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Speaker 2: All right, guys, Moraliti Monday on a Thursday? How about

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Speaker 2: that morality Monday on a Thursday. This one is very simple.

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Speaker 2: I'm not even gonna read you the whole story. I'm

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Speaker 2: just going to read you the headline. And I think

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Speaker 2: this will be enough. In honor of weddings and engagements, Kiki, yes,

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Speaker 2: and all these things, and this comes to us from

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Speaker 2: a guy named Big Tim. It's weird eight five five, five,

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Speaker 2: nine to one one three. But this is m I

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Speaker 2: the a hole for postponing our wedding because my fiance

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Speaker 2: wants her ex boyfriend's ashes involves in the ceremony.

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Speaker 1: What what would you do? I gotta hear.

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Speaker 2: I gotta hear from the people you can call them

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Speaker 2: texta the same number eight five, five, five nine one

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Speaker 1: So you're getting married and.

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Speaker 2: You're in the wedding planning stages and your significant other says, hey,

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Speaker 2: look marrying you. You know, my ex boyfriend Max's girlfriend died,

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Speaker 2: and I think the urn should be up there with us,

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Speaker 2: just right next to the thing.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I don't. I don't know how else you

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Speaker 1: would involve. I don't.

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Speaker 2: I don't know how they're involved. They're in your pocket

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Speaker 2: or whatever. But why is this other person? I don't

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Speaker 2: mean to be insensitive, I really don't, But why is

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Speaker 2: this other person involved in our wedding?

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Speaker 1: You're marrying me.

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Speaker 2: That person, whether they're alive or dead, is not should

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Speaker 2: not be part of the equation. Like I saw another

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Speaker 2: one last week on TikTok, where it was it was

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Speaker 2: a woman saying that herr husban but now that I

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Speaker 2: think they just got married on their honeymoon, looked at

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Speaker 2: her phone for some reason and saw that she had

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Speaker 2: texted her boyfriend ex boyfriend goodbye before she got married.

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Speaker 1: Well, yeah, but what would goodbye like?

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Speaker 2: What?

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Speaker 1: Why are we talking to this?

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Speaker 2: Why are we involving any other human being that we

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Speaker 2: used to sleep with?

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Speaker 1: You gotta say goodbye. It's a bomvoyage.

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Speaker 2: I'm not moving to you know, Barbados or something like,

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Speaker 2: I can't never see you again. I'm not going to

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Speaker 2: Mars one way ticket on a westbound train, see how

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Speaker 2: for I can go?

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Speaker 1: You know I'm not doing that. But what would you do?

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Speaker 2: What would you do if, Kiki, if Big Tim comes

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Speaker 2: to you as your wedding planning? Now, the wedding of

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Speaker 2: the century. Everyone's talking about it. People on my Instagram

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Speaker 2: or in my dms are lobbying for the plus one.

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Speaker 2: They're trying to get into this. Hands had nothing to

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Speaker 2: do with me. They just want to see this event,

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Speaker 2: the event of the century that will be at some point,

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Speaker 2: hopefully it takes less time than it did for him

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Speaker 2: to propose.

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Speaker 1: But what would you do? Would you let me pick

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Speaker 1: your date for my wedding. No, why I agree? No

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Speaker 1: you should? I think I should?

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Speaker 2: Yeah no, no, yeah no because because you I've seen

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Speaker 2: what you've tried to do with Calen when she was single,

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Speaker 2: and it was every you're like my mom. Every single

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Speaker 2: person that walked by was like, I think that person

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Speaker 2: likes you. You should go out with him. So, no, you're

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Speaker 2: not discerning. I'm sorry, but I don't trust you. I'm

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Speaker 2: sorry you have. You have squandered your opportunity to change

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Speaker 2: for me, because I have to choose for me because

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Speaker 2: I've seen, I'm seeing how you just every guy that

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Speaker 2: walked by and be like, I think he likes you, Calen,

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Speaker 2: you should go out with him. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: It didn't matter who it was. Yeah, every person's coworkers,

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Speaker 1: it didn't matter who it was.

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Speaker 2: The police officer that arrested her, I think he likes you. No,

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Speaker 2: he's arresting me. This is not fund He's on fun handcuffs.

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Speaker 2: What would you do though?

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Speaker 3: It?

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Speaker 2: Big Tim's like, look, she passed away. I didn't know

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Speaker 2: you at the time. Uh, you know, the relationship meant

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Speaker 2: a lot to me. You know, you obviously the person

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Speaker 2: I want to be with. But hey, can we, like,

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Speaker 2: you know, loop this person in something.

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Speaker 3: I'm like, well, you can join her, would you would

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Speaker 3: you like to be next to her?

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Speaker 1: Internally?

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Speaker 3: We can make that happen because if you ask me

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Speaker 3: something like that, you're headed that way.

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Speaker 1: No tolerance, No tolerance.

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Speaker 3: Now there's no reason why your ex ashes her shoes

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Speaker 3: anything would need to be at my wedding.

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Speaker 1: That makes no sense. Always says to me, is that

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Speaker 1: you have not let go.

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Speaker 3: You have not let go to the like to me,

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Speaker 3: it's creepy, and I would actually call off the wedding.

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Speaker 2: This isn't the this isn't a grandparent, this isn't a family,

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Speaker 2: and I would I would even I mean, I don't know.

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Speaker 2: I guess you process however you want to process.

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Speaker 1: I don't might.

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Speaker 3: No, it's an absolute no for me and a big

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Speaker 3: red red flag.

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Speaker 2: There was some talk at my sister's wedding about an

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Speaker 2: empty seat for my grandfather, who was very important to us.

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Speaker 2: But it's like he's there anyway.

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Speaker 1: We're not. We're not. That's very dramatic. We're not doing

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Speaker 1: stuff like that, but like he's watching it.

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Speaker 2: He's watching over us though, Like I don't think everybody

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Speaker 2: everyone at the wedding.

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Speaker 1: Knew the man and knew how happy he would be

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Speaker 1: to be there. We didn't need it. It was very

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Speaker 1: we didn't do it. You could have little more, more

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Speaker 1: and stuff like this set up.

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Speaker 3: I think that's nice for grandparents and siblings who have

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Speaker 3: made passed on, but an ex absolutely not.

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Speaker 2: I have pictures of my grandfather over my eyes. He's

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Speaker 2: watching over me. I don't need to have an empty

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Speaker 2: seat in the studio because he inspired me to do radio.

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Speaker 2: I don't though, we wouldn't call you, well, I don't,

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Speaker 2: but we're not though.

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Speaker 1: I don't know.

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Speaker 2: It's just like these some things are in the past

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Speaker 2: and they're the memory and you cherish them and they're

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Speaker 2: inside of you, you know. But I don't know why

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Speaker 2: that has to be involved in And again that's different.

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Speaker 2: That's a different situation than this. I mean, if she

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Speaker 2: left an empty seat for her ex boyfriend, you know that,

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Speaker 2: that's I don't. It would have been fine the other way,

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Speaker 2: but this way is like, what are you doing?

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Speaker 1: It's insane. I want to know.

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Speaker 2: Someone said, I want to know why she has his ashes,

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Speaker 2: and that is family.

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Speaker 1: It's a very good question. You can split ashes, But again,

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Speaker 1: why are you holding on your ex boyfriends? I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I mean I guess, Okay, well you would allow this.

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Speaker 4: Of course, Yeah, I was just my best friend was

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Speaker 4: just in this position. She lost her boyfriend unexpectedly, and

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Speaker 4: her fiance was incredible about anything that she needed to do.

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Speaker 4: I told you that her exes who passed away, his

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Speaker 4: mom wanted to pay for stuff for the bachelorette. It's

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Speaker 4: it takes a special person to be able to be

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Speaker 4: with someone who lost someone in that way, because the

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Speaker 4: relationship would not have ended had they not died, you

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Speaker 4: know what I mean?

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Speaker 1: But he was I don't know.

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Speaker 4: I just think, like they're gone, it's okay for them

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Speaker 4: to want to honor them at the wedding.

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Speaker 1: You guys, everyone, Yeah, like what if?

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Speaker 4: What if they were alive and broken up and he

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Speaker 4: would have been invited to the wedding. Some people invite

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Speaker 4: access to the wedding.

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Speaker 1: I wouldn't. I wouldn't want that either. What are we

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Speaker 1: doing that for? Why are we inviting your ex? Just

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Speaker 1: marry him? Then? Right, he's right there. We're not We're not.

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Speaker 1: We're not go no hardly for this, No, absolutely not.

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Speaker 1: I also don't really have access to invite like that

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Speaker 1: or like.

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Speaker 2: That dead or live, but like I, some of them

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Speaker 2: are in jail, so well that's probably.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. I don't. I don't play that.

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Speaker 5: I think we can honor your your past loved one

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Speaker 5: in another way.

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Speaker 1: Day another day, just like another day. But you go

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Speaker 1: to the cemetery together, like, I'll do that with you.

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Speaker 2: But we're not in the west seeing you to ignore

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Speaker 2: that that person ever existed. I'm not asking you not

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Speaker 2: or even photographs. I'm not asking for any of that, right,

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Speaker 2: I just I don't why are we doing that on

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Speaker 2: it's our it's our union, it's our I don't care

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Speaker 2: you're right dead or alive.

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Speaker 1: I don't really care.

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Speaker 4: I think you guys would feel differently if you had

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Speaker 4: a front row seat of someone losing their X and

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Speaker 1: I think you really would feel differently. It's a really

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Speaker 1: tough thing to go through. For sure.

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Speaker 2: If I we're going to marry someone and they were like,

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Speaker 2: I want my ex boyfriend to earn on the altar

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Speaker 2: when we get married, my I'm sorry, but I would say, Okay,

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Speaker 2: you're not detached from this, like you're still connected in

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Speaker 2: a way that might not. But we maybe we maybe

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Speaker 2: we don't need to do this right now, like maybe

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Speaker 2: maybe you need to process that a little further.

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Speaker 4: Compromise, like not on the altar, but like some involvement

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Speaker 4: in the day.

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Speaker 2: I guess for me, it's not that you need to

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Speaker 2: do that in itself, it's that you need to do

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Speaker 2: that on our wedding day.

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Speaker 1: That's what I mean.

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Speaker 2: Like like if you, however, you need to process things, tragic

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Speaker 2: things that happened to you, Like that's you're right by

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Speaker 2: all means do that, but like why why is this

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Speaker 2: person propped up next to the ice sculpture at the

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Speaker 2: you know.

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Speaker 1: At the bar, right next to the taco bar, Like

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Speaker 1: what are we doing? Guys? Like I don't know.

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Speaker 2: I'm going through these texts like man, I'm back his ashes, Yeah, yeah.

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Speaker 1: I don't.

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Speaker 2: I don't think so it's not happening. I think everyone agrees.

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Speaker 2: Everyone agrees with me.

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Speaker 1: I would be fine with that, of course, would you don't, Jason?

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Speaker 1: You let everybody do everything. Sometimes you can say.

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Speaker 5: I know, why are you threatened by someone that's not living.

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Speaker 5: I'm not threatened, but you don't marry them. So like Okay,

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Speaker 5: that means but that's.

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Speaker 2: All you're saying, Jason, is that you would have married

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Speaker 2: them if they hadn't died. And that's going to be

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Speaker 2: why I have to be reminded of that at my wedding.

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Speaker 5: That's why Kailen said, like it takes a very special

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Speaker 5: person to be in that situation, Like you have to

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Speaker 5: be called and given and that's a different level of

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Speaker 5: security that I will probably never be able to know.

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Speaker 5: But like you have to know that, like, like Kailyn said,

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Speaker 5: Like that could potentially be their soulmate, like, and you

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Speaker 5: only have so many of those in the lifetime, right, Like, so.

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Speaker 1: It's not for you, guys.

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Speaker 2: I respect you, I respect your opinions, but I would

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Speaker 2: imagine are people listening who have experienced this who still

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Speaker 2: are like, we don't need to do that.

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Speaker 1: Sure, I mean every situation is different.

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Speaker 5: There might be people that don't want it because they

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Speaker 5: if it was important to my partner, I'd be like, Okay,

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Speaker 5: I'm not going to feel like, oh, you love him

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Speaker 5: more than he's not here.

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Speaker 2: But I didn't say any of that I didn't say

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Speaker 2: the same way that I don't know. That's how it

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Speaker 2: is by definition our day. So why are we including

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Speaker 2: anyone from the past? I guess is what I'm saying.

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Speaker 2: You know, why are we reflecting on any former love

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Speaker 2: that you had? If this is about our union, are

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Speaker 2: mean again, I got I got it. I think it's

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Speaker 2: hard enough to acknowledge that you wouldn't have even been

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Speaker 1: So why do I need to be reminded of it?

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Speaker 1: I guess I don't know.

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Speaker 2: Hey, Josh, Yes, Josh, all right, Yeah, Hi, what do

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Speaker 1: Go ahead?

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Speaker 6: Yeah, So I was just saying that I think that

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Speaker 6: maybe inviting a family member of the last boyfriend would

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Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, okay, So so someone to represent that time.

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Speaker 2: I've heard of that happening. I've heard of the former

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Speaker 2: no one did anything wrong, we're still right right, and

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Speaker 2: they want they want the person to be happy in fact,

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Speaker 2: maybe them coming. I've actually I actually know about this

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Speaker 2: for calling Joss. But those people coming, it was almost

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Speaker 2: like their way of saying it's okay, it's okay to

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Speaker 2: let this go, like we want you to move on

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Speaker 2: and be happy, especially when they are kids involved, when

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Speaker 2: everyone's allowed to move on here. But I think that's

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Speaker 2: what it is. It's kind of like a statement about

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Speaker 2: of say to me, maybe you're not ready to move on,

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Speaker 2: and so we need to wait until you are, Until

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Speaker 2: you're ready to let that go in a physical form,

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Speaker 2: never emotionally, never mentally. But I don't know, waiting by

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