1 00:00:01,920 --> 00:00:05,359 Speaker 1: Wind Down with Janet Kramer and I'm Heeart Radio podcast. 2 00:00:06,559 --> 00:00:09,120 Speaker 2: Hi girl, how's it going? 3 00:00:09,320 --> 00:00:09,560 Speaker 3: Hey? 4 00:00:10,000 --> 00:00:12,760 Speaker 4: Actually, Brooklyn, we could have used you about ten minutes ago. 5 00:00:13,480 --> 00:00:15,520 Speaker 5: Oh no, what am I walking into? What's going on? 6 00:00:15,680 --> 00:00:17,440 Speaker 2: Perimenopause to moms of toddlers? 7 00:00:17,480 --> 00:00:20,040 Speaker 5: You know, how old are your babies? 8 00:00:20,560 --> 00:00:20,680 Speaker 1: So? 9 00:00:22,280 --> 00:00:27,440 Speaker 6: Almost two? Almost seven? Almost ten? Oh wow, and she's 10 00:00:27,440 --> 00:00:30,120 Speaker 6: pretty much the same. Yeah, what about you again? 11 00:00:30,640 --> 00:00:32,520 Speaker 5: Almost ten? Almost eight? 12 00:00:33,720 --> 00:00:33,760 Speaker 1: No? 13 00:00:34,680 --> 00:00:34,839 Speaker 2: Two? 14 00:00:35,120 --> 00:00:38,400 Speaker 5: Yeah, so no too yet? 15 00:00:38,400 --> 00:00:38,559 Speaker 1: Eight? 16 00:00:39,440 --> 00:00:40,600 Speaker 2: Not listening. 17 00:00:40,720 --> 00:00:43,200 Speaker 4: We've got big gaps over here. If it's contagious, sorry 18 00:00:43,240 --> 00:00:44,879 Speaker 4: about it, Hey. 19 00:00:44,680 --> 00:00:47,480 Speaker 1: Listen, I wouldn't be Well, No, we're we're happy. Things 20 00:00:47,479 --> 00:00:50,879 Speaker 1: are easy, you know, you know, we know, we know, 21 00:00:51,000 --> 00:00:52,199 Speaker 1: we know, we know. 22 00:00:52,080 --> 00:00:54,360 Speaker 2: Things were happy, things were easy. 23 00:00:54,880 --> 00:00:55,480 Speaker 5: What did we do? 24 00:00:57,160 --> 00:00:59,920 Speaker 2: No, it's great, But I will say, like, how how 25 00:01:00,000 --> 00:01:00,800 Speaker 2: old are you? Brooklyn? 26 00:01:01,440 --> 00:01:02,040 Speaker 5: I'm thirty eight? 27 00:01:02,080 --> 00:01:02,560 Speaker 2: You're thirty eight? 28 00:01:02,640 --> 00:01:02,800 Speaker 5: Yeah. 29 00:01:02,840 --> 00:01:05,000 Speaker 6: See, like when it gets when we get into that 30 00:01:05,080 --> 00:01:07,480 Speaker 6: like that tier because we're in our forties, it's like 31 00:01:07,600 --> 00:01:09,800 Speaker 6: I'm exhausted by the end of the night. 32 00:01:09,840 --> 00:01:10,000 Speaker 3: You know. 33 00:01:10,080 --> 00:01:14,280 Speaker 6: It's like with the sporting events and then chasing a 34 00:01:14,319 --> 00:01:17,560 Speaker 6: wild almost two year old, and it's just like and 35 00:01:17,600 --> 00:01:19,280 Speaker 6: then doing the things that we do during the day 36 00:01:19,319 --> 00:01:21,080 Speaker 6: it's just like I am exhausted. 37 00:01:22,080 --> 00:01:24,039 Speaker 1: Oh I need a nap every day, Like I need 38 00:01:24,080 --> 00:01:26,760 Speaker 1: a nap time, you know, like I've gotten my kids 39 00:01:26,760 --> 00:01:28,880 Speaker 1: out of the nap phase, but like I need a 40 00:01:28,920 --> 00:01:31,600 Speaker 1: twenty minute shut down or I don't, like I can't 41 00:01:31,600 --> 00:01:32,240 Speaker 1: make it through a day. 42 00:01:32,280 --> 00:01:32,560 Speaker 5: It's so. 43 00:01:32,880 --> 00:01:35,319 Speaker 1: I mean, I think there's like some deficiencies, some legitimate 44 00:01:35,400 --> 00:01:38,000 Speaker 1: like perhaps an iron deficiency. Like I think we're dealing 45 00:01:38,040 --> 00:01:41,600 Speaker 1: with real deficiencies, right, But I also think it's totally 46 00:01:41,640 --> 00:01:43,600 Speaker 1: phase of life. I mean, aren't we all. We're all 47 00:01:43,680 --> 00:01:47,200 Speaker 1: just depleted, yes, and worn down. And I don't have 48 00:01:47,240 --> 00:01:47,840 Speaker 1: a third so. 49 00:01:48,000 --> 00:01:51,480 Speaker 4: And I don't know that there is anything better or 50 00:01:51,480 --> 00:01:54,320 Speaker 4: anyone more appreciative of time down than just a mom 51 00:01:54,480 --> 00:01:57,960 Speaker 4: Like give me five minutes a silence, and I feel. 52 00:01:58,240 --> 00:01:59,920 Speaker 2: Five minutes, yeah, just five. 53 00:02:00,000 --> 00:02:02,840 Speaker 5: And I don't need I don't ask for much, you know. 54 00:02:02,880 --> 00:02:04,200 Speaker 2: I ask for nothing. Really. 55 00:02:04,400 --> 00:02:07,919 Speaker 6: I asked the other day for thirty minutes. I said, guys, 56 00:02:08,080 --> 00:02:10,600 Speaker 6: mom needs thirty minutes. And I looked right at my husband. 57 00:02:10,600 --> 00:02:13,280 Speaker 6: I was like, please, just I don't care if it 58 00:02:13,320 --> 00:02:15,200 Speaker 6: they can be loud in the living room, but I said, 59 00:02:15,280 --> 00:02:17,679 Speaker 6: let's I just need I need to go laate like 60 00:02:17,760 --> 00:02:20,080 Speaker 6: I don't ever do that ever ever, and so I 61 00:02:20,120 --> 00:02:21,799 Speaker 6: was like, I just need thirty minutes. I actually don't 62 00:02:21,800 --> 00:02:24,200 Speaker 6: know if I feel good. I was like, I don't 63 00:02:24,240 --> 00:02:27,639 Speaker 6: know what's going to so and I mean at thirty 64 00:02:27,680 --> 00:02:29,600 Speaker 6: one minutes, they were barreling through. 65 00:02:29,440 --> 00:02:30,880 Speaker 2: The door like they just you know what I mean, 66 00:02:30,919 --> 00:02:31,960 Speaker 2: like it's timer went off. 67 00:02:32,040 --> 00:02:33,360 Speaker 5: It was a hard third, hard thirty. 68 00:02:33,440 --> 00:02:35,640 Speaker 2: But listen, well, just what did you do. 69 00:02:35,560 --> 00:02:38,000 Speaker 5: With your thirty? Like what did you what was your activity? 70 00:02:38,480 --> 00:02:41,240 Speaker 6: I actually just laid down and I was just I 71 00:02:41,240 --> 00:02:43,239 Speaker 6: didn't watch a show. I didn't scroll on my phone. 72 00:02:43,280 --> 00:02:45,040 Speaker 6: I didn't play with Doku, which is one of my 73 00:02:45,880 --> 00:02:46,440 Speaker 6: old time. 74 00:02:46,320 --> 00:02:50,520 Speaker 2: Failure telling us. I was just like so lovely. 75 00:02:50,760 --> 00:02:54,200 Speaker 6: But anyways, so I've obviously we have a lot to 76 00:02:54,240 --> 00:02:56,880 Speaker 6: chat about. But I when I was reading the breakdown 77 00:02:56,960 --> 00:03:01,280 Speaker 6: and obviously I've seen the previous for run arounds, and 78 00:03:01,320 --> 00:03:03,120 Speaker 6: then I was, you know, looking to see like who 79 00:03:03,160 --> 00:03:07,880 Speaker 6: you've who you play And it's so interesting because I've 80 00:03:08,400 --> 00:03:10,359 Speaker 6: struggled with this a bit. So I'm just curious to 81 00:03:10,400 --> 00:03:14,560 Speaker 6: talk to someone else who's younger and has now roles 82 00:03:14,600 --> 00:03:16,520 Speaker 6: that you're a mom and it's like, listen, I am 83 00:03:16,520 --> 00:03:18,160 Speaker 6: a mom and I and I get it. 84 00:03:18,200 --> 00:03:19,200 Speaker 2: I've got three kids. 85 00:03:20,440 --> 00:03:23,400 Speaker 6: My buddy Shane had said like, hey, I want you 86 00:03:23,440 --> 00:03:25,920 Speaker 6: to do this movie, play my love interest. I was like, great, Great, 87 00:03:25,919 --> 00:03:27,400 Speaker 6: He's like, but you're a mom to a twenty four 88 00:03:27,480 --> 00:03:29,680 Speaker 6: year old and I was like, ooh, buddy, I was like, 89 00:03:30,520 --> 00:03:31,840 Speaker 6: I was like, that hurts my heart a little bit. 90 00:03:31,880 --> 00:03:33,240 Speaker 5: I was like, I. 91 00:03:34,840 --> 00:03:36,240 Speaker 6: Don't know, I just like I you know. I talked 92 00:03:36,280 --> 00:03:37,840 Speaker 6: to the director and I was like, listen, I really 93 00:03:37,920 --> 00:03:39,720 Speaker 6: just can't do that. I'm like, I think as old 94 00:03:39,720 --> 00:03:41,240 Speaker 6: as I've played so far as a mom to a 95 00:03:41,280 --> 00:03:43,520 Speaker 6: sixteen year old, and that even felt like a little 96 00:03:43,520 --> 00:03:46,520 Speaker 6: bit killing my soul. And so then two months later, 97 00:03:46,600 --> 00:03:49,120 Speaker 6: I book a movie but my daughter is nineteen in it, 98 00:03:49,240 --> 00:03:51,760 Speaker 6: and I'm just like, oh my gosh, I'm just here 99 00:03:51,800 --> 00:03:54,320 Speaker 6: and I have to accept that I'm here and I'm 100 00:03:54,360 --> 00:03:57,080 Speaker 6: the mom. 101 00:03:55,840 --> 00:03:57,280 Speaker 2: Playing to older kids. 102 00:03:57,320 --> 00:03:59,760 Speaker 6: But and it took me a couple times doing it 103 00:04:00,040 --> 00:04:03,800 Speaker 6: where I like, I actually struggled with it. 104 00:04:04,240 --> 00:04:05,560 Speaker 5: Yeah, did you get at all? 105 00:04:05,680 --> 00:04:05,840 Speaker 3: Or no? 106 00:04:05,960 --> 00:04:07,920 Speaker 2: Were you just like, let's do this. 107 00:04:08,000 --> 00:04:08,320 Speaker 1: Well. 108 00:04:08,640 --> 00:04:12,240 Speaker 5: I had the opposite experience, like it was it was 109 00:04:12,440 --> 00:04:13,680 Speaker 5: it was help. 110 00:04:13,560 --> 00:04:17,080 Speaker 1: Me and I hate I hate get relate. 111 00:04:17,560 --> 00:04:18,880 Speaker 5: Yeah, I love it. 112 00:04:18,880 --> 00:04:20,599 Speaker 1: I don't want to say can't relate, but but let 113 00:04:20,640 --> 00:04:22,039 Speaker 1: me tell you, let me tell you why. 114 00:04:22,240 --> 00:04:23,120 Speaker 2: So I love it. 115 00:04:23,200 --> 00:04:25,520 Speaker 5: So I I love you. 116 00:04:25,560 --> 00:04:27,520 Speaker 2: I wish you were here with us, Like this is 117 00:04:27,600 --> 00:04:29,560 Speaker 2: going to be so good for me. I'm here for it. 118 00:04:29,920 --> 00:04:30,400 Speaker 5: Let's do it. 119 00:04:30,480 --> 00:04:30,840 Speaker 2: Actually. 120 00:04:30,839 --> 00:04:33,240 Speaker 4: Okay, it's my self help question after this one, because 121 00:04:33,240 --> 00:04:35,400 Speaker 4: I actually have a question for you as well. 122 00:04:36,800 --> 00:04:39,840 Speaker 1: Okay, So, the the reason why the jump so in 123 00:04:39,880 --> 00:04:42,200 Speaker 1: my my character in this show, The run Rounds, I 124 00:04:42,200 --> 00:04:45,640 Speaker 1: play the mother of an eighteen year old boy man 125 00:04:45,880 --> 00:04:48,279 Speaker 1: and and it was a huge jump for me. The 126 00:04:48,320 --> 00:04:50,560 Speaker 1: oldest sort of child I had ever had on camera 127 00:04:50,680 --> 00:04:52,960 Speaker 1: is maybe six or seven years old, which which is 128 00:04:53,000 --> 00:04:54,159 Speaker 1: true to kind of my real life. 129 00:04:54,200 --> 00:04:57,640 Speaker 5: So that felt supernatural totally to jump into. What was 130 00:04:57,680 --> 00:05:02,640 Speaker 5: really funny was that I went from a series on Netflix. 131 00:05:02,640 --> 00:05:04,120 Speaker 5: It was called Grayson Frankie. 132 00:05:03,839 --> 00:05:09,279 Speaker 6: She Loves It Obsessed. Oh love you, Mallory, Oh my girl. 133 00:05:09,240 --> 00:05:11,640 Speaker 5: Thank you, thank you. But I'm I am you know, 134 00:05:12,040 --> 00:05:13,160 Speaker 5: I'm just a young. 135 00:05:13,080 --> 00:05:16,839 Speaker 1: Spring chicken on that show, learning from the wisdom of 136 00:05:16,880 --> 00:05:19,520 Speaker 1: everyone around me, and just like a one eighty all 137 00:05:19,520 --> 00:05:21,560 Speaker 1: of a sudden, I'm one of the oldest people on set. 138 00:05:21,640 --> 00:05:24,080 Speaker 1: Both in character as an actor, but also on the 139 00:05:24,120 --> 00:05:28,000 Speaker 1: crew because you've got I mean, everyone is like young, hungry, eager, 140 00:05:28,120 --> 00:05:31,680 Speaker 1: excited to be there early in their careers. All the 141 00:05:31,760 --> 00:05:33,720 Speaker 1: lead actors are, you know, under I think twenty three 142 00:05:33,800 --> 00:05:36,200 Speaker 1: years old. It was such a one eighty and it 143 00:05:36,279 --> 00:05:41,040 Speaker 1: was so freeing and liberating because I don't know about y'all, 144 00:05:41,040 --> 00:05:43,760 Speaker 1: but I feel like my career has been you know, 145 00:05:44,640 --> 00:05:48,400 Speaker 1: I have you know, I've had, I've had the titties out. 146 00:05:48,320 --> 00:05:50,800 Speaker 5: I've had the money out, like I've been. 147 00:05:50,720 --> 00:05:53,080 Speaker 1: Playing certain characters kind of my whole career, and then 148 00:05:53,080 --> 00:05:55,839 Speaker 1: all of a sudden, it was like, no makeup, I'm exhausted, 149 00:05:55,920 --> 00:05:58,360 Speaker 1: I've got this teenage son. I'm just like trying to 150 00:05:58,400 --> 00:06:00,880 Speaker 1: keep my family together, and it just fell well. One, 151 00:06:00,920 --> 00:06:04,320 Speaker 1: it felt definitely more true to me as a person. Yeah, 152 00:06:04,839 --> 00:06:07,080 Speaker 1: in my day to day there was like no glamor 153 00:06:07,160 --> 00:06:10,400 Speaker 1: to it. It was totally real and just really like 154 00:06:10,560 --> 00:06:15,440 Speaker 1: stripped back. And Two, it just was really joyful to 155 00:06:15,520 --> 00:06:19,719 Speaker 1: be around younger people on set who have all the 156 00:06:19,839 --> 00:06:22,120 Speaker 1: energy in the world, so true what we're talking about, 157 00:06:22,360 --> 00:06:24,680 Speaker 1: who have all the hunger, all the work ethic, all 158 00:06:24,720 --> 00:06:27,560 Speaker 1: the talent, and it was like contagious like not a 159 00:06:27,600 --> 00:06:31,520 Speaker 1: single person on that set was exhausted, was tired, was 160 00:06:31,880 --> 00:06:33,480 Speaker 1: you know, there was just so much energy and it 161 00:06:33,920 --> 00:06:37,200 Speaker 1: really it was super uplifting and so I was super 162 00:06:37,279 --> 00:06:39,239 Speaker 1: it just it felt really freeing. There was a total 163 00:06:39,279 --> 00:06:43,200 Speaker 1: detachment from like any sort of vanity, any appearance, like 164 00:06:43,240 --> 00:06:46,159 Speaker 1: it didn't matter for my role in the show. And 165 00:06:46,160 --> 00:06:47,520 Speaker 1: and that felt really good. Love. 166 00:06:47,560 --> 00:06:48,599 Speaker 5: It was a nice change. 167 00:06:48,640 --> 00:06:51,880 Speaker 6: Yeah, it felt great good love that sink into your motherhood, 168 00:06:52,000 --> 00:06:55,120 Speaker 6: you know, I mean I like once I get there, right, 169 00:06:55,200 --> 00:06:57,680 Speaker 6: Like I loved I loved my daughter who play you know, 170 00:06:57,760 --> 00:06:59,320 Speaker 6: but of course she's like you know, like twenty five 171 00:06:59,360 --> 00:07:00,400 Speaker 6: in real life, but spot you. 172 00:07:00,400 --> 00:07:04,159 Speaker 2: Know, I'm just like sine, like, hey it is a workout. 173 00:07:04,160 --> 00:07:07,719 Speaker 2: Are you available to baby? But it's like, you know 174 00:07:07,800 --> 00:07:08,039 Speaker 2: you do. 175 00:07:08,120 --> 00:07:09,720 Speaker 6: It's like I am a mother, So it's like that 176 00:07:09,840 --> 00:07:11,400 Speaker 6: motherly role does come out. 177 00:07:11,480 --> 00:07:14,560 Speaker 2: It's just you know, it's new. It would have preferred 178 00:07:14,560 --> 00:07:15,080 Speaker 2: big sister. 179 00:07:15,240 --> 00:07:15,480 Speaker 5: Yeah. 180 00:07:15,560 --> 00:07:19,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, anyways, I get that it happens. 181 00:07:18,640 --> 00:07:21,040 Speaker 5: Fast, like yeah, it wasn't for me. There wasn't like 182 00:07:21,040 --> 00:07:24,200 Speaker 5: an oh, now I'm a mom to a twelve thing. 183 00:07:24,280 --> 00:07:26,200 Speaker 2: It's like I had two adults. 184 00:07:26,280 --> 00:07:28,920 Speaker 6: Yeah, like I had one where it's like you know, 185 00:07:29,040 --> 00:07:31,240 Speaker 6: my daughter actually played my daughter in it. But then 186 00:07:31,280 --> 00:07:33,560 Speaker 6: besides that, it's like I asked a manager, well, where 187 00:07:33,560 --> 00:07:36,520 Speaker 6: are like the mid thirty like thirty eight? So with 188 00:07:36,560 --> 00:07:38,160 Speaker 6: that don't have kids, you know what I mean, Like 189 00:07:38,160 --> 00:07:40,160 Speaker 6: where are those roles? Because it's literally like you play 190 00:07:40,200 --> 00:07:43,679 Speaker 6: twenties and then you go your mom like kid's true. 191 00:07:43,960 --> 00:07:47,000 Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, like true, it is, that is true. I 192 00:07:47,000 --> 00:07:49,559 Speaker 5: don't know. I find it though, like I find those 193 00:07:49,800 --> 00:07:53,800 Speaker 5: characters to be for me personally, just more interesting. 194 00:07:54,160 --> 00:07:57,560 Speaker 1: Like it's not as cool in that, like you're not 195 00:07:57,600 --> 00:08:00,160 Speaker 1: the flashy young twenty something anymore in the thing, but 196 00:08:00,280 --> 00:08:04,440 Speaker 1: like there's there's like story there, yes, and uh yeah, 197 00:08:04,520 --> 00:08:05,120 Speaker 1: it just is. 198 00:08:05,320 --> 00:08:07,440 Speaker 5: It's just it's again, it's just stripped back and like 199 00:08:07,640 --> 00:08:10,200 Speaker 5: for sure I'm glamorous and I really liked it. 200 00:08:10,320 --> 00:08:10,520 Speaker 3: Yeah. 201 00:08:10,560 --> 00:08:12,560 Speaker 4: No, I hear you on the energy piece though, And 202 00:08:12,640 --> 00:08:14,440 Speaker 4: no pressure to hang with your cast mates, which I 203 00:08:14,480 --> 00:08:15,280 Speaker 4: also think is moms. 204 00:08:15,360 --> 00:08:17,520 Speaker 2: We can appreciate you guys are young. Go do what 205 00:08:17,520 --> 00:08:18,080 Speaker 2: you're gonna do. 206 00:08:18,600 --> 00:08:21,120 Speaker 5: Go have fun, bro. I like I cheer for you 207 00:08:21,160 --> 00:08:21,920 Speaker 5: from the sidelines. 208 00:08:21,960 --> 00:08:25,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, feel that's right. 209 00:08:25,360 --> 00:08:26,160 Speaker 5: It feels right. 210 00:08:26,400 --> 00:08:28,560 Speaker 4: Okay, So kind of along the same lines, I want 211 00:08:28,560 --> 00:08:31,480 Speaker 4: to know how you bridged this gap, because one thing 212 00:08:31,480 --> 00:08:34,840 Speaker 4: that I've always loved about you is that obviously you're stunning. 213 00:08:35,120 --> 00:08:39,400 Speaker 4: We all know Brooklyn Decker like you're just iconic. I 214 00:08:39,440 --> 00:08:40,280 Speaker 4: would say. 215 00:08:40,840 --> 00:08:43,320 Speaker 2: Wow, I would Okay, Well, you're studying. 216 00:08:43,480 --> 00:08:45,280 Speaker 4: There's not a human alive that doesn't know your name, 217 00:08:45,520 --> 00:08:49,480 Speaker 4: true's and that is pretty telling of how much you've 218 00:08:49,480 --> 00:08:51,680 Speaker 4: done and and the name you've made for yourself. But 219 00:08:52,240 --> 00:08:57,960 Speaker 4: you started modeling and you made what I would in 220 00:08:58,000 --> 00:09:01,440 Speaker 4: my suite. I'm not an actress in my little world. 221 00:09:01,559 --> 00:09:03,760 Speaker 4: What seems to me to be the biggest jump would 222 00:09:03,920 --> 00:09:06,560 Speaker 4: be to acting. For someone to take you out of 223 00:09:06,600 --> 00:09:08,880 Speaker 4: what you were so good at and so powerful at, 224 00:09:08,920 --> 00:09:12,120 Speaker 4: and then to create a path for yourself into acting. 225 00:09:13,200 --> 00:09:16,920 Speaker 4: Tell me how that happened and what did you have 226 00:09:16,960 --> 00:09:19,200 Speaker 4: to think? Do believe in yourself? Give me all the 227 00:09:19,200 --> 00:09:22,320 Speaker 4: words of affirmation that we can get. Because I feel 228 00:09:22,720 --> 00:09:26,959 Speaker 4: there's a lot of people in our age group. I'm 229 00:09:26,960 --> 00:09:28,680 Speaker 4: going to lump you up into the forties just for 230 00:09:28,679 --> 00:09:30,960 Speaker 4: a second, but just our generation. 231 00:09:32,200 --> 00:09:33,240 Speaker 5: Well I'm there. 232 00:09:33,280 --> 00:09:35,560 Speaker 2: I'm to play a forty three year old for just 233 00:09:35,559 --> 00:09:36,160 Speaker 2: two minutes. 234 00:09:36,920 --> 00:09:38,320 Speaker 1: I feel I. 235 00:09:40,400 --> 00:09:43,960 Speaker 5: Belong. I belong beyond forties, even yeah, well, sure. 236 00:09:43,760 --> 00:09:44,560 Speaker 2: You've lived a lot of life. 237 00:09:44,559 --> 00:09:46,520 Speaker 4: Your husband is, you know, in the spotlight, like you've 238 00:09:46,520 --> 00:09:50,360 Speaker 4: just got a very full life. So probably in music city, 239 00:09:50,520 --> 00:09:53,560 Speaker 4: in industry dog gears, we would put you in the forties. 240 00:09:53,640 --> 00:09:55,679 Speaker 2: So do you look like you're twenty? It's fine. 241 00:09:55,840 --> 00:09:58,400 Speaker 4: So I just know there's so many people wanting to 242 00:09:58,440 --> 00:10:00,640 Speaker 4: make that transition from things that they're like good at 243 00:10:00,760 --> 00:10:04,000 Speaker 4: or they've been seemingly kind of like worked into and 244 00:10:04,240 --> 00:10:06,240 Speaker 4: would love to try something new. Like I feel that 245 00:10:06,280 --> 00:10:08,719 Speaker 4: way a little b about myself at this point and 246 00:10:09,360 --> 00:10:11,520 Speaker 4: kind of going like okay, in the forties, how do 247 00:10:11,600 --> 00:10:14,160 Speaker 4: I make the change or what does that look like? 248 00:10:14,400 --> 00:10:16,000 Speaker 2: And you've done it so well, so I just want 249 00:10:16,000 --> 00:10:16,640 Speaker 2: to know everything. 250 00:10:18,480 --> 00:10:22,000 Speaker 1: First of all, thank you. That was unbelievably flattering and 251 00:10:22,160 --> 00:10:24,959 Speaker 1: very kind. Thank you for those very very generous words. 252 00:10:24,960 --> 00:10:31,480 Speaker 1: That's very very nice. I first of all, frankly, I'm 253 00:10:31,480 --> 00:10:33,640 Speaker 1: still looking like I'm still trying to figure out how 254 00:10:33,640 --> 00:10:37,320 Speaker 1: to find that like inner affirmative voice that like inner 255 00:10:37,440 --> 00:10:40,360 Speaker 1: you belong here, you like you know, we all talk about, 256 00:10:41,920 --> 00:10:45,400 Speaker 1: oh my gosh, what do we talk about the imposter syndrome, 257 00:10:45,520 --> 00:10:48,679 Speaker 1: and that's that's never gone away. That's very real in 258 00:10:48,720 --> 00:10:51,480 Speaker 1: my day to day, and that's never really never really 259 00:10:51,480 --> 00:10:55,720 Speaker 1: goes away. So the affirmation, I think, I'm still trying 260 00:10:55,760 --> 00:10:57,320 Speaker 1: to figure out how to wake up and be like 261 00:10:57,360 --> 00:10:59,360 Speaker 1: I belong here, I deserve this, I feel comfortable on 262 00:10:59,400 --> 00:10:59,640 Speaker 1: this set. 263 00:10:59,640 --> 00:11:00,480 Speaker 5: I'm still nervous. 264 00:11:00,559 --> 00:11:05,600 Speaker 1: I still don't feel you know, totally deserving in my body, 265 00:11:05,679 --> 00:11:10,440 Speaker 1: whatever it is. But I think I think something actually 266 00:11:10,480 --> 00:11:13,280 Speaker 1: I learned from I say, the kids, the young adults 267 00:11:13,280 --> 00:11:15,920 Speaker 1: on the show, which was so fascinating. You know, we 268 00:11:15,960 --> 00:11:18,719 Speaker 1: talk about like gen Z and the young kids and 269 00:11:18,880 --> 00:11:20,920 Speaker 1: social media is killing us and all these things. I 270 00:11:21,920 --> 00:11:27,160 Speaker 1: actually had a totally different perception after working with young people, 271 00:11:27,200 --> 00:11:30,719 Speaker 1: and by young I mean under twenty five, where these 272 00:11:30,760 --> 00:11:34,240 Speaker 1: are kids who, like we were taught, you know, thirties 273 00:11:34,280 --> 00:11:36,120 Speaker 1: and forties. I feel like we were all taught to 274 00:11:36,160 --> 00:11:38,120 Speaker 1: like stay in a silo. We were taught that, like, 275 00:11:38,160 --> 00:11:42,120 Speaker 1: you can't cross over, buys your time, earn your keep, 276 00:11:42,520 --> 00:11:44,920 Speaker 1: don't speak up until you at least have five ten 277 00:11:45,000 --> 00:11:45,840 Speaker 1: years under your belt. 278 00:11:45,920 --> 00:11:48,439 Speaker 5: Like we were taught to really silo ourselves. 279 00:11:48,080 --> 00:11:51,360 Speaker 1: Both creatively and professionally. And as a result, I think 280 00:11:51,360 --> 00:11:54,240 Speaker 1: we were taught that, like we can't have multitudes and 281 00:11:54,280 --> 00:11:57,640 Speaker 1: creativity can't exist in several buckets, and that hasn't been 282 00:11:57,679 --> 00:12:00,560 Speaker 1: true for me. Like, for me, creative energy is just energy, 283 00:12:00,600 --> 00:12:01,880 Speaker 1: and if you don't get it out of your body, 284 00:12:01,880 --> 00:12:04,040 Speaker 1: it becomes like destructive inside, you know, Like. 285 00:12:04,000 --> 00:12:05,600 Speaker 5: I really, I really feel that way. 286 00:12:05,640 --> 00:12:09,520 Speaker 1: So whether your creativity is like applied to writing or 287 00:12:09,679 --> 00:12:12,760 Speaker 1: art or design or acting or singing or whatever, that is, 288 00:12:12,840 --> 00:12:16,520 Speaker 1: like whatever your creative energy sort of generates for you, 289 00:12:16,720 --> 00:12:17,680 Speaker 1: I feel like it. 290 00:12:17,559 --> 00:12:20,280 Speaker 5: Can exist in several buckets. But I feel like our 291 00:12:20,320 --> 00:12:23,200 Speaker 5: generation was taught to like never cross over. You know. 292 00:12:23,240 --> 00:12:25,440 Speaker 1: I remember early early in my crew, when I'd first 293 00:12:25,480 --> 00:12:29,080 Speaker 1: transition into acting. In every single interview, we'd be like, 294 00:12:29,120 --> 00:12:31,320 Speaker 1: don't mention the modeling, don't mention the modeling. I was like, 295 00:12:31,440 --> 00:12:34,280 Speaker 1: so embarrassed, isn't the right word. I was like so 296 00:12:34,360 --> 00:12:36,880 Speaker 1: paranoid to be considered like a model turned or like 297 00:12:36,880 --> 00:12:40,040 Speaker 1: a hyphen it. Whereas now you look at everyone and 298 00:12:40,080 --> 00:12:44,000 Speaker 1: they've they're writing books and their painters and their singers 299 00:12:44,040 --> 00:12:44,800 Speaker 1: and their actors. 300 00:12:44,840 --> 00:12:48,760 Speaker 5: Like this new generation of individuals like they're just creative 301 00:12:48,800 --> 00:12:50,640 Speaker 5: and then you can be one thing. 302 00:12:51,000 --> 00:12:51,240 Speaker 2: Yeah. 303 00:12:51,280 --> 00:12:54,760 Speaker 1: They just try everything and it's fearless, and it's like 304 00:12:54,800 --> 00:12:56,480 Speaker 1: I do deserve to be here because I am being 305 00:12:56,480 --> 00:12:58,640 Speaker 1: my They show up fully of themselves versus like a 306 00:12:58,720 --> 00:13:00,880 Speaker 1: shell of themselves because they've been taught to be quiet, 307 00:13:00,960 --> 00:13:03,640 Speaker 1: whereas I feel like we were sort of taught to. 308 00:13:03,640 --> 00:13:05,679 Speaker 5: Show as a shell of ourselves. 309 00:13:06,559 --> 00:13:08,720 Speaker 1: This is very long winded, but all that to say that, 310 00:13:08,800 --> 00:13:12,040 Speaker 1: like my transitions started, or really the root of my 311 00:13:12,120 --> 00:13:16,040 Speaker 1: transitions career wise is just because of like innate curiosity. 312 00:13:16,679 --> 00:13:20,199 Speaker 1: I would be modeling and I'd be traveling, and all 313 00:13:20,200 --> 00:13:22,400 Speaker 1: my friends were in college and I didn't go to college, 314 00:13:22,400 --> 00:13:24,959 Speaker 1: and I really really missed that experience, especially when my 315 00:13:25,000 --> 00:13:28,400 Speaker 1: friends were all at university, and so I started studying acting. 316 00:13:28,440 --> 00:13:31,880 Speaker 1: This was like pre you couldn't really do online school 317 00:13:31,960 --> 00:13:33,920 Speaker 1: unless you were a full time student, so I like 318 00:13:34,000 --> 00:13:37,000 Speaker 1: online schooling wasn't an option, So I started. I had 319 00:13:37,000 --> 00:13:39,320 Speaker 1: an acting coach in New York named Joan Rosenfels, and 320 00:13:39,360 --> 00:13:41,840 Speaker 1: I started reading Tennessee Williams with her, and I just 321 00:13:41,920 --> 00:13:45,560 Speaker 1: started like learning about that, like just what it means 322 00:13:45,559 --> 00:13:50,000 Speaker 1: to read a play and beautiful just you know, imagery 323 00:13:50,040 --> 00:13:52,480 Speaker 1: and beautiful words. And that was like that was my 324 00:13:52,559 --> 00:13:55,720 Speaker 1: introduction to acting. And then I, yeah, I just it 325 00:13:55,800 --> 00:13:58,640 Speaker 1: was just an innate curiosity and a thirst that exists 326 00:13:58,679 --> 00:14:00,240 Speaker 1: in me still where I'm like, what can of to do? 327 00:14:00,240 --> 00:14:02,440 Speaker 1: Now there's like a piano downstairs, I started self to 328 00:14:02,480 --> 00:14:04,600 Speaker 1: it's ridiculous. I mean, like, I think part of this 329 00:14:04,640 --> 00:14:06,719 Speaker 1: is ADHD two. Like I think there's some undiagnosed Like 330 00:14:06,800 --> 00:14:08,440 Speaker 1: I said, we've got it. We've got an ADHD. 331 00:14:10,240 --> 00:14:12,200 Speaker 6: I've got an iron DEFIICI and we're gonna get a 332 00:14:12,200 --> 00:14:13,640 Speaker 6: testoster on the whole, like all of it. 333 00:14:13,679 --> 00:14:14,680 Speaker 2: We're just gonna I need to. 334 00:14:14,640 --> 00:14:17,560 Speaker 5: Get channel again after the full panel after this. 335 00:14:17,720 --> 00:14:21,280 Speaker 1: But but point is is, you know, I it's just 336 00:14:21,320 --> 00:14:24,720 Speaker 1: like an innate curiosity and and probably a little bit 337 00:14:24,760 --> 00:14:27,800 Speaker 1: of boredom, just the desire to constantly be learning new things. 338 00:14:28,680 --> 00:14:30,720 Speaker 1: That was kind of the genesis of me transitioning from 339 00:14:30,720 --> 00:14:34,600 Speaker 1: modeling into acting. But now, yeah, these these kids, I 340 00:14:34,640 --> 00:14:37,480 Speaker 1: say kids, but these people are just young people are 341 00:14:37,520 --> 00:14:41,040 Speaker 1: just doing it all and it's it's really beautiful to see. 342 00:14:41,160 --> 00:14:42,160 Speaker 5: It's very it's very. 343 00:14:42,120 --> 00:14:45,240 Speaker 1: They're getting their ten thousand hours much quicker than we did. 344 00:14:45,680 --> 00:14:48,400 Speaker 4: So unafraid, That's how I feel. I feel like they're 345 00:14:48,440 --> 00:14:51,320 Speaker 4: so unafraid and you're so right like the silos. That's 346 00:14:52,200 --> 00:14:54,600 Speaker 4: that I think is like we call it in our house, 347 00:14:54,640 --> 00:14:56,520 Speaker 4: like a lidless life, like take the lid off. And 348 00:14:56,600 --> 00:14:58,600 Speaker 4: just like I had this moment the other day, I'm like, 349 00:14:58,640 --> 00:15:02,080 Speaker 4: how do I just dream again? Like what do I 350 00:15:02,120 --> 00:15:05,560 Speaker 4: without condition really want, you know, like forty three? 351 00:15:05,840 --> 00:15:07,480 Speaker 2: How much life do we have left? We don't know. 352 00:15:07,560 --> 00:15:11,640 Speaker 4: We hope one hundred years, right, but like so, but 353 00:15:11,720 --> 00:15:14,520 Speaker 4: we're also conditioned to think like, if you're this, you're that. 354 00:15:14,600 --> 00:15:18,000 Speaker 4: Like Janna went from acting to music and then back 355 00:15:18,000 --> 00:15:20,280 Speaker 4: to acting and doing music at the same time, and 356 00:15:20,320 --> 00:15:23,440 Speaker 4: I just think it's so phenomenal, how unafraid you guys are. 357 00:15:24,200 --> 00:15:27,480 Speaker 4: And meanwhile, I'm just talking for a living You're doing great, girlfriend. 358 00:15:28,280 --> 00:15:31,880 Speaker 1: One feels the other though, right, like one one creative 359 00:15:31,960 --> 00:15:34,920 Speaker 1: venture feels the other. So I would say, when you're talking, 360 00:15:34,960 --> 00:15:37,760 Speaker 1: I'd love the term lidless life, like are you writing 361 00:15:37,800 --> 00:15:38,200 Speaker 1: things down? 362 00:15:38,200 --> 00:15:40,120 Speaker 5: I mean, by the way, me and my friends were 363 00:15:40,120 --> 00:15:43,120 Speaker 5: all asking ourselves this too, like especially. 364 00:15:42,720 --> 00:15:45,480 Speaker 1: Now that our kids, because I don't have a lot 365 00:15:45,520 --> 00:15:47,040 Speaker 1: of friends with kids sort of in the two range, 366 00:15:47,040 --> 00:15:49,160 Speaker 1: but our kids being a little bit older in school, 367 00:15:49,400 --> 00:15:50,760 Speaker 1: you know, for a few hours a day, all of 368 00:15:50,760 --> 00:15:51,680 Speaker 1: a sudden you're like, oh, I have. 369 00:15:51,600 --> 00:15:52,920 Speaker 5: Life back I have time back. 370 00:15:53,000 --> 00:15:55,520 Speaker 1: So a lot of my friends who left the workforce 371 00:15:55,560 --> 00:15:58,120 Speaker 1: are going like, Wow, what impact do I want to have? 372 00:15:58,200 --> 00:15:59,800 Speaker 1: And how am I going to sort of reconnect with 373 00:15:59,800 --> 00:16:01,680 Speaker 1: my old self? And what is my old self? And 374 00:16:02,160 --> 00:16:04,280 Speaker 1: how does that relate to myself now? And and I 375 00:16:04,320 --> 00:16:06,080 Speaker 1: don't know the answer. I don't know how to get there. 376 00:16:06,120 --> 00:16:07,840 Speaker 1: I think I'm still trying to figure that out myself. 377 00:16:07,880 --> 00:16:10,600 Speaker 1: But a lot of people are like writing down, you know, 378 00:16:10,680 --> 00:16:14,920 Speaker 1: writing down, literally free writing every morning, like what comes 379 00:16:14,920 --> 00:16:15,320 Speaker 1: to mind? 380 00:16:15,400 --> 00:16:16,640 Speaker 5: What's coming to mind? What am I? What do I 381 00:16:16,680 --> 00:16:18,200 Speaker 5: keep talking about? What do I keep seeing? What am 382 00:16:18,200 --> 00:16:18,960 Speaker 5: I dreaming about? 383 00:16:20,000 --> 00:16:22,240 Speaker 1: But yeah, it's it's so we're in a really interesting 384 00:16:22,240 --> 00:16:25,840 Speaker 1: phase of life where I'm sure everyone who reaches their 385 00:16:25,880 --> 00:16:27,600 Speaker 1: sort of thirties, forties, fifties. 386 00:16:27,280 --> 00:16:29,200 Speaker 5: Feels this way. But I'm like, oh, we're the youngest 387 00:16:29,800 --> 00:16:30,520 Speaker 5: forties that have. 388 00:16:30,520 --> 00:16:34,080 Speaker 1: Ever existed, or the hottest, We're the youngest, We're the 389 00:16:34,520 --> 00:16:37,200 Speaker 1: we are the youngest forties that have ever existed. 390 00:16:37,440 --> 00:16:40,240 Speaker 4: I mean, the Golden Girls are forty, you guys, the 391 00:16:40,400 --> 00:16:41,320 Speaker 4: cast of the Golden Girl. 392 00:16:41,360 --> 00:16:57,520 Speaker 6: I don't That's what's why I say it's so bleak, Brooklyn, 393 00:16:57,600 --> 00:16:59,480 Speaker 6: How long have you and Andy been married for. 394 00:17:01,160 --> 00:17:02,040 Speaker 2: Sixteen years. 395 00:17:02,080 --> 00:17:04,400 Speaker 6: Do you think having that more of a prize because 396 00:17:04,400 --> 00:17:07,439 Speaker 6: I feel like I don't see you guys out a 397 00:17:07,480 --> 00:17:10,360 Speaker 6: lot or I don't ever hear and is that a 398 00:17:10,560 --> 00:17:13,800 Speaker 6: is that? Ah? Do you do that on purpose? I 399 00:17:13,800 --> 00:17:14,880 Speaker 6: guess or intentionally? 400 00:17:15,600 --> 00:17:18,919 Speaker 5: Yeah? Yeah. We live in North Carolina, where I grew up. 401 00:17:19,400 --> 00:17:20,720 Speaker 5: Before this we were in Austin. 402 00:17:22,560 --> 00:17:28,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, I I love work, he loves work. 403 00:17:28,880 --> 00:17:32,280 Speaker 1: I don't think either of us love the culture of 404 00:17:32,320 --> 00:17:36,480 Speaker 1: our work, if that makes sense, Like the going out 405 00:17:36,520 --> 00:17:38,000 Speaker 1: and the being seen and the playing the game and 406 00:17:38,040 --> 00:17:39,919 Speaker 1: the pr thing, like neither one of us really like 407 00:17:39,960 --> 00:17:42,600 Speaker 1: to participate with that beyond sort of what's expected of 408 00:17:42,680 --> 00:17:47,679 Speaker 1: us and our professional sort of duties. Yeah, it's super intentional, 409 00:17:47,840 --> 00:17:51,680 Speaker 1: and it's not really I mean like I feel, I feel. 410 00:17:51,720 --> 00:17:53,760 Speaker 1: I think we both feel both very private but also 411 00:17:53,880 --> 00:17:56,280 Speaker 1: super candid. He has a podcast and he speaks super 412 00:17:56,280 --> 00:17:58,280 Speaker 1: freely on there, and I'm happy to talk about our 413 00:17:58,320 --> 00:18:01,640 Speaker 1: relationship and him. But yeah, I mean, I think more 414 00:18:01,640 --> 00:18:05,200 Speaker 1: than anything, we just like a very lazy, very lazy, 415 00:18:05,320 --> 00:18:05,760 Speaker 1: chill life. 416 00:18:05,840 --> 00:18:09,360 Speaker 5: It comes from being very lazy people, I know, But I. 417 00:18:08,760 --> 00:18:11,920 Speaker 6: Think, but I think that's I think that's great though, 418 00:18:12,040 --> 00:18:14,760 Speaker 6: and I also I was reading one something you said 419 00:18:14,760 --> 00:18:17,399 Speaker 6: too that you didn't respond back to him for months. 420 00:18:17,640 --> 00:18:21,080 Speaker 6: So my my husband is a he was a former 421 00:18:21,200 --> 00:18:24,800 Speaker 6: professional football player back over like in the soccer world, 422 00:18:25,119 --> 00:18:27,439 Speaker 6: so and I knew nothing about soccer, but I so 423 00:18:27,520 --> 00:18:30,040 Speaker 6: I I just really didn't respond to him. And I 424 00:18:30,119 --> 00:18:32,320 Speaker 6: think that is because he DM me and I'm like 425 00:18:32,359 --> 00:18:34,440 Speaker 6: I and I you know, he's a good looking dude, 426 00:18:34,480 --> 00:18:37,320 Speaker 6: so I think women were obviously responding to him, and 427 00:18:37,359 --> 00:18:39,400 Speaker 6: I was just like hi, and then three weeks later 428 00:18:39,400 --> 00:18:42,000 Speaker 6: I'd be like, oh hey, sorry, like I got busy, 429 00:18:42,080 --> 00:18:45,160 Speaker 6: got busy and whatever. And I honestly think that's why 430 00:18:45,320 --> 00:18:49,920 Speaker 6: we like he was so like attracted to me because 431 00:18:49,960 --> 00:18:52,960 Speaker 6: I just did not care. And I knew nothing about soccer, 432 00:18:53,040 --> 00:18:55,840 Speaker 6: Like I just was like, oh you did what? Like who, 433 00:18:55,960 --> 00:18:58,120 Speaker 6: I don't know, were you playing a game? 434 00:18:58,320 --> 00:19:00,639 Speaker 5: Was this like was this intentional? Or were really just 435 00:19:00,920 --> 00:19:01,399 Speaker 5: like it was not? 436 00:19:01,560 --> 00:19:04,359 Speaker 6: Literally no, I had just like finished hoc all summer. 437 00:19:04,560 --> 00:19:07,520 Speaker 6: I was just like I wasn't like he lived in England, 438 00:19:07,680 --> 00:19:09,040 Speaker 6: like what you know what I mean, Like I've got 439 00:19:09,040 --> 00:19:11,760 Speaker 6: two kids here. He had a rule that you wouldn't 440 00:19:11,840 --> 00:19:15,679 Speaker 6: date I would and I didn't Dade a pact to 441 00:19:15,760 --> 00:19:19,119 Speaker 6: my girlfriends and so genuinely like I just didn't and 442 00:19:19,160 --> 00:19:21,480 Speaker 6: he was could barely see his little profile thing because 443 00:19:21,480 --> 00:19:24,960 Speaker 6: he was private, and I was just like I genuinely 444 00:19:25,080 --> 00:19:26,520 Speaker 6: for the first time, like did not. 445 00:19:26,880 --> 00:19:28,920 Speaker 4: I was not impressed with my husband we met. He's 446 00:19:28,960 --> 00:19:31,040 Speaker 4: in music, and I was like, I actually didn't know 447 00:19:31,040 --> 00:19:33,199 Speaker 4: who he was. And then he tried to kiss me 448 00:19:33,200 --> 00:19:34,960 Speaker 4: our first three dates and I said, I'm not kissing you. 449 00:19:35,280 --> 00:19:37,280 Speaker 4: I think everybody kisses you on the first three dates. 450 00:19:37,960 --> 00:19:39,879 Speaker 6: But it really wasn't a game, though, But I'll just 451 00:19:39,920 --> 00:19:41,919 Speaker 6: say to the girls though, I'm like, maybe that's like 452 00:19:42,119 --> 00:19:43,879 Speaker 6: I did not to say, play a game, But like, 453 00:19:44,320 --> 00:19:45,600 Speaker 6: why didn't you call him back? 454 00:19:47,760 --> 00:19:57,920 Speaker 7: I had a boyfriend, you had a boyfriend. 455 00:19:54,680 --> 00:19:59,440 Speaker 5: I was very attached. 456 00:20:00,000 --> 00:20:02,440 Speaker 1: I was very attached and very young, Like I was 457 00:20:02,520 --> 00:20:06,080 Speaker 1: very we I mean I was twenty when I met 458 00:20:06,480 --> 00:20:07,840 Speaker 1: my husband, so I was very young. 459 00:20:07,880 --> 00:20:08,920 Speaker 5: I was very attached. 460 00:20:09,400 --> 00:20:12,920 Speaker 1: And I broke my boyfriend, my ex boyfriend, and I 461 00:20:12,960 --> 00:20:16,040 Speaker 1: got love him broke up and I was single living 462 00:20:16,040 --> 00:20:18,720 Speaker 1: in New York for a few months, and Andy he 463 00:20:18,880 --> 00:20:21,639 Speaker 1: kept calling, like I think he sort of admits to 464 00:20:21,680 --> 00:20:23,239 Speaker 1: this now but kind of doesn't like I think it 465 00:20:23,240 --> 00:20:25,560 Speaker 1: became a bet, you know, like it became a ja with. 466 00:20:25,520 --> 00:20:27,440 Speaker 5: His friends where they were like, how many times will 467 00:20:27,440 --> 00:20:27,720 Speaker 5: it take? 468 00:20:28,320 --> 00:20:30,399 Speaker 1: And so he kept calling and this one on for 469 00:20:30,440 --> 00:20:34,400 Speaker 1: five months and again all my friends who were at college. 470 00:20:34,480 --> 00:20:36,800 Speaker 1: I was living in New York, a city I absolutely 471 00:20:36,960 --> 00:20:39,359 Speaker 1: love now, but at the time I was, I was young. 472 00:20:39,480 --> 00:20:41,920 Speaker 1: It was a hard transition. I was missing home. And 473 00:20:42,000 --> 00:20:45,520 Speaker 1: my now manager said, you should call that guy back, 474 00:20:45,760 --> 00:20:49,679 Speaker 1: you know, and like before sliding into DMS, agents called agents. 475 00:20:49,720 --> 00:20:50,399 Speaker 5: It's so gross. 476 00:20:50,480 --> 00:20:52,920 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, yeah, you know that's what it. 477 00:20:52,880 --> 00:20:57,600 Speaker 1: Was, like, so and so whatever agents called agents and so. 478 00:20:57,680 --> 00:21:00,800 Speaker 1: But this was the only person I called back. And 479 00:21:00,840 --> 00:21:03,560 Speaker 1: my manager goes, you know, there was this press conference 480 00:21:03,640 --> 00:21:06,119 Speaker 1: of Andy's from two thousand and seven he lost at 481 00:21:06,160 --> 00:21:08,639 Speaker 1: the Australian Open, and it's like the most cerbic, dry, 482 00:21:09,160 --> 00:21:11,960 Speaker 1: hilarious defeated press conference. 483 00:21:12,000 --> 00:21:14,000 Speaker 5: He goes, you should watch this. He's really funny. I 484 00:21:14,000 --> 00:21:14,760 Speaker 5: think you'll like him. 485 00:21:15,119 --> 00:21:17,399 Speaker 1: And he also has a foundation in Austin that he 486 00:21:17,480 --> 00:21:19,040 Speaker 1: still runs, and he's like, he's. 487 00:21:18,920 --> 00:21:21,000 Speaker 5: Got this foundation for kids, Like, I think you're. 488 00:21:20,840 --> 00:21:23,200 Speaker 1: Really didn't like this guy, and he goes, worst case scenario, 489 00:21:23,280 --> 00:21:25,800 Speaker 1: you'll have a bad first date and you'll have a 490 00:21:25,800 --> 00:21:27,560 Speaker 1: funny story to tell me. I'm like, yeah, that's true, 491 00:21:27,680 --> 00:21:31,320 Speaker 1: so call him back. And eight months later we were engaged, 492 00:21:31,520 --> 00:21:32,800 Speaker 1: which is crazy. 493 00:21:33,080 --> 00:21:37,439 Speaker 6: Be crazy, No, it's but look at you guys now though, 494 00:21:37,480 --> 00:21:40,439 Speaker 6: sixteen years later, I mean you know, like that's so. 495 00:21:40,880 --> 00:21:43,840 Speaker 6: Have you guys ever played tennis together? Because I always 496 00:21:43,880 --> 00:21:48,119 Speaker 6: liked to. Did it not go well? Because twice twice 497 00:21:48,160 --> 00:21:50,120 Speaker 6: is pretty few times since sixty. 498 00:21:49,960 --> 00:21:54,919 Speaker 1: Two memorable memorable sessions. The first one, I broke a racket, 499 00:21:55,160 --> 00:21:58,320 Speaker 1: you know, he said to me, He said to me, 500 00:21:58,680 --> 00:22:00,800 Speaker 1: he goes. He was talking to me. He was great 501 00:22:00,840 --> 00:22:03,440 Speaker 1: because I've never played. I never the first time seeing 502 00:22:03,440 --> 00:22:04,320 Speaker 1: a Timis match I was. 503 00:22:04,400 --> 00:22:06,520 Speaker 5: We were dating and his best friend sat next to him, 504 00:22:06,600 --> 00:22:10,640 Speaker 5: was like, this is thirty, this is forty, this is love. 505 00:22:10,760 --> 00:22:14,159 Speaker 1: Like I had no idea so exactly like I didn't, 506 00:22:14,320 --> 00:22:16,000 Speaker 1: I was. I grew up in North Carolina. It was 507 00:22:16,000 --> 00:22:18,480 Speaker 1: like basketball, you know, some football, but it was like 508 00:22:18,480 --> 00:22:19,360 Speaker 1: you were Carolina duke. 509 00:22:19,400 --> 00:22:20,520 Speaker 5: It was all college basketball. 510 00:22:20,560 --> 00:22:24,080 Speaker 1: So I we are playing tennis. He like gets this 511 00:22:24,760 --> 00:22:26,800 Speaker 1: racket with a very big head on it, so I 512 00:22:26,800 --> 00:22:28,800 Speaker 1: guess I don't miss, and like he tapes up the grip. 513 00:22:28,880 --> 00:22:31,720 Speaker 1: So it's really you know, beefy, I don't know. And 514 00:22:32,040 --> 00:22:36,119 Speaker 1: he starts pointing and he goes, just point at the ball, 515 00:22:36,480 --> 00:22:38,520 Speaker 1: point to where you wanted to go, and then hit 516 00:22:38,600 --> 00:22:39,320 Speaker 1: and the ball will goether. 517 00:22:39,359 --> 00:22:41,679 Speaker 5: He's talking to me with this tone, which who did 518 00:22:41,760 --> 00:22:44,439 Speaker 5: not go well. And I said, I said, can you 519 00:22:44,600 --> 00:22:47,159 Speaker 5: stop talking to me like a five year old? And 520 00:22:47,200 --> 00:22:50,480 Speaker 5: he said to me, it still makes my blood boil. 521 00:22:50,720 --> 00:22:53,080 Speaker 1: He goes, if you play like a five year old, 522 00:22:53,160 --> 00:22:54,600 Speaker 1: I'm going to have to talk to you like a 523 00:22:54,640 --> 00:22:55,439 Speaker 1: five year old. 524 00:22:56,320 --> 00:22:57,200 Speaker 5: And that is. 525 00:23:00,160 --> 00:23:01,920 Speaker 1: This was probably fifty I don't even know if you're 526 00:23:01,920 --> 00:23:04,200 Speaker 1: married yet. But I took that racket and I smashed 527 00:23:04,200 --> 00:23:07,720 Speaker 1: it into bits and I was like, never again, I'm 528 00:23:07,760 --> 00:23:09,920 Speaker 1: not going near this sport. And then we tried it 529 00:23:09,960 --> 00:23:12,160 Speaker 1: again during COVID because we just wanted to be outside. 530 00:23:12,200 --> 00:23:14,000 Speaker 1: So we tried it again during COVID and it was fine. 531 00:23:14,000 --> 00:23:18,960 Speaker 1: But like, yeah, it doesn't like your spouse shouldn't. I 532 00:23:19,000 --> 00:23:21,520 Speaker 1: just don't think they should teach you how to play sports. 533 00:23:21,600 --> 00:23:23,600 Speaker 1: I don't think that goes. I just don't think that works. 534 00:23:23,800 --> 00:23:25,560 Speaker 1: I haven't seen a successful version. 535 00:23:25,320 --> 00:23:26,360 Speaker 5: Of that yet. 536 00:23:26,520 --> 00:23:27,040 Speaker 2: No, I get that. 537 00:23:27,119 --> 00:23:29,480 Speaker 5: Oh y'all, did you learn how to play well? 538 00:23:29,520 --> 00:23:32,159 Speaker 6: I mean, like I know nothing about soccer, and so 539 00:23:32,480 --> 00:23:36,639 Speaker 6: you know, he'll try, but it's it's yeah, it's like 540 00:23:37,720 --> 00:23:39,439 Speaker 6: it's not the funnest you know. 541 00:23:39,680 --> 00:23:41,159 Speaker 5: So I just like, you're not going to go out 542 00:23:41,200 --> 00:23:42,160 Speaker 5: and like hit a ball again. 543 00:23:42,240 --> 00:23:46,879 Speaker 6: Like we've played tennis together before though, and I'm not 544 00:23:46,920 --> 00:23:49,040 Speaker 6: great at tennis, like at all. I just enjoy it, 545 00:23:49,119 --> 00:23:52,399 Speaker 6: and so when we're playing, it's he had made one 546 00:23:52,480 --> 00:23:54,480 Speaker 6: comment we were playing tennis. I'm like, okay, I don't 547 00:23:54,480 --> 00:23:56,720 Speaker 6: want to play anymore, like you know, they just got it. 548 00:23:57,720 --> 00:23:57,920 Speaker 3: Yeah. 549 00:23:57,960 --> 00:24:02,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, we tried playing tennis once and that was that. Yeah. Yeah, 550 00:24:02,280 --> 00:24:02,800 Speaker 2: it's just me. 551 00:24:03,000 --> 00:24:04,920 Speaker 5: See what is that? What's wrong with that? 552 00:24:05,400 --> 00:24:06,680 Speaker 2: I think what it is. 553 00:24:06,720 --> 00:24:09,159 Speaker 4: I think learning a sport together seems to be the 554 00:24:09,160 --> 00:24:11,280 Speaker 4: sweet spot for us. Yeah, so we can both suck 555 00:24:11,320 --> 00:24:13,359 Speaker 4: at golf, and we've been doing really well sucking at 556 00:24:13,359 --> 00:24:13,879 Speaker 4: golf together. 557 00:24:14,040 --> 00:24:15,040 Speaker 2: Like that's fun for us. 558 00:24:15,119 --> 00:24:18,480 Speaker 4: Yeah, it's when like my husband actually loves tennis. 559 00:24:18,560 --> 00:24:20,680 Speaker 2: Like well, I'll tell you what Alan. 560 00:24:20,520 --> 00:24:23,240 Speaker 6: Said, because we were like playing and I said like, 561 00:24:23,240 --> 00:24:24,680 Speaker 6: are you having fun? And he's like, well yeah, I 562 00:24:24,680 --> 00:24:26,760 Speaker 6: mean I'm just standing here hitting it back and forth 563 00:24:26,800 --> 00:24:28,960 Speaker 6: because he's like making me run from like side to side, 564 00:24:29,000 --> 00:24:30,880 Speaker 6: and I'm like, oh, so I'm not hitting it where 565 00:24:30,920 --> 00:24:32,360 Speaker 6: you want me to hit that. I'm just like glad, 566 00:24:32,400 --> 00:24:35,199 Speaker 6: I'm hitting it over the night like baic. 567 00:24:36,160 --> 00:24:38,840 Speaker 5: God, we're not meant to do. We're not meant to do. 568 00:24:39,000 --> 00:24:41,639 Speaker 1: We're just not meant to learn sports from partners. I 569 00:24:41,680 --> 00:24:43,720 Speaker 1: don't think that's it's just we just didn't know that's 570 00:24:43,760 --> 00:24:46,440 Speaker 1: not a successful endeavor for for ourselves. 571 00:24:45,960 --> 00:24:46,280 Speaker 2: For us. 572 00:24:58,840 --> 00:25:01,320 Speaker 6: What is your favorite thing about him? And the one 573 00:25:01,359 --> 00:25:04,199 Speaker 6: thing where it's like, after sixteen years, it's like the 574 00:25:04,240 --> 00:25:05,640 Speaker 6: most frustrating. 575 00:25:08,520 --> 00:25:11,000 Speaker 1: My favorite thing. I mean, there's so many. He's a 576 00:25:11,119 --> 00:25:15,359 Speaker 1: really good dad. I love him really really really really 577 00:25:15,720 --> 00:25:18,680 Speaker 1: really good dad. And that's just like that's very sexy. Yeah, 578 00:25:18,680 --> 00:25:22,600 Speaker 1: that's very hot. Yeah it is good dadding going on. 579 00:25:22,800 --> 00:25:27,160 Speaker 1: I'm yeah, constantly impressed by his like dadding. I think 580 00:25:27,200 --> 00:25:30,680 Speaker 1: that's very attractive. And then there's this funny thing when 581 00:25:31,800 --> 00:25:34,280 Speaker 1: so when you're on a tennis like the professionals, when 582 00:25:34,280 --> 00:25:38,560 Speaker 1: they're playing a match, they can ask like a ball 583 00:25:38,640 --> 00:25:42,000 Speaker 1: kid for a towel to towel off, and typically it's 584 00:25:42,040 --> 00:25:43,760 Speaker 1: like they need it, but also it can be a 585 00:25:43,800 --> 00:25:46,800 Speaker 1: strategy of like a game's not going well and they 586 00:25:46,840 --> 00:25:49,359 Speaker 1: need to just like take a breath and just chill 587 00:25:49,400 --> 00:25:51,040 Speaker 1: out and go and grab a towel and like have 588 00:25:51,080 --> 00:25:52,840 Speaker 1: a moment before they head back out there. 589 00:25:52,880 --> 00:25:55,360 Speaker 5: Like it's kind of without having a changeover. 590 00:25:55,440 --> 00:25:57,439 Speaker 1: It's a way for them to kind of collect literally 591 00:25:57,440 --> 00:25:58,800 Speaker 1: take two seconds to collect themselves. 592 00:25:58,880 --> 00:26:00,560 Speaker 2: Maybe we should start doing tell his moms. 593 00:26:00,640 --> 00:26:06,360 Speaker 4: Yeah, just like I give me a town doesn't it's truly. 594 00:26:07,880 --> 00:26:09,159 Speaker 2: Yeah, breathed it in. 595 00:26:09,200 --> 00:26:12,960 Speaker 1: But this guy, if there's like it makes me crazy 596 00:26:13,040 --> 00:26:15,479 Speaker 1: if there's an emergency, I'm saying it's quietly. I think 597 00:26:15,520 --> 00:26:18,600 Speaker 1: you can hear me if there's like an emergency. The 598 00:26:18,640 --> 00:26:19,200 Speaker 1: first thing he. 599 00:26:19,160 --> 00:26:22,480 Speaker 5: Does, can I get a towel? Give me a towel? No, 600 00:26:23,080 --> 00:26:25,000 Speaker 5: our son fractured his tibia. 601 00:26:25,160 --> 00:26:27,480 Speaker 1: No blood, like just was spinning in circles and slipped 602 00:26:27,520 --> 00:26:29,080 Speaker 1: on a cordboard box and fractured tibia. 603 00:26:29,119 --> 00:26:32,280 Speaker 5: He was eighteen months old. And there's like literally nothing 604 00:26:32,280 --> 00:26:38,800 Speaker 5: to clean up and anti panics and he's like, can 605 00:26:38,840 --> 00:26:40,680 Speaker 5: I get a someone give me a towel. There was 606 00:26:40,720 --> 00:26:42,240 Speaker 5: no one else there. There was me and him and 607 00:26:42,240 --> 00:26:45,760 Speaker 5: our kid. I'm like, I'm not getting up tower right now. Bro, No, 608 00:26:48,480 --> 00:26:49,720 Speaker 5: that makes me crazy. 609 00:26:49,440 --> 00:26:51,120 Speaker 2: Like that, please come hang out? 610 00:26:51,680 --> 00:26:53,160 Speaker 5: Oh, my gosh, I will. 611 00:26:53,040 --> 00:26:55,320 Speaker 2: Anytime you're in Nashville, please let us know. 612 00:26:57,160 --> 00:26:58,640 Speaker 5: I will. Wow, I'm actually there. 613 00:26:58,720 --> 00:27:00,439 Speaker 1: I'm there quite a bit, but yeah i am. The 614 00:27:00,520 --> 00:27:03,320 Speaker 1: towel thing drives me crazy, but it's like it's such 615 00:27:03,359 --> 00:27:06,320 Speaker 1: a it's such a it's like so meditative for him, 616 00:27:06,320 --> 00:27:08,199 Speaker 1: it's so habitual that to take that away from him 617 00:27:08,200 --> 00:27:08,800 Speaker 1: feels cruel. 618 00:27:09,240 --> 00:27:11,560 Speaker 2: It's also not about wildly hard to understand. 619 00:27:12,000 --> 00:27:12,280 Speaker 1: Brand. 620 00:27:13,080 --> 00:27:16,159 Speaker 4: Really it's not amazing. I see for your son and 621 00:27:16,240 --> 00:27:18,960 Speaker 4: I would probably are you giving me? Like really right 622 00:27:19,000 --> 00:27:23,359 Speaker 4: now in medical emergency is not my favorite Brooklyn. You 623 00:27:23,400 --> 00:27:24,680 Speaker 4: are just a joy. 624 00:27:24,960 --> 00:27:27,440 Speaker 6: And I am now going to watch run arounds because 625 00:27:27,440 --> 00:27:28,960 Speaker 6: I love you and now we're all friends, so there 626 00:27:29,000 --> 00:27:29,280 Speaker 6: we go. 627 00:27:29,480 --> 00:27:33,159 Speaker 1: Thank you friends. It's really fun. It's like it's I 628 00:27:33,200 --> 00:27:35,080 Speaker 1: never watch anything I'm in, Jianna. Do you watch stuff 629 00:27:35,119 --> 00:27:37,159 Speaker 1: that you're in? Can you watch yourself on camera? 630 00:27:37,280 --> 00:27:37,640 Speaker 5: On screen? 631 00:27:37,800 --> 00:27:39,800 Speaker 6: The only times I'll ever ask to watch something is 632 00:27:40,119 --> 00:27:42,280 Speaker 6: it's like if it was a really emotional scene, I 633 00:27:42,280 --> 00:27:44,359 Speaker 6: want to see how it edited together, But like no, 634 00:27:44,480 --> 00:27:47,040 Speaker 6: I don't want to watch something start to finish or no. 635 00:27:48,040 --> 00:27:49,919 Speaker 5: It's hard. It's hard. It's like very for me. 636 00:27:50,640 --> 00:27:52,080 Speaker 6: Thanks too much, I'm like, why did I say it 637 00:27:52,080 --> 00:27:53,520 Speaker 6: like that? Or like I should have done it like 638 00:27:53,560 --> 00:27:55,080 Speaker 6: this or that was bad. 639 00:27:55,200 --> 00:27:56,800 Speaker 5: You're like that one take? Why didn't they use the 640 00:27:56,800 --> 00:27:57,560 Speaker 5: one take exactly? 641 00:27:57,760 --> 00:27:58,000 Speaker 1: Really? 642 00:27:58,359 --> 00:27:59,640 Speaker 5: This, you know, you're. 643 00:27:59,840 --> 00:28:02,880 Speaker 1: It's just heady, like you can't remove yourself from the thing. 644 00:28:03,520 --> 00:28:06,159 Speaker 1: This is the first thing, and probably because I'm just 645 00:28:06,200 --> 00:28:08,560 Speaker 1: a mom in the show, this is the first thing 646 00:28:08,560 --> 00:28:09,919 Speaker 1: I've been able to watch and. 647 00:28:09,840 --> 00:28:14,000 Speaker 3: Like savor, oh, enjoy it good And it's young adults, 648 00:28:14,000 --> 00:28:16,800 Speaker 3: so like, you know, young adult, Like the steaks are 649 00:28:17,520 --> 00:28:20,240 Speaker 3: are nice, you know, like the steaks are You're not 650 00:28:20,359 --> 00:28:22,879 Speaker 3: dealing with like life ending stuff you're dealing with like 651 00:28:23,440 --> 00:28:26,280 Speaker 3: chasing dreams and joy and shenanigans, and like it takes 652 00:28:26,320 --> 00:28:28,240 Speaker 3: me back to high school. 653 00:28:28,280 --> 00:28:30,800 Speaker 5: Like it's so nostalgic when I watch it. 654 00:28:30,800 --> 00:28:32,639 Speaker 1: It really it's like the first thing I've ever watched 655 00:28:33,080 --> 00:28:37,000 Speaker 1: front to back truly of anything I've done where. 656 00:28:36,760 --> 00:28:39,440 Speaker 5: I can go like, ah, this feels. 657 00:28:39,000 --> 00:28:42,680 Speaker 1: Just nostalgic and joyful and silly and fun and it's great. 658 00:28:42,720 --> 00:28:43,200 Speaker 5: I love it. 659 00:28:43,240 --> 00:28:43,680 Speaker 2: I love it. 660 00:28:43,800 --> 00:28:46,160 Speaker 6: Well, now I know we're watching tonight because we need 661 00:28:46,160 --> 00:28:49,360 Speaker 6: a new so perfect and then Grayson Frankie, Yes, Okay, 662 00:28:49,400 --> 00:28:50,320 Speaker 6: Brooklyn you're the best. 663 00:28:50,360 --> 00:28:51,960 Speaker 2: Thanks girl, Thank. 664 00:28:51,840 --> 00:28:55,720 Speaker 5: You all so much. Thank you give me a town. 665 00:28:58,200 --> 00:29:00,600 Speaker 2: You can't even hear it. I watched the reaction. She 666 00:29:00,600 --> 00:29:02,880 Speaker 2: can't even hear it. 667 00:29:03,040 --> 00:29:05,360 Speaker 5: The towel. The towel makes me cri cra. 668 00:29:06,880 --> 00:29:07,600 Speaker 2: You're the best girl. 669 00:29:07,680 --> 00:29:09,800 Speaker 5: Whatever, whatever you need. All right, y'all, Thanks for the time. 670 00:29:09,840 --> 00:29:20,400 Speaker 2: By H.