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Speaker 1: Never been left waiting by the phone.

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Speaker 2: It's the Fred Show, Austin. Good morning, Hey, good morning,

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Speaker 2: Welcome to the show.

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Speaker 1: This is waiting by the phone, of course, trying to

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Speaker 1: figure out why you got ghosted, or or seems that

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Speaker 1: way at least. So explain to us how you met Becky,

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Speaker 1: about any dates that you've been on, kind of fill

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Speaker 1: us in on the backstory and what's happening now.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, absolutely so. We I was on the app and

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Speaker 3: we met on Bumble and honestly, we talked for a while,

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Speaker 3: and you know, we we were texting and we would

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Speaker 3: talk on the phone, and I.

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Speaker 4: Was really exposed to, like, you know, get together and

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Speaker 4: meet in per person. We finally like set up a

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Speaker 4: date to meet in person, and she just kind of

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Speaker 4: ghosted me. And I'm not sure why she sent me up.

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Speaker 1: Okay, so you never met then, like you were just

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Speaker 1: chatting and then the date never happened even.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, no, we like, like I said, we were having

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Speaker 3: fun and and yeah, she just out of nowhere stopped

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Speaker 3: talking to me.

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Speaker 4: And I'm I'm your guys as good in mind why

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Speaker 4: we stopped talking?

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Speaker 1: Wow, Because I guess it's one thing if you meet

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Speaker 1: in person and the date doesn't go well, you do

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Speaker 1: something weird or something strange happens. That's one thing, but

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Speaker 1: you're saying never, you guys never even met, like she

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Speaker 1: just disappeared from communication.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, out of the blue. Wow. Okay, Well, let's call

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Speaker 2: this woman, Becky.

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Speaker 1: We'll see if we can get her on the phone

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Speaker 1: and ask some questions and see what's going on, see

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Speaker 1: why she disappeared. Hopefully we can straighten things out. Set

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Speaker 1: is up on a date, the first date in this case,

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Speaker 1: you can meet and we'll pay for that.

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Speaker 2: All right, I'm gonna play one song. We'll come back

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Speaker 2: and do it. Can you hang on? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Absolutely, Let's see what happens next. Part two of waiting

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Speaker 1: by the phone. You've got to hear it in two

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Speaker 1: minutes after Sabrina Carpenter Frend's Show, Sabrina Carpenter, it's the

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Speaker 1: Frend Show on the radio and the iHeart app anytime

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Speaker 1: search put a Freends show on demand. Hey, justin Yeah,

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Speaker 1: welcome back. Let's call Becky. You guys met on bumble,

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Speaker 1: you chatted for a while, planned a date, but the

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Speaker 1: date never happened because she ghost to you before you

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Speaker 1: could even go out. Yeah, that's weird. We don't hear

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Speaker 1: about that very often. But let's call Becky. We'll see

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Speaker 1: if we can figure this out and straighten things out

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Speaker 1: for you. Good luck, Thank you. Hello, Hi is this Becky? Yes, Becky,

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Speaker 1: good morning Fred from the Frend Show. The whole crew

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Speaker 1: is here. Sorry to bother, but I do have to

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Speaker 1: tell you that we are on the radio right now

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Speaker 1: and I would need your consent to continue with the call.

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Speaker 1: Can we chat for a minute on the show?

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Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, okay.

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Speaker 1: Thank you, that's a yes, Thank you very much. We're

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Speaker 1: calling on that half of this dude I named Justin,

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Speaker 1: who I guess you met on Bumble. You chat it

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Speaker 1: with Justin a little bit, maybe talking about going on

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Speaker 1: a date that never happened.

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Speaker 5: Well that's not what I was expecting. I really, I

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Speaker 5: can't believe I have to talk about this guy.

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Speaker 3: Are you for real?

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Speaker 1: I'm not sure what you were expecting, but yeah, no,

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Speaker 1: he reached out to us and told us to be

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Speaker 1: matched with you. It was excited about the match and

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Speaker 1: that you guys have been chatting and we're talking about

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Speaker 1: going on a date and then you disappeared.

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Speaker 2: So why no date? What happened?

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Speaker 5: I was hoping it was for something else. I guess, Okay, well, yeah,

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Speaker 5: we met on bumble. You know, I'm not this girl

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Speaker 5: that like goes out with every guy a match with,

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Speaker 5: because I really try to avoid like weirdos and I

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Speaker 5: like to get to know the person a little bit.

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Speaker 5: This I know what I'm getting into. So we did

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Speaker 5: talk a little bit leading up to the date.

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Speaker 3: But he he.

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Speaker 5: Called me like right before our date, like right before

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Speaker 5: we're supposed to meet, and he asked me for gas

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Speaker 5: money so that he could get.

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Speaker 2: To the restaurant. I'd never had that happen before.

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Speaker 5: It was so weird, Like I was just flored that

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Speaker 5: he would even ask for that.

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Speaker 1: I me, it's almost five dollars a gallon if this true? Yes,

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Speaker 1: I mean Becky ed spending. He charged you a search charge,

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Speaker 1: he charged you a date surcharge. You gotta pay him fifteen.

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Speaker 1: It costs more to get around these days than before.

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Speaker 4: It's so ridiculous.

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Speaker 2: How much did he want you to venmo him?

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Speaker 5: And he asked me if I could just help him

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Speaker 5: out with some gas money, you know, ten, fifteen, twenty

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Speaker 2: You can get there.

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Speaker 1: Though, Like, how was he going to pay for the date,

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Speaker 1: or what you anatually is going to pay for the date?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean I don't want to date someone that

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Speaker 5: I have to support financially.

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Speaker 2: So that would have been nice.

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Speaker 4: To know ahead of time.

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Speaker 1: You got to put your best foot forward on a

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Speaker 1: first date, and that is not doing that. Let me

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Speaker 1: bring justin and I forgot to mention the justice here.

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Speaker 1: You you failed to attention to us that you asked

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Speaker 1: for gas money. I mean, I guess it'd were you

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Speaker 1: for you to get there?

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: You know I did. I did ask her.

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Speaker 3: Was it was for me to get there?

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Speaker 4: But I was in my mind, in my defense, I

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Speaker 3: In your mind, I was saving the money for I

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Speaker 3: was saving the money for the dinner.

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Speaker 4: So and I realized, oh no, I was got yeah, yeah.

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Speaker 1: Okay, so we're balling on a budget over here, which

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Speaker 1: you know, that's all right, but you gotta don't you

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Speaker 1: have to take that into consideration when you're date, especially

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Speaker 1: when you first meet somebody. I mean, when you first

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Speaker 1: can afford so that you can go. I mean, because

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Speaker 1: if the very first thing that you do is ask

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Speaker 1: her for money that doesn't send a very good he's paying.

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Speaker 2: For the whole dinner. Would you rather him ask, hey,

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Speaker 2: you want to split this dinner?

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Speaker 4: And then you know she ends up paying like neither

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Speaker 4: seventy dollars instead of paying only you.

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Speaker 1: I would say splitting a dinner is probably more justifiable

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Speaker 1: than asking for gas money.

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Speaker 2: And I don't. I don't do it.

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Speaker 1: When I ask somebody out, I pay even if it

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Speaker 1: doesn't go well. That being said, if if I'm already

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Speaker 1: come on, yeah.

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Speaker 6: You're supposed to like act like you're not, you know,

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Speaker 6: your best version of yourself.

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Speaker 2: Have you done this before?

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Speaker 1: Justin have you have you asked women to give you

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Speaker 4: I listen, I'll be honest.

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Speaker 2: I've done it once or twice.

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Speaker 4: But it's not like I'm not showing up at the like.

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Speaker 4: If I wasn't showing up at the date, then that's

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Speaker 1: Well that's called stealing. That's called theft, so that that's

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Speaker 1: called the scam. Oh exactly right, So you're not scamming people,

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Speaker 1: so that makes it okay? Then?

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Speaker 2: Right? Well, I told her I was getting paid.

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Speaker 4: I got paid the next day, and I you know,

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Speaker 4: I set it back.

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Speaker 6: And well, why don't you dischedule the date for the

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Speaker 6: next day. How about you how about this from moving forward?

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Speaker 6: Schedule your dates on pay date. Yeah, I mean you

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Speaker 6: have a problem again. Yeah, I think that's reasonable. That's

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Speaker 6: what I'm saying. It's like or you know, yeah, I mean,

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Speaker 6: if it's only twenty four hours, you could have had

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Speaker 6: the date the next day. You would have been fine.

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Speaker 6: You wouldn't have had to ask her for money. And

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Speaker 6: then down the road, if you know, if you're tight,

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Speaker 6: if budget's tight, and she really likes you, then maybe

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Speaker 6: you start doing things that aren't as expensive.

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Speaker 2: Like driving.

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Speaker 1: And you weren't even going to pick her up. You know,

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Speaker 1: I guess at least cold pick her up if she's

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Speaker 1: paying for the gas in.

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Speaker 2: The car on her dime. Yeah, fair, Okay, Becky. So

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Speaker 2: I don't know.

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Speaker 1: It sounds like dude maybe had good intentions, but it

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Speaker 1: didn't come off right. You know, he's a tinder swindler.

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Speaker 1: His enemies are coming after him, all of his bank

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Speaker 1: accounts are frozen. He needed you to send money for guests.

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Speaker 1: But he's actually a millionaire he's very, very wealthy this guy.

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Speaker 2: Sure, sure, it felt like that, it felt like he

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Speaker 2: was wealthy.

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Speaker 5: I'm really just not interested in dealing with that anymore.

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Speaker 1: It's great, okay, justin. I'm sorry, man, not a good move.

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Speaker 1: But best of luck to you. Okay, thank you, thank.

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Speaker 2: You, Becky for your time. Good luck out there.

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Speaker 5: I'm a big fan of the show, so thanks for

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Speaker 5: calling me. I wish it was for something else, though,

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Speaker 5: maybe next time, something.

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Speaker 1: Else, Yeah, maybe maybe next time. Okay, thank you, Okay,

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