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Speaker 1: You don't hear me confession, I can't take back earl arms.

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Speaker 1: Little mouse speak.

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Speaker 2: Text to seven eight five nine two says the daycare

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Speaker 2: had to talk with my wife because our three year

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Speaker 2: old son was pushing other kids today. My wife thinks

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Speaker 2: it's because he saw his cousins fighting. But actually I

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Speaker 2: let him watch John Wick last Saturday while I was

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Speaker 2: talking books. Oh great, good job, Keanu Reeves.

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Speaker 3: I'm just saying, if pushing is the only thing he's doing,

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Speaker 3: then he got out easy after watching John Wick. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it could be a lot worse a good daycare.

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Speaker 2: But if you have a secret that you can't tell

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Speaker 2: your spouse, just know that you can get it off

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Speaker 2: your chest. Here anonymously on the Mass Speaker, and we've

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Speaker 2: got a listener ready to come clean today. She's chosen

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Speaker 2: to use the fake name Tamra. So Tamra, welcome to

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Speaker 2: the show.

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Speaker 1: Oh hey, how's it going good?

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Speaker 3: You sound good like you're excited to share this.

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Speaker 1: You know, it'd be great to get this burden off

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Speaker 1: my chest.

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Speaker 2: Maybe something you've been holding on too for a while.

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Speaker 2: The boys changer is on. This is your chance. You're

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Speaker 2: the mass Speaker. Whenever you're ready let's hear your confession.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Okay, So I've been married three years, but we've

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Speaker 1: really been together more like it's like seven or eight.

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Speaker 1: You know, it's a long time. Yeah. Our relationship is very,

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Speaker 1: very good. He's a wonderful man. I love him.

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, I cannot wait for whatever.

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Speaker 2: But I love Everybody's like, yeah, just so you know

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Speaker 2: I love him good, like all compliments. Now, something terrible

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Speaker 2: is going to come out.

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Speaker 1: But it's just one one thing that he gets really

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Speaker 1: weird about, and it's money and finances. Maybe, like a

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Speaker 1: lot of guys are like that. I don't know.

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Speaker 2: No, I think it's just your husband is the only No.

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Speaker 3: Are you guys open with your finances together? Like do

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Speaker 3: you talk about.

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Speaker 1: Well, I'll tell you what I don't talk about, okay.

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Speaker 1: Because he grew up in like a family that was

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Speaker 1: really always strapped for cash, So he has a very

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Speaker 1: much like a scarcity type of mindset. He's really bathing,

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Speaker 1: never spending. He's always searching for discounts, bargainson.

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Speaker 3: I think, dude, I got a couple of websites I

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Speaker 3: can send him that'll save cash. I'm not even lying.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, he'll go crazy.

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Speaker 3: You're gonna be so fortunate when you're retired.

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Speaker 1: You have this guy, this guy my parents retired and

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Speaker 1: my mom's like, he won't touch.

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Speaker 3: Any money, but they retired early. He's just gonna die

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Speaker 3: a millionaire.

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Speaker 2: So he's your husband. Is scarcity mindset? And what's your mindset?

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Speaker 1: Well? My mindset is that I like to buy myself

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Speaker 1: nice things.

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Speaker 3: That's how every relationship is. There's no cheap person that

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Speaker 3: marries another cheap person.

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Speaker 1: It's one or the other. Someone spending. Okay, He's just

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Speaker 1: practical and pragmatic man, and he just gets so upset

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Speaker 1: if I come home with like a brand new pair

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Speaker 1: of heels, because I mean, did I really need an

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Speaker 1: extra pair of heels that one?

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Speaker 3: What are you going to confess? Like are you hoarding

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Speaker 3: money away from him? Or like what's going on?

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Speaker 1: I mean, like I'm tired of having these conversations with

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Speaker 1: him because financially we're fine. Okay, we're fine, Okay, says you. Yeah, true, Okay.

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Speaker 1: So it's just a few things to disarm him. Like

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Speaker 1: I started carrying around a red ten in my purse

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Speaker 1: and whenever I buy something new on mark the tag

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Speaker 1: with a red pen to make it look like it

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Speaker 1: said like that it's on stale or marked down, so

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Speaker 1: I'm already getting it. I'm already getting it at a

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Speaker 1: good steal. Baby.

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Speaker 3: That would mark on some people. My mom would be like,

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Speaker 3: I just checked the statement, and I'm going to tell

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Speaker 3: you I want to stop payment from the credit card

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Speaker 3: company and call them because they can't give you the

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Speaker 3: discount that you deserve.

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Speaker 2: She's thorough, but it sounds like your husband doesn't do that.

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Speaker 1: She's like monitoring things, but he has so much to monitor.

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Speaker 1: And that's like, okay, Yeah.

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Speaker 2: That's quite a trick to carry around a red pen

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Speaker 2: with you everywhere you go just to make it look

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Speaker 2: like a sale.

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Speaker 3: That's really a Saleswomen and men have the same handwriting.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and then and then I'll just like, also, what

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Speaker 1: I'll do is I'll keep like a bunch of large

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Speaker 1: Target bags in my trunk, so regardless of wherever I bought.

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Speaker 3: Some small.

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Speaker 2: Strom, but you come home.

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Speaker 3: With Target, I feel like you could even go cheaper

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Speaker 3: than Target.

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Speaker 1: I feel like you need some Martiall bag. Yeah. I

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Speaker 1: mean everybody's gone in with like a list to Target

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Speaker 1: and then come out with like two hundred extra dollars

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Speaker 1: worth of.

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Speaker 2: At a nice dinner one night, you're wearing like Louis

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Speaker 2: batons and he just thinks they're fifty bucks.

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Speaker 3: Yeah no, yeah that was payless, right, honey, you got

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Speaker 3: the knock offs.

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Speaker 2: That's amazing. This is actually working for you. It is.

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Speaker 1: It's working, and so that's why you know it's not

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Speaker 1: I don't feel great that I'm lying.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I think if you talk to a marriage counselor

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Speaker 3: the probably wouldn't agree that this is a healthy road

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Speaker 3: to go down.

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Speaker 1: Healthy isn't the word. But it's working. Yeah, yeah, it's working.

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Speaker 1: I can't lie that. I feel like a little like

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Speaker 1: proud of myself. That is working. I'll give you props,

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Speaker 1: creative and so hopefully, ladies you could take this idea,

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Speaker 1: but don't do it too much because we can't have

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Speaker 1: the men catching on.

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Speaker 3: Okay, I've already got ideas in my head to escalate that.

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Speaker 1: I'm thinking of all the sales, final stickers, fifty percent off.

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Speaker 3: I'm the cheap one. This is giving me high.

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Speaker 2: Look what you've done, Tamer, You've turned a Lexus into

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Speaker 2: a monster.

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Speaker 1: Your powers are good.

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Speaker 3: Only I'm just buying cash and then you'll just won't

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Speaker 3: be able to trace it at all.

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Speaker 1: Hey, the Pennies A well.

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Speaker 2: If it's working for your relationship, then more power to you. Tamera,

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Speaker 2: thanks for sharing.

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Speaker 1: And the good ones.

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Speaker 2: Text in the seven eight, five nine two If you

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Speaker 2: have a confession you've been holding on to, we can

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Speaker 2: hide your identity, mask your voice, and make you our

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Speaker 2: next mass speaker. Your phone taps coming up right after this.

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Speaker 3: Brook and Jeffrey in the morning,