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Speaker 2: Hannah is on the phone today for a first day
Speaker 2: follow up. She's getting ghosted by a dude named Luke.
Speaker 2: So in a few minutes we're gonna call him and
Speaker 2: see if they tellus why he's ghosting here. But first, Hannah,
Speaker 2: how long has it beencis you heard from Luke?
Speaker 3: It's been about a week. I texted him a couple times,
Speaker 3: but not saying just radio silence.
Speaker 4: Really, so, did you feel like you were going to
Speaker 4: hear from him? Was the date good?
Speaker 5: No?
Speaker 3: No, it's so weird because he was texting me right
Speaker 3: after the date like that was fine.
Speaker 6: We should do it again and now poof absolutely nothing.
Speaker 4: Why don't you tell us about the date?
Speaker 2: Oh?
Speaker 3: Okay, So here's the deal. But we went on for Sushie,
Speaker 3: which I love. I thought it was a super solid start.
Speaker 3: You even let me pick out the restaurant, which was cool.
Speaker 3: I didn't think that a guy who doesn't like rawfish
Speaker 3: would suggest Sushie, but cool.
Speaker 6: We ended up ordering way too much food, it was.
Speaker 3: It was kind of a mess that we were both
Speaker 3: just like cracking jokes about it, especially when he nearly
Speaker 3: flung a piece of sashimi across the table driving to
Speaker 3: use the plastics.
Speaker 6: Yeah, it was cute. So afterwards we went for a walk,
Speaker 6: which was really sweet.
Speaker 3: It was kill low key, and it just felt like we
Speaker 3: were on the same wavelengths, you.
Speaker 4: Know, yeah, slinging sushi and you know, sweet conversation.
Speaker 2: So why do you think, oh man?
Speaker 6: Honestly, I I don't know, because I thought it went
Speaker 6: really really great. There was just like something about him.
Speaker 6: He was so funny.
Speaker 3: But maybe I messed up when I paid for dinner
Speaker 3: behind us back.
Speaker 6: But Bill was just like way.
Speaker 3: More than we expected, and I had ordered a really
Speaker 3: fancy sake and wag you advertiser. We thought he was
Speaker 3: thinking about it and I felt bad. So when he
Speaker 3: got up to use.
Speaker 6: The bathroom, I just went ahead and for the whole thing.
Speaker 6: So when he came back, I told him it wasn't
Speaker 6: a big deal.
Speaker 2: I'd marry you. It doesn't sound like a reason to
Speaker 2: goos through at all.
Speaker 6: Right, I mean, I can a florid it, And but
Speaker 6: he seemed like kind of irritated.
Speaker 3: He kept saying, you know, I could have paid for that,
Speaker 3: and I tried to explain that it didn't mean anything.
Speaker 3: I just felt guilty for ordering the expensive stuff like unconsciously.
Speaker 3: But maybe he thought that I was implying that he
Speaker 3: couldn't afford it or something.
Speaker 6: But I didn't really mean it like that. I was
Speaker 6: just trying to do something nice.
Speaker 3: But now I'm wondering if it like came off totally wrong.
Speaker 4: Well did he say thank you? Did like aside from
Speaker 4: the fact that he's like I could pay for it too,
Speaker 4: Was he appreciative of it?
Speaker 3: No, he did it just like it just like shifted
Speaker 3: divide like a little bit.
Speaker 6: But like not enough to like we still were planning
Speaker 6: on hanging out again. We both had talked about how
Speaker 6: it was fun, So I don't know.
Speaker 2: Maybe it's one of those weird old school type of things,
Speaker 2: you know, where he feels like a guy's.
Speaker 4: Got to pay or something, or maybe he didn't even
Speaker 4: have the option because you did it behind us back
Speaker 4: too for whatever reason. Again, like ju Will said, I
Speaker 4: would marry you.
Speaker 6: Right, I mean a girl who can take care of herself.
Speaker 2: What's the right right you need to date a new
Speaker 2: school dude to use you for everything? You're word phrase differently?
Speaker 2: All right, Well, we'll see if we can figure it
Speaker 2: out for you. We'll play a song come back, and
Speaker 2: then call him and see if he'll tell us why
Speaker 2: he's ghosting you and maybe get you another date. Okay, Okay,
Speaker 2: thank you, all right, we'll play a song, come back
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Speaker 2: If you're just joining us for today's first Date follow up.
Speaker 2: Hannah is on the phone and she's getting ghosted by Luke.
Speaker 2: So we're about to call him and see if he'll
Speaker 2: tell us why he's ghostinger and maybe get her another date.
Speaker 2: But first, Hannah, why don't you refresh our memory on your.
Speaker 3: Eight Okay, we went out for this super fun sushi day,
Speaker 3: but I ended up paying at the end because I
Speaker 3: thought i'd order two extensive things. So I'm I'm worried
Speaker 3: if that's why he disappeared.
Speaker 2: Okay, I don't know. I could see some guy being like,
Speaker 2: I don't want to go out with you again because
Speaker 2: you wouldn't let me pay.
Speaker 4: I could actually see that well, because he's probably like
Speaker 4: if he's thinking like, okay, well, what do I have
Speaker 4: to bring to the table or like somehow feeling bad
Speaker 4: about it.
Speaker 2: I don't know. We'll see you. Ready for us to
Speaker 2: call him?
Speaker 6: Oh, here we go, okay.
Speaker 2: Here we go. Hello, Hi, man, I speak to Luke please,
Speaker 2: uh hey, Luke? How are you? This is the Jubil Show.
Speaker 2: It's a radio show. Hi.
Speaker 4: I'm Nina.
Speaker 2: Hi, I'm Victoria and my name's Jubil. How are you.
Speaker 5: I'm sorry, it's like it's like a prank or something.
Speaker 2: No, it's not. Actually, we're calling you for a different reason.
Speaker 2: Have you ever listened to the show before?
Speaker 7: Yeah, yeah, I just I didn't expect you to call me.
Speaker 2: Okay, Well, we're calling you today because you're ghosting somebody.
Speaker 2: And we do a segment on the show called the
Speaker 2: First a follow up, you know where if you go
Speaker 2: on a date with someone and then you end up
Speaker 2: ghosting them, that person can email us to ask you
Speaker 2: why you're ghosting them. So do you know who would
Speaker 2: have emailed us about you?
Speaker 5: I am guessing this is about Hannah? Right? Yes?
Speaker 2: Oh, you got to correct. Congratulations, You've won nothing so far?
Speaker 4: Are you ghosting her?
Speaker 7: I'm not like ghosting her intentionally. I don't know the
Speaker 7: date was super fun. She's super cool. But it was
Speaker 7: it was honestly, it was just something that happened.
Speaker 2: After Okay, so you are ghosting her intentionally, she said,
Speaker 2: She texted you need a collar back. So yeah, so yeah, here, okay, okay,
Speaker 2: but why why yeah?
Speaker 8: Uh so the deal is, so, you know, after our
Speaker 8: day it was it was really good and uh, my
Speaker 8: buddy Andrew, so I was telling him about it.
Speaker 7: And uh, you know, staying so she paid for the
Speaker 7: meal and I, you know, behind my back, and I
Speaker 7: don't know, I just thought it was kind of weird.
Speaker 7: So I'm telling him about it, and uh he actually
Speaker 7: see a picture of her, and I showed him a
Speaker 7: picture and he just started cracking up. And uh it
Speaker 7: turns out that he went out with Hannah to.
Speaker 8: Okay that no, no, no, no, no, no, no, it's not
Speaker 8: It's not only that.
Speaker 5: It was that she did like the same exact thing
Speaker 5: with him.
Speaker 7: Big went to like a steakhouse and all like this
Speaker 7: expensive stuff, and like behind his back she paid with
Speaker 7: that telling him and and then he was saying that
Speaker 7: like happened a bunch of times, and he did, and
Speaker 7: he said his words that by the end he felt
Speaker 7: like she was treating him like some sort of boy
Speaker 7: toy that she could, like, you know, control with her money.
Speaker 2: Oh okay, and you don't want to be a boy toy?
Speaker 4: Is that what she's doing though? Or is that just
Speaker 4: I mean, I don't know why. It's like nice that
Speaker 4: she wants to treat you. Maybe not every single time,
Speaker 4: but do you think that she was making you feel
Speaker 4: like a boy toy at all, Luke when you were
Speaker 4: out with her.
Speaker 7: I mean, I'm not going to like jump to that conclusion,
Speaker 7: but it just like it felt weird, you know, it
Speaker 7: felt really weird.
Speaker 6: Ah.
Speaker 3: Wow, So because I'm too generous, I'm getting.
Speaker 2: Ghosted on the phone listening and wants to talk to you.
Speaker 7: Ah oh, Hannah, Hey, how how are you doing?
Speaker 6: Oh? Hi, Luke? I'm sorry.
Speaker 3: I didn't realize I was making you feel like my
Speaker 3: personal sugar baby.
Speaker 6: Seriously, look, I.
Speaker 3: Obviously had no idea that Andrew was your friend. Also,
Speaker 3: Andrew seems like super okay with the fact that I
Speaker 3: was paying for a lot of things.
Speaker 6: I have a nice job. He seems grateful. This is
Speaker 6: this is news to me.
Speaker 7: Yeah, I mean that's Andrew. Of course you're body something,
Speaker 7: but it just like sounded light cup pattern, and I
Speaker 7: don't know, I didn't want to get wrapped up in
Speaker 7: this whole like you're paying for everything and I'm just
Speaker 7: along for the ride thing.
Speaker 6: I mean, that's not it at all.
Speaker 3: I'm just you know, trying to not seem like a
Speaker 3: money grubbing woman myself.
Speaker 6: I have a nice job, so I wanted to get
Speaker 6: what I.
Speaker 3: Want to get without feeling real SA. So what isn't
Speaker 3: that a nice thing that I could take care of myself.
Speaker 7: Yeah, but I mean, like, you know, I can take
Speaker 7: care of myself too, And it just it feels weird
Speaker 7: that you're just paying for everything. I don't know, It's
Speaker 7: just it.
Speaker 5: Feels really weird, and I know, I don't know. It
Speaker 5: just like you can do it behind my back?
Speaker 3: Cool, Gay, Well that's fine. I'll find somebody who's hot
Speaker 3: and proud to be with the woman who can also
Speaker 3: take care of them.
Speaker 4: Well wait, Hannah, what is it about paying for your
Speaker 4: men every time you go out with them? That's like
Speaker 4: so important to you? Like, what is it about paying
Speaker 4: behind their back and like doing it every time that
Speaker 4: you like doing.
Speaker 6: It every time?
Speaker 3: I just don't want to feel like I'm beholden to
Speaker 3: a man, because I want really nice things and I'm
Speaker 3: not expecting anybody to pay for that when they don't.
Speaker 6: Really know me yet, you know, but you know what
Speaker 6: I mean, beholden, I know. Yeah, honestly, you're just missing out.
Speaker 5: You did.
Speaker 3: You didn't even get to the part where I buy
Speaker 3: you clothes yet?
Speaker 5: You know, I.
Speaker 3: Want like a man. I want a man who adores
Speaker 3: me and it's secure enough to you know, be okay
Speaker 3: with that?
Speaker 5: I mean I could buy my own clothes.
Speaker 6: I buy my own clothes.
Speaker 9: You sound like I can't do this, Well, I mean
Speaker 9: you can really really use the stylist and some new clothes,
Speaker 9: because man, that outfit was not really impressed me.
Speaker 3: But I'm done trying to impress someone who gets scared
Speaker 3: off by a little generosity.
Speaker 2: Well, Luke, would you like another day with Hannah? Will
Speaker 2: pay for it? I don't mean that's true. We shouldn't
Speaker 2: pay for it.
Speaker 5: I don't. I don't think I did, you know, I
Speaker 5: guess survive.
Speaker 7: The whole wardrobe overhaul, you know, for the pretty woman mate,
Speaker 7: So I don't think so all.
Speaker 3: Right, Well, no hard feelings, So good luck finding someone
Speaker 3: who won't spoil you too much? Okay, baby boy, Jubile's
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