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Speaker 1: Oh man, I am so curious to see the comment

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Speaker 1: section after you listen to the brand new Awkward Tuesday today.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, welcome to the Second Date podcast. Thank you

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Speaker 1: so much for being here and just let us know.

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Speaker 2: This is what I want. I think this is a

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Speaker 1: Is it okay to meet someone that you like at

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Speaker 1: your own wedding?

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Speaker 2: Your own I can't believe you're actually asking this.

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Speaker 4: Remember we all got people at weddings. Yo, that's cool,

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Speaker 4: but your wedding.

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Speaker 2: Don't judge. Don't judge. You gotta hear her story.

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Speaker 1: Okay, it's coming up in just a second, but first

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Speaker 5: Yeah, Ash said, my only request for my birthday this

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Speaker 5: Jeffrey with me. But we sit in silence and play

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Speaker 5: games on our phone. You guys make me smile every day.

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Speaker 5: Love from Australia's so great.

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Speaker 2: All right, Well force him to listen to this one

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Speaker 2: as well.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I hope you're listening to this together.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it starts right now.

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Speaker 4: In all the years that we've been doing this show,

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Speaker 7: Yeah, as the woman on the phone did today.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, all this anxiety came over a guy that she

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Speaker 4: hasn't seen or spoken to for three years. Wow, So

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Speaker 7: Oh yeah, but it was.

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Speaker 4: For sure one of the most entertaining phone calls we've

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Speaker 4: our gift, and we're gonna give it back to you.

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Speaker 4: You're gonna get to hear it in a brand new

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Speaker 3: Next, It's awkward.

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Speaker 2: It's Tuesday.

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Speaker 3: It's awkward Tuesday phone call.

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Speaker 4: When you think about the different types of people that

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Speaker 2: Oh yes, give me the worm again.

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Speaker 4: He's so bendy.

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Speaker 4: And that's just to name a few of them, because

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Speaker 4: Oh yeah, that tie that he's wearing over his head sexy.

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Speaker 3: Oh no, drunk.

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Speaker 4: One of our listeners is looking to reconnect with somebody

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Speaker 7: Three years ago for just a brief moment.

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Speaker 4: We don't know why it's taken her this long to

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Speaker 7: Denise, how you doing it?

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Speaker 8: I'm well, how are you? Guys?

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Speaker 1: How could anyone make that type of impact where for

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Speaker 9: Yeah?

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Speaker 8: I think I need to be more specific. It wasn't

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Speaker 1: I know.

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Speaker 2: Maybe she lost the groom and that's what she's talking about.

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Speaker 4: Somebody other than the guy you were marrying.

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Speaker 7: That's who.

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Speaker 8: Oh yes, it's actually a business associate of my then fiance,

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Speaker 8: So I know him, but I don't know him.

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Speaker 6: Well, he's a business he's in business with your act.

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Speaker 2: Before we start any of this, are you single right now?

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Speaker 8: We've been separated a year, okay, And he has nothing

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Speaker 4: At least it wasn't the overly flirtatious priest that you

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Speaker 8: I met him in the reception line, and then later

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Speaker 2: That's what you say every Brian my wedding day, every

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Speaker 8: I mean stunning the word itself. It was like a

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Speaker 4: Oh okay, and we're talking this wedding or your wedding.

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Speaker 4: That's the first time that you met him.

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Speaker 4: So this happened three years ago at your wedding. Why

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Speaker 8: It was just a connection. He was able to joke

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Speaker 8: It was very sudden and almost like disrupting.

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Speaker 8: He was this radio show that does this exact thing

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Speaker 3: Well, so I haven't talked to him.

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Speaker 6: We can call him and he's like, oh, I'm taking

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Speaker 4: Sure are they close? Yeah?

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Speaker 7: Is it possible that this is a mess? Like, are

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Speaker 1: That's exactly it it. I mean, it doesn't even sound

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Speaker 2: I'd be like, you're nuts, no, thank you.

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Speaker 8: It's indescribable.

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Speaker 8: Of course what a story.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, but that doesn't mean it's not true love waiting

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Speaker 4: to happen, right Brook, don't make that face.

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Speaker 7: Why do you keep saying I don't understand.

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Speaker 2: They could be a falsehood?

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Speaker 7: Alexis, Where where's your head at? Alexis?

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Speaker 8: It's absolutely worth taking. I've been separated for a year. Time,

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Speaker 2: Yeah, she so caragile.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I'll go after one of my ex husband's colleagues.

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Speaker 8: I don't know if he's ever What do I say? Like?

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Speaker 8: Have you ever thought about me over the past few years?

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Speaker 3: It's awkward Tuesday phone call.

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Speaker 4: We've all been a guest at a wedding and as

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Speaker 4: Caleb who actually attended her wedding three years.

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Speaker 2: Ago, the only time she's ever met him.

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Speaker 4: Right now, her marriage did not stand the test of time.

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Speaker 4: She's been separated about a year now, but she never

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Speaker 7: But Brooke, what advice do you have for Denise?

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Speaker 2: Okay, Denise, I got to do in a don't all right?

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Speaker 8: Okay, go ahead, Okay, don't.

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Speaker 1: Bring up the connection that you had at your wedding

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Speaker 1: Do just tell him your friend who gave you his numbers,

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Speaker 2: It was all her idea. You've been and she's like,

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Speaker 1: So I barely remember you, but I'm doing this because

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Speaker 4: Okay, you don't even remember meeting him at your wedding barely. Okay,

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Speaker 7: Denise?

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Speaker 8: Okay?

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Speaker 4: All right, Yeah, we're gonna pretend like you don't even

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Speaker 8: Whatever comes exactly. Okay, Okay, I think that's advice that's vague.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, to answer the phone is my advice, perfectly perfect.

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Speaker 4: and feel like you need help, but you got this Denise.

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Speaker 8: Hello, uh hi is this? Oh my god?

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Speaker 9: Is this Kayla speaking?

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Speaker 8: Oh my hi? How are you? Uh?

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Speaker 9: Back, slow down.

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Speaker 3: I don't even know who this is.

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Speaker 9: I met you at a wedding or something.

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Speaker 8: You did. You used to be in business with my husband,

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Speaker 8: think this was really clarify for you. It was my wedding. Okay,

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Speaker 9: Got an idea. I don't even know your name. Why

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Speaker 9: Okay, Denise, it was three years ago.

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Speaker 8: We're separated. Because you know, I'm not not havnything to

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Speaker 9: Did you say your husband's name was?

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Speaker 8: Isn is Peter.

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Speaker 3: I'm sorry?

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Speaker 9: What's this in regard to?

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Speaker 8: I'm sorry? What? I'm so sorry? I'm outside.

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Speaker 9: Hey, I'm in the middle. You know you caught me

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Speaker 8: Well, like I said, my girlfriend told me to do

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Speaker 8: Well, listen, you know, I just I thought you were

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Speaker 8: Oh no, no, no, no coffee? Would you like to

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Speaker 9: Sometimes?

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Speaker 2: Okay?

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Speaker 3: Oh oh god?

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Speaker 9: Oh uh, I'm yeah. I mean I'm having trouble still

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Speaker 9: Oh that's like, yeah, we were no longer really in

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Speaker 8: No, not, I mean interestingly not not not really. It's

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Speaker 9: I mean, I don't know what's weird at this point.

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Speaker 9: You know, Oh my god?

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Speaker 8: Should I take a chance, don't you know?

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Speaker 10: Like Denise right, yes, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, you're yes,

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Speaker 9: Remembering your I asked out not your friend, but I

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Speaker 6: Oh I know it was a friend?

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Speaker 9: Right?

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Speaker 7: Oh god?

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Speaker 9: Wait a second, what what is.

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Speaker 3: This, Taylor?

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Speaker 9: Oh so this whole thing is just a prank.

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Speaker 4: It's no, it's unfortunately not It's a segment we do

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Speaker 4: help Denise have this really lovely conversation with you.

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Speaker 2: Just own it, you know, conversation very yeah.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, Denise remembers you from three years ago and she

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Speaker 7: That well though.

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Speaker 4: Friend friend thought that you two should get together.

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Speaker 7: And have common right.

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Speaker 8: I do remember told me I was stunning.

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Speaker 9: Yeah, that's that's kind of what you say to a

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Speaker 7: You just say that to any bride.

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Speaker 9: She did turn me down.

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Speaker 4: Okay, okay, okay, so no boundaries have been crossed.

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Speaker 2: Caleb? Are you single and available? Can we just start there?

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Speaker 3: I am single? Yes, That not.

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Speaker 2: Often that you meet somebody in the real world. That's

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Speaker 2: Meet Really, I.

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Speaker 8: Oh okay, so what you actually do want to have

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Speaker 9: I'm sure? Why not? No?

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Speaker 1: Okay, she meant that in a way, She's not surprised

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Speaker 4: You know, her friend just thought that you two would

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Speaker 7: So this is perfect.

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Speaker 4: Let's not continue it anymore and make it any more

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Speaker 2: Let's not talk about that wedding.

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Speaker 4: We will step away and let you Denise talk to

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Speaker 7: To meet up.

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Speaker 8: Awesome, thank you guys.

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Speaker 7: Okay, awesome, absolutely, Wow.

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Speaker 9: That was super weird put in.

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Speaker 4: Like a fun type of way.

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Speaker 9: I wasn't expecting the bride of a friend to reach

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Speaker 2: Dab, don't think of her that way.

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Speaker 9: I think I probably asked out like five women that night.

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Speaker 9: I don't really know.

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Speaker 4: Ye, the whole time you should have been asking out

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Speaker 7: Who would have.

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Speaker 8: Thought Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 4: I think Denise hung up somewhere in the end.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, you could definitely hear how anxious she was though,

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Speaker 6: I did not believe he said yes too for somebody

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Speaker 8: Ye.

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Speaker 4: I do need our producer to reach out to Denise

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Speaker 4: I do think it'd be funny if he texted her

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Speaker 7: It's so you're wearing it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you spent a lot of money on it. You

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: The show just hits better when you're wearing your wedding

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Speaker 7: I'm so glad I'm married.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, you can find us wherever you get yours.

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Speaker 7: We're online at Brooke and Jeffrey