1 00:00:07,160 --> 00:00:10,880 Speaker 1: Welcome back everybody to Bachelor Happy Hour's Golden Hour. Thanks 2 00:00:10,920 --> 00:00:13,720 Speaker 1: so much for joining us, and Kathy and I are 3 00:00:13,840 --> 00:00:15,160 Speaker 1: very excited to be back. 4 00:00:15,480 --> 00:00:18,200 Speaker 2: We're always excited to be back. Hear what's going on 5 00:00:18,200 --> 00:00:22,040 Speaker 2: in each other's lives. Susan is working on her tan 6 00:00:22,280 --> 00:00:24,919 Speaker 2: in Saint Martin. She wants to see just how dark 7 00:00:25,000 --> 00:00:25,640 Speaker 2: she can get. 8 00:00:25,960 --> 00:00:29,040 Speaker 3: That's so not true. I have the beach yet. 9 00:00:29,120 --> 00:00:31,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, let me explain to everyone Susan's idea of sunscreen. 10 00:00:32,120 --> 00:00:34,479 Speaker 2: She gets up in the morning, sprays a little bit 11 00:00:34,520 --> 00:00:37,600 Speaker 2: of sunscreen on, and then she's at the beach all day. 12 00:00:39,000 --> 00:00:40,120 Speaker 3: That's what Tatty thinks. 13 00:00:40,159 --> 00:00:44,479 Speaker 1: Anyhow, all right, I use fifty for God's sake, and 14 00:00:44,560 --> 00:00:48,080 Speaker 1: an umbrella. Seriously, well, I just get dark. I have 15 00:00:48,120 --> 00:00:51,199 Speaker 1: different skin than you. And those out there listening that 16 00:00:51,280 --> 00:00:55,080 Speaker 1: are Italian or Spanish. 17 00:00:54,360 --> 00:00:56,080 Speaker 4: Oh, you just get dark about the sun. 18 00:00:56,160 --> 00:00:57,560 Speaker 3: They understand. 19 00:00:57,720 --> 00:01:02,120 Speaker 1: All you have to do is walk outside and return anyhow. 20 00:01:02,440 --> 00:01:06,119 Speaker 2: Anyhow, I walk out and I burn, okay, and those 21 00:01:06,240 --> 00:01:11,760 Speaker 2: who are of Irish whatever. Sorry, Today we're going to 22 00:01:11,840 --> 00:01:14,960 Speaker 2: answer more of your fan questions. Susan, are going to 23 00:01:15,000 --> 00:01:17,640 Speaker 2: see how many times we can agree or disagree today. 24 00:01:18,440 --> 00:01:21,240 Speaker 2: But for us to talk about these questions and answer them. 25 00:01:21,520 --> 00:01:25,000 Speaker 2: You have to submit them first, So go to Bachelor 26 00:01:25,120 --> 00:01:31,600 Speaker 2: nation dot com slash Golden Hour and submit all your questions, comments, thoughts, prayers, wishes, 27 00:01:31,840 --> 00:01:32,760 Speaker 2: all the above. 28 00:01:33,080 --> 00:01:37,440 Speaker 1: And yes, please do that everything she just said. You 29 00:01:37,520 --> 00:01:41,200 Speaker 1: can also dm us on Instagram at Bachelor Happy Hour. 30 00:01:41,600 --> 00:01:44,560 Speaker 2: All right, we're getting into the episode right now. We're 31 00:01:44,560 --> 00:01:46,280 Speaker 2: going to start with the question of the day. Here 32 00:01:46,319 --> 00:01:51,720 Speaker 2: we go, Susan. Have you ever experienced the dynamics of 33 00:01:51,760 --> 00:01:57,720 Speaker 2: a close relationship change due to external circumstances, for example, 34 00:01:58,240 --> 00:02:02,560 Speaker 2: a close colleague getting promoted. Were you able to salvage 35 00:02:02,600 --> 00:02:08,240 Speaker 2: the relationship? Oh, I have a great story on this. 36 00:02:08,360 --> 00:02:09,840 Speaker 2: Can I go Yes? 37 00:02:10,040 --> 00:02:13,560 Speaker 1: Yes, I've had friends move on and up and no, 38 00:02:13,720 --> 00:02:17,040 Speaker 1: I don't think it changed our relationship at all. 39 00:02:20,000 --> 00:02:21,680 Speaker 2: Did you start up at the same with them, Were 40 00:02:21,720 --> 00:02:27,000 Speaker 2: you at the same level? Yes, and they moved on 41 00:02:27,080 --> 00:02:28,760 Speaker 2: and you didn't, or you did and they didn't. 42 00:02:29,040 --> 00:02:31,840 Speaker 1: It was in gymnastics way back when, because we competed 43 00:02:32,040 --> 00:02:34,840 Speaker 1: and somebody moved on and I didn't. 44 00:02:34,840 --> 00:02:37,680 Speaker 2: Oh, but that's young. What about as an as an 45 00:02:37,680 --> 00:02:38,360 Speaker 2: older person? 46 00:02:41,400 --> 00:02:43,480 Speaker 3: No, I don't know. 47 00:02:44,160 --> 00:02:47,520 Speaker 2: Well, one one jumped out at me when I was 48 00:02:48,320 --> 00:02:50,120 Speaker 2: I worked at a school. I was their high school 49 00:02:50,120 --> 00:02:54,080 Speaker 2: placement director and the head of school. I knew from 50 00:02:54,280 --> 00:02:57,280 Speaker 2: a prior where my kids have gone to school years ago. Anyway, 51 00:02:58,280 --> 00:03:00,120 Speaker 2: she came to be the head of school at our 52 00:03:00,160 --> 00:03:06,120 Speaker 2: school and she promoted UH. With these two women, myself 53 00:03:06,160 --> 00:03:08,560 Speaker 2: and this other woman worked together. We ran the marketing 54 00:03:08,600 --> 00:03:11,000 Speaker 2: and advertising and communications department. 55 00:03:12,440 --> 00:03:13,240 Speaker 4: Over the summer. 56 00:03:14,080 --> 00:03:18,960 Speaker 2: She promoted the other girl to the to the directorship 57 00:03:19,560 --> 00:03:22,160 Speaker 2: right and left me out. And I was stunned a 58 00:03:22,360 --> 00:03:27,200 Speaker 2: because I thought I was equally, if not more capable. Anyway, 59 00:03:27,360 --> 00:03:31,239 Speaker 2: long story short, I said, one peaship, Oh my god. Yes, 60 00:03:31,320 --> 00:03:34,160 Speaker 2: but here was the thing she said. I said to 61 00:03:34,160 --> 00:03:36,880 Speaker 2: her what I couldn't even believe it. She said, you 62 00:03:36,920 --> 00:03:40,000 Speaker 2: know what, I made a mistake in the moment. She 63 00:03:40,160 --> 00:03:42,200 Speaker 2: asked me if she could have the job by herself, 64 00:03:42,200 --> 00:03:45,120 Speaker 2: and I just said yes, and she goes, if I 65 00:03:45,160 --> 00:03:47,560 Speaker 2: could take it back. You're right, you were the right 66 00:03:47,560 --> 00:03:51,040 Speaker 2: person for the job. But I would look silly if 67 00:03:51,120 --> 00:03:54,800 Speaker 2: I turned around and you know, asked her and gave 68 00:03:54,840 --> 00:03:56,920 Speaker 2: you the job. And I will tell you, our relationship 69 00:03:57,000 --> 00:03:58,040 Speaker 2: was never the same. 70 00:03:58,160 --> 00:04:00,920 Speaker 3: Becauseause you made it different. Were up to that. 71 00:04:01,440 --> 00:04:05,240 Speaker 2: Well, because she admitted to making the mistake. I was 72 00:04:05,280 --> 00:04:08,880 Speaker 2: stunned when I came back with somebody. I mean, wouldn't 73 00:04:08,880 --> 00:04:11,760 Speaker 2: she did that? I was like, no. My feeling was 74 00:04:12,200 --> 00:04:15,760 Speaker 2: forget the friendship which we had been. I'd helped her 75 00:04:15,800 --> 00:04:17,440 Speaker 2: do a lot of things at the school because we 76 00:04:17,440 --> 00:04:19,800 Speaker 2: were friends. But when she promoted the other girl and 77 00:04:19,839 --> 00:04:23,200 Speaker 2: then literally a week later said I don't I made 78 00:04:23,240 --> 00:04:26,400 Speaker 2: a mistake, but it would look bad on me if 79 00:04:26,440 --> 00:04:29,360 Speaker 2: I took it back. Ultimately she had to the other 80 00:04:29,400 --> 00:04:31,600 Speaker 2: girl couldn't do the job, and I did get the job. 81 00:04:31,839 --> 00:04:34,800 Speaker 2: But it was like, wow, that's that's You're just worried 82 00:04:34,839 --> 00:04:37,839 Speaker 2: about your own reputation. So to me, it was never 83 00:04:37,880 --> 00:04:39,760 Speaker 2: the same that said that. It's so weird that we 84 00:04:39,839 --> 00:04:42,800 Speaker 2: have that question because I never I never forgot it. 85 00:04:43,000 --> 00:04:47,159 Speaker 2: And you know, we got along okay, but we weren't friends. 86 00:04:46,839 --> 00:04:50,440 Speaker 3: After that, buddy, buddy, we were not. All right. 87 00:04:50,520 --> 00:04:53,520 Speaker 1: Then, let's get into our fan questions for today. What 88 00:04:53,520 --> 00:04:55,960 Speaker 1: do you say, Kenny? All right, I'm going to start 89 00:04:56,040 --> 00:04:58,960 Speaker 1: us off with the first one, and this one is 90 00:04:59,040 --> 00:05:00,000 Speaker 1: from anonymous. 91 00:05:00,720 --> 00:05:02,560 Speaker 3: Hi, ladies, I need some advice. 92 00:05:03,680 --> 00:05:06,600 Speaker 1: I've been with my boyfriend for two and a half years, 93 00:05:06,760 --> 00:05:11,040 Speaker 1: and of course everything is great, except for this one thing. 94 00:05:11,440 --> 00:05:16,320 Speaker 1: Oh boy, I can't stand him when we travel together. 95 00:05:17,040 --> 00:05:19,719 Speaker 1: I don't know what it is, but he just turns 96 00:05:19,839 --> 00:05:24,719 Speaker 1: into this incredibly irritating person that I just can't stand. 97 00:05:25,200 --> 00:05:28,960 Speaker 1: He takes forever to get through the airport, his bag 98 00:05:29,080 --> 00:05:33,560 Speaker 1: is always overweight, he never takes the middle seat on planes. 99 00:05:33,600 --> 00:05:36,880 Speaker 1: I don't blame him, and he honestly just annoys me. 100 00:05:37,480 --> 00:05:40,000 Speaker 1: It all came to a head when we went to 101 00:05:40,080 --> 00:05:45,159 Speaker 1: Hawaii last month. The trip felt more like work and 102 00:05:45,320 --> 00:05:46,520 Speaker 1: less like a vacation. 103 00:05:47,600 --> 00:05:50,280 Speaker 3: Is this bad for us? 104 00:05:50,600 --> 00:05:53,880 Speaker 1: He brushes it off like it's no big deal or normal, 105 00:05:54,400 --> 00:05:57,520 Speaker 1: But I'm starting to think that this isn't a good 106 00:05:57,600 --> 00:06:01,159 Speaker 1: sign for us. Is this something we can get through? 107 00:06:01,680 --> 00:06:05,040 Speaker 1: Thanks lady, Well, first and foremost, it's not a good 108 00:06:05,080 --> 00:06:10,080 Speaker 1: sign for you, Darley for anonymous, Why you say that 109 00:06:10,440 --> 00:06:14,640 Speaker 1: because he's fine? Either could care less what I would suggest? 110 00:06:15,960 --> 00:06:18,200 Speaker 1: You help him with the luggage. You get a scale, 111 00:06:18,240 --> 00:06:22,080 Speaker 1: your weigh up before you go, eliminate the possibilities of 112 00:06:22,120 --> 00:06:23,720 Speaker 1: the problem. 113 00:06:23,960 --> 00:06:27,680 Speaker 2: Well, yes, I mean that that would help the overweight 114 00:06:27,800 --> 00:06:31,520 Speaker 2: baggage issue, but I was gonna might you know what 115 00:06:31,600 --> 00:06:34,800 Speaker 2: came to my mind. Don't travel with him if everything 116 00:06:34,920 --> 00:06:37,360 Speaker 2: is else it's great, don't travel with him. 117 00:06:37,400 --> 00:06:40,520 Speaker 1: Wait a minute, she said his bag is overweight, he 118 00:06:40,600 --> 00:06:44,320 Speaker 1: never takes the middle seat. Honey, you got to back 119 00:06:44,400 --> 00:06:46,880 Speaker 1: up a little bit. I wouldn't take the middle seat either. 120 00:06:47,720 --> 00:06:48,360 Speaker 3: Uh huh. 121 00:06:48,880 --> 00:06:48,960 Speaker 4: No. 122 00:06:49,120 --> 00:06:51,840 Speaker 2: I think what she's saying is if they I mean, 123 00:06:51,880 --> 00:06:54,120 Speaker 2: I don't know because I don't know anonymous, but I 124 00:06:54,400 --> 00:06:56,400 Speaker 2: and actually, Susan, I think you wrote this question. 125 00:06:56,480 --> 00:06:59,400 Speaker 4: This reeks of you of just saying it. 126 00:06:59,600 --> 00:07:00,560 Speaker 3: I don't know what it is. 127 00:07:00,600 --> 00:07:04,880 Speaker 1: But he just turns into this incredible irritating person that 128 00:07:04,920 --> 00:07:07,560 Speaker 1: she can't stand. And here are the reasons. I'll say 129 00:07:07,560 --> 00:07:12,200 Speaker 1: it again. He takes forever to get through the airport. 130 00:07:12,280 --> 00:07:13,000 Speaker 3: What's a big deal. 131 00:07:13,240 --> 00:07:16,080 Speaker 1: The bag is always overweight, you can fix that at home. 132 00:07:16,440 --> 00:07:19,120 Speaker 1: And he never takes the middle seat. You take the 133 00:07:19,160 --> 00:07:19,760 Speaker 1: middle seat. 134 00:07:19,800 --> 00:07:24,840 Speaker 2: Then she's bit, No, Susan, you're missing the point. She's 135 00:07:25,040 --> 00:07:27,920 Speaker 2: always in the point. You got the first two right. 136 00:07:28,640 --> 00:07:31,400 Speaker 2: She's saying he'll never take the middle seat, which means 137 00:07:31,720 --> 00:07:34,120 Speaker 2: she's always in the middle seat. 138 00:07:34,400 --> 00:07:35,280 Speaker 4: That's what she's saying. 139 00:07:36,360 --> 00:07:38,840 Speaker 3: Okay, well you flip a coin each Look, that's what 140 00:07:38,880 --> 00:07:42,200 Speaker 3: I'm saying. I think bookends and somebody. 141 00:07:42,840 --> 00:07:44,400 Speaker 2: I was gonna say the hell with that. I'd book 142 00:07:44,400 --> 00:07:46,200 Speaker 2: an aisle on the window. Let the sucker in the 143 00:07:46,200 --> 00:07:46,800 Speaker 2: middle seat do. 144 00:07:46,960 --> 00:07:48,400 Speaker 3: Yeah, he didn't fix. 145 00:07:50,160 --> 00:07:53,200 Speaker 2: But honestly, I think it doesn't bode well for you 146 00:07:53,280 --> 00:07:54,080 Speaker 2: or badly for you. 147 00:07:54,120 --> 00:07:54,400 Speaker 4: Guys. 148 00:07:54,640 --> 00:07:58,320 Speaker 2: If there's something I don't know, something tells me there's 149 00:07:58,560 --> 00:07:59,720 Speaker 2: something else going on here. 150 00:07:59,760 --> 00:08:00,920 Speaker 4: But if there isn't, if. 151 00:08:00,840 --> 00:08:03,440 Speaker 3: It's just so annoyed, I know. 152 00:08:03,520 --> 00:08:05,720 Speaker 4: But if it's so, that's why I think there's something 153 00:08:05,760 --> 00:08:06,400 Speaker 4: else going on. 154 00:08:06,800 --> 00:08:10,600 Speaker 2: But if you're telling me Anonymous that everything else is 155 00:08:10,760 --> 00:08:14,760 Speaker 2: roses and champagne in your relationship, then one or two 156 00:08:14,880 --> 00:08:18,240 Speaker 2: things way the bad before you go alternate on the 157 00:08:18,280 --> 00:08:22,160 Speaker 2: middle seat, work or don't travel together. 158 00:08:23,000 --> 00:08:25,520 Speaker 1: Well two and a half years, I mean they might 159 00:08:25,560 --> 00:08:28,080 Speaker 1: be spending a life together, she. 160 00:08:28,080 --> 00:08:31,800 Speaker 2: Said, is great except when they travel. Yes, so don't 161 00:08:31,840 --> 00:08:35,600 Speaker 2: travel call us. We'll go with you, Susan. We'll sit 162 00:08:35,600 --> 00:08:36,400 Speaker 2: in the middle seat. 163 00:08:36,200 --> 00:08:37,240 Speaker 3: Thinking the question. 164 00:08:37,400 --> 00:08:40,200 Speaker 1: I don't want to be harsh, but you know there's 165 00:08:40,320 --> 00:08:43,000 Speaker 1: ways around this. Make a deal with the every other 166 00:08:43,080 --> 00:08:46,840 Speaker 1: seat he refuses, and you book an aisle and he 167 00:08:46,960 --> 00:08:48,840 Speaker 1: books the window and you don't even sick together. 168 00:08:49,160 --> 00:08:50,880 Speaker 3: Why he's a long freaking trip. 169 00:08:51,120 --> 00:08:54,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, I When she says two and a half years 170 00:08:54,160 --> 00:08:56,679 Speaker 2: they've been together, Anonymous, When you say I'm starting to 171 00:08:56,720 --> 00:08:58,600 Speaker 2: think this isn't a good sign for us, I would 172 00:08:58,960 --> 00:09:01,200 Speaker 2: ask you, and I'm not a theorist, but I would 173 00:09:01,200 --> 00:09:04,640 Speaker 2: say to you, maybe reevaluate what you really think of 174 00:09:04,679 --> 00:09:07,800 Speaker 2: your relationship. Are there other issues at play here? And 175 00:09:07,880 --> 00:09:12,200 Speaker 2: if there aren't, or call Susan me. We will go 176 00:09:12,240 --> 00:09:14,640 Speaker 2: to Hawaii with you, and Susan will sit in the middle. 177 00:09:14,800 --> 00:09:15,240 Speaker 3: I will not. 178 00:09:17,040 --> 00:09:17,920 Speaker 4: Well, you're out. 179 00:09:18,520 --> 00:09:20,280 Speaker 3: We can only go first class? 180 00:09:21,000 --> 00:09:25,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, right until we get there, however, I will carry 181 00:09:26,000 --> 00:09:28,160 Speaker 2: the luggage. I'll run through the airport with the luggage 182 00:09:28,160 --> 00:09:29,520 Speaker 2: for you, so that won't be a problem. 183 00:09:30,640 --> 00:09:32,079 Speaker 3: All right, But thank you for your question. 184 00:09:32,440 --> 00:09:42,840 Speaker 2: Let us know, let us know about your next trip. Okay, question. 185 00:09:42,960 --> 00:09:46,440 Speaker 2: Our next question is from Lily. She writes, Hi, ladies, 186 00:09:46,559 --> 00:09:49,000 Speaker 2: I'm really upset and I could use your help. I 187 00:09:49,120 --> 00:09:51,560 Speaker 2: was just on a girl's trip to South Florida with 188 00:09:51,760 --> 00:09:55,160 Speaker 2: five of my besties from college. The trip was fun 189 00:09:55,559 --> 00:09:59,480 Speaker 2: for about five seconds and then just turned into a mess. 190 00:10:00,440 --> 00:10:02,679 Speaker 2: On our first night, we ran into a group of 191 00:10:02,720 --> 00:10:04,960 Speaker 2: our guy friends that we knew were coming out here 192 00:10:05,080 --> 00:10:08,480 Speaker 2: as well. Turns out, two of my friends let's call 193 00:10:08,559 --> 00:10:12,400 Speaker 2: them live and Ellie like the same guy from that group. 194 00:10:12,720 --> 00:10:14,640 Speaker 4: Well, last night, Live was. 195 00:10:14,600 --> 00:10:17,280 Speaker 2: Flirting with him like crazy, and let's just say she 196 00:10:17,400 --> 00:10:21,719 Speaker 2: was successful, and Ellie was crushed, so crushed that she 197 00:10:21,880 --> 00:10:25,559 Speaker 2: bought a return flight, didn't tell anyone, and left before 198 00:10:25,600 --> 00:10:28,920 Speaker 2: any of us woke up. Oh dear god, drama, drama, drama. 199 00:10:29,320 --> 00:10:33,200 Speaker 2: Now Live and Ellie are having a nasty fallout. It 200 00:10:33,240 --> 00:10:37,320 Speaker 2: turns out that Ellie confided and Lived Aha confided and 201 00:10:37,400 --> 00:10:42,000 Speaker 2: Lived about her crush, but Live never mentioned anything about 202 00:10:42,200 --> 00:10:43,280 Speaker 2: liking that guy too. 203 00:10:43,600 --> 00:10:44,600 Speaker 4: How do we deal with this? 204 00:10:44,880 --> 00:10:47,040 Speaker 2: We're all planning to meet up and hash this out 205 00:10:47,120 --> 00:10:50,760 Speaker 2: later this week and I'm nervous. Thanks ladies, well, Susan Waite, 206 00:10:50,880 --> 00:10:53,280 Speaker 2: they've already hashed it out, so we don't know what 207 00:10:53,360 --> 00:10:56,080 Speaker 2: to tell you. It's already happened. So Lily let us know. 208 00:10:56,240 --> 00:10:57,760 Speaker 2: That's how we get out of this one. 209 00:10:57,800 --> 00:10:58,760 Speaker 3: It feels so bad. 210 00:10:58,840 --> 00:11:02,480 Speaker 1: But the other one wasn't being honest. Well, you know, 211 00:11:02,640 --> 00:11:05,120 Speaker 1: she could have said, oh my god, I have a crush. 212 00:11:04,880 --> 00:11:08,160 Speaker 4: To Live, could Live couldn't? 213 00:11:08,240 --> 00:11:10,880 Speaker 3: Yes, Yeah, well I feel but I don't know that 214 00:11:10,960 --> 00:11:13,000 Speaker 3: I would leave my trip. 215 00:11:14,360 --> 00:11:16,839 Speaker 2: Well, especially if you could get to sit in the 216 00:11:16,880 --> 00:11:18,840 Speaker 2: middle seat on the way home. You wouldn't want to 217 00:11:18,840 --> 00:11:23,079 Speaker 2: miss that opportunity. I think you're right, Susan. I think 218 00:11:23,240 --> 00:11:27,000 Speaker 2: the fact that that Ellie confide in and Live and 219 00:11:27,040 --> 00:11:29,040 Speaker 2: Live didn't say, hey. 220 00:11:28,920 --> 00:11:29,560 Speaker 3: I like him to. 221 00:11:29,800 --> 00:11:32,360 Speaker 2: I mean, come on, when you met when we make 222 00:11:33,280 --> 00:11:35,720 Speaker 2: when we met Frederick at the bar, did I or 223 00:11:35,760 --> 00:11:37,880 Speaker 2: did I not come right up to and say, Susan, 224 00:11:38,520 --> 00:11:40,520 Speaker 2: I think he's hot. I've got something for him too. 225 00:11:41,240 --> 00:11:43,480 Speaker 2: Oh I didn't, guys, it was a joke. 226 00:11:43,559 --> 00:11:46,120 Speaker 4: I did not do that. But no, I think that. 227 00:11:47,760 --> 00:11:51,800 Speaker 1: Where anything happens like with this guy, if two girlfriends 228 00:11:51,880 --> 00:11:54,440 Speaker 1: were talking about it, you'd have to say, oh my god, 229 00:11:54,480 --> 00:11:56,240 Speaker 1: I kind of have a crush on him too. But 230 00:11:56,480 --> 00:11:59,480 Speaker 1: I won't if you want, you know, it's up to 231 00:11:59,520 --> 00:12:02,400 Speaker 1: the God, of course. But I wouldn't do it like 232 00:12:02,440 --> 00:12:03,439 Speaker 1: that girl did. 233 00:12:03,240 --> 00:12:10,400 Speaker 2: It well well, I mean Ellie, Ellie told Live Live, 234 00:12:10,520 --> 00:12:14,200 Speaker 2: didn't tell Ellie and Live Live drew the lucky you know, 235 00:12:14,320 --> 00:12:16,959 Speaker 2: drew the lucky coin there she got the guy. So 236 00:12:17,120 --> 00:12:20,920 Speaker 2: I'm guessing Ellie was really embarrassed. And if they're asking 237 00:12:21,400 --> 00:12:24,320 Speaker 2: me what I would do, I think you guys, and 238 00:12:24,360 --> 00:12:26,959 Speaker 2: I know it's already probably already happened, but I would 239 00:12:27,040 --> 00:12:30,960 Speaker 2: encourage you, Lily and your friends to give Ellie a 240 00:12:30,960 --> 00:12:34,840 Speaker 2: lot of grace. I am sure she was angry, but 241 00:12:35,080 --> 00:12:38,720 Speaker 2: more than that, I bet she felt humiliated and to 242 00:12:38,760 --> 00:12:42,480 Speaker 2: see some of them are just live, no, just live? Yeah, 243 00:12:42,760 --> 00:12:46,320 Speaker 2: just then and Lee's I mean, because I think she 244 00:12:46,520 --> 00:12:49,040 Speaker 2: was so hurt by her good friend. 245 00:12:49,360 --> 00:12:51,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, well, I would have said something to her before 246 00:12:51,320 --> 00:12:52,760 Speaker 1: I ruined my whole trip. 247 00:12:53,200 --> 00:12:55,040 Speaker 2: Well, but that's the whole point. They're all on the 248 00:12:55,080 --> 00:12:58,600 Speaker 2: trip together. They're running to these guys. How's that going 249 00:12:58,679 --> 00:12:59,240 Speaker 2: to work for her? 250 00:12:59,360 --> 00:13:00,520 Speaker 4: I don't know. I might. 251 00:13:02,320 --> 00:13:04,520 Speaker 3: Crush on them, I mean, move on to the next one. 252 00:13:04,520 --> 00:13:08,200 Speaker 2: I'm guessing there. These are just out of college, they're young. 253 00:13:08,280 --> 00:13:12,079 Speaker 3: And i'd be pissed off at my girlfriend. I would. 254 00:13:12,640 --> 00:13:15,720 Speaker 2: Well, I feel sorry for you Ellie. I did, Lily. 255 00:13:15,760 --> 00:13:18,120 Speaker 2: I think you got to tread gently with Ellie. I 256 00:13:18,160 --> 00:13:21,200 Speaker 2: think she really was hurt and and I hope that 257 00:13:21,280 --> 00:13:23,520 Speaker 2: you guys can repair the friendship, because you know what, 258 00:13:23,840 --> 00:13:26,359 Speaker 2: good friends are hard to find. 259 00:13:26,320 --> 00:13:28,960 Speaker 1: Fine, and to be able to trust them and not 260 00:13:29,120 --> 00:13:31,280 Speaker 1: throw them under the bus like this one. 261 00:13:32,280 --> 00:13:33,240 Speaker 4: She didn't throw under the bus. 262 00:13:33,280 --> 00:13:36,000 Speaker 3: She just did just ahead and took what she wanted. 263 00:13:36,200 --> 00:13:41,920 Speaker 2: But oh, and you've never done that has that. No, No, 264 00:13:42,000 --> 00:13:43,880 Speaker 2: I don't mean a guy, I just meet in general. 265 00:13:44,000 --> 00:13:45,800 Speaker 2: You see something you want, you go after it. 266 00:13:46,200 --> 00:13:49,520 Speaker 1: Well, yes, absolutely, but she wasn't being fair or honest 267 00:13:49,600 --> 00:13:51,319 Speaker 1: when she told her that she likes them. 268 00:13:51,520 --> 00:13:52,400 Speaker 3: That's a hard one. 269 00:13:52,520 --> 00:13:53,000 Speaker 4: That's hard. 270 00:13:54,040 --> 00:13:56,360 Speaker 2: You're still that is now that meeting went, and I 271 00:13:56,400 --> 00:13:58,920 Speaker 2: hope you do preserve the friendships because, like I said, 272 00:13:59,160 --> 00:14:00,520 Speaker 2: good friends are hard to find. 273 00:14:02,120 --> 00:14:04,360 Speaker 4: Now my favorite favorite. 274 00:14:04,120 --> 00:14:10,360 Speaker 1: Truth or drink outlay around. We'll switch off reading the question, 275 00:14:10,520 --> 00:14:14,160 Speaker 1: but we'll both answer or up to drink. 276 00:14:14,440 --> 00:14:17,160 Speaker 2: Wait, can I just before you start? Before you start, 277 00:14:17,360 --> 00:14:22,000 Speaker 2: I got to take a drink. Hold on, Okay, carry on, 278 00:14:22,200 --> 00:14:22,640 Speaker 2: let's go. 279 00:14:23,080 --> 00:14:26,960 Speaker 1: What's the worst gift you received recently? 280 00:14:27,400 --> 00:14:28,680 Speaker 4: I gotta be honest. You're gonna laugh. 281 00:14:28,680 --> 00:14:32,520 Speaker 2: And I say this, anytime I get a gift, even 282 00:14:32,560 --> 00:14:34,600 Speaker 2: if I don't like it, I'm grateful for it. I 283 00:14:34,640 --> 00:14:39,920 Speaker 2: am so I don't I don't, I mean, I can't if. 284 00:14:39,800 --> 00:14:42,640 Speaker 3: It's something that I won't use her not crazy about. 285 00:14:43,080 --> 00:14:46,080 Speaker 3: I'm not. Sometimes I won't regift the gift that I 286 00:14:46,120 --> 00:14:48,560 Speaker 3: really don't care for. But but. 287 00:14:50,560 --> 00:14:54,120 Speaker 1: At the Christmas cookie exchange, oh god, you put it 288 00:14:54,160 --> 00:14:56,080 Speaker 1: in the pile and somebody has to take it with 289 00:14:56,120 --> 00:15:02,200 Speaker 1: a number. I put it in the attic until next year. 290 00:15:03,080 --> 00:15:04,600 Speaker 4: I've done that. I've done that. 291 00:15:04,840 --> 00:15:07,280 Speaker 2: I honestly can't think of a bad gift I've gotten. 292 00:15:07,280 --> 00:15:10,840 Speaker 2: All right, let's go to the next run. What's something 293 00:15:11,240 --> 00:15:14,920 Speaker 2: you think I assume about you? But you think I'm 294 00:15:15,080 --> 00:15:20,920 Speaker 2: dead wrong? What what do you think? 295 00:15:21,480 --> 00:15:26,960 Speaker 3: Oh? Do you think a lot of things sometimes that 296 00:15:27,000 --> 00:15:29,760 Speaker 3: you talk to me about? And I'll say, you have no. 297 00:15:29,840 --> 00:15:34,200 Speaker 1: Idea that I don't know specific right now? 298 00:15:35,400 --> 00:15:36,000 Speaker 4: Yeah, I don't know. 299 00:15:36,240 --> 00:15:41,040 Speaker 2: It's truthfully, you and I talk so much together. Yeah, 300 00:15:41,280 --> 00:15:45,120 Speaker 2: we can't because we hash it out usually, and we 301 00:15:45,200 --> 00:15:47,880 Speaker 2: don't friends do. Yeah, we don't assume. If we assume, 302 00:15:47,880 --> 00:15:50,480 Speaker 2: it's for about thirty seconds. All right, go ahead. 303 00:15:50,720 --> 00:15:54,520 Speaker 1: What do you think people say about our friendship relationship 304 00:15:54,800 --> 00:15:55,960 Speaker 1: when we're not around? 305 00:15:56,240 --> 00:15:56,440 Speaker 4: Oh? 306 00:15:56,640 --> 00:16:01,520 Speaker 1: God, well, we read social media well as lovers, which 307 00:16:01,560 --> 00:16:03,920 Speaker 1: were not No, we are best friends. 308 00:16:03,960 --> 00:16:06,080 Speaker 4: Did you hear the one I felt like it's a 309 00:16:06,200 --> 00:16:07,560 Speaker 4: joke in the Bart? Do you hear the one. 310 00:16:07,440 --> 00:16:12,800 Speaker 2: About when you came out about your relationship with Frederica? 311 00:16:13,320 --> 00:16:14,760 Speaker 2: I you know, I don't have much time to go 312 00:16:14,800 --> 00:16:17,520 Speaker 2: on social media these days, but I did go because 313 00:16:17,560 --> 00:16:19,160 Speaker 2: I was so happy for you guys to look at 314 00:16:19,160 --> 00:16:23,920 Speaker 2: your videos and stuff. And somebody wrote, wait, Susan's with 315 00:16:24,400 --> 00:16:26,440 Speaker 2: I thought she and Kathy were together? 316 00:16:27,520 --> 00:16:28,400 Speaker 4: Can I just tell you? 317 00:16:28,480 --> 00:16:31,880 Speaker 2: I was so itching to write back, not even close, 318 00:16:31,960 --> 00:16:33,920 Speaker 2: but I hope you have a good friend like Susan. 319 00:16:34,200 --> 00:16:35,480 Speaker 4: But I didn't. I just let it go. 320 00:16:35,920 --> 00:16:40,040 Speaker 2: But I think that's the thing people, I think the 321 00:16:39,440 --> 00:16:42,160 Speaker 2: thing they assume that we're either a couple, which were not, 322 00:16:42,800 --> 00:16:45,280 Speaker 2: or they don't think they think we've known each other 323 00:16:45,320 --> 00:16:47,440 Speaker 2: from before the Golden Bouchel, that we didn't meet on 324 00:16:47,440 --> 00:16:48,680 Speaker 2: the Golden Bacherl, which we did. 325 00:16:49,440 --> 00:16:50,880 Speaker 3: We did, and we're still friends. 326 00:16:50,960 --> 00:16:52,520 Speaker 2: And we're still friends at least for the next ten 327 00:16:52,520 --> 00:16:57,240 Speaker 2: minutes till this episode's over all. Right, WHOA, what's the 328 00:16:57,400 --> 00:16:59,400 Speaker 2: Oh god, I know what you're going to say. What's 329 00:16:59,440 --> 00:17:02,640 Speaker 2: the biggest you think I'm lying to myself about? I 330 00:17:02,680 --> 00:17:06,119 Speaker 2: know what you're gonna say, buying to yourself? Yeah, what 331 00:17:06,160 --> 00:17:07,520 Speaker 2: do you think I lie to myself? 332 00:17:07,720 --> 00:17:07,880 Speaker 1: Oh? 333 00:17:07,920 --> 00:17:08,879 Speaker 3: I know what it is? 334 00:17:09,080 --> 00:17:12,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, I knowthy Kathy sees weight when she looks in 335 00:17:12,920 --> 00:17:15,879 Speaker 1: the mirror, and she's so wrong, and all of you 336 00:17:15,960 --> 00:17:16,840 Speaker 1: will agree. 337 00:17:16,520 --> 00:17:19,720 Speaker 4: With that except my neck, skinny. You're right, that is true. 338 00:17:19,760 --> 00:17:22,560 Speaker 2: But that is called body dysmorphia, and a lot of 339 00:17:22,600 --> 00:17:24,159 Speaker 2: people have it, so it'll be nice to me. 340 00:17:25,200 --> 00:17:27,520 Speaker 1: You've had twenty years of therapy for it. It's still 341 00:17:27,560 --> 00:17:32,920 Speaker 1: not over it. Okay, come on, all right. 342 00:17:32,920 --> 00:17:37,840 Speaker 2: I just snorted. Wait, wait, I don't know what you 343 00:17:37,880 --> 00:17:39,480 Speaker 2: lie to you. Oh, I know what you lie to 344 00:17:39,480 --> 00:17:40,200 Speaker 2: yourself about. 345 00:17:40,800 --> 00:17:44,600 Speaker 3: Be careful, Susan. 346 00:17:45,240 --> 00:17:49,400 Speaker 2: Susan is, as you all know, Susan is a neatnick, 347 00:17:50,720 --> 00:17:54,600 Speaker 2: incredible neat nick. She lies to herself thinking she can 348 00:17:54,720 --> 00:17:58,600 Speaker 2: live in dirt, have dirtorent. She'll say, you know, oh, 349 00:17:58,760 --> 00:18:00,560 Speaker 2: I you know I didn't in fact him the floor 350 00:18:00,640 --> 00:18:05,640 Speaker 2: this week and okay whatever, yeah, exactly today. But it's okay, 351 00:18:05,640 --> 00:18:07,280 Speaker 2: I'm good with it. And then you know what she 352 00:18:07,320 --> 00:18:10,480 Speaker 2: does the next day. She's vacuumingd three times because she 353 00:18:10,600 --> 00:18:11,320 Speaker 2: missed the day. 354 00:18:11,520 --> 00:18:14,479 Speaker 4: Am I right? You think you can deal with something 355 00:18:14,520 --> 00:18:16,200 Speaker 4: not being clean, but you can't. 356 00:18:23,800 --> 00:18:29,120 Speaker 1: What's your most ridiculous ick that would instantly turn you 357 00:18:29,359 --> 00:18:30,760 Speaker 1: off someone? 358 00:18:31,200 --> 00:18:34,040 Speaker 2: A ridiculous sick? I know, but I don't know what's 359 00:18:34,040 --> 00:18:38,919 Speaker 2: a ridiculous sick. I mean, bad breath would turn me on? 360 00:18:39,040 --> 00:18:44,879 Speaker 1: Oh yes, bad teeth? Yeah, I wouldn't even go like 361 00:18:45,000 --> 00:18:45,439 Speaker 1: the next. 362 00:18:45,359 --> 00:18:47,320 Speaker 2: Time I meet a guy, I want to. It's like 363 00:18:47,440 --> 00:18:49,760 Speaker 2: being at the dentist. Stick out your tongue. Let me 364 00:18:49,800 --> 00:18:53,760 Speaker 2: look down at are How many teeth are you missing? 365 00:18:54,359 --> 00:18:55,639 Speaker 3: All Right? 366 00:18:55,920 --> 00:18:58,920 Speaker 1: If you had to guess who in recent seasons from 367 00:18:59,000 --> 00:19:04,400 Speaker 1: Bachelor Nation went on the respective show for the wrong reasons, 368 00:19:04,720 --> 00:19:06,360 Speaker 1: I got to answer that one. 369 00:19:06,840 --> 00:19:10,680 Speaker 2: You could or could not not? Oh golly, I mean 370 00:19:10,760 --> 00:19:11,760 Speaker 2: it's hard to know. 371 00:19:13,440 --> 00:19:17,359 Speaker 3: Because I know, I mean, you know, whatever the reasons. 372 00:19:17,560 --> 00:19:22,480 Speaker 4: All right, we got a dress? Hey, where's yours diary? 373 00:19:22,840 --> 00:19:23,480 Speaker 3: I have one? 374 00:19:25,240 --> 00:19:26,480 Speaker 4: It's why you're not having fun? 375 00:19:27,200 --> 00:19:28,680 Speaker 3: Who says I'm not having fun? 376 00:19:29,520 --> 00:19:30,239 Speaker 4: Yeah? I don't know. 377 00:19:30,560 --> 00:19:33,640 Speaker 1: What's the last person? Who's the last person you stalked 378 00:19:33,640 --> 00:19:34,480 Speaker 1: on Instagram? 379 00:19:34,840 --> 00:19:38,200 Speaker 4: That's easy you and Frederic, I wanted to. 380 00:19:38,359 --> 00:19:40,960 Speaker 3: That's not stalking, you tell you firsthand. 381 00:19:41,840 --> 00:19:44,359 Speaker 2: Know I'm saying that I wanted to see all your videos, 382 00:19:44,480 --> 00:19:45,760 Speaker 2: and you know that's stalking. 383 00:19:47,240 --> 00:19:51,000 Speaker 4: I mean, if you go looking for something on inside, I. 384 00:19:50,960 --> 00:19:56,880 Speaker 1: Think stalking means that you're secretly checking out everything they 385 00:19:56,960 --> 00:19:58,959 Speaker 1: write like you don't want anybody to know. 386 00:19:59,400 --> 00:19:59,960 Speaker 3: Is not st. 387 00:20:01,520 --> 00:20:03,760 Speaker 4: I guess, But I guess I don't. 388 00:20:03,520 --> 00:20:05,520 Speaker 3: Stalk all right, me either? 389 00:20:05,560 --> 00:20:09,040 Speaker 2: So we both have I drink again. My glass runneth 390 00:20:09,080 --> 00:20:11,120 Speaker 2: over tippe over. 391 00:20:13,480 --> 00:20:13,600 Speaker 3: All? 392 00:20:13,680 --> 00:20:13,800 Speaker 2: Right? 393 00:20:13,880 --> 00:20:14,520 Speaker 3: Who is the la? 394 00:20:16,119 --> 00:20:17,560 Speaker 4: You're okay? 395 00:20:18,720 --> 00:20:19,200 Speaker 3: Oh god? 396 00:20:19,840 --> 00:20:23,880 Speaker 2: If you had to get a tattoo today, what would 397 00:20:23,920 --> 00:20:25,960 Speaker 2: it be and why? 398 00:20:26,160 --> 00:20:29,560 Speaker 4: I can actually answer that, but I go first, what would. 399 00:20:29,640 --> 00:20:31,960 Speaker 3: If I had? I don't have anybody. 400 00:20:31,600 --> 00:20:33,320 Speaker 2: But maybe I won't have an answer, so I can drink, 401 00:20:33,359 --> 00:20:33,919 Speaker 2: but go ahead. 402 00:20:34,320 --> 00:20:37,600 Speaker 1: But if I had to get a tattoo today, it 403 00:20:37,640 --> 00:20:39,200 Speaker 1: would be the word Believe. 404 00:20:41,240 --> 00:20:41,880 Speaker 4: I like that. 405 00:20:43,280 --> 00:20:46,320 Speaker 1: I always thought about it, but I'm scared to get 406 00:20:46,359 --> 00:20:48,200 Speaker 1: one because I think it's gonna hurt. 407 00:20:48,520 --> 00:20:50,680 Speaker 4: Are you kidding me? Talk to Kyle. He'll hold your hand. 408 00:20:50,800 --> 00:20:54,800 Speaker 3: My sons have much you know what I would do? 409 00:20:55,119 --> 00:20:55,359 Speaker 4: What? 410 00:20:55,400 --> 00:20:59,800 Speaker 2: Well, what first came to mind for me was a butterfly, 411 00:21:00,960 --> 00:21:05,400 Speaker 2: because they're beautiful and they're free, and they're they're so 412 00:21:05,440 --> 00:21:06,399 Speaker 2: beautiful in nature. 413 00:21:06,520 --> 00:21:07,600 Speaker 4: That's the first thing that came to me. 414 00:21:08,080 --> 00:21:10,840 Speaker 3: Everybody would assume we would want a rose, Kathy. 415 00:21:12,280 --> 00:21:14,800 Speaker 2: Susan, let me let me say those live players. I 416 00:21:14,840 --> 00:21:18,840 Speaker 2: do not want one rose. I want all the roses. 417 00:21:19,680 --> 00:21:22,560 Speaker 2: I want the guy. I want the ring. I want 418 00:21:22,600 --> 00:21:25,680 Speaker 2: it all. Okay, you can have the roses. I want 419 00:21:25,680 --> 00:21:30,200 Speaker 2: the guy. Okay, we're done with the Roses. What's the 420 00:21:30,240 --> 00:21:33,480 Speaker 2: worst tattoo you've ever seen on someone? 421 00:21:36,440 --> 00:21:37,320 Speaker 4: You know what? I'm gonna be. 422 00:21:37,240 --> 00:21:39,920 Speaker 3: Honest when I thought, yeah, but you are to each 423 00:21:39,960 --> 00:21:40,399 Speaker 3: of these? 424 00:21:40,520 --> 00:21:40,919 Speaker 4: Yeah, I know. 425 00:21:40,960 --> 00:21:43,480 Speaker 2: But when I see some tattoos, I find myself like 426 00:21:43,640 --> 00:21:46,119 Speaker 2: staring at their arm, like I can't figure out what 427 00:21:46,240 --> 00:21:46,640 Speaker 2: it is. 428 00:21:46,960 --> 00:21:48,760 Speaker 3: It must mean something, I know. 429 00:21:48,920 --> 00:21:52,119 Speaker 1: I know who is the most famous person that follows 430 00:21:52,200 --> 00:21:56,159 Speaker 1: you on Instagram? 431 00:21:56,200 --> 00:21:58,280 Speaker 3: To tell you the truth, I don't know who follows 432 00:21:58,480 --> 00:22:00,919 Speaker 3: I don't either. I don't look at my followers. I 433 00:22:00,920 --> 00:22:03,440 Speaker 3: don't mean I read stuff from them and I love them. 434 00:22:03,480 --> 00:22:05,720 Speaker 2: But I've got some people in the check marks that 435 00:22:05,800 --> 00:22:07,720 Speaker 2: follow me, but I couldn't tell you who they are. 436 00:22:08,600 --> 00:22:10,159 Speaker 3: All right, how about the next one. 437 00:22:10,520 --> 00:22:14,720 Speaker 2: What was the craziest reaction you got from someone when 438 00:22:14,720 --> 00:22:18,560 Speaker 2: you revealed you would be going on the Golden Bachelor 439 00:22:18,600 --> 00:22:19,520 Speaker 2: for Reality TV? 440 00:22:20,960 --> 00:22:26,280 Speaker 1: The craziest reaction? Oh God, TV's not ready for you, Susan. 441 00:22:27,200 --> 00:22:31,200 Speaker 2: I think I think mine was my daughter, because when. 442 00:22:30,600 --> 00:22:32,440 Speaker 3: You're not doing this, are you? 443 00:22:32,960 --> 00:22:35,520 Speaker 2: You said, Mom, you're not serious about doing this? And 444 00:22:35,640 --> 00:22:38,439 Speaker 2: I said, hell, yeah, I'm serious. My daughter is not 445 00:22:38,520 --> 00:22:40,040 Speaker 2: quite as outcoming as I am. 446 00:22:40,160 --> 00:22:44,000 Speaker 1: All right, what's one thing from your night one that 447 00:22:44,119 --> 00:22:47,440 Speaker 1: you'll never that you've never talked about. 448 00:22:47,280 --> 00:22:50,960 Speaker 2: That you've never told Susan, you and I talk about everything. 449 00:22:51,080 --> 00:22:53,520 Speaker 4: We gotta know. You gotta drink, you gotta drink. 450 00:22:53,359 --> 00:22:54,560 Speaker 3: Take my water. 451 00:22:54,600 --> 00:22:56,359 Speaker 1: I'm going to have to pay and I won't be 452 00:22:56,359 --> 00:23:02,080 Speaker 1: able to. Well who from the see the next bachelor 453 00:23:02,280 --> 00:23:03,480 Speaker 1: or Bachelorette? 454 00:23:04,560 --> 00:23:05,520 Speaker 4: Can we just say me? 455 00:23:06,560 --> 00:23:09,000 Speaker 3: Yes, We'll say Kathy and that ends that. 456 00:23:09,240 --> 00:23:12,240 Speaker 2: So we know we know who the next Golden Bachelor's 457 00:23:12,280 --> 00:23:14,720 Speaker 2: But who would you like to see be the next 458 00:23:14,760 --> 00:23:15,960 Speaker 2: Golden Bachelorette? 459 00:23:18,240 --> 00:23:20,560 Speaker 1: Nancy if she doesn't fall in love, if she goes 460 00:23:20,560 --> 00:23:23,360 Speaker 1: to Paradise, I would love. 461 00:23:23,240 --> 00:23:26,240 Speaker 4: To see I think it would be perfect. I would 462 00:23:26,280 --> 00:23:28,760 Speaker 4: love to see Nancy. Who would you. 463 00:23:28,840 --> 00:23:34,720 Speaker 2: Like to see be the next bachelorette off of Grant Season? 464 00:23:37,000 --> 00:23:38,040 Speaker 4: Would you want Latia? 465 00:23:38,560 --> 00:23:39,000 Speaker 3: Latia? 466 00:23:39,880 --> 00:23:41,280 Speaker 4: You would want Latia? 467 00:23:41,320 --> 00:23:43,400 Speaker 3: I think she's so sweet. But I like a lot 468 00:23:43,440 --> 00:23:43,960 Speaker 3: of the girls. 469 00:23:43,960 --> 00:23:46,639 Speaker 4: I know, right, I think you know what. 470 00:23:46,720 --> 00:23:51,960 Speaker 1: I always wanted Maria to be the bachelorette from. 471 00:23:52,359 --> 00:23:56,680 Speaker 2: I mean, I think that would be total chaos, but yeah, 472 00:23:56,680 --> 00:24:01,160 Speaker 2: I would be exciting. But they don't the clothes, her 473 00:24:01,200 --> 00:24:02,320 Speaker 2: clothes would be amazing. 474 00:24:02,720 --> 00:24:04,639 Speaker 4: God, Cary would make sure that. 475 00:24:04,680 --> 00:24:08,119 Speaker 3: No, I wouldchelorette. I have clothes. 476 00:24:08,240 --> 00:24:10,760 Speaker 2: Let me tell you, Susan, you have clothes, and you're 477 00:24:10,800 --> 00:24:13,040 Speaker 2: not the Golden bacheloret You don't need an excuse to 478 00:24:13,080 --> 00:24:18,159 Speaker 2: have clothes. No, I think I think from from our season, 479 00:24:18,280 --> 00:24:21,439 Speaker 2: I would love to see Nancy. I think she was 480 00:24:21,480 --> 00:24:23,600 Speaker 2: there so short. I think needs to make a great 481 00:24:23,720 --> 00:24:27,840 Speaker 2: Golden Bachelorette. She's elegant and sweet and lovely. She deserves love. 482 00:24:28,160 --> 00:24:30,880 Speaker 1: And then you know what, maybe she's gonna go on 483 00:24:31,040 --> 00:24:34,360 Speaker 1: Paradise and get engaged and I get to do another wad. 484 00:24:35,080 --> 00:24:37,520 Speaker 2: Well maybe she won't get married, Mischel, just get engaged. 485 00:24:37,560 --> 00:24:38,359 Speaker 4: Hey, what you know? 486 00:24:38,480 --> 00:24:41,520 Speaker 2: Come on, Susan, here's if she were the Golden Bachelorette. 487 00:24:41,960 --> 00:24:44,880 Speaker 2: She could bring us well you're already taken. She could 488 00:24:44,920 --> 00:24:48,120 Speaker 2: bring me on, and I could, you know, scout out 489 00:24:48,200 --> 00:24:50,360 Speaker 2: all the guys and take listen, if you don't pick 490 00:24:50,440 --> 00:24:51,640 Speaker 2: this one, I want. 491 00:24:51,920 --> 00:24:53,800 Speaker 3: I'm available, I'm able. 492 00:24:54,200 --> 00:24:56,760 Speaker 2: I'm just on a grand season. Like I don't know, 493 00:24:57,119 --> 00:25:00,679 Speaker 2: they were the most I think day were some of 494 00:25:00,680 --> 00:25:03,480 Speaker 2: the best, honestly of any. 495 00:25:03,320 --> 00:25:05,760 Speaker 3: Season ones too. 496 00:25:06,720 --> 00:25:08,439 Speaker 2: All right, So I got a question for it. This 497 00:25:08,600 --> 00:25:10,600 Speaker 2: is a truth or drink, and you can't lie and 498 00:25:10,800 --> 00:25:13,440 Speaker 2: you can't drink water. One go for it, all right, 499 00:25:13,520 --> 00:25:17,960 Speaker 2: it's gonna be a good one. Have you ever hooked 500 00:25:18,040 --> 00:25:22,560 Speaker 2: up with someone you didn't know? And do I need 501 00:25:22,600 --> 00:25:24,080 Speaker 2: to explain to you what hokey not means? Because I 502 00:25:24,080 --> 00:25:25,200 Speaker 2: had you about six months ago. 503 00:25:25,720 --> 00:25:28,040 Speaker 1: You're talking sex? See right away, I thought, did I 504 00:25:28,119 --> 00:25:31,160 Speaker 1: kiss anybody I didn't know? You mean have sex with somebody? 505 00:25:31,320 --> 00:25:31,639 Speaker 4: Yes? 506 00:25:32,480 --> 00:25:33,359 Speaker 3: Now I have not. 507 00:25:34,520 --> 00:25:37,240 Speaker 2: Okay, Well, you need to drink because you told the truth. 508 00:25:37,280 --> 00:25:39,879 Speaker 2: Because you told the truth, you drink. 509 00:25:41,480 --> 00:25:43,480 Speaker 4: You know what? At this point, who cares? All right? 510 00:25:43,560 --> 00:25:46,399 Speaker 2: What about this one? What is by the way, I 511 00:25:46,440 --> 00:25:48,800 Speaker 2: can honestly say I have not either. 512 00:25:48,960 --> 00:25:52,360 Speaker 1: What a text or text you sent an ex and 513 00:25:52,480 --> 00:25:53,439 Speaker 1: recredit it? 514 00:25:54,280 --> 00:25:57,400 Speaker 4: I haven't. I mean I've sent text to X, but. 515 00:25:57,480 --> 00:25:59,600 Speaker 3: Never many times. 516 00:26:00,080 --> 00:26:03,000 Speaker 2: Then do you let me just tell you something? People 517 00:26:03,040 --> 00:26:05,439 Speaker 2: and you don't even drink that much. But my my 518 00:26:05,720 --> 00:26:09,320 Speaker 2: advice to people who drink and have a breakup, turn 519 00:26:09,440 --> 00:26:13,640 Speaker 2: off your phone before you pour the first drink, really seriously, 520 00:26:13,840 --> 00:26:14,600 Speaker 2: because you don't. 521 00:26:14,480 --> 00:26:17,760 Speaker 3: Usually delete their number and then give it to somebody. 522 00:26:17,880 --> 00:26:20,560 Speaker 1: And yeah, because I'm bad, I have to have the 523 00:26:20,640 --> 00:26:23,280 Speaker 1: last word or I have to say how sorry I 524 00:26:23,320 --> 00:26:24,199 Speaker 1: am for leaving you. 525 00:26:24,640 --> 00:26:29,199 Speaker 4: Oh yeah, okay, this was a blast. This was a 526 00:26:29,240 --> 00:26:30,359 Speaker 4: blast as it wasn't. 527 00:26:30,400 --> 00:26:31,639 Speaker 3: Thank you guys for listening. 528 00:26:31,760 --> 00:26:34,600 Speaker 2: Be sure to follow us at Bachelor Happy Hour. We 529 00:26:34,640 --> 00:26:38,840 Speaker 2: have new episodes coming out. We're really talking about important 530 00:26:38,840 --> 00:26:42,000 Speaker 2: things like what is hooking up? What is gas lighting? 531 00:26:42,480 --> 00:26:43,840 Speaker 2: What was the last wait? 532 00:26:43,960 --> 00:26:45,800 Speaker 4: What is sex? 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