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In our Weekend recap, a Trump 11 00:00:37,640 --> 00:00:41,280 Speaker 1: associate threat in New York Attorney General Letitia James job 12 00:00:41,640 --> 00:00:46,400 Speaker 1: and called her fat racist. Texts You've been You've been 13 00:00:46,440 --> 00:00:50,199 Speaker 1: selected to pick cotton are still being received by blacks 14 00:00:50,200 --> 00:00:54,200 Speaker 1: across the country. And Kamala supporters want Biden to resign, 15 00:00:54,320 --> 00:00:56,760 Speaker 1: and we'll tell you why. That's all at the top 16 00:00:56,800 --> 00:00:58,960 Speaker 1: of the hour. But right now it is time to 17 00:00:59,240 --> 00:01:03,160 Speaker 1: ask the sea ar Chief Love Officer Steve Harvey. This 18 00:01:03,240 --> 00:01:07,160 Speaker 1: one's from PJ and Glendale. PJ writes, my husband and 19 00:01:07,200 --> 00:01:09,560 Speaker 1: I split all the bills and we keep a petty 20 00:01:09,640 --> 00:01:13,840 Speaker 1: cash stash at home. We hardly ever use the petty cash, 21 00:01:14,160 --> 00:01:17,479 Speaker 1: so we have thirty two hundred dollars and thirty two 22 00:01:17,560 --> 00:01:21,280 Speaker 1: fifty okay, three two hundred and fifty dollars. I want 23 00:01:21,280 --> 00:01:23,640 Speaker 1: to use half the money for my LiPo suction, but 24 00:01:23,680 --> 00:01:26,520 Speaker 1: my husband said, no, half of it is mine, so 25 00:01:26,600 --> 00:01:27,679 Speaker 1: why can't I use it? 26 00:01:29,800 --> 00:01:33,080 Speaker 2: You get finna get a liposuction for fifteen hundred. You 27 00:01:33,200 --> 00:01:35,160 Speaker 2: need to get another clan. Where is you going to 28 00:01:35,160 --> 00:01:38,399 Speaker 2: get the surgery done? Where's you going? What party? 29 00:01:38,440 --> 00:01:38,480 Speaker 3: Do? 30 00:01:38,880 --> 00:01:41,839 Speaker 2: What? Third world country? You on your way to? Lady, 31 00:01:42,000 --> 00:01:45,640 Speaker 2: don't do that. Ain't no fifteen hundred dollars LiPo suction. 32 00:01:46,120 --> 00:01:49,400 Speaker 2: You're gonna mess around and get your self hurt. Lead 33 00:01:49,440 --> 00:01:54,440 Speaker 2: at thirty two in petty cash, fifteen hundred dollars is 34 00:01:54,480 --> 00:01:57,320 Speaker 2: going to buy you some petty liposuction? And what is 35 00:01:57,360 --> 00:01:59,280 Speaker 2: gonna buy? And I'm gonna tell you right now, you're 36 00:01:59,280 --> 00:02:03,960 Speaker 2: gonna mess around. It's not the time to look for discounts, y'all. 37 00:02:04,000 --> 00:02:07,040 Speaker 2: A lot of people don't do well. I strongly suggest 38 00:02:07,120 --> 00:02:10,720 Speaker 2: you reconsider taking fifteen hundred dollars and getting some light 39 00:02:10,800 --> 00:02:13,280 Speaker 2: bo suction. What kind of tools is they gonna use 40 00:02:13,320 --> 00:02:14,480 Speaker 2: for fifteen waterholes? 41 00:02:15,880 --> 00:02:20,200 Speaker 1: Gosh, yeah, you're so, you're saying do more research because 42 00:02:20,720 --> 00:02:21,959 Speaker 1: saying don't do it? 43 00:02:23,000 --> 00:02:24,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, a hundred. 44 00:02:24,680 --> 00:02:37,040 Speaker 3: Just one side, it's not the other side. 45 00:02:32,480 --> 00:02:39,400 Speaker 2: Is for the anesthesiology. Yeah, that's the fifteen hundred. I 46 00:02:39,400 --> 00:02:43,200 Speaker 2: don't know what's happening, all right. 47 00:02:43,639 --> 00:02:47,480 Speaker 1: Moving on to Ronda in Virginia Beach, Ronda writes, I'm 48 00:02:47,560 --> 00:02:50,640 Speaker 1: dating a younger man and age doesn't matter to him 49 00:02:51,120 --> 00:02:55,160 Speaker 1: until we have sex. He likes to mention that I'm older, 50 00:02:55,200 --> 00:02:57,200 Speaker 1: and he's going to show me what a young man 51 00:02:57,280 --> 00:02:59,720 Speaker 1: can do. Should I go ahead and tell him I've 52 00:02:59,720 --> 00:03:02,720 Speaker 1: had better? Or let him keep insulting me? 53 00:03:05,600 --> 00:03:10,000 Speaker 2: Well? Why is he insulting you? He's he thinks he's bragging. See, 54 00:03:10,040 --> 00:03:12,720 Speaker 2: he thinks I'm finna show you some young man. Dude? 55 00:03:13,280 --> 00:03:16,080 Speaker 2: Should I tell him I've had better? I mean, for 56 00:03:16,160 --> 00:03:19,440 Speaker 2: what you've If you've had so much better while you 57 00:03:19,560 --> 00:03:23,000 Speaker 2: with him, maybe you need to go sit your ass 58 00:03:23,080 --> 00:03:25,840 Speaker 2: down somewhere. Since you've had all this better. Now you're 59 00:03:25,919 --> 00:03:27,640 Speaker 2: dating a young man, Well, what you're doing? 60 00:03:29,400 --> 00:03:29,560 Speaker 3: Well? 61 00:03:29,600 --> 00:03:32,400 Speaker 2: What what what you're doing? You obviously ain't doing nothing? 62 00:03:33,639 --> 00:03:36,320 Speaker 1: Or maybe he's not. He's the bragging. 63 00:03:36,440 --> 00:03:41,880 Speaker 2: She doesn't like that, right, he But what you got though, ma'am, 64 00:03:42,000 --> 00:03:45,720 Speaker 2: what difference do we make? All these men you ain't 65 00:03:45,760 --> 00:03:48,280 Speaker 2: ain't in your life? What what difference do it make? 66 00:03:48,320 --> 00:03:48,400 Speaker 3: What? 67 00:03:48,520 --> 00:03:51,760 Speaker 2: He say? Here a young boy, y'all ain't finna last, 68 00:03:52,320 --> 00:03:54,160 Speaker 2: ain't none of the rest of your relationships last you 69 00:03:54,240 --> 00:03:55,320 Speaker 2: brobably need to look into what? 70 00:03:55,320 --> 00:03:55,600 Speaker 3: What? 71 00:03:55,960 --> 00:03:58,880 Speaker 2: What's up with that you and none of your relationships 72 00:03:58,920 --> 00:04:02,160 Speaker 2: have lasted? And now you on to this young boy. 73 00:04:02,240 --> 00:04:05,320 Speaker 2: Now you mad at him because he bragged? What you 74 00:04:05,440 --> 00:04:08,119 Speaker 2: need to fix the problem? The problem? Ain't he bragging? 75 00:04:09,400 --> 00:04:10,680 Speaker 1: And what is the problem? 76 00:04:10,800 --> 00:04:13,880 Speaker 2: The problem is you available to be bragged too? Hello, 77 00:04:15,400 --> 00:04:17,720 Speaker 2: you shut some of this down. Damn go sit your 78 00:04:17,720 --> 00:04:22,880 Speaker 2: hands down somewhere. So what he young y'all ain't got 79 00:04:22,920 --> 00:04:25,880 Speaker 2: no relationship, This ain't going nowhere. You just ain't no future, 80 00:04:27,279 --> 00:04:32,840 Speaker 2: he say, Age don't matter? Okay, yeah, do though, Okay, 81 00:04:34,800 --> 00:04:41,040 Speaker 2: all right? Age ladies, ladies, age matters. Eventually gonna look 82 00:04:41,080 --> 00:04:43,800 Speaker 2: over there one of them young girls. Okay. 83 00:04:44,360 --> 00:04:48,640 Speaker 1: Moving on to Emmett in Jacksonville. Em It says, I 84 00:04:48,720 --> 00:04:51,240 Speaker 1: invited a friend to work out with me, and I 85 00:04:51,360 --> 00:04:54,560 Speaker 1: considered it our third date. We had lunch after the 86 00:04:54,640 --> 00:04:58,440 Speaker 1: jam and she was really twangy smelling. I showered before 87 00:04:58,600 --> 00:05:00,760 Speaker 1: I left the gem, and I assume she did too. 88 00:05:01,080 --> 00:05:03,839 Speaker 1: I like her, so should I mention her hygiene? 89 00:05:04,600 --> 00:05:08,080 Speaker 2: Mmm? What's twangy? What is twangy? Though? Twinys? It's like 90 00:05:08,160 --> 00:05:12,440 Speaker 2: it's like tang with a wod, you know, Like it's 91 00:05:12,520 --> 00:05:15,640 Speaker 2: tang Remember tang that little powdered orange drink. I hate 92 00:05:15,800 --> 00:05:19,040 Speaker 2: they get to the astronauts at the commercial. Twang is 93 00:05:19,080 --> 00:05:22,080 Speaker 2: when you got it. It's supposed to be tanged, but 94 00:05:22,200 --> 00:05:27,520 Speaker 2: it's twang. It's got a little You don't put that 95 00:05:27,720 --> 00:05:30,279 Speaker 2: W in there because that w stair for woo. You 96 00:05:30,320 --> 00:05:35,640 Speaker 2: know who you tangy? You know? 97 00:05:35,720 --> 00:05:37,320 Speaker 1: So should he say something to her? 98 00:05:37,920 --> 00:05:43,240 Speaker 2: Uh huh, just let it? You don't think so. The 99 00:05:43,320 --> 00:05:47,080 Speaker 2: fact that you have to tell a woman that her, 100 00:05:48,279 --> 00:05:50,599 Speaker 2: I'm gonna like somebody else because I'm not finna like 101 00:05:50,680 --> 00:05:53,039 Speaker 2: nobody that don't like the babe. We're not finna do that, 102 00:05:53,160 --> 00:05:56,960 Speaker 2: not no woman they're as am okay, Well, you know, 103 00:05:56,960 --> 00:05:59,280 Speaker 2: I got some partners that don't bathe that much. I 104 00:05:59,360 --> 00:06:01,040 Speaker 2: like them. We are right because I can just tell him, 105 00:06:01,080 --> 00:06:03,320 Speaker 2: damn boy, what's over with you today? You kicking? 106 00:06:03,800 --> 00:06:03,960 Speaker 3: You know? 107 00:06:04,000 --> 00:06:05,280 Speaker 2: I say stuff like that all. 108 00:06:05,200 --> 00:06:09,200 Speaker 1: The time, you know, But yeah, say anything to her? 109 00:06:10,200 --> 00:06:14,880 Speaker 2: No, I mean, what do you okay, Junior Tommy? What 110 00:06:14,920 --> 00:06:18,240 Speaker 2: could he say to her? How do you, mildy tell 111 00:06:18,279 --> 00:06:20,719 Speaker 2: a woman you on your third day with you stink? 112 00:06:21,800 --> 00:06:22,720 Speaker 2: How do you say that? 113 00:06:23,680 --> 00:06:23,760 Speaker 3: Like? 114 00:06:24,200 --> 00:06:25,359 Speaker 1: Well, not like that? 115 00:06:25,360 --> 00:06:28,240 Speaker 2: That's well, ladies, let me ask you a question. What 116 00:06:28,520 --> 00:06:30,599 Speaker 2: if you're on the third day with a guy and 117 00:06:30,680 --> 00:06:32,719 Speaker 2: a guy comes to you, What way could he say 118 00:06:32,720 --> 00:06:34,640 Speaker 2: it to you that would make you okay with it? 119 00:06:36,880 --> 00:06:37,360 Speaker 2: I don't know. 120 00:06:37,440 --> 00:06:41,839 Speaker 4: Maybe he could say, maybe he can say for her 121 00:06:41,920 --> 00:06:45,800 Speaker 4: because she didn't like I assume she just didn't like showering. 122 00:06:45,400 --> 00:06:45,920 Speaker 2: At the gym. 123 00:06:46,520 --> 00:06:47,480 Speaker 1: That's what I thought. 124 00:06:47,720 --> 00:06:50,440 Speaker 4: Yeah, that's what I was thinking. That's why she just 125 00:06:50,560 --> 00:06:52,560 Speaker 4: left and she wants to shower at our home. 126 00:06:54,000 --> 00:06:57,440 Speaker 2: But no, no, no, no, no. The question is how could 127 00:06:57,480 --> 00:07:01,520 Speaker 2: he tell you? That's what I want to hear. Y'all say, 128 00:07:01,560 --> 00:07:04,840 Speaker 2: what's the cool way? Ladies? Is there a way a 129 00:07:04,880 --> 00:07:06,719 Speaker 2: man can say it to you that would. 130 00:07:06,560 --> 00:07:09,960 Speaker 1: Be I mean other than just being other than just 131 00:07:10,200 --> 00:07:12,440 Speaker 1: coming outright and saying it. 132 00:07:15,840 --> 00:07:17,720 Speaker 2: Can we keep? Can okay? Go ahead? 133 00:07:18,240 --> 00:07:21,000 Speaker 4: Maybe he could say this, okay, who I just left 134 00:07:21,000 --> 00:07:23,920 Speaker 4: the gym, my shower? Did you shower when you left 135 00:07:23,920 --> 00:07:26,320 Speaker 4: the gym, and she could be like, no, I like 136 00:07:26,400 --> 00:07:27,280 Speaker 4: to shower at home. 137 00:07:28,800 --> 00:07:31,560 Speaker 2: Starts showing at that. Yeah, but. 138 00:07:34,280 --> 00:07:37,880 Speaker 1: It's still not going to address the fact she has 139 00:07:37,920 --> 00:07:38,520 Speaker 1: an odor. 140 00:07:39,080 --> 00:07:45,120 Speaker 3: You know, y'all, what if you just what if he 141 00:07:45,280 --> 00:07:48,680 Speaker 3: just keep asking every every sixty. 142 00:07:48,280 --> 00:07:54,640 Speaker 2: Seconds, what is that? What is that? What? What is that? What? What? 143 00:07:55,240 --> 00:07:58,120 Speaker 2: And and just keep asking what is that? Do you smell? 144 00:07:58,240 --> 00:07:59,600 Speaker 2: What is that? I don't know what that is. 145 00:07:59,880 --> 00:08:02,880 Speaker 1: I just think he has to be direct. He just 146 00:08:02,960 --> 00:08:05,160 Speaker 1: has to be direct and say it in a nice way, 147 00:08:05,360 --> 00:08:07,320 Speaker 1: you know. And I'm sorry that I have to tell 148 00:08:07,360 --> 00:08:11,720 Speaker 1: you this. Yeah, he has Yeah, he has to be 149 00:08:11,840 --> 00:08:12,560 Speaker 1: direct with it. 150 00:08:12,800 --> 00:08:16,440 Speaker 4: Do you like those body the commercials? 151 00:08:16,720 --> 00:08:16,920 Speaker 2: You know? 152 00:08:17,120 --> 00:08:17,200 Speaker 3: Me? 153 00:08:19,120 --> 00:08:21,240 Speaker 2: Oh, he could just reach in his gym bag and 154 00:08:21,280 --> 00:08:24,960 Speaker 2: pull out his deodor and say two different jos, said 155 00:08:25,200 --> 00:08:29,600 Speaker 2: which one of these you like? Can he say, I 156 00:08:29,640 --> 00:08:31,280 Speaker 2: need you to come get in the shower with me. 157 00:08:31,760 --> 00:08:33,880 Speaker 2: I need you to come get in the shower with me. No, 158 00:08:34,120 --> 00:08:35,800 Speaker 2: I'm not getting in there with you like that? 159 00:08:36,960 --> 00:08:39,160 Speaker 1: Coming up at the top of the hour, Thank you. 160 00:08:39,160 --> 00:08:40,280 Speaker 2: You like 161 00:08:43,920 --> 00:08:45,440 Speaker 1: Coming up at the top of the hour, We'll have 162 00:08:45,440 --> 00:08:47,880 Speaker 1: some trending headlines for you right after this