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Speaker 1: and listen. If you need advice on relationships, on sex,

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Speaker 1: your Strawberry Letter to Steve Harvey FM and click submit

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Speaker 1: Strawberry Letter. We could be reading your letter live on

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Speaker 1: the air, just like we're gonna read this one right now.

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Speaker 1: Buggle up, hold on tight. We gotta for you. Here.

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Speaker 1: It is Strawberry Letter. Subject is a good heart and

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Speaker 1: good personality. Enough, here's Stephen Shirley. I've been dating someone

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Speaker 1: He loves the Lord, and he has a great personality

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Speaker 1: He fit in like a glove and they both told

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Speaker 1: The day after my boyfriend met my parents, I told

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Speaker 1: He totally avoided the conversation and started talking about the

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Speaker 1: here's my problem with what he said. It's a lie. Surely.

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Speaker 1: By him not wanting me to meet his family, I'm

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Speaker 1: He always says is dating me for my heart and personality,

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Speaker 1: So does that mean I'm not pretty enough to meet them?

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Speaker 1: All right? Well, first of all, you guys have only

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Speaker 1: Just because you tell a person how you feel doesn't

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Speaker 1: but before um, you know, before I go and hand

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Speaker 1: come on, Steve, anyone I'm seeing this. Let us started

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Speaker 1: It's a lie Shirley because she knows. Shirley gonna side

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Speaker 1: Hold on, hold on, heart and personality. All right, Look,

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Speaker 1: twenty three after the hour. Today's strawberry letter subject is

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Speaker 1: Come on, let's recap today's strawberry letter is a good

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Speaker 1: beyond ninety days. Damn. He told us to write that down.

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Speaker 1: and he felt the pressure. When the ninety days was up.

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Speaker 1: her lost Sherley. He talked to his mom at least

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Speaker 1: Here we go, this is what this letter is all about. Like,

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Speaker 1: He always says he's dating me from my heart and personality.

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Speaker 1: So does that mean I'm not pretty enough to meet them? Well,

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Speaker 1: his name is Jerome, Mama, daddy, this Jerone? Hw did

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Speaker 1: fnna get better. It's gonna get worse. And a sad

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Speaker 1: today's Part three for me, subject is a good heart

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Speaker 1: coming up. You're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, Steve,

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Speaker 1: we're gonna do a part three of today's Strawberry Letter.

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Speaker 1: The object is a good heart and good personality enough.

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Speaker 1: A young lady wrote in She's been dating a guy

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Speaker 1: for four months so far. He's amazing. He loves the lord,

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Speaker 1: now I think it's time for me to meet your parents.

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Speaker 1: Oh look the situation. He changed the subjects, started talking

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Speaker 1: about the NBA. You take it from there, Steve gohead.

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Speaker 1: then he turned to let her down east. He said, look,

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Speaker 1: she told Shirley, Shirley, that's a lie. That is a lie, Shirley.

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Speaker 1: He talks to his MoMA twice a week. He texts

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Speaker 1: his sisters every day. He showed me for tough day

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Speaker 1: certain he go by the house up day checker. He

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Speaker 1: little bit self conscious, like maybe I'm not the type

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Speaker 1: You already know that you're the one bought it up.

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Speaker 1: I wasn't gonna say nothing. About the letter. But you

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Speaker 1: said I'm not the type. He always says he's dating

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Speaker 1: me for my heart and personality. That's what he told you.

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Speaker 1: He ain't saying you're danking you for your looks. He

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Speaker 1: to just trust in that, because that's he ain't giving

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Speaker 1: you nothing else. He's not in it for your looks.

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Speaker 1: He's in it. You're dating you because of your heart

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Speaker 1: and your personality, and you're probably pretty good. I'm just saying, yeah,

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Speaker 1: he never said it. She never said he told her

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Speaker 1: me explain something. If you never heard a person tell

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Speaker 1: you in your life if you're beautiful, it's probably cause

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Speaker 1: you're not well. She didn't say that in the letters, Steve, Huh,

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Speaker 1: she didn't say that in the letter. Oh, it's all

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Speaker 1: in this, in this, damn. He always says he's dating

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Speaker 1: me for my heart and personality. That means you're not acute.

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Speaker 1: You ain't cute? So does that mean I'm not pretty

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Speaker 1: enough to meet them? Are you pretty enough to meet him?

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Speaker 1: But he's not gonna introduce you as his woman? Oh

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Speaker 1: that's all you can go. You can meet him anytime,

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Speaker 1: but just don't tell him. Y'all been together, you see

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Speaker 1: you better see him. How can I let him know

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Speaker 1: how I feel? Just walk around and know what you

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Speaker 1: and tell him, Hey, all right, I'm not feeling this hill?

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Speaker 1: All right? Look? Could we all right listen? We gotta

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