WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Universe Is Busy

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<v Speaker 1>Can I just say, I don't think we've talked about

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<v Speaker 1>the fact that it is Valentine's Day week and this

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<v Speaker 1>should be kind of our Can I say the Super

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<v Speaker 1>Game when I'm not.

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<v Speaker 2>Talking about the Super.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it's bread and butter.

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<v Speaker 2>It's a huge week.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes for the second podcast, Thank you so much for

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<v Speaker 1>being here at Brick and Jeffrey in the morning. We

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<v Speaker 1>get a brand new episode today about to start, but

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<v Speaker 1>highlighting you are incredible listeners.

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<v Speaker 3>Speaking of Valentine's Day, jeff said the other day on

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<v Speaker 3>our show that the odds are not good for couples

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<v Speaker 3>who get together on Valentine's Day get married. But oh

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<v Speaker 3>Customs commented and said, my wife and I are breaking

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<v Speaker 3>all the odds. We're going for our lucky thirteenth anniversary

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<v Speaker 3>this Valentine.

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<v Speaker 1>Yoh, that's so rad. But I love that they're listening

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<v Speaker 1>to our show on there. Yeah, so, I mean how

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<v Speaker 1>it's how it keeps you together because you're like, well,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want to do that, Okay, I don't want

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<v Speaker 1>to do the dating thing, and so well your marriage happy. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>look at that love is alive, and maybe it's alive

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<v Speaker 1>in this Second Date podcast that starts right now Brooke

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<v Speaker 1>and Jeffrey in the morning. Second date updates.

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<v Speaker 2>Can you dream your perfect date into reality?

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<v Speaker 4>Oh?

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<v Speaker 1>Well, you can try.

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<v Speaker 2>I know it sounds a little different, but we've got

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<v Speaker 2>one lady on the phone who says she did just that,

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<v Speaker 2>really dreamed it, then did it?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay? Manifesting? Yeah, I was gonna come up with a

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<v Speaker 1>nickname for it, but I don't know her first name.

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<v Speaker 2>So you should dream of a nickname first, and then

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<v Speaker 2>it can become a reality. And I don't know who

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<v Speaker 2>or how or when or why, but it would suck

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<v Speaker 2>if you dreamed up your perfect date and then now

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<v Speaker 2>they're not calling you back, unless unless Ali, did you

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<v Speaker 2>dream that you were gonna have to talk to our

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<v Speaker 2>show too on your love journey? Was that part of it?

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<v Speaker 5>I did not dream that specifically.

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<v Speaker 1>No, Well, usually a nightmares. Yeah. Do you often make

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<v Speaker 1>dreams reality? Or is this a one off?

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<v Speaker 5>I'm trying to make it more of a thing.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, all right, Okay, we're going to move on from

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<v Speaker 2>all of our hurt feelings about what you just said earlier,

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<v Speaker 2>and we're going to go ahead. Let's start at the beginning,

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<v Speaker 2>take us back to how it all began.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, So, I actually went to. It was like a

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<v Speaker 4>self improvement.

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<v Speaker 5>Seminar I guess you would call it.

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<v Speaker 6>It was like a weekend long event.

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<v Speaker 4>There were several speakers, like on the vational speaker career coaches.

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<v Speaker 1>So you're on a journey to improve yourself and you're

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<v Speaker 1>trying to take some steps to make it happen.

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<v Speaker 5>Exactly.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, interesting, Okay.

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<v Speaker 5>There's one speaker in particular. And the whole thing that we're.

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<v Speaker 4>Trying to say is the reason you're not giving what

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<v Speaker 4>you want in life is because you're not asking the

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<v Speaker 4>universe for the thing you want.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, Uh, I could see that. Okay, I feel like

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<v Speaker 2>I asked my mom to not call me anymore, and

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<v Speaker 2>yet I feel like, if anything, I just get more

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<v Speaker 2>phone calls.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, did you ask your mom not to call you?

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<v Speaker 5>Or did you ask the universe?

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<v Speaker 1>Sum is his universe?

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<v Speaker 6>No?

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<v Speaker 1>No, But I see, Okay, I see your point that

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<v Speaker 1>you're making a mistake.

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<v Speaker 2>I got you, all right, So you have to ask

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<v Speaker 2>the universe for what you want.

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<v Speaker 1>So what did you ask the universe for?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah? The message resonated with me, and so I went

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<v Speaker 4>home and I would ask the universe to bring me

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<v Speaker 4>a boyfriend.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, wow, send me an angel.

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<v Speaker 7>The universe like a genie wish where you can't wish

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<v Speaker 7>love upon yourself, you know how, that's part of the gene.

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<v Speaker 1>She didn't ask for love, she just asked for a

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<v Speaker 1>man boyfriend.

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<v Speaker 5>It's not just asking and receiving.

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<v Speaker 4>You have to put your own work into it. Like

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<v Speaker 4>I'm also, I'm an artist as well. And what I

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<v Speaker 4>started doing was I took out my sketch books and

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<v Speaker 4>I started drawing men, to the point where I was

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<v Speaker 4>drawing the same man over and over again.

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<v Speaker 1>You do not tell me you met this man in

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<v Speaker 1>real life, the one you were drawing.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, I am on the app, but like, none of

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<v Speaker 4>them look like this guy until one day.

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<v Speaker 2>No, you don't have the eight pack abs that I sketched.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you sketch? Do you sketch height? In bank accounts too?

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<v Speaker 4>There was a lot of things that matched, like yeah, yeah, yes,

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<v Speaker 4>dark hair he had dark hair was like a similar haircut.

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<v Speaker 4>Even the shape of the glasses. I drew glasses on

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<v Speaker 4>him and it was he wore the same shape.

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<v Speaker 1>WHOA, oh my god, so obviously you swiped right on him.

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, and it's exactly like the seminar said you put

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<v Speaker 4>it out there, and you know, I put it out there.

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<v Speaker 4>I said it vocally, and I drew and I drew

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<v Speaker 4>until Yes, it's.

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<v Speaker 2>Nice to know that if you're really really obsessed with someone,

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<v Speaker 2>eventually they have to come to me real good.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, I mean, what was a connection, like

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<v Speaker 1>when you started talking really really good.

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<v Speaker 4>Sometimes you'll swipe on people and like the conversation fizzles off.

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<v Speaker 4>The this to a good conversation right away?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god? Nice?

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<v Speaker 2>Is this a date?

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<v Speaker 6>Or so?

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<v Speaker 4>What happened was we exchanged numbers and the same day

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<v Speaker 4>we went from messaging to texting to calling. I find

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<v Speaker 4>out he has a great job, he's in the tech industry.

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<v Speaker 4>He tells me about his family. Then we switched to FaceTime.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, oh wow, face time.

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<v Speaker 8>That could be awk yeah, sure, but it's a safe,

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<v Speaker 8>good way to like kind of like I can get

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<v Speaker 8>a vibe, I can know what he sounds, like, his mannerisms,

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<v Speaker 8>and like this was probably around like six forty five

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<v Speaker 8>when we.

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<v Speaker 2>Were facing Sorry, how many seconds six and how many seconds?

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<v Speaker 1>Did you ever meet in person? Or is this your date?

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<v Speaker 5>We plan to meet in person?

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<v Speaker 4>Like we talked during FaceTime we were eating our dinner together.

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<v Speaker 5>It was like we were at a restaurant together.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, gotcha. So earlier when you said that the banter

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<v Speaker 2>between you was good, that was never happening in person.

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<v Speaker 2>This is all over the phone and video chat.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>But you know when you're on FaceTime with some and

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<v Speaker 4>you can get like a really good idea, like.

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<v Speaker 2>That's okay, you don't have to make excuses for your

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<v Speaker 2>dream guy. I understand you can use filters in cool backgrounds.

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<v Speaker 2>That's good.

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<v Speaker 6>Huh.

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<v Speaker 4>And I wanted to go on an in person gate

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<v Speaker 4>with how quickly we moved through the channel getting to FaceTime.

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<v Speaker 1>But it hasn't. Wow, you're going really really quickly through

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<v Speaker 1>it interesting.

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<v Speaker 2>Alexis is this sounding like skeptical to you? Or is

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<v Speaker 2>it going really fast?

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<v Speaker 6>Like?

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<v Speaker 3>What's your showing the sketchbook over FaceTime?

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<v Speaker 1>Did you? Because that would be too much question the

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<v Speaker 1>pre manifesting or was the picture of him framed in

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<v Speaker 1>the background.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I don't understand how that would be a problem,

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<v Speaker 2>but I am curious how she answers.

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<v Speaker 1>Jeff would be flatter.

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<v Speaker 4>You know, I told him that I sketch and that

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<v Speaker 4>I do portraits, But okay, I need directly say I

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<v Speaker 4>drew him.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, because then that would be a little much.

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<v Speaker 2>But I had a feeling that I was going to

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<v Speaker 2>meet somebody like you in the near future.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, it is odd that a guy would be

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<v Speaker 1>that invested to do all of this. The phone calls

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<v Speaker 1>in the FaceTime and then just drop off afterwards.

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<v Speaker 2>It doesn't seem like that much to do a FaceTime.

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<v Speaker 1>Really, I feel like it is sat on there and

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<v Speaker 1>ate dinner with her on the phone.

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<v Speaker 4>Why I haven't heard anything. I texted him, I sent

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<v Speaker 4>him messages on Instagram.

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<v Speaker 1>Totally dropped off since the face. You ask me my question,

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<v Speaker 1>jeff if it was too much?

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<v Speaker 2>All right, So I don't know if you already told

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<v Speaker 2>us this. But what's this guy's name?

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<v Speaker 6>Chris?

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<v Speaker 2>Chris perfect universe Chris, not Christopher. No, we'll stick with Chris,

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<v Speaker 2>god of the universe when we come back and call

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<v Speaker 2>him and try and get you a second date with

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<v Speaker 2>your perfect man that you manifested for yourself out thin air.

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<v Speaker 2>It's amazing. It's coming up right after this.

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<v Speaker 1>Brook and Jeffrey in the morning, second date updates.

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<v Speaker 2>Dreams can truly become reality.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm inspirational.

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<v Speaker 2>I know that for two reasons. The first is because

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<v Speaker 2>Brooke got to work with me in her career. Is

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<v Speaker 2>I think she's mentioned it on her social media many,

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<v Speaker 2>many times, how badly she wanted to work directly with me,

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<v Speaker 2>and now her dream has come true.

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<v Speaker 1>You may be looking at the wrong social media handles.

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<v Speaker 2>Brook is embarrassed that the truth is coming out and

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<v Speaker 2>my face is all over her dream board at her desk.

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<v Speaker 2>But the second way that I know dreams can become

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<v Speaker 2>reality is our listener. Ali said that she went to

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<v Speaker 2>a self improvement seminar where she was told she can

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<v Speaker 2>ask the universe for anything, and she went home and

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<v Speaker 2>asked for a boyfriend, then started drawing the same guy

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<v Speaker 2>over and over again in her sketch pad ended up

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<v Speaker 2>matching with him on the dating apps. Unfortunately, now the

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<v Speaker 2>guy is not calling her.

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<v Speaker 1>Back good and they haven't even met in person yet.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, that is important to note. They never went on

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<v Speaker 2>an actual date. It was just a FaceTime meetup where

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<v Speaker 2>he went to the fridge and ate a frozen burrito

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<v Speaker 2>on camera, which Brook thought was truly romantic, next level

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<v Speaker 2>for a guy.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just saying, why put in the time to FaceTime

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<v Speaker 1>if you want a plan on meeting.

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<v Speaker 4>I felt like if we weren't vibing, he would have

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<v Speaker 4>ended the call much sooner.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, sound really chill about it. The thing I

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<v Speaker 1>worried about is that you put so much pressure on him,

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<v Speaker 1>on yourself with this whole dream part.

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<v Speaker 5>I just don't know what I'm going to do.

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<v Speaker 1>You know.

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<v Speaker 5>It's like I got the advice. It really resonated, and

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<v Speaker 5>I spent hours drawing him, and I really got it perfect.

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<v Speaker 5>So I don't know what I'm going to do if

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<v Speaker 5>this doesn't work out.

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<v Speaker 1>There's always another guy to draw, don't worry, Ali, Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>better guy, Better guy dive a twenty twenty vision.

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<v Speaker 2>Even you know, I know Brooke draws photos of me

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<v Speaker 2>all the time and hangs them around her station. She does.

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<v Speaker 2>It's okay, I know I'm bringing the truth out in

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<v Speaker 2>this segment, and it's very embarrassing for me.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, I'm very humiliated.

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<v Speaker 2>Thank you for having Okay so here, I'm gonna dial

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<v Speaker 2>this guy Chris. Hopefully he picks up and we can

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<v Speaker 2>get YouTube back together. I meane, for the first time

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<v Speaker 2>face to face in real life.

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<v Speaker 5>So I am going to ask the universe to help

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<v Speaker 5>you help him.

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<v Speaker 1>The universe isn't too busy, yes, time, but we do

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<v Speaker 1>need all the help.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, So we'll let the universe say, and I'm

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<v Speaker 2>gonna start dialing the number right now here we go. Hello, Hey,

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<v Speaker 2>we're looking to speak with Chris, uh speaking. Hey, this

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<v Speaker 2>is a radio show called Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, Chris, I'm good guys.

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<v Speaker 6>I really appreciate it.

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<v Speaker 1>We're not hang out.

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<v Speaker 2>Sorry, we don't mean to like barge into your life

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<v Speaker 2>right now, Chris, but we do have some questions we'd

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<v Speaker 2>like to ask you, and I promise you it won't

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<v Speaker 2>take a lot of time.

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<v Speaker 6>All right, I have a three thirty, so let's make

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<v Speaker 6>this quick.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah okay, yeah, no, well, just we'll go through as

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<v Speaker 2>quickly as we can. We're doing something called a second

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<v Speaker 2>Date update, trying to help out one of our listeners

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<v Speaker 2>that you matched with on a dating app recently, a

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<v Speaker 2>girl named Ali.

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<v Speaker 6>Oh, oh my god.

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<v Speaker 1>He never ends? Is that what you just said? Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>what do you mean?

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<v Speaker 2>It never ends?

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<v Speaker 6>She just keeps texting me. All right. I've tried to

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<v Speaker 6>just put this one to bed.

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<v Speaker 1>And furtively, not literally.

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<v Speaker 6>Okay, absolutely figuratively.

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<v Speaker 9>She just keeps texting me and she asks to hang out,

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<v Speaker 9>and I actually thinks that she thinks that I'm somebody else.

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<v Speaker 1>What what do you mean?

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<v Speaker 9>Well, I don't know. I don't know what she told you.

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<v Speaker 9>But we started texting on the apps and it was going.

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<v Speaker 9>It was all fine and dandy.

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<v Speaker 6>It was great.

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<v Speaker 9>But then she messages me and she tells me that

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<v Speaker 9>I've been dreaming of meeting you. First, I'm like, all right,

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<v Speaker 9>she might be an artist. She's kind of, you know,

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<v Speaker 9>into that stuff.

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<v Speaker 1>And then it's romantic. I mean, it can probably feel

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<v Speaker 1>like a lot, but.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I think I think a lot of people express

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<v Speaker 2>excitement in different ways. That was probably her way of

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<v Speaker 2>just saying I'm so glad that I matched with you.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Right.

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<v Speaker 6>It was sweet until it wasn't. And she sends me

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<v Speaker 6>this sketch of a guy.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, we didn't know she said it.

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<v Speaker 6>To sketch this guy and it is not me, but

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<v Speaker 6>it's someone that I do know.

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<v Speaker 1>What do you mean?

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<v Speaker 9>You know in my profile picture on my app, my

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<v Speaker 9>uncle is.

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<v Speaker 6>In two of them.

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<v Speaker 1>Wait, your uncle is in the pictures of your profile.

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<v Speaker 9>And it is the spitting image of this guy that

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<v Speaker 9>she sketched.

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<v Speaker 1>She's drawing your uncle. Wow, that was.

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<v Speaker 5>A picture of you. That was a picture of you.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh god, Okay the photo on his profile or.

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<v Speaker 2>It cats out of the bag at this point, because

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<v Speaker 2>I need to tell you, Chris Ali has actually been

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<v Speaker 2>listening to this call the entire time. Yeah, to wait

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<v Speaker 2>a little bit longer before she jumped in, but I

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<v Speaker 2>guess the universe told her to go for it.

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<v Speaker 9>Listen, Ellie, can I just talk to you straight here?

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<v Speaker 9>My uncle is on my couch right now.

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<v Speaker 6>He's going through a divorce.

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<v Speaker 9>So I panicked, and I asked him to fill in

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<v Speaker 9>for me when you wanted to FaceTime. So I asked

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<v Speaker 9>him to get on the call and pretend to be

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<v Speaker 9>me and my uncle. He was happy to do it, like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 9>I have red hair, freckles, I am a ginger.

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<v Speaker 6>Like kissed by fire.

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<v Speaker 1>No, no, it just doesn't master picture.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, No, not at all.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, Okay, so you lied, You lied to me, But

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<v Speaker 5>I didn't necessarily lie to you.

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<v Speaker 9>You just put so much pressure on it. You wanted

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<v Speaker 9>a guy that looked like that, So I figured to

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<v Speaker 9>step out of the way and let my.

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<v Speaker 6>Uncle talk to you.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, So how old is he?

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<v Speaker 2>She's in his forties, Okay, so I mean you had

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<v Speaker 2>chemistry with him, right, Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Why don't you want a divorced guy sleeping on his nephews?

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<v Speaker 1>God's true.

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<v Speaker 9>Sorry, have I have no idea how she got confused

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<v Speaker 9>by it. I have six pictures up there, and even

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<v Speaker 9>two of them, and all of them two.

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<v Speaker 8>It's the first too.

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<v Speaker 5>And when I saw the first picture and I saw,

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<v Speaker 5>I'm like, there he is. That's the guy I drew.

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<v Speaker 5>I didn't need to look at the rest of the pictures.

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<v Speaker 9>Okay, people see what they're looking for, and you obviously

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<v Speaker 9>were looking for him, so all right.

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<v Speaker 5>So this whole thing was set up. However it happened,

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<v Speaker 5>and one thing led to another, and I did talk

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<v Speaker 5>to the guy that was in my photo.

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<v Speaker 6>It was just your uncle.

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<v Speaker 5>So what's his deal?

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<v Speaker 1>What do you mean?

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<v Speaker 2>Is he available?

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<v Speaker 1>You don't feel lied to or deceived.

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<v Speaker 5>I feel lied to by Chris. But if his uncle

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<v Speaker 5>was the man that I'm looking.

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<v Speaker 2>For, then yeah, yeah, Sometimes the universe has a roundabout

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<v Speaker 2>way of getting to the destination that you want to

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<v Speaker 2>be at. So, Chris, I think what Ali is trying

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<v Speaker 2>to ask you is, what exactly is the stitch with

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<v Speaker 2>your uncle right now? Is he ready to swing vines

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<v Speaker 2>to the next lady.

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<v Speaker 1>I swing vines. Is he ready to date again?

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<v Speaker 2>What Brook said?

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<v Speaker 6>My uncle? He hasn't shaved in about a week.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, he's going through it right now.

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<v Speaker 9>Listen if you want to, if you have at it, listen.

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<v Speaker 2>Talk about your family. Don't don't. Don't bring your uncle

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<v Speaker 2>onto this call.

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<v Speaker 5>I'll tell you this. They sound exactly the same.

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<v Speaker 1>Interesting, I'll tell you.

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<v Speaker 6>This, Allie.

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<v Speaker 9>After you guys got off the FaceTime, he was ready

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<v Speaker 9>to go.

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<v Speaker 6>He said, I.

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<v Speaker 9>Would definitely get with that Roman.

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<v Speaker 1>Is that the line you were hoping for, Allie?

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<v Speaker 5>You know, I was hoping the universe would give me

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<v Speaker 5>something similar to that.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, I would get with that forever that he's had it, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>speaking the same language.

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<v Speaker 1>I can't believe everyone's on the same page.

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<v Speaker 9>I mean, he's down for it, but he's he's gonna

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<v Speaker 9>need a few more months before he can actually.

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<v Speaker 6>Uh legally go out with it. But what is the

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<v Speaker 6>marriage these days?

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<v Speaker 2>Right?

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<v Speaker 5>He could date while he's while it's being processed. There's

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<v Speaker 5>no rule against that.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh okay, I don't think they care about MESSI jose.

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<v Speaker 2>His whole thing, so I guess so normally we'd offer

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<v Speaker 2>to send Ali and Chris on a date.

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<v Speaker 1>But people will send him on a date with a

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<v Speaker 1>legally married man.

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<v Speaker 2>Come on, they're separating on his way out of the marriage.

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<v Speaker 9>Yeah, they're separated, but he's sleeping on my couch.

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<v Speaker 6>I'm serious.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, Well you may wake up one morning and Ali

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<v Speaker 1>and your uncle.

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<v Speaker 3>Will be all that.

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<v Speaker 1>Wow.

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<v Speaker 5>I hope the universe managed something more comfortable than a couch.

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<v Speaker 2>I can't believe I'm asking this, But Ali, do you

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<v Speaker 2>want to go out with Chris's uncle when the tie

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<v Speaker 2>is right and will pay for it?

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<v Speaker 5>Can I get his name? What is your uncle's name?

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<v Speaker 6>It's Uncle Phil.

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<v Speaker 2>Fresh Prince, and so Chris as your uncle's proxy. Will

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<v Speaker 2>you say yes? On his behalf?

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<v Speaker 1>I do believe this is a legally binding agreement.

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<v Speaker 2>Do you think he'd like to go out with Ali?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, he would, just a classy family.

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<v Speaker 2>On a couch.

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<v Speaker 5>And Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 2>How come no one's talking about Uncle Phil being asleep

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<v Speaker 2>on the couch when we call, because it's almost noon

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<v Speaker 2>when we tape.

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<v Speaker 7>That's wingman, he got a date while he was asleep.

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<v Speaker 1>That's crazy shot that pills asleep on the No.

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<v Speaker 3>The circumstance I'm guessing Phil's wife sooner the ex wife

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<v Speaker 3>would be kind of happy.

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<v Speaker 1>He's got a date going on.

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<v Speaker 2>He's going to be out of her hair.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it doesn't sound like it's gonna be jealous.

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<v Speaker 2>No, And Ali didn't seem bothered by it really at all.

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<v Speaker 1>I couldn't believe it, like you've been lying and deceit.

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<v Speaker 1>You talk to a man that you thought was someone

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<v Speaker 1>else and you're like, well, it.

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<v Speaker 7>Goes to show she trusts the universe what he does.

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<v Speaker 7>I don't care the situation he's in, that's my man.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, somebody ever said the universe was trustworthy?

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<v Speaker 2>And do you really want to put your eggs in

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<v Speaker 2>the basket of a twice divorce uncle who's sleeping at

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<v Speaker 2>noon on his nephew's couch during the weekday. I don't know,

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<v Speaker 2>although he would say he would get with that. So

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<v Speaker 2>that is pretty romantic.

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<v Speaker 1>Third times a charm that saying comes from somewhere.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh yes, maybe Ali is the medicine that Uncle Phil

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<v Speaker 2>needs in order to get himself back on his feet.

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<v Speaker 1>Why sure it's not working on himself. Yeah, A good point.

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<v Speaker 2>And why are we talking so much about Uncle Phil?

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<v Speaker 2>Now we're manifesting Phil and I'm drawing pictures of him

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<v Speaker 2>in my head.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, that's strange.

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<v Speaker 2>The universe works in strange ways, and so do we.

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<v Speaker 2>If you reach out to the show, email us, we'll

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<v Speaker 2>call that person who's not calling you back. Go find

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<v Speaker 2>out all of our second days. They're up on podcasts

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<v Speaker 2>wherever you get yours at Brook and Jeffrey