WEBVTT - Wedding Bell Blues

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome to Can't Flee Reckless, the production of iHeart Radio

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<v Speaker 1>and the Black Effects, And just like that, we on

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<v Speaker 1>the air. We're back with yet another carefully reckless episode

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<v Speaker 1>with your girl Jess.

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<v Speaker 2>Hilarious.

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<v Speaker 1>And what I'll be doing, I'll be fixing mess or

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<v Speaker 1>at least I'll be trying. We here with my girls tailor.

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<v Speaker 1>Y'all say hey to Tay, Tay, say hey, what's up?

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<v Speaker 2>You're anyway? Excuse me?

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<v Speaker 1>Gruh anyway, So look, the last episode, Taylor was trying

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<v Speaker 1>to tell me about this movie that was that star Lourel,

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<v Speaker 1>Tiffany Hattish, comedian Eric Andre and I was telling her

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<v Speaker 1>I did not see the movie. So I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>why she keeps talking about it whatever, not why she

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<v Speaker 1>keep talking about it, but she keep telling me, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>you've seen it, you've seen it, and it's like, no,

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't. But when she pulled up the trailer, I'm like, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>I did, I've seen. I haven't seen the full movie.

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<v Speaker 1>I've seen clips of it circulating online, but it's kind

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<v Speaker 1>of like a jackass movie, like Bad Grandpa movie, because

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<v Speaker 1>it involves real people who don't even know that they're

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<v Speaker 1>filming the movie and That's why I thought it was

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<v Speaker 1>like skits being shot because I've seen a few of them,

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<v Speaker 1>a few of the skits with Eric Andre and also

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<v Speaker 1>Tiffany Hadis. I didn't know that it was a movie

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<v Speaker 1>and little rel was in it, So y'all need to

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<v Speaker 1>watch it. That's actually a good watch.

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<v Speaker 2>No, I bet it's funny, but that's something that you

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<v Speaker 2>got to smoke and watch.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, I wouldn't love to get high watched that ship

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<v Speaker 3>is great to watch.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, you haven't seen Bad Grandpa because IVE seen this

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<v Speaker 1>same from the makers?

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<v Speaker 4>Are better?

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<v Speaker 2>That movie funny?

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<v Speaker 4>Is I wanted to make more movies like I.

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<v Speaker 2>Know that movie is like that timeless. Yeah, I love it.

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<v Speaker 2>And then the Ja. You haven't seen any of the

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<v Speaker 2>Jackass movies.

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<v Speaker 3>They funny too, Yeah, but I feel like the Jackass

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<v Speaker 3>is more.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't feel like they did the Princeville Public.

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<v Speaker 1>In the Public No, No, yeah, that is. Do you

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<v Speaker 1>know the show and Practical Jokers with the Four Guys.

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<v Speaker 1>I think that's on Comedy Central or something like that.

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<v Speaker 1>It's four guys and they prank. They go around the world,

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<v Speaker 1>just prank the It's four friends and they prank motherfuckers

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<v Speaker 1>all day.

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<v Speaker 2>It's hilarious, hilarious for white dudes.

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<v Speaker 3>And their friends and they just prank motherfuckers all day.

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<v Speaker 3>That's hilarious.

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<v Speaker 1>But I reference that show because that show puts you

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<v Speaker 1>in the mind of that movie band Trip. Okay, but

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<v Speaker 1>I mean before we jump into the mask. The funniest movie,

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<v Speaker 1>Top three funniest movies in my opinion, Bridesmaids, Maids Yo,

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<v Speaker 1>that movie long as ship, but it's funny.

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<v Speaker 4>When they got diarrhea.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, yes, fnny. I love it.

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<v Speaker 3>The funniest yes, cool, It's not McCarthy is funniest ship.

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<v Speaker 3>But I wanted to that in my top three Top

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<v Speaker 3>three probably would be Bad Trip.

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<v Speaker 2>And then all right, come.

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<v Speaker 4>On for real that I got.

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<v Speaker 3>Up like this.

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<v Speaker 2>It don't take much to make you crack up. Okay, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>so what's the second? I feel like you just always

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<v Speaker 2>love to laugh anyway.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know y'all think about.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't lie.

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<v Speaker 1>This is the most that you haven't laughed, though that's

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<v Speaker 1>because you're pregnant. You know, this is the most you

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<v Speaker 1>have not laughed. I ain't gonna lie.

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<v Speaker 2>I'll be coming to hear y'all like, Haye, say, let's

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<v Speaker 2>she be like hey, what's up. I'm ah.

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<v Speaker 1>Usually she had the life of the motherfucking party, because

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<v Speaker 1>we coming this bitch at five something in the morning

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<v Speaker 1>to be on air from six to nine, and her

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<v Speaker 1>ass usually.

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<v Speaker 2>Be hey, guys, like y'all you know. Then she was like,

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<v Speaker 2>it's not all right, that's right, you're right.

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<v Speaker 1>That's how you talk, but that's how you act.

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<v Speaker 4>I think wedding crashes is funny in this sense too.

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<v Speaker 2>See, I never really got into wedding crazures. I think Vince.

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<v Speaker 4>Vaughn could be stupid.

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<v Speaker 2>Vis Vaughan funny as fuck?

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<v Speaker 4>Are you talking about white movies?

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<v Speaker 2>Excuse me? I think we're just talking about like movies

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<v Speaker 2>all in general.

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<v Speaker 1>So yeah, I think Friday will forever be in the

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<v Speaker 1>top five.

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<v Speaker 4>And then the interview is funny to me too.

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<v Speaker 2>I've never seen an interview really like what about me too?

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<v Speaker 2>Because what about step Brothers forty version? Like Nigga?

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<v Speaker 4>You know what?

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't like that everybody was hype over. Yeah, everybody

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<v Speaker 1>was hype over that. I didn't really like Pineapple.

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<v Speaker 4>Express, and that was that.

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<v Speaker 2>I did not think that. And I love everybody, and

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<v Speaker 2>I love Seth Rogan, I love.

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<v Speaker 4>Even Whish my color was funny to me?

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<v Speaker 2>This is the end? Is that supposed to be funny? Yes?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh no, I'm thinking about it ends with us. I'm like, nah,

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<v Speaker 1>that was kind of sad. But no, no, no, no,

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<v Speaker 1>this is the end. Okay, no, no, this is the end.

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<v Speaker 4>Guys, that's crazy.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't look up the world.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, this is this came out along twenty thirteen. This

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<v Speaker 4>doesn't look familiar.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it looks familiar, but I never saw it. Wait wait,

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<v Speaker 1>wait what is that guy's name?

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<v Speaker 2>Fuck?

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<v Speaker 1>He was Caesar's dad and Planet other apes? I forget

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<v Speaker 1>his name. James Frank Yes, Pineapple Express, like that really

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<v Speaker 1>really really wasn't it could.

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<v Speaker 4>Be funny though not? Trust wasn't that funny to me?

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<v Speaker 3>Yes?

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<v Speaker 1>All of them are funniest ship. It's just that that

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<v Speaker 1>movie wasn't funny.

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<v Speaker 2>This movie.

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<v Speaker 4>I was high too, I remember I cried at the end.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh man, what he was on SMS? No, I had

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<v Speaker 2>a Molly?

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<v Speaker 1>You had some fucking crack? What that is super crack? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>but it isn't the drink. Oh yeah, you put cracking

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<v Speaker 1>drinks Molly's fuck crack. Molly is a form of cocaine

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<v Speaker 1>and it's like based so It's like, how do I

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<v Speaker 1>know so much?

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not sure, but.

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<v Speaker 4>They put it in like I was drinking. They put

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<v Speaker 4>it in the I never like just popped one.

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<v Speaker 1>But so what you do, what you typically do is

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<v Speaker 1>like you rub it on your gums, like in the

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<v Speaker 1>inside of your mouth so you can get that that's

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<v Speaker 1>a quicker hoigh. Hell yeah, that's how I know people

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<v Speaker 1>to take it.

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<v Speaker 2>Girl. Anyway, I don't get me started because I used

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<v Speaker 2>to be a jockey bunky. Yeah, okay, but I did.

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<v Speaker 2>But Mom makes me calm.

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<v Speaker 4>I wasn't like hyper. I feel like.

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<v Speaker 2>Molly behad me. I didn't feel like that girl.

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<v Speaker 4>I was very relaxed.

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<v Speaker 2>When you had a perk. What the fuck?

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe yeah, you didn't have Molly, because no, Molly, it's

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<v Speaker 1>like ecstasy.

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<v Speaker 2>It like gets.

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<v Speaker 3>Sure they remember I smoked a crazy blunt and then.

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<v Speaker 2>What's what you mean crazy? What was it like?

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 3>It was just I it was weed.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm just saying, like.

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<v Speaker 2>You're extremely fucking high. It was just a.

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<v Speaker 3>Strong And at the end of the movie, I started

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<v Speaker 3>tearing up because I'm like, oh, you're to see it though,

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<v Speaker 3>Oh all.

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<v Speaker 2>Right, so this is the end.

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<v Speaker 1>I have to watch, so is it a comedy that's

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<v Speaker 1>emotional or so why did you cry?

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<v Speaker 3>Because it could be emotional half seen it like depend

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<v Speaker 3>depending on how you take it.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, okay, everybody when they Houston at the end?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh hell no? Really this before and after she died?

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<v Speaker 1>When did thee come thirteen?

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<v Speaker 4>When did she die?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh?

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<v Speaker 2>Hey, sirih, when did Whitney Houston die? Whitney Houston died

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<v Speaker 2>February eleventh, twenty twelve.

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<v Speaker 1>At ah, Oh yeah she died it year before the

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<v Speaker 1>movie came out. Almost definitely, Okay, thank you, Sirih, go away.

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<v Speaker 4>But it wasn't like, no, you didn't have to cry

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<v Speaker 4>doing it because I see it again, It's not.

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<v Speaker 2>No, you most definitely didn't have to cry.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, but it was just like, oh, their friends.

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<v Speaker 1>You had to see it, all right, So I go,

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<v Speaker 1>I gotta watch it. If you love me, you'll listen

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<v Speaker 1>to this commercial and then we'll be right back. But

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<v Speaker 1>you know what, it's a lot of the same. A

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<v Speaker 1>lot of them niggas do move us together all the time,

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<v Speaker 1>like Seth and James Franco.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>I was saying, like the Adam Sandler bunch, like yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>He has some really really good freaking movies like water Boy,

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<v Speaker 1>by said Adam Sander will always be like one of

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<v Speaker 1>my favorites by him, Happy Madison was funny.

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<v Speaker 2>As ship, yo. Major Pain is in my top three too, Yes, Major,

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<v Speaker 2>I like that movie every day.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that that ship is good. And I ain't gonna

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<v Speaker 1>hold you Paper Soldiers. So my top three Paper Soldiers

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<v Speaker 1>and Bridesmaids my top three, And if you want to

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<v Speaker 1>keep on going, okay, you got Number four will be Friday.

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<v Speaker 3>Uh, number five, Money Talks. No, No, Money Talks gotta.

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<v Speaker 1>Be before fucking Bridesmaids. So my top three is Money

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<v Speaker 1>Talks with Chris Tucker and Charlie Sheen. Uh, what the

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<v Speaker 1>fuck did I say?

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<v Speaker 4>He don't seen part I don't think it's money Talk.

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<v Speaker 2>Funniest fuck yo.

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<v Speaker 1>All Martin movies was funny and shit too, but Money

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<v Speaker 1>Talks got it. I can watch that ship on repeat

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<v Speaker 1>every day. Friday is number four, all right? So number one?

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<v Speaker 2>What the fuck? I had two black movies? What the

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<v Speaker 2>fuck did I say?

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<v Speaker 1>Major Pain, Money Talks, Major Pains, Soldiers, Paper Soldiers, and

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<v Speaker 1>Friday all right, and then Bridesmaids can be my number five. Look,

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<v Speaker 1>but my top four is all black. I fucking love

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<v Speaker 1>all the movies.

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<v Speaker 4>M I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>That makes me want to just have a hot day.

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<v Speaker 1>Why just go and watch movies. Me and my fiance

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<v Speaker 1>love watching movies. Y'all love watching movies. Oh, I got

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<v Speaker 1>to give you some big news, so after this episode,

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<v Speaker 1>remind me to tell you.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, okay, good. So I'm about to start this story.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, because we didn't talk. We spent the first

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<v Speaker 1>time in this talk about movies and shit.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, here we go.

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<v Speaker 1>But we probably gave the listener to some great movies

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<v Speaker 1>to watch and shit, so this is fine. Yeah, alright, alright,

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<v Speaker 1>Hey Jess. So I'm a twenty five year old college student.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm going to school to get my master's in business communications.

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<v Speaker 2>I am currently engaged to my high school sweetheart. Oh.

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<v Speaker 1>I proposed to her six months ago, and she joyfully

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<v Speaker 1>accepted my proposal. However, paying back school loans and everything

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<v Speaker 1>is the part I didn't anticipate having to do so quickly.

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<v Speaker 1>So unfortunately, I won't be able to pay for the

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<v Speaker 1>wedding that she wants. So I want to push the

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<v Speaker 1>wedding back a little because she has to get their

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<v Speaker 1>wedding that she wants. But I don't know how to

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<v Speaker 1>tell her when I propose to her. I definitely was

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<v Speaker 1>more financially stable, but life kind of hit me a

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<v Speaker 1>few months ago, and I am unable to pay this

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<v Speaker 1>expensive as wedding planner that my wife already hired. Ooh,

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<v Speaker 1>and not to mention the freaking wedding expenses are driving

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<v Speaker 1>me nuts. I am super close to taking out a loan,

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<v Speaker 1>but that wouldn't be really smart right now, especially with

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<v Speaker 1>what I'm trying to do to further my career. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I got you, I know everything. We'll get better. All

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<v Speaker 1>I need is one more year. I'm almost done school

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<v Speaker 1>and then I can start grinding to give her that

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<v Speaker 1>perfect dream wedding that she always talked about.

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<v Speaker 2>I just don't know how to tell her.

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<v Speaker 1>A part of me doesn't want to disappoint the love

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<v Speaker 1>of my life, but I don't know what to do.

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<v Speaker 3>Mmm. I kind of feel for him, very engaged.

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<v Speaker 4>I know.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what I always always like think about when it

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<v Speaker 1>comes to like couples, Like I was about to say

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<v Speaker 1>young couples, but young or old, you know what I mean?

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<v Speaker 1>Like tying the not like getting married is not about

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<v Speaker 1>everybody else, It's about you. You know what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 1>And I understand she wants a fairy tale wedding. Shit,

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<v Speaker 1>I want a fairytale wedding and I'm gonna get that.

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<v Speaker 1>But there is but between my schedule and Chris's schedule

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<v Speaker 1>and just yo, we can't even agree on a fucking

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<v Speaker 1>date because I got shows here and there, and then

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<v Speaker 1>we want to make sure that our family is able

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<v Speaker 1>to come. And it's so many thoughts about other people

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<v Speaker 1>when planning a wedding, it's not really all about the

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<v Speaker 1>bride in the groom because if it's a destination wedding, shit,

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<v Speaker 1>how many of our family members are going to be upset?

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<v Speaker 1>Because yea three three of them don't fly right, Two

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<v Speaker 1>of them don't have you know, seventeen of them don't

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<v Speaker 1>have passports like.

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<v Speaker 3>The destination wedding And huh what you said? That's why

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<v Speaker 3>I have but one destination wedding.

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<v Speaker 2>You know I do, a lot of people don't have

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<v Speaker 2>to come.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, girl, me and you think the same motherfucking way,

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<v Speaker 1>because I'm like, as long as both of my parents

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<v Speaker 1>and my siblings, you know, and a feel of my

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<v Speaker 1>cousins are there, I don't give a fuck, you know

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<v Speaker 1>it of course my friends, but I don't really have

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<v Speaker 1>many of those, so that's fine. Like me and my

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<v Speaker 1>friends already travel together, so that's easy. But it's like,

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<v Speaker 1>that's exactly why I want to do a destination wedding,

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<v Speaker 1>having to account for so many people and have to

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<v Speaker 1>when it's already stressful enough for the bride in the

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<v Speaker 1>groom because we both paying, we're paying for our wedding.

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<v Speaker 2>My dad was like, I'm not paying for that ship.

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<v Speaker 2>You're just hilarious. I was like, fuck.

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<v Speaker 1>But because it's like the bride's that was traditional, like

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<v Speaker 1>for the bride dad to pay for it.

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<v Speaker 2>Girl. When I found that show, I was like, shit,

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<v Speaker 2>let me call my father. My father said, sh like,

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<v Speaker 2>you ain't who you are. Where did that paying my

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<v Speaker 2>whole wedding one day?

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<v Speaker 4>Though? Where that tradition comes from?

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<v Speaker 3>I have no idea, Because can't the groom's dad pay

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<v Speaker 3>for the wedding?

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<v Speaker 1>Why would the why would the Yeah who made that up?

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<v Speaker 1>Or why can't they all just come together collectively? He

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<v Speaker 1>had to Yeah, why can't both parents of each bride

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<v Speaker 1>and groom? Why can't the set of parents for the

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<v Speaker 1>the bride come together?

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<v Speaker 2>Just I was.

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<v Speaker 3>For marrying my daughter, so I'm gonna pay for the

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<v Speaker 3>wedding or something.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know, like what if that was the dumb ship,

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<v Speaker 2>what if that was it?

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<v Speaker 1>I wonder if it was in a Bible. Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>wonder if that's it, or maybe they ain't. Girl, You

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<v Speaker 1>can you imagine how cheap a wedding was back in

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<v Speaker 1>those times.

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<v Speaker 2>I know the father's probably was like, girl, that's right.

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<v Speaker 1>What happen the whole time beg in the Bible in

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<v Speaker 1>abiuple days and people was trying to get married. The

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<v Speaker 1>guy proposed and the wedding was so cheap, the bride's

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<v Speaker 1>father was like, okad, and that started being the tradition.

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<v Speaker 4>But I guess it's also everything back in the day.

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<v Speaker 3>And I don't know if this is culturally or not

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<v Speaker 3>if whites did the same thing, because in certain cultures,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, it's it's not schedule, but set up, wedding, arranged, arranged,

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<v Speaker 3>running like it's.

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<v Speaker 2>Also grooming the daughter to.

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<v Speaker 3>Be this way, and you're giving her like I don't know,

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<v Speaker 3>it is kind of weird and it can't be like.

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<v Speaker 4>That nowadays unless you know, you DJ Envy.

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<v Speaker 1>Or Robert, right, But I think he should just sit

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<v Speaker 1>down and tell her because, like he said, he was

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<v Speaker 1>financially stable when he proposed to her, but he's not

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<v Speaker 1>now life hit him marriage too, and exactly, you have

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<v Speaker 1>to compromise times. Sometimes you have to push things back.

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<v Speaker 1>Sometimes things are not gonna happen the way you want

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<v Speaker 1>it to. But yes, y'all are engaged. That is still

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<v Speaker 1>your partner, that is still your person, and you have

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<v Speaker 1>to be able to take the highs with the lows

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<v Speaker 1>and the loads with the highs. And I think because

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<v Speaker 1>life did happen, he didn't. He didn't expect this, you

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<v Speaker 1>know what I'm saying. But life those you curves, you

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<v Speaker 1>know what I'm saying. So it's like, all right, sit

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<v Speaker 1>down and talk to her. Hold up, Hold up, I

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<v Speaker 1>know the shit getting good. But listen to just a

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<v Speaker 1>couple seconds of a commercial. If you love me, you'll listen.

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<v Speaker 1>And y'all were high school sweethearts, y'all been together for

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<v Speaker 1>a while.

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<v Speaker 2>You just proposed to her.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, cool, So now you're ready to take your relationship

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<v Speaker 1>to the next level.

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<v Speaker 2>However, life still be lifeing and she will understand, and

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<v Speaker 2>she should understand.

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<v Speaker 4>I guess how I'm looking at like you have to ring?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, say you're married. Yeah, I'm sorry, I'm just same.

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<v Speaker 1>No, because that's what Jocelyn and Stevie J did, That's

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<v Speaker 1>what Yandy and Mendieces did.

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<v Speaker 2>That's what everybody know.

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<v Speaker 1>You can't just go around saying that, you right, that's

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<v Speaker 1>what all the studs do with their bitches.

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<v Speaker 2>You can't do that. You have to really go and

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<v Speaker 2>consecrate the mind.

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<v Speaker 4>But I'm just saying, what was she worried about?

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<v Speaker 3>Like, you want the paperwork really like, because we're not

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<v Speaker 3>going to change in your relationship.

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<v Speaker 2>No, that's why I say.

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<v Speaker 1>That's why I think he should sit down and he

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<v Speaker 1>should talk to his fiance and he should say, look, babe,

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<v Speaker 1>I know you want this fairytale wedding and I want

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<v Speaker 1>to give it to you. Life hit me three months

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<v Speaker 1>ago and I'm unable to pay. He said he can't

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<v Speaker 1>even pay the wedding planner right now, and his wife

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<v Speaker 1>already hired her. Maybe he was in a financial position

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<v Speaker 1>where he could do that at one point, but he

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<v Speaker 1>said student loans and everything. Not to mention, he probabed

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<v Speaker 1>and he's a man, so he probably didn't open up

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<v Speaker 1>about everything that he gotta pay with is probably in

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<v Speaker 1>the other debt.

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<v Speaker 2>He probably has other debt of Claire out too.

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<v Speaker 1>He's probably the breadwinner in the house, so he's paying

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<v Speaker 1>all the bills in the house probably so and not

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<v Speaker 1>saying she don't work and she don't contribute, but I'm

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<v Speaker 1>just saying, you know what I mean, if you take

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<v Speaker 1>all of that and they don't have kids yet, you

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<v Speaker 1>know what I'm saying. But yeah, because I felt like

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<v Speaker 1>they would have said that, but I mean, he would

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<v Speaker 1>have said that.

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<v Speaker 2>But I respect it. I respect what he's doing.

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<v Speaker 1>At least he's trying to pay off these debts and

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<v Speaker 1>these you know what I'm saying, because we just.

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<v Speaker 2>He guy finished talking about marital debt. Once I marry you,

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<v Speaker 2>my dad is your debt.

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<v Speaker 1>So I think this he's doing her a big favor

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<v Speaker 1>by trying to get out of all his debt before

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<v Speaker 1>they try that, not officially anyway, but not for nothing.

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<v Speaker 1>It should just be a simple conversation. Yeah, she may

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<v Speaker 1>be disappointed, and that's totally natural. That's expected because she

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<v Speaker 1>wants her wedding. But I think the longer he waits,

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<v Speaker 1>the worst it'll be. I think he should go down

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<v Speaker 1>and he should talk to her.

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<v Speaker 2>He said.

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<v Speaker 1>The only thing he needs is a year. I think

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<v Speaker 1>that's cool. Yeah, he said, I just need another year.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm about to be done with school, almost done paying

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<v Speaker 1>these student loans off.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm gonna grind.

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<v Speaker 1>Right after I finished school, and then I'll be able

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<v Speaker 1>to give her the wedding that she wants.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, that's ex but the way he talked to me,

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<v Speaker 2>he can talk to her like that. He's very respectful.

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<v Speaker 2>You know.

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<v Speaker 1>He seems like he knows exactly what he wants to do.

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<v Speaker 1>He has a plan. A man with no plan is worse,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm not saying it's not the worst, but it's let's

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<v Speaker 3>just say, a man with a plan is better than a.

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<v Speaker 2>Man with no plan.

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<v Speaker 1>At least he has a plan. He already knows. He's considering. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>he's considering her feelings. And he he's so afraid to

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<v Speaker 1>let her down and disappoint her that he's like this

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<v Speaker 1>big good time about he about to take out the loan,

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<v Speaker 1>which would not be smart.

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<v Speaker 2>And he even said that too, So don't do that.

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<v Speaker 2>Don't fucking your credit to get a loan to pay

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<v Speaker 2>for a wedding. The wedding is one day.

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<v Speaker 3>People, I think people were too much like they worry

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<v Speaker 3>about what other people will say.

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<v Speaker 1>They worry about topping the best wedding. It's it's about

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<v Speaker 1>public appearance and validation of whoever's going to be sitting

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<v Speaker 1>in them seats.

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<v Speaker 3>I wish that I kind of want it, like in

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<v Speaker 3>a sense, it's small wedding. Okay, oh this is really

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<v Speaker 3>close friendly.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want to I don't. I don't want a

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<v Speaker 1>small wedding, but I want an intimate wedding.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I guess so.

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<v Speaker 1>When I said I still wanted to be fairy tale like,

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<v Speaker 1>but I only want maybe about fifty guests, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>really want. Yeah, because we can still get what we want.

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<v Speaker 1>It just don't gotta be a whole because that's when

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<v Speaker 1>all the money come in. At how many guests, how

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<v Speaker 1>many places? I mean, you know what I'm saying, all

0:19:02.040 --> 0:19:05.520
<v Speaker 1>of that type shit decorations that you can finess so

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<v Speaker 1>many You can get all that shit off Amazon, which

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<v Speaker 1>you can be your own wedding plan if you got time.

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<v Speaker 1>You know what I'm saying. You can buy everything wholesale.

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<v Speaker 1>We got Ali Bye Bye, we got fucking team Move.

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<v Speaker 1>We got so many things that you can just do.

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<v Speaker 1>You just need the time to do it. Person like me,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't have the time to do it, so I

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<v Speaker 1>would have to hire a wedding planner or you know,

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<v Speaker 1>a team or whatever. But that's where all the money

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<v Speaker 1>come in at the more people y'all planning to invite

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<v Speaker 1>to the motherfucking weddings. So I think you should just

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<v Speaker 1>sit down and talk to her. Not only is she

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<v Speaker 1>your fiance, it seems like she's your best friend.

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<v Speaker 2>You know what I mean. She'll understand it, but I

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<v Speaker 2>think you the only thing you can do.

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<v Speaker 1>Is just be as transparent with her as you are

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<v Speaker 1>being with me right now, and then give me an update.

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<v Speaker 2>Let's figure it out. Should I send y'all little song song?

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<v Speaker 2>You need a little song song? You know?

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<v Speaker 4>My friends to get married?

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<v Speaker 2>I know, right?

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<v Speaker 1>Or would you be the only friend married if you

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<v Speaker 1>were if you were married tomorrow, would you be the

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<v Speaker 1>only friend married?

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<v Speaker 4>My best friend she's married? But yeah, after me, you.

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<v Speaker 2>Don't have any friends that are engaged? Nope, some not

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<v Speaker 2>your friend? Cool and we to the end of another.

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<v Speaker 2>You're not talking about yourself. I'm so I'm so.

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<v Speaker 4>Totally yes you're engaged.

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<v Speaker 3>But yeah, well yeah, I'm talking about y'all.

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<v Speaker 2>See how I just did that right? I really want

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<v Speaker 2>right friends?

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<v Speaker 1>No, I said, you don't have any engaged friends? She thought,

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<v Speaker 1>and I thought, she don't say other than you now

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<v Speaker 1>she said.

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<v Speaker 4>No the fuck?

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<v Speaker 2>I hate.

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<v Speaker 4>No. But I'm thinking about like my childhood friends.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm so like, yeah, no, like they're in situations sure,

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<v Speaker 3>but like.

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<v Speaker 2>So are you the first to have a baby? Okay, okay,

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<v Speaker 2>all right, you.

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<v Speaker 1>Know, but but you will be the first one married

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<v Speaker 1>because no, well not necessarily it will be oh you

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<v Speaker 1>they always one another, yeah, okay, but everyone else because it's.

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<v Speaker 4>Like the dad ha.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>And when they had that topic full of shipping, pissed. No,

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<v Speaker 2>for sure, no one wants to.

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<v Speaker 4>No one wants to.

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<v Speaker 3>Everyone's scared to make that next step for whatever reason.

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<v Speaker 3>But everyone wants to. Everyone wants to love.

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<v Speaker 2>Damaged as a people, yeah we got.

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<v Speaker 1>I've never seen so many polyamorous for all these different

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<v Speaker 1>fucking labels putting put on everybody, and all they are

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<v Speaker 1>is just cover up some motherfuckers getting hurt.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I'm scared scared, so now I'm polyamorous.

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<v Speaker 1>No, nigga, you're just scared to put all your trust

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<v Speaker 1>in one bitch because you got because a bitch hurt

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<v Speaker 1>you before, but that's like, don't do that.

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<v Speaker 3>You got over that hurt though, right, so and I

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<v Speaker 3>get it, like I'm I'm not one to trust easily

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<v Speaker 3>in a sense either, but like.

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<v Speaker 4>You just get up and like I don't know, you know,

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<v Speaker 4>And that's.

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<v Speaker 1>That's that's my argument every damn Like yo, just a

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<v Speaker 1>year ago, Taylor was well almost over a year ago,

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<v Speaker 1>your ass was not you was like, I'm not trusting niggas.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not about to be celebrated. I don't, I don't give.

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<v Speaker 3>The thing was out just over the bullshit th with

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<v Speaker 3>like niggas just saying what like saying what you mean?

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<v Speaker 3>Absolutely That's why I just lead to this. Your people

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<v Speaker 3>don't lead with their intentions.

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<v Speaker 1>And yes, like an alterio, motiv or an agenda, like

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<v Speaker 1>it is weird. It definitely gets weird for sure. But

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<v Speaker 1>update us, young fella. I I am very proud of you.

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<v Speaker 1>I just want to say congratulations. You're about to be

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<v Speaker 1>graduating with your masters, and your engaged with your you

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<v Speaker 1>know to your beautiful best friend and you know your

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<v Speaker 1>child's heart. So go talk to her, I mean your

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<v Speaker 1>high school speart. Go talk to her and then let

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<v Speaker 1>us know.

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<v Speaker 2>What you come up with.

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<v Speaker 1>And just like that, we've come to the end of

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<v Speaker 1>yet another Catholic reckless episode, which girl Jess Hilarious and

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<v Speaker 1>your girl Taylor say by the tailor, y'all and then

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<v Speaker 1>say by Taylor, Alright, see y'all next week. Peace Can't

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