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Speaker 2: We'll just sit in the stall for like twenty thirty

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Speaker 2: Is that a real thing. I mean, I don't know.

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Speaker 3: I try to personally get in and get out as

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Speaker 4: But they do, hear they a lot of dudes do it.

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Speaker 1: Some people are like you could hear.

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Speaker 4: What they're listening to. They're watching videos on their phone.

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Speaker 4: I'm like, what what are you guys doing? They're doing

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Speaker 2: Because I've had this job for my whole life, basically,

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Speaker 2: that would be like. I also don't have an eight

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Speaker 2: So I'm not wasting too much time at work, but

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Speaker 2: I'm like you, especially if we're in a stall situation,

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Speaker 2: I'm trying to be I'm trying to be a Navy

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Speaker 2: anyone to know I came in or left. Like I

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Speaker 2: I hide my shoes so you can't necessarily see. I mean,

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Speaker 2: we're trying to get in and out of this thing.

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Speaker 2: I am certainly not going to waste time in the

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Speaker 3: I would love to see you tall ass man hide your.

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Speaker 2: Shoes, my friend?

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Speaker 1: Is that you know, It's like I want to see

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, roof, you don't wear similar shoes. Want. The

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Speaker 2: other thing is I'm tall enough that when I sit

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Speaker 2: So it's a little weird, you know, that's what I

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Speaker 3: It like a pretzel position? Like I want to see

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Speaker 2: A sweet around the door?

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Speaker 1: It could be like that.

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Speaker 3: It could it could be feet behind the hut, it

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Speaker 2: Yes, my squatty botty myselfe I my feet against the

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Speaker 2: I mean, I hang on to the sides. I push

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Speaker 2: Apparently there's a new trend now another new work trend

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Speaker 2: it makes sense to me. It's like, here's your work.

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Speaker 2: If it takes you eight, fine. If you want to

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Speaker 2: You're welcome to do that, like, no one's stopping you.

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Speaker 2: can't relate to this idea of coming up with ways

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Speaker 3: Yeah, like on teams like Microsoft teams, like your bubble

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Speaker 1: I see that in managers.

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Speaker 3: Oh so green is like you're available rather is and

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Speaker 4: Right, because especially if you're paying them a full days

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Speaker 2: A half the day, right. But what I really wanted

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Speaker 2: how else are you stalling at work? Like it's incredible.

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Speaker 2: here really, Like if you're talking, you're talking. If you're like,

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Speaker 2: so there's no hiding. Virginia, Hi, Virginia, how you doing?

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Speaker 5: Good morning?

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Speaker 2: Bathroom for twenty minutes? Oh? Good, thank you? Yes, yes

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Speaker 2: I do, Okay, I mean right now?

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Speaker 7: Hell?

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Speaker 2: Well, I'm trying to understand you. It should take you

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Speaker 2: What because you don't want to work?

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Speaker 8: Well, okay, let's not go out. How many times a.

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Speaker 2: Yes? Okay, there's there's another there's another way to not

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Speaker 8: Right, Well, what if I in the bathroom, take you

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Speaker 8: I'm on my feet all day otherwise, So heck, yeah,

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Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, all Virginia is doing what you gotta do.

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Speaker 2: All right, Virginia, Well, thank you are You're not there

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Speaker 2: right now though, you're not calling a radio show from

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Speaker 8: Oh no, I'm in my car at work about dig

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Speaker 2: Okay, Well go clock in and then and then go

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Speaker 2: go to the right to the bathroom.

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Speaker 9: Yes, we.

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Speaker 2: Have a good day at work, Virginia. Bang, okay, bye

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Speaker 2: all yeah, you do you girl?

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Someone texted seven oh eight. I worked for the railroad.

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Speaker 2: If you finish your work in six or seven hours,

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Speaker 2: you can leave and get paid for the eight hours anyway. Nice, okay,

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Speaker 2: all right.

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Speaker 1: It's like one of those jobs, like the railroad.

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Speaker 4: You've got to make sure your job's done right, Like

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Speaker 4: I can do the job at four, But is it right?

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Speaker 2: Right? Are the tracks clear or whatever? Right? Like did

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Speaker 2: go or did you just stop? Yeah? Someone else texted

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Speaker 2: Maybe that's what it is. I'm not sure. Guys, Entertainment Tonight,

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Speaker 2: me to say, and I think I don't think I

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Speaker 2: would dare say it three times in a row, because

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Speaker 2: I'm pretty sure by the third time it would be

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Speaker 2: be b BB and Hall of Famer to Kemy Matembo

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Speaker 2: has passed away of brain cancer very young, at the

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Speaker 2: age of fifty eight. Seven foot two native of the

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Speaker 2: Democratic Republic of Congo was known for three things, in

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Speaker 2: particular his ability to block shots, his signature finger wag

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Speaker 2: after blocking the shots, and his humanitarian work in Africa.

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Speaker 2: Also fun fact, he spoke nine languages. Wow. Played for

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Speaker 2: a bunch of teams over eighteen years. The Nuggets, the Hawks,

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Speaker 2: the seventy six Ers, the New Jersey and NBA team

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Speaker 2: Jason Ooh, the.

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Speaker 3: New Jersey Nuts. It is the right, Yeah, not to

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Speaker 3: be confused with the New York Giants of that's football. Yes,

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Speaker 3: but we're talking about basketball. Oh, New York the I

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Speaker 3: don't know, dude, The Knickerbockers, Yeah.

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Speaker 2: The Knicks, the nick Oh is that? What is that?

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Speaker 3: What Nicks is short for?

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Speaker 8: Ya?

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Speaker 11: Wait?

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Speaker 12: New Jersey is now the they moved to Brooklyn, the

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Speaker 12: Brooklyn Nets, I know.

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Speaker 2: That, but they were then called the New Jersey Nets.

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Speaker 4: I did not know that year and then jay Z

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Speaker 4: part on them. They moved them to Brooklyn. They said,

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Speaker 4: see you guys, I'm out of here.

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Speaker 1: I see.

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Speaker 2: And then, uh, he played for the Houston NBA team

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Speaker 2: of course, Jason. You know the Houston NBA Horses, the Horses. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: he played for them too. Yeah, he the Rockets as well. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: he was a very when I was a ball boy,

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Speaker 2: when I was eighth grade for the in the eighth

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Speaker 2: grade for the Phoenix sense he was a very nice guy. Uh,

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Speaker 2: I just remember him being a very nice guy with

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Speaker 2: his with his finger wag though if you see, if

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Speaker 2: you know, you know, he'd block a shot and he'd go,

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Speaker 2: you know, you can't see me doing it, but I

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Speaker 2: would do it.

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Speaker 4: No, no, no, And it wasn't that guygo commercial doing

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Speaker 4: the same thing.

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Speaker 2: Ye, a guy has gone viral after bidding on a

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Speaker 2: autographed Tailor Swift guitar. And then, by the way, I

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Speaker 2: should I should warn you that this this, uh, this

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Speaker 2: story has traumatic images for some people in the room.

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Speaker 2: You were discretion as advised. Okay, there are a couple

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Speaker 2: of people in the room who need to be sheltered

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Speaker 2: from this story. But in fact, Kaylin, Jason, take your

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Speaker 2: headphones off, you know, encountered thirty Okay, everything's going to

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Speaker 2: be okay. But a guy's gone viral forbidding on an

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Speaker 2: autographed Taoy Swift guitar and then smashing it the moment

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Speaker 2: that he got it. This guy announced to the front

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Speaker 2: of the room of the Alice County Wild Game Dinner

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Speaker 2: just outside of Texas on Sunday that he was going

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Speaker 2: to pay four thousand dollars for the guitar, and he

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Speaker 2: was going to take ownership, and he was going to

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Speaker 2: go rogue, and he smashed it. I'm not really sure

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Speaker 2: why he proved he did that. I don't know. Well

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Speaker 2: he tried to say, it really didn't work in the beginning.

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Speaker 2: It's a nonprofit group that supports agricultural education for local

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Speaker 2: youth and the money went to their charity. The instrument

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Speaker 2: had been donated to the auction by a third party.

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Speaker 2: It was not intended to be demolished, okay, But the

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Speaker 2: new owner made the decision to do what he wanted

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Speaker 2: with it, and he chose the aggressive beating of the guitar.

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Speaker 2: Take that, Taylor, I'm sure you learn your lesson against

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Speaker 2: the Ellis County Wild Game Dinner. Don't you come around

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Speaker 2: here no more? Oh my good ridiculous four thousand dollars

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Speaker 2: to basically just light it on fire. I mean what

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Speaker 2: it is, you're flex It's National Taco Tuesday, National Taco Tuesday.

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Speaker 2: more sustainable. And National Black Dog Day very specific, but

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Speaker 2: it's a National Black Dog of Day today as well.

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Speaker 2: The Entertainer Reports Text's two minutes Fresh Show.

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Speaker 11: Aaron's Entertainer Report is on The Fresh Show.

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Speaker 6: A new ID documentary called Chris Brown A History of

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Speaker 6: Violence will explore his many many legal issues. Of course,

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Speaker 6: those date back to two thousand and nine when he

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Speaker 6: assaulted then girlfriend Brianna, causing so vere facial injuries and.

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Speaker 1: She actually had to go to the hospital.

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Speaker 6: In the years following, he pled guilty to you know,

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Speaker 6: a different assault.

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Speaker 1: I think there was a variety of.

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Speaker 6: Other legal issues, and this documentary is going to start

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Speaker 6: with his childhood and I guess explore the impact of

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Speaker 6: the cycle of abuse. But the biggest news I think

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Speaker 6: that's coming with this though, is that there's a new

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Speaker 6: accuser whose identity is hidden that comes forward with allegations

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Speaker 6: against Chris. That documentary airs October twenty seventh, followed by

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Speaker 6: a conversation about intimate partner violence led by one of

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Speaker 6: the hosts of the view. Rumors that Drake sent a

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Speaker 6: cease and assist letter to Kendrick Lamar to block him

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Speaker 6: from performing his number one distract Not Like Us during

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Speaker 6: the Super Bowl halftime show have been going around and

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Speaker 6: I don't know if you guys heard that. A rub

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Speaker 6: for Drake says that's not true though. The story, I

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Speaker 6: guess started over the weekend when the Gaines manager made

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Speaker 6: a claim during an interview, But word is he has

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Speaker 6: no plans to take legal action. I am interested to

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Speaker 6: see how Drake handles that week though, because he's always

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Speaker 6: out partying and stuff.

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Speaker 1: But it's going to be a weird time for my

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Speaker 1: Kendrick will bring out with Drake, please, I think so,

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Speaker 1: And if they.

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Speaker 6: Do, then I'm going to be like, this was all

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Speaker 6: corny and.

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Speaker 1: That would be embarrassing. Drake should just leave the country

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Speaker 1: that weekend if I was him, Yeah, yeah, go to

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Speaker 1: see you have a house there, get on their Drake.

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Speaker 2: I'm sure you don't have forty TVs on that thing

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Speaker 2: to watch the super Bowl and just yeah, just go

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Speaker 2: somewhere else. It'll be fine.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, just for the weekend. Take a hike and sweet.

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Speaker 6: Ninety year old Frankie Valley has been going viral after

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Speaker 6: someone posted a video of him during one of his concerts,

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Speaker 6: I'm going to use this in quotes performing during his

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Speaker 6: Greatest Hits tour with the Four Seasons. He shared a

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Speaker 6: statement in part saying, I know there's been a lot

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Speaker 6: of stuff about me on the Internet lately, so I

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Speaker 6: wanted to clear the air. And I don't know how

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Speaker 6: this is clearing the air, but he said, I'm blessed

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Speaker 6: to be ninety years old and still doing what I

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Speaker 6: love to do. And as long as I'm able and

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Speaker 6: the audiences want to come see me, I'm gonna.

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Speaker 1: Be out there performing as I always do.

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Speaker 6: I love what I do, and I know we put

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Speaker 6: on a great show because our fans are still coming

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Speaker 6: out in force and the show rocks. He and the

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Speaker 6: Four Seasons, like I said, are on this Greatest Hits

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Speaker 6: Tour with performances scheduled through next year, which it's giving

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Speaker 6: elder abuse I don't know who has him up on

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Speaker 6: that stage.

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Speaker 1: He concluded, I.

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Speaker 6: Plan to be doing shows as long as I can,

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Speaker 6: delivering that great four season sound like that line in

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Speaker 6: Jersey Boys.

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Speaker 1: I'm like that bunny on TV that just keeps going

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Speaker 1: and going and going, chasing the music.

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Speaker 6: Whatever you say, Frankie, wherever you think you are doing,

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Speaker 6: whatever you think you're doing, as long as.

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Speaker 1: You're happy, that'll be us with Fred.

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Speaker 4: We're gonna, We're gonna, We're gonna.

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Speaker 2: We get avert the we can't.

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Speaker 6: And of course the internet takes nothing seriously and there's a.

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Speaker 1: Ton of memes.

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Speaker 6: It makes me said, I I never in my life

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Speaker 6: I do an entertainment report about Frankie Valley. But there

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Speaker 6: you go again, not on my bingo card. If you

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Speaker 6: are a fan of Waiting by the Phone, you can

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Speaker 6: catch up on that a couple different ways. You can

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Speaker 6: go on the free iHeartRadio app and search the Fred

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Speaker 6: Show on demand as well as the Fred Show TikTok.

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Speaker 1: It is dedicated to our waiting by the phone.

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Speaker 2: His mouth is barely moving in these videos. It's kind

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Speaker 2: of sad like it's the other guys are singing and

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Speaker 2: they're much much, much younger, and then he's kind of

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Speaker 2: standing there and like you have to really like squint

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Speaker 2: almost to look to see if he's even like, I

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Speaker 2: don't know what the hell's going on.

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Speaker 1: It's like a big reveal.

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Speaker 6: They separate and he comes forward and then he gives nothing.

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Speaker 4: He gives who's in the audience, like people like the

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Speaker 4: same age, Like I think so.

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Speaker 1: Because he said is his fans are coming out in droves.

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Speaker 7: Are you?

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Speaker 1: Are they still a lot?

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Speaker 2: That's the trick. It's like if you're eighty or ninety

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Speaker 2: years old and you go to this thing, you can't

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Speaker 2: even see if the guy's book lips are moving anyway,

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Speaker 2: So it doesn't like because you don't have the best

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Speaker 2: eyes sight, that's true.

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Speaker 1: They can't hear. Probably are, so it's probably great. You know,

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Speaker 1: they're probably throwing their.

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Speaker 6: Little bras on stage and I don't hear. They were

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Speaker 6: those boys back in the day. So the smell of

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Speaker 6: mothballs is probably get it gives.

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Speaker 2: It gives I need money to pay for my retirement

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Speaker 2: home or whatever. But I hope that's not true. I

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Speaker 2: hope he's doing it for the love of the music.

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Speaker 2: That's what I hope.

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Speaker 1: It seems like he is so God bless him.

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Speaker 2: By the way, Jason, what was Jason in the sports

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Speaker 2: report yesterday or his picks for the week? The NFL picks?

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Speaker 2: He was like ten and five or something. He was no,

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Speaker 2: he was eleven and four, ten and four because you

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Speaker 2: had one wrong, okay, ten and four, and then you

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Speaker 2: had the Titans and the Lions, didn't you? He had

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Speaker 2: the Dolphins yesterday? Oh you had the Dolphins. Okay, so

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Speaker 2: you're you're twelve and five week eleven and I see that.

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Speaker 2: Damn it. I don't know. I can't do math. But anyway,

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Speaker 2: eleven and five, that's really good. Jason basically did a

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Speaker 2: great job, is what I mean. Are you proud of me?

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Speaker 2: I'm so proud of you. Thank you?

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Speaker 1: Until next week?

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Speaker 3: I need that every day, Yes, thank you.

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Speaker 2: What about the parcelay? Did he get that?

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Speaker 4: He hit two out of three? Are you Williams? Caleb

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Speaker 4: Williams got sacked three times. He said it was.

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Speaker 2: Can you use proper terminough?

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Speaker 4: The sexy i'mon Rossaint Brown was going to get a touchdown.

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Speaker 4: He actually he actually threw a touchdown yesterday, so that's.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it was so sick.

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Speaker 2: But then he said the beautiful.

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Speaker 4: Derek Carr was going to score two touchdowns and he

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Speaker 4: scored zero. So that's the one he missed.

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Speaker 3: I already forgot about him.

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Speaker 2: Yeah all right, Well, I'm proud of you. Jason did

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Speaker 2: a great job. People could have actually won money on that, so.

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Speaker 3: I hope someone did.

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Speaker 2: How is this not sponsored? It makes no sense to me?

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Speaker 2: Why is draft kings?

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Speaker 4: Uh?

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Speaker 2: Ben MGM was? Why fan duel? Why no one? Why

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Speaker 2: is it no one attached themselves to this yet?

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Speaker 10: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Draft Queen's exactly anybody we're open?

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Speaker 2: Well, Draft Queens isn't the thing we learned, but I

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Speaker 2: mean the other ones are, so they should have been.

654
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Speaker 3: Hello, give me a call.

655
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Speaker 2: Let's do vlogs next day or go? Debasing relationship rama

656
00:29:00,600 --> 00:29:03,000
Speaker 2: five hundred and fifty bucks with show vs. Shelley waiting

657
00:29:03,000 --> 00:29:06,120
Speaker 2: by the phone. All next, I got more thread show Next,

658
00:29:06,840 --> 00:29:10,720
Speaker 2: the Thread show is on. It's stay or go All right.

659
00:29:10,880 --> 00:29:14,960
Speaker 2: Beth is here? Hi Bath, Good morning, Welcome to the show.

660
00:29:15,000 --> 00:29:16,840
Speaker 2: How are you okay?

661
00:29:17,040 --> 00:29:17,840
Speaker 1: How are you doing?

662
00:29:18,480 --> 00:29:21,240
Speaker 2: Beth? Doing great? What's going on with your husband? We

663
00:29:21,280 --> 00:29:23,600
Speaker 2: got to hear all about this. Some group therapy actually

664
00:29:23,640 --> 00:29:25,600
Speaker 2: going on right now? Yeah? Good?

665
00:29:25,680 --> 00:29:26,200
Speaker 9: I need it.

666
00:29:26,800 --> 00:29:28,440
Speaker 1: I'm sure, I'm like a lot.

667
00:29:28,280 --> 00:29:30,080
Speaker 9: Of women out there.

668
00:29:29,960 --> 00:29:30,120
Speaker 5: But.

669
00:29:31,760 --> 00:29:38,720
Speaker 9: I'm not happy because it's football season and I lose

670
00:29:38,720 --> 00:29:40,440
Speaker 9: my husband during football season.

671
00:29:41,040 --> 00:29:42,680
Speaker 1: So I need some advice here.

672
00:29:42,960 --> 00:29:47,280
Speaker 9: He's had tickets like his whole life, and it's just

673
00:29:47,360 --> 00:29:51,800
Speaker 9: that thing where every Sunday during football season he gets

674
00:29:51,880 --> 00:29:54,480
Speaker 9: up early, he tailgates, He's gone like the entire day.

675
00:29:55,240 --> 00:29:57,520
Speaker 1: And I don't know, even if I.

676
00:29:57,520 --> 00:30:00,400
Speaker 9: Liked football, it's not like I could go with him

677
00:30:00,400 --> 00:30:01,280
Speaker 9: because we have kids.

678
00:30:01,320 --> 00:30:03,920
Speaker 13: But I I.

679
00:30:03,840 --> 00:30:05,840
Speaker 9: Need some advice how to handle this. I feel like

680
00:30:05,840 --> 00:30:08,640
Speaker 9: if the roles were reversed and I was going out

681
00:30:08,720 --> 00:30:12,600
Speaker 9: drinking with my friends on like every Saturday during the summer,

682
00:30:13,440 --> 00:30:14,920
Speaker 9: he would look at me like I was crazy.

683
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Speaker 1: So I just why did you get to do that?

684
00:30:17,960 --> 00:30:19,960
Speaker 2: Why don't you come up with some form of compromise.

685
00:30:20,080 --> 00:30:23,120
Speaker 2: I'm not I'm not saying that you're not right to

686
00:30:23,480 --> 00:30:26,200
Speaker 2: find it annoying but to to you, But I mean, like,

687
00:30:26,240 --> 00:30:28,200
Speaker 2: why not come up with some form of compromise. Why

688
00:30:28,200 --> 00:30:29,360
Speaker 2: don't you say, hey, I want to do this.

689
00:30:31,400 --> 00:30:32,760
Speaker 9: I feel like I don't.

690
00:30:32,800 --> 00:30:33,840
Speaker 14: I just kids.

691
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Speaker 9: I don't know. It just feels I'd rather he just

692
00:30:38,200 --> 00:30:40,320
Speaker 9: chill out a little bit, maybe go like half the

693
00:30:40,400 --> 00:30:42,280
Speaker 9: time as opposed to being like full.

694
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Speaker 1: Out everything we don't know.

695
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Speaker 4: Come on, now, what do you mean he's had You said,

696
00:30:46,840 --> 00:30:49,680
Speaker 4: he's had these tickets since he was forever, since he

697
00:30:49,760 --> 00:30:52,000
Speaker 4: was a kid or whatever it is you knew going

698
00:30:52,040 --> 00:30:53,320
Speaker 4: into this relationship.

699
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Speaker 1: What get married and says you know, but this is

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Speaker 1: something well.

701
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Speaker 2: Know, looking look at Rovio being all big time. Oh

702
00:31:02,520 --> 00:31:06,200
Speaker 2: you know what you tell you don't what you tell

703
00:31:06,240 --> 00:31:07,880
Speaker 2: the little lady over here that this is what I'm

704
00:31:07,880 --> 00:31:09,560
Speaker 2: gonna do. We just did a story a couple of

705
00:31:09,640 --> 00:31:13,680
Speaker 2: days ago about how you you got tricked into not

706
00:31:13,760 --> 00:31:15,680
Speaker 2: even tricked. It was well, you're welcome to come, but

707
00:31:15,760 --> 00:31:18,320
Speaker 2: what that meant is your ass is coming and you went,

708
00:31:19,160 --> 00:31:20,160
Speaker 2: so you know how it goes.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, but I mean this is this is totally different,

710
00:31:23,320 --> 00:31:24,680
Speaker 4: like he's had these tickets forever.

711
00:31:24,960 --> 00:31:27,040
Speaker 1: Like if you have season tickets or something.

712
00:31:26,880 --> 00:31:29,680
Speaker 4: You not like like it's it is like you literally

713
00:31:30,160 --> 00:31:32,240
Speaker 4: pay for it and so you don't want to go anymore.

714
00:31:32,240 --> 00:31:33,880
Speaker 1: I mean, like his life is different now and that's

715
00:31:33,920 --> 00:31:34,680
Speaker 1: just the reality of it.

716
00:31:34,720 --> 00:31:36,920
Speaker 4: But this is something that this is something that he's

717
00:31:36,920 --> 00:31:39,200
Speaker 4: had before before they were even together.

718
00:31:39,280 --> 00:31:41,120
Speaker 1: So like some things they don't have to change. Like

719
00:31:41,240 --> 00:31:41,600
Speaker 1: it does.

720
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Speaker 4: I mean, let him have his thing like he's he

721
00:31:44,480 --> 00:31:47,000
Speaker 4: has like some passion for it.

722
00:31:47,040 --> 00:31:48,360
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. Let him doing well.

723
00:31:48,440 --> 00:31:49,960
Speaker 2: I used to stay out till four in the morning,

724
00:31:50,000 --> 00:31:52,760
Speaker 2: get the club and hook up with bottle girls amore.

725
00:31:53,680 --> 00:31:55,000
Speaker 1: Like this, he's going off.

726
00:31:59,320 --> 00:32:01,080
Speaker 2: Tickets to the bottle girls forever.

727
00:32:02,320 --> 00:32:04,440
Speaker 1: Stop Now like he's going like it's.

728
00:32:04,320 --> 00:32:05,320
Speaker 2: Only going to the home games.

729
00:32:05,320 --> 00:32:06,880
Speaker 1: It's not like he's going to every road game, but

730
00:32:06,960 --> 00:32:10,000
Speaker 1: leaving in the morning drinking all day. Probably now after

731
00:32:10,240 --> 00:32:12,480
Speaker 1: knew that going into this, this is what I know.

732
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Speaker 2: This is a hot this is his hobby.

733
00:32:14,800 --> 00:32:16,400
Speaker 1: This is what he's done for his whole life. You

734
00:32:16,400 --> 00:32:17,520
Speaker 1: want to know the way to ask you this?

735
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Speaker 2: Go ahead, Well we quick out.

736
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Speaker 12: Let's say the reason why she can't do the same

737
00:32:21,560 --> 00:32:23,600
Speaker 12: when it comes to like I don't know every Sunday

738
00:32:23,600 --> 00:32:25,840
Speaker 12: she'll be brunching in the summer is because I guarantee

739
00:32:25,840 --> 00:32:28,480
Speaker 12: you she's a default parent. So her doing it every

740
00:32:28,520 --> 00:32:31,800
Speaker 12: Sunday or Saturday whatever, it requires more work to get

741
00:32:31,800 --> 00:32:34,200
Speaker 12: everything ready, to get the kids, babysitters, all of that,

742
00:32:34,400 --> 00:32:35,960
Speaker 12: So it's for her it's not even worth it.

743
00:32:36,200 --> 00:32:37,920
Speaker 1: So he is lucky he can even do that does

744
00:32:37,960 --> 00:32:38,480
Speaker 1: that make sense?

745
00:32:38,520 --> 00:32:41,000
Speaker 4: And where this This is where Frick comes in and says,

746
00:32:41,200 --> 00:32:43,240
Speaker 4: you know, there's got to be some kind of compromise,

747
00:32:43,400 --> 00:32:45,880
Speaker 4: like is Saturday's her day or whatever?

748
00:32:46,000 --> 00:32:47,440
Speaker 1: You know, Saturdays are for the girls.

749
00:32:47,480 --> 00:32:51,800
Speaker 2: Whatever. Let me ask my question, probably ask my questions, Rufio,

750
00:32:51,920 --> 00:32:55,360
Speaker 2: thank you, Beth. Is he a good father overall? Like

751
00:32:55,600 --> 00:32:59,040
Speaker 2: outside of the whatever seventeen weeks or however many weeks

752
00:32:59,040 --> 00:33:01,760
Speaker 2: the NFL season is out. I mean, is this guy

753
00:33:02,000 --> 00:33:02,720
Speaker 2: doing a good job?

754
00:33:03,720 --> 00:33:07,880
Speaker 9: Yes, I can't even Yes, he's a great dad. He's

755
00:33:07,920 --> 00:33:08,520
Speaker 9: a great dad.

756
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Speaker 13: Six dayly weak great.

757
00:33:09,960 --> 00:33:11,000
Speaker 7: I gotta say he's great.

758
00:33:11,600 --> 00:33:15,120
Speaker 2: Okay, so he's a good dad. It's not you know whatever,

759
00:33:15,280 --> 00:33:18,040
Speaker 2: ten home games, nine home games, whatever it is. He's

760
00:33:18,040 --> 00:33:22,880
Speaker 2: been doing it forever with his family, with his family, brothers.

761
00:33:22,560 --> 00:33:24,680
Speaker 2: I don't know who all goes to this thing. I

762
00:33:24,720 --> 00:33:27,520
Speaker 2: don't know why you can't go necessarily. Why can't you

763
00:33:27,600 --> 00:33:31,160
Speaker 2: hire a babysitter and then you guys go together occasionally

764
00:33:31,200 --> 00:33:31,680
Speaker 2: at least.

765
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Speaker 9: I mean, listen, you're making it sound better than it feels.

766
00:33:37,720 --> 00:33:39,600
Speaker 9: But I mean I hear you, like that does sound

767
00:33:39,640 --> 00:33:42,440
Speaker 9: like a good solution. It feels like a lot of work.

768
00:33:42,480 --> 00:33:46,640
Speaker 9: We have three kids, Like it's just a deal. But

769
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Speaker 9: now that I'm like saying it out loud, I feel.

770
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Speaker 13: Like that sounds fair one of them.

771
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Speaker 2: I'm not trying to make you feel bad about you know,

772
00:33:55,320 --> 00:33:58,320
Speaker 2: your needs, of your requests or or you know the

773
00:33:58,360 --> 00:34:00,520
Speaker 2: fact that you guys are in a relationship ship now

774
00:34:00,520 --> 00:34:02,479
Speaker 2: and have kids and have to do things together. I'm

775
00:34:02,520 --> 00:34:04,840
Speaker 2: not I'm not suggesting that. I'm not asking you to

776
00:34:04,840 --> 00:34:07,720
Speaker 2: backtrack on on what you called. I guess I'm just

777
00:34:08,040 --> 00:34:11,560
Speaker 2: wondering if there's not a compromise where everybody, Yeah, you know,

778
00:34:11,600 --> 00:34:13,200
Speaker 2: you're not gonna get everything you want. He will get

779
00:34:13,239 --> 00:34:16,239
Speaker 2: everything he wants. But like I mean, if he's a

780
00:34:16,239 --> 00:34:23,040
Speaker 2: great dad, doesn't I say something in itself about yeah.

781
00:34:22,120 --> 00:34:24,799
Speaker 9: Is there where like I get a couple of those days.

782
00:34:24,800 --> 00:34:27,959
Speaker 9: But like I hear you, like that's that just makes

783
00:34:28,000 --> 00:34:30,520
Speaker 9: both parents busy one day though, And I want it

784
00:34:30,560 --> 00:34:31,760
Speaker 9: to be like the opposite.

785
00:34:32,040 --> 00:34:33,440
Speaker 1: It would look at you funny if you did the

786
00:34:33,440 --> 00:34:35,960
Speaker 1: same thing. Yeah, that's just what goes with it.

787
00:34:36,000 --> 00:34:37,920
Speaker 12: And also to I guarantee, if you go out to Bruno,

788
00:34:38,000 --> 00:34:39,719
Speaker 12: whatever you do for the whole day, I'm talking like

789
00:34:39,800 --> 00:34:41,840
Speaker 12: from morning till night, you're gonna get blown up by

790
00:34:41,840 --> 00:34:42,960
Speaker 12: your husband a hundred times.

791
00:34:43,120 --> 00:34:44,880
Speaker 1: Where are the bottles? Where's it?

792
00:34:44,920 --> 00:34:47,799
Speaker 12: Where's the formula? Where's extra diapers? I can't find this

793
00:34:47,880 --> 00:34:49,879
Speaker 12: because I'm a wife and.

794
00:34:49,280 --> 00:34:52,480
Speaker 4: I'm a father, and i do daddy duties all day,

795
00:34:52,520 --> 00:34:53,919
Speaker 4: all week, and I'm not calling my wife.

796
00:34:55,080 --> 00:34:57,320
Speaker 1: Majority of men will I will.

797
00:34:57,200 --> 00:34:59,239
Speaker 2: Say to hold on, now, hold on. Not every guy

798
00:34:59,320 --> 00:35:02,759
Speaker 2: is a complete due. No, I will say that God

799
00:35:03,520 --> 00:35:05,640
Speaker 2: meant like my brother in law, for all the crap

800
00:35:05,680 --> 00:35:08,799
Speaker 2: I've given him, is an extremely capable father. Now, my

801
00:35:09,000 --> 00:35:11,640
Speaker 2: sister will tell you that she does everything better. And

802
00:35:11,680 --> 00:35:14,120
Speaker 2: I love my sister, but I'm not sure if that's true.

803
00:35:14,239 --> 00:35:17,760
Speaker 2: That's what she thinks, but he does a great job,

804
00:35:17,920 --> 00:35:21,840
Speaker 2: and so I don't know that it necessarily means just

805
00:35:21,960 --> 00:35:24,759
Speaker 2: because you're not what And by the way, maybe this

806
00:35:24,920 --> 00:35:28,279
Speaker 2: is a complex that he's developed. I'm not saying this

807
00:35:28,360 --> 00:35:30,760
Speaker 2: is your fault, Bath or Paulina or whomever. But maybe

808
00:35:30,760 --> 00:35:32,480
Speaker 2: he's like, look, I'm not gonna do it right anyway,

809
00:35:32,520 --> 00:35:34,040
Speaker 2: So I'm gonna go to my football game and you

810
00:35:34,080 --> 00:35:36,759
Speaker 2: watch the kids. And that's what we're doing. Because he's

811
00:35:36,800 --> 00:35:38,600
Speaker 2: of the mindset that no matter what he does, he

812
00:35:38,640 --> 00:35:39,640
Speaker 2: won't be right anyway.

813
00:35:39,960 --> 00:35:41,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, no one does it better.

814
00:35:41,239 --> 00:35:43,560
Speaker 12: I just I know how this game goes because I

815
00:35:43,600 --> 00:35:45,440
Speaker 12: live it and I understand it. That's why I'm more

816
00:35:45,440 --> 00:35:47,840
Speaker 12: comfy with my baby sometimes going to my mom's because

817
00:35:47,840 --> 00:35:49,560
Speaker 12: I feel like she won't be blowing me up. It'll

818
00:35:49,600 --> 00:35:51,520
Speaker 12: be a little less stress free. I'm not saying all

819
00:35:51,560 --> 00:35:53,600
Speaker 12: men are like this. I'm just saying from what I see,

820
00:35:53,920 --> 00:35:55,840
Speaker 12: especially on TikTok and social media, I'm not.

821
00:35:55,840 --> 00:35:58,200
Speaker 1: The only one who thinks this way or lives this life.

822
00:35:58,400 --> 00:36:01,480
Speaker 2: I mean, rufio. When Jessco's to work every day and

823
00:36:01,560 --> 00:36:03,480
Speaker 2: you have you know, you guys swap right. You work

824
00:36:03,480 --> 00:36:06,080
Speaker 2: in the morning and then you you come home and

825
00:36:06,080 --> 00:36:08,279
Speaker 2: then essentially she goes to work and you watch the kids.

826
00:36:08,280 --> 00:36:10,600
Speaker 2: You're not calling her every five minutes asking her how

827
00:36:10,640 --> 00:36:13,000
Speaker 2: to do it? Right? No, I mean you're asleep, So

828
00:36:13,040 --> 00:36:13,520
Speaker 2: it's not like.

829
00:36:14,800 --> 00:36:16,160
Speaker 1: Oh, no, I'm kidding.

830
00:36:16,200 --> 00:36:16,680
Speaker 2: I'm kidding.

831
00:36:17,080 --> 00:36:21,239
Speaker 4: Yeah, no, I'm kidding. Yeah, I got two kids. I

832
00:36:21,480 --> 00:36:23,560
Speaker 4: take care of a newborn, I take I take Ash

833
00:36:23,600 --> 00:36:24,040
Speaker 4: into school.

834
00:36:24,080 --> 00:36:25,719
Speaker 12: It's and you do, and you do a great job

835
00:36:25,719 --> 00:36:27,319
Speaker 12: with that. But I'm just saying I know how this

836
00:36:27,360 --> 00:36:29,440
Speaker 12: goes for a lot of people. Unfortunately, not that you

837
00:36:29,480 --> 00:36:31,080
Speaker 12: can't just I can't assume.

838
00:36:31,239 --> 00:36:33,279
Speaker 4: Every dad's the same, like they don't know what they're doing.

839
00:36:33,360 --> 00:36:35,560
Speaker 4: But it happens a lot, it does. But you know,

840
00:36:35,640 --> 00:36:38,200
Speaker 4: there are really good dads out there, one hundred percent

841
00:36:38,239 --> 00:36:39,680
Speaker 4: I have. I have a good husband and a good dad.

842
00:36:39,680 --> 00:36:41,480
Speaker 4: I want to be very clear, but I'll call my

843
00:36:41,480 --> 00:36:42,080
Speaker 4: my mom first.

844
00:36:42,360 --> 00:36:44,319
Speaker 1: Even if dads have questions, it doesn't make them a

845
00:36:44,360 --> 00:36:45,080
Speaker 1: bad dad, right.

846
00:36:45,239 --> 00:36:47,960
Speaker 6: Saying that boom a period, it's just different from others.

847
00:36:48,000 --> 00:36:50,040
Speaker 6: Even scientifically it is. It feels different.

848
00:36:50,160 --> 00:36:50,640
Speaker 1: Period.

849
00:36:51,440 --> 00:36:54,960
Speaker 2: Uh eight five three five In context to saying number Beth,

850
00:36:55,000 --> 00:36:56,640
Speaker 2: I'm gonna take some phone calls and we're gonna talk

851
00:36:56,640 --> 00:36:58,799
Speaker 2: about you behind your back. But but good luck with this.

852
00:36:59,120 --> 00:37:01,200
Speaker 2: Have the radio on, and thank you for calling her

853
00:37:01,239 --> 00:37:02,279
Speaker 2: for sharing. We appreciate you.

854
00:37:03,239 --> 00:37:05,880
Speaker 10: Thank you, Bob.

855
00:37:06,000 --> 00:37:08,040
Speaker 2: Here's Bob stuck to Bob.

856
00:37:08,160 --> 00:37:11,640
Speaker 10: Hi, Bob, Hey, what's up guys, Bob.

857
00:37:11,719 --> 00:37:14,680
Speaker 2: So, just to recap here, Beth calls this because her

858
00:37:14,760 --> 00:37:18,600
Speaker 2: husband has season tickets to football and he goes every

859
00:37:18,600 --> 00:37:21,239
Speaker 2: week and he has basically his whole life and so

860
00:37:21,480 --> 00:37:24,040
Speaker 2: I don't know, seven, eight, nine, Sundays whatever it is

861
00:37:24,080 --> 00:37:26,480
Speaker 2: a year, he's gone for the day and he's out

862
00:37:26,520 --> 00:37:28,520
Speaker 2: drinking and having a good time. She's at home with

863
00:37:28,600 --> 00:37:31,880
Speaker 2: three kids. Sounds like she's kind of over it and

864
00:37:31,960 --> 00:37:35,680
Speaker 2: wants to know, you know, how to manage this.

865
00:37:36,239 --> 00:37:40,520
Speaker 10: What would you say, Well, she's got to do exactly

866
00:37:40,520 --> 00:37:42,040
Speaker 10: what my wife did with me when it comes to

867
00:37:42,080 --> 00:37:44,520
Speaker 10: my golfing with my buddies. She sat me down. I

868
00:37:44,560 --> 00:37:46,960
Speaker 10: had to come to Jesus moment. She said, are you

869
00:37:47,120 --> 00:37:49,040
Speaker 10: an individual or are you a team in this thing

870
00:37:49,080 --> 00:37:51,200
Speaker 10: of arns? I was like, WHOA. So that I really

871
00:37:51,200 --> 00:37:53,000
Speaker 10: thought about it, I was like, you know what, she's

872
00:37:53,040 --> 00:37:54,920
Speaker 10: taking care of the kids a lot while I'm working.

873
00:37:55,000 --> 00:37:56,760
Speaker 10: I was like, oh, guys, want to go play around

874
00:37:56,760 --> 00:37:59,640
Speaker 10: the golf. Let's go. She's like, no, get your ass

875
00:37:59,719 --> 00:38:03,399
Speaker 10: home and be a dad. And it worked. So that's

876
00:38:03,400 --> 00:38:06,240
Speaker 10: what she needs to do, you know. I mean, because again,

877
00:38:06,719 --> 00:38:10,080
Speaker 10: either you're a teammate because that's what husbands and wives are,

878
00:38:10,520 --> 00:38:12,440
Speaker 10: or you're an individual doing your own thing on your

879
00:38:12,440 --> 00:38:14,000
Speaker 10: own terms, and that's when it doesn't work.

880
00:38:14,719 --> 00:38:18,440
Speaker 2: So Bob, there's no he goes to these games, you know,

881
00:38:18,520 --> 00:38:22,920
Speaker 2: on Sundays. And again I'm not minimizing her at all.

882
00:38:22,960 --> 00:38:25,680
Speaker 2: I'm not minimizing her complaint, but like in a big picture.

883
00:38:25,800 --> 00:38:27,839
Speaker 2: She says, he's a great dad. She says, she does

884
00:38:27,880 --> 00:38:30,200
Speaker 2: a good job. There's no world in which she goes

885
00:38:30,239 --> 00:38:33,960
Speaker 2: to these games and then she they compromise and she

886
00:38:33,960 --> 00:38:34,960
Speaker 2: gets to do something else.

887
00:38:36,880 --> 00:38:38,719
Speaker 10: Well, I mean, it's like my wife wants to go

888
00:38:38,760 --> 00:38:41,200
Speaker 10: do something, I tell her go, Like you go to

889
00:38:41,239 --> 00:38:43,400
Speaker 10: that concert with your girls, go to dinner, you go

890
00:38:43,480 --> 00:38:45,600
Speaker 10: to that long weekend. I got, I got the girls,

891
00:38:45,640 --> 00:38:47,920
Speaker 10: you know what I mean. And that's just the way

892
00:38:47,920 --> 00:38:49,640
Speaker 10: it's gott to be. It's give and take, you know

893
00:38:49,680 --> 00:38:52,239
Speaker 10: what I mean. It can't be you know, if I'm

894
00:38:52,440 --> 00:38:54,560
Speaker 10: working seventy hours a week and then oh, I go

895
00:38:54,640 --> 00:38:56,759
Speaker 10: play golfer is an all day thing for those of

896
00:38:56,840 --> 00:38:59,920
Speaker 10: my fellow golfers out there. It's not a three hour games,

897
00:39:00,080 --> 00:39:02,359
Speaker 10: all day extravaganza and then you're going to have some

898
00:39:02,640 --> 00:39:03,759
Speaker 10: beverages afterwards.

899
00:39:03,920 --> 00:39:06,960
Speaker 1: So yeah, no, Bob, No, it's not an all day

900
00:39:07,280 --> 00:39:07,560
Speaker 1: it's not.

901
00:39:08,360 --> 00:39:09,600
Speaker 2: Oh, it's not all things.

902
00:39:09,680 --> 00:39:12,000
Speaker 4: If I play golf and I'm allowed to play golf,

903
00:39:12,160 --> 00:39:13,560
Speaker 4: I play golf and I go home, I don't.

904
00:39:13,560 --> 00:39:14,160
Speaker 1: I don't sit there.

905
00:39:14,200 --> 00:39:16,480
Speaker 2: Like, let's go on the.

906
00:39:20,680 --> 00:39:23,440
Speaker 1: Communicate to you, Bob, because you're taking all days. It's

907
00:39:23,520 --> 00:39:24,600
Speaker 1: like all day time.

908
00:39:27,440 --> 00:39:34,120
Speaker 2: Customer. Okay, Bobby, you're okay. We appreciate your calling space.

909
00:39:38,239 --> 00:39:42,959
Speaker 2: Bob's ever gonna listen again. Thanks for whatever doing, Bob,

910
00:39:43,040 --> 00:39:48,920
Speaker 2: you suck you. I'm drinking all day and I'm going

911
00:39:48,960 --> 00:39:51,200
Speaker 2: to eat lunch with my boys. No play golf and

912
00:39:51,200 --> 00:39:53,000
Speaker 2: get your mother, then get your A S S home

913
00:39:53,160 --> 00:39:55,799
Speaker 2: and take care of the kids. I like credit. That

914
00:39:55,960 --> 00:39:59,880
Speaker 2: sounds like a lot more like you know, every Sunday, right,

915
00:40:00,000 --> 00:40:02,560
Speaker 2: almost every Sunday when the weather's nice, versus a few

916
00:40:02,560 --> 00:40:04,799
Speaker 2: Sundays during football. I mean, I do feel like in

917
00:40:04,840 --> 00:40:07,680
Speaker 2: the grand scheme of things, there is a compromise to

918
00:40:07,719 --> 00:40:10,400
Speaker 2: be hot here that you know, we're not talking about

919
00:40:10,920 --> 00:40:13,800
Speaker 2: hey all weekend. Every weekend, I'm gone all the time,

920
00:40:13,920 --> 00:40:15,480
Speaker 2: and you got to watch the kids and I'm not

921
00:40:15,520 --> 00:40:17,000
Speaker 2: ever going to do anything else. I mean, if this

922
00:40:17,040 --> 00:40:20,480
Speaker 2: guy were a loser and a bad dad and negligent

923
00:40:20,600 --> 00:40:23,480
Speaker 2: in other ways, and then he also didn't care about Sundays,

924
00:40:23,719 --> 00:40:26,120
Speaker 2: but she said, hey, he's a good dad, he does

925
00:40:26,120 --> 00:40:28,480
Speaker 2: a great job, and this is the compromise and he's

926
00:40:28,520 --> 00:40:31,040
Speaker 2: been doing it forever. I just I think they got

927
00:40:31,080 --> 00:40:32,920
Speaker 2: to talk about it is what it sounds like. It does.

928
00:40:32,960 --> 00:40:34,799
Speaker 2: It's like there's a whole lot of a whole lot

929
00:40:34,800 --> 00:40:38,839
Speaker 2: of talking going on. Hey Jeffrey, good morning, Hey, how

930
00:40:38,920 --> 00:40:41,480
Speaker 2: you doing, Hey man, what do you want to say? Welcome?

931
00:40:42,719 --> 00:40:45,520
Speaker 5: You know what, I got a bunch of friends who

932
00:40:46,360 --> 00:40:48,400
Speaker 5: goes to this with their wives. This is where I

933
00:40:48,440 --> 00:40:51,880
Speaker 5: think a couple of things. I think that women know

934
00:40:52,719 --> 00:40:56,400
Speaker 5: before they get married what their husband's preacher husbands go

935
00:40:56,480 --> 00:40:58,920
Speaker 5: through on Sundays, and they're fine with it.

936
00:40:58,960 --> 00:41:00,440
Speaker 11: When they're dating.

937
00:41:01,160 --> 00:41:04,040
Speaker 5: What happens is that what they get there, they tried

938
00:41:04,080 --> 00:41:07,600
Speaker 5: to change. They try to change what their husbands are doing.

939
00:41:07,640 --> 00:41:09,239
Speaker 5: I got a bunch of friends who went through that.

940
00:41:10,000 --> 00:41:13,560
Speaker 5: And secondly, things have changed now. Men are much more

941
00:41:13,880 --> 00:41:16,839
Speaker 5: hands on. I'm a husband and my father, uh and

942
00:41:17,520 --> 00:41:20,960
Speaker 5: I do a lot more. I've probably basically raised my

943
00:41:21,040 --> 00:41:22,840
Speaker 5: kids a lot more than my wife does because she

944
00:41:22,920 --> 00:41:24,640
Speaker 5: goes out and I'm a entrepreneur. I'm able to do

945
00:41:24,719 --> 00:41:26,920
Speaker 5: a lot more, be able to be their hands on.

946
00:41:27,080 --> 00:41:28,840
Speaker 5: I do a lot more things hands on with my

947
00:41:28,920 --> 00:41:32,399
Speaker 5: kids what my wife does. And so things have changed now.

948
00:41:33,640 --> 00:41:35,719
Speaker 2: And Jeffrey, thank you man. I appreciate you calling. Have

949
00:41:35,719 --> 00:41:39,480
Speaker 2: a great day. Thanks for listening to I hear what

950
00:41:39,520 --> 00:41:41,799
Speaker 2: you're saying. Pauline, I do, and I think a lot

951
00:41:41,840 --> 00:41:45,480
Speaker 2: of people can agree with you because I think you

952
00:41:45,520 --> 00:41:49,200
Speaker 2: guys tend to take the reins and uh, it.

953
00:41:49,239 --> 00:41:51,880
Speaker 12: Just is, you know, the default parent thing, like whether

954
00:41:51,880 --> 00:41:53,319
Speaker 12: we want to or not, that this will be falling

955
00:41:53,400 --> 00:41:55,600
Speaker 12: too as women for the most fin unless you're the

956
00:41:55,640 --> 00:41:59,640
Speaker 12: guy who just called apparently he's raising those kids, Soloe.

957
00:42:00,920 --> 00:42:02,839
Speaker 2: I want to make sure that we're not that we're

958
00:42:02,840 --> 00:42:05,359
Speaker 2: not perpetuating any kind of stigma that that men are

959
00:42:05,360 --> 00:42:07,520
Speaker 2: incapable of doing this. And you didn't say that, And

960
00:42:07,520 --> 00:42:10,640
Speaker 2: I'm not saying I I said, you didn't say that,

961
00:42:10,680 --> 00:42:13,719
Speaker 2: But I also think that there is an implication that

962
00:42:14,040 --> 00:42:16,239
Speaker 2: only mom can do it right, and with moms out there,

963
00:42:16,320 --> 00:42:18,399
Speaker 2: then dad's gonna screw it up. And I don't think

964
00:42:18,440 --> 00:42:20,719
Speaker 2: that's necessarily true. I mean, I think I think it's

965
00:42:20,760 --> 00:42:22,839
Speaker 2: also kind of a I don't want to say control thing,

966
00:42:23,200 --> 00:42:25,879
Speaker 2: but that maternal instinct that like I need to be there,

967
00:42:25,920 --> 00:42:27,680
Speaker 2: I need to do it. And I do think that

968
00:42:27,719 --> 00:42:30,080
Speaker 2: it's a real thing. I see it with my family

969
00:42:30,360 --> 00:42:33,799
Speaker 2: where mom has a really hard time letting go and

970
00:42:33,880 --> 00:42:36,839
Speaker 2: saying I'm gonna love you know, the kid's gonna be fine.

971
00:42:36,880 --> 00:42:39,319
Speaker 2: It's not gonna get done my way, but everything's gonna

972
00:42:39,320 --> 00:42:41,080
Speaker 2: be okay, and I can go out and enjoy my day.

973
00:42:41,200 --> 00:42:43,960
Speaker 2: I think sometimes not all the time. Maybe that's a

974
00:42:43,960 --> 00:42:47,640
Speaker 2: little bit self fulfilling, where it's like if you just said,

975
00:42:47,640 --> 00:42:51,920
Speaker 2: hobvey handle it and you left, I think you'd be okay.

976
00:42:52,000 --> 00:42:55,120
Speaker 2: Guy's a firefighter, he's a paramedic, like you'd be okay.

977
00:42:55,400 --> 00:42:57,080
Speaker 2: But I think you have to let yourself do that,

978
00:42:57,200 --> 00:42:59,080
Speaker 2: and I think for a lot of reasons it's difficult

979
00:42:59,120 --> 00:43:00,960
Speaker 2: for women to do that one hundred percent.

980
00:43:00,960 --> 00:43:03,040
Speaker 12: Agree what you're saying. I think with us, it's I'm

981
00:43:03,040 --> 00:43:04,440
Speaker 12: working on it. I do, you know, go to the

982
00:43:04,520 --> 00:43:06,640
Speaker 12: store now and say, hey, you know whatever, handle it.

983
00:43:06,800 --> 00:43:08,440
Speaker 12: And he does a great job, and he watches her

984
00:43:08,480 --> 00:43:11,280
Speaker 12: every morning. They're together right now, like that's his job

985
00:43:11,360 --> 00:43:12,919
Speaker 12: is to be a father. When he said, homies, gonna

986
00:43:12,920 --> 00:43:15,279
Speaker 12: watch this kid, I'm just you're right. I'm trying to

987
00:43:15,360 --> 00:43:16,840
Speaker 12: let go a little bit. And at the end of

988
00:43:16,840 --> 00:43:18,879
Speaker 12: the day, I still think that it's like a primal thing.

989
00:43:18,960 --> 00:43:21,400
Speaker 12: It's like this mental thing, like that baby was attached

990
00:43:21,440 --> 00:43:23,799
Speaker 12: to me. So I think I'm always gonna feel this

991
00:43:23,880 --> 00:43:25,920
Speaker 12: separation anxiety from her, you know what. I mean, so

992
00:43:25,920 --> 00:43:27,480
Speaker 12: if I go out for a whole day, I'll be like,

993
00:43:27,880 --> 00:43:29,520
Speaker 12: he'll be calling me, I'll be texting him, and I

994
00:43:29,520 --> 00:43:31,399
Speaker 12: don't know if it's really worth it as much.

995
00:43:31,480 --> 00:43:31,680
Speaker 1: You know.

996
00:43:32,239 --> 00:43:33,680
Speaker 2: Well, I guess the where I'm coming from here is

997
00:43:33,719 --> 00:43:37,160
Speaker 2: that she says he's a good dad. She also says, basically,

998
00:43:37,200 --> 00:43:39,640
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna take the same days even if he'd

999
00:43:39,640 --> 00:43:43,000
Speaker 2: give them to me, because and I'm paraphrasing here, it's

1000
00:43:43,040 --> 00:43:44,520
Speaker 2: just too much work and it's gonna be a mess.

1001
00:43:44,560 --> 00:43:47,520
Speaker 2: He's gonna screw it up. I don't know if that's true.

1002
00:43:48,080 --> 00:43:50,960
Speaker 2: I mean, she she herself said he's a great dad.

1003
00:43:51,239 --> 00:43:54,279
Speaker 2: So I guess what I mean is maybe there is

1004
00:43:54,400 --> 00:43:57,680
Speaker 2: compromise here. She's just not willing to see it. And

1005
00:43:59,040 --> 00:44:03,040
Speaker 2: I think it's probably unfair or maybe unfair in some

1006
00:44:03,080 --> 00:44:05,439
Speaker 2: ways to say, well, I'm you know, yeah, he says

1007
00:44:05,440 --> 00:44:07,040
Speaker 2: I can go out with my girls on Saturdays, but

1008
00:44:07,080 --> 00:44:08,439
Speaker 2: I just I'm not gonna do it because he's gonna

1009
00:44:08,440 --> 00:44:11,759
Speaker 2: screw everything up. It's like, well, but you say he

1010
00:44:11,840 --> 00:44:13,840
Speaker 2: was a great dad, so maybe he won't. Maybe you

1011
00:44:13,840 --> 00:44:16,160
Speaker 2: should take those days for yourself and have a great day,

1012
00:44:16,360 --> 00:44:18,680
Speaker 2: and maybe this is less of a problem because there's

1013
00:44:18,680 --> 00:44:19,440
Speaker 2: your compromise.

1014
00:44:19,680 --> 00:44:21,759
Speaker 12: Yeah, I think they need some form of compromise or

1015
00:44:21,800 --> 00:44:24,160
Speaker 12: like every home game or whatever. Let's just say, maybe

1016
00:44:24,160 --> 00:44:26,200
Speaker 12: that's Sunday, there's something going on that she wants him

1017
00:44:26,239 --> 00:44:26,680
Speaker 12: to be a part of.

1018
00:44:26,719 --> 00:44:28,480
Speaker 1: I don't know, the pumpkin patch with Rufel or something,

1019
00:44:28,520 --> 00:44:30,319
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. Then I feel like then

1020
00:44:30,360 --> 00:44:32,919
Speaker 1: he needs to not go to this this football game,

1021
00:44:32,960 --> 00:44:33,800
Speaker 1: and that's it. Period.

1022
00:44:33,880 --> 00:44:35,840
Speaker 12: But maybe, yeah, maybe he can't go out on you know,

1023
00:44:35,880 --> 00:44:37,160
Speaker 12: every whatever game.

1024
00:44:37,239 --> 00:44:39,880
Speaker 1: If it's in town he wants to go, that's fine.

1025
00:44:40,400 --> 00:44:42,520
Speaker 12: But if there's something else going on or she doesn't

1026
00:44:42,520 --> 00:44:44,200
Speaker 12: want him to go, I think that's also okay.

1027
00:44:44,560 --> 00:44:45,959
Speaker 1: They're a family now, they're a unit.

1028
00:44:46,719 --> 00:44:50,919
Speaker 2: Yeah, Oh, I think every Sunday blanket, I'm going, there's

1029
00:44:50,960 --> 00:44:53,520
Speaker 2: nothing to do about it, YadA, YadA. I don't know

1030
00:44:53,560 --> 00:44:56,200
Speaker 2: if that's that's certainly not the attitude to take. But again,

1031
00:44:56,400 --> 00:44:59,440
Speaker 2: if he's offering compromise and she's saying no, because well

1032
00:44:59,480 --> 00:45:01,440
Speaker 2: he just won't. He just won't get the job done.

1033
00:45:02,239 --> 00:45:03,960
Speaker 2: She said it was a great dad, So I mean,

1034
00:45:04,000 --> 00:45:06,120
Speaker 2: I guess I don't. I'm a little confused about that.

1035
00:45:06,160 --> 00:45:07,160
Speaker 2: Hey Courtney, good.

1036
00:45:06,960 --> 00:45:09,280
Speaker 7: Morning, Hi, good morning friend.

1037
00:45:09,880 --> 00:45:11,319
Speaker 2: Hi, what do you want to say? Good morning? Thanks

1038
00:45:11,360 --> 00:45:11,760
Speaker 2: for calling.

1039
00:45:12,840 --> 00:45:13,120
Speaker 11: Thanks.

1040
00:45:14,120 --> 00:45:17,799
Speaker 7: So I think it's definitely a compromise situation. But I

1041
00:45:17,920 --> 00:45:20,560
Speaker 7: really just wanted to say, Rufio, this is not about you, baby.

1042
00:45:20,600 --> 00:45:22,200
Speaker 13: You do not have to feel this defensive.

1043
00:45:22,640 --> 00:45:24,720
Speaker 7: You are a good dad, You're doing a great job.

1044
00:45:24,920 --> 00:45:27,960
Speaker 7: This is about their situation, and I think that there

1045
00:45:28,719 --> 00:45:31,280
Speaker 7: can't be just okay, well she gets the same amount

1046
00:45:31,280 --> 00:45:31,640
Speaker 7: of days.

1047
00:45:31,719 --> 00:45:32,920
Speaker 13: It is a different situation.

1048
00:45:33,440 --> 00:45:36,240
Speaker 7: He's taking it, however, many sundays away from the family,

1049
00:45:36,719 --> 00:45:39,440
Speaker 7: like they need to have a serious conversation about priorities.

1050
00:45:39,480 --> 00:45:41,279
Speaker 11: I think I.

1051
00:45:41,200 --> 00:45:43,640
Speaker 4: Don't know where the defense of like defensive, like what

1052
00:45:43,840 --> 00:45:47,520
Speaker 4: Like I was defending you know, other dans out there

1053
00:45:47,560 --> 00:45:50,680
Speaker 4: because of the statement that Paulina was making that like

1054
00:45:51,160 --> 00:45:52,680
Speaker 4: the mom's better than dad, you know what I'm saying,

1055
00:45:52,680 --> 00:45:54,919
Speaker 4: So like that's that's why I was getting defensive, because

1056
00:45:54,960 --> 00:45:58,680
Speaker 4: not all dads are are bad day well they're not.

1057
00:45:59,000 --> 00:46:01,120
Speaker 7: But I'm sure, no, no, what he's saying that it's

1058
00:46:01,320 --> 00:46:04,440
Speaker 7: it's just every situation is different, and I'm a mom.

1059
00:46:04,760 --> 00:46:07,240
Speaker 7: I'm with you, Paulina, Like it is a different situation

1060
00:46:07,400 --> 00:46:10,680
Speaker 7: leaving the kids at home than when the non mom

1061
00:46:10,719 --> 00:46:12,960
Speaker 7: partner gets to go out, and like there's just a

1062
00:46:13,040 --> 00:46:16,640
Speaker 7: different level of separation. And that doesn't mean that he's

1063
00:46:16,680 --> 00:46:19,239
Speaker 7: not a good dad. It's just like maybe they need

1064
00:46:19,280 --> 00:46:21,000
Speaker 7: to have some practice, he needs to stay home with

1065
00:46:21,040 --> 00:46:24,040
Speaker 7: the kids more whatever, to get comfortable. But I just

1066
00:46:24,040 --> 00:46:26,799
Speaker 7: want to say, like you, it's not a reflection on

1067
00:46:26,880 --> 00:46:29,040
Speaker 7: you as a dad if we're talking about one person

1068
00:46:29,080 --> 00:46:30,360
Speaker 7: maybe not being a great dad.

1069
00:46:30,160 --> 00:46:33,200
Speaker 2: All the time. Hi, Corney, thank you. I appreciate you.

1070
00:46:33,200 --> 00:46:33,839
Speaker 2: Have a great day.

1071
00:46:34,560 --> 00:46:35,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, you too.

1072
00:46:35,520 --> 00:46:37,400
Speaker 2: Now, I just I get defensive over my brother in

1073
00:46:37,480 --> 00:46:39,680
Speaker 2: law because again, and who knew, who knew years ago

1074
00:46:39,800 --> 00:46:41,160
Speaker 2: that I would be the guy sticking up for him.

1075
00:46:41,200 --> 00:46:42,640
Speaker 2: And I love my sister so much and she does

1076
00:46:42,680 --> 00:46:44,399
Speaker 2: a great job. But I came from a long line

1077
00:46:44,400 --> 00:46:48,919
Speaker 2: of type, a very strong, stubborn women who their way

1078
00:46:49,000 --> 00:46:51,560
Speaker 2: is the only way. And I love them and I

1079
00:46:51,600 --> 00:46:53,760
Speaker 2: appreciate that, and I'm used to it. I was raised

1080
00:46:53,760 --> 00:46:56,400
Speaker 2: by it forty three years. My sister is one, my niece,

1081
00:46:56,560 --> 00:46:59,160
Speaker 2: my nieces will both be women like that and they're

1082
00:46:59,239 --> 00:47:03,600
Speaker 2: strong and they're incredible. But my sister will complain about

1083
00:47:03,600 --> 00:47:06,560
Speaker 2: the way Colin does stuff, and he's These kids are

1084
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Speaker 2: not in peril at all. They're spoiled rotten by this guy.

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Speaker 2: He's an incredible girl.

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Speaker 11: Dad.

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Speaker 2: He's incredible dad. And I think some of the things

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Speaker 2: I hear about are, like, by God, there are so

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Speaker 2: many women that would love to have a guy who

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Speaker 2: takes the kids and gets them out of the house

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Speaker 2: on Saturday morning so that you can sleep in, and

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Speaker 2: takes them to the park and takes initiative and does

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Speaker 2: all these things. He's fully capable of it. Now, is

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Speaker 2: he gonna do it the way she's gonna do it? No?

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Speaker 2: But I think sometimes what he's combating is that maternal

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Speaker 2: instinct that you're talking about, and that's not entirely fair.

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Speaker 12: Yeah, I mean, listen, I feel like there needs to

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Speaker 12: be compromised.

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Speaker 1: But at the end of the day, I just I

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Speaker 1: don't know. I don't know. I'm not saying all the

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Speaker 1: other are not capable, because they are capable.

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Speaker 12: You didn't say that, you know what I mean. It's

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Speaker 12: just different. No, I know, but I'm just echoing what

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Speaker 12: were said earlier. But I don't know, it's just different man,

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Speaker 12: you know, being a woman.

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Speaker 4: I'm just saying like it's I mean, it's eight Sundays

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Speaker 4: out of three hundred and sixty five days and it's

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00:48:00,280 --> 00:48:02,160
Speaker 4: not like back to back Sunday sometimes, you know, he's

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00:48:02,200 --> 00:48:04,759
Speaker 4: only going to home games, he's not They could be

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Speaker 4: on the road for two weeks in a row and

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Speaker 4: they're together.

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Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying every Sunday. And a lot

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00:48:09,719 --> 00:48:10,719
Speaker 1: of people are texting too.

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Speaker 12: Sorry, they're just texting and saying that, you know, she's

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00:48:12,400 --> 00:48:14,240
Speaker 12: so selfish in that, But like, why are we judging

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00:48:14,280 --> 00:48:16,280
Speaker 12: like what bothers her or like what you know doesn't

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00:48:16,280 --> 00:48:17,080
Speaker 12: work for her family?

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Speaker 1: Because I think that's not fair either.

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Speaker 12: We're all like, oh, she's so selfish, she's such a

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Speaker 12: this and that, but like we're not their family, we're

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Speaker 12: not her like that bothers her, That bothers her.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, well, and someone texted Fred being a good dad

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Speaker 2: doesn't mean you get to ignore your family one day

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00:48:28,480 --> 00:48:30,600
Speaker 2: a week. Okay, that's a little extreme, right, But I

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Speaker 2: guess I guess that's the exact point that I'm making,

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Speaker 2: is I just want to be sure that and I

1127
00:48:35,480 --> 00:48:37,399
Speaker 2: don't know these people, right, I mean they call the radio.

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Speaker 2: I don't know these people, but I want to make

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Speaker 2: sure that he's not offering up a compromise and she's

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Speaker 2: not deciding not to take it because well, I don't know,

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00:48:46,840 --> 00:48:49,840
Speaker 2: it's just it's too much work, or you know, because

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00:48:49,840 --> 00:48:52,040
Speaker 2: maybe it's that she's just not comfortable with that, and

1133
00:48:52,080 --> 00:48:55,719
Speaker 2: that's okay. But you know, just because he's gone every

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00:48:55,760 --> 00:48:58,520
Speaker 2: Sunday during football season, every other Sunday or whatever, I

1135
00:48:58,520 --> 00:49:01,560
Speaker 2: guess I don't know that that means we don't know

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00:49:01,600 --> 00:49:05,000
Speaker 2: the other side of this, is all I'm arguing. Maybe

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00:49:05,280 --> 00:49:07,040
Speaker 2: there is a compromise here and she doesn't want to

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00:49:07,040 --> 00:49:08,200
Speaker 2: take it, and he's going to have to give a

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00:49:08,239 --> 00:49:10,400
Speaker 2: little more. Maybe he doesn't get to go to every

1140
00:49:10,440 --> 00:49:12,560
Speaker 2: single game. Maybe he's going to have to give in

1141
00:49:12,600 --> 00:49:14,360
Speaker 2: a little bit more than he's already giving. But I

1142
00:49:14,360 --> 00:49:16,799
Speaker 2: think everyone's just assuming that one person or the other

1143
00:49:16,920 --> 00:49:19,040
Speaker 2: is a bad person here, or one person or the

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00:49:19,120 --> 00:49:21,919
Speaker 2: other is selfish, and I think, you know, maybe there's

1145
00:49:21,960 --> 00:49:24,960
Speaker 2: a little bit of going on on both sides where

1146
00:49:25,040 --> 00:49:27,880
Speaker 2: everyone needs to kind of rethink how this goes. Maybe

1147
00:49:28,160 --> 00:49:29,840
Speaker 2: I don't know, I don't know these people. What do

1148
00:49:29,880 --> 00:49:30,560
Speaker 2: you think that.

1149
00:49:30,600 --> 00:49:32,120
Speaker 1: Don't have a dad so I can't play this game?

1150
00:49:34,280 --> 00:49:34,760
Speaker 1: That's it.

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Speaker 2: Mike drop Okay, the entertainer of Coortse Next and it's

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Speaker 2: a minutes Fred show is on.

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Speaker 11: Karin's Entertainer Report, he is on the.

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Speaker 6: Fread show Well It's All Ray and Elligator tour guide

1155
00:49:48,239 --> 00:49:51,440
Speaker 6: Jeremy Dufree got married last week and no one was

1156
00:49:51,480 --> 00:49:53,080
Speaker 6: more surprised about that than.

1157
00:49:52,960 --> 00:49:56,120
Speaker 1: His ex so Kelly Welsh told The Daily Mail.

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00:49:56,480 --> 00:49:58,520
Speaker 6: I'm in shock because we were engaged for twelve years

1159
00:49:58,520 --> 00:49:59,919
Speaker 6: and he got married after one month.

1160
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Speaker 2: Oh his I thought somebody was saying that she was

1161
00:50:05,040 --> 00:50:07,520
Speaker 2: with a guy for twelve years, because I'm like, no,

1162
00:50:07,560 --> 00:50:09,440
Speaker 2: she stated, a whole bunch of different people. So I'm like,

1163
00:50:09,560 --> 00:50:12,799
Speaker 2: how could that be? I see his ex?

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Speaker 6: Yes, his ex Yeah, And despite being taken aback by

1165
00:50:16,280 --> 00:50:19,399
Speaker 6: the whirlwind wedding, she's flipped on us and she had

1166
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Speaker 6: really good things to say about him. She said, he's

1167
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Speaker 6: very protective, he's hard working, He's a manly man. He's

1168
00:50:24,800 --> 00:50:26,960
Speaker 6: always been a giver, so to have someone give to him,

1169
00:50:26,960 --> 00:50:29,000
Speaker 6: he deserves it. He's a very solid guy, which is

1170
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Speaker 6: not a turn I expected. And this is the best

1171
00:50:32,560 --> 00:50:35,279
Speaker 6: press that an ex can give. Because she added his

1172
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Speaker 6: ability to love and care and protect people makes him

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Speaker 6: so attractive.

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Speaker 1: So I don't know.

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Speaker 15: What, like, yeah, pleasure, what are we doing after you

1176
00:50:44,280 --> 00:50:45,560
Speaker 15: invested twelve years girl.

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Speaker 1: I know, isn't that crazy?

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Speaker 15: That's how it always happens. And it hurts so bad

1179
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Speaker 15: when he's gonna get married and too tomorrow.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, ring for seven years, Yeah, I'll be ready to go.

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00:50:58,640 --> 00:51:01,359
Speaker 1: Yeah. She even went as far as to say Lana

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00:51:01,520 --> 00:51:02,240
Speaker 1: had that diamond.

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00:51:04,920 --> 00:51:06,480
Speaker 2: I didn't give it to you, right.

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Speaker 6: Thought Lana is a good match for him though, even

1185
00:51:10,080 --> 00:51:12,719
Speaker 6: though they do seem so opposite to the rest of us,

1186
00:51:13,400 --> 00:51:15,279
Speaker 6: and said they do look like they're in love. By

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00:51:15,320 --> 00:51:17,239
Speaker 6: the way, if you didn't know, Lana and Jeremy met

1188
00:51:17,280 --> 00:51:19,960
Speaker 6: in twenty nineteen when she posted a ton of photos

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Speaker 6: from an air boat tour on Facebook with Jeremy as

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Speaker 6: the tour guide, writing, Jeremy let me be captain at

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Speaker 6: Arthur's airboat tours X, which I wonder if he's.

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00:51:30,080 --> 00:51:31,839
Speaker 1: Still working, because like, I want to go do the tour.

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Speaker 4: Was he with this X while Lanna Delray was like

1194
00:51:36,960 --> 00:51:37,799
Speaker 4: flirting with this man?

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Speaker 1: I think back, well, she took the tour.

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Speaker 6: I don't know how far the flirting went, but yeah,

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Speaker 6: I think they were together at that time, and I

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Speaker 6: don't know. I was confused, but twelve years being engaged,

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Speaker 6: I don't know. Mike tip for the day is maybe

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Speaker 6: it's not going to happen after twelve years.

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Speaker 1: I don't know.

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Speaker 6: I've never been engaged, but call me crazy. Doesn't seem

1203
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Speaker 6: like it might be coming. After that, Morgan Walland made

1204
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Speaker 6: a five hundred thousand dollars donation to the Red Cross

1205
00:51:59,520 --> 00:52:02,800
Speaker 6: for her Kine Helene relief through his Morgan Wallin Foundation.

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00:52:03,520 --> 00:52:06,480
Speaker 6: As you know, parts of Tennessee, Georgia, Florida, Virginia, and

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Speaker 6: North Carolina were decimated by the storm that hit on

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Speaker 6: September twenty seventh, with more than one hundred people already

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Speaker 6: reported dead. Many towns still are inaccessible due to washed

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Speaker 6: out roads, and parts of East Tennessee, where Morgan's from

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Speaker 6: in Southwest Virginia, got more than ten inches of rain

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Speaker 6: during the storm, while western North Carolina got off to

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Speaker 6: thirty inches. He posted on his story, writing, my family

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Speaker 6: in East Tennessee are safe, but I know many are

1215
00:52:30,360 --> 00:52:34,960
Speaker 6: absolutely devastated, and there are in multiple states. All my

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00:52:35,000 --> 00:52:39,120
Speaker 6: prayers are geared towards them tonight. Those hills and hollers

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00:52:39,160 --> 00:52:41,359
Speaker 6: are very important to me in so many ways. It's

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Speaker 6: going to take a monumental effort, and I'm in contact

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Speaker 6: with my team and others working on ways I can help.

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Speaker 6: So three dollars from every concert ticket that he sells

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00:52:49,800 --> 00:52:52,720
Speaker 6: is going to his foundation, and that's always it always

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Speaker 6: goes to this foundation, and usually the foundation helps underserved

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00:52:56,840 --> 00:53:01,280
Speaker 6: communities through supporting music and sports youth and he's donated

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Speaker 6: more than a.

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Speaker 1: Million just last year alone.

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Speaker 6: But right now he's going to focus on hurricane relief

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Speaker 6: efforts and if you can donate, it's really bad, please

1228
00:53:09,960 --> 00:53:13,040
Speaker 6: do because anything helps, and real quick. Chris Martin says

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Speaker 6: Coldplay is only going to be releasing two more proper albums.

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00:53:17,080 --> 00:53:20,239
Speaker 6: The band's dropping their tenth album, Moon Music Friday, and

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00:53:20,320 --> 00:53:22,800
Speaker 6: Chris says, we're only going to do twelve proper albums,

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Speaker 6: and that's real because less is more, and for some

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00:53:24,840 --> 00:53:26,759
Speaker 6: of our critics even less would be more.

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Speaker 1: It's really important that we have that limit.

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Speaker 6: He pointed out that Harry Potter books there's only seven,

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00:53:32,280 --> 00:53:35,400
Speaker 6: also a bunch of artists that he respects, and bands

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00:53:35,400 --> 00:53:37,640
Speaker 6: only have you know a certain amount of albums. He said,

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00:53:37,840 --> 00:53:40,600
Speaker 6: there's only twelve and a half Beatles albums. There's about

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00:53:40,600 --> 00:53:42,920
Speaker 6: the same for Bob Marley, so all of our heroes.

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Speaker 6: And also having that limit means that the quality control

1241
00:53:46,120 --> 00:53:48,000
Speaker 6: is so high right now, and for a song to

1242
00:53:48,080 --> 00:53:50,240
Speaker 6: make it, it's almost impossible, which is great.

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Speaker 1: He said that they want to improve rather than coasting.

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Speaker 6: So he did say he's not going to stop doing music,

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00:53:56,440 --> 00:53:58,600
Speaker 6: but he kind of thinks there should be a cap

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Speaker 6: on the Coldplay albums.

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Speaker 1: So there you go. An end of an era, Jason.

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Speaker 1: Anything fun on our website?

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Speaker 8: Uh?

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Speaker 1: Okay, yes, that was so excity seven years later.

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1254
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Speaker 2: I was waiting for the wrap. I was like, oh, okay.

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Speaker 2: We'll do it next. Scare Go got everybody fired up.

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00:54:41,200 --> 00:54:43,680
Speaker 2: We're getting these paragraphs from people. I have to be honest, though,

1260
00:54:43,680 --> 00:54:45,960
Speaker 2: I have to be honest. We don't know these people.

1261
00:54:46,040 --> 00:54:49,439
Speaker 2: There's a lot of projection in these messages that we're getting.

1262
00:54:49,520 --> 00:54:53,120
Speaker 2: It's a lot of people talking about their relationships and

1263
00:54:53,160 --> 00:54:57,680
Speaker 2: how women and men in their lives aren't adjusting to

1264
00:54:57,760 --> 00:55:01,200
Speaker 2: the lifestyle of being a family person. And I clearly

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00:55:01,239 --> 00:55:03,560
Speaker 2: that's an epidemic. Like, clearly it's a thing. I guess

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00:55:03,640 --> 00:55:06,040
Speaker 2: it's just in that particular example, since that guy didn't

1267
00:55:06,040 --> 00:55:08,319
Speaker 2: get to talk, I was just wondering, you know, is

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Speaker 2: this an example of him being selfish or is he

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00:55:11,280 --> 00:55:12,680
Speaker 2: trying to make up for it in other ways and

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00:55:12,719 --> 00:55:15,000
Speaker 2: she won't let him. I don't know the answer. I'm

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00:55:15,000 --> 00:55:17,600
Speaker 2: not sure, but like we're getting these paragraphs some people going,

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Speaker 2: you know, so and so is selfish, and my husband's selfish,

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Speaker 2: and my husband doesn't do this, and my husband doesn't

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00:55:22,640 --> 00:55:26,080
Speaker 2: do that. Look, that's unacceptable, Like you can't live like

1275
00:55:26,080 --> 00:55:28,160
Speaker 2: you're a single person when you have a family. You can't.

1276
00:55:28,640 --> 00:55:32,520
Speaker 2: But at the same time, people seem very triggered by

1277
00:55:32,600 --> 00:55:38,960
Speaker 2: drinking in football, and if we're being really honest, remove

1278
00:55:39,000 --> 00:55:41,400
Speaker 2: the drinking, and you know, what are the things that

1279
00:55:41,440 --> 00:55:43,480
Speaker 2: other people are doing, whether it's male or female, in

1280
00:55:43,480 --> 00:55:46,359
Speaker 2: their lives that take up time that could be spent

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00:55:46,440 --> 00:55:48,720
Speaker 2: as a family unit, whether there's drinking or no drinking,

1282
00:55:48,760 --> 00:55:50,719
Speaker 2: or whether there's football or no football. Like you know,

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00:55:50,880 --> 00:55:52,719
Speaker 2: for a lot of women, football doesn't mean anything for

1284
00:55:52,719 --> 00:55:54,799
Speaker 2: a lot of women going out. And I'm just saying,

1285
00:55:54,840 --> 00:55:57,200
Speaker 2: in this particular example, for a lot of you know,

1286
00:55:57,400 --> 00:56:00,719
Speaker 2: watching sports on Sunday is a waste of time. Okay, Well,

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Speaker 2: I guess then for a lot of men, you could

1288
00:56:02,960 --> 00:56:05,719
Speaker 2: argue that some other form of camaraderie would be a

1289
00:56:05,760 --> 00:56:07,640
Speaker 2: waste of time. Or how about we don't argue about

1290
00:56:07,640 --> 00:56:11,239
Speaker 2: that at all. How about we don't quantify, you know,

1291
00:56:11,400 --> 00:56:13,960
Speaker 2: each other's the things that make each other happy, and

1292
00:56:14,000 --> 00:56:17,480
Speaker 2: we figure out a way that's fair and equitable that

1293
00:56:17,560 --> 00:56:19,440
Speaker 2: you get to do your thing without judgment, and I

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Speaker 2: get to do my thing without judgment, and nobody feels

1295
00:56:21,760 --> 00:56:24,719
Speaker 2: left out, and nobody feels like there's an imbalance. Yeah,

1296
00:56:24,800 --> 00:56:29,120
Speaker 2: but the football sports thing has always I think it's

1297
00:56:29,160 --> 00:56:32,440
Speaker 2: like sense that you know, til tales old as time

1298
00:56:33,200 --> 00:56:35,399
Speaker 2: has been. I can't believe you sit there and watch

1299
00:56:35,440 --> 00:56:37,719
Speaker 2: that crap all day. Well I could, I suppose, and

1300
00:56:37,760 --> 00:56:40,160
Speaker 2: I'm not doing this because I do it. I suppose

1301
00:56:40,200 --> 00:56:41,880
Speaker 2: I could turn around and say something that's, you know,

1302
00:56:41,920 --> 00:56:44,160
Speaker 2: more stereotypically female, like, oh, I can't believe you sit

1303
00:56:44,200 --> 00:56:47,120
Speaker 2: around and watch Desperate Housewives or Real Housewives or or

1304
00:56:47,480 --> 00:56:49,400
Speaker 2: any of these other shows all day. I would not

1305
00:56:49,520 --> 00:56:52,319
Speaker 2: do that because if that's how you decompress, then more

1306
00:56:52,360 --> 00:56:56,160
Speaker 2: power to you. If it's if you're not watching your

1307
00:56:56,200 --> 00:56:58,040
Speaker 2: kids to do it, how is that any better than

1308
00:56:58,080 --> 00:57:00,960
Speaker 2: me watching football not watching my kids. Again, I don't

1309
00:57:01,000 --> 00:57:02,520
Speaker 2: mean to make this a gender thing, nor do I

1310
00:57:02,560 --> 00:57:06,160
Speaker 2: mean to make it an epidemic, but I definitely think

1311
00:57:06,160 --> 00:57:09,120
Speaker 2: we need to make sure we're not quantifying based on

1312
00:57:09,200 --> 00:57:12,080
Speaker 2: the nature of the activity, because if everyone's getting to

1313
00:57:12,080 --> 00:57:15,919
Speaker 2: do their thing right, then yeah, everything should be okay, right.

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00:57:16,000 --> 00:57:18,880
Speaker 12: Yeah, it's important for both parties, mom and dad to

1315
00:57:19,120 --> 00:57:22,160
Speaker 12: you know, do things outside of the home for themselves, right, Friends,

1316
00:57:22,200 --> 00:57:24,160
Speaker 12: whatever it might be, whatever it makes you happy. Someone

1317
00:57:24,200 --> 00:57:25,680
Speaker 12: did text this in though, and I think this really

1318
00:57:25,760 --> 00:57:28,120
Speaker 12: nails it for me at least, or from what I'm understanding,

1319
00:57:28,400 --> 00:57:31,400
Speaker 12: is that you know, he met, they met, whye whatever,

1320
00:57:31,480 --> 00:57:33,200
Speaker 12: years ago, they got married, and this was you know,

1321
00:57:33,240 --> 00:57:35,360
Speaker 12: his thing before they even knew each other, which is okay,

1322
00:57:35,400 --> 00:57:36,840
Speaker 12: I get you, but someone that doesn't.

1323
00:57:36,600 --> 00:57:37,200
Speaker 1: Really mean anything.

1324
00:57:37,240 --> 00:57:39,480
Speaker 12: And I kind of agree because they're saying that whatever

1325
00:57:39,600 --> 00:57:41,680
Speaker 12: she wants to do probably hasn't forgotten and left behind,

1326
00:57:41,720 --> 00:57:43,360
Speaker 12: and I think that happens for a lot of moms.

1327
00:57:43,360 --> 00:57:44,920
Speaker 12: I'm just speaking for a lot of moms, and I'm

1328
00:57:45,000 --> 00:57:47,000
Speaker 12: not me in particular, because I still will do what

1329
00:57:47,040 --> 00:57:48,680
Speaker 12: I want to do. But I know a lot of

1330
00:57:48,720 --> 00:57:51,520
Speaker 12: moms have lost that quote, their identity, things that made

1331
00:57:51,520 --> 00:57:54,480
Speaker 12: them happy, So that could also she could be projecting totally,

1332
00:57:54,520 --> 00:57:56,680
Speaker 12: but this also could be deeper than just football.

1333
00:57:57,880 --> 00:57:59,760
Speaker 2: Do you think there are men out there who feel

1334
00:57:59,800 --> 00:58:03,400
Speaker 2: like whether it's football or golf or any other thing,

1335
00:58:03,480 --> 00:58:04,840
Speaker 2: do you think there are men out there who feel

1336
00:58:04,840 --> 00:58:06,240
Speaker 2: the same way? Do you think there are men who

1337
00:58:06,240 --> 00:58:10,200
Speaker 2: feel that they've lost some aspect of individuality?

1338
00:58:10,240 --> 00:58:12,840
Speaker 1: I agree, but I do I'm a ride. I'm a

1339
00:58:12,920 --> 00:58:13,520
Speaker 1: ride with this one.

1340
00:58:13,560 --> 00:58:15,520
Speaker 12: I do think it's the mother, the mom who loses

1341
00:58:15,520 --> 00:58:17,160
Speaker 12: the identity more I've seen it.

1342
00:58:17,160 --> 00:58:19,320
Speaker 1: It's true, it happens, and it's easy too.

1343
00:58:19,440 --> 00:58:21,520
Speaker 2: You know, I can't speak to it, I mean as

1344
00:58:21,520 --> 00:58:23,760
Speaker 2: a firsthand I can only speak to it observationally. But

1345
00:58:23,800 --> 00:58:27,800
Speaker 2: I just I guess, again, seeing great examples of men

1346
00:58:28,120 --> 00:58:30,440
Speaker 2: in my life who are great fathers and make a

1347
00:58:30,480 --> 00:58:34,200
Speaker 2: lot of sacrifice, you know, I guess you may not

1348
00:58:34,440 --> 00:58:36,680
Speaker 2: understand what it is they want to do or why,

1349
00:58:36,720 --> 00:58:38,280
Speaker 2: but they don't have to understand what you want to

1350
00:58:38,280 --> 00:58:40,520
Speaker 2: do or why nobody should be asking questions as long

1351
00:58:40,560 --> 00:58:43,240
Speaker 2: as it's fair and equitable and everything's getting taken care of,

1352
00:58:43,320 --> 00:58:46,240
Speaker 2: and if that's not happening, then that's the problem.

1353
00:58:46,360 --> 00:58:48,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's why that's true.

1354
00:58:48,760 --> 00:58:52,320
Speaker 2: But these responses I'm seeing are very specific and very pointed,

1355
00:58:52,480 --> 00:58:55,160
Speaker 2: and I think you know, that's a shame. It's a

1356
00:58:55,160 --> 00:58:57,760
Speaker 2: shame if if if it's if there are a bunch

1357
00:58:57,800 --> 00:58:59,360
Speaker 2: of if in fact, there are a bunch of men

1358
00:58:59,360 --> 00:59:03,160
Speaker 2: out there who negate their duties to watch football and

1359
00:59:03,200 --> 00:59:05,160
Speaker 2: get drunk. I don't know if it's that simple, though,

1360
00:59:05,200 --> 00:59:07,560
Speaker 2: but it does seem that way on the text Let's

1361
00:59:07,600 --> 00:59:10,280
Speaker 2: come back. We'll do the showdown for five hundred and

1362
00:59:10,320 --> 00:59:12,880
Speaker 2: fifty bucks next waiting metaphone from the vault. Fun fact,

1363
00:59:12,920 --> 00:59:19,200
Speaker 2: the entertainer report is all the more fread show Next. Wait,

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00:59:19,920 --> 00:59:22,400
Speaker 2: good morning everyone, Thank you so much for waking up

1365
00:59:22,400 --> 00:59:24,320
Speaker 2: with us on the radio. The iHeart Apple Get to

1366
00:59:24,320 --> 00:59:26,120
Speaker 2: show Viz Shelley in just a second. Five hundred and

1367
00:59:26,120 --> 00:59:28,920
Speaker 2: fifty bucks is the prize. Waiting metaphone from the vault.

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00:59:28,960 --> 00:59:31,800
Speaker 2: Why did somebody get ghosted? We'll do it next. If

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00:59:31,800 --> 00:59:33,760
Speaker 2: you love waiting, Our TikTok is where to Go, The

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Speaker 2: Fread Show, TikTok, The Entertainer Report trending story is fun

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Speaker 2: Fact all coming up? What are you working on?

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Speaker 6: K Ariana Grande is opening up about her relationship. Yeah,

1373
00:59:42,520 --> 00:59:45,280
Speaker 6: she's still dating that little man from Spongebox.

1374
00:59:46,000 --> 00:59:48,240
Speaker 1: So Fread show.

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00:59:49,640 --> 00:59:52,120
Speaker 11: Do you have what it takes to battle show biz?

1376
00:59:52,200 --> 00:59:54,560
Speaker 11: Shelley in the show Biz Showdown, So.

1377
00:59:55,440 --> 01:00:00,800
Speaker 1: Be Sorry, got you awesome?

1378
01:00:00,800 --> 01:00:07,440
Speaker 2: Wor took a different spin. Today's some different high shells.

1379
01:00:07,440 --> 01:00:07,880
Speaker 2: Good morning.

1380
01:00:08,400 --> 01:00:08,520
Speaker 13: Hi.

1381
01:00:09,840 --> 01:00:11,760
Speaker 2: You hear this debate about parenting and you're like, yeah,

1382
01:00:11,840 --> 01:00:14,160
Speaker 2: my husband's in the military and he's gone twenty seven

1383
01:00:14,200 --> 01:00:14,840
Speaker 2: months out of the year.

1384
01:00:14,880 --> 01:00:17,000
Speaker 6: So well, that's why I feel like so Jay, because

1385
01:00:17,000 --> 01:00:19,800
Speaker 6: my husband works once a week, like overnight, so I'm

1386
01:00:19,840 --> 01:00:20,680
Speaker 6: just fully in charge.

1387
01:00:20,760 --> 01:00:22,960
Speaker 1: He goes away for weeks at a time monster, So

1388
01:00:23,000 --> 01:00:24,720
Speaker 1: I feel yeah.

1389
01:00:25,760 --> 01:00:31,120
Speaker 4: Pictures and visa Yeah, yeah, dude.

1390
01:00:31,400 --> 01:00:31,600
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1391
01:00:31,640 --> 01:00:33,760
Speaker 2: Shelley gets on the radio and goes, yeah, my my

1392
01:00:33,840 --> 01:00:35,280
Speaker 2: husband's top what's his rank?

1393
01:00:36,560 --> 01:00:37,160
Speaker 1: Lieutenant?

1394
01:00:37,560 --> 01:00:40,080
Speaker 2: He's a lieutenant. He's in a top secret location right now.

1395
01:00:40,120 --> 01:00:41,520
Speaker 2: I don't even know what he's doing. And I'm like, well,

1396
01:00:41,520 --> 01:00:43,800
Speaker 2: that's funny because on his Instagram it's him flexing on

1397
01:00:43,840 --> 01:00:51,320
Speaker 2: a beach in a bisa. I know what he's doing. Hey, Sage,

1398
01:00:51,440 --> 01:00:52,840
Speaker 2: good morning. How you doing, Sage?

1399
01:00:55,000 --> 01:00:55,720
Speaker 13: Oh pretty good?

1400
01:00:56,240 --> 01:00:58,240
Speaker 2: Hey, thank you for hanging on. Let's play the game.

1401
01:00:58,280 --> 01:01:01,560
Speaker 2: It's five questions pop culture questions against their expert show

1402
01:01:01,640 --> 01:01:03,640
Speaker 2: up his Shelley. Five hundred and fifty bucks is the prize,

1403
01:01:03,680 --> 01:01:05,880
Speaker 2: ninety eight and sixty four is the record, and she

1404
01:01:06,000 --> 01:01:07,480
Speaker 2: is on a six game win streak.

1405
01:01:07,480 --> 01:01:09,560
Speaker 1: Good luck, guys, all right, Sage? Good buck.

1406
01:01:11,960 --> 01:01:13,960
Speaker 2: Okay are you always saying? Are you? Are you working?

1407
01:01:14,000 --> 01:01:15,240
Speaker 2: Are you in jail? What's going on?

1408
01:01:16,680 --> 01:01:17,720
Speaker 1: No, I'm just nervous.

1409
01:01:17,960 --> 01:01:21,200
Speaker 2: Oh no, don't be nervous. No one listens to this crap.

1410
01:01:21,280 --> 01:01:25,120
Speaker 2: It's fine. Question number one, Which Pitch Perfect actors got

1411
01:01:25,160 --> 01:01:27,240
Speaker 2: married in Italy over the weekend.

1412
01:01:30,360 --> 01:01:30,640
Speaker 4: Three?

1413
01:01:31,800 --> 01:01:35,320
Speaker 1: Two, one, Okay, we have four left.

1414
01:01:35,360 --> 01:01:38,120
Speaker 2: We're good. Which singer jokes about her link to the

1415
01:01:38,160 --> 01:01:41,960
Speaker 2: New York City Mayor's indictment during her concert there on

1416
01:01:42,080 --> 01:01:49,120
Speaker 2: Sunday three. She likes the way it tastes and the

1417
01:01:49,240 --> 01:01:53,600
Speaker 2: please please bet cam and then and then she likes

1418
01:01:53,640 --> 01:01:57,960
Speaker 2: it espresso. Yes, we'll take that. Yeah, sure that that

1419
01:01:58,000 --> 01:02:01,320
Speaker 2: works for me. We can speak in word. That's Gwyneth

1420
01:02:01,360 --> 01:02:04,400
Speaker 2: Paltrow celebrated her six year wedding anniversary with a photo

1421
01:02:04,440 --> 01:02:07,280
Speaker 2: of she and her husband Brad. I'm not evenna try

1422
01:02:07,320 --> 01:02:12,040
Speaker 2: and say that name Falca. What is the name of

1423
01:02:12,120 --> 01:02:16,280
Speaker 2: the health and wellness company that she founded, Gwyneth Paltrow's company?

1424
01:02:16,320 --> 01:02:16,720
Speaker 2: What is it?

1425
01:02:19,520 --> 01:02:21,600
Speaker 1: Three? Two?

1426
01:02:24,360 --> 01:02:25,920
Speaker 2: Okay? Good? I was gonna say, say a word if

1427
01:02:25,920 --> 01:02:28,880
Speaker 2: you're okay, say a word if you're okay. Model in

1428
01:02:28,960 --> 01:02:32,680
Speaker 2: former Miss Universe Olivia Colpo and her NFL star husband

1429
01:02:32,920 --> 01:02:37,600
Speaker 2: bought George Clooney's La home. What is Olivia's husband's name?

1430
01:02:38,440 --> 01:02:43,440
Speaker 2: He plays for Belhamin's favorite team.

1431
01:02:43,600 --> 01:02:47,600
Speaker 1: He's a Christian? Yeah, three Christian?

1432
01:02:48,320 --> 01:02:49,480
Speaker 13: Christian meant something?

1433
01:02:49,520 --> 01:02:52,560
Speaker 1: I know, yep, Christian. That's yep, that's him, yep?

1434
01:02:52,800 --> 01:02:55,920
Speaker 2: Good? Yeah, sure, one not? And which actor reprised his

1435
01:02:56,040 --> 01:02:59,640
Speaker 2: role as Captain Jack Sparrow at a children's hospital in Spain.

1436
01:03:02,560 --> 01:03:05,880
Speaker 1: Three two Jacks Barrow.

1437
01:03:05,480 --> 01:03:10,840
Speaker 2: Okay, that's a too ish sort of Yeah. Let's bring

1438
01:03:10,840 --> 01:03:13,440
Speaker 2: Shelly back. Let's see how this goes from the samboo.

1439
01:03:13,080 --> 01:03:14,480
Speaker 1: Poof how did she do?

1440
01:03:14,760 --> 01:03:17,080
Speaker 2: Answer? Within? She got a two.

1441
01:03:17,000 --> 01:03:19,360
Speaker 1: Kind of two kind of Okay.

1442
01:03:19,040 --> 01:03:21,000
Speaker 2: It's a two. It's it's a blurry too, it's a

1443
01:03:21,040 --> 01:03:24,840
Speaker 2: two ish sort of which Pitch Perfect actress got married

1444
01:03:24,840 --> 01:03:26,160
Speaker 2: in Italy over the weekend.

1445
01:03:27,880 --> 01:03:29,720
Speaker 1: Rebel Wilson Yeah, Which.

1446
01:03:29,480 --> 01:03:31,479
Speaker 2: Singer jokes about her link to the New York City

1447
01:03:31,520 --> 01:03:33,560
Speaker 2: mayor's indictment during her concert there.

1448
01:03:33,600 --> 01:03:36,360
Speaker 1: On Sunday, Sabrina Carpenter Yeah.

1449
01:03:36,400 --> 01:03:38,960
Speaker 2: Gwyneth Paltro celebrated her six year wedding anniversary with a

1450
01:03:39,000 --> 01:03:41,040
Speaker 2: photo of she and her husband. What is the name

1451
01:03:41,120 --> 01:03:45,760
Speaker 2: of the health and wellness company that she founded goop? Yeah?

1452
01:03:45,880 --> 01:03:49,280
Speaker 2: Model in former Miss Universe Olivia Colfo and her NFL

1453
01:03:49,360 --> 01:03:53,240
Speaker 2: star husband bought George Kooney's La home. What is Olivia's

1454
01:03:53,480 --> 01:03:54,320
Speaker 2: husband's name?

1455
01:03:56,320 --> 01:03:59,880
Speaker 1: Christian McCafferty, No, McMath.

1456
01:04:02,520 --> 01:04:05,920
Speaker 2: You already won? Which Active reprised this role as Captain

1457
01:04:06,000 --> 01:04:08,680
Speaker 2: Jack Sparrow at a children's hospital in Spain.

1458
01:04:09,800 --> 01:04:10,439
Speaker 1: Johnny Depp.

1459
01:04:10,960 --> 01:04:13,040
Speaker 2: That's it. That's a win. Was a four to four

1460
01:04:13,200 --> 01:04:17,760
Speaker 2: point four. That's a win. Nice job, Shells. Stage, you

1461
01:04:17,840 --> 01:04:19,800
Speaker 2: gotta say it. My name is Sage. I got showed

1462
01:04:19,840 --> 01:04:21,200
Speaker 2: up on a showdown. You know the rest.

1463
01:04:23,240 --> 01:04:26,440
Speaker 1: Okay, my name is Stage and I got showed up

1464
01:04:26,480 --> 01:04:27,280
Speaker 1: in the showdown.

1465
01:04:29,680 --> 01:04:33,840
Speaker 2: Okay, that's okay, that's all right, and you Sage can't

1466
01:04:33,840 --> 01:04:48,240
Speaker 2: hang with a garrilla Sage was just a little nervous. Understandable.

1467
01:04:48,600 --> 01:04:53,280
Speaker 2: I get nervous every single day stage. I'm nervous right

1468
01:04:53,280 --> 01:04:54,520
Speaker 2: now talking to you, Sage.

1469
01:04:54,640 --> 01:04:58,760
Speaker 1: I am, yeah, you know.

1470
01:04:58,880 --> 01:04:59,320
Speaker 14: Much of us.

1471
01:05:00,160 --> 01:05:03,960
Speaker 2: That's okay, hang on stage. Have a good day, Shelley.

1472
01:05:04,320 --> 01:05:06,520
Speaker 2: There you go. And by the way, these guys were

1473
01:05:06,560 --> 01:05:09,040
Speaker 2: the ones feeding her answers. Not me, not me, not me,

1474
01:05:09,320 --> 01:05:09,919
Speaker 2: not this time?

1475
01:05:09,920 --> 01:05:12,040
Speaker 1: All right, that's all right, that's all right.

1476
01:05:12,480 --> 01:05:14,240
Speaker 2: I thought out of nowhere stage was going to pop

1477
01:05:14,320 --> 01:05:16,280
Speaker 2: up and start just ripping them off, and I'd be like,

1478
01:05:16,360 --> 01:05:19,760
Speaker 2: damn it, let me give her all the end. No

1479
01:05:19,880 --> 01:05:23,160
Speaker 2: I didn't. I didn't. Actually, six hundred bucks is the prize,

1480
01:05:23,200 --> 01:05:26,880
Speaker 2: nine sixty four seven straight for Shell's nice job. How

1481
01:05:26,880 --> 01:05:29,120
Speaker 2: about you come back tomorrow we do it again.

1482
01:05:29,280 --> 01:05:30,280
Speaker 1: Sure sounds great.

1483
01:05:30,280 --> 01:05:31,560
Speaker 2: All right, have a good day, Shell.

1484
01:05:31,640 --> 01:05:32,840
Speaker 1: That okay, you too.

1485
01:05:32,880 --> 01:05:36,600
Speaker 2: By all right, the entertainment report is coming up. Trending

1486
01:05:36,640 --> 01:05:39,080
Speaker 2: stories are coming up as well. The fun fact is

1487
01:05:39,080 --> 01:05:40,720
Speaker 2: on the way. We'll get to waiting by the phone

1488
01:05:40,840 --> 01:05:43,400
Speaker 2: next after Teddy swims back at two minutes Fred's Show.

1489
01:05:46,920 --> 01:05:51,920
Speaker 2: Ever been left waiting by the phone. It's the Fred Show. Shane,

1490
01:05:51,920 --> 01:05:54,280
Speaker 2: good morning, welcome, thank you for having me. Hey, it's

1491
01:05:54,280 --> 01:05:57,200
Speaker 2: our pleasure waiting by the phone. Shane phillis in on

1492
01:05:57,240 --> 01:06:01,280
Speaker 2: this date with Kira. Tell us what happened on the days,

1493
01:06:01,400 --> 01:06:03,320
Speaker 2: give us some background on how you met, and then

1494
01:06:03,360 --> 01:06:05,000
Speaker 2: tell us what's going on now, and we'll see how

1495
01:06:05,040 --> 01:06:05,800
Speaker 2: we can help.

1496
01:06:06,560 --> 01:06:09,880
Speaker 13: As quickly as possible. I met her on Hinge, took

1497
01:06:09,880 --> 01:06:13,320
Speaker 13: her out for drinks and we had fun. And normally,

1498
01:06:13,360 --> 01:06:15,120
Speaker 13: if you don't hear back from a girl, you got to.

1499
01:06:15,120 --> 01:06:15,880
Speaker 2: Take that on the chin.

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01:06:16,480 --> 01:06:22,880
Speaker 13: But the date we connected in the conversation was so effortless.

1501
01:06:23,040 --> 01:06:25,320
Speaker 13: There was no awkward silences.

1502
01:06:24,840 --> 01:06:25,520
Speaker 11: At any point.

1503
01:06:26,040 --> 01:06:28,320
Speaker 13: And I can't even begin to tell you how well

1504
01:06:28,320 --> 01:06:30,320
Speaker 13: I was, like, oh my gosh, I am clicking with

1505
01:06:30,400 --> 01:06:33,920
Speaker 13: this person on such an intimate level, really really quickly.

1506
01:06:34,280 --> 01:06:38,960
Speaker 13: And then after two calls and a couple of texts.

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01:06:38,880 --> 01:06:44,560
Speaker 2: Nothing, Wow. I listen to this energy. You sound like

1508
01:06:44,600 --> 01:06:47,360
Speaker 2: you're into it. You sound like you're engaged. What is

1509
01:06:47,480 --> 01:06:56,160
Speaker 2: not to like about Shane? Amen, there's something something. Okay,

1510
01:06:56,200 --> 01:06:57,919
Speaker 2: So you were excited about her, you wanted to see

1511
01:06:57,920 --> 01:07:00,600
Speaker 2: her again. You've reached out and she is not responding

1512
01:07:00,640 --> 01:07:04,520
Speaker 2: at all. You're being completely ghosted. Correct. Okay, Let's call

1513
01:07:04,920 --> 01:07:06,520
Speaker 2: Kira and we'll see if we can get her on

1514
01:07:06,560 --> 01:07:08,400
Speaker 2: the phone, and we'll ask some questions for you. You'll

1515
01:07:08,440 --> 01:07:10,160
Speaker 2: be on the phone as well. At some point you're

1516
01:07:10,160 --> 01:07:12,200
Speaker 2: welcome to jump in on the call. But hopefully we

1517
01:07:12,240 --> 01:07:14,240
Speaker 2: can figure out what's going on. Maybe there's a good

1518
01:07:14,240 --> 01:07:16,520
Speaker 2: reason why she hasn't called you back. We can set

1519
01:07:16,560 --> 01:07:19,040
Speaker 2: you guys up on another day. We can pay for it,

1520
01:07:19,080 --> 01:07:23,320
Speaker 2: and then everybody's happening. Hang on one second, Shan, We'll

1521
01:07:23,320 --> 01:07:24,720
Speaker 2: be right back and to play a song. We'll come

1522
01:07:24,720 --> 01:07:27,000
Speaker 2: back and today let's art what's going on? Court to

1523
01:07:27,000 --> 01:07:28,840
Speaker 2: you have? Wad you bet the phone? After David Getta

1524
01:07:28,960 --> 01:07:31,120
Speaker 2: and Sue mix, we'll do it the French. You always

1525
01:07:31,160 --> 01:07:35,400
Speaker 2: a del lou Hey, Shane, Yes, all right, let's call Kira.

1526
01:07:35,720 --> 01:07:38,640
Speaker 2: You guys, you met on a dating app and you

1527
01:07:38,680 --> 01:07:40,840
Speaker 2: went out and you really felt good about this date.

1528
01:07:40,880 --> 01:07:43,040
Speaker 2: You felt like it was a strong connection, that there

1529
01:07:43,120 --> 01:07:46,120
Speaker 2: was chemistry. Except now Kira is ghosting you this This

1530
01:07:46,120 --> 01:07:47,600
Speaker 2: woman's not calling you back at all, and you want

1531
01:07:47,600 --> 01:07:57,600
Speaker 2: to know why exactly. Let's call her now, good luck? Hello,

1532
01:07:58,280 --> 01:07:59,040
Speaker 2: Hi is iss Kira?

1533
01:07:59,480 --> 01:07:59,880
Speaker 10: It air?

1534
01:08:00,600 --> 01:08:00,760
Speaker 11: Hi?

1535
01:08:00,840 --> 01:08:02,440
Speaker 2: Here a good morning Fred from the Friend Show. The

1536
01:08:02,440 --> 01:08:04,000
Speaker 2: whole crew is here and I'm sorry to bother you,

1537
01:08:04,080 --> 01:08:05,240
Speaker 2: but I do have to tell you that we are

1538
01:08:05,280 --> 01:08:06,960
Speaker 2: on the radio right now and I would need your

1539
01:08:06,960 --> 01:08:08,760
Speaker 2: consent and continue with the calls. That okay if we

1540
01:08:08,840 --> 01:08:09,600
Speaker 2: chat for a second.

1541
01:08:11,600 --> 01:08:13,200
Speaker 1: Yeah sure, I know.

1542
01:08:13,240 --> 01:08:14,920
Speaker 2: It's weird, but thank you so much. We're calling on

1543
01:08:14,960 --> 01:08:19,040
Speaker 2: behalf of a guy named Shane who says he met

1544
01:08:19,040 --> 01:08:20,479
Speaker 2: you on a dating app and took you out. Do

1545
01:08:20,479 --> 01:08:21,200
Speaker 2: you remember this guy?

1546
01:08:22,040 --> 01:08:25,240
Speaker 14: Oh my god, yes, I couldnot forget that kind.

1547
01:08:25,280 --> 01:08:28,600
Speaker 2: Okay, here comes the story. Well, he told us that

1548
01:08:28,680 --> 01:08:30,400
Speaker 2: he thought the date went really well, and then he

1549
01:08:30,560 --> 01:08:32,200
Speaker 2: liked you and that he was hoping to hear from

1550
01:08:32,240 --> 01:08:35,719
Speaker 2: you again and says that he hasn't. So what happened. Yeah,

1551
01:08:35,880 --> 01:08:36,240
Speaker 2: so the.

1552
01:08:36,280 --> 01:08:40,960
Speaker 14: Date was going really well actually, and up until the

1553
01:08:41,000 --> 01:08:43,920
Speaker 14: point where we were talking about like family and how

1554
01:08:43,960 --> 01:08:48,000
Speaker 14: we grew up. And then he disclosed that he grew

1555
01:08:48,080 --> 01:08:52,400
Speaker 14: up in a naked household and that is like entire

1556
01:08:52,400 --> 01:08:53,880
Speaker 14: family would walk around naked.

1557
01:08:54,080 --> 01:08:54,839
Speaker 2: They were dusts.

1558
01:08:55,680 --> 01:08:58,240
Speaker 1: Yes, same, Yeah, I didn't realize that was a thing.

1559
01:08:58,400 --> 01:09:00,719
Speaker 2: So nobody at home, Like some will take their shoes

1560
01:09:00,720 --> 01:09:02,960
Speaker 2: off when they go home, Like these people take off

1561
01:09:03,000 --> 01:09:04,520
Speaker 2: all their clothes, all of it.

1562
01:09:04,920 --> 01:09:08,920
Speaker 14: Yeah, like full on news like everything, like.

1563
01:09:09,000 --> 01:09:12,599
Speaker 6: Yeah, parents and the kids and until the whole family.

1564
01:09:13,040 --> 01:09:15,960
Speaker 2: Huh yeah, and so why why would he tell you this?

1565
01:09:16,040 --> 01:09:18,400
Speaker 2: Because is that how he still lives, like he goes home.

1566
01:09:18,439 --> 01:09:21,479
Speaker 1: And we were just kind of yeah, like I don't know.

1567
01:09:21,479 --> 01:09:23,280
Speaker 14: We were just kind of talking about, like, you know,

1568
01:09:23,439 --> 01:09:25,800
Speaker 14: just things that had happened as we were growing up

1569
01:09:25,840 --> 01:09:30,760
Speaker 14: and just like our family dynamics. And yeah, that is

1570
01:09:30,960 --> 01:09:35,320
Speaker 14: not at all what I hadn't like anticipated him saying.

1571
01:09:35,520 --> 01:09:39,920
Speaker 14: And so I just was very weirded out by the

1572
01:09:39,960 --> 01:09:41,680
Speaker 14: whole situation, and like.

1573
01:09:42,040 --> 01:09:43,880
Speaker 2: Well, Kira, I forgot to mention the chain is here,

1574
01:09:44,160 --> 01:09:47,200
Speaker 2: shame uh, weird things to bring up on a date.

1575
01:09:47,280 --> 01:09:50,160
Speaker 2: At what point did this stop? Or or when you

1576
01:09:50,200 --> 01:09:52,120
Speaker 2: go to college when you're eighteen or something that's when

1577
01:09:52,120 --> 01:09:52,599
Speaker 2: it stopped.

1578
01:09:53,720 --> 01:09:57,719
Speaker 13: I don't think there's anything shameful or embarrassing about nudity.

1579
01:09:57,760 --> 01:09:59,840
Speaker 13: I guess I should probably state that.

1580
01:10:00,120 --> 01:10:01,839
Speaker 1: Yeah, I didn't.

1581
01:10:00,760 --> 01:10:02,599
Speaker 2: I didn't know.

1582
01:10:02,479 --> 01:10:06,160
Speaker 13: That that was the that was the issue. It's just

1583
01:10:06,280 --> 01:10:09,400
Speaker 13: come on, yeah, yeah, I have I have zero body

1584
01:10:09,400 --> 01:10:13,080
Speaker 13: image or issues of any kind. Either my older brother

1585
01:10:13,160 --> 01:10:14,080
Speaker 13: or my younger sister.

1586
01:10:15,840 --> 01:10:18,679
Speaker 1: Everyone's like, do you do everyone really cool?

1587
01:10:19,360 --> 01:10:20,880
Speaker 2: Yeah? I mean when you go home to visit the

1588
01:10:20,880 --> 01:10:22,880
Speaker 2: family and you know, you guys break bread. Are you

1589
01:10:22,920 --> 01:10:23,439
Speaker 2: all nude?

1590
01:10:25,439 --> 01:10:29,360
Speaker 13: There's not a rule. It's what you're comfortable at any point.

1591
01:10:29,360 --> 01:10:30,760
Speaker 1: Stop if you want.

1592
01:10:33,600 --> 01:10:36,320
Speaker 13: I think you guys have weird, weird body issues.

1593
01:10:36,400 --> 01:10:40,240
Speaker 2: Fall I don't want to know. Maybe we're just modest people.

1594
01:10:40,280 --> 01:10:42,040
Speaker 2: I don't think it. I think that you could be

1595
01:10:42,080 --> 01:10:45,080
Speaker 2: body positive and not have your wang hanging out in

1596
01:10:45,120 --> 01:10:46,000
Speaker 2: front of your mom and dad.

1597
01:10:46,120 --> 01:10:47,439
Speaker 1: Yeah, I walk around naked a lot.

1598
01:10:48,840 --> 01:10:52,200
Speaker 13: Seem like that you automatically go to like potty humor.

1599
01:10:52,280 --> 01:10:57,519
Speaker 1: No, dude, it's just being comfortable. I mean, it's like

1600
01:10:57,800 --> 01:11:00,639
Speaker 1: it's weird. It's a humor like you're.

1601
01:11:00,680 --> 01:11:02,479
Speaker 2: Yeah, you said what you're saying you do. You're saying

1602
01:11:02,520 --> 01:11:04,479
Speaker 2: you guys all don't wear clothes at home, that's what

1603
01:11:04,520 --> 01:11:04,960
Speaker 2: you're doing.

1604
01:11:05,160 --> 01:11:07,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, when your mom would cook as she was, she

1605
01:11:07,479 --> 01:11:13,320
Speaker 1: just sweater. Yeahsul wear apron.

1606
01:11:13,439 --> 01:11:15,599
Speaker 13: You wear an apron to cover sensitive areas.

1607
01:11:15,640 --> 01:11:17,800
Speaker 1: But how could I have not known?

1608
01:11:18,120 --> 01:11:20,200
Speaker 4: I told you wear an apron to cover your clothes

1609
01:11:20,200 --> 01:11:23,360
Speaker 4: from getting stained on, not your naked skin, not your song.

1610
01:11:24,240 --> 01:11:27,519
Speaker 12: Okay, so yes, like we've all probably seen our parents

1611
01:11:27,520 --> 01:11:29,040
Speaker 12: at some point whatever, Like our mom's naked.

1612
01:11:29,120 --> 01:11:30,200
Speaker 1: We were kids, and I.

1613
01:11:30,160 --> 01:11:32,519
Speaker 12: Get that, right, Like we've all done that. We want

1614
01:11:32,520 --> 01:11:33,680
Speaker 12: to forget, we want to forget it.

1615
01:11:33,680 --> 01:11:35,760
Speaker 1: So why are you still doing this into adulthood? You

1616
01:11:35,760 --> 01:11:37,439
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, like I is.

1617
01:11:37,360 --> 01:11:41,479
Speaker 2: That he's body positive. So that's what this is about

1618
01:11:41,520 --> 01:11:41,960
Speaker 2: the future.

1619
01:11:42,960 --> 01:11:44,880
Speaker 13: I think you guys have a lot of hang ups

1620
01:11:44,920 --> 01:11:47,280
Speaker 13: and a lot of issues, and I don't have that

1621
01:11:47,360 --> 01:11:47,840
Speaker 13: at all.

1622
01:11:48,400 --> 01:11:50,080
Speaker 1: That's true.

1623
01:11:50,680 --> 01:11:53,719
Speaker 14: I couldn't imagine like meeting his parents for the first

1624
01:11:53,760 --> 01:11:56,920
Speaker 14: time and thinking about, like am I sitting where his dad?

1625
01:11:57,120 --> 01:12:01,520
Speaker 2: But you know, if you go over to his Houseira,

1626
01:12:01,800 --> 01:12:04,240
Speaker 2: do you have to participate? Like if you go over

1627
01:12:04,280 --> 01:12:06,439
Speaker 2: to the house, is it like, well, you know, we're

1628
01:12:06,439 --> 01:12:08,559
Speaker 2: taking out, we're taking it all off, or it's time

1629
01:12:08,600 --> 01:12:09,120
Speaker 2: for dinner.

1630
01:12:09,439 --> 01:12:12,559
Speaker 14: Yeah, It's just I can't. I can't even with that,

1631
01:12:13,040 --> 01:12:13,800
Speaker 14: you know, I don't.

1632
01:12:13,840 --> 01:12:15,840
Speaker 2: I don't know. I think it's interesting, Shane, that you're

1633
01:12:15,880 --> 01:12:18,760
Speaker 2: saying that it's weird that we think it's weird. I

1634
01:12:18,800 --> 01:12:20,759
Speaker 2: think most people are going to think that's weird.

1635
01:12:21,120 --> 01:12:24,960
Speaker 13: I don't like parade around in the neighborhood. But when

1636
01:12:25,000 --> 01:12:27,840
Speaker 13: we're inside our home and we're surrounded by our loved ones,

1637
01:12:28,200 --> 01:12:30,040
Speaker 13: then we're free to be your Are you okay?

1638
01:12:30,320 --> 01:12:31,400
Speaker 1: Do you need a therapist?

1639
01:12:31,439 --> 01:12:32,680
Speaker 2: It's strange, it is.

1640
01:12:33,160 --> 01:12:35,320
Speaker 13: I think you guys need a therapist. I think we

1641
01:12:35,439 --> 01:12:39,240
Speaker 13: will have problems. That probably makes sense if you could

1642
01:12:39,320 --> 01:12:43,320
Speaker 13: talk to them about how, regardless of your physical appearance,

1643
01:12:43,400 --> 01:12:45,920
Speaker 13: you are a beautiful person inside and out. Nothing.

1644
01:12:47,040 --> 01:12:49,599
Speaker 2: It has more to do with seeing my parents. Thank it, frankly,

1645
01:12:49,680 --> 01:12:52,720
Speaker 2: but anyway, all right, look so no second take here,

1646
01:12:52,880 --> 01:12:53,880
Speaker 2: I take it.

1647
01:12:54,240 --> 01:12:56,559
Speaker 14: I'm absolutely not well.

1648
01:12:56,680 --> 01:12:59,240
Speaker 2: Hey, thank you for answering. Wow, We've heard a lot

1649
01:12:59,320 --> 01:13:02,559
Speaker 2: of things. I've never I've actually never heard this in

1650
01:13:02,600 --> 01:13:05,280
Speaker 2: any context, frankly, but Shane, good luck to you.

1651
01:13:05,520 --> 01:13:06,960
Speaker 1: I guess you need.

1652
01:13:06,840 --> 01:13:09,400
Speaker 13: It back at I hope good luck for you guys.

1653
01:13:09,439 --> 01:13:11,280
Speaker 13: I mean you really need to get comfortable in your

1654
01:13:11,280 --> 01:13:12,240
Speaker 13: own skin, all right.

1655
01:13:12,680 --> 01:13:16,080
Speaker 2: I mean the entertainment report with Calen trending story is

1656
01:13:16,120 --> 01:13:17,840
Speaker 2: fun fact all all the way next to the French

1657
01:13:17,880 --> 01:13:19,879
Speaker 2: show back in two minutes, Good mord.

1658
01:13:19,840 --> 01:13:22,840
Speaker 11: Calin's entertainment report is on the fread show.

1659
01:13:23,040 --> 01:13:26,680
Speaker 6: Mariana Grande was talking to Vanity Fair about her relationship

1660
01:13:26,680 --> 01:13:29,519
Speaker 6: with Wicked co star Ethan Slater after what she called

1661
01:13:29,520 --> 01:13:31,080
Speaker 6: a tough ride with the tabloids.

1662
01:13:31,439 --> 01:13:33,200
Speaker 1: She also addressed rumors.

1663
01:13:32,880 --> 01:13:35,840
Speaker 6: That their relationship began while they were both with other people,

1664
01:13:35,920 --> 01:13:38,720
Speaker 6: she said the most disappointing part was to see so

1665
01:13:38,760 --> 01:13:40,800
Speaker 6: many people believe the worst version of it.

1666
01:13:40,960 --> 01:13:42,760
Speaker 1: That was definitely a very tough ride.

1667
01:13:42,800 --> 01:13:43,000
Speaker 3: Now.

1668
01:13:43,360 --> 01:13:46,240
Speaker 6: While reflecting on her fame starting from a very young age,

1669
01:13:46,240 --> 01:13:49,760
Speaker 6: she said, I was this approachable, funny redhead on Nickelodeon

1670
01:13:49,800 --> 01:13:51,800
Speaker 6: and everyone liked me. Then I had one too many

1671
01:13:51,840 --> 01:13:53,800
Speaker 6: hit records and everyone decided that I was.

1672
01:13:53,800 --> 01:13:54,679
Speaker 1: An evil diva.

1673
01:13:55,120 --> 01:13:57,759
Speaker 6: And then other terrible things happened, and all of a sudden,

1674
01:13:57,880 --> 01:14:01,120
Speaker 6: I was a hero and this victim. As for fans

1675
01:14:01,120 --> 01:14:03,920
Speaker 6: pointing out that her voice has changed since she started

1676
01:14:03,920 --> 01:14:06,120
Speaker 6: working on Wicked, she said, there is a part of

1677
01:14:06,120 --> 01:14:08,719
Speaker 6: the world that isn't familiar with what it takes to

1678
01:14:08,760 --> 01:14:11,280
Speaker 6: transform your voice, whether it's singing or taking on a

1679
01:14:11,280 --> 01:14:14,160
Speaker 6: different dialect for a role, or doing a character voice

1680
01:14:14,160 --> 01:14:14,639
Speaker 6: for something.

1681
01:14:14,720 --> 01:14:15,200
Speaker 1: When it's a.

1682
01:14:15,120 --> 01:14:18,240
Speaker 6: Male actor that does it, it's acclaimed. There definitely are

1683
01:14:18,360 --> 01:14:22,360
Speaker 6: jokes that are made as well, but it's often often

1684
01:14:22,479 --> 01:14:25,720
Speaker 6: after being led with praise and her voice, I mean,

1685
01:14:25,720 --> 01:14:26,800
Speaker 6: her voice does sound different.

1686
01:14:26,880 --> 01:14:27,800
Speaker 1: I guess it is for the role.

1687
01:14:27,840 --> 01:14:30,320
Speaker 6: Speaking of Wicket, she also did one of those lie

1688
01:14:30,400 --> 01:14:32,880
Speaker 6: detector tests that Vanity Fair does, and she did it

1689
01:14:32,920 --> 01:14:36,280
Speaker 6: with co star Cynthia Arrivo, who asked her if she's

1690
01:14:36,360 --> 01:14:40,360
Speaker 6: had her nose done, gotten a boob job, facelift, chin implant,

1691
01:14:40,439 --> 01:14:42,600
Speaker 6: or fox eye lift, which she's all been accused of.

1692
01:14:42,960 --> 01:14:45,200
Speaker 6: She said no to all those questions, and she did

1693
01:14:45,240 --> 01:14:47,880
Speaker 6: pass the lie detector. But she admitted that she has

1694
01:14:47,960 --> 01:14:51,759
Speaker 6: done fillers in botox, but that she sapped those treatments

1695
01:14:51,760 --> 01:14:54,160
Speaker 6: four years ago, and that's the extent. Also made it

1696
01:14:54,160 --> 01:14:56,280
Speaker 6: clear that she doesn't judge anyone who does those things,

1697
01:14:56,479 --> 01:14:58,479
Speaker 6: but she said no and she passed. If we still

1698
01:14:58,520 --> 01:15:01,840
Speaker 6: believe in lie detectors, Ashton Kutcher is apparently a very

1699
01:15:01,920 --> 01:15:04,800
Speaker 6: worried that Diddy may lie about his famous friends in

1700
01:15:04,880 --> 01:15:07,479
Speaker 6: order to clear his own name. Now, if you didn't know,

1701
01:15:07,560 --> 01:15:10,640
Speaker 6: Ashin has been pretty close friends with the rapper for

1702
01:15:10,680 --> 01:15:14,120
Speaker 6: almost two decades, with the duo always speaking really highly

1703
01:15:14,160 --> 01:15:16,120
Speaker 6: of each other. Over the years, we've, i mean, we've

1704
01:15:16,120 --> 01:15:19,120
Speaker 6: seen a ton of these resurface interviews and Ashton going

1705
01:15:19,160 --> 01:15:22,360
Speaker 6: to various didty parties, you know, most famous the White Party,

1706
01:15:22,760 --> 01:15:25,559
Speaker 6: And now that he's been arrested, Ashin is apparently worried

1707
01:15:26,280 --> 01:15:28,880
Speaker 6: the same way that he was worried about disgraced actor

1708
01:15:28,960 --> 01:15:31,960
Speaker 6: Danny Masterson. And remember in October of last year, he

1709
01:15:32,240 --> 01:15:35,719
Speaker 6: and wife Mie Lacunis came under fire after they shared

1710
01:15:35,760 --> 01:15:38,640
Speaker 6: letters of support for the former that seventies show co

1711
01:15:38,760 --> 01:15:41,600
Speaker 6: star to both of them where they pled for the

1712
01:15:41,720 --> 01:15:44,439
Speaker 6: judge to show leniency to the actor before he was

1713
01:15:44,479 --> 01:15:46,559
Speaker 6: then sentenced to thirty years for rape.

1714
01:15:46,600 --> 01:15:47,439
Speaker 1: So it was a bad look.

1715
01:15:47,479 --> 01:15:50,000
Speaker 6: Then, I think he's worried that something similar is going

1716
01:15:50,040 --> 01:15:54,400
Speaker 6: to happen, or maybe even worse, which is interesting nothing.

1717
01:15:54,240 --> 01:15:58,000
Speaker 15: Else exact rrect, he'd better be worried that he doesn't

1718
01:15:58,040 --> 01:16:01,960
Speaker 15: tell the truth about some things on exactly.

1719
01:16:02,160 --> 01:16:02,400
Speaker 11: Yeah.

1720
01:16:02,600 --> 01:16:06,200
Speaker 6: I also heard another interview where someone was saying that

1721
01:16:06,240 --> 01:16:08,960
Speaker 6: there is a video with someone who's even more They

1722
01:16:08,960 --> 01:16:09,839
Speaker 6: said it was even.

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Speaker 1: More high profile than Diddy.

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Speaker 6: I saw that, and that person was in the video

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Speaker 6: with Diddy doing something that would be very bad for

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Speaker 6: the world to see. So I think again, Yeah, Ashton actually.

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Speaker 2: Steam flight logs, man, they have steam flight logs. No,

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01:16:28,680 --> 01:16:30,920
Speaker 2: nobody wants those to come out because there's a bunch

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01:16:30,960 --> 01:16:33,880
Speaker 2: of famous people and politicians and world leaders on that thing,

1730
01:16:33,920 --> 01:16:40,799
Speaker 2: and it's like everybody's sleeping not as soundly, because eventually

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01:16:40,880 --> 01:16:42,560
Speaker 2: we're gonna find out who's been at those parties and

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Speaker 2: who's been on the plane and everything else.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, there's a lot of people, I think who should

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01:16:46,040 --> 01:16:48,120
Speaker 6: be worried, and there's other people who've been vocal, like Yo,

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01:16:48,160 --> 01:16:49,799
Speaker 6: I knew when it was time to leave those parties.

1736
01:16:49,800 --> 01:16:51,280
Speaker 6: I went, and I knew when it was time to leave.

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01:16:51,320 --> 01:16:53,840
Speaker 6: So again, why you worried Ashen, I don't know. We'll

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01:16:53,880 --> 01:16:57,000
Speaker 6: see exactly and real quick. Christen Cavaleri and Mark says

1739
01:16:57,080 --> 01:16:59,519
Speaker 6: is split was due to their age gap and fanny

1740
01:16:59,600 --> 01:17:00,479
Speaker 6: family planning.

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Speaker 1: So the thirty seven.

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Speaker 6: Year old actress, Oh not actress, what.

1743
01:17:04,360 --> 01:17:06,920
Speaker 1: Am I talking about? Hills start? I'm so sorry.

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01:17:06,600 --> 01:17:10,439
Speaker 6: Actress she did act on the hills because it was

1745
01:17:10,479 --> 01:17:12,440
Speaker 6: all fake, right, an entrepreneur.

1746
01:17:12,720 --> 01:17:15,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm sorry, Jason. I know that's your queen owner.

1747
01:17:15,600 --> 01:17:17,720
Speaker 6: But she split with and she split from her twenty

1748
01:17:17,760 --> 01:17:20,559
Speaker 6: four year old influencer boyfriend over the weekend. Well, she

1749
01:17:20,600 --> 01:17:23,360
Speaker 6: confirmed it, and word is that obviously, and we knew

1750
01:17:23,400 --> 01:17:25,240
Speaker 6: this was going to come as they started to get

1751
01:17:25,280 --> 01:17:28,080
Speaker 6: more serious. They had those kinds of conversations about the future.

1752
01:17:28,120 --> 01:17:30,759
Speaker 6: They weren't aligned. I guess Mark has been really vocal

1753
01:17:30,840 --> 01:17:33,160
Speaker 6: about wanting to settle downstart a family from the start,

1754
01:17:33,360 --> 01:17:35,600
Speaker 6: and Kristin, who's a mom of three, was open to

1755
01:17:35,640 --> 01:17:38,679
Speaker 6: the idea of maybe expanding, but she also feels really

1756
01:17:38,680 --> 01:17:41,479
Speaker 6: content with her life and family and having another baby

1757
01:17:41,479 --> 01:17:44,040
Speaker 6: with something she just wasn't sure that she was ready for.

1758
01:17:44,120 --> 01:17:47,120
Speaker 6: It's a thirteen year age gap, and obviously that became

1759
01:17:47,120 --> 01:17:49,439
Speaker 6: a huge factor. I think this is just two hot

1760
01:17:49,479 --> 01:17:51,879
Speaker 6: people who wanted to do each other and that clouded

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01:17:52,479 --> 01:17:53,080
Speaker 6: their vision.

1762
01:17:53,240 --> 01:17:54,400
Speaker 1: But I think it was lost.

1763
01:17:54,560 --> 01:17:56,519
Speaker 2: They got caught well, she got caught up in lust

1764
01:17:56,720 --> 01:17:59,599
Speaker 2: and he got caught up in Oh the older woman

1765
01:18:00,240 --> 01:18:02,439
Speaker 2: came as older woman and the cloud and that's why

1766
01:18:02,479 --> 01:18:04,280
Speaker 2: I think happened. But you know what, I don't believe

1767
01:18:04,280 --> 01:18:06,960
Speaker 2: in love anymore because I thought I thought for sure

1768
01:18:07,040 --> 01:18:10,160
Speaker 2: that they would, that they would persevere and overcome all

1769
01:18:10,200 --> 01:18:11,160
Speaker 2: odds I thought.

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01:18:11,320 --> 01:18:13,240
Speaker 6: I mean, she found her Montana boy, and now I

1771
01:18:13,240 --> 01:18:14,320
Speaker 6: don't know where she's going to go.

1772
01:18:14,800 --> 01:18:15,679
Speaker 2: No, I have no idea.

1773
01:18:16,040 --> 01:18:17,559
Speaker 1: I think they'll both be just fine.

1774
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Speaker 6: If you want to catch on anything you missed from

1775
01:18:19,760 --> 01:18:21,960
Speaker 6: our show, The Frend Show, you can do so by

1776
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Speaker 6: searching The Fred Show on demand on our free iHeartRadio.

1777
01:18:24,840 --> 01:18:29,320
Speaker 2: App Jason had the Lions last night, but he did

1778
01:18:29,320 --> 01:18:33,080
Speaker 2: not have the Titans, So still a pretty impressive week

1779
01:18:33,120 --> 01:18:36,080
Speaker 2: four though for you, Jason, well done. Thank you. I'm

1780
01:18:36,080 --> 01:18:39,400
Speaker 2: getting bound on it. I'm proud of you. Unfortunately, the

1781
01:18:39,439 --> 01:18:42,160
Speaker 2: death toll from Hurricane Helene is up to at least

1782
01:18:42,160 --> 01:18:44,840
Speaker 2: one hundred and thirty people across six states. Six hundred

1783
01:18:44,840 --> 01:18:48,639
Speaker 2: people still accounted for in Asheville, North Carolina alone, by

1784
01:18:48,640 --> 01:18:51,400
Speaker 2: the way, shout out to and I don't I'm sure

1785
01:18:51,439 --> 01:18:53,160
Speaker 2: other radio groups did this too, but shout out to

1786
01:18:53,160 --> 01:18:56,639
Speaker 2: our team in Asheville, North Carolina, the iHeart team there.

1787
01:18:56,760 --> 01:19:01,120
Speaker 2: I'm hearing about some incredible stories from the folks that

1788
01:19:01,240 --> 01:19:03,600
Speaker 2: work at the radio stations that are part of the

1789
01:19:03,640 --> 01:19:06,599
Speaker 2: iHeart family there. I mean, like hiking into the radio

1790
01:19:06,640 --> 01:19:12,479
Speaker 2: station and bringing life saving dialysis equipment to people that

1791
01:19:12,520 --> 01:19:15,120
Speaker 2: were I mean, just a bunch of just crazy stories

1792
01:19:15,360 --> 01:19:18,600
Speaker 2: of folks making sure those radio stations stayed on the

1793
01:19:18,600 --> 01:19:20,439
Speaker 2: air so that they could get people that the life

1794
01:19:20,439 --> 01:19:23,599
Speaker 2: saving information that they needed. Because no one had power,

1795
01:19:23,720 --> 01:19:26,200
Speaker 2: so maybe the only way you were able to get information.

1796
01:19:26,320 --> 01:19:30,080
Speaker 2: You didn't have the Internet, you didn't have mobile phones,

1797
01:19:30,160 --> 01:19:32,360
Speaker 2: didn't have power, so the radio may have been the

1798
01:19:32,360 --> 01:19:34,160
Speaker 2: only way that people were able to get information. So

1799
01:19:34,640 --> 01:19:36,880
Speaker 2: a lot of really incredible stories there, and of course

1800
01:19:36,960 --> 01:19:38,759
Speaker 2: we're wishing them the best at our station in raleighs

1801
01:19:38,760 --> 01:19:43,080
Speaker 2: doing a big relief effort for them for the people

1802
01:19:43,120 --> 01:19:47,040
Speaker 2: in the western part of the state tomorrow in the Triangle.

1803
01:19:47,080 --> 01:19:49,000
Speaker 2: If you are there, I hope you will support it.

1804
01:19:49,439 --> 01:19:51,479
Speaker 2: What else do we have here? Oh? Pete Rose and

1805
01:19:51,479 --> 01:19:54,479
Speaker 2: to Kevi Matsumba, legends in their own right, sports legends

1806
01:19:54,479 --> 01:19:58,000
Speaker 2: in their own right, both passed away very sad. A

1807
01:19:58,080 --> 01:20:02,479
Speaker 2: Taylor Swift guitar was smashed in a viral moment from

1808
01:20:02,520 --> 01:20:04,360
Speaker 2: a guy that paid four thousand dollars for it. I

1809
01:20:04,400 --> 01:20:07,840
Speaker 2: don't know why, but that's a viral story this morning.

1810
01:20:07,880 --> 01:20:11,639
Speaker 2: And National Taco Tuesday, though is today, So everything's gonna

1811
01:20:11,640 --> 01:20:15,880
Speaker 2: be okay because it's National Taco Tuesday, National Fire Pop Day,

1812
01:20:15,920 --> 01:20:18,760
Speaker 2: recognizing the canine firefighters that have long been members of

1813
01:20:18,800 --> 01:20:22,080
Speaker 2: fire departments across the country, National Green City Day, and

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01:20:22,160 --> 01:20:25,320
Speaker 2: National Black Dog Day today the Fun Fact We'll do it.

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01:20:26,360 --> 01:20:31,439
Speaker 11: More Thread Show next. The Thread Show is on Fread's

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01:20:31,560 --> 01:20:32,360
Speaker 11: Fun Fact.

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Speaker 16: Bread Fun All right, guys, did you know and did

1818
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Speaker 16: you know?

1819
01:20:44,760 --> 01:20:47,920
Speaker 2: There are two hundred and ninety three ways to make

1820
01:20:48,040 --> 01:20:52,639
Speaker 2: change for a dollar. Two hundred and ninety three ways

1821
01:20:53,120 --> 01:20:55,439
Speaker 2: to make change for a dollar. I swear I'm not high,

1822
01:20:55,560 --> 01:20:57,400
Speaker 2: but there are two hundred and ninety three ways to

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01:20:57,439 --> 01:20:59,920
Speaker 2: make change for a dollar dollar, which includes dimes, court,

1824
01:21:00,560 --> 01:21:04,360
Speaker 2: and combinations of the two. And now Rufio will spend

1825
01:21:04,360 --> 01:21:05,760
Speaker 2: the rest of the day trying to figure out all

1826
01:21:05,760 --> 01:21:08,080
Speaker 2: two hundred and ninety three ways to make change for

1827
01:21:08,080 --> 01:21:12,200
Speaker 2: a dollar and amorrow dollar. That's all you want, Fine,

1828
01:21:12,280 --> 01:21:14,720
Speaker 2: that's the cheapest thing you've ever asked for. You got

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Speaker 2: more Fred Show next right here.