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Speaker 1: First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys

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Speaker 1: online at advocatesla dot com.

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Speaker 2: Danny is on the phone today for our first day

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Speaker 2: follow up, and she's getting ghosted by a dude named Max.

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Speaker 2: So in a few minutes we'll call him and see

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Speaker 2: if he'll tell us why he's ghosting her. But first

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Speaker 2: let's find out about the date. Danny, how long has

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Speaker 2: it been since you heard from Max?

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Speaker 3: It's been about five days.

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Speaker 4: Five days, okay, yeah, it doesn't feel too bad. How

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Speaker 4: many times have you tried to hit him in that time?

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Speaker 5: Though?

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Speaker 3: Twice he tried to hit him.

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Speaker 4: You know, that's why you're getting to Yeahlly, he's been

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Speaker 4: him up a couple of times, though, yes I have.

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Speaker 3: I made him up a couple of times. I sent

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Speaker 3: him a couple of texts and nothing.

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Speaker 4: Well, let's go backwards. Tell us about the date. How

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Speaker 4: did that go?

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Speaker 3: Okay?

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Speaker 1: Well, actually we went mini golfing. I thought it was

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Speaker 1: kind of cute. Yeah, you know, something fun, low pressure.

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Speaker 1: Thanks for going great. At first we were laughing, joking around,

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Speaker 1: a little flirting.

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Speaker 3: I mean, it was all good.

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Speaker 1: Then we started talking about exes, but not super serious

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Speaker 1: or anything.

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Speaker 3: You just mentioned his ex.

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Speaker 1: Never like to do anything fun like mini golf, so

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Speaker 1: I thought it was funny to clown on them a

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Speaker 1: bit to make him feel better. I was like, your

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Speaker 1: X sounds super lame. I got I'm way more fun.

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Speaker 3: I'm probably more attractively leveled.

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Speaker 4: Up, definitely showing him confidence.

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Speaker 3: Right.

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Speaker 6: How did he react to that?

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Speaker 3: Honestly, he didn't seem to mind at all.

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Speaker 1: He laughed and we kept having fun flirting, and I

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Speaker 1: mean everything was good.

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Speaker 3: I mean it went so well that we ended up, well,

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Speaker 3: we hooked up. Literally, he didn't seem bothered by it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, okay you I mean I think it would be

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Speaker 2: weird if he was super bothered by it, Like, hey,

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Speaker 2: don't you ever speak ill of.

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Speaker 4: Okay, well, then that sounds like a good thing. How

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Speaker 4: did that? How did that end? Did you? Guys? Like,

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Speaker 4: did you leave that night or did you stay over?

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Speaker 1: I mean, you know, he's a great guy, Like, he's funny, chill,

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Speaker 1: easy to talk to.

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Speaker 3: I haven't had a date go that smoothie in a while.

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Speaker 3: He's just got this laid back vibe. But there's something

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Speaker 3: deeper there. I just I didn't expect him to go

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Speaker 3: to me after everything seemed so good. You know, after

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Speaker 3: I stayed the night.

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Speaker 6: I okay, I did stay over.

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Speaker 4: Okay.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, So after we hooked up, we were just.

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Speaker 1: Lying there and I might have kind of joked about

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Speaker 1: his ex again, you know, like I bet your ex

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Speaker 1: wouldn't have done this at Minigoff. I thought it was funny.

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Speaker 1: But now I'm trying to think maybe he didn't think

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Speaker 1: it was as hilarious as I did. I mean, I

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Speaker 1: was just trying to make him feel good about it,

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Speaker 1: like a confidence boost. But now that I haven't heard

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Speaker 1: from him, I'm wondering if I crossed the line. I mean,

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Speaker 1: it was just a joke.

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Speaker 6: How was it when you say goodbye to him in

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Speaker 6: the morning?

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Speaker 3: It was good.

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Speaker 1: We kissed goodbye and he said, I'll see you soon.

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Speaker 2: Danny is on the phone and she's getting ghosted by

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Speaker 2: a guy named Max. So we're about to call him

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Speaker 2: and see if you'll tell us why is ghosting her

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Speaker 2: and maybe get her another day if she still wants one.

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Speaker 2: But before we do that, Danny, why don't you remind

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Speaker 2: us about.

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Speaker 6: Your date real quick?

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Speaker 1: So we went mini golfing, which was really fun, and

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Speaker 1: we joked around.

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Speaker 3: We were very flirty.

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Speaker 1: We talked about her ex is, but like not like

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Speaker 1: anything real serious.

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Speaker 3: And you know, I kind of made a joke that

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Speaker 3: I'm probably more fun than your ex. You leveled up.

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Speaker 3: I'm probably more attractive, just kidding.

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Speaker 1: And I mean it must have been good, because well,

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Speaker 1: we hooked up and I haven't heard from him in

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Speaker 1: five days and I've tried to contact him a couple

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Speaker 1: of times. I mean, we kissed goodbye. The next morning,

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Speaker 1: he said I'll see you soon, and it sounded like

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Speaker 1: we were going to get back together.

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Speaker 6: All right, Were you ready for us to call him?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 6: I am all right. Here we go. Hello, h I maan,

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Speaker 6: I speak to Max. Please Lucy Max?

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Speaker 4: How are you?

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Speaker 6: This is a radio show. It's called The Jubil Show

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Speaker 6: him Max.

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Speaker 4: I'm Nina.

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Speaker 6: Hi, I'm Victoria and my name is Jubell. How are you.

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Speaker 3: I'm doing good?

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Speaker 6: Are you home great? Have you ever heard of the

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Speaker 6: show before or listened?

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Speaker 3: I've heard of it?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yes, sure, okay, sweet, Well guess what what's going on?

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Speaker 2: You are the star of the show. We do a

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Speaker 2: segment on the show it's called the first Aid follow Up.

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Speaker 2: That's where if you go on a date with someone

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Speaker 2: and then you end up ghosting them. That person can

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Speaker 2: email us to get you on the phone and find

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Speaker 2: out why you're getting ghosted.

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Speaker 6: So somebody emailed us about you. That's why we're calling.

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Speaker 2: Okay, do you know who would em fail us?

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Speaker 6: Uh, maybe have an idea? Is it Danny? Yes, it

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Speaker 6: is Danny.

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Speaker 4: I want to clap it.

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Speaker 2: Congratulations. She emailed us. We talked to her a little

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Speaker 2: bit about your date, and she's really curious. She wants

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Speaker 2: to know why you're ghosting her. She said she thought

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Speaker 2: everything was great.

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Speaker 5: I mean, look, I we definitely had a fun time.

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Speaker 3: Like for sure, she's she's super fun girl.

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Speaker 5: I I mean I I had high hopes because you know,

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Speaker 5: we were joking around and you know, it seemed like

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Speaker 5: a great match. But you know, I'm I'm I'm big

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Speaker 5: on chemistry, and you know when we got.

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Speaker 3: To the bedroom, it just I didn't feel that spark.

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Speaker 3: You know, It's like it wasn't bad. It was didn't

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Speaker 3: click for.

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Speaker 4: Me, you know, So you're saying you just didn't enjoy it.

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Speaker 5: I mean, uh, the date was at last, but when it,

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Speaker 5: you know, came down to it, there's there's no connection

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Speaker 5: in the bedroom and the chemistry is just really important.

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Speaker 6: To me, so you know, so you didn't enjoy it?

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Speaker 3: Wait? Wait, wait, wait, are you saying I'm god.

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Speaker 2: In bed actually on the phone listening and wants to

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Speaker 2: talk to you?

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Speaker 3: Are you I never had any complaints? My actually even

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Speaker 3: told people I was the most adventurous he'd ever been with.

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Speaker 3: Are you sure it wasn't you that was off? No? No,

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Speaker 3: I'm not. I'm not saying you're bad.

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Speaker 5: I'm just I'm just saying that we, you know, didn't

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Speaker 5: have a spark like okay, did well?

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Speaker 3: Did you think it was amazing? I mean it was fine,

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Speaker 3: but it was the first time.

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Speaker 1: I mean, it's never mind blowing the first time you

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Speaker 1: get to know each other, right, well.

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Speaker 6: I mean it wasn't my ex first times great? What

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Speaker 6: oh my god?

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Speaker 3: But your ex was lame and I'm awesome, And honestly,

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Speaker 3: I think we both deserve a re do. I can

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Speaker 3: do better and I'm sure you can too.

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Speaker 4: Are you calling.

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Speaker 3: Well, I'm just saying it's never great the first time.

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Speaker 3: I mean, seriously, I was nervous. It was our first time.

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Speaker 3: There were a lot of nerves involved. Yeah, No, I look,

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Speaker 3: I get it.

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Speaker 5: I mean, I just you know, it's it's got to

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Speaker 5: be undeniable for me, you know, I just I'm not

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Speaker 5: saying that you're first time.

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Speaker 1: Well you're telling me, you're telling me that every time

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Speaker 1: you've had sexually the first time.

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Speaker 3: It's just been impeccable. I doubt that. Well, I think that.

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Speaker 5: I think that, you know, the first time if it's

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Speaker 5: like you know what I mean, there's I've definitely had

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Speaker 5: it happen where I knew that I was like way

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Speaker 5: into this.

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Speaker 3: I mean, you haven't even seen all my moves, like

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Speaker 3: the walk up your move.

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Speaker 6: Okay, I mean.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, because it's good and you haven't even

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Speaker 1: seen that yet.

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Speaker 3: I don't know if I want to see the walker.

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Speaker 3: You definitely want to see the.

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Speaker 2: WALKA I'm very curious about the.

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Speaker 6: Is it? It sounds dangerous.

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Speaker 3: It's not, it's fantastic.

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Speaker 2: Well, Max, do you want a chance to see the Walker?

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Speaker 2: Would you like a second datement? Danny won't pay for it.

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Speaker 2: I feel like you got to do it for all

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Speaker 2: of us, Max.

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Speaker 5: All right, I yeah, I'm down. I'm down for I'm

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Speaker 5: down for a second time. Yeah, it's for anything else.

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Speaker 5: I have to experience the Walker.

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Speaker 3: Oh you'll love it. You love it. Be to take

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Speaker 3: a week off of work after day.

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Speaker 2: Oh gosh, okay, well, congratulations, Danny got another date in Max.

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Speaker 6: Good luck God Black.

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