Speaker 1: It's time for the Bobby Bones post show.
Speaker 2: Here's your host, Bobby Bones.
Speaker 1: Hello, Amy, tell everybody your dog story.
Speaker 3: Oh well, my dog she's a little crazy. We all
Speaker 3: know that, and she gets out often and she'll just
Speaker 3: run away. I don't have a fence, and I'm driving home,
Speaker 3: so I'm pulling into my neighborhood and I see this
Speaker 3: teenager walking a dog that looks just like my dog,
Speaker 3: but there are a lot of dogs look like her.
Speaker 3: She's a black labberdoodle, but she has this little white patch,
Speaker 3: but they're walking so I can't really see the patch,
Speaker 3: and I'm like, gosh, that really looks like her, but
Speaker 3: the leash.
Speaker 4: Is not mine.
Speaker 3: So I'm like, oh, well, fun, She's got a cute
Speaker 3: little brother or sister in the neighborhood. And then I
Speaker 3: get home and my side garage like the doors open,
Speaker 3: and I guess one of the kids left and I
Speaker 3: didn't shut it all the way and she busted through
Speaker 3: it and got out, and I was like, oh my gosh,
Speaker 3: I need to go back, like that's got to be her.
Speaker 3: And so I drive and I go up to this kid,
Speaker 3: not knowing one hundred percent, like.
Speaker 5: Is that my dog?
Speaker 6: Uh?
Speaker 4: Because like, why would he be walking her?
Speaker 3: And he said, oh, this dog like ended up in
Speaker 3: our yard and I was able to catch her and
Speaker 3: I put her on a leash, and I'm walking her,
Speaker 3: waiting for my mom to get home to tell me
Speaker 3: what to do. And I said, then I see the
Speaker 3: white pouch and then I see her caller and I'm like, oh, well,
Speaker 3: no worries, I'll tell.
Speaker 4: You what to do. Just hander over to me, because
Speaker 4: that is my dog.
Speaker 3: And I mean she's chipped, so I guess if they
Speaker 3: would have taken her in, But my guess is we
Speaker 3: have a neighborhood chat thing. And I think the mom
Speaker 3: probably would have taken a picture and then thrown it
Speaker 3: on the text and.
Speaker 4: Like is this whose dog is this?
Speaker 3: Because I've seen that happen with other things before, and yeah,
Speaker 3: it was just one of those moments where I was like,
Speaker 3: that looks.
Speaker 5: Like my dog.
Speaker 1: Better dog than a kid.
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yeah, no, I had that thought of like
Speaker 3: sometimes you're like, huh, that looks like something that belongs
Speaker 3: to me, but surely it's not.
Speaker 4: And then surely it was. And I was like, well, thanks.
Speaker 1: Kid, we have a dog too that likes to get
Speaker 1: out and she only ever got out. I told the
Speaker 1: story a couple of weeks ago, Ella and she runs.
Speaker 1: She just loves to run. I don't even know if
Speaker 1: she knows why she's running, but she even in the York,
Speaker 1: she just sprints. And somebody left the door open. This
Speaker 1: is a few weeks ago, and I get a note
Speaker 1: on my phone that she again is out. She's never
Speaker 1: been out in the years, all the years that we've
Speaker 1: had her. And so Caitlyn calls me. I was up
Speaker 1: in the studio. We were doing like postho stuff and
Speaker 1: I had to leave to the day.
Speaker 6: Yeah, I remember that.
Speaker 1: And so I look and she's like five miles from
Speaker 1: the house. Whoa, which is a lot farther than the
Speaker 1: last time, because we were in New York and a
Speaker 1: neighbor two house is down because we have her, he
Speaker 1: can't read her chip, but we have her on a caller.
Speaker 1: We have Hey, this is Dollar, this phone number to
Speaker 1: call if you find her. Call and that neighbor from
Speaker 1: two houses over, because she just went to the yard,
Speaker 1: just stay in the yard. Well, Cayln's like dogs out
Speaker 1: And it looks like because we can track on the
Speaker 1: Apple air tag, that she's far far away. I'm like man,
Speaker 1: is that even real? So there was somebody who's working
Speaker 1: on the bron We're selling the Bronco, so somebody's working
Speaker 1: on the Bronco, and let's fix it like a couple
Speaker 1: aesthetic things about it. And we were like, hey, we
Speaker 1: have two safeguards for the dogs not to get out.
Speaker 1: There is a door, then there is a fence in
Speaker 1: the garage, and then there is a garage door. Do
Speaker 1: not open any of them because if you do, Ella
Speaker 1: will come out, and then she doesn't hang around. She's
Speaker 1: out of there. We don't worry about Stanley. He's fat.
Speaker 1: Five steps He's like, I'm good, What am I gonna
Speaker 1: do here? Eli, That's what happened. The guy opened the
Speaker 1: doors and Ella ran out. So we didn't realize it.
Speaker 1: And Caylen, hey, this place, it looks like it's an
Speaker 1: animal shelter once you zoom in a little closer to
Speaker 1: where the Apple aretag is and it's probably like eleven
Speaker 1: or so that time of the morning when I left,
Speaker 1: because we're in the middle of stuff, and I was like,
Speaker 1: I gotta go chase this dog down. And we get
Speaker 1: there and there's a girl and my wife be up
Speaker 1: by like five minutes there's a girl. She has Ella
Speaker 1: in the car, and she was like she was running
Speaker 1: across the highway and I grabbed her and put her
Speaker 1: in the car, and I don't know who she was,
Speaker 1: So I took her to this animal shelter place. And
Speaker 1: the animal shelter place was full, wouldn't take any more dogs.
Speaker 1: Calen just happened to get there right when she had
Speaker 1: the dog. Was like, I don't know what to do,
Speaker 1: and so luckily we got the dog back. But that's
Speaker 1: why not grabbed the dog again for the second time.
Speaker 6: And that's how Eller got five miles away.
Speaker 1: Yeah, the girl put her on the car and try
Speaker 1: to take her to it.
Speaker 6: Like, okay, how did that happen? Yeah?
Speaker 1: I was like, did someone steal her collar? And ELA's
Speaker 1: like at home, but somebody's got her. Callar five miles away,
Speaker 1: Like we got a good one. We got an Apple
Speaker 1: air tagle you. So I don't know, but yeah, that's
Speaker 1: that would have been weird though, to see somebody walking
Speaker 1: Yeller did not know she was out.
Speaker 6: Yeah, and then if you were the kid, do you
Speaker 6: just hand the dog to this lady that says that
Speaker 6: that's her dog.
Speaker 1: If you're a kid, you do because you know it's
Speaker 1: not your dog and the dog's escale.
Speaker 3: Yeah, and I look friendly and I said, hey, I
Speaker 3: live I live around the corner and he yeah. Everything
Speaker 3: made sense and it just was kind of funny how
Speaker 3: it played out.
Speaker 1: Hey, Abby, she's.
Speaker 6: Putting her mic and headphone on. Yes, he's waking up.
Speaker 1: Oh I heard it.
Speaker 5: Sorry, my headphones were on.
Speaker 1: Can you shut the door?
Speaker 5: Oh?
Speaker 1: Yeah, Like anytime I go to that room, they keep
Speaker 1: that door open, so the fans. Like, we don't have
Speaker 1: air condition still, we have like a a secondary backup
Speaker 1: generator of bear.
Speaker 6: It's like the AC unit is right outside our door,
Speaker 6: the outside unit, you know, the one that with a
Speaker 6: big fan.
Speaker 1: Yeah, but there's nothing else surrounding it to kill any that.
Speaker 1: I'm always like, hey, if I got to come to
Speaker 1: you guys, make sure the door shut. Yeah Abby, Yes,
Speaker 1: Oh that sounds much better. Headphones on, door shut.
Speaker 5: I needn't go.
Speaker 1: So word on the street here and you can tell
Speaker 1: me if the word is true or not. Is that
Speaker 1: you're banking off people at work?
Speaker 5: I am making some good side money, I will say,
Speaker 5: doing what oh you know, watching dogs dog sitting? I'm back.
Speaker 1: How many people are you watching their dogs.
Speaker 5: Well, I'm watching Morgan's tonight and tomorrow. I just watched
Speaker 5: kickoff Kevin's last week.
Speaker 6: Ask her how much he's charging.
Speaker 1: How much are you charging?
Speaker 5: Well, I'm not really charging I don't really charge.
Speaker 6: Me. What how much are they giving you?
Speaker 5: Less than Bobby. Bobby pays a lot of money. It's
Speaker 5: not anything out of the ordinary.
Speaker 1: You don't have to answer the question. The question was
Speaker 1: how much are they giving.
Speaker 5: It was less than one hundred and fifty for a weekend.
Speaker 1: And do you stay the night at the house.
Speaker 5: No, with Kevin's I kept the dog.
Speaker 6: Oh got it?
Speaker 1: Okay, Kevin has Kevin has a small Morgan has a
Speaker 1: small dog too.
Speaker 5: Yeah.
Speaker 1: So so Morgan's dog stays at her house and you
Speaker 1: just swing by.
Speaker 5: I spend the night.
Speaker 1: And any at the house in case what she did
Speaker 1: at my house.
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's nice.
Speaker 1: Anybody, Uh, well, someone's always in my house. Because there
Speaker 1: was a story we talked about on twenty four Whistles
Speaker 1: where there's a player for the Bucks basketball and he
Speaker 1: was playing and while he played, they robbed him because
Speaker 1: they knew he wasn't gonna be there. And so we've
Speaker 1: always made an effort. If I'm gone or we're all
Speaker 1: gone and nobody's at the house. Somebody's at the house
Speaker 1: at all times.
Speaker 6: Yeah.
Speaker 1: If I say I'm doing a show somewhere or I'm
Speaker 1: gone like that.
Speaker 6: Okay.
Speaker 1: If you know a Bobby lives, go to his house,
Speaker 1: no one will be there. So we always have somebody
Speaker 1: at the house just for that reason alone, because otherwise
Speaker 1: you're advertising burglary on right, it's a Clarence burglary. So
Speaker 1: get all you can get.
Speaker 4: You just hope that the burglars get that memo.
Speaker 1: Well I don't.
Speaker 6: I'm not the memo that someone's already always there. I
Speaker 6: don't care someone said a burglar someone's always there.
Speaker 1: No. No, But even if they don't get the memo,
Speaker 1: if they show up to the house, they can no
Speaker 1: one's there and someone's there, their actions are going to
Speaker 1: be different.
Speaker 4: Yeah yeah, yeah, true, true. I was just thinking for
Speaker 4: the person's because.
Speaker 1: There'll be a car there.
Speaker 4: Yeah yeah.
Speaker 1: So my house is if we're gone, there's always somebody there.
Speaker 1: So part of when we pay Abby to stay, there's
Speaker 1: just five burglars. Oh my gosh, well that's worth the money.
Speaker 1: See yeah, and you guys are like, dang, you pay
Speaker 1: her a lot well, you didn't know her job uponsibilities.
Speaker 6: I didn't realize that.
Speaker 5: That's why.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I like staying at What do you think in
Speaker 1: average dog dog sitter charges? Like, what is that? We
Speaker 1: know the.
Speaker 7: Internet says between fifty two one hundred dollars for an overnight.
Speaker 1: Yeah, an overnight overnight, so fifty on the low end,
Speaker 1: one hundred on the high end. What about if you're
Speaker 1: just doing a swing buy or what if you just
Speaker 1: keep the dog?
Speaker 3: I think a swing buy is like twenty to twenty
Speaker 3: five a pop swing per swing, So like if you're
Speaker 3: not saying the night, maybe you go by twice, you
Speaker 3: still make forty fifty dollars I mean, and that includes
Speaker 3: a walk and you know you feed them and oh.
Speaker 7: Yeah, I forget the hourly rate. They have it at
Speaker 7: fourteen dollars an hour.
Speaker 1: Oh well, if you just go for an hour, A
Speaker 1: pop is an hour.
Speaker 4: Right, that's what I know?
Speaker 1: Like a pop, well it will be less. I mean
Speaker 1: I think a pop would be a pop sounds like
Speaker 1: fifteen minutes.
Speaker 3: No, Mobby's right, it's more of like I don't know
Speaker 3: that that means they're at the house an hour.
Speaker 4: But you know, Lexi Hayden used to.
Speaker 3: Do the pops for my dog, and she was with
Speaker 3: a company that specialized in that, like pop stars or something,
Speaker 3: and they that's kind of what their average like if
Speaker 3: you want to because you're you're trusting someone, they're coming
Speaker 3: into your home when you're not, you know, you need
Speaker 3: to make sure that they're like good to go, And
Speaker 3: obviously we trusted her.
Speaker 1: Abby. Are you like in a higher tax bracket now
Speaker 1: because of all those Yeah?
Speaker 5: I think so, yeah, I've worked my way up.
Speaker 1: She's reporting this money to tell Why would you guys
Speaker 1: say that? Oh yeah, why now they ever say someone's
Speaker 1: not reporting. That is the unwritten rule of like waiting
Speaker 1: tables for doing anything where you make cash, like it's
Speaker 1: like fight club.
Speaker 6: Don't mention it.
Speaker 1: No, don't ever, Abby. So now if it happens, you
Speaker 1: know where it came from.
Speaker 5: M exactly. Thanks, I'll say.
Speaker 4: I know.
Speaker 3: I have a question though about that. Do I have
Speaker 3: to report my Facebook marketplace earnings?
Speaker 1: The answer is always yes.
Speaker 3: It's because I bought that stuff already originally and I'm
Speaker 3: reselling it.
Speaker 6: Hey check.
Speaker 1: Though I know absolutely you should do everything by the book.
Speaker 1: You should look and read every line and do everything
Speaker 1: exactly legal mm hmm.
Speaker 6: Can you call the irs and be like, Hi, I
Speaker 6: have a question, Like I've made one hundred and fifty
Speaker 6: dollars on Facebook Marketplace.
Speaker 4: Do I have to claim that I can google it?
Speaker 3: But then are they tracking my Google searches and they're
Speaker 3: like audit hurt?
Speaker 1: I think calling is hilarious.
Speaker 7: The Internet says yes, says what that you have to
Speaker 7: pay on anything that you gain a profit from it.
Speaker 1: If it's a personal items, it's earned income. Like your
Speaker 1: whole job can have been buying personal items and selling
Speaker 1: them for a profit, like flipping the.
Speaker 3: Okay back it up, it's not profit if no, If
Speaker 3: say I originally bought something for one hundred dollars and
Speaker 3: then I sell it on Facebook Marketplace later for twenty five,
Speaker 3: that's not a profit.
Speaker 6: That's a loss.
Speaker 1: It depends, well, it depends how long you used it,
Speaker 1: because there is what is like value usage value over time.
Speaker 1: So you need to look that up and you need
Speaker 1: to formulate what that is.
Speaker 6: There's so much that goes into this.
Speaker 1: Absolutely and I know nothing except I'm just like, there's
Speaker 1: always you should always pay.
Speaker 7: It seems like there's a certain amount you have to
Speaker 7: hit too. I think like six hundred dollars is like
Speaker 7: the baseline or what they zero too.
Speaker 1: They had it where it was, you know, they wanted
Speaker 1: you to report any VENMO money you made, and now
Speaker 1: it's there's a minimum of what you have to be
Speaker 1: paid before you have to report it in.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I feel like that's what it is, right Mike,
Speaker 4: six hundred I.
Speaker 7: Think so correct.
Speaker 1: But six hundred an item?
Speaker 4: No, no, no, no, no, all the time, all year.
Speaker 6: Yeah, we should still ask. We still call the IRS
Speaker 6: and ask them.
Speaker 1: Calling the IRIS is hilarious, like they patch you through
Speaker 1: someone Like what do they do your a Q and
Speaker 1: a department?
Speaker 6: I can have?
Speaker 1: You just have like an intern I can ask.
Speaker 4: Yeah, eight four four five four.
Speaker 1: I would never call that number. I would never call.
Speaker 6: That's totally get a target on you right there.
Speaker 1: That feels worse than googling.
Speaker 4: That's literally the number.
Speaker 1: We were arguing that wasn't the number.
Speaker 5: We have a local.
Speaker 4: Office right down the street. Actually it's literally right down
Speaker 4: the street. We can draw bar.
Speaker 1: It's the one office nobody wants to go to. Every
Speaker 1: block away fighter webs in the doorway because nobody wants
Speaker 1: to go in. Uh so Abby, are you getting too
Speaker 1: big time to watch my dogs now.
Speaker 5: No, of course not. I'm never too big time for
Speaker 5: your dog. You're the next day. Yeah, you're my like
Speaker 5: you fill my calendar the most, so.
Speaker 1: She'll cancel everything else because she's also like fighting off crime.
Speaker 1: You know, you guyn't realize that.
Speaker 6: Didn't realize she's.
Speaker 1: Part Abby, part spider Man. Watching dogs doing.
Speaker 5: That, I'm so intimidating.
Speaker 1: No, we don't really care about that. It's just mostly
Speaker 1: if they get there and it's like, well we have
Speaker 1: to whack somebody, it'll be appy'll be Abby. She was
Speaker 1: over here with her boyfriend the last time.
Speaker 6: You can't allow that. I don't care they're doing ye.
Speaker 1: You can't do that, bones, Abby. Are you still your friend?
Speaker 5: Yeah?
Speaker 1: Okay, I thought so. She was like, hey, do you
Speaker 1: care if he comes over? I was like, I don't care.
Speaker 1: It's like a babysitter asking bring their boyfriend and literally,
Speaker 1: there's nothing to do here with the dog. You just
Speaker 1: have to put your eyes on.
Speaker 6: That's not true. You have a hot tub, no, not
Speaker 6: a wine cellar.
Speaker 1: And listen to what I'm saying. There's nothing to do
Speaker 1: with the dogs.
Speaker 6: Oh, I know, the dogs just chill right, So you're
Speaker 6: basically coming to an Airbnb. That's what Abby and her
Speaker 6: boyfriend are doing. Whenever you tell her to watch that.
Speaker 1: That would be any house then going to an airb
Speaker 1: that's amazing.
Speaker 5: No, Stanley never wants to come inside for some reason.
Speaker 5: He does not want to.
Speaker 1: He wants to lay out on the bridge we've built
Speaker 1: and just sit there and don't do anything. And then
Speaker 1: in the evening he just wants to lay in his bed.
Speaker 1: Like bulldogs. There's a hundred reasons you should not buy
Speaker 1: a bulldog, but there's one you should. And they don't
Speaker 1: d G a F and they'll just sleep all day. Yeah,
Speaker 1: and everyone everyone's no, that's not true. Well, extremely high
Speaker 1: maintenance in the physical sense, but day to day activity. Uh,
Speaker 1: you don't have to like walk them. They walk themselves
Speaker 1: to the food, bowling back and then they're done. Where
Speaker 1: La is the opposite. Like we have like six acres
Speaker 1: we live on so acre. Uh, so that's enough acres
Speaker 1: for her to run. And like we have woods, so
Speaker 1: she like hunts in the woods pretty much. She's good,
Speaker 1: but she every day she checks the perimeter trying to
Speaker 1: get trying to get out. She's a perimeter dog. She
Speaker 1: runs it trying to find.
Speaker 6: A hole, trying to look for that hole.
Speaker 1: Yeah, trying to get back because.
Speaker 6: It sounds like she's a security dog, but now she's
Speaker 6: looking for the hold is.
Speaker 1: She's tasted glory a couple of times. Now she knows
Speaker 1: what it's like outside of this. Mike d has a
Speaker 1: moral dilemma about Zach Bryan.
Speaker 7: Yeah, about listening to his music now all stuff came
Speaker 7: out about the break up. He doesn't seem like a
Speaker 7: good dude. But I find myself now more than ever,
Speaker 7: like listening to his music, sitting it around the house.
Speaker 7: I'm like, can you still listen to his music even
Speaker 7: though he's a bad dude? Can you separate the art
Speaker 7: from the artist in this situation?
Speaker 1: I was thinking about this and all the music that
Speaker 1: we don't really get to listen to anymore because people
Speaker 1: are awful, Like I believe I can fly for Mark Kelly,
Speaker 1: like generationally great song, Yeah, but it's sober you can't
Speaker 1: listen to it at all. I mean, if you do,
Speaker 1: you got to like be in your closet underneath some
Speaker 1: dirty clothes and never hears you listening to it.
Speaker 6: Yes, yeah, See what about Michael Jackson.
Speaker 1: The Latour, The Space if anyone's around. You watch the
Speaker 1: space fast forward.
Speaker 6: Like over Halloween, I'll play thriller maybe like twenty times.
Speaker 1: Michael Jackson is a different story, okay, only because the
Speaker 1: more information that comes out about that, odds there's better odds.
Speaker 1: He was just a really fed up dude who was
Speaker 1: so messed up by his childhood that he didn't do
Speaker 1: that stuff. But he was still childlike and people build
Speaker 1: him for money. I see that, and I don't know
Speaker 1: for sure that's the case, but there are just a
Speaker 1: lot of things that you can read about people that
Speaker 1: went after him, and a lot of cases that were
Speaker 1: ended up being just civil settled, and like, I think
Speaker 1: he was just really messed up. Yeah, and I don't
Speaker 1: know if he did it or not. But he was
Speaker 1: so child alike because he never had to intellectually grow.
Speaker 1: He was abused as a kid by his dad and
Speaker 1: then by who knows who else. So that one feels
Speaker 1: a bit different to me because we really don't know,
Speaker 1: and there's evidence, at least there's some evidence that maybe
Speaker 1: some people were just using him for money. There's also
Speaker 1: some pretty bad stuff that he possibly or probably did,
Speaker 1: but maybe I don't know. There's just so much I don't.
Speaker 1: I watch a documentary on those kids. Might you watch that?
Speaker 7: Yeah, that's what I was thinking about. Like, even when
Speaker 7: you see the interactions he would have, like having people over,
Speaker 7: like their kids, he's having over, but he's hanging out
Speaker 7: with him doing things.
Speaker 1: He looks like a child. He's a kid, a child
Speaker 1: he just never had to grow.
Speaker 7: They're like throwing each other in the pool and like
Speaker 7: running around.
Speaker 1: He's like, hey, let's go up.
Speaker 7: It just feels weird that he like missed out on that.
Speaker 1: Also, was he absolutely weird? Yeah? I think so. I
Speaker 1: do not know, and I'm not being an apologist, because
Speaker 1: who knows. He could have been every single awful thing
Speaker 1: they said. But I do now have suspicions that a
Speaker 1: lot of that stuff people were able to put on
Speaker 1: him just because he was weird, not that he was predatory.
Speaker 1: Yeah what do you think, Mike?
Speaker 7: Yeah, I mean, I really think it was him not
Speaker 7: having a childhood. Even thinking about that story of him
Speaker 7: wanting to experience a grocery store because he had this
Speaker 7: fame and he couldn't do normal things. I think he
Speaker 7: missed out on that so much in his life that
Speaker 7: he wanted to experience it and to everybody else. That
Speaker 7: seems so weird to see an adult man like playing
Speaker 7: with toys, like jumping in the pool, having a roller
Speaker 7: coaster at his house.
Speaker 1: Even just having kids around all the time. I don't
Speaker 1: think it was me just thinking not knowing. I don't
Speaker 1: think it was Peto having kids around. I think it
Speaker 1: was that's who he related to, and.
Speaker 7: You think of like the pressures of how famous he was,
Speaker 7: and he just wants to go home and disconnect from
Speaker 7: that and he reverts back to that like childlike energy
Speaker 7: that he never had.
Speaker 1: I could see that happening.
Speaker 7: But again, I can't deny like what he did or did,
Speaker 7: but it seems so weird to like understand that concept.
Speaker 1: And he was never found guilty in a criminal case.
Speaker 1: But again, I'm not saying he didn't do it. I'm
Speaker 1: saying that feels a bit different because some of the
Speaker 1: accusers there's some real shady stuff behind them as well.
Speaker 1: Uh So I don't know it was well doubled to Jackson.
Speaker 6: Yeah, I mean, I think I'm okay with separating the artists.
Speaker 6: I'm not because like Chris Brown came on the day
Speaker 6: like he's not good.
Speaker 4: Due we know that he's not good for a very
Speaker 4: long time.
Speaker 6: But like that side to side that came on IM
Speaker 6: like jam, I listened to the whole thing. Didn't even
Speaker 6: think about him.
Speaker 1: Uh yeah, so I would say, R Kelly, we can't
Speaker 1: mess with that at all.
Speaker 6: Yeah. Came on the other day.
Speaker 1: He came on a playlist. We were playing pickleball and
Speaker 1: want more money, Wake come the more money. B I
Speaker 1: G no info? What's up federally like doing the doing
Speaker 1: the biggie part. I was like yeah yeah. Then Diddy
Speaker 1: came on.
Speaker 6: He was like that time out, time out, we gotta
Speaker 6: change this song.
Speaker 1: Yeah, so Diddy Didd. He hasn't been found guilty yet.
Speaker 6: There was a lot of.
Speaker 1: Absolutely, there was a lot of Michael Jackson. And I'm
Speaker 1: not comparing the two, but I'm saying, if we are
Speaker 1: staying consistent. Although he did get denied what yesterday for
Speaker 1: his fourth like bail attempt.
Speaker 6: He's in priy.
Speaker 4: Yeah he's in jail.
Speaker 1: Yeah, he's in jail. Uh, that's right.
Speaker 6: I saw him a meal or something terrible.
Speaker 1: You watch him.
Speaker 6: They talked about what he ordered.
Speaker 1: It wasn't that interesting like a live stream.
Speaker 6: No, somebody said, like what did he for lunch or something?
Speaker 6: The craziest things on that.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I did, he did, He's done. It's I want
Speaker 1: to be consistent of go. Well, he wasn't proven because
Speaker 1: I said soil guilty. But man, when I watched him
Speaker 1: like punching Kit Cassie in the hallway that video, I
Speaker 1: was like, no, it's pretty guilty.
Speaker 4: Can't deny that.
Speaker 1: Chris Brown. I guess I've never really been a fan anyway,
Speaker 1: but I wouldn't know if it came on. I wouldn't
Speaker 1: always know what his songs were.
Speaker 6: Right, No, I just heard that song and I'm like,
Speaker 6: who is that? Oh it's Chris Brown. Oh? Forgot about that?
Speaker 1: What about like a Ryan Adams? Yeah, I remember he
Speaker 1: got canceled, but I think he's and I'm not sure
Speaker 1: what he got canceled for. Was it like, uh physical
Speaker 1: emotional Chris Brown.
Speaker 6: I don't think he was talking to uh google mins, Oh,
Speaker 6: like giving them concerts.
Speaker 1: Let's look that up before the groom say that. Okay,
Speaker 1: that's a bad one.
Speaker 4: Sexual miss con.
Speaker 1: Yikes. I'm I need to see something more than sexual misconduct.
Speaker 1: But like Ryan Adams, I just listened.
Speaker 6: To a lot of lots of rhys.
Speaker 4: I don't think.
Speaker 1: I don't be confused with Brian Adams.
Speaker 6: No, it's a different guy. Brian Adams in summer Summer six.
Speaker 1: Have a thing I do. He's good.
Speaker 7: There were seven women who accused him of like dangling
Speaker 7: career opportunities like hey, I can make you famous.
Speaker 1: I can do this with you. Any of them young
Speaker 1: like they say young, because that's see their ages. Dude,
Speaker 1: If every every like entertainment person that did that got caught,
Speaker 1: oh gosh, they can'tcel everybody music, that says.
Speaker 3: Seven women, including his ex wife Mandy Moore, accused him
Speaker 3: of championing rising female artists and then exploiting them and
Speaker 3: stifling their ambitions, often for his own sexual gain.
Speaker 7: And had inappropriate conversations with people who are fifteen and
Speaker 7: sixteen years old.
Speaker 4: Yeah, there you go.
Speaker 2: It's not good.
Speaker 1: That is not good.
Speaker 7: But I don't think he was ever charged with anything.
Speaker 1: And yeah, I hate to go. I don't know. Can
Speaker 1: you listen Ryan Adams? What if he's he's reformed.
Speaker 6: I mean i've listened to Ryan Adams.
Speaker 1: I haven't since less.
Speaker 4: That's I mean, no, no, no, no about him his music.
Speaker 4: I'm not listening to him ever again.
Speaker 1: If I don't think you ever did listen Ryanis.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I was gonna say, I don't even what has
Speaker 2: he seen?
Speaker 6: Do you remember he did a whole cover of Taylor
Speaker 6: Swift's album and.
Speaker 7: A lot of those artists have had those removed from
Speaker 7: streaming services, and he like covers he did, like collapse
Speaker 7: they did with him, like they're like we're done with them.
Speaker 1: Yeah, he was very He was almost pop culture famous enough,
Speaker 1: but he really wasn't and you kind of had to
Speaker 1: be into that music.
Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, like him. He definitely had a fan base that.
Speaker 1: It was close. He was, so it was so close
Speaker 1: to like existing.
Speaker 6: When he covered that Tailor album, I think people starting
Speaker 6: to like, is this guy? Okay Ryan Adams? And then
Speaker 6: I think that's around the time everything came out too.
Speaker 1: Yeah, like a couple years after that, a couple of
Speaker 1: years your timetables Okay, a couple of years Uh yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: Ryanams can't be listen to him? I guess who else
Speaker 1: ca I not listen to? Like, there's really been some
Speaker 1: great music taking from us because the guys are idiots.
Speaker 1: It's never women. It's always guys are like the pervs
Speaker 1: or the disgusting humans.
Speaker 6: Well, didn't they try to do like is it Lizzo.
Speaker 1: Yeah, she was just like mean to her band. I think, yeah,
Speaker 1: I didn't really cancel her. But it wasn't like sexual stuff,
Speaker 1: was it.
Speaker 6: I think she would take her she would force people
Speaker 6: to go to the strip club.
Speaker 1: I know country artists to do that with artists.
Speaker 6: Now I don't want to go.
Speaker 3: Yeah, they claim there is claims that she sexually harassed them,
Speaker 3: but by backup dancers.
Speaker 1: Like we do you have it?
Speaker 7: I think it was like she was calling out like
Speaker 7: their body.
Speaker 1: Okay, that's I just feel like that's a different level.
Speaker 1: I feel like I can still listen to Lizzo.
Speaker 6: Is Lizzo?
Speaker 1: I don't have to like her.
Speaker 6: Is Lizzo Amy's song?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 1: Oh wow, Amy's.
Speaker 6: Every Time Amy you can't win games anymore? Wow?
Speaker 4: That's why.
Speaker 6: Yeah.
Speaker 1: Maybe it's because things have gotten so bad and stuff
Speaker 1: like this is like, oh no, we can still listen
Speaker 1: to her because she didn't. There's like that Gary Glitter
Speaker 1: Guy rock and roll part too, you know, hey done?
Speaker 1: Uh don Gary Glitter a bad one? Yeah?
Speaker 6: It's CP Oh oh is that recent?
Speaker 1: That was? Like, no, it's years ago.
Speaker 6: If you wouldn't have been that.
Speaker 1: Song at only twenty nineteen, I remember I thought it
Speaker 1: was longer than that, but.
Speaker 6: Sixteen, what are marching bands gonna do? That's their big
Speaker 6: that's their big jam.
Speaker 1: Sometimes people still play that song. It's like his only thing.
Speaker 1: So I'm making a list, so we're not no, no,
Speaker 1: because people are discovering.
Speaker 4: Okay, so just think of this.
Speaker 3: If this was reversed, okay with like the lizard thing,
Speaker 3: if this was reversed and this was a man doing it.
Speaker 1: Yeah, but that doesn't always count because like teachers that
Speaker 1: like hook up with students were always like.
Speaker 6: It's messed up, guys messed up.
Speaker 4: The girls like, well, no, it's still messed up.
Speaker 1: It is messed up. But you look, I saw another one.
Speaker 1: It was like really attractive. She was like twenty five
Speaker 1: and she was hooking up with like a fifteen year old, right,
Speaker 1: and that's terrible, Like in real life mind, that's terrible.
Speaker 1: But we feel different about it because it's a dude
Speaker 1: and we're dudes. Like, it does feel different. It's not
Speaker 1: legally different to l I don't Yes, you're right, yeah.
Speaker 3: Yeah, but I'm just saying, like, if I read this sentence,
Speaker 3: this is from TMZ. This in the documents, the women
Speaker 3: say Lizo pressured dancers to interact with the dancers, her
Speaker 3: backup dancers with sex performers in Amsterdam, and it's you,
Speaker 3: I can't even say what this next thing is. But
Speaker 3: if you have your boss and this is how you
Speaker 3: make money and they're putting you in this situation, then
Speaker 3: you're vulnerable and you're like, oh, well, I guess I
Speaker 3: need to do this, like I don't want anything to
Speaker 3: get weird or like if it was a man being like, hey,
Speaker 3: you have to like interact with these sex dancers.
Speaker 1: Not that matters. It's all wrong. I don't know that
Speaker 1: I go to a strip club because that was initially
Speaker 1: what it was. She was making her dances for the
Speaker 1: shrip club.
Speaker 3: Patrons are known to eat bananas out of the performers.
Speaker 1: Dude, that's what they do in Mexico.
Speaker 6: Yes, no, for sure, we got an amy Okay, their
Speaker 6: hands more than that too.
Speaker 1: In Mexico they like there was like a banana chopper,
Speaker 1: right you ever see that one? About that one?
Speaker 4: So that sucks, and then.
Speaker 1: All of these suck. We're just saying, what's the level
Speaker 1: we have to stop listening to their music making music.
Speaker 4: That's why I think I need to change a song.
Speaker 3: I didn't know that about the I didn't know that
Speaker 3: somehow google my uncle.
Speaker 6: Hopefully he's been good.
Speaker 1: All of this stuff is very serious, and if it
Speaker 1: felt like it happens it's super close to us, we'd
Speaker 1: be like, oh my god, get away from that person forever.
Speaker 1: It almost feels, though, because Hollywood's like so weird all
Speaker 1: the time that it feels almost fictional. It's like when
Speaker 1: someone dies it's famous and you're like, I don't really
Speaker 1: know them, Is that even real? But no, when you
Speaker 1: think about it being real people, it really sucks. But
Speaker 1: then it's hard. Can you separate the art from the artist?
Speaker 1: And is at the level of they're only this bad
Speaker 1: so we don't have to separate versus they're this bad
Speaker 1: so we do and we cannot listen And what is
Speaker 1: that level? Yeah, it's tough so far. R Kelly's the level.
Speaker 1: Diddy's the level. I need to know more about the
Speaker 1: Lizzo thing, although I also losso anyway that would be
Speaker 1: that would be would be Amy's. Ryan Adams is my
Speaker 1: lisso I don't listen to Lozo. So it's like I'm
Speaker 1: gonna continue here's my word, I'm going to continue, not
Speaker 1: listening to Lizzo, right.
Speaker 4: I don't know that I've listened to her in quite
Speaker 4: some time, but she does.
Speaker 6: The she's like famous, like she's like social media.
Speaker 1: They cover on TMZ because she's like her. Like Halloween
Speaker 1: costumes of the South Park was on, she was like,
Speaker 1: which is which is?
Speaker 4: Isn't she a semi glue tide for Halloween?
Speaker 1: She was? She was actually zimpic the box. She was like,
Speaker 1: I'm not a ozip.
Speaker 6: That's funny.
Speaker 7: South Park made fun of her. They made fun of ozempic,
Speaker 7: but they called it Lizzo, so then she was like, ah,
Speaker 7: I'll make the joke back.
Speaker 1: We would like to say all these people are all
Speaker 1: their actions are awful. We do not support any of them.
Speaker 3: Okay, I just just out of curiosity just googled is
Speaker 3: Lizzo redeemed? And I said, as of now, Lizzo is
Speaker 3: not considered redeemed in the public eye due to the
Speaker 3: ongoing lawsuit filed by her.
Speaker 1: I would disagree. I don't redeem anybody. I just see
Speaker 1: what comes up in the news and TMC and if
Speaker 1: they're covering someone's Halloween costume, that seems like pop culture
Speaker 1: has kind of redeemed them because it wasn't Lizzo who's
Speaker 1: been accused and charged. I don't know if charges were
Speaker 1: because I don't know if she's in federal like a
Speaker 1: criminal court.
Speaker 5: Gotcha.
Speaker 1: They were just like ha ha, look at her costume. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but all the the you know what, I'm listening to
Speaker 1: nobody's music until they prove they're good. I'm gonna switch
Speaker 1: it up. I got a.
Speaker 7: Judge dismissed the case back in February. He did dismiss
Speaker 7: the sexual harassment allegation, so could have.
Speaker 1: It could have even been false. Then allegations could have
Speaker 1: been If a judge dismisses the case could have been false.
Speaker 4: Or maybe the judge I thought there wasn't enough evidence.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that which means that you can keep.
Speaker 1: Your song, which also means we don't know what why
Speaker 1: the judge did it. It could have been anything from borderline, yeah,
Speaker 1: this is pretty bad. Or it could have been like
Speaker 1: you guys are lying trying to get money, Yeah, because
Speaker 1: that happens a lot too.
Speaker 6: Yeah.
Speaker 2: True, I'm gonna jam some Lizo today, you know what.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I do too. Now, how many songs I know
Speaker 1: from Liza?
Speaker 6: None? Ache flip my head. That's a good one and
Speaker 6: then Amy's juicy.
Speaker 1: Let's take a let's take a quick break here. Okay,
Speaker 1: we're back anyway about all that stuff. I just want
Speaker 1: to make sure everybody knows we hate all those actions.
Speaker 1: We're just trying to figure out that are an artist
Speaker 1: separate trying to make a list? Is there anybody else?
Speaker 1: But you know, if you did a like country music,
Speaker 1: is there anybody we have.
Speaker 6: To I mean there was a couple Jimmy right, yeah.
Speaker 4: Yeah, and seers are legit, you know, because I don't
Speaker 4: know stuff. I just know what I see on TikTok,
Speaker 4: and I have no idea.
Speaker 6: I think it's like, do we really know? We don't know.
Speaker 6: I don't know from what we do know. Yeah, it's
Speaker 6: kind of I'm not.
Speaker 3: Even talking about Jimmy Allen that I think that's I
Speaker 3: don't know what's going on with.
Speaker 1: That, And it's always yeah, and away from that, it's
Speaker 1: like if people really knew what was happening, I would
Speaker 1: even say to the point where if mm hmm, I
Speaker 1: would say more of you. There's so much like heinous
Speaker 1: stuff that happens in this time with artists that I
Speaker 1: don't think. I don't think you guys know it's awful.
Speaker 6: And I'm good. I'm like happy not knowing.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I don't think I want to know, But then
Speaker 4: also are they I would.
Speaker 1: Be happier or not knowing. But yeah, just like there's
Speaker 1: some there's some bad. Like people think because somebody's famous,
Speaker 1: are like good until they prove they're not. I would
Speaker 1: say it's like sixty forty bad. I would say sixty
Speaker 1: forty as in not good to awful, not all that
Speaker 1: sixty is like that is the devil.
Speaker 4: Dang.
Speaker 3: I just googled something about like just country artists and whatever,
Speaker 3: and side note, this article comes up on BuzzFeed and
Speaker 3: there's all these pictures and artists and there's a picture of.
Speaker 4: Morgan Walling and I'm in that picture. I'm cut out
Speaker 4: you're in. It's from iHeart Festival in twenty.
Speaker 3: Twenty one, and I'm like, he's looking at me, he's
Speaker 3: talking to me in that photo.
Speaker 1: Thank you to make the coding.
Speaker 6: Did they blur you or I just know for sure?
Speaker 4: I just know, Okay, no, I know that exact setting.
Speaker 4: Like I know. I can show you my.
Speaker 1: Picture pointing and it is to me you were at
Speaker 1: the supper. They cut me out. I was at the
Speaker 1: far left, and they just didn't paint me on there,
Speaker 1: and I was like, oh, and I finally saw. I
Speaker 1: was finally revealed. Where am I in that picture?
Speaker 6: We were asking for bread?
Speaker 4: Guys, No, I just know he's literally looking at me.
Speaker 1: That's your argument. I just know.
Speaker 4: No. No, I'll show you my photo of him geting me.
Speaker 6: That's different.
Speaker 1: That's proof exactly.
Speaker 6: If you didn't have that, Amy, we all could tell
Speaker 6: that story.
Speaker 4: But I have it.
Speaker 1: That's cool, the defendive artist. We can't listen to your list.
Speaker 1: I would like to finish this though, R Kelly Diddy.
Speaker 6: I mean, I can't think of anyone else because it's almost.
Speaker 1: Got to be so so so bad or you because
Speaker 1: even with Zach Bryan, like he's a scumbag, it feels like,
Speaker 1: oh my gosh, you know what I think it is.
Speaker 1: I think it's kids in my mind, because my that's serious.
Speaker 1: My judgment is not universal judgment. I don't get to
Speaker 1: make all the rules, but I know on my head
Speaker 1: when I'm like, yep, not deffinge with that anymore, it's
Speaker 1: if somebody's messing with kids. And I think that's where
Speaker 1: the Michael Jackson stuff even comes in. And forever. It
Speaker 1: was like, no more Michael Jackson. But the more you
Speaker 1: read about some of the stuff, you're like, I don't know,
Speaker 1: Maybe there's a chance that he was just so vulnerable
Speaker 1: people went after him Michael Jackson, But I don't know that.
Speaker 1: So I listened sparingly one song every three months.
Speaker 6: Halloween Thriller.
Speaker 7: That's it, because that last documentary it was about the
Speaker 7: parents who were kind of going after him to get
Speaker 7: money out of them. And I mean, you can skew
Speaker 7: a documentary to prove your point, but that was another
Speaker 7: angle on it.
Speaker 1: I think for me, it's when someone's messing with kids,
Speaker 1: I'm automatically out if they're like predatory and then the rest.
Speaker 1: I also don't think I'm a big fan of anybody
Speaker 1: who's like, like.
Speaker 6: All these people we listened, I'm not only a big
Speaker 6: fan of any of them. Yeah, like you weren't really
Speaker 6: listening to them anyway.
Speaker 1: Like if like John Mayer a Counting Crows, that's different,
Speaker 1: Like I'm a massive fan of those guys, that would
Speaker 1: affect me. But like, I can't think of the last
Speaker 1: time a Chris Brown song came on.
Speaker 6: I don't even know where I was when that song came.
Speaker 1: And some of them were good. You know what was good?
Speaker 1: The song in the office one, that's right?
Speaker 4: Oh that it wedding one?
Speaker 6: Are you guys doing the same song.
Speaker 1: I don't know she did. She doesn't know what I did.
Speaker 4: I thought we put together a pretty good song there. Yeah,
Speaker 4: the wedding aisle.
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, but I don't know if you knew what
Speaker 1: I did, because you did you went den near new Oh,
Speaker 1: now I got to add that makes sense.
Speaker 6: Yeah, And then I, oh, Bobby did.
Speaker 1: Say it was okay. I did that.
Speaker 4: Bobby goes one, two, three, four, and I.
Speaker 1: Go in here and now I hear hers, and then
Speaker 1: I think.
Speaker 4: One talks goes double your pleasure, Like we all had it.
Speaker 1: That she's not jumping in a song knowing.
Speaker 2: I said that's it when Amy did the right but
Speaker 2: you said that's it. She was going to give me
Speaker 2: credit's definitely going to take it. I was like, I
Speaker 2: didn't say it, but if you're going to give me
Speaker 2: credit for a song, I'll do it.
Speaker 6: But we knew that you wouldn't sing you in any
Speaker 6: part of us.
Speaker 4: And the funny thing is he's literally I right next
Speaker 4: to me, and I thought he said it.
Speaker 1: Oh, well, anything we need to say before we get
Speaker 1: off this topic.
Speaker 6: I think you said it, man, I mean yeah, I
Speaker 6: don't feel like.
Speaker 1: I think that will be an age old. I mean,
Speaker 1: think about all the old artists from like the sixties
Speaker 1: and seventies. We didn't even know the crap they were
Speaker 1: up to. Steven Tyler. Have you ever heard the Stephen
Speaker 1: Tyler story about how he ended up adopted the sixteen
Speaker 1: year olds? We could take her on tour, like the
Speaker 1: parents gave him.
Speaker 2: No, what was Elvis?
Speaker 6: No?
Speaker 1: Elvis too, yeah, but that was his wife.
Speaker 2: No, no, no, but that's what I'm saying. Can we
Speaker 2: listen to Elvis? And then also, I don't know if
Speaker 2: we should watch Woody Allen films.
Speaker 1: I don't That's like that's like Amy going on not
Speaker 1: listening to Ryan Allen or Ryan Adams.
Speaker 6: I can't think.
Speaker 1: That's just like I'm giving up Woody Allen. I'm like, yeah, hey,
Speaker 1: the weirdo Pervo. But you know, I don't know that
Speaker 1: I've ever seen a Woody Allen movie.
Speaker 6: Mm hm, can think of one.
Speaker 1: American beauty I never saw that.
Speaker 2: Well, he seems so popular.
Speaker 6: No, that wasn't him, is okay?
Speaker 1: I'm going to read the Stephen Tyler story mis Gimmon's
Speaker 1: base though.
Speaker 6: Oh he's in it.
Speaker 4: Yeah, Oh, it's I mean, yeah, And now it's like,
Speaker 4: what can't we watch anymore?
Speaker 2: I don't think I've seen a Woody Allen movie either, know,
Speaker 2: I look at his movies.
Speaker 6: But what's like the top one Lunchbox?
Speaker 2: Well, I mean from twenty twenty three, it's kotuzu Jah.
Speaker 2: John's never heard of that. Yeah, Rifkins Festival, a rainy
Speaker 2: day in New York. I don't know any of these.
Speaker 1: Steven Tyler's own words could be used as evidence against
Speaker 1: Timsey faces sexual assoiligations in court. He was formally named
Speaker 1: in the lawsuit that was initially filed. It was filed
Speaker 1: after new California legislation created a window for survivors of
Speaker 1: sexual abuse to come forward. Julia Missley Hulcombe alleges in
Speaker 1: the seventies, she was sixteen. Let me try to find
Speaker 1: the information about it. She Tyler had secured allegedly secured
Speaker 1: guardianship over her when she was a minor. I think
Speaker 1: so she could travel with him. In the suit, she
Speaker 1: alleged that Tyler groomed, exploited. She reportedly accounts several details
Speaker 1: on how she met Tyler in nineteen seventy three in
Speaker 1: Aerosmith Condract. She was sixteen, he was twenty five. After
Speaker 1: the show, he allegedly took her back to the hotel
Speaker 1: did stuff. Allegedly they were together for about three years.
Speaker 1: In nineteen seventy four, the suit alleges Tyler convinced her
Speaker 1: mom to grant him guardianships. We'd be able to live
Speaker 1: and travel with her with ease of that criminal prosecution.
Speaker 1: He also told Blank's mother he'd support the teenager and
Speaker 1: help her actice health care and education. The suit alleges
Speaker 1: he didn't follow through, and they said he continue to
Speaker 1: travel with assault, provide alcohol and drugs to the plaineiff.
Speaker 1: I mean he had guardians of a sixteen year old.
Speaker 2: That's so weird.
Speaker 6: Yeah, that's weird.
Speaker 1: And like back in the sixties, two fifties and sixties,
Speaker 1: they would sing songs about she's sixteen, she's beautiful, and
Speaker 1: she's mine, and like adults singing that.
Speaker 6: Now that's so weird, young girl out out of my mind. Yeah,
Speaker 6: but what about how.
Speaker 2: Your parents letting her go? Like what is wrong with you?
Speaker 3: Because it's more everyone had that, not everyone, but I
Speaker 3: think like they're saying, like that's it was more acceptable.
Speaker 6: Well, there's also like, oh security if for my daughter,
Speaker 6: Yeah he goes with this rich man.
Speaker 2: Yes, okay, I mean, if you're well, I would.
Speaker 1: Agree it does seem bizarre parents. But also I don't
Speaker 1: know that what the circumstances were in anybody's life. All
Speaker 1: I know is that if he's an adult and she's sixteen,
Speaker 1: that's bad.
Speaker 7: Apparently he wrote about in his memoir he did.
Speaker 2: What and he just said, oh, yeah, man, I was
Speaker 2: in love or what.
Speaker 6: Let me read his quote.
Speaker 7: Yeah, he said I went and slept at her parents'
Speaker 7: house for a couple of nights, and her parents fell
Speaker 7: in love with me, signed over papers to have me
Speaker 7: have custody so I wouldn't get arrested if I took
Speaker 7: her out of state.
Speaker 4: Wow. Wow, I think.
Speaker 2: Everybody sucks, man. I mean I just like, okay, that's
Speaker 2: like Amy's daughter going on the road with a twenty
Speaker 2: five year old right now, that's crazy, Like would you
Speaker 2: you would be like what is wrong with you?
Speaker 1: Yeah?
Speaker 4: No, that would not be okay. I just won't even
Speaker 4: get me started about my daughter right now, not about that,
Speaker 4: just like.
Speaker 3: No, I know, no, I love her. It's just like
Speaker 3: parenting can be hard. Sometimes it's not that.
Speaker 6: Well.
Speaker 1: I watched TikTok. They're like, it's so easy.
Speaker 3: Yeah, Well, I think it's just sometimes you want to
Speaker 3: believe that your children are more mature than they are,
Speaker 3: and then you realize that their executive function and their
Speaker 3: ability to think about long term implications is minimal, and
Speaker 3: you're like, what, how does this not make sense to you?
Speaker 3: But you realize like their brain really doesn't comprehend it,
Speaker 3: you know, yes, And then it's scary because it's like,
Speaker 3: I just think sometimes we just put so much trust
Speaker 3: in our kids, and I'm not even I'm speaking like
Speaker 3: I'm throwing a wide net of what parents have to
Speaker 3: deal with, especially once they get to that seventeen eighteen
Speaker 3: year old age, which my daughter's going to be eighteen
Speaker 3: in April, So it just gets tricky because she's definitely
Speaker 3: still going to be under my roof, but yet society's
Speaker 3: trying to tell her she's an adult. And it's like, okay, yeah,
Speaker 3: but your brain's not fully developed till you're twenty five,
Speaker 3: and it's very obvious at times, you know, and then
Speaker 3: you know.
Speaker 1: An educated statement probably like most sixteen seventeen year old girls.
Speaker 3: Yes, yes, I'm not dealing with anything abnormal. It's just
Speaker 3: a reminder of yeah, it doesn't mean it's less difficult. Yeah,
Speaker 3: I think that at times there is such growth and
Speaker 3: then we believe like oh wow, look at this, and
Speaker 3: then there's you know, you give you give an inch,
Speaker 3: they take a mile.
Speaker 6: Yeah, ain't that the truth?
Speaker 4: That's the truth.
Speaker 6: My parents say that all the time, like that's so dumb.
Speaker 1: Now you guys did that?
Speaker 4: Oh yes, yes, I'm not.
Speaker 3: It's just a reminder of like that, like I can't.
Speaker 3: I also want to understand a teenager's perspective and where
Speaker 3: they're coming from, and I it's sometimes it's it's frustrating
Speaker 3: how they can't see the bigger picture. But it's like
Speaker 3: literally that part of their brain isn't developed, Like I
Speaker 3: can't expect it to be understood.
Speaker 4: That mean sometimes yeah.
Speaker 1: Not developed in certain areas. I'm just like let me Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's like, yeah, well we're sorry you're dealing with that.
Speaker 4: No, no, no, I'm not. I'm not.
Speaker 3: I'm just just little little Hey. Parents, if you're going
Speaker 3: through it, got you, we're the same.
Speaker 4: You're not alone.
Speaker 6: Blah blah, blah, A little lighter exact.
Speaker 4: Stay calm, That's what I say.
Speaker 6: Stay calm, like I didn't you know, you don't think
Speaker 6: about like, oh, I've got to teach him everything. Like
Speaker 6: like Amy said, you assume that they would know certain
Speaker 6: things that you wouldn't have to teach them or whatever.
Speaker 6: But mine is not deep. It's very simple. But like
Speaker 6: my son was like, I'm gonna go wash my car.
Speaker 6: So he went to the car wash. Two hours later,
Speaker 6: he comes back and the car is not washed, and
Speaker 6: I'm like, what what happened? Like where? Why is your
Speaker 6: car not washed? He's like, oh, I don't know. The
Speaker 6: thing wasn't working, like the car wash wasn't working, and
Speaker 6: I don't know. Like what do you do? Do you
Speaker 6: put money in it? Like how do you? No one
Speaker 6: has told you how a car wash works?
Speaker 1: The problem.
Speaker 6: So that's what I'm saying. I'm like, man, I should
Speaker 6: have at some point in my life take him to
Speaker 6: a car wash and been like all right, you put your.
Speaker 1: Money out of doing something. Definitely, it sounds like he
Speaker 1: was doing something else and he just forgot to wash
Speaker 1: the car wash.
Speaker 2: No, he's sad. There were two hours steering. Have you
Speaker 2: met my son, Dude, he was out with his friends.
Speaker 6: He wasn't.
Speaker 4: Yes, this is what I'm talking about. He's not understanding
Speaker 4: the guys.
Speaker 6: I have left three sixty.
Speaker 1: I know where he was, but something at the car wash.
Speaker 6: Oh they all met at the car wash and left
Speaker 6: his phone there.
Speaker 1: No, they could have all met at the car wash.
Speaker 1: I could have been their hangout.
Speaker 6: At one o'clock in the afternoon.
Speaker 1: Yes, dude, sonic Walmart parking lot, CARWATK.
Speaker 6: That's where they're smoking cigarettes at the car wash.
Speaker 4: No, they're vaping. That's what they're doing.
Speaker 6: They are vaping.
Speaker 4: Yeah, they move on.
Speaker 5: No.
Speaker 3: I always would rather be like, look, kids, if you're
Speaker 3: gonna try it, try a cigarette.
Speaker 4: I never thought that word would come out of my mouth.
Speaker 3: But like, if you're curious, because vaving it's so much,
Speaker 3: it's just worse.
Speaker 1: Try this.
Speaker 6: Crck.
Speaker 4: No, don't.
Speaker 6: I mean you're gonna do it? Do it.
Speaker 1: Here's some Alouis refoil.
Speaker 3: No. What it's just like I gotta find some good
Speaker 3: documentaries on some subjects and stuff, and we got to
Speaker 3: sit down and just.
Speaker 1: Really, haven't we think that'll work.
Speaker 6: I think like, like my son, movies speak to him.
Speaker 6: So for me, I'm like, oh, I'm gonna show him
Speaker 6: this movie, like, oh you want, like you want to.
Speaker 1: Lure a men to think he chooses what movie to
Speaker 1: watch to learn from. If you're forcing anything on anybody,
Speaker 1: it's going to feel like, Oh.
Speaker 4: No, I'm not going to be forced. Movie night popcorn.
Speaker 5: Yeah, just a short film on human trafficking.
Speaker 6: Oh, yes, there's some good movies on that.
Speaker 4: Well you mean.
Speaker 1: Educational, Yeah, impactful movie, but also good ones like Taking.
Speaker 6: That's a good movie and you'll enjoy that.
Speaker 8: But also you have to like I need takens a
Speaker 8: little dated, like I need updated with technology and how
Speaker 8: dangerous some stuff online is and how we need to
Speaker 8: understand also how things online live forever.
Speaker 4: You know.
Speaker 6: It's like you see anything lately on that on what
Speaker 6: on social media stuff? Like doesn't Black Mirror have some
Speaker 6: like bad social media?
Speaker 3: Oh?
Speaker 1: On social media itself?
Speaker 3: Traveling like yeah, well that's where I mean, oh, like
Speaker 3: TikTok like things. That's where people they swoop in and
Speaker 3: they can start like conversations and seems innocent. And then again,
Speaker 3: when you don't have that executive function, you think, oh,
Speaker 3: well it's this, and then next thing you know, you're
Speaker 3: in a situation that you're like, how did I get here?
Speaker 1: And it's like, oh, A question about executive function? A
Speaker 1: lot of that has to be developed through doing it
Speaker 1: wrong though, right, because anytime you don't try to teach
Speaker 1: me anything, be like, I'll figure it out. You know
Speaker 1: what you're talking about? I do it now? Like probably
Speaker 1: not all, but a lot of executive function is forced learning,
Speaker 1: meaning through experience. Yeah, because somebody can tell you things
Speaker 1: a hundred times, but until you do it and not
Speaker 1: even well, just generally in life, isn't an actual learned
Speaker 1: well some of it.
Speaker 3: Some of it starts early on we don't realize like
Speaker 3: it's just happening, like you're it's over time. I think
Speaker 3: where what I expect her to have at times is
Speaker 3: like good decision making skills and problem solving and again
Speaker 3: full comprehension of the consequences. That that's where she hasn't
Speaker 3: fully developed that yet and maybe she will I hope
Speaker 3: not through certain experiences. But that is how some of
Speaker 3: us tend to learn better. But they do, say, I
Speaker 3: remember from when my kids are at the orphanage. For
Speaker 3: every three months that a kid lives in an orphanage,
Speaker 3: they are one month developmentally behind. So if you add
Speaker 3: up all those months, like because my kids lived there
Speaker 3: for years, and then you kind of figure out where
Speaker 3: they are and their actual developmental age, and so then
Speaker 3: I also have to factor in that because not only
Speaker 3: as a normal seventeen year old not fully developed, but
Speaker 3: then there's we're behind as well, although we catch up
Speaker 3: rap at times on certain things. But yeah, to I
Speaker 3: agree with you Bobby some of it.
Speaker 1: No, you feel like too that she's like overdeveloped in
Speaker 1: some areas too, because she had to live in a
Speaker 1: situation where there are parts of her that had to survive, Yeah,
Speaker 1: mature in extreme levels because of survival.
Speaker 3: I do think that, yes, there are certain survival type
Speaker 3: instincts that she has because of that that I might
Speaker 3: not necessarily have because I wasn't in the same situation.
Speaker 4: Or her brain.
Speaker 3: Speaking of problem solving, it, the thing is she may
Speaker 3: have that developed a particular problem solving skill because of
Speaker 3: her environment, but because she doesn't have why don't you
Speaker 3: want to talk about her specifically?
Speaker 4: That sounds so negative.
Speaker 3: So any kid they may because of their environment, but
Speaker 3: then they don't have the ability to really understand if
Speaker 3: that's right, wrong or wise. Like Okay, so you you
Speaker 3: know you have, you did develop that, but like you now,
Speaker 3: you part of your brain should be like, oh, this
Speaker 3: probably isn't the wise way to go about this, even
Speaker 3: though well you come on, you do some some a
Speaker 3: little bit.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm not.
Speaker 3: My kids are. My kids are great. I think it's
Speaker 3: just as parents really to put a bow on. What
Speaker 3: I was trying to say is I think sometimes we
Speaker 3: even grow them up faster and think they're ready for
Speaker 3: certain things, and then we get we realize like, oh,
Speaker 3: we're not there yet, and that's okay, and then we
Speaker 3: just need to be patient.
Speaker 1: To put a bow on that I'll ever get there.
Speaker 1: I don't think that's there. I don't think there's ever
Speaker 1: a there.
Speaker 3: Well, eventually I have to surrender it over. I'm not
Speaker 3: going to be in control of her life.
Speaker 1: Sure, but I mean I don't think you do that
Speaker 1: after you get there. I don't think there is a there.
Speaker 1: General and human nature, we always think there's some place
Speaker 1: to get to figure it out. Does that have to
Speaker 1: be parenting, it could be anything. There is no such place.
Speaker 4: Yes, I agree with that.
Speaker 6: You're never there.
Speaker 1: You're never there, but there's no the.
Speaker 6: Markers that you reach a little milestone.
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's a journey or are they artificial likes to dance?
Speaker 4: You learn as you go.
Speaker 1: Amen, Sometimes you can listen to him sometimes, Yeah, he
Speaker 1: didn't do anything.
Speaker 6: No, not that we know.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I was just trying to think of my list
Speaker 1: to a mark off. There anybody else do anything bad?
Speaker 6: Oh?
Speaker 1: No, man, they think about this stuff. We can't listen
Speaker 1: to anymore because bad or unless people just can fully
Speaker 1: separate art from artists. And if and if someone said yes,
Speaker 1: I can do that, I mean the music I'm listening
Speaker 1: to is not doing anything bad. It's not hurting anyone.
Speaker 6: Right.
Speaker 4: Does it make them money?
Speaker 1: Make somebody money? But that artist not always right, like
Speaker 1: Michael Jackson's dead guys.
Speaker 4: So he doesn't mean he's the wealthiest dead guy too.
Speaker 6: Or was he number one?
Speaker 1: I don't remember Number one just talked about it might
Speaker 1: have been think about. Let me run a few voicemails.
Speaker 1: I have to go. I'm going to Fairville today first
Speaker 1: few hours. Okay, let's go, Ray, let's do Terra in Richmond, Virginia.
Speaker 9: I was riding a train, a two hour train line,
Speaker 9: and I was sitting in the quiet section, and I
Speaker 9: was listening to your show, and I almost got in trouble.
Speaker 9: I had to act like I was coughing because I
Speaker 9: was actually last age. So I thought about, Oh, I'm
Speaker 9: going to call the show and give the note to listeners,
Speaker 9: do not listen to the show sitting in the quiet
Speaker 9: section of anywhere or anything. Thank you all for being
Speaker 9: so funny.
Speaker 10: Have a good one.
Speaker 1: I appreciate that. Thank you very much.
Speaker 6: I don't know there was a quiet section on a train.
Speaker 1: Dude, where we miss living in the south trains or west,
Speaker 1: or even just if you live in the Northeast, the
Speaker 1: trains are amazing.
Speaker 6: Yeah, because you can.
Speaker 1: Get on a train. You live in Boston, you want
Speaker 1: to go up to Maine, New Hampshire, New York, Philadelphia,
Speaker 1: You've got a freaking train. It's not YouTube train. Growing up,
Speaker 1: they're only two choo trains. I lived in a mill.
Speaker 1: I lived in a town where we had a mill,
Speaker 1: and that wasn't a chu chuo. That was like a
Speaker 1: freight train. That's what we think of train.
Speaker 6: Are these am tracks are like kind of those style? Yeah,
Speaker 6: trains stop. Yes.
Speaker 1: I don't know if it was like an airplane. I
Speaker 1: don't know if they're all AM tracks specific, so, but yes,
Speaker 1: just sit in it. You put your little table down,
Speaker 1: you just chill, you're taking it.
Speaker 4: I've taken that train.
Speaker 1: It's taking that train one time.
Speaker 3: Because I thought it would be really awesome. When I
Speaker 3: lived in North Carolina. I was so seemed so nostalgic
Speaker 3: to me. And we took the train from Southern Pines,
Speaker 3: North Carolina to Washington, D C.
Speaker 4: And it was pretty How long? Was that pretty miserable?
Speaker 6: It was?
Speaker 3: Yeah, because I was like, I mean, to Bobby's point,
Speaker 3: I guess when you're higher up and you're kind of
Speaker 3: closer and maybe it's like an hour two train.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like, that's cool.
Speaker 4: This was like hours.
Speaker 5: And guess what.
Speaker 3: I remember what we did, which we would not have
Speaker 3: been able to do to this day.
Speaker 4: So it was me and Ben listen to R Kelly. No,
Speaker 4: but we watched We watched The Cosby Show.
Speaker 3: Entertain Us and now I would be like, uh, who knows.
Speaker 1: But I don't know. It was so good. I probably
Speaker 1: came on. I probably still watch. You don't think so, No,
Speaker 1: it's bad.
Speaker 6: From artists, Yeah, but you're watching him that's different.
Speaker 1: Maybe.
Speaker 4: But it's like, God, isn't it crazy.
Speaker 2: He's not even in prison.
Speaker 1: He's out of he's also one hundred. It doesn't matter.
Speaker 1: It's like, but also what he got to enjoy abusing
Speaker 1: people for so long before he went to jail, Like
Speaker 1: that sucks. It's like the Zodiac Killer man, that guy,
Speaker 1: like they know, they don't even know. They kind of
Speaker 1: think they know now, but he got He just lived
Speaker 1: and killed and died.
Speaker 4: Have you watched some of that on Netflix?
Speaker 1: No, I've just read about it.
Speaker 3: Well, yeah, there's a new thing that's up and I've
Speaker 3: only seen well my daughter was watching it soon.
Speaker 4: I've only seen bits and pieces and I'm like, maybe
Speaker 4: you shouldn't watch that.
Speaker 3: But there's these kids and they're talking about times that
Speaker 3: they were like with him.
Speaker 4: They're adults now.
Speaker 1: But they're like, for sure who it is, Yeah, they
Speaker 1: don't have they never captured they I know he's dead, yeah,
Speaker 1: but they think now they have a really great idea
Speaker 1: of who. Right, there's one person they've dialed in on,
Speaker 1: but there's also like a couple others where they're like,
Speaker 1: I don't know, it could be him, but really it's
Speaker 1: one and he was just like dicking with them, like
Speaker 1: sending them letters and.
Speaker 6: Crazy with the like the Feds. He was messing with yeah,
Speaker 6: what time frame was.
Speaker 1: This, like when amy eighties nineties?
Speaker 3: What I think maybe was a little bit before that,
Speaker 3: because yeah, the people that look to be interviews, okay, yeah,
Speaker 3: they were way older, but they would be like, yeah, yeah,
Speaker 3: there's this time he took us to the beach and
Speaker 3: then he disappeared for a couple hours and he came
Speaker 3: back and it was this and they were like, I
Speaker 3: think that's when he did this and committed that like it,
Speaker 3: and they're like when we were just kids, like we
Speaker 3: were we were in the car.
Speaker 4: You know, don't know, it's weird to like look.
Speaker 1: Back into life, be like the person that got in
Speaker 1: the car with Ted Bundy was able to get out,
Speaker 1: but we know Ted Bundy was Ted Bundy. Yes, but
Speaker 1: that's udio killer stuff.
Speaker 6: Ude.
Speaker 1: He lived, he got to love his whole life and
Speaker 1: then die just doing all that, no no punishment, and
Speaker 1: I just got to enjoy it.
Speaker 6: Back to the trains, I gotta go, and it's like
Speaker 6: are there, Like can you eat there?
Speaker 1: Like some yeah? Cool and not the it's not the
Speaker 1: most formal fine dining, yeah.
Speaker 3: Which is what I had in my mind when I
Speaker 3: was going from North Carolina to DC. It was gonna
Speaker 3: like I took an outfit and then it was no,
Speaker 3: it was powdered eggs and not great.
Speaker 6: Oh, I think gave.
Speaker 1: Me thought she was living in the eighteen I did.
Speaker 1: That was like the best way to travel away. She's
Speaker 1: really knocking down my train. I love it. I wish
Speaker 1: we had it.
Speaker 4: I would just.
Speaker 1: Get on and get somewhere and have to word. It's
Speaker 1: just straight shot to these cities and then you get
Speaker 1: to the city, you just take it uber to wherever
Speaker 1: you go. That's'll get back to the train station.
Speaker 6: Yeah.
Speaker 3: I was just ignorant on what the experience was going
Speaker 3: to be like, and I had different expectations. If I
Speaker 3: had had realistic expectations and I understood that how it
Speaker 3: was these days and not the eighteen hundreds, then I would.
Speaker 1: Have been any showed up in one of those big
Speaker 1: downs where it's like the waste is so poofy that
Speaker 1: the hoop under it. Tic here had to get on
Speaker 1: the train. He's like fanning, fanning your face with one
Speaker 1: of those fans chattoo. This a chatto. I was like,
Speaker 1: shirt you see sit down.
Speaker 4: I was like, oh, this is really yeah.
Speaker 3: People are taking this train from Florida to d C.
Speaker 3: For you know, it's just more affordable.
Speaker 1: When we went from Boston to New Hampshire, it took
Speaker 1: like fifty That's cool.
Speaker 6: Is cool?
Speaker 4: This was a this was not.
Speaker 1: My agent lives in DC and goes to New York
Speaker 1: two three times a week on the train.
Speaker 4: That's cool. See I could do that life.
Speaker 1: All right? Give me remember three ring.
Speaker 9: The people that do come through by calling, and I
Speaker 9: even the regular.
Speaker 5: Call ins, they have had some special number that they
Speaker 5: call to get through because I can I get through.
Speaker 4: PS.
Speaker 9: I still have not found my keys that I lost.
Speaker 9: My car is parked at work.
Speaker 4: It'll be at least four days before I can get
Speaker 4: some sort of arrangement.
Speaker 6: That's trying to.
Speaker 9: Get that's second he made for my car.
Speaker 10: Anyway, I'd love to show.
Speaker 1: I'm listen to you right now, Thank you very much.
Speaker 1: Hope you find your keys. And there is no special
Speaker 1: number ps PS maybe a Kelson Aerosmith.
Speaker 6: Now because of that story or Elvis, I mean, what
Speaker 6: are we gonna do? Man? No music for us anymore?
Speaker 3: Man?
Speaker 4: That Elvis movie really trip me up on him.
Speaker 1: Yeah, you know that's just generally famous people, guys, famous
Speaker 1: young you're just fed up and it doesn't give you
Speaker 1: any more right to be awful. But all I'm saying
Speaker 1: is there are more awful people than you think that
Speaker 1: are famous. There's some awful ones here in town.
Speaker 6: Like who.
Speaker 1: Give me number four?
Speaker 10: A Bobby was doing a giveaway on Instagram like if
Speaker 10: you go like his new YouTube channel, then you could
Speaker 10: win one hundred dollars if you screenshot it and send
Speaker 10: it to him, and I won. So I just wanted
Speaker 10: to say thank you, Bobby for that extra blessing of
Speaker 10: one hundred dollars.
Speaker 1: Thank you, You're welcome.
Speaker 6: That's cool.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's just used to be a Bobby Cash channel,
Speaker 1: and then I was putting so much content on there
Speaker 1: that wasn't Bobbycast. We just turned it to the Bobby
Speaker 1: Bones channel because we're doing some sports stuff that we
Speaker 1: do to and so we started it so late, and
Speaker 1: I was like, for ten days, I give everybody a
Speaker 1: hundred bucks. It just randomly would pick somebody and just
Speaker 1: send it on a hundred bucks. So it cost me
Speaker 1: a thousand bucks. Yeah, but I'm glad someone called it
Speaker 1: and actually one because I think I would wonder, is
Speaker 1: he really giving me that money.
Speaker 6: I thought she was gonna say, like I haven't got
Speaker 6: my money yet.
Speaker 1: I send it to them before I posted that they've
Speaker 1: won it, because I'll post on my story who won.
Speaker 4: And you're making sure you're sending it to the right.
Speaker 1: Uh yeah, I double check. They send me their Venmo
Speaker 1: name and I double check, and then I send a
Speaker 1: shot of me venmowing it. Then Okay, that's it. We
Speaker 1: have to go.
Speaker 6: I have to go.
Speaker 1: I am speaking and asking questions today at the president
Speaker 1: at the University of Arkansas. They're doing this massive billion
Speaker 1: dollar scholarship initiative and they've asked me to come out
Speaker 1: and kind of lead that today. So that's where I'm going. Cool,
Speaker 1: I'll be back.
Speaker 4: Do you say billion?
Speaker 1: I believe so a billion or hundreds of millions or
Speaker 1: billion or something that number. I should know because I
Speaker 1: just get up. We got a billion dollars we're giving away.
Speaker 1: But they've asked me to come because it helps a
Speaker 1: lot of students that have backgrounds like I had, and
Speaker 1: that's why they wanted to come out and lead it
Speaker 1: and sit with the president and talk. So I'm gonna
Speaker 1: do that.
Speaker 6: And basketball not playing tonight. Arkansas is not playing to night.
Speaker 1: I do not believe, so may play pickleball today. Three
Speaker 1: do you play?
Speaker 6: Oh? Really? A three? Yeah? I'd love to.
Speaker 1: Uh, okay, we'll play three. I'll be back by three.
Speaker 1: I about like two thirty, so we'll play three.
Speaker 6: You don't play to night, you play tomorrow? Yeah, against
Speaker 6: Troy should be a good one, Eggman.
Speaker 1: No, just troit Min's buddies. Okay, thank you guys. We
Speaker 1: will see you tomorrow and that is all fire, buddy,