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Speaker 1: today's call our listener, Michelle says that she paid for

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Speaker 2: Why wouldn't the guy at least do one thing? I

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Speaker 3: If she's the one that set the date up, then

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Speaker 3: it's her responsibility.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I think it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Before we jump to any conclusions here, let's talk

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Speaker 1: to Michelle and find out what happened. Michelle, how you doing?

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Speaker 4: Hi?

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Speaker 5: I'm good. How are you guys doing good?

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Speaker 6: It's a good start.

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Speaker 3: Since you're on the phone with us, Some people come

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Speaker 3: in a little bit more fragile.

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Speaker 1: You seem like you're in good spirits, but clearly something's

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Speaker 1: going wrong if this guy isn't calling you back, So

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Speaker 1: tell us about the situation. Who is he?

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Speaker 5: Well, his name is Calvin. We met on a dating app.

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Speaker 3: And you I mean, my first question is are you

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Speaker 5: And it was pretty mutual in the beginning when we

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Speaker 5: we spoke on the phone a few times and face timed.

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Speaker 5: But I had at the topic of self care had

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Speaker 2: You say self care, Yeah.

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Speaker 5: Self care? Yeah okay, And so I asked him if

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Speaker 5: he ever had a manny and petty and he and

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Speaker 6: Every man get a man makes sense.

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Speaker 4: I've heard that my best friend gets manny's and petties,

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Speaker 6: They feel so good.

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Speaker 1: I had a guy friend going for a manny petty

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Speaker 6: Still going back, Ali, Yeah, Petty, Well yeah.

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Speaker 1: The place that he went wasn't a credited but but

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Speaker 1: took him to more reputable place. Yeah okay. So was

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Speaker 5: Yeah, Well, we didn't discuss it ahead of time, but

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Speaker 5: I paid for the whole thing because he didn't have

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Speaker 5: it wasn't It wasn't a big deal to me.

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Speaker 2: Whoa wallet?

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Speaker 5: What do you mean?

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Speaker 3: Like you pad the scene, like you don't find this

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Speaker 5: Yeah. So we got to the counter and he looked

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Speaker 5: I don't I don't have my wallet. It looks like

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Speaker 2: Hit him at the girls of the bars. You're like,

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Speaker 2: I've never tried to kilos.

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Speaker 6: If somebody buys you, I've never had my nails done,

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Speaker 2: That's so smart, I would.

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Speaker 3: She's like, exactly, who his phone isn't connected these days

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Speaker 6: You know what I mean?

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Speaker 1: My phone is not connected to my credit card. By

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Speaker 1: the way, it's called a life pack book. So thank

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Speaker 5: Thought of that too. I was like, oh, you can

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Speaker 6: One point, you have cash up and he said no.

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Speaker 5: Well he didn't have he didn't have any links.

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Speaker 1: Okay, this guy. He's had a rough he's had a

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Speaker 5: Like, yeah, so he loved it. And then after the

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Speaker 6: My gosh, oh right after it is a guy, you

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Speaker 3: There are so many pockets in those things, that's true.

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Speaker 5: It was like in a pocket within a pot. It

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Speaker 6: Suddenly I found my ID, so I can go into

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's fate smiling on your date right there.

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Speaker 6: So I mean at that point he should pay for

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Speaker 5: Well, let's rewind a little bit. So he had his

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Speaker 6: There's no understanding why are we calling him? I mean, look,

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Speaker 6: it's scamming her.

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Speaker 1: Alexis doesn't trust the guy unless he leaves the credit

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Speaker 2: Guys, have we thought? And I don't want to make

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Speaker 2: It's embarrassing. You don't just tell someone I have three

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Speaker 6: Take a date where you can afford something, then sure?

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Speaker 1: But what if this is all true? Though? What if

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Speaker 3: Okay, if it was true, Jeff, I would think that

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Speaker 6: The even if even if he wasn't.

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Speaker 3: Super interested, if it was true, he'd be like, let's

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Speaker 1: Yes, but the embarrassment and the shame of having to

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Speaker 2: I mean, my heart drops just thinking about that.

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Speaker 6: I don't know, she sounds pretty nice. She sounds like

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Speaker 5: Well, you know everything, what really is great? On our date.

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Speaker 5: I didn't mind paying. Things happen in life, and I

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Speaker 1: Okay, but at this point after the date, he's not

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Speaker 5: Right like I'll text and sometimes he doesn't respond at all,

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Speaker 3: Of like, sure, yeah that's right with Brook, Why is

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Speaker 2: He doesn't respond.

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Speaker 1: No, maybe he just forgot what pocket his phone was

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Speaker 3: Where are they finding all of these clothes with tiny

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Speaker 5: I mean I kind of gathered that maybe he's like

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that could be fun with him.

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Speaker 2: You want to I did.

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Speaker 5: I just want to know what's up, what's the deal?

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Speaker 5: I can't wait forever, but I do. I like his vibe.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Okay, Well maybe his ego is a little bit

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: So let's do that. We'll come back. We're gonna call

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Speaker 1: Calvin for you and try and get you a second date.

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Speaker 1: Update right after this second date update. Are we just

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Speaker 6: Wait that a question, Of course we are.

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Speaker 1: We shouldn't take that much pride in it, because, for

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Speaker 1: And most of us instantly thought, oh, this guy is

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Speaker 6: But I don't know that we went that far. Is

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Speaker 1: I heard Alexis say, why do you even want to

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Speaker 2: That's okay, keep going with the story, though it gets worse.

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Speaker 7: Why The bottom line is Michelle says she had a

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Speaker 1: Yeah, he was have.

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Speaker 2: A lot of money.

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Speaker 6: He found his wallet out, just his credit card.

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Speaker 3: Sounds a little scammy, but we'll try.

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Speaker 1: I guess the weird part is afterwards Calvin isn't offering

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Speaker 1: That's the weird part. Our thought is maybe nervousness and embarrassment.

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Speaker 1: Where are you at, Michelle?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I feel like he was nervous and embarrassed. I mean,

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Speaker 2: Yes, and we also make light of stuff.

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Speaker 6: We're half joking.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but you feel like he's a good guy deep down.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I'm all about the person and not money.

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Speaker 1: So Alexis just rolled her eyes at You're so sorry

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Speaker 8: Hello.

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Speaker 1: Hey is this Calvin?

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Speaker 8: Yeah? This Calvin's going on?

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Speaker 1: Hey, Hey Calvin, we're a radio show and we're hoping

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Speaker 1: to talk to you about your dating life a little bit.

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Speaker 8: What are you talking about? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: I know, It sounds a little bit weird, but it's

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Speaker 1: a segment that we do called a second date Update,

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Speaker 1: and that's where we help our listeners reconnect with somebody

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Speaker 8: Yeah, okay, So what's going on.

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Speaker 6: That one's interested in you? Is that surprising at all

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Speaker 6: to you? Calvin?

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Speaker 8: The way my life going, and yes, that's very surprising.

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Speaker 1: Hold on, don't get doubt on yourself because this is Michelle.

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Speaker 1: You guys went and got like manicure pedicure stuff together.

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Speaker 8: Ooh my god.

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Speaker 4: Oh oh okay, because that was like a very much.

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Speaker 3: If he's embarrassed by the date, that that's a natural reaction.

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Speaker 1: We heard a little from Michelle about it. We heard

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Speaker 2: Bro, it sounded like a mess and it didn't gain

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Speaker 3: I mean, And then there was like the excuse that

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Speaker 8: I'll be ready with you. I feel really bad about

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Speaker 5: Man.

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Speaker 3: Okay, you don't have to feel bad. She's still really

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Speaker 2: She brought that up to her like he may not have,

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Speaker 6: Text is free, So.

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Speaker 1: Don't take that from the woman who has her mom

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Speaker 1: we know that we know that you ended up finding

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Speaker 8: Yeah? Because I just didn't know how to tell her

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Speaker 1: She knows that we all go through tough times. So

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Speaker 6: I think we just said that.

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Speaker 1: What is your take on that.

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Speaker 8: I mean, honestly, I would probably say no because she's

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Speaker 3: No, why would you say that everybody goes through hard times.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, yeah, but I don't want to bring that into

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Speaker 6: Are you not single?

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Speaker 8: Where are you talking about, Seana phone?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's how this segment works. We have them listening

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Speaker 5: Hi, Calvin, Hi, Michelle. I mean, I haven't heard from you,

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Speaker 8: I just want to apologize up front. I'm just going

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Speaker 5: Well, I'm honestly, I mean that just means you're you're

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Speaker 1: What do you look at it interesting?

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Speaker 5: I mean, every business owner goes through this in the beginning,

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Speaker 5: I'm I'm willing to stick by you.

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Speaker 4: Know, basis when he's working out of his garage a billionaire.

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Speaker 6: He was already rich.

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Speaker 1: But yeah, okay, well, I mean, Calvin, she's willing to

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Speaker 8: Yeah, but I'm like fully broke man, like I have

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Speaker 5: It's not that you don't have any You're not materialistic.

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Speaker 5: It's not about money with you.

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Speaker 2: Oh god, you guys together.

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Speaker 3: Some of my best relationships they were men who didn't

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Speaker 2: Yeah, love them the moment.

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Speaker 1: Okay, we'll tell your husband to give up the house

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Speaker 1: and move into your Okay.

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Speaker 6: I'm just saying that.

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Speaker 1: It's a hard thing for her husband to hear. The

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Speaker 6: Yes, he's obviously my best. Why do you have to

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Speaker 6: compare everything? Jesus talking to my husband right now. I

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Speaker 2: You're hearing a.

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Speaker 1: Happy relationship on the phone right now. These people excuse me, Sorry, continue, Michelle.

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Speaker 5: He's not homeless. He has a home if he needs

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Speaker 5: to come here.

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Speaker 1: Wow, is that an offer?

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Speaker 2: Did you just a girl?

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Speaker 1: Calvin I mean.

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Speaker 8: I never thought about it anything like that. Honestly, be

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Speaker 2: Oh well, don't bring it up.

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Speaker 4: Now, obviously, Did you not learn anything from the last

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Speaker 1: Everything is good, Michelle. Did you have a problem with

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Speaker 5: No, I took it as it means that he's really

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Speaker 6: You cannot bring her down. No, I need to call

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Speaker 2: She could spin it.

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Speaker 1: Fam I mean, I think brook she sees this little

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Speaker 1: And there's nothing wrong with wanting to change a man

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Speaker 5: I don't want to change him. I don't need to

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Speaker 6: That's really nice. Don't pass this up, Calvin. This is

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Speaker 1: I mean, we would love to offer you guys to

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Speaker 1: it if you're willing to at least give it a shot. Calvin.

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Speaker 1: That way, you don't have to worry.

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Speaker 5: No no, no, no, no no no no no. Listen, guys,

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Speaker 5: this is my money, my choice. I want to pay

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Speaker 2: Okay, I wouldn't feel bad for Friday.

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Speaker 6: The need a financial decisions.

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Speaker 1: Calvin, I mean, what are you going to say? Are

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Speaker 8: She's offering the honor to Michelle. Thank you for even

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Speaker 3: So yes, I.

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Speaker 7: Would love to go on.

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Speaker 1: Are man?

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Speaker 6: This turned out so good? It like chipped away at

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Speaker 1: So I can't well, congratulations you too. You're gonna meet.

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Speaker 8: Up Michelle for real? Are you sure you want to

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Speaker 2: After all?

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Speaker 8: It is because you know every time on the day,

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Speaker 8: I'm just talking about myself.

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Speaker 2: Wait what what rule?

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Speaker 6: Maybe we could not do that.

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Speaker 5: I just looked at it like you're opening up to me.

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Speaker 5: You feel comfortable opening up to me, just.

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Speaker 2: Not as Wallace.

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Speaker 1: Jeffrey In the morning. We have a lot of texts

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Speaker 1: coming in at seventy five Night two. About this second date,

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Speaker 1: someone said, we absolutely have to get an update update

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Speaker 1: from these two. She is the most understanding woman in

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Speaker 3: I know. I'm actually like, I'm worried about her. Not

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Speaker 3: get taken advantage of can you live? You live open

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Speaker 4: She's gonna bean a guy who's like, yeah, I murdered

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Speaker 2: You sound very passionate.

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Speaker 1: Another text says, it's funny Brook called the guy a

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Speaker 1: Brook's heart was not melting with shame. It was melting

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Speaker 1: thinking about her homeless ex boyfriends. Let's give her some

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Speaker 6: Listen, you guys, it's not that I still love them.

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Speaker 6: They just it was a fun relationship.

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Speaker 2: You know, we're doing well.

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Speaker 6: We stayed at my house all the time.

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Speaker 1: That was the only option. Alexis, maybe did you learn

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Speaker 1: anything from this second date update? Anything you want to

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Speaker 6: Was I supposed to No?

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Speaker 1: No, never asked. Yeah. What I should be asking is

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Speaker 6: This makes me feel like we can do good things.

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Speaker 2: Truly want to us.

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Speaker 1: Out email the show. We'll call that person who's not

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Speaker 1: calling you back and go check out all of our

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Speaker 1: second Day podcasts wherever you get yours at brookn

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Speaker 2: Jeffrey Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning