WEBVTT - Awkward Tuesday: Met At My Wedding 0:00:00.120 --> 0:00:02.599 Oh man, I am so curious to see the comment 0:00:02.640 --> 0:00:05.120 section after you listen to the brand new Awkward Tuesday today. 0:00:05.240 --> 0:00:08.280 Oh yeah, welcome to the Second Date podcast. Thank you 0:00:08.360 --> 0:00:11.559 so much for being here and just let us know. 0:00:11.840 --> 0:00:13.200 This is what I want. I think this is a 0:00:13.240 --> 0:00:14.320 really simple question. 0:00:15.080 --> 0:00:18.960 Is it okay to meet someone that you like at 0:00:19.000 --> 0:00:19.680 your own wedding? 0:00:19.840 --> 0:00:22.239 Your own I can't believe you're actually asking this. 0:00:22.400 --> 0:00:22.919 Yeah. 0:00:23.120 --> 0:00:27.640 Remember we all got people at weddings. Yo, that's cool, 0:00:27.640 --> 0:00:29.800 but your wedding. 0:00:29.720 --> 0:00:32.360 Don't judge. Don't judge. You gotta hear her story. 0:00:32.520 --> 0:00:34.600 Okay, it's coming up in just a second, but first 0:00:34.680 --> 0:00:35.760 our comment section. 0:00:36.000 --> 0:00:38.640 Yeah, Ash said, my only request for my birthday this 0:00:38.720 --> 0:00:40.839 year was for my boyfriend to listen to Briock and 0:00:40.880 --> 0:00:43.200 Jeffrey with me. But we sit in silence and play 0:00:43.200 --> 0:00:46.920 games on our phone. You guys make me smile every day. 0:00:47.040 --> 0:00:51.200 Love from Australia's so great. 0:00:51.320 --> 0:00:53.440 All right, Well force him to listen to this one 0:00:53.440 --> 0:00:53.800 as well. 0:00:53.880 --> 0:00:55.280 Yeah, I hope you're listening to this together. 0:00:55.400 --> 0:00:57.280 Yeah, it starts right now. 0:00:58.600 --> 0:01:00.720 In all the years that we've been doing this show, 0:01:01.160 --> 0:01:05.160 and especially with this particular awkward segment, I don't think 0:01:05.200 --> 0:01:10.360 we've ever had a listener sound this nervous and this flustered. 0:01:10.520 --> 0:01:12.760 Yeah, as the woman on the phone did today. 0:01:13.080 --> 0:01:16.800 Yeah, all this anxiety came over a guy that she 0:01:16.880 --> 0:01:21.000 hasn't seen or spoken to for three years. Wow, So 0:01:21.440 --> 0:01:23.080 she knew she needed to take a little bit of 0:01:23.080 --> 0:01:25.800 a risk and take a little bit of our advice. 0:01:26.160 --> 0:01:27.080 Oh yeah, but it was. 0:01:27.120 --> 0:01:30.280 For sure one of the most entertaining phone calls we've 0:01:30.360 --> 0:01:34.680 ever had the pleasure of listening in on. That was 0:01:34.800 --> 0:01:37.200 our gift, and we're gonna give it back to you. 0:01:37.200 --> 0:01:39.160 You're gonna get to hear it in a brand new 0:01:39.240 --> 0:01:40.720 awkward Tuesday phone call. 0:01:41.080 --> 0:01:43.319 Next, It's awkward. 0:01:43.640 --> 0:01:44.399 It's Tuesday. 0:01:45.240 --> 0:01:47.240 It's awkward Tuesday phone call. 0:01:48.280 --> 0:01:50.520 When you think about the different types of people that 0:01:50.560 --> 0:01:54.600 you meet at a wedding, there's the constant crier, the 0:01:54.840 --> 0:02:01.480 overly flirtatious priest and always at least and the guy 0:02:01.560 --> 0:02:04.000 who thinks that maybe in another life he could have 0:02:04.080 --> 0:02:05.840 been a professional breakdancer. 0:02:06.080 --> 0:02:08.800 Oh yes, give me the worm again. 0:02:09.320 --> 0:02:10.760 He's so bendy. 0:02:10.960 --> 0:02:11.440 Wow. 0:02:11.760 --> 0:02:13.560 And that's just to name a few of them, because 0:02:13.560 --> 0:02:16.960 it's just a giant catalog of interesting characters and weddings, 0:02:17.240 --> 0:02:19.360 and maybe you meet one of the other guests, and 0:02:19.400 --> 0:02:22.560 you think, oh wow, that person's kind of cute, oh, 0:02:22.680 --> 0:02:24.280 kind of interesting. 0:02:24.600 --> 0:02:25.880 Always prospects. 0:02:25.919 --> 0:02:29.440 Oh yeah, that tie that he's wearing over his head sexy. 0:02:29.639 --> 0:02:30.720 Oh no, drunk. 0:02:30.919 --> 0:02:33.560 One of our listeners is looking to reconnect with somebody 0:02:33.560 --> 0:02:35.079 that she met at a wedding. 0:02:35.080 --> 0:02:38.160 Three years ago for just a brief moment. 0:02:38.800 --> 0:02:40.600 We don't know why it's taken her this long to 0:02:40.639 --> 0:02:42.959 go for it, but we do want to welcome Denise 0:02:43.120 --> 0:02:43.720 to the show. 0:02:44.200 --> 0:02:45.160 Denise, how you doing it? 0:02:45.960 --> 0:02:47.280 I'm well, how are you? Guys? 0:02:47.360 --> 0:02:50.720 How could anyone make that type of impact where for 0:02:50.960 --> 0:02:52.760 three years you're thinking about them? 0:02:52.880 --> 0:02:53.120 Yeah? 0:02:53.840 --> 0:02:56.480 I think I need to be more specific. It wasn't 0:02:56.760 --> 0:02:59.640 a wedding. It was my wedding. 0:03:01.120 --> 0:03:01.320 I know. 0:03:03.080 --> 0:03:05.600 Maybe she lost the groom and that's what she's talking about. 0:03:07.280 --> 0:03:09.600 Somebody other than the guy you were marrying. 0:03:09.680 --> 0:03:10.079 That's who. 0:03:10.400 --> 0:03:14.480 Oh yes, it's actually a business associate of my then fiance, 0:03:15.840 --> 0:03:17.680 So I know him, but I don't know him. 0:03:17.720 --> 0:03:21.400 Well, he's a business he's in business with your act. 0:03:21.680 --> 0:03:24.160 Before we start any of this, are you single right now? 0:03:25.040 --> 0:03:27.919 We've been separated a year, okay, And he has nothing 0:03:27.960 --> 0:03:29.639 to do with that. It has nothing to do with 0:03:29.800 --> 0:03:30.160 the guy. 0:03:30.360 --> 0:03:32.360 Nothing to do with you checking out other men during 0:03:32.400 --> 0:03:32.799 the wedding. 0:03:35.160 --> 0:03:37.640 At least it wasn't the overly flirtatious priest that you 0:03:37.680 --> 0:03:40.840 were interested in. So it's somebody who knows somebody. 0:03:41.000 --> 0:03:44.040 I met him in the reception line, and then later 0:03:44.520 --> 0:03:47.760 he pulled me aside and he was like, you, I 0:03:47.760 --> 0:03:49.320 wanted to tell you look stunning. 0:03:49.800 --> 0:03:52.760 That's what you say every Brian my wedding day, every 0:03:52.760 --> 0:03:56.000 single guest. Better tell me I look stunny. You should. 0:03:56.840 --> 0:03:58.920 I mean stunning the word itself. It was like a 0:03:58.960 --> 0:04:03.080 three minute conversation and like we weren't flirting the connection 0:04:03.240 --> 0:04:03.800 that we had. 0:04:04.240 --> 0:04:08.120 Oh okay, and we're talking this wedding or your wedding. 0:04:08.320 --> 0:04:10.680 That's the first time that you met him. 0:04:10.640 --> 0:04:11.400 Yes it is? 0:04:11.400 --> 0:04:13.160 Is it the only time you've met him? 0:04:13.600 --> 0:04:15.119 That's the only time I've met him. 0:04:15.280 --> 0:04:17.120 Wow, that's an impact. 0:04:17.279 --> 0:04:21.039 So this happened three years ago at your wedding. Why 0:04:21.080 --> 0:04:23.240 are you coming forward at this point now? 0:04:23.320 --> 0:04:23.400 Like? 0:04:23.440 --> 0:04:26.480 What was it about that interaction that you've never been 0:04:26.520 --> 0:04:27.400 able to forget? 0:04:28.320 --> 0:04:32.239 It was just a connection. He was able to joke 0:04:32.320 --> 0:04:34.640 with me, to connect. We had so much in common. 0:04:35.000 --> 0:04:38.479 It was very sudden and almost like disrupting. 0:04:39.760 --> 0:04:43.400 Okay, Brooke is clearly feeling a little bit skeptical about 0:04:43.400 --> 0:04:44.200 the whole situation. 0:04:44.240 --> 0:04:46.200 You can't see the face that she's making, but. 0:04:48.680 --> 0:04:50.719 I mean, are you wanting to call this guy? Is 0:04:50.720 --> 0:04:52.680 that who we're calling? In the awkward say? 0:04:52.760 --> 0:04:55.720 Yeah, Well, here's the thing. I had a friend at 0:04:55.720 --> 0:04:57.520 the wedding that I tried to hook up with him 0:04:57.560 --> 0:04:59.320 but it didn't end up going out. But she has 0:04:59.360 --> 0:05:02.080 his number and I just brought it up the other 0:05:02.120 --> 0:05:05.440 day and she was very encouraging. She was like, why not? 0:05:05.720 --> 0:05:09.080 He was this radio show that does this exact thing 0:05:09.560 --> 0:05:11.599 called Brook and Jeff Right. 0:05:11.920 --> 0:05:13.160 Well, so I haven't talked to him. 0:05:13.240 --> 0:05:15.119 We can call him and he's like, oh, I'm taking 0:05:15.200 --> 0:05:16.320 and the conversation is over. 0:05:16.520 --> 0:05:19.640 Sure are they close? Yeah? 0:05:19.680 --> 0:05:20.719 They still business together? 0:05:21.320 --> 0:05:21.680 No? 0:05:21.680 --> 0:05:23.680 No, no, no, okay. 0:05:23.320 --> 0:05:23.800 That's good. 0:05:23.880 --> 0:05:26.440 Actually, Brook Brook is still skeptical. 0:05:27.480 --> 0:05:30.360 Is it possible that this is a mess? Like, are 0:05:30.400 --> 0:05:32.240 we sure that this is the right time? 0:05:33.560 --> 0:05:36.920 That's exactly it it. I mean, it doesn't even sound 0:05:36.960 --> 0:05:39.560 like you're divorced yet. And I like, fine, date, do 0:05:39.720 --> 0:05:42.040 whatever you guys need to do. But like, like if 0:05:42.040 --> 0:05:44.720 I met a groom at a wedding and then only 0:05:44.800 --> 0:05:47.640 three years later he calls me and was like, hey, 0:05:47.760 --> 0:05:48.400 let's go out. 0:05:48.440 --> 0:05:51.960 I'd be like, you're nuts, no, thank you. 0:05:55.440 --> 0:05:56.479 It's indescribable. 0:05:57.000 --> 0:05:57.839 Indescribable. 0:05:57.960 --> 0:06:00.600 Yeah, I mean, they do say sometimes love can be messy, 0:06:01.040 --> 0:06:03.640 and I can't imagine it getting more messy than meeting 0:06:03.640 --> 0:06:04.920 the guy at your first wedding. 0:06:06.320 --> 0:06:07.960 Of course what a story. 0:06:08.320 --> 0:06:11.120 Yeah, but that doesn't mean it's not true love waiting 0:06:11.120 --> 0:06:13.080 to happen, right Brook, don't make that face. 0:06:14.080 --> 0:06:14.960 We believe. 0:06:16.320 --> 0:06:16.760 I do. 0:06:16.880 --> 0:06:20.240 I just I mean, I have thought many times that 0:06:20.279 --> 0:06:22.239 I was in love with different people and it turned 0:06:22.240 --> 0:06:26.640 out I wasn't you know after initial meetings, Like those 0:06:26.720 --> 0:06:30.039 first feelings, they can feel big and overwhelming, but they 0:06:30.320 --> 0:06:31.360 can also be made true. 0:06:31.400 --> 0:06:35.480 Why do you keep saying I don't understand. 0:06:35.520 --> 0:06:36.600 They could be a falsehood? 0:06:36.680 --> 0:06:39.440 Alexis, Where where's your head at? Alexis? 0:06:39.560 --> 0:06:41.200 What are red flags? But of course I'm down to 0:06:41.240 --> 0:06:42.080 call him for the drama. 0:06:42.200 --> 0:06:44.400 I mean, oh, this is a selfish wit. You want 0:06:44.440 --> 0:06:44.720 to do it? 0:06:44.920 --> 0:06:47.599 Yeah, But at the same time, Denise is in the 0:06:47.600 --> 0:06:49.599 middle of a separation. It could be kind of a 0:06:49.680 --> 0:06:52.240 sensitive time. She might be in at a fragile stage 0:06:52.279 --> 0:06:56.599 of her life. Is it really worth taking this risk. 0:06:57.480 --> 0:07:01.039 It's absolutely worth taking. I've been separated for a year. Time, 0:07:01.120 --> 0:07:01.520 let's go. 0:07:01.760 --> 0:07:03.279 Yeah, she so caragile. 0:07:03.760 --> 0:07:08.280 Yeah, I'll go after one of my ex husband's colleagues. 0:07:08.360 --> 0:07:10.440 I mean, what are you wanting to ask him? 0:07:10.960 --> 0:07:13.480 I don't know if he's ever What do I say? Like? 0:07:13.680 --> 0:07:15.800 Have you ever thought about me over the past few years? 0:07:15.880 --> 0:07:18.080 Like I've I don't know. 0:07:18.600 --> 0:07:21.280 Okay, you're but you do want to gauge like does 0:07:21.280 --> 0:07:23.000 he have a romantic interest in. 0:07:22.920 --> 0:07:23.600 You at all? 0:07:23.800 --> 0:07:24.760 Yeah? 0:07:24.880 --> 0:07:27.440 Okay, I mean I'm glad we're not calling this a 0:07:27.480 --> 0:07:29.840 second date update, because then we'd have to say. 0:07:29.640 --> 0:07:31.520 So you met this girl on the first date and 0:07:31.640 --> 0:07:32.440 she was the bride? 0:07:32.640 --> 0:07:32.840 Yeah? 0:07:32.920 --> 0:07:35.440 Yeah, what did you think? 0:07:35.600 --> 0:07:37.600 I just know I need advice on this. It's gonna 0:07:37.640 --> 0:07:40.320 sound so weird if I just come out of the blue. 0:07:40.440 --> 0:07:44.120 Yeah, or it's gonna sound super romantic and meant to be. Uh. 0:07:45.600 --> 0:07:48.280 That's how we're gonna frame it when we come back. 0:07:48.560 --> 0:07:52.720 We'll give you some solid advice before you see if 0:07:52.960 --> 0:07:55.640 the guy that was at your wedding three years ago 0:07:55.760 --> 0:07:57.960 has any romantic interest in you now. 0:07:58.480 --> 0:08:00.000 He already knows what you look like in white. 0:08:00.120 --> 0:08:02.000 I guess Yeah, that's good. 0:08:02.520 --> 0:08:05.000 We'll do it with your awkward Tuesday phone call right 0:08:05.040 --> 0:08:09.320 after this. Hold on, it's awkward, it's Tuesday. 0:08:09.360 --> 0:08:11.360 It's awkward Tuesday phone call. 0:08:12.480 --> 0:08:14.760 We've all been a guest at a wedding and as 0:08:14.800 --> 0:08:18.480 the bride is walking down the aisle, you think, dang, 0:08:19.040 --> 0:08:21.400 if she wasn't getting married right now, that would be 0:08:21.520 --> 0:08:27.000 all over. Okay, maybe not all of us have thought that, 0:08:27.480 --> 0:08:29.400 but our listener, Denise is hoping. 0:08:29.680 --> 0:08:32.199 One guy was a guy named. 0:08:31.960 --> 0:08:36.479 Caleb who actually attended her wedding three years. 0:08:36.240 --> 0:08:37.880 Ago, the only time she's ever met him. 0:08:38.000 --> 0:08:41.200 Right now, her marriage did not stand the test of time. 0:08:41.480 --> 0:08:44.800 She's been separated about a year now, but she never 0:08:44.880 --> 0:08:49.800 forgot Caleb, so she's come to us today seeking advice 0:08:49.920 --> 0:08:54.079 on how to gauge his interest three years after they 0:08:54.160 --> 0:08:59.400 met at her nuptials. Definitely a different type of call 0:08:59.480 --> 0:09:00.480 that we're doing today. 0:09:00.520 --> 0:09:03.199 But Brooke, what advice do you have for Denise? 0:09:03.360 --> 0:09:05.680 Okay, Denise, I got to do in a don't all right? 0:09:06.160 --> 0:09:08.320 Okay, go ahead, Okay, don't. 0:09:08.400 --> 0:09:10.800 Bring up the connection that you had at your wedding 0:09:10.800 --> 0:09:12.079 while you were in a bridle ground. 0:09:12.200 --> 0:09:15.040 Okay, don't, okay, Okay. 0:09:15.040 --> 0:09:18.560 Do just tell him your friend who gave you his numbers, 0:09:18.600 --> 0:09:19.600 putting you up to this. 0:09:20.240 --> 0:09:24.480 It was all her idea. You've been and she's like, 0:09:25.000 --> 0:09:26.360 this is the guy you should call. 0:09:26.559 --> 0:09:30.120 So I barely remember you, but I'm doing this because 0:09:30.120 --> 0:09:31.080 my friend wanted me to. 0:09:31.360 --> 0:09:34.800 Okay, you don't even remember meeting him at your wedding barely. Okay, 0:09:34.880 --> 0:09:35.840 you know what do you think about that? 0:09:35.920 --> 0:09:36.280 Denise? 0:09:37.000 --> 0:09:37.400 Okay? 0:09:38.000 --> 0:09:41.000 Okay, oh okay. 0:09:40.559 --> 0:09:42.880 All right, Yeah, we're gonna pretend like you don't even 0:09:42.920 --> 0:09:45.040 know the guy and Jose, what's your advice? 0:09:45.200 --> 0:09:47.120 Well, I think it's most important that you get on 0:09:47.160 --> 0:09:51.200 the phone and then talk about whatever. Okay, you said 0:09:51.200 --> 0:09:53.240 that your chemistry with this guy is so good in 0:09:53.280 --> 0:09:56.280 just three minutes meeting him at your own wedding. Oh so, 0:09:56.320 --> 0:09:58.480 no matter what you talk about or bring up with him, 0:09:58.800 --> 0:09:59.920 chemistry's gonna take over. 0:10:00.120 --> 0:10:03.720 Okay, all right, just natural and normal talk. 0:10:03.559 --> 0:10:12.079 Whatever comes exactly. Okay, Okay, I think that's advice that's vague. 0:10:11.160 --> 0:10:14.600 Yeah, to answer the phone is my advice, perfectly perfect. 0:10:15.640 --> 0:10:17.480 So we're gonna just start dialing and see if he 0:10:17.559 --> 0:10:20.040 picks up. We will be here ready to jump in 0:10:20.080 --> 0:10:22.120 and feel like you need help, but you got this Denise. 0:10:22.760 --> 0:10:25.440 Okay, okay, just me, okay, okay. 0:10:25.000 --> 0:10:27.680 Okay, let's try it. I'm a dial it right now 0:10:27.760 --> 0:10:28.200 here we go? 0:10:36.280 --> 0:10:41.319 Hello, uh hi is this? Oh my god? 0:10:41.880 --> 0:10:44.520 Is this Kayla speaking? 0:10:45.200 --> 0:10:50.800 Oh my hi? How are you? Uh? 0:10:50.880 --> 0:10:52.360 Fine? Who am I speaking to? 0:10:53.360 --> 0:10:55.520 I know, I know this sounds crazy, I know, and 0:10:55.559 --> 0:11:04.880 I'm not crazy, but I like, oh no, oh hello, yeah, 0:11:04.960 --> 0:11:09.920 So I I had met you before. I met you 0:11:10.080 --> 0:11:14.320 at a wedding and my friend was there and she 0:11:15.200 --> 0:11:17.480 had your number and put me up to doing this, 0:11:17.720 --> 0:11:20.160 so hang on, I was trying to be brave. 0:11:20.600 --> 0:11:21.400 Back, slow down. 0:11:22.800 --> 0:11:24.040 I don't even know who this is. 0:11:24.080 --> 0:11:25.600 I met you at a wedding or something. 0:11:26.240 --> 0:11:30.120 You did. You used to be in business with my husband, 0:11:30.160 --> 0:11:32.760 like a long time ago. But this will really I 0:11:32.760 --> 0:11:41.440 think this was really clarify for you. It was my wedding. Okay, 0:11:41.559 --> 0:11:47.400 and no, oh oh hey, no. 0:11:47.360 --> 0:11:50.320 Got an idea. I don't even know your name. Why 0:11:50.320 --> 0:11:52.400 don't we start with your name and so I can 0:11:52.480 --> 0:11:52.920 help you? 0:11:54.120 --> 0:11:54.520 Denise? 0:11:55.320 --> 0:11:58.760 Okay, Denise, it was three years ago. 0:11:59.800 --> 0:12:02.200 We're separated. Because you know, I'm not not havnything to 0:12:02.240 --> 0:12:06.920 do with it. I mean, what. 0:12:06.840 --> 0:12:08.200 Did you say your husband's name was? 0:12:09.080 --> 0:12:09.760 Isn is Peter. 0:12:11.440 --> 0:12:13.240 Okay, now that rings a bell? 0:12:13.320 --> 0:12:15.839 Peter Denise nothing. 0:12:16.800 --> 0:12:22.960 Yes, no, yeah, Hi, yes, hi, hi, Yes, I'm yes, 0:12:23.120 --> 0:12:26.679 I remember your wedding. It's it's nice to hear from you. 0:12:26.679 --> 0:12:29.800 Has you said you and Peter separated? 0:12:30.760 --> 0:12:31.200 I'm sorry? 0:12:31.280 --> 0:12:32.280 What's this in regard to? 0:12:39.240 --> 0:12:45.040 I'm sorry? What? I'm so sorry? I'm outside. 0:12:45.280 --> 0:12:48.120 Hey, I'm in the middle. You know you caught me 0:12:48.240 --> 0:12:51.320 in between two meetings. I've got about forced four minutes 0:12:51.320 --> 0:12:52.600 to talk. How can I help you? 0:12:53.440 --> 0:12:56.480 Well, like I said, my girlfriend told me to do 0:12:56.520 --> 0:13:00.600 this and it was just fussy, something fun, and I. 0:13:00.720 --> 0:13:03.080 Told you to do I don't even know what this is. 0:13:05.360 --> 0:13:08.360 Well, listen, you know, I just I thought you were 0:13:08.360 --> 0:13:10.359 really nice, and you know, we had a nice conversation 0:13:10.600 --> 0:13:14.720 and I just, oh my gosh, it was so awkward. Right, 0:13:16.400 --> 0:13:17.200 I didn't know if you were. 0:13:17.080 --> 0:13:21.360 Going to pick up Yeah, I you know, I got 0:13:21.400 --> 0:13:25.199 to admit I'm a little regretting it, you know. 0:13:25.520 --> 0:13:27.360 Oh no, no, no, no coffee? Would you like to 0:13:27.400 --> 0:13:28.960 have would you like to have some coffee with me? 0:13:29.080 --> 0:13:29.560 Sometimes? 0:13:29.559 --> 0:13:30.439 Okay? 0:13:31.280 --> 0:13:33.600 Oh oh god? 0:13:33.640 --> 0:13:39.480 Oh uh, I'm yeah. I mean I'm having trouble still 0:13:39.559 --> 0:13:41.720 wrapping my brain around this. You said that you and 0:13:41.760 --> 0:13:44.240 Peter that it didn't We. 0:13:44.160 --> 0:13:46.400 Are separated and I haven't separated for a year. 0:13:47.600 --> 0:13:51.560 Oh that's like, yeah, we were no longer really in 0:13:51.600 --> 0:13:58.000 touch beyond just LinkedIn. Are you saying that you want? 0:13:58.559 --> 0:14:00.400 I mean, should I reach out to him him? Or 0:14:00.559 --> 0:14:02.520 it sounds like you all are going through a tough 0:14:03.040 --> 0:14:04.959 patches that am I. 0:14:05.040 --> 0:14:08.880 No, not, I mean interestingly not not not really. It's 0:14:09.000 --> 0:14:11.360 mutual and so I mean I wouldn't say you had 0:14:11.360 --> 0:14:12.880 to get in talk with him, certainly. I think that 0:14:12.920 --> 0:14:13.560 would be weird. 0:14:15.000 --> 0:14:17.920 I mean, I don't know what's weird at this point. 0:14:19.560 --> 0:14:20.520 You know, Oh my god? 0:14:20.800 --> 0:14:22.240 Should I take a chance, don't you know? 0:14:22.480 --> 0:14:27.200 Like Denise right, yes, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, you're yes, 0:14:27.440 --> 0:14:30.520 absolutely you Your wedding was a ton of fun. And 0:14:30.600 --> 0:14:37.560 actually I'm remembering, yeah, you're yeah, yeah, I'm. 0:14:37.400 --> 0:14:43.000 Remembering your I asked out not your friend, but I 0:14:43.040 --> 0:14:44.960 think was your sister that night? 0:14:45.160 --> 0:14:48.640 Oh I know it was a friend? 0:14:48.800 --> 0:14:49.000 Right? 0:14:49.240 --> 0:14:49.680 Oh god? 0:14:50.120 --> 0:14:50.720 Maybe both? 0:14:54.400 --> 0:15:03.040 Wait a second, what what is. 0:14:56.200 --> 0:14:59.920 This, Taylor? 0:15:00.080 --> 0:15:02.480 But this is a radio show called Brook and Jeffrey 0:15:02.480 --> 0:15:02.960 in the Morning. 0:15:03.560 --> 0:15:05.320 Oh so this whole thing is just a prank. 0:15:05.440 --> 0:15:09.400 It's no, it's unfortunately not It's a segment we do 0:15:09.440 --> 0:15:12.120 called the Awkward Tuesday phone Call because we're trying to 0:15:12.160 --> 0:15:16.280 help Denise have this really lovely conversation with you. 0:15:17.680 --> 0:15:20.880 Just own it, you know, conversation very yeah. 0:15:20.800 --> 0:15:22.160 Very natural sounding. 0:15:23.320 --> 0:15:27.600 Yeah, Denise remembers you from three years ago and she 0:15:28.600 --> 0:15:29.640 doesn't remember you. 0:15:29.520 --> 0:15:30.200 That well though. 0:15:30.560 --> 0:15:34.280 Friend friend thought that you two should get together. 0:15:34.000 --> 0:15:34.880 And have common right. 0:15:37.600 --> 0:15:39.760 I do remember told me I was stunning. 0:15:41.120 --> 0:15:45.160 Yeah, that's that's kind of what you say to a 0:15:45.280 --> 0:15:46.880 bride on her wedding day. 0:15:47.000 --> 0:15:48.240 You just say that to any bride. 0:15:48.360 --> 0:15:49.400 Oh wow, I. 0:15:51.120 --> 0:15:54.800 Might have told your sister the same thing if I remember. 0:15:55.400 --> 0:15:57.320 Oh my gosh, but she did. 0:15:57.440 --> 0:15:58.680 She did turn me down. 0:15:59.160 --> 0:16:02.760 Okay, okay, okay, so no boundaries have been crossed. 0:16:04.280 --> 0:16:07.160 Caleb? Are you single and available? Can we just start there? 0:16:08.160 --> 0:16:11.640 I am single? Yes, That not. 0:16:11.680 --> 0:16:13.720 Often that you meet somebody in the real world. That's 0:16:13.760 --> 0:16:16.440 what everybody wants right now, right like get off the apps. 0:16:16.600 --> 0:16:18.680 Meet Really, I. 0:16:18.640 --> 0:16:22.280 Would be happy to explore that option, maybe with less 0:16:22.360 --> 0:16:24.040 of an audience. I'm talking. 0:16:24.480 --> 0:16:27.720 Oh okay, so what you actually do want to have 0:16:27.720 --> 0:16:30.160 coffee with me? O, Caleb? 0:16:30.520 --> 0:16:32.640 I'm sure? Why not? No? 0:16:32.840 --> 0:16:35.360 Okay, she meant that in a way, She's not surprised 0:16:35.400 --> 0:16:37.000 at all, because she's a total. 0:16:36.960 --> 0:16:39.280 You know, her friend just thought that you two would 0:16:39.280 --> 0:16:40.200 have a strong connection. 0:16:40.480 --> 0:16:42.040 So this is perfect. 0:16:42.120 --> 0:16:44.800 Let's not continue it anymore and make it any more 0:16:44.840 --> 0:16:46.280 awkward than it already. 0:16:46.800 --> 0:16:48.000 Let's not talk about that wedding. 0:16:48.680 --> 0:16:51.280 We will step away and let you Denise talk to 0:16:51.320 --> 0:16:52.480 Caleb and find the time. 0:16:52.320 --> 0:16:52.800 To meet up. 0:16:53.040 --> 0:16:54.680 Awesome, thank you guys. 0:16:54.800 --> 0:16:57.320 Okay, awesome, absolutely, Wow. 0:16:57.400 --> 0:17:00.880 That was super weird put in. 0:17:00.720 --> 0:17:03.320 Like a fun type of way. 0:17:03.560 --> 0:17:07.080 I wasn't expecting the bride of a friend to reach 0:17:07.119 --> 0:17:07.679 out her. 0:17:07.640 --> 0:17:09.359 Dab, don't think of her that way. 0:17:09.640 --> 0:17:12.639 Yeah, it doesn't bug you at all that you tried 0:17:12.680 --> 0:17:14.320 with a sister and that didn't work. 0:17:14.760 --> 0:17:18.000 I think I probably asked out like five women that night. 0:17:18.160 --> 0:17:19.440 I don't really know. 0:17:20.440 --> 0:17:21.080 At dinner table. 0:17:21.640 --> 0:17:24.440 Ye, the whole time you should have been asking out 0:17:24.440 --> 0:17:24.919 the bride. 0:17:24.920 --> 0:17:25.480 Who would have. 0:17:25.440 --> 0:17:30.439 Thought Brook and Jeffrey in the morning. 0:17:32.200 --> 0:17:35.359 I think Denise hung up somewhere in the end. 0:17:35.240 --> 0:17:37.359 There she's too excited, yeah. 0:17:37.320 --> 0:17:39.639 Or her phone died, or she got nervous and she 0:17:39.720 --> 0:17:42.200 dropped it into the toilet, or she heard yeah. 0:17:42.040 --> 0:17:43.600 We'll figure it out and was like, Okay, that's why 0:17:43.600 --> 0:17:44.359 I need to hear it click. 0:17:44.520 --> 0:17:47.360 Yeah, you could definitely hear how anxious she was though, 0:17:47.560 --> 0:17:49.520 just being on the phone with him. 0:17:49.800 --> 0:17:53.280 I did not believe he said yes too for somebody 0:17:53.280 --> 0:17:55.720 who sounds like they said they had chemistry. Shoes not 0:17:55.800 --> 0:17:58.160 part of that chemistry. 0:17:57.080 --> 0:17:58.000 Ye. 0:17:58.760 --> 0:18:01.120 I do need our producer to reach out to Denise 0:18:01.160 --> 0:18:03.640 and tell her, you know, he did say yes to coffee. 0:18:03.720 --> 0:18:08.800 So yeah, I want an update from these two so bad. 0:18:07.600 --> 0:18:10.560 I do think it'd be funny if he texted her 0:18:10.560 --> 0:18:12.359 ahead of time and asked her to wear her wedding 0:18:12.440 --> 0:18:15.879 dress to their coffee day, would just so she just 0:18:16.160 --> 0:18:19.920 recognize as Yeah, remember how stunning she really is from 0:18:19.920 --> 0:18:22.720 that day. In fact, we encourage all of our listeners 0:18:22.760 --> 0:18:25.440 to put on your old wedding dress and go listen 0:18:25.480 --> 0:18:27.200 to our podcast in it. 0:18:27.200 --> 0:18:28.199