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Speaker 1: Hey, hey, hey, hey, be a listeners, and we're back

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Speaker 1: and this is broadcast to you by the so Apocalypse

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Speaker 1: of No Blizzard twenty seventeen.

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Speaker 2: We all remember, we just wanted to have one last

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Speaker 2: show before we all die. Yeah, okay, say goodbye. It's

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Speaker 2: been real. We're buried in the fut of snow tomorrow.

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Speaker 2: Say I left any any last respective.

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Speaker 3: I just want to say, stay brown, stay beautiful.

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Speaker 2: I want to say, oh Jay, did it not my president?

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Speaker 3: Yes? All looks are good. Darn it. Now I want

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Speaker 3: to change.

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Speaker 2: I want to change on people think about their last meals.

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Speaker 2: I think about what I'm gonna eat everybody, Like if

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Speaker 2: I had a chance, what.

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Speaker 3: Would your last meal beal be? If you had to

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Speaker 3: have last meal?

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Speaker 2: Oh god, it would be like a big old bowl

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Speaker 2: of cereal? Really is that?

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Speaker 3: So?

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Speaker 2: I don't know if I if you guys know this

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Speaker 2: about me yet, but I have a serial addiction. It

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Speaker 2: is something I have been struggling with. And I'm I'm

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Speaker 2: I'm serious about when I say addiction, Like I the

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Speaker 2: same way I think people are addicted to crack alcohol

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Speaker 2: like that is me and cereal. If there's a box,

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Speaker 2: it calls to me it'll be consumed. And I've been

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Speaker 2: fighting it my whole life. I've been I was sober

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Speaker 2: for probably a few months. But in honor of snow apocalypse,

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Speaker 2: future husband went to the grocery store for the essentials.

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Speaker 2: What did you come home with? Banana muffins, Reese's Puff,

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Speaker 2: cereal I can't, and some ginger beer. So yeah, I

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Speaker 2: just broke my own sobriety. I had a couple Reese's Puff.

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Speaker 2: He left the house for five minutes, and I was

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Speaker 2: if you left me alone with it? He said, this

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Speaker 2: is on your conscience, not mine. You know what happens

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Speaker 2: me and cereal do not. It can't. So anyway, that

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Speaker 2: long story short, that i'd be my last meal probably

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Speaker 2: just a huge ass bowl of cereal.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, so yes, sea puffs, I mean there is. It's

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Speaker 3: weird because I'm not a cereal addict. For normal grown

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Speaker 3: people cereal, but give me a fruit loopy, puffy, chocolatey

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Speaker 3: peanut buttery foolishness, and I'm like, where's the milk?

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Speaker 2: Have you, as an adult person, tried to eat fruity pebbles?

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Speaker 3: That's it's just straight trash. I mean, there's incorrecting.

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Speaker 2: I tried eating it recently and I was like, oh,

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Speaker 2: this is like quench fruit like paper this discussion.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, but you know, there's some cereals that

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Speaker 3: translate well in adulthood. Apple jacks, for example. Oh, it's

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Speaker 3: the favorite.

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Speaker 2: I would tear up some apple jacks right now. Not

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Speaker 2: even not even apple jacks. When when I was a

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Speaker 2: kid growing up, my mom we used to get the

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Speaker 2: generic cereal that came in the back, and it was

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Speaker 2: like apple Jo's. I thought that it that's not what

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Speaker 2: they're actually called. That totally forget what they're called now.

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Speaker 2: But anyway, like ingles, we had angles in Georgia and yeah,

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Speaker 2: like cinnamon O's or something.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that shit was.

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Speaker 2: Delicious and it was always better than the real stuff

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Speaker 2: because it had way more sugar.

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Speaker 3: I feel like there was no regulation.

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Speaker 2: I know, cereal tastes not as good the sugar like fruit.

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Speaker 2: If you eat frosted flakes today that has about one

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Speaker 2: third of the sugar. I think this is actually true

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Speaker 2: of when we were kids. Really, Yeah, that's why I

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Speaker 2: can't do math anymore. All that sugar addled my brain.

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Speaker 3: Well, what about the fact that back when we were

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Speaker 3: kid I don't know. If I'm older than you. But

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Speaker 3: they used to actually have great toys in Cereal. But

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Speaker 3: I'm like, what happened to the awesome toys?

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Speaker 2: They remember toys in Cereal? And then I remember when

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Speaker 2: it switched over to like mail in this this box

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Speaker 2: top and you might qualify for free, became.

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Speaker 3: An online marketer. They're like, ask your parent if you

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Speaker 3: can go No, I don't want that, give me my

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Speaker 3: toy inside this spot, like literally I would. There was

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Speaker 3: this one toy. It was called the Wacky WallWalker. Oh

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Speaker 3: my god. It was literally like this jelly mask that

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Speaker 3: they shaped in the shape of like a small octopus,

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Speaker 2: I wait a second, I think I had some of those.

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Speaker 2: All those ooey gooey toys were very in like I

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Speaker 2: there was just straight up goo. It'd be like eight

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Speaker 2: I wish my This is why I don't want to

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Speaker 2: I'm like, why did my parents even We're way off?

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Speaker 2: Where did we even startop? Did you stock up on

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Speaker 2: snacks for the snow? If you guys don't know, if

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Speaker 2: you're not in the Northeast region, we have a giant

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Speaker 2: blizzard hitting us tomorrow. So everyone's listening their damn minds.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I went, I'm not gonna lie. I had already

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Speaker 3: food choping, maybe a few days ago, but you know,

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Speaker 3: like I went, like normal food chopping. But I was like,

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Speaker 3: So I went back this morning, I was like, I

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Speaker 2: We were what is it with the snacks? It's a

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Speaker 2: normal day, I don't know. Fiance went and got biscuits.

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Speaker 2: He's like, I'm gonna have a I'm gonna have a

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Speaker 2: bacon cheese biscuit. I'm like, but it's a Tuesday. You

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Speaker 2: didn't even need breakfast during the week.

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Speaker 4: So I remember we were supposed to have like a

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Speaker 4: like a blizzard, I don't know, earlier in the winter

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Speaker 4: and it didn't happen, and people were like, or it

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Speaker 4: and people were like, so I finished my snacks, what

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Speaker 2: I think people in New York are just as bad

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Speaker 2: Southerners so much crap because we'll be like all the

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Speaker 2: shelves at Walmart will be empty of all the bottle

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Speaker 2: water and bread. But New Yorkers are the same. The

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Speaker 2: but I think that we celebrated more. We're like, oh yeah,

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Speaker 2: this is an excuse to get snacks and liquor and

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Speaker 2: you know, hole up and like have parties and stuff.

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Speaker 3: Right, I'm just I can't like it's so crazy cause

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Speaker 3: I'm like, I'm all acting like I can't wait. Meanwhile,

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Speaker 3: I work from home. This is a literally a normal

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Speaker 2: But nothing you see I have. I'm staying home tomorrow,

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Speaker 2: but I have to work as long as the internet

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Speaker 3: So he's like, wea, I know, right, well, my fiance Boo,

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Speaker 3: he he's an essential worker, so he's like, great, essential. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: whoop be. Meanwhile, he's got like a cold, so you know,

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Speaker 3: right now he's dying in bed like somebody's. I bought like,

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Speaker 3: I'm reading the back and it says two teaspoons every

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Speaker 3: And I'm like, sir. I was like, sir, this is

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Speaker 3: took the package from me and is reading the documents

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Speaker 3: on the back, the small print like hmmm, I'm like,

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Speaker 3: it's two te it's two tables woo and that tea spoil.

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Speaker 3: That's two tables. So that's what it says. And then

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Speaker 3: one table sewing, the other one says two. I'm like,

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Speaker 3: look at like we debated for like five minutes. I'm like, sir,

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Speaker 2: You gotta just throw it back, man, throw it back.

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Speaker 2: Don't let it touch your tongue. Just straight back the shooter.

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Speaker 2: That's what you got to do.

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Speaker 3: Since I was it is that but like you'll feel better.

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Speaker 3: But I just thought, like, I'm like, is he debating

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Speaker 3: me over the He says, that's too much? That's that

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Speaker 3: cannot possibly be. The serving flies like, what if you're

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Speaker 2: I feel like I always make up my own dosages

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Speaker 2: for medicine to I don't know it's worked out so far.

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Speaker 2: Like like fiance, he always tells me I take too much.

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Speaker 2: I'm like, no, I can take three. I be proof

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Speaker 2: and it's okay. It's fine. Yeah, three time and all

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Speaker 2: it's fine. It's a really bad headache. Two doesn't do it.

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Speaker 2: I feel like I've built up a tolerance or something

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Speaker 2: like that's just a suggestion, you know, for the FDA.

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Speaker 2: I got this.

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Speaker 3: He's not like my friend Linda she'll be like, well,

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Speaker 3: technically you can really take up to I'm like, Linda,

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Speaker 3: I'm not trying to die based upon your your rudimentary

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Speaker 2: Oh goodness, I have to talk about this before I'm

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Speaker 2: like bursting with it. So I know you probably haven't yet,

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Speaker 2: but I know a lot of people have seen get

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Speaker 2: Out the movie. I did you actually, Oh my god,

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Speaker 2: tip look at you. That's probably the first time I've

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Speaker 2: seen a movie that you've also seen. Let's talk about it.

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Speaker 2: Did it not like I don't? First of all, I

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Speaker 2: hate scary movies. I don't see them. Oh good, Yeah,

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Speaker 2: I never ever ever see scary movies. I don't want

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Speaker 2: to be I feel like you shouldn't pay money for

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Speaker 2: someone to scare you, like to make me uncomfortable? Why

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Speaker 2: am I paying for that? Everyone was talking about get Out,

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Speaker 2: so I felt like I had to see it. It

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Speaker 3: Yes, and you know it was so weird because, like you,

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Speaker 3: honestly I hate scary I don't, so I didn't. Honestly,

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Speaker 3: I didn't want to see that. First, I thought, well,

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Speaker 3: but everyone was like in my time, I was like,

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Speaker 3: got to see it, got to see it. So I said, Okay,

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Speaker 3: I'm gonna go, and I went with them with Superman

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Speaker 3: and I was pleasantly surprised. It's not scary as much

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's what I like by thriller. H suspenseful, like

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Speaker 2: you don't know what the hell is going on, but you're.

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Speaker 3: Like, what is happening? And then you're like oh mg.

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Speaker 3: And then first of all, someone wrote that you have

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Speaker 3: to watch Get Out to get the full effect, and

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Speaker 3: if possible in the middle, like at the most hood

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Speaker 3: movie theater that you can watch.

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Speaker 2: It in go to New Bill which is where I went.

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Speaker 3: That wasn't amazing, Yes, because if it's filled with people

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Speaker 3: of color, it is everything everything. It was so delightful

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Speaker 3: to be in a room full of people of color

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Speaker 3: I told you to leave her this is what you say.

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Speaker 2: Well, well, for everybody who hasn't seen it yet, you

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Speaker 2: want to turn, you want to like skip forward about

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Speaker 2: Like small, let me give tsa agents cop cards. But

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Speaker 2: God for him, Thank God for him. That movie would

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Speaker 3: Not that crazy, Like you remember what happened that is

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Speaker 2: Oh Man, well think you know. I think what people

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Speaker 2: from and Chris. Chris survived. You know, usually in horror

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Speaker 3: If you haven't seen it and you're just now tuning

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Speaker 2: Bring all your friends of different colors and just I

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Speaker 3: Thought it was good though it was.

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Speaker 2: Though it was but you know, different, different audience, but

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Speaker 2: Man, so before we die, we should probably get on

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Speaker 3: Right, And so this is kind of like a slowly

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Speaker 3: need to remove it from your diet. Like so if

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00:21:22,200 --> 00:21:24,320
Speaker 3: you have a gluten analogy, you will know. Your doctor

431
00:21:24,320 --> 00:21:26,600
Speaker 3: will let you know because you're gonna have these reactions.

432
00:21:26,640 --> 00:21:30,840
Speaker 3: It's okay. So to all this gluten free everything, especially

433
00:21:30,840 --> 00:21:33,879
Speaker 3: stuff that's already gluten free, like we know, ma'am, Like

434
00:21:34,000 --> 00:21:36,080
Speaker 3: water doesn't cover gluten. There's no need to label a

435
00:21:36,080 --> 00:21:38,840
Speaker 3: gluten free. Oh my god.

436
00:21:38,880 --> 00:21:42,080
Speaker 2: I feel like processed in a factory where bread products

437
00:21:42,119 --> 00:21:44,879
Speaker 2: are there. No, this is your break, you go on.

438
00:21:45,760 --> 00:21:48,119
Speaker 3: Yeah, so I just want to break from like I

439
00:21:48,119 --> 00:21:50,560
Speaker 3: feel like it's like a badge of honor. I think

440
00:21:50,600 --> 00:21:54,760
Speaker 3: I've read an article once that suburban moms that it's

441
00:21:54,760 --> 00:21:57,120
Speaker 3: almost a badge of honor to be able to say, well,

442
00:21:57,160 --> 00:22:00,960
Speaker 3: you know, Connor has a gluten analogy, a nut allergy,

443
00:22:01,200 --> 00:22:05,280
Speaker 3: and a cheese dysfunction, so we could only eat milkshakes

444
00:22:05,760 --> 00:22:09,480
Speaker 3: with like soy on Wednesdays. Like, it's almost like a

445
00:22:09,520 --> 00:22:11,879
Speaker 3: badge of honor to like that your child is like

446
00:22:12,240 --> 00:22:13,200
Speaker 3: riddled with disease.

447
00:22:15,160 --> 00:22:17,240
Speaker 2: Well, I mean, we're about to get some hate mail

448
00:22:17,240 --> 00:22:19,679
Speaker 2: if we talk about parenting. But like, you know, our

449
00:22:20,480 --> 00:22:24,320
Speaker 2: are I consider him my little I guess technically he's

450
00:22:24,359 --> 00:22:26,920
Speaker 2: my cousin, but we're not even and I'm not married

451
00:22:26,920 --> 00:22:32,480
Speaker 2: in the family. But anyway, our cousin's son who's two,

452
00:22:32,560 --> 00:22:35,679
Speaker 2: has a bunch of little allergies and as a baby.

453
00:22:35,720 --> 00:22:37,639
Speaker 2: But the mom is like, well, if we we're gonna

454
00:22:37,640 --> 00:22:40,080
Speaker 2: try and slowly introduce some things later, because apparently when

455
00:22:40,080 --> 00:22:42,840
Speaker 2: you're young, you're kind of allergic to everything, and if

456
00:22:42,880 --> 00:22:44,959
Speaker 2: the parent, like if the mom doesn't eat a lot

457
00:22:45,000 --> 00:22:47,160
Speaker 2: of some foods when she's pregnant, then apparently it can

458
00:22:47,320 --> 00:22:50,199
Speaker 2: increase the odds of being allergic to stuff. But I

459
00:22:50,200 --> 00:22:53,120
Speaker 2: do feel like parents know too much now, Like we

460
00:22:53,320 --> 00:22:57,680
Speaker 2: just know too much, and like that makes you afraid

461
00:22:57,680 --> 00:23:02,720
Speaker 2: to have people try different things. And yeah, I think

462
00:23:02,920 --> 00:23:07,520
Speaker 2: there's like the overall like sanitation of like kids' lives

463
00:23:07,560 --> 00:23:10,119
Speaker 2: now or I mean again, I don't have any of

464
00:23:10,200 --> 00:23:13,600
Speaker 2: my own, but I do feel like I don't envy

465
00:23:13,640 --> 00:23:15,760
Speaker 2: parents now because there's just way too much information then

466
00:23:16,200 --> 00:23:18,639
Speaker 2: and if you read too much, everything is bad for kids.

467
00:23:18,720 --> 00:23:21,480
Speaker 3: And yeah, I mean one thing my mom used to

468
00:23:21,520 --> 00:23:23,200
Speaker 3: tell us. I remember, like you know, like she said,

469
00:23:23,240 --> 00:23:25,160
Speaker 3: go outside and play, get dirty. She was a nurse,

470
00:23:25,560 --> 00:23:31,040
Speaker 3: and so even when she used to say people overuse antibacteria,

471
00:23:31,640 --> 00:23:34,199
Speaker 3: she said, like she said, people overuse it like the

472
00:23:34,240 --> 00:23:36,240
Speaker 3: only time, like we would if we were watching the dishes.

473
00:23:36,440 --> 00:23:38,879
Speaker 3: My mom had regular soap like dan or whatever, and

474
00:23:38,880 --> 00:23:41,639
Speaker 3: then she had antibacterial soap to wash dishes, and we

475
00:23:41,640 --> 00:23:44,760
Speaker 3: were only allowed to use the antibacterial so if we

476
00:23:44,760 --> 00:23:47,879
Speaker 3: were cleaning up after like cutting up raw chicken over

477
00:23:47,960 --> 00:23:50,240
Speaker 3: our raw meat. She was like, Other than that, she said,

478
00:23:50,280 --> 00:23:52,719
Speaker 3: you cannot get rid of all bacteria, then you do

479
00:23:52,720 --> 00:23:55,800
Speaker 3: not build an immunity to and then you're susceptible to sickness.

480
00:23:55,800 --> 00:23:58,359
Speaker 3: Even more so, so she was like really big on

481
00:23:58,560 --> 00:24:01,760
Speaker 3: like you know, you don't you can be clean. It

482
00:24:01,760 --> 00:24:04,720
Speaker 3: doesn't have to be bacteria free, because not all bacteria

483
00:24:04,840 --> 00:24:07,120
Speaker 3: is terrible and bad for you. And I just feel

484
00:24:07,160 --> 00:24:12,600
Speaker 3: like, like you said, there's this over sanitization. Is that a word? Yeah, sanitizing, right,

485
00:24:12,640 --> 00:24:15,000
Speaker 3: And so I just like, I'm just like, I'm so

486
00:24:15,040 --> 00:24:16,800
Speaker 3: sick of everything is you know, it's gluten free? You

487
00:24:16,800 --> 00:24:19,040
Speaker 3: know it's gluten free. You're like, Carl, you do you

488
00:24:19,119 --> 00:24:20,919
Speaker 3: need to be gluten free? Cause a minute ago you

489
00:24:20,920 --> 00:24:22,760
Speaker 3: were eating gluten. You didn't even know what gluten was.

490
00:24:23,400 --> 00:24:26,320
Speaker 3: Now everything gluten free. They're like, you know this this uh, this,

491
00:24:27,000 --> 00:24:29,919
Speaker 3: you know, burrito filled with everything else that's terrible for

492
00:24:29,960 --> 00:24:32,159
Speaker 3: you is gluten free. Though, You're like, well that what

493
00:24:32,200 --> 00:24:34,840
Speaker 3: does that mean? Yeah? So I'm just like over it

494
00:24:34,840 --> 00:24:37,440
Speaker 3: and I'm taking a brown break, not necessarily from gluten free,

495
00:24:37,480 --> 00:24:41,480
Speaker 3: but just from everything having to have this random label

496
00:24:41,600 --> 00:24:44,200
Speaker 3: for a small sector of the population that already knows

497
00:24:44,200 --> 00:24:45,919
Speaker 3: they can't have gluten. The rest of y'all are.

498
00:24:45,800 --> 00:24:51,400
Speaker 2: Fine, I do I've never seen that before. Well, real quick,

499
00:24:51,440 --> 00:24:53,760
Speaker 2: I'll say, two of my best friends and my bridesmaids

500
00:24:53,800 --> 00:24:57,360
Speaker 2: are do you have gluten allergies? So one of them

501
00:24:57,600 --> 00:25:00,600
Speaker 2: is severely has a gluten allergy where like, and it's

502
00:25:00,640 --> 00:25:02,359
Speaker 2: always me who screws the things up. So we have

503
00:25:02,440 --> 00:25:06,080
Speaker 2: this camping trip every year and glamping and we don't

504
00:25:06,119 --> 00:25:08,680
Speaker 2: like stay in tense most of the time. And like

505
00:25:08,880 --> 00:25:10,879
Speaker 2: this year, I mean every year, I do something stupid

506
00:25:10,880 --> 00:25:12,879
Speaker 2: and I mess up something and she can't eat with

507
00:25:12,920 --> 00:25:15,640
Speaker 2: it or whatever because she's so severely allergic to gluten

508
00:25:15,680 --> 00:25:18,920
Speaker 2: that if you cook, if you cook like a grilled

509
00:25:19,000 --> 00:25:21,040
Speaker 2: cheese in one pan, she can no longer eat anything

510
00:25:21,040 --> 00:25:23,639
Speaker 2: out of that pan because the residue from the gluten

511
00:25:23,720 --> 00:25:25,919
Speaker 2: is in the pan. Like it is serious, and she

512
00:25:25,960 --> 00:25:28,520
Speaker 2: gets very very ill. And she's been tested and all that.

513
00:25:29,240 --> 00:25:34,040
Speaker 2: And of course, like last year I was using I

514
00:25:34,160 --> 00:25:36,399
Speaker 2: was cooking like breakfast, and I was like, dude, and

515
00:25:36,440 --> 00:25:38,440
Speaker 2: I'm gonna worm up my tortilla and put it on

516
00:25:38,720 --> 00:25:42,520
Speaker 2: my poor Diana's gluten freeze like pristine pan. I had

517
00:25:42,520 --> 00:25:45,000
Speaker 2: to like buy her new pants. It was a whole deal.

518
00:25:46,000 --> 00:25:47,840
Speaker 2: And then my other friend wasn't it doesn't have a

519
00:25:47,880 --> 00:25:51,280
Speaker 2: gluten allergy, but if you stop eating gluten. And I've

520
00:25:51,280 --> 00:25:53,879
Speaker 2: discovered this too with my lactose intolerance. As soon as

521
00:25:53,920 --> 00:25:56,920
Speaker 2: I stopped eating cheese, I made myself even more allergic

522
00:25:56,960 --> 00:25:59,680
Speaker 2: to it. So before I could I could sneak a

523
00:25:59,680 --> 00:26:01,720
Speaker 2: little bit here or there. Now I'm just screwed, like

524
00:26:01,760 --> 00:26:03,000
Speaker 2: I'm too sensitive to it.

525
00:26:03,240 --> 00:26:06,280
Speaker 3: You take the gluten all the way out and reintroducing

526
00:26:06,320 --> 00:26:07,600
Speaker 3: it if like, let's just say you just take it

527
00:26:07,640 --> 00:26:09,600
Speaker 3: ucause you're like, oh, it's better for me, although you

528
00:26:09,600 --> 00:26:13,040
Speaker 3: don't have the allergy, reintroducing it it's very difficult. I've

529
00:26:13,040 --> 00:26:15,280
Speaker 3: heard that. That's why I'm like, I just I don't

530
00:26:15,320 --> 00:26:17,840
Speaker 3: you know, I don't subscribe to like well girl unless

531
00:26:17,880 --> 00:26:20,720
Speaker 3: you really are lactolton tolerant or what. I'm not saying that,

532
00:26:20,840 --> 00:26:22,879
Speaker 3: you know, if you're like vegan or whatever, but just

533
00:26:23,040 --> 00:26:26,520
Speaker 3: know that if you're going to take the gluten now,

534
00:26:26,720 --> 00:26:29,720
Speaker 3: then bringing it back in is going to be difficult

535
00:26:29,760 --> 00:26:30,760
Speaker 3: without feeling sick.

536
00:26:31,160 --> 00:26:33,119
Speaker 2: I also think if you like some people who say

537
00:26:33,119 --> 00:26:34,840
Speaker 2: they're gluten free, they like have a salad like O,

538
00:26:34,880 --> 00:26:37,320
Speaker 2: I'm being gluten free today, but tomorrow I'll have a bread.

539
00:26:37,640 --> 00:26:39,840
Speaker 2: If you're really if like you're like my friend Diana,

540
00:26:40,280 --> 00:26:42,480
Speaker 2: bless her heart, it is not a fun life, Like

541
00:26:42,520 --> 00:26:45,000
Speaker 2: it is not fun to not be able to eat anything.

542
00:26:45,080 --> 00:26:46,760
Speaker 2: She'll just show up with like a bag of peanut

543
00:26:46,800 --> 00:26:49,120
Speaker 2: Eminem's and she's like, this is my dinner because there's

544
00:26:49,119 --> 00:26:52,120
Speaker 2: no gluten free there's you know, you can't eat at restaurants.

545
00:26:52,160 --> 00:26:54,320
Speaker 2: We'll go out and eat delicious brunches and she's like,

546
00:26:55,000 --> 00:26:58,760
Speaker 2: I'll just eat these nuts. You know, it's not it's

547
00:26:58,800 --> 00:27:01,240
Speaker 2: not a fun life. But uh, I totally get it.

548
00:27:01,359 --> 00:27:03,760
Speaker 2: Gluten free water is ri donkeulous.

549
00:27:05,000 --> 00:27:09,360
Speaker 3: Doculous. Yes, I'm like, what, ma'am, doesn't it come gluten free?

550
00:27:09,400 --> 00:27:12,119
Speaker 3: Are you people injecting gluten into her water? Like what happened?

551
00:27:13,840 --> 00:27:16,080
Speaker 2: Well, I'm gonna do a brown boost this week. I

552
00:27:16,080 --> 00:27:19,120
Speaker 2: could go either way because I'm three weeks away from

553
00:27:19,600 --> 00:27:22,720
Speaker 2: the big w day and I kind of lost my

554
00:27:22,800 --> 00:27:26,719
Speaker 2: gd mind last week, Like I reached the point of

555
00:27:27,000 --> 00:27:31,680
Speaker 2: like sanity breakage between work and like wedding stuff. And

556
00:27:32,800 --> 00:27:35,120
Speaker 2: you know, I've I've up until this point, I've been

557
00:27:35,200 --> 00:27:38,240
Speaker 2: really like lucky. The wedding planning has been going fine.

558
00:27:38,280 --> 00:27:41,320
Speaker 2: We're not going broke. Everything is cool, it's all working out.

559
00:27:42,440 --> 00:27:44,720
Speaker 2: But this week was the week when everyone decided to

560
00:27:44,760 --> 00:27:47,520
Speaker 2: start bothering me and there was guestless drama and one

561
00:27:47,760 --> 00:27:50,000
Speaker 2: cousin didn't feel like her boyfriend was invited, and it

562
00:27:50,040 --> 00:27:51,800
Speaker 2: was a whole ordeal and all of a sudden getting

563
00:27:51,800 --> 00:27:53,960
Speaker 2: calls for my mother, who heard it from my aunt,

564
00:27:54,080 --> 00:27:56,040
Speaker 2: who heard it from my uncle, who heard it from

565
00:27:56,040 --> 00:27:59,159
Speaker 2: so his daughter, and like it's just crazy family stuff.

566
00:27:59,200 --> 00:28:02,280
Speaker 2: But and then you know, just you know, work has

567
00:28:02,359 --> 00:28:04,359
Speaker 2: been insane because I'll be gone two weeks and so

568
00:28:04,400 --> 00:28:07,160
Speaker 2: I've been trying to plan ahead for all of April.

569
00:28:07,560 --> 00:28:10,119
Speaker 2: But so I'm gonna take the negative and turn it

570
00:28:10,160 --> 00:28:13,080
Speaker 2: into a boost. So the only reason I survived last

571
00:28:13,080 --> 00:28:17,480
Speaker 2: week were two things. One Cabernet salmono, thank you very much, yeah,

572
00:28:17,520 --> 00:28:22,479
Speaker 2: And two two was I started this group we randomly,

573
00:28:22,480 --> 00:28:24,520
Speaker 2: I don't know how, I think someone, you know, we

574
00:28:24,600 --> 00:28:26,560
Speaker 2: went to a baby shower together, and then a bunch

575
00:28:26,600 --> 00:28:29,320
Speaker 2: of my girlfriends ended up on a group text together,

576
00:28:29,640 --> 00:28:31,200
Speaker 2: which could be the worst thing ever when you're on

577
00:28:31,240 --> 00:28:32,879
Speaker 2: a group text and you just get tired of it

578
00:28:32,880 --> 00:28:34,879
Speaker 2: because it's always pinging and you you don't want to

579
00:28:34,920 --> 00:28:37,520
Speaker 2: be involved or whatever. But this group text with all

580
00:28:37,600 --> 00:28:42,040
Speaker 2: like these five or six women, and I think all

581
00:28:42,120 --> 00:28:44,840
Speaker 2: but two of us have small children, and anyway, we

582
00:28:45,000 --> 00:28:47,560
Speaker 2: just during the week we just like started texting and

583
00:28:47,600 --> 00:28:49,719
Speaker 2: like opening up about all we were going through and

584
00:28:49,800 --> 00:28:53,560
Speaker 2: like griping and like venting, and I really felt like

585
00:28:54,200 --> 00:28:57,000
Speaker 2: they dug like it helped me get out of my

586
00:28:57,120 --> 00:29:02,640
Speaker 2: hole of like deep dark ickiness. So I in that moment,

587
00:29:02,640 --> 00:29:04,600
Speaker 2: I've never felt so strong. I didn't say it because

588
00:29:04,640 --> 00:29:06,760
Speaker 2: I didn't want to be weird, but I was like,

589
00:29:07,200 --> 00:29:11,120
Speaker 2: I literally I understand how important it is in this

590
00:29:11,160 --> 00:29:15,240
Speaker 2: moment to have girlfriends in your life, because being a

591
00:29:15,280 --> 00:29:20,040
Speaker 2: woman is so freaking hard sometimes, and I this week,

592
00:29:20,080 --> 00:29:24,960
Speaker 2: I'm like, this is not fair. It is so freaking hard.

593
00:29:25,120 --> 00:29:28,200
Speaker 2: I've got to look good for the wedding. I worry

594
00:29:28,200 --> 00:29:30,840
Speaker 2: about my hair. I've got to watch what I eat.

595
00:29:31,000 --> 00:29:33,480
Speaker 2: I've gotta be a badass at work. I've got to

596
00:29:33,520 --> 00:29:39,000
Speaker 2: manage crazy colleagues. I've gotta I've gotta deal with all

597
00:29:39,000 --> 00:29:41,680
Speaker 2: this crap from the wedding. And like, you know, they're

598
00:29:41,720 --> 00:29:44,760
Speaker 2: never blowing up the man's phone when there's issues with

599
00:29:44,800 --> 00:29:46,720
Speaker 2: the wedding. It's always you know, the woman who gets

600
00:29:46,720 --> 00:29:50,080
Speaker 2: all the questions and like and then you gotta cook,

601
00:29:50,160 --> 00:29:54,960
Speaker 2: and you gotta clean, and you gotta like be you know, presentable,

602
00:29:55,080 --> 00:29:57,280
Speaker 2: and and I could go on and on. There's it

603
00:29:57,400 --> 00:30:02,880
Speaker 2: just really felt like everything this week was just like

604
00:30:02,920 --> 00:30:06,440
Speaker 2: the like the world was just screaming like like you're

605
00:30:06,480 --> 00:30:08,920
Speaker 2: a woman, and that just means we're just gonna dump

606
00:30:08,920 --> 00:30:12,200
Speaker 2: on you, you know. So I really I just wanted

607
00:30:12,200 --> 00:30:15,479
Speaker 2: to say to my girlfriends, who probably don't know how

608
00:30:15,520 --> 00:30:18,120
Speaker 2: much they helped me just listening and letting me vent.

609
00:30:18,240 --> 00:30:20,040
Speaker 2: And we all just kind of like let each other vent.

610
00:30:20,160 --> 00:30:23,000
Speaker 2: And you know, they were complaining because you know, one

611
00:30:23,040 --> 00:30:25,400
Speaker 2: of the husbands mixed the baby formula wrong and we

612
00:30:25,480 --> 00:30:27,480
Speaker 2: all were like, yeah, we clean off a lot of

613
00:30:27,480 --> 00:30:30,200
Speaker 2: pea off the toilet seat. That's crazy. And just that

614
00:30:30,240 --> 00:30:32,600
Speaker 2: little like bit of release was really nice. And also

615
00:30:32,640 --> 00:30:36,080
Speaker 2: the wine helped. But yeah, that was it was rough.

616
00:30:36,160 --> 00:30:38,800
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna lie. I'm this week. I'm determined to

617
00:30:38,920 --> 00:30:41,360
Speaker 2: Like I've been to three dance classes. I went to

618
00:30:41,400 --> 00:30:44,160
Speaker 2: dance class Friday, Saturday, and Sunday because that's the only

619
00:30:44,720 --> 00:30:46,400
Speaker 2: thing I feel like I can do. Besides, I was like,

620
00:30:46,400 --> 00:30:49,400
Speaker 2: I can't just keep drinking, so I went to dance

621
00:30:49,440 --> 00:30:53,560
Speaker 2: class to like destress and that helped. But I'm really like,

622
00:30:53,640 --> 00:31:00,320
Speaker 2: I don't want to go nuts. It's not a good look. Yeah,

623
00:31:03,560 --> 00:31:05,360
Speaker 2: we don't have much time before the world ends, so

624
00:31:05,440 --> 00:31:06,000
Speaker 2: let's move on.

625
00:31:07,960 --> 00:31:11,640
Speaker 3: It's man, anybody has some some cues. They need some

626
00:31:11,680 --> 00:31:13,000
Speaker 3: a's for I like that.

627
00:31:14,720 --> 00:31:17,800
Speaker 2: Okay, I liked it too. Oh real quick, I need

628
00:31:17,800 --> 00:31:20,360
Speaker 2: to tell you what I watched last week for the

629
00:31:20,360 --> 00:31:24,680
Speaker 2: first time ever. Thank you for being in a friend.

630
00:31:26,640 --> 00:31:29,440
Speaker 2: It was time for the gold Yes, my first time

631
00:31:29,440 --> 00:31:31,960
Speaker 2: ever watching the Golden Girls. Like sitting through an episode.

632
00:31:32,560 --> 00:31:34,840
Speaker 2: It was probably one of the highlights of the week.

633
00:31:34,920 --> 00:31:35,960
Speaker 2: It was a very bad week.

634
00:31:36,880 --> 00:31:37,280
Speaker 3: Welcome.

635
00:31:37,440 --> 00:31:42,600
Speaker 2: It's freaking hilarious. H hilarious.

636
00:31:43,000 --> 00:31:44,520
Speaker 3: Wait, who is your favorite?

637
00:31:44,600 --> 00:31:47,400
Speaker 2: Ruth is the Shade Queen? Like so much?

638
00:31:48,800 --> 00:31:51,040
Speaker 3: I'm like, Ruth, you have a call by their like

639
00:31:51,080 --> 00:31:51,680
Speaker 3: stage name.

640
00:31:51,720 --> 00:31:54,800
Speaker 2: Tall Skinny, Oh, the tall one.

641
00:31:55,680 --> 00:31:57,320
Speaker 3: Dorothy, the Shade Queen. Okay, Dorothy?

642
00:31:57,440 --> 00:31:59,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, isn't is there her nickname Ruth? I feel like

643
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Speaker 2: they called her Ruth. Dorothy is a shade Queen and

644
00:32:03,000 --> 00:32:06,320
Speaker 2: every remark is sarcastic and fabulous. But I want to

645
00:32:06,320 --> 00:32:08,240
Speaker 2: know where the gay son that was in first episode

646
00:32:08,240 --> 00:32:09,320
Speaker 2: though he disappeared.

647
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Speaker 3: No, yeah, he didn't like they they honestly you'll see

648
00:32:13,160 --> 00:32:16,000
Speaker 3: as you start to watch more. They tackled a lot

649
00:32:16,000 --> 00:32:17,880
Speaker 3: of things that you're like, really back at this time,

650
00:32:18,400 --> 00:32:21,880
Speaker 3: Like they tackled transgender transgender back then.

651
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Speaker 2: Did they? Yeah, I watched the first three.

652
00:32:25,840 --> 00:32:29,280
Speaker 3: I think yeah, so that I think they they brought

653
00:32:29,360 --> 00:32:31,800
Speaker 3: him on and then they were like, eh, I guess

654
00:32:31,840 --> 00:32:33,720
Speaker 3: I don't know, he didn't test well or whatever, but yeah,

655
00:32:33,720 --> 00:32:38,360
Speaker 3: so you won't see him like again. Yeah, I think

656
00:32:38,400 --> 00:32:39,760
Speaker 3: he was like on for an episode or two and

657
00:32:39,800 --> 00:32:42,080
Speaker 3: they were like, it didn't really. I guess it didn't

658
00:32:42,120 --> 00:32:44,360
Speaker 3: really like resonate with the audience. They really because I

659
00:32:44,360 --> 00:32:48,000
Speaker 3: guess it was mostly women watching, and they love the friendship,

660
00:32:48,160 --> 00:32:50,719
Speaker 3: like that's what really made women come in and connect.

661
00:32:51,280 --> 00:32:54,120
Speaker 3: So Blanche is a slut, like everybody loves Blanche. Right,

662
00:32:54,120 --> 00:32:59,320
Speaker 3: So that's the one. You're like Blanche another man, right,

663
00:32:59,480 --> 00:33:03,800
Speaker 3: roses Betty right right, she's the dumb one, hilarious. Yeah.

664
00:33:03,840 --> 00:33:07,480
Speaker 3: And then the mom, she's the older one, the like

665
00:33:07,520 --> 00:33:08,560
Speaker 3: the small little.

666
00:33:08,360 --> 00:33:09,680
Speaker 2: Like Dorothy's mom. Right.

667
00:33:09,760 --> 00:33:14,520
Speaker 3: Yeah, Yeah, she is tremendous. She is so like you

668
00:33:14,560 --> 00:33:16,640
Speaker 3: see exactly where Dorothy got her shape from. I mean,

669
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Speaker 3: I cannot wait, Mandy, Like I Golden Girls is everything,

670
00:33:20,240 --> 00:33:22,880
Speaker 3: Like if things are not going right, I'm overwhelmed. I'm

671
00:33:22,920 --> 00:33:25,160
Speaker 3: just like I can't live anymore. Golden Girls will bring

672
00:33:25,160 --> 00:33:27,160
Speaker 3: me right out of that punk it is everything.

673
00:33:27,000 --> 00:33:29,080
Speaker 2: That's it's hilarious. I would just want to let you

674
00:33:29,080 --> 00:33:32,680
Speaker 2: know I took your recommendation. I watched it. Wow, good stuff.

675
00:33:32,800 --> 00:33:35,840
Speaker 2: It's on Hulu. Catch up. Get with the picture you guys.

676
00:33:36,080 --> 00:33:37,240
Speaker 2: If I can do it, you can do it.

677
00:33:37,480 --> 00:33:37,760
Speaker 3: Got me.

678
00:33:39,200 --> 00:33:44,200
Speaker 2: I'm like three decades late. Sorry about it, but now

679
00:33:44,280 --> 00:33:48,200
Speaker 2: we'll get all the inside jokes. Okay, questions business, bidness, business,

680
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Speaker 2: business business. We have two questions today that I have selected.

681
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Speaker 2: This will obviously be what.

682
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Speaker 3: They have questions where can they standle.

683
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Speaker 2: Oh you can well, since the world is end tomorrow,

684
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Speaker 2: you can just address those to like heaven, Brown Ambition

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686
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Speaker 2: and click the tab ask us anything you can send.

687
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Speaker 2: It comes right to our inbox. But if you don't

688
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Speaker 2: trust the internet, then you can just go email us

689
00:34:16,160 --> 00:34:20,040
Speaker 2: directly at Brown Ambition Podcast at gmail dot com. And

690
00:34:20,160 --> 00:34:21,799
Speaker 2: we do get all your questions. We may not get

691
00:34:21,840 --> 00:34:23,239
Speaker 2: to all of them on the show because when we

692
00:34:23,280 --> 00:34:26,120
Speaker 2: have limited time, but I do keep track of them

693
00:34:26,160 --> 00:34:30,880
Speaker 2: and sometimes I answer them personally. So yeah, Brownambition Podcast

694
00:34:30,960 --> 00:34:36,040
Speaker 2: at gmail dot com or site Bronambition podcast dot com.

695
00:34:36,040 --> 00:34:38,120
Speaker 2: And I've lost my questions here. Okay, here they are Okay.

696
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Speaker 2: Number one, this is from AVI. I think I said

697
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Speaker 2: that writer ave AV. Currently, I have over twenty thousand

698
00:34:45,840 --> 00:34:50,359
Speaker 2: dollars in credit card debt across three credit cards. One

699
00:34:50,480 --> 00:34:53,200
Speaker 2: has twelve thousand something, the other one has four thousand,

700
00:34:53,239 --> 00:34:57,200
Speaker 2: and the last one has three thousand. At the same time,

701
00:34:57,280 --> 00:34:59,800
Speaker 2: she says, I have over twenty six thousand in savings

702
00:35:00,000 --> 00:35:04,360
Speaker 2: across different accounts dedicated to different reasons. One savings account

703
00:35:04,440 --> 00:35:06,480
Speaker 2: has a little over eleven thousand dollars, which I'm going

704
00:35:06,560 --> 00:35:08,360
Speaker 2: to use for a down payment when I decide to

705
00:35:08,360 --> 00:35:10,640
Speaker 2: buy a car. Right now, I do not have a

706
00:35:10,640 --> 00:35:12,319
Speaker 2: car payment, and I'm trying to keep it that way

707
00:35:12,360 --> 00:35:14,520
Speaker 2: for as long as I can. Driving in a nineteen

708
00:35:14,600 --> 00:35:15,719
Speaker 2: ninety eight Toryota.

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00:35:16,719 --> 00:35:19,160
Speaker 3: Oh girl, me and you are twins. You can relate,

710
00:35:19,480 --> 00:35:21,080
Speaker 3: but I'm fancy er. I have a ninety nine, so

711
00:35:21,120 --> 00:35:21,920
Speaker 3: I'm fansy.

712
00:35:22,760 --> 00:35:26,160
Speaker 2: The other two accounts are for travel, slash fund and emergencies.

713
00:35:26,520 --> 00:35:29,000
Speaker 2: I've been thinking about paying off my debt with my savings,

714
00:35:29,000 --> 00:35:31,479
Speaker 2: but I'm very afraid to do so. I like having

715
00:35:31,520 --> 00:35:34,080
Speaker 2: the savings in case something happens, but then I think

716
00:35:34,080 --> 00:35:35,960
Speaker 2: about how much more I could save if I got

717
00:35:36,000 --> 00:35:37,960
Speaker 2: rid of the debt. What do you think should I

718
00:35:38,040 --> 00:35:40,319
Speaker 2: use my savings to pay off my debt? And if so,

719
00:35:40,480 --> 00:35:42,560
Speaker 2: how do I go about doing that without using too

720
00:35:42,600 --> 00:35:46,040
Speaker 2: much of my savings? Excellent question.

721
00:35:46,880 --> 00:35:49,600
Speaker 3: It is an excellent question, and she's in a unique position.

722
00:35:49,640 --> 00:35:53,560
Speaker 3: Normally I tell people, definitely, pay off the one that

723
00:35:54,160 --> 00:35:56,880
Speaker 3: is the lowest. But because she actually has enough to

724
00:35:56,920 --> 00:35:58,480
Speaker 3: cover it all, and I'm not saying she should use

725
00:35:58,520 --> 00:36:00,520
Speaker 3: it to cover it all, what I would say is

726
00:36:00,880 --> 00:36:04,600
Speaker 3: which credit card is costing you the most, meaning which

727
00:36:04,640 --> 00:36:07,520
Speaker 3: credit card has the highest interest rate, and at the

728
00:36:07,680 --> 00:36:09,919
Speaker 3: very least get rid of that one. Pay that one

729
00:36:09,920 --> 00:36:12,480
Speaker 3: of so at least you know, so, maybe it's a

730
00:36:12,480 --> 00:36:14,880
Speaker 3: three thousand dollars one, just pay off the three Maybe

731
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Speaker 3: it's the twelve thousand, then pay that one.

732
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Speaker 2: Probably is the twelve thousand other one, Yeah, I know right,

733
00:36:19,040 --> 00:36:20,919
Speaker 2: even if it's that's perfect credit. I have a great

734
00:36:20,960 --> 00:36:23,239
Speaker 2: credit score. Even on my best credit card. My my

735
00:36:23,280 --> 00:36:27,960
Speaker 2: interest rate is still like sixteen percent. Really mm hmm yep.

736
00:36:28,040 --> 00:36:30,040
Speaker 3: My interest rate on my best credit card. That's because

737
00:36:30,040 --> 00:36:32,239
Speaker 3: I locked it in when I got it. They had

738
00:36:32,239 --> 00:36:35,120
Speaker 3: some rare promotion where if you're never late and never

739
00:36:35,160 --> 00:36:37,520
Speaker 3: this and never that. My lowest credit card, my interest

740
00:36:37,600 --> 00:36:39,720
Speaker 3: rate is like a five point something percent.

741
00:36:40,160 --> 00:36:42,080
Speaker 2: Wow, when did you get that? Must have been years ago?

742
00:36:42,880 --> 00:36:46,640
Speaker 3: Yeah, years ago? Like this is like when like I

743
00:36:46,680 --> 00:36:48,120
Speaker 3: had to be it had to be almost like ten

744
00:36:48,200 --> 00:36:50,000
Speaker 3: years ago. But I locked in that rate, but it

745
00:36:50,080 --> 00:36:52,560
Speaker 3: were all these stipulations that went with it, and I

746
00:36:52,600 --> 00:36:54,560
Speaker 3: was able to lock it in and so and then

747
00:36:54,600 --> 00:36:59,080
Speaker 3: my other one, my my my oldest credit card, that

748
00:36:59,160 --> 00:36:59,920
Speaker 3: interest rate is like.

749
00:37:01,040 --> 00:37:02,960
Speaker 2: I have one of those too. I'm just like, just

750
00:37:03,000 --> 00:37:06,720
Speaker 2: in case, I'll keep it. But there's there's no ways

751
00:37:06,800 --> 00:37:09,600
Speaker 2: that she's saving money by not paying It's such as

752
00:37:09,880 --> 00:37:12,040
Speaker 2: what I really is, what really I relate to with

753
00:37:12,040 --> 00:37:14,000
Speaker 2: with her with AVI is that is the is the

754
00:37:14,040 --> 00:37:17,360
Speaker 2: psycho the psychological factor here that she doesn't want to

755
00:37:17,360 --> 00:37:19,480
Speaker 2: get rid of her savings because she's worked so hard.

756
00:37:20,000 --> 00:37:24,879
Speaker 2: But logically it doesn't make sense to keep your money

757
00:37:24,920 --> 00:37:27,440
Speaker 2: and hoard it and savings. But you're probably not earning

758
00:37:27,480 --> 00:37:30,120
Speaker 2: more than point you know one, like you're probably not

759
00:37:30,160 --> 00:37:32,160
Speaker 2: earning more than one percent. I think that's the best

760
00:37:32,440 --> 00:37:35,880
Speaker 2: rate you can get, maybe one point five percent. I mean,

761
00:37:35,920 --> 00:37:38,200
Speaker 2: you're spending so much more in interest, like unless and

762
00:37:38,239 --> 00:37:41,120
Speaker 2: she doesn't mention her interest rates, but I let's assume

763
00:37:41,160 --> 00:37:43,920
Speaker 2: that they you know, she's not having all this is

764
00:37:43,960 --> 00:37:49,520
Speaker 2: on interest bearing credit cards. Like logically doesn't make sense. Psychologically,

765
00:37:49,520 --> 00:37:51,680
Speaker 2: I can understand why it's so hard. Like we just

766
00:37:51,719 --> 00:37:54,759
Speaker 2: got I just got a pretty sizeable tax refund and

767
00:37:54,800 --> 00:37:56,600
Speaker 2: we had a we had our call with our financial

768
00:37:56,640 --> 00:37:59,640
Speaker 2: planner last week, and I was thinking, oh, yes, this

769
00:37:59,680 --> 00:38:01,560
Speaker 2: is gonna go right back in the bank because we're

770
00:38:01,560 --> 00:38:03,239
Speaker 2: saying we just you know, spend this money on the

771
00:38:03,239 --> 00:38:05,400
Speaker 2: wedding and that's this will cover so much and we

772
00:38:05,440 --> 00:38:09,200
Speaker 2: can start replenishing. And then fiance bou was like, maybe

773
00:38:09,200 --> 00:38:11,120
Speaker 2: we should put this on the car pay the car

774
00:38:11,239 --> 00:38:14,080
Speaker 2: loan because we paid for the car half cash and

775
00:38:14,080 --> 00:38:16,560
Speaker 2: we still had about half the loan left. And I

776
00:38:16,600 --> 00:38:19,200
Speaker 2: was immediately I was like, but it's mine and I

777
00:38:19,239 --> 00:38:23,400
Speaker 2: want to put it in savings. Ah my my refund.

778
00:38:23,440 --> 00:38:25,920
Speaker 2: Why are you taking it for me? But then the

779
00:38:25,960 --> 00:38:28,879
Speaker 2: planner was like, well, you know, I mean our car

780
00:38:28,960 --> 00:38:31,560
Speaker 2: loan is what three percent, it's not two point seven

781
00:38:31,640 --> 00:38:34,279
Speaker 2: something percent, it's not very high, but it's still three

782
00:38:34,360 --> 00:38:36,040
Speaker 2: times as high as what I'm getting even in my

783
00:38:36,080 --> 00:38:40,839
Speaker 2: ally account, you know, almost, So they convinced me not,

784
00:38:40,960 --> 00:38:43,680
Speaker 2: I'm not putting the entire refund toward the car loan.

785
00:38:44,880 --> 00:38:49,840
Speaker 2: My my justification for not putting it all toward the

786
00:38:49,880 --> 00:38:54,480
Speaker 2: car loan was that, well, you know, if something terrible happens,

787
00:38:54,480 --> 00:38:56,879
Speaker 2: we can't, like I don't know, I don't. I don't

788
00:38:56,920 --> 00:38:59,399
Speaker 2: feel like a car is an investment, like you can

789
00:38:59,440 --> 00:39:01,560
Speaker 2: sell it. I guess yes, but it's always depreciating. So

790
00:39:01,600 --> 00:39:03,160
Speaker 2: for me, I'm not in a huge hurry to like

791
00:39:03,600 --> 00:39:05,359
Speaker 2: pay it off. It's a low interest, so we're gonna

792
00:39:05,360 --> 00:39:07,680
Speaker 2: put a chunk towards the car. I got talked into it,

793
00:39:08,360 --> 00:39:09,960
Speaker 2: but to help me sleep at night, we're putting a

794
00:39:09,960 --> 00:39:13,200
Speaker 2: little bit in savings too good. And I feel like

795
00:39:13,239 --> 00:39:16,600
Speaker 2: maybe some sort of hybrid approach for her might.

796
00:39:16,719 --> 00:39:19,919
Speaker 3: Be better, because I mean, even though you could be like, well, girl,

797
00:39:20,000 --> 00:39:22,040
Speaker 3: you'll still have six thousands, I would save, it's hard

798
00:39:22,080 --> 00:39:25,920
Speaker 3: for people to to, you know, adjust to that different

799
00:39:25,960 --> 00:39:29,120
Speaker 3: from having twenty six thousand and having six. So I would.

800
00:39:29,920 --> 00:39:31,880
Speaker 3: So either this is what I would say. Either you

801
00:39:31,960 --> 00:39:33,719
Speaker 3: pay off the two smaller ones or pay off the

802
00:39:33,760 --> 00:39:37,360
Speaker 3: larger one, whichever whichever the interest rate, whichever has the

803
00:39:37,440 --> 00:39:41,080
Speaker 3: highest interest rate. So either you're paying like whatever it is,

804
00:39:41,080 --> 00:39:44,480
Speaker 3: like what eight thousand or you're paying twelve, and then

805
00:39:44,520 --> 00:39:46,719
Speaker 3: from there you could pay down the other one systematically

806
00:39:46,920 --> 00:39:48,719
Speaker 3: if that makes you feel better, But that's what I

807
00:39:48,719 --> 00:39:51,360
Speaker 3: would do. So save some, but definitely pay off some,

808
00:39:51,440 --> 00:39:54,520
Speaker 3: because it's you're literally it's costing you money to save,

809
00:39:54,760 --> 00:39:58,600
Speaker 3: Like that's crazy. You're losing money saving and it doesn't

810
00:39:58,600 --> 00:40:00,240
Speaker 3: make sense to do it that way.

811
00:40:00,400 --> 00:40:02,480
Speaker 2: And I think also too, you have to understand when

812
00:40:02,520 --> 00:40:04,799
Speaker 2: you've saved enough, which might be hard for people. I'm

813
00:40:04,800 --> 00:40:08,000
Speaker 2: a hoarder of savings. I'm like, I'll never have enough. Yeah,

814
00:40:08,560 --> 00:40:11,160
Speaker 2: but at a certain point, you have twenty six thousand,

815
00:40:11,239 --> 00:40:14,120
Speaker 2: you have probably more than enough to cover six months

816
00:40:14,520 --> 00:40:18,160
Speaker 2: of living expenses and enough for your down payment. Maybe

817
00:40:18,239 --> 00:40:20,080
Speaker 2: you know the travel fund you can take like a

818
00:40:20,160 --> 00:40:22,920
Speaker 2: domestic travel trip or something. It sounds like you have plenty,

819
00:40:22,960 --> 00:40:25,240
Speaker 2: So maybe stop saving as much as you've been saving

820
00:40:25,600 --> 00:40:28,680
Speaker 2: and start putting aggressively everything you can toward paying down

821
00:40:28,719 --> 00:40:31,960
Speaker 2: your debts. You know, take a little chunk, pay off

822
00:40:32,760 --> 00:40:36,160
Speaker 2: that credit card or too credit cards or whatever, and

823
00:40:36,200 --> 00:40:38,560
Speaker 2: then just start stop saving for a little while because

824
00:40:38,560 --> 00:40:41,320
Speaker 2: you've got enough in liquid savings for if anything happened

825
00:40:41,320 --> 00:40:43,800
Speaker 2: to you know, God forbid, something happens and you need money,

826
00:40:44,000 --> 00:40:47,799
Speaker 2: you're covered. Take this time and start putting everything you

827
00:40:48,040 --> 00:40:51,760
Speaker 2: can toward your debt that you've been putting towards savings

828
00:40:51,760 --> 00:40:54,239
Speaker 2: now and just think of that as just try and

829
00:40:54,360 --> 00:40:57,040
Speaker 2: change the way that you think about paying down your debt.

830
00:40:57,080 --> 00:40:59,480
Speaker 2: Don't think of it as losing money. You're saving money

831
00:41:00,160 --> 00:41:02,239
Speaker 2: by paying off that debt. It's just a matter of

832
00:41:02,280 --> 00:41:09,399
Speaker 2: like rewriting, like rewiring your brain around saving and spending. Yeah,

833
00:41:09,640 --> 00:41:10,440
Speaker 2: excellent question.

834
00:41:11,400 --> 00:41:13,680
Speaker 3: Yeah, it was a good question, all right.

835
00:41:14,040 --> 00:41:18,160
Speaker 2: Next question is from Dominique. She says, I love the podcast.

836
00:41:17,640 --> 00:41:18,000
Speaker 3: Thank you.

837
00:41:19,320 --> 00:41:21,440
Speaker 2: I am almost five years out of law school, and

838
00:41:21,520 --> 00:41:24,680
Speaker 2: like many Newish lawyers, I have a mortgage on my brain.

839
00:41:24,920 --> 00:41:26,440
Speaker 2: I don't know what she means on my brain. I

840
00:41:26,480 --> 00:41:29,440
Speaker 2: have a mortgage totaling over two hundred thousand. Oh, she

841
00:41:29,520 --> 00:41:33,080
Speaker 2: means student loans. I have a mortgage on my brain.

842
00:41:33,520 --> 00:41:36,399
Speaker 2: That's clever. I didn't get it.

843
00:41:37,360 --> 00:41:41,640
Speaker 3: That must be that lawyer so smart, Like is she

844
00:41:41,719 --> 00:41:44,560
Speaker 3: thinking about margage on her brain? Like in her thought?

845
00:41:46,360 --> 00:41:48,680
Speaker 2: She means she has over two hundred thousand dollars of

846
00:41:49,120 --> 00:41:52,279
Speaker 2: student loan debt from law school. Got it? I'm with you, girl.

847
00:41:53,360 --> 00:41:55,279
Speaker 2: I have worked for the government for the last four

848
00:41:55,280 --> 00:41:58,400
Speaker 2: and a half years. My position qualifies me for public

849
00:41:58,400 --> 00:42:01,080
Speaker 2: student loan forgiveness, which we requires a total of ten

850
00:42:01,160 --> 00:42:05,239
Speaker 2: years in public service. So I'm almost halfway there my

851
00:42:05,400 --> 00:42:08,160
Speaker 2: term position with my current employer's ending, and I'm trying

852
00:42:08,200 --> 00:42:10,080
Speaker 2: to figure out whether I should stay in the government

853
00:42:10,120 --> 00:42:12,879
Speaker 2: to get my loans forgiven, or work for a big

854
00:42:12,920 --> 00:42:15,120
Speaker 2: private firm and make a salary that will allow me

855
00:42:15,160 --> 00:42:18,439
Speaker 2: to pay my loans back in approximately eight years. While

856
00:42:18,440 --> 00:42:20,360
Speaker 2: it may seem like an obvious decision to stay in

857
00:42:20,400 --> 00:42:23,160
Speaker 2: government to get my loans forgiven, I ultimately want to

858
00:42:23,200 --> 00:42:25,920
Speaker 2: work in private practice. In the transition to private practice

859
00:42:25,960 --> 00:42:29,520
Speaker 2: after ten years in government can be extremely difficult. I

860
00:42:29,640 --> 00:42:35,759
Speaker 2: really appreciate your perspectives, Miss Domino. I know what I'm

861
00:42:35,760 --> 00:42:36,320
Speaker 2: going to sign.

862
00:42:37,239 --> 00:42:40,319
Speaker 3: I I mean, of course, my first reaction was like, girl,

863
00:42:40,320 --> 00:42:43,279
Speaker 3: you about to get your loans forgiven. But then so,

864
00:42:43,440 --> 00:42:44,840
Speaker 3: this is what I would probably do, And this is

865
00:42:44,840 --> 00:42:46,880
Speaker 3: what I used to tell like my best friend when

866
00:42:46,880 --> 00:42:48,799
Speaker 3: she would already be like, oh, should I go for

867
00:42:48,840 --> 00:42:50,680
Speaker 3: this job or this job? I'm not sure? I'm like, girl,

868
00:42:50,800 --> 00:42:55,200
Speaker 3: have you applied and been offered? So I would say

869
00:42:55,280 --> 00:42:59,359
Speaker 3: before you make a decision about to see which you know,

870
00:42:59,440 --> 00:43:02,200
Speaker 3: if the money, because what if you apply and then

871
00:43:02,280 --> 00:43:06,440
Speaker 3: the offer does not make sense financially, Like, so I

872
00:43:06,480 --> 00:43:08,839
Speaker 3: would see, like you're assuming that you know you're going

873
00:43:08,920 --> 00:43:10,840
Speaker 3: to get a job in private and that the private

874
00:43:10,840 --> 00:43:13,200
Speaker 3: money is going to be enough, so there's no harm,

875
00:43:13,880 --> 00:43:16,560
Speaker 3: and let's see because if it is going to be enough,

876
00:43:16,600 --> 00:43:18,320
Speaker 3: then I would say make that move. Let the money

877
00:43:18,320 --> 00:43:21,200
Speaker 3: make the decision for you. And then if it doesn't

878
00:43:21,200 --> 00:43:24,680
Speaker 3: really make sense, is there things you could do on

879
00:43:24,719 --> 00:43:26,760
Speaker 3: the side. So let's just say you work for government,

880
00:43:27,040 --> 00:43:29,000
Speaker 3: are there things that you can do to still keep

881
00:43:29,040 --> 00:43:31,520
Speaker 3: your foot in the private door if the money doesn't

882
00:43:31,560 --> 00:43:33,320
Speaker 3: make sense to make that switch.

883
00:43:35,120 --> 00:43:38,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, you know with fiance, he works for the government

884
00:43:38,120 --> 00:43:39,960
Speaker 2: and we've talked with us before. He's like, I could

885
00:43:40,000 --> 00:43:42,760
Speaker 2: make double my salary if I was in the private sector. Probably,

886
00:43:43,280 --> 00:43:45,680
Speaker 2: But working in the government is super tempting because there's

887
00:43:45,719 --> 00:43:49,319
Speaker 2: so many sweet benefits. He's got an awesome pension, Like

888
00:43:49,360 --> 00:43:52,600
Speaker 2: who has a pension, who, like our age has pensions anymore.

889
00:43:53,800 --> 00:43:56,720
Speaker 2: He will get his student loans forgiven eventually, his federal

890
00:43:56,760 --> 00:44:00,319
Speaker 2: student loans. There's great job security once you're in you're

891
00:44:00,400 --> 00:44:05,239
Speaker 2: kind of in and so I completely like can like

892
00:44:05,280 --> 00:44:10,759
Speaker 2: the conundrum here, Like herd indecisiveness, I completely understand which

893
00:44:10,840 --> 00:44:13,920
Speaker 2: is going through in terms of public student loan forgiveness.

894
00:44:14,640 --> 00:44:17,719
Speaker 2: One thing I'll say is do the math, because sometimes

895
00:44:17,840 --> 00:44:20,520
Speaker 2: you're not well. First of all, two hundred thousand dollars

896
00:44:20,600 --> 00:44:22,960
Speaker 2: is a lot of student loan debt. I'm not sure

897
00:44:23,040 --> 00:44:25,239
Speaker 2: if all that is federal loan debt. And when we

898
00:44:25,280 --> 00:44:27,960
Speaker 2: talk about public student loan forgiveness, we're only talking about

899
00:44:27,960 --> 00:44:30,520
Speaker 2: federal loan debt. So how much do you really stand

900
00:44:30,560 --> 00:44:32,919
Speaker 2: to get forgiven? A lot of people I know who

901
00:44:33,120 --> 00:44:35,479
Speaker 2: are have law degrees have a lot of private debt,

902
00:44:36,280 --> 00:44:39,560
Speaker 2: and that private debt won't be included in this public

903
00:44:39,600 --> 00:44:43,160
Speaker 2: student loan forgiveness program. First and foremost, so how much

904
00:44:43,239 --> 00:44:45,800
Speaker 2: are you really going to be saving. You'll still probably

905
00:44:45,800 --> 00:44:49,720
Speaker 2: be left with debt even if your loans are forgiven.

906
00:44:50,920 --> 00:44:53,239
Speaker 2: And I totally agree with Tiffany, like you need to

907
00:44:53,360 --> 00:44:55,719
Speaker 2: actually see on paper what you can stand to make

908
00:44:56,200 --> 00:44:58,360
Speaker 2: in the private sector. Maybe there's some sweet sign on

909
00:44:58,440 --> 00:45:00,560
Speaker 2: bonus that could help you take out a chunk of loans.

910
00:45:01,000 --> 00:45:02,440
Speaker 2: You know, I need to get my little baby brother

911
00:45:02,480 --> 00:45:05,480
Speaker 2: a shout out real quick though, because he graduated college

912
00:45:05,480 --> 00:45:08,279
Speaker 2: in May with thirty thousand dollars in student loan debt.

913
00:45:08,360 --> 00:45:11,919
Speaker 2: He has zero debt today. It's been less than a year.

914
00:45:12,480 --> 00:45:16,200
Speaker 2: Well that's not true. He graduated over dang, wait he's old.

915
00:45:16,280 --> 00:45:22,480
Speaker 2: Oh no, the time's would be too fast. He graduated Okay, sorry, okay,

916
00:45:22,520 --> 00:45:24,879
Speaker 2: two years ago. He graduated was still amazing. So two

917
00:45:24,920 --> 00:45:27,520
Speaker 2: years ago he graduated with thirty thousand dollars thirty thousand

918
00:45:27,600 --> 00:45:30,000
Speaker 2: dollars student loan debt. He just made his last payment

919
00:45:30,000 --> 00:45:33,000
Speaker 2: with the bonus check last month. And the reason he

920
00:45:33,040 --> 00:45:34,640
Speaker 2: was able to do that is because he went from

921
00:45:34,640 --> 00:45:38,719
Speaker 2: college and took a good paying job in sales that

922
00:45:38,760 --> 00:45:42,600
Speaker 2: came with great potential to earn bonuses, and that he

923
00:45:42,640 --> 00:45:45,920
Speaker 2: has a relatively normal like base salary, but it was

924
00:45:45,960 --> 00:45:49,080
Speaker 2: the potential to earn all these bonuses and commissions. And

925
00:45:49,120 --> 00:45:53,280
Speaker 2: he's been kicking ass and putting down you know, paying

926
00:45:53,280 --> 00:45:55,320
Speaker 2: off his loans along the way. And I was like, Alex,

927
00:45:55,680 --> 00:45:57,360
Speaker 2: they could fire you tomorrow and you would have just

928
00:45:57,400 --> 00:45:59,680
Speaker 2: gotten such a huge return on your investment for that

929
00:45:59,719 --> 00:46:02,600
Speaker 2: time you spend that job, because it gave you the

930
00:46:02,640 --> 00:46:06,080
Speaker 2: financial ability to pay off your student loan debt.

931
00:46:06,280 --> 00:46:08,440
Speaker 3: And if nothing like so, so you see, there's no

932
00:46:08,800 --> 00:46:10,840
Speaker 3: right or wrong. It really just kind of like depends

933
00:46:10,840 --> 00:46:13,120
Speaker 3: on like what will the market bear and where where

934
00:46:13,160 --> 00:46:14,080
Speaker 3: does it make sense.

935
00:46:14,360 --> 00:46:17,000
Speaker 2: So it's tough out there being a lawyer right now.

936
00:46:17,040 --> 00:46:21,759
Speaker 2: It's hard to find jobs. You definitely. I feel like

937
00:46:21,840 --> 00:46:24,880
Speaker 2: when you have a I say, don't stop looking like

938
00:46:24,880 --> 00:46:27,600
Speaker 2: like be out there, be letting people know that you're

939
00:46:27,640 --> 00:46:30,600
Speaker 2: looking for work in the private sector. Just put that

940
00:46:30,640 --> 00:46:32,520
Speaker 2: message out there because you never know what will come

941
00:46:32,560 --> 00:46:35,719
Speaker 2: your way. Don't It doesn't have to be like an

942
00:46:35,719 --> 00:46:38,120
Speaker 2: ear or right now, like you can still put feelers

943
00:46:38,120 --> 00:46:41,080
Speaker 2: out and be shopping around for the other work until

944
00:46:41,080 --> 00:46:45,480
Speaker 2: you find that really sweet offer in the meantime what.

945
00:46:45,480 --> 00:46:48,560
Speaker 3: Yeah, collect you're right, like chaperon, I like that till

946
00:46:48,600 --> 00:46:50,799
Speaker 3: she finds that sweet offer that makes sense to jump

947
00:46:50,960 --> 00:46:52,719
Speaker 3: jump public ship, you know.

948
00:46:52,960 --> 00:46:55,440
Speaker 2: In the meantime, like you said, you're working toward you know,

949
00:46:55,480 --> 00:46:58,279
Speaker 2: you're serving the country, which is awesome, and then you're

950
00:46:58,320 --> 00:47:00,279
Speaker 2: working toward your public suited a loan forgive, which is

951
00:47:00,280 --> 00:47:05,040
Speaker 2: also awesome. So you really like you're in a good place. Yeah,

952
00:47:05,520 --> 00:47:07,160
Speaker 2: I think it's just going to depend on how sweet

953
00:47:07,200 --> 00:47:10,279
Speaker 2: that private sector. Job offer is at the end of

954
00:47:10,280 --> 00:47:12,080
Speaker 2: the day, you kind of have to do what you

955
00:47:12,120 --> 00:47:15,840
Speaker 2: know works best for you and your dollars. But do

956
00:47:16,000 --> 00:47:18,440
Speaker 2: the math, find out how much that debt's actually federal

957
00:47:18,480 --> 00:47:21,160
Speaker 2: and how much you can stand to get forgiven after

958
00:47:21,239 --> 00:47:27,719
Speaker 2: ten years. Yeah, good questions today. And I said, good

959
00:47:27,760 --> 00:47:28,440
Speaker 2: questions today.

960
00:47:29,200 --> 00:47:32,360
Speaker 3: I know you guys have you know, really good questions.

961
00:47:32,440 --> 00:47:34,120
Speaker 2: I'm really glad I'm not alone. I have such a

962
00:47:34,160 --> 00:47:37,680
Speaker 2: weird like mental block when it comes to saving money

963
00:47:37,680 --> 00:47:39,959
Speaker 2: and like paying down things. I don't know. It's taken

964
00:47:40,000 --> 00:47:40,480
Speaker 2: me a while.

965
00:47:41,480 --> 00:47:44,560
Speaker 3: I'm realizing I took a So in my my liberature academy,

966
00:47:44,600 --> 00:47:49,360
Speaker 3: you know, we just closed the registration. But last or

967
00:47:49,560 --> 00:47:52,160
Speaker 3: last Sunday or Sunday before last, every Sunday we have

968
00:47:52,239 --> 00:47:54,239
Speaker 3: something called ask the Expert. Maybe you have to come on.

969
00:47:54,719 --> 00:47:56,600
Speaker 3: We have asked the expert because they like love you anyway.

970
00:47:56,600 --> 00:48:02,239
Speaker 3: They're like, what, Madra, come on, let me know. And

971
00:48:02,320 --> 00:48:04,359
Speaker 3: so every Sunday we have asked the Expert. And then

972
00:48:04,400 --> 00:48:07,000
Speaker 3: I have one of my friends who's dope and is

973
00:48:07,040 --> 00:48:09,880
Speaker 3: an expert in a specific field, come on and just

974
00:48:09,920 --> 00:48:11,840
Speaker 3: do a live Q and A. It's fun and loose,

975
00:48:12,280 --> 00:48:15,360
Speaker 3: and so I had my friend Karra of the Frugal Feminista.

976
00:48:15,480 --> 00:48:19,960
Speaker 3: She came on and she talked about your emotional and

977
00:48:20,080 --> 00:48:22,799
Speaker 3: mental state around money. I mean, she almost had all

978
00:48:22,840 --> 00:48:26,279
Speaker 3: of us crying, like it was so good because she

979
00:48:26,320 --> 00:48:28,440
Speaker 3: really talked about like why do you make the choice

980
00:48:28,440 --> 00:48:30,319
Speaker 3: that you made. I did not realize, like you know

981
00:48:30,719 --> 00:48:32,520
Speaker 3: how I have my old car and I make a

982
00:48:32,600 --> 00:48:35,280
Speaker 3: joke out of it, but she was really like, Tiffany, why,

983
00:48:36,000 --> 00:48:38,839
Speaker 3: like honestly, why do you, like you know, the car

984
00:48:38,880 --> 00:48:42,399
Speaker 3: is no longer even really safe? Like why? She said,

985
00:48:42,440 --> 00:48:46,919
Speaker 3: especially women of color, we tend to carry this thing

986
00:48:46,960 --> 00:48:49,799
Speaker 3: around with us like a badge of honor, like I

987
00:48:49,840 --> 00:48:52,520
Speaker 3: don't treat myself, I don't do for myself. It's like

988
00:48:52,560 --> 00:48:55,719
Speaker 3: it's a badge of honor and we're rewarded for like yeah, girl,

989
00:48:56,000 --> 00:48:58,560
Speaker 3: don't do anything good for yourself. And I'm like, wait,

990
00:48:59,239 --> 00:49:01,319
Speaker 3: is that what I'm doing? And she was like, you know,

991
00:49:01,680 --> 00:49:04,239
Speaker 3: what is it that you tell yourself why you don't

992
00:49:04,239 --> 00:49:06,600
Speaker 3: really spend? And I said, well, I just said I

993
00:49:06,640 --> 00:49:09,360
Speaker 3: don't want to be irresponsible. And she said, Tiffany, have

994
00:49:09,480 --> 00:49:12,680
Speaker 3: you ever been an irresponsible spender? And I can honestly say,

995
00:49:12,800 --> 00:49:16,040
Speaker 3: sat Andy outside of maybe when I was like fifteen

996
00:49:16,080 --> 00:49:18,640
Speaker 3: and I got my first job. Never not in my twenties,

997
00:49:18,840 --> 00:49:21,399
Speaker 3: not even during the recession. I was able to live

998
00:49:21,960 --> 00:49:25,120
Speaker 3: off no income for two years because of my saving habits.

999
00:49:25,200 --> 00:49:27,719
Speaker 3: So I've never been irresponsible with spending. So she said, so,

1000
00:49:27,760 --> 00:49:32,239
Speaker 3: why why this fear, because that's not you that she said.

1001
00:49:32,520 --> 00:49:36,520
Speaker 3: She said something so powerful. She said, spending is not irresponsible.

1002
00:49:36,960 --> 00:49:41,160
Speaker 3: Spending irresponsibly is irresponsible. And she was like and I'm like,

1003
00:49:41,200 --> 00:49:42,600
Speaker 3: so She's like, I don't know where you got that

1004
00:49:42,640 --> 00:49:46,000
Speaker 3: messaging from, but you have to ask yourself, you know why,

1005
00:49:46,120 --> 00:49:49,320
Speaker 3: and to let that go because now you're holding yourself

1006
00:49:49,360 --> 00:49:51,719
Speaker 3: back from like basic. I mean, if I tell you

1007
00:49:51,719 --> 00:49:55,279
Speaker 3: how much I made during the Academy launch, you know,

1008
00:49:55,320 --> 00:49:56,680
Speaker 3: I'm thinking like, oh, you know what, but what made

1009
00:49:56,680 --> 00:49:58,640
Speaker 3: pretty good money? You know, because we don't The Academy

1010
00:49:58,719 --> 00:50:00,480
Speaker 3: is less than twenty bucks a month, and even then

1011
00:50:00,520 --> 00:50:02,400
Speaker 3: it was on sale the whole time, so no one

1012
00:50:02,480 --> 00:50:05,680
Speaker 3: paid more than like sixteen or seventeen bucks for a

1013
00:50:05,719 --> 00:50:09,120
Speaker 3: monthly subscription. And we keep it really low on purpose

1014
00:50:09,120 --> 00:50:11,440
Speaker 3: because I want people to have access. So I'm thinking like, oh,

1015
00:50:11,480 --> 00:50:15,000
Speaker 3: you know, we'll do fine. No, Mandy, I mean I

1016
00:50:15,239 --> 00:50:18,600
Speaker 3: made just under two hundred and fifty thousand dollars and

1017
00:50:18,680 --> 00:50:22,040
Speaker 3: ten days, like why the hell?

1018
00:50:22,360 --> 00:50:24,160
Speaker 2: But even before that, I was thinking, why is she

1019
00:50:24,239 --> 00:50:27,720
Speaker 2: driving this clunker? I've seen it in person. It doesn't

1020
00:50:27,760 --> 00:50:29,040
Speaker 2: make any sense.

1021
00:50:29,280 --> 00:50:29,959
Speaker 3: I don't know.

1022
00:50:30,320 --> 00:50:33,320
Speaker 2: Can you please get in a car brand ambition? Please

1023
00:50:33,360 --> 00:50:34,480
Speaker 2: tell test me to get a new car.

1024
00:50:35,040 --> 00:50:37,719
Speaker 3: It was giving me like anxiety of thinking of like

1025
00:50:38,280 --> 00:50:40,480
Speaker 3: going to buy a car. It's so crazy because if

1026
00:50:40,520 --> 00:50:42,520
Speaker 3: you were to say, you know, your sister needs a car,

1027
00:50:42,600 --> 00:50:44,680
Speaker 3: can you buy her one, I'd say, Okay, your mom

1028
00:50:44,719 --> 00:50:47,880
Speaker 3: needs a car, Okay, superman, super okay. But when it

1029
00:50:47,880 --> 00:50:50,160
Speaker 3: comes to me, I'm always like, well, I don't really

1030
00:50:50,320 --> 00:50:52,239
Speaker 3: like it's not a need. I don't. I don't really

1031
00:50:52,280 --> 00:50:54,760
Speaker 3: need it. I don't. And so really like working past

1032
00:50:54,760 --> 00:50:57,400
Speaker 3: that because it's I didn't think it was a problem

1033
00:50:57,480 --> 00:50:59,520
Speaker 3: until she really kind of maybe laid on the line

1034
00:50:59,520 --> 00:51:02,160
Speaker 3: and I thought, wow, what And so here's an activity

1035
00:51:02,200 --> 00:51:05,440
Speaker 3: for anybody who might be going or not or wondering

1036
00:51:05,520 --> 00:51:08,839
Speaker 3: if they have an issue with finding because I didn't

1037
00:51:08,840 --> 00:51:10,959
Speaker 3: think I had an issue with money. And she said,

1038
00:51:10,960 --> 00:51:13,960
Speaker 3: you know, list anywhere from five to ten of your

1039
00:51:14,000 --> 00:51:18,640
Speaker 3: money thoughts, like you know, spending is irresponsible whatever it is.

1040
00:51:18,719 --> 00:51:20,719
Speaker 3: The things do you tell yourself over and over and

1041
00:51:20,760 --> 00:51:23,440
Speaker 3: then next to those things, write down whether this is

1042
00:51:23,440 --> 00:51:25,600
Speaker 3: a positive money thought or a negative money thoughts to

1043
00:51:25,680 --> 00:51:27,759
Speaker 3: kind of see like gauge where you are as the

1044
00:51:27,800 --> 00:51:31,200
Speaker 3: way you think about money, and then really rewarding the

1045
00:51:31,239 --> 00:51:35,440
Speaker 3: negative money thoughts. Like for me, I said, spending is irresponsible,

1046
00:51:35,680 --> 00:51:40,239
Speaker 3: but really it should be Spending irresponsibly is irresponsible. So

1047
00:51:40,440 --> 00:51:44,160
Speaker 3: I'm learning to reword my money thoughts and mantras that

1048
00:51:44,200 --> 00:51:46,520
Speaker 3: I've been repeating to myself and that have kept me

1049
00:51:46,600 --> 00:51:48,960
Speaker 3: here because mane I'm I'm so afraid that if I

1050
00:51:49,000 --> 00:51:51,200
Speaker 3: buy a car, but what if nobody likes the budget

1051
00:51:51,200 --> 00:51:53,920
Speaker 3: eesta anymore and my business closed down? Like how will

1052
00:51:54,000 --> 00:51:56,160
Speaker 3: I pay rent? How would I? Meanwhile, I used to

1053
00:51:56,200 --> 00:51:58,399
Speaker 3: make thirty five thousand dollars a year. I've got enough

1054
00:51:58,440 --> 00:52:01,160
Speaker 3: money that I could not work for like six years,

1055
00:52:01,800 --> 00:52:04,719
Speaker 3: but and I don't know why, and so yeah, so

1056
00:52:04,800 --> 00:52:07,200
Speaker 3: it was just really powerful and it just goes to

1057
00:52:07,239 --> 00:52:09,799
Speaker 3: show you just you sometimes you think things are so small.

1058
00:52:09,840 --> 00:52:11,200
Speaker 3: I thought, like, you know, it was kind of funny

1059
00:52:11,200 --> 00:52:13,239
Speaker 3: that I didn't get a car, But I'm realizing it

1060
00:52:13,280 --> 00:52:16,200
Speaker 3: really isn't like there's a reason that I'm holding it

1061
00:52:16,280 --> 00:52:18,520
Speaker 3: back from myself and why I would never do that

1062
00:52:18,560 --> 00:52:20,600
Speaker 3: to anybody that I cared about, but I do that

1063
00:52:20,640 --> 00:52:23,040
Speaker 3: to myself. And I'm like, Okay, I have to break

1064
00:52:23,040 --> 00:52:26,120
Speaker 3: past this. And yeah, I don't even know where that

1065
00:52:26,120 --> 00:52:27,680
Speaker 3: came from randomly, but I just it just hit me,

1066
00:52:27,760 --> 00:52:30,840
Speaker 3: like like thinking about you coming on on Ask the Expert,

1067
00:52:30,840 --> 00:52:34,320
Speaker 3: and how that that particular Assi Expert was so powerful

1068
00:52:34,520 --> 00:52:36,520
Speaker 3: not just for me, but so many of us watching

1069
00:52:36,560 --> 00:52:40,040
Speaker 3: it because so many women do that. You know, we

1070
00:52:40,800 --> 00:52:44,200
Speaker 3: people talk about overspending. People don't talk about the underspenders.

1071
00:52:44,600 --> 00:52:44,840
Speaker 2: M h.

1072
00:52:45,160 --> 00:52:46,400
Speaker 3: That's detrimental.

1073
00:52:46,520 --> 00:52:50,160
Speaker 2: You know, it's like a it's there's so many different

1074
00:52:50,200 --> 00:52:53,760
Speaker 2: I mean, if you've ever gone to like a therapist

1075
00:52:53,880 --> 00:52:56,680
Speaker 2: or anything like that, even in couples therapy, we've been

1076
00:52:56,800 --> 00:53:01,000
Speaker 2: discussing finances and it's all interrelated relationship with the money

1077
00:53:01,040 --> 00:53:02,840
Speaker 2: has a lot to do with your you know, your

1078
00:53:02,920 --> 00:53:05,960
Speaker 2: childhood and like it sounds corny and cliche, but it

1079
00:53:06,040 --> 00:53:08,440
Speaker 2: legitimately does. I you know, we've been talking about our

1080
00:53:08,520 --> 00:53:10,600
Speaker 2: childhoods and I'm like, oh, so that's why this and

1081
00:53:10,680 --> 00:53:14,880
Speaker 2: that and you and you think you're a grown adult

1082
00:53:14,960 --> 00:53:17,120
Speaker 2: and you should be over you can overcome those things,

1083
00:53:17,160 --> 00:53:21,520
Speaker 2: but you're you're always sort of carrying around those perceptions

1084
00:53:21,560 --> 00:53:24,759
Speaker 2: and that mentality and like the negativity you associate with

1085
00:53:24,800 --> 00:53:27,960
Speaker 2: money in certain ways. I'm not irresponsible, but I am

1086
00:53:28,000 --> 00:53:32,520
Speaker 2: a I'm an impulsive spender. Sometimes when I was a

1087
00:53:32,600 --> 00:53:34,440
Speaker 2: kid growing up, my mom would be the first to

1088
00:53:34,480 --> 00:53:36,880
Speaker 2: be like, you deserve it. Just treat yourself like, you know,

1089
00:53:37,040 --> 00:53:39,719
Speaker 2: be really like it was almost like you you It's

1090
00:53:39,800 --> 00:53:43,160
Speaker 2: like when you crash diet and you hold everything back

1091
00:53:43,200 --> 00:53:45,719
Speaker 2: from yourselves and then you you binge on like a

1092
00:53:45,760 --> 00:53:48,239
Speaker 2: box of cereal. Not that I'm speaking from experience or

1093
00:53:48,239 --> 00:53:53,200
Speaker 2: anything like that, but like I, you know, I obsessed

1094
00:53:53,200 --> 00:53:55,200
Speaker 2: about saving. I obsessed that I obsessed that I obsessed,

1095
00:53:55,200 --> 00:53:57,680
Speaker 2: And then I'm just like so rigid. And then I'm like,

1096
00:53:57,800 --> 00:53:59,920
Speaker 2: I'm gonna go to nord Stream online and just online

1097
00:54:00,040 --> 00:54:02,160
Speaker 2: shop and I'm gonna go and like binge on shopping

1098
00:54:02,200 --> 00:54:04,560
Speaker 2: for two days and have all these boxes show up

1099
00:54:04,560 --> 00:54:06,960
Speaker 2: at my front door. And this happens to me. I

1100
00:54:07,000 --> 00:54:11,919
Speaker 2: have these crazy Yeah, there's these crazy, these crazy rules

1101
00:54:11,920 --> 00:54:15,440
Speaker 2: I impose on myself that then make me like lash

1102
00:54:15,440 --> 00:54:18,399
Speaker 2: out later on and like binge in different ways. And

1103
00:54:18,400 --> 00:54:21,440
Speaker 2: and lately it's like binging on shopping because I've been

1104
00:54:21,480 --> 00:54:24,440
Speaker 2: like holding myself back for so long, saving saving, saving,

1105
00:54:25,480 --> 00:54:28,200
Speaker 2: So yeah, I I I would love to talk more

1106
00:54:28,239 --> 00:54:31,200
Speaker 2: about and explore. Maybe it'd have frugal feminises what's her name,

1107
00:54:31,239 --> 00:54:32,200
Speaker 2: frugal feminie stuff.

1108
00:54:32,960 --> 00:54:34,560
Speaker 3: She honestly, that would be awesome.

1109
00:54:34,760 --> 00:54:38,040
Speaker 2: It was so stuff to her name or no, no.

1110
00:54:39,640 --> 00:54:45,360
Speaker 3: Family women, like you know, like empowerment for for women

1111
00:54:45,640 --> 00:54:48,080
Speaker 3: in like you know, really exploring like you know your

1112
00:54:48,160 --> 00:54:51,319
Speaker 3: your why and how to let go of these things

1113
00:54:51,320 --> 00:54:53,359
Speaker 3: that we told ourselves. So yeah, I think, honestly, I

1114
00:54:53,400 --> 00:54:55,520
Speaker 3: think that she would be awesome because I'm still like

1115
00:54:55,719 --> 00:54:57,720
Speaker 3: she still calls to check on me. She said, Tiany,

1116
00:54:57,760 --> 00:54:59,879
Speaker 3: have you made the appointment to go see a car?

1117
00:55:00,360 --> 00:55:02,360
Speaker 3: Have you mad? And I'm like no, yeah, She's like okay,

1118
00:55:02,360 --> 00:55:05,799
Speaker 3: next week I'm calling again. I'm like okay. And so

1119
00:55:05,920 --> 00:55:08,400
Speaker 3: like just breaking through and being like she said, honestly,

1120
00:55:08,400 --> 00:55:10,720
Speaker 3: she said something really good for me to start, She said,

1121
00:55:11,440 --> 00:55:15,560
Speaker 3: purchase something under one hundred dollars without thought like don't

1122
00:55:15,640 --> 00:55:17,879
Speaker 3: like oh no, no it's cute, you like it? Get it?

1123
00:55:18,160 --> 00:55:19,640
Speaker 3: She was like one hundred dollar because you know that's

1124
00:55:19,640 --> 00:55:21,720
Speaker 3: a threshold that you should be able to break past

1125
00:55:21,880 --> 00:55:24,280
Speaker 3: one hundred dollars is clearly not going to do anything

1126
00:55:24,480 --> 00:55:26,560
Speaker 3: to any of the money that you have saved. You're

1127
00:55:26,560 --> 00:55:29,480
Speaker 3: gonna just get something that's one hundred dollars around that

1128
00:55:29,600 --> 00:55:32,279
Speaker 3: range and you're not going to and you're gonna see

1129
00:55:32,320 --> 00:55:34,239
Speaker 3: the world did not crumble because you bought a hundred

1130
00:55:34,280 --> 00:55:44,319
Speaker 3: dollars item.

1131
00:55:44,440 --> 00:55:47,319
Speaker 2: And I was like, need some help. I take you

1132
00:55:47,400 --> 00:55:49,759
Speaker 2: my way.

1133
00:55:50,400 --> 00:55:54,480
Speaker 3: I mean, I need some things if you want to know,

1134
00:55:54,719 --> 00:55:57,160
Speaker 3: But I so for because I know, like I'm like,

1135
00:55:57,200 --> 00:55:58,400
Speaker 3: I know it's so heavy, So I want to I

1136
00:55:58,480 --> 00:56:01,000
Speaker 3: want to end with a lighthearted wind, which I think

1137
00:56:01,040 --> 00:56:04,120
Speaker 3: that everyone has seen this, this viral video, and it is.

1138
00:56:03,960 --> 00:56:05,040
Speaker 2: Gonna be the same as mine.

1139
00:56:05,080 --> 00:56:07,320
Speaker 3: Fine, go ahead, No, no, we we could do it

1140
00:56:07,400 --> 00:56:12,080
Speaker 3: drag win Okay, So no, right, so let's set the

1141
00:56:12,080 --> 00:56:14,600
Speaker 3: stage right BBC News, correct.

1142
00:56:14,320 --> 00:56:18,400
Speaker 2: Manny, Yes, I so identify with this man.

1143
00:56:19,719 --> 00:56:24,879
Speaker 3: So I would say forty is right in mid mid forties, yeap,

1144
00:56:24,920 --> 00:56:26,440
Speaker 3: white gentlemen, very proper you.

1145
00:56:26,400 --> 00:56:30,080
Speaker 2: Know, business suit time. Yeah, in a home.

1146
00:56:29,960 --> 00:56:34,480
Speaker 3: Office, yes, getting interviewed about North Korea, very serious business

1147
00:56:34,719 --> 00:56:43,600
Speaker 3: BBC International, well known, well respected media outlet. So said, white, young, white,

1148
00:56:43,640 --> 00:56:47,480
Speaker 3: middle aged gentlemen. You know very proper is speaking, and

1149
00:56:47,960 --> 00:56:50,480
Speaker 3: the door creaks open, and what happens.

1150
00:56:55,840 --> 00:56:58,719
Speaker 2: Yeah, I just hearded picturing. And again, I've watched it

1151
00:56:58,760 --> 00:57:01,360
Speaker 2: so many times I don't even have to watch it

1152
00:57:01,400 --> 00:57:03,879
Speaker 2: again because I haven't. I can tell you how many

1153
00:57:03,920 --> 00:57:06,759
Speaker 2: times she moves her elbows up and down. She's doing

1154
00:57:06,760 --> 00:57:09,360
Speaker 2: like the funky chicken. She had glasses on and a

1155
00:57:09,440 --> 00:57:10,240
Speaker 2: yellow sweater.

1156
00:57:11,040 --> 00:57:14,400
Speaker 3: Yes, curly brown hair. So his daughter. I think she

1157
00:57:14,600 --> 00:57:17,200
Speaker 3: was about two years old. Yeah, creap, the doorky locked.

1158
00:57:17,400 --> 00:57:19,800
Speaker 3: She opens the door, it creas open, and what you

1159
00:57:19,840 --> 00:57:23,880
Speaker 3: see is this little cute little girl with curly brown

1160
00:57:23,920 --> 00:57:28,680
Speaker 3: hair and a bright yellow sweater and zero like glad zero,

1161
00:57:28,960 --> 00:57:32,120
Speaker 3: and she does adore the explorer like I can't even

1162
00:57:32,680 --> 00:57:34,600
Speaker 3: I'm trying to think of the arm like she did

1163
00:57:34,640 --> 00:57:37,560
Speaker 3: like an arm pump, like you see me, you like,

1164
00:57:37,760 --> 00:57:39,720
Speaker 3: arms up and down like she did a little jig

1165
00:57:39,840 --> 00:57:43,160
Speaker 3: coming into the room, like ah, daddy's a TV me too.

1166
00:57:43,840 --> 00:57:46,520
Speaker 3: And what's so hilarious is that he is in the

1167
00:57:46,560 --> 00:57:49,240
Speaker 3: middle of explaining some serious business with your koreer and

1168
00:57:49,360 --> 00:57:51,720
Speaker 3: does not hear her, does not know she's behind him,

1169
00:57:51,800 --> 00:57:53,919
Speaker 3: while she is getting it in for like a good

1170
00:57:54,040 --> 00:57:56,920
Speaker 3: maybe like five seconds so she comes right behind him

1171
00:57:57,280 --> 00:58:01,160
Speaker 3: and the acres to tell him, I think one of

1172
00:58:01,200 --> 00:58:03,439
Speaker 3: your children has entered the room. He doesn't even look

1173
00:58:03,480 --> 00:58:05,440
Speaker 3: because he knows all hell is gonna break loose. He

1174
00:58:05,480 --> 00:58:08,680
Speaker 3: instead stends his hand, puts it on her chest and says,

1175
00:58:08,920 --> 00:58:11,720
Speaker 3: not right now, like with his with his energy, and.

1176
00:58:11,880 --> 00:58:15,800
Speaker 2: She and then the other one comes in the door

1177
00:58:15,800 --> 00:58:16,840
Speaker 2: in the little walker.

1178
00:58:17,400 --> 00:58:19,920
Speaker 3: I thought this could be really I look, this has

1179
00:58:19,920 --> 00:58:22,520
Speaker 3: to be fake. This has to be fake. So then

1180
00:58:22,800 --> 00:58:24,600
Speaker 3: when all of that that that wasn't that us. So

1181
00:58:24,640 --> 00:58:26,720
Speaker 3: she tries to like, if you watch carefully, she tries

1182
00:58:26,720 --> 00:58:28,680
Speaker 3: to loop her arm around him, like, hey, daddy, I

1183
00:58:28,680 --> 00:58:31,680
Speaker 3: find out later that that's the room that he skypes

1184
00:58:31,880 --> 00:58:34,520
Speaker 3: his parents. So she's used to Grandma and Grandpa being

1185
00:58:34,520 --> 00:58:34,960
Speaker 3: on the screen.

1186
00:58:35,200 --> 00:58:37,600
Speaker 2: Oh it's not true, okay.

1187
00:58:37,080 --> 00:58:39,080
Speaker 3: Yeah, So she was like, you know, her voice ses

1188
00:58:39,080 --> 00:58:40,600
Speaker 3: it was like, oh, Grandma and Grandpa, this is what

1189
00:58:40,600 --> 00:58:42,680
Speaker 3: we do. We talked to them. So she comes in

1190
00:58:43,080 --> 00:58:45,960
Speaker 3: and tries to loop her hand around his arm, and

1191
00:58:45,960 --> 00:58:49,000
Speaker 3: like he pushes her back. Meanwhile doesn't leave. She instead

1192
00:58:49,160 --> 00:58:54,680
Speaker 3: leans back on like I guess it's.

1193
00:58:53,400 --> 00:58:56,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, bed covered in books that he's carefully adorned to

1194
00:58:56,360 --> 00:58:58,120
Speaker 2: make it look like it's part of an office. It's

1195
00:58:58,160 --> 00:58:59,240
Speaker 2: so clearly a bedroom.

1196
00:59:00,600 --> 00:59:04,160
Speaker 3: So she leaves there like I mean, I'm aa fall back,

1197
00:59:04,200 --> 00:59:07,040
Speaker 3: but I ain't going nowhere. Then baby comes into room

1198
00:59:07,080 --> 00:59:10,960
Speaker 3: in a walker a one, and Hilarius comes in like

1199
00:59:10,960 --> 00:59:12,920
Speaker 3: I heard there's a party. This baby rolled up in

1200
00:59:12,960 --> 00:59:16,360
Speaker 3: a room like a g like, hey, it was Larry

1201
00:59:17,560 --> 00:59:17,840
Speaker 3: in here.

1202
00:59:17,960 --> 00:59:20,240
Speaker 2: She called me. She texted me, said that she comes down.

1203
00:59:22,880 --> 00:59:25,520
Speaker 3: Yeah, and then just what it could not get any

1204
00:59:25,520 --> 00:59:30,680
Speaker 3: more delicious? Uh, frantic another She actually seemed young, younger

1205
00:59:30,680 --> 00:59:32,000
Speaker 3: than middle age, but I would say she looked like

1206
00:59:32,040 --> 00:59:34,440
Speaker 3: in her thirties. But I'm guessing she's probably similar age

1207
00:59:34,480 --> 00:59:39,240
Speaker 3: to her husband. Frantic woman runs in slights Asian woman

1208
00:59:39,320 --> 00:59:41,760
Speaker 3: runs in If you look carefully, Mandy, her pants are

1209
00:59:41,800 --> 00:59:44,040
Speaker 3: slightly down. Clearly was on the toilet.

1210
00:59:44,160 --> 00:59:47,320
Speaker 2: Okay, I didn't analyze it, Okay, I thought I analyzed

1211
00:59:47,360 --> 00:59:48,680
Speaker 2: every aspect of that video.

1212
00:59:49,520 --> 00:59:52,240
Speaker 3: I know that I know that run because that is

1213
00:59:52,280 --> 00:59:54,160
Speaker 3: the I have been when I was a preschool teacher.

1214
00:59:54,480 --> 00:59:56,120
Speaker 3: I have been there where I'm like, I just need

1215
00:59:56,240 --> 00:59:58,600
Speaker 3: one minute to pete, just one minute, and then you

1216
00:59:58,680 --> 01:00:01,280
Speaker 3: hear something crashed. Know there's another teacher in the room

1217
01:00:01,320 --> 01:00:04,080
Speaker 3: with the kids. But one teacher cannot possibly watch all

1218
01:00:04,120 --> 01:00:05,560
Speaker 3: of them, you know, so you try to stand in

1219
01:00:05,560 --> 01:00:06,960
Speaker 3: the middle. You're like, girl, I gotta go pee, Just

1220
01:00:06,960 --> 01:00:11,320
Speaker 3: give me a minute. She runs in pants lightly and

1221
01:00:11,600 --> 01:00:14,560
Speaker 3: skids into the room and proceeds to drag both baby

1222
01:00:14,600 --> 01:00:16,360
Speaker 3: and the walker like the two year old and the walker.

1223
01:00:16,360 --> 01:00:19,040
Speaker 3: Baby out big like two year old. Baby is literally

1224
01:00:19,040 --> 01:00:23,440
Speaker 3: like under the walker at some point, just being and

1225
01:00:23,600 --> 01:00:27,680
Speaker 3: never what does the father turn around.

1226
01:00:26,640 --> 01:00:29,400
Speaker 2: Because you know why because he definitely had boxed her

1227
01:00:29,400 --> 01:00:33,080
Speaker 2: shorts on and no pants, because he's every person who

1228
01:00:33,080 --> 01:00:35,600
Speaker 2: works from home and has an interview and puts on

1229
01:00:35,680 --> 01:00:37,960
Speaker 2: a business like to a suit and tie and has

1230
01:00:38,080 --> 01:00:40,800
Speaker 2: no pants on, zero pants. That's why he didn't get up.

1231
01:00:41,400 --> 01:00:45,520
Speaker 3: He literally skids and then the part that just put

1232
01:00:45,560 --> 01:00:47,760
Speaker 3: the chair on top of everything is drags the babies

1233
01:00:47,760 --> 01:00:50,880
Speaker 3: out and then she reaches a desperate arm out closes

1234
01:00:50,920 --> 01:00:52,560
Speaker 3: the door as if like baby, they didn't see me.

1235
01:00:52,800 --> 01:00:56,800
Speaker 3: It was literally everything. It couldn't They could not have

1236
01:00:56,880 --> 01:00:59,640
Speaker 3: directed this better. Like I said, is this is this real?

1237
01:00:59,720 --> 01:01:03,280
Speaker 3: I thought was a fake video at first.

1238
01:01:02,800 --> 01:01:05,040
Speaker 2: But it brought the It brought you know, once in

1239
01:01:05,080 --> 01:01:08,040
Speaker 2: a while, videos bring the world together, and this I

1240
01:01:08,080 --> 01:01:10,200
Speaker 2: feel like just made us all forget about our troubles

1241
01:01:10,200 --> 01:01:12,120
Speaker 2: for like the five minutes that we watched this video

1242
01:01:12,240 --> 01:01:15,280
Speaker 2: and oh man, oh if you I've.

1243
01:01:15,160 --> 01:01:19,120
Speaker 3: Not seen honestly, you need to just google BBC Kids

1244
01:01:19,240 --> 01:01:22,160
Speaker 3: or just it's it's everything, It's everything.

1245
01:01:22,320 --> 01:01:24,479
Speaker 2: I wouldn't be Mandy if I didn't sprinkle some real

1246
01:01:24,520 --> 01:01:26,920
Speaker 2: talk on this though, because there was some you know,

1247
01:01:26,960 --> 01:01:29,240
Speaker 2: what's funny is people's reaction to the video. There's been

1248
01:01:29,320 --> 01:01:31,120
Speaker 2: there's been some stuff written about this. But I could

1249
01:01:31,120 --> 01:01:33,919
Speaker 2: tell it was a problem even before because as soon

1250
01:01:33,960 --> 01:01:36,360
Speaker 2: as so this group text I was talking about earlier,

1251
01:01:36,440 --> 01:01:38,760
Speaker 2: I shared this is how the whole group texting kicked off.

1252
01:01:38,840 --> 01:01:41,880
Speaker 2: Last week. I shared this video and then we couldn't agree.

1253
01:01:41,920 --> 01:01:43,840
Speaker 2: Is that the nanny or the mom? I My first

1254
01:01:43,840 --> 01:01:46,240
Speaker 2: thought was, mom, Okay, it looked like a mother. They

1255
01:01:46,480 --> 01:01:48,960
Speaker 2: looked like the babies or whatever. But then someone's like

1256
01:01:49,000 --> 01:01:51,040
Speaker 2: I heard on the news she was the nanny. And

1257
01:01:51,080 --> 01:01:52,960
Speaker 2: then when I got when I got to my office,

1258
01:01:53,000 --> 01:01:55,560
Speaker 2: I showed it to my two my two bosses, the

1259
01:01:55,560 --> 01:01:58,120
Speaker 2: co founders of Magnifi. One of them was like, oh,

1260
01:01:58,200 --> 01:02:01,440
Speaker 2: look the Asian nanny or no, they Asian housekeeper. And

1261
01:02:01,480 --> 01:02:04,160
Speaker 2: I was like, what, what is this housekeeper thing. So

1262
01:02:04,240 --> 01:02:06,720
Speaker 2: apparently I and I don't want to sound stupid, but

1263
01:02:06,800 --> 01:02:11,080
Speaker 2: I didn't realize that there's all these stereotypes on Asian women.

1264
01:02:11,560 --> 01:02:13,760
Speaker 2: My one of my best friends had to school me

1265
01:02:13,800 --> 01:02:15,960
Speaker 2: on it. She's the Vietnamese Chinese, and she was like, listen,

1266
01:02:16,600 --> 01:02:19,400
Speaker 2: people always think I'm the help sometimes, like apparently there's

1267
01:02:19,440 --> 01:02:23,320
Speaker 2: this there's a stereotype that Asian women are like subservient,

1268
01:02:24,080 --> 01:02:27,160
Speaker 2: docile there. You know that for sure.

1269
01:02:27,320 --> 01:02:29,320
Speaker 3: I've definitely heard that, but I didn't know that it

1270
01:02:29,360 --> 01:02:31,840
Speaker 3: was like that equated to the help.

1271
01:02:32,160 --> 01:02:34,440
Speaker 2: So this was like a classic. So this was just

1272
01:02:34,480 --> 01:02:36,160
Speaker 2: like a you know, and and if there was a

1273
01:02:36,200 --> 01:02:39,000
Speaker 2: test for humanity and whether we've gotten over that stereotype,

1274
01:02:39,000 --> 01:02:42,120
Speaker 2: we failed because definitely people were assuming that she was

1275
01:02:42,120 --> 01:02:45,880
Speaker 2: the nanny. And I even once I heard someone was like, oh,

1276
01:02:45,920 --> 01:02:47,840
Speaker 2: the news said it was the nanny. I was like, oh, okay,

1277
01:02:47,800 --> 01:02:49,600
Speaker 2: I guess she was reading it running in kind of

1278
01:02:49,600 --> 01:02:52,640
Speaker 2: like her life her job dependent on it. And I

1279
01:02:52,680 --> 01:02:55,520
Speaker 2: was like changing my own like instinct based on the news.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, when I saw her, that was the run. It

1281
01:02:58,560 --> 01:03:01,120
Speaker 3: to me, that was a I don't know, like because

1282
01:03:01,200 --> 01:03:05,200
Speaker 3: usually like like you know, healthcare professionals would be more

1283
01:03:05,360 --> 01:03:08,080
Speaker 3: like professional Basically that was like the running of a

1284
01:03:08,120 --> 01:03:10,040
Speaker 3: frantic mom, like, yo, I was just trying to pee

1285
01:03:10,120 --> 01:03:15,440
Speaker 3: these daggond kids hair, you know, just because it was like,

1286
01:03:16,160 --> 01:03:18,439
Speaker 3: I don't know, I didn't think like I said, oh man,

1287
01:03:18,600 --> 01:03:20,080
Speaker 3: I know when he got off. You know, you can't

1288
01:03:20,080 --> 01:03:22,760
Speaker 3: see the hilarity in it when it was happening, but

1289
01:03:22,880 --> 01:03:24,760
Speaker 3: I know when he got off, it was like, oh

1290
01:03:24,840 --> 01:03:27,720
Speaker 3: my god. I just asked, always just peek the kids

1291
01:03:27,760 --> 01:03:28,200
Speaker 3: were right.

1292
01:03:29,720 --> 01:03:31,520
Speaker 2: He tweeted, like, is this the kind of thing that

1293
01:03:31,560 --> 01:03:36,080
Speaker 2: goes viral? Yes? Yes, sir, sweet sir, sweet naives. Sir,

1294
01:03:36,120 --> 01:03:38,080
Speaker 2: you have no idea how famous your children will be

1295
01:03:38,120 --> 01:03:40,320
Speaker 2: for the rest of them life. Like, I'm jealous because

1296
01:03:40,320 --> 01:03:41,880
Speaker 2: they're gonna have this video to watch the rest of

1297
01:03:41,880 --> 01:03:45,440
Speaker 2: They're going to play us at their wedding, every graduation, their.

1298
01:03:45,360 --> 01:03:49,800
Speaker 3: Funeral, this video, every single one of them. It is

1299
01:03:50,640 --> 01:03:52,800
Speaker 3: for life. Like. It was so cute because they interviewed,

1300
01:03:52,840 --> 01:03:55,200
Speaker 3: like I said, they interviewed the guy, the BBC guys.

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01:03:55,240 --> 01:03:58,120
Speaker 2: Mom, but where I need to watch this?

1302
01:03:58,880 --> 01:04:00,440
Speaker 3: No, no, I think it was just like was it

1303
01:04:00,480 --> 01:04:03,040
Speaker 3: was a written interview. I didn't see the video, but

1304
01:04:03,080 --> 01:04:04,959
Speaker 3: they were they were asking her, like, you know, because

1305
01:04:04,960 --> 01:04:07,760
Speaker 3: that's how I knew. She said, you know, it's so cute,

1306
01:04:07,760 --> 01:04:11,160
Speaker 3: but I'm not surprised that she entered through because that's

1307
01:04:11,200 --> 01:04:14,120
Speaker 3: where we skyped because they live in Korea, the the

1308
01:04:14,960 --> 01:04:18,560
Speaker 3: gentleman and his wife living and so they're used to skyping.

1309
01:04:18,600 --> 01:04:20,640
Speaker 3: So she said she likely heard voices and was like,

1310
01:04:20,760 --> 01:04:23,560
Speaker 3: you know, mommy's in the bathroom. I hear voices, and

1311
01:04:23,920 --> 01:04:27,360
Speaker 3: you know, then this must be grandma and grandpa because

1312
01:04:27,400 --> 01:04:28,760
Speaker 3: this is who this is where we see them.

1313
01:04:30,240 --> 01:04:32,680
Speaker 2: Okay, that's funny, man. The media sure will go find

1314
01:04:32,760 --> 01:04:34,280
Speaker 2: some parents real quick. Oh you're not going to answer

1315
01:04:34,360 --> 01:04:35,919
Speaker 2: my phone call. Well, I'm gonna go find your mother.

1316
01:04:36,400 --> 01:04:40,680
Speaker 2: That's what I mean exactly. You're extra Oh man.

1317
01:04:41,680 --> 01:04:44,120
Speaker 3: It was a nice, lighthearted way to end the NBA.

1318
01:04:44,360 --> 01:04:46,920
Speaker 2: It made us laugh, It made us think critically about

1319
01:04:46,920 --> 01:04:51,120
Speaker 2: her own, you know, stereotypes. It was the perfect, the

1320
01:04:51,160 --> 01:04:54,800
Speaker 2: perfect viral moment. I hope they get on Llen and

1321
01:04:54,800 --> 01:04:56,880
Speaker 2: get their own reality TV show. Sure it will happen

1322
01:04:57,040 --> 01:04:57,880
Speaker 2: the president one day.

1323
01:04:57,920 --> 01:05:01,040
Speaker 3: Why not. I'm sure they they had been in America,

1324
01:05:01,080 --> 01:05:02,920
Speaker 3: they would have been on already. But they're like, we're

1325
01:05:02,960 --> 01:05:04,520
Speaker 3: in a career, we're not flying over there for now.

1326
01:05:04,600 --> 01:05:08,120
Speaker 2: We never know that was a good way. So it's

1327
01:05:08,120 --> 01:05:11,560
Speaker 2: been nice knowing you. I guess, sorry, yeah, so being

1328
01:05:11,560 --> 01:05:15,200
Speaker 2: buried in an apvalanche tomorrow. But you know, if you

1329
01:05:15,240 --> 01:05:16,640
Speaker 2: don't go to somehow.

1330
01:05:17,200 --> 01:05:19,640
Speaker 3: Right just and you happen to make it through, you know.

1331
01:05:19,720 --> 01:05:21,360
Speaker 3: I guess we'll talk to you guys next week.

1332
01:05:21,680 --> 01:05:23,360
Speaker 2: I mean, we have enough banana muffins, so if you

1333
01:05:23,360 --> 01:05:25,720
Speaker 2: guys run out of food, we got banana muffins. We

1334
01:05:25,760 --> 01:05:27,440
Speaker 2: have tostitos, all the essentials.

1335
01:05:28,280 --> 01:05:33,920
Speaker 3: Ooh over frozen pizza and some pop pies. Oh, I

1336
01:05:33,960 --> 01:05:34,880
Speaker 3: got chicken pot pies.

1337
01:05:34,880 --> 01:05:39,120
Speaker 2: I said, oh yeah, that sounds freaking delicious. Why haven't

1338
01:05:39,120 --> 01:05:41,600
Speaker 2: I got pop pie in like seventeen years?

1339
01:05:41,960 --> 01:05:44,560
Speaker 3: I know. Meanwhile, I was just shopping and just being

1340
01:05:44,960 --> 01:05:45,680
Speaker 3: Marie calendar.

1341
01:05:46,920 --> 01:05:50,280
Speaker 2: Yes that is my well not is that was my jam.

1342
01:05:50,320 --> 01:05:52,640
Speaker 2: That was like we've had that for dinner for my

1343
01:05:52,800 --> 01:05:55,680
Speaker 2: entire childhood. I feel like stofers my calendar.

1344
01:05:56,280 --> 01:05:57,720
Speaker 3: I have to try I have never tried it. And

1345
01:05:57,760 --> 01:05:59,640
Speaker 3: I said, even though I'm on this whole I'm trying

1346
01:05:59,680 --> 01:06:01,200
Speaker 3: to eat how here, I was like, I mean, don't.

1347
01:06:01,040 --> 01:06:02,000
Speaker 2: Read the nutrition label.

1348
01:06:02,000 --> 01:06:02,920
Speaker 3: Then I know.

1349
01:06:05,480 --> 01:06:07,280
Speaker 2: You don't want to know what kind of sodium.

1350
01:06:06,880 --> 01:06:10,200
Speaker 3: Is in that. I'm gonna drink a lot of water

1351
01:06:10,240 --> 01:06:15,120
Speaker 3: with this. God for it, all right.

1352
01:06:15,280 --> 01:06:19,480
Speaker 2: God speed, good luck, all right, see you on the

1353
01:06:19,480 --> 01:06:19,960
Speaker 2: other side.

1354
01:06:19,960 --> 01:06:22,360
Speaker 3: I hope you're about buying Blas