1 00:00:00,160 --> 00:00:02,800 Speaker 1: My husband thinks I cheated on him in prison and 2 00:00:02,960 --> 00:00:06,200 Speaker 1: is demanding a paternity test for our baby. Am I 3 00:00:06,280 --> 00:00:07,600 Speaker 1: the asshole for leaving him? 4 00:00:07,720 --> 00:00:10,800 Speaker 2: Man? You know you you just get back from from 5 00:00:10,840 --> 00:00:11,360 Speaker 2: the clink. 6 00:00:11,840 --> 00:00:12,080 Speaker 1: Yeah. 7 00:00:12,160 --> 00:00:14,840 Speaker 2: The last thing you know, you've you've broken trust with 8 00:00:15,320 --> 00:00:17,760 Speaker 2: you know, the law, the law. You don't want to 9 00:00:18,239 --> 00:00:20,919 Speaker 2: break the trust with your partner. No, No, that's like 10 00:00:20,960 --> 00:00:23,000 Speaker 2: the one thing that's like holding firm, you know what 11 00:00:23,040 --> 00:00:23,320 Speaker 2: I mean. 12 00:00:23,520 --> 00:00:26,119 Speaker 1: And I'm just like, you know, who knows what he experienced? 13 00:00:26,160 --> 00:00:27,480 Speaker 1: Maybe he cheated on her in prison. 14 00:00:28,120 --> 00:00:30,000 Speaker 2: That's the other question we don't know. 15 00:00:30,160 --> 00:00:34,000 Speaker 1: Was he faithful? Was he was? He was? She was? 16 00:00:34,040 --> 00:00:37,240 Speaker 1: He entered? What did you purposely drop the soap? It's 17 00:00:37,240 --> 00:00:39,080 Speaker 1: really gets some tender love and care, you. 18 00:00:39,040 --> 00:00:43,120 Speaker 2: Know, it's it's hard to grasp onto, but there's other 19 00:00:43,159 --> 00:00:45,159 Speaker 2: things that can be grasped. Wink. 20 00:00:45,680 --> 00:00:49,040 Speaker 1: Okay, let's go. I thirty seven female just had a 21 00:00:49,080 --> 00:00:51,960 Speaker 1: beautiful daughter with my partner at thirty six mail last Tuesday. 22 00:00:52,040 --> 00:00:55,800 Speaker 1: She is perfect and we absolutely adore her. Congrats, Ope, congrats. 23 00:00:55,920 --> 00:00:58,920 Speaker 1: My partner is so happy and was and was very 24 00:00:58,960 --> 00:01:03,080 Speaker 1: supportive during preg and seeing labor. Everything was perfect, or 25 00:01:03,160 --> 00:01:03,800 Speaker 1: so I thought. 26 00:01:04,160 --> 00:01:06,559 Speaker 2: Of course, there's always a or so I thought. 27 00:01:06,640 --> 00:01:08,680 Speaker 1: There's always or so I thought, there's always a thought 28 00:01:08,720 --> 00:01:11,759 Speaker 1: through these thoughts. You know, too many thoughts, too many thoughts. 29 00:01:11,760 --> 00:01:15,600 Speaker 1: Clear your mind, stop thinking through some headspace. Yeah, your 30 00:01:15,640 --> 00:01:19,520 Speaker 1: thoughts are just clouds. That's right, watcher, and then watch 31 00:01:19,560 --> 00:01:22,319 Speaker 1: them leave. It's not leaving, that's not me. That's just 32 00:01:22,319 --> 00:01:22,759 Speaker 1: a thought. 33 00:01:23,120 --> 00:01:25,440 Speaker 2: That thought is really really busting it down right now. 34 00:01:25,440 --> 00:01:27,959 Speaker 2: I don't think I can to leave. She not me, 35 00:01:28,280 --> 00:01:31,800 Speaker 2: Those big white, not her airy cheeks are just too distracting, 36 00:01:31,880 --> 00:01:33,360 Speaker 2: lopping down gravy. 37 00:01:34,120 --> 00:01:36,760 Speaker 1: We have only been together for eighteen months, and things 38 00:01:36,800 --> 00:01:39,160 Speaker 1: moved quickly for us. Damn well, yeah, you're having a 39 00:01:39,200 --> 00:01:44,160 Speaker 1: kid after eighteen months. That's that's fucking quicko halfway through baby. 40 00:01:44,240 --> 00:01:48,760 Speaker 1: That means they got pregnant at nine months in that's right. 41 00:01:49,240 --> 00:01:52,280 Speaker 2: That's the rule. Be long enough together, where if you 42 00:01:52,400 --> 00:01:55,440 Speaker 2: had conceived a baby on the first date that you 43 00:01:55,440 --> 00:01:57,240 Speaker 2: would have had a baby. Now you're like, all right, 44 00:01:57,280 --> 00:01:58,720 Speaker 2: we've gone through a full pregnancy. 45 00:01:58,880 --> 00:02:02,400 Speaker 1: Now let's go through pregnancy. Oh, that's actually a good rule, 46 00:02:03,080 --> 00:02:06,080 Speaker 1: the pregnancy trial run rule. New rule. So you have 47 00:02:06,120 --> 00:02:07,920 Speaker 1: to be at you have to be together at least 48 00:02:08,000 --> 00:02:10,960 Speaker 1: nine months before you have a baby. That's right, so 49 00:02:10,960 --> 00:02:17,720 Speaker 1: they The preg rule is is is not aborted as 50 00:02:18,080 --> 00:02:21,720 Speaker 1: it is adhered to. We have kept, We have kept 51 00:02:22,000 --> 00:02:26,560 Speaker 1: the process. We started living together after only three months 52 00:02:26,639 --> 00:02:29,640 Speaker 1: and have been inseparable since, even working in the same 53 00:02:29,680 --> 00:02:32,560 Speaker 1: factory together until I went on maternity leave. My partner 54 00:02:32,560 --> 00:02:35,799 Speaker 1: and I are both recovering addicts. We're addicted to each 55 00:02:35,800 --> 00:02:38,560 Speaker 1: other's love. Oh just kidding, it's probably meth. 56 00:02:38,639 --> 00:02:39,239 Speaker 2: Goddamn. 57 00:02:41,360 --> 00:02:43,200 Speaker 1: I have three years and he has two and a 58 00:02:43,240 --> 00:02:46,040 Speaker 1: half years sober. We have completely turned our lives around 59 00:02:46,080 --> 00:02:48,720 Speaker 1: and have the life I never thought possible. There has 60 00:02:48,800 --> 00:02:52,080 Speaker 1: never been cheating on either side, but yes there can 61 00:02:52,120 --> 00:02:54,560 Speaker 1: be some jealousy issues now that you have some history. 62 00:02:54,800 --> 00:02:56,400 Speaker 1: Here is the problem. 63 00:02:56,520 --> 00:02:57,000 Speaker 2: Here we go. 64 00:02:57,240 --> 00:02:59,560 Speaker 1: We came home from the hospital Friday and I was 65 00:02:59,639 --> 00:03:02,000 Speaker 1: exist Austin, so he took the baby while I slept. 66 00:03:02,000 --> 00:03:04,399 Speaker 1: When I wake up, he says, you know I love you, right. 67 00:03:04,600 --> 00:03:07,519 Speaker 1: I immediately get worried, and then he says I want 68 00:03:07,520 --> 00:03:11,040 Speaker 1: a DNA test because he counted the days and when 69 00:03:11,040 --> 00:03:13,799 Speaker 1: I got pregnant, he was in jail. He is still 70 00:03:13,800 --> 00:03:16,280 Speaker 1: in probation and was driving without a license. This is 71 00:03:16,320 --> 00:03:19,200 Speaker 1: not true. I got pregnant two months after he got home, 72 00:03:19,360 --> 00:03:22,080 Speaker 1: and the cherry on the top is we were actively 73 00:03:22,120 --> 00:03:25,160 Speaker 1: trying to have a baby. Wait, if he got pregnant too, 74 00:03:25,520 --> 00:03:31,280 Speaker 1: someone's mathing math and a pregnancy takes around nine months. Yeah, 75 00:03:31,360 --> 00:03:34,880 Speaker 1: if if if she got pregnant two months after, then 76 00:03:34,920 --> 00:03:38,640 Speaker 1: that would mean do you know how long he was Joe? No, 77 00:03:38,840 --> 00:03:42,000 Speaker 1: but we know that she got pregnant two months out 78 00:03:42,080 --> 00:03:44,360 Speaker 1: after he got out of jail, right, So that means 79 00:03:44,400 --> 00:03:48,560 Speaker 1: either he thinks the baby was born eleven months ago, 80 00:03:49,200 --> 00:03:52,839 Speaker 1: or she is lying and it was born seven months ago, 81 00:03:52,960 --> 00:03:55,200 Speaker 1: or it was conceived seven months ago. Sorry, she he 82 00:03:55,320 --> 00:03:58,160 Speaker 1: thinks the baby was conceived eleven months ago, or she's 83 00:03:58,280 --> 00:04:00,560 Speaker 1: lying and saying the baby is conceived so months ago. 84 00:04:01,000 --> 00:04:05,080 Speaker 2: Could it be that like he was in jail for 85 00:04:05,400 --> 00:04:07,840 Speaker 2: like he said that it was conceived two months after he. 86 00:04:07,800 --> 00:04:11,160 Speaker 1: Got back two months after, right, which means nine months 87 00:04:11,240 --> 00:04:13,040 Speaker 1: after the two months Well, he. 88 00:04:12,920 --> 00:04:14,240 Speaker 2: Was in jail for the night. What if he was 89 00:04:14,280 --> 00:04:17,640 Speaker 2: in jail for like three months, like month three, he 90 00:04:17,680 --> 00:04:20,680 Speaker 2: goes to jail, so at six months into the relationship, 91 00:04:20,760 --> 00:04:23,520 Speaker 2: he comes back two months after he got home two 92 00:04:23,520 --> 00:04:26,000 Speaker 2: months out, so we don't know how long he was 93 00:04:26,040 --> 00:04:28,480 Speaker 2: gone or when he got but that doesn't matter because 94 00:04:28,520 --> 00:04:30,799 Speaker 2: two months after he got home, that's when the baby 95 00:04:30,880 --> 00:04:33,920 Speaker 2: was conceived, right, so he thinks or could that be 96 00:04:34,000 --> 00:04:36,279 Speaker 2: nine months ago? We don't know how many months ago 97 00:04:36,279 --> 00:04:38,480 Speaker 2: it was, but I'm assuming it's nine months ago. I'm 98 00:04:38,480 --> 00:04:41,400 Speaker 2: assuming OHP knows how long it takes to conceive a baby, 99 00:04:41,440 --> 00:04:42,919 Speaker 2: and that she's telling the truth. Right. 100 00:04:43,240 --> 00:04:46,839 Speaker 1: But if it's not nine months ago, that that sucks, right, Okay? 101 00:04:47,200 --> 00:04:47,719 Speaker 2: Interesting. 102 00:04:48,160 --> 00:04:52,080 Speaker 1: I'm absolutely devastated and automatically felt different about him. I 103 00:04:52,200 --> 00:04:54,680 Speaker 1: was tired and emotional, so I just cried. He is 104 00:04:54,680 --> 00:04:56,920 Speaker 1: saying he doesn't trust me, and I am angry. Now. 105 00:04:56,960 --> 00:04:58,880 Speaker 1: We went yesterday to take the test and he paid 106 00:04:58,880 --> 00:05:01,839 Speaker 1: two hundred dollars not working, and that's money we need. 107 00:05:02,000 --> 00:05:04,360 Speaker 1: Our baby has jet black hair and he has blonde 108 00:05:04,400 --> 00:05:07,200 Speaker 1: hair and blue eyes. Mine is dirty blonde. He says 109 00:05:07,200 --> 00:05:09,560 Speaker 1: he just wants to be sure and has had issues 110 00:05:09,720 --> 00:05:12,800 Speaker 1: because of past relationships. I feel lost and unsure if 111 00:05:12,839 --> 00:05:14,479 Speaker 1: I will ever feel the same about him. I don't 112 00:05:14,520 --> 00:05:17,240 Speaker 1: have anyone to talk to about this because I'm embarrassed, 113 00:05:17,279 --> 00:05:20,719 Speaker 1: so I came here. Thank you for any advice. Sorry 114 00:05:20,920 --> 00:05:23,360 Speaker 1: for the long post, and there is an edit. 115 00:05:23,640 --> 00:05:27,240 Speaker 2: So I have I have a personal thing with this. 116 00:05:27,480 --> 00:05:29,919 Speaker 2: First off, what do we always say Sam. 117 00:05:30,000 --> 00:05:32,640 Speaker 1: Has spek signs? There have to be red flags before 118 00:05:32,839 --> 00:05:33,440 Speaker 1: red flags. 119 00:05:33,440 --> 00:05:38,359 Speaker 2: But then also, just like how DNA works, like it 120 00:05:38,640 --> 00:05:40,520 Speaker 2: just because you're both. 121 00:05:41,240 --> 00:05:43,800 Speaker 1: Just because your baby does not look exactly like you 122 00:05:44,160 --> 00:05:45,760 Speaker 1: does not mean it's not your baby. 123 00:05:45,560 --> 00:05:49,400 Speaker 2: Not at all. And also, half of my family jet 124 00:05:49,440 --> 00:05:55,160 Speaker 2: black hair, the other half blonde like this, half black hair, 125 00:05:55,880 --> 00:05:56,760 Speaker 2: half blonde hair. 126 00:05:56,839 --> 00:06:00,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, so you're adopted daddy. 127 00:06:00,440 --> 00:06:02,440 Speaker 2: Daddy is Riley my father? 128 00:06:03,520 --> 00:06:07,040 Speaker 1: Indeed, Riley, you're marching on that shit. Riley's muncheon. 129 00:06:08,440 --> 00:06:14,680 Speaker 2: He's only he's only four or five years younger than me. 130 00:06:15,120 --> 00:06:18,120 Speaker 1: Way four four four years Well, he's twenty three. 131 00:06:18,000 --> 00:06:19,120 Speaker 2: Twenty seven to twenty three. 132 00:06:19,200 --> 00:06:21,200 Speaker 1: That's four yeah, three years younger than me. 133 00:06:21,560 --> 00:06:25,159 Speaker 2: My dad is four years younger than me. Whoa, whoa, 134 00:06:25,360 --> 00:06:26,360 Speaker 2: that's a hot story. 135 00:06:26,520 --> 00:06:27,320 Speaker 1: That's a hot story. 136 00:06:27,360 --> 00:06:28,960 Speaker 2: But genetics. 137 00:06:29,200 --> 00:06:33,600 Speaker 1: Anyway, there's an edit and an update. You ready, I'm ready? Update. 138 00:06:33,920 --> 00:06:37,400 Speaker 1: He is ninety nine point nine ninety nine percent the father. 139 00:06:37,680 --> 00:06:40,080 Speaker 1: I made another post and this is August fourth, twenty 140 00:06:40,080 --> 00:06:45,640 Speaker 1: twenty three. The first post is from before that. All right, 141 00:06:45,720 --> 00:06:47,919 Speaker 1: hello everyone, I decided to make another post for the 142 00:06:47,960 --> 00:06:50,520 Speaker 1: update and I added a link. Hopefully it works if 143 00:06:50,520 --> 00:06:52,560 Speaker 1: you can find it. So I'm trying to feed the 144 00:06:52,560 --> 00:06:55,200 Speaker 1: baby and using my phone, so forgive any mistakes. So 145 00:06:55,240 --> 00:06:58,480 Speaker 1: the results are in. You are the father couldn't resist obviously, 146 00:06:58,480 --> 00:07:00,280 Speaker 1: I'm not surprised, and it felt really good to be right. 147 00:07:00,360 --> 00:07:02,320 Speaker 1: We found out right before he was going to work 148 00:07:02,320 --> 00:07:05,040 Speaker 1: and planned talking about this weekend. After he left, he 149 00:07:05,120 --> 00:07:08,719 Speaker 1: called and said, please marry me. This is something we 150 00:07:08,760 --> 00:07:11,160 Speaker 1: have wanted to do but didn't have the money for. 151 00:07:11,720 --> 00:07:13,520 Speaker 1: I do want to marry him and spend the rest 152 00:07:13,520 --> 00:07:17,960 Speaker 1: of our lives together. Posting on here really let me 153 00:07:17,960 --> 00:07:20,320 Speaker 1: look at the situation from many angles. Most people said 154 00:07:20,360 --> 00:07:22,040 Speaker 1: therapy or leave him, but there were a lot of 155 00:07:22,080 --> 00:07:25,040 Speaker 1: great and helpful comments in here too. Thank you everyone. 156 00:07:25,200 --> 00:07:27,360 Speaker 1: I am so grateful for the advice. I have decided 157 00:07:27,400 --> 00:07:29,600 Speaker 1: to move past this because he never treated me or 158 00:07:29,640 --> 00:07:32,559 Speaker 1: my daughter any differently. He has provided everything we need. 159 00:07:32,600 --> 00:07:34,320 Speaker 1: This is the first real issue we have had. I 160 00:07:34,360 --> 00:07:37,520 Speaker 1: do believe the DNA tests should be standard true, then 161 00:07:37,600 --> 00:07:39,360 Speaker 1: no one would get their feelings hurt. He says he 162 00:07:39,440 --> 00:07:41,520 Speaker 1: trusts me and other than this, and his actions have 163 00:07:41,560 --> 00:07:43,160 Speaker 1: shown that I could see. It was very hard for 164 00:07:43,240 --> 00:07:44,760 Speaker 1: him to ask when he could have done it without 165 00:07:44,800 --> 00:07:47,480 Speaker 1: me knowing. Relationships take work and understanding. We still have 166 00:07:47,560 --> 00:07:49,480 Speaker 1: a lot to work on and I lost trust in 167 00:07:49,560 --> 00:07:52,280 Speaker 1: him over this. Now. If this sort of behavior continues, 168 00:07:52,400 --> 00:07:55,360 Speaker 1: then that's a whole other story. So thanks again. If 169 00:07:55,400 --> 00:07:58,400 Speaker 1: anyone has questions, I will answer. My question is, how 170 00:07:58,400 --> 00:08:00,760 Speaker 1: did he think it was conceived a eleven months before 171 00:08:00,760 --> 00:08:01,240 Speaker 1: it was born? 172 00:08:02,600 --> 00:08:03,120 Speaker 2: The husband? 173 00:08:03,360 --> 00:08:05,920 Speaker 1: The husband, that's my question. 174 00:08:06,000 --> 00:08:06,760 Speaker 2: That's what he was saying. 175 00:08:06,800 --> 00:08:09,360 Speaker 1: How could he How could he think the baby was 176 00:08:09,400 --> 00:08:11,559 Speaker 1: conceived eleven months before it was born. 177 00:08:12,120 --> 00:08:15,640 Speaker 2: My mom says that I was in her belly for 178 00:08:15,680 --> 00:08:20,600 Speaker 2: like fifteen months, so I believe it's pure science. Brot me, 179 00:08:20,600 --> 00:08:21,920 Speaker 2: pure science. 180 00:08:22,640 --> 00:08:24,680 Speaker 1: Longest time in womb. 181 00:08:25,200 --> 00:08:28,600 Speaker 2: She actually says, if you asked her, she'd probably say definitely. 182 00:08:28,200 --> 00:08:30,720 Speaker 1: Ten months, maybe like more a little more than ten months. Okay, shit, 183 00:08:30,840 --> 00:08:33,959 Speaker 1: fuck I'm wrong, dude. The Guinness World record for the 184 00:08:34,040 --> 00:08:36,959 Speaker 1: longest human pregnancy was twelve and a half months, so 185 00:08:37,120 --> 00:08:37,880 Speaker 1: maybe it could. 186 00:08:38,160 --> 00:08:42,480 Speaker 2: Maybe it's a Guinness World record not close to but no, 187 00:08:42,520 --> 00:08:45,079 Speaker 2: but he and a half eleven months? 188 00:08:45,200 --> 00:08:49,800 Speaker 1: A fuck, dude, Yeah, totally could be. I think my 189 00:08:49,880 --> 00:08:55,559 Speaker 1: mom would say, sorry, dude, I'm so wrong, so wrongly 190 00:08:55,559 --> 00:08:59,079 Speaker 1: it could have been conceived, you know, eleven months ago. 191 00:08:59,080 --> 00:09:01,920 Speaker 1: I guess yeah, because it's just the developing more. Yeah, dude, 192 00:09:02,040 --> 00:09:05,440 Speaker 1: the baby is so fucking devellop, it's just cooking in there. Yeah, 193 00:09:05,480 --> 00:09:09,320 Speaker 1: Bro got a full on dong going out? What full 194 00:09:09,360 --> 00:09:10,040 Speaker 1: on head of hair? 195 00:09:10,320 --> 00:09:12,480 Speaker 2: Bro, that would have to be a giant baby penis 196 00:09:12,520 --> 00:09:15,040 Speaker 2: to freaking slip out? 197 00:09:17,840 --> 00:09:22,080 Speaker 1: Where are we wait? Are you saying that the baby 198 00:09:22,080 --> 00:09:24,800 Speaker 1: has a full on dong and the dong slips out 199 00:09:24,840 --> 00:09:29,600 Speaker 1: of the mother's vagina. That's for you, saying, Bro, I 200 00:09:29,640 --> 00:09:34,240 Speaker 1: would say, did you think that was what I was saying? Riley? 201 00:09:34,440 --> 00:09:37,360 Speaker 2: No, No, Riley, you have to pick. You have to 202 00:09:37,440 --> 00:09:39,240 Speaker 2: choose one who is saying that. 203 00:09:39,600 --> 00:09:41,240 Speaker 1: Riley didn't think that's what I was saying. 204 00:09:41,440 --> 00:09:46,079 Speaker 2: It just sounded like you said something. No what you said, 205 00:09:46,320 --> 00:09:47,520 Speaker 2: and then you were like, why. 206 00:09:47,800 --> 00:09:49,959 Speaker 1: Are you saying that? And you both are saying same. 207 00:09:50,200 --> 00:09:50,880 Speaker 2: I didn't say that. 208 00:09:50,920 --> 00:09:53,520 Speaker 1: I just said, imagined that baby had a biggest penis, 209 00:09:53,800 --> 00:09:56,480 Speaker 1: and that John's like, what if the penis came out 210 00:09:56,520 --> 00:09:57,880 Speaker 1: of the vagina? 211 00:09:58,640 --> 00:10:01,040 Speaker 2: I mean when you say imagine the baby's big ass 212 00:10:01,080 --> 00:10:02,760 Speaker 2: feet is where else is it gonna come? 213 00:10:03,120 --> 00:10:06,319 Speaker 1: In the womb? In the womb. It's not coming out 214 00:10:06,960 --> 00:10:08,319 Speaker 1: that the baby's fucking. 215 00:10:08,160 --> 00:10:10,480 Speaker 2: My you know what, you know what, I think this 216 00:10:10,559 --> 00:10:12,560 Speaker 2: is an al up. I think I think I gave 217 00:10:12,600 --> 00:10:16,880 Speaker 2: you an assist. I think that's what we'll call this one. Anyway, Dude, 218 00:10:16,880 --> 00:10:18,960 Speaker 2: if I out weirded Sam on this on this story, 219 00:10:19,080 --> 00:10:22,120 Speaker 2: long were you and your mother's womb? Apparently the Guinness 220 00:10:22,120 --> 00:10:26,000 Speaker 2: World record was twelve months. Mine is like eleven probably 221 00:10:26,080 --> 00:10:28,720 Speaker 2: what is it? Actually my mom would probably say ten 222 00:10:28,760 --> 00:10:31,719 Speaker 2: months at least, Really it was ten. I think that's 223 00:10:31,760 --> 00:10:34,520 Speaker 2: what my mom would say. Yeah, the joke is it's fifteen. 224 00:10:34,600 --> 00:10:36,319 Speaker 1: Let's see what's the average. Bro. 225 00:10:36,760 --> 00:10:38,040 Speaker 2: I did not want to get out of there. 226 00:10:38,080 --> 00:10:41,600 Speaker 1: I was like the shift, fire, yo, this pussy ball, 227 00:10:43,600 --> 00:10:44,640 Speaker 1: all right, he got me back. 228 00:10:45,120 --> 00:10:48,120 Speaker 2: He got me back, ladies and gentlemen, he got me back, 229 00:10:48,200 --> 00:10:48,600 Speaker 2: all right. 230 00:10:49,520 --> 00:10:51,120 Speaker 1: When John calls them. 231 00:10:50,960 --> 00:10:58,040 Speaker 2: All, dude, fire guys, we are podcasting right now. This 232 00:10:58,040 --> 00:11:05,199 Speaker 2: this is content. Okay, this is content, bro? What wow? 233 00:11:05,280 --> 00:11:05,600 Speaker 1: Okay? 234 00:11:05,600 --> 00:11:06,920 Speaker 2: So we are starting off hot. 235 00:11:07,880 --> 00:11:12,640 Speaker 1: This means actually, so pregnancy last ten months, not nine months. 236 00:11:12,840 --> 00:11:15,120 Speaker 1: Pregnancy is counted for the first day of your last 237 00:11:15,120 --> 00:11:18,800 Speaker 1: mental period. Most pregnancies last thirty seven to forty two weeks. 238 00:11:19,240 --> 00:11:24,080 Speaker 1: So wait, what's forty two divided by for ten and 239 00:11:24,080 --> 00:11:26,520 Speaker 1: a half? My mom would probably say that ten and 240 00:11:26,559 --> 00:11:29,640 Speaker 1: a half. So yeah, like eleven months could happen. Cool, 241 00:11:29,800 --> 00:11:31,920 Speaker 1: not crazy. I don't know how long were you in 242 00:11:31,960 --> 00:11:34,240 Speaker 1: the womb? Let us know when the comments below? Actually 243 00:11:34,280 --> 00:11:37,600 Speaker 1: I don't know. You call your mom asker. Wait, actually 244 00:11:37,600 --> 00:11:38,679 Speaker 1: I don't think I think it's too late. 245 00:11:40,400 --> 00:11:41,680 Speaker 2: I'll text her and see if we get it by 246 00:11:41,720 --> 00:11:42,880 Speaker 2: the end of the night episode. 247 00:11:42,960 --> 00:11:45,760 Speaker 1: It's it's like, it's it's eleven o six. 248 00:11:47,000 --> 00:11:49,559 Speaker 2: I can try, I can try. 249 00:11:49,600 --> 00:11:53,000 Speaker 1: How long was I in the womb? Oh? 250 00:11:53,040 --> 00:11:54,559 Speaker 2: It's two o six eest. 251 00:11:54,760 --> 00:11:59,320 Speaker 1: Right, I texted my mom? All right, how long were 252 00:11:59,320 --> 00:12:00,000 Speaker 1: you in the womb? 253 00:12:00,000 --> 00:12:00,200 Speaker 2: Well? 254 00:12:00,600 --> 00:12:04,280 Speaker 1: Let us know below, and with that's we will get 255 00:12:04,280 --> 00:12:05,280 Speaker 1: into the next story. 256 00:12:05,320 --> 00:12:07,840 Speaker 2: Well, though, am I a hole for stealing my son's 257 00:12:07,880 --> 00:12:10,160 Speaker 2: car from him because he cheated on his girlfriend? 258 00:12:10,320 --> 00:12:12,400 Speaker 1: I think there needs to be repercussions for your actions. 259 00:12:12,480 --> 00:12:13,120 Speaker 2: Talk about it. 260 00:12:13,200 --> 00:12:17,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, maybe there'd be less cheating if you know you 261 00:12:17,080 --> 00:12:20,200 Speaker 1: couldn't actually move around to cheat if you didn't have 262 00:12:20,200 --> 00:12:22,000 Speaker 1: a car. How are you gonna go to the next 263 00:12:22,040 --> 00:12:26,520 Speaker 1: town over and make this spanky yankey with uh your 264 00:12:26,840 --> 00:12:28,960 Speaker 1: panky panky here, yeah, with your lady. 265 00:12:29,000 --> 00:12:32,120 Speaker 2: Or you know, go a step further. Oh, while I'm 266 00:12:32,160 --> 00:12:37,160 Speaker 2: stealing your car, accidentally drive over your little feet. Now 267 00:12:37,200 --> 00:12:39,880 Speaker 2: you can't run to go cheat on some sluicy. 268 00:12:40,280 --> 00:12:44,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, I accidentally ran over your erect penis. 269 00:12:44,600 --> 00:12:46,120 Speaker 2: Oh it's just. 270 00:12:46,600 --> 00:12:49,960 Speaker 1: Like you know, like you know, like when you step 271 00:12:50,000 --> 00:12:52,240 Speaker 1: on a go gurt, like you. 272 00:12:52,200 --> 00:12:58,120 Speaker 2: Know, and you thought it was and you thought my 273 00:12:58,240 --> 00:13:02,560 Speaker 2: baby thing was gross. Ladies and gentlemen, can we vote 274 00:13:02,600 --> 00:13:07,800 Speaker 2: on whose words? Is it Samuel Dunner or is it 275 00:13:08,080 --> 00:13:13,360 Speaker 2: John Fry for your answers? Penis or Jack baby penis? 276 00:13:13,559 --> 00:13:19,440 Speaker 2: The choice is yours vote in the comments below. We 277 00:13:19,480 --> 00:13:21,400 Speaker 2: have a whole live audience that has no idea what's 278 00:13:21,440 --> 00:13:25,400 Speaker 2: going on right now. Actually, it could be it could 279 00:13:25,440 --> 00:13:28,199 Speaker 2: be cool to do one like have them like set 280 00:13:28,280 --> 00:13:32,559 Speaker 2: up as the live audience, like the react or something 281 00:13:32,800 --> 00:13:33,199 Speaker 2: could be. 282 00:13:33,120 --> 00:13:36,880 Speaker 1: Cool right here, Yeah, like we're in the pool. 283 00:13:36,920 --> 00:13:39,040 Speaker 2: Maybe that's like they're like almost set up like with 284 00:13:39,160 --> 00:13:40,600 Speaker 2: the bench or something like that. 285 00:13:40,720 --> 00:13:43,520 Speaker 1: Like a there's something there, something, there's something there. 286 00:13:43,559 --> 00:13:47,960 Speaker 2: We'll work on it. So my son, Hank mal seventeen, 287 00:13:48,200 --> 00:13:50,840 Speaker 2: dated a girl May for two years. Throughout those years, 288 00:13:50,840 --> 00:13:53,520 Speaker 2: he was a great boyfriend to her, at least from 289 00:13:53,559 --> 00:13:55,520 Speaker 2: what my wife and I saw. 290 00:13:55,640 --> 00:13:58,280 Speaker 1: Oh but you didn't see what went on in the bedroom, 291 00:13:58,280 --> 00:14:03,080 Speaker 1: did you. He was a monster is a good you know, 292 00:14:03,120 --> 00:14:05,320 Speaker 1: a lady in the streets, beast in the sheets. 293 00:14:05,360 --> 00:14:08,440 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, that's right. May also grew very close with 294 00:14:08,520 --> 00:14:12,160 Speaker 2: us and came a lot. Yeah, she did, to a 295 00:14:12,160 --> 00:14:19,000 Speaker 2: lot of family dinners and vacations. May May has a 296 00:14:19,040 --> 00:14:21,400 Speaker 2: lot going on for her. She's a straight at student. 297 00:14:22,160 --> 00:14:23,520 Speaker 1: He yo, yeah she does. 298 00:14:24,640 --> 00:14:27,520 Speaker 2: And she is a three sport varsity athlete. 299 00:14:27,880 --> 00:14:28,280 Speaker 1: She fit. 300 00:14:28,560 --> 00:14:31,080 Speaker 2: Wow the hell is this person? Probably seventeen? 301 00:14:31,560 --> 00:14:33,600 Speaker 1: I mean she is good at sports. 302 00:14:34,280 --> 00:14:37,040 Speaker 2: I mean she is a model student and an inspiration 303 00:14:37,040 --> 00:14:44,240 Speaker 2: to use everywhere. Oh wait, she's eighteen? She finished DT Predator. 304 00:14:45,800 --> 00:14:49,200 Speaker 1: Just kidding, I'm brought to you here today. Yeah, the 305 00:14:49,280 --> 00:14:52,800 Speaker 1: Chris Hansen meme, as he said, I haven't seen it, 306 00:14:52,920 --> 00:14:53,480 Speaker 1: Chris Hansen. 307 00:14:53,800 --> 00:14:55,480 Speaker 2: I've seen Chris Hansen. But what's the meme? 308 00:14:55,600 --> 00:14:57,920 Speaker 1: I don't know. I thought, doesn't he say something when 309 00:14:57,920 --> 00:14:58,480 Speaker 1: he catches people? 310 00:14:58,520 --> 00:14:58,800 Speaker 2: Oh? Yeah? 311 00:14:58,960 --> 00:14:59,160 Speaker 1: Yeah? 312 00:14:59,200 --> 00:15:01,120 Speaker 2: So where did you you're going? 313 00:15:01,640 --> 00:15:05,840 Speaker 1: Riley? Producer? Producer? Bring it up? Hey, Riley, can you 314 00:15:05,840 --> 00:15:11,760 Speaker 1: put pull up that pedophile video? You you look at 315 00:15:11,760 --> 00:15:16,520 Speaker 1: those videos all right, if you go in your search history, 316 00:15:18,200 --> 00:15:21,840 Speaker 1: pull up that that pedal video you love. 317 00:15:24,560 --> 00:15:29,360 Speaker 2: We're on one today. Damn, we thought last night was crazy. 318 00:15:29,040 --> 00:15:31,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, that was just a warm up. Why don't you 319 00:15:31,040 --> 00:15:34,200 Speaker 1: take a seat over there. Yeah, editors put Chris Hansen 320 00:15:34,840 --> 00:15:35,400 Speaker 1: meme in there. 321 00:15:35,680 --> 00:15:36,880 Speaker 2: Good thing, you're already sitting down. 322 00:15:36,960 --> 00:15:44,800 Speaker 1: Yeah. So we got to say on this one, guys, 323 00:15:45,440 --> 00:15:47,840 Speaker 1: Riley just went this slipping. I was assuming that I 324 00:15:47,880 --> 00:15:53,120 Speaker 1: walked into this one. Yeah, there we go. Damn, thanks Riley, 325 00:15:54,200 --> 00:15:58,480 Speaker 1: fuck you, no, thank you. Riley can suck a big 326 00:15:58,520 --> 00:16:01,640 Speaker 1: fat mom baby cock? 327 00:16:03,760 --> 00:16:04,360 Speaker 2: Yeah you can. 328 00:16:05,200 --> 00:16:07,360 Speaker 1: I don't think he could. Dude, can't fit that thing 329 00:16:07,360 --> 00:16:07,840 Speaker 1: in your mouth? 330 00:16:08,840 --> 00:16:15,440 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, dude, chance you got to swallowed that eroback. 331 00:16:17,000 --> 00:16:23,160 Speaker 2: So through the story. So naturally, we hope that Hank 332 00:16:23,160 --> 00:16:25,480 Speaker 2: would continue to date May. A couple of weeks ago, 333 00:16:25,560 --> 00:16:28,280 Speaker 2: Hank came home crying and told us that May had 334 00:16:28,280 --> 00:16:30,760 Speaker 2: broken up with him. We were sympathetic, and I took 335 00:16:30,800 --> 00:16:32,840 Speaker 2: him on a long fishing trip the next day, and 336 00:16:32,920 --> 00:16:35,640 Speaker 2: my wife made him his favorite meal for dinner. However, 337 00:16:36,000 --> 00:16:39,000 Speaker 2: the next day, my wife conveniently ran into May at 338 00:16:39,000 --> 00:16:41,160 Speaker 2: the mall. Since she was so close with my wife, 339 00:16:41,360 --> 00:16:44,880 Speaker 2: May told her the truth that Hank had cheated on her. 340 00:16:45,240 --> 00:16:47,840 Speaker 1: Hank, he's doing that hanky panky. 341 00:16:47,920 --> 00:16:52,680 Speaker 2: Come on, he was trying to spanky spanky every hanky 342 00:16:52,840 --> 00:16:53,640 Speaker 2: franky and. 343 00:16:53,520 --> 00:16:58,360 Speaker 1: But the other woman, I don't know, say all fucked, 344 00:16:59,440 --> 00:17:03,960 Speaker 1: but like, come on, you get to sacrifice. At least 345 00:17:03,960 --> 00:17:07,320 Speaker 1: do it well, at least do it well. Yeah, Samuel Donner, 346 00:17:07,440 --> 00:17:09,960 Speaker 1: at least at least do well. You gonna cheat on 347 00:17:10,000 --> 00:17:15,919 Speaker 1: your wife, make sure it's with a ten, Samuel. I 348 00:17:15,920 --> 00:17:20,000 Speaker 1: don't believe that. By the way, Samuel, daughter, can we 349 00:17:20,040 --> 00:17:21,240 Speaker 1: just get like a quote. 350 00:17:20,960 --> 00:17:23,520 Speaker 2: Card for all of what The more you know, yeah, 351 00:17:23,520 --> 00:17:27,000 Speaker 2: the more you know, yeah, the more you know. My 352 00:17:27,080 --> 00:17:29,760 Speaker 2: wife came home in tears. But I was so furious 353 00:17:29,800 --> 00:17:32,200 Speaker 2: that there was steam coming from my ears. I looked 354 00:17:32,240 --> 00:17:35,600 Speaker 2: through Hank's bank account transactions. Oh man, what which I 355 00:17:35,680 --> 00:17:39,080 Speaker 2: never do because Hank is an unusually responsible seventeen year old, 356 00:17:39,160 --> 00:17:41,920 Speaker 2: and up until now I've trusted him. That's an interesting thing, 357 00:17:41,960 --> 00:17:44,359 Speaker 2: is that that seems like too much, right, that seems 358 00:17:44,359 --> 00:17:46,640 Speaker 2: too much. That seems too much. Sure enough, there were 359 00:17:46,760 --> 00:17:50,520 Speaker 2: several charges from an upscale seafood restaurant a few towns over. 360 00:17:50,760 --> 00:17:54,320 Speaker 1: May is vegetarian and allergic to shellfish. This seems like 361 00:17:54,359 --> 00:17:56,679 Speaker 1: a little bit two hands on. It does seem like, 362 00:17:57,040 --> 00:17:59,040 Speaker 1: I mean, like a little too deep. I mean like, yes, 363 00:17:59,160 --> 00:18:01,680 Speaker 1: cheating is wrong and like you shouldn't do in a relationship. 364 00:18:01,680 --> 00:18:04,639 Speaker 1: But he's also like seventeen, like working out relationships, so 365 00:18:04,680 --> 00:18:06,760 Speaker 1: it's like tell him it's wrong. But I feel like 366 00:18:06,800 --> 00:18:09,480 Speaker 1: the we'll sit him down and ask yeah too ry, 367 00:18:09,600 --> 00:18:12,359 Speaker 1: like don't go through his bank account stuff, like just 368 00:18:12,440 --> 00:18:15,480 Speaker 1: say like, hey, like we've heard what happened. Why why 369 00:18:15,480 --> 00:18:17,480 Speaker 1: did you lie to us? In two like why are 370 00:18:17,480 --> 00:18:17,960 Speaker 1: you a dick? 371 00:18:18,280 --> 00:18:18,520 Speaker 2: Yes? 372 00:18:18,880 --> 00:18:22,760 Speaker 1: I didn't raise no dick. Nope, your mom's raised this dick. 373 00:18:22,920 --> 00:18:29,439 Speaker 2: Yep boo. And also bought a pair of sterling silver 374 00:18:29,560 --> 00:18:32,359 Speaker 2: ear rings. My wife reminded me that May's ears are 375 00:18:32,440 --> 00:18:33,640 Speaker 2: sensitive to sterling silver. 376 00:18:33,800 --> 00:18:35,000 Speaker 1: How did they know all this shit? 377 00:18:35,200 --> 00:18:37,439 Speaker 2: Also like how is he just getting like all the 378 00:18:37,480 --> 00:18:41,159 Speaker 2: gifts that would just not work? Like May is just 379 00:18:41,160 --> 00:18:44,040 Speaker 2: like allergic to all these things he's showering this. 380 00:18:45,000 --> 00:18:49,639 Speaker 1: Finally I can go to a seafood restaurant with a girl. God, like, bye, 381 00:18:49,640 --> 00:18:52,960 Speaker 1: sterling silver silver and buy silver from a girl. 382 00:18:53,040 --> 00:18:57,159 Speaker 2: Oh my god. That's when the perfect punishment came to mind. 383 00:18:57,359 --> 00:19:00,000 Speaker 2: I had bought Hank a car for his seventeenth birthday. 384 00:19:00,200 --> 00:19:01,800 Speaker 2: He had proved to be a good driver in the 385 00:19:01,840 --> 00:19:04,640 Speaker 2: old Beater that he had previously. Since he was using 386 00:19:04,720 --> 00:19:07,840 Speaker 2: that shiny car to drive twenty miles to meet his mistress, 387 00:19:08,080 --> 00:19:10,240 Speaker 2: I would revoke access to it. 388 00:19:10,240 --> 00:19:14,359 Speaker 1: It's not his mistress. Let's fucking call your jets. 389 00:19:14,520 --> 00:19:15,040 Speaker 2: Mistress. 390 00:19:15,200 --> 00:19:19,600 Speaker 1: Man is seventeen, miss dress. Oh, high school is messy. 391 00:19:19,760 --> 00:19:21,920 Speaker 1: They're so involved. They're way too involved in this kid's 392 00:19:21,960 --> 00:19:24,359 Speaker 1: love life. Yeah, this is pretty, This is crazy pretty. 393 00:19:24,359 --> 00:19:26,280 Speaker 1: A lot this would usually go under the radar. 394 00:19:26,320 --> 00:19:28,399 Speaker 2: I feel like I waited until Hank got home that 395 00:19:28,480 --> 00:19:36,960 Speaker 2: evening before throwing his keys into the lake behind our house. Damn, God, damn. 396 00:19:37,440 --> 00:19:41,160 Speaker 1: You're just gonna fucking like sell the car. 397 00:19:41,400 --> 00:19:44,359 Speaker 2: What do you mean he just drive? He just goes straight, 398 00:19:44,440 --> 00:19:48,000 Speaker 2: Michael Scott, and just drive it into a lake. God. 399 00:19:48,440 --> 00:19:51,400 Speaker 2: He of course begged me not to, but I explained 400 00:19:51,400 --> 00:19:53,560 Speaker 2: to him, as the legal owner of the vehicle, I 401 00:19:53,600 --> 00:19:55,480 Speaker 2: get to do with it as I see fit. 402 00:19:55,640 --> 00:19:57,760 Speaker 1: You're gonna throw the fucking car. 403 00:19:58,000 --> 00:20:00,600 Speaker 2: Sell it, sell it, And I don't see cheating on 404 00:20:00,640 --> 00:20:03,960 Speaker 2: your girlfriend as fit. He threw a tantrum and ran 405 00:20:04,119 --> 00:20:06,280 Speaker 2: up to his room. I was feeling quite pleased with 406 00:20:06,320 --> 00:20:08,680 Speaker 2: myself until my wife got home and asked why Hank 407 00:20:08,840 --> 00:20:11,480 Speaker 2: was so upset. When I told her why, she said 408 00:20:11,720 --> 00:20:14,840 Speaker 2: my form of punishment was inappropriate. She said it would 409 00:20:14,840 --> 00:20:17,879 Speaker 2: take away his independence. I love how she's just talking 410 00:20:17,920 --> 00:20:21,200 Speaker 2: about not giving him the car and not like going 411 00:20:21,240 --> 00:20:24,000 Speaker 2: into his bank account and throwing the keys into a river, 412 00:20:24,600 --> 00:20:25,240 Speaker 2: into a lake. 413 00:20:26,280 --> 00:20:28,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's very overkilled. 414 00:20:28,560 --> 00:20:31,359 Speaker 2: Yeah, we live in a suburban area, so there's not 415 00:20:31,440 --> 00:20:33,720 Speaker 2: much to do within walking distance. Plus he would have 416 00:20:33,840 --> 00:20:35,560 Speaker 2: to take the bus to school, and he would be 417 00:20:35,560 --> 00:20:38,200 Speaker 2: the only upperclassman to do so. She said it would 418 00:20:38,200 --> 00:20:41,440 Speaker 2: be a good punishment if we caught him cheating multiple times, 419 00:20:41,520 --> 00:20:45,480 Speaker 2: but not a first time punishment. This parents are weird. 420 00:20:45,640 --> 00:20:49,439 Speaker 2: We're almost done and we'll dissect this since Hank has 421 00:20:49,480 --> 00:20:51,560 Speaker 2: been a good kid overall. It is true that Hank 422 00:20:51,640 --> 00:20:53,880 Speaker 2: has been a good kid. He gets good grades, keeps 423 00:20:53,880 --> 00:20:56,439 Speaker 2: his nose clean, doesn't do drugs, et cetera. But cheating 424 00:20:56,560 --> 00:20:59,160 Speaker 2: is a pretty heavy violation in my book. Honestly, I'm 425 00:20:59,200 --> 00:21:01,560 Speaker 2: having a hard time. I'm seeing my wife's perspective. If 426 00:21:01,560 --> 00:21:03,840 Speaker 2: Hank had been eighteen or older, I would have kicked 427 00:21:03,880 --> 00:21:05,080 Speaker 2: him out of the house. 428 00:21:05,359 --> 00:21:08,520 Speaker 1: Really, Am I being fair? Or is my wife right? 429 00:21:09,160 --> 00:21:11,040 Speaker 1: I think this is way over kill. I want to 430 00:21:11,080 --> 00:21:13,399 Speaker 1: know what y'all think. Yeah, but I think this is 431 00:21:13,480 --> 00:21:14,320 Speaker 1: way overkill. 432 00:21:14,920 --> 00:21:18,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, this is like the first step was the invasion 433 00:21:18,400 --> 00:21:20,200 Speaker 2: of privacy. 434 00:21:19,800 --> 00:21:21,159 Speaker 1: With the bank is crazy. 435 00:21:21,200 --> 00:21:26,120 Speaker 2: I think that's that's definitely too much, especially especially if 436 00:21:26,160 --> 00:21:28,000 Speaker 2: Hank like has a job and it's like earning his 437 00:21:28,040 --> 00:21:30,679 Speaker 2: own money and things of that nature. Yeah, that's just 438 00:21:30,720 --> 00:21:34,080 Speaker 2: a it's just too private of a thing to go through, 439 00:21:34,160 --> 00:21:36,959 Speaker 2: especially like I would say, seventeen, I'm like trying to 440 00:21:37,000 --> 00:21:38,840 Speaker 2: treat you as an adult, and like I wouldn't go 441 00:21:38,880 --> 00:21:40,600 Speaker 2: through my like if my dad went through my bank 442 00:21:40,640 --> 00:21:43,520 Speaker 2: account transactions right now, which she can't, but like if 443 00:21:43,520 --> 00:21:46,440 Speaker 2: he somehow did, I'd be like, WHOA, that's too much 444 00:21:46,920 --> 00:21:50,440 Speaker 2: treat him as an adult. And two like just you're 445 00:21:50,560 --> 00:21:52,080 Speaker 2: so over the top, so. 446 00:21:52,080 --> 00:21:54,840 Speaker 1: Over the top and so involved, like this is like 447 00:21:54,880 --> 00:21:58,000 Speaker 1: it's weird how much you know almost? 448 00:21:58,640 --> 00:22:02,520 Speaker 2: I yeah, Like I don't blame him for wanting to 449 00:22:02,560 --> 00:22:06,160 Speaker 2: teach his son, like, oh this is wrong, but yeah, 450 00:22:06,200 --> 00:22:09,159 Speaker 2: the level of snoopery. 451 00:22:08,840 --> 00:22:13,440 Speaker 1: Yeah, I think that it's wrong is important, But this 452 00:22:13,560 --> 00:22:16,680 Speaker 1: way of going about it feels like the complete wrong way. 453 00:22:17,160 --> 00:22:19,679 Speaker 2: Why didn't he just sit him down first and at 454 00:22:19,760 --> 00:22:22,920 Speaker 2: least give him a chance to like come and talk 455 00:22:23,000 --> 00:22:26,960 Speaker 2: about it, you know, like if anything, this might because 456 00:22:27,000 --> 00:22:33,200 Speaker 2: like he's just taking her word completely right that like, yes, 457 00:22:33,240 --> 00:22:34,920 Speaker 2: he'saw the beginning, but what if they just like broke 458 00:22:35,000 --> 00:22:39,440 Speaker 2: up beforehand, you know, like he's just like allow your 459 00:22:39,480 --> 00:22:42,120 Speaker 2: son to talk to you about it first, yes, before 460 00:22:42,160 --> 00:22:45,600 Speaker 2: just going full crazy? Yeah, yeah, I feel like, yeah, 461 00:22:45,640 --> 00:22:49,680 Speaker 2: you've Opie has definitely made I think multiple mistakes, and 462 00:22:49,720 --> 00:22:52,439 Speaker 2: Diego's the asshole for sure. Yeah, I think Opie's ashole. 463 00:22:52,520 --> 00:22:54,040 Speaker 1: But let's say what you think, Like, what would you 464 00:22:54,080 --> 00:22:55,600 Speaker 1: do if you're caught your kid cheating? 465 00:22:55,800 --> 00:22:56,320 Speaker 2: That's true? 466 00:22:56,400 --> 00:22:58,400 Speaker 1: Or if you have what would you do? What would 467 00:22:58,400 --> 00:22:59,360 Speaker 1: I do if you tell your kids? 468 00:22:59,600 --> 00:23:02,240 Speaker 2: I would just I think it's a sit down conversation, 469 00:23:02,359 --> 00:23:05,320 Speaker 2: and especially like if you're young, like you know, someone 470 00:23:05,400 --> 00:23:07,800 Speaker 2: did a party and then you get drunk and then 471 00:23:07,880 --> 00:23:09,800 Speaker 2: girl kisses you, Like this one is a little bit 472 00:23:09,800 --> 00:23:12,680 Speaker 2: more like took her out to a restaurant like Bottersilver, 473 00:23:13,359 --> 00:23:15,399 Speaker 2: but like, yeah, either way, it's I think a sit 474 00:23:15,480 --> 00:23:17,760 Speaker 2: down conversation and be like hey, like you shouldn't do 475 00:23:17,880 --> 00:23:20,679 Speaker 2: this to someone like you have to respect someone's feelings. 476 00:23:20,680 --> 00:23:22,040 Speaker 2: If you really don't want to be with someone, you 477 00:23:22,040 --> 00:23:23,720 Speaker 2: have to sit down and communicate that to them and 478 00:23:23,760 --> 00:23:25,359 Speaker 2: move on in the relationship. 479 00:23:25,600 --> 00:23:27,760 Speaker 1: I don't know why, it just like feels weird to 480 00:23:27,840 --> 00:23:31,720 Speaker 1: punish someone for cheating on someone. I think it's because 481 00:23:32,200 --> 00:23:37,800 Speaker 1: I don't understand, like like that feels like, yes, it's 482 00:23:37,840 --> 00:23:42,080 Speaker 1: morally wrong. Yeah, it's just like something about that feels 483 00:23:42,960 --> 00:23:43,560 Speaker 1: weird to me. 484 00:23:44,840 --> 00:23:47,439 Speaker 2: Maybe it's because, like I think, for like all of 485 00:23:47,520 --> 00:23:50,680 Speaker 2: us are most of our like love lives are like 486 00:23:50,720 --> 00:23:54,080 Speaker 2: the high school drama was like just outside of our parents' knowledge, 487 00:23:54,280 --> 00:23:56,479 Speaker 2: So it just feels like such a weird thing for 488 00:23:56,560 --> 00:23:59,040 Speaker 2: them that they're interaction with it. Yeah. 489 00:23:59,240 --> 00:24:02,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, I feel it feels scared to be punished for 490 00:24:03,280 --> 00:24:07,280 Speaker 1: your romantic interests. I get, like, yeah, just like like 491 00:24:07,760 --> 00:24:09,920 Speaker 1: your your romantic life, like your love life. I think 492 00:24:10,160 --> 00:24:12,240 Speaker 1: I think you said, like or why it's weird to me, 493 00:24:12,280 --> 00:24:14,800 Speaker 1: It's like my parents are just like I tell them stuff, 494 00:24:14,800 --> 00:24:17,480 Speaker 1: but they're not involved in that and they have no 495 00:24:17,720 --> 00:24:19,679 Speaker 1: jurisdiction over that part of my life. 496 00:24:19,920 --> 00:24:22,560 Speaker 2: I think, like I mean, at a minimum, definitely like 497 00:24:22,640 --> 00:24:25,919 Speaker 2: the sit down conversation, which is like a form of discipline. 498 00:24:26,920 --> 00:24:30,040 Speaker 1: The sit down conversation seems more like, hey, like, I 499 00:24:30,040 --> 00:24:32,320 Speaker 1: want what's best for you, Like this is exactly this 500 00:24:32,359 --> 00:24:34,960 Speaker 1: is not how you should live your life. I don't 501 00:24:34,960 --> 00:24:38,920 Speaker 1: think if you want like happy, healthy relationships. 502 00:24:38,280 --> 00:24:41,840 Speaker 2: I would probably end it at the sit down conversation 503 00:24:42,000 --> 00:24:42,440 Speaker 2: with that. 504 00:24:42,600 --> 00:24:45,159 Speaker 1: Yeah, I think I would do that. Probably that I 505 00:24:45,160 --> 00:24:46,320 Speaker 1: think same here. 506 00:24:46,440 --> 00:24:50,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, but I could see in a realm, I could 507 00:24:50,440 --> 00:24:55,480 Speaker 2: see a punishment potentially being good. But like, I don't 508 00:24:55,960 --> 00:24:56,320 Speaker 2: like this. 509 00:24:56,640 --> 00:24:58,520 Speaker 1: I don't know, I like, I don't even know if 510 00:24:58,560 --> 00:25:01,040 Speaker 1: I would see a punishment pas to sit down being 511 00:25:01,760 --> 00:25:04,040 Speaker 1: a good idea, because like I don't like, I like, 512 00:25:05,480 --> 00:25:07,960 Speaker 1: it just feels like a weird thing to police, I 513 00:25:08,119 --> 00:25:09,080 Speaker 1: will just feels weird. 514 00:25:09,119 --> 00:25:10,960 Speaker 2: The other thing I will say again, like going back 515 00:25:10,960 --> 00:25:13,600 Speaker 2: to like treating him like an adult, Like I think 516 00:25:13,640 --> 00:25:16,119 Speaker 2: being like you should because I'm going to treat you 517 00:25:16,119 --> 00:25:17,800 Speaker 2: like an adult and you should absorb this and learn 518 00:25:17,800 --> 00:25:23,080 Speaker 2: from this. I don't know. I yeah, again I probably wouldn't. 519 00:25:23,119 --> 00:25:25,680 Speaker 1: But yeah, I'm curious what all of y'all do. Put 520 00:25:25,680 --> 00:25:29,920 Speaker 1: your answers below. Yeah, but just a little little weird, 521 00:25:30,000 --> 00:25:32,840 Speaker 1: little weird strange. Yeah, let's get to this next one. 522 00:25:32,880 --> 00:25:33,320 Speaker 2: Let's do it.