Speaker 1: because when you feel that way, you kind of begin 27 00:01:05,240 --> 00:01:07,479 Speaker 1: to feel as though nothing will ever, it will never 28 00:01:07,520 --> 00:01:10,120 Speaker 1: get better, and then you like wake up and it 29 00:01:10,160 --> 00:01:14,080 Speaker 1: typically happens to me at night more than in the morning, 30 00:01:14,440 --> 00:01:15,959 Speaker 1: you know. And then I wake up in the morning 31 00:01:16,000 --> 00:01:17,880 Speaker 1: and I drink a coffee and I do some push 32 00:01:17,920 --> 00:01:20,559 Speaker 1: ups and I walk outside, and I'm like, oh, okay, 33 00:01:20,600 --> 00:01:23,679 Speaker 1: it's not we have there's hope in the worlds, you 34 00:01:23,680 --> 00:01:25,840 Speaker 1: know what I mean. And so every time I now, 35 00:01:25,840 --> 00:01:28,039 Speaker 1: when I go into a spiral thought loop of like 36 00:01:28,080 --> 00:01:32,760 Speaker 1: everything is gonna be awful forever, I remember that. A 37 00:01:32,920 --> 00:01:35,840 Speaker 1: bunch of times I had that spiral thought loop and 38 00:01:35,880 --> 00:01:40,240 Speaker 1: then went on to not think that way, you know, 39 00:01:41,080 --> 00:01:44,679 Speaker 1: a week later, a month later, whatever the fuck it is, right, 40 00:01:45,360 --> 00:01:49,120 Speaker 1: And it's you have to just keep relearning that that lesson, 41 00:01:49,840 --> 00:01:53,200 Speaker 1: you know. But yeah, I'm more I feel like I'm 42 00:01:53,240 --> 00:01:58,240 Speaker 1: learning a lot in the past, uh couple couple months 43 00:01:58,640 --> 00:02:03,880 Speaker 1: that I've been and uh hanging out in Japan and uh, 44 00:02:04,440 --> 00:02:07,600 Speaker 1: you know, big, big chilling. I've been learning a lot 45 00:02:07,640 --> 00:02:19,160 Speaker 1: about uh life, myself, prosperity in the universe. Uh. And yeah, 46 00:02:19,280 --> 00:02:22,480 Speaker 1: I'm feeling I'm feeling pretty good. I'm on a little 47 00:02:22,960 --> 00:02:26,280 Speaker 1: rant to you right now. 48 00:02:26,360 --> 00:02:28,280 Speaker 3: How you're kickings? 49 00:02:28,960 --> 00:02:31,600 Speaker 1: I'm trying my bad this morning. I feel pretty good. 50 00:02:31,639 --> 00:02:32,520 Speaker 1: How are you doing? 51 00:02:33,800 --> 00:02:35,480 Speaker 3: I'm doing pretty fantastic. 52 00:02:35,560 --> 00:02:35,800 Speaker 2: Man. 53 00:02:37,840 --> 00:02:41,320 Speaker 3: I just pulled up to an art museum and then 54 00:02:41,320 --> 00:02:45,320 Speaker 3: I saw you were streaming and I was like, I 55 00:02:45,320 --> 00:02:49,320 Speaker 3: got a call. GEK. Also great explanation too, By the way, 56 00:02:49,400 --> 00:02:51,160 Speaker 3: I got to give you some credit for that, because 57 00:02:51,200 --> 00:02:57,320 Speaker 3: I feel like I've been in similar situations, especially post COVID, 58 00:02:59,000 --> 00:03:01,200 Speaker 3: and so I I gotta I gotta give you some 59 00:03:01,240 --> 00:03:04,119 Speaker 3: props a little bit too. You're doing push ups. That's 60 00:03:04,120 --> 00:03:07,960 Speaker 3: more than I'm you know, I got to give you 61 00:03:08,000 --> 00:03:10,359 Speaker 3: some props there. You're cool as fuck, You're kicking ass. 62 00:03:10,400 --> 00:03:13,040 Speaker 3: And too. The whole Japan thing too, that's sick. Like, 63 00:03:13,760 --> 00:03:15,720 Speaker 3: I mean, I really want to go to Japan at 64 00:03:15,760 --> 00:03:18,200 Speaker 3: some point too. But the fact that you're like taking 65 00:03:18,240 --> 00:03:20,400 Speaker 3: some time out there outside of just a quick little 66 00:03:20,760 --> 00:03:22,920 Speaker 3: trip or something over there, I think that's super sick. 67 00:03:24,200 --> 00:03:28,919 Speaker 1: What's well, what's the art museum that you're at right now? 68 00:03:30,360 --> 00:03:30,720 Speaker 6: Uh? 69 00:03:30,720 --> 00:03:34,480 Speaker 3: So I am in Phoenix. So it's the Phoenix Art Museum. 70 00:03:34,920 --> 00:03:39,160 Speaker 3: They're doing a whole little like Valentine's Day event thing tonight. 71 00:03:40,000 --> 00:03:43,400 Speaker 3: So we're gonna step in there and drink some wine 72 00:03:43,480 --> 00:03:45,600 Speaker 3: or something, or I guess we got a photo booth 73 00:03:45,720 --> 00:03:48,040 Speaker 3: or look at some some some art. 74 00:03:48,360 --> 00:03:51,720 Speaker 1: You know that sounds fun, that sounds that sounds kind 75 00:03:51,720 --> 00:03:54,600 Speaker 1: of awesome. Yeah, what what? What are you? Are you there? 76 00:03:54,640 --> 00:03:57,480 Speaker 1: Are you going there by yourself? Is there like a 77 00:03:57,520 --> 00:03:59,800 Speaker 1: speed dating aspect to this? 78 00:04:03,240 --> 00:04:06,960 Speaker 3: So no, I am with I'm going with somebody, but 79 00:04:07,000 --> 00:04:08,320 Speaker 3: they keep shaking their head at me. 80 00:04:08,960 --> 00:04:11,400 Speaker 1: Okay, that's what I was gonna say. Is I was 81 00:04:11,400 --> 00:04:14,640 Speaker 1: gonna say, are we in a parked car with your 82 00:04:14,680 --> 00:04:19,640 Speaker 1: angry girlfriend who's like it dressed up nicely for the 83 00:04:19,920 --> 00:04:24,839 Speaker 1: for the of everything. She's probably like she put on makeup, 84 00:04:24,920 --> 00:04:28,800 Speaker 1: she's like dressed, she's ready to go into the art museum, 85 00:04:28,880 --> 00:04:32,440 Speaker 1: and she's just sitting in a parked car while you 86 00:04:32,520 --> 00:04:38,960 Speaker 1: talk to the therapy gecko. That's fucked. 87 00:04:40,320 --> 00:04:42,120 Speaker 3: I swear to god. I said, we gotta call him 88 00:04:42,200 --> 00:04:44,200 Speaker 3: right now, And I kept dialing your number, like. 89 00:04:45,600 --> 00:04:49,679 Speaker 1: Bro, can I talk to her? Or she like pissed? 90 00:04:50,800 --> 00:04:54,240 Speaker 3: Do you want to talk to Is that? Okay? Okay, 91 00:04:54,480 --> 00:04:55,720 Speaker 3: here we go, get you ready? 92 00:04:56,120 --> 00:04:57,640 Speaker 7: Yeah? 93 00:04:59,279 --> 00:05:03,360 Speaker 1: Hi, Hey, what's up? I'm sorry to ruin your date night. 94 00:05:05,040 --> 00:05:05,200 Speaker 8: No. 95 00:05:05,640 --> 00:05:07,719 Speaker 9: I was the one who told him we should call 96 00:05:07,760 --> 00:05:08,520 Speaker 9: while we're here. 97 00:05:08,960 --> 00:05:12,760 Speaker 1: Oh that's so that's so sweet, that's so nice. That's 98 00:05:12,839 --> 00:05:13,480 Speaker 1: that's lovely. 99 00:05:16,120 --> 00:05:19,719 Speaker 9: We've met through We met through Hinge and he got 100 00:05:19,760 --> 00:05:22,640 Speaker 9: me into your podcast. So I've been listening to you 101 00:05:22,680 --> 00:05:25,919 Speaker 9: for maybe like two months now, and every time we 102 00:05:26,040 --> 00:05:30,320 Speaker 9: have the notification on, so every time you're on, we're 103 00:05:30,360 --> 00:05:34,680 Speaker 9: also on listening. And I was trying before didn't get in, 104 00:05:35,000 --> 00:05:37,920 Speaker 9: and the one time we're like, let's just just let's 105 00:05:37,920 --> 00:05:39,640 Speaker 9: just give it a goya. 106 00:05:41,320 --> 00:05:45,400 Speaker 1: It's cool. I'm so I'm curious about uh because the 107 00:05:45,520 --> 00:05:48,839 Speaker 1: last episode, I'm like recording a bunch of episodes in 108 00:05:48,880 --> 00:05:51,560 Speaker 1: Evans before I go on my little walk, but like 109 00:05:51,640 --> 00:05:55,760 Speaker 1: the last episode before this one is I talked to 110 00:05:55,800 --> 00:05:58,839 Speaker 1: this dude Mo and we talked a lot about like 111 00:05:58,960 --> 00:06:05,080 Speaker 1: pros and cons of like online dating stuff. And it's 112 00:06:05,120 --> 00:06:08,000 Speaker 1: interesting because, uh, so you guys met on Hinge. Right, 113 00:06:08,040 --> 00:06:09,360 Speaker 1: how long ago did you guys meet? 114 00:06:11,360 --> 00:06:14,479 Speaker 9: I think it was the beginning of January, maybe mid 115 00:06:14,560 --> 00:06:21,760 Speaker 9: January of this year? Yes, yes, oh really yeah. 116 00:06:22,279 --> 00:06:24,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, you guys. You guys have been together for you 117 00:06:24,600 --> 00:06:26,000 Speaker 1: guys have been together for a month. 118 00:06:28,000 --> 00:06:29,440 Speaker 9: Uh yeah, a little over a month. 119 00:06:30,320 --> 00:06:33,719 Speaker 1: This is so, this is so, this is it's so 120 00:06:34,000 --> 00:06:37,720 Speaker 1: nice because you guys are in such a fresh new 121 00:06:37,880 --> 00:06:41,880 Speaker 1: thing and you're kind enough to again, be you're you're 122 00:06:41,920 --> 00:06:45,279 Speaker 1: probably sitting It's so kind of you to be sitting 123 00:06:45,320 --> 00:06:49,440 Speaker 1: in a parked car with with this man being like, 124 00:06:49,600 --> 00:06:52,520 Speaker 1: it's okay, we don't have to do uh you know, 125 00:06:52,760 --> 00:06:55,200 Speaker 1: just just letting let it, letting him call the therapy 126 00:06:55,240 --> 00:06:57,640 Speaker 1: Gecko to delay date night. It's a very. 127 00:06:57,600 --> 00:07:02,640 Speaker 9: Kind I think this is more interesting than a museum. 128 00:07:02,720 --> 00:07:05,840 Speaker 9: No offense, but I've got to be talking to you 129 00:07:05,880 --> 00:07:11,000 Speaker 9: than a museum. It was we've got time, we have 130 00:07:11,080 --> 00:07:14,240 Speaker 9: time for our dinner reservation, so we're good. 131 00:07:14,640 --> 00:07:16,960 Speaker 1: Oh my, you have do you guys? Have you guys 132 00:07:16,960 --> 00:07:20,680 Speaker 1: are talking to the therapy gecko guy going to a 133 00:07:20,760 --> 00:07:23,160 Speaker 1: museum and you guys are living in heaven. This is 134 00:07:23,200 --> 00:07:26,400 Speaker 1: so cool. I'm so uh, thank you for you for 135 00:07:26,440 --> 00:07:28,640 Speaker 1: making this great. And by the way, I just I 136 00:07:28,880 --> 00:07:32,920 Speaker 1: kind of uh, I'm I'm happy the call turned out 137 00:07:32,920 --> 00:07:34,760 Speaker 1: this way because for a second I thought it was 138 00:07:34,800 --> 00:07:38,360 Speaker 1: gonna be kind of sad that like, uh, what what 139 00:07:38,360 --> 00:07:44,000 Speaker 1: what's what? Uh what what's what's what's what's your boyfriend's name? John? 140 00:07:46,640 --> 00:07:47,560 Speaker 5: We can't Bryce? 141 00:07:49,480 --> 00:07:53,440 Speaker 1: Okay, Bryce is bright, he's probably he's a handsome guy. Bryce. 142 00:07:53,600 --> 00:07:54,600 Speaker 1: It's a handsome guy. 143 00:07:54,560 --> 00:07:59,960 Speaker 9: Named So it was kind of funny because I mean 144 00:08:00,280 --> 00:08:05,360 Speaker 9: him call you because I was nervous to call you myself. 145 00:08:06,240 --> 00:08:09,680 Speaker 9: And then as soon as he went through, I was like, 146 00:08:09,720 --> 00:08:13,760 Speaker 9: oh shit, you're gonna ask to talk to me because 147 00:08:13,800 --> 00:08:15,560 Speaker 9: you always do that. Can I talk to the other 148 00:08:15,600 --> 00:08:17,400 Speaker 9: person that's sitting next right next to you? 149 00:08:17,760 --> 00:08:18,000 Speaker 1: Yeah? 150 00:08:18,000 --> 00:08:19,160 Speaker 5: And here here we are. 151 00:08:21,680 --> 00:08:26,679 Speaker 1: So what how how uh how old are you guys? 152 00:08:28,880 --> 00:08:29,840 Speaker 9: We're about twenty eight? 153 00:08:30,480 --> 00:08:34,880 Speaker 1: Cool? Cool? What was the first uh date from from 154 00:08:35,000 --> 00:08:35,520 Speaker 1: the Hinge? 155 00:08:37,720 --> 00:08:38,240 Speaker 9: First state? 156 00:08:38,559 --> 00:08:39,520 Speaker 3: Was a cocktail bar? 157 00:08:40,760 --> 00:08:41,320 Speaker 8: Was it? Yeah? 158 00:08:41,679 --> 00:08:42,920 Speaker 3: A little ritual. 159 00:08:43,400 --> 00:08:45,679 Speaker 9: I'm like, sorry, I'm like so nervous right now, I'm 160 00:08:45,760 --> 00:08:51,280 Speaker 9: like to give you a cute little cocktail bar. And 161 00:08:51,440 --> 00:08:54,040 Speaker 9: I kind of scared you when I like popped up. 162 00:08:54,960 --> 00:08:57,800 Speaker 9: I was like trying to go for that. You were waiting, 163 00:08:57,880 --> 00:09:00,839 Speaker 9: you were waiting for me, like outside the the restaurant, 164 00:09:01,520 --> 00:09:04,480 Speaker 9: and I kind of I tried to scare him. I 165 00:09:04,480 --> 00:09:05,680 Speaker 9: don't know if that really worked. 166 00:09:06,960 --> 00:09:09,440 Speaker 1: Wait wait wait wait wait what Like he was like 167 00:09:09,520 --> 00:09:11,439 Speaker 1: he was like sitting down, and you were like, I'm 168 00:09:11,440 --> 00:09:14,280 Speaker 1: gonna like he creep up behind him and spook him. 169 00:09:14,480 --> 00:09:19,920 Speaker 9: I'm gonna like count at him. Yeah, and then he 170 00:09:20,000 --> 00:09:23,720 Speaker 9: said our hellos. We hugged and then we had to 171 00:09:23,760 --> 00:09:26,840 Speaker 9: the cocktail bar was upstairs. We had to go into 172 00:09:26,880 --> 00:09:29,760 Speaker 9: an elevator and there was this older couple with us, 173 00:09:29,800 --> 00:09:33,360 Speaker 9: and it was it was a whole awkward. He was 174 00:09:33,360 --> 00:09:36,319 Speaker 9: trying to make conversation with him and it didn't go anywhere. 175 00:09:38,440 --> 00:09:40,400 Speaker 8: But the date was the date was great. 176 00:09:41,480 --> 00:09:46,800 Speaker 9: Our waiter was really cool. Jello shots my first jellow 177 00:09:46,800 --> 00:09:49,800 Speaker 9: shot ever. I'm kind of a nube when it comes 178 00:09:49,800 --> 00:09:53,320 Speaker 9: to drinking. I never really did any that stuff until 179 00:09:53,360 --> 00:09:58,120 Speaker 9: like maybe past year or so. Mm hmm, kind of 180 00:09:58,120 --> 00:09:58,880 Speaker 9: a late bloomer. 181 00:09:59,160 --> 00:10:01,480 Speaker 4: I guess how. 182 00:10:01,320 --> 00:10:04,439 Speaker 1: Did uh did you avoid alcohol for like any particular 183 00:10:04,679 --> 00:10:06,080 Speaker 1: reason or you just never interest you? 184 00:10:07,600 --> 00:10:10,559 Speaker 9: It just never interested in me until I went through 185 00:10:10,600 --> 00:10:15,600 Speaker 9: like a long term relationship breakup and then I kind 186 00:10:15,600 --> 00:10:17,360 Speaker 9: of dipped my toe into that world. 187 00:10:18,320 --> 00:10:18,800 Speaker 6: Mm hmmm. 188 00:10:19,320 --> 00:10:22,040 Speaker 1: That's a yeah, that's a that's a valid excuse, it's 189 00:10:22,040 --> 00:10:23,840 Speaker 1: a valid reason to start drinking. 190 00:10:24,480 --> 00:10:24,640 Speaker 8: Yeah. 191 00:10:24,679 --> 00:10:29,880 Speaker 1: I think, Wow, this is so this is this is 192 00:10:30,000 --> 00:10:35,120 Speaker 1: really adorable. I'm really uh, I'm I don't know why, 193 00:10:35,200 --> 00:10:38,200 Speaker 1: but I'm blushing right now. I'm I'm on, this is 194 00:10:38,240 --> 00:10:45,400 Speaker 1: a very adorable phone call. This is so nice. I'm 195 00:10:45,440 --> 00:10:47,880 Speaker 1: trying to think of what other questions I have for 196 00:10:47,920 --> 00:10:49,800 Speaker 1: you guys, how many let me ask let me ask 197 00:10:49,840 --> 00:10:51,320 Speaker 1: you this, Let me ask you this, because again this 198 00:10:51,480 --> 00:10:57,280 Speaker 1: runs in such contrast to not in such contrast, but 199 00:10:57,320 --> 00:11:00,520 Speaker 1: it's it's an interesting perspective shift. I think from from 200 00:11:00,559 --> 00:11:06,400 Speaker 1: the last episode do how long were you were you 201 00:11:06,520 --> 00:11:13,240 Speaker 1: swipping and swiping before you guys matched with each other? 202 00:11:15,200 --> 00:11:19,240 Speaker 9: So I was I started hinge. So I never did 203 00:11:19,240 --> 00:11:22,480 Speaker 9: any online dating either. I took like maybe like a 204 00:11:22,559 --> 00:11:26,400 Speaker 9: two year break after my long term relationship, and then 205 00:11:26,520 --> 00:11:29,880 Speaker 9: I kind of downloaded hinge as a joke. I wasn't 206 00:11:29,920 --> 00:11:32,240 Speaker 9: going to take it seriously. And I think that was 207 00:11:32,240 --> 00:11:36,080 Speaker 9: at the beginning of twenty twenty four, so like maybe 208 00:11:36,120 --> 00:11:39,599 Speaker 9: like March of twenty twenty four is then like I 209 00:11:40,200 --> 00:11:44,640 Speaker 9: started kind of dabbling in that went on most multiple 210 00:11:44,720 --> 00:11:48,320 Speaker 9: dates with multiple people, and uh that was kind of 211 00:11:48,360 --> 00:11:52,440 Speaker 9: a shit show and had some hard lessons, But like, 212 00:11:53,200 --> 00:11:55,400 Speaker 9: I think I found a good guy this time. 213 00:11:56,360 --> 00:11:59,079 Speaker 5: I'm looking right at I hope. 214 00:11:59,120 --> 00:12:01,559 Speaker 1: So can I talk to Bryce? I want to hear 215 00:12:01,600 --> 00:12:03,440 Speaker 1: what his journey's been back too. 216 00:12:04,160 --> 00:12:08,079 Speaker 3: Yeah, Oh my god, Gek, I get to speak to 217 00:12:08,080 --> 00:12:08,960 Speaker 3: you twice in one night. 218 00:12:11,880 --> 00:12:15,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, man, what's how has your hinge journey been? 219 00:12:16,440 --> 00:12:16,640 Speaker 3: Oh? 220 00:12:16,720 --> 00:12:17,040 Speaker 1: Dude. 221 00:12:17,720 --> 00:12:19,480 Speaker 3: So she put it really well. It was definitely a 222 00:12:19,520 --> 00:12:22,160 Speaker 3: shit show. Although I will admit Hinge is way better 223 00:12:22,840 --> 00:12:28,320 Speaker 3: than bumble, Tinder the others for sure, the more reliable app, 224 00:12:28,360 --> 00:12:30,360 Speaker 3: I feel like. And it's not even that like I've 225 00:12:30,400 --> 00:12:34,880 Speaker 3: ever done well with dating apps. However, I feel like 226 00:12:34,920 --> 00:12:38,520 Speaker 3: the dates have been at least mid to good on 227 00:12:38,960 --> 00:12:42,320 Speaker 3: the spectrum of most dates that I've probably had gone 228 00:12:42,360 --> 00:12:44,600 Speaker 3: on on Hinge, which was really only kind of like 229 00:12:44,600 --> 00:12:48,319 Speaker 3: a handful. But yeah, I don't know. I will say though, 230 00:12:48,520 --> 00:12:50,240 Speaker 3: I was probably on it for like two years or 231 00:12:50,280 --> 00:12:53,440 Speaker 3: something like that, and this is definitely, I think the best. 232 00:12:53,920 --> 00:12:56,240 Speaker 3: Not I think it definitely is the best I've felt 233 00:12:57,400 --> 00:12:59,280 Speaker 3: about someone that I had met on a dating app. 234 00:12:59,320 --> 00:12:59,720 Speaker 2: For sure. 235 00:13:01,400 --> 00:13:02,120 Speaker 1: That's so nice. 236 00:13:02,120 --> 00:13:02,960 Speaker 3: He's looking at me. 237 00:13:03,480 --> 00:13:06,720 Speaker 1: That's so nice. God damn. I finally some hope and 238 00:13:06,800 --> 00:13:12,160 Speaker 1: this god forsaken piece of shit fucking universe some hope. Dude. 239 00:13:12,240 --> 00:13:13,040 Speaker 1: I love it. 240 00:13:13,240 --> 00:13:13,760 Speaker 8: I love it. 241 00:13:14,679 --> 00:13:18,880 Speaker 1: I love. Love is real. Love is real. Love is real. 242 00:13:19,040 --> 00:13:25,880 Speaker 1: People listening to the fucking Therapy Gecko podcast, geez oh man, 243 00:13:26,120 --> 00:13:28,520 Speaker 1: love is real. Chat that's so no. I'm so uh. 244 00:13:29,000 --> 00:13:31,360 Speaker 1: I'm very jazzed by this phone call. Okay, I'm gonna, 245 00:13:31,400 --> 00:13:33,600 Speaker 1: I'm I'm done with you guys. I'm gonna let you 246 00:13:34,360 --> 00:13:37,520 Speaker 1: actually go into the uh into the museum. I'm I 247 00:13:37,559 --> 00:13:40,520 Speaker 1: don't want to interrupt date night any longer. 248 00:13:41,600 --> 00:13:44,480 Speaker 3: But oh, dude, no, this is the best date because 249 00:13:45,120 --> 00:13:47,280 Speaker 3: sure we I just picked her up maybe like twenty 250 00:13:47,280 --> 00:13:49,720 Speaker 3: minutes ago, to like cool. This is about the best 251 00:13:49,760 --> 00:13:52,520 Speaker 3: way we could have started a day. Hands down, dude. 252 00:13:52,720 --> 00:13:57,559 Speaker 1: What's her name again? Her name is Elise, Elise, can talk? 253 00:13:57,880 --> 00:13:59,240 Speaker 1: Let me talk to Elise real quick. 254 00:14:00,360 --> 00:14:02,520 Speaker 3: You bet here you go at least? 255 00:14:02,600 --> 00:14:03,720 Speaker 1: Is there anything else you want to say to the 256 00:14:03,720 --> 00:14:05,240 Speaker 1: people of the computer before we go? 257 00:14:08,840 --> 00:14:12,120 Speaker 9: Just to be kind. You never know what someone is 258 00:14:12,160 --> 00:14:16,319 Speaker 9: going through. Just be kind and gentle. 259 00:14:17,520 --> 00:14:19,400 Speaker 8: Yeah, where's. 260 00:14:20,920 --> 00:14:23,720 Speaker 1: Uh Bryce slash John? Anything else? 261 00:14:24,200 --> 00:14:26,440 Speaker 5: Yeah? Oh do you have anything else? 262 00:14:26,520 --> 00:14:26,600 Speaker 1: Oh? 263 00:14:26,720 --> 00:14:30,880 Speaker 3: Sure, I'm gonna also say be kind. But I'm also 264 00:14:31,960 --> 00:14:36,280 Speaker 3: I'm gonna say that I hope everybody's doing really well 265 00:14:36,280 --> 00:14:38,520 Speaker 3: twenty twenty five. I think for some people has been 266 00:14:38,520 --> 00:14:42,720 Speaker 3: off to like a difficult start, And I hope that 267 00:14:43,160 --> 00:14:46,680 Speaker 3: everybody in the chat listening knows that I love them 268 00:14:47,160 --> 00:14:52,560 Speaker 3: and I wish them a fantastic year ahead. And that's it. 269 00:14:53,760 --> 00:14:57,280 Speaker 1: Thanks Bunny, al Right, you guys. You guys enjoy enjoy 270 00:14:57,440 --> 00:15:00,520 Speaker 1: being happy. You guys enjoy what you guys enjoy being happy. 271 00:15:00,560 --> 00:15:04,760 Speaker 1: We're all we're all gonna live vicariously through uh your 272 00:15:04,800 --> 00:15:11,359 Speaker 1: happiness and alleviate all of our personal degrees. Okay, bye guys. 273 00:15:12,160 --> 00:15:15,320 Speaker 3: Oh man, hey, bye bye gack sea. 274 00:15:16,400 --> 00:15:20,600 Speaker 1: Well that was so now. I don't I really, I don't. 275 00:15:20,720 --> 00:15:25,240 Speaker 1: Often the word wholesome makes me feel gross. I don't 276 00:15:25,360 --> 00:15:30,480 Speaker 1: like it. It feels like performative and weird. But that 277 00:15:30,640 --> 00:15:35,040 Speaker 1: was I I that was a very wholesome phone call. 278 00:15:35,080 --> 00:15:39,960 Speaker 1: I really enjoyed that. And it's interesting again because on 279 00:15:40,000 --> 00:15:44,680 Speaker 1: the last episode we talked to Mo about this dating 280 00:15:44,720 --> 00:15:46,840 Speaker 1: app journey, and I think a lot a lot of 281 00:15:46,880 --> 00:15:56,080 Speaker 1: people are uh uh disillusioned with like dating apps and 282 00:15:56,120 --> 00:15:59,400 Speaker 1: with trying to find someone. And there's a lot of 283 00:15:59,440 --> 00:16:02,800 Speaker 1: like content on the internet and a lot of like 284 00:16:02,960 --> 00:16:13,040 Speaker 1: general I think social thought is kind of pessimistic, and 285 00:16:13,120 --> 00:16:17,160 Speaker 1: so it was cool to talk to these two people 286 00:16:17,800 --> 00:16:22,880 Speaker 1: who are like, you know, yeah, we met this year, 287 00:16:22,960 --> 00:16:25,320 Speaker 1: and you can tell, you can just tell by the 288 00:16:25,400 --> 00:16:28,400 Speaker 1: fact that they're sitting in the car in a parked 289 00:16:28,440 --> 00:16:34,920 Speaker 1: car together calling me that they have a nice rapport 290 00:16:35,080 --> 00:16:39,480 Speaker 1: with one another after a very short period of time. 291 00:16:39,840 --> 00:16:41,840 Speaker 1: But it wasn't a short period of time. I mean, 292 00:16:41,880 --> 00:16:44,400 Speaker 1: listen to I call him John. I'm gonna call him 293 00:16:44,480 --> 00:16:47,920 Speaker 1: John again, John, Bryce. Oh, Bryce, I'll call him Bryce. 294 00:16:48,840 --> 00:16:50,840 Speaker 1: And Bryce is like, yeah, I was in a fucking 295 00:16:52,080 --> 00:16:54,280 Speaker 1: on the fucking app for two years and most of 296 00:16:54,320 --> 00:16:56,400 Speaker 1: it sucked, and then this one. It took two years 297 00:16:56,800 --> 00:17:01,160 Speaker 1: to find the best one, and then you got uh 298 00:17:01,560 --> 00:17:03,880 Speaker 1: at least She's like, yeah, I was in a long 299 00:17:03,960 --> 00:17:06,399 Speaker 1: term thing, Like yeah, it's just it's just good to 300 00:17:06,520 --> 00:17:10,000 Speaker 1: have a hopeful phone call because so much I think 301 00:17:10,119 --> 00:17:15,680 Speaker 1: popular sentiment is a bit uh, a bit doo Marie, 302 00:17:16,520 --> 00:17:18,960 Speaker 1: you know what I mean. So that was good. That 303 00:17:19,040 --> 00:17:23,399 Speaker 1: gave that gave me hope for the planet. That and 304 00:17:23,480 --> 00:17:26,879 Speaker 1: I hope, I hope everyone listening to this uh uh 305 00:17:27,359 --> 00:17:31,560 Speaker 1: podcast has hoped that eventually they will also uh find 306 00:17:31,600 --> 00:17:36,560 Speaker 1: someone to sit in a parked car with and talk 307 00:17:36,640 --> 00:17:42,920 Speaker 1: to un a crazy internet guy with. It was cool. 308 00:17:42,960 --> 00:17:44,520 Speaker 1: I like, I liked that phone call. 309 00:17:46,280 --> 00:17:49,960 Speaker 5: No freaking way, It's really me. 310 00:17:50,040 --> 00:17:59,200 Speaker 1: What's your what's your what's your name, Homie, Cindy, what's up, 311 00:17:59,200 --> 00:18:01,800 Speaker 1: how you doing, how's life, what's going on? What brings 312 00:18:01,800 --> 00:18:06,800 Speaker 1: you to call into the The Therapy Gecko Show today. 313 00:18:07,560 --> 00:18:09,560 Speaker 5: Oh my god, this is wild. 314 00:18:09,720 --> 00:18:09,919 Speaker 8: You know. 315 00:18:10,160 --> 00:18:13,359 Speaker 5: I have been watching you on and off for like 316 00:18:13,560 --> 00:18:19,280 Speaker 5: I don't know, maybe like I don't know, three five years, 317 00:18:20,520 --> 00:18:24,119 Speaker 5: and I see you have the number on your screen, 318 00:18:24,240 --> 00:18:26,080 Speaker 5: and I'm always like, oh my god, maybe the day 319 00:18:26,080 --> 00:18:28,119 Speaker 5: will be the day. Today will be the day. And 320 00:18:28,160 --> 00:18:30,440 Speaker 5: I looked at my fiance and I said, today is 321 00:18:30,480 --> 00:18:31,359 Speaker 5: going to be the day. 322 00:18:31,520 --> 00:18:35,920 Speaker 1: I feel it sick, and you've caught And the best 323 00:18:35,920 --> 00:18:38,080 Speaker 1: thing is you've caught You've caught me in a I'm 324 00:18:38,119 --> 00:18:42,440 Speaker 1: in a good mood today, which is nice. Sometimes this 325 00:18:42,440 --> 00:18:45,280 Speaker 1: this is what happens to me sometimes is like I'm 326 00:18:45,320 --> 00:18:48,400 Speaker 1: gonna share with you, like my personal experience of doing 327 00:18:48,400 --> 00:18:51,119 Speaker 1: this podcast is like, sometimes I just my mood. My 328 00:18:51,240 --> 00:18:55,280 Speaker 1: mood fluctuates a lot, and the goddamn one of the 329 00:18:55,320 --> 00:18:59,399 Speaker 1: worst feelings that I have doing this podcast is like 330 00:18:59,480 --> 00:19:03,560 Speaker 1: sometimes is like, so right now, I'm like, I'm in 331 00:19:03,600 --> 00:19:06,000 Speaker 1: a good mood. It's the morning, I did some pushups, 332 00:19:06,080 --> 00:19:08,600 Speaker 1: I walked, I'm feeling good. I had a little coffee. 333 00:19:08,640 --> 00:19:10,720 Speaker 1: I'm in a good mood. And so I'm actually I'm 334 00:19:10,720 --> 00:19:13,400 Speaker 1: actually I'm flattered and excited that you're excited to talk 335 00:19:13,440 --> 00:19:16,840 Speaker 1: to me. Sometimes I show up to do so. Sometimes 336 00:19:16,880 --> 00:19:18,560 Speaker 1: I show up to do this and I'm just like, 337 00:19:18,880 --> 00:19:22,359 Speaker 1: I'm just like in a horrible mood. And somebody calls 338 00:19:22,400 --> 00:19:24,680 Speaker 1: in and they can tell they're really excited to talk 339 00:19:24,720 --> 00:19:26,960 Speaker 1: to me or be on the show, and I'm I 340 00:19:26,960 --> 00:19:29,880 Speaker 1: and it's it's the most miserable thing ever because because 341 00:19:29,920 --> 00:19:33,760 Speaker 1: I'm like, oh no, this person is so excited to 342 00:19:34,240 --> 00:19:40,840 Speaker 1: be here, and I am physically incapable of matching their 343 00:19:41,000 --> 00:19:44,200 Speaker 1: energy and excitement. And I feel bad. You know, I'm 344 00:19:44,200 --> 00:19:46,360 Speaker 1: gonna let them down and ship. But I feel good. 345 00:19:46,359 --> 00:19:49,320 Speaker 1: But I feel good today. I feel good today. 346 00:19:49,520 --> 00:19:52,680 Speaker 5: Can't feel You can't feel from an empty empty cup, Guest, 347 00:19:52,840 --> 00:19:53,240 Speaker 5: you can't. 348 00:19:53,280 --> 00:19:56,480 Speaker 1: It's true, you can't. But today my cup, my cup 349 00:19:56,560 --> 00:20:02,240 Speaker 1: is absolutely filled to the brim with coffee and uh 350 00:20:02,280 --> 00:20:04,600 Speaker 1: serotonin for now. So what's up man? 351 00:20:04,640 --> 00:20:04,840 Speaker 5: What? 352 00:20:04,840 --> 00:20:06,720 Speaker 1: What what brings you to call the Gecko Show? 353 00:20:07,720 --> 00:20:09,800 Speaker 5: Well, my cup's about to be filled to the brim 354 00:20:09,840 --> 00:20:15,640 Speaker 5: with wine. So with wine, with wine? 355 00:20:16,119 --> 00:20:19,240 Speaker 1: Cool, let's do it. Let's do it. Let's do it. 356 00:20:19,320 --> 00:20:24,199 Speaker 1: Let's let's uh a wine coffee collab right here? What 357 00:20:26,320 --> 00:20:29,080 Speaker 1: here's the thing we can we can just bullshit about 358 00:20:29,600 --> 00:20:32,119 Speaker 1: life or whatever. But if if, what do you do? 359 00:20:32,200 --> 00:20:33,680 Speaker 1: You have a thing you wanted to talk about? 360 00:20:35,480 --> 00:20:37,639 Speaker 5: No, I just wanted to bullshit about life. And I 361 00:20:37,720 --> 00:20:39,680 Speaker 5: just think it's so cool that I was actually able 362 00:20:39,720 --> 00:20:40,280 Speaker 5: to get through. 363 00:20:44,440 --> 00:20:45,280 Speaker 1: Where Where do you? 364 00:20:45,400 --> 00:20:48,520 Speaker 5: Where are you calling me from California? 365 00:20:49,480 --> 00:20:50,040 Speaker 1: That's cool? 366 00:20:50,480 --> 00:20:50,760 Speaker 5: Uh? 367 00:20:51,520 --> 00:20:54,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, let's let's have a normal person conversation, like we're 368 00:20:54,480 --> 00:20:57,720 Speaker 1: at a cocktail party. Do you like living in California? 369 00:21:00,040 --> 00:21:01,879 Speaker 5: Out of California that I'm not going to tell you 370 00:21:01,880 --> 00:21:02,560 Speaker 5: where I'm from? 371 00:21:02,800 --> 00:21:05,679 Speaker 3: No, but generally, yeah, are you from? 372 00:21:08,359 --> 00:21:13,040 Speaker 5: I'm originally from Norkell. Yeah, I'm originally from northl but 373 00:21:13,440 --> 00:21:18,960 Speaker 5: recently moved to Sokel. And it's there are places in 374 00:21:19,080 --> 00:21:21,240 Speaker 5: Sokel that are better than others. But you know, it's 375 00:21:21,320 --> 00:21:23,000 Speaker 5: nice to be where I am because I get to 376 00:21:23,040 --> 00:21:26,120 Speaker 5: experience a new place and that's always book. I think. 377 00:21:27,440 --> 00:21:30,720 Speaker 1: Uh, pretty beautiful. Where are you? Where are you originally from? 378 00:21:32,560 --> 00:21:34,520 Speaker 5: Oh? The the Bay Area? 379 00:21:35,720 --> 00:21:41,280 Speaker 1: Very cool, very cool. Well what's your. 380 00:21:42,400 --> 00:21:47,560 Speaker 5: Oh he's cooking a dinner, yes, very special. And he said, 381 00:21:47,560 --> 00:21:49,000 Speaker 5: I'm cooking this for you. 382 00:21:49,520 --> 00:21:52,880 Speaker 1: Very nice. Oh yeah, it is cook for you. 383 00:21:54,520 --> 00:21:55,200 Speaker 5: Dump him. 384 00:21:55,560 --> 00:22:00,840 Speaker 1: You're done over, there's no your husband been just groaned 385 00:22:00,840 --> 00:22:04,040 Speaker 1: in the background, I'm joking. 386 00:22:04,040 --> 00:22:06,800 Speaker 5: I'm joking to just maybe ask and then if he 387 00:22:06,800 --> 00:22:09,919 Speaker 5: doesn't do it, I don't know. 388 00:22:09,920 --> 00:22:12,880 Speaker 1: So let's so let's do this. Let's I'm gonna let 389 00:22:12,960 --> 00:22:15,040 Speaker 1: this is sort of this is becoming a bit of 390 00:22:15,040 --> 00:22:20,920 Speaker 1: a themed episode right now? What what uh of? Whether 391 00:22:20,960 --> 00:22:22,920 Speaker 1: this is a themed episode of whether or not love 392 00:22:23,000 --> 00:22:26,080 Speaker 1: is real? Are you boy? 393 00:22:26,320 --> 00:22:26,399 Speaker 8: No? 394 00:22:26,520 --> 00:22:29,399 Speaker 1: It's not really, it's not. Actually, it's just becoming that 395 00:22:29,680 --> 00:22:31,720 Speaker 1: how long have you been with how long have you 396 00:22:31,760 --> 00:22:34,080 Speaker 1: been with your fiance for? How long have you guys have. 397 00:22:34,160 --> 00:22:37,240 Speaker 2: Been together since twenty nineteen? 398 00:22:37,359 --> 00:22:39,720 Speaker 1: Officially okay, okay, that's a long time. 399 00:22:41,400 --> 00:22:44,040 Speaker 5: Yeah, and did you marry this year? 400 00:22:44,720 --> 00:22:45,280 Speaker 1: How did you? Guys? 401 00:22:45,320 --> 00:22:48,160 Speaker 5: We we met because we met because he worked at 402 00:22:48,240 --> 00:22:51,960 Speaker 5: we worked at a sandwich shop together. And yeah, that's 403 00:22:52,000 --> 00:22:52,440 Speaker 5: all you get. 404 00:22:53,320 --> 00:22:54,080 Speaker 1: That's all I get. 405 00:22:55,560 --> 00:22:57,600 Speaker 5: I gotta keep things to myself, man. 406 00:22:57,480 --> 00:22:59,359 Speaker 1: Hold on, hold on hold on, hold on, hold, on, 407 00:22:59,400 --> 00:23:02,280 Speaker 1: hold on hold. Because the fact that you said because 408 00:23:02,600 --> 00:23:06,080 Speaker 1: here's the thing is you could have just here's the thing, Cindy. 409 00:23:06,320 --> 00:23:09,280 Speaker 1: You could have just said we met at a sandwich 410 00:23:09,320 --> 00:23:11,080 Speaker 1: shop and I would have been like, oh, okay, they met 411 00:23:11,080 --> 00:23:14,119 Speaker 1: at a sandwich shop. But you said we met at 412 00:23:14,119 --> 00:23:17,200 Speaker 1: a sandwich shop and that's all you get. And by 413 00:23:17,359 --> 00:23:22,919 Speaker 1: saying bye, and by saying that's all you get, you 414 00:23:23,040 --> 00:23:26,760 Speaker 1: allude to the fact that there was a juicier story 415 00:23:27,040 --> 00:23:30,760 Speaker 1: underneath the sandwich shop thing, which I would not have 416 00:23:30,840 --> 00:23:34,520 Speaker 1: assumed at all before you said that's all you get. 417 00:23:34,800 --> 00:23:38,360 Speaker 1: And I'm not gonna look. Look, go ahead, what what's 418 00:23:38,480 --> 00:23:40,159 Speaker 1: what's I mean? Sure, what do you want to talk 419 00:23:40,160 --> 00:23:41,520 Speaker 1: about it? What's the juicy story? 420 00:23:42,760 --> 00:23:45,879 Speaker 5: It was with someone? And so was I just didn't 421 00:23:45,920 --> 00:23:50,040 Speaker 5: work out and here we are, Okay. 422 00:23:50,359 --> 00:23:55,480 Speaker 1: Okay, well look you know, I mean, was he like 423 00:23:55,560 --> 00:23:58,359 Speaker 1: your boss at the sandwich Was he like your boss 424 00:23:58,359 --> 00:24:02,320 Speaker 1: at the subway or whatever? And that was scandal Well. 425 00:24:02,359 --> 00:24:05,600 Speaker 5: So no, no, no, So at the sandwich stop I 426 00:24:05,640 --> 00:24:07,919 Speaker 5: worked out. There wasn't technically like a manager type of 427 00:24:07,920 --> 00:24:10,679 Speaker 5: thing there, but there was kind of like a hierarchy, 428 00:24:10,800 --> 00:24:14,240 Speaker 5: like Okay, the owner trusts this guy more than he 429 00:24:14,320 --> 00:24:17,240 Speaker 5: trusts this guy to like do whatever whatever, so he 430 00:24:17,280 --> 00:24:20,840 Speaker 5: would kind of he was like the like unofficial manager 431 00:24:21,000 --> 00:24:26,720 Speaker 5: type guy there. And yeah, so like there wasn't anything weird, 432 00:24:26,960 --> 00:24:30,320 Speaker 5: but yeah, I mean I would always get excited whenever 433 00:24:30,880 --> 00:24:32,920 Speaker 5: he would like come in, come in for a shift, 434 00:24:32,920 --> 00:24:34,399 Speaker 5: and I'd be like, oh my god, I wonder if 435 00:24:34,400 --> 00:24:37,080 Speaker 5: he's working today, And then he would be and I'd 436 00:24:37,119 --> 00:24:39,399 Speaker 5: be like, oh, no, I was just cleaning this counter 437 00:24:39,440 --> 00:24:44,720 Speaker 5: over here. What No, Oh, I got it high. 438 00:24:45,040 --> 00:24:49,080 Speaker 1: Well, I'm excited. I'm excited for you. Cindy. You're gonna 439 00:24:49,119 --> 00:24:52,879 Speaker 1: get married, You're gonna be happy. Love is real. I guess. 440 00:24:52,960 --> 00:24:55,359 Speaker 1: I guess love is real. I guess it's real. 441 00:24:55,560 --> 00:24:58,600 Speaker 5: You guess maybe this name is if love is real 442 00:24:58,680 --> 00:24:58,879 Speaker 5: or not? 443 00:25:00,320 --> 00:25:04,040 Speaker 1: I think, Cindy. Is there anything else you want to 444 00:25:04,080 --> 00:25:05,719 Speaker 1: say to the people of the computer before we go, 445 00:25:05,880 --> 00:25:11,119 Speaker 1: or any anything else about this uh uh beautiful life 446 00:25:11,200 --> 00:25:12,480 Speaker 1: you you seem to be living. 447 00:25:14,359 --> 00:25:18,040 Speaker 5: No, it's just let my cats say, Hi, I'm getting 448 00:25:18,080 --> 00:25:21,080 Speaker 5: yourself a cat, because if you're this is if you're 449 00:25:21,119 --> 00:25:24,359 Speaker 5: thinking about getting yourself a cat, anyone out there, this 450 00:25:24,520 --> 00:25:27,800 Speaker 5: is your sign. 451 00:25:27,600 --> 00:25:29,480 Speaker 1: I'm not in it. I don't want to use. I 452 00:25:29,520 --> 00:25:32,159 Speaker 1: can't even be responsible for a plant right now. I 453 00:25:32,160 --> 00:25:34,159 Speaker 1: gotta I'm gonna start. If I can keep a plant 454 00:25:34,200 --> 00:25:38,760 Speaker 1: alive for longer than a couple of weeks, I'll think about, 455 00:25:39,400 --> 00:25:42,000 Speaker 1: you know something, getting a living thing that matters. Not 456 00:25:42,080 --> 00:25:44,960 Speaker 1: that plants don't matter, but they also they don't matter 457 00:25:45,000 --> 00:25:49,320 Speaker 1: as much as dogs. But but also why why does everything? 458 00:25:49,359 --> 00:25:52,920 Speaker 1: Does anything matter? Okay, all right, that's enough. Thank you 459 00:25:53,000 --> 00:25:54,640 Speaker 1: very much for calling Cindy. I'll talk to you later. 460 00:25:55,240 --> 00:25:57,400 Speaker 5: Yeah, thank you. It's nice talking to you. 461 00:25:57,440 --> 00:25:57,800 Speaker 8: Bye. 462 00:25:58,240 --> 00:26:02,399 Speaker 1: By. I've been thinking about that a lot, like the 463 00:26:02,640 --> 00:26:06,520 Speaker 1: inherent vale Like. Okay, a plant is a living thing, right, 464 00:26:07,440 --> 00:26:10,200 Speaker 1: and so is a dog, and so as a human. 465 00:26:10,359 --> 00:26:15,119 Speaker 1: But we value the lives of plants significantly. We value 466 00:26:15,160 --> 00:26:18,480 Speaker 1: the lives of dogs. We value the lives of dogs 467 00:26:18,520 --> 00:26:21,040 Speaker 1: pretty good, we value them more than chickens. Okay, I've 468 00:26:21,040 --> 00:26:23,520 Speaker 1: already been on this rant before, but I'm gonna do 469 00:26:23,560 --> 00:26:28,199 Speaker 1: it again. Why a human being and a dog, and 470 00:26:28,240 --> 00:26:32,720 Speaker 1: a chicken and a plant, if you zoom out enough, 471 00:26:33,920 --> 00:26:41,560 Speaker 1: are all worthless? Okay? I guess that's the thought that 472 00:26:41,600 --> 00:26:45,080 Speaker 1: I came to. But and I don't inherently, I don't 473 00:26:45,080 --> 00:26:51,280 Speaker 1: take that back. But you subjectively decide for yourself the 474 00:26:51,359 --> 00:26:55,159 Speaker 1: value of things, and we, as a collective consciousness have 475 00:26:55,280 --> 00:27:01,080 Speaker 1: subjectively decided that humans are more valuable than dogs. Dogs 476 00:27:01,080 --> 00:27:07,760 Speaker 1: are more valuable than chickens, and in some cases I 477 00:27:07,760 --> 00:27:13,639 Speaker 1: think people value plants more than chickens. So I guess 478 00:27:14,200 --> 00:27:16,480 Speaker 1: the point of what I'm saying is that it really 479 00:27:16,520 --> 00:27:24,560 Speaker 1: sucks to be a chicken. Hello, Yo, what's up man? 480 00:27:24,600 --> 00:27:25,840 Speaker 1: What's h How's life? 481 00:27:27,400 --> 00:27:31,040 Speaker 8: Uh? Pretty good? You know, I mean it's been it's 482 00:27:31,040 --> 00:27:36,760 Speaker 8: been excitingly stressful. Oh you know, I got I got 483 00:27:36,880 --> 00:27:40,840 Speaker 8: like so I'm only nineteen, right, and so I started 484 00:27:40,880 --> 00:27:46,040 Speaker 8: doing electrical when i was seventeen with some family and 485 00:27:47,119 --> 00:27:49,119 Speaker 8: I've only been a helper, you know, for like a 486 00:27:49,200 --> 00:27:52,520 Speaker 8: year and a half. And then a coworker left for 487 00:27:52,680 --> 00:27:56,199 Speaker 8: vacation for like a week. And this is like a 488 00:27:56,200 --> 00:27:59,680 Speaker 8: small company, so I'm like the only helper. So when 489 00:27:59,720 --> 00:28:04,480 Speaker 8: my coworker left for vacation, he I was able to 490 00:28:04,560 --> 00:28:06,840 Speaker 8: get his van for the week, so I like have 491 00:28:06,960 --> 00:28:10,240 Speaker 8: the material and everything, but he just like didn't show 492 00:28:10,280 --> 00:28:13,960 Speaker 8: back up. So like I have his van now and 493 00:28:14,119 --> 00:28:16,280 Speaker 8: that a company basically just like gave it to me. 494 00:28:16,960 --> 00:28:19,800 Speaker 8: So now I'm like a high up guy sort of. 495 00:28:20,560 --> 00:28:22,879 Speaker 8: And you know, that's just been like kind of stressful 496 00:28:22,960 --> 00:28:23,879 Speaker 8: but like really cool. 497 00:28:25,640 --> 00:28:28,400 Speaker 1: You were endowed with the power of the van. 498 00:28:30,000 --> 00:28:30,440 Speaker 9: Mm hmm. 499 00:28:31,680 --> 00:28:35,400 Speaker 1: Interesting, what is it? I'm sorry, what does this company do? 500 00:28:35,480 --> 00:28:36,520 Speaker 1: What kind of company is this. 501 00:28:37,960 --> 00:28:41,440 Speaker 8: Electrical? So like we do like multimillion dollar like custom 502 00:28:41,520 --> 00:28:43,840 Speaker 8: homes and we do like that we build them and 503 00:28:44,240 --> 00:28:45,680 Speaker 8: do the electrical for them. 504 00:28:46,080 --> 00:28:49,440 Speaker 1: That's cool. Uh do you like being stressed out? 505 00:28:51,400 --> 00:28:54,400 Speaker 8: You know? I'm trying to figure that out because you know, 506 00:28:54,480 --> 00:28:56,640 Speaker 8: the last time I was stressed out, I had like 507 00:28:56,720 --> 00:28:59,560 Speaker 8: a big like mental thing going on, and you know 508 00:28:59,680 --> 00:29:02,720 Speaker 8: that that was a big, big deal. But so I'm 509 00:29:02,720 --> 00:29:05,600 Speaker 8: trying to learn to get through it. So you know, 510 00:29:05,680 --> 00:29:09,120 Speaker 8: we're we're working with it, and we're seeing where it 511 00:29:09,160 --> 00:29:09,560 Speaker 8: takes me. 512 00:29:11,600 --> 00:29:12,120 Speaker 1: Where. 513 00:29:12,000 --> 00:29:14,720 Speaker 8: There's so many things I could potentially talk about. We 514 00:29:14,800 --> 00:29:16,120 Speaker 8: could keep going about this. 515 00:29:16,160 --> 00:29:16,320 Speaker 5: But. 516 00:29:17,960 --> 00:29:21,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, well I don't know, man, where where? Where is? 517 00:29:21,480 --> 00:29:25,160 Speaker 1: Where is uh? Stress taking you? Now? 518 00:29:27,520 --> 00:29:30,280 Speaker 8: You know? I guess I said, like it's kind of 519 00:29:30,320 --> 00:29:33,800 Speaker 8: just like seeing where it takes me because it's like, yeah, 520 00:29:33,840 --> 00:29:38,840 Speaker 8: it's stressful because it's new, but it's also like exciting 521 00:29:38,960 --> 00:29:42,400 Speaker 8: and it and it opens up like a pathway for 522 00:29:42,800 --> 00:29:45,480 Speaker 8: you know, what it can be, what my life can be. 523 00:29:46,320 --> 00:29:49,680 Speaker 8: And so like, I don't know, it's it's hard to 524 00:29:49,720 --> 00:29:51,680 Speaker 8: like put my thoughts into words, you know. 525 00:29:52,480 --> 00:29:53,760 Speaker 1: Mm hmmmm hm. 526 00:29:55,800 --> 00:29:59,120 Speaker 8: So I don't think it's it's a bad stress necessarily. 527 00:29:59,760 --> 00:30:03,000 Speaker 8: It's just like one of those things. It's like, Okay, 528 00:30:03,120 --> 00:30:07,880 Speaker 8: it's new and I gotta like conform to it because 529 00:30:07,920 --> 00:30:10,880 Speaker 8: like now I'm given the responsibility of like doing things 530 00:30:10,960 --> 00:30:11,520 Speaker 8: on my own. 531 00:30:14,400 --> 00:30:20,920 Speaker 1: Yeah. I mean that's a good thing to do at nineteen, right, 532 00:30:21,480 --> 00:30:24,400 Speaker 1: like doing stuff on your own. Do you have like 533 00:30:24,480 --> 00:30:26,959 Speaker 1: do you have dreams? Do you have goals for the 534 00:30:27,160 --> 00:30:29,400 Speaker 1: future and shits? 535 00:30:29,520 --> 00:30:34,400 Speaker 8: Uh, you know, I'm not really a relationship guys, so 536 00:30:34,440 --> 00:30:36,280 Speaker 8: you know, all my goals are kind of just like 537 00:30:36,360 --> 00:30:39,920 Speaker 8: by myself. Yeah, you know, I I of course the 538 00:30:40,280 --> 00:30:44,600 Speaker 8: average you know, teenager, you know, young young adult, their 539 00:30:44,680 --> 00:30:49,040 Speaker 8: dreams rich and nice cars and whatever. So you know, 540 00:30:49,080 --> 00:30:52,720 Speaker 8: I just want to at least get somewhere successful. When 541 00:30:52,760 --> 00:30:54,640 Speaker 8: I was really young, I always told my parents I 542 00:30:54,680 --> 00:30:57,360 Speaker 8: wanted to make more money than them. So I guess 543 00:30:57,360 --> 00:30:58,520 Speaker 8: I still my golf. 544 00:31:00,200 --> 00:31:04,720 Speaker 1: Tell yeah uh fuck yah nice nice nice, no man, 545 00:31:04,760 --> 00:31:09,120 Speaker 1: get your get get get that bag, my friends, get 546 00:31:09,160 --> 00:31:09,640 Speaker 1: that bag. 547 00:31:10,200 --> 00:31:13,080 Speaker 7: I mean, And I mean that that's another thing. 548 00:31:15,640 --> 00:31:19,080 Speaker 8: Uh. So, Like I have like twenty two thousand dollars 549 00:31:19,120 --> 00:31:20,560 Speaker 8: in my bank account because I. 550 00:31:20,600 --> 00:31:21,360 Speaker 7: Just like save. 551 00:31:22,120 --> 00:31:22,720 Speaker 1: That's amazing. 552 00:31:23,520 --> 00:31:26,520 Speaker 7: I really wanting Yeah. 553 00:31:26,640 --> 00:31:30,760 Speaker 8: Yeah, And I've been wanting to get a Musting because 554 00:31:30,880 --> 00:31:33,240 Speaker 8: my parents had a Mustang when I was really young, 555 00:31:33,680 --> 00:31:35,880 Speaker 8: and I like really really liked it, but they had 556 00:31:35,920 --> 00:31:39,680 Speaker 8: to sell it because like they didn't they didn't like 557 00:31:39,800 --> 00:31:41,680 Speaker 8: the fact that, like I was in the back seat, 558 00:31:42,120 --> 00:31:43,920 Speaker 8: and they just felt like it was not a safe 559 00:31:43,960 --> 00:31:48,280 Speaker 8: car for, you know, a toddler basically, so they sold it. 560 00:31:48,880 --> 00:31:52,000 Speaker 8: And like now that I'm like really into cars, I've 561 00:31:52,600 --> 00:31:56,560 Speaker 8: I really want a Mustang And are you really closed 562 00:31:58,920 --> 00:31:59,760 Speaker 8: the right amount? 563 00:32:00,680 --> 00:32:02,480 Speaker 1: Sorry, go ahead, i'm'na let you finish before. I'm gonna 564 00:32:02,520 --> 00:32:04,360 Speaker 1: let you finish before I go Dave Ramsey on you. 565 00:32:06,800 --> 00:32:09,520 Speaker 8: So, like I'm really close to having like enough to 566 00:32:09,600 --> 00:32:13,160 Speaker 8: be comfortable with it. You know, I already have a car, 567 00:32:13,600 --> 00:32:15,800 Speaker 8: you know, I have a comfortable job and everything, so 568 00:32:15,840 --> 00:32:18,160 Speaker 8: it's like it's not a need. And I'm still living 569 00:32:18,200 --> 00:32:20,400 Speaker 8: with my parents, so like you have you have that 570 00:32:20,440 --> 00:32:24,760 Speaker 8: side of the story too. It's just like, did did you. 571 00:32:24,720 --> 00:32:27,040 Speaker 1: Save up that twenty two You saved up that twenty 572 00:32:27,040 --> 00:32:27,960 Speaker 1: two k? Just by working? 573 00:32:29,840 --> 00:32:30,080 Speaker 8: Yeah? 574 00:32:30,400 --> 00:32:34,680 Speaker 1: Just just working really, m bro. 575 00:32:35,440 --> 00:32:37,800 Speaker 8: And I don't make too much any you know in 576 00:32:37,840 --> 00:32:40,240 Speaker 8: the first place. I think right now, in making eighteen 577 00:32:40,320 --> 00:32:40,880 Speaker 8: an hour. 578 00:32:41,000 --> 00:32:43,400 Speaker 1: That's an incredible that's an incredible amount of money to 579 00:32:43,920 --> 00:32:46,040 Speaker 1: save up at nineteen from just working. 580 00:32:47,640 --> 00:32:50,160 Speaker 8: Yeah, I mean I because I started working at sixteen, 581 00:32:50,200 --> 00:32:52,200 Speaker 8: I had Funny enough, I worked at Carvel, you know, 582 00:32:52,280 --> 00:32:54,680 Speaker 8: at the ice cream shop for like a year before 583 00:32:54,680 --> 00:32:56,440 Speaker 8: I did this, so it was like incredible change of 584 00:32:56,440 --> 00:32:58,480 Speaker 8: pace too. But yeah, no, I I mean because I 585 00:32:58,520 --> 00:33:02,000 Speaker 8: lived with my parents. You know, I I don't like, 586 00:33:02,040 --> 00:33:04,160 Speaker 8: I'm not really a social person, so I'm not going 587 00:33:04,200 --> 00:33:07,520 Speaker 8: out with friends and spending money on food every single day, 588 00:33:07,560 --> 00:33:09,400 Speaker 8: you know. Yeah, they're just saving you pennies. 589 00:33:09,760 --> 00:33:14,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, Okay, Can I go to Dave Ramsey on you? 590 00:33:14,320 --> 00:33:14,600 Speaker 4: Sure? 591 00:33:14,720 --> 00:33:15,560 Speaker 8: Yes, go ahead? 592 00:33:15,880 --> 00:33:19,960 Speaker 1: Okay, So you so you have you said you have 593 00:33:20,000 --> 00:33:25,360 Speaker 1: like twenty two k yeah, and uh, how much is 594 00:33:25,560 --> 00:33:27,640 Speaker 1: like and you already have a car? 595 00:33:29,200 --> 00:33:31,560 Speaker 8: Correct? 596 00:33:32,200 --> 00:33:33,840 Speaker 1: Do you want my unsolicited advice? 597 00:33:35,560 --> 00:33:37,640 Speaker 8: I mean I can already guess what it is. 598 00:33:39,720 --> 00:33:42,440 Speaker 3: About cars, so I could. 599 00:33:42,360 --> 00:33:44,840 Speaker 8: Already guess what that is. But sure, let me hear it. 600 00:33:46,280 --> 00:33:48,480 Speaker 1: You know what, you know, what what do you think 601 00:33:48,480 --> 00:33:49,840 Speaker 1: it is? What do you think? I'm gonna say? 602 00:33:51,360 --> 00:33:56,320 Speaker 8: Uh that that money can definitely be spent elsewhere, and 603 00:33:56,640 --> 00:34:00,120 Speaker 8: I could I should continue saving it. And uh, you know, 604 00:34:00,240 --> 00:34:02,760 Speaker 8: I already have a car. I already have a you know, 605 00:34:02,880 --> 00:34:06,160 Speaker 8: comfortable place where I'm at, so I should keep saving 606 00:34:06,200 --> 00:34:08,919 Speaker 8: it Okay, what. 607 00:34:08,840 --> 00:34:10,319 Speaker 1: Do you think about what you just what do you 608 00:34:10,360 --> 00:34:13,719 Speaker 1: what do you think about those completely original ideas that 609 00:34:13,760 --> 00:34:16,680 Speaker 1: you just formed in your own head? 610 00:34:16,760 --> 00:34:20,440 Speaker 8: Damn it, you did that to me, didn't you. You know, 611 00:34:20,840 --> 00:34:23,600 Speaker 8: I'm definitely not opposed to it, because I'm still not 612 00:34:23,719 --> 00:34:27,120 Speaker 8: like one hundred percent on the idea of getting you know, 613 00:34:27,200 --> 00:34:29,960 Speaker 8: a musting because it's like, damn, I have twenty two K. 614 00:34:30,160 --> 00:34:32,399 Speaker 8: That's like more than like I'm in like the top 615 00:34:32,480 --> 00:34:34,879 Speaker 8: one percent for my age, you know, totally. So it's 616 00:34:34,920 --> 00:34:38,960 Speaker 8: just like it's like, I know, that's not exactly the 617 00:34:39,000 --> 00:34:43,000 Speaker 8: smartest thing to do, and it's just just like, damn, 618 00:34:43,040 --> 00:34:45,759 Speaker 8: everything is so expensive right now that can't even get 619 00:34:45,800 --> 00:34:48,400 Speaker 8: me like an apartment, And it's just like if I 620 00:34:48,480 --> 00:34:51,160 Speaker 8: get an apartment and I rent it out, I don't 621 00:34:51,200 --> 00:34:54,560 Speaker 8: make enough, you know, in a monthly manner to like 622 00:34:54,840 --> 00:34:58,480 Speaker 8: sustain that that would like drain over time. You know. 623 00:34:58,920 --> 00:35:02,600 Speaker 8: So it's just like feels I feel weird with money. 624 00:35:02,719 --> 00:35:02,920 Speaker 8: You know. 625 00:35:06,400 --> 00:35:11,640 Speaker 1: Well, dude, yeah you have like like, yeah, I get 626 00:35:11,680 --> 00:35:14,480 Speaker 1: like twenty two K for nineteen that you made just 627 00:35:14,560 --> 00:35:18,400 Speaker 1: by saving and working again, like for congratulations on that. 628 00:35:18,400 --> 00:35:23,640 Speaker 1: That's fucking awesome. But yeah, to a mustang. It's like 629 00:35:24,360 --> 00:35:27,640 Speaker 1: that's I think at nineteen, like do you you already 630 00:35:27,640 --> 00:35:29,239 Speaker 1: you already know everything going on? You already have. I'm 631 00:35:29,280 --> 00:35:30,719 Speaker 1: not gonna go on. I'm not gonna go on a 632 00:35:30,800 --> 00:35:33,239 Speaker 1: rant about everything. But so if your goal is to 633 00:35:33,239 --> 00:35:37,080 Speaker 1: like make a bunch of money, like why don't you 634 00:35:37,080 --> 00:35:39,320 Speaker 1: you should use the money that you already have to 635 00:35:40,400 --> 00:35:43,680 Speaker 1: do a thing to make you money instead of like 636 00:35:43,719 --> 00:35:48,160 Speaker 1: buying a depreciating asset. 637 00:35:47,600 --> 00:35:47,759 Speaker 2: You know. 638 00:35:48,480 --> 00:35:52,640 Speaker 8: I mean that is very true, and I while like 639 00:35:52,960 --> 00:35:56,520 Speaker 8: I've definitely thought about it, I've i haven't like dived 640 00:35:56,640 --> 00:36:00,319 Speaker 8: into that enough because it's just like already worth you know, 641 00:36:00,880 --> 00:36:03,920 Speaker 8: you know, forty hour weeks and stuff. So like anything 642 00:36:04,040 --> 00:36:07,279 Speaker 8: that I would have to buy to make money, it 643 00:36:07,280 --> 00:36:10,719 Speaker 8: would more have to be like a passive thing, you know, 644 00:36:10,840 --> 00:36:13,160 Speaker 8: like stocks or whatever. But then like even then that's 645 00:36:13,200 --> 00:36:16,960 Speaker 8: like that's that's uh, that's scary. You know. I could 646 00:36:17,120 --> 00:36:20,560 Speaker 8: spend two grand to make you know, five hundred, but 647 00:36:20,680 --> 00:36:22,840 Speaker 8: I can also lose that like two grand, you know. 648 00:36:23,000 --> 00:36:24,399 Speaker 8: So it's like that's that's kind of like. 649 00:36:24,480 --> 00:36:28,960 Speaker 1: Well, I mean it depends we're getting into where we're 650 00:36:28,960 --> 00:36:34,960 Speaker 1: getting super like uh, fight financial advice gecko right now. 651 00:36:35,080 --> 00:36:39,839 Speaker 1: But it's like, uh, you know, I mean, I don't know, man, 652 00:36:39,840 --> 00:36:42,440 Speaker 1: you could invest in fucking this is this is hilarious 653 00:36:42,480 --> 00:36:46,400 Speaker 1: to be tough, there's something funny about telling someone to 654 00:36:46,520 --> 00:36:50,200 Speaker 1: invest in index funds while wearing a gecko costume. There's 655 00:36:50,239 --> 00:36:53,520 Speaker 1: something amusing to me about that. But no, man, there's 656 00:36:53,520 --> 00:36:55,319 Speaker 1: fucking into But also like what I mean, what do 657 00:36:55,360 --> 00:36:58,239 Speaker 1: you do electrical where you have a van? Like I 658 00:36:58,239 --> 00:36:59,560 Speaker 1: don't know, man, I feel like you could do you 659 00:36:59,600 --> 00:37:01,040 Speaker 1: do you have want to? Like do you ever want 660 00:37:01,040 --> 00:37:02,440 Speaker 1: to like start a business? Do you ever want to? 661 00:37:02,480 --> 00:37:05,160 Speaker 1: Like because you work right now for a company doing 662 00:37:05,200 --> 00:37:08,080 Speaker 1: electrical work right and now like you have the keys 663 00:37:08,080 --> 00:37:10,680 Speaker 1: to the van, you're in charge of the van. But like, bro, 664 00:37:10,760 --> 00:37:13,480 Speaker 1: if you save up, you know, maybe you can buy 665 00:37:13,480 --> 00:37:15,520 Speaker 1: your own van and you start your own little company. 666 00:37:15,520 --> 00:37:17,960 Speaker 1: And that's because if you want to, you want to 667 00:37:18,080 --> 00:37:24,719 Speaker 1: make more money than your parents, you eventually have to. 668 00:37:25,440 --> 00:37:27,719 Speaker 1: I think, like, you know, I mean, you could do it. 669 00:37:27,760 --> 00:37:30,200 Speaker 1: The way that most people have done it. I think 670 00:37:30,360 --> 00:37:32,920 Speaker 1: is like they work a job and they put it 671 00:37:32,920 --> 00:37:38,640 Speaker 1: into index funds and then like a fucking forty years later, 672 00:37:39,719 --> 00:37:43,160 Speaker 1: they they start to have enough, you know, money, they 673 00:37:43,160 --> 00:37:44,600 Speaker 1: get like they get rich slow. 674 00:37:44,880 --> 00:37:48,360 Speaker 7: I mean I have a rough or k already, right, right. 675 00:37:48,440 --> 00:37:53,839 Speaker 1: But if you right, but you're you know, I don't 676 00:37:53,880 --> 00:37:57,839 Speaker 1: know I'm talking. You're a you're an industrious young man, 677 00:37:58,160 --> 00:38:00,720 Speaker 1: you know what I mean? Like you can I feel 678 00:38:00,719 --> 00:38:02,360 Speaker 1: like you you have the ability if you want to, 679 00:38:02,400 --> 00:38:05,080 Speaker 1: you could like start your own business. You got a 680 00:38:05,120 --> 00:38:06,960 Speaker 1: nice little cushion and you don't even have to quit 681 00:38:07,000 --> 00:38:10,320 Speaker 1: your job to do it, Like you know, you could 682 00:38:11,160 --> 00:38:14,520 Speaker 1: save up to invest in doing your own thing, because 683 00:38:14,760 --> 00:38:16,440 Speaker 1: if you want, if your goal is to make a 684 00:38:16,480 --> 00:38:22,600 Speaker 1: ton of money, like you'll make the most money ultimately. 685 00:38:22,640 --> 00:38:25,560 Speaker 1: I think like going out on your own and doing 686 00:38:25,600 --> 00:38:29,719 Speaker 1: your own business. It'll be harder, it'll be more stressful 687 00:38:29,719 --> 00:38:33,640 Speaker 1: to do more work, but you know it'll it'll be 688 00:38:33,680 --> 00:38:36,520 Speaker 1: good for you, I think in the long run, more 689 00:38:36,560 --> 00:38:37,960 Speaker 1: than like buying them for sure. 690 00:38:39,640 --> 00:38:42,080 Speaker 8: Yeah, I mean that's definitely the end goal is to 691 00:38:42,120 --> 00:38:44,920 Speaker 8: do something on my own, considering like I'm working for 692 00:38:45,040 --> 00:38:48,600 Speaker 8: my cousins, right and like seeing where they've gotten, and 693 00:38:48,719 --> 00:38:50,840 Speaker 8: I mean they didn't start in a good path to 694 00:38:50,960 --> 00:38:53,080 Speaker 8: life in the first place, so to do where they've 695 00:38:53,080 --> 00:38:56,520 Speaker 8: got kind of gotten is impressive, and it's just like 696 00:38:56,880 --> 00:39:00,160 Speaker 8: that's definitely an end goal, but there's like that takes 697 00:39:00,200 --> 00:39:03,360 Speaker 8: a lot of time and like school to actually do that, 698 00:39:03,400 --> 00:39:06,440 Speaker 8: because there's like I'm technically not even supposed to be 699 00:39:06,520 --> 00:39:11,080 Speaker 8: working on by myself as an apprentice. There's like laws 700 00:39:11,120 --> 00:39:14,400 Speaker 8: that say like there needs to be a master electrician 701 00:39:14,520 --> 00:39:17,840 Speaker 8: or like a journeyman to like oversee me as I'm working, 702 00:39:18,080 --> 00:39:21,759 Speaker 8: so like technically I'm not, that's not happening. But you 703 00:39:21,840 --> 00:39:24,160 Speaker 8: have to be like four years to get out of 704 00:39:24,200 --> 00:39:27,799 Speaker 8: your apprenticeship in school, and it's like another four years 705 00:39:27,880 --> 00:39:30,719 Speaker 8: or like eight thousand work hours in order to get 706 00:39:30,760 --> 00:39:34,200 Speaker 8: like your masters or something like that. I haven't read 707 00:39:34,239 --> 00:39:36,400 Speaker 8: too much into it, but it's like it's more like 708 00:39:36,440 --> 00:39:38,840 Speaker 8: a time thing instead of a money. 709 00:39:38,640 --> 00:39:40,440 Speaker 1: How old are your how old are your cousins? 710 00:39:42,880 --> 00:39:45,480 Speaker 8: You know that is a great question forties? 711 00:39:46,280 --> 00:39:52,360 Speaker 1: Oh okay, yeah yeah yeah, well it's just yeah, but 712 00:39:52,480 --> 00:39:56,600 Speaker 1: like well a couple things is like is the business 713 00:39:56,680 --> 00:39:59,640 Speaker 1: you want to start, Like would it be in the 714 00:39:59,680 --> 00:40:03,799 Speaker 1: same would it be in uh electrical? 715 00:40:05,480 --> 00:40:07,240 Speaker 8: Oh yeah, yeah yeah. 716 00:40:07,760 --> 00:40:08,240 Speaker 1: Interesting. 717 00:40:08,440 --> 00:40:11,200 Speaker 8: I mean I wouldn't put so much time into this 718 00:40:11,360 --> 00:40:15,759 Speaker 8: without you know, uh wanting an end goal of you know, 719 00:40:15,840 --> 00:40:19,880 Speaker 8: my own electrical company. Yeah, because like that's really where 720 00:40:20,400 --> 00:40:23,480 Speaker 8: I think everyone wants to end up when they do trades. 721 00:40:23,680 --> 00:40:26,680 Speaker 8: I feel like everyone wants to be their own company 722 00:40:27,320 --> 00:40:29,680 Speaker 8: in the trade because that's where you really make the money. 723 00:40:29,920 --> 00:40:32,839 Speaker 8: I mean, my cousins kind of brags sometimes or they're 724 00:40:32,880 --> 00:40:36,480 Speaker 8: making like half a million dollar like deals and things 725 00:40:36,520 --> 00:40:39,040 Speaker 8: like that, Like my boss is cars on cars, and 726 00:40:39,120 --> 00:40:39,719 Speaker 8: it's just like. 727 00:40:39,760 --> 00:40:41,840 Speaker 1: Is that is that what you want you want to 728 00:40:41,880 --> 00:40:43,600 Speaker 1: be making? Like that? Is that what you want you 729 00:40:43,640 --> 00:40:45,439 Speaker 1: want to be like making like half a million dollar 730 00:40:45,520 --> 00:40:47,640 Speaker 1: deals like with your own electric. 731 00:40:47,520 --> 00:40:52,279 Speaker 8: Yeah, yeah, that sounds like, yeah, it's definitely an end goal. 732 00:40:53,080 --> 00:40:55,759 Speaker 1: Yeah, but you're so fucked I mean being nineteen and 733 00:40:55,880 --> 00:40:59,480 Speaker 1: having saved up that much fucking money and like, you know, 734 00:40:59,520 --> 00:41:01,680 Speaker 1: I mean, well, I'm also curious about this, like are 735 00:41:01,719 --> 00:41:05,080 Speaker 1: you are? Do you feel antsy? Like like what kind 736 00:41:05,120 --> 00:41:05,840 Speaker 1: of person are you? 737 00:41:05,920 --> 00:41:06,160 Speaker 3: Are? You? 738 00:41:06,280 --> 00:41:08,960 Speaker 1: Like I need to get out of my fucking mom's 739 00:41:09,000 --> 00:41:10,080 Speaker 1: house right now. 740 00:41:11,320 --> 00:41:14,640 Speaker 8: I mean, dude, that can be another hour conversation that 741 00:41:14,719 --> 00:41:18,360 Speaker 8: I could have, truly, but like to keep it short, 742 00:41:18,560 --> 00:41:23,920 Speaker 8: I guess you know, like my whole childhood growing up, 743 00:41:24,000 --> 00:41:26,759 Speaker 8: I didn't have the best relationship with my parents, So 744 00:41:26,800 --> 00:41:29,600 Speaker 8: I do think it is kind of weird, right, now 745 00:41:29,680 --> 00:41:32,680 Speaker 8: that I'm just like living at my mom's and like, 746 00:41:32,760 --> 00:41:35,200 Speaker 8: I'm kind of okay with it right now because I 747 00:41:35,239 --> 00:41:38,320 Speaker 8: mean we had to go through like family counseling and everything, 748 00:41:38,400 --> 00:41:41,759 Speaker 8: so I mean it's definitely a huge step. So I'm 749 00:41:41,800 --> 00:41:44,520 Speaker 8: fine with it as of like right now, and I'm 750 00:41:44,560 --> 00:41:48,160 Speaker 8: not too antie to like get out of here, but 751 00:41:48,200 --> 00:41:52,799 Speaker 8: it's definitely like that could change, like tomorrow, you know, 752 00:41:52,920 --> 00:41:55,080 Speaker 8: like something could happen. It is just like no, I 753 00:41:55,200 --> 00:41:56,919 Speaker 8: want out of here, and it's like. 754 00:41:56,880 --> 00:41:58,359 Speaker 7: I don't know where to go. 755 00:41:59,040 --> 00:42:01,759 Speaker 8: That's the hard part. Feel like everything is so expensive. 756 00:42:01,880 --> 00:42:02,560 Speaker 8: It's crazy. 757 00:42:02,960 --> 00:42:04,839 Speaker 1: Dude, stay like us, oh my god. 758 00:42:04,920 --> 00:42:05,719 Speaker 2: But it. 759 00:42:07,800 --> 00:42:10,359 Speaker 1: Not to give you more unsolicited advice, but like bro 760 00:42:10,520 --> 00:42:13,120 Speaker 1: at nineteen, like, oh my god, I mean stay there 761 00:42:13,239 --> 00:42:16,520 Speaker 1: as long as they'll not like you don't want to be. 762 00:42:16,640 --> 00:42:18,239 Speaker 1: I mean you have like a head a head start, 763 00:42:18,320 --> 00:42:23,120 Speaker 1: right because when you're like, you know, twenty four or 764 00:42:23,239 --> 00:42:28,040 Speaker 1: like you're like past like typical college graduate, you see 765 00:42:28,080 --> 00:42:30,080 Speaker 1: what you're fucking doing. I think it's just so smart 766 00:42:30,120 --> 00:42:33,840 Speaker 1: because like a lot of people, you're nineteen and you 767 00:42:33,880 --> 00:42:36,279 Speaker 1: have twenty two thousand dollars and there's gonna be tons 768 00:42:36,280 --> 00:42:38,360 Speaker 1: of fucking people who like they go to like a 769 00:42:38,400 --> 00:42:42,279 Speaker 1: four year degree and they are three years older than you, 770 00:42:42,800 --> 00:42:45,480 Speaker 1: having to like live at home with their parents for 771 00:42:45,520 --> 00:42:48,880 Speaker 1: a while, and they're actually have they have negative money, 772 00:42:49,080 --> 00:42:49,759 Speaker 1: you know what I mean. 773 00:42:50,239 --> 00:42:54,040 Speaker 7: And so you're like, you're the like going for mechanical engineering. 774 00:42:54,440 --> 00:42:57,400 Speaker 1: Do you like are you are you are you in debt? 775 00:42:58,440 --> 00:42:59,359 Speaker 8: No? No, not at all. 776 00:42:59,560 --> 00:43:01,759 Speaker 1: It's fucking great. Yeah, that's like I'm not. 777 00:43:01,840 --> 00:43:04,000 Speaker 8: Like twenty two like in my savings right now. 778 00:43:04,280 --> 00:43:06,200 Speaker 1: First, so you could like live a your mom. You 779 00:43:06,200 --> 00:43:08,200 Speaker 1: can live with your especially if you're like okay with 780 00:43:08,280 --> 00:43:10,480 Speaker 1: it and they're not, like, you know, even if there's 781 00:43:10,520 --> 00:43:12,920 Speaker 1: some trouble, as long as you're not like in like 782 00:43:12,960 --> 00:43:15,319 Speaker 1: a horrible situation. Like if you're okay with it and 783 00:43:15,360 --> 00:43:18,360 Speaker 1: you're fucking you know, making money on the trade, and 784 00:43:18,400 --> 00:43:20,440 Speaker 1: you can live there for another three years, save up 785 00:43:20,719 --> 00:43:24,120 Speaker 1: you probably save up another twenty two thousand dollars and 786 00:43:24,160 --> 00:43:29,680 Speaker 1: then fucking yeah, uh no, man, you're you're in a 787 00:43:29,760 --> 00:43:31,920 Speaker 1: you're in the six spot. I think you're in a 788 00:43:31,960 --> 00:43:35,000 Speaker 1: six spot. Uh just don't buy a Mustang and you're 789 00:43:35,000 --> 00:43:35,880 Speaker 1: in a sixth spot. 790 00:43:38,120 --> 00:43:40,640 Speaker 8: So like what do you think about like small purchases, 791 00:43:41,120 --> 00:43:45,240 Speaker 8: like small guys in like like like thousand dollars. Like 792 00:43:45,239 --> 00:43:54,680 Speaker 8: like just like in I I I'm very like tinkery 793 00:43:55,000 --> 00:43:58,680 Speaker 8: kind of guy, Like I really like having projects. Yeah 794 00:43:58,920 --> 00:44:02,640 Speaker 8: you know, I also to like really dive into projects 795 00:44:03,160 --> 00:44:07,239 Speaker 8: and so like I right now my current hobby is 796 00:44:07,719 --> 00:44:10,920 Speaker 8: car audio, So like I like you know, making or 797 00:44:11,400 --> 00:44:14,000 Speaker 8: building like the sub wolfers and and you know like 798 00:44:14,040 --> 00:44:18,560 Speaker 8: the classic uh you know, like speakers and everything. I 799 00:44:18,600 --> 00:44:21,920 Speaker 8: really like doing that. So like that's it's kind of 800 00:44:21,960 --> 00:44:24,840 Speaker 8: an expensive hobby. So it's just like it's kind of 801 00:44:24,880 --> 00:44:27,280 Speaker 8: hard for me to even though I have twenty two thousand, 802 00:44:27,400 --> 00:44:29,680 Speaker 8: like I could, I could spend a grand easily and 803 00:44:29,719 --> 00:44:32,400 Speaker 8: not have to worry about it. But it's just like, man, 804 00:44:32,560 --> 00:44:35,480 Speaker 8: that's like a grand that I saved, and so I'm 805 00:44:35,520 --> 00:44:38,080 Speaker 8: like very hard to spend money on myself. 806 00:44:39,080 --> 00:44:40,120 Speaker 7: There was a deal. 807 00:44:39,960 --> 00:44:42,880 Speaker 8: Going on in grub hub today for like Chipotle, and 808 00:44:42,920 --> 00:44:45,120 Speaker 8: it was like I could buy one and get a 809 00:44:45,160 --> 00:44:49,160 Speaker 8: burrito for free, bro, but it was like thirty dollars yeah, 810 00:44:49,200 --> 00:44:51,759 Speaker 8: after like delivery seas and everything because it had oh 811 00:44:51,880 --> 00:44:55,520 Speaker 8: no grubbs grubbubs good it's fucked yeah yeah yeah. 812 00:44:55,960 --> 00:44:58,280 Speaker 1: Watch watch them put a grub hub aad right after 813 00:44:58,320 --> 00:45:03,839 Speaker 1: this phone call. Yeah, but know all those that. 814 00:45:03,880 --> 00:45:07,439 Speaker 7: All those like money. 815 00:45:10,040 --> 00:45:13,480 Speaker 1: Dude, No, you're so you're like, honestly, what you just 816 00:45:13,520 --> 00:45:15,320 Speaker 1: said I think is really cool too. About how like 817 00:45:15,360 --> 00:45:17,520 Speaker 1: you're a tinkerer and you have like all these different 818 00:45:18,360 --> 00:45:21,120 Speaker 1: like things you like to do. I mean, why don't 819 00:45:21,160 --> 00:45:25,239 Speaker 1: you I don't know, do you do you have? I 820 00:45:25,239 --> 00:45:27,680 Speaker 1: feel like you you know, like, uh, I feel like 821 00:45:27,719 --> 00:45:30,960 Speaker 1: you could start a lot of different kinds of businesses 822 00:45:31,320 --> 00:45:36,080 Speaker 1: with with your projects and hobbies and and whatnot. You're 823 00:45:36,120 --> 00:45:38,480 Speaker 1: you're you're towards if it makes you feel any better. 824 00:45:38,520 --> 00:45:40,520 Speaker 1: And I say this to this is something I say 825 00:45:40,600 --> 00:45:43,160 Speaker 1: to callers and I and I say it every time 826 00:45:43,200 --> 00:45:45,440 Speaker 1: I say it. I mean it fully. You are. You 827 00:45:45,480 --> 00:45:48,759 Speaker 1: are quite towards the bottom of people who I hang 828 00:45:48,880 --> 00:45:52,000 Speaker 1: up the phone from. And and uh, I'm like, oh, 829 00:45:52,000 --> 00:45:54,640 Speaker 1: I'm kind of worried about that guy. You know. I 830 00:45:54,640 --> 00:45:59,480 Speaker 1: think you're gonna be. You're gonna do fine. Yeah, as 831 00:45:59,480 --> 00:46:03,360 Speaker 1: long as the Yeah. 832 00:46:03,560 --> 00:46:06,560 Speaker 8: I have a hard time taking in compliments, so I 833 00:46:06,560 --> 00:46:08,200 Speaker 8: mean i'd like to say thank you. 834 00:46:08,880 --> 00:46:13,160 Speaker 1: Yeah. I don't think no, I think it's uh staying 835 00:46:13,160 --> 00:46:17,680 Speaker 1: at home for another like three years and then you'll 836 00:46:17,680 --> 00:46:19,719 Speaker 1: be Because here's the fucking thing. You'll be twenty two 837 00:46:20,280 --> 00:46:23,160 Speaker 1: and a billion other twenty two year olds are gonna 838 00:46:23,160 --> 00:46:25,759 Speaker 1: be like graduating from the four year university with tons 839 00:46:25,800 --> 00:46:27,840 Speaker 1: of debt, and you're gonna be in the opposite situation 840 00:46:28,400 --> 00:46:31,680 Speaker 1: where you have you possess as much money as most 841 00:46:31,680 --> 00:46:34,440 Speaker 1: other twenty two year olds have in debt, and then 842 00:46:34,440 --> 00:46:37,520 Speaker 1: from there you can fucking you know, have enough money 843 00:46:37,520 --> 00:46:39,399 Speaker 1: that you can you know, start a little bit by 844 00:46:39,440 --> 00:46:44,799 Speaker 1: a little fucking subwolffer whatever the fuck thing to make 845 00:46:44,880 --> 00:46:48,600 Speaker 1: you do your little subwiffer whatever the fuck business. I 846 00:46:48,600 --> 00:46:51,600 Speaker 1: think it's cool. I think uh, I think you're on 847 00:46:51,600 --> 00:46:52,960 Speaker 1: a cool path. I'm excited for you. 848 00:46:54,680 --> 00:46:59,239 Speaker 8: Thanks. And on a completely unrelated topic, yeah, we were 849 00:46:59,280 --> 00:47:04,080 Speaker 8: talking about that's very coincidental. Yeah, So I listened to 850 00:47:04,120 --> 00:47:07,120 Speaker 8: your podcast like every single day, especially these days lately 851 00:47:07,160 --> 00:47:09,719 Speaker 8: where I've been working with myself. I will literally just 852 00:47:09,800 --> 00:47:12,960 Speaker 8: have like I'll scroll down really really far on Spotify 853 00:47:13,360 --> 00:47:16,120 Speaker 8: because it like plays in like the order of like 854 00:47:16,239 --> 00:47:18,680 Speaker 8: old to new, so like I have to scroll a 855 00:47:18,680 --> 00:47:21,520 Speaker 8: little bit so it auto plays to the next one. Right, So, 856 00:47:21,560 --> 00:47:24,680 Speaker 8: I've been listening to you a lot recently, and today 857 00:47:25,200 --> 00:47:27,319 Speaker 8: my cats if he's sitting right next to me. By 858 00:47:27,360 --> 00:47:29,680 Speaker 8: the way, his name is Scout. He's like thirteen years old. 859 00:47:30,600 --> 00:47:34,120 Speaker 8: He I was laying on my bed like four hours 860 00:47:34,120 --> 00:47:37,239 Speaker 8: ago maybe, and I hear a bunch of ruckus. I 861 00:47:37,280 --> 00:47:39,520 Speaker 8: look over it and he's got a gecko in his mouth. 862 00:47:40,920 --> 00:47:41,880 Speaker 1: A real gecko. 863 00:47:42,920 --> 00:47:45,680 Speaker 8: Yeah, a real gecko. My cat caught a get go 864 00:47:45,960 --> 00:47:48,480 Speaker 8: inside of my house and he killed it and it 865 00:47:48,600 --> 00:47:52,160 Speaker 8: squeaked when he bit into it, and it's kind of traumatizing. 866 00:47:53,040 --> 00:47:56,480 Speaker 8: And then now you streams, and then now I'm on 867 00:47:56,520 --> 00:47:58,640 Speaker 8: the phone call with you. So it's very weird. 868 00:47:58,840 --> 00:47:59,720 Speaker 1: Are you in Florida? 869 00:48:01,080 --> 00:48:01,719 Speaker 8: Yeah? I am. 870 00:48:02,320 --> 00:48:04,680 Speaker 1: Okay. I was like, why is there geckos in your house? 871 00:48:06,360 --> 00:48:07,520 Speaker 8: Yeah? I am in Florida. 872 00:48:07,600 --> 00:48:07,759 Speaker 3: Yeah. 873 00:48:07,920 --> 00:48:10,799 Speaker 8: So it's just it was very weird. It was very coincidental. 874 00:48:11,600 --> 00:48:12,920 Speaker 8: Figured it was my day, you know. 875 00:48:13,800 --> 00:48:13,920 Speaker 5: Oh. 876 00:48:14,719 --> 00:48:16,960 Speaker 8: On top of that, go ahead, my name is Bryce. 877 00:48:18,680 --> 00:48:20,160 Speaker 1: Go ahead. I want to let you finish. 878 00:48:21,440 --> 00:48:23,760 Speaker 8: Uh Well, I don't even know what I'm gonna say. 879 00:48:23,920 --> 00:48:25,000 Speaker 8: What was that? What did I say? 880 00:48:25,560 --> 00:48:26,560 Speaker 1: You said? On top of that? 881 00:48:28,719 --> 00:48:32,040 Speaker 8: On top of that, on top of that, you don't 882 00:48:32,040 --> 00:48:33,800 Speaker 8: I have no idea, honestly. 883 00:48:34,719 --> 00:48:38,920 Speaker 1: Well, Bryce, Bryce, do you give a good name to uh? 884 00:48:39,560 --> 00:48:39,719 Speaker 9: Uh? 885 00:48:39,840 --> 00:48:44,600 Speaker 1: Florida man? Everywhere. I'm excited for your your your future 886 00:48:44,680 --> 00:48:49,399 Speaker 1: life trajectory. Is there is there anything else you want 887 00:48:49,440 --> 00:48:51,080 Speaker 1: to say to the people of the computer before we go? 888 00:48:53,080 --> 00:48:56,000 Speaker 8: Get a cat? Everyone needs a cat, all right? 889 00:48:56,200 --> 00:48:58,040 Speaker 1: You have the second price to put caller before you 890 00:48:58,080 --> 00:48:59,960 Speaker 1: said that too about getting a cat. 891 00:49:00,200 --> 00:49:03,239 Speaker 8: Really, yeah, I mean I was listening, but like I 892 00:49:03,280 --> 00:49:06,880 Speaker 8: was also busy calling like sixty times, so I didn't 893 00:49:06,920 --> 00:49:07,680 Speaker 8: exactly listen. 894 00:49:08,080 --> 00:49:12,520 Speaker 1: Everyone's everyone's into cats. Everyone likes cats, and dude, they're 895 00:49:12,560 --> 00:49:15,719 Speaker 1: the best. Uh well, take care of Bruce. 896 00:49:16,120 --> 00:49:21,439 Speaker 8: They licked himself endlessly and that's annoying. All right, I'll 897 00:49:21,440 --> 00:49:22,719 Speaker 8: tak to you later, Brole. 898 00:49:22,960 --> 00:49:26,600 Speaker 1: Bryce. Thanks, it's kind of fun going going Dave Ramsey 899 00:49:26,680 --> 00:49:30,600 Speaker 1: mode every now and then. I liked, I liked. I 900 00:49:30,719 --> 00:49:33,000 Speaker 1: like that guy. He was cool. He's again he ranks 901 00:49:33,040 --> 00:49:39,920 Speaker 1: low on the list of callers that I'm concerned about. Yeah, 902 00:49:40,040 --> 00:49:45,960 Speaker 1: it's interesting, Like the trade ship is interesting. I don't know, 903 00:49:46,000 --> 00:49:49,600 Speaker 1: I'm very I'm very like opinionated and passionate about like uh, 904 00:49:50,160 --> 00:49:56,920 Speaker 1: you know, college ship and like going into debt versus like, uh, 905 00:49:57,360 --> 00:49:59,600 Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, the trade the trade the trade route 906 00:49:59,640 --> 00:50:01,759 Speaker 1: is pretty cool. I mean there's I don't know, man, 907 00:50:01,760 --> 00:50:04,680 Speaker 1: there's good things about the college experience, but it's just 908 00:50:04,840 --> 00:50:07,799 Speaker 1: uh yeah, I don't know. I think I think, I think, 909 00:50:07,880 --> 00:50:10,480 Speaker 1: Uh Bryce is gonna be in a good, good position. 910 00:50:10,600 --> 00:50:18,959 Speaker 1: He's got a he's a good he's a quality Florida man. Hello, Yeah, Hey, 911 00:50:19,040 --> 00:50:20,080 Speaker 1: what's up. What's your name? 912 00:50:20,520 --> 00:50:20,680 Speaker 8: Oh? 913 00:50:20,760 --> 00:50:25,360 Speaker 1: My name is Anthony, Anthony. Uh, what's up? Anthony? 914 00:50:25,400 --> 00:50:30,919 Speaker 2: Has life going pretty good? What about you? Man? 915 00:50:32,200 --> 00:50:36,520 Speaker 1: Uh, it's also pretty good. I'm feeling jazzed. I'm feeling 916 00:50:37,160 --> 00:50:40,520 Speaker 1: I'm feeling I feel today like a like a real 917 00:50:40,640 --> 00:50:47,160 Speaker 1: human being, uh, taking part in the universe instead of 918 00:50:48,560 --> 00:50:53,120 Speaker 1: living in my own brain going crazy, which I think 919 00:50:53,239 --> 00:50:55,440 Speaker 1: is the optimal way to be a human being. But 920 00:50:55,480 --> 00:50:59,960 Speaker 1: I don't. I'm I'm beginning to feel very confident that 921 00:51:00,040 --> 00:51:02,560 Speaker 1: that's the optical way to be a human being is, 922 00:51:03,280 --> 00:51:07,560 Speaker 1: in some way, shape or form, take part in the 923 00:51:07,640 --> 00:51:13,480 Speaker 1: universe in whatever small way, by having a conversation with 924 00:51:13,560 --> 00:51:19,160 Speaker 1: another human being or drawing a picture on a on 925 00:51:19,200 --> 00:51:21,120 Speaker 1: a on a piece of paper and throwing it out 926 00:51:21,120 --> 00:51:24,480 Speaker 1: the window. Uh. So I'm just gonna keep trying to 927 00:51:24,480 --> 00:51:29,480 Speaker 1: do that as much as possible. What's up with you? 928 00:51:30,200 --> 00:51:33,719 Speaker 1: What's up with you? Anthony? Are you Anthony? I'm gonna 929 00:51:33,719 --> 00:51:36,320 Speaker 1: be honest. You sound uh, you sound depressed. 930 00:51:38,880 --> 00:51:39,800 Speaker 2: No, I'm just chilling. 931 00:51:40,360 --> 00:51:44,680 Speaker 1: Okay, Sorry. I classic mistake, by the way, classic mistake 932 00:51:45,600 --> 00:51:49,440 Speaker 1: thinking somebody is depressed when they are in fact just chilling. 933 00:51:50,320 --> 00:51:57,120 Speaker 1: Classic mistake. Didn't mean to project upon you. How's how's chilling? 934 00:51:57,280 --> 00:52:04,080 Speaker 2: I got a question? Go ahead, pretty but do Kanye's 935 00:52:04,160 --> 00:52:05,239 Speaker 2: tweets offend you? 936 00:52:06,120 --> 00:52:07,200 Speaker 1: Do Kanye's tweets? 937 00:52:07,560 --> 00:52:07,759 Speaker 2: Do you? 938 00:52:08,120 --> 00:52:17,600 Speaker 1: Look? Uh? It's just attention seeking and so uh be 939 00:52:17,960 --> 00:52:23,760 Speaker 1: to me being offended and like is is just serving 940 00:52:24,200 --> 00:52:28,480 Speaker 1: the attention that is being sought. And the better alternative 941 00:52:28,560 --> 00:52:34,680 Speaker 1: is to not really pay uh any attention at all? Yeah? 942 00:52:36,680 --> 00:52:40,560 Speaker 2: All right, Well do you like any of his music? 943 00:52:41,680 --> 00:52:41,960 Speaker 7: Sure? 944 00:52:42,160 --> 00:52:44,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, sure, I mean the old stuff, like you know, 945 00:52:45,640 --> 00:52:53,320 Speaker 1: graduation and stuff. Yeah yeah, wow, what's that? 946 00:52:54,640 --> 00:52:54,839 Speaker 8: Yeah? 947 00:52:54,840 --> 00:53:00,960 Speaker 2: But some Panda Express right now? 948 00:53:01,680 --> 00:53:04,680 Speaker 1: Yeah? Do you like Panda Express? Do you like the food? 949 00:53:06,640 --> 00:53:06,879 Speaker 5: Yeah? 950 00:53:07,000 --> 00:53:09,399 Speaker 2: Dude, lot I called you before actually and we talked 951 00:53:09,400 --> 00:53:12,280 Speaker 2: about Panda Express for like ten fifteen minutes. 952 00:53:12,400 --> 00:53:21,239 Speaker 1: Right, Oh, should we do that again? Sure? Recently, what's 953 00:53:21,280 --> 00:53:22,879 Speaker 1: going on with you? Have you been thinking a lot 954 00:53:22,920 --> 00:53:26,440 Speaker 1: about Kanye West? And or is that just like a 955 00:53:26,520 --> 00:53:27,320 Speaker 1: random question? 956 00:53:29,840 --> 00:53:34,560 Speaker 2: Well, you know, he's always doing stuff right, So I 957 00:53:34,600 --> 00:53:36,440 Speaker 2: saw some of the stuff he was doing, and I 958 00:53:36,600 --> 00:53:41,360 Speaker 2: like his music. You know, I talked about it with 959 00:53:41,400 --> 00:53:44,759 Speaker 2: my friends pretty often. What he does, Yeah, what are 960 00:53:44,760 --> 00:53:52,160 Speaker 2: you as you? I mean what he says is weird, 961 00:53:52,239 --> 00:53:56,400 Speaker 2: but it's entertaining in a way. And I still like 962 00:53:56,480 --> 00:53:58,360 Speaker 2: his music, though I think it's getting worse. 963 00:54:01,880 --> 00:54:06,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, uh, it's just it's just like, uh, 964 00:54:07,040 --> 00:54:11,919 Speaker 1: it's an attention grab. I wish that like, because look, 965 00:54:12,000 --> 00:54:17,400 Speaker 1: the guy's clearly like fucking talented. I wish he like 966 00:54:17,680 --> 00:54:23,680 Speaker 1: grabbed attention through other means besides like what he's doing, 967 00:54:24,400 --> 00:54:26,720 Speaker 1: you know what I mean, Like you could just grab 968 00:54:27,520 --> 00:54:30,320 Speaker 1: I mean, you could just grab attention by doing cool 969 00:54:30,400 --> 00:54:35,400 Speaker 1: things and making cool origin doing cool music. And it's 970 00:54:35,520 --> 00:54:40,480 Speaker 1: I think it's just a thing of like you your 971 00:54:40,840 --> 00:54:44,680 Speaker 1: escape going he's doing like you know, it's just acting 972 00:54:44,680 --> 00:54:51,600 Speaker 1: out for attention, and I feel bad. I feel I 973 00:54:51,640 --> 00:54:53,719 Speaker 1: don't know, I almost even just talking about it on 974 00:54:53,760 --> 00:54:57,040 Speaker 1: the podcast, I'm like, I don't want to give attention 975 00:54:58,120 --> 00:55:01,040 Speaker 1: to that. Really, I feel like, I like, do I 976 00:55:01,120 --> 00:55:07,279 Speaker 1: like giving attention to just regular ass fucking life? You know? 977 00:55:09,239 --> 00:55:13,880 Speaker 1: Mm hmmm, uh, how long you've been door d Ashen for? 978 00:55:16,440 --> 00:55:19,080 Speaker 2: Oh? No, no, no, I ordered it. I didn't I'm not 979 00:55:19,160 --> 00:55:19,719 Speaker 2: doing it. 980 00:55:19,880 --> 00:55:21,840 Speaker 1: Oh okay, I thought you were doing I thought you 981 00:55:21,840 --> 00:55:24,840 Speaker 1: were delivering it. What do you do to make to 982 00:55:24,880 --> 00:55:27,000 Speaker 1: make money to survive to live. 983 00:55:29,680 --> 00:55:31,759 Speaker 2: Right now? I'm in college, but I work as a 984 00:55:31,800 --> 00:55:32,680 Speaker 2: personal trainer. 985 00:55:33,680 --> 00:55:34,240 Speaker 1: Oh really? 986 00:55:35,840 --> 00:55:41,319 Speaker 2: Yeah? Are you ripped eating my panda express? Kind of? 987 00:55:42,400 --> 00:55:43,439 Speaker 1: Yeah? Well what do you bench? 988 00:55:46,160 --> 00:55:48,600 Speaker 2: Most I ever benched? I don't do a lot of 989 00:55:48,680 --> 00:55:52,280 Speaker 2: bench press for strength more so, I don't do that 990 00:55:52,280 --> 00:55:54,520 Speaker 2: that much, or do mainly just for hyperchase fee. But 991 00:55:55,360 --> 00:55:59,920 Speaker 2: most ever benched at once was two of five mm hm, 992 00:56:00,120 --> 00:56:04,640 Speaker 2: so just under two plates. Do you like the bench? 993 00:56:05,200 --> 00:56:06,080 Speaker 1: Do I like to bench? 994 00:56:06,880 --> 00:56:07,000 Speaker 2: Uh? 995 00:56:07,080 --> 00:56:09,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, I do. I like to bench. My back was 996 00:56:09,640 --> 00:56:11,960 Speaker 1: a little uh fucked up for a bit, so I 997 00:56:12,239 --> 00:56:14,440 Speaker 1: stopped going to the gym for a little bit and 998 00:56:14,480 --> 00:56:18,719 Speaker 1: I just started walking a lot instead. But uh yeah, 999 00:56:18,239 --> 00:56:22,200 Speaker 1: I've gotten I've gotten into doing uh push ups again. 1000 00:56:22,239 --> 00:56:28,399 Speaker 1: I like push ups. They're fairly efficient, and I feel 1001 00:56:28,400 --> 00:56:31,400 Speaker 1: like they're a little bit less uh crazy on my back, 1002 00:56:32,719 --> 00:56:36,400 Speaker 1: uh because it's not like heavy heavy weight you know. 1003 00:56:37,760 --> 00:56:38,160 Speaker 3: Yeah. 1004 00:56:38,400 --> 00:56:44,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, Well, well. 1005 00:56:45,239 --> 00:56:49,120 Speaker 1: Okay, well this you know what. I I enjoyed having 1006 00:56:49,160 --> 00:56:52,200 Speaker 1: this conversation. I truly honestly did ye? I don't know, 1007 00:56:52,320 --> 00:56:57,840 Speaker 1: even if we didn't talk about anything, really, I've I enjoyed. 1008 00:56:59,400 --> 00:56:59,880 Speaker 1: I enjoyed. 1009 00:57:00,680 --> 00:57:01,319 Speaker 2: Yeah, me too? 1010 00:57:02,880 --> 00:57:03,239 Speaker 1: Is the right? 1011 00:57:03,520 --> 00:57:03,680 Speaker 8: One? 1012 00:57:03,760 --> 00:57:04,320 Speaker 2: Last question? 1013 00:57:04,440 --> 00:57:05,359 Speaker 1: Go ahead? What's up? 1014 00:57:06,840 --> 00:57:08,239 Speaker 2: Will you be my Valentine? 1015 00:57:08,520 --> 00:57:10,719 Speaker 1: Well? I'd be sure, I'll be your Valentine? Why not? 1016 00:57:12,320 --> 00:57:14,279 Speaker 2: Thank you? Thank you? That really made my day. 1017 00:57:14,680 --> 00:57:17,160 Speaker 1: You know, normally I would say uh no, where I 1018 00:57:17,160 --> 00:57:19,840 Speaker 1: would say I feel uncomfortable with that, but I why, 1019 00:57:20,000 --> 00:57:22,000 Speaker 1: I just am trying. Why not sure? I'll be your 1020 00:57:22,000 --> 00:57:26,640 Speaker 1: fucking Valentine? Yeah, I'll be your Valentine? Why not? Cool? 1021 00:57:27,000 --> 00:57:28,400 Speaker 1: What are you gonna get me? What are you? What 1022 00:57:28,400 --> 00:57:29,520 Speaker 1: do you hold on? What are you gonna get me 1023 00:57:29,520 --> 00:57:31,919 Speaker 1: for Valentine's Day? 1024 00:57:32,320 --> 00:57:38,240 Speaker 2: Valentine's Day? Well, I think for you, Gek, I know 1025 00:57:38,360 --> 00:57:41,720 Speaker 2: you love Reces and I know you like pandas. Maybe 1026 00:57:41,720 --> 00:57:44,560 Speaker 2: I'll drop by with the nice tend to express meal 1027 00:57:44,640 --> 00:57:47,400 Speaker 2: on some recepts fast break right now. 1028 00:57:48,280 --> 00:57:52,360 Speaker 1: That sounds really nice. I know you're not going to 1029 00:57:52,440 --> 00:57:56,480 Speaker 1: do that, but I'm also I'm also not going to 1030 00:57:56,880 --> 00:57:59,240 Speaker 1: I'm also realistically probably not gonna get you anything for 1031 00:57:59,320 --> 00:58:02,120 Speaker 1: Valentine's Day either, But I will still be your Valentine. 1032 00:58:02,720 --> 00:58:04,280 Speaker 1: In like a spiritual sense. 1033 00:58:05,960 --> 00:58:07,080 Speaker 2: All right, thank you very much. 1034 00:58:07,360 --> 00:58:17,040 Speaker 1: All right, take care of man, take care. Hello. Hello, Hey, 1035 00:58:17,160 --> 00:58:17,800 Speaker 1: what's your name. 1036 00:58:18,440 --> 00:58:20,520 Speaker 7: My name is Bradley, Bradley. 1037 00:58:21,840 --> 00:58:22,400 Speaker 1: What's going on? 1038 00:58:24,040 --> 00:58:26,479 Speaker 4: Nothing much. I'm house sitting for my aunt and uncle 1039 00:58:26,520 --> 00:58:27,680 Speaker 4: right now. You know, they're out on a date for 1040 00:58:27,760 --> 00:58:30,600 Speaker 4: Valentine's Day. I never thought i'd actually get through. This 1041 00:58:30,680 --> 00:58:33,440 Speaker 4: is like my second attempt at calling you cute. 1042 00:58:33,560 --> 00:58:36,360 Speaker 1: That's that's cute. What about Well, when you say house sitting, 1043 00:58:36,360 --> 00:58:39,760 Speaker 1: what do you are you taking care of the pants, 1044 00:58:39,840 --> 00:58:42,280 Speaker 1: plants or pets or no. 1045 00:58:42,600 --> 00:58:44,480 Speaker 4: Like their kids are here, they're just like hanked out 1046 00:58:44,560 --> 00:58:46,760 Speaker 4: right now, so you know. 1047 00:58:47,160 --> 00:58:49,560 Speaker 1: That's baby, that's babysitting. That's not really house sitting. 1048 00:58:51,120 --> 00:58:54,760 Speaker 4: I guess I don't know. You know, once they're asleep, 1049 00:58:54,800 --> 00:58:56,840 Speaker 4: they're just they don't exist, right. 1050 00:58:57,640 --> 00:58:59,960 Speaker 1: Well sort of sort of they exist a little bit, 1051 00:59:00,240 --> 00:59:03,800 Speaker 1: but a little bit. It's it's interesting with uh like, yeah, 1052 00:59:03,800 --> 00:59:06,240 Speaker 1: I guess I never understood the phrase house sitting. I 1053 00:59:06,240 --> 00:59:09,360 Speaker 1: guess like that that's not like house sitting is like 1054 00:59:09,360 --> 00:59:11,280 Speaker 1: another word for like like if you gotta take place, 1055 00:59:11,560 --> 00:59:14,600 Speaker 1: take care of like like oh, we have a hamster 1056 00:59:14,960 --> 00:59:18,080 Speaker 1: and a and a fern. You know where are your 1057 00:59:18,080 --> 00:59:20,400 Speaker 1: aunt and uncle on on a date too? 1058 00:59:22,000 --> 00:59:25,280 Speaker 4: I think they're just out drinking right now. Nothing too exciting. 1059 00:59:25,720 --> 00:59:28,280 Speaker 1: That that's exciting. Where are they You think they're gonna 1060 00:59:28,280 --> 00:59:29,040 Speaker 1: get really fucked up? 1061 00:59:30,880 --> 00:59:33,120 Speaker 4: Definitely, dude. They've been six like the past like month 1062 00:59:33,120 --> 00:59:34,960 Speaker 4: and a half. You know, they got three kids. So 1063 00:59:36,120 --> 00:59:37,320 Speaker 4: I was gonna say, this is like their first time. 1064 00:59:37,320 --> 00:59:38,800 Speaker 4: I have a minute, they're gonna be going for a 1065 00:59:38,800 --> 00:59:39,240 Speaker 4: good while. 1066 00:59:40,360 --> 00:59:41,800 Speaker 1: Do you have a Valentine? 1067 00:59:43,520 --> 00:59:46,560 Speaker 4: I don't. That is part of the reason I called 1068 00:59:46,600 --> 00:59:49,600 Speaker 4: because I I had a like long term girlfriend and 1069 00:59:49,800 --> 00:59:52,800 Speaker 4: we broke up probably about a month ago, and I 1070 00:59:53,160 --> 00:59:55,920 Speaker 4: don't know. I think I think it's kind of a funny, 1071 00:59:56,160 --> 00:59:57,160 Speaker 4: funny breakup, Like. 1072 00:59:57,200 --> 00:59:59,320 Speaker 1: Legitimately, why is it funny? 1073 01:00:00,960 --> 01:00:06,800 Speaker 4: Yeah? So pretty much like you know, I'm twenty, I 1074 01:00:06,880 --> 01:00:09,160 Speaker 4: do twenty year old things. You know, I like to 1075 01:00:09,160 --> 01:00:10,840 Speaker 4: get some actions sometimes. 1076 01:00:10,400 --> 01:00:14,280 Speaker 8: And you know, we're both at the all right, okay. 1077 01:00:15,240 --> 01:00:17,520 Speaker 4: And like all of a sudden, this is like seven 1078 01:00:17,560 --> 01:00:20,720 Speaker 4: months in, it all stopped, and you know, I was 1079 01:00:20,800 --> 01:00:23,200 Speaker 4: sitting there, I'm like, man, am I that bad? 1080 01:00:23,240 --> 01:00:23,840 Speaker 3: In the bedroom? 1081 01:00:24,000 --> 01:00:27,240 Speaker 4: Like I wasn't gonna ask, you know, like I just 1082 01:00:27,320 --> 01:00:29,040 Speaker 4: let it let it go for a couple of months 1083 01:00:29,040 --> 01:00:31,360 Speaker 4: and we were having some issues for like we're together, 1084 01:00:31,440 --> 01:00:33,080 Speaker 4: like about two months after this, we were having some 1085 01:00:33,120 --> 01:00:35,080 Speaker 4: issues in that time. We had like a little little 1086 01:00:35,120 --> 01:00:36,840 Speaker 4: falling out and I'm like, hey, like I want to 1087 01:00:36,840 --> 01:00:38,240 Speaker 4: go over there to talk about this in person, like 1088 01:00:38,280 --> 01:00:40,800 Speaker 4: get things settled. They're just like a misunderstanding. And I'm 1089 01:00:40,880 --> 01:00:44,920 Speaker 4: there and like out of nowhere, she's like, hey, so 1090 01:00:45,920 --> 01:00:49,360 Speaker 4: I haven't been honest with you, like I found God again, 1091 01:00:49,920 --> 01:00:54,200 Speaker 4: and like I yeah. She's like I need a Christian 1092 01:00:54,240 --> 01:00:57,840 Speaker 4: boy now, and I'm like, but we were you know, 1093 01:00:58,240 --> 01:01:00,440 Speaker 4: dare I say get in or freak on for like 1094 01:01:00,960 --> 01:01:05,520 Speaker 4: a good majority of this relationship, Like why stop now? 1095 01:01:05,560 --> 01:01:07,880 Speaker 4: And she looks me dead in the eyes. I'm being 1096 01:01:07,960 --> 01:01:10,240 Speaker 4: so serious. She goes, I don't want to burn in hell, 1097 01:01:10,840 --> 01:01:14,240 Speaker 4: and I'm like, okay, cool, yeah. 1098 01:01:13,840 --> 01:01:14,520 Speaker 3: And look for her. 1099 01:01:14,720 --> 01:01:17,920 Speaker 1: Good for both of you. Yeah, go ahead, keep going. 1100 01:01:18,280 --> 01:01:18,440 Speaker 8: You know. 1101 01:01:19,200 --> 01:01:21,440 Speaker 4: Sorry, I'm not religious personally, you know what I mean, 1102 01:01:21,440 --> 01:01:23,480 Speaker 4: Like I grew up Christian, like I respect anybody you 1103 01:01:23,520 --> 01:01:25,280 Speaker 4: know in their beliefs, but it's just something that doesn't 1104 01:01:25,280 --> 01:01:30,760 Speaker 4: resonate with me. And I'm like, shoot, sorry, I'm losing 1105 01:01:30,800 --> 01:01:33,040 Speaker 4: track now now let me double back. 1106 01:01:34,280 --> 01:01:35,000 Speaker 5: Well, so. 1107 01:01:37,760 --> 01:01:41,280 Speaker 1: That it is it is it? Do you think you're 1108 01:01:41,280 --> 01:01:42,120 Speaker 1: gonna burn in hell? 1109 01:01:44,720 --> 01:01:47,240 Speaker 4: I don't know. I think it's something I'm gonna worry 1110 01:01:47,240 --> 01:01:49,280 Speaker 4: about when the time comes, you know what I mean. 1111 01:01:49,400 --> 01:01:50,880 Speaker 4: Like until then, I'm just gonna do. 1112 01:01:50,800 --> 01:01:51,439 Speaker 8: Whatever I want. 1113 01:01:51,800 --> 01:01:54,640 Speaker 1: Sure, sure, No, until then, get get your get your 1114 01:01:54,640 --> 01:01:59,520 Speaker 1: freak on, go crazy. Exactly interesting, that's it, you know what? 1115 01:01:59,600 --> 01:02:04,280 Speaker 1: By the way that I just that situation worked out 1116 01:02:04,760 --> 01:02:07,920 Speaker 1: so well for you from my perspective, right because like, 1117 01:02:08,440 --> 01:02:12,280 Speaker 1: of all the different ways that a relationship could could end, 1118 01:02:13,080 --> 01:02:16,840 Speaker 1: I'm like, this is just my perspective is like if 1119 01:02:16,880 --> 01:02:18,680 Speaker 1: a girl, if this this girl broke up with you 1120 01:02:18,720 --> 01:02:23,000 Speaker 1: because she's like I want a nice Christian boy to 1121 01:02:23,080 --> 01:02:27,920 Speaker 1: be celibate with. It's like that feels like an easy 1122 01:02:29,440 --> 01:02:32,080 Speaker 1: lift for me because it's not like because like if 1123 01:02:32,120 --> 01:02:34,720 Speaker 1: she found like a like a she was like, Oh, 1124 01:02:34,760 --> 01:02:38,640 Speaker 1: I'm just like I'm leaving you for a cooler, hotter guy. 1125 01:02:38,680 --> 01:02:41,040 Speaker 1: You know, that would that would make me depressed. But 1126 01:02:41,120 --> 01:02:44,880 Speaker 1: if she's like, oh, yeah, no, I I I've completely 1127 01:02:45,000 --> 01:02:47,200 Speaker 1: changed who I am as a human being, and I 1128 01:02:47,240 --> 01:02:51,440 Speaker 1: need to find somebody who is like like she's like, oh, 1129 01:02:51,480 --> 01:02:54,800 Speaker 1: I need to find someone who wants to provide me 1130 01:02:55,120 --> 01:02:59,480 Speaker 1: with something that you cannot provide because you are, as 1131 01:02:59,520 --> 01:03:03,080 Speaker 1: you have a state ablished a freaky little demon man 1132 01:03:03,440 --> 01:03:06,240 Speaker 1: and not a nice Christian boy. By the way, please 1133 01:03:06,280 --> 01:03:08,440 Speaker 1: be a freaky little demon man. All right, that's your 1134 01:03:08,440 --> 01:03:12,680 Speaker 1: god given right. But you know you're not a You're 1135 01:03:12,720 --> 01:03:16,240 Speaker 1: not a good Christian boy. So it's a little bit 1136 01:03:16,280 --> 01:03:18,760 Speaker 1: easier to leave because it's like, oh, I I this. 1137 01:03:19,680 --> 01:03:23,439 Speaker 1: It's not like, oh I'm not enough, I am insufficient. 1138 01:03:23,720 --> 01:03:28,240 Speaker 1: I'm I just literally am not the flavor of ice 1139 01:03:28,280 --> 01:03:32,280 Speaker 1: cream that you are looking for, you know, So that's 1140 01:03:32,360 --> 01:03:36,680 Speaker 1: kind of this all that's kind of nice. I actually think, yeah. 1141 01:03:36,960 --> 01:03:39,480 Speaker 4: Now I don't know what the issue is. Now I'm 1142 01:03:39,520 --> 01:03:43,240 Speaker 4: having doubts it's the truth because so during this conversation, 1143 01:03:44,160 --> 01:03:47,040 Speaker 4: like you know, I'm a guy in college, you know, 1144 01:03:47,040 --> 01:03:48,840 Speaker 4: I like to drink occasionally. It's my friends, and she 1145 01:03:48,880 --> 01:03:51,360 Speaker 4: would come and you know, she'd party with us, all right, 1146 01:03:51,480 --> 01:03:55,680 Speaker 4: and so I'm like, what about that, Like, you know, 1147 01:03:56,000 --> 01:03:58,720 Speaker 4: literally like a week ago, you're getting hammered with me 1148 01:03:58,800 --> 01:03:59,960 Speaker 4: and my friends, Like. 1149 01:04:00,400 --> 01:04:05,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, but but who gives a shit though whatever. 1150 01:04:05,320 --> 01:04:07,200 Speaker 1: Let her, let her, let her, let her find God, 1151 01:04:07,280 --> 01:04:09,000 Speaker 1: let her be born again, let her go on her 1152 01:04:09,040 --> 01:04:12,520 Speaker 1: own fucking journey. Who cares? 1153 01:04:12,640 --> 01:04:17,160 Speaker 4: You know, No, that's that's reasonable, But like I'm just curious, 1154 01:04:17,160 --> 01:04:18,320 Speaker 4: you know what I mean, because we were together for 1155 01:04:18,360 --> 01:04:21,240 Speaker 4: like almost a year, like like that wasn't the truth 1156 01:04:21,280 --> 01:04:23,240 Speaker 4: because she's been like you know, she's like, oh, I 1157 01:04:23,280 --> 01:04:24,960 Speaker 4: want to still stay in contact and so follow each 1158 01:04:25,000 --> 01:04:26,919 Speaker 4: other like I almost be peaceful and like I don't 1159 01:04:26,960 --> 01:04:28,520 Speaker 4: really care, you know what I mean. I'm like, okay, 1160 01:04:28,800 --> 01:04:31,200 Speaker 4: like sure, and like you know, I'll be on TikTok. 1161 01:04:31,240 --> 01:04:33,560 Speaker 4: And you've seen her repos since about like just getting 1162 01:04:33,560 --> 01:04:36,800 Speaker 4: fucking sloshed and like getting with dudes, and that makes 1163 01:04:36,840 --> 01:04:38,800 Speaker 4: me wonder. I'm like, damn, did you just lie to 1164 01:04:38,840 --> 01:04:40,160 Speaker 4: my face after like a year? 1165 01:04:40,560 --> 01:04:44,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, maybe it doesn't really matter either way, you know exactly. 1166 01:04:44,600 --> 01:04:47,600 Speaker 1: I don't know. I guess it's like dude, I don't know. 1167 01:04:47,680 --> 01:04:54,400 Speaker 1: I guess it's like a mildly interesting. But at the 1168 01:04:54,440 --> 01:04:55,840 Speaker 1: end of the day, I'm like, I don't know who 1169 01:04:55,840 --> 01:04:59,760 Speaker 1: gives a ship which this person is doing on her TikTok, 1170 01:05:00,040 --> 01:05:03,240 Speaker 1: whether or not is like like who, I just I 1171 01:05:03,400 --> 01:05:04,280 Speaker 1: just who cares? 1172 01:05:04,440 --> 01:05:07,640 Speaker 4: You know, that's real. It's just nosy, you know what 1173 01:05:07,720 --> 01:05:10,040 Speaker 4: I mean? Like I like knowing stuff. I hate like 1174 01:05:10,040 --> 01:05:12,040 Speaker 4: not knowing, you know what I mean. Like let's say, 1175 01:05:12,080 --> 01:05:13,720 Speaker 4: like my mom orders a package, you know, I like 1176 01:05:14,000 --> 01:05:15,240 Speaker 4: need to know what's inside that thing. 1177 01:05:15,720 --> 01:05:22,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, but I'm I'm a looking at your ex's Instagram 1178 01:05:22,840 --> 01:05:26,120 Speaker 1: reels to see, oh, is she finding God or not? 1179 01:05:26,280 --> 01:05:26,800 Speaker 1: Like is she? 1180 01:05:26,880 --> 01:05:29,840 Speaker 4: It just is kind of oh, I'm not like actively 1181 01:05:29,880 --> 01:05:31,000 Speaker 4: seeking it out, you know what I mean. 1182 01:05:31,080 --> 01:05:33,160 Speaker 1: But like, sure, I know I get it. You probably 1183 01:05:33,240 --> 01:05:35,600 Speaker 1: don't like I don't. I don't take I don't take 1184 01:05:35,640 --> 01:05:40,160 Speaker 1: that you're obsessively stalking your exes Instagram or whatever. But 1185 01:05:40,160 --> 01:05:44,120 Speaker 1: it's just like I don't know, let her find God 1186 01:05:44,480 --> 01:05:47,520 Speaker 1: or whatever. Maybe maybe she maybe she is lying to you, 1187 01:05:47,560 --> 01:05:53,120 Speaker 1: Maybe she's lying to you, and you know, she found 1188 01:05:53,200 --> 01:05:57,320 Speaker 1: a cooler, hotter guy, and maybe that cooler hotter guy 1189 01:05:57,600 --> 01:06:01,080 Speaker 1: is Jesus and and God bless her if it is. 1190 01:06:01,360 --> 01:06:01,600 Speaker 2: You know. 1191 01:06:02,640 --> 01:06:05,360 Speaker 4: Yeah, you know it makes for an easy way to 1192 01:06:05,400 --> 01:06:06,800 Speaker 4: tell people he broke up. You know, I just tell 1193 01:06:06,880 --> 01:06:09,400 Speaker 4: him I got like cooked by a celestial being. 1194 01:06:09,200 --> 01:06:12,480 Speaker 1: It and yeah, yes, I like that you got cocked 1195 01:06:12,520 --> 01:06:15,919 Speaker 1: by God? And what of all the belief of all 1196 01:06:15,960 --> 01:06:18,800 Speaker 1: the celestial beings to be cocked by I think being 1197 01:06:18,840 --> 01:06:23,560 Speaker 1: cocked by Jesus and God is is you know? Pretty good? 1198 01:06:23,600 --> 01:06:25,800 Speaker 1: It's like I think I've said something like this before, 1199 01:06:25,840 --> 01:06:29,680 Speaker 1: but it's like when the team that beats you, uh 1200 01:06:29,960 --> 01:06:32,720 Speaker 1: you know, wins the Super Bowl, right, it's like, okay, 1201 01:06:32,760 --> 01:06:35,880 Speaker 1: well we got beat by the best guys, so who 1202 01:06:36,120 --> 01:06:38,720 Speaker 1: of course, you know, no harm done. No, I don't 1203 01:06:38,720 --> 01:06:42,240 Speaker 1: take it personally. They were just the best guys. That's Jesus. 1204 01:06:42,240 --> 01:06:45,200 Speaker 1: That's literally Jesus fucking Christ right there. So you have 1205 01:06:45,280 --> 01:06:48,280 Speaker 1: no shot, right, you're you're these are the best guys. 1206 01:06:48,360 --> 01:06:54,640 Speaker 1: Of course. What's your name again, Brian Bradley, Bradley, Brian Bryce, 1207 01:06:54,680 --> 01:06:58,120 Speaker 1: all the same? Whatever you or anything else? Sorry, I 1208 01:06:58,120 --> 01:07:04,560 Speaker 1: don't mean to well, Brian Bradley, Bryce. Is there anything 1209 01:07:04,560 --> 01:07:05,560 Speaker 1: else you want to say to the people of the 1210 01:07:05,600 --> 01:07:06,440 Speaker 1: computer before we go? 1211 01:07:07,960 --> 01:07:12,160 Speaker 4: I don't know, I mean find not to you know, 1212 01:07:12,440 --> 01:07:15,440 Speaker 4: cross a cross paths with Jesus and his his children. 1213 01:07:16,280 --> 01:07:17,360 Speaker 4: You know he's gonna cook. 1214 01:07:17,440 --> 01:07:22,360 Speaker 1: You have a good d have a good rest of 1215 01:07:22,360 --> 01:07:25,880 Speaker 1: your entire life, Bradley, you as well, wile, thank you, 1216 01:07:25,920 --> 01:07:32,560 Speaker 1: take care? Bye bye? That was uh, that was Bradley. 1217 01:07:33,680 --> 01:07:37,560 Speaker 1: Love is real. Loving, Love is love is real. Love 1218 01:07:37,640 --> 01:07:41,240 Speaker 1: is real. Hello folks, it's Lyle here. That's the end 1219 01:07:41,280 --> 01:07:45,440 Speaker 1: of this episode. 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