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Speaker 1: Letter, subject to Thank you nephew, body heat and sweaty feet.

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Speaker 1: Dear Stephen Shirley. I've been married for twelve years and

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Speaker 1: we had a son before we got married. He's sixteen now.

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Speaker 1: Then we have what we call an oops baby six

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Speaker 1: years ago, and since then I sank into a depression

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Speaker 1: because I thought my mid forties would be when we

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Speaker 1: would travel, hang out with our friends, and be having

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Speaker 1: a lot of wild sex. Now I'm a boring boy

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Speaker 1: mom and my husband and I are both overweight. We

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Speaker 1: barely greet each other with a kiss when we get

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Speaker 1: home from work, and sex is a thing of the

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Speaker 1: past because we have a six year old in the

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Speaker 1: between us, and if I go put him in his

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Speaker 1: own bed, my husband is cool with letting him come

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Speaker 1: back into our bed. I asked my husband if it's

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Speaker 1: a way to keep from having sex with me, and

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Speaker 1: he said that he didn't think I wanted him anymore.

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Speaker 3: What I don't want.

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Speaker 1: Is this little person between us, with his body heat

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Speaker 1: all on my side of the bed. I also do

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Speaker 1: not want his little sweaty feet touching me during the night.

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Speaker 3: I want my husband's body.

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Speaker 1: Heat all on me at night, and I'm almost tired

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Speaker 1: of fighting for it. My husband said, our son has

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Speaker 1: sweet feet and his tiny heart is warm because he's

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Speaker 1: between us every night. I am starting to read between

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Speaker 1: the lines because I seem to be the only one

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Speaker 1: that is missing intimacy in this marriage. I've been overlooking

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Speaker 1: a lot of stuff that was obvious to my male cousin.

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Speaker 1: When I told him about my marriage right away, he said,

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Speaker 1: my husband is cheating on me, and he's using our

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Speaker 1: son to stay away from me at night. My cousin

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Speaker 1: said that he noticed my husband keeps his phone on

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Speaker 1: silent all the time. This is something I never paid

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Speaker 1: attention to. Is my cousin on to something. Is our

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Speaker 1: son in our bed for a reason? Please help? Well,

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Speaker 1: you know you say you've sank into a depression after

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Speaker 1: you had your baby. All of this, I mean, who knows?

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Speaker 1: It could be what you suspect. He's not touching you

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Speaker 1: for some reason, maybe because you're depressed, maybe because you

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Speaker 1: know you don't have the energy used to have, or what.

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Speaker 1: It could be a number of reasons. But how is

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Speaker 1: it that your cousin knows about it? Has he seen

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Speaker 1: him or heard anything? Or is he just going by

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Speaker 1: what you told him and trying to put two and

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Speaker 1: two together.

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Speaker 3: Your cousin could be wrong.

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Speaker 1: Instead of talking to your cousin, why didn't you talk

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Speaker 1: to your husband about this? And as far as the

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Speaker 1: baby goes, I mean, kids love to sleep with their parents.

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Speaker 1: They love that. They love to be in bed with

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Speaker 1: mom and dad. You could put him in his own

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Speaker 1: bed when he goes to sleep for good and you

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Speaker 1: and your husband can be intimate then. But your husband

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Speaker 1: not wanting to be intimate with you ever, that is

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Speaker 1: a problem. So this is not about the baby being

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Speaker 1: in bed, his body heat and sweaty feet. I mean

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Speaker 1: he's a baby, you know, I mean a six year old.

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Speaker 1: This is about is your husband cheating on you and

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Speaker 1: what's wrong with your marriage? The answer is your husband

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Speaker 1: might be, but because you're lying there in bed with

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Speaker 1: him and there's no action going on, your marriage is

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Speaker 1: in trouble.

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Speaker 3: That's for sure.

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Speaker 1: There's no romantic interaction between you two and your husband

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Speaker 1: is paying you no attention. You say, so, you gotta

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Speaker 1: you know there's some signs here. You got to stop

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Speaker 1: overlooking them so you can see what's really going on

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Speaker 1: in this marriage and not so you won't have to wonder,

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Speaker 1: you won't have to speculate. Then you can decide how

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Speaker 1: you want to move forward.

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Speaker 4: Steve Wow, Well, ah right, everybody here would go. Has

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Speaker 4: lady been married to this man for twelve years? They

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Speaker 4: had a child before they got married, so they got

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Speaker 4: one child at sixteen. Then she said they had what

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Speaker 4: they call the oops baby six years ago, and after

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Speaker 4: that it threw her into depression. And she's saying because

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Speaker 4: she's in depression because she thought in her forties would

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Speaker 4: be when we were traveling, hang out with our friends

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Speaker 4: and be having a lot of wild sex. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 4: that's what you thought her. You thought, in your farty

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Speaker 4: that's when you'd be traveling and hanging out with your friends.

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Speaker 4: What farty is you talking about? Because I missed them.

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Speaker 4: I missed them forty most people missed them forty you're

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Speaker 2: That's what happened in the movies.

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Speaker 4: But in real life, you ain't traveling and hanging out

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Speaker 4: with your friends, and forties you're trying to pull your

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Speaker 4: life together and forties and forty's man, is a real

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Speaker 4: grind year. What I found it could be different from

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Speaker 4: some but you know, y'all don't hang out with your friends.

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Speaker 4: Y'all don't have no more wild sex. You a born boy,

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Speaker 4: mom and your husband. Both y'all overweight. Oh here we go, Yeah, here,

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Speaker 4: both of y'all overweight. Yeah, that's what y'all. When y'all

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Speaker 4: walk in the room, that's when everybody go here, come

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Speaker 4: to Biggins, what.

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Speaker 2: Here?

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Speaker 4: Come the biggest the biggings anyway, That ain't got nothing

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Speaker 4: to do with everybody.

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Speaker 2: Pick up boy.

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Speaker 4: Listen, I know I'm not joke about that, but we

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Speaker 4: ain't eve gonna focus on that, because that ain't what

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Speaker 4: this letter about.

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Speaker 2: Now.

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Speaker 4: We barely greet each other with the kids when we

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Speaker 4: get home from work and sexy thing of the past

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Speaker 4: because we have a six year old in the bed

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Speaker 4: with us. Up, Pumpy, break stop. What did you just say?

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Speaker 4: We have a six year old in bed with us?

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Speaker 4: Shirley kept calling him a baby at six? Why is

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Speaker 4: your ass in this bed?

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Speaker 2: You six?

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Speaker 4: The baby coming into bed is when the one year

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Speaker 4: old gets scared of two year old, something like, that's

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Speaker 4: a baby in the bed.

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Speaker 2: He's six. His ass go to.

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Speaker 4: School, he walking in classrooms, taking tests. He's six, Shirley

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Speaker 4: talking about Yeah, live baby in your bed?

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Speaker 2: Why is his ass into bed? He six? And it

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Speaker 2: seemed to me like you don't even like him no more.

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Speaker 4: Because you said, I don't want this little person between

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Speaker 4: us with his body heat and all on my side.

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Speaker 2: Damn, ain't that your baby?

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Speaker 3: I know?

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Speaker 1: Hang on, hang on, we'll have part two of your

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Speaker 1: response coming up, Steve at twenty three minutes after the

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Speaker 1: hour of today's Strawberry Letters subject body heat and sweaty feet.

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Speaker 1: We'll get back into it right after this.

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Speaker 3: You're listening Hardy Morning Show.

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Speaker 1: All right, Steve, come on, let's recap today's strawberry letter.

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Speaker 1: The subject is Buddy and sweaty feet.

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Speaker 4: Well, this letter right here is about this couple that

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Speaker 4: got married, they got one sixteen year old, and then

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Speaker 4: they had an oops baby six years ago. And they

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Speaker 4: threw the woman into the pressure because she thought in

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Speaker 4: her me at forty's she was gonna be traveling, hanging

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Speaker 4: out with their friends, and having a lot of wild sex. Okay, Well,

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Speaker 4: like I said, I don't know what forty's you was

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Speaker 4: talking about. I missed them. I'm in my forties. I

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Speaker 4: wasn't traveling a lot, you know, hanging out with my

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Speaker 4: friends and having a bunch.

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Speaker 2: Well, I wasn't traveling and hanging out.

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Speaker 3: That isn't bad.

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Speaker 2: I wasn't traveling and hanging out with a lout for

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Speaker 2: the ohoh boy.

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Speaker 4: Anyway, And then you said, now I'm a boring boy mom,

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Speaker 4: and my husband and.

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Speaker 2: I are both overweight.

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Speaker 4: Normally I would tackle this problem, but this problem ain't

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Speaker 4: about overweight.

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Speaker 2: Called both y'all overweight. We barely agree other with the kiss.

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Speaker 4: It's hard to walk in the room and you're you're

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Speaker 4: sitting down there in your chair, and then he got

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Speaker 4: a bend over with his big ass to kiss you

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Speaker 4: and then being back up.

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Speaker 2: Nothing about the way get in the way of kissing. Though.

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Speaker 4: When you're overweight, overweight, you know you. He go out

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Speaker 4: to the car to say bye. Now you got rolling

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Speaker 4: one down. He got being down in there, win to

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Speaker 4: give you a kiss for you just going back out

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Speaker 4: the driveway and spent time. Well, I can't do it,

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Speaker 4: go down there and then get getting my tie caught

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Speaker 4: on this card. Don't handle now I'm down down there,

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Speaker 4: you dragging my fat ass down. I wasn't gonna say

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Speaker 4: nothing about to being overweight, because I don't really think

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Speaker 4: that's what this letter is about.

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Speaker 2: It's going to it.

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Speaker 4: Well, I couldn't help it, and then we barely greet

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Speaker 4: each other and get home. Sex is a thing of

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Speaker 4: the past because we have a six year old in

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Speaker 4: bed with us. Shirley kept saying the baby. A lot

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Speaker 4: of people sleep with the baby in the bed.

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Speaker 2: He's six. You're talking about the boy to go to school.

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Speaker 4: You're talking about the boy to go play recess, throwing

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Speaker 2: That boy.

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Speaker 4: Do you want to come sleep in the bed? Yeah,

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Speaker 4: y'all got to be y'all got to be crazy. My

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Speaker 4: husband lets him sleep right in between us, and if

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Speaker 4: I go to put him in his own bed, my

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Speaker 4: husband is cool with letting him come back in the

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Speaker 4: eye bed. I asked my husband's a way to keep

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Speaker 4: from having sex with me? And he said he didn't

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Speaker 4: think I wanted him no more. See, this is two

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Speaker 4: big people talking. This is two big people. Can I

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Speaker 4: have my husband? See I'm telling you what it is?

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Speaker 4: They both over. I didn't think this was about weight,

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Speaker 4: but I wasn't gonna touch on it. But all these

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Speaker 4: weight issues keep coming up. I asked my husband if

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Speaker 4: it's a way to keep from having sex with me.

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Speaker 2: He said he ain't think I wanted him no more.

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Speaker 4: He'dne looked at you. You done looked at him, and

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Speaker 4: he'd have said, who in the hell want my big

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Speaker 4: want me? He said, cause this is too much.

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Speaker 2: I can't you know I can't. I can't toss you

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Speaker 2: like I used to. I can't handle it. You know.

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Speaker 2: It's just a lot of work for me.

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Speaker 4: This is about with And then and he said he

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Speaker 4: didn't think I want him anymore. Now, what I don't

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Speaker 4: want is this little person between us, with his body

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Speaker 4: heat all on my side of the bed. I also

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Speaker 4: do not want his little sweaty feet touching me during

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Speaker 4: the night. Wait a minute, is this your baby. Where'd

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Speaker 4: y'all get the baby from? Why are you talking about

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Speaker 4: him like you don't even notice? You might as well

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Speaker 4: just say, who is this little mL in this bed

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Speaker 4: with us?

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Speaker 2: That's what you might have worn? Said?

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Speaker 3: Oh my goodness, what that's what it sounds like she's saying.

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Speaker 2: Don't the.

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Speaker 4: Man who put this little thing into bed with us?

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Speaker 4: Damn it's your baby? You you you really did.

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Speaker 2: Suffer from depression.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, and uh, I want my husband's body heat all

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Speaker 4: on me at night. No, you don't, not with his

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Speaker 4: overweight ass. You don't, I'm telling you right now. You

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Speaker 4: think you want him all over you at nothing? You

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Speaker 4: ever had a fat person lay up against you at night?

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Speaker 2: Boy? You know how hot they get in there?

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Speaker 3: That what you're saying you have?

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Speaker 4: No, I've had a regular sized person against me, and

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Speaker 4: I want him to go lay over there somewhere.

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Speaker 2: Oh I want to cuddle. Hey, Hey, I'm telling you

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Speaker 2: I'm hot. Now. Now you get a big.

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Speaker 3: Person worked up a sweat.

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Speaker 2: You're gonna have a problem.

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Speaker 4: My husband said, our son has sweet feet and his

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Speaker 4: tiny heart is warm because he's between us every night.

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Speaker 4: I'm starting to lead between the lines and my I

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Speaker 4: have an overlooking a lot of stuff.

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Speaker 2: And it's obviously my male cousin.

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Speaker 4: When I told him about my marriage right away, he said,

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Speaker 4: my husband cheating on man. He using our son to

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Speaker 4: stay away from me at night. That's true. The son

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Speaker 4: is a blocker. He bringing the son in at the block.

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Speaker 4: My cousband said he noticed that my husband keeps his

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Speaker 4: phone on silent all the time. This is something I

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Speaker 4: never paid attention to. Is my cousband on to something?

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Speaker 4: Is our son in our bed for a reason? Please

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Speaker 4: help well? Your son is in the bed for a

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Speaker 4: couple of reasons, because something is wrong with y'all parenting skills.

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Speaker 2: Y'all don't know how to make his little tall ass

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Speaker 2: day in a bed.

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Speaker 4: No, it's two fat people in the bed, and I

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Speaker 4: don't even know how y'all sleeping.

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Speaker 2: At all all them people.

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Speaker 3: You gotta go.

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Speaker 2: And his little.

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Speaker 4: Ass is sweating because he and that lay in between

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Speaker 4: two fat ass people.

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Speaker 2: It ain't your baby fault on low road, so I'm

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Speaker 2: surprised you baby ain't passed that fat ass.

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Speaker 3: Just cook it your comments, We gotta go, Steve.

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