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Speaker 1: Wow, Riley, We we've never had I don't think so

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Speaker 1: of the wildest of all time. Yeah, goodness, I wonder why.

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Speaker 1: I wonder why. Maybe just because we hired the best

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Speaker 2: Ladies.

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Speaker 1: He said, Hey, listen, if you want to date Riley,

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Speaker 1: If you want to date Riley, drop a comment in

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Speaker 1: the comment section right now and shoot your shot. Give give,

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Speaker 1: give producer Riley your pitch on why you would be

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Speaker 1: a great date.

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Speaker 3: Or you can text us at four four zero five

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Speaker 4: Just text me Riley date question mark.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, just text us that. But they have to have

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Speaker 1: So I want to see, are they thinking of just

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Speaker 1: Applebee's Riley factories to.

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Speaker 4: Date with you?

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Speaker 3: If you choose Applebee's or cheesecake Factory, I will not

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Speaker 1: Bro Cheesecake, that's the come on.

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Speaker 4: Cheese cake is great, dude. I know it's for the

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Speaker 1: All right, From the ex best friend. I was hoping

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Speaker 1: obviously it's you, Kirsten. I told you to break up

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Speaker 1: with him. I told you Tobias was in love with me.

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Speaker 4: You just go get a beck up plan a sab Yeah.

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Speaker 4: I wow.

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Speaker 1: You ruined everything and now you won't speak to me.

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Speaker 1: You need to clean up this mess instead of posting

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Speaker 1: Did you think I wouldn't see this and find out?

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Speaker 1: I hope you miss Carrie? Okay for so evil? Oh

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Speaker 1: my god? So then technical Pumpkin sixty five, also someone

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Speaker 1: You disgusting fake human being. Yeah, not only that, but

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Speaker 1: know it's you and your entourage. You are so jealous

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Speaker 1: and have a huge obsession with Kirshin that you've ruined

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Speaker 1: Toby never loved you and just wanted to use you

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Speaker 2: Ha ha ha.

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Speaker 1: You are a clown here, but not a victim. Even

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Speaker 3: Dude, this has to be the ex best friend's brother

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Speaker 4: This is a lot. This is a lot, but like,

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Speaker 4: this is the best divorce I have seen.

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Speaker 1: I think we're going to bring this one home, Buddy,

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Speaker 1: Hello everyone, I'm still getting daily messages and comments for

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Speaker 1: an update, So here's what could possibly be my final one.

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Speaker 1: My dad passed away about a week after my last update.

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Speaker 1: I don't know if I've heard of that before, have you, Riley?

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Speaker 4: The closing down of an assembly partnership or official body.

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Speaker 1: I guess it's like a less serious divorce. The process

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Speaker 1: Yeah. It honestly like this man needs to write a

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Speaker 1: it wouldn't seem weird at all. My ex friend's mom

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Speaker 1: Twelve, You're right, So this is basically this is basically

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Speaker 1: ex friend's brother and I. Lol. I know so many

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Speaker 1: of you have become invested Riley. Wow. Wow wow wow

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Speaker 1: Best outcome possible, right, Yeah, yeah, I mean, my god,

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Speaker 1: OPI just went through absolute hell and back. Yeah for

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Speaker 1: to a degree, ladies, and gentlemen, thank you so much

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Speaker 1: and my boy Riley. Here. By the way, if you

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Speaker 1: Time for okop Relam.

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Speaker 2: Today I f fd up by using shrooms in front

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Speaker 2: of my girlfriend. Hell yeah, blast off, buddy. Yesterday my

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Speaker 2: and usually I'm a two gram shroom kind of guy,

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Speaker 2: but yesterday I wanted to see what four grams would do.

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Speaker 2: We double it up, yo, four grams is a lot.

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Speaker 1: My guys.

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Speaker 2: I asked my girlfriend to be my tripsetter just in

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Speaker 2: At the time, my girlfriend seemed really keen. She even

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Speaker 1: I got, oh, he's to join himself.

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Speaker 2: She grabbed a blanket and left the bedroom. I have

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Speaker 4: What I don't know.

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Speaker 1: She literally like, sounds like a great relationship immediately after,

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Speaker 2: She said last night was too much frat boy for

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Speaker 1: Oh my goodness is gracious.

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Speaker 2: Apparently she expected an older guy like me to be

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Speaker 2: more mature. I'm twenty two. I ta what the fuck? Anyway?

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Speaker 2: She left? I really liked her, Yo, she doesn't deserve you.

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Speaker 2: You hula hoop. Actually, you hula hoop forever man.

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Speaker 1: We stand style, We stand in naked hula hooping king, Okay,

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Speaker 1: we stand Yo.

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Speaker 2: That guy, he's just like expressing himself, you know, he's.

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Speaker 1: Feeling the vibes, and she's that's a crazy reason. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: this break up, this chick is strange. I feel like

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Speaker 1: probably a history of frattiness. Maybe this doesn't feel fratty

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Speaker 1: or streams fratty. I don't think so. No, no, no,

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Speaker 1: that's more like like like hippy canes.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, cocaine's fraddy streams are hippie.

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