Speaker 1: Can I just say, I don't think we've talked about
Speaker 1: the fact that it is Valentine's Day week and this
Speaker 1: should be kind of our Can I say the Super
Speaker 1: Game when I'm not.
Speaker 2: Talking about the Super.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's bread and butter.
Speaker 2: It's a huge week.
Speaker 1: Yes for the second podcast, Thank you so much for
Speaker 1: being here at Brick and Jeffrey in the morning. We
Speaker 1: get a brand new episode today about to start, but
Speaker 1: highlighting you are incredible listeners.
Speaker 3: Speaking of Valentine's Day, jeff said the other day on
Speaker 3: our show that the odds are not good for couples
Speaker 3: who get together on Valentine's Day get married. But oh
Speaker 3: Customs commented and said, my wife and I are breaking
Speaker 3: all the odds. We're going for our lucky thirteenth anniversary
Speaker 3: this Valentine.
Speaker 1: Yoh, that's so rad. But I love that they're listening
Speaker 1: to our show on there. Yeah, so, I mean how
Speaker 1: it's how it keeps you together because you're like, well,
Speaker 1: I don't want to do that, Okay, I don't want
Speaker 1: to do the dating thing, and so well your marriage happy. Yeah,
Speaker 1: look at that love is alive, and maybe it's alive
Speaker 1: in this Second Date podcast that starts right now Brooke
Speaker 1: and Jeffrey in the morning. Second date updates.
Speaker 2: Can you dream your perfect date into reality?
Speaker 4: Oh?
Speaker 1: Well, you can try.
Speaker 2: I know it sounds a little different, but we've got
Speaker 2: one lady on the phone who says she did just that,
Speaker 2: really dreamed it, then did it?
Speaker 1: Okay? Manifesting? Yeah, I was gonna come up with a
Speaker 1: nickname for it, but I don't know her first name.
Speaker 2: So you should dream of a nickname first, and then
Speaker 2: it can become a reality. And I don't know who
Speaker 2: or how or when or why, but it would suck
Speaker 2: if you dreamed up your perfect date and then now
Speaker 2: they're not calling you back, unless unless Ali, did you
Speaker 2: dream that you were gonna have to talk to our
Speaker 2: show too on your love journey? Was that part of it?
Speaker 5: I did not dream that specifically.
Speaker 1: No, Well, usually a nightmares. Yeah. Do you often make
Speaker 1: dreams reality? Or is this a one off?
Speaker 5: I'm trying to make it more of a thing.
Speaker 2: Okay, all right, Okay, we're going to move on from
Speaker 2: all of our hurt feelings about what you just said earlier,
Speaker 2: and we're going to go ahead. Let's start at the beginning,
Speaker 2: take us back to how it all began.
Speaker 4: Yeah, So, I actually went to. It was like a
Speaker 4: self improvement.
Speaker 5: Seminar I guess you would call it.
Speaker 6: It was like a weekend long event.
Speaker 4: There were several speakers, like on the vational speaker career coaches.
Speaker 1: So you're on a journey to improve yourself and you're
Speaker 1: trying to take some steps to make it happen.
Speaker 5: Exactly.
Speaker 2: Yes, interesting, Okay.
Speaker 5: There's one speaker in particular. And the whole thing that we're.
Speaker 4: Trying to say is the reason you're not giving what
Speaker 4: you want in life is because you're not asking the
Speaker 4: universe for the thing you want.
Speaker 2: Okay, Uh, I could see that. Okay, I feel like
Speaker 2: I asked my mom to not call me anymore, and
Speaker 2: yet I feel like, if anything, I just get more
Speaker 2: phone calls.
Speaker 5: Well, did you ask your mom not to call you?
Speaker 5: Or did you ask the universe?
Speaker 1: Sum is his universe?
Speaker 6: No?
Speaker 1: No, But I see, Okay, I see your point that
Speaker 1: you're making a mistake.
Speaker 2: I got you, all right, So you have to ask
Speaker 2: the universe for what you want.
Speaker 1: So what did you ask the universe for?
Speaker 4: Yeah? The message resonated with me, and so I went
Speaker 4: home and I would ask the universe to bring me
Speaker 4: a boyfriend.
Speaker 1: Okay, wow, send me an angel.
Speaker 7: The universe like a genie wish where you can't wish
Speaker 7: love upon yourself, you know how, that's part of the gene.
Speaker 1: She didn't ask for love, she just asked for a
Speaker 1: man boyfriend.
Speaker 5: It's not just asking and receiving.
Speaker 4: You have to put your own work into it. Like
Speaker 4: I'm also, I'm an artist as well. And what I
Speaker 4: started doing was I took out my sketch books and
Speaker 4: I started drawing men, to the point where I was
Speaker 4: drawing the same man over and over again.
Speaker 1: You do not tell me you met this man in
Speaker 1: real life, the one you were drawing.
Speaker 4: Well, I am on the app, but like, none of
Speaker 4: them look like this guy until one day.
Speaker 2: No, you don't have the eight pack abs that I sketched.
Speaker 1: Do you sketch? Do you sketch height? In bank accounts too?
Speaker 4: There was a lot of things that matched, like yeah, yeah, yes,
Speaker 4: dark hair he had dark hair was like a similar haircut.
Speaker 4: Even the shape of the glasses. I drew glasses on
Speaker 4: him and it was he wore the same shape.
Speaker 1: WHOA, oh my god, so obviously you swiped right on him.
Speaker 4: Yes, and it's exactly like the seminar said you put
Speaker 4: it out there, and you know, I put it out there.
Speaker 4: I said it vocally, and I drew and I drew
Speaker 4: until Yes, it's.
Speaker 2: Nice to know that if you're really really obsessed with someone,
Speaker 2: eventually they have to come to me real good.
Speaker 1: I don't know, I mean, what was a connection, like
Speaker 1: when you started talking really really good.
Speaker 4: Sometimes you'll swipe on people and like the conversation fizzles off.
Speaker 4: The this to a good conversation right away?
Speaker 1: Oh my god? Nice?
Speaker 2: Is this a date?
Speaker 6: Or so?
Speaker 4: What happened was we exchanged numbers and the same day
Speaker 4: we went from messaging to texting to calling. I find
Speaker 4: out he has a great job, he's in the tech industry.
Speaker 4: He tells me about his family. Then we switched to FaceTime.
Speaker 2: Okay, oh wow, face time.
Speaker 8: That could be awk yeah, sure, but it's a safe,
Speaker 8: good way to like kind of like I can get
Speaker 8: a vibe, I can know what he sounds, like, his mannerisms,
Speaker 8: and like this was probably around like six forty five
Speaker 8: when we.
Speaker 2: Were facing Sorry, how many seconds six and how many seconds?
Speaker 1: Did you ever meet in person? Or is this your date?
Speaker 5: We plan to meet in person?
Speaker 4: Like we talked during FaceTime we were eating our dinner together.
Speaker 5: It was like we were at a restaurant together.
Speaker 2: Okay, gotcha. So earlier when you said that the banter
Speaker 2: between you was good, that was never happening in person.
Speaker 2: This is all over the phone and video chat.
Speaker 6: Yeah.
Speaker 4: But you know when you're on FaceTime with some and
Speaker 4: you can get like a really good idea, like.
Speaker 2: That's okay, you don't have to make excuses for your
Speaker 2: dream guy. I understand you can use filters in cool backgrounds.
Speaker 2: That's good.
Speaker 6: Huh.
Speaker 4: And I wanted to go on an in person gate
Speaker 4: with how quickly we moved through the channel getting to FaceTime.
Speaker 1: But it hasn't. Wow, you're going really really quickly through
Speaker 1: it interesting.
Speaker 2: Alexis is this sounding like skeptical to you? Or is
Speaker 2: it going really fast?
Speaker 6: Like?
Speaker 3: What's your showing the sketchbook over FaceTime?
Speaker 1: Did you? Because that would be too much question the
Speaker 1: pre manifesting or was the picture of him framed in
Speaker 1: the background.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't understand how that would be a problem,
Speaker 2: but I am curious how she answers.
Speaker 1: Jeff would be flatter.
Speaker 4: You know, I told him that I sketch and that
Speaker 4: I do portraits, But okay, I need directly say I
Speaker 4: drew him.
Speaker 3: Okay, because then that would be a little much.
Speaker 2: But I had a feeling that I was going to
Speaker 2: meet somebody like you in the near future.
Speaker 1: I mean, it is odd that a guy would be
Speaker 1: that invested to do all of this. The phone calls
Speaker 1: in the FaceTime and then just drop off afterwards.
Speaker 2: It doesn't seem like that much to do a FaceTime.
Speaker 1: Really, I feel like it is sat on there and
Speaker 1: ate dinner with her on the phone.
Speaker 4: Why I haven't heard anything. I texted him, I sent
Speaker 4: him messages on Instagram.
Speaker 1: Totally dropped off since the face. You ask me my question,
Speaker 1: jeff if it was too much?
Speaker 2: All right, So I don't know if you already told
Speaker 2: us this. But what's this guy's name?
Speaker 6: Chris?
Speaker 2: Chris perfect universe Chris, not Christopher. No, we'll stick with Chris,
Speaker 2: god of the universe when we come back and call
Speaker 2: him and try and get you a second date with
Speaker 2: your perfect man that you manifested for yourself out thin air.
Speaker 2: It's amazing. It's coming up right after this.
Speaker 1: Brook and Jeffrey in the morning, second date updates.
Speaker 2: Dreams can truly become reality.
Speaker 1: I'm inspirational.
Speaker 2: I know that for two reasons. The first is because
Speaker 2: Brooke got to work with me in her career. Is
Speaker 2: I think she's mentioned it on her social media many,
Speaker 2: many times, how badly she wanted to work directly with me,
Speaker 2: and now her dream has come true.
Speaker 1: You may be looking at the wrong social media handles.
Speaker 2: Brook is embarrassed that the truth is coming out and
Speaker 2: my face is all over her dream board at her desk.
Speaker 2: But the second way that I know dreams can become
Speaker 2: reality is our listener. Ali said that she went to
Speaker 2: a self improvement seminar where she was told she can
Speaker 2: ask the universe for anything, and she went home and
Speaker 2: asked for a boyfriend, then started drawing the same guy
Speaker 2: over and over again in her sketch pad ended up
Speaker 2: matching with him on the dating apps. Unfortunately, now the
Speaker 2: guy is not calling her.
Speaker 1: Back good and they haven't even met in person yet.
Speaker 2: Yes, that is important to note. They never went on
Speaker 2: an actual date. It was just a FaceTime meetup where
Speaker 2: he went to the fridge and ate a frozen burrito
Speaker 2: on camera, which Brook thought was truly romantic, next level
Speaker 2: for a guy.
Speaker 1: I'm just saying, why put in the time to FaceTime
Speaker 1: if you want a plan on meeting.
Speaker 4: I felt like if we weren't vibing, he would have
Speaker 4: ended the call much sooner.
Speaker 1: I mean, sound really chill about it. The thing I
Speaker 1: worried about is that you put so much pressure on him,
Speaker 1: on yourself with this whole dream part.
Speaker 5: I just don't know what I'm going to do.
Speaker 1: You know.
Speaker 5: It's like I got the advice. It really resonated, and
Speaker 5: I spent hours drawing him, and I really got it perfect.
Speaker 5: So I don't know what I'm going to do if
Speaker 5: this doesn't work out.
Speaker 1: There's always another guy to draw, don't worry, Ali, Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: better guy, Better guy dive a twenty twenty vision.
Speaker 2: Even you know, I know Brooke draws photos of me
Speaker 2: all the time and hangs them around her station. She does.
Speaker 2: It's okay, I know I'm bringing the truth out in
Speaker 2: this segment, and it's very embarrassing for me.
Speaker 1: Yes, I'm very humiliated.
Speaker 2: Thank you for having Okay so here, I'm gonna dial
Speaker 2: this guy Chris. Hopefully he picks up and we can
Speaker 2: get YouTube back together. I meane, for the first time
Speaker 2: face to face in real life.
Speaker 5: So I am going to ask the universe to help
Speaker 5: you help him.
Speaker 1: The universe isn't too busy, yes, time, but we do
Speaker 1: need all the help.
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, So we'll let the universe say, and I'm
Speaker 2: gonna start dialing the number right now here we go. Hello, Hey,
Speaker 2: we're looking to speak with Chris, uh speaking. Hey, this
Speaker 2: is a radio show called Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning.
Speaker 1: Hey, Chris, I'm good guys.
Speaker 6: I really appreciate it.
Speaker 1: We're not hang out.
Speaker 2: Sorry, we don't mean to like barge into your life
Speaker 2: right now, Chris, but we do have some questions we'd
Speaker 2: like to ask you, and I promise you it won't
Speaker 2: take a lot of time.
Speaker 6: All right, I have a three thirty, so let's make
Speaker 6: this quick.
Speaker 2: Yeah okay, yeah, no, well, just we'll go through as
Speaker 2: quickly as we can. We're doing something called a second
Speaker 2: Date update, trying to help out one of our listeners
Speaker 2: that you matched with on a dating app recently, a
Speaker 2: girl named Ali.
Speaker 6: Oh, oh my god.
Speaker 1: He never ends? Is that what you just said? Okay,
Speaker 1: what do you mean?
Speaker 2: It never ends?
Speaker 6: She just keeps texting me. All right. I've tried to
Speaker 6: just put this one to bed.
Speaker 1: And furtively, not literally.
Speaker 6: Okay, absolutely figuratively.
Speaker 9: She just keeps texting me and she asks to hang out,
Speaker 9: and I actually thinks that she thinks that I'm somebody else.
Speaker 1: What what do you mean?
Speaker 9: Well, I don't know. I don't know what she told you.
Speaker 9: But we started texting on the apps and it was going.
Speaker 9: It was all fine and dandy.
Speaker 6: It was great.
Speaker 9: But then she messages me and she tells me that
Speaker 9: I've been dreaming of meeting you. First, I'm like, all right,
Speaker 9: she might be an artist. She's kind of, you know,
Speaker 9: into that stuff.
Speaker 1: And then it's romantic. I mean, it can probably feel
Speaker 1: like a lot, but.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think I think a lot of people express
Speaker 2: excitement in different ways. That was probably her way of
Speaker 2: just saying I'm so glad that I matched with you.
Speaker 6: Yeah.
Speaker 2: Right.
Speaker 6: It was sweet until it wasn't. And she sends me
Speaker 6: this sketch of a guy.
Speaker 2: Okay, we didn't know she said it.
Speaker 6: To sketch this guy and it is not me, but
Speaker 6: it's someone that I do know.
Speaker 1: What do you mean?
Speaker 9: You know in my profile picture on my app, my
Speaker 9: uncle is.
Speaker 6: In two of them.
Speaker 1: Wait, your uncle is in the pictures of your profile.
Speaker 9: And it is the spitting image of this guy that
Speaker 9: she sketched.
Speaker 1: She's drawing your uncle. Wow, that was.
Speaker 5: A picture of you. That was a picture of you.
Speaker 1: Oh god, Okay the photo on his profile or.
Speaker 2: It cats out of the bag at this point, because
Speaker 2: I need to tell you, Chris Ali has actually been
Speaker 2: listening to this call the entire time. Yeah, to wait
Speaker 2: a little bit longer before she jumped in, but I
Speaker 2: guess the universe told her to go for it.
Speaker 9: Listen, Ellie, can I just talk to you straight here?
Speaker 9: My uncle is on my couch right now.
Speaker 6: He's going through a divorce.
Speaker 9: So I panicked, and I asked him to fill in
Speaker 9: for me when you wanted to FaceTime. So I asked
Speaker 9: him to get on the call and pretend to be
Speaker 9: me and my uncle. He was happy to do it, like, yeah,
Speaker 9: I have red hair, freckles, I am a ginger.
Speaker 6: Like kissed by fire.
Speaker 1: No, no, it just doesn't master picture.
Speaker 2: Okay, No, not at all.
Speaker 5: Okay, Okay, so you lied, You lied to me, But
Speaker 5: I didn't necessarily lie to you.
Speaker 9: You just put so much pressure on it. You wanted
Speaker 9: a guy that looked like that, So I figured to
Speaker 9: step out of the way and let my.
Speaker 6: Uncle talk to you.
Speaker 5: Okay, So how old is he?
Speaker 2: She's in his forties, Okay, so I mean you had
Speaker 2: chemistry with him, right, Yeah?
Speaker 1: Why don't you want a divorced guy sleeping on his nephews?
Speaker 1: God's true.
Speaker 9: Sorry, have I have no idea how she got confused
Speaker 9: by it. I have six pictures up there, and even
Speaker 9: two of them, and all of them two.
Speaker 8: It's the first too.
Speaker 5: And when I saw the first picture and I saw,
Speaker 5: I'm like, there he is. That's the guy I drew.
Speaker 5: I didn't need to look at the rest of the pictures.
Speaker 9: Okay, people see what they're looking for, and you obviously
Speaker 9: were looking for him, so all right.
Speaker 5: So this whole thing was set up. However it happened,
Speaker 5: and one thing led to another, and I did talk
Speaker 5: to the guy that was in my photo.
Speaker 6: It was just your uncle.
Speaker 5: So what's his deal?
Speaker 1: What do you mean?
Speaker 2: Is he available?
Speaker 1: You don't feel lied to or deceived.
Speaker 5: I feel lied to by Chris. But if his uncle
Speaker 5: was the man that I'm looking.
Speaker 2: For, then yeah, yeah, Sometimes the universe has a roundabout
Speaker 2: way of getting to the destination that you want to
Speaker 2: be at. So, Chris, I think what Ali is trying
Speaker 2: to ask you is, what exactly is the stitch with
Speaker 2: your uncle right now? Is he ready to swing vines
Speaker 2: to the next lady.
Speaker 1: I swing vines. Is he ready to date again?
Speaker 2: What Brook said?
Speaker 6: My uncle? He hasn't shaved in about a week.
Speaker 2: Okay, he's going through it right now.
Speaker 9: Listen if you want to, if you have at it, listen.
Speaker 2: Talk about your family. Don't don't. Don't bring your uncle
Speaker 2: onto this call.
Speaker 5: I'll tell you this. They sound exactly the same.
Speaker 1: Interesting, I'll tell you.
Speaker 6: This, Allie.
Speaker 9: After you guys got off the FaceTime, he was ready
Speaker 9: to go.
Speaker 6: He said, I.
Speaker 9: Would definitely get with that Roman.
Speaker 1: Is that the line you were hoping for, Allie?
Speaker 5: You know, I was hoping the universe would give me
Speaker 5: something similar to that.
Speaker 2: Yes, I would get with that forever that he's had it, Yeah,
Speaker 2: speaking the same language.
Speaker 1: I can't believe everyone's on the same page.
Speaker 9: I mean, he's down for it, but he's he's gonna
Speaker 9: need a few more months before he can actually.
Speaker 6: Uh legally go out with it. But what is the
Speaker 6: marriage these days?
Speaker 2: Right?
Speaker 5: He could date while he's while it's being processed. There's
Speaker 5: no rule against that.
Speaker 1: Oh okay, I don't think they care about MESSI jose.
Speaker 2: His whole thing, so I guess so normally we'd offer
Speaker 2: to send Ali and Chris on a date.
Speaker 1: But people will send him on a date with a
Speaker 1: legally married man.
Speaker 2: Come on, they're separating on his way out of the marriage.
Speaker 9: Yeah, they're separated, but he's sleeping on my couch.
Speaker 6: I'm serious.
Speaker 1: Okay, Well you may wake up one morning and Ali
Speaker 1: and your uncle.
Speaker 3: Will be all that.
Speaker 1: Wow.
Speaker 5: I hope the universe managed something more comfortable than a couch.
Speaker 2: I can't believe I'm asking this, But Ali, do you
Speaker 2: want to go out with Chris's uncle when the tie
Speaker 2: is right and will pay for it?
Speaker 5: Can I get his name? What is your uncle's name?
Speaker 6: It's Uncle Phil.
Speaker 2: Fresh Prince, and so Chris as your uncle's proxy. Will
Speaker 2: you say yes? On his behalf?
Speaker 1: I do believe this is a legally binding agreement.
Speaker 2: Do you think he'd like to go out with Ali?
Speaker 1: Yeah, he would, just a classy family.
Speaker 2: On a couch.
Speaker 5: And Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 2: How come no one's talking about Uncle Phil being asleep
Speaker 2: on the couch when we call, because it's almost noon
Speaker 2: when we tape.
Speaker 7: That's wingman, he got a date while he was asleep.
Speaker 1: That's crazy shot that pills asleep on the No.
Speaker 3: The circumstance I'm guessing Phil's wife sooner the ex wife
Speaker 3: would be kind of happy.
Speaker 1: He's got a date going on.
Speaker 2: He's going to be out of her hair.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it doesn't sound like it's gonna be jealous.
Speaker 2: No, And Ali didn't seem bothered by it really at all.
Speaker 1: I couldn't believe it, like you've been lying and deceit.
Speaker 1: You talk to a man that you thought was someone
Speaker 1: else and you're like, well, it.
Speaker 7: Goes to show she trusts the universe what he does.
Speaker 7: I don't care the situation he's in, that's my man.
Speaker 1: I mean, somebody ever said the universe was trustworthy?
Speaker 2: And do you really want to put your eggs in
Speaker 2: the basket of a twice divorce uncle who's sleeping at
Speaker 2: noon on his nephew's couch during the weekday. I don't know,
Speaker 2: although he would say he would get with that. So
Speaker 2: that is pretty romantic.
Speaker 1: Third times a charm that saying comes from somewhere.
Speaker 2: Oh yes, maybe Ali is the medicine that Uncle Phil
Speaker 2: needs in order to get himself back on his feet.
Speaker 1: Why sure it's not working on himself. Yeah, A good point.
Speaker 2: And why are we talking so much about Uncle Phil?
Speaker 2: Now we're manifesting Phil and I'm drawing pictures of him
Speaker 2: in my head.
Speaker 1: Okay, that's strange.
Speaker 2: The universe works in strange ways, and so do we.
Speaker 2: If you reach out to the show, email us, we'll
Speaker 2: call that person who's not calling you back. Go find
Speaker 2: out all of our second days. They're up on podcasts
Speaker 2: wherever you get yours at Brook and Jeffrey