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Speaker 2: It's a huge week.

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Speaker 1: Yes for the second podcast, Thank you so much for

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Speaker 1: being here at Brick and Jeffrey in the morning. We

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Speaker 3: Speaking of Valentine's Day, jeff said the other day on

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Speaker 3: our show that the odds are not good for couples

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Speaker 3: who get together on Valentine's Day get married. But oh

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Speaker 3: Customs commented and said, my wife and I are breaking

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Speaker 3: all the odds. We're going for our lucky thirteenth anniversary

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Speaker 1: Yoh, that's so rad. But I love that they're listening

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Speaker 1: to our show on there. Yeah, so, I mean how

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Speaker 1: it's how it keeps you together because you're like, well,

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Speaker 1: I don't want to do that, Okay, I don't want

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Speaker 1: look at that love is alive, and maybe it's alive

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Speaker 1: in this Second Date podcast that starts right now Brooke

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Speaker 2: Can you dream your perfect date into reality?

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Speaker 4: Oh?

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Speaker 1: Well, you can try.

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Speaker 2: I know it sounds a little different, but we've got

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Speaker 1: Okay? Manifesting? Yeah, I was gonna come up with a

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Speaker 2: So you should dream of a nickname first, and then

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Speaker 5: I did not dream that specifically.

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Speaker 5: I'm trying to make it more of a thing.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, So, I actually went to. It was like a

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Speaker 6: It was like a weekend long event.

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Speaker 4: There were several speakers, like on the vational speaker career coaches.

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Speaker 1: So you're on a journey to improve yourself and you're

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Speaker 5: Well, did you ask your mom not to call you?

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Speaker 5: We plan to meet in person?

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Speaker 4: Like we talked during FaceTime we were eating our dinner together.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't understand how that would be a problem,

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Speaker 4: You know, I told him that I sketch and that

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Speaker 1: Totally dropped off since the face. You ask me my question,

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Speaker 2: Dreams can truly become reality.

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Speaker 1: There's always another guy to draw, don't worry, Ali, Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 2: Even you know, I know Brooke draws photos of me

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Speaker 2: It's okay, I know I'm bringing the truth out in

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Speaker 1: Yes, I'm very humiliated.

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Speaker 2: Thank you for having Okay so here, I'm gonna dial

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Speaker 1: The universe isn't too busy, yes, time, but we do

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Speaker 2: we're looking to speak with Chris, uh speaking. Hey, this

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Speaker 1: Hey, Chris, I'm good guys.

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Speaker 6: I really appreciate it.

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Speaker 1: We're not hang out.

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Speaker 2: Sorry, we don't mean to like barge into your life

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Speaker 2: right now, Chris, but we do have some questions we'd

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Speaker 6: All right, I have a three thirty, so let's make

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Speaker 2: Yeah okay, yeah, no, well, just we'll go through as

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Speaker 2: that you matched with on a dating app recently, a

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Speaker 6: Oh, oh my god.

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Speaker 1: He never ends? Is that what you just said? Okay,

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Speaker 2: It never ends?

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Speaker 6: She just keeps texting me. All right. I've tried to

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Speaker 6: Okay, absolutely figuratively.

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Speaker 9: She just keeps texting me and she asks to hang out,

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Speaker 9: and I actually thinks that she thinks that I'm somebody else.

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Speaker 1: What what do you mean?

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Speaker 9: Well, I don't know. I don't know what she told you.

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Speaker 9: But we started texting on the apps and it was going.

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Speaker 9: It was all fine and dandy.

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Speaker 6: It was great.

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Speaker 9: But then she messages me and she tells me that

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Speaker 9: I've been dreaming of meeting you. First, I'm like, all right,

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Speaker 9: she might be an artist. She's kind of, you know,

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Speaker 1: And then it's romantic. I mean, it can probably feel

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I think I think a lot of people express

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Speaker 6: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Right.

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Speaker 6: It was sweet until it wasn't. And she sends me

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Speaker 2: Okay, we didn't know she said it.

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Speaker 6: To sketch this guy and it is not me, but

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Speaker 6: it's someone that I do know.

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Speaker 1: What do you mean?

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Speaker 9: You know in my profile picture on my app, my

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Speaker 6: In two of them.

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Speaker 1: Wait, your uncle is in the pictures of your profile.

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Speaker 9: And it is the spitting image of this guy that

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Speaker 1: She's drawing your uncle. Wow, that was.

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Speaker 5: A picture of you. That was a picture of you.

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Speaker 1: Oh god, Okay the photo on his profile or.

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Speaker 2: It cats out of the bag at this point, because

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Speaker 2: I need to tell you, Chris Ali has actually been

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Speaker 9: Listen, Ellie, can I just talk to you straight here?

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Speaker 9: My uncle is on my couch right now.

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Speaker 6: He's going through a divorce.

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Speaker 9: So I panicked, and I asked him to fill in

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Speaker 9: me and my uncle. He was happy to do it, like, yeah,

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Speaker 9: I have red hair, freckles, I am a ginger.

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Speaker 6: Like kissed by fire.

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Speaker 1: No, no, it just doesn't master picture.

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Speaker 2: Okay, No, not at all.

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Speaker 5: Okay, Okay, so you lied, You lied to me, But

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Speaker 5: I didn't necessarily lie to you.

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Speaker 9: You just put so much pressure on it. You wanted

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Speaker 6: Uncle talk to you.

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Speaker 5: Okay, So how old is he?

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Speaker 2: She's in his forties, Okay, so I mean you had

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Speaker 1: Why don't you want a divorced guy sleeping on his nephews?

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Speaker 1: God's true.

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Speaker 9: Sorry, have I have no idea how she got confused

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Speaker 8: It's the first too.

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Speaker 5: And when I saw the first picture and I saw,

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Speaker 5: I didn't need to look at the rest of the pictures.

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Speaker 9: Okay, people see what they're looking for, and you obviously

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Speaker 5: So this whole thing was set up. However it happened,

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Speaker 6: It was just your uncle.

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Speaker 5: So what's his deal?

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Speaker 1: What do you mean?

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Speaker 2: Is he available?

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Speaker 1: You don't feel lied to or deceived.

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Speaker 5: I feel lied to by Chris. But if his uncle

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Speaker 2: For, then yeah, yeah, Sometimes the universe has a roundabout

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Speaker 2: be at. So, Chris, I think what Ali is trying

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Speaker 2: to ask you is, what exactly is the stitch with

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Speaker 1: I swing vines. Is he ready to date again?

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Speaker 2: What Brook said?

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Speaker 6: My uncle? He hasn't shaved in about a week.

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Speaker 2: Okay, he's going through it right now.

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Speaker 9: Listen if you want to, if you have at it, listen.

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Speaker 2: Talk about your family. Don't don't. Don't bring your uncle

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Speaker 5: I'll tell you this. They sound exactly the same.

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Speaker 1: Interesting, I'll tell you.

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Speaker 6: This, Allie.

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Speaker 9: After you guys got off the FaceTime, he was ready

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Speaker 6: He said, I.

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Speaker 9: Would definitely get with that Roman.

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Speaker 1: Is that the line you were hoping for, Allie?

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Speaker 5: You know, I was hoping the universe would give me

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Speaker 2: Yes, I would get with that forever that he's had it, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I can't believe everyone's on the same page.

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Speaker 9: I mean, he's down for it, but he's he's gonna

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Speaker 6: Uh legally go out with it. But what is the

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Speaker 2: Right?

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Speaker 5: He could date while he's while it's being processed. There's

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Speaker 1: Oh okay, I don't think they care about MESSI jose.

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Speaker 2: His whole thing, so I guess so normally we'd offer

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Speaker 1: But people will send him on a date with a

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Speaker 2: Come on, they're separating on his way out of the marriage.

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Speaker 9: Yeah, they're separated, but he's sleeping on my couch.

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Speaker 6: I'm serious.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Well you may wake up one morning and Ali

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Speaker 3: Will be all that.

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Speaker 1: Wow.

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Speaker 5: I hope the universe managed something more comfortable than a couch.

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Speaker 2: I can't believe I'm asking this, But Ali, do you

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Speaker 5: Can I get his name? What is your uncle's name?

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Speaker 6: It's Uncle Phil.

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Speaker 2: Fresh Prince, and so Chris as your uncle's proxy. Will

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Speaker 1: I do believe this is a legally binding agreement.

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Speaker 2: Do you think he'd like to go out with Ali?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, he would, just a classy family.

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Speaker 5: And Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 2: How come no one's talking about Uncle Phil being asleep

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Speaker 7: That's wingman, he got a date while he was asleep.

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Speaker 1: That's crazy shot that pills asleep on the No.

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Speaker 3: The circumstance I'm guessing Phil's wife sooner the ex wife

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Speaker 1: He's got a date going on.

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Speaker 2: He's going to be out of her hair.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it doesn't sound like it's gonna be jealous.

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Speaker 2: No, And Ali didn't seem bothered by it really at all.

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Speaker 1: I couldn't believe it, like you've been lying and deceit.

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Speaker 1: You talk to a man that you thought was someone

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Speaker 7: Goes to show she trusts the universe what he does.

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Speaker 7: I don't care the situation he's in, that's my man.

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Speaker 1: I mean, somebody ever said the universe was trustworthy?

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Speaker 2: And do you really want to put your eggs in

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Speaker 2: that is pretty romantic.

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Speaker 1: Third times a charm that saying comes from somewhere.

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Speaker 2: Oh yes, maybe Ali is the medicine that Uncle Phil

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Speaker 1: Why sure it's not working on himself. Yeah, A good point.

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Speaker 2: And why are we talking so much about Uncle Phil?

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Speaker 2: Now we're manifesting Phil and I'm drawing pictures of him

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Speaker 1: Okay, that's strange.

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Speaker 2: The universe works in strange ways, and so do we.

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Speaker 2: If you reach out to the show, email us, we'll

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Speaker 2: call that person who's not calling you back. Go find

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Speaker 2: out all of our second days. They're up on podcasts

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Speaker 2: wherever you get yours at Brook and Jeffrey