Speaker 1: First Date of follow up powered by the Advocates Injury
Speaker 1: Attorneys online at Advocateslaw dot com. Abby is on the
Speaker 1: phone today for our first date follow up and she's
Speaker 1: getting ghosted by a dude named Mark. So in a
Speaker 1: few minutes we're gonna call him and see Ifiel tell
Speaker 1: us why he's ghostinger and maybe get her another date.
Speaker 1: But first, Abby, how long has the vinces you heard
Speaker 1: from Mark?
Speaker 2: It's then about a week?
Speaker 3: About a week? Okay? Have you tried to reach out
Speaker 3: to him multiple times?
Speaker 4: I did a few times, but you know, I if
Speaker 4: someone doesn't respond, like continuing to message them doesn't normally.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I did, like.
Speaker 4: One, and then I did one more, and then I saw, well,
Speaker 4: let's hear about your date and how you met him
Speaker 4: and see if we can't figure out why he's ghosting you.
Speaker 2: Yeah, so we met.
Speaker 4: We actually got up through Mark's coworker and I have
Speaker 4: Mark's co worker's wife yoga class. I attend that class.
Speaker 4: So me and Serena, which is mark coworker's wife, we
Speaker 4: grabbed coffee and it was kind of like Serena recruited
Speaker 4: me to go out on a date with Mark, but
Speaker 4: she and her husband Josh are always on the hunt
Speaker 4: for a wife for Mark, and Serena thought I would
Speaker 4: be perfect. So Mark and I met up at a
Speaker 4: sire restaurant that has amazing tropical.
Speaker 5: Drinks, and we shared food and.
Speaker 3: Chatted about our favorite thing.
Speaker 4: And we had so much in common and tonight was
Speaker 4: so good. We ended up going back to Mark's house
Speaker 4: for like a little nightcap a sip.
Speaker 3: We're like, a, wow, what what is that?
Speaker 6: I was looking for a nicer way to say I'm
Speaker 6: really sorry.
Speaker 3: Was it just a drink or or.
Speaker 4: Both?
Speaker 3: Okay, I mean yeah, I was super.
Speaker 4: Like attracted to him, and like I could tell that
Speaker 4: there were like instant sparks between both of us, and
Speaker 4: it was just like easy and effortless. So yeah, we
Speaker 4: ended up hooking up. And then afterwards Mark kept talking
Speaker 4: about his job and how close he was to a promotion,
Speaker 4: but I was kind of bored by it, so I
Speaker 4: pretended obviously. Okay, I'm thinking like maybe he knew.
Speaker 2: I was pretending.
Speaker 4: About No, I mean, he he did like mention that
Speaker 4: I breathed. I breathed like differently when I'm in like
Speaker 4: different sleeping phases.
Speaker 2: So I feel like maybe a little bus.
Speaker 4: And I mean, I'm really excited and I want to
Speaker 4: support like this promotion journey and all of that, but
Speaker 4: the time was just like wanting to enjoy my posts
Speaker 4: playtime piece. And that was the nicest way to get
Speaker 4: him to shut up by pretending I was asleep.
Speaker 3: So what do you want to say to him?
Speaker 4: Well, I want to explain myself in that, Like it
Speaker 4: might have seemed rude, but that wasn't like I had
Speaker 4: good intentions.
Speaker 3: It's like it wasn't my it wasn't my plans.
Speaker 1: All right, Well, we'll see if we can figure it
Speaker 1: out for you. Then we'll play a song, come back
Speaker 1: and then call him and see if it's house why
Speaker 1: he's ghosting you, and see if you still want another
Speaker 1: date after we find out the reason.
Speaker 3: Okay, okay, sounds good.
Speaker 1: Plus i'll come back and get your first day follow
Speaker 1: up next, then a little of your first day follow up,
Speaker 1: and if you're just joining us. Abby is on the
Speaker 1: phone and she's getting ghosted by a dude named Mark,
Speaker 1: and it might be because she was bored by him.
Speaker 1: We're about to call and see if you'll tell us
Speaker 1: why he's ghosting her and maybe get her another date.
Speaker 1: But before we do that, Abby, whantn't you refresh everybody's
Speaker 1: memory on your situation?
Speaker 4: Yeah, we were set up by Mark coworkers, and we
Speaker 4: went out to dinner and had drinks and had like
Speaker 4: a great night. We went back to mark place for
Speaker 4: a nightcap and we ended up cooking up and after
Speaker 4: that I wanted to go to sleep, but Mark kept
Speaker 4: talking about his job and his promotion. He might beginning,
Speaker 4: So I just pretended to be asleep, and I think
Speaker 4: he might have noticed, and that's why talking to me.
Speaker 1: All right, well man, let's see if we can figure
Speaker 1: it out. Right, you're the first to call him. Yeah, okay,
Speaker 1: here we go. Hello, Hi, man, I speak to Mark please.
Speaker 2: Yeah, this is Mark.
Speaker 3: Hey Mark, what's up?
Speaker 2: Man?
Speaker 3: How are you?
Speaker 1: My name is Jebel and I host a radio show.
Speaker 1: It's called The Jebel Show.
Speaker 3: Hi, Mark, the show's here. My name is Nina, Hi,
Speaker 3: and I'm Victoria.
Speaker 2: All yeah.
Speaker 3: You ever listen to the show at all?
Speaker 2: Oh?
Speaker 4: Wow?
Speaker 2: Yeah? Sometimes?
Speaker 3: Okay, cool?
Speaker 6: Wait a minute, I think I know where're going. What
Speaker 6: is this where you guys like call someone after they
Speaker 6: went they met someone?
Speaker 3: Yes, it is.
Speaker 1: It's called the first day follow up, where you go
Speaker 1: out on a date with somebody and you ghost them,
Speaker 1: they can ask us to get you on the phone
Speaker 1: and find out what happened. So we got an email
Speaker 1: about you, Mark, Oh boy, all right.
Speaker 3: It's from Abby.
Speaker 1: Do you mind telling us about your day with Abby
Speaker 1: and why you're not why you're ghosting?
Speaker 6: I mean, I'm sure she told you by the day, right,
Speaker 6: it was pretty fun, But I guess I'll just say that, yes,
Speaker 6: I'm ghosting her for the reason is because she used
Speaker 6: my razor.
Speaker 2: Like did she tell you we went back to my
Speaker 2: place after a date? All right? She says she.
Speaker 6: Wanted to go like freshen up. But I never crossed
Speaker 6: my mind that she would use my razor. And I
Speaker 6: don't like sharing any personal items, Like I don't share
Speaker 6: my razors, not even my tooth bruss like not even
Speaker 6: with like the love of my life. I feel it's
Speaker 6: so gross, and I thought it was so entitled of
Speaker 6: her just march into my bathroom and just use my razor.
Speaker 6: And I know she used it because there's light, little
Speaker 6: brown hair. Oh this is so gross to me, So yeah,
Speaker 6: I got to her.
Speaker 2: That's the reason.
Speaker 3: When when was this that she used your razor?
Speaker 6: I'd say, like I guess she used it before we
Speaker 6: I don't know what she told.
Speaker 3: You, but she said you guys had fund out your place.
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, we got like cozy with each other.
Speaker 6: She must have used that before that, because then I
Speaker 6: didn't notice it until I used the restroom in the
Speaker 6: middle of the night and I noticed it.
Speaker 2: And also it wasn't like she put it back where
Speaker 2: it was. It was like fully.
Speaker 6: Out, like I don't even leave my razor out, it's
Speaker 6: like in a drawer, and like she had it out
Speaker 6: on the stand to say the hairs, like it was
Speaker 6: gross and she was just making herself at home. Like
Speaker 6: both of those were just to turn off to me on.
Speaker 1: The first DA thanks for telling us. I mean, yeah,
Speaker 1: I don't know. I mean, I probably wouldn't care if
Speaker 1: i'body use my razor. But also I mean I probably
Speaker 1: can get it was funny, but it might be a
Speaker 1: little bit interesting. Mark Abby is on the phone and
Speaker 1: has been listening and wants to talk to you.
Speaker 2: I forgot I love this part.
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, I mean, I'm sorry. I had no idea
Speaker 4: about like the razor. I didn't think it was up
Speaker 4: take of a deal, and I just like I wanted
Speaker 4: to say like, I'm sorry I pretended to like be asleep.
Speaker 4: I kind of thought that's why you were not talking
Speaker 4: to me.
Speaker 2: You were pretending to be asleep.
Speaker 5: What it just well dream what like afterwards when you
Speaker 5: were talking about your promotion and stuff, I was just
Speaker 5: kind of zoning out like I normally.
Speaker 4: Do after right after that time, and I just wow, wow,
Speaker 4: And I thought maybe you knew that I did that
Speaker 4: and that's why you were mad at me. But like,
Speaker 4: I'm really sorry that I need anyways, And.
Speaker 6: No, I actually thought I put you to sleep, and
Speaker 6: I was actually like proud of that.
Speaker 2: No, I mean you.
Speaker 4: Did it was amazing and you did a very good job,
Speaker 4: so I want have no complaints. And I didn't think
Speaker 4: like the razor would be that big of a deal
Speaker 4: because you know, I was doing it for you. I
Speaker 4: was trying to, you know, look as fast as I could.
Speaker 4: I wasn't trying to just use your razor for no reason.
Speaker 2: Well that's not the only thing you did for me.
Speaker 7: We're saying the radio, Well, Mark, would you like another
Speaker 7: date with Abby?
Speaker 3: Will pay for it? I mean, can you get past
Speaker 3: the razor? Using mean she was thinking about you, and
Speaker 3: I'll buy.
Speaker 2: I'll buy a razor of that, I'll buy it. Yes, yes,
Speaker 2: I would yes, wow.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean i'd love to. And I can promise
Speaker 4: you this time like I won't. I won't use a razor.
Speaker 4: I will stay far away from it.
Speaker 2: I'll get you a new one. I mean, you don't
Speaker 2: need him now.
Speaker 3: Well, he does go back.
Speaker 2: Well when are we having this date? How far in
Speaker 2: the future are we having this date?
Speaker 4: Well, i'll shave before the date, Okay, right.
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