WEBVTT - Second Date Update PODCAST: No More Mrs. Nice Girl

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<v Speaker 1>Rooking jewels, second dat up date. I think I know

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<v Speaker 1>exactly why the girl on the phone for a second

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<v Speaker 1>date update today isn't getting a call back. Okay, it's

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<v Speaker 1>because she moved way too quick. Yep. I read her email.

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<v Speaker 1>I says she met a guy on a dating app

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<v Speaker 1>and get this, she talked to him for two months

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<v Speaker 1>and then they went out on a date way too quick. Mel. Yeah, sorry, Mel,

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<v Speaker 1>what are you thinking? Are you making fun of me

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<v Speaker 1>for taking it slow? No? I'm like, whatever happened to

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<v Speaker 1>the seven month rule standard? I know, I know, it

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<v Speaker 1>seems crazy that it took her long. Why didn't it

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<v Speaker 1>take two months to go out with this guy? Are

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<v Speaker 1>you that cautious? No? I mean it's just kind of

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<v Speaker 1>timing and everything. First, you know, when you're on those apps,

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<v Speaker 1>like you meet like eight million different people. So first

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<v Speaker 1>it was like the little highest, you know. Over the

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<v Speaker 1>next couple of weeks, it slowly kind of ramped up.

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<v Speaker 1>Then we were starting to like get a little flirting,

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<v Speaker 1>you have a little fun, and we was all g rated,

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<v Speaker 1>but we were texting constantly. You know. It was kind

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<v Speaker 1>of back and forth and at work with your either

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<v Speaker 1>sneaking peaks at your phone, you kid, you know, you

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<v Speaker 1>hurt the little gang and you're all excited. So, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>is this normally how you do it with dates? It

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<v Speaker 1>takes you this long? No? No, this one was just

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<v Speaker 1>a cool situation kind of that we were actually taking

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<v Speaker 1>a little time to get to know each other. And yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it sounds like you guys actually got to know each

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<v Speaker 1>other better than I know anybody in my life. Too

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<v Speaker 1>much texting back and forth, and then you guys actually

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<v Speaker 1>went out. What did you guys do when you finally

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<v Speaker 1>met up? We just met for drinks and we just

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<v Speaker 1>kind of clicked right off the bat. I mean I

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<v Speaker 1>was laughing so hard. My face was hurting, you know

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<v Speaker 1>how when your cheeks starts to hurt because you're having

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<v Speaker 1>so much fun and you sound like you're a hard

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<v Speaker 1>person to get to laugh. So I imagine he was

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<v Speaker 1>really hysterical. Yeah. True, I hope he was really funny,

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<v Speaker 1>and I just really liked him. If we just kept

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<v Speaker 1>talking and talking and we're kind of, you know, having

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<v Speaker 1>a drink and you know a couple of times you

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<v Speaker 1>felt bad, It's like, oh my gosh, this is going

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<v Speaker 1>on a long time. I'm having a really good time,

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<v Speaker 1>but I didn't want him to be stuck, so he's

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<v Speaker 1>like trying to give him an out, and I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, it's late, I understand if you need to go.

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<v Speaker 1>We're going to work tomorrow and all that. And he's like, no,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, it's like I'm having too much fun. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't want to go. And that's how exactly how I felt.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, that's good. And at least you guys didn't

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<v Speaker 1>like learn everything about each other that two months and

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<v Speaker 1>then you had nothing to talk about. You're like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I know everything about you. So how did the date end? Then?

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<v Speaker 1>It was really sweet. He walked me to my car

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<v Speaker 1>and you know he just you know, give me a

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<v Speaker 1>nice kiss on the cheek and said good night. And

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<v Speaker 1>it was great. That is sweet. Was there plans to

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<v Speaker 1>go out again? Well, you know, we'd mentioned that we

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<v Speaker 1>were going to look at our calendars and it just

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<v Speaker 1>changed and all of a sudden, you know, I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>hearing from him. I'm starting all the text conversations. And

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<v Speaker 1>when I got a response back, and it took a

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<v Speaker 1>while to get a response, it would be like really short,

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<v Speaker 1>almost like kind of rude, like it was like a

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<v Speaker 1>completely different person. Wow, Wow, And why do you think

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<v Speaker 1>that is? Do you think you upset him in some way?

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<v Speaker 1>You know, it's so funny. I've been over this so

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<v Speaker 1>many times in my head, and I did realize and

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<v Speaker 1>I feel kind of bad that I did not offer

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<v Speaker 1>to split the check, and because he just kind of

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<v Speaker 1>grabbed it and took care of it. So I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>think anything of it because, you know, gentlemanly on the

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<v Speaker 1>first date. But we were there a long time and

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<v Speaker 1>we had, you know, a good amount of food, so

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<v Speaker 1>I imagine it was probably pretty big bill. Did you

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<v Speaker 1>thank him, I mean, did you thank him for paying? Oh?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my gosh, of course, yeah. I see, you weren't rude.

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<v Speaker 1>But there are a couple other things that that have

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<v Speaker 1>been like kind of occurring to me, and I've had

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<v Speaker 1>plenty of time to think about it. We did talk

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit about like politics and religion, but it

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<v Speaker 1>seems okay because we seemed to be on the same

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<v Speaker 1>page with everything. Here you're both Satan worshippers. That crazy,

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<v Speaker 1>but you know, we just seemed like we were, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>kind of on the same page. So it didn't seem

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<v Speaker 1>like a big deal, didn't seem like it was super controversial.

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<v Speaker 1>And then the only other thing that I didn't think

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<v Speaker 1>it was a big deal, but like while we were

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<v Speaker 1>walking in my car, I told him, I'm like, please

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<v Speaker 1>don't look at my car we get there, because it's

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<v Speaker 1>kind of a mess. Oh yeah, oh god, I understand that.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, I didn't think that much of it, But

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, I don't know, maybe he was really scoping

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<v Speaker 1>it out the something, and you know, I thought it

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<v Speaker 1>was bad. I don't know, that's not a big deal.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you think he like looked in your car and

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<v Speaker 1>it was filthy and that's why he doesn't want to

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<v Speaker 1>go out with you. And those are the only things.

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<v Speaker 1>I've had an entire week to try to figure this out,

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<v Speaker 1>and those are the only things I can come up with.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I don't know, those would be really weird

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<v Speaker 1>reasons not to cause somebody back. I feel like, I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>the religion thing and the politics thing maybe, but if

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<v Speaker 1>he was offended, you think you would know right away

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<v Speaker 1>that you can like see it in their face. Totally

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<v Speaker 1>totally Okay. It's appointing to go from like such a high,

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<v Speaker 1>it's such a low. Oh it's killing me. It's absolutely

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<v Speaker 1>killing me. That's why I'm like, that's why I'm talking

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<v Speaker 1>to you guys. Okay, well, we'll play a song, come back,

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<v Speaker 1>and then call him and get your second day update. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>think you so much. I really need this. We'll get

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<v Speaker 1>to it in about two months. How about that brooking

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<v Speaker 1>jubil in the morning right in the middle of a

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<v Speaker 1>second date update? And if you're just tuning in, Mel

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<v Speaker 1>is on the phone and she wants to call a

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<v Speaker 1>dude named Evan. Apparently they had a great date. They

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<v Speaker 1>actually talked online for two months before they even went out,

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<v Speaker 1>and then when they had their date, something went horribly

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<v Speaker 1>wrong because mel had something in her car, something that

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<v Speaker 1>she didn't want anybody to know about. And unfortunately, she

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<v Speaker 1>thinks that might be one of the reasons that he's

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<v Speaker 1>not calling her back, because at the end of the

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<v Speaker 1>date everything was going fine and they walked out and

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<v Speaker 1>she said, don't look in my car, and she thinks

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<v Speaker 1>maybe he looked, and Mel, I don't know what you

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<v Speaker 1>had in your car, but I'm thinking you shouldn't have

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<v Speaker 1>drawn attention to what was in there. Okay, you're probably right,

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<v Speaker 1>but I mean, it wasn't that bad. It's just a

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<v Speaker 1>whole lot of stuff. There is it a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>stuff like your gym bag and your work stuff. Or

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<v Speaker 1>is it like a lot of old food rappers and

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<v Speaker 1>dirty It's mostly like the jim bag and stuff. But

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<v Speaker 1>there might be a couple bags. It's not like a

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<v Speaker 1>big deal. I mean, I could clean it out in

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<v Speaker 1>just a couple of minutes. I just didn't have time

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<v Speaker 1>to do it before I drove there. Are you sure

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<v Speaker 1>there's no bodies of former boyfriends? And no, I'm pretty sure.

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<v Speaker 1>I probably don't even know underneath all the other stuff. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>pretty MESSI one of those guys could have gotten lost somewhere. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>we're about to call Evan and get him on the

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<v Speaker 1>phone and find out why he's not calling you back.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you have any last words before we make the

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<v Speaker 1>phone call. I just really hoping that there's like a

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<v Speaker 1>good reason and maybe it's something really simple that that

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<v Speaker 1>can be solved, because I can't tell you. I feel

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<v Speaker 1>so happy. It just felt so good. It's the end

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<v Speaker 1>of our day. I'm just kind of baffled by all

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<v Speaker 1>the man I'm nervous, and now I'm going to be

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<v Speaker 1>really sad for you if this doesn't work out. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>gonna be sad too. All right. Well, on that note,

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<v Speaker 1>I'll doll have the phone number and get him on

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<v Speaker 1>the phone and see what he has to say. You ready, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>let's do it. Hey, here we go. Hello, Hi, can

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<v Speaker 1>I speak to Evan please? Oh yeah, this is here

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<v Speaker 1>maskw som Yes you may. This is Jewel from Brook

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<v Speaker 1>and Jewel in the Morning. How are you? I'm doing well? Um?

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<v Speaker 1>What can I do for you? Do you have any

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<v Speaker 1>idea who I am or where I'm calling from or anything? No?

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<v Speaker 1>But I mean what what can I do for you? Okay? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>my name is Jewbil and a host of radio show

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<v Speaker 1>called Brooke and Jewel in the Morning. On the phone

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<v Speaker 1>are also Brooke and jose H. How many are there more? People? No?

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<v Speaker 1>This is it right here? Just us? All right? Do

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<v Speaker 1>you need something? What we do? Yeah? We got an

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<v Speaker 1>email about you from one of our listeners. What her

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<v Speaker 1>name is mel? And you guys went out on a

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<v Speaker 1>date the other day? Whoa no? Nah? Nah? Okay, no

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<v Speaker 1>no you did? Right? Yeah? Yeah you did? Yeah? Yeah? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>But why is she no? What do you mean that question?

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<v Speaker 1>It's a statement. So let me explain to you. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>we do a segment on our show called the Second

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<v Speaker 1>date update. That's where if you go out on a

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<v Speaker 1>date with somebody and then end up giving them the

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<v Speaker 1>cold shoulder after they email us to see if we

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<v Speaker 1>can get you on the phone and find out what

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<v Speaker 1>went wrong. So you've been kind of avoiding mail, and

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<v Speaker 1>she was hoping maybe we could talk to you and

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<v Speaker 1>figure out why. Oh come on, this is low. This

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<v Speaker 1>is not what is not a thing? What's low about it?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean she was really into you, man. She said

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<v Speaker 1>that you guys talked for two months leading up to

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<v Speaker 1>the date. I mean, yeah, but that's none of your business. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>she sort of made it our business. So now we're

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<v Speaker 1>on the phone with you asking why you don't want

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<v Speaker 1>to see her again. Dude, I mean, you could have

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<v Speaker 1>just told her to begin with and we would have

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<v Speaker 1>avoided all of this. Oh no, she's she's not the

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<v Speaker 1>woman I envisioned myself being with. Oh no, okay, is

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<v Speaker 1>it a looks thing? Is that we are implying? Oh no,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not. I'm not that superficial. So it's about her personality,

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<v Speaker 1>not her looks that it's not. It's who she is

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<v Speaker 1>as a person that is deep. Man. What don't you

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<v Speaker 1>like about her as a person? We talked to her,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, and found out a little bit about your day,

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<v Speaker 1>and she sounded cool to me, sounded nice. Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>she's very nice. She's a very nice girl. Okay, it's

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<v Speaker 1>kind of the problem. I mean, nice girls are good

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<v Speaker 1>to work with, they're good to have his sisters. That's

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<v Speaker 1>not what I'm into. Wait, she's nice and you don't

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<v Speaker 1>like her because you want a bad girl? Yeah, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>all right? Is that it? Yeah? I mean she's not

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<v Speaker 1>mean enough, mean like you wanted her to insult you

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<v Speaker 1>or the woman I'm attracted to needs to have an edge? Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>and what what does that mean for you? How do

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<v Speaker 1>you define a woman with an edge? It's like she's

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<v Speaker 1>got this air of danger about her, you know, a

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<v Speaker 1>little a little off a cuff, something not right, slightly

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<v Speaker 1>mentally unstable. Is kind of what you're looking for? No, no, no,

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<v Speaker 1>I just want I want a girl that you know,

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<v Speaker 1>can lash out kind of on a on a moment's notice,

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<v Speaker 1>or like no reason. So surprised me. All right, So

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<v Speaker 1>you're looking for a girl who's a little bipolar. No,

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<v Speaker 1>it's just these nice girls. What you see is what

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<v Speaker 1>you get, and that's that's no fun. Okay, all right.

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<v Speaker 1>I guess there's something for everybody out there, and I'm

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<v Speaker 1>sure there's plenty of women like you're describing that are

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<v Speaker 1>looking for a guy who likes that. Yeah, that's watching.

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<v Speaker 1>On our date, I brought up politics, you know, politics

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<v Speaker 1>are the perfect opportunity to argue about something, and then

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<v Speaker 1>she just ended up agreeing with everything that I said,

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<v Speaker 1>and it was really boring. I mean, I kind of

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<v Speaker 1>get what you're saying, but I feel like you guys

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<v Speaker 1>talked and texted for two months leading up to this date.

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<v Speaker 1>Didn't you realize she was a nice person before you

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<v Speaker 1>tried to bait her with politics. I mean, hey, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not the same person over texts as I am in

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<v Speaker 1>real life, and I was kind of hoping she was

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<v Speaker 1>the same way. Okay, so you're hoping she was just

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<v Speaker 1>playing sweet to lure you to dinner and then she

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<v Speaker 1>was just going to rip your head off about something.

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<v Speaker 1>You never know. Some women, there's there's always this mystery

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<v Speaker 1>around them, but with her, there wasn't any. Well, Evan,

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<v Speaker 1>there is a little bit of mystery because she's actually

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<v Speaker 1>on the other line listening right now. I wants to

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<v Speaker 1>talk to you. What she is yep, I am, and

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't mean for you to hear all that. I'm sorry.

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<v Speaker 1>This is the absolutely dumbest reason I have ever heard

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<v Speaker 1>or could even imagine, not like someone I'm too nice? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it's just what I like. And I just wasn't that

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<v Speaker 1>into you know how nice you were being. You weren't

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<v Speaker 1>being at all. No fire there sounds so ridiculous. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>this is officially the stupidest thing you have ever done

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<v Speaker 1>in your entire life. And I'm starting to like, really

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<v Speaker 1>kind of question that I thought you seemed so intelligent

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<v Speaker 1>and thoughtful and rational, and you're really turning that around

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<v Speaker 1>for me. I'm not quite so sure about your IQ anymore.

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<v Speaker 1>How many intelligent conversations we can have? Is that more

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<v Speaker 1>what you like? That here after looks? Does that satisfy you?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not gonna lie. That turned me on a little bit.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my gosh, I could be a mean girl. You're

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<v Speaker 1>like a masochist. I'm not like that, guys. I just

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<v Speaker 1>like a girl with a little bit of edge. And like,

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<v Speaker 1>I know she's trying right now, but that's the point

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<v Speaker 1>is she has to try. Yeah, mel, you should not

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<v Speaker 1>have to try to be a horrible person. You should

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<v Speaker 1>just be a horrible person. Seriously, because we agree on politics,

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<v Speaker 1>we can't sit and watch cable news and get riled

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<v Speaker 1>up and yell at the TV. We have to yell

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<v Speaker 1>at each other. Maybe you guys have things that you

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<v Speaker 1>can get angry on together. I just want someone to

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<v Speaker 1>go after like me a little bit, call me out

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<v Speaker 1>on my stuff. I don't need anyone to be yelling

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<v Speaker 1>at Anderson Cooper for me. You want to be yelling

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<v Speaker 1>for Anderson Cooper and you want them to be behind

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<v Speaker 1>you about to hit you over the head with a

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<v Speaker 1>frying pan because they disagree. I sorry, think it could

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<v Speaker 1>be east Bearing easier to yell at you, Evan. I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, maybe I could become that person. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>you say that, but I don't. I don't think it's

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<v Speaker 1>actually in you. I think when push comes to shove,

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<v Speaker 1>you're just going to be very pleasant. Oh why why

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<v Speaker 1>didn't you man up and just tell me that? Oh

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<v Speaker 1>there you go, Evan, she's questioning your manhood. Are you

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<v Speaker 1>questioning my manhood? Yeah? Oh yes I am, Thank you

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<v Speaker 1>very much. Well I don't like it. Well, apparently that's

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<v Speaker 1>what you do like, And you're gonna sit there and

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<v Speaker 1>take it like you should. Yeah, I feel like we're

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<v Speaker 1>getting in the middle of something. Hell, this is this

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<v Speaker 1>is kind of riling me up. It's not a bad thing. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>now that you're all riled up, Evan, would you like

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<v Speaker 1>to go out on a second date with Mel? We

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<v Speaker 1>will pay for it? Yeah, bro, you know if she

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<v Speaker 1>can keep this suck? Yeah, definitely with him, don't. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>it's not bad that what he wants. But like, you

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<v Speaker 1>don't need to change who you are. Mel, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>think you're right. I don't think there's a thing. It's

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<v Speaker 1>being too nice And no, I'm not interested anymore. What

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<v Speaker 1>are you talking about? You called me, you had these

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<v Speaker 1>people call me, So now you're into it? Evan? What

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<v Speaker 1>good thing I did? Because I found out what you're

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<v Speaker 1>really like? And now I won't keep thinking you were

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<v Speaker 1>so amazing. I know the truth. I just found out

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<v Speaker 1>what you were like. I like it, like it. So

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<v Speaker 1>now Mel Evan is officially interested, although now you don't

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<v Speaker 1>want to go out with him? Right? No? Yeah, I'm done? Okay, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>well full circle. It really did. Mel. Thank you for

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<v Speaker 1>doing the second date update today. I'm sure you can

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<v Speaker 1>find a guy out there who likes a nice lady.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you, you're welcome. And Evan, yeah, you can keep

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<v Speaker 1>trying for a date with mel and if that doesn't work,

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<v Speaker 1>I got some ex girlfriends numbers for you. Love them.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, broken jewil in the morning.