1 00:00:00,560 --> 00:00:03,760 Speaker 1: I've never been left waiting by the phone. 2 00:00:04,200 --> 00:00:06,520 Speaker 2: It's the Fred Show. Terry, Hi, good. 3 00:00:06,400 --> 00:00:09,120 Speaker 1: Morning, Hey, good morning, how are you doing? 4 00:00:09,160 --> 00:00:09,440 Speaker 2: Great? 5 00:00:09,840 --> 00:00:12,240 Speaker 1: Welcome to waiting by the phone trying to figure out 6 00:00:12,240 --> 00:00:15,960 Speaker 1: what's going on with this, uh, this Tory character going 7 00:00:16,440 --> 00:00:19,439 Speaker 1: tell us about Tory, about you know, how you met 8 00:00:19,480 --> 00:00:21,520 Speaker 1: any dates you've been on? And then why do you 9 00:00:21,520 --> 00:00:22,560 Speaker 1: think you're being ghosted? 10 00:00:23,079 --> 00:00:26,599 Speaker 3: Well, okay, so we met on bumble and from there, 11 00:00:26,760 --> 00:00:30,120 Speaker 3: you know, chatted a bit, got up the rapport, and 12 00:00:30,160 --> 00:00:33,160 Speaker 3: decided that we would go out for a dinner date. 13 00:00:33,720 --> 00:00:37,440 Speaker 4: And it was really great. I mean I was just 14 00:00:37,479 --> 00:00:42,879 Speaker 4: like really into him right off the bat, but like 15 00:00:43,159 --> 00:00:45,600 Speaker 4: I was expecting maybe like an ask out at the 16 00:00:45,720 --> 00:00:48,360 Speaker 4: end of that first date, but it didn't happen. I 17 00:00:48,400 --> 00:00:53,159 Speaker 4: was a little disappointed, and it just seemed different right 18 00:00:53,200 --> 00:00:57,160 Speaker 4: after the date because he was super responsive before, but 19 00:00:57,320 --> 00:01:00,800 Speaker 4: now it's like he barely, like he was taking a 20 00:01:00,800 --> 00:01:02,800 Speaker 4: long time to text back, and now he's like not 21 00:01:02,880 --> 00:01:03,800 Speaker 4: texting back at all. 22 00:01:04,040 --> 00:01:06,080 Speaker 1: Okay, So yeah, that man's a pretty good sign that 23 00:01:06,160 --> 00:01:09,640 Speaker 1: something's up, because if the person's typically very responsive and 24 00:01:09,680 --> 00:01:12,200 Speaker 1: they were excited about you before the date and then 25 00:01:12,240 --> 00:01:14,000 Speaker 1: you don't hear much of anything, after the date that 26 00:01:14,080 --> 00:01:15,679 Speaker 1: it's like, Okay, well what happened? 27 00:01:15,920 --> 00:01:18,560 Speaker 4: Yeah, And I'm honestly I'm like, worry, something happened to him. 28 00:01:18,600 --> 00:01:22,520 Speaker 1: Maybe, you know, look at that, that could be maybe 29 00:01:22,560 --> 00:01:25,240 Speaker 1: the man. Maybe the man was sick or so maybe 30 00:01:25,240 --> 00:01:27,720 Speaker 1: he got measles. We can't joke about this. This is 31 00:01:27,760 --> 00:01:29,600 Speaker 1: a serious thing's happening, you know. 32 00:01:30,200 --> 00:01:32,240 Speaker 4: I think it's like, yeah, no, he could be I 33 00:01:32,240 --> 00:01:34,800 Speaker 4: hope he's like I just hope he's safe, because there's 34 00:01:34,800 --> 00:01:36,240 Speaker 4: no way that he would be go kidny after it. 35 00:01:36,240 --> 00:01:37,600 Speaker 4: This is like literally a perfect date. 36 00:01:37,720 --> 00:01:39,680 Speaker 1: Well right, I mean there's no there's no way that 37 00:01:39,760 --> 00:01:42,319 Speaker 1: you did anything weird because that's not that can't be 38 00:01:42,520 --> 00:01:44,000 Speaker 1: never to no, no, no. 39 00:01:43,800 --> 00:01:46,840 Speaker 4: No, Scout's honor. 40 00:01:47,120 --> 00:01:51,640 Speaker 1: I mean me not at all careful, but I don't know. 41 00:01:51,880 --> 00:01:53,640 Speaker 1: Let's call Tory. Let's see if we can figure out 42 00:01:53,640 --> 00:01:56,440 Speaker 1: what's going on for you. All jokes aside. The hope 43 00:01:56,520 --> 00:01:59,240 Speaker 1: is always, genuinely is that we can straighten out whatever's 44 00:01:59,280 --> 00:02:01,200 Speaker 1: going on and I get you the answers that you're 45 00:02:01,240 --> 00:02:03,640 Speaker 1: looking for and hopefully set you up on another date 46 00:02:03,760 --> 00:02:04,480 Speaker 1: that we pay for. 47 00:02:04,600 --> 00:02:07,560 Speaker 4: Okay, oh wow, yes, I'm so down for that. 48 00:02:08,000 --> 00:02:09,960 Speaker 1: Let's see what happens next Part two of Waiting by 49 00:02:09,960 --> 00:02:12,919 Speaker 1: the Phone. Right after this song, Sabrina Carpenter a new 50 00:02:12,960 --> 00:02:16,119 Speaker 1: Sabrina Carpenter song for us. This is exciting back in too, 51 00:02:16,760 --> 00:02:18,919 Speaker 1: Sabrina Carpenter, Busy Woman. The French Show is on the 52 00:02:19,000 --> 00:02:21,120 Speaker 1: radio on the iHeart app Live and anytime. Search for 53 00:02:21,200 --> 00:02:24,080 Speaker 1: the Freends Show on demand. Make us up preset, Hey, 54 00:02:24,120 --> 00:02:27,919 Speaker 1: carry yeah, all right, welcome back. Let's call Tory. You guys, 55 00:02:27,919 --> 00:02:29,960 Speaker 1: you met on a dating app. I believe it was Bumble, 56 00:02:30,080 --> 00:02:33,160 Speaker 1: you said, and you know, there was a lot of 57 00:02:33,160 --> 00:02:35,640 Speaker 1: communication before the date, and then you went on this 58 00:02:35,720 --> 00:02:38,600 Speaker 1: date and you felt like everything went really well and 59 00:02:39,639 --> 00:02:42,639 Speaker 1: you were looking forward to seeing Tory again for another date. 60 00:02:42,720 --> 00:02:45,880 Speaker 1: Except you haven't heard it much at all or if anything, 61 00:02:46,040 --> 00:02:48,800 Speaker 1: since that date. So he goes from being super communicative 62 00:02:48,800 --> 00:02:51,120 Speaker 1: to not at all, and you want to know why 63 00:02:52,280 --> 00:02:52,800 Speaker 1: you got it? 64 00:02:52,880 --> 00:02:53,160 Speaker 3: All right? 65 00:02:53,200 --> 00:02:55,280 Speaker 2: What's the word? Right, Let's call Tory now? Good luck? 66 00:02:55,320 --> 00:03:02,520 Speaker 2: Carry Hello? 67 00:03:03,120 --> 00:03:03,280 Speaker 3: Hi? 68 00:03:03,400 --> 00:03:06,639 Speaker 2: Is this Toy? Yeah? 69 00:03:06,680 --> 00:03:06,840 Speaker 3: Tory? 70 00:03:06,919 --> 00:03:08,040 Speaker 2: Hey, good morning. My name is Fred. 71 00:03:08,080 --> 00:03:10,560 Speaker 1: I'm calling from the Fred's Show, the Morning radio Show, 72 00:03:10,680 --> 00:03:11,919 Speaker 1: and I have to tell you that we are on 73 00:03:11,960 --> 00:03:14,200 Speaker 1: the radio right now and I would need your permission 74 00:03:14,240 --> 00:03:15,080 Speaker 1: to continue. 75 00:03:14,680 --> 00:03:15,040 Speaker 2: With the call. 76 00:03:15,080 --> 00:03:16,760 Speaker 1: Can we chat for just a second. You can hang 77 00:03:16,840 --> 00:03:17,680 Speaker 1: up anytime you'd like. 78 00:03:18,680 --> 00:03:20,880 Speaker 2: I mean, do I win something? 79 00:03:21,040 --> 00:03:24,679 Speaker 1: You did not win anything? Well, I'm always quick to 80 00:03:24,720 --> 00:03:26,960 Speaker 1: say that you didn't win anything, but maybe you did. 81 00:03:27,480 --> 00:03:30,400 Speaker 1: I suppose that's in the eye of the beholder. But 82 00:03:30,440 --> 00:03:33,040 Speaker 1: we're calling on behalf of a woman named Carrie. Do 83 00:03:33,080 --> 00:03:36,880 Speaker 1: you remember meeting Carrie on one of the dating apps 84 00:03:36,880 --> 00:03:39,000 Speaker 1: on Bumble and going on a date recently? 85 00:03:39,840 --> 00:03:42,040 Speaker 5: Of course, yeah, I absolutely remember. 86 00:03:42,160 --> 00:03:43,360 Speaker 2: Okay, that's a great sign. 87 00:03:43,480 --> 00:03:45,960 Speaker 1: So she reached out to us and told us that 88 00:03:46,000 --> 00:03:48,920 Speaker 1: she enjoyed getting to know you via text and before 89 00:03:48,920 --> 00:03:50,520 Speaker 1: the date and then going on the date that she 90 00:03:50,600 --> 00:03:53,440 Speaker 1: thought was very successful. But she says that you she 91 00:03:53,480 --> 00:03:55,600 Speaker 1: feels like you're ghosting her since the date and she 92 00:03:55,680 --> 00:03:56,480 Speaker 1: doesn't know why. 93 00:03:57,520 --> 00:04:01,840 Speaker 2: Okay, Well, first off, let me say Harry was really cute. 94 00:04:01,880 --> 00:04:03,800 Speaker 5: You know, we matched from Bumble, and you know, I 95 00:04:03,840 --> 00:04:06,600 Speaker 5: thought she was shut as can be, and so I 96 00:04:07,200 --> 00:04:09,880 Speaker 5: asked her out, and you know, we got to the 97 00:04:09,880 --> 00:04:13,680 Speaker 5: restaurant and we met up in person. But I gotta 98 00:04:13,720 --> 00:04:16,400 Speaker 5: be honest, as soon as we got there, I couldn't 99 00:04:16,480 --> 00:04:18,200 Speaker 5: put my finger on it, but there was just like 100 00:04:19,520 --> 00:04:23,040 Speaker 5: something was off. About Carrie, and I just immediately, you know, 101 00:04:23,240 --> 00:04:24,599 Speaker 5: I didn't want to waste her time. I knew I 102 00:04:24,640 --> 00:04:28,400 Speaker 5: wasn't into it, so I stayed for a drink, and 103 00:04:29,120 --> 00:04:31,120 Speaker 5: you know, then I told her that I had to go, 104 00:04:31,440 --> 00:04:35,800 Speaker 5: and she wasn't really accepting that I had to go 105 00:04:35,839 --> 00:04:37,800 Speaker 5: at first, and then she asked if I wanted to 106 00:04:37,839 --> 00:04:39,560 Speaker 5: hang out somewhere else or if I wanted to go 107 00:04:39,560 --> 00:04:41,320 Speaker 5: to one of our places, and you. 108 00:04:41,240 --> 00:04:42,400 Speaker 2: Know, I was, I was very polite. 109 00:04:42,520 --> 00:04:46,080 Speaker 5: I declined and I said goodbye, and you know, I 110 00:04:46,120 --> 00:04:51,440 Speaker 5: thought that was it. But about halfway home, I realized 111 00:04:51,480 --> 00:04:54,800 Speaker 5: there was a white car that had been following me. Okay, 112 00:04:55,600 --> 00:05:00,200 Speaker 5: so I slowed down and I realized it was Carrie. 113 00:05:00,520 --> 00:05:02,479 Speaker 2: And what home is that? 114 00:05:02,600 --> 00:05:03,159 Speaker 3: Did you go home? 115 00:05:03,240 --> 00:05:03,960 Speaker 2: Or where did you go? 116 00:05:04,520 --> 00:05:07,000 Speaker 5: Well, I was halfway home and I noticed this car 117 00:05:07,120 --> 00:05:09,440 Speaker 5: was like following me. And I know, I'm not surprised 118 00:05:09,480 --> 00:05:13,080 Speaker 5: I even noticed, but you know, so I told her 119 00:05:13,080 --> 00:05:14,720 Speaker 5: because I wasn't going to go straight home after that, 120 00:05:14,839 --> 00:05:17,200 Speaker 5: but h I asked her why she was following me, 121 00:05:17,240 --> 00:05:21,280 Speaker 5: and she said that I was that she was just 122 00:05:21,320 --> 00:05:23,600 Speaker 5: making sure that I got home safe. 123 00:05:23,680 --> 00:05:27,279 Speaker 2: That that is not as not cool. 124 00:05:28,480 --> 00:05:31,800 Speaker 1: No, we can't be anything we can't be at your 125 00:05:31,839 --> 00:05:35,040 Speaker 1: following people carry Like, I'm sorry, I hear carry laughing. 126 00:05:35,160 --> 00:05:37,720 Speaker 2: I forgot. I forgot to mention that carry. The talker 127 00:05:37,760 --> 00:05:38,080 Speaker 2: is here. 128 00:05:39,720 --> 00:05:43,080 Speaker 1: I asked you, I asked you carry if anything weird 129 00:05:43,120 --> 00:05:46,080 Speaker 1: happened you've been in fairness, you said nothing weird happened 130 00:05:46,120 --> 00:05:47,880 Speaker 1: on the date, but you didn't mention the part where 131 00:05:47,880 --> 00:05:48,800 Speaker 1: you followed the guy home. 132 00:05:49,600 --> 00:05:51,680 Speaker 4: I'm not you don't have to word it like that, 133 00:05:51,920 --> 00:05:57,760 Speaker 4: like following someone home. It's just like sou I mean, 134 00:05:57,880 --> 00:06:00,279 Speaker 4: it's just like, oh, I'm in my car and I 135 00:06:00,279 --> 00:06:03,640 Speaker 4: see him walking. It's like on my way kind of anyway. 136 00:06:03,839 --> 00:06:10,520 Speaker 2: So it's just like, what do you hoping happens here? Like? 137 00:06:10,720 --> 00:06:13,279 Speaker 1: What is the so he finds out that you followed 138 00:06:13,320 --> 00:06:15,880 Speaker 1: him home? Like what was the end game? Like you 139 00:06:15,960 --> 00:06:18,240 Speaker 1: pull up next to him at his house and you're like, hey, 140 00:06:17,880 --> 00:06:21,640 Speaker 1: it still me you know. Then I don't like what 141 00:06:21,720 --> 00:06:23,240 Speaker 1: was the thought process here here? 142 00:06:23,800 --> 00:06:26,840 Speaker 4: I obviously thought I was being a lot stealthier than 143 00:06:27,400 --> 00:06:30,400 Speaker 4: I was obviously, and then when he called I was 144 00:06:30,440 --> 00:06:33,560 Speaker 4: a bit embarrassed. But it's just like, I mean, come on, 145 00:06:34,000 --> 00:06:37,159 Speaker 4: isn't it nice to have someone care about you getting 146 00:06:37,160 --> 00:06:37,799 Speaker 4: home safely? 147 00:06:37,960 --> 00:06:39,200 Speaker 2: Not really in this way. 148 00:06:39,360 --> 00:06:41,880 Speaker 1: No, No, I don't think anybody wants to be followed home. 149 00:06:41,960 --> 00:06:45,400 Speaker 1: I mean he very clearly like said, it was nice meeting, 150 00:06:45,440 --> 00:06:48,640 Speaker 1: you had a nice time. The date's over, and then 151 00:06:49,160 --> 00:06:51,520 Speaker 1: that's where the date ends. I mean, if he invites 152 00:06:51,560 --> 00:06:53,039 Speaker 1: you over, that's one thing he did not. 153 00:06:53,520 --> 00:06:57,800 Speaker 6: Okay, yes, but maybe he's getting at like he's getting 154 00:06:57,839 --> 00:06:59,599 Speaker 6: home and then he sees me and it's like a 155 00:06:59,600 --> 00:07:04,120 Speaker 6: coin it is and it's like, oh, maybe maybe he's feeling. 156 00:07:03,800 --> 00:07:06,040 Speaker 4: Better all of a sudden and will invite be in. 157 00:07:06,839 --> 00:07:11,480 Speaker 2: I mean, I you're here, you know. No, yes, it's 158 00:07:11,520 --> 00:07:16,360 Speaker 2: to please I just I knew something was off. I 159 00:07:16,400 --> 00:07:18,760 Speaker 2: politely got out of the date like that was it. 160 00:07:18,920 --> 00:07:19,640 Speaker 2: I wasn't gonna call. 161 00:07:19,760 --> 00:07:22,640 Speaker 5: I'm sorry, kry like I wasn't gonna call you after that, 162 00:07:22,760 --> 00:07:26,800 Speaker 5: and then you follow me like like yeah, it. 163 00:07:29,280 --> 00:07:30,360 Speaker 2: Wasn't not stalking. 164 00:07:30,960 --> 00:07:32,760 Speaker 4: Oh well, I don't know. You don't have to really 165 00:07:32,800 --> 00:07:34,920 Speaker 4: take it that way. I'm surprised you don't really like, 166 00:07:35,400 --> 00:07:38,600 Speaker 4: just appreciate the gesture. I'm just being nice. 167 00:07:39,040 --> 00:07:41,200 Speaker 2: Well, let me just say I'm I'll be completely clear. 168 00:07:42,240 --> 00:07:43,600 Speaker 2: I appreciate you being nice. 169 00:07:43,840 --> 00:07:46,119 Speaker 5: I am I am not interested in going down again. 170 00:07:46,320 --> 00:07:49,640 Speaker 1: Okay, there you go, now us know where you live? Right, 171 00:07:49,640 --> 00:07:50,960 Speaker 1: like we didn't make it all the way there? 172 00:07:51,280 --> 00:07:53,040 Speaker 2: No, no, no, no. 173 00:07:53,160 --> 00:07:56,160 Speaker 1: Okay, that's that's good. Yeah, I mean, Carr, you can't. 174 00:07:56,320 --> 00:07:58,200 Speaker 1: You can't act like this. You can't operate like this. 175 00:07:58,360 --> 00:07:58,520 Speaker 2: Now. 176 00:07:59,200 --> 00:08:07,440 Speaker 4: Well, I don't know, I don't know. I'll try I'll 177 00:08:07,600 --> 00:08:09,640 Speaker 4: maybe not try it next time and see. 178 00:08:09,480 --> 00:08:15,560 Speaker 2: What happens a little bit, you know. Yeah, I'm scared. 179 00:08:15,680 --> 00:08:18,680 Speaker 2: I'm scared of her. Yeah, you don't know where we live? 180 00:08:18,760 --> 00:08:18,920 Speaker 2: Do you? 181 00:08:20,280 --> 00:08:20,320 Speaker 4: Do? 182 00:08:20,360 --> 00:08:22,280 Speaker 1: You know where the radio station is by any chance? 183 00:08:22,360 --> 00:08:25,520 Speaker 1: Or like you know what kind of car? 184 00:08:28,120 --> 00:08:29,440 Speaker 4: You guys just mean Chicago, right. 185 00:08:29,840 --> 00:08:32,640 Speaker 1: But the fact that you don't seem to I guess 186 00:08:32,640 --> 00:08:35,040 Speaker 1: the part is concerning for me is that you're laughing 187 00:08:35,080 --> 00:08:37,280 Speaker 1: about this, like you don't say you don't seem to 188 00:08:37,280 --> 00:08:39,480 Speaker 1: see the issue here, because I. 189 00:08:39,440 --> 00:08:42,200 Speaker 4: Know myself, I'm so harmless. I'm laughing. It's just like 190 00:08:42,200 --> 00:08:46,480 Speaker 4: a little I'm like a tiny little female phone a. 191 00:08:46,440 --> 00:08:46,959 Speaker 2: Lot of daylight. 192 00:08:47,200 --> 00:08:50,280 Speaker 1: They all say this, right, they all say this. Let 193 00:08:50,360 --> 00:08:52,720 Speaker 1: me get Tory lit up the room, didn't he? That's 194 00:08:52,800 --> 00:08:57,120 Speaker 1: what they always say, he truly did. Okay, Well that's 195 00:08:57,160 --> 00:08:59,760 Speaker 1: your yeah, all right, Tory, thank you for answering. We 196 00:08:59,800 --> 00:09:02,839 Speaker 1: have our answer now from you, and best of luck 197 00:09:02,880 --> 00:09:07,440 Speaker 1: to both of you. Yeah yeah, what about your Oh 198 00:09:07,440 --> 00:09:08,840 Speaker 1: you're a therapist, what about your therapist? 199 00:09:08,880 --> 00:09:10,360 Speaker 2: You might need you might need a little. 200 00:09:10,160 --> 00:09:10,920 Speaker 3: More than you. 201 00:09:10,920 --> 00:09:13,120 Speaker 4: Guys, you exactly like my therapist. 202 00:09:13,360 --> 00:09:15,000 Speaker 1: Oh oh, we don't have a therapist. We should look 203 00:09:15,040 --> 00:09:18,520 Speaker 1: into one, maybes. How about that? Yes, im, good luck, Harry, 204 00:09:18,559 --> 00:09:23,199 Speaker 1: don't do that anymore whatever she's going to keep doing it. Okay, 205 00:09:23,520 --> 00:09:26,400 Speaker 1: the entertainment report and a tiebreaker we can gain for 206 00:09:26,400 --> 00:09:28,880 Speaker 1: Shelley one hundred and fifty bucks both. Next we're back 207 00:09:28,960 --> 00:09:30,960 Speaker 1: Game three after Katy Perry French Show.