Speaker 1: Welcome to Can't Flee Reckless, the production of iHeart Radio
Speaker 1: and the Black Effects, And just like that, we on
Speaker 1: the air. We're back with yet another carefully reckless episode
Speaker 1: with your girl Jess.
Speaker 2: Hilarious.
Speaker 1: And what I'll be doing, I'll be fixing mess or
Speaker 1: at least I'll be trying. We here with my girls tailor.
Speaker 1: Y'all say hey to Tay, Tay, say hey, what's up?
Speaker 2: You're anyway? Excuse me?
Speaker 1: Gruh anyway, So look, the last episode, Taylor was trying
Speaker 1: to tell me about this movie that was that star Lourel,
Speaker 1: Tiffany Hattish, comedian Eric Andre and I was telling her
Speaker 1: I did not see the movie. So I don't know
Speaker 1: why she keeps talking about it whatever, not why she
Speaker 1: keep talking about it, but she keep telling me, oh,
Speaker 1: you've seen it, you've seen it, and it's like, no,
Speaker 1: I didn't. But when she pulled up the trailer, I'm like, yes,
Speaker 1: I did, I've seen. I haven't seen the full movie.
Speaker 1: I've seen clips of it circulating online, but it's kind
Speaker 1: of like a jackass movie, like Bad Grandpa movie, because
Speaker 1: it involves real people who don't even know that they're
Speaker 1: filming the movie and That's why I thought it was
Speaker 1: like skits being shot because I've seen a few of them,
Speaker 1: a few of the skits with Eric Andre and also
Speaker 1: Tiffany Hadis. I didn't know that it was a movie
Speaker 1: and little rel was in it, So y'all need to
Speaker 1: watch it. That's actually a good watch.
Speaker 2: No, I bet it's funny, but that's something that you
Speaker 2: got to smoke and watch.
Speaker 3: Yes, I wouldn't love to get high watched that ship
Speaker 3: is great to watch.
Speaker 1: Yeah, you haven't seen Bad Grandpa because IVE seen this
Speaker 1: same from the makers?
Speaker 4: Are better?
Speaker 2: That movie funny?
Speaker 4: Is I wanted to make more movies like I.
Speaker 2: Know that movie is like that timeless. Yeah, I love it.
Speaker 2: And then the Ja. You haven't seen any of the
Speaker 2: Jackass movies.
Speaker 3: They funny too, Yeah, but I feel like the Jackass
Speaker 3: is more.
Speaker 4: I don't feel like they did the Princeville Public.
Speaker 1: In the Public No, No, yeah, that is. Do you
Speaker 1: know the show and Practical Jokers with the Four Guys.
Speaker 1: I think that's on Comedy Central or something like that.
Speaker 1: It's four guys and they prank. They go around the world,
Speaker 1: just prank the It's four friends and they prank motherfuckers
Speaker 1: all day.
Speaker 2: It's hilarious, hilarious for white dudes.
Speaker 3: And their friends and they just prank motherfuckers all day.
Speaker 3: That's hilarious.
Speaker 1: But I reference that show because that show puts you
Speaker 1: in the mind of that movie band Trip. Okay, but
Speaker 1: I mean before we jump into the mask. The funniest movie,
Speaker 1: Top three funniest movies in my opinion, Bridesmaids, Maids Yo,
Speaker 1: that movie long as ship, but it's funny.
Speaker 4: When they got diarrhea.
Speaker 2: Yes, yes, fnny. I love it.
Speaker 3: The funniest yes, cool, It's not McCarthy is funniest ship.
Speaker 3: But I wanted to that in my top three Top
Speaker 3: three probably would be Bad Trip.
Speaker 2: And then all right, come.
Speaker 4: On for real that I got.
Speaker 3: Up like this.
Speaker 2: It don't take much to make you crack up. Okay, Yeah,
Speaker 2: so what's the second? I feel like you just always
Speaker 2: love to laugh anyway.
Speaker 4: I don't know y'all think about.
Speaker 2: I don't lie.
Speaker 1: This is the most that you haven't laughed, though that's
Speaker 1: because you're pregnant. You know, this is the most you
Speaker 1: have not laughed. I ain't gonna lie.
Speaker 2: I'll be coming to hear y'all like, Haye, say, let's
Speaker 2: she be like hey, what's up. I'm ah.
Speaker 1: Usually she had the life of the motherfucking party, because
Speaker 1: we coming this bitch at five something in the morning
Speaker 1: to be on air from six to nine, and her
Speaker 1: ass usually.
Speaker 2: Be hey, guys, like y'all you know. Then she was like,
Speaker 2: it's not all right, that's right, you're right.
Speaker 1: That's how you talk, but that's how you act.
Speaker 4: I think wedding crashes is funny in this sense too.
Speaker 2: See, I never really got into wedding crazures. I think Vince.
Speaker 4: Vaughn could be stupid.
Speaker 2: Vis Vaughan funny as fuck?
Speaker 4: Are you talking about white movies?
Speaker 2: Excuse me? I think we're just talking about like movies
Speaker 2: all in general.
Speaker 1: So yeah, I think Friday will forever be in the
Speaker 1: top five.
Speaker 4: And then the interview is funny to me too.
Speaker 2: I've never seen an interview really like what about me too?
Speaker 2: Because what about step Brothers forty version? Like Nigga?
Speaker 4: You know what?
Speaker 1: I didn't like that everybody was hype over. Yeah, everybody
Speaker 1: was hype over that. I didn't really like Pineapple.
Speaker 4: Express, and that was that.
Speaker 2: I did not think that. And I love everybody, and
Speaker 2: I love Seth Rogan, I love.
Speaker 4: Even Whish my color was funny to me?
Speaker 2: This is the end? Is that supposed to be funny? Yes?
Speaker 1: Oh no, I'm thinking about it ends with us. I'm like, nah,
Speaker 1: that was kind of sad. But no, no, no, no,
Speaker 1: this is the end. Okay, no, no, this is the end.
Speaker 4: Guys, that's crazy.
Speaker 2: I don't look up the world.
Speaker 4: Okay, this is this came out along twenty thirteen. This
Speaker 4: doesn't look familiar.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it looks familiar, but I never saw it. Wait wait,
Speaker 1: wait what is that guy's name?
Speaker 2: Fuck?
Speaker 1: He was Caesar's dad and Planet other apes? I forget
Speaker 1: his name. James Frank Yes, Pineapple Express, like that really
Speaker 1: really really wasn't it could.
Speaker 4: Be funny though not? Trust wasn't that funny to me?
Speaker 3: Yes?
Speaker 1: All of them are funniest ship. It's just that that
Speaker 1: movie wasn't funny.
Speaker 2: This movie.
Speaker 4: I was high too, I remember I cried at the end.
Speaker 2: Oh man, what he was on SMS? No, I had
Speaker 2: a Molly?
Speaker 1: You had some fucking crack? What that is super crack? Yeah,
Speaker 1: but it isn't the drink. Oh yeah, you put cracking
Speaker 1: drinks Molly's fuck crack. Molly is a form of cocaine
Speaker 1: and it's like based so It's like, how do I
Speaker 1: know so much?
Speaker 2: I'm not sure, but.
Speaker 4: They put it in like I was drinking. They put
Speaker 4: it in the I never like just popped one.
Speaker 1: But so what you do, what you typically do is
Speaker 1: like you rub it on your gums, like in the
Speaker 1: inside of your mouth so you can get that that's
Speaker 1: a quicker hoigh. Hell yeah, that's how I know people
Speaker 1: to take it.
Speaker 2: Girl. Anyway, I don't get me started because I used
Speaker 2: to be a jockey bunky. Yeah, okay, but I did.
Speaker 2: But Mom makes me calm.
Speaker 4: I wasn't like hyper. I feel like.
Speaker 2: Molly behad me. I didn't feel like that girl.
Speaker 4: I was very relaxed.
Speaker 2: When you had a perk. What the fuck?
Speaker 1: Maybe yeah, you didn't have Molly, because no, Molly, it's
Speaker 1: like ecstasy.
Speaker 2: It like gets.
Speaker 3: Sure they remember I smoked a crazy blunt and then.
Speaker 2: What's what you mean crazy? What was it like?
Speaker 4: I don't know.
Speaker 3: It was just I it was weed.
Speaker 4: I'm just saying, like.
Speaker 2: You're extremely fucking high. It was just a.
Speaker 3: Strong And at the end of the movie, I started
Speaker 3: tearing up because I'm like, oh, you're to see it though,
Speaker 3: Oh all.
Speaker 2: Right, so this is the end.
Speaker 1: I have to watch, so is it a comedy that's
Speaker 1: emotional or so why did you cry?
Speaker 3: Because it could be emotional half seen it like depend
Speaker 3: depending on how you take it.
Speaker 4: Yeah, okay, everybody when they Houston at the end?
Speaker 1: Oh hell no? Really this before and after she died?
Speaker 1: When did thee come thirteen?
Speaker 4: When did she die?
Speaker 3: Oh?
Speaker 2: Hey, sirih, when did Whitney Houston die? Whitney Houston died
Speaker 2: February eleventh, twenty twelve.
Speaker 1: At ah, Oh yeah she died it year before the
Speaker 1: movie came out. Almost definitely, Okay, thank you, Sirih, go away.
Speaker 4: But it wasn't like, no, you didn't have to cry
Speaker 4: doing it because I see it again, It's not.
Speaker 2: No, you most definitely didn't have to cry.
Speaker 4: Yeah, but it was just like, oh, their friends.
Speaker 1: You had to see it, all right, So I go,
Speaker 1: I gotta watch it. If you love me, you'll listen
Speaker 1: to this commercial and then we'll be right back. But
Speaker 1: you know what, it's a lot of the same. A
Speaker 1: lot of them niggas do move us together all the time,
Speaker 1: like Seth and James Franco.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 2: I was saying, like the Adam Sandler bunch, like yeah.
Speaker 1: He has some really really good freaking movies like water Boy,
Speaker 1: by said Adam Sander will always be like one of
Speaker 1: my favorites by him, Happy Madison was funny.
Speaker 2: As ship, yo. Major Pain is in my top three too, Yes, Major,
Speaker 2: I like that movie every day.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that that ship is good. And I ain't gonna
Speaker 1: hold you Paper Soldiers. So my top three Paper Soldiers
Speaker 1: and Bridesmaids my top three, And if you want to
Speaker 1: keep on going, okay, you got Number four will be Friday.
Speaker 3: Uh, number five, Money Talks. No, No, Money Talks gotta.
Speaker 1: Be before fucking Bridesmaids. So my top three is Money
Speaker 1: Talks with Chris Tucker and Charlie Sheen. Uh, what the
Speaker 1: fuck did I say?
Speaker 4: He don't seen part I don't think it's money Talk.
Speaker 2: Funniest fuck yo.
Speaker 1: All Martin movies was funny and shit too, but Money
Speaker 1: Talks got it. I can watch that ship on repeat
Speaker 1: every day. Friday is number four, all right? So number one?
Speaker 2: What the fuck? I had two black movies? What the
Speaker 2: fuck did I say?
Speaker 1: Major Pain, Money Talks, Major Pains, Soldiers, Paper Soldiers, and
Speaker 1: Friday all right, and then Bridesmaids can be my number five. Look,
Speaker 1: but my top four is all black. I fucking love
Speaker 1: all the movies.
Speaker 4: M I don't know.
Speaker 2: That makes me want to just have a hot day.
Speaker 1: Why just go and watch movies. Me and my fiance
Speaker 1: love watching movies. Y'all love watching movies. Oh, I got
Speaker 1: to give you some big news, so after this episode,
Speaker 1: remind me to tell you.
Speaker 2: Okay, okay, good. So I'm about to start this story.
Speaker 1: All right, because we didn't talk. We spent the first
Speaker 1: time in this talk about movies and shit.
Speaker 2: All right, here we go.
Speaker 1: But we probably gave the listener to some great movies
Speaker 1: to watch and shit, so this is fine. Yeah, alright, alright,
Speaker 1: Hey Jess. So I'm a twenty five year old college student.
Speaker 1: I'm going to school to get my master's in business communications.
Speaker 2: I am currently engaged to my high school sweetheart. Oh.
Speaker 1: I proposed to her six months ago, and she joyfully
Speaker 1: accepted my proposal. However, paying back school loans and everything
Speaker 1: is the part I didn't anticipate having to do so quickly.
Speaker 1: So unfortunately, I won't be able to pay for the
Speaker 1: wedding that she wants. So I want to push the
Speaker 1: wedding back a little because she has to get their
Speaker 1: wedding that she wants. But I don't know how to
Speaker 1: tell her when I propose to her. I definitely was
Speaker 1: more financially stable, but life kind of hit me a
Speaker 1: few months ago, and I am unable to pay this
Speaker 1: expensive as wedding planner that my wife already hired. Ooh,
Speaker 1: and not to mention the freaking wedding expenses are driving
Speaker 1: me nuts. I am super close to taking out a loan,
Speaker 1: but that wouldn't be really smart right now, especially with
Speaker 1: what I'm trying to do to further my career. Okay,
Speaker 1: I got you, I know everything. We'll get better. All
Speaker 1: I need is one more year. I'm almost done school
Speaker 1: and then I can start grinding to give her that
Speaker 1: perfect dream wedding that she always talked about.
Speaker 2: I just don't know how to tell her.
Speaker 1: A part of me doesn't want to disappoint the love
Speaker 1: of my life, but I don't know what to do.
Speaker 3: Mmm. I kind of feel for him, very engaged.
Speaker 4: I know.
Speaker 1: That's what I always always like think about when it
Speaker 1: comes to like couples, Like I was about to say
Speaker 1: young couples, but young or old, you know what I mean?
Speaker 1: Like tying the not like getting married is not about
Speaker 1: everybody else, It's about you. You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: And I understand she wants a fairy tale wedding. Shit,
Speaker 1: I want a fairytale wedding and I'm gonna get that.
Speaker 1: But there is but between my schedule and Chris's schedule
Speaker 1: and just yo, we can't even agree on a fucking
Speaker 1: date because I got shows here and there, and then
Speaker 1: we want to make sure that our family is able
Speaker 1: to come. And it's so many thoughts about other people
Speaker 1: when planning a wedding, it's not really all about the
Speaker 1: bride in the groom because if it's a destination wedding, shit,
Speaker 1: how many of our family members are going to be upset?
Speaker 1: Because yea three three of them don't fly right, Two
Speaker 1: of them don't have you know, seventeen of them don't
Speaker 1: have passports like.
Speaker 3: The destination wedding And huh what you said? That's why
Speaker 3: I have but one destination wedding.
Speaker 2: You know I do, a lot of people don't have
Speaker 2: to come.
Speaker 1: Yeah, girl, me and you think the same motherfucking way,
Speaker 1: because I'm like, as long as both of my parents
Speaker 1: and my siblings, you know, and a feel of my
Speaker 1: cousins are there, I don't give a fuck, you know
Speaker 1: it of course my friends, but I don't really have
Speaker 1: many of those, so that's fine. Like me and my
Speaker 1: friends already travel together, so that's easy. But it's like,
Speaker 1: that's exactly why I want to do a destination wedding,
Speaker 1: having to account for so many people and have to
Speaker 1: when it's already stressful enough for the bride in the
Speaker 1: groom because we both paying, we're paying for our wedding.
Speaker 2: My dad was like, I'm not paying for that ship.
Speaker 2: You're just hilarious. I was like, fuck.
Speaker 1: But because it's like the bride's that was traditional, like
Speaker 1: for the bride dad to pay for it.
Speaker 2: Girl. When I found that show, I was like, shit,
Speaker 2: let me call my father. My father said, sh like,
Speaker 2: you ain't who you are. Where did that paying my
Speaker 2: whole wedding one day?
Speaker 4: Though? Where that tradition comes from?
Speaker 3: I have no idea, Because can't the groom's dad pay
Speaker 3: for the wedding?
Speaker 1: Why would the why would the Yeah who made that up?
Speaker 1: Or why can't they all just come together collectively? He
Speaker 1: had to Yeah, why can't both parents of each bride
Speaker 1: and groom? Why can't the set of parents for the
Speaker 1: the bride come together?
Speaker 2: Just I was.
Speaker 3: For marrying my daughter, so I'm gonna pay for the
Speaker 3: wedding or something.
Speaker 2: I don't know, like what if that was the dumb ship,
Speaker 2: what if that was it?
Speaker 1: I wonder if it was in a Bible. Yeah, I
Speaker 1: wonder if that's it, or maybe they ain't. Girl, You
Speaker 1: can you imagine how cheap a wedding was back in
Speaker 1: those times.
Speaker 2: I know the father's probably was like, girl, that's right.
Speaker 1: What happen the whole time beg in the Bible in
Speaker 1: abiuple days and people was trying to get married. The
Speaker 1: guy proposed and the wedding was so cheap, the bride's
Speaker 1: father was like, okad, and that started being the tradition.
Speaker 4: But I guess it's also everything back in the day.
Speaker 3: And I don't know if this is culturally or not
Speaker 3: if whites did the same thing, because in certain cultures,
Speaker 3: you know, it's it's not schedule, but set up, wedding, arranged, arranged,
Speaker 3: running like it's.
Speaker 2: Also grooming the daughter to.
Speaker 3: Be this way, and you're giving her like I don't know,
Speaker 3: it is kind of weird and it can't be like.
Speaker 4: That nowadays unless you know, you DJ Envy.
Speaker 1: Or Robert, right, But I think he should just sit
Speaker 1: down and tell her because, like he said, he was
Speaker 1: financially stable when he proposed to her, but he's not
Speaker 1: now life hit him marriage too, and exactly, you have
Speaker 1: to compromise times. Sometimes you have to push things back.
Speaker 1: Sometimes things are not gonna happen the way you want
Speaker 1: it to. But yes, y'all are engaged. That is still
Speaker 1: your partner, that is still your person, and you have
Speaker 1: to be able to take the highs with the lows
Speaker 1: and the loads with the highs. And I think because
Speaker 1: life did happen, he didn't. He didn't expect this, you
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. But life those you curves, you
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. So it's like, all right, sit
Speaker 1: down and talk to her. Hold up, Hold up, I
Speaker 1: know the shit getting good. But listen to just a
Speaker 1: couple seconds of a commercial. If you love me, you'll listen.
Speaker 1: And y'all were high school sweethearts, y'all been together for
Speaker 1: a while.
Speaker 2: You just proposed to her.
Speaker 1: Okay, cool, So now you're ready to take your relationship
Speaker 1: to the next level.
Speaker 2: However, life still be lifeing and she will understand, and
Speaker 2: she should understand.
Speaker 4: I guess how I'm looking at like you have to ring?
Speaker 2: Yeah, say you're married. Yeah, I'm sorry, I'm just same.
Speaker 1: No, because that's what Jocelyn and Stevie J did, That's
Speaker 1: what Yandy and Mendieces did.
Speaker 2: That's what everybody know.
Speaker 1: You can't just go around saying that, you right, that's
Speaker 1: what all the studs do with their bitches.
Speaker 2: You can't do that. You have to really go and
Speaker 2: consecrate the mind.
Speaker 4: But I'm just saying, what was she worried about?
Speaker 3: Like, you want the paperwork really like, because we're not
Speaker 3: going to change in your relationship.
Speaker 2: No, that's why I say.
Speaker 1: That's why I think he should sit down and he
Speaker 1: should talk to his fiance and he should say, look, babe,
Speaker 1: I know you want this fairytale wedding and I want
Speaker 1: to give it to you. Life hit me three months
Speaker 1: ago and I'm unable to pay. He said he can't
Speaker 1: even pay the wedding planner right now, and his wife
Speaker 1: already hired her. Maybe he was in a financial position
Speaker 1: where he could do that at one point, but he
Speaker 1: said student loans and everything. Not to mention, he probabed
Speaker 1: and he's a man, so he probably didn't open up
Speaker 1: about everything that he gotta pay with is probably in
Speaker 1: the other debt.
Speaker 2: He probably has other debt of Claire out too.
Speaker 1: He's probably the breadwinner in the house, so he's paying
Speaker 1: all the bills in the house probably so and not
Speaker 1: saying she don't work and she don't contribute, but I'm
Speaker 1: just saying, you know what I mean, if you take
Speaker 1: all of that and they don't have kids yet, you
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. But yeah, because I felt like
Speaker 1: they would have said that, but I mean, he would
Speaker 1: have said that.
Speaker 2: But I respect it. I respect what he's doing.
Speaker 1: At least he's trying to pay off these debts and
Speaker 1: these you know what I'm saying, because we just.
Speaker 2: He guy finished talking about marital debt. Once I marry you,
Speaker 2: my dad is your debt.
Speaker 1: So I think this he's doing her a big favor
Speaker 1: by trying to get out of all his debt before
Speaker 1: they try that, not officially anyway, but not for nothing.
Speaker 1: It should just be a simple conversation. Yeah, she may
Speaker 1: be disappointed, and that's totally natural. That's expected because she
Speaker 1: wants her wedding. But I think the longer he waits,
Speaker 1: the worst it'll be. I think he should go down
Speaker 1: and he should talk to her.
Speaker 2: He said.
Speaker 1: The only thing he needs is a year. I think
Speaker 1: that's cool. Yeah, he said, I just need another year.
Speaker 1: I'm about to be done with school, almost done paying
Speaker 1: these student loans off.
Speaker 2: I'm gonna grind.
Speaker 1: Right after I finished school, and then I'll be able
Speaker 1: to give her the wedding that she wants.
Speaker 2: Yes, that's ex but the way he talked to me,
Speaker 2: he can talk to her like that. He's very respectful.
Speaker 2: You know.
Speaker 1: He seems like he knows exactly what he wants to do.
Speaker 1: He has a plan. A man with no plan is worse,
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 3: I'm not saying it's not the worst, but it's let's
Speaker 3: just say, a man with a plan is better than a.
Speaker 2: Man with no plan.
Speaker 1: At least he has a plan. He already knows. He's considering. Yeah,
Speaker 1: he's considering her feelings. And he he's so afraid to
Speaker 1: let her down and disappoint her that he's like this
Speaker 1: big good time about he about to take out the loan,
Speaker 1: which would not be smart.
Speaker 2: And he even said that too, So don't do that.
Speaker 2: Don't fucking your credit to get a loan to pay
Speaker 2: for a wedding. The wedding is one day.
Speaker 3: People, I think people were too much like they worry
Speaker 3: about what other people will say.
Speaker 1: They worry about topping the best wedding. It's it's about
Speaker 1: public appearance and validation of whoever's going to be sitting
Speaker 1: in them seats.
Speaker 3: I wish that I kind of want it, like in
Speaker 3: a sense, it's small wedding. Okay, oh this is really
Speaker 3: close friendly.
Speaker 1: I don't want to I don't. I don't want a
Speaker 1: small wedding, but I want an intimate wedding.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I guess so.
Speaker 1: When I said I still wanted to be fairy tale like,
Speaker 1: but I only want maybe about fifty guests, I don't
Speaker 1: really want. Yeah, because we can still get what we want.
Speaker 1: It just don't gotta be a whole because that's when
Speaker 1: all the money come in. At how many guests, how
Speaker 1: many places? I mean, you know what I'm saying, all
Speaker 1: of that type shit decorations that you can finess so
Speaker 1: many You can get all that shit off Amazon, which
Speaker 1: you can be your own wedding plan if you got time.
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. You can buy everything wholesale.
Speaker 1: We got Ali Bye Bye, we got fucking team Move.
Speaker 1: We got so many things that you can just do.
Speaker 1: You just need the time to do it. Person like me,
Speaker 1: I don't have the time to do it, so I
Speaker 1: would have to hire a wedding planner or you know,
Speaker 1: a team or whatever. But that's where all the money
Speaker 1: come in at the more people y'all planning to invite
Speaker 1: to the motherfucking weddings. So I think you should just
Speaker 1: sit down and talk to her. Not only is she
Speaker 1: your fiance, it seems like she's your best friend.
Speaker 2: You know what I mean. She'll understand it, but I
Speaker 2: think you the only thing you can do.
Speaker 1: Is just be as transparent with her as you are
Speaker 1: being with me right now, and then give me an update.
Speaker 2: Let's figure it out. Should I send y'all little song song?
Speaker 2: You need a little song song? You know?
Speaker 4: My friends to get married?
Speaker 2: I know, right?
Speaker 1: Or would you be the only friend married if you
Speaker 1: were if you were married tomorrow, would you be the
Speaker 1: only friend married?
Speaker 4: My best friend she's married? But yeah, after me, you.
Speaker 2: Don't have any friends that are engaged? Nope, some not
Speaker 2: your friend? Cool and we to the end of another.
Speaker 2: You're not talking about yourself. I'm so I'm so.
Speaker 4: Totally yes you're engaged.
Speaker 3: But yeah, well yeah, I'm talking about y'all.
Speaker 2: See how I just did that right? I really want
Speaker 2: right friends?
Speaker 1: No, I said, you don't have any engaged friends? She thought,
Speaker 1: and I thought, she don't say other than you now
Speaker 1: she said.
Speaker 4: No the fuck?
Speaker 2: I hate.
Speaker 4: No. But I'm thinking about like my childhood friends.
Speaker 3: I'm so like, yeah, no, like they're in situations sure,
Speaker 3: but like.
Speaker 2: So are you the first to have a baby? Okay, okay,
Speaker 2: all right, you.
Speaker 1: Know, but but you will be the first one married
Speaker 1: because no, well not necessarily it will be oh you
Speaker 1: they always one another, yeah, okay, but everyone else because it's.
Speaker 4: Like the dad ha.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 2: And when they had that topic full of shipping, pissed. No,
Speaker 2: for sure, no one wants to.
Speaker 4: No one wants to.
Speaker 3: Everyone's scared to make that next step for whatever reason.
Speaker 3: But everyone wants to. Everyone wants to love.
Speaker 2: Damaged as a people, yeah we got.
Speaker 1: I've never seen so many polyamorous for all these different
Speaker 1: fucking labels putting put on everybody, and all they are
Speaker 1: is just cover up some motherfuckers getting hurt.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm scared scared, so now I'm polyamorous.
Speaker 1: No, nigga, you're just scared to put all your trust
Speaker 1: in one bitch because you got because a bitch hurt
Speaker 1: you before, but that's like, don't do that.
Speaker 3: You got over that hurt though, right, so and I
Speaker 3: get it, like I'm I'm not one to trust easily
Speaker 3: in a sense either, but like.
Speaker 4: You just get up and like I don't know, you know,
Speaker 4: And that's.
Speaker 1: That's that's my argument every damn Like yo, just a
Speaker 1: year ago, Taylor was well almost over a year ago,
Speaker 1: your ass was not you was like, I'm not trusting niggas.
Speaker 2: I'm not about to be celebrated. I don't, I don't give.
Speaker 3: The thing was out just over the bullshit th with
Speaker 3: like niggas just saying what like saying what you mean?
Speaker 3: Absolutely That's why I just lead to this. Your people
Speaker 3: don't lead with their intentions.
Speaker 1: And yes, like an alterio, motiv or an agenda, like
Speaker 1: it is weird. It definitely gets weird for sure. But
Speaker 1: update us, young fella. I I am very proud of you.
Speaker 1: I just want to say congratulations. You're about to be
Speaker 1: graduating with your masters, and your engaged with your you
Speaker 1: know to your beautiful best friend and you know your
Speaker 1: child's heart. So go talk to her, I mean your
Speaker 1: high school speart. Go talk to her and then let
Speaker 1: us know.
Speaker 2: What you come up with.
Speaker 1: And just like that, we've come to the end of
Speaker 1: yet another Catholic reckless episode, which girl Jess Hilarious and
Speaker 1: your girl Taylor say by the tailor, y'all and then
Speaker 1: say by Taylor, Alright, see y'all next week. Peace Can't
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