1 00:00:00,200 --> 00:00:03,120 Speaker 1: Welcome to Can't Flee Reckless, the production of iHeart Radio 2 00:00:03,240 --> 00:00:17,119 Speaker 1: and the Black Effects, And just like that, we on 3 00:00:17,200 --> 00:00:19,560 Speaker 1: the air. We're back with yet another carefully reckless episode 4 00:00:19,600 --> 00:00:20,160 Speaker 1: with your girl Jess. 5 00:00:20,239 --> 00:00:20,639 Speaker 2: Hilarious. 6 00:00:20,640 --> 00:00:22,160 Speaker 1: And what I'll be doing, I'll be fixing mess or 7 00:00:22,200 --> 00:00:24,319 Speaker 1: at least I'll be trying. We here with my girls tailor. 8 00:00:24,360 --> 00:00:26,280 Speaker 1: Y'all say hey to Tay, Tay, say hey, what's up? 9 00:00:26,560 --> 00:00:28,240 Speaker 2: You're anyway? Excuse me? 10 00:00:30,040 --> 00:00:34,480 Speaker 1: Gruh anyway, So look, the last episode, Taylor was trying 11 00:00:34,520 --> 00:00:38,240 Speaker 1: to tell me about this movie that was that star Lourel, 12 00:00:38,440 --> 00:00:42,199 Speaker 1: Tiffany Hattish, comedian Eric Andre and I was telling her 13 00:00:42,320 --> 00:00:44,680 Speaker 1: I did not see the movie. So I don't know 14 00:00:44,680 --> 00:00:46,640 Speaker 1: why she keeps talking about it whatever, not why she 15 00:00:46,680 --> 00:00:47,960 Speaker 1: keep talking about it, but she keep telling me, oh, 16 00:00:47,960 --> 00:00:49,280 Speaker 1: you've seen it, you've seen it, and it's like, no, 17 00:00:49,320 --> 00:00:52,480 Speaker 1: I didn't. But when she pulled up the trailer, I'm like, yes, 18 00:00:52,680 --> 00:00:55,080 Speaker 1: I did, I've seen. I haven't seen the full movie. 19 00:00:55,200 --> 00:00:58,840 Speaker 1: I've seen clips of it circulating online, but it's kind 20 00:00:58,840 --> 00:01:03,000 Speaker 1: of like a jackass movie, like Bad Grandpa movie, because 21 00:01:03,040 --> 00:01:05,200 Speaker 1: it involves real people who don't even know that they're 22 00:01:05,240 --> 00:01:07,240 Speaker 1: filming the movie and That's why I thought it was 23 00:01:07,280 --> 00:01:10,000 Speaker 1: like skits being shot because I've seen a few of them, 24 00:01:10,040 --> 00:01:12,400 Speaker 1: a few of the skits with Eric Andre and also 25 00:01:12,720 --> 00:01:14,480 Speaker 1: Tiffany Hadis. I didn't know that it was a movie 26 00:01:14,480 --> 00:01:16,120 Speaker 1: and little rel was in it, So y'all need to 27 00:01:16,120 --> 00:01:17,640 Speaker 1: watch it. That's actually a good watch. 28 00:01:17,760 --> 00:01:19,280 Speaker 2: No, I bet it's funny, but that's something that you 29 00:01:19,280 --> 00:01:20,639 Speaker 2: got to smoke and watch. 30 00:01:20,720 --> 00:01:23,200 Speaker 3: Yes, I wouldn't love to get high watched that ship 31 00:01:23,319 --> 00:01:24,960 Speaker 3: is great to watch. 32 00:01:25,080 --> 00:01:27,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, you haven't seen Bad Grandpa because IVE seen this 33 00:01:27,319 --> 00:01:28,040 Speaker 1: same from the makers? 34 00:01:28,040 --> 00:01:28,399 Speaker 4: Are better? 35 00:01:28,600 --> 00:01:29,600 Speaker 2: That movie funny? 36 00:01:29,680 --> 00:01:31,920 Speaker 4: Is I wanted to make more movies like I. 37 00:01:31,959 --> 00:01:36,960 Speaker 2: Know that movie is like that timeless. Yeah, I love it. 38 00:01:37,120 --> 00:01:39,160 Speaker 2: And then the Ja. You haven't seen any of the 39 00:01:39,240 --> 00:01:40,000 Speaker 2: Jackass movies. 40 00:01:40,160 --> 00:01:44,520 Speaker 3: They funny too, Yeah, but I feel like the Jackass 41 00:01:44,680 --> 00:01:45,040 Speaker 3: is more. 42 00:01:46,440 --> 00:01:48,960 Speaker 4: I don't feel like they did the Princeville Public. 43 00:01:48,880 --> 00:01:52,120 Speaker 1: In the Public No, No, yeah, that is. Do you 44 00:01:52,200 --> 00:01:54,880 Speaker 1: know the show and Practical Jokers with the Four Guys. 45 00:01:54,920 --> 00:01:57,080 Speaker 1: I think that's on Comedy Central or something like that. 46 00:01:57,400 --> 00:01:59,440 Speaker 1: It's four guys and they prank. They go around the world, 47 00:01:59,480 --> 00:02:03,120 Speaker 1: just prank the It's four friends and they prank motherfuckers 48 00:02:03,120 --> 00:02:03,560 Speaker 1: all day. 49 00:02:04,440 --> 00:02:06,800 Speaker 2: It's hilarious, hilarious for white dudes. 50 00:02:07,440 --> 00:02:09,720 Speaker 3: And their friends and they just prank motherfuckers all day. 51 00:02:09,880 --> 00:02:10,640 Speaker 3: That's hilarious. 52 00:02:10,680 --> 00:02:14,160 Speaker 1: But I reference that show because that show puts you 53 00:02:14,200 --> 00:02:17,440 Speaker 1: in the mind of that movie band Trip. Okay, but 54 00:02:17,639 --> 00:02:21,200 Speaker 1: I mean before we jump into the mask. The funniest movie, 55 00:02:21,760 --> 00:02:28,040 Speaker 1: Top three funniest movies in my opinion, Bridesmaids, Maids Yo, 56 00:02:28,320 --> 00:02:32,760 Speaker 1: that movie long as ship, but it's funny. 57 00:02:31,760 --> 00:02:34,040 Speaker 4: When they got diarrhea. 58 00:02:34,639 --> 00:02:39,160 Speaker 2: Yes, yes, fnny. I love it. 59 00:02:39,240 --> 00:02:44,239 Speaker 3: The funniest yes, cool, It's not McCarthy is funniest ship. 60 00:02:45,960 --> 00:02:50,400 Speaker 3: But I wanted to that in my top three Top 61 00:02:50,440 --> 00:02:51,720 Speaker 3: three probably would be Bad Trip. 62 00:02:52,360 --> 00:02:53,600 Speaker 2: And then all right, come. 63 00:02:53,560 --> 00:02:55,680 Speaker 4: On for real that I got. 64 00:02:58,520 --> 00:02:59,639 Speaker 3: Up like this. 65 00:03:00,880 --> 00:03:05,080 Speaker 2: It don't take much to make you crack up. Okay, Yeah, 66 00:03:05,120 --> 00:03:09,240 Speaker 2: so what's the second? I feel like you just always 67 00:03:09,240 --> 00:03:10,240 Speaker 2: love to laugh anyway. 68 00:03:14,040 --> 00:03:15,040 Speaker 4: I don't know y'all think about. 69 00:03:15,040 --> 00:03:15,480 Speaker 2: I don't lie. 70 00:03:15,480 --> 00:03:16,960 Speaker 1: This is the most that you haven't laughed, though that's 71 00:03:16,960 --> 00:03:20,160 Speaker 1: because you're pregnant. You know, this is the most you 72 00:03:20,240 --> 00:03:21,560 Speaker 1: have not laughed. I ain't gonna lie. 73 00:03:21,919 --> 00:03:24,000 Speaker 2: I'll be coming to hear y'all like, Haye, say, let's 74 00:03:24,000 --> 00:03:25,680 Speaker 2: she be like hey, what's up. I'm ah. 75 00:03:26,120 --> 00:03:28,400 Speaker 1: Usually she had the life of the motherfucking party, because 76 00:03:28,400 --> 00:03:30,359 Speaker 1: we coming this bitch at five something in the morning 77 00:03:30,600 --> 00:03:33,200 Speaker 1: to be on air from six to nine, and her 78 00:03:33,280 --> 00:03:35,360 Speaker 1: ass usually. 79 00:03:35,040 --> 00:03:38,640 Speaker 2: Be hey, guys, like y'all you know. Then she was like, 80 00:03:38,840 --> 00:03:41,080 Speaker 2: it's not all right, that's right, you're right. 81 00:03:41,120 --> 00:03:45,480 Speaker 1: That's how you talk, but that's how you act. 82 00:03:45,600 --> 00:03:48,200 Speaker 4: I think wedding crashes is funny in this sense too. 83 00:03:48,520 --> 00:03:51,560 Speaker 2: See, I never really got into wedding crazures. I think Vince. 84 00:03:51,440 --> 00:03:53,640 Speaker 4: Vaughn could be stupid. 85 00:03:54,280 --> 00:03:55,440 Speaker 2: Vis Vaughan funny as fuck? 86 00:03:55,600 --> 00:03:56,880 Speaker 4: Are you talking about white movies? 87 00:03:57,680 --> 00:04:00,840 Speaker 2: Excuse me? I think we're just talking about like movies 88 00:04:00,840 --> 00:04:01,440 Speaker 2: all in general. 89 00:04:02,960 --> 00:04:09,200 Speaker 1: So yeah, I think Friday will forever be in the 90 00:04:09,280 --> 00:04:10,000 Speaker 1: top five. 91 00:04:10,120 --> 00:04:11,839 Speaker 4: And then the interview is funny to me too. 92 00:04:12,160 --> 00:04:16,800 Speaker 2: I've never seen an interview really like what about me too? 93 00:04:16,839 --> 00:04:20,640 Speaker 2: Because what about step Brothers forty version? Like Nigga? 94 00:04:21,360 --> 00:04:21,640 Speaker 4: You know what? 95 00:04:21,680 --> 00:04:24,240 Speaker 1: I didn't like that everybody was hype over. Yeah, everybody 96 00:04:24,279 --> 00:04:27,000 Speaker 1: was hype over that. I didn't really like Pineapple. 97 00:04:26,600 --> 00:04:28,360 Speaker 4: Express, and that was that. 98 00:04:28,839 --> 00:04:30,600 Speaker 2: I did not think that. And I love everybody, and 99 00:04:30,720 --> 00:04:32,159 Speaker 2: I love Seth Rogan, I love. 100 00:04:32,640 --> 00:04:34,159 Speaker 4: Even Whish my color was funny to me? 101 00:04:35,240 --> 00:04:39,159 Speaker 2: This is the end? Is that supposed to be funny? Yes? 102 00:04:39,360 --> 00:04:41,880 Speaker 1: Oh no, I'm thinking about it ends with us. I'm like, nah, 103 00:04:41,960 --> 00:04:44,040 Speaker 1: that was kind of sad. But no, no, no, no, 104 00:04:44,680 --> 00:04:50,200 Speaker 1: this is the end. Okay, no, no, this is the end. 105 00:04:50,360 --> 00:04:52,320 Speaker 4: Guys, that's crazy. 106 00:04:53,320 --> 00:04:55,599 Speaker 2: I don't look up the world. 107 00:04:56,200 --> 00:05:00,640 Speaker 4: Okay, this is this came out along twenty thirteen. This 108 00:05:00,640 --> 00:05:01,440 Speaker 4: doesn't look familiar. 109 00:05:02,040 --> 00:05:04,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, it looks familiar, but I never saw it. Wait wait, 110 00:05:04,880 --> 00:05:06,440 Speaker 1: wait what is that guy's name? 111 00:05:07,480 --> 00:05:07,760 Speaker 2: Fuck? 112 00:05:08,240 --> 00:05:11,119 Speaker 1: He was Caesar's dad and Planet other apes? I forget 113 00:05:11,120 --> 00:05:15,560 Speaker 1: his name. James Frank Yes, Pineapple Express, like that really 114 00:05:15,640 --> 00:05:17,440 Speaker 1: really really wasn't it could. 115 00:05:17,279 --> 00:05:20,919 Speaker 4: Be funny though not? Trust wasn't that funny to me? 116 00:05:21,120 --> 00:05:21,320 Speaker 3: Yes? 117 00:05:21,800 --> 00:05:24,200 Speaker 1: All of them are funniest ship. It's just that that 118 00:05:24,279 --> 00:05:25,240 Speaker 1: movie wasn't funny. 119 00:05:25,360 --> 00:05:26,000 Speaker 2: This movie. 120 00:05:26,520 --> 00:05:29,640 Speaker 4: I was high too, I remember I cried at the end. 121 00:05:30,000 --> 00:05:32,640 Speaker 2: Oh man, what he was on SMS? No, I had 122 00:05:32,640 --> 00:05:33,160 Speaker 2: a Molly? 123 00:05:35,640 --> 00:05:39,800 Speaker 1: You had some fucking crack? What that is super crack? Yeah, 124 00:05:40,000 --> 00:05:42,640 Speaker 1: but it isn't the drink. Oh yeah, you put cracking 125 00:05:42,720 --> 00:05:49,839 Speaker 1: drinks Molly's fuck crack. Molly is a form of cocaine 126 00:05:50,200 --> 00:05:54,000 Speaker 1: and it's like based so It's like, how do I 127 00:05:54,040 --> 00:05:54,560 Speaker 1: know so much? 128 00:05:54,720 --> 00:05:55,880 Speaker 2: I'm not sure, but. 129 00:05:57,680 --> 00:05:59,600 Speaker 4: They put it in like I was drinking. They put 130 00:05:59,600 --> 00:06:01,560 Speaker 4: it in the I never like just popped one. 131 00:06:01,640 --> 00:06:03,640 Speaker 1: But so what you do, what you typically do is 132 00:06:03,640 --> 00:06:05,640 Speaker 1: like you rub it on your gums, like in the 133 00:06:05,720 --> 00:06:07,839 Speaker 1: inside of your mouth so you can get that that's 134 00:06:07,839 --> 00:06:10,719 Speaker 1: a quicker hoigh. Hell yeah, that's how I know people 135 00:06:10,760 --> 00:06:11,919 Speaker 1: to take it. 136 00:06:14,720 --> 00:06:16,720 Speaker 2: Girl. Anyway, I don't get me started because I used 137 00:06:16,720 --> 00:06:19,360 Speaker 2: to be a jockey bunky. Yeah, okay, but I did. 138 00:06:19,520 --> 00:06:20,640 Speaker 2: But Mom makes me calm. 139 00:06:20,680 --> 00:06:22,560 Speaker 4: I wasn't like hyper. I feel like. 140 00:06:24,000 --> 00:06:28,400 Speaker 2: Molly behad me. I didn't feel like that girl. 141 00:06:28,760 --> 00:06:30,520 Speaker 4: I was very relaxed. 142 00:06:30,279 --> 00:06:31,960 Speaker 2: When you had a perk. What the fuck? 143 00:06:32,800 --> 00:06:36,280 Speaker 1: Maybe yeah, you didn't have Molly, because no, Molly, it's 144 00:06:36,320 --> 00:06:36,960 Speaker 1: like ecstasy. 145 00:06:37,000 --> 00:06:37,840 Speaker 2: It like gets. 146 00:06:37,600 --> 00:06:42,760 Speaker 3: Sure they remember I smoked a crazy blunt and then. 147 00:06:43,080 --> 00:06:44,840 Speaker 2: What's what you mean crazy? What was it like? 148 00:06:45,200 --> 00:06:45,600 Speaker 4: I don't know. 149 00:06:45,800 --> 00:06:50,000 Speaker 3: It was just I it was weed. 150 00:06:50,080 --> 00:06:51,120 Speaker 4: I'm just saying, like. 151 00:06:51,800 --> 00:06:54,680 Speaker 2: You're extremely fucking high. It was just a. 152 00:06:54,800 --> 00:06:58,520 Speaker 3: Strong And at the end of the movie, I started 153 00:06:58,560 --> 00:07:00,680 Speaker 3: tearing up because I'm like, oh, you're to see it though, 154 00:07:00,839 --> 00:07:01,600 Speaker 3: Oh all. 155 00:07:01,560 --> 00:07:02,640 Speaker 2: Right, so this is the end. 156 00:07:02,760 --> 00:07:05,080 Speaker 1: I have to watch, so is it a comedy that's 157 00:07:05,080 --> 00:07:07,200 Speaker 1: emotional or so why did you cry? 158 00:07:07,600 --> 00:07:12,640 Speaker 3: Because it could be emotional half seen it like depend 159 00:07:12,840 --> 00:07:14,160 Speaker 3: depending on how you take it. 160 00:07:14,400 --> 00:07:16,400 Speaker 4: Yeah, okay, everybody when they Houston at the end? 161 00:07:17,000 --> 00:07:20,520 Speaker 1: Oh hell no? Really this before and after she died? 162 00:07:21,000 --> 00:07:22,880 Speaker 1: When did thee come thirteen? 163 00:07:22,920 --> 00:07:23,680 Speaker 4: When did she die? 164 00:07:24,240 --> 00:07:24,800 Speaker 3: Oh? 165 00:07:25,000 --> 00:07:29,080 Speaker 2: Hey, sirih, when did Whitney Houston die? Whitney Houston died 166 00:07:29,160 --> 00:07:31,119 Speaker 2: February eleventh, twenty twelve. 167 00:07:31,160 --> 00:07:34,000 Speaker 1: At ah, Oh yeah she died it year before the 168 00:07:34,040 --> 00:07:36,520 Speaker 1: movie came out. Almost definitely, Okay, thank you, Sirih, go away. 169 00:07:38,040 --> 00:07:42,320 Speaker 4: But it wasn't like, no, you didn't have to cry 170 00:07:42,400 --> 00:07:43,800 Speaker 4: doing it because I see it again, It's not. 171 00:07:43,760 --> 00:07:45,040 Speaker 2: No, you most definitely didn't have to cry. 172 00:07:45,120 --> 00:07:48,320 Speaker 4: Yeah, but it was just like, oh, their friends. 173 00:07:48,040 --> 00:07:50,160 Speaker 1: You had to see it, all right, So I go, 174 00:07:50,680 --> 00:07:52,960 Speaker 1: I gotta watch it. If you love me, you'll listen 175 00:07:53,000 --> 00:07:56,520 Speaker 1: to this commercial and then we'll be right back. But 176 00:07:56,560 --> 00:07:58,520 Speaker 1: you know what, it's a lot of the same. A 177 00:07:58,520 --> 00:08:00,480 Speaker 1: lot of them niggas do move us together all the time, 178 00:08:00,480 --> 00:08:02,080 Speaker 1: like Seth and James Franco. 179 00:08:02,680 --> 00:08:02,880 Speaker 3: Yeah. 180 00:08:02,920 --> 00:08:05,960 Speaker 2: I was saying, like the Adam Sandler bunch, like yeah. 181 00:08:05,960 --> 00:08:08,920 Speaker 1: He has some really really good freaking movies like water Boy, 182 00:08:09,200 --> 00:08:11,320 Speaker 1: by said Adam Sander will always be like one of 183 00:08:11,320 --> 00:08:14,840 Speaker 1: my favorites by him, Happy Madison was funny. 184 00:08:14,520 --> 00:08:19,280 Speaker 2: As ship, yo. Major Pain is in my top three too, Yes, Major, 185 00:08:19,840 --> 00:08:23,760 Speaker 2: I like that movie every day. 186 00:08:24,640 --> 00:08:26,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, that that ship is good. And I ain't gonna 187 00:08:26,840 --> 00:08:34,480 Speaker 1: hold you Paper Soldiers. So my top three Paper Soldiers 188 00:08:35,720 --> 00:08:38,240 Speaker 1: and Bridesmaids my top three, And if you want to 189 00:08:38,320 --> 00:08:41,120 Speaker 1: keep on going, okay, you got Number four will be Friday. 190 00:08:41,840 --> 00:08:46,760 Speaker 3: Uh, number five, Money Talks. No, No, Money Talks gotta. 191 00:08:46,440 --> 00:08:51,160 Speaker 1: Be before fucking Bridesmaids. So my top three is Money 192 00:08:51,160 --> 00:08:57,120 Speaker 1: Talks with Chris Tucker and Charlie Sheen. Uh, what the 193 00:08:57,120 --> 00:08:57,679 Speaker 1: fuck did I say? 194 00:08:57,800 --> 00:09:00,080 Speaker 4: He don't seen part I don't think it's money Talk. 195 00:09:00,400 --> 00:09:01,400 Speaker 2: Funniest fuck yo. 196 00:09:02,160 --> 00:09:04,800 Speaker 1: All Martin movies was funny and shit too, but Money 197 00:09:04,840 --> 00:09:07,040 Speaker 1: Talks got it. I can watch that ship on repeat 198 00:09:07,080 --> 00:09:10,880 Speaker 1: every day. Friday is number four, all right? So number one? 199 00:09:11,040 --> 00:09:13,280 Speaker 2: What the fuck? I had two black movies? What the 200 00:09:13,280 --> 00:09:14,000 Speaker 2: fuck did I say? 201 00:09:15,040 --> 00:09:19,960 Speaker 1: Major Pain, Money Talks, Major Pains, Soldiers, Paper Soldiers, and 202 00:09:20,040 --> 00:09:23,840 Speaker 1: Friday all right, and then Bridesmaids can be my number five. Look, 203 00:09:23,880 --> 00:09:27,160 Speaker 1: but my top four is all black. I fucking love 204 00:09:27,840 --> 00:09:28,520 Speaker 1: all the movies. 205 00:09:29,160 --> 00:09:30,800 Speaker 4: M I don't know. 206 00:09:30,880 --> 00:09:32,480 Speaker 2: That makes me want to just have a hot day. 207 00:09:33,120 --> 00:09:35,520 Speaker 1: Why just go and watch movies. Me and my fiance 208 00:09:35,720 --> 00:09:39,280 Speaker 1: love watching movies. Y'all love watching movies. Oh, I got 209 00:09:39,280 --> 00:09:41,640 Speaker 1: to give you some big news, so after this episode, 210 00:09:41,840 --> 00:09:42,600 Speaker 1: remind me to tell you. 211 00:09:42,720 --> 00:09:47,480 Speaker 2: Okay, okay, good. So I'm about to start this story. 212 00:09:47,880 --> 00:09:49,800 Speaker 1: All right, because we didn't talk. We spent the first 213 00:09:49,800 --> 00:09:51,080 Speaker 1: time in this talk about movies and shit. 214 00:09:51,320 --> 00:09:51,880 Speaker 2: All right, here we go. 215 00:09:52,040 --> 00:09:53,839 Speaker 1: But we probably gave the listener to some great movies 216 00:09:53,840 --> 00:09:57,439 Speaker 1: to watch and shit, so this is fine. Yeah, alright, alright, 217 00:09:59,120 --> 00:10:01,920 Speaker 1: Hey Jess. So I'm a twenty five year old college student. 218 00:10:02,640 --> 00:10:05,680 Speaker 1: I'm going to school to get my master's in business communications. 219 00:10:06,720 --> 00:10:10,280 Speaker 2: I am currently engaged to my high school sweetheart. Oh. 220 00:10:10,320 --> 00:10:12,760 Speaker 1: I proposed to her six months ago, and she joyfully 221 00:10:12,760 --> 00:10:17,240 Speaker 1: accepted my proposal. However, paying back school loans and everything 222 00:10:17,360 --> 00:10:20,400 Speaker 1: is the part I didn't anticipate having to do so quickly. 223 00:10:20,760 --> 00:10:23,640 Speaker 1: So unfortunately, I won't be able to pay for the 224 00:10:23,640 --> 00:10:26,560 Speaker 1: wedding that she wants. So I want to push the 225 00:10:26,600 --> 00:10:29,040 Speaker 1: wedding back a little because she has to get their 226 00:10:29,080 --> 00:10:31,800 Speaker 1: wedding that she wants. But I don't know how to 227 00:10:31,880 --> 00:10:34,560 Speaker 1: tell her when I propose to her. I definitely was 228 00:10:34,600 --> 00:10:37,480 Speaker 1: more financially stable, but life kind of hit me a 229 00:10:37,520 --> 00:10:41,280 Speaker 1: few months ago, and I am unable to pay this 230 00:10:41,480 --> 00:10:46,160 Speaker 1: expensive as wedding planner that my wife already hired. Ooh, 231 00:10:46,280 --> 00:10:49,600 Speaker 1: and not to mention the freaking wedding expenses are driving 232 00:10:49,640 --> 00:10:52,280 Speaker 1: me nuts. I am super close to taking out a loan, 233 00:10:52,440 --> 00:10:55,760 Speaker 1: but that wouldn't be really smart right now, especially with 234 00:10:55,800 --> 00:10:58,480 Speaker 1: what I'm trying to do to further my career. Okay, 235 00:10:58,480 --> 00:11:01,199 Speaker 1: I got you, I know everything. We'll get better. All 236 00:11:01,240 --> 00:11:03,720 Speaker 1: I need is one more year. I'm almost done school 237 00:11:03,800 --> 00:11:05,960 Speaker 1: and then I can start grinding to give her that 238 00:11:06,040 --> 00:11:08,280 Speaker 1: perfect dream wedding that she always talked about. 239 00:11:08,920 --> 00:11:10,439 Speaker 2: I just don't know how to tell her. 240 00:11:10,600 --> 00:11:12,600 Speaker 1: A part of me doesn't want to disappoint the love 241 00:11:12,640 --> 00:11:14,480 Speaker 1: of my life, but I don't know what to do. 242 00:11:14,880 --> 00:11:19,559 Speaker 3: Mmm. I kind of feel for him, very engaged. 243 00:11:21,360 --> 00:11:21,679 Speaker 4: I know. 244 00:11:21,760 --> 00:11:25,640 Speaker 1: That's what I always always like think about when it 245 00:11:25,720 --> 00:11:29,559 Speaker 1: comes to like couples, Like I was about to say 246 00:11:29,600 --> 00:11:32,439 Speaker 1: young couples, but young or old, you know what I mean? 247 00:11:32,520 --> 00:11:36,720 Speaker 1: Like tying the not like getting married is not about 248 00:11:36,760 --> 00:11:39,440 Speaker 1: everybody else, It's about you. You know what I'm saying. 249 00:11:39,480 --> 00:11:42,640 Speaker 1: And I understand she wants a fairy tale wedding. Shit, 250 00:11:42,679 --> 00:11:44,440 Speaker 1: I want a fairytale wedding and I'm gonna get that. 251 00:11:44,600 --> 00:11:47,640 Speaker 1: But there is but between my schedule and Chris's schedule 252 00:11:47,679 --> 00:11:49,880 Speaker 1: and just yo, we can't even agree on a fucking 253 00:11:50,000 --> 00:11:53,679 Speaker 1: date because I got shows here and there, and then 254 00:11:53,679 --> 00:11:55,400 Speaker 1: we want to make sure that our family is able 255 00:11:55,440 --> 00:11:58,880 Speaker 1: to come. And it's so many thoughts about other people 256 00:11:59,000 --> 00:12:02,280 Speaker 1: when planning a wedding, it's not really all about the 257 00:12:02,320 --> 00:12:05,680 Speaker 1: bride in the groom because if it's a destination wedding, shit, 258 00:12:05,760 --> 00:12:07,640 Speaker 1: how many of our family members are going to be upset? 259 00:12:07,640 --> 00:12:11,000 Speaker 1: Because yea three three of them don't fly right, Two 260 00:12:11,000 --> 00:12:13,360 Speaker 1: of them don't have you know, seventeen of them don't 261 00:12:13,360 --> 00:12:14,480 Speaker 1: have passports like. 262 00:12:14,679 --> 00:12:19,240 Speaker 3: The destination wedding And huh what you said? That's why 263 00:12:19,200 --> 00:12:20,520 Speaker 3: I have but one destination wedding. 264 00:12:20,600 --> 00:12:23,440 Speaker 2: You know I do, a lot of people don't have 265 00:12:23,440 --> 00:12:23,679 Speaker 2: to come. 266 00:12:23,760 --> 00:12:26,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, girl, me and you think the same motherfucking way, 267 00:12:26,840 --> 00:12:28,760 Speaker 1: because I'm like, as long as both of my parents 268 00:12:28,800 --> 00:12:32,079 Speaker 1: and my siblings, you know, and a feel of my 269 00:12:32,120 --> 00:12:34,480 Speaker 1: cousins are there, I don't give a fuck, you know 270 00:12:34,559 --> 00:12:36,200 Speaker 1: it of course my friends, but I don't really have 271 00:12:36,240 --> 00:12:37,840 Speaker 1: many of those, so that's fine. Like me and my 272 00:12:37,840 --> 00:12:40,640 Speaker 1: friends already travel together, so that's easy. But it's like, 273 00:12:40,720 --> 00:12:43,120 Speaker 1: that's exactly why I want to do a destination wedding, 274 00:12:43,520 --> 00:12:45,680 Speaker 1: having to account for so many people and have to 275 00:12:45,960 --> 00:12:48,960 Speaker 1: when it's already stressful enough for the bride in the 276 00:12:48,960 --> 00:12:51,120 Speaker 1: groom because we both paying, we're paying for our wedding. 277 00:12:51,120 --> 00:12:52,320 Speaker 2: My dad was like, I'm not paying for that ship. 278 00:12:52,360 --> 00:12:54,160 Speaker 2: You're just hilarious. I was like, fuck. 279 00:12:54,640 --> 00:12:59,360 Speaker 1: But because it's like the bride's that was traditional, like 280 00:12:59,480 --> 00:13:01,080 Speaker 1: for the bride dad to pay for it. 281 00:13:01,760 --> 00:13:03,520 Speaker 2: Girl. When I found that show, I was like, shit, 282 00:13:03,600 --> 00:13:07,400 Speaker 2: let me call my father. My father said, sh like, 283 00:13:07,559 --> 00:13:10,120 Speaker 2: you ain't who you are. Where did that paying my 284 00:13:10,160 --> 00:13:11,280 Speaker 2: whole wedding one day? 285 00:13:11,280 --> 00:13:13,360 Speaker 4: Though? Where that tradition comes from? 286 00:13:13,720 --> 00:13:17,240 Speaker 3: I have no idea, Because can't the groom's dad pay 287 00:13:17,320 --> 00:13:17,880 Speaker 3: for the wedding? 288 00:13:17,920 --> 00:13:21,600 Speaker 1: Why would the why would the Yeah who made that up? 289 00:13:22,240 --> 00:13:24,760 Speaker 1: Or why can't they all just come together collectively? He 290 00:13:24,840 --> 00:13:27,960 Speaker 1: had to Yeah, why can't both parents of each bride 291 00:13:27,960 --> 00:13:31,240 Speaker 1: and groom? Why can't the set of parents for the 292 00:13:31,240 --> 00:13:32,440 Speaker 1: the bride come together? 293 00:13:32,920 --> 00:13:33,480 Speaker 2: Just I was. 294 00:13:35,200 --> 00:13:38,240 Speaker 3: For marrying my daughter, so I'm gonna pay for the 295 00:13:38,240 --> 00:13:38,959 Speaker 3: wedding or something. 296 00:13:39,040 --> 00:13:41,160 Speaker 2: I don't know, like what if that was the dumb ship, 297 00:13:41,280 --> 00:13:42,000 Speaker 2: what if that was it? 298 00:13:42,040 --> 00:13:44,400 Speaker 1: I wonder if it was in a Bible. Yeah, I 299 00:13:44,840 --> 00:13:48,240 Speaker 1: wonder if that's it, or maybe they ain't. Girl, You 300 00:13:48,520 --> 00:13:50,599 Speaker 1: can you imagine how cheap a wedding was back in 301 00:13:50,640 --> 00:13:51,160 Speaker 1: those times. 302 00:13:52,120 --> 00:13:56,920 Speaker 2: I know the father's probably was like, girl, that's right. 303 00:13:57,000 --> 00:14:00,040 Speaker 1: What happen the whole time beg in the Bible in 304 00:14:00,040 --> 00:14:02,720 Speaker 1: abiuple days and people was trying to get married. The 305 00:14:02,760 --> 00:14:06,199 Speaker 1: guy proposed and the wedding was so cheap, the bride's 306 00:14:06,200 --> 00:14:09,920 Speaker 1: father was like, okad, and that started being the tradition. 307 00:14:11,120 --> 00:14:13,199 Speaker 4: But I guess it's also everything back in the day. 308 00:14:13,240 --> 00:14:15,240 Speaker 3: And I don't know if this is culturally or not 309 00:14:15,679 --> 00:14:21,840 Speaker 3: if whites did the same thing, because in certain cultures, 310 00:14:21,880 --> 00:14:28,120 Speaker 3: you know, it's it's not schedule, but set up, wedding, arranged, arranged, 311 00:14:28,160 --> 00:14:30,280 Speaker 3: running like it's. 312 00:14:30,120 --> 00:14:33,520 Speaker 2: Also grooming the daughter to. 313 00:14:33,560 --> 00:14:36,440 Speaker 3: Be this way, and you're giving her like I don't know, 314 00:14:37,960 --> 00:14:39,520 Speaker 3: it is kind of weird and it can't be like. 315 00:14:39,480 --> 00:14:43,400 Speaker 4: That nowadays unless you know, you DJ Envy. 316 00:14:43,280 --> 00:14:47,800 Speaker 1: Or Robert, right, But I think he should just sit 317 00:14:47,840 --> 00:14:49,840 Speaker 1: down and tell her because, like he said, he was 318 00:14:49,880 --> 00:14:54,280 Speaker 1: financially stable when he proposed to her, but he's not 319 00:14:54,400 --> 00:14:59,200 Speaker 1: now life hit him marriage too, and exactly, you have 320 00:14:59,280 --> 00:15:01,560 Speaker 1: to compromise times. Sometimes you have to push things back. 321 00:15:01,600 --> 00:15:03,720 Speaker 1: Sometimes things are not gonna happen the way you want 322 00:15:03,760 --> 00:15:07,080 Speaker 1: it to. But yes, y'all are engaged. That is still 323 00:15:07,080 --> 00:15:08,960 Speaker 1: your partner, that is still your person, and you have 324 00:15:09,040 --> 00:15:10,960 Speaker 1: to be able to take the highs with the lows 325 00:15:11,000 --> 00:15:13,120 Speaker 1: and the loads with the highs. And I think because 326 00:15:13,200 --> 00:15:16,960 Speaker 1: life did happen, he didn't. He didn't expect this, you 327 00:15:16,960 --> 00:15:18,640 Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. But life those you curves, you 328 00:15:18,640 --> 00:15:20,840 Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. So it's like, all right, sit 329 00:15:20,880 --> 00:15:22,800 Speaker 1: down and talk to her. Hold up, Hold up, I 330 00:15:22,800 --> 00:15:24,800 Speaker 1: know the shit getting good. But listen to just a 331 00:15:24,840 --> 00:15:27,320 Speaker 1: couple seconds of a commercial. If you love me, you'll listen. 332 00:15:28,480 --> 00:15:31,040 Speaker 1: And y'all were high school sweethearts, y'all been together for 333 00:15:31,080 --> 00:15:31,440 Speaker 1: a while. 334 00:15:31,480 --> 00:15:32,440 Speaker 2: You just proposed to her. 335 00:15:32,520 --> 00:15:34,880 Speaker 1: Okay, cool, So now you're ready to take your relationship 336 00:15:34,960 --> 00:15:35,800 Speaker 1: to the next level. 337 00:15:36,120 --> 00:15:39,280 Speaker 2: However, life still be lifeing and she will understand, and 338 00:15:39,600 --> 00:15:40,600 Speaker 2: she should understand. 339 00:15:40,640 --> 00:15:43,280 Speaker 4: I guess how I'm looking at like you have to ring? 340 00:15:43,960 --> 00:15:47,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, say you're married. Yeah, I'm sorry, I'm just same. 341 00:15:48,000 --> 00:15:49,960 Speaker 1: No, because that's what Jocelyn and Stevie J did, That's 342 00:15:49,960 --> 00:15:51,200 Speaker 1: what Yandy and Mendieces did. 343 00:15:51,240 --> 00:15:52,040 Speaker 2: That's what everybody know. 344 00:15:52,040 --> 00:15:53,720 Speaker 1: You can't just go around saying that, you right, that's 345 00:15:53,720 --> 00:15:55,160 Speaker 1: what all the studs do with their bitches. 346 00:15:55,200 --> 00:15:57,360 Speaker 2: You can't do that. You have to really go and 347 00:15:57,440 --> 00:15:58,360 Speaker 2: consecrate the mind. 348 00:15:58,760 --> 00:16:01,920 Speaker 4: But I'm just saying, what was she worried about? 349 00:16:03,520 --> 00:16:06,520 Speaker 3: Like, you want the paperwork really like, because we're not 350 00:16:06,600 --> 00:16:08,000 Speaker 3: going to change in your relationship. 351 00:16:08,080 --> 00:16:08,880 Speaker 2: No, that's why I say. 352 00:16:08,960 --> 00:16:10,520 Speaker 1: That's why I think he should sit down and he 353 00:16:10,520 --> 00:16:13,000 Speaker 1: should talk to his fiance and he should say, look, babe, 354 00:16:13,480 --> 00:16:15,880 Speaker 1: I know you want this fairytale wedding and I want 355 00:16:15,920 --> 00:16:18,720 Speaker 1: to give it to you. Life hit me three months 356 00:16:18,760 --> 00:16:22,760 Speaker 1: ago and I'm unable to pay. He said he can't 357 00:16:22,760 --> 00:16:25,480 Speaker 1: even pay the wedding planner right now, and his wife 358 00:16:25,520 --> 00:16:29,600 Speaker 1: already hired her. Maybe he was in a financial position 359 00:16:29,640 --> 00:16:32,200 Speaker 1: where he could do that at one point, but he 360 00:16:32,200 --> 00:16:34,360 Speaker 1: said student loans and everything. Not to mention, he probabed 361 00:16:34,400 --> 00:16:35,840 Speaker 1: and he's a man, so he probably didn't open up 362 00:16:35,840 --> 00:16:37,360 Speaker 1: about everything that he gotta pay with is probably in 363 00:16:37,400 --> 00:16:37,800 Speaker 1: the other debt. 364 00:16:37,840 --> 00:16:39,360 Speaker 2: He probably has other debt of Claire out too. 365 00:16:39,600 --> 00:16:42,160 Speaker 1: He's probably the breadwinner in the house, so he's paying 366 00:16:42,160 --> 00:16:43,880 Speaker 1: all the bills in the house probably so and not 367 00:16:43,880 --> 00:16:45,600 Speaker 1: saying she don't work and she don't contribute, but I'm 368 00:16:45,640 --> 00:16:47,160 Speaker 1: just saying, you know what I mean, if you take 369 00:16:47,200 --> 00:16:48,800 Speaker 1: all of that and they don't have kids yet, you 370 00:16:48,840 --> 00:16:51,200 Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. But yeah, because I felt like 371 00:16:51,240 --> 00:16:52,560 Speaker 1: they would have said that, but I mean, he would 372 00:16:52,600 --> 00:16:53,000 Speaker 1: have said that. 373 00:16:53,080 --> 00:16:55,880 Speaker 2: But I respect it. I respect what he's doing. 374 00:16:55,920 --> 00:16:58,120 Speaker 1: At least he's trying to pay off these debts and 375 00:16:58,160 --> 00:17:00,080 Speaker 1: these you know what I'm saying, because we just. 376 00:17:00,000 --> 00:17:03,720 Speaker 2: He guy finished talking about marital debt. Once I marry you, 377 00:17:03,800 --> 00:17:04,920 Speaker 2: my dad is your debt. 378 00:17:05,080 --> 00:17:07,119 Speaker 1: So I think this he's doing her a big favor 379 00:17:07,160 --> 00:17:08,840 Speaker 1: by trying to get out of all his debt before 380 00:17:08,840 --> 00:17:13,200 Speaker 1: they try that, not officially anyway, but not for nothing. 381 00:17:13,200 --> 00:17:15,960 Speaker 1: It should just be a simple conversation. Yeah, she may 382 00:17:16,000 --> 00:17:19,240 Speaker 1: be disappointed, and that's totally natural. That's expected because she 383 00:17:19,359 --> 00:17:21,680 Speaker 1: wants her wedding. But I think the longer he waits, 384 00:17:22,119 --> 00:17:24,160 Speaker 1: the worst it'll be. I think he should go down 385 00:17:24,240 --> 00:17:25,360 Speaker 1: and he should talk to her. 386 00:17:25,520 --> 00:17:25,840 Speaker 2: He said. 387 00:17:25,840 --> 00:17:28,240 Speaker 1: The only thing he needs is a year. I think 388 00:17:28,320 --> 00:17:30,880 Speaker 1: that's cool. Yeah, he said, I just need another year. 389 00:17:30,960 --> 00:17:34,320 Speaker 1: I'm about to be done with school, almost done paying 390 00:17:34,320 --> 00:17:35,480 Speaker 1: these student loans off. 391 00:17:35,840 --> 00:17:37,159 Speaker 2: I'm gonna grind. 392 00:17:37,080 --> 00:17:38,840 Speaker 1: Right after I finished school, and then I'll be able 393 00:17:38,840 --> 00:17:40,840 Speaker 1: to give her the wedding that she wants. 394 00:17:40,240 --> 00:17:43,679 Speaker 2: Yes, that's ex but the way he talked to me, 395 00:17:44,200 --> 00:17:46,600 Speaker 2: he can talk to her like that. He's very respectful. 396 00:17:46,880 --> 00:17:47,119 Speaker 2: You know. 397 00:17:47,240 --> 00:17:50,000 Speaker 1: He seems like he knows exactly what he wants to do. 398 00:17:50,040 --> 00:17:54,280 Speaker 1: He has a plan. A man with no plan is worse, 399 00:17:55,040 --> 00:17:55,840 Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. 400 00:17:57,560 --> 00:18:02,520 Speaker 3: I'm not saying it's not the worst, but it's let's 401 00:18:02,560 --> 00:18:04,080 Speaker 3: just say, a man with a plan is better than a. 402 00:18:04,040 --> 00:18:04,720 Speaker 2: Man with no plan. 403 00:18:05,000 --> 00:18:09,120 Speaker 1: At least he has a plan. He already knows. He's considering. Yeah, 404 00:18:09,160 --> 00:18:12,119 Speaker 1: he's considering her feelings. And he he's so afraid to 405 00:18:12,200 --> 00:18:14,760 Speaker 1: let her down and disappoint her that he's like this 406 00:18:14,800 --> 00:18:16,639 Speaker 1: big good time about he about to take out the loan, 407 00:18:16,720 --> 00:18:17,840 Speaker 1: which would not be smart. 408 00:18:17,880 --> 00:18:20,239 Speaker 2: And he even said that too, So don't do that. 409 00:18:20,320 --> 00:18:22,280 Speaker 2: Don't fucking your credit to get a loan to pay 410 00:18:22,280 --> 00:18:24,360 Speaker 2: for a wedding. The wedding is one day. 411 00:18:24,720 --> 00:18:26,840 Speaker 3: People, I think people were too much like they worry 412 00:18:26,880 --> 00:18:28,040 Speaker 3: about what other people will say. 413 00:18:28,080 --> 00:18:30,440 Speaker 1: They worry about topping the best wedding. It's it's about 414 00:18:30,440 --> 00:18:33,000 Speaker 1: public appearance and validation of whoever's going to be sitting 415 00:18:33,040 --> 00:18:33,600 Speaker 1: in them seats. 416 00:18:33,640 --> 00:18:36,000 Speaker 3: I wish that I kind of want it, like in 417 00:18:36,040 --> 00:18:40,160 Speaker 3: a sense, it's small wedding. Okay, oh this is really 418 00:18:40,280 --> 00:18:40,840 Speaker 3: close friendly. 419 00:18:41,160 --> 00:18:42,800 Speaker 1: I don't want to I don't. I don't want a 420 00:18:42,840 --> 00:18:44,440 Speaker 1: small wedding, but I want an intimate wedding. 421 00:18:44,560 --> 00:18:46,000 Speaker 4: Yeah, I guess so. 422 00:18:46,440 --> 00:18:48,240 Speaker 1: When I said I still wanted to be fairy tale like, 423 00:18:48,359 --> 00:18:51,360 Speaker 1: but I only want maybe about fifty guests, I don't 424 00:18:51,359 --> 00:18:54,840 Speaker 1: really want. Yeah, because we can still get what we want. 425 00:18:54,880 --> 00:18:57,040 Speaker 1: It just don't gotta be a whole because that's when 426 00:18:57,080 --> 00:18:59,520 Speaker 1: all the money come in. At how many guests, how 427 00:18:59,520 --> 00:19:02,000 Speaker 1: many places? I mean, you know what I'm saying, all 428 00:19:02,040 --> 00:19:05,520 Speaker 1: of that type shit decorations that you can finess so 429 00:19:05,520 --> 00:19:07,120 Speaker 1: many You can get all that shit off Amazon, which 430 00:19:07,160 --> 00:19:09,040 Speaker 1: you can be your own wedding plan if you got time. 431 00:19:09,359 --> 00:19:11,320 Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. You can buy everything wholesale. 432 00:19:11,320 --> 00:19:13,239 Speaker 1: We got Ali Bye Bye, we got fucking team Move. 433 00:19:13,280 --> 00:19:15,480 Speaker 1: We got so many things that you can just do. 434 00:19:15,520 --> 00:19:18,119 Speaker 1: You just need the time to do it. Person like me, 435 00:19:18,200 --> 00:19:19,919 Speaker 1: I don't have the time to do it, so I 436 00:19:20,000 --> 00:19:22,800 Speaker 1: would have to hire a wedding planner or you know, 437 00:19:22,880 --> 00:19:25,800 Speaker 1: a team or whatever. But that's where all the money 438 00:19:25,840 --> 00:19:28,280 Speaker 1: come in at the more people y'all planning to invite 439 00:19:28,320 --> 00:19:32,720 Speaker 1: to the motherfucking weddings. So I think you should just 440 00:19:32,720 --> 00:19:34,520 Speaker 1: sit down and talk to her. Not only is she 441 00:19:34,760 --> 00:19:37,439 Speaker 1: your fiance, it seems like she's your best friend. 442 00:19:37,920 --> 00:19:41,960 Speaker 2: You know what I mean. She'll understand it, but I 443 00:19:42,000 --> 00:19:43,280 Speaker 2: think you the only thing you can do. 444 00:19:43,240 --> 00:19:45,840 Speaker 1: Is just be as transparent with her as you are 445 00:19:45,880 --> 00:19:48,919 Speaker 1: being with me right now, and then give me an update. 446 00:19:49,240 --> 00:19:51,960 Speaker 2: Let's figure it out. Should I send y'all little song song? 447 00:19:52,000 --> 00:19:53,359 Speaker 2: You need a little song song? You know? 448 00:19:53,720 --> 00:19:54,720 Speaker 4: My friends to get married? 449 00:19:55,600 --> 00:19:56,080 Speaker 2: I know, right? 450 00:19:56,200 --> 00:19:58,080 Speaker 1: Or would you be the only friend married if you 451 00:19:58,119 --> 00:19:59,800 Speaker 1: were if you were married tomorrow, would you be the 452 00:19:59,840 --> 00:20:00,520 Speaker 1: only friend married? 453 00:20:00,680 --> 00:20:07,280 Speaker 4: My best friend she's married? But yeah, after me, you. 454 00:20:07,280 --> 00:20:11,840 Speaker 2: Don't have any friends that are engaged? Nope, some not 455 00:20:11,880 --> 00:20:15,159 Speaker 2: your friend? Cool and we to the end of another. 456 00:20:18,000 --> 00:20:21,080 Speaker 2: You're not talking about yourself. I'm so I'm so. 457 00:20:20,960 --> 00:20:23,880 Speaker 4: Totally yes you're engaged. 458 00:20:23,480 --> 00:20:28,600 Speaker 3: But yeah, well yeah, I'm talking about y'all. 459 00:20:28,600 --> 00:20:30,400 Speaker 2: See how I just did that right? I really want 460 00:20:31,119 --> 00:20:31,680 Speaker 2: right friends? 461 00:20:32,720 --> 00:20:36,119 Speaker 1: No, I said, you don't have any engaged friends? She thought, 462 00:20:36,680 --> 00:20:38,439 Speaker 1: and I thought, she don't say other than you now 463 00:20:38,840 --> 00:20:39,480 Speaker 1: she said. 464 00:20:40,000 --> 00:20:41,680 Speaker 4: No the fuck? 465 00:20:42,600 --> 00:20:44,159 Speaker 2: I hate. 466 00:20:45,680 --> 00:20:49,600 Speaker 4: No. But I'm thinking about like my childhood friends. 467 00:20:49,640 --> 00:20:54,359 Speaker 3: I'm so like, yeah, no, like they're in situations sure, 468 00:20:54,520 --> 00:20:54,960 Speaker 3: but like. 469 00:20:55,320 --> 00:20:59,720 Speaker 2: So are you the first to have a baby? Okay, okay, 470 00:20:59,720 --> 00:21:00,159 Speaker 2: all right, you. 471 00:21:00,200 --> 00:21:02,000 Speaker 1: Know, but but you will be the first one married 472 00:21:02,920 --> 00:21:06,520 Speaker 1: because no, well not necessarily it will be oh you 473 00:21:06,560 --> 00:21:12,000 Speaker 1: they always one another, yeah, okay, but everyone else because it's. 474 00:21:12,040 --> 00:21:13,320 Speaker 4: Like the dad ha. 475 00:21:13,680 --> 00:21:13,880 Speaker 3: Yeah. 476 00:21:13,920 --> 00:21:16,960 Speaker 2: And when they had that topic full of shipping, pissed. No, 477 00:21:17,119 --> 00:21:18,960 Speaker 2: for sure, no one wants to. 478 00:21:19,119 --> 00:21:19,639 Speaker 4: No one wants to. 479 00:21:20,080 --> 00:21:22,800 Speaker 3: Everyone's scared to make that next step for whatever reason. 480 00:21:23,280 --> 00:21:24,800 Speaker 3: But everyone wants to. Everyone wants to love. 481 00:21:25,520 --> 00:21:27,080 Speaker 2: Damaged as a people, yeah we got. 482 00:21:27,440 --> 00:21:30,520 Speaker 1: I've never seen so many polyamorous for all these different 483 00:21:30,560 --> 00:21:33,720 Speaker 1: fucking labels putting put on everybody, and all they are 484 00:21:33,800 --> 00:21:35,640 Speaker 1: is just cover up some motherfuckers getting hurt. 485 00:21:35,920 --> 00:21:40,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm scared scared, so now I'm polyamorous. 486 00:21:40,480 --> 00:21:42,560 Speaker 1: No, nigga, you're just scared to put all your trust 487 00:21:42,600 --> 00:21:44,120 Speaker 1: in one bitch because you got because a bitch hurt 488 00:21:44,160 --> 00:21:46,399 Speaker 1: you before, but that's like, don't do that. 489 00:21:46,480 --> 00:21:49,199 Speaker 3: You got over that hurt though, right, so and I 490 00:21:49,280 --> 00:21:52,199 Speaker 3: get it, like I'm I'm not one to trust easily 491 00:21:52,240 --> 00:21:53,679 Speaker 3: in a sense either, but like. 492 00:21:55,040 --> 00:21:57,919 Speaker 4: You just get up and like I don't know, you know, 493 00:21:58,040 --> 00:21:58,760 Speaker 4: And that's. 494 00:21:58,720 --> 00:22:01,119 Speaker 1: That's that's my argument every damn Like yo, just a 495 00:22:01,200 --> 00:22:04,520 Speaker 1: year ago, Taylor was well almost over a year ago, 496 00:22:04,920 --> 00:22:08,119 Speaker 1: your ass was not you was like, I'm not trusting niggas. 497 00:22:08,160 --> 00:22:10,800 Speaker 2: I'm not about to be celebrated. I don't, I don't give. 498 00:22:11,000 --> 00:22:13,439 Speaker 3: The thing was out just over the bullshit th with 499 00:22:13,680 --> 00:22:17,480 Speaker 3: like niggas just saying what like saying what you mean? 500 00:22:17,680 --> 00:22:22,040 Speaker 3: Absolutely That's why I just lead to this. Your people 501 00:22:22,040 --> 00:22:25,000 Speaker 3: don't lead with their intentions. 502 00:22:24,800 --> 00:22:29,280 Speaker 1: And yes, like an alterio, motiv or an agenda, like 503 00:22:29,680 --> 00:22:32,480 Speaker 1: it is weird. It definitely gets weird for sure. But 504 00:22:33,240 --> 00:22:36,760 Speaker 1: update us, young fella. I I am very proud of you. 505 00:22:36,840 --> 00:22:38,760 Speaker 1: I just want to say congratulations. You're about to be 506 00:22:38,760 --> 00:22:42,520 Speaker 1: graduating with your masters, and your engaged with your you 507 00:22:42,560 --> 00:22:44,879 Speaker 1: know to your beautiful best friend and you know your 508 00:22:44,960 --> 00:22:47,560 Speaker 1: child's heart. So go talk to her, I mean your 509 00:22:47,600 --> 00:22:49,479 Speaker 1: high school speart. Go talk to her and then let 510 00:22:49,560 --> 00:22:50,000 Speaker 1: us know. 511 00:22:49,880 --> 00:22:50,639 Speaker 2: What you come up with. 512 00:22:51,440 --> 00:22:53,280 Speaker 1: And just like that, we've come to the end of 513 00:22:53,359 --> 00:22:56,000 Speaker 1: yet another Catholic reckless episode, which girl Jess Hilarious and 514 00:22:56,040 --> 00:22:58,879 Speaker 1: your girl Taylor say by the tailor, y'all and then 515 00:22:58,920 --> 00:24:13,080 Speaker 1: say by Taylor, Alright, see y'all next week. 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