WEBVTT - Shifting Dynamics | Golden Hour

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome back everybody to Bachelor Happy Hour's Golden Hour. Thanks

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<v Speaker 1>so much for joining us, and Kathy and I are

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<v Speaker 1>very excited to be back.

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<v Speaker 2>We're always excited to be back. Hear what's going on

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<v Speaker 2>in each other's lives. Susan is working on her tan

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<v Speaker 2>in Saint Martin. She wants to see just how dark

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<v Speaker 2>she can get.

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<v Speaker 3>That's so not true. I have the beach yet.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, let me explain to everyone Susan's idea of sunscreen.

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<v Speaker 2>She gets up in the morning, sprays a little bit

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<v Speaker 2>of sunscreen on, and then she's at the beach all day.

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<v Speaker 3>That's what Tatty thinks.

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<v Speaker 1>Anyhow, all right, I use fifty for God's sake, and

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<v Speaker 1>an umbrella. Seriously, well, I just get dark. I have

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<v Speaker 1>different skin than you. And those out there listening that

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<v Speaker 1>are Italian or Spanish.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh, you just get dark about the sun.

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<v Speaker 3>They understand.

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<v Speaker 1>All you have to do is walk outside and return anyhow.

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<v Speaker 2>Anyhow, I walk out and I burn, okay, and those

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<v Speaker 2>who are of Irish whatever. Sorry, Today we're going to

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<v Speaker 2>answer more of your fan questions. Susan, are going to

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<v Speaker 2>see how many times we can agree or disagree today.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, we're getting into the episode right now. We're

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<v Speaker 2>going to start with the question of the day. Here

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<v Speaker 2>we go, Susan. Have you ever experienced the dynamics of

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<v Speaker 2>a close relationship change due to external circumstances, for example,

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<v Speaker 2>a close colleague getting promoted. Were you able to salvage

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<v Speaker 2>the relationship? Oh, I have a great story on this.

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<v Speaker 2>Can I go Yes?

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, I've had friends move on and up and no,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think it changed our relationship at all.

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<v Speaker 2>Did you start up at the same with them, Were

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<v Speaker 2>you at the same level? Yes, and they moved on

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<v Speaker 2>and you didn't, or you did and they didn't.

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<v Speaker 1>It was in gymnastics way back when, because we competed

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<v Speaker 1>and somebody moved on and I didn't.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, but that's young. What about as an as an

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<v Speaker 2>older person?

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<v Speaker 3>No, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, one one jumped out at me when I was

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<v Speaker 2>I worked at a school. I was their high school

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<v Speaker 2>placement director and the head of school. I knew from

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<v Speaker 2>a prior where my kids have gone to school years ago. Anyway,

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<v Speaker 2>she came to be the head of school at our

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<v Speaker 2>school and she promoted UH. With these two women, myself

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<v Speaker 2>and this other woman worked together. We ran the marketing

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<v Speaker 2>and advertising and communications department.

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<v Speaker 4>Over the summer.

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<v Speaker 2>She promoted the other girl to the to the directorship

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<v Speaker 2>right and left me out. And I was stunned a

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<v Speaker 2>because I thought I was equally, if not more capable. Anyway,

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<v Speaker 2>long story short, I said, one peaship, Oh my god. Yes,

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<v Speaker 2>but here was the thing she said. I said to

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<v Speaker 2>her what I couldn't even believe it. She said, you

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<v Speaker 2>know what, I made a mistake in the moment. She

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<v Speaker 2>asked me if she could have the job by herself,

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<v Speaker 2>and I just said yes, and she goes, if I

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<v Speaker 2>could take it back. You're right, you were the right

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<v Speaker 2>person for the job. But I would look silly if

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<v Speaker 2>I turned around and you know, asked her and gave

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<v Speaker 2>you the job. And I will tell you, our relationship

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<v Speaker 2>was never the same.

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<v Speaker 3>Becauseause you made it different. Were up to that.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, because she admitted to making the mistake. I was

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<v Speaker 2>stunned when I came back with somebody. I mean, wouldn't

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<v Speaker 2>she did that? I was like, no. My feeling was

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<v Speaker 2>forget the friendship which we had been. I'd helped her

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<v Speaker 2>do a lot of things at the school because we

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<v Speaker 2>were friends. But when she promoted the other girl and

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<v Speaker 2>then literally a week later said I don't I made

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<v Speaker 2>a mistake, but it would look bad on me if

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<v Speaker 2>I took it back. Ultimately she had to the other

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<v Speaker 2>girl couldn't do the job, and I did get the job.

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<v Speaker 2>But it was like, wow, that's that's You're just worried

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<v Speaker 2>about your own reputation. So to me, it was never

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<v Speaker 2>the same that said that. It's so weird that we

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<v Speaker 2>have that question because I never I never forgot it.

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<v Speaker 2>And you know, we got along okay, but we weren't friends.

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<v Speaker 3>After that, buddy, buddy, we were not. All right.

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<v Speaker 1>Then, let's get into our fan questions for today. What

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<v Speaker 1>do you say, Kenny? All right, I'm going to start

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<v Speaker 1>us off with the first one, and this one is

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<v Speaker 1>from anonymous.

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<v Speaker 3>Hi, ladies, I need some advice.

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<v Speaker 1>I've been with my boyfriend for two and a half years,

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<v Speaker 1>and of course everything is great, except for this one thing.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh boy, I can't stand him when we travel together.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know what it is, but he just turns

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<v Speaker 1>into this incredibly irritating person that I just can't stand.

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<v Speaker 1>He takes forever to get through the airport, his bag

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<v Speaker 1>is always overweight, he never takes the middle seat on planes.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't blame him, and he honestly just annoys me.

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<v Speaker 1>It all came to a head when we went to

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<v Speaker 1>Hawaii last month. The trip felt more like work and

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<v Speaker 1>less like a vacation.

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<v Speaker 3>Is this bad for us?

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<v Speaker 1>He brushes it off like it's no big deal or normal,

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<v Speaker 1>But I'm starting to think that this isn't a good

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<v Speaker 1>sign for us. Is this something we can get through?

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<v Speaker 1>Thanks lady, Well, first and foremost, it's not a good

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<v Speaker 1>sign for you, Darley for anonymous, Why you say that

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<v Speaker 1>because he's fine? Either could care less what I would suggest?

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<v Speaker 1>You help him with the luggage. You get a scale,

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<v Speaker 1>your weigh up before you go, eliminate the possibilities of

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<v Speaker 1>the problem.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, yes, I mean that that would help the overweight

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<v Speaker 2>baggage issue, but I was gonna might you know what

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<v Speaker 2>came to my mind. Don't travel with him if everything

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<v Speaker 2>is else it's great, don't travel with him.

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<v Speaker 1>Wait a minute, she said his bag is overweight, he

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<v Speaker 1>never takes the middle seat. Honey, you got to back

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<v Speaker 1>up a little bit. I wouldn't take the middle seat either.

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<v Speaker 3>Uh huh.

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<v Speaker 4>No.

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<v Speaker 2>I think what she's saying is if they I mean,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know because I don't know anonymous, but I

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<v Speaker 2>and actually, Susan, I think you wrote this question.

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<v Speaker 4>This reeks of you of just saying it.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know what it is.

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<v Speaker 1>But he just turns into this incredible irritating person that

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<v Speaker 1>she can't stand. And here are the reasons. I'll say

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<v Speaker 1>it again. He takes forever to get through the airport.

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<v Speaker 3>What's a big deal.

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<v Speaker 1>The bag is always overweight, you can fix that at home.

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<v Speaker 1>And he never takes the middle seat. You take the

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<v Speaker 1>middle seat.

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<v Speaker 2>Then she's bit, No, Susan, you're missing the point. She's

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<v Speaker 2>always in the point. You got the first two right.

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<v Speaker 2>She's saying he'll never take the middle seat, which means

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<v Speaker 2>she's always in the middle seat.

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<v Speaker 4>That's what she's saying.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, well you flip a coin each Look, that's what

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<v Speaker 3>I'm saying. I think bookends and somebody.

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<v Speaker 2>I was gonna say the hell with that. I'd book

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<v Speaker 2>an aisle on the window. Let the sucker in the

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<v Speaker 2>middle seat do.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, he didn't fix.

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<v Speaker 2>But honestly, I think it doesn't bode well for you

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<v Speaker 2>or badly for you.

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<v Speaker 4>Guys.

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<v Speaker 2>If there's something I don't know, something tells me there's

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<v Speaker 2>something else going on here.

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<v Speaker 4>But if there isn't, if.

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<v Speaker 3>It's just so annoyed, I know.

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<v Speaker 4>But if it's so, that's why I think there's something

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<v Speaker 4>else going on.

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<v Speaker 2>But if you're telling me Anonymous that everything else is

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<v Speaker 2>roses and champagne in your relationship, then one or two

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<v Speaker 2>things way the bad before you go alternate on the

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<v Speaker 2>middle seat, work or don't travel together.

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<v Speaker 1>Well two and a half years, I mean they might

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<v Speaker 1>be spending a life together, she.

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<v Speaker 2>Said, is great except when they travel. Yes, so don't

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<v Speaker 2>travel call us. We'll go with you, Susan. We'll sit

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<v Speaker 2>in the middle seat.

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<v Speaker 3>Thinking the question.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want to be harsh, but you know there's

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<v Speaker 1>ways around this. Make a deal with the every other

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<v Speaker 1>seat he refuses, and you book an aisle and he

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<v Speaker 1>books the window and you don't even sick together.

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<v Speaker 3>Why he's a long freaking trip.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I When she says two and a half years

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<v Speaker 2>they've been together, Anonymous, When you say I'm starting to

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<v Speaker 2>think this isn't a good sign for us, I would

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<v Speaker 2>ask you, and I'm not a theorist, but I would

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<v Speaker 2>say to you, maybe reevaluate what you really think of

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<v Speaker 2>your relationship. Are there other issues at play here? And

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<v Speaker 2>if there aren't, or call Susan me. We will go

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<v Speaker 2>to Hawaii with you, and Susan will sit in the middle.

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<v Speaker 3>I will not.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, you're out.

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<v Speaker 3>We can only go first class?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, right until we get there, however, I will carry

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<v Speaker 2>the luggage. I'll run through the airport with the luggage

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<v Speaker 2>for you, so that won't be a problem.

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<v Speaker 3>All right, But thank you for your question.

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<v Speaker 2>Let us know, let us know about your next trip. Okay, question.

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<v Speaker 2>Our next question is from Lily. She writes, Hi, ladies,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm really upset and I could use your help. I

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<v Speaker 2>was just on a girl's trip to South Florida with

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<v Speaker 2>five of my besties from college. The trip was fun

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<v Speaker 2>for about five seconds and then just turned into a mess.

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<v Speaker 2>On our first night, we ran into a group of

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<v Speaker 2>our guy friends that we knew were coming out here

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<v Speaker 2>as well. Turns out, two of my friends let's call

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<v Speaker 2>them live and Ellie like the same guy from that group.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, last night, Live was.

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<v Speaker 2>Flirting with him like crazy, and let's just say she

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<v Speaker 2>was successful, and Ellie was crushed, so crushed that she

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<v Speaker 2>bought a return flight, didn't tell anyone, and left before

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<v Speaker 2>any of us woke up. Oh dear god, drama, drama, drama.

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<v Speaker 2>Now Live and Ellie are having a nasty fallout. It

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<v Speaker 2>turns out that Ellie confided and Lived Aha confided and

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<v Speaker 2>Lived about her crush, but Live never mentioned anything about

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<v Speaker 2>liking that guy too.

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<v Speaker 4>How do we deal with this?

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<v Speaker 2>We're all planning to meet up and hash this out

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<v Speaker 2>later this week and I'm nervous. Thanks ladies, well, Susan Waite,

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<v Speaker 2>they've already hashed it out, so we don't know what

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<v Speaker 2>to tell you. It's already happened. So Lily let us know.

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<v Speaker 2>That's how we get out of this one.

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<v Speaker 3>It feels so bad.

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<v Speaker 1>But the other one wasn't being honest. Well, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>she could have said, oh my god, I have a crush.

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<v Speaker 4>To Live, could Live couldn't?

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, Yeah, well I feel but I don't know that

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<v Speaker 3>I would leave my trip.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, especially if you could get to sit in the

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<v Speaker 2>middle seat on the way home. You wouldn't want to

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<v Speaker 2>miss that opportunity. I think you're right, Susan. I think

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<v Speaker 2>the fact that that Ellie confide in and Live and

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<v Speaker 2>Live didn't say, hey.

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<v Speaker 3>I like him to.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, come on, when you met when we make

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<v Speaker 2>when we met Frederick at the bar, did I or

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<v Speaker 2>did I not come right up to and say, Susan,

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<v Speaker 2>I think he's hot. I've got something for him too.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh I didn't, guys, it was a joke.

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<v Speaker 4>I did not do that. But no, I think that.

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<v Speaker 1>Where anything happens like with this guy, if two girlfriends

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<v Speaker 1>were talking about it, you'd have to say, oh my god,

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<v Speaker 1>I kind of have a crush on him too. But

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<v Speaker 1>I won't if you want, you know, it's up to

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<v Speaker 1>the God, of course. But I wouldn't do it like

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<v Speaker 1>that girl did.

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<v Speaker 2>It well well, I mean Ellie, Ellie told Live Live,

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<v Speaker 2>didn't tell Ellie and Live Live drew the lucky you know,

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<v Speaker 2>drew the lucky coin there she got the guy. So

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<v Speaker 2>I'm guessing Ellie was really embarrassed. And if they're asking

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<v Speaker 2>me what I would do, I think you guys, and

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<v Speaker 2>I know it's already probably already happened, but I would

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<v Speaker 2>encourage you, Lily and your friends to give Ellie a

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<v Speaker 2>lot of grace. I am sure she was angry, but

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<v Speaker 2>more than that, I bet she felt humiliated and to

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<v Speaker 2>see some of them are just live, no, just live? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>just then and Lee's I mean, because I think she

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<v Speaker 2>was so hurt by her good friend.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, well, I would have said something to her before

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<v Speaker 1>I ruined my whole trip.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, but that's the whole point. They're all on the

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<v Speaker 2>trip together. They're running to these guys. How's that going

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<v Speaker 2>to work for her?

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know. I might.

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<v Speaker 3>Crush on them, I mean, move on to the next one.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm guessing there. These are just out of college, they're young.

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<v Speaker 3>And i'd be pissed off at my girlfriend. I would.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, I feel sorry for you Ellie. I did, Lily.

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<v Speaker 2>I think you got to tread gently with Ellie. I

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<v Speaker 2>think she really was hurt and and I hope that

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<v Speaker 2>you guys can repair the friendship, because you know what,

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<v Speaker 2>good friends are hard to find.

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<v Speaker 1>Fine, and to be able to trust them and not

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<v Speaker 1>throw them under the bus like this one.

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<v Speaker 4>She didn't throw under the bus.

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<v Speaker 3>She just did just ahead and took what she wanted.

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<v Speaker 2>But oh, and you've never done that has that. No, No,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't mean a guy, I just meet in general.

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<v Speaker 2>You see something you want, you go after it.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, yes, absolutely, but she wasn't being fair or honest

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<v Speaker 1>when she told her that she likes them.

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<v Speaker 3>That's a hard one.

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<v Speaker 4>That's hard.

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<v Speaker 2>You're still that is now that meeting went, and I

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<v Speaker 2>hope you do preserve the friendships because, like I said,

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<v Speaker 2>good friends are hard to find.

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<v Speaker 4>Now my favorite favorite.

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<v Speaker 1>Truth or drink outlay around. We'll switch off reading the question,

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<v Speaker 1>but we'll both answer or up to drink.

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<v Speaker 2>Wait, can I just before you start? Before you start,

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<v Speaker 2>I got to take a drink. Hold on, Okay, carry on,

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<v Speaker 2>let's go.

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<v Speaker 1>What's the worst gift you received recently?

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<v Speaker 4>I gotta be honest. You're gonna laugh.

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<v Speaker 2>And I say this, anytime I get a gift, even

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<v Speaker 2>if I don't like it, I'm grateful for it. I

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<v Speaker 2>am so I don't I don't, I mean, I can't if.

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<v Speaker 3>It's something that I won't use her not crazy about.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm not. Sometimes I won't regift the gift that I

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<v Speaker 3>really don't care for. But but.

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<v Speaker 1>At the Christmas cookie exchange, oh god, you put it

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<v Speaker 1>in the pile and somebody has to take it with

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<v Speaker 1>a number. I put it in the attic until next year.

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<v Speaker 4>I've done that. I've done that.

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<v Speaker 2>I honestly can't think of a bad gift I've gotten.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, let's go to the next run. What's something

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<v Speaker 2>you think I assume about you? But you think I'm

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<v Speaker 2>dead wrong? What what do you think?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh? Do you think a lot of things sometimes that

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<v Speaker 3>you talk to me about? And I'll say, you have no.

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<v Speaker 1>Idea that I don't know specific right now?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>It's truthfully, you and I talk so much together. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>we can't because we hash it out usually, and we

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<v Speaker 2>don't friends do. Yeah, we don't assume. If we assume,

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<v Speaker 2>it's for about thirty seconds. All right, go ahead.

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<v Speaker 1>What do you think people say about our friendship relationship

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<v Speaker 1>when we're not around?

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<v Speaker 4>Oh?

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<v Speaker 1>God, well, we read social media well as lovers, which

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<v Speaker 1>were not No, we are best friends.

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<v Speaker 4>Did you hear the one I felt like it's a

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<v Speaker 4>joke in the Bart? Do you hear the one.

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<v Speaker 2>About when you came out about your relationship with Frederica?

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<v Speaker 2>I you know, I don't have much time to go

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<v Speaker 2>on social media these days, but I did go because

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<v Speaker 2>I was so happy for you guys to look at

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<v Speaker 2>your videos and stuff. And somebody wrote, wait, Susan's with

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<v Speaker 2>I thought she and Kathy were together?

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<v Speaker 4>Can I just tell you?

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<v Speaker 2>I was so itching to write back, not even close,

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<v Speaker 2>but I hope you have a good friend like Susan.

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<v Speaker 4>But I didn't. I just let it go.

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<v Speaker 2>But I think that's the thing people, I think the

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<v Speaker 2>thing they assume that we're either a couple, which were not,

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<v Speaker 2>or they don't think they think we've known each other

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<v Speaker 2>from before the Golden Bouchel, that we didn't meet on

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<v Speaker 2>the Golden Bacherl, which we did.

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<v Speaker 3>We did, and we're still friends.

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<v Speaker 2>And we're still friends at least for the next ten

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<v Speaker 2>minutes till this episode's over all. Right, WHOA, what's the

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<v Speaker 2>Oh god, I know what you're going to say. What's

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<v Speaker 2>the biggest you think I'm lying to myself about? I

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<v Speaker 2>know what you're gonna say, buying to yourself? Yeah, what

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<v Speaker 2>do you think I lie to myself?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh?

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<v Speaker 3>I know what it is?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I knowthy Kathy sees weight when she looks in

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<v Speaker 1>the mirror, and she's so wrong, and all of you

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<v Speaker 1>will agree.

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<v Speaker 4>With that except my neck, skinny. You're right, that is true.

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<v Speaker 2>But that is called body dysmorphia, and a lot of

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<v Speaker 2>people have it, so it'll be nice to me.

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<v Speaker 1>You've had twenty years of therapy for it. It's still

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<v Speaker 1>not over it. Okay, come on, all right.

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<v Speaker 2>I just snorted. Wait, wait, I don't know what you

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<v Speaker 2>lie to you. Oh, I know what you lie to

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<v Speaker 2>yourself about.

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<v Speaker 3>Be careful, Susan.

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<v Speaker 2>Susan is, as you all know, Susan is a neatnick,

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<v Speaker 2>incredible neat nick. She lies to herself thinking she can

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<v Speaker 2>live in dirt, have dirtorent. She'll say, you know, oh,

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<v Speaker 2>I you know I didn't in fact him the floor

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<v Speaker 2>this week and okay whatever, yeah, exactly today. But it's okay,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm good with it. And then you know what she

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<v Speaker 2>does the next day. She's vacuumingd three times because she

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<v Speaker 2>missed the day.

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<v Speaker 4>Am I right? You think you can deal with something

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<v Speaker 4>not being clean, but you can't.

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<v Speaker 1>What's your most ridiculous ick that would instantly turn you

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<v Speaker 1>off someone?

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<v Speaker 2>A ridiculous sick? I know, but I don't know what's

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<v Speaker 2>a ridiculous sick. I mean, bad breath would turn me on?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yes, bad teeth? Yeah, I wouldn't even go like

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<v Speaker 1>the next.

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<v Speaker 2>Time I meet a guy, I want to. It's like

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<v Speaker 2>being at the dentist. Stick out your tongue. Let me

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<v Speaker 2>look down at are How many teeth are you missing?

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<v Speaker 3>All Right?

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<v Speaker 1>If you had to guess who in recent seasons from

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<v Speaker 1>Bachelor Nation went on the respective show for the wrong reasons,

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<v Speaker 1>I got to answer that one.

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<v Speaker 2>You could or could not not? Oh golly, I mean

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<v Speaker 2>it's hard to know.

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<v Speaker 3>Because I know, I mean, you know, whatever the reasons.

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<v Speaker 4>All right, we got a dress? Hey, where's yours diary?

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<v Speaker 3>I have one?

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<v Speaker 4>It's why you're not having fun?

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<v Speaker 3>Who says I'm not having fun?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah? I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>What's the last person? Who's the last person you stalked

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<v Speaker 1>on Instagram?

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<v Speaker 4>That's easy you and Frederic, I wanted to.

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<v Speaker 3>That's not stalking, you tell you firsthand.

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<v Speaker 2>Know I'm saying that I wanted to see all your videos,

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<v Speaker 2>and you know that's stalking.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, if you go looking for something on inside, I.

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<v Speaker 1>Think stalking means that you're secretly checking out everything they

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<v Speaker 1>write like you don't want anybody to know.

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<v Speaker 3>Is not st.

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<v Speaker 4>I guess, But I guess I don't.

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<v Speaker 3>Stalk all right, me either?

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<v Speaker 2>So we both have I drink again. My glass runneth

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<v Speaker 2>over tippe over.

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<v Speaker 3>All?

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<v Speaker 2>Right?

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<v Speaker 3>Who is the la?

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<v Speaker 4>You're okay?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh god?

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<v Speaker 2>If you had to get a tattoo today, what would

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<v Speaker 2>it be and why?

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<v Speaker 4>I can actually answer that, but I go first, what would.

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<v Speaker 3>If I had? I don't have anybody.

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<v Speaker 2>But maybe I won't have an answer, so I can drink,

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<v Speaker 2>but go ahead.

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<v Speaker 1>But if I had to get a tattoo today, it

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<v Speaker 1>would be the word Believe.

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<v Speaker 4>I like that.

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<v Speaker 1>I always thought about it, but I'm scared to get

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<v Speaker 1>one because I think it's gonna hurt.

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<v Speaker 4>Are you kidding me? Talk to Kyle. He'll hold your hand.

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<v Speaker 3>My sons have much you know what I would do?

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<v Speaker 4>What?

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<v Speaker 2>Well, what first came to mind for me was a butterfly,

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<v Speaker 2>because they're beautiful and they're free, and they're they're so

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<v Speaker 2>beautiful in nature.

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<v Speaker 4>That's the first thing that came to me.

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<v Speaker 3>Everybody would assume we would want a rose, Kathy.

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<v Speaker 2>Susan, let me let me say those live players. I

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<v Speaker 2>do not want one rose. I want all the roses.

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<v Speaker 2>I want the guy. I want the ring. I want

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<v Speaker 2>it all. Okay, you can have the roses. I want

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<v Speaker 2>the guy. Okay, we're done with the Roses. What's the

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<v Speaker 2>worst tattoo you've ever seen on someone?

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<v Speaker 4>You know what? I'm gonna be.

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<v Speaker 3>Honest when I thought, yeah, but you are to each

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<v Speaker 3>of these?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I know.

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<v Speaker 2>But when I see some tattoos, I find myself like

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<v Speaker 2>staring at their arm, like I can't figure out what

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<v Speaker 2>it is.

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<v Speaker 3>It must mean something, I know.

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<v Speaker 1>I know who is the most famous person that follows

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<v Speaker 1>you on Instagram?

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<v Speaker 3>To tell you the truth, I don't know who follows

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<v Speaker 3>I don't either. I don't look at my followers. I

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<v Speaker 3>don't mean I read stuff from them and I love them.

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<v Speaker 2>But I've got some people in the check marks that

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<v Speaker 2>follow me, but I couldn't tell you who they are.

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<v Speaker 3>All right, how about the next one.

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<v Speaker 2>What was the craziest reaction you got from someone when

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<v Speaker 2>you revealed you would be going on the Golden Bachelor

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<v Speaker 2>for Reality TV?

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<v Speaker 1>The craziest reaction? Oh God, TV's not ready for you, Susan.

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<v Speaker 2>I think I think mine was my daughter, because when.

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<v Speaker 3>You're not doing this, are you?

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<v Speaker 2>You said, Mom, you're not serious about doing this? And

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<v Speaker 2>I said, hell, yeah, I'm serious. My daughter is not

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<v Speaker 2>quite as outcoming as I am.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, what's one thing from your night one that

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<v Speaker 1>you'll never that you've never talked about.

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<v Speaker 2>That you've never told Susan, you and I talk about everything.

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<v Speaker 4>We gotta know. You gotta drink, you gotta drink.

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<v Speaker 3>Take my water.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm going to have to pay and I won't be

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<v Speaker 1>able to. Well who from the see the next bachelor

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<v Speaker 1>or Bachelorette?

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<v Speaker 4>Can we just say me?

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, We'll say Kathy and that ends that.

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<v Speaker 2>So we know we know who the next Golden Bachelor's

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<v Speaker 2>But who would you like to see be the next

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<v Speaker 2>Golden Bachelorette?

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<v Speaker 1>Nancy if she doesn't fall in love, if she goes

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<v Speaker 1>to Paradise, I would love.

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<v Speaker 4>To see I think it would be perfect. I would

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<v Speaker 4>love to see Nancy. Who would you.

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<v Speaker 2>Like to see be the next bachelorette off of Grant Season?

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<v Speaker 4>Would you want Latia?

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<v Speaker 3>Latia?

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<v Speaker 4>You would want Latia?

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<v Speaker 3>I think she's so sweet. But I like a lot

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<v Speaker 3>of the girls.

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<v Speaker 4>I know, right, I think you know what.

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<v Speaker 1>I always wanted Maria to be the bachelorette from.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, I think that would be total chaos, but yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I would be exciting. But they don't the clothes, her

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<v Speaker 2>clothes would be amazing.

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<v Speaker 4>God, Cary would make sure that.

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<v Speaker 3>No, I wouldchelorette. I have clothes.

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<v Speaker 2>Let me tell you, Susan, you have clothes, and you're

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<v Speaker 2>not the Golden bacheloret You don't need an excuse to

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<v Speaker 2>have clothes. No, I think I think from from our season,

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<v Speaker 2>I would love to see Nancy. I think she was

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<v Speaker 2>there so short. I think needs to make a great

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<v Speaker 2>Golden Bachelorette. She's elegant and sweet and lovely. She deserves love.

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<v Speaker 1>And then you know what, maybe she's gonna go on

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<v Speaker 1>Paradise and get engaged and I get to do another wad.

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<v Speaker 2>Well maybe she won't get married, Mischel, just get engaged.

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<v Speaker 4>Hey, what you know?

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<v Speaker 2>Come on, Susan, here's if she were the Golden Bachelorette.

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<v Speaker 2>She could bring us well you're already taken. She could

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<v Speaker 2>bring me on, and I could, you know, scout out

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<v Speaker 2>all the guys and take listen, if you don't pick

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<v Speaker 2>this one, I want.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm available, I'm able.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm just on a grand season. Like I don't know,

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<v Speaker 2>they were the most I think day were some of

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<v Speaker 2>the best, honestly of any.

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<v Speaker 3>Season ones too.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, So I got a question for it. This

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<v Speaker 2>is a truth or drink, and you can't lie and

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<v Speaker 2>you can't drink water. One go for it, all right,

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<v Speaker 2>it's gonna be a good one. Have you ever hooked

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<v Speaker 2>up with someone you didn't know? And do I need

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<v Speaker 2>to explain to you what hokey not means? Because I

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<v Speaker 2>had you about six months ago.

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<v Speaker 1>You're talking sex? See right away, I thought, did I

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<v Speaker 1>kiss anybody I didn't know? You mean have sex with somebody?

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<v Speaker 4>Yes?

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<v Speaker 3>Now I have not.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, Well, you need to drink because you told the truth.

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<v Speaker 2>Because you told the truth, you drink.

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<v Speaker 4>You know what? At this point, who cares? All right?

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<v Speaker 2>What about this one? What is by the way, I

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<v Speaker 2>can honestly say I have not either.

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<v Speaker 1>What a text or text you sent an ex and

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<v Speaker 1>recredit it?

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<v Speaker 4>I haven't. I mean I've sent text to X, but.

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<v Speaker 3>Never many times.

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<v Speaker 2>Then do you let me just tell you something? People

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<v Speaker 2>and you don't even drink that much. But my my

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<v Speaker 2>advice to people who drink and have a breakup, turn

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<v Speaker 2>off your phone before you pour the first drink, really seriously,

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<v Speaker 2>because you don't.

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<v Speaker 3>Usually delete their number and then give it to somebody.

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<v Speaker 1>And yeah, because I'm bad, I have to have the

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<v Speaker 1>last word or I have to say how sorry I

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<v Speaker 1>am for leaving you.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh yeah, okay, this was a blast. This was a

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<v Speaker 4>blast as it wasn't.

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<v Speaker 3>Thank you guys for listening.

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<v Speaker 2>have new episodes coming out. We're really talking about important

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<v Speaker 2>What was the last wait?

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