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Speaker 1: suffering from an issue or hardship, you should seek help

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Speaker 2: Hi, Cheeky's, I just want to get election about marriage.

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Speaker 2: So I've been married for four years now and there

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Speaker 1: Ooh this is hard, Okay, lying, cheating, I mean that's

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Speaker 1: a lot. Hi Chrissa. By the way, sorry, it's just

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Speaker 1: I had to jump right into it because I was like,

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Speaker 1: what you should do. If I were you, I wouldn't

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Speaker 1: I just know myself. So if I were you, I

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Speaker 1: So deuces. You know it's not going to be easy

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Speaker 1: because it hurts. But I think you know the answer.

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Speaker 1: But I know it's scary to take that step. But

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Speaker 3: Hi, Tikis. I'm a big fan of yours. I've been

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Speaker 1: Oh, Danny, First of all, thank you so much for

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Speaker 5: You are a queen. Might I add I love Carol

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Speaker 1: it something different, okay, cool? I do love Carol And

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Speaker 4: that like, maybe days after that episode aired, your team

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