Speaker 1: It's time to Catch a Cheater. Only on the Table show.
Speaker 2: Roy is on the phone today for to Catch a Cheater.
Speaker 2: He thinks that his girlfriend of three and a half
Speaker 2: years might be messing around. Her name is Melissa. What's up? Roy?
Speaker 3: Hey, how you guys doing?
Speaker 2: Not too bad?
Speaker 3: Man?
Speaker 2: How are you well?
Speaker 3: You know, I mean, kind of regrettable situation to be honest.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I always hate when I ask that question on
Speaker 2: this segment because obviously you're not doing the best to
Speaker 2: think that your partner might be cheating on you, And
Speaker 2: I'm assuming this is kind of a last resort for you.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, I don't know what else to do.
Speaker 2: She just won't open up to me, Okay, so tell
Speaker 2: us what's going on.
Speaker 3: So lately she's been just on the phone, texting all
Speaker 3: the time, and like, I don't know, she's just not
Speaker 3: really paying much attention to seeing the loop. When I
Speaker 3: ask her about it, she's kind of like, oh, you know,
Speaker 3: don't worry about it. Kind of situation, you know, And
Speaker 3: I just feel like I'm being less in the cold,
Speaker 3: and I don't really know what's going on.
Speaker 4: Does she normally communicate with you pretty thoroughly? Like is
Speaker 4: this a different way for her to communicate with you altogether.
Speaker 3: Yeah, it feels weird. She seems very frustrated with me,
Speaker 3: and I don't get why. The only reason I'm even
Speaker 3: bringing it up is because, you know, we had a
Speaker 3: situation in the past where she did cheat on me,
Speaker 3: and this is making me suspicious.
Speaker 2: When was that? Was it recent or.
Speaker 3: It was like six months ago?
Speaker 2: Obviously you decided to forgive her for that and try
Speaker 2: to move forward.
Speaker 3: Yeah, and like we've been good, but the last few
Speaker 3: weeks it's been just like weird. I don't know, I
Speaker 3: feel like she's changing or something. It's really bothering me.
Speaker 4: What did it feel like when she cheated on you
Speaker 4: six months ago? Does it feel like this?
Speaker 3: No, not exactly, because she was still talking to me.
Speaker 3: So that was kind of a shock when when I
Speaker 3: found out.
Speaker 2: You know, Hm, have you let her know that you're
Speaker 2: suspicious that she's messing around? Like or have you asked questions?
Speaker 5: It?
Speaker 3: Not directly, but I've like asked her like what's going on?
Speaker 3: Like why are you so cold? Like, you know, I
Speaker 3: didn't want to be like two forward about the cheating thing,
Speaker 3: you know, because it's like then then she might pull
Speaker 3: back more so.
Speaker 4: When you found out she was cheating on you the
Speaker 4: first time? Did she admit to that or did you
Speaker 4: catch her?
Speaker 3: Well? I caught her, but then she admitted it. It
Speaker 3: was like some evidence. And then I like confronted her
Speaker 3: and then she had ended up admitting it and it
Speaker 3: wasn't like evidence. But once I kind of found the evidence,
Speaker 3: I was like, is this what does this mean? And
Speaker 3: then she told me the truth and so we had
Speaker 3: a conversation and I decided to forget her and we
Speaker 3: moved on.
Speaker 2: Okay, it is shady, you know, she's acting different, and
Speaker 2: then the fact that that happened six months ago, and
Speaker 2: you would think if it was that recent, she would
Speaker 2: be going out of her way to make sure that
Speaker 2: you knew she wasn't messing around, you know.
Speaker 4: Yeah, because I'd be on edge too, Roy, let's be honest.
Speaker 3: Yeah, And she's been late coming home and she's not
Speaker 3: telling me.
Speaker 5: Why did you know the guy she originally cheated on with? Like, no,
Speaker 5: have you met all her coworkers and like people who
Speaker 5: she like works with?
Speaker 2: You trust people she works with?
Speaker 3: Only know a couple of them that she's kind of
Speaker 3: like more friends with. I don't know all of them,
Speaker 3: and those are all Those are like two females that
Speaker 3: she was kind of close with.
Speaker 2: So when this happened before, did she give you details
Speaker 2: about how she met that person?
Speaker 3: A little bit? It was more like I was more
Speaker 3: focused on the betrayal than I was on like the details.
Speaker 2: Of how Yeah, I guess it makes sense for sure.
Speaker 2: The reason I was asking is I was wondering if
Speaker 2: they were also a coworker.
Speaker 3: Yeah, so it wasn't a coworker we did. We definitely
Speaker 3: confirm that.
Speaker 2: Okay, all right, cool, Well, we'll see if we can
Speaker 2: figure it out for you. You told us what grocery
Speaker 2: store she shops at and is a rewards card member at,
Speaker 2: So we'll call her, pretend to be from there, and say,
Speaker 2: every single month, we choose one rewards card member at
Speaker 2: random who gets free flowers delivered from our brand new
Speaker 2: and improof fol department, and we'll see if she sends
Speaker 2: those to you or to somebody else.
Speaker 3: Okay, Okay, sounds good.
Speaker 2: All right, man, plays, I'll come back and get here
Speaker 2: to catch cheeter. Next, if you're just joining us for today,
Speaker 2: is to catch a cheeter. Roy is on the phone,
Speaker 2: and Roy thinks that his girlfriend of three and a
Speaker 2: half years. Melissa might be cheating on him. She actually
Speaker 2: has cheated on him before. Six months ago he caught her,
Speaker 2: and now he thinks it might be happening again. So
Speaker 2: we're about to help him out. Real quick, Roy, refresh
Speaker 2: everybody's memory. What's going on?
Speaker 3: Well, good, keep it quick. She's just been acting cold.
Speaker 3: She's been texting a lot, looking at her phone a lot.
Speaker 3: We haven't really been engaging like we used to. And
Speaker 3: then she's coming home from work weight and she gets
Speaker 3: frustrated whenever I mention it.
Speaker 2: All right, We're about to call her and pretend to
Speaker 2: be from the grocery store that she's a rewards card
Speaker 2: member at and tell her that every single month we
Speaker 2: choose one rewards card member at random he gets free
Speaker 2: flowers delivered from our beautiful, new and improved flowl department.
Speaker 2: It's so nice. Yeah, we'll see if she believes that,
Speaker 2: and if she sends the flowers to you or to
Speaker 2: somebody else. Okay, you ready?
Speaker 3: Yes?
Speaker 2: All right? Cool? Medela the phone of her right now. Hello, Hi,
Speaker 2: this is Gorble calling from Is this Melissa? This is
Speaker 2: she Melissa? Hi, You're a rewards card member with us
Speaker 2: and I just wanted to say congratulations here this month's winner.
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, I haven't heard of this before. What's going on?
Speaker 2: Oh the flowers? You're this month's winner.
Speaker 1: I won flowers.
Speaker 2: Well, we recently reimagined our floral department, and to celebrate that,
Speaker 2: we choose one Rewards Card member at random each month
Speaker 2: who gets free flowers delivered from our brand new floral department.
Speaker 2: We do delivery.
Speaker 4: Now.
Speaker 2: We're trying to get the word out and also say
Speaker 2: thank you for shopping totally free, totally free thirty six
Speaker 2: long stem red roses, a card, and a box of chocolates.
Speaker 1: That is so sweet.
Speaker 2: That is awesome For the flower delivery, If you know
Speaker 2: who you want to send them to right now, I
Speaker 2: can take the information in just a couple of minutes
Speaker 2: on the phone.
Speaker 1: Uh yeah, I can do that right now. Like, what
Speaker 1: do you guys need?
Speaker 2: All I would need is the first and last name
Speaker 2: of the person you want to send them to. If
Speaker 2: you want to put a thing on a card, I
Speaker 2: would need that and then the address.
Speaker 1: Great, okay, so yeah, I guess let's send them to Roy.
Speaker 2: Did you want to include a card?
Speaker 1: I guess you can write like hey, love Sorry, I've
Speaker 1: been really stressed out. Thanks for being there.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I got a question real quick, you know, if
Speaker 2: you don't mind, how long you guys been together?
Speaker 1: Three and a half years?
Speaker 2: Three and a half years? Okay, So hey, real quick,
Speaker 2: I just want to let you know that this is
Speaker 2: actually the Jubile Show. It's a radio show. It's not
Speaker 2: the grocery store at all. That's Nina, What Why? And
Speaker 2: that's Victoria. There's three people on the phone right now.
Speaker 1: What's this about?
Speaker 2: We do a segment on our show called to Catch
Speaker 2: a Cheater, and your boyfriend Roy is actually on the phone.
Speaker 2: He's been listening the whole time, and it's weird. Yeah.
Speaker 2: It's a segment where we try to see if somebody
Speaker 2: is messing around their significant other.
Speaker 1: Roy, are you there?
Speaker 5: Hi?
Speaker 1: Care to explain what the heck is going on here?
Speaker 3: I mean, I'm kind of relieved that you sent me
Speaker 3: the roses, but I'm sorry I didn't trust you. Y, I'm.
Speaker 1: Not cheating on you.
Speaker 3: I mean it was just hard to believe you've been
Speaker 3: so cold and like stressed out and like you're just
Speaker 3: acting weird with me lately.
Speaker 1: I don't know, like, when are you going to trust me?
Speaker 3: When the wounds are healed. I'm still hurting.
Speaker 1: That was six months ago. I cheated on you six
Speaker 1: months ago, like that you forgave me. That's that. I
Speaker 1: feel like it's time to move on.
Speaker 3: It would be easier if I knew why you were
Speaker 3: texting and looking at your phone all the time and
Speaker 3: not engaging with me. I just feel like you've been
Speaker 3: distant and it's opening the wound up again.
Speaker 1: Okay, you want to hear all of the boring work stuff,
Speaker 1: that's fine. You know that. I want to keep work
Speaker 1: as work and home as home. It's a stressful job.
Speaker 1: I don't really want to talk about it, but I
Speaker 1: guess I'm here on the radio freaking talking about it.
Speaker 1: So I have a new coworker. They're my superior. They
Speaker 1: are stressing me out because they're texting me constantly about
Speaker 1: like everything, like they're new in town, what grocery store
Speaker 1: to go to, what bar to go to?
Speaker 6: Everything that they could, Like I'm their personal assistant and
Speaker 6: I just want to get home, turn on the TV,
Speaker 6: like relax a little bit, and not think about it
Speaker 6: for like a second.
Speaker 1: But then they just keep texting me. So I don't
Speaker 1: want to talk about it. And that's literally all that
Speaker 1: it is.
Speaker 3: Okay, Yeah, So what's this person that you're texting? The
Speaker 3: name is this new coworker? You're like, you have right?
Speaker 1: Why care with their name? Why is that important?
Speaker 3: But we're in a relationship. I feel like, if you're
Speaker 3: texting somebody all the time, I'd like to at least
Speaker 3: know who they are.
Speaker 1: You got to trust me, Like, I don't need to
Speaker 1: tell you this.
Speaker 3: This is making it harder.
Speaker 2: Yeah, why wouldn't you just tell them the name of
Speaker 2: your coworker?
Speaker 1: Fine, okay, Jason, that's his name.
Speaker 3: Oh so it is a guy.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna have male coworkers.
Speaker 3: I mean, the fact that you're hiding it from me
Speaker 3: is that makes it more suspicious.
Speaker 2: I think you both have points here.
Speaker 4: I think Melissa it's fair to be open and respond
Speaker 4: to his questions. And then also, Roy, if you are
Speaker 4: going to forgive her for cheating on you, you do
Speaker 4: have to trust her.
Speaker 3: Look, I'm choosing to trust you, but like I'm still
Speaker 3: hurting and the fact that, like, you're texting somebody all
Speaker 3: the time and it's a guy, even though he's your coworker,
Speaker 3: and you wouldn't tell me anything about what was going
Speaker 3: on that. It makes me suspicious, and I'm choosing to
Speaker 3: lay that aside for the sake of our relationship. But like,
Speaker 3: you gotta let me know what's going on when I.
Speaker 1: Ask you, right I already said that I would. Can
Speaker 1: we just like drop this?
Speaker 3: He's my coworker, See that that doesn't help. I feel
Speaker 3: like your attitude right now is like super defensive, and
Speaker 3: that makes it.
Speaker 1: I am not being defensive. I am not being defensive. Okay,
Speaker 1: I told you what I told you, But I gotta go.
Speaker 1: I gotta go back to work. Okay, I'll see you later.
Speaker 2: Okay, let's throw it to a vote. Is something going
Speaker 2: on Nina?
Speaker 4: I want to say no, but she's curious, Like I
Speaker 4: think she's attracted to.
Speaker 2: Jason, Okay, Victoria, I don't know.
Speaker 5: It's the defensiveness that's getting me. Like she's too defensive
Speaker 5: to for nothing to be going on.
Speaker 2: In my opinion, Yeah, and the person whose opinion really matters, Roy,
Speaker 2: what do you think I'm.
Speaker 3: Having really mixed opinions because she sent me the roses
Speaker 3: without hesitation. But like when I said you're being defensive,
Speaker 3: she blew up.
Speaker 4: That's why she's not cheating on you right now? Roy,
Speaker 4: but I think we have to watch the situation closely. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 4: I want you to think about it. She didn't sound
Speaker 4: very reasonable and willing to see your side, and she
Speaker 4: is the one that cheated.
Speaker 3: Right, Yeah, I mean I've been faithful.
Speaker 2: Okay, I think Roy. Ultimately, is she worth maybe getting
Speaker 2: hurt again?
Speaker 5: Quiet?
Speaker 3: Right now I'm questioning. I wanted to say yes when
Speaker 3: it was kind of like what the roses she gave
Speaker 3: them to me? But now like her response was pretty unreasonable.
Speaker 2: It was if you continue the relationship with her, it
Speaker 2: could happen again, right, maybe not? But like, if you
Speaker 2: do choose to trust her, you gotta trust her, and
Speaker 2: you do know you could open yourself up to her
Speaker 2: doing it again. Are you willing to take that risk?
Speaker 2: I guess is what you have to what I feel
Speaker 2: like you have to the things you have to weigh.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm still on the fence. I mean, I think
Speaker 3: I'm going to try and give her a chance, and
Speaker 3: if the behavior doesn't change, I'm just gonna call it quits.
Speaker 2: Okay, Well, let us know, keep us updated, man, Yeah,
Speaker 2: good luck? Right, Yeah, we're playing for you.
Speaker 3: I appreciate your health.
Speaker 2: Guys, Yeah, no problem and if you. If it ends
Speaker 2: up not working out, don't worry. We can find you
Speaker 2: another date from someone who texted the show. We've got
Speaker 2: a lot of people texting and who want dates all
Speaker 2: the time. Here to Victoria too. Yeah, hi.
Speaker 1: He has a girlfriend.
Speaker 2: Okay, I'm done.
Speaker 3: Thank you, Victoria. I'll keep that in mind, all right.
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