1
00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:02,440
Speaker 1: Didn't think i'd be posting an update after everything that

2
00:00:02,440 --> 00:00:04,440
Speaker 1: has happened, but a lot of people asked for it,

3
00:00:04,480 --> 00:00:06,360
Speaker 1: and I feel like writing down some of the stuff

4
00:00:06,519 --> 00:00:10,160
Speaker 1: might help me with putting this all behind me. Not

5
00:00:10,200 --> 00:00:12,680
Speaker 1: really looking for any advice here, just putting my thoughts

6
00:00:12,680 --> 00:00:15,200
Speaker 1: out there. As I said in the last post, I

7
00:00:15,320 --> 00:00:17,920
Speaker 1: called off the wedding. At first, I didn't tell anyone

8
00:00:17,920 --> 00:00:20,439
Speaker 1: the reason, but as people here pointed out, it was

9
00:00:20,480 --> 00:00:22,079
Speaker 1: something that I had to do if I wanted to

10
00:00:22,120 --> 00:00:24,760
Speaker 1: get ahead of this. So I started calling people again

11
00:00:24,880 --> 00:00:27,520
Speaker 1: and let them know exactly why the wedding was off.

12
00:00:27,680 --> 00:00:31,159
Speaker 1: It was an effing humiliating experience to tell people my

13
00:00:31,200 --> 00:00:33,600
Speaker 1: fiance made out with some other guy while her friends

14
00:00:33,720 --> 00:00:37,440
Speaker 1: cheered her on. But everyone has been really supportive, especially

15
00:00:37,479 --> 00:00:38,479
Speaker 1: my parents and my sister.

16
00:00:38,640 --> 00:00:39,800
Speaker 2: That's good. That's good.

17
00:00:40,440 --> 00:00:42,839
Speaker 1: I also called my exes parents, since they helped with

18
00:00:42,880 --> 00:00:44,800
Speaker 1: some of the expenses of the wedding and I wanted

19
00:00:44,800 --> 00:00:46,319
Speaker 1: to let them know that they should try to get

20
00:00:46,320 --> 00:00:49,560
Speaker 1: their deposits back. To my surprise, my ex'es mother picked

21
00:00:49,600 --> 00:00:53,159
Speaker 1: up the phone. She already knew everything that had happened. Wow, well,

22
00:00:53,200 --> 00:00:58,160
Speaker 1: that makes sense that she would her daughter would tell her. Yeah, yeah,

23
00:00:58,200 --> 00:01:00,920
Speaker 1: apparently my ex told her everything. I didn't ask her

24
00:01:00,960 --> 00:01:03,680
Speaker 1: some questions to see just how much they knew, and

25
00:01:03,800 --> 00:01:06,400
Speaker 1: everything seemed to line up with what I knew happened.

26
00:01:06,520 --> 00:01:08,160
Speaker 1: They didn't try to make me stay with my ex

27
00:01:08,240 --> 00:01:11,399
Speaker 1: or anything. As for my ex herself, she and I

28
00:01:11,440 --> 00:01:14,840
Speaker 1: did meet once discuss everything. She begged me for a

29
00:01:14,880 --> 00:01:17,200
Speaker 1: second chance and even said that she would cut off

30
00:01:17,200 --> 00:01:20,320
Speaker 1: her friends who enabled her, and suggested that we could

31
00:01:20,360 --> 00:01:23,880
Speaker 1: go to couples counseling. I told her that I don't

32
00:01:23,880 --> 00:01:25,960
Speaker 1: want to spend the rest of my life being her warden,

33
00:01:26,120 --> 00:01:28,080
Speaker 1: making sure that she isn't hanging out with people I

34
00:01:28,120 --> 00:01:30,679
Speaker 1: don't approve of, and that if we began a marriage

35
00:01:30,720 --> 00:01:33,160
Speaker 1: already going to couples therapy for something as big as this,

36
00:01:33,760 --> 00:01:35,559
Speaker 1: then we were already doomed to fail.

37
00:01:35,720 --> 00:01:36,800
Speaker 2: Wow, that's fair.

38
00:01:36,880 --> 00:01:38,600
Speaker 1: I also told her that I can't see how I

39
00:01:38,680 --> 00:01:41,760
Speaker 1: would ever trust her again after she did the exact thing.

40
00:01:41,920 --> 00:01:44,959
Speaker 1: I expressed my concerns about and that a marriage can't

41
00:01:45,000 --> 00:01:48,400
Speaker 1: survive without trust. So this is where I am now.

42
00:01:48,640 --> 00:01:50,640
Speaker 1: I'm single, and I think I'm going to stay that

43
00:01:50,720 --> 00:01:51,600
Speaker 1: way for a while.

44
00:01:51,840 --> 00:01:52,200
Speaker 2: Yikes.

45
00:01:52,600 --> 00:01:56,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, that was seven years. I was seven years. Oh yeah,

46
00:01:56,200 --> 00:01:58,920
Speaker 1: it still hurts after spending seven years together with this woman,

47
00:01:59,080 --> 00:02:01,640
Speaker 1: but there's just no trust there anymore. Anyway, I don't

48
00:02:01,640 --> 00:02:03,600
Speaker 1: think I'm going to post any more updates as far

49
00:02:03,680 --> 00:02:06,280
Speaker 1: as I'm concerned, I'm ready to close this chapter of

50
00:02:06,360 --> 00:02:09,040
Speaker 1: my life. Are some relevant comments.

51
00:02:08,760 --> 00:02:12,120
Speaker 3: Yes, whenever you're with someone for a number of years,

52
00:02:12,160 --> 00:02:15,760
Speaker 3: how long should you take in order to get back

53
00:02:15,760 --> 00:02:16,520
Speaker 3: out there in the game.

54
00:02:16,760 --> 00:02:19,239
Speaker 1: I think it depends on the person because some people

55
00:02:19,520 --> 00:02:21,320
Speaker 1: and I think we've talked about this before. I think

56
00:02:21,320 --> 00:02:25,240
Speaker 1: it depends on the person and your specific like you know,

57
00:02:25,600 --> 00:02:28,280
Speaker 1: ability to move on from things. But I think it

58
00:02:28,320 --> 00:02:32,440
Speaker 1: also depends on how the relationship ended, because if it

59
00:02:32,560 --> 00:02:36,240
Speaker 1: ended like this, you have a seven year relationship, partner

60
00:02:36,280 --> 00:02:39,320
Speaker 1: cheats on you, but you you are, you know, still

61
00:02:39,320 --> 00:02:44,440
Speaker 1: love them, I think you could take a little bit longer, Yeah,

62
00:02:44,560 --> 00:02:48,440
Speaker 1: before getting out there again. Maybe you know minimums, I

63
00:02:48,440 --> 00:02:49,760
Speaker 1: don't know, six months or something.

64
00:02:49,840 --> 00:02:51,600
Speaker 2: Six months, yeah, maybe five months, but I don't know

65
00:02:51,600 --> 00:02:52,120
Speaker 2: if that's too long.

66
00:02:52,120 --> 00:02:53,200
Speaker 1: I get it depends on the person.

67
00:02:53,360 --> 00:02:56,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, I feel like the fully heal, it's like half

68
00:02:56,639 --> 00:02:58,800
Speaker 3: of whatever the relationship was.

69
00:02:59,280 --> 00:03:02,400
Speaker 1: You want you say, in for three years, that's a

70
00:03:02,440 --> 00:03:03,080
Speaker 1: long time.

71
00:03:02,960 --> 00:03:05,480
Speaker 2: Well maybe like a cap at two, maybe a year

72
00:03:05,520 --> 00:03:06,400
Speaker 2: and a half. I don't know.

73
00:03:06,480 --> 00:03:09,160
Speaker 3: It just it just took me a while to like

74
00:03:09,680 --> 00:03:13,560
Speaker 3: I think it's yeah, you know, like I tried to.

75
00:03:13,480 --> 00:03:14,480
Speaker 2: Go on dates with people.

76
00:03:14,760 --> 00:03:16,519
Speaker 3: Well, like I did go on a date with someone,

77
00:03:16,560 --> 00:03:19,600
Speaker 3: like yeah, like six months after that, but like I I.

78
00:03:19,520 --> 00:03:21,800
Speaker 2: Don't think I was fully there.

79
00:03:22,080 --> 00:03:24,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, And I think it also is okay to try,

80
00:03:25,639 --> 00:03:27,080
Speaker 1: you know, like let's say you hit the six months

81
00:03:27,080 --> 00:03:28,639
Speaker 1: with market and you're like, I think I'm ready to

82
00:03:28,680 --> 00:03:30,440
Speaker 1: start dating, and then you go on a date and

83
00:03:30,480 --> 00:03:32,480
Speaker 1: you realize, no, I'm actually not ready for that. I

84
00:03:32,520 --> 00:03:34,520
Speaker 1: think that's okay too. That's as long as you're not

85
00:03:34,560 --> 00:03:37,040
Speaker 1: leading people on and you know you're going on like

86
00:03:37,280 --> 00:03:39,800
Speaker 1: two months long, you know, dating them for two months

87
00:03:39,800 --> 00:03:42,600
Speaker 1: and then you realize, oh, I'm actually not ready for this.

88
00:03:43,160 --> 00:03:45,280
Speaker 2: Yeah that's messed up. Yeah, not cool.

89
00:03:45,520 --> 00:03:50,080
Speaker 1: That's not cool. But yeah, I think it depends person

90
00:03:50,120 --> 00:03:50,520
Speaker 1: to person.

91
00:03:50,760 --> 00:03:53,240
Speaker 2: Yeah cool, what's your what's y'all's like math.

92
00:03:53,080 --> 00:03:56,040
Speaker 1: All that, Yeah, because I don't know if there's specifically

93
00:03:56,080 --> 00:04:00,960
Speaker 1: a certain uh you know, a one date or one

94
00:04:01,000 --> 00:04:01,560
Speaker 1: amount of time.

95
00:04:01,600 --> 00:04:04,200
Speaker 3: And I feel like it's different if it, like cheating

96
00:04:04,240 --> 00:04:06,760
Speaker 3: is a good scenario because it just happened. Yes, But

97
00:04:06,800 --> 00:04:09,000
Speaker 3: like I've been hearing scenarios of like women that have

98
00:04:09,120 --> 00:04:11,480
Speaker 3: been in a relationship and they're out of the relationship

99
00:04:11,920 --> 00:04:14,280
Speaker 3: months before they break up. Yeah, and they've already and

100
00:04:14,320 --> 00:04:16,560
Speaker 3: they're able to move on faster. They've already moved on

101
00:04:16,640 --> 00:04:18,680
Speaker 3: a couple months before that. So if you find out

102
00:04:18,680 --> 00:04:20,960
Speaker 3: the time that they moved on plus the amount of

103
00:04:21,000 --> 00:04:22,880
Speaker 3: time that been broken up with, yes, that.

104
00:04:23,080 --> 00:04:24,360
Speaker 2: Makes it six months or whatever.

105
00:04:24,400 --> 00:04:27,719
Speaker 1: Yeah, because this is super fresh for Repie. Yeah, this

106
00:04:27,839 --> 00:04:30,440
Speaker 1: is I still love them. I'm just super hurt, so

107
00:04:30,480 --> 00:04:34,240
Speaker 1: that might take longer. And there are some relevant comments.

108
00:04:34,800 --> 00:04:37,200
Speaker 1: One commenter says, I just don't understand why people don't

109
00:04:37,240 --> 00:04:38,320
Speaker 1: learn to talk things out.

110
00:04:38,520 --> 00:04:40,479
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's so hard.

111
00:04:40,720 --> 00:04:43,360
Speaker 1: Yeah. Well I think they're saying they're against the.

112
00:04:45,279 --> 00:04:48,320
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, and calling off the wedding. Yeah, gotcha, gotcha.

113
00:04:48,520 --> 00:04:50,800
Speaker 1: That woman is ready to give up her life for you,

114
00:04:50,880 --> 00:04:53,840
Speaker 1: and you decided to apply the most extreme punishment possibly

115
00:04:54,000 --> 00:04:57,480
Speaker 1: possible because she drunkenly made out with someone for thirty seconds.

116
00:04:57,680 --> 00:05:00,680
Speaker 1: A little perspective and a little crime doesn't the punishment.

117
00:05:00,800 --> 00:05:03,400
Speaker 1: Couples counseling at any stage is a good thing, especially

118
00:05:03,400 --> 00:05:05,160
Speaker 1: as newlyweds. I disagree with.

119
00:05:05,080 --> 00:05:05,800
Speaker 4: That calm this is.

120
00:05:06,000 --> 00:05:08,360
Speaker 3: I mean, I see where this person is coming from. Yeah,

121
00:05:08,400 --> 00:05:11,320
Speaker 3: but they're not taking an account like the boundaries that.

122
00:05:11,320 --> 00:05:12,400
Speaker 2: The boundary talked about.

123
00:05:12,640 --> 00:05:14,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, because I think that this. You know, people say

124
00:05:14,839 --> 00:05:17,880
Speaker 1: the same thing about, you know, flirting with someone over

125
00:05:18,000 --> 00:05:20,120
Speaker 1: text for you know, a while. They're like, oh, it's

126
00:05:20,200 --> 00:05:24,720
Speaker 1: just flirting. That's still a boundary that's been crossed.

127
00:05:24,800 --> 00:05:26,520
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, yeah.

128
00:05:26,600 --> 00:05:28,960
Speaker 1: I don't think it matters how small or big the

129
00:05:29,000 --> 00:05:32,320
Speaker 1: thing is. Yeah, if it hurt some the other person

130
00:05:32,600 --> 00:05:35,560
Speaker 1: and it crossed a boundary, I think that that is,

131
00:05:36,360 --> 00:05:39,640
Speaker 1: you know, something that they get to decide how much

132
00:05:39,680 --> 00:05:41,200
Speaker 1: that hurt them. And it seems like it hurt op

133
00:05:41,320 --> 00:05:43,719
Speaker 1: a lot. Opie says, I am not doing this to

134
00:05:43,760 --> 00:05:46,560
Speaker 1: punish her. In fact, I don't harbor her any ill feelings.

135
00:05:46,600 --> 00:05:48,520
Speaker 1: I just don't have any more trust for her after

136
00:05:48,520 --> 00:05:51,640
Speaker 1: what has happened. I express my concerns and she's still

137
00:05:51,640 --> 00:05:52,560
Speaker 1: portrayed my trust.

138
00:05:52,760 --> 00:05:53,440
Speaker 2: I understand that.

139
00:05:53,480 --> 00:05:56,080
Speaker 1: Counseling is a good thing for newlywed couples, but I

140
00:05:56,080 --> 00:05:58,279
Speaker 1: don't want to start a marriage on such a weak foundation.

141
00:05:58,600 --> 00:06:02,000
Speaker 1: Kevin R. Thirteen says, wonder how her Maid of Honor

142
00:06:02,080 --> 00:06:04,760
Speaker 1: feels now, while your girlfriend made the choice while being drunk,

143
00:06:05,040 --> 00:06:07,000
Speaker 1: but the maid of honor definitely had a part to

144
00:06:07,040 --> 00:06:09,600
Speaker 1: play in it. Yeah, I just these are med friends

145
00:06:09,920 --> 00:06:13,239
Speaker 1: that is obvious, Like your party. I've been to plenty

146
00:06:13,279 --> 00:06:16,039
Speaker 1: of bachelor parties where no temptations of any kind were present,

147
00:06:16,240 --> 00:06:18,760
Speaker 1: just a bunch of guys hanging out together. No one

148
00:06:18,760 --> 00:06:20,919
Speaker 1: made jokes about why the groom isn't doing something for

149
00:06:20,960 --> 00:06:23,480
Speaker 1: his last moments of freedom, No one pushed him to

150
00:06:23,480 --> 00:06:25,720
Speaker 1: do or say anything weird that would be out of

151
00:06:25,720 --> 00:06:28,840
Speaker 1: line for him, etc. In other words, those parties I

152
00:06:28,880 --> 00:06:30,920
Speaker 1: went to, I had a bunch of guys who respected

153
00:06:30,920 --> 00:06:32,760
Speaker 1: the way that the bachelor wanted to have his party,

154
00:06:33,120 --> 00:06:35,640
Speaker 1: and everyone still had a great time. So while your

155
00:06:35,640 --> 00:06:38,640
Speaker 1: ex did make her choices, that Made of Honor hopefully

156
00:06:38,680 --> 00:06:41,920
Speaker 1: is either consoling her or booted out of her life,

157
00:06:42,080 --> 00:06:44,520
Speaker 1: Opie says. Made of Honor contacted me once in the

158
00:06:44,520 --> 00:06:47,880
Speaker 1: early days after everything blew up. She was begging me

159
00:06:47,960 --> 00:06:50,120
Speaker 1: to take my ex back and said that her friendship

160
00:06:50,120 --> 00:06:52,800
Speaker 1: was in danger. From the one conversation I had with

161
00:06:52,880 --> 00:06:56,080
Speaker 1: my ex, she has been cut off, I mean good

162
00:06:56,120 --> 00:06:58,560
Speaker 1: on the ex. I really hope that the ex learns

163
00:06:58,600 --> 00:07:02,599
Speaker 1: from this mistake. Yeah, unfortunately, this was you know, a

164
00:07:02,680 --> 00:07:05,120
Speaker 1: hard way to learn it, but yeah you shouldn't.

165
00:07:05,200 --> 00:07:08,440
Speaker 3: Yeah, I do too, And I hope like that the

166
00:07:08,480 --> 00:07:11,160
Speaker 3: ex can move on from this and like her life,

167
00:07:11,440 --> 00:07:14,720
Speaker 3: Yeah isn't This isn't her life because she's twenty nine.

168
00:07:14,800 --> 00:07:17,200
Speaker 3: She's been with this guy since she was twenty two,

169
00:07:17,800 --> 00:07:19,880
Speaker 3: Like all of her twenties has been this, and now

170
00:07:19,920 --> 00:07:25,120
Speaker 3: she's going into thirty. Yeah, like almost been married, cheated,

171
00:07:25,320 --> 00:07:27,080
Speaker 3: that's all her mental space.

172
00:07:27,320 --> 00:07:30,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, please go to therapy. Please go to therapy. It's

173
00:07:30,480 --> 00:07:31,040
Speaker 2: so tough.

174
00:07:31,360 --> 00:07:34,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, absolutely, well. I think I was just thinking. I

175
00:07:34,520 --> 00:07:36,760
Speaker 1: think there is a world I personally think it's okay

176
00:07:36,880 --> 00:07:39,920
Speaker 1: for OP to you know, and this relationship completely. I

177
00:07:39,960 --> 00:07:42,440
Speaker 1: think there is a world if he is still in

178
00:07:42,440 --> 00:07:44,360
Speaker 1: love with her, you know, he's thinking about this. There's

179
00:07:44,400 --> 00:07:50,400
Speaker 1: a world where they cancel the marriage but revisit the relationship. Yeah,

180
00:07:50,440 --> 00:07:52,520
Speaker 1: once she's had that kind of time to you know,

181
00:07:52,560 --> 00:07:54,800
Speaker 1: go to counseling and figure that out. But I don't

182
00:07:54,840 --> 00:07:57,840
Speaker 1: think she is obligated to a second try in the relationship.

183
00:07:57,880 --> 00:08:01,640
Speaker 1: I think OP is you know, merrited and cutting that off.

184
00:08:01,720 --> 00:08:06,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, let's just say in some crazy world. Yeah,

185
00:08:06,040 --> 00:08:08,360
Speaker 3: we're the ex. Yes, we were about to get married.

186
00:08:08,360 --> 00:08:08,720
Speaker 2: We did this.

187
00:08:09,680 --> 00:08:13,160
Speaker 3: How do you move on from this? And how do

188
00:08:13,240 --> 00:08:16,320
Speaker 3: you explain to your next partner what happened? Because I mean,

189
00:08:16,320 --> 00:08:18,000
Speaker 3: it's gonna come up. You've been together with that guy

190
00:08:18,040 --> 00:08:21,160
Speaker 3: for seven years, almost got married, and then how do

191
00:08:21,200 --> 00:08:23,440
Speaker 3: you explain that to them and let them know, Hey,

192
00:08:23,760 --> 00:08:26,360
Speaker 3: I'm not gonna do that anymore. I learned, But you

193
00:08:26,400 --> 00:08:28,320
Speaker 3: are still labeled as a cheater.

194
00:08:28,520 --> 00:08:30,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, wan't you tell them that? How do you move on?

195
00:08:31,880 --> 00:08:34,440
Speaker 2: I don't know, man, I think a ton of therapy.

196
00:08:34,559 --> 00:08:36,160
Speaker 1: An you have to do the work. You have to

197
00:08:36,160 --> 00:08:37,840
Speaker 1: put the work in. You can't just go to the

198
00:08:37,840 --> 00:08:41,319
Speaker 1: next relationship and be like what I know now, I

199
00:08:41,400 --> 00:08:42,280
Speaker 1: think the work.

200
00:08:42,400 --> 00:08:44,840
Speaker 3: You and you have to be completely honest with your

201
00:08:44,880 --> 00:08:47,800
Speaker 3: next partner and be like, hey, this is what it was,

202
00:08:47,920 --> 00:08:49,960
Speaker 3: this is the people I was around, this is the

203
00:08:49,960 --> 00:08:53,320
Speaker 3: way I acted. But since then, been putting it in

204
00:08:53,320 --> 00:08:55,840
Speaker 3: in the yoga, yeah, meditation.

205
00:08:55,720 --> 00:09:00,600
Speaker 1: That's me, therapy, therapy, praying, friends, whatever you cut off

206
00:09:00,600 --> 00:09:04,480
Speaker 1: the negative influences. Yeah, but this is really it's still

207
00:09:04,520 --> 00:09:08,200
Speaker 1: really sad because this is again we said, seven year relationship,

208
00:09:08,800 --> 00:09:13,080
Speaker 1: the you know, twenty nine, thirty two. Yeah that hurts.

209
00:09:13,360 --> 00:09:15,600
Speaker 3: Yeah, I feel like op, He's gonna be all right,

210
00:09:15,679 --> 00:09:17,640
Speaker 3: even though this sucks. It's just going to take a

211
00:09:17,679 --> 00:09:19,760
Speaker 3: minute for him to figure it out. He's gonna get

212
00:09:19,800 --> 00:09:21,439
Speaker 3: his money up. He's going to go to the gym.

213
00:09:21,600 --> 00:09:22,320
Speaker 3: Get shredded.

214
00:09:22,559 --> 00:09:25,320
Speaker 1: Get shredded. Today, I aft up by almost ruining my

215
00:09:25,400 --> 00:09:28,240
Speaker 1: best friend's wedding with a pair of handcuffs. What do

216
00:09:28,280 --> 00:09:32,120
Speaker 1: you mean you can see you have to this is okay.

217
00:09:32,160 --> 00:09:34,920
Speaker 1: We'd be home to the craziest true stories on Earth.

218
00:09:35,120 --> 00:09:39,280
Speaker 1: I'm Sophia and Riley. What do you mean family.

219
00:09:41,280 --> 00:09:42,480
Speaker 2: Hilarious?

220
00:09:42,480 --> 00:09:46,400
Speaker 1: Snoopy twenty two says Today, I affed up by almost

221
00:09:46,440 --> 00:09:50,000
Speaker 1: ruining my best friend's wedding. My seven year old was

222
00:09:50,040 --> 00:09:52,319
Speaker 1: the ring bearer, my four year old the flower girl,

223
00:09:52,440 --> 00:09:54,560
Speaker 1: and I was the maid of honor. Oh my god,

224
00:09:54,679 --> 00:09:56,840
Speaker 1: this is a family affair for the best friend's wedding.

225
00:09:56,840 --> 00:10:01,240
Speaker 1: This is so cute. As usual, scrambling to get ready,

226
00:10:01,400 --> 00:10:03,400
Speaker 1: I had just gotten the kids dressed in their outfits

227
00:10:03,440 --> 00:10:06,360
Speaker 1: and was in my bathroom putting on my makeup. After

228
00:10:06,440 --> 00:10:11,640
Speaker 1: about thirty minutes, it was unusually quiet whatever. I figured

229
00:10:11,640 --> 00:10:14,959
Speaker 1: they were just playing like normal. Never figure that with kids,

230
00:10:15,720 --> 00:10:18,920
Speaker 1: they're off to something. I had just barely finished when

231
00:10:18,960 --> 00:10:22,160
Speaker 1: I heard a timid voice from my inside room. Mommy,

232
00:10:22,760 --> 00:10:25,680
Speaker 1: my seven year old, says, I think I did something.

233
00:10:27,120 --> 00:10:31,160
Speaker 1: Oh no, oh, no, thinking he just messed up his

234
00:10:31,240 --> 00:10:34,800
Speaker 1: tucks or something. I went into my room and then

235
00:10:34,960 --> 00:10:38,160
Speaker 1: froze in disbelief when I saw him. He sat on

236
00:10:38,200 --> 00:10:43,640
Speaker 1: the floor with a real pair of handcuffs, cuffing his

237
00:10:43,720 --> 00:10:44,840
Speaker 1: wrist to his ankle.

238
00:10:45,360 --> 00:10:56,720
Speaker 2: What where did he get a real pair of handcuffs? What?

239
00:10:57,360 --> 00:10:59,719
Speaker 2: I could just see one of my little brothers doing this.

240
00:11:00,240 --> 00:11:02,440
Speaker 1: You know again, I think I would if I've got

241
00:11:02,480 --> 00:11:04,240
Speaker 1: my hands on a real pair of handcuffs, I would

242
00:11:04,280 --> 00:11:06,080
Speaker 1: absolutely have cuffed my hands together.

243
00:11:12,280 --> 00:11:13,000
Speaker 4: He knew that.

244
00:11:14,480 --> 00:11:19,360
Speaker 1: This is a seven year old, but I don't know

245
00:11:19,400 --> 00:11:25,880
Speaker 1: what the thought process was there. Uh Opie says. I

246
00:11:26,080 --> 00:11:30,000
Speaker 1: was dumbfounded. So many questions ran through my mind, the

247
00:11:30,040 --> 00:11:33,040
Speaker 1: first being where the aft did he get a pair

248
00:11:33,080 --> 00:11:37,920
Speaker 1: of real handcuffs from?

249
00:11:38,400 --> 00:11:38,480
Speaker 5: No?

250
00:11:38,840 --> 00:11:42,440
Speaker 1: Wait, I finally muster up the words to ask. He

251
00:11:42,520 --> 00:11:44,800
Speaker 1: doesn't want to tell me, but finally does with his

252
00:11:44,840 --> 00:11:51,560
Speaker 1: head lowered in shame D's toolbox again w DF. My

253
00:11:51,720 --> 00:11:55,600
Speaker 1: boyfriend de had just moved in with us, and still

254
00:11:55,600 --> 00:12:00,000
Speaker 1: had stuff lying around randomly. Why it is Opie's boyfriend

255
00:12:00,080 --> 00:12:04,920
Speaker 1: of handcuffs? Are these like potential handcuffs?

256
00:12:05,080 --> 00:12:06,760
Speaker 2: Was he next? I think it's the next cop.

257
00:12:07,000 --> 00:12:09,240
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, Why would he have real handcuffs otherwise?

258
00:12:09,440 --> 00:12:10,000
Speaker 2: Next cop?

259
00:12:10,160 --> 00:12:13,560
Speaker 1: Yeah? Oh boy. Turns out he had an old pair

260
00:12:13,600 --> 00:12:16,280
Speaker 1: of handcuffs from somewhere in an old tool box he

261
00:12:16,360 --> 00:12:20,440
Speaker 1: never used anymore. But at captain our closet. Wtf. I

262
00:12:20,520 --> 00:12:23,560
Speaker 1: asked for the key, He can't find it. Oh no,

263
00:12:24,360 --> 00:12:27,200
Speaker 1: this is not the wedding. This is the day of

264
00:12:27,240 --> 00:12:31,520
Speaker 1: the wedding. Her son is the ring bearer. He needs

265
00:12:31,559 --> 00:12:32,120
Speaker 1: his hands.

266
00:12:33,000 --> 00:12:34,480
Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, I'm just walking down.

267
00:12:34,520 --> 00:12:40,160
Speaker 1: It was like hopping. The clock is ticking. We have

268
00:12:40,480 --> 00:12:44,120
Speaker 1: three hours till the wedding and it's an hour drive.

269
00:12:44,320 --> 00:12:45,439
Speaker 2: It's useless.

270
00:12:45,760 --> 00:12:48,480
Speaker 1: I call around to different locksmiths and find one down

271
00:12:48,520 --> 00:12:50,760
Speaker 1: the street that can help. I ended up carrying my

272
00:12:50,840 --> 00:12:54,160
Speaker 1: son to the car, then into the locksmiths, because of

273
00:12:54,160 --> 00:12:57,360
Speaker 1: course he can't walk up right. The locksmith's face when

274
00:12:57,400 --> 00:13:01,160
Speaker 1: I when he saw us was priceless, but I was humiliated.

275
00:13:01,559 --> 00:13:04,520
Speaker 1: How the hell do I explain how this happened? Thankfully

276
00:13:04,600 --> 00:13:08,280
Speaker 1: the locksmith didn't ask any questions. He politely helped us

277
00:13:08,280 --> 00:13:12,640
Speaker 1: by unlocking the cuffs and my son was finally free. Meanwhile,

278
00:13:12,720 --> 00:13:14,880
Speaker 1: my best friend kept calling it, asking where the hell

279
00:13:14,920 --> 00:13:18,120
Speaker 1: we were. They were starting the pre wedding photos. No

280
00:13:18,280 --> 00:13:20,600
Speaker 1: time to explain now, I told her, But we're on

281
00:13:20,600 --> 00:13:22,640
Speaker 1: our way. We had an hour and a half before

282
00:13:22,679 --> 00:13:25,480
Speaker 1: the wedding. I drive like crazy to get there. We

283
00:13:25,559 --> 00:13:28,280
Speaker 1: made it fifteen minutes before the start of the wedding.

284
00:13:28,679 --> 00:13:31,560
Speaker 1: My best friend was ready to kill me. We missed

285
00:13:31,600 --> 00:13:34,160
Speaker 1: the photos, but at least we made the ceremony. Oh

286
00:13:34,200 --> 00:13:36,320
Speaker 1: my gosh, that is too funny.

287
00:13:36,400 --> 00:13:37,920
Speaker 2: That is so funny.

288
00:13:38,080 --> 00:13:39,840
Speaker 1: I feel like they can take photos after. That's not

289
00:13:39,880 --> 00:13:40,560
Speaker 1: such a big deal.

290
00:13:40,679 --> 00:13:42,000
Speaker 2: But oh my god, I was.

291
00:13:42,160 --> 00:13:48,240
Speaker 3: I thought that beforehand, like one of the like it

292
00:13:48,320 --> 00:13:50,600
Speaker 3: was a family event and one of the like cousins

293
00:13:50,679 --> 00:13:52,840
Speaker 3: or uncles got up to something and was like, hey,

294
00:13:52,840 --> 00:13:56,280
Speaker 3: be funny if you put these, yeah, handcuffs, give it

295
00:13:56,360 --> 00:13:58,240
Speaker 3: to a seven year old, and then they like handcuffed.

296
00:13:58,400 --> 00:14:01,880
Speaker 1: They handcuffed them. Yeah, was completely unrelated to the wedding.

297
00:14:02,160 --> 00:14:05,719
Speaker 1: But the child just seems to have found handcuffs in

298
00:14:05,760 --> 00:14:06,120
Speaker 1: the house.

299
00:14:06,400 --> 00:14:07,360
Speaker 2: That's crazy.

300
00:14:07,440 --> 00:14:09,560
Speaker 1: This is on the boy friend. You can't be leaving

301
00:14:09,800 --> 00:14:13,920
Speaker 1: handcuffs around doing that. Yeah, this is like the same

302
00:14:13,960 --> 00:14:16,280
Speaker 1: thing when you know you can't leave scissors around for

303
00:14:16,360 --> 00:14:18,360
Speaker 1: a child. You gotta lock these things up.

304
00:14:18,400 --> 00:14:19,280
Speaker 2: You got to lock them up.

305
00:14:19,480 --> 00:14:21,520
Speaker 1: Handcuffs, the handcuffs to something.

306
00:14:21,800 --> 00:14:24,720
Speaker 2: Yeah, you gotta do that. Yeah, how do people? Why

307
00:14:24,720 --> 00:14:26,400
Speaker 2: do how much are handcuffs?

308
00:14:26,600 --> 00:14:29,240
Speaker 1: I don't know, I've never looked that up.

309
00:14:29,640 --> 00:14:36,360
Speaker 2: How much are hand cuffs? Thirty five bucks from Amazon?

310
00:14:40,360 --> 00:14:40,560
Speaker 4: Yeah?

311
00:14:40,560 --> 00:14:42,040
Speaker 3: I thought there were the play ones where like you

312
00:14:42,040 --> 00:14:43,840
Speaker 3: can get out easy.

313
00:14:44,200 --> 00:14:44,800
Speaker 2: Yeah.

314
00:14:45,080 --> 00:14:48,680
Speaker 3: Interesting, all right, thirty five bucks. Dude, that's so weird.

315
00:14:48,880 --> 00:14:55,240
Speaker 3: I mean if you're in that grade, but that more

316
00:14:55,280 --> 00:14:57,040
Speaker 3: power to you you.

317
00:14:57,200 --> 00:14:57,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, dude.

318
00:14:57,880 --> 00:14:59,560
Speaker 3: The shock on her face when it's like, oh, I

319
00:14:59,560 --> 00:15:03,280
Speaker 3: didn't know he was into that seven year old, like

320
00:15:04,200 --> 00:15:09,600
Speaker 3: just on the ground like, oh.

321
00:15:07,880 --> 00:15:08,720
Speaker 1: That's so funny.

322
00:15:08,800 --> 00:15:09,400
Speaker 2: Crazy.

323
00:15:09,600 --> 00:15:10,000
Speaker 1: Yeah.

324
00:15:10,040 --> 00:15:11,480
Speaker 5: So there we have it.

325
00:15:11,800 --> 00:15:15,000
Speaker 1: Those are some crazy wedding stories. I think this one's

326
00:15:15,040 --> 00:15:18,240
Speaker 1: the best one. You guys always ask for light stories

327
00:15:18,280 --> 00:15:20,480
Speaker 1: to wrap us up, and I think this was a good.

328
00:15:20,840 --> 00:15:21,360
Speaker 2: This is good.

329
00:15:21,600 --> 00:15:24,160
Speaker 3: If you have a crazy Reddit story, please go to

330
00:15:24,200 --> 00:15:26,640
Speaker 3: our slash Okay op show. Put that in there. If

331
00:15:26,680 --> 00:15:29,440
Speaker 3: it's wedding related, like this, something funny and light. We

332
00:15:29,480 --> 00:15:30,240
Speaker 3: love funny and Light.

333
00:15:30,480 --> 00:15:33,840
Speaker 1: We love funny and Light. If it's handcuff related.

334
00:15:34,680 --> 00:15:37,320
Speaker 2: Keep the x x X out of it.

335
00:15:37,360 --> 00:15:42,040
Speaker 1: But yeah, keep it, keep it child safe, safe for work.

336
00:15:42,680 --> 00:15:45,480
Speaker 3: Yeah, if it's too crazy, I'll let John and Sam

337
00:15:45,720 --> 00:15:47,160
Speaker 3: read it with Sophia out of the room.

338
00:15:47,240 --> 00:15:47,440
Speaker 4: Yeah.

339
00:15:47,480 --> 00:15:49,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, we'll still read it, but we won't read it

340
00:15:49,160 --> 00:15:52,080
Speaker 1: on air, on air, on on camera.

341
00:15:51,920 --> 00:15:57,080
Speaker 2: On live on it. Also join our live stream schedule soon.

342
00:15:57,160 --> 00:16:00,160
Speaker 3: I made one last night. Yeah, but if if you

343
00:16:00,200 --> 00:16:02,119
Speaker 3: love us, make sure to subscribe.

344
00:16:02,160 --> 00:16:04,160
Speaker 1: We love you and see you tomorrow.

345
00:16:05,800 --> 00:16:08,040
Speaker 4: This is an episode from Deep Within the Archives.

346
00:16:08,040 --> 00:16:13,680
Speaker 5: Time for okop relam nephew Dead's my car? So I

347
00:16:13,680 --> 00:16:16,040
Speaker 5: get him arrested while he was at work? Should I

348
00:16:16,040 --> 00:16:18,280
Speaker 5: put him in prison? I twenty two mail am the

349
00:16:18,360 --> 00:16:21,320
Speaker 5: product of an affair. We're starting off hot today. My

350
00:16:21,480 --> 00:16:24,040
Speaker 5: dad is about twenty five years older than my mom.

351
00:16:24,120 --> 00:16:25,000
Speaker 4: That's way too much.

352
00:16:25,040 --> 00:16:26,720
Speaker 6: I felt old and I was hanging out with eighteen

353
00:16:26,760 --> 00:16:28,160
Speaker 6: year old.

354
00:16:28,240 --> 00:16:31,400
Speaker 5: So all three of my siblings from him are more

355
00:16:31,440 --> 00:16:34,080
Speaker 5: than seventeen years older than me. I didn't have a

356
00:16:34,160 --> 00:16:36,600
Speaker 5: relationship with that side of the family for the majority

357
00:16:36,640 --> 00:16:39,120
Speaker 5: of my childhood, but my dad and my grandparents often

358
00:16:39,160 --> 00:16:41,920
Speaker 5: send money holiday cars, birthday gifts, et cetera. I'm a

359
00:16:41,920 --> 00:16:43,760
Speaker 5: lot closer to them now and I have a good

360
00:16:43,800 --> 00:16:47,720
Speaker 5: relationship with all my siblings, nieces and nephews until this happens.

361
00:16:47,800 --> 00:16:48,960
Speaker 4: Oh gosh, what happened.

362
00:16:49,080 --> 00:16:53,800
Speaker 5: I own a nineteen seventy six Corvette sting Right baby

363
00:16:53,880 --> 00:16:57,120
Speaker 5: Ooh that was gifted to me by my maternal grandpa

364
00:16:57,320 --> 00:16:59,800
Speaker 5: when I turned seventeen. I've built this car up from

365
00:16:59,880 --> 00:17:03,360
Speaker 5: a roller and now it's my most prized possession. I

366
00:17:03,400 --> 00:17:05,320
Speaker 5: went out of town for two weeks for work, and

367
00:17:05,359 --> 00:17:08,199
Speaker 5: I left my car at my paternal grandparents' garage. I

368
00:17:08,200 --> 00:17:10,280
Speaker 5: don't like keeping it up my place while I'm away

369
00:17:10,320 --> 00:17:12,720
Speaker 5: too long because I don't live in the best area.

370
00:17:12,800 --> 00:17:14,800
Speaker 5: And I've done this since my freshman year of college,

371
00:17:14,920 --> 00:17:17,680
Speaker 5: and there's never been any issues until now.

372
00:17:18,320 --> 00:17:19,760
Speaker 4: We always have to do until now.

373
00:17:19,800 --> 00:17:22,680
Speaker 5: There's always until now. When I get back in town,

374
00:17:22,880 --> 00:17:26,000
Speaker 5: I immediately went to my grandparents' house to pick up

375
00:17:26,000 --> 00:17:29,000
Speaker 5: my car, and there was a giant dent and a

376
00:17:29,040 --> 00:17:31,480
Speaker 5: lot of paint missing on the side of the car.

377
00:17:31,640 --> 00:17:35,439
Speaker 6: Oh no, I mean that's pretty man paint. That's like like, like,

378
00:17:35,480 --> 00:17:37,080
Speaker 6: I can understand maybe.

379
00:17:36,800 --> 00:17:38,800
Speaker 4: You dent someone's car. You don't even realize it.

380
00:17:38,920 --> 00:17:44,040
Speaker 6: Yeah, but if you dent and scratch paint like causes

381
00:17:44,080 --> 00:17:46,719
Speaker 6: some noise, especially on the old cars, Like that's not

382
00:17:46,760 --> 00:17:48,280
Speaker 6: like fiberglass, that's the metal.

383
00:17:48,400 --> 00:17:51,200
Speaker 5: That's the thing here. If this was my box with wheels,

384
00:17:51,560 --> 00:17:54,399
Speaker 5: then I honestly I dent mine all the time, and

385
00:17:54,440 --> 00:17:57,240
Speaker 5: I literally don't care. But this is like a really

386
00:17:57,320 --> 00:17:59,840
Speaker 5: nice car that he spent his entire life working on.

387
00:18:00,119 --> 00:18:01,960
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's kind of rough, dude, It's like it's like

388
00:18:02,000 --> 00:18:05,120
Speaker 4: a piece of art. To Lisa, I asked my grandparents

389
00:18:05,400 --> 00:18:06,120
Speaker 4: what happened?

390
00:18:06,520 --> 00:18:08,439
Speaker 6: Like, I'm hard, I hear him, Sonny, and I can

391
00:18:08,520 --> 00:18:09,360
Speaker 6: barely see.

392
00:18:09,440 --> 00:18:12,840
Speaker 5: I don't know what happened, yeah, OBI said. Apparently they

393
00:18:12,920 --> 00:18:15,800
Speaker 5: were confused. When I showed them, they were as shocked

394
00:18:15,800 --> 00:18:19,280
Speaker 5: as I was. They told me that my nephew, Kevin

395
00:18:19,680 --> 00:18:21,280
Speaker 5: twenty five male.

396
00:18:21,200 --> 00:18:22,440
Speaker 4: Oh the worst age.

397
00:18:23,880 --> 00:18:27,080
Speaker 5: Everyone, everyone who is a twenty five and a male.

398
00:18:27,240 --> 00:18:29,200
Speaker 5: I mean they deserve to die. Oh yeah, for sure,

399
00:18:29,280 --> 00:18:30,240
Speaker 5: it just is what it is.

400
00:18:30,359 --> 00:18:34,240
Speaker 6: Well, I mean, essentially you're one year away from basically

401
00:18:34,280 --> 00:18:37,000
Speaker 6: being dead meet because you'll have no health insurance exactly.

402
00:18:37,240 --> 00:18:40,040
Speaker 5: They told me that my nephew, Kevin twenty five mail

403
00:18:40,359 --> 00:18:43,120
Speaker 5: had been messing around in the garage the previous weekend,

404
00:18:43,600 --> 00:18:45,640
Speaker 5: but they didn't see him take out the car at all.

405
00:18:45,720 --> 00:18:47,520
Speaker 4: What do you be messing around in the garage?

406
00:18:47,760 --> 00:18:52,240
Speaker 5: So we checked their camera system and sure enough, Kevin

407
00:18:52,240 --> 00:18:55,679
Speaker 5: had taken the car. Oh, Kevin caught red handed. I

408
00:18:55,760 --> 00:18:58,560
Speaker 5: tried to call Kevin, but my number was blocked. So

409
00:18:58,600 --> 00:19:01,440
Speaker 5: I called my brother and told him, Oh, Kevin knows

410
00:19:01,440 --> 00:19:05,800
Speaker 5: what he Divin knows what he Hevin's all God's dumb, bro.

411
00:19:06,160 --> 00:19:08,359
Speaker 5: He said he'll ask him about it and recommended to

412
00:19:08,359 --> 00:19:10,199
Speaker 5: go to a body shop to get an estimate for

413
00:19:10,240 --> 00:19:12,800
Speaker 5: the repair. When I got the estimate back, there was

414
00:19:13,160 --> 00:19:17,320
Speaker 5: three thousand, seven hundred dollars worth of damages on the car.

415
00:19:17,400 --> 00:19:19,760
Speaker 5: That's a lot. So I told my brother the estimate

416
00:19:19,960 --> 00:19:22,560
Speaker 5: and he said that that estimate was ridiculous and that

417
00:19:22,640 --> 00:19:25,720
Speaker 5: the damages weren't that bad. What if he has to

418
00:19:25,720 --> 00:19:26,800
Speaker 5: replace a whole door.

419
00:19:26,680 --> 00:19:29,119
Speaker 4: And like, where do you find nineteen seventy six doors?

420
00:19:29,520 --> 00:19:32,480
Speaker 6: They don't grow on trees. I love John's like metaphors

421
00:19:32,520 --> 00:19:34,879
Speaker 6: for things. One of my favorite metaphors for how he

422
00:19:34,960 --> 00:19:38,359
Speaker 6: explained Hondas is there like big Lego sets. Yeah, you

423
00:19:38,359 --> 00:19:39,959
Speaker 6: could just take him out and it's really easy to

424
00:19:40,160 --> 00:19:40,800
Speaker 6: replace things.

425
00:19:41,240 --> 00:19:45,040
Speaker 5: My short story is I ran over like a fence peg,

426
00:19:45,760 --> 00:19:49,440
Speaker 5: and uh, literally my entire bumper was was like this.

427
00:19:49,760 --> 00:19:51,639
Speaker 5: It was just half screw or like this. It was

428
00:19:51,640 --> 00:19:53,840
Speaker 5: just half pulled off. Someone came out yelling at me like,

429
00:19:54,160 --> 00:19:57,040
Speaker 5: I'm like, bro, your fence stub is fine. My entire

430
00:19:57,080 --> 00:19:59,520
Speaker 5: bumpers off. So anyways, I got back home. I drove

431
00:19:59,640 --> 00:20:02,840
Speaker 5: home to twenty minutes and the bumper was literally sticking

432
00:20:02,840 --> 00:20:06,240
Speaker 5: out like that's how bent it was. And then I

433
00:20:06,240 --> 00:20:08,120
Speaker 5: got home and I looked at it and it's just clips.

434
00:20:08,160 --> 00:20:09,960
Speaker 5: You just bend it. It's plastic. You bend it back

435
00:20:10,000 --> 00:20:10,800
Speaker 5: and you just clip it in.

436
00:20:10,920 --> 00:20:12,159
Speaker 4: And it was fine.

437
00:20:12,280 --> 00:20:14,520
Speaker 5: I literally have done nothing to it since. And have

438
00:20:14,560 --> 00:20:15,200
Speaker 5: you noticed it.

439
00:20:15,600 --> 00:20:17,080
Speaker 4: I haven't noticed your Carlo's fine.

440
00:20:17,160 --> 00:20:19,840
Speaker 5: I told my brother, either here Kevin had to pay

441
00:20:19,880 --> 00:20:22,360
Speaker 5: for it to get it fixed, or I would call

442
00:20:22,400 --> 00:20:25,520
Speaker 5: the police on them. I mean, get him officers. I

443
00:20:25,600 --> 00:20:27,400
Speaker 5: gave him three days.

444
00:20:27,720 --> 00:20:27,880
Speaker 4: Bro.

445
00:20:27,960 --> 00:20:30,000
Speaker 5: This guy is like from the Godfather or something.

446
00:20:30,119 --> 00:20:30,639
Speaker 4: I'll break you.

447
00:20:31,080 --> 00:20:34,280
Speaker 6: Yeah, he says, I'm gonna be cue it off.

448
00:20:34,280 --> 00:20:35,200
Speaker 2: But you can't refuse.

449
00:20:35,320 --> 00:20:37,080
Speaker 4: You have seventy two hours.

450
00:20:37,320 --> 00:20:39,320
Speaker 5: I still haven't finished the movie. By the way I watched.

451
00:20:39,440 --> 00:20:41,080
Speaker 5: I watched half of it.

452
00:20:40,359 --> 00:20:42,080
Speaker 4: It's terrible.

453
00:20:43,240 --> 00:20:45,680
Speaker 5: I love telling me the same, but it's.

454
00:20:45,920 --> 00:20:48,520
Speaker 6: Terrible because it's one of the best movies of all time.

455
00:20:48,960 --> 00:20:51,320
Speaker 6: But I can't talk because I watched half of Rocky

456
00:20:51,359 --> 00:20:52,320
Speaker 6: and still haven't finished it.

457
00:20:52,600 --> 00:20:52,959
Speaker 4: See.

458
00:20:53,119 --> 00:20:56,320
Speaker 5: So the three days past, Sam, Kevin and his dad.

459
00:20:56,520 --> 00:20:58,840
Speaker 5: They didn't pay. They didn't pay, op yo. They didn't

460
00:20:58,920 --> 00:21:01,879
Speaker 5: hit his ultimatum. They didn't hit the ultimatum. So he

461
00:21:02,000 --> 00:21:05,240
Speaker 5: shot him. No, I'm just kidding, shut So.

462
00:21:05,119 --> 00:21:07,640
Speaker 4: He cut off a horse's head put it in his bed.

463
00:21:09,119 --> 00:21:12,399
Speaker 5: So I filed the police reports, and I gave the

464
00:21:12,400 --> 00:21:15,920
Speaker 5: police the videos of Kevin taking my car. Kevin's frank

465
00:21:16,920 --> 00:21:24,400
Speaker 5: he is because next Kevin was arrested at his workplace. Yo,

466
00:21:24,760 --> 00:21:28,920
Speaker 5: crazy right to arrest him from a car from car damage.

467
00:21:29,040 --> 00:21:32,600
Speaker 5: That's way over the top. For three seven hundred dollars

468
00:21:32,680 --> 00:21:34,639
Speaker 5: of car damage.

469
00:21:34,240 --> 00:21:37,399
Speaker 6: But come on, I mean, yes, that's over the top.

470
00:21:37,800 --> 00:21:40,560
Speaker 6: But like I mean, Kevin, Kevin was is it?

471
00:21:40,720 --> 00:21:40,919
Speaker 3: You know?

472
00:21:41,000 --> 00:21:42,399
Speaker 4: Kevin wasn't at first?

473
00:21:42,760 --> 00:21:45,760
Speaker 6: But all right, first of all three days you get

474
00:21:45,760 --> 00:21:48,080
Speaker 6: like that's that's like like a small amount of time.

475
00:21:48,119 --> 00:21:50,919
Speaker 6: I understand that for the ultimatum, but like try to

476
00:21:50,920 --> 00:21:52,920
Speaker 6: get in contact with him, like a little bit more

477
00:21:53,000 --> 00:21:55,200
Speaker 6: like show up at like show up at his workplace,

478
00:21:55,320 --> 00:21:57,320
Speaker 6: give him be like where my money?

479
00:21:57,400 --> 00:22:01,240
Speaker 5: Yeah, just be like a tiger iron forty eight hours,

480
00:22:01,280 --> 00:22:02,280
Speaker 5: but you know, give him.

481
00:22:02,160 --> 00:22:02,600
Speaker 4: Where is it?

482
00:22:02,680 --> 00:22:04,160
Speaker 6: Yeah, it just like be in his face a little

483
00:22:04,200 --> 00:22:05,720
Speaker 6: bit more, and then get the police involved.

484
00:22:05,720 --> 00:22:08,520
Speaker 5: That Yeah, wow, this is okay, it's crazy, it's insane.

485
00:22:08,680 --> 00:22:12,320
Speaker 5: And as you might imagine, my brother was finished that

486
00:22:12,359 --> 00:22:15,520
Speaker 5: I got his own son arrested. Wow, he's calling me

487
00:22:15,680 --> 00:22:19,040
Speaker 5: going off about how I ruined Kevin's life over a

488
00:22:19,080 --> 00:22:20,880
Speaker 5: car or just some simple threats.

489
00:22:21,200 --> 00:22:23,240
Speaker 4: I mean yeah, I mean, yeah, it was it was

490
00:22:23,320 --> 00:22:24,359
Speaker 4: okay to do that.

491
00:22:24,440 --> 00:22:27,800
Speaker 5: Yeah, my sisters and dad have been calling and texting

492
00:22:27,840 --> 00:22:30,359
Speaker 5: me asking me to just put the family first and

493
00:22:30,480 --> 00:22:32,479
Speaker 5: drop the charges. But I don't want to.

494
00:22:32,600 --> 00:22:34,440
Speaker 4: Yeah I want that thirty seven hundred bucks.

495
00:22:34,480 --> 00:22:36,600
Speaker 5: Am I the a hole? I think you went too far? Yeah,

496
00:22:36,680 --> 00:22:40,000
Speaker 5: you went too far. Like I don't blame you for

497
00:22:40,400 --> 00:22:43,200
Speaker 5: doing some sort of ultimatum or whatever, like maybe okay

498
00:22:43,200 --> 00:22:45,960
Speaker 5: calling the police, but like if I found out that

499
00:22:46,000 --> 00:22:48,000
Speaker 5: they were going to arrest him, I would immediately a

500
00:22:48,240 --> 00:22:50,800
Speaker 5: tell the police. Okay, it's not that serious. Yeah, Like

501
00:22:51,960 --> 00:22:55,480
Speaker 5: I just you know, want it like legally documented or whatever.

502
00:22:55,560 --> 00:22:58,320
Speaker 5: So it's what it's in the system, I guess, And

503
00:22:58,359 --> 00:23:01,440
Speaker 5: then I would then immediately be like I followed the

504
00:23:01,440 --> 00:23:03,320
Speaker 5: police support. I didn't intend for this to happen, but

505
00:23:03,400 --> 00:23:05,920
Speaker 5: they're trying to arrest you now or whatever, So I

506
00:23:05,920 --> 00:23:08,600
Speaker 5: would at least do what the Kevin's on the lamb

507
00:23:08,640 --> 00:23:11,159
Speaker 5: from the police, I would at least, I mean, at

508
00:23:11,240 --> 00:23:13,679
Speaker 5: least communicate. That's the bare minimum of what he could do.

509
00:23:13,720 --> 00:23:16,400
Speaker 6: If fact, to be fair, he did communicate. He said,

510
00:23:16,400 --> 00:23:18,560
Speaker 6: if you don't do this, I am going to call

511
00:23:18,640 --> 00:23:19,080
Speaker 6: the police.

512
00:23:19,160 --> 00:23:21,040
Speaker 5: But he didn't say he'd get arrested. Though.

513
00:23:21,280 --> 00:23:23,600
Speaker 4: What happens when you call the police, John, I.

514
00:23:23,560 --> 00:23:26,919
Speaker 5: Mean, I would not expect. Maybe I'm unfamiliar with like.

515
00:23:27,160 --> 00:23:30,159
Speaker 4: The police law. John's never been arrested in his life.

516
00:23:30,359 --> 00:23:34,240
Speaker 5: I haven't been arrested in my life, and that seems

517
00:23:34,320 --> 00:23:35,280
Speaker 5: like a lot to me.

518
00:23:35,960 --> 00:23:40,480
Speaker 4: Fair, But I don't know Kevin's getting. Yeah, the moral

519
00:23:40,520 --> 00:23:41,160
Speaker 4: of the story.

520
00:23:41,040 --> 00:23:44,280
Speaker 6: Kevin has over Yeah, more of the story, like YO,

521
00:23:44,560 --> 00:23:47,000
Speaker 6: don't don't like break people's cars.

522
00:23:46,680 --> 00:23:48,760
Speaker 5: Don't mess with op bro. This guy is not playing

523
00:23:48,800 --> 00:23:49,080
Speaker 5: around