Speaker 1: Rooking jewels, second dat up date. I think I know
Speaker 1: exactly why the girl on the phone for a second
Speaker 1: date update today isn't getting a call back. Okay, it's
Speaker 1: because she moved way too quick. Yep. I read her email.
Speaker 1: I says she met a guy on a dating app
Speaker 1: and get this, she talked to him for two months
Speaker 1: and then they went out on a date way too quick. Mel. Yeah, sorry, Mel,
Speaker 1: what are you thinking? Are you making fun of me
Speaker 1: for taking it slow? No? I'm like, whatever happened to
Speaker 1: the seven month rule standard? I know, I know, it
Speaker 1: seems crazy that it took her long. Why didn't it
Speaker 1: take two months to go out with this guy? Are
Speaker 1: you that cautious? No? I mean it's just kind of
Speaker 1: timing and everything. First, you know, when you're on those apps,
Speaker 1: like you meet like eight million different people. So first
Speaker 1: it was like the little highest, you know. Over the
Speaker 1: next couple of weeks, it slowly kind of ramped up.
Speaker 1: Then we were starting to like get a little flirting,
Speaker 1: you have a little fun, and we was all g rated,
Speaker 1: but we were texting constantly. You know. It was kind
Speaker 1: of back and forth and at work with your either
Speaker 1: sneaking peaks at your phone, you kid, you know, you
Speaker 1: hurt the little gang and you're all excited. So, oh,
Speaker 1: is this normally how you do it with dates? It
Speaker 1: takes you this long? No? No, this one was just
Speaker 1: a cool situation kind of that we were actually taking
Speaker 1: a little time to get to know each other. And yeah,
Speaker 1: it sounds like you guys actually got to know each
Speaker 1: other better than I know anybody in my life. Too
Speaker 1: much texting back and forth, and then you guys actually
Speaker 1: went out. What did you guys do when you finally
Speaker 1: met up? We just met for drinks and we just
Speaker 1: kind of clicked right off the bat. I mean I
Speaker 1: was laughing so hard. My face was hurting, you know
Speaker 1: how when your cheeks starts to hurt because you're having
Speaker 1: so much fun and you sound like you're a hard
Speaker 1: person to get to laugh. So I imagine he was
Speaker 1: really hysterical. Yeah. True, I hope he was really funny,
Speaker 1: and I just really liked him. If we just kept
Speaker 1: talking and talking and we're kind of, you know, having
Speaker 1: a drink and you know a couple of times you
Speaker 1: felt bad, It's like, oh my gosh, this is going
Speaker 1: on a long time. I'm having a really good time,
Speaker 1: but I didn't want him to be stuck, so he's
Speaker 1: like trying to give him an out, and I was like,
Speaker 1: you know, it's late, I understand if you need to go.
Speaker 1: We're going to work tomorrow and all that. And he's like, no,
Speaker 1: you know, it's like I'm having too much fun. I
Speaker 1: don't want to go. And that's how exactly how I felt.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, that's good. And at least you guys didn't
Speaker 1: like learn everything about each other that two months and
Speaker 1: then you had nothing to talk about. You're like, yeah,
Speaker 1: I know everything about you. So how did the date end? Then?
Speaker 1: It was really sweet. He walked me to my car
Speaker 1: and you know he just you know, give me a
Speaker 1: nice kiss on the cheek and said good night. And
Speaker 1: it was great. That is sweet. Was there plans to
Speaker 1: go out again? Well, you know, we'd mentioned that we
Speaker 1: were going to look at our calendars and it just
Speaker 1: changed and all of a sudden, you know, I'm not
Speaker 1: hearing from him. I'm starting all the text conversations. And
Speaker 1: when I got a response back, and it took a
Speaker 1: while to get a response, it would be like really short,
Speaker 1: almost like kind of rude, like it was like a
Speaker 1: completely different person. Wow, Wow, And why do you think
Speaker 1: that is? Do you think you upset him in some way?
Speaker 1: You know, it's so funny. I've been over this so
Speaker 1: many times in my head, and I did realize and
Speaker 1: I feel kind of bad that I did not offer
Speaker 1: to split the check, and because he just kind of
Speaker 1: grabbed it and took care of it. So I didn't
Speaker 1: think anything of it because, you know, gentlemanly on the
Speaker 1: first date. But we were there a long time and
Speaker 1: we had, you know, a good amount of food, so
Speaker 1: I imagine it was probably pretty big bill. Did you
Speaker 1: thank him, I mean, did you thank him for paying? Oh?
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, of course, yeah. I see, you weren't rude.
Speaker 1: But there are a couple other things that that have
Speaker 1: been like kind of occurring to me, and I've had
Speaker 1: plenty of time to think about it. We did talk
Speaker 1: a little bit about like politics and religion, but it
Speaker 1: seems okay because we seemed to be on the same
Speaker 1: page with everything. Here you're both Satan worshippers. That crazy,
Speaker 1: but you know, we just seemed like we were, you know,
Speaker 1: kind of on the same page. So it didn't seem
Speaker 1: like a big deal, didn't seem like it was super controversial.
Speaker 1: And then the only other thing that I didn't think
Speaker 1: it was a big deal, but like while we were
Speaker 1: walking in my car, I told him, I'm like, please
Speaker 1: don't look at my car we get there, because it's
Speaker 1: kind of a mess. Oh yeah, oh god, I understand that.
Speaker 1: You know, I didn't think that much of it, But
Speaker 1: I'm like, I don't know, maybe he was really scoping
Speaker 1: it out the something, and you know, I thought it
Speaker 1: was bad. I don't know, that's not a big deal.
Speaker 1: Do you think he like looked in your car and
Speaker 1: it was filthy and that's why he doesn't want to
Speaker 1: go out with you. And those are the only things.
Speaker 1: I've had an entire week to try to figure this out,
Speaker 1: and those are the only things I can come up with.
Speaker 1: I mean, I don't know, those would be really weird
Speaker 1: reasons not to cause somebody back. I feel like, I mean,
Speaker 1: the religion thing and the politics thing maybe, but if
Speaker 1: he was offended, you think you would know right away
Speaker 1: that you can like see it in their face. Totally
Speaker 1: totally Okay. It's appointing to go from like such a high,
Speaker 1: it's such a low. Oh it's killing me. It's absolutely
Speaker 1: killing me. That's why I'm like, that's why I'm talking
Speaker 1: to you guys. Okay, well, we'll play a song, come back,
Speaker 1: and then call him and get your second day update. Okay,
Speaker 1: think you so much. I really need this. We'll get
Speaker 1: to it in about two months. How about that brooking
Speaker 1: jubil in the morning right in the middle of a
Speaker 1: second date update? And if you're just tuning in, Mel
Speaker 1: is on the phone and she wants to call a
Speaker 1: dude named Evan. Apparently they had a great date. They
Speaker 1: actually talked online for two months before they even went out,
Speaker 1: and then when they had their date, something went horribly
Speaker 1: wrong because mel had something in her car, something that
Speaker 1: she didn't want anybody to know about. And unfortunately, she
Speaker 1: thinks that might be one of the reasons that he's
Speaker 1: not calling her back, because at the end of the
Speaker 1: date everything was going fine and they walked out and
Speaker 1: she said, don't look in my car, and she thinks
Speaker 1: maybe he looked, and Mel, I don't know what you
Speaker 1: had in your car, but I'm thinking you shouldn't have
Speaker 1: drawn attention to what was in there. Okay, you're probably right,
Speaker 1: but I mean, it wasn't that bad. It's just a
Speaker 1: whole lot of stuff. There is it a lot of
Speaker 1: stuff like your gym bag and your work stuff. Or
Speaker 1: is it like a lot of old food rappers and
Speaker 1: dirty It's mostly like the jim bag and stuff. But
Speaker 1: there might be a couple bags. It's not like a
Speaker 1: big deal. I mean, I could clean it out in
Speaker 1: just a couple of minutes. I just didn't have time
Speaker 1: to do it before I drove there. Are you sure
Speaker 1: there's no bodies of former boyfriends? And no, I'm pretty sure.
Speaker 1: I probably don't even know underneath all the other stuff. Okay,
Speaker 1: pretty MESSI one of those guys could have gotten lost somewhere. Well,
Speaker 1: we're about to call Evan and get him on the
Speaker 1: phone and find out why he's not calling you back.
Speaker 1: Do you have any last words before we make the
Speaker 1: phone call. I just really hoping that there's like a
Speaker 1: good reason and maybe it's something really simple that that
Speaker 1: can be solved, because I can't tell you. I feel
Speaker 1: so happy. It just felt so good. It's the end
Speaker 1: of our day. I'm just kind of baffled by all
Speaker 1: the man I'm nervous, and now I'm going to be
Speaker 1: really sad for you if this doesn't work out. I'm
Speaker 1: gonna be sad too. All right. Well, on that note,
Speaker 1: I'll doll have the phone number and get him on
Speaker 1: the phone and see what he has to say. You ready, Yeah,
Speaker 1: let's do it. Hey, here we go. Hello, Hi, can
Speaker 1: I speak to Evan please? Oh yeah, this is here
Speaker 1: maskw som Yes you may. This is Jewel from Brook
Speaker 1: and Jewel in the Morning. How are you? I'm doing well? Um?
Speaker 1: What can I do for you? Do you have any
Speaker 1: idea who I am or where I'm calling from or anything? No?
Speaker 1: But I mean what what can I do for you? Okay? Well,
Speaker 1: my name is Jewbil and a host of radio show
Speaker 1: called Brooke and Jewel in the Morning. On the phone
Speaker 1: are also Brooke and jose H. How many are there more? People? No?
Speaker 1: This is it right here? Just us? All right? Do
Speaker 1: you need something? What we do? Yeah? We got an
Speaker 1: email about you from one of our listeners. What her
Speaker 1: name is mel? And you guys went out on a
Speaker 1: date the other day? Whoa no? Nah? Nah? Okay, no
Speaker 1: no you did? Right? Yeah? Yeah you did? Yeah? Yeah? Yeah?
Speaker 1: But why is she no? What do you mean that question?
Speaker 1: It's a statement. So let me explain to you. Okay,
Speaker 1: we do a segment on our show called the Second
Speaker 1: date update. That's where if you go out on a
Speaker 1: date with somebody and then end up giving them the
Speaker 1: cold shoulder after they email us to see if we
Speaker 1: can get you on the phone and find out what
Speaker 1: went wrong. So you've been kind of avoiding mail, and
Speaker 1: she was hoping maybe we could talk to you and
Speaker 1: figure out why. Oh come on, this is low. This
Speaker 1: is not what is not a thing? What's low about it?
Speaker 1: I mean she was really into you, man. She said
Speaker 1: that you guys talked for two months leading up to
Speaker 1: the date. I mean, yeah, but that's none of your business. Well,
Speaker 1: she sort of made it our business. So now we're
Speaker 1: on the phone with you asking why you don't want
Speaker 1: to see her again. Dude, I mean, you could have
Speaker 1: just told her to begin with and we would have
Speaker 1: avoided all of this. Oh no, she's she's not the
Speaker 1: woman I envisioned myself being with. Oh no, okay, is
Speaker 1: it a looks thing? Is that we are implying? Oh no,
Speaker 1: I'm not. I'm not that superficial. So it's about her personality,
Speaker 1: not her looks that it's not. It's who she is
Speaker 1: as a person that is deep. Man. What don't you
Speaker 1: like about her as a person? We talked to her,
Speaker 1: you know, and found out a little bit about your day,
Speaker 1: and she sounded cool to me, sounded nice. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: she's very nice. She's a very nice girl. Okay, it's
Speaker 1: kind of the problem. I mean, nice girls are good
Speaker 1: to work with, they're good to have his sisters. That's
Speaker 1: not what I'm into. Wait, she's nice and you don't
Speaker 1: like her because you want a bad girl? Yeah, okay,
Speaker 1: all right? Is that it? Yeah? I mean she's not
Speaker 1: mean enough, mean like you wanted her to insult you
Speaker 1: or the woman I'm attracted to needs to have an edge? Okay,
Speaker 1: and what what does that mean for you? How do
Speaker 1: you define a woman with an edge? It's like she's
Speaker 1: got this air of danger about her, you know, a
Speaker 1: little a little off a cuff, something not right, slightly
Speaker 1: mentally unstable. Is kind of what you're looking for? No, no, no,
Speaker 1: I just want I want a girl that you know,
Speaker 1: can lash out kind of on a on a moment's notice,
Speaker 1: or like no reason. So surprised me. All right, So
Speaker 1: you're looking for a girl who's a little bipolar. No,
Speaker 1: it's just these nice girls. What you see is what
Speaker 1: you get, and that's that's no fun. Okay, all right.
Speaker 1: I guess there's something for everybody out there, and I'm
Speaker 1: sure there's plenty of women like you're describing that are
Speaker 1: looking for a guy who likes that. Yeah, that's watching.
Speaker 1: On our date, I brought up politics, you know, politics
Speaker 1: are the perfect opportunity to argue about something, and then
Speaker 1: she just ended up agreeing with everything that I said,
Speaker 1: and it was really boring. I mean, I kind of
Speaker 1: get what you're saying, but I feel like you guys
Speaker 1: talked and texted for two months leading up to this date.
Speaker 1: Didn't you realize she was a nice person before you
Speaker 1: tried to bait her with politics. I mean, hey, I'm
Speaker 1: not the same person over texts as I am in
Speaker 1: real life, and I was kind of hoping she was
Speaker 1: the same way. Okay, so you're hoping she was just
Speaker 1: playing sweet to lure you to dinner and then she
Speaker 1: was just going to rip your head off about something.
Speaker 1: You never know. Some women, there's there's always this mystery
Speaker 1: around them, but with her, there wasn't any. Well, Evan,
Speaker 1: there is a little bit of mystery because she's actually
Speaker 1: on the other line listening right now. I wants to
Speaker 1: talk to you. What she is yep, I am, and
Speaker 1: I didn't mean for you to hear all that. I'm sorry.
Speaker 1: This is the absolutely dumbest reason I have ever heard
Speaker 1: or could even imagine, not like someone I'm too nice? Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's just what I like. And I just wasn't that
Speaker 1: into you know how nice you were being. You weren't
Speaker 1: being at all. No fire there sounds so ridiculous. Well,
Speaker 1: this is officially the stupidest thing you have ever done
Speaker 1: in your entire life. And I'm starting to like, really
Speaker 1: kind of question that I thought you seemed so intelligent
Speaker 1: and thoughtful and rational, and you're really turning that around
Speaker 1: for me. I'm not quite so sure about your IQ anymore.
Speaker 1: How many intelligent conversations we can have? Is that more
Speaker 1: what you like? That here after looks? Does that satisfy you?
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie. That turned me on a little bit.
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, I could be a mean girl. You're
Speaker 1: like a masochist. I'm not like that, guys. I just
Speaker 1: like a girl with a little bit of edge. And like,
Speaker 1: I know she's trying right now, but that's the point
Speaker 1: is she has to try. Yeah, mel, you should not
Speaker 1: have to try to be a horrible person. You should
Speaker 1: just be a horrible person. Seriously, because we agree on politics,
Speaker 1: we can't sit and watch cable news and get riled
Speaker 1: up and yell at the TV. We have to yell
Speaker 1: at each other. Maybe you guys have things that you
Speaker 1: can get angry on together. I just want someone to
Speaker 1: go after like me a little bit, call me out
Speaker 1: on my stuff. I don't need anyone to be yelling
Speaker 1: at Anderson Cooper for me. You want to be yelling
Speaker 1: for Anderson Cooper and you want them to be behind
Speaker 1: you about to hit you over the head with a
Speaker 1: frying pan because they disagree. I sorry, think it could
Speaker 1: be east Bearing easier to yell at you, Evan. I
Speaker 1: was like, maybe I could become that person. You know,
Speaker 1: you say that, but I don't. I don't think it's
Speaker 1: actually in you. I think when push comes to shove,
Speaker 1: you're just going to be very pleasant. Oh why why
Speaker 1: didn't you man up and just tell me that? Oh
Speaker 1: there you go, Evan, she's questioning your manhood. Are you
Speaker 1: questioning my manhood? Yeah? Oh yes I am, Thank you
Speaker 1: very much. Well I don't like it. Well, apparently that's
Speaker 1: what you do like, And you're gonna sit there and
Speaker 1: take it like you should. Yeah, I feel like we're
Speaker 1: getting in the middle of something. Hell, this is this
Speaker 1: is kind of riling me up. It's not a bad thing. Well,
Speaker 1: now that you're all riled up, Evan, would you like
Speaker 1: to go out on a second date with Mel? We
Speaker 1: will pay for it? Yeah, bro, you know if she
Speaker 1: can keep this suck? Yeah, definitely with him, don't. I mean,
Speaker 1: it's not bad that what he wants. But like, you
Speaker 1: don't need to change who you are. Mel, I don't
Speaker 1: think you're right. I don't think there's a thing. It's
Speaker 1: being too nice And no, I'm not interested anymore. What
Speaker 1: are you talking about? You called me, you had these
Speaker 1: people call me, So now you're into it? Evan? What
Speaker 1: good thing I did? Because I found out what you're
Speaker 1: really like? And now I won't keep thinking you were
Speaker 1: so amazing. I know the truth. I just found out
Speaker 1: what you were like. I like it, like it. So
Speaker 1: now Mel Evan is officially interested, although now you don't
Speaker 1: want to go out with him? Right? No? Yeah, I'm done? Okay, Okay,
Speaker 1: well full circle. It really did. Mel. Thank you for
Speaker 1: doing the second date update today. I'm sure you can
Speaker 1: find a guy out there who likes a nice lady.
Speaker 1: Thank you, you're welcome. And Evan, yeah, you can keep
Speaker 1: trying for a date with mel and if that doesn't work,
Speaker 1: I got some ex girlfriends numbers for you. Love them.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, broken jewil in the morning.