1 00:00:01,120 --> 00:00:04,600 Speaker 1: Welcome to Stuff you Should Know from how Stuff Works 2 00:00:04,600 --> 00:00:13,880 Speaker 1: dot com. Hey, and welcome to the podcast. I'm Josh Clark, 3 00:00:14,000 --> 00:00:17,520 Speaker 1: There's Charles Chuck Bryant, there's Jerry So this is stuff 4 00:00:17,520 --> 00:00:19,720 Speaker 1: you should know and we're here to say that you 5 00:00:19,760 --> 00:00:24,440 Speaker 1: can do it. You can do it. You can accomplish 6 00:00:24,440 --> 00:00:27,280 Speaker 1: those goals. You can get that tor vet, shoot for 7 00:00:27,320 --> 00:00:31,440 Speaker 1: the stars, engage your passion to ignite your fury. Ignite 8 00:00:31,440 --> 00:00:35,240 Speaker 1: your fury. That's my new one. I'm trying to get everybody. 9 00:00:35,320 --> 00:00:38,919 Speaker 1: I want to go to your motivational seminar Ignite your 10 00:00:38,960 --> 00:00:42,080 Speaker 1: fears called Igniting Fury with Josh Clark. That's pretty good. 11 00:00:42,520 --> 00:00:47,640 Speaker 1: I know what Aaron Cooper is doing this week. How 12 00:00:47,760 --> 00:00:50,879 Speaker 1: you doing. I'm doing pretty good, man. I'm feeling kind 13 00:00:50,880 --> 00:00:53,920 Speaker 1: of pumped. Took some Vitamin B twelve today. I'm I'm 14 00:00:53,960 --> 00:00:57,560 Speaker 1: ready to go. Yeah, as you notice, I cut all 15 00:00:57,560 --> 00:01:01,760 Speaker 1: that dumb hair off. Yeah looks good. I I like 16 00:01:01,840 --> 00:01:06,360 Speaker 1: it both ways. Yeah chuck two point? Oh was I 17 00:01:06,720 --> 00:01:08,560 Speaker 1: chuck two point? I got too hot? Is the real 18 00:01:08,600 --> 00:01:11,440 Speaker 1: expect Yeah, that'll do it. And literally just drove to 19 00:01:11,600 --> 00:01:14,160 Speaker 1: the place and said, all right, take it off. I 20 00:01:14,400 --> 00:01:17,119 Speaker 1: um I mine mine. As you know, as well as 21 00:01:17,240 --> 00:01:20,880 Speaker 1: has gotten kind of longish, and I've got like that 22 00:01:21,040 --> 00:01:24,480 Speaker 1: sixth grade skater cut tick where like I'm like just 23 00:01:24,600 --> 00:01:28,680 Speaker 1: kind of flipping it. Yeah, just just twisting my head 24 00:01:28,760 --> 00:01:31,720 Speaker 1: suddenly to the side to get the hair out of 25 00:01:31,760 --> 00:01:34,280 Speaker 1: my face. Yeah. I think that was another reason I 26 00:01:34,280 --> 00:01:36,440 Speaker 1: cut mine too, was it was just there was too 27 00:01:36,520 --> 00:01:41,800 Speaker 1: much focus on it, uh, personal focus because it was 28 00:01:42,040 --> 00:01:44,680 Speaker 1: from you. I mean yeah, just like management and having 29 00:01:44,720 --> 00:01:47,240 Speaker 1: to do things to it and like get it right. 30 00:01:47,280 --> 00:01:49,200 Speaker 1: And I was just like, I just it's been so 31 00:01:49,240 --> 00:01:52,000 Speaker 1: many years since I've had to focus on my hair. 32 00:01:52,320 --> 00:01:54,040 Speaker 1: You had to go buy a whole new bottle of 33 00:01:54,080 --> 00:01:57,320 Speaker 1: mane and tail just felt dumb, I think. Yeah. I 34 00:01:57,400 --> 00:01:59,200 Speaker 1: was like, you know, I'm going I'm going back to 35 00:01:59,360 --> 00:02:02,000 Speaker 1: Chuck one point. Good for you, man, and welcome back 36 00:02:02,040 --> 00:02:05,480 Speaker 1: to fight club. Thank you. Let me see your fingernails 37 00:02:06,120 --> 00:02:08,520 Speaker 1: all right? Does look acceptable? What do you think about 38 00:02:08,520 --> 00:02:11,920 Speaker 1: this topic? I thought that I couldn't ever, I couldn't 39 00:02:12,080 --> 00:02:16,680 Speaker 1: that the end would never come what like researching it? Yeah, 40 00:02:16,840 --> 00:02:18,720 Speaker 1: I guess we know how we both feel about this. 41 00:02:18,840 --> 00:02:21,800 Speaker 1: Then it's not even dude. I have to say I 42 00:02:21,840 --> 00:02:27,560 Speaker 1: got switched mid mid research my the tone of my 43 00:02:28,120 --> 00:02:34,960 Speaker 1: research changed because of a Nancy Besser. Oh. Um. So 44 00:02:35,919 --> 00:02:37,960 Speaker 1: here's the thing. This is my personal opinion. I'll give 45 00:02:37,960 --> 00:02:39,880 Speaker 1: it at the front and you can decide whether listen 46 00:02:39,919 --> 00:02:42,480 Speaker 1: to the rest of the episode or not. It's the 47 00:02:42,960 --> 00:02:51,400 Speaker 1: motivational speaking is so uh flimsy and jelly, like the 48 00:02:51,440 --> 00:03:01,200 Speaker 1: whole field. It's so unscientifically based and just so prone 49 00:03:01,200 --> 00:03:04,400 Speaker 1: to hucksterism in a lot of cases that I just 50 00:03:04,520 --> 00:03:07,160 Speaker 1: I didn't even want to research it. I was just like, 51 00:03:07,639 --> 00:03:11,960 Speaker 1: I meat this stuff so much. Um. And then part 52 00:03:11,960 --> 00:03:14,080 Speaker 1: way I was but I was doing my due diligence. 53 00:03:14,120 --> 00:03:17,359 Speaker 1: I'm a professional, as you know. But um, part way through, 54 00:03:17,520 --> 00:03:20,040 Speaker 1: I was reading the in the House Stuff Works article 55 00:03:20,080 --> 00:03:22,880 Speaker 1: about Nancy Besser, and so I went on to her 56 00:03:22,880 --> 00:03:25,840 Speaker 1: site and did some more research on her, and I 57 00:03:25,880 --> 00:03:29,000 Speaker 1: read her I think, like about me or her mission 58 00:03:29,120 --> 00:03:31,560 Speaker 1: or something like that, and I was like, actually, that's 59 00:03:31,960 --> 00:03:35,720 Speaker 1: I don't disagree with anything. This lady just said like 60 00:03:35,840 --> 00:03:38,560 Speaker 1: that's great. Good for her, good for where she came from, 61 00:03:38,600 --> 00:03:40,280 Speaker 1: good for what she's trying to do if she wants 62 00:03:40,320 --> 00:03:44,160 Speaker 1: to make some money doing it, awesome. So saying that 63 00:03:44,360 --> 00:03:46,880 Speaker 1: it definitely changed course and pulled me back from the brink, 64 00:03:46,880 --> 00:03:49,280 Speaker 1: which I think was really needed because I was really 65 00:03:49,360 --> 00:03:51,440 Speaker 1: kind of like I was crop circle in it, you 66 00:03:51,440 --> 00:03:55,040 Speaker 1: know what I mean. And Um, she brought me back 67 00:03:55,120 --> 00:03:57,360 Speaker 1: and I appreciate that to her, and I'd like to 68 00:03:57,520 --> 00:04:01,720 Speaker 1: find out how I can mail her some money. All right, 69 00:04:01,760 --> 00:04:03,600 Speaker 1: you want to know my opinion? What's like this? We're 70 00:04:03,600 --> 00:04:07,040 Speaker 1: gonna front load the opinions and then talk about the 71 00:04:07,080 --> 00:04:13,240 Speaker 1: more all throughout. UM. My deal is this. If you have, um, 72 00:04:13,280 --> 00:04:17,440 Speaker 1: a really great story to tell about your life, because 73 00:04:17,720 --> 00:04:23,200 Speaker 1: maybe you overcome some great adversities. Uh, maybe you're a quadriplegic, 74 00:04:23,360 --> 00:04:27,479 Speaker 1: or maybe you are a POW or had a life 75 00:04:27,520 --> 00:04:31,719 Speaker 1: threatening illness, or if you had any general like major 76 00:04:31,839 --> 00:04:35,200 Speaker 1: life hardships that you overcame and are like killing it 77 00:04:35,240 --> 00:04:37,760 Speaker 1: in life. And you have a great story to tell 78 00:04:37,800 --> 00:04:40,039 Speaker 1: that is sincere and you can go up there and 79 00:04:40,080 --> 00:04:45,320 Speaker 1: make some dough inspiring people, then awesome. If you are 80 00:04:45,560 --> 00:04:51,359 Speaker 1: just really good at holding up pep rally um, and 81 00:04:51,560 --> 00:04:55,920 Speaker 1: you don't have any big story in your life other 82 00:04:55,960 --> 00:04:57,920 Speaker 1: than the fact that you were like, Hey, I'm kind 83 00:04:57,920 --> 00:05:00,120 Speaker 1: of good at this and I think I can make 84 00:05:00,200 --> 00:05:03,320 Speaker 1: some dough. And I've met these celebrities and I've met 85 00:05:03,360 --> 00:05:07,520 Speaker 1: these famous people and they think I'm cool. Um. I 86 00:05:07,560 --> 00:05:10,200 Speaker 1: have two feelings about that. One is, if people are 87 00:05:10,240 --> 00:05:13,040 Speaker 1: genuinely being helped, I'm not gonna yuck their young, then 88 00:05:13,080 --> 00:05:15,360 Speaker 1: that's great. I think that's good for you to say. 89 00:05:15,400 --> 00:05:18,520 Speaker 1: But I look at that that other scene with a 90 00:05:18,640 --> 00:05:24,760 Speaker 1: very weary eye, um, because it reeks of everything from 91 00:05:24,760 --> 00:05:30,799 Speaker 1: taking advantage of people too. Sometimes it even sounded like scientology. 92 00:05:30,839 --> 00:05:33,839 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, there's a lot of religious overtones to the 93 00:05:33,839 --> 00:05:37,159 Speaker 1: whole thing, and that it would be like, well, by 94 00:05:37,279 --> 00:05:40,920 Speaker 1: this book, uh, and then by this one, and then 95 00:05:40,960 --> 00:05:44,080 Speaker 1: come to this seminar, and then by this thing, and 96 00:05:44,120 --> 00:05:47,240 Speaker 1: it had it had all the markings of like a 97 00:05:47,320 --> 00:05:50,960 Speaker 1: pyramid scheme almost. So I was like you, I'm kind 98 00:05:50,960 --> 00:05:53,440 Speaker 1: of all over the place with it, um. And I 99 00:05:53,480 --> 00:05:55,800 Speaker 1: think that's kind of the deal with motivational speaking is 100 00:05:56,279 --> 00:06:01,400 Speaker 1: it takes many many forms, from an inspirational person who 101 00:06:01,400 --> 00:06:04,200 Speaker 1: has a great life story to someone who was just like, hey, 102 00:06:04,240 --> 00:06:06,000 Speaker 1: I'm I can hold a pepperrelly as good as the 103 00:06:06,040 --> 00:06:11,400 Speaker 1: next guy. I'll charge somebody three grand to listen to that. Two, Hey, 104 00:06:11,680 --> 00:06:15,800 Speaker 1: here's a financial seminar where you can get rich, right, 105 00:06:15,920 --> 00:06:18,520 Speaker 1: just give us a bunch of money first. Yeah, so 106 00:06:18,600 --> 00:06:22,240 Speaker 1: it's really all over the map, um, because it's I mean, 107 00:06:22,279 --> 00:06:24,280 Speaker 1: not that it should be regulated, but it's just such 108 00:06:24,279 --> 00:06:27,480 Speaker 1: a it's kind of like the wild West as far 109 00:06:27,520 --> 00:06:31,000 Speaker 1: as what you can be as a motivational speaker. Yeah. 110 00:06:31,000 --> 00:06:33,560 Speaker 1: And I think also one of the reasons why it's 111 00:06:33,600 --> 00:06:36,320 Speaker 1: tough for us to to nail down our feelings about 112 00:06:36,320 --> 00:06:38,039 Speaker 1: it one way or the other, or why we have 113 00:06:38,160 --> 00:06:42,800 Speaker 1: multiple feelings, because inherently there's nothing in and of itself 114 00:06:42,880 --> 00:06:48,400 Speaker 1: wrong with making an effort to motivate other people to 115 00:06:48,680 --> 00:06:52,719 Speaker 1: be a better version of themselves. Right, But that can 116 00:06:52,800 --> 00:06:57,479 Speaker 1: be that that neutral thing or maybe even positive thing 117 00:06:58,040 --> 00:07:02,560 Speaker 1: can be exploited depending on the context that's used it. Right. 118 00:07:03,120 --> 00:07:05,600 Speaker 1: There's a really good example of that. There's a book 119 00:07:05,640 --> 00:07:09,360 Speaker 1: called Who Moved My Cheese? And it's like ninety pages, 120 00:07:09,880 --> 00:07:13,160 Speaker 1: big print, lots of illustrations, so it's a quick read 121 00:07:13,680 --> 00:07:16,520 Speaker 1: the title, but the whole thing is there's, um, there's 122 00:07:16,520 --> 00:07:18,720 Speaker 1: a maze, and there used to be cheese in this 123 00:07:18,840 --> 00:07:22,040 Speaker 1: one place, and these two humans Ham and Haw are 124 00:07:22,160 --> 00:07:24,720 Speaker 1: just all up at arms that that that they're cheese? 125 00:07:24,760 --> 00:07:28,520 Speaker 1: Is there anymore? What? What a tragedy? Who could have 126 00:07:28,600 --> 00:07:31,720 Speaker 1: possibly done this? And then these two mice. I can't 127 00:07:31,720 --> 00:07:34,440 Speaker 1: remember what the mices the Yeah, the mices. I can't 128 00:07:34,480 --> 00:07:37,480 Speaker 1: remember what the mice. Yeah, the mice, that's right, the 129 00:07:37,560 --> 00:07:40,920 Speaker 1: mice's names are. But they see that their cheese is gone, 130 00:07:40,960 --> 00:07:44,520 Speaker 1: they run off to find cheese elsewhere. Right, So the 131 00:07:44,960 --> 00:07:47,200 Speaker 1: mice are the heroes of the story where the humans 132 00:07:47,240 --> 00:07:50,320 Speaker 1: are dumb, and it's because the humans are allowing themselves 133 00:07:50,320 --> 00:07:53,080 Speaker 1: to become victims. Now, there's like some certain themes in 134 00:07:53,080 --> 00:07:56,560 Speaker 1: there that's true, Like, yes, it's not necessarily a good 135 00:07:56,600 --> 00:08:00,480 Speaker 1: idea to focus on, you know why this issue came about. 136 00:08:00,600 --> 00:08:04,160 Speaker 1: Just solve the problem and move on. But who moved 137 00:08:04,160 --> 00:08:08,280 Speaker 1: my cheese? Is very commonly a book that's purchased by 138 00:08:08,320 --> 00:08:11,920 Speaker 1: employers when they're going through a downsizing and they're saying 139 00:08:11,920 --> 00:08:16,480 Speaker 1: to their employers or their employees like, hey, you need 140 00:08:16,520 --> 00:08:19,240 Speaker 1: to give us a smile. Don't start asking why your 141 00:08:19,320 --> 00:08:22,040 Speaker 1: job was downsized. Just read this book and try to 142 00:08:22,080 --> 00:08:25,000 Speaker 1: be happy. So, this thing that could be good is 143 00:08:25,000 --> 00:08:29,360 Speaker 1: being exploited in a very negative manner um to to 144 00:08:29,520 --> 00:08:32,960 Speaker 1: exonerate people who are making decisions that are negatively impacting 145 00:08:32,960 --> 00:08:36,559 Speaker 1: people's lives. There's there's that's there. It is in a nutshell, 146 00:08:36,600 --> 00:08:39,000 Speaker 1: there's the the good and the bad. Yeah, I will 147 00:08:39,040 --> 00:08:42,680 Speaker 1: say this, I like UH fictional motivational speakers much more. 148 00:08:43,640 --> 00:08:46,600 Speaker 1: Whether it was uh Matt Foley, which is mentioned in 149 00:08:46,640 --> 00:08:49,680 Speaker 1: this article of course, great Chris Farley character. He gets 150 00:08:49,720 --> 00:08:53,760 Speaker 1: three paragraphs. Yeah, that was overdoing it a bit, but 151 00:08:53,960 --> 00:08:57,480 Speaker 1: definitely one of the more classic SML characters. Um. My 152 00:08:57,520 --> 00:09:01,000 Speaker 1: other favorite is UH from Magnolia Frank T. J. Mackie. 153 00:09:03,400 --> 00:09:06,880 Speaker 1: That was one of Tom Cruise's best characters. Yeah. Uh, 154 00:09:07,240 --> 00:09:09,560 Speaker 1: And I think so ironic that he played that character. 155 00:09:09,679 --> 00:09:12,640 Speaker 1: In ways, I almost get the impression that it was like, 156 00:09:12,840 --> 00:09:16,640 Speaker 1: um who who directed that was Paul Thomas Anderson, that 157 00:09:16,800 --> 00:09:19,960 Speaker 1: in a way casting Cruise was toying with him a 158 00:09:19,960 --> 00:09:23,560 Speaker 1: little bit, or Paul Thomas Anderson wanted him to face 159 00:09:23,640 --> 00:09:27,920 Speaker 1: him himself maybe, or maybe he gave him the script 160 00:09:27,960 --> 00:09:30,319 Speaker 1: and like literally every day on set after he finished, 161 00:09:30,480 --> 00:09:32,480 Speaker 1: Cruise would look around and say, are you making fun 162 00:09:32,520 --> 00:09:34,559 Speaker 1: of me here? You're not making fun of me? No, 163 00:09:34,559 --> 00:09:36,720 Speaker 1: no, no no, it's on. It's terrific. You're the best time. 164 00:09:36,760 --> 00:09:41,440 Speaker 1: All right, you're not making fun of me? Right? Anyway? 165 00:09:41,520 --> 00:09:46,319 Speaker 1: That that character was specifically about UH picking up women 166 00:09:46,320 --> 00:09:48,719 Speaker 1: in bars and having sex with him. So yeah, that 167 00:09:48,800 --> 00:09:51,120 Speaker 1: was sort of a different type of thing, but it 168 00:09:51,200 --> 00:09:56,880 Speaker 1: was motivational. It was uh. So we mentioned different kinds 169 00:09:56,920 --> 00:09:59,720 Speaker 1: of people who do this. Um, there are people like 170 00:10:00,160 --> 00:10:05,160 Speaker 1: Long who uh is a motivational speaker because he had 171 00:10:05,320 --> 00:10:08,760 Speaker 1: a twenty ton bus hit him while he was on 172 00:10:08,800 --> 00:10:11,520 Speaker 1: a bicycle. Uh. It was in the hospital for five 173 00:10:11,559 --> 00:10:15,800 Speaker 1: months at about forty operations and then finally overcame that 174 00:10:16,280 --> 00:10:18,679 Speaker 1: to run the New York City Marathon. So people like 175 00:10:18,720 --> 00:10:22,120 Speaker 1: that you will often see that have an amazing hardship. 176 00:10:22,200 --> 00:10:25,199 Speaker 1: Like I said that they have overcome and maybe did 177 00:10:25,280 --> 00:10:29,360 Speaker 1: like a small speaking engagement and said, you know, people 178 00:10:29,360 --> 00:10:33,440 Speaker 1: really connected to this, and I think I really helped folks. Um, 179 00:10:33,640 --> 00:10:36,640 Speaker 1: So can I sign up with a company that's gonna 180 00:10:37,000 --> 00:10:39,640 Speaker 1: book gigs for me and I can make some real though? 181 00:10:40,400 --> 00:10:42,920 Speaker 1: And you you really can? I mean, like there's there's 182 00:10:43,080 --> 00:10:46,199 Speaker 1: there are people out there who support themselves just from 183 00:10:46,200 --> 00:10:50,040 Speaker 1: motivational speaking. I think there's probably far more who aspired 184 00:10:50,080 --> 00:10:54,000 Speaker 1: to that. Um. But but it is entirely possible to 185 00:10:54,320 --> 00:10:58,480 Speaker 1: become a motivational speaker with representation and and that's how 186 00:10:58,520 --> 00:11:02,080 Speaker 1: you make your living. Yeah, and you know what, I 187 00:11:02,080 --> 00:11:03,800 Speaker 1: don't think we've ever talked about this on the show, 188 00:11:03,800 --> 00:11:07,040 Speaker 1: but stuff you should know we actually we actually don't 189 00:11:07,080 --> 00:11:10,080 Speaker 1: do motivational gigs, but we've done some corporate speaking on occasion. 190 00:11:10,760 --> 00:11:14,000 Speaker 1: We have specifically told the people who are agents are 191 00:11:14,000 --> 00:11:17,640 Speaker 1: booking it that we are not motivational speakers to book 192 00:11:17,720 --> 00:11:19,920 Speaker 1: us as such, and that we are not experts, but 193 00:11:19,960 --> 00:11:23,840 Speaker 1: we're glad to come talk to your company. By the way, Yeah, 194 00:11:23,880 --> 00:11:27,920 Speaker 1: how about that. I mean, you just you just let 195 00:11:27,960 --> 00:11:30,320 Speaker 1: the cat out of the bag. You changed our lives 196 00:11:30,360 --> 00:11:33,560 Speaker 1: for the better, Chuck. But long story short, we have 197 00:11:33,840 --> 00:11:37,080 Speaker 1: because of this, we have talked and spoken with a 198 00:11:37,200 --> 00:11:42,800 Speaker 1: number of agencies and representatives who act as the liaison 199 00:11:42,920 --> 00:11:46,600 Speaker 1: between a company or a corporation or a group and 200 00:11:46,720 --> 00:11:48,760 Speaker 1: the speaker, and so we've kind of got a little 201 00:11:48,760 --> 00:11:51,760 Speaker 1: bit of an inside view on kind of what this 202 00:11:51,840 --> 00:11:55,480 Speaker 1: public professional public speaking is all about. And one of 203 00:11:55,520 --> 00:11:58,680 Speaker 1: the things that uh, I mean, we kind of do 204 00:11:58,760 --> 00:12:02,280 Speaker 1: our thing and we're not the best. Um, we're not 205 00:12:02,360 --> 00:12:04,559 Speaker 1: the best for people to sell because we're not like 206 00:12:04,920 --> 00:12:07,320 Speaker 1: we can do this and we're vivacious and we have 207 00:12:07,760 --> 00:12:10,000 Speaker 1: get up on stage and just rally people. We're kind 208 00:12:10,000 --> 00:12:12,319 Speaker 1: of well, we kind of do one thing so if 209 00:12:12,320 --> 00:12:14,920 Speaker 1: you want us to do that, we can do it. Yeah. 210 00:12:15,080 --> 00:12:17,840 Speaker 1: So it's sort of a narrower field, but it's niche. 211 00:12:18,160 --> 00:12:20,560 Speaker 1: It is very niche. But if you do want to, 212 00:12:20,960 --> 00:12:22,480 Speaker 1: if you think you have a neck. And this one 213 00:12:22,520 --> 00:12:24,880 Speaker 1: woman in here who was the one that said that 214 00:12:24,920 --> 00:12:29,280 Speaker 1: she was always sort of the cheerleader in her group, Yeah, 215 00:12:29,360 --> 00:12:31,240 Speaker 1: she was like I kind of always was just this 216 00:12:31,320 --> 00:12:34,800 Speaker 1: person in life and my friends. I would motivate my 217 00:12:34,880 --> 00:12:37,920 Speaker 1: friends and my family and stuff. So if you have 218 00:12:38,040 --> 00:12:41,760 Speaker 1: that kind of vivacious personality and you can get up 219 00:12:41,800 --> 00:12:44,160 Speaker 1: on stage in front of people and you have a 220 00:12:44,160 --> 00:12:48,319 Speaker 1: good story to tell that's um sincere, then it might 221 00:12:48,360 --> 00:12:51,040 Speaker 1: be something that you should look into. Right. That's another 222 00:12:51,040 --> 00:12:53,120 Speaker 1: reason why I like Nancy bestor too. She's the only 223 00:12:53,120 --> 00:12:56,199 Speaker 1: one in this article who admits that, Yeah, anybody can 224 00:12:56,200 --> 00:12:59,040 Speaker 1: do it. It's just it's a it's a certain type 225 00:12:59,080 --> 00:13:02,520 Speaker 1: of skill set, but not something you would have to 226 00:13:02,559 --> 00:13:05,000 Speaker 1: be born with, Like anybody can figure it out well. 227 00:13:05,040 --> 00:13:07,360 Speaker 1: And I think a lot of professional motivational speakers would 228 00:13:07,360 --> 00:13:08,880 Speaker 1: probably be like, no, no, no, no, this is not 229 00:13:08,960 --> 00:13:12,080 Speaker 1: for you. Well yeah, Matt Long, the elite athlete UM 230 00:13:12,280 --> 00:13:16,640 Speaker 1: says like, no, no, not everybody could do it. Yeah, 231 00:13:16,720 --> 00:13:19,600 Speaker 1: he said, well, if it were easy, everyone would be 232 00:13:19,600 --> 00:13:22,720 Speaker 1: doing it. So no, that was his answer to can 233 00:13:22,760 --> 00:13:26,920 Speaker 1: anybody do it? I think we like I would say 234 00:13:26,960 --> 00:13:30,520 Speaker 1: my sense of humor, especially as stuff you should know goes, 235 00:13:30,640 --> 00:13:35,240 Speaker 1: is pretty self deprecating. But I say this totally honestly 236 00:13:35,640 --> 00:13:39,400 Speaker 1: that if we can do it, we're proof that anybody 237 00:13:39,440 --> 00:13:41,800 Speaker 1: can do this. Oh yeah, we didn't have any experience 238 00:13:41,840 --> 00:13:45,400 Speaker 1: getting on stage in front of people. Now we learned it. Again. 239 00:13:45,760 --> 00:13:48,560 Speaker 1: We're not up there doing motivational speaking, but we're up 240 00:13:48,559 --> 00:13:51,360 Speaker 1: there doing public speaking in front of groups who don't 241 00:13:51,360 --> 00:13:54,559 Speaker 1: know us, and that that's the key. Now. The next level, 242 00:13:54,600 --> 00:13:59,959 Speaker 1: of course, is whether you can arouse uh, positive emotion 243 00:14:00,040 --> 00:14:03,120 Speaker 1: and in the people out there you know, listening to 244 00:14:03,160 --> 00:14:08,040 Speaker 1: you um, And that that I think takes a decent 245 00:14:08,080 --> 00:14:11,160 Speaker 1: amount of practice. But there are techniques and there are 246 00:14:11,200 --> 00:14:13,840 Speaker 1: methods that you can figure out, and all you have 247 00:14:13,880 --> 00:14:15,880 Speaker 1: to do is a little bit of research. All you 248 00:14:15,920 --> 00:14:18,640 Speaker 1: would have to to research really is if you look 249 00:14:18,720 --> 00:14:21,400 Speaker 1: up like how to be a motivational speaker, that is 250 00:14:21,440 --> 00:14:23,640 Speaker 1: going to leave you a heartache. But if you look 251 00:14:23,720 --> 00:14:27,640 Speaker 1: up sensible things like how do you motivate people? Um, 252 00:14:27,680 --> 00:14:31,400 Speaker 1: how do you give a dynamite presentation. All of these things, 253 00:14:31,440 --> 00:14:34,800 Speaker 1: it's all the same stuff. It's just the thing that 254 00:14:34,840 --> 00:14:39,880 Speaker 1: makes motivational speaking different is the through line is inspiration. 255 00:14:40,280 --> 00:14:43,560 Speaker 1: You have an inspirational story. You're you're telling people that 256 00:14:43,600 --> 00:14:47,320 Speaker 1: they can they can have a better life themselves, that 257 00:14:47,480 --> 00:14:50,000 Speaker 1: it's in there in them. That's that's really the big 258 00:14:50,040 --> 00:14:54,320 Speaker 1: difference between motivational speaking and any other type of public speaking. Yeah. 259 00:14:54,320 --> 00:14:57,000 Speaker 1: I wonder if that guy who said that, UM wonderful 260 00:14:57,000 --> 00:14:59,080 Speaker 1: in his thing he goes, you know, you can come 261 00:14:59,080 --> 00:15:03,400 Speaker 1: over any adverse the except public speaking motivation speaking, like, 262 00:15:03,440 --> 00:15:07,120 Speaker 1: don't don't try that. Anything else you could probably do though. 263 00:15:07,240 --> 00:15:09,840 Speaker 1: The competition is thinking of all right, well let's take 264 00:15:09,840 --> 00:15:14,200 Speaker 1: a break here. It's a good start, and we will 265 00:15:14,280 --> 00:15:16,640 Speaker 1: motivate you to come back and listen more right after this. 266 00:15:41,600 --> 00:15:47,280 Speaker 1: All right. Uh. Psychology wise, people have been um. Psychologists 267 00:15:47,240 --> 00:15:51,720 Speaker 1: have been studying motivation for for many many years, um, 268 00:15:51,720 --> 00:15:56,040 Speaker 1: and what motivates people? And there's a dude, uh named 269 00:15:56,200 --> 00:16:00,440 Speaker 1: Abraham Harold Maslow, and in the nineteen forties came up 270 00:16:00,480 --> 00:16:05,680 Speaker 1: with something a little, a little pyramid called Maslow's hierarchy 271 00:16:05,720 --> 00:16:09,760 Speaker 1: of needs, which is fairly interesting if you look at it. 272 00:16:09,760 --> 00:16:12,960 Speaker 1: It is UM. It's a pyramid. Were down at the bottom. 273 00:16:12,960 --> 00:16:15,240 Speaker 1: I think it's been revised over the years. No, that's 274 00:16:15,280 --> 00:16:18,480 Speaker 1: the food pyramid you're thinking of. Now, this has been 275 00:16:18,480 --> 00:16:24,200 Speaker 1: revised a little bit. At the bottom there are one, two, three, four, 276 00:16:24,400 --> 00:16:28,680 Speaker 1: five levels and at the bottom you have physiological needs 277 00:16:28,720 --> 00:16:33,880 Speaker 1: like food and water, shelter, shelter, warmth. Right above that 278 00:16:33,920 --> 00:16:38,200 Speaker 1: you have safety needs UM, security and safety in life. 279 00:16:38,560 --> 00:16:42,560 Speaker 1: Above that you have belongingness and love, which are friends 280 00:16:42,600 --> 00:16:47,200 Speaker 1: and intimates. Esteem goes above that prestige feeling of accomplishment. 281 00:16:47,480 --> 00:16:50,440 Speaker 1: And then finally at the very top of the pyramid, UM. 282 00:16:50,480 --> 00:16:52,560 Speaker 1: People should stop using pyramids because that's just got a 283 00:16:52,600 --> 00:16:57,360 Speaker 1: bad name. Now, UM achieving one's full potential or self actualization. 284 00:16:58,040 --> 00:17:01,600 Speaker 1: And so the idea is that you've divided these needs 285 00:17:01,680 --> 00:17:05,760 Speaker 1: up into groups where once you have fulfilled these basic needs, 286 00:17:06,320 --> 00:17:11,280 Speaker 1: you will become stronger and you will basically satisfy those 287 00:17:11,359 --> 00:17:14,600 Speaker 1: lower called lower level deficit needs, and then you can 288 00:17:14,640 --> 00:17:18,280 Speaker 1: progress onto these higher needs until you reach that final 289 00:17:18,400 --> 00:17:22,879 Speaker 1: level U self actualization. And you I mean you can 290 00:17:22,920 --> 00:17:25,679 Speaker 1: take issue and people have with Maslow's hierarchy, like the 291 00:17:26,560 --> 00:17:29,520 Speaker 1: a literal reading of it would say that homeless people 292 00:17:29,560 --> 00:17:32,920 Speaker 1: couldn't are incapable of having friendships or caring about one 293 00:17:32,920 --> 00:17:36,480 Speaker 1: another because they're lacking in a lower need, which is 294 00:17:36,560 --> 00:17:41,399 Speaker 1: shelter and housing. UM. But the overall it does seem 295 00:17:41,440 --> 00:17:48,399 Speaker 1: to be pretty widely, widely regarded, well regarded most like 296 00:17:48,920 --> 00:17:53,560 Speaker 1: it doesn't take into account social factors. UM, it sounds 297 00:17:53,600 --> 00:17:55,840 Speaker 1: Let's put it this way, it sounds like something developed 298 00:17:55,840 --> 00:17:59,040 Speaker 1: in the nineteen forties, right, Yeah, And it's pretty it's 299 00:17:59,040 --> 00:18:02,920 Speaker 1: pretty elementary, and it does it's not very complex, but 300 00:18:03,320 --> 00:18:07,879 Speaker 1: it has formed the basis of UM a lot of psychology, 301 00:18:09,040 --> 00:18:13,280 Speaker 1: Like it is pretty much the standard for motivational theory 302 00:18:13,680 --> 00:18:17,639 Speaker 1: from what I understand, and UM, it definitely forms a 303 00:18:17,640 --> 00:18:21,600 Speaker 1: lot of the basis for motivational speaking and the motivational 304 00:18:21,720 --> 00:18:26,960 Speaker 1: speaking industry and and the the um crux of what 305 00:18:27,080 --> 00:18:32,720 Speaker 1: motivational speakers based their motivation on. Right. So, like you said, 306 00:18:32,720 --> 00:18:36,959 Speaker 1: you have this Maslow's theory, but UM regarded well or not, 307 00:18:37,160 --> 00:18:40,439 Speaker 1: It's been around for a long time and is the 308 00:18:40,480 --> 00:18:44,720 Speaker 1: basis for how to motivate people. And people speakers use 309 00:18:44,800 --> 00:18:47,520 Speaker 1: this in their own way. They have their own take 310 00:18:47,720 --> 00:18:50,000 Speaker 1: on how they want to use it or whether they 311 00:18:50,080 --> 00:18:54,639 Speaker 1: use it, and investor's case. Um, she actually went to school. 312 00:18:54,680 --> 00:18:57,960 Speaker 1: She she went to graduate school and studied, uh, conflict 313 00:18:58,000 --> 00:19:03,199 Speaker 1: resolution and emotional intelligence, which I think UM gives her 314 00:19:03,200 --> 00:19:06,520 Speaker 1: a leg up as far as being schooled at least 315 00:19:07,080 --> 00:19:09,920 Speaker 1: and things she talks about how empathy is very important 316 00:19:10,400 --> 00:19:14,880 Speaker 1: and she's at least studied on it, you know, which 317 00:19:14,920 --> 00:19:16,440 Speaker 1: is more than you can say for a lot of them. 318 00:19:18,040 --> 00:19:20,359 Speaker 1: Did you you interviewed Tony Robbins at one point for 319 00:19:20,440 --> 00:19:25,400 Speaker 1: us for our blog? Imber did. Yeah, he's seven years ago. 320 00:19:25,680 --> 00:19:27,560 Speaker 1: I was part of I don't know, there were like 321 00:19:27,600 --> 00:19:29,800 Speaker 1: four or five other people on the phone. It was 322 00:19:30,040 --> 00:19:32,920 Speaker 1: a conference interview that we were but I mean, let's 323 00:19:32,920 --> 00:19:36,080 Speaker 1: be honest, we were made to do this, yes, very much. 324 00:19:36,080 --> 00:19:39,800 Speaker 1: So it was in the evening, Um it was there 325 00:19:39,840 --> 00:19:41,920 Speaker 1: was something else going on, I think a birthday party. 326 00:19:41,920 --> 00:19:44,919 Speaker 1: I had just step away from UM. But it was 327 00:19:45,600 --> 00:19:51,000 Speaker 1: right before his TV show Breakthrough with Tony Robbins came out, 328 00:19:51,480 --> 00:19:55,480 Speaker 1: and I do you remember that show? I do? Uh? 329 00:19:55,600 --> 00:19:58,280 Speaker 1: Very short lived like it was, Yeah, it was extremely 330 00:19:58,320 --> 00:20:01,280 Speaker 1: short lived, but it was the were selling like super 331 00:20:01,280 --> 00:20:07,920 Speaker 1: Bowl um sized, we're super Bowl price commercials for that thing, 332 00:20:08,440 --> 00:20:11,000 Speaker 1: like that's how much those the ads spots were going 333 00:20:11,080 --> 00:20:12,520 Speaker 1: for on this. It was a huge event and it 334 00:20:12,680 --> 00:20:16,480 Speaker 1: flopped very quickly, which I think surprised everybody because Tony 335 00:20:16,560 --> 00:20:21,199 Speaker 1: Robbins is He's huge man, He's enormous. Yeah. One of 336 00:20:21,200 --> 00:20:23,760 Speaker 1: the stats, the four million people he reaches from a 337 00:20:23,800 --> 00:20:26,919 Speaker 1: hundred countries has a net worth of about four and 338 00:20:26,920 --> 00:20:30,320 Speaker 1: eighty million dollars through his books and speeches and services. 339 00:20:30,640 --> 00:20:32,680 Speaker 1: And he's been at it for a very long time. 340 00:20:32,720 --> 00:20:36,280 Speaker 1: A lot of people think that he started the UM, 341 00:20:36,400 --> 00:20:40,600 Speaker 1: the motivational speaking industry. He definitely did not. Read a 342 00:20:40,720 --> 00:20:44,600 Speaker 1: pretty interesting article that suggested that Ralph Waldo Emerson was 343 00:20:44,640 --> 00:20:48,359 Speaker 1: America's first motivational speaker could make sense. I've seen it 344 00:20:48,400 --> 00:20:51,280 Speaker 1: go back even further than that. There's a lady named 345 00:20:51,320 --> 00:20:55,200 Speaker 1: Mary Baker Eddie who ended up founding the Christian Science 346 00:20:56,000 --> 00:20:59,560 Speaker 1: I guess church. She got together with a guy named 347 00:20:59,560 --> 00:21:02,920 Speaker 1: Phineas park hurse Quimby. If that's not a mid nineteenth 348 00:21:02,920 --> 00:21:05,240 Speaker 1: century name, I don't know what is right, or a 349 00:21:05,280 --> 00:21:10,119 Speaker 1: new hipster Brooklyn kid's name. Yes, it is now um 350 00:21:10,240 --> 00:21:14,080 Speaker 1: and there's They came together and created what's known as 351 00:21:14,119 --> 00:21:18,280 Speaker 1: the New Thought movement, which is basically said that if 352 00:21:18,359 --> 00:21:23,840 Speaker 1: you think positively good things will happen, which, now this 353 00:21:24,000 --> 00:21:27,159 Speaker 1: is just such a widespread thought and it's it forms 354 00:21:27,200 --> 00:21:30,720 Speaker 1: such that forms as much the basis of motivational speaking 355 00:21:30,800 --> 00:21:34,720 Speaker 1: as Maslow's hierarchy, the idea that if you think positively, 356 00:21:34,960 --> 00:21:39,720 Speaker 1: you're going to have an actual effect on fate, on destiny, 357 00:21:39,720 --> 00:21:43,000 Speaker 1: on the universe, on on your your own future. Right, 358 00:21:43,600 --> 00:21:49,199 Speaker 1: But that makes zero sense whatsoever logically, and it it 359 00:21:49,440 --> 00:21:52,480 Speaker 1: finds it's its roots back in this, these two, these 360 00:21:52,520 --> 00:21:55,480 Speaker 1: two people coming together, so that actually probably was the 361 00:21:55,520 --> 00:22:00,320 Speaker 1: basis of the motivational speaking industry, and it continued on here. 362 00:22:00,359 --> 00:22:04,280 Speaker 1: There there were some luminaries that pop up between uh 363 00:22:04,320 --> 00:22:08,159 Speaker 1: the New Thought movement and Tony Robbins. You've got like 364 00:22:08,240 --> 00:22:11,320 Speaker 1: Dale Carnegie, who wrote How To Um Make Friends and 365 00:22:11,359 --> 00:22:16,280 Speaker 1: Influence People, one of the greatest selling self help books 366 00:22:16,280 --> 00:22:19,600 Speaker 1: of all time, and really introduced the concept of self 367 00:22:19,600 --> 00:22:24,159 Speaker 1: help to the masses. Dale Carnegie did use an interesting dude. 368 00:22:24,720 --> 00:22:27,359 Speaker 1: And then you've got guys like Napoleon Hill who wrote 369 00:22:27,480 --> 00:22:31,880 Speaker 1: Think and Grow Rich. I believe it sounds like something 370 00:22:31,920 --> 00:22:34,520 Speaker 1: on the Simpsons, like a fake self help book, it 371 00:22:34,600 --> 00:22:38,159 Speaker 1: really was. And there's actually Chuck a really good article 372 00:22:38,200 --> 00:22:41,119 Speaker 1: on Gizmoto called The Untold Story of Napoleon Hill the 373 00:22:41,160 --> 00:22:44,399 Speaker 1: greatest self help scammera of all time. Well, and you 374 00:22:44,440 --> 00:22:47,000 Speaker 1: know how you like those long form articles, this one, 375 00:22:47,040 --> 00:22:49,000 Speaker 1: as long as it gets right, it's basically like a 376 00:22:49,040 --> 00:22:52,400 Speaker 1: mini book. So the mid twenties century, you've got people 377 00:22:52,400 --> 00:22:56,639 Speaker 1: popping up. And then and then a young man named 378 00:22:56,680 --> 00:23:02,160 Speaker 1: Anthony Robbins created an infomercial for his Personal Power program. 379 00:23:02,760 --> 00:23:05,760 Speaker 1: Remember that infomercial I do. And I looked into a 380 00:23:05,800 --> 00:23:07,520 Speaker 1: little bit because I realized I was like, I don't 381 00:23:07,520 --> 00:23:10,280 Speaker 1: even know his deal, Like what was uh? I know, 382 00:23:10,320 --> 00:23:13,840 Speaker 1: he wasn't a pow um Like I wondered what his 383 00:23:13,920 --> 00:23:18,159 Speaker 1: story was. You're like, okay, check that box off um. 384 00:23:18,280 --> 00:23:21,040 Speaker 1: And from what I could find, and I didn't do 385 00:23:21,080 --> 00:23:23,960 Speaker 1: a deep dive, but from what I could find, he 386 00:23:25,000 --> 00:23:29,880 Speaker 1: worked for a motivational speaker. And I think was just like, hey, 387 00:23:29,920 --> 00:23:33,479 Speaker 1: I can do this. Yeah, is that the deal? Yes? Okay, 388 00:23:33,640 --> 00:23:36,399 Speaker 1: from what I understand, And he was absolutely right. He 389 00:23:36,440 --> 00:23:41,919 Speaker 1: did it. He he's a cottage industry onto himself. That 390 00:23:42,000 --> 00:23:44,400 Speaker 1: Personal Power infomercial. By the way, in the first three 391 00:23:44,480 --> 00:23:47,160 Speaker 1: years that it was out, a hundred million people saw 392 00:23:47,160 --> 00:23:50,639 Speaker 1: it in America, So he became like a juggernai, I 393 00:23:50,680 --> 00:23:53,000 Speaker 1: became a pop culture thing. Remember he was in Shallow 394 00:23:53,040 --> 00:23:57,320 Speaker 1: How he's actually the mcguffin for the whole movie. Meeting 395 00:23:57,480 --> 00:24:00,760 Speaker 1: Tony Robbins in an elevator is what sets like the 396 00:24:00,800 --> 00:24:03,119 Speaker 1: whole plot of the movie off. And then what a 397 00:24:03,200 --> 00:24:07,280 Speaker 1: mcguffin is, I don't I don't remember seeing that movie, 398 00:24:07,920 --> 00:24:09,600 Speaker 1: to be honest, I know the movie, but I don't 399 00:24:09,600 --> 00:24:11,760 Speaker 1: think I saw it. But no, as far as film 400 00:24:11,800 --> 00:24:14,280 Speaker 1: industry parlance goes, and mcguffin is the thing that helps 401 00:24:14,440 --> 00:24:18,919 Speaker 1: the plot along, right, Yeah, a mcguffin is uh something 402 00:24:18,960 --> 00:24:21,960 Speaker 1: in the movie, a device or something that triggers the plot. 403 00:24:22,000 --> 00:24:24,240 Speaker 1: So I think in that case you're correct. Okay, I'm 404 00:24:24,280 --> 00:24:28,960 Speaker 1: using it correctly, by goodness. So um Tony Tony Robins. 405 00:24:29,000 --> 00:24:30,600 Speaker 1: So by the time he came out with his show 406 00:24:30,640 --> 00:24:34,520 Speaker 1: breakthrough in two thousand ten, um, everybody just assumed it 407 00:24:34,520 --> 00:24:37,960 Speaker 1: would be huge and it was not for some reason. 408 00:24:37,960 --> 00:24:40,359 Speaker 1: I still don't understand why. But if you watch that 409 00:24:40,440 --> 00:24:44,919 Speaker 1: first episode, it's basically him going around and motivating people 410 00:24:45,000 --> 00:24:49,879 Speaker 1: who have like enormous challenges up against them. And the 411 00:24:49,960 --> 00:24:53,720 Speaker 1: first episode still to this day, I just kind of 412 00:24:53,760 --> 00:24:55,800 Speaker 1: I'm like, oh my gosh, I can't believe he did this. 413 00:24:56,359 --> 00:24:58,640 Speaker 1: They he went and met up with a guy who 414 00:24:58,920 --> 00:25:05,440 Speaker 1: was Audre, who was qua quadriplegic, I believe, and he 415 00:25:05,720 --> 00:25:10,840 Speaker 1: had become quadriplegic after jumping headfirst into a swimming pool 416 00:25:11,280 --> 00:25:16,080 Speaker 1: I think at his wedding reception. Um And and became 417 00:25:16,119 --> 00:25:20,480 Speaker 1: paralyzed and I you know, obviously quite depressed as a result, 418 00:25:20,680 --> 00:25:23,440 Speaker 1: and was had lost his job and his life had 419 00:25:23,480 --> 00:25:26,960 Speaker 1: really just taken a huge turn downward. And Tony Robbins 420 00:25:27,119 --> 00:25:30,159 Speaker 1: showed up to help the guy, and he wanted to 421 00:25:30,160 --> 00:25:32,520 Speaker 1: help him by inspiring him. And the way that he 422 00:25:32,560 --> 00:25:34,760 Speaker 1: inspired him was to take him up in an airplane 423 00:25:34,920 --> 00:25:37,880 Speaker 1: and push him out. Do you remember he pushed a man, 424 00:25:38,119 --> 00:25:41,520 Speaker 1: a quadriplegic man out of an airplane with a parachute 425 00:25:41,560 --> 00:25:44,520 Speaker 1: on and said like Scottive or something like that. It 426 00:25:44,640 --> 00:25:47,240 Speaker 1: was one of the craziest things anyone's ever done on TV. 427 00:25:47,880 --> 00:25:52,280 Speaker 1: And I'm including up to present day. So so breakthrough 428 00:25:52,359 --> 00:25:54,480 Speaker 1: Tony Robbins plot. But that was probably just like a 429 00:25:54,520 --> 00:25:57,320 Speaker 1: blip on that dude's radar. It did nothing to his 430 00:25:57,400 --> 00:26:01,680 Speaker 1: personal brand as far as dragging it down. No, um 431 00:26:02,640 --> 00:26:04,600 Speaker 1: And I don't want to like sound like I'm bashing 432 00:26:04,600 --> 00:26:07,199 Speaker 1: the guy, because you know, he helps a lot of 433 00:26:07,200 --> 00:26:11,360 Speaker 1: people that buy into it and apparently is very philanthropic, 434 00:26:12,160 --> 00:26:17,359 Speaker 1: uh in many ways. So that's good, right, sure of course. Um, 435 00:26:17,400 --> 00:26:23,440 Speaker 1: But he also, um, is a firewalker. This is something 436 00:26:23,480 --> 00:26:26,639 Speaker 1: I did not know U. In his Unleashed the Power 437 00:26:26,720 --> 00:26:31,119 Speaker 1: Within program that he does live, he gets thousands of 438 00:26:31,160 --> 00:26:34,600 Speaker 1: people to walk across hot coals. He's gotten Oprah Winfrey 439 00:26:34,640 --> 00:26:42,040 Speaker 1: to walk across hot coals, and um, you know, firewalkings, 440 00:26:42,080 --> 00:26:44,760 Speaker 1: It's it's a real thing. Um, if you look at 441 00:26:44,800 --> 00:26:49,560 Speaker 1: it scientifically, what's going on is is coals are not 442 00:26:49,600 --> 00:26:53,800 Speaker 1: a very good conductor of heat, so it takes about 443 00:26:53,840 --> 00:26:55,960 Speaker 1: a second to actually feel that heat, and if you 444 00:26:56,000 --> 00:26:58,719 Speaker 1: walk at a good clip, it's about a half a second. 445 00:26:59,200 --> 00:27:02,400 Speaker 1: So what you're doing is not really And I don't 446 00:27:02,400 --> 00:27:04,880 Speaker 1: think he's saying there's some danger you're overcoming. I think 447 00:27:04,880 --> 00:27:09,119 Speaker 1: in his case, it's you're overcoming a fear and taking 448 00:27:09,160 --> 00:27:12,399 Speaker 1: part in a group activity and that's where the benefit is. 449 00:27:13,200 --> 00:27:15,480 Speaker 1: It's like staring at those coals and doing it. I 450 00:27:15,480 --> 00:27:19,160 Speaker 1: don't think he's saying, like, look, it's magic because of me. 451 00:27:19,280 --> 00:27:21,840 Speaker 1: You're not getting burned. I don't know. I think that 452 00:27:22,040 --> 00:27:25,560 Speaker 1: what he's the premise of his fire walking thing and 453 00:27:25,640 --> 00:27:29,120 Speaker 1: at these conferences is to show people that they can 454 00:27:29,160 --> 00:27:35,280 Speaker 1: overcome even physical problems like hot coals on their feet 455 00:27:35,400 --> 00:27:39,879 Speaker 1: by using their mind. I thought it was like the fear. No, 456 00:27:40,000 --> 00:27:42,280 Speaker 1: I think in reality that's what's going on. But I 457 00:27:42,760 --> 00:27:47,000 Speaker 1: believe from what I understand, that it's being presented that 458 00:27:47,080 --> 00:27:51,879 Speaker 1: you can say something like yes or cool moss, and 459 00:27:51,920 --> 00:27:56,760 Speaker 1: you're using your mind to overcome the dilemma of the 460 00:27:56,840 --> 00:28:00,480 Speaker 1: hot posed by the hot coals on your feet. Okay, 461 00:28:02,440 --> 00:28:05,800 Speaker 1: fair enough, right? Uh? It all kind of went wrong 462 00:28:05,840 --> 00:28:11,399 Speaker 1: in Dallas though in there was an event there where um, 463 00:28:11,400 --> 00:28:14,600 Speaker 1: thirty to forty people were evaluated. I think five people 464 00:28:14,600 --> 00:28:18,119 Speaker 1: were taken to the hospital with burn injuries, and um, 465 00:28:18,240 --> 00:28:22,760 Speaker 1: his spokesperson, Jennifer Connelly said, you know what, only five 466 00:28:22,800 --> 00:28:27,080 Speaker 1: people out of seven thousand requested examination beyond what we 467 00:28:27,119 --> 00:28:31,040 Speaker 1: had on site to examine people, and you know, everyone 468 00:28:31,119 --> 00:28:36,120 Speaker 1: had a great time. Basically, I have to say, statistically speaking, 469 00:28:36,160 --> 00:28:39,840 Speaker 1: she makes an excellent point. And there's actually somebody in 470 00:28:39,840 --> 00:28:45,680 Speaker 1: this article, um, oh, what's her name, Irene Wiseman. Yeah, 471 00:28:45,920 --> 00:28:48,400 Speaker 1: who really kind of put it well, she seems to 472 00:28:48,400 --> 00:28:50,720 Speaker 1: be somebody who goes to these things to go to 473 00:28:51,080 --> 00:28:55,080 Speaker 1: she goes. She definitely goes to Robbin's conferences, um, but 474 00:28:55,200 --> 00:29:00,280 Speaker 1: she also seems to understand what's going on at them, 475 00:29:00,400 --> 00:29:03,560 Speaker 1: rather than like maybe buying into a lock stock and barrel. 476 00:29:04,160 --> 00:29:07,320 Speaker 1: And from what I've seen, someone like her, someone who 477 00:29:07,360 --> 00:29:12,400 Speaker 1: approaches a motivational speaking conference with her own set of 478 00:29:12,520 --> 00:29:16,760 Speaker 1: judgments and values about it and is able to take 479 00:29:16,840 --> 00:29:20,120 Speaker 1: that message and adjust it so that it works for her, 480 00:29:20,600 --> 00:29:24,080 Speaker 1: rather than trying to take everything from the person wholesale 481 00:29:24,360 --> 00:29:28,440 Speaker 1: and putting it onto you so that you're basically magically changed. 482 00:29:29,040 --> 00:29:33,640 Speaker 1: Those people have the greatest greatest chance of succeeding, um 483 00:29:33,680 --> 00:29:38,080 Speaker 1: at whatever they're being motivated to do. But she she 484 00:29:38,200 --> 00:29:40,760 Speaker 1: basically she puts the firewalk like that. She was saying, 485 00:29:40,800 --> 00:29:43,640 Speaker 1: like the real magic is that there were ten thousand 486 00:29:43,760 --> 00:29:47,800 Speaker 1: five people waiting their turn to walk over these colds, 487 00:29:48,320 --> 00:29:52,200 Speaker 1: and everyone was exuberant and calm and happy. Nobody was 488 00:29:52,320 --> 00:29:56,360 Speaker 1: irritated or you know, um like hurry up or anything 489 00:29:56,400 --> 00:30:00,719 Speaker 1: like that. It was a neat communal feeling waiting in 490 00:30:00,800 --> 00:30:03,560 Speaker 1: line to go do the fire the firewalk, and she 491 00:30:03,560 --> 00:30:06,680 Speaker 1: she did the firewalks. She said it was cool or whatever. Um, 492 00:30:06,720 --> 00:30:09,480 Speaker 1: but it was more about the camaraderie in the community 493 00:30:09,640 --> 00:30:12,600 Speaker 1: that developed in line waiting for the firewalk. For her, 494 00:30:12,840 --> 00:30:17,600 Speaker 1: it definitely is. And I think if you asked Tony Robbins, 495 00:30:18,040 --> 00:30:20,160 Speaker 1: maybe he'll come onto the show and talk to us 496 00:30:20,160 --> 00:30:25,440 Speaker 1: about it sometime. Okay, if you asked Tony Robbins, I 497 00:30:25,480 --> 00:30:29,200 Speaker 1: would guess that he would concede. Uh that, Yes, you 498 00:30:29,240 --> 00:30:34,479 Speaker 1: could interpret his conferences as a Pepper rallying. I don't know, 499 00:30:34,960 --> 00:30:38,360 Speaker 1: I don't know, you know, I want to say something, Chuck, 500 00:30:39,040 --> 00:30:44,720 Speaker 1: I hold the skeptic community to account for not giving 501 00:30:44,760 --> 00:30:48,480 Speaker 1: more ink to motivational the motivational speaking industry. Yeah, I 502 00:30:48,480 --> 00:30:53,200 Speaker 1: didn't see a lot. And I specifically looked from skeptic sites. Yep, 503 00:30:53,360 --> 00:30:55,680 Speaker 1: me too, and it's almost not there. So that that 504 00:30:55,760 --> 00:30:58,920 Speaker 1: has two things. One that skeptics either think that it 505 00:30:59,120 --> 00:31:03,440 Speaker 1: is right, that's fine, or they think it's so ridiculous 506 00:31:03,440 --> 00:31:06,040 Speaker 1: that it's not even worth writing about, which I don't 507 00:31:06,080 --> 00:31:08,520 Speaker 1: think that's the case, because skeptics write about some pretty 508 00:31:08,600 --> 00:31:11,760 Speaker 1: ridiculous stuff. Well, I looked at this one article. I 509 00:31:11,800 --> 00:31:13,040 Speaker 1: don't know if you saw it from the guy who 510 00:31:13,120 --> 00:31:16,760 Speaker 1: walked out of a conference, a Tony Robbins conference. Did 511 00:31:16,800 --> 00:31:20,800 Speaker 1: you see that one? Um, this guy was by all 512 00:31:20,800 --> 00:31:24,160 Speaker 1: accounts from what he said, someone who should be into it. 513 00:31:24,200 --> 00:31:26,280 Speaker 1: He's like, I wasn't there to bust him. I'm not 514 00:31:26,360 --> 00:31:30,200 Speaker 1: a skeptic. He was like, I h have read some 515 00:31:30,280 --> 00:31:33,440 Speaker 1: of his books. I'm a fan, Like I'm into it. Uh. 516 00:31:33,480 --> 00:31:35,680 Speaker 1: And he walked out and he just had a very 517 00:31:35,760 --> 00:31:40,360 Speaker 1: like just a very leveled critical eye on the presentation, 518 00:31:40,440 --> 00:31:42,920 Speaker 1: not like this guy is this and this. He was 519 00:31:42,960 --> 00:31:45,000 Speaker 1: just like, you know what, he repeated himself too much, 520 00:31:45,520 --> 00:31:49,960 Speaker 1: and he name dropped too much, and um, he kind 521 00:31:49,960 --> 00:31:54,120 Speaker 1: of had some bad segues that and non sequiturs, and 522 00:31:54,600 --> 00:31:56,760 Speaker 1: he just looked at it sort of from a critical 523 00:31:57,560 --> 00:31:59,720 Speaker 1: i of a public speaker, and it was kind of 524 00:31:59,720 --> 00:32:02,040 Speaker 1: like this he's he's kind of phoning it in these days. 525 00:32:02,720 --> 00:32:04,920 Speaker 1: So it was, Oh, it was Tony Robbins himself that 526 00:32:04,960 --> 00:32:06,640 Speaker 1: he walked out on. Yeah, and he was just like, 527 00:32:06,880 --> 00:32:08,720 Speaker 1: you know, I left, He said, I just found that 528 00:32:08,760 --> 00:32:11,080 Speaker 1: I wasn't really getting anything out of it. And he 529 00:32:11,120 --> 00:32:14,200 Speaker 1: didn't go there to to poopoo the guy. Um, like 530 00:32:14,240 --> 00:32:16,480 Speaker 1: I said, he was a fan, so he just it's 531 00:32:16,560 --> 00:32:19,360 Speaker 1: kind of like he you know, he ditched the capris 532 00:32:19,920 --> 00:32:25,320 Speaker 1: and and and start doing a better presentation, was his take? 533 00:32:25,760 --> 00:32:30,200 Speaker 1: Gotcha the capris Tony Robbins his capri pants, he sure does. 534 00:32:31,000 --> 00:32:33,240 Speaker 1: Does he really like the ones with the drawstrings at 535 00:32:33,280 --> 00:32:38,000 Speaker 1: the bottom in the cargo pockets? No? Does he really? 536 00:32:38,720 --> 00:32:40,840 Speaker 1: I've not seen that. All right, Well let's take a 537 00:32:40,880 --> 00:32:43,960 Speaker 1: break and let Josh ponder that, and we'll come back 538 00:32:44,000 --> 00:33:11,719 Speaker 1: and finish up this stuff right after this. All right, 539 00:33:11,760 --> 00:33:13,920 Speaker 1: So Tony Robbins isn't the only person out there that's 540 00:33:13,920 --> 00:33:15,600 Speaker 1: made a ton of money doing this. They want to 541 00:33:15,640 --> 00:33:18,520 Speaker 1: pick on him. No, we should say a ton of money. 542 00:33:18,600 --> 00:33:22,200 Speaker 1: His six day conference, Um, I think it's called Date 543 00:33:22,240 --> 00:33:26,040 Speaker 1: with Destiny this year and last year. So the the 544 00:33:26,200 --> 00:33:29,320 Speaker 1: Irene Wiseman said there were ten thousand, five hundred people there. 545 00:33:29,680 --> 00:33:32,800 Speaker 1: The tickets were about four thousand dollars apiece. That's forty 546 00:33:32,840 --> 00:33:35,640 Speaker 1: two million dollars they grossed for a sixth day conference. 547 00:33:35,720 --> 00:33:40,760 Speaker 1: He should call that conference credit cards on fire. Yeah. 548 00:33:40,840 --> 00:33:44,040 Speaker 1: I read an article, I think in Forbes about the 549 00:33:44,120 --> 00:33:49,040 Speaker 1: Chinese UM motivational speaking industry, and um, there's this one 550 00:33:49,080 --> 00:33:50,880 Speaker 1: person who's like, who's going to sign up for the 551 00:33:51,040 --> 00:33:54,800 Speaker 1: for my other classes and um, like, some people came 552 00:33:54,840 --> 00:33:58,040 Speaker 1: to the front and a ring of people with like 553 00:33:58,280 --> 00:34:04,320 Speaker 1: wireless credit card machines formed around them. Oh my god, yeah, wow, yeah, 554 00:34:04,840 --> 00:34:09,919 Speaker 1: one of us, one of us man's creepy. Uh So 555 00:34:10,560 --> 00:34:12,799 Speaker 1: Tony Robbins isn't the only person out there who's done 556 00:34:12,840 --> 00:34:15,040 Speaker 1: this over the Here's many, many people, I think, I mean, 557 00:34:15,560 --> 00:34:17,080 Speaker 1: I didn't it say there was something like close to 558 00:34:17,120 --> 00:34:20,359 Speaker 1: five registered motivational speakers in the U s alone, think 559 00:34:20,400 --> 00:34:23,960 Speaker 1: like six something. That was it. But very famously, a 560 00:34:23,960 --> 00:34:26,759 Speaker 1: man named Jack Canfield wrote a book called Chicken Soup 561 00:34:26,800 --> 00:34:30,960 Speaker 1: for the Soul. Um and this is an amazing record. 562 00:34:31,480 --> 00:34:35,680 Speaker 1: He holds the Guinness Record for having seven books on 563 00:34:35,719 --> 00:34:38,440 Speaker 1: the New York Times bestseller list at the same time. 564 00:34:39,760 --> 00:34:43,160 Speaker 1: That's unbelievable. Did you know they wrote one for chicken 565 00:34:43,280 --> 00:34:46,960 Speaker 1: Soup for the prisoner's soul, They wrote one for people 566 00:34:47,000 --> 00:34:51,760 Speaker 1: in prison? M I did not know that. And also 567 00:34:51,800 --> 00:34:54,200 Speaker 1: did you know Ashton Kutcher is trying to bring Chicken 568 00:34:54,239 --> 00:34:57,080 Speaker 1: Soup for the Soul to Netflix the Coach as what 569 00:34:57,160 --> 00:34:59,640 Speaker 1: a documentary? Or's I have no idea, that's that's all 570 00:34:59,640 --> 00:35:03,960 Speaker 1: I saw. Or he's starring his Chicken Soup he's starring 571 00:35:04,000 --> 00:35:07,120 Speaker 1: his noodle I book a lot of fun at the coach. 572 00:35:07,160 --> 00:35:11,600 Speaker 1: But he seems like a pretty sincere guy. Uh sure, No, 573 00:35:12,280 --> 00:35:15,120 Speaker 1: I I don't know. I don't know. I I've I've 574 00:35:15,200 --> 00:35:19,440 Speaker 1: learned to just try to shy away from no from 575 00:35:19,440 --> 00:35:22,480 Speaker 1: from like saying stuff about people on air. People I 576 00:35:22,520 --> 00:35:25,120 Speaker 1: don't know. I don't know him. He's a celebrity. That's 577 00:35:25,120 --> 00:35:28,120 Speaker 1: all I know about him, you know, like, and even 578 00:35:28,120 --> 00:35:29,680 Speaker 1: if I did know more about him, and that's not 579 00:35:29,760 --> 00:35:32,480 Speaker 1: the whole picture. So I have no idea what he's like. 580 00:35:32,560 --> 00:35:35,839 Speaker 1: Is a person just based on knowing people he that's 581 00:35:35,960 --> 00:35:40,200 Speaker 1: probably likeliest that he is a good person. Wayne Dyer, 582 00:35:40,360 --> 00:35:43,640 Speaker 1: another famous author, no longer with us. I wrote a 583 00:35:43,640 --> 00:35:46,400 Speaker 1: book called Your Erroneous Zones, and a lot of these people, 584 00:35:47,200 --> 00:35:51,040 Speaker 1: it seems like, started out as book writers. That's the 585 00:35:51,080 --> 00:35:53,080 Speaker 1: best way. That used to be the best way to 586 00:35:53,080 --> 00:35:54,759 Speaker 1: get started. Now I think the best way to get 587 00:35:54,800 --> 00:35:57,319 Speaker 1: started is to just start speaking and then write your 588 00:35:57,320 --> 00:35:59,799 Speaker 1: books based on your successes there. You want to do 589 00:35:59,800 --> 00:36:02,719 Speaker 1: that almost simultaneously too, because one of the things you 590 00:36:02,760 --> 00:36:06,120 Speaker 1: do if you're an motivational speaker is mentioned by the way, 591 00:36:06,400 --> 00:36:08,960 Speaker 1: I've got even more insights that are going to help 592 00:36:08,960 --> 00:36:11,240 Speaker 1: you out, and my books that are available for sale 593 00:36:11,320 --> 00:36:14,759 Speaker 1: right outside. Yeah, that's when it reeks of scientology to me. 594 00:36:14,880 --> 00:36:19,600 Speaker 1: It's like you can unlock more discoveries by buying more things. 595 00:36:19,680 --> 00:36:22,359 Speaker 1: But all, yeah, all of them do that. Like you're 596 00:36:22,440 --> 00:36:26,400 Speaker 1: a fool if you're a motivational speaker who doesn't have 597 00:36:26,440 --> 00:36:29,560 Speaker 1: a book for sale at your conference, Like you're doing 598 00:36:29,560 --> 00:36:32,760 Speaker 1: it wrong. Right, as far as the industry would be concerned, 599 00:36:33,000 --> 00:36:36,319 Speaker 1: I think that in and of itself doesn't necessarily mean 600 00:36:36,920 --> 00:36:42,840 Speaker 1: that you are a huckster. But there are plenty of 601 00:36:42,880 --> 00:36:46,759 Speaker 1: them in the industry that are hucksters because all they're 602 00:36:46,800 --> 00:36:49,960 Speaker 1: they're doing is selling their book or their class or 603 00:36:49,960 --> 00:36:52,799 Speaker 1: there's something they're They're motivational speech is actually just a 604 00:36:52,800 --> 00:36:56,480 Speaker 1: sales pitch. That's the hucksters, and there's plenty of them 605 00:36:56,520 --> 00:37:00,000 Speaker 1: in the industry. Yes, should we talk about get motivated? Yeah? 606 00:37:00,400 --> 00:37:04,920 Speaker 1: We should. This is a seminar series that was started 607 00:37:04,920 --> 00:37:07,879 Speaker 1: in two thousand two by guy named Peter Lowe and 608 00:37:08,000 --> 00:37:09,880 Speaker 1: in the article I read, he has described as the 609 00:37:09,920 --> 00:37:14,120 Speaker 1: son of a missionary who along with his ex wife Tamarra, 610 00:37:14,719 --> 00:37:18,160 Speaker 1: who was a self help book author who writes Christian 611 00:37:18,239 --> 00:37:24,719 Speaker 1: rap started, uh something that a series called Get Motivated 612 00:37:24,760 --> 00:37:28,400 Speaker 1: that UM is filling up stadiums that at one point 613 00:37:28,640 --> 00:37:32,440 Speaker 1: and no longer, but at one point was in business 614 00:37:32,480 --> 00:37:37,839 Speaker 1: with TD Ameritrade. Yeah. I think they started with a 615 00:37:37,920 --> 00:37:43,759 Speaker 1: legitimate motivational speaker conference, Okay, and then over time said hey, 616 00:37:43,840 --> 00:37:45,960 Speaker 1: you know what, we could get somebody in here to 617 00:37:45,960 --> 00:37:49,279 Speaker 1: to underwrite a lot of this and UM they can 618 00:37:49,320 --> 00:37:52,920 Speaker 1: just give they can basically put ads in amongst the 619 00:37:52,960 --> 00:37:56,600 Speaker 1: motivational speakers. Yeah. So they partnered up with t d 620 00:37:56,680 --> 00:38:00,640 Speaker 1: AMR Trade with this UM product they hauled had called 621 00:38:00,719 --> 00:38:06,640 Speaker 1: invest Tools UM and they're no longer in business together, 622 00:38:06,680 --> 00:38:08,680 Speaker 1: but Get Motivated still out there. I'm not sure if 623 00:38:08,680 --> 00:38:11,759 Speaker 1: they're partnering with anyone or not. No, they have a 624 00:38:11,800 --> 00:38:15,040 Speaker 1: new owner called wealth Rock that has their own investing 625 00:38:15,120 --> 00:38:19,000 Speaker 1: classes that they now sell exclusively. I think are the 626 00:38:19,040 --> 00:38:22,760 Speaker 1: only things that are sold at the Get Motivated conferences. Okay, 627 00:38:22,760 --> 00:38:24,319 Speaker 1: So here's a long and short of it. What they 628 00:38:24,360 --> 00:38:26,759 Speaker 1: do is they charge very little money. It's not like 629 00:38:26,800 --> 00:38:30,400 Speaker 1: you have to pay thousands of dollars like Tony Robbins 630 00:38:30,640 --> 00:38:33,840 Speaker 1: UM live event, but you pay like five bucks or 631 00:38:33,880 --> 00:38:36,960 Speaker 1: something and say hey, I can go here. Colin Powell 632 00:38:36,960 --> 00:38:41,320 Speaker 1: speak or Terry Bradshaw or who else they they have U, 633 00:38:41,920 --> 00:38:46,680 Speaker 1: Laura Bush or Juliani. And who wouldn't go here speeches 634 00:38:46,719 --> 00:38:50,239 Speaker 1: by them for five bucks besides me? Uh? And then 635 00:38:50,280 --> 00:38:58,959 Speaker 1: you go and you h you would, um for five bucks. 636 00:38:59,040 --> 00:39:00,960 Speaker 1: I'd go see Colin all for five bucks if he 637 00:39:01,000 --> 00:39:06,759 Speaker 1: spoke in my living room. How's that? Uh, let's make 638 00:39:06,800 --> 00:39:09,080 Speaker 1: it happen, America. That's a riff on an old joke 639 00:39:09,160 --> 00:39:10,920 Speaker 1: my dad used to say, which was when he wanted 640 00:39:10,920 --> 00:39:14,560 Speaker 1: to denigrate a performer, you would say, I wouldn't go 641 00:39:14,600 --> 00:39:16,799 Speaker 1: see them if they were playing in my backyard. I've 642 00:39:16,800 --> 00:39:19,759 Speaker 1: heard that before too. That's such a seventies dad thing 643 00:39:19,800 --> 00:39:23,279 Speaker 1: to totally. Um. So anyway, you would go and you 644 00:39:23,280 --> 00:39:28,080 Speaker 1: would listen to these motivational speeches. Um. And then what's 645 00:39:28,080 --> 00:39:31,640 Speaker 1: going on is is their financial they're selling a financial 646 00:39:31,640 --> 00:39:35,560 Speaker 1: product basically right, And again it's it's like you've got 647 00:39:35,600 --> 00:39:38,640 Speaker 1: actual like Colin Powell's not like. And by the way, 648 00:39:38,680 --> 00:39:40,920 Speaker 1: if I mentioned how great t D and Merri Trades 649 00:39:40,960 --> 00:39:43,440 Speaker 1: investment tools are, They've helped me out a lot. He 650 00:39:43,560 --> 00:39:45,960 Speaker 1: just paid a boatload of money to go speak exactly, 651 00:39:46,040 --> 00:39:49,759 Speaker 1: and he's giving like a real motivational speech. Right. And 652 00:39:49,800 --> 00:39:52,080 Speaker 1: then after Colin Powell, you have some guy come up 653 00:39:52,120 --> 00:39:55,600 Speaker 1: and say, hey, who wants a Corvette and they flashed 654 00:39:55,600 --> 00:39:57,759 Speaker 1: a picture of a Corvette and everybody raises their hand. 655 00:39:57,800 --> 00:40:00,400 Speaker 1: He's like, you can have them with corvette too, with 656 00:40:00,520 --> 00:40:05,200 Speaker 1: invest tools or whatever. Right. So the criticism of this 657 00:40:05,320 --> 00:40:08,160 Speaker 1: is that these people are super pumped and ready to 658 00:40:08,320 --> 00:40:12,520 Speaker 1: just do anything because they're feeling really good thanks to 659 00:40:12,560 --> 00:40:15,560 Speaker 1: Colin Pal's speech. And then now they're getting this the 660 00:40:15,719 --> 00:40:19,480 Speaker 1: sales pitch that's being wedged in between these motivational speakers, 661 00:40:19,520 --> 00:40:21,759 Speaker 1: So of course they're signing up for this and and 662 00:40:21,960 --> 00:40:26,400 Speaker 1: maybe without really fully understanding what's going on. Um. The 663 00:40:26,640 --> 00:40:28,600 Speaker 1: on the other side, the t D A Mere trade 664 00:40:28,640 --> 00:40:31,600 Speaker 1: people say, how are you gonna do a hard sell with, 665 00:40:32,080 --> 00:40:36,200 Speaker 1: you know, to twenty people in a stadium. You can't like, like, 666 00:40:36,280 --> 00:40:39,040 Speaker 1: that's just that's that's ridiculous to say that these people 667 00:40:39,080 --> 00:40:42,880 Speaker 1: had a hard sales pitch leveled against them. The point 668 00:40:42,960 --> 00:40:45,600 Speaker 1: is that people who went went thinking they were going 669 00:40:45,640 --> 00:40:50,040 Speaker 1: to a motivational speaking event a conference, and it turns 670 00:40:50,080 --> 00:40:51,719 Speaker 1: out the whole thing was just a t D A 671 00:40:51,760 --> 00:40:54,040 Speaker 1: mere trade add to get them to give them their 672 00:40:54,040 --> 00:40:56,200 Speaker 1: money for these investment tools that may or may not 673 00:40:56,360 --> 00:41:01,160 Speaker 1: help them actually make money from that point, well, yeah, 674 00:41:01,200 --> 00:41:04,120 Speaker 1: and uh. In two thousand nine, investivals UM agreed to 675 00:41:04,120 --> 00:41:08,400 Speaker 1: pay three million dollars UH to settle UM allegations from 676 00:41:08,440 --> 00:41:11,400 Speaker 1: the SEC that it let instructors mislead students and the 677 00:41:11,480 --> 00:41:15,600 Speaker 1: things that can make extraordinary profits. Uh and to claim 678 00:41:15,920 --> 00:41:19,200 Speaker 1: they were expert option traders when their income was really 679 00:41:19,239 --> 00:41:22,480 Speaker 1: coming from selling the courses. Yeah. Apparently one of the 680 00:41:22,560 --> 00:41:27,600 Speaker 1: instructors said, like, the returns were guaranteed, you can't you 681 00:41:27,640 --> 00:41:30,680 Speaker 1: cannot do that. And apparently you're also not supposed to 682 00:41:30,760 --> 00:41:34,480 Speaker 1: say what percentage return you can offer, and they they 683 00:41:34,520 --> 00:41:38,080 Speaker 1: apparently said seventeen percent, which is just ridiculous. And these 684 00:41:38,080 --> 00:41:40,120 Speaker 1: are options that we're talking about. These are not like 685 00:41:40,160 --> 00:41:42,640 Speaker 1: stock trades, where you know, you can do a little 686 00:41:42,640 --> 00:41:45,840 Speaker 1: research and figure out stock trades and you're not necessarily 687 00:41:45,840 --> 00:41:50,360 Speaker 1: swimming with sharks. These were options. Options are extremely complex 688 00:41:50,400 --> 00:41:53,920 Speaker 1: and difficult, and they cost more to trade than a 689 00:41:54,040 --> 00:41:56,839 Speaker 1: stock trade does, and you're much more apt to lose 690 00:41:56,920 --> 00:41:59,400 Speaker 1: money because you don't understand what you're doing. There's a 691 00:41:59,440 --> 00:42:03,080 Speaker 1: lot more factors involved in whether you make money off 692 00:42:03,120 --> 00:42:05,879 Speaker 1: of investing in options. Or not. So this is like 693 00:42:06,520 --> 00:42:09,880 Speaker 1: they're going to people who are paying to see you know, 694 00:42:10,040 --> 00:42:13,239 Speaker 1: Colin Powell and Laura Bush speak because they admire them, 695 00:42:13,520 --> 00:42:18,799 Speaker 1: and then they're they're getting sold these supposedly classes on 696 00:42:19,280 --> 00:42:24,040 Speaker 1: investing in very sophisticated financial tools. It's just you shouldn't 697 00:42:24,040 --> 00:42:27,719 Speaker 1: do that. You know. Their lineup is now who I 698 00:42:27,760 --> 00:42:31,799 Speaker 1: went to get motivated website and like, did you say 699 00:42:31,840 --> 00:42:35,239 Speaker 1: that they had they had their own product? Now yeah, 700 00:42:35,719 --> 00:42:39,680 Speaker 1: Wealth Rock is the owner I believe spelled r A 701 00:42:39,920 --> 00:42:44,480 Speaker 1: W k uh. Their current lineup right now for this 702 00:42:44,520 --> 00:42:48,440 Speaker 1: next tour is Kevin O'Leary, Mr. Wonderful from Shark Tank, 703 00:42:48,920 --> 00:42:51,600 Speaker 1: one of the Duck Dynasty dudes. All right, do you 704 00:42:51,640 --> 00:42:57,239 Speaker 1: know his name? Larry King? Really? Yeah? Okay? Um. A 705 00:42:57,280 --> 00:43:02,359 Speaker 1: woman named Mangeet Minhas who I believe I looked into 706 00:43:02,360 --> 00:43:06,400 Speaker 1: her briefly. She's started breweries and wineries in Canada, made 707 00:43:06,440 --> 00:43:08,959 Speaker 1: a lot of money and then finally rounding it out 708 00:43:09,120 --> 00:43:14,759 Speaker 1: Edwards Snowden. That's a good one, man, that's quite I'm 709 00:43:14,760 --> 00:43:17,080 Speaker 1: sure Edward Snowden. I want to be in the green 710 00:43:17,160 --> 00:43:20,359 Speaker 1: room with Edward Snowden and the Duck Dynasty guy. Well, 711 00:43:20,400 --> 00:43:25,720 Speaker 1: you're you're joking about Edward Snowden. Oh that's four real. No, yes, 712 00:43:26,360 --> 00:43:30,080 Speaker 1: no it's not. Yes, it is what and under his 713 00:43:30,239 --> 00:43:34,239 Speaker 1: thing it says, uh what did it say? I mean, 714 00:43:34,719 --> 00:43:37,560 Speaker 1: you know, says entrepreneur below one and said duck Dynasty 715 00:43:37,600 --> 00:43:41,480 Speaker 1: star and blow him, it says whistle blower. No, Edward 716 00:43:41,560 --> 00:43:46,880 Speaker 1: Snowden is doing this conference. Yes, well I'm going I 717 00:43:46,920 --> 00:43:53,480 Speaker 1: gotta hear this. Yeah. Wow, strange times. It is strange times. 718 00:43:53,600 --> 00:43:55,640 Speaker 1: I gotta say, I like what Wealth Rock is doing 719 00:43:55,719 --> 00:44:00,120 Speaker 1: these days? Uh. In two thousand five, that was an 720 00:44:00,160 --> 00:44:04,040 Speaker 1: investigative journalist named Steve Salerna who um wrote a book 721 00:44:04,040 --> 00:44:08,600 Speaker 1: called SHAM, which stands for self help in Actualization movement, 722 00:44:08,920 --> 00:44:12,040 Speaker 1: called SHAM colin how the self help movement made America 723 00:44:12,120 --> 00:44:16,919 Speaker 1: helpless And he kind of peeled back. He he didn't 724 00:44:16,920 --> 00:44:20,560 Speaker 1: hold any punches and kind of peeled back the the 725 00:44:20,560 --> 00:44:25,759 Speaker 1: thin layer on this industry and um basically said, there's 726 00:44:25,800 --> 00:44:29,760 Speaker 1: no science behind this, uh, these techniques, there's no evidence 727 00:44:30,480 --> 00:44:34,160 Speaker 1: that this stuff is effective at all. Um, it could 728 00:44:34,200 --> 00:44:38,200 Speaker 1: be just coincidence or people may not be uh maybe 729 00:44:38,200 --> 00:44:41,200 Speaker 1: are not helped by this industry at all. Right, And 730 00:44:41,239 --> 00:44:43,560 Speaker 1: he was saying, like just the law of Averages says 731 00:44:43,600 --> 00:44:46,920 Speaker 1: that if enough people try it, some of them are 732 00:44:46,920 --> 00:44:49,480 Speaker 1: going to be helped, and they may even be helped 733 00:44:49,520 --> 00:44:52,920 Speaker 1: just by other things or by things other than whatever 734 00:44:52,960 --> 00:44:55,360 Speaker 1: the motivational speaker was telling him to do, but it 735 00:44:55,360 --> 00:44:58,120 Speaker 1: will be attributed to the motivational speaker. And if you 736 00:44:58,160 --> 00:45:00,440 Speaker 1: get some people who are willing to give testam O'Neills, 737 00:45:00,680 --> 00:45:03,480 Speaker 1: then that just helps feed the beast, basically right. And 738 00:45:03,560 --> 00:45:06,919 Speaker 1: if you're not helped, then the common line as well, 739 00:45:07,000 --> 00:45:09,520 Speaker 1: you just you're not buying in like you can. Yeah, 740 00:45:09,560 --> 00:45:13,759 Speaker 1: this is where it gets insidious to me. It's where 741 00:45:13,480 --> 00:45:18,279 Speaker 1: the it's is built in self defense. I guess deflection 742 00:45:18,400 --> 00:45:24,600 Speaker 1: mechanism for for motivation the motivational speaking industry, which is, yeah, 743 00:45:24,840 --> 00:45:27,560 Speaker 1: you're not enough of a believer, you don't have enough passion, 744 00:45:28,120 --> 00:45:31,800 Speaker 1: you're um not trying hard enough, Like you're the problem, 745 00:45:31,960 --> 00:45:35,600 Speaker 1: you're failing, you're the loser, you're committed to losing. That's 746 00:45:35,600 --> 00:45:39,919 Speaker 1: another one too, and that's despicable to me. If you're 747 00:45:40,400 --> 00:45:43,799 Speaker 1: if you are deflecting blame from yourself and your own 748 00:45:44,600 --> 00:45:48,200 Speaker 1: shoddy product, that's not actually helping people onto somebody who 749 00:45:48,320 --> 00:45:51,560 Speaker 1: is really looking for help because they don't think that 750 00:45:51,600 --> 00:45:54,879 Speaker 1: they have the real strength and of in themselves too 751 00:45:55,400 --> 00:46:00,799 Speaker 1: to overcome the adversity they face. Okay, um, holding it back, man, 752 00:46:02,800 --> 00:46:05,720 Speaker 1: Well you said that great article, Three reasons why most 753 00:46:05,840 --> 00:46:08,560 Speaker 1: motivational speakers are dead wrong, And that was one of 754 00:46:08,560 --> 00:46:11,960 Speaker 1: the things that um that this author, Well did you 755 00:46:12,000 --> 00:46:16,960 Speaker 1: have his name? Uh? He is Hoffman. His name is 756 00:46:17,000 --> 00:46:20,080 Speaker 1: Bobby Hoffman. Yeah, that was one of the things he 757 00:46:20,080 --> 00:46:24,080 Speaker 1: brought up, that is that it's undebunkable basically because they 758 00:46:24,080 --> 00:46:27,759 Speaker 1: can always just put it back on the person do that. Yeah, 759 00:46:27,840 --> 00:46:30,239 Speaker 1: it's not good at all. No, So I mean, I 760 00:46:30,280 --> 00:46:34,120 Speaker 1: guess in a nutshell the and apparently in a nutshell 761 00:46:34,200 --> 00:46:38,319 Speaker 1: was Dale Carnegie thing. But in a nutshell the motivational 762 00:46:38,400 --> 00:46:43,319 Speaker 1: speaking industry, it can be good and can be bad depending. Yeah, 763 00:46:43,320 --> 00:46:45,239 Speaker 1: and I know we spent a lot of time in 764 00:46:45,280 --> 00:46:50,399 Speaker 1: retrospect now slamming it all. But um, like I said, 765 00:46:50,600 --> 00:46:52,960 Speaker 1: good for you. If you do have a legitimate sincere 766 00:46:53,800 --> 00:46:58,120 Speaker 1: hardship overcoming a hardship life story to tell and that 767 00:46:58,160 --> 00:47:00,600 Speaker 1: helps people out and you can make a buck doing it, 768 00:47:00,600 --> 00:47:02,719 Speaker 1: then I think that's awesome. Yeah. And again, if you're 769 00:47:02,760 --> 00:47:06,040 Speaker 1: somebody who's looking to be motivated by a motivational speaker. 770 00:47:06,440 --> 00:47:08,840 Speaker 1: If what somebody is saying makes a lot of sense 771 00:47:08,840 --> 00:47:12,680 Speaker 1: to you, it feels right, you feel good listening to them, 772 00:47:12,719 --> 00:47:16,239 Speaker 1: reading their books, hearing what they have to say. UM, 773 00:47:16,640 --> 00:47:19,799 Speaker 1: more power to you. I I don't knock that at all. No, 774 00:47:20,000 --> 00:47:23,759 Speaker 1: just tread lightly and go into it with a with 775 00:47:23,840 --> 00:47:27,120 Speaker 1: a intelligent I. There you go. I don't want to 776 00:47:27,160 --> 00:47:32,000 Speaker 1: see anyone get duped, you know. Okay, those our our 777 00:47:32,040 --> 00:47:35,880 Speaker 1: public service for the week. Goodness. Uh. If you want 778 00:47:35,960 --> 00:47:40,520 Speaker 1: to learn more about motivational speaking, type those words in 779 00:47:40,560 --> 00:47:42,440 Speaker 1: the search bar how stuff works dot com. And since 780 00:47:42,480 --> 00:47:46,600 Speaker 1: I said that, it's time for a listener mail, I'm 781 00:47:46,600 --> 00:47:50,320 Speaker 1: gonna call this ghost fishing follow up UM from Anthony 782 00:47:50,320 --> 00:47:54,520 Speaker 1: and Charlotte, North Carolina. Hey, guys, just finished ghost fishing 783 00:47:54,520 --> 00:47:56,799 Speaker 1: and glad you covered this really important topic of an 784 00:47:56,840 --> 00:48:00,080 Speaker 1: environmental scientist who studies fishing water in North Carolina. Have 785 00:48:00,120 --> 00:48:02,880 Speaker 1: worked in this field all over the country. While the 786 00:48:02,880 --> 00:48:06,759 Speaker 1: commercial fishing industry is extremely detrimental to marine life, recreational 787 00:48:06,760 --> 00:48:09,120 Speaker 1: fishing causes a lot of fish to die and freshwater 788 00:48:09,160 --> 00:48:11,360 Speaker 1: because of littering from it. And this is something I 789 00:48:11,480 --> 00:48:16,279 Speaker 1: really thought about as UM. Seldom fishermen many fishermen and 790 00:48:16,320 --> 00:48:21,320 Speaker 1: women throw little excess bits of line while tying knots 791 00:48:21,400 --> 00:48:23,120 Speaker 1: on the ground or in the water while the fishing. 792 00:48:23,800 --> 00:48:26,200 Speaker 1: This monofilament goes in the waterways, and if you look 793 00:48:26,239 --> 00:48:28,799 Speaker 1: into the gut of many fish, turtles, birds, and other 794 00:48:28,840 --> 00:48:31,680 Speaker 1: life associated with water, you almost always find this fishing 795 00:48:31,719 --> 00:48:36,200 Speaker 1: line and hooks stuck in the various biota or the 796 00:48:36,239 --> 00:48:40,200 Speaker 1: biota being stuck in the gear. I would highly recommend 797 00:48:40,239 --> 00:48:44,800 Speaker 1: fishermen and women, let's just say fisher people, uh, fisher 798 00:48:44,920 --> 00:48:47,799 Speaker 1: kings of fisher kings, to make sure they put this 799 00:48:47,880 --> 00:48:50,360 Speaker 1: extra line in their pocket to dispose of later, or 800 00:48:50,440 --> 00:48:53,120 Speaker 1: use an environmentally friendly nylon line that if they can 801 00:48:53,160 --> 00:48:56,040 Speaker 1: find it. This monofilament line just does not break down 802 00:48:56,040 --> 00:49:00,600 Speaker 1: over time like the nylon does. Just wanted to share 803 00:49:00,640 --> 00:49:02,520 Speaker 1: this with you all. Many people are unaware of the 804 00:49:02,560 --> 00:49:05,160 Speaker 1: harm they can do without meaning to these little bits 805 00:49:05,160 --> 00:49:06,799 Speaker 1: of line, and I hope it can help people be 806 00:49:06,920 --> 00:49:12,120 Speaker 1: more aware while they're fishing. Good Yeah, thanks Anthony from Charlotte. 807 00:49:12,160 --> 00:49:14,680 Speaker 1: I'd never really thought about that my own self, and 808 00:49:14,680 --> 00:49:20,520 Speaker 1: that's wrong. Yeah, good going, Anthony, much appreciated. If you 809 00:49:20,560 --> 00:49:22,680 Speaker 1: want to get in touch with us like Anthony did, 810 00:49:22,719 --> 00:49:25,480 Speaker 1: and give us a heads up on something We love 811 00:49:25,520 --> 00:49:27,880 Speaker 1: those You can tweet to us at s y s 812 00:49:27,960 --> 00:49:30,600 Speaker 1: K podcast or Josh, I'm Clark. You can join us 813 00:49:30,640 --> 00:49:33,520 Speaker 1: on Facebook at Facebook dot com, slash stuff you Should 814 00:49:33,520 --> 00:49:36,640 Speaker 1: Know or slash Charles W. Chuck Bryant. 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