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Speaker 1: Which is different than me, who doesn't approach anybody in person.

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Speaker 3: Because I'm a shy boy. Shy boy gets nervous.

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Speaker 4: But like Jeff, that's actually Jeff's real personality as everyone knows.

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Speaker 3: Don't tell them.

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Speaker 1: Just like Jeff Goldbloom said in Jurassic Park, life finds

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Speaker 1: a way, and so did our listener Connor, because in

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Speaker 1: his email to us, he said he's trying something new

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Speaker 1: to meet people more organically these days, and watching TikTok

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Speaker 3: How you doing.

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Speaker 5: I'm doing all right, brother, How you doing? Hey?

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Speaker 2: There's nothing more organic than following TikTok trends. My friend, Hey,

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I am a little bit shy just to talk

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Speaker 5: I came across this trend where Apparently these girls are

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Speaker 2: Okay, wait real quick, I'm picturing like the tailor friendship

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Speaker 1: Why do you know so quickly?

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Speaker 2: TikTok.

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Speaker 1: I could see the merit in it because then you

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and if.

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Speaker 1: The guy doesn't call you, then you're like, cool, I

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Speaker 2: Little free brace Yeah, he's totally gonna wear that way.

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Speaker 3: Connor, how did that help?

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Speaker 5: You had this random thought?

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Speaker 5: I was like girls could do it, we should be

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Speaker 4: That's right, my friend make your friendship bracelets.

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Speaker 3: So you you did some arts and crafts for yourself.

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Speaker 5: Actually, I got one of my lady friends to help

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Speaker 2: To streak some beads.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, we'd be lost.

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Speaker 2: The way you're doing it. It's funny.

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Speaker 1: Well, yeah, a little kookie maybe, But is this something

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Speaker 4: I imagined him having the bracelets in his pocket and

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Speaker 1: Yeah, like you always have them on deck, That's what

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Speaker 1: Oh wow, okay, So how many bracelets total did you

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Speaker 3: But yeah, that's.

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Speaker 1: I hit it off with this girl named ains Lick Ainsley. Okay,

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Speaker 5: We got some lunch.

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Speaker 4: Okay, that makes sense, like random guy and bracelet.

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Speaker 5: She was still wearing her bracelet. I guess that's a

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Speaker 5: No, I just you know, I put a little note

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Speaker 5: Apparently it reminded her of the show called Love Island.

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Speaker 1: We'll reach out to Ainsley for you.

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Speaker 1: We just learned the hot new way to meet women,

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Speaker 1: and that's friendship bracelets with your phone number on the Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Our listener Connor found on TikTok where women are doing

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Speaker 1: The two of them met up for a date, talked

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Speaker 1: Oh okay, well we can call all of your options

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Speaker 4: With the confidence you say, like three out of twelve texts, still.

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Speaker 1: So let's keep that confidence going. I'm gonna dial Ainsley's

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Speaker 3: All right, here we go. Now, Hey, oh we're looking

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Speaker 3: Date Update Okay, okay, And.

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Speaker 1: That's something where we reach out to people who've gone

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Speaker 2: It could be fun though. It could be somebody that

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and in this case it's a guy named Connor.

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Speaker 7: Can maybe go out with him again? He was nice?

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Speaker 5: Oh?

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Speaker 2: So you are going to call Connor back and go

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Speaker 1: Again too, because Connor is the one who gave you

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Speaker 6: On this other I like this, That's what I'm saying,

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Speaker 7: I don't want to burn a bridge.

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Speaker 4: Okay, but but you're burning a bridge right now by

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Speaker 2: All you're doing is liking his text.

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Speaker 6: I mean I just don't want to lead anyone on,

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Speaker 4: I think you are going eighty steps ahead of yourself here.

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Speaker 2: You guys have had one lunch date.

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Speaker 5: You know.

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Speaker 4: I think if you were just honest with him and

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Speaker 6: I mean, yeah, that's why I'm willing to go out

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Speaker 1: Well, I think Connor would feel very reassured if you

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Speaker 7: Yeah, that's fair.

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Speaker 1: Oh texting text Cotton, Well, I think there's a very

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Speaker 3: I don't think.

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Speaker 1: I don't think we need any of that, because there's

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Speaker 3: So yeah, Brook and Jeffrey Island. Connor, are you there?

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Speaker 1: Do you want to say hi to Ainsley?

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Speaker 5: I didn't know you were hanging out with somebody else,

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Speaker 6: Okay, Okay, So like it, like it wouldn't bother you

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I don't know if it bothers me, but I

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Speaker 6: Yeah, Like, what does that mean?

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Speaker 3: Connor?

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Speaker 1: Don't blow this you You had a yes when I

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Speaker 1: it's flipped to and I don't know, stick up for yourself.

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Speaker 2: No, wait, why are you being defended?

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Speaker 4: Like, I'm confused, Connor, because you told us you had

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Speaker 2: I mean, isn't that what dating is?

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Speaker 5: Listen, don't tell her that. I mean that was between

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Birk, what are you doing?

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Speaker 1: You're trying to submarine him.

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Speaker 2: She has options, he has everyone who's single. It is.

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Speaker 1: It's something that we all acknowledge, but we don't actually

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Speaker 3: It's a secret.

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Speaker 2: Well that's the problem. It doesn't need to be a secret, Connor.

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Speaker 2: You don't need to, like feign like.

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Speaker 4: You're upset about it. You can't be upset about it

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Speaker 1: You don't have to have anybody tell you how to

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Speaker 3: Connor, It's okay, just talk to Ainslie.

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Speaker 5: Honestly, I'm not upset about it, right. I am surprised.

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Speaker 5: I thought you and me was really trying to work

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Speaker 5: this out. You just seem like a dope, awesome person.

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Speaker 5: I kind of feel like we're a good match.

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Speaker 2: That's so cute, Ainsley.

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Speaker 6: Listen, Connor, I Honestly, it's really sweet and I really

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Speaker 7: So I mean, yeah, I mean I do think you

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Speaker 1: Okay, we're back, Connor, well done.

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Speaker 5: That's amazing to hear. I just kind of want to

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Speaker 5: to pass on this next guy, right, because we're chilling,

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Speaker 5: We're getting to know each other, what you know. I'm

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Speaker 5: just trying to figure this out, right, So are you

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Speaker 7: Wow?

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Speaker 6: Okay, So like now you're giving off some pretty serious

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Speaker 2: I know that that's the case.

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Speaker 4: I mean, Connor, you would be doing the same thing, right,

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Speaker 5: Skill her Like yeah, yeah, that's exactly what I'm talking about.

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Speaker 5: I'm not seeing anybody.

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Speaker 6: You literally just said you had other options, Like maybe

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Speaker 2: Wait what.

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Speaker 4: Ainsley, here's the thing, Like, how do you He's just saying,

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Speaker 2: Of not.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Connor, remind her of the good times that you

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Speaker 5: Yeah, we bonded over Love Island, I gave you the

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Speaker 7: Yeah okay, I did like that. Maybe maybe we should

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Speaker 1: Okay, well, okay, it's at this point I cautioned Connor

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Speaker 1: here for a second date.

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Speaker 2: Maybe they should just go to a movie so they

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm just.

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Speaker 1: Gonna officially ask now. Now that she seems to be

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Speaker 3: Do you want to hang out with Ainsley?

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Speaker 5: Honestly? Yeah, I don't.

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Speaker 4: Know what.

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Speaker 3: Connor, dude, all you have. All you had to say

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Speaker 5: Yeah, you know, but I just don't know if we should.

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Speaker 2: This is what, So just make a choice.

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Speaker 3: So now, Connor, you don't want to go out with

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Speaker 3: Oh my god?

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Speaker 5: Okay, listen, I really thought I liked you. I thought

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Speaker 5: But listen, I do have another girl, okay, and I

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Speaker 1: You guys, we've come to an agreement. They both have

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Speaker 3: To each other.

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Speaker 2: This is why people give up on duty.

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Speaker 1: So Ainsley, it looks like officially it's a no and

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Speaker 7: So yeah, this was a lot.

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Speaker 6: Thanks for calling and ruiney my day a little bit,

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Speaker 7: Yeah, at least I know Connor is no longer an option.

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Speaker 5: Are you sure about that?

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, Connor, we're hanging up brooking Jeffrey in

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Speaker 3: Oh my god.

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Speaker 1: That was so frustrating to be a part of.

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Speaker 3: I'm so glad it's over.

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Speaker 2: It's awful.

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Speaker 1: And I thought Brooke brought up a really good point

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Speaker 2: I mean, I get it.

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Speaker 4: It's like going to a restaurant like the Cheesecake Factory

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Speaker 2: Yes, many flavors out there.

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Speaker 1: You just got to come back once every day, get

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Speaker 2: Stick to the one thing you like.

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Speaker 3: Maybe.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it is funny that these two were kind of

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Speaker 1: we don't vote anybody off the Brook and Jeffrey Island.

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Speaker 1: Just go to our podcast, have a drink, stay awhile,

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Speaker 1: take your pants off, listen to all of our second

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Speaker 1: It's online wherever you get your podcasts.

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Speaker 2: I bet a lot of people do have their pants off.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and we support that. Okay, you'll find them online

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