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Speaker 1: Time now for today's Strawberry Letter and listen. If you

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Speaker 1: Thank you, nephew. Subject. I'm just trying to stay out

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Speaker 1: of jail. Dear Stephen Shirley, I'm in a relationship with

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Speaker 1: a cheater, and I need your advice. Last week, my

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Speaker 1: man was cutting the yard and he left his phone

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Speaker 1: in the kitchen by mistake. It kept dinging and ringing,

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Speaker 1: so I checked it. His so called female best friend

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Speaker 1: texted him, bring me some of that corona d I

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Speaker 1: answered her when and where. She replied, now, come pick

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Speaker 1: me up. I put on a sweatsuit and call my

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Speaker 1: I drove my man's car so she wouldn't think anything.

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Speaker 1: My sister and I pulled up to the girl's apartment

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Speaker 1: and I texted her I'm outside. She came running down

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Speaker 1: I got a few punches in too, because she knows

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Speaker 1: I don't play about my man. I thought they were

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Speaker 1: just friends. The girl said she was going to call

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Speaker 1: my man because he told her that he wanted her

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Speaker 1: and was going to leave me. I showed her that

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Speaker 1: it again. I returned home and my man was in

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Speaker 1: the yard, all hot and sweaty, so my sister and

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Speaker 1: I jumped on him too and told him why. Afterwards,

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Speaker 1: here on out. He changed his phone number and blocked

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Speaker 1: her on all of his social media accounts. I forgave

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Speaker 1: him because we are quarantined together and I do love him. Now,

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Speaker 1: I don't want to go to jail right now, so

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Speaker 1: I need her to stop this foolishness. I told my

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Speaker 1: It makes it makes me think he's planning to go

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Speaker 1: back to her, What do you guys think. I don't

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Speaker 1: think he's planning to go back to her, not after

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Speaker 1: that butt whooping you guys gave him and her. I

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Speaker 1: just think he's not gonna go back. I think he

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Speaker 1: may have learned his lesson to only time will tell,

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Speaker 1: and when we get out of this quarantine, that's when

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Speaker 1: you'll really be able to tell. As far as the

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Speaker 1: girl stalking and blowing up your phone, I don't think

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Speaker 1: he's gonna do anything while he's quarantined. Especially he took

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Speaker 1: her off all of this social media. That's a good

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Speaker 1: indication that, you know, by blocking her, that's a good

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Speaker 1: indication that he may not go back to her, at least,

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Speaker 1: you know, for quite some time. And he's probably scared

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Speaker 1: because that butt whipping came out of nowhere and he

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Speaker 1: got a good beat down from you and your siss.

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Speaker 1: But she obviously didn't get the message. I think she's

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Speaker 1: the one that you still have to worry about because

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Speaker 1: she's still clowning outside the house. And it does shed

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Speaker 1: a little bit of light into their relationship. I think

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Speaker 1: they were closer than you know. Maybe what he's trying

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Speaker 1: to let on. I think they were all the way

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Speaker 1: So while you guys are in quarantine, I say, you know,

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Speaker 1: don't know. She's not given up that easily. He might,

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Speaker 1: but she's not. And she's your problem right now, Steve. Well,

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Speaker 1: a relationship with a cheatah and I need your advice.

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Speaker 1: Your man, that's the CHEATAH was cutting the yard and

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Speaker 1: left his phone in the kitchen by mistake. Let's stop

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Speaker 1: the letter right down. When you are a cheetah, you

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Speaker 1: cannot be a CHEATAH and a dumb ass person. Come

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Speaker 1: If you're gonna be a cheatah, you gonna have to

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Speaker 1: There's so called best female friend texting. Bring me some

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Speaker 1: of that Corona D. Now, for those of you that

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Speaker 1: may be slightly slow, Corona D is not bill with

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Speaker 1: less calories in it. Now your gangster in you. You

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Speaker 1: did something real gangster. You grabbed the phone and say

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Speaker 1: where and where? She say, come pick you up. You

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Speaker 1: You wouldn't bought somebody. You wouldn't got somebody that you

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Speaker 1: Then you drove your man's costs. Another gangster move, so

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Speaker 1: she wouldn't think anything. My sister. Now pull up to

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Speaker 1: the girl's apartment. You texted, say I'm outside. Another gangster.

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Speaker 1: Another gangster move. She came running down the steps. And

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Speaker 1: this is why you wouldn't got yourself. Your sister jumped

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Speaker 1: out to damn call and started pupping her ass in

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Speaker 1: doing this, how I know your sister was a gangster?

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Speaker 1: You saying I got a few punches in too, but

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Speaker 1: just a feu though, because your damn sister jail dean

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Speaker 1: her ass out Jel Deane by Farty four. Yeah. Now

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Speaker 1: when I come back, I'm gonna give you the rest

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Speaker 1: of it. All right, thank you, Steve. We'll have part

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Speaker 1: two of your response coming up at twenty three minutes

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Speaker 1: after the hour. Today's Strawberry letter, I'm just trying to

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Speaker 1: stay out of jail. We'll get back into it right

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Speaker 1: after this. You're listening to Steven Show. All right, Steve,

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Speaker 1: come on, let's recap today's Strawberry Letters. Subject I'm just

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Speaker 1: trying to stay out of jail. She called a man

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Speaker 1: cheating just foodstud ass left his phone and kitchen while

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Speaker 1: he outside cutting the grass, and phone rang found out

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Speaker 1: it was his girl best friend. She wants some corona.

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Speaker 1: D toldin come on pick up, she texted, said she coming,

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Speaker 1: but act like he was her, act like she was him.

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Speaker 1: She wouldn't picked up her sister, the gangster up. So

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Speaker 1: when the girl came out to the car, sister, jump right,

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Speaker 1: I'll start whooping her hand to whooping her ass so

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Speaker 1: bad that all you could say was I got a

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Speaker 1: few punches into because she no, I don't play with

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Speaker 1: my man now. I thought they were just friends. The

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Speaker 1: told her that he wanted her and he was going

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Speaker 1: to leave me. Now I'm gonna tell you why she

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Speaker 1: right here, I want to underline this. The girl said

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Speaker 1: I showed her that I had his phone, and then

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Speaker 1: I dad huh, I dad hug to call my man again.

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Speaker 1: Now you and your sister go back home. Now your

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Speaker 1: man out of the yard, all sweaty. You and your

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Speaker 1: promise you your sister led to charge on this one him,

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Speaker 1: so he don't know why. Solange then jumped on his ass.

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Speaker 1: He got no idea Geraldine and Solange Slange quipping your ass.

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Speaker 1: You don't even know why. Now now he said it

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Speaker 1: was a mean He still don't looking guilty. Then he

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Speaker 1: Now his woman had to get to He took off

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Speaker 1: all the social media change his phone, though I forgave

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Speaker 1: him because we on quarantine together and I do love him.

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Speaker 1: Now he go. The problem the girl is stalking us

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Speaker 1: and calling my phone and showing up at our house

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Speaker 1: yelling for him to come out. That's caused the ass

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Speaker 1: whipping you and your sister gave heart in that parking

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Speaker 1: lot earlier. Was not a sufficient ass whooped. See when

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Speaker 1: you really whooped somebody's ass, right, Yeah, I'm talking about

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Speaker 1: really whipped. Right. You ain't got to wear about them

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Speaker 1: coming stalking, houling outside your house. No, no, because they

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Speaker 1: don't won't know more of that. It's done right, see,

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Speaker 1: but but you didn't though you didn't, You didn't do

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Speaker 1: it right Now, your husband, he say he ain't going

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Speaker 1: back because y'all whipped his ass correctly. Yes, But now

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Speaker 1: he is going going to go back to her because

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Speaker 1: if you can risk her ass whooping and your life. Yes, now, lady,

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Speaker 1: you and your sister, if you got the whooper person

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Speaker 1: back again, Yes he is. Yes, So you ain't gonna

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Speaker 1: beat me out of her arms? What you're not gonna

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Speaker 1: beat me out of her own. You ain't whipping that

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Speaker 1: and so this letter has a now uh, I told

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Speaker 1: It makes me think he's planning to go back to her.

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Speaker 1: What do you guys think he won't go out there

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Speaker 1: and handle it because it's an embarrassment and he doesn't.

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Speaker 1: He ain't gonna go out there and jump on the girl,

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Speaker 1: So he don't need you to see him going. Ain't, baby,

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Speaker 1: look just going back in there. Get back in your

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Speaker 1: get out in front of his house because her sister. No, no,

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Speaker 1: no, no no no no, here go her sister on the

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Speaker 1: her sister on the way over. Your d get over here,

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Speaker 1: not telling you no. Listen to me, but baby, baby,

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Speaker 1: listen to me. They puce no. See that wasn't going.

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Speaker 1: But her other sister comment too, though, what's she got

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Speaker 1: another systems? Phillis? You don't won't Phillis to whoop your

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