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Speaker 1: It's time to Catch a Cheater. Only on the Table show.

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Speaker 2: Roy is on the phone today for to Catch a Cheater.

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Speaker 2: He thinks that his girlfriend of three and a half

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Speaker 2: years might be messing around. Her name is Melissa. What's up? Roy?

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Speaker 3: Hey, how you guys doing?

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Speaker 2: Not too bad?

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Speaker 3: Man?

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Speaker 2: How are you well?

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Speaker 3: You know, I mean, kind of regrettable situation to be honest.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I always hate when I ask that question on

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Speaker 2: this segment because obviously you're not doing the best to

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Speaker 2: think that your partner might be cheating on you, And

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Speaker 2: I'm assuming this is kind of a last resort for you.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, I don't know what else to do.

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Speaker 2: She just won't open up to me, Okay, so tell

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Speaker 2: us what's going on.

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Speaker 3: So lately she's been just on the phone, texting all

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Speaker 3: the time, and like, I don't know, she's just not

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Speaker 3: really paying much attention to seeing the loop. When I

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Speaker 3: ask her about it, she's kind of like, oh, you know,

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Speaker 3: don't worry about it. Kind of situation, you know, And

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Speaker 3: I just feel like I'm being less in the cold,

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Speaker 3: and I don't really know what's going on.

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Speaker 4: Does she normally communicate with you pretty thoroughly? Like is

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Speaker 4: this a different way for her to communicate with you altogether.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it feels weird. She seems very frustrated with me,

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Speaker 3: and I don't get why. The only reason I'm even

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Speaker 3: bringing it up is because, you know, we had a

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Speaker 3: situation in the past where she did cheat on me,

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Speaker 3: and this is making me suspicious.

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Speaker 2: When was that? Was it recent or.

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Speaker 3: It was like six months ago?

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Speaker 2: Obviously you decided to forgive her for that and try

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Speaker 2: to move forward.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and like we've been good, but the last few

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Speaker 3: weeks it's been just like weird. I don't know, I

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Speaker 4: What did it feel like when she cheated on you

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Speaker 4: six months ago? Does it feel like this?

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Speaker 3: No, not exactly, because she was still talking to me.

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Speaker 3: So that was kind of a shock when when I

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Speaker 2: You know, Hm, have you let her know that you're

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Speaker 2: suspicious that she's messing around? Like or have you asked questions?

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Speaker 5: It?

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Speaker 3: Not directly, but I've like asked her like what's going on?

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Speaker 3: Like why are you so cold? Like, you know, I

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Speaker 3: didn't want to be like two forward about the cheating thing,

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Speaker 4: When you found out she was cheating on you the

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Speaker 4: first time? Did she admit to that or did you

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Speaker 3: Well? I caught her, but then she admitted it. It

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Speaker 3: was like some evidence. And then I like confronted her

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Speaker 3: and then she had ended up admitting it and it

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Speaker 3: wasn't like evidence. But once I kind of found the evidence,

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Speaker 3: I was like, is this what does this mean? And

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Speaker 2: Okay, it is shady, you know, she's acting different, and

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Speaker 2: then the fact that that happened six months ago, and

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Speaker 4: Yeah, because I'd be on edge too, Roy, let's be honest.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, And she's been late coming home and she's not

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Speaker 5: Why did you know the guy she originally cheated on with? Like, no,

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Speaker 5: have you met all her coworkers and like people who

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Speaker 2: You trust people she works with?

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Speaker 3: Only know a couple of them that she's kind of

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Speaker 2: So when this happened before, did she give you details

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Speaker 3: A little bit? It was more like I was more

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Speaker 2: Of how Yeah, I guess it makes sense for sure.

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Speaker 2: The reason I was asking is I was wondering if

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Speaker 3: Yeah, so it wasn't a coworker we did. We definitely

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Speaker 2: Okay, all right, cool, Well, we'll see if we can

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Speaker 2: figure it out for you. You told us what grocery

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Speaker 2: store she shops at and is a rewards card member at,

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Speaker 2: So we'll call her, pretend to be from there, and say,

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Speaker 2: every single month, we choose one rewards card member at

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Speaker 3: Okay, Okay, sounds good.

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Speaker 2: All right, man, plays, I'll come back and get here

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Speaker 2: to catch cheeter. Next, if you're just joining us for today,

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Speaker 2: is to catch a cheeter. Roy is on the phone,

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Speaker 2: and Roy thinks that his girlfriend of three and a

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Speaker 2: half years. Melissa might be cheating on him. She actually

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Speaker 2: has cheated on him before. Six months ago he caught her,

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Speaker 2: and now he thinks it might be happening again. So

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Speaker 2: we're about to help him out. Real quick, Roy, refresh

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Speaker 2: everybody's memory. What's going on?

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Speaker 3: Well, good, keep it quick. She's just been acting cold.

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Speaker 3: She's been texting a lot, looking at her phone a lot.

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Speaker 3: We haven't really been engaging like we used to. And

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Speaker 3: then she's coming home from work weight and she gets

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Speaker 2: All right, We're about to call her and pretend to

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Speaker 2: member at and tell her that every single month we

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Speaker 2: choose one rewards card member at random he gets free

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Speaker 2: flowers delivered from our beautiful, new and improved flowl department.

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Speaker 2: It's so nice. Yeah, we'll see if she believes that,

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Speaker 2: and if she sends the flowers to you or to

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Speaker 2: somebody else. Okay, you ready?

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Speaker 3: Yes?

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Speaker 2: All right? Cool? Medela the phone of her right now. Hello, Hi,

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Speaker 2: this is Gorble calling from Is this Melissa? This is

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Speaker 2: she Melissa? Hi, You're a rewards card member with us

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Speaker 2: and I just wanted to say congratulations here this month's winner.

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry, I haven't heard of this before. What's going on?

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Speaker 2: Oh the flowers? You're this month's winner.

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Speaker 1: I won flowers.

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Speaker 2: Well, we recently reimagined our floral department, and to celebrate that,

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Speaker 2: we choose one Rewards Card member at random each month

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Speaker 2: We do delivery.

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Speaker 4: Now.

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Speaker 2: We're trying to get the word out and also say

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Speaker 2: thank you for shopping totally free, totally free thirty six

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Speaker 2: long stem red roses, a card, and a box of chocolates.

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Speaker 1: That is so sweet.

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Speaker 2: That is awesome For the flower delivery, If you know

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Speaker 2: who you want to send them to right now, I

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Speaker 1: Uh yeah, I can do that right now. Like, what

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Speaker 1: do you guys need?

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Speaker 2: All I would need is the first and last name

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Speaker 2: of the person you want to send them to. If

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Speaker 1: Great, okay, so yeah, I guess let's send them to Roy.

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Speaker 2: Did you want to include a card?

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Speaker 1: I guess you can write like hey, love Sorry, I've

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Speaker 1: been really stressed out. Thanks for being there.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I got a question real quick, you know, if

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Speaker 1: Three and a half years?

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Speaker 2: Three and a half years? Okay, So hey, real quick,

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Speaker 2: I just want to let you know that this is

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Speaker 2: actually the Jubile Show. It's a radio show. It's not

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Speaker 2: the grocery store at all. That's Nina, What Why? And

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Speaker 2: that's Victoria. There's three people on the phone right now.

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Speaker 1: What's this about?

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Speaker 2: We do a segment on our show called to Catch

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Speaker 2: a Cheater, and your boyfriend Roy is actually on the phone.

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Speaker 2: He's been listening the whole time, and it's weird. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: It's a segment where we try to see if somebody

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Speaker 1: Roy, are you there?

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Speaker 5: Hi?

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Speaker 1: Care to explain what the heck is going on here?

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Speaker 3: I mean, I'm kind of relieved that you sent me

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Speaker 1: Not cheating on you.

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Speaker 3: I mean it was just hard to believe you've been

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Speaker 1: I don't know, like, when are you going to trust me?

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Speaker 3: When the wounds are healed. I'm still hurting.

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Speaker 1: That was six months ago. I cheated on you six

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Speaker 1: months ago, like that you forgave me. That's that. I

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Speaker 3: It would be easier if I knew why you were

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Speaker 1: Okay, you want to hear all of the boring work stuff,

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Speaker 1: that's fine. You know that. I want to keep work

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Speaker 1: I don't really want to talk about it, but I

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Speaker 1: So I have a new coworker. They're my superior. They

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Speaker 1: like everything, like they're new in town, what grocery store

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Speaker 6: Everything that they could, Like I'm their personal assistant and

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Speaker 6: I just want to get home, turn on the TV,

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Speaker 1: But then they just keep texting me. So I don't

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Speaker 3: Okay, Yeah, So what's this person that you're texting? The

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Speaker 1: Why care with their name? Why is that important?

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Speaker 3: But we're in a relationship. I feel like, if you're

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Speaker 1: You got to trust me, Like, I don't need to

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Speaker 3: This is making it harder.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, why wouldn't you just tell them the name of

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Speaker 2: your coworker?

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Speaker 1: Fine, okay, Jason, that's his name.

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Speaker 3: Oh so it is a guy.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna have male coworkers.

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Speaker 3: I mean, the fact that you're hiding it from me

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Speaker 3: is that makes it more suspicious.

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Speaker 2: I think you both have points here.

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Speaker 4: I think Melissa it's fair to be open and respond

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Speaker 4: to his questions. And then also, Roy, if you are

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Speaker 3: Look, I'm choosing to trust you, but like I'm still

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Speaker 3: and you wouldn't tell me anything about what was going

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Speaker 3: you gotta let me know what's going on when I.

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Speaker 1: Ask you, right I already said that I would. Can

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Speaker 1: we just like drop this?

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Speaker 3: He's my coworker, See that that doesn't help. I feel

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Speaker 3: like your attitude right now is like super defensive, and

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Speaker 3: that makes it.

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Speaker 1: I am not being defensive. I am not being defensive. Okay,

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Speaker 1: I told you what I told you, But I gotta go.

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Speaker 1: I gotta go back to work. Okay, I'll see you later.

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Speaker 2: Okay, let's throw it to a vote. Is something going

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Speaker 2: on Nina?

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Speaker 4: I want to say no, but she's curious, Like I

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Speaker 4: think she's attracted to.

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Speaker 2: Jason, Okay, Victoria, I don't know.

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Speaker 5: It's the defensiveness that's getting me. Like she's too defensive

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Speaker 5: to for nothing to be going on.

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Speaker 2: In my opinion, Yeah, and the person whose opinion really matters, Roy,

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Speaker 2: what do you think I'm.

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Speaker 3: Having really mixed opinions because she sent me the roses

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Speaker 3: without hesitation. But like when I said you're being defensive,

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Speaker 3: she blew up.

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Speaker 4: That's why she's not cheating on you right now? Roy,

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Speaker 4: but I think we have to watch the situation closely. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 4: I want you to think about it. She didn't sound

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Speaker 4: very reasonable and willing to see your side, and she

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Speaker 4: is the one that cheated.

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Speaker 3: Right, Yeah, I mean I've been faithful.

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Speaker 2: Okay, I think Roy. Ultimately, is she worth maybe getting

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Speaker 2: hurt again?

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Speaker 5: Quiet?

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Speaker 3: Right now I'm questioning. I wanted to say yes when

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Speaker 3: it was kind of like what the roses she gave

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Speaker 3: them to me? But now like her response was pretty unreasonable.

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Speaker 2: It was if you continue the relationship with her, it

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Speaker 2: could happen again, right, maybe not? But like, if you

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Speaker 2: do choose to trust her, you gotta trust her, and

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Speaker 2: you do know you could open yourself up to her

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Speaker 2: doing it again. Are you willing to take that risk?

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Speaker 2: I guess is what you have to what I feel

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Speaker 2: like you have to the things you have to weigh.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm still on the fence. I mean, I think

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Speaker 3: I'm going to try and give her a chance, and

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Speaker 3: if the behavior doesn't change, I'm just gonna call it quits.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Well, let us know, keep us updated, man, Yeah,

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Speaker 2: good luck? Right, Yeah, we're playing for you.

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Speaker 3: I appreciate your health.

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Speaker 2: Guys, Yeah, no problem and if you. If it ends

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Speaker 2: up not working out, don't worry. We can find you

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Speaker 2: another date from someone who texted the show. We've got

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Speaker 2: a lot of people texting and who want dates all

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Speaker 2: the time. Here to Victoria too. Yeah, hi.

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Speaker 1: He has a girlfriend.

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Speaker 2: Okay, I'm done.

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Speaker 3: Thank you, Victoria. I'll keep that in mind, all right.

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Speaker 1: The Jubile shows to catch a cheater.