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Speaker 1: And we are back with another episode of watching Sex

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Speaker 1: in the City or Annie and sam Yes, I'm just

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Speaker 1: We are in season three, episode seven. We're doing pretty good.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. Yes, we can get some heavy stuff, sometimes not heavy,

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Speaker 1: We can do some deep things. Every now and then

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Speaker 1: Yes, with that, Yes, we are back and we are

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Speaker 1: on episode seven. This is a happy hour, so if

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Speaker 2: Light beer? Very hot?

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Speaker 1: Beer is very hot, which is why I'm doing my

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Speaker 1: sparkly water as usual, black cherry flavor this time y'all. Yes,

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Speaker 1: I'm fancy, And again we're not necessarily sponsored by any

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Speaker 1: of the things that we're mentioning currently. Things do change,

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Speaker 1: as you know, so content warning. We're talking about sex

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Speaker 1: and the city and many other things that are You're

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Speaker 1: all of that just for you to be aware. Yes,

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Speaker 1: oh yes, Anny, get ready. This was a TVMA, one

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Speaker 1: of the first tvmas that I watch, goes, what are

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Speaker 1: the news first? Annie? Can you give us a rundown

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Speaker 2: Okay, yes, Well, Samantha is doing her Samantha thing. She's

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Speaker 1: So this episode is going to be a little harder,

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Speaker 2: No, it just well talked about this before. When you

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Speaker 1: Like, I mean, that's the thing where it's like, I

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Speaker 2: Number one that's very presumptuous of you. And number two,

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Speaker 2: What does it do for you?

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Speaker 1: Sends me on a rocket trip right through your solar system?

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Speaker 1: They're they're cream for that. There were dreams for that.

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Speaker 2: I mean, honestly, a lot of sex in our media

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Speaker 1: I'm so these parents that are coming to town, they

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Speaker 2: Let's get you a donut.

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Speaker 1: Look, that would work on me. Let's get you a donut.

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Speaker 1: Let's go a Then.

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Speaker 2: That was Bundy.

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Speaker 1: Dennis, a one great single friend that you have to

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I feel like I've like fielded interest between friends before,

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Speaker 2: but it was not like, go set me up. It

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Speaker 1: Right, tell me about them? They seem to Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I tell you one thing. When your boyfriend is so

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Speaker 2: Things can go wrong, all right.

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Speaker 1: I mean he is a fan, but he should honestly

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Speaker 3: Aids offering up both his parents on a silver platter.

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Speaker 2: And I'm not sure I want to meet them. Maybe

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Speaker 1: I've never met Steve's mother, and believe me, I'm in

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Speaker 2: Like, I met my exes pretty quick.

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Speaker 2: I was not a concern. No, I was like, I'm good,

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Speaker 2: I'm tied up.

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Speaker 1: What would happen if I tried one of these?

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Speaker 2: I don't think they've established that it works for women.

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Speaker 1: There's no harm in trying, is there?

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Speaker 3: Doctor?

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Speaker 2: Bathrooms up.

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Speaker 1: Badams? Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Twenty minutes later, Samantha officially became the first woman to

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Speaker 2: I am tied now.

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Speaker 1: I know I want to be with a man who

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Speaker 2: You know I've had enough relationship drama for one lifetime.

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Speaker 1: So do you think you should be telling this Dade?

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Speaker 2: Miranda, it's three am.

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Speaker 1: I'll wait until a more civilized hour the next morning.

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Speaker 2: I waited until a decent hour to call Aiden at

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Speaker 2: the store and tell him how much.

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Speaker 1: I missed him. As she wakes up my best friends.

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Speaker 2: If you called me with that kind of.

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Speaker 1: Hangs up, never done to take it. I'm trying.

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Speaker 2: This is not no no, come on, come on, don't leave.

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Speaker 3: Don't leave.

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Speaker 1: You kept all of your great single friends away from

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Speaker 1: love that about you. I'm not interested in starting some

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Speaker 3: Wait no, no, wait, wait, wait you.

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Speaker 2: Some good lines in this episode. Oh my gosh, right,

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Speaker 2: oh no, I knew he was going to show up.

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Speaker 2: I've seen pictures.

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Speaker 1: Kyle McLaughlin, all right, this was not such a dramatic one. Hanny.

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Speaker 3: You know, they're not afraid no to hit some of

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