WEBVTT - Post-It Tells All 0:00:00.800 --> 0:00:03.800 This is the Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous podcast 0:00:03.880 --> 0:00:05.240 with iHeartRadio. 0:00:05.880 --> 0:00:09.040 Hey guys, welcome to the Almost Famous podcast. 0:00:09.560 --> 0:00:12.280 Guess What. I'm joined by Jared again this sweek. 0:00:14.000 --> 0:00:14.320 It's Me? 0:00:14.960 --> 0:00:18.200 Are you so to me? Chackica, Jared and I will 0:00:18.200 --> 0:00:21.200 never be able to say the words it's me without 0:00:21.239 --> 0:00:24.759 thinking of Rob Schneider in The Hot Check. 0:00:24.640 --> 0:00:25.120 The Hot Check? 0:00:25.200 --> 0:00:27.960 Yeah. I love that movie so much. 0:00:28.080 --> 0:00:30.200 Yeah, it's a great one. Rachel mcaddams before she was 0:00:30.280 --> 0:00:33.239 Rachel mcaddams. Yeah, I know, was that before Me and Girls? 0:00:33.640 --> 0:00:36.320 I think it may have been like six months before, yeah, 0:00:36.360 --> 0:00:37.279 six months before. 0:00:38.640 --> 0:00:39.240 So crazy. 0:00:39.440 --> 0:00:39.720 Yeah. 0:00:39.840 --> 0:00:41.600 I remember thinking she was so hot in that movie, 0:00:41.640 --> 0:00:43.960 and then who would have thought, like, oh, that is 0:00:44.080 --> 0:00:48.839 Rachel McAdams. That's similar to the movie Almost Time with 0:00:49.560 --> 0:00:52.199 I forget the actor's name, but Bill Nye plays the 0:00:52.280 --> 0:00:54.560 father where the guy can go and go back in 0:00:54.600 --> 0:00:56.880 time and it's right around the time his dad dies. 0:00:57.000 --> 0:01:00.320 I don't but Margot Robbie's in it before she was 0:01:00.320 --> 0:01:01.040 Marco Robbins. 0:01:01.360 --> 0:01:05.000 About Time, I was like, I don't know a movie 0:01:05.040 --> 0:01:08.280 called that, Okay, yeah, about Time? And I remember watching 0:01:08.319 --> 0:01:10.399 About Time and being like that might be the prettiest, 0:01:10.480 --> 0:01:11.880 but have everything in my entire life. 0:01:11.880 --> 0:01:13.839 Oh my god, my god, it's so funny because Rachel 0:01:13.880 --> 0:01:16.120 McAdams is also in that movie and she plays his 0:01:16.200 --> 0:01:21.720 love injury. Yeah, but but she it's hotter well in 0:01:21.800 --> 0:01:24.039 that movie, in that movie specifically, But then you have 0:01:24.080 --> 0:01:27.080 an argument like who is prettier like Margot, Robbie or 0:01:27.160 --> 0:01:27.840 Ray McAdams. 0:01:27.959 --> 0:01:31.119 If I understand, there's really there, they're all in there 0:01:31.400 --> 0:01:32.840 in that movie. 0:01:32.760 --> 0:01:35.000 Yeah, well, of course pretty. But in that movie, hold on, 0:01:35.000 --> 0:01:38.280 I gotta finish my Rachel McAdams intentionally doesn't look as 0:01:38.319 --> 0:01:40.400 good because I think so, Yeah, they spress. 0:01:40.120 --> 0:01:45.279 Her down to look like more like momish exactly. 0:01:45.400 --> 0:01:48.440 And and also I forget, god, I forget the guy's name. 0:01:48.480 --> 0:01:51.920 But you know, let's be honest, it's not like he's ugly, 0:01:52.080 --> 0:01:54.200 but like she's way out of his leag So if 0:01:54.200 --> 0:01:57.880 it was Rachel McAdams and him movie, no, it's no. 0:01:58.040 --> 0:02:03.120 Jim Sturge is beautiful. I forget he's still. 0:02:04.680 --> 0:02:07.920 We have nothing to say about this episode. We'll get well, 0:02:08.040 --> 0:02:09.760 we'll get to in a second, but now I just 0:02:09.760 --> 0:02:12.640 want to say I thought that should I look it up? 0:02:12.840 --> 0:02:15.239 Yeah, he's redhead. He's a really good actor. He was 0:02:15.280 --> 0:02:21.240 in Star Wars Glacier. I mean, yep, there he is, 0:02:21.680 --> 0:02:26.800 or dom Donald. No, it's Domin Domino. Yeah, it's spelled. 0:02:27.080 --> 0:02:32.400 They just had it there. It is doumb Hall. He's 0:02:32.440 --> 0:02:36.120 not a bad looking guy by any French, but you know, 0:02:36.400 --> 0:02:38.280 I mean Rachel, you know. 0:02:38.520 --> 0:02:41.560 Ch Rich McAdams is Jared's like great movie. 0:02:41.560 --> 0:02:43.000 By the way, holy Ship, you haven't seen them. I 0:02:43.000 --> 0:02:45.639 remember watching that and I was like, who is this blonde? 0:02:45.840 --> 0:02:48.600 I know, I thought the same thing. 0:02:48.680 --> 0:02:50.560 I was like, am I a lesbian right now? 0:02:50.639 --> 0:02:52.760 I was like, listen, I love to because I'm so much, 0:02:52.800 --> 0:02:56.799 but bro go with her read of your mind anyway? 0:02:57.040 --> 0:02:59.040 Also, could I say that in the Hot Chick where 0:02:59.120 --> 0:03:02.760 is where this conversation started, I thought that Anna Faris 0:03:02.880 --> 0:03:03.720 was so pretty. 0:03:03.760 --> 0:03:04.480 I just want to look like. 0:03:05.160 --> 0:03:07.639 I think Anna Faris is pretty underrated. 0:03:07.800 --> 0:03:08.040 Yeah. 0:03:08.120 --> 0:03:10.680 Have you ever seen the movie Waiting where it's with 0:03:10.720 --> 0:03:13.240 her and Ryan Reynolds. They play they work in a restaurant, 0:03:13.680 --> 0:03:15.520 justin Long's in. It came out in two thousand and five. 0:03:15.520 --> 0:03:16.959 It's an old one never really took off. 0:03:17.040 --> 0:03:18.079 The movies are the two of them? 0:03:18.200 --> 0:03:21.480 Uh that and Just Friends? But I think she well, 0:03:21.480 --> 0:03:24.400 she also wears Eyeliner, which actually knows is my I 0:03:24.440 --> 0:03:25.480 love dude. 0:03:25.480 --> 0:03:28.280 Jared loves Island, black Eyelander all the way around. 0:03:28.360 --> 0:03:32.440 And I think Ana fars is very pretty. 0:03:31.040 --> 0:03:35.200 Anyway anyway, okay, well you know who else is very pretty? 0:03:34.800 --> 0:03:38.839 All Joan and all her men very pretty, very nice man. 0:03:39.120 --> 0:03:43.520 This mentell all was a celebration of the season, which 0:03:43.680 --> 0:03:46.800 I am glad they did it this way if they 0:03:46.800 --> 0:03:50.080 were going to do a men tell all, I'm glad 0:03:50.600 --> 0:03:52.680 that the structure of the show was this and they 0:03:52.680 --> 0:03:55.400 didn't try to insert some sort of drama between the 0:03:55.440 --> 0:03:59.320 guys and instead just celebrating the friendships that were gathered 0:03:59.840 --> 0:04:02.240 like that. Having said that they should just never have 0:04:02.240 --> 0:04:03.040 had a mental. 0:04:02.760 --> 0:04:04.080 Well okay, but do you know why they had a 0:04:04.120 --> 0:04:04.640 mentell all? 0:04:04.680 --> 0:04:06.920 In my theory, even though it probably costs them a bit, 0:04:07.400 --> 0:04:09.800 I don't know what the ratio is for, like what's 0:04:09.880 --> 0:04:10.640 worth it for them. 0:04:10.840 --> 0:04:13.520 I'm sure ABC needed a certain set amount of episodes 0:04:13.640 --> 0:04:15.920 and what the structure of the show is set in 0:04:15.960 --> 0:04:19.680 a way that you know it's it's it's kind of like, well, 0:04:19.720 --> 0:04:20.960 of course we'll do a mental all. 0:04:21.240 --> 0:04:24.440 No, Okay, my theory is this they did it? Okay, Well, yeah, 0:04:24.480 --> 0:04:27.880 you're right, they're always gonna do it. I don't think 0:04:27.880 --> 0:04:30.760 there's been a season with that one besides Paradise seasons, 0:04:30.800 --> 0:04:35.000 which sometimes people are requesting Paradise seasons over something like that. 0:04:35.000 --> 0:04:37.200 It's done some reunions, some. 0:04:36.960 --> 0:04:37.839 Sort of catchups. 0:04:38.440 --> 0:04:42.680 Now, an episode like this you would think would be 0:04:42.720 --> 0:04:46.359 paired with a regular episode just because like we needed more, 0:04:46.920 --> 0:04:48.960 especially since it was an hour and a half episode. 0:04:49.720 --> 0:04:51.800 This was an hour and a half. It wasn't too yeah, 0:04:52.080 --> 0:04:53.080 it felt like to them, No. 0:04:53.160 --> 0:04:55.720 Actually it felt short to me. It's so weird. 0:04:56.000 --> 0:04:58.200 So normally I would think that they would tack on 0:04:58.320 --> 0:05:02.599 like thirty minutes of real drama from like Fantasy Suites 0:05:02.839 --> 0:05:05.680 or The Final Two or something, and then they would 0:05:05.720 --> 0:05:09.240 put mentel all at the end of that. This week, 0:05:09.320 --> 0:05:11.599 I think they're like, okay, well, the plan is to 0:05:11.720 --> 0:05:16.560 air it Wednesday after the election. Nobody knows whether or 0:05:16.560 --> 0:05:19.680 not the results will be here by then. People are 0:05:19.760 --> 0:05:23.680 not thinking about the Golden Bachelorette this week, so it's 0:05:23.720 --> 0:05:26.080 perfect timing to throw a mentell. 0:05:25.760 --> 0:05:27.760 All on a Wednesday night. 0:05:28.160 --> 0:05:31.120 Nobody needs to see it, but it's there as light, 0:05:31.160 --> 0:05:35.000 fluffy content if they want it, and if if it 0:05:35.080 --> 0:05:35.920 even gets to air. 0:05:36.600 --> 0:05:39.640 I agree, Yeah, they probably should have just took a week 0:05:39.680 --> 0:05:43.240 off Election week. A lot's going on high. 0:05:43.400 --> 0:05:49.240 Yeah, just you know, George, Sorry, she's just talking to me. 0:05:52.760 --> 0:05:54.039 Do you think they will I think that in a 0:05:54.120 --> 0:05:57.240 regular week, at a regular time, they would have just 0:05:57.240 --> 0:05:59.760 like done a back to back episode. They're just like, no, no, 0:06:00.200 --> 0:06:01.960 it's okay, Well the store. 0:06:02.080 --> 0:06:03.520 I agree, you know what I'm talking about. Yes, of 0:06:03.560 --> 0:06:05.599 course they didn't want to put anything consequential into this 0:06:05.640 --> 0:06:07.880 episode because they knew exactly not a lot of people 0:06:07.880 --> 0:06:09.360 are probably gonna watch it. Yeh, Because it's the day 0:06:09.360 --> 0:06:12.200 after election. No one's thinking about the Golden Bachelorette, even 0:06:12.240 --> 0:06:14.920 though you know, it was funny. I went on Yahoo 0:06:14.960 --> 0:06:17.240 this morning just to check the news, and the top 0:06:17.680 --> 0:06:24.240 like scroll side by side was you know, Trump about 0:06:24.279 --> 0:06:26.960 Trump winning the election, and then right next door was 0:06:27.080 --> 0:06:29.440 Golden Bachelorette recap, and I'm like, god, I can't believe 0:06:29.440 --> 0:06:30.680 those two things are side by side. 0:06:31.560 --> 0:06:32.279 That's funny. 0:06:32.680 --> 0:06:37.520 All right, So the episode itself has absolutely zero drama, 0:06:38.000 --> 0:06:42.520 which is as wonderful the least dramatic read and. 0:06:42.720 --> 0:06:43.480 Is it wonderful? 0:06:43.720 --> 0:06:44.680 No, this is wonderful. 0:06:44.720 --> 0:06:47.160 I think it's wonderful because they didn't even try because 0:06:47.160 --> 0:06:48.760 they were like, oh, we don't have any so let's 0:06:48.800 --> 0:06:52.120 not try. So it's really could have just been called 0:06:52.160 --> 0:06:53.520 like the celebration of the men. 0:06:54.160 --> 0:06:56.400 You were bored, and I actually thought it was sweet. 0:06:56.480 --> 0:06:58.880 I wasn't particularly bored, but I will tell you this, 0:06:59.040 --> 0:06:59.839 it's very sweet. 0:07:00.120 --> 0:07:03.720 Qualify episodes based on like, is this a scroll episode? 0:07:03.800 --> 0:07:05.719 Like where I'm on my phone scrolling or trying to 0:07:05.760 --> 0:07:08.240 do something else while watching, which, of course, you guys, 0:07:08.240 --> 0:07:09.240 this is my job to recap. 0:07:09.279 --> 0:07:12.320 I don't do that, but like it's my compulsion. Do 0:07:12.400 --> 0:07:13.880 I wish I would be doing that? You know what 0:07:13.920 --> 0:07:16.320 I mean? Now this case, because it was a. 0:07:16.280 --> 0:07:19.800 Tell all, I was like, and Jared was already previewing 0:07:19.960 --> 0:07:24.640 to me that it was slow or inconsequential. I was like, okay, 0:07:24.680 --> 0:07:27.560 well then I'm going to Christmas decorate during this, so 0:07:27.640 --> 0:07:30.880 I did okay. And I do have to say that, like, 0:07:30.920 --> 0:07:32.920 if I were to sit down and just dedicate my 0:07:33.040 --> 0:07:36.360 time fully to this episode would have been like, oh no, 0:07:36.600 --> 0:07:38.840 but I was nice to have in the background as 0:07:38.880 --> 0:07:48.760 like a podcast. That's what it was to me, a podcast. 0:07:52.400 --> 0:07:56.320 This is a great example as to why I'm not 0:07:56.520 --> 0:08:01.560 a TV guy because The Bachelor, Right, obviously, it's given 0:08:01.640 --> 0:08:03.400 us more in our lives than we could possibly have 0:08:03.440 --> 0:08:06.160 ever asked for. It's one of the most successful shows 0:08:06.160 --> 0:08:11.360 of all time, longest running shows. I mean, it's it's, 0:08:12.400 --> 0:08:15.800 you know, a place in TV history cannot be understated, 0:08:15.840 --> 0:08:20.480 the Bachelor franchise. But like every show goes through this 0:08:20.520 --> 0:08:25.600 where there's just episodes where it's like, why am I 0:08:25.600 --> 0:08:27.720 watching this for an hour and a half? Why am 0:08:27.760 --> 0:08:30.760 I watching this? And it's but this is exactly why, 0:08:30.800 --> 0:08:33.160 well hold on. But this is exactly why I'm not 0:08:33.240 --> 0:08:36.920 a TV guy because there's so many times with multitude 0:08:36.920 --> 0:08:40.280 of television shows, whether it be I don't know, breaking 0:08:40.320 --> 0:08:43.240 bad or whatever you're you're biting not breaking bad. 0:08:43.440 --> 0:08:48.199 Every episode is consequent Ozarks. I thought that was too 0:08:48.200 --> 0:08:48.920 slow to continue? 0:08:49.080 --> 0:08:52.000 Is it Ozark or Ozark Ozark? 0:08:52.760 --> 0:08:53.160 Anyway? 0:08:53.280 --> 0:08:56.199 Ozark one of the widely considered one of the greatest shows. 0:08:56.200 --> 0:08:58.800 But like so many times, there's episodes I hear from 0:08:58.800 --> 0:09:01.320 people like, oh, you got to get through four episodes 0:09:01.360 --> 0:09:03.040 and then it gets really going. It's like, so you're 0:09:03.080 --> 0:09:05.720 telling me I got to dedicate almost five hours of 0:09:05.760 --> 0:09:06.200 my life. 0:09:06.280 --> 0:09:09.240 Will tell me that what's the show that with Catherine O'Hara. 0:09:10.360 --> 0:09:15.600 Oh, I get the uh sure, like, oh no, I'm 0:09:15.600 --> 0:09:16.560 oh it, Shit's creak. 0:09:16.600 --> 0:09:17.400 Yeah, shit's creak. 0:09:17.640 --> 0:09:19.679 People tell me that I have to watch the whole 0:09:19.720 --> 0:09:22.280 first season it shit's creaked to start to like it. 0:09:22.320 --> 0:09:23.520 At the beginning of season two? 0:09:23.640 --> 0:09:24.880 What are we doing with our lives? 0:09:24.960 --> 0:09:25.160 You know? 0:09:25.240 --> 0:09:27.080 And I get that people do that, and it's a thing, 0:09:27.120 --> 0:09:29.400 and I respect it because I wish I could do. 0:09:29.360 --> 0:09:31.480 It with some shows and some shows you don't. 0:09:31.559 --> 0:09:36.080 And my retaliation point is that we love TV because 0:09:36.080 --> 0:09:37.880 we get so close to the characters. 0:09:37.920 --> 0:09:40.280 We feel like we really know them so much more 0:09:40.280 --> 0:09:40.880 than a movie. 0:09:41.120 --> 0:09:44.079 In an episode like this where mental all super sweet, 0:09:44.120 --> 0:09:48.280 no drama filler episode, we just want to see them. 0:09:48.559 --> 0:09:50.640 We just want to see more of their personality. And 0:09:50.679 --> 0:09:51.400 that's all we just. 0:09:51.559 --> 0:09:52.440 That's fair, that's fair. 0:09:52.520 --> 0:09:56.200 You don't like, you don't like, you don't need the Yeah, 0:09:56.200 --> 0:09:59.320 there's something you don't need, access personality. 0:09:59.360 --> 0:10:01.679 I love character development, give me all of it. 0:10:01.800 --> 0:10:06.079 I love character precise, but no, there's also a subtlety 0:10:06.400 --> 0:10:09.640 to character development that I really appreciate. Like in movies, 0:10:10.080 --> 0:10:12.400 you know, there's so much to be said in silent 0:10:12.480 --> 0:10:15.760 moments like one of the this I always uses an example. 0:10:15.800 --> 0:10:17.360 I'm sorry and going off track right now, but I 0:10:17.559 --> 0:10:20.040 not really if you get me on this podcast, I'm sorry, 0:10:20.080 --> 0:10:21.880 this is what we're going to talk about. But there's 0:10:21.880 --> 0:10:24.760 a scene in the party where I could talk about this. 0:10:24.960 --> 0:10:27.320 So there's a scene between Leonardo DiCaprio and Matt Damon 0:10:27.640 --> 0:10:32.040 and uh, forget Martin Sheen's character dies, he's like the 0:10:32.080 --> 0:10:34.319 Captain DiCaprio has his phone or like he's got the 0:10:34.400 --> 0:10:37.160 rats phone or something like that, and Matt Damon calls 0:10:37.200 --> 0:10:40.600 the phone and Leo knows it's the Rat but doesn't 0:10:40.600 --> 0:10:42.839 know who it is, and he picks up the phone. No, no, 0:10:43.120 --> 0:10:45.760 it's just dead silence. Yeah, yeah, And it just puts 0:10:45.800 --> 0:10:48.480 back and forth between both guys just hearing each other 0:10:48.520 --> 0:10:50.960 breathe on the phone. And in that moment, there is 0:10:50.960 --> 0:10:54.800 more character development in that twenty seconds of silence than 0:10:54.840 --> 0:10:57.240 in most movies, you know what I mean. It's just 0:10:57.280 --> 0:10:59.280 like it's it's a chef's kiss. 0:10:59.400 --> 0:11:01.880 It is great. I see it play in my head 0:11:01.920 --> 0:11:02.400 right now. 0:11:03.200 --> 0:11:07.760 That like just everything in that moment, the tension just 0:11:07.760 --> 0:11:08.800 just oh god, it's so good. 0:11:08.800 --> 0:11:13.040 Anyway, Okay, during the strip day, Jonathan says that he's 0:11:13.080 --> 0:11:17.320 never stripped before. It didn't we didn't believe him, and 0:11:17.360 --> 0:11:19.320 then they reasked the question here. 0:11:20.960 --> 0:11:23.320 He has never done it, professor. Very funny, That was 0:11:23.480 --> 0:11:24.080 very funny. 0:11:24.800 --> 0:11:29.400 We also find out that Jonathan has a girlfriend, which 0:11:29.440 --> 0:11:33.040 means that Jonathan is off of the Golden Bachelor list, 0:11:33.080 --> 0:11:36.200 which is disappointing to me as it seems as if 0:11:37.360 --> 0:11:40.720 Mark might also have a girlfriend. So to my two 0:11:40.840 --> 0:11:44.480 lead picks both have girlfriends. 0:11:45.760 --> 0:11:47.400 Is there going to be a Golden Bachelor. 0:11:47.679 --> 0:11:49.520 And they were casting for it in the commercials? 0:11:49.559 --> 0:11:53.160 Oh? Then yes? Oh okay. Do you think that they 0:11:53.200 --> 0:11:55.600 should pick someone from Jones season or do they Do 0:11:55.640 --> 0:11:57.000 you think that they should pick. 0:11:57.679 --> 0:11:59.559 Uh celebrity studcaster? 0:11:59.760 --> 0:12:04.320 Yeah, like an old celebrity. I mean because listen, obviously 0:12:04.679 --> 0:12:05.760 I love the format of the show. 0:12:05.800 --> 0:12:07.040 I think it needs a little pick me up. 0:12:07.080 --> 0:12:08.240 I think it needs a little pick me up. 0:12:08.280 --> 0:12:09.840 I think this might be a little pick when we 0:12:09.880 --> 0:12:10.400 might need it. 0:12:10.679 --> 0:12:11.800 So, who do you haven't. 0:12:11.559 --> 0:12:15.320 Done a celebrity stunt casting? In Forever? Jesse was the 0:12:15.400 --> 0:12:16.600 celebrity stunt casting. 0:12:16.679 --> 0:12:20.720 So was Baldwin? Wasn't Baldwin one of the Baldwin brothers, right. 0:12:21.080 --> 0:12:21.520 I have. 0:12:22.520 --> 0:12:24.840 I thought he was. I was very young when his 0:12:24.840 --> 0:12:25.560 season came out. 0:12:25.840 --> 0:12:27.880 And then there was the Prince that was kind of stunty, 0:12:28.000 --> 0:12:30.400 but Jesse was the celebrity stunt cast. 0:12:30.480 --> 0:12:35.840 Yeah, I bet that there's an older celebrity who would 0:12:35.840 --> 0:12:38.120 be willing to do You definitely be down to do it. 0:12:38.200 --> 0:12:38.800 Yeah. 0:12:38.960 --> 0:12:43.200 They plugged Charles as possibly the next Bachelor, a Golden Bachelor. 0:12:43.280 --> 0:12:45.599 As they they call him out in the middle of 0:12:45.600 --> 0:12:48.280 the crowd. They have some you know stage moment where 0:12:48.320 --> 0:12:51.599 a fan says, Charles for Golden Bachelor. 0:12:52.000 --> 0:12:54.840 If not, then my mom, I. 0:12:54.760 --> 0:12:57.560 Know, it's so sweet. Do you do matter the mom? 0:12:57.800 --> 0:12:59.800 Do you do you not think that Charles couldn't carry 0:12:59.840 --> 0:13:00.360 this show? 0:13:00.800 --> 0:13:01.280 Do you? 0:13:01.720 --> 0:13:03.040 Okay, let me tell you. 0:13:03.559 --> 0:13:07.400 At first I thought this is wacky, this is the 0:13:07.520 --> 0:13:08.480 sweetest man. 0:13:09.760 --> 0:13:12.199 And then but I was like, but he can't carry 0:13:12.240 --> 0:13:12.560 the show. 0:13:12.720 --> 0:13:13.880 No, he can't carry the show. 0:13:13.920 --> 0:13:16.840 And then I thought, who of this group do I 0:13:16.920 --> 0:13:20.439 actually want to watch more of? It? Is Charles and 0:13:20.559 --> 0:13:25.040 he is the most endearing person I've really ever come across, 0:13:26.000 --> 0:13:28.160 like the most so can. 0:13:28.040 --> 0:13:34.440 You imagine twenty five older women? I guess when you Yeah, if. 0:13:34.320 --> 0:13:37.400 You want a Golden bachelor that is just like you 0:13:37.440 --> 0:13:42.040 cannot stop watching it because he's just too cute and 0:13:42.160 --> 0:13:45.320 that's the guy, you know, Like, I don't know what 0:13:45.400 --> 0:13:47.520 kind of grand romance might come out of this. 0:13:48.240 --> 0:13:51.120 I don't even know if he talks about how he 0:13:51.280 --> 0:13:54.400 wants he's ready to move on. Is this evil of 0:13:54.440 --> 0:13:54.960 me to say? 0:13:55.720 --> 0:13:57.240 No, it's idealist? 0:13:57.480 --> 0:14:00.280 Okay, that's what it is. It's me just being like. 0:14:01.400 --> 0:14:04.080 You romantic, right, buddy, your soulmate. 0:14:04.320 --> 0:14:06.880 Not evil, too romantic exactly. 0:14:07.679 --> 0:14:10.880 All right, Well, it's just because he's just the way 0:14:10.880 --> 0:14:12.679 that he talks about his wife, you know, I mean, 0:14:12.720 --> 0:14:16.720 say with Mark and Mark. Actually, there was nothing. There 0:14:16.760 --> 0:14:21.320 was no huge Mark moments to me in this episode. 0:14:21.120 --> 0:14:26.680 Except for precisely the post it note. 0:14:26.400 --> 0:14:30.080 That he said that he gave to Jonathan saying that, like, 0:14:30.280 --> 0:14:32.800 you know, if I'm not around tomorrow, which he meant 0:14:32.840 --> 0:14:34.280 like if I don't get a rose. 0:14:34.440 --> 0:14:39.600 Not obviously dying, Yes, just know that. 0:14:39.560 --> 0:14:42.000 You're like a great man, and he like had listed 0:14:42.040 --> 0:14:44.080 like all these attributes that he admired from him. 0:14:44.200 --> 0:14:45.160 Yeah, it's really sweet. 0:14:45.240 --> 0:14:47.280 Can you would you do that if you were in 0:14:47.320 --> 0:14:48.600 the house with these men. 0:14:49.560 --> 0:14:50.760 I'm trying to think of who I would do it. 0:14:50.800 --> 0:14:52.600 I feel like Ben would do it to you. 0:14:53.280 --> 0:14:55.920 He will do it for me. Ben, Relax, I'm not 0:14:55.920 --> 0:15:00.280 that great, very sweet, but I'm not deserving of this. 0:15:00.960 --> 0:15:03.080 You can write like you're okay, You're doing a good job, 0:15:03.160 --> 0:15:08.680 and then I'd be like, all right, thanks, I appreciate that. Yeah, Like, 0:15:08.800 --> 0:15:09.240 do you. 0:15:09.160 --> 0:15:14.720 See yourself in thirty years softer in that way? 0:15:15.600 --> 0:15:17.960 Yeah? It's interesting because I think there's areas in my 0:15:18.000 --> 0:15:20.680 life where I've become hardened, and then there are areas 0:15:20.680 --> 0:15:25.080 in my life where I've become softer. You know, I 0:15:25.120 --> 0:15:30.760 was actually thinking yesterday when I was feeding Hayden introspectively 0:15:31.040 --> 0:15:36.680 about you know, like, what how Hayden's going to view 0:15:36.760 --> 0:15:40.200 me as a as a dad? And you know, it's 0:15:40.200 --> 0:15:42.640 a weird thought. What type of man are you going 0:15:42.680 --> 0:15:44.320 to think I am? You know, I hope you think 0:15:44.400 --> 0:15:45.120 I'm a good man. 0:15:45.080 --> 0:15:48.680 But you're wonderful, I was there. That's not wonderful. Lots 0:15:48.720 --> 0:15:51.640 of things, definitely, like the work. Well, you know, I 0:15:51.680 --> 0:15:54.040 can't say that working too much is a negative thing. 0:15:54.240 --> 0:16:00.480 No, actually as well, but anyway, but that's an area 0:16:00.520 --> 0:16:02.640 where I think I've become softer in terms of thinking. 0:16:02.960 --> 0:16:06.480 You know, grandioso. It's with kids because it just puts 0:16:06.640 --> 0:16:11.040 you know, you start thinking about your place in life, 0:16:11.040 --> 0:16:14.880 not so much about your own being, but in terms 0:16:14.960 --> 0:16:18.880 of okay, well, I'm here in this world, and my 0:16:18.920 --> 0:16:21.400 most important thing is not just like living, but just 0:16:21.760 --> 0:16:24.480 being there for Dawson and Hayden, Like I want to 0:16:24.480 --> 0:16:26.560 live as long as possible, right, because I want to 0:16:26.600 --> 0:16:29.560 be there as long as possible for them. Yeah, and 0:16:29.720 --> 0:16:33.280 that has obviously that mindset has been different the past 0:16:33.280 --> 0:16:35.400 three years since having kids than it was prior. 0:16:35.640 --> 0:16:35.840 Yeah. 0:16:36.080 --> 0:16:37.200 Right, It's like, well, I want to live as long 0:16:37.200 --> 0:16:40.120 as possible because I want to do things and breathe 0:16:40.160 --> 0:16:43.000 and I appreciate life and I'm grateful for life, which 0:16:43.000 --> 0:16:45.400 all those things are true still, but now it's also 0:16:45.480 --> 0:16:46.880 shifted to be like, well, now I want to be 0:16:46.880 --> 0:16:49.640 here as long as possible because you know, I don't want, 0:16:50.080 --> 0:16:52.600 you know, Dawson to be fifteen and something happened and 0:16:52.640 --> 0:16:55.040 then he you know, kind of grows out without a dad, 0:16:55.120 --> 0:16:56.080 like I want to be there for him. 0:16:56.120 --> 0:16:56.720 Yeah, exactly. 0:16:56.840 --> 0:16:59.560 Like I think we've talked about this before, but I 0:16:59.680 --> 0:17:02.000 never really thought of like my own death as like 0:17:02.040 --> 0:17:05.320 an emotional thing. I never thought of like me getting 0:17:05.320 --> 0:17:07.680 in the car and like something bad happening. 0:17:08.040 --> 0:17:09.639 Or you know, on a plan or whatnot. 0:17:09.840 --> 0:17:11.160 You think about you your family. 0:17:11.280 --> 0:17:13.600 Yeah, you're always thinking about like you're worried about their flight, 0:17:13.680 --> 0:17:17.320 not your own flight. And then being a parent, you 0:17:17.359 --> 0:17:19.320 think about your own flight, and then you think about 0:17:19.320 --> 0:17:23.399 your what you know why he's of transportation, but you 0:17:23.440 --> 0:17:24.199 know we all think of it. 0:17:24.280 --> 0:17:26.080 Yeah, but it's like, oh my god, something happened to me. 0:17:26.359 --> 0:17:29.120 Then you start like I start like, well up now 0:17:29.200 --> 0:17:43.439 thinking about how their life would be. Yeah, okay, well, 0:17:43.760 --> 0:17:47.080 yes we're all mushier with age and children. 0:17:47.960 --> 0:17:51.560 So other thing I'd like to mention is. 0:17:52.480 --> 0:17:55.720 You didn't see this part, but there's this one guy 0:17:55.800 --> 0:17:59.679 and he was a captain of a military ship Kim 0:17:59.760 --> 0:18:02.320 So he wrote this song is called the Mansion Men, 0:18:02.880 --> 0:18:06.120 and it's actually quite catchy. I'm like, this guy might 0:18:06.200 --> 0:18:08.879 have some musical talent. And on the show it was 0:18:08.880 --> 0:18:11.560 supposed to be kind of like an embarrassing moment for him. Yeah, 0:18:12.440 --> 0:18:14.240 nobody wanted to sing it. They were supposed to sing 0:18:14.240 --> 0:18:16.160 it like on a row ceremony night, and only guy 0:18:16.400 --> 0:18:20.240 was down to sing it with him and in order 0:18:20.320 --> 0:18:24.800 to bring him more pride, they had the LA's Gay 0:18:24.920 --> 0:18:28.120 Man Chorus come out and sing this song in its 0:18:28.160 --> 0:18:32.879 glory and it's great, great song, but you didn't see it. 0:18:32.880 --> 0:18:35.560 But I just wanted to say, great song. He may 0:18:35.640 --> 0:18:37.360 have fallen asleep for this part. 0:18:37.640 --> 0:18:40.000 That's not true. My eye was half open. 0:18:41.880 --> 0:18:46.639 And then finally we get to the end where we 0:18:46.680 --> 0:18:51.480 see the scenes from the next episode, the finale, the finale. 0:18:51.840 --> 0:18:56.439 Jared was away for this, and I feel like the 0:18:56.560 --> 0:19:01.680 biggest takeaway is that Jonas and seem that smiley. 0:19:02.280 --> 0:19:04.240 She's definitely not smiley. 0:19:03.840 --> 0:19:07.960 But her reaction, her facial expression looks a lot like 0:19:08.040 --> 0:19:12.560 what Gens did at her mantella whenever they would like 0:19:12.600 --> 0:19:14.720 preview Gen's reaction for like the next week. 0:19:15.880 --> 0:19:19.240 What is the name of the guy she picked? Devin? 0:19:19.520 --> 0:19:21.120