Speaker 1: Second date of today. You know what they say about love,
Speaker 1: It can hit you any place, any time. Yeah, for sure,
Speaker 1: I don't believe, but any you just you don't know.
Speaker 1: It could happen outside the bathroom at an Applebee's I
Speaker 1: hope not. It could happen inside the bathroom at an
Speaker 1: apple outside sounds better. It could happen at a music
Speaker 1: festival that has a nearby Applebee's. Well, I just in
Speaker 1: my experience, love mostly happens within a two hundred yard
Speaker 1: radius of an Applebee's location. Huge degree right, it's very close. Yeah, yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: I met my husband at a bar outside, but that's
Speaker 1: where love happens wells. One of our listeners says she
Speaker 1: found love at a coffee shop right across the street
Speaker 1: from an Applebeech. Did I just make that up? Possibly?
Speaker 1: But we may never know, a Sizzler. The only way
Speaker 1: to find out for sure is to ask her, So, Jordan,
Speaker 1: did you find love in outside or near an Applebee's.
Speaker 1: I mean, I guess there is technically an Applebee's in
Speaker 1: the vicinity. It's the secret, the secret that no dating
Speaker 1: expert knows. Yeah, tell me more about this love that
Speaker 1: you found near the Applebee's who's this guy that you met? Well,
Speaker 1: I don't know yet. If it's love, okay, that's good.
Speaker 1: I'm hoping. I'm hoping he's really cute. Okay. So basically
Speaker 1: I'm a creature of habit. I'm one of these people
Speaker 1: that has the same routine every morning. I go to
Speaker 1: the same Starbucks, you know, same order and all this, okay,
Speaker 1: And he was like, really cute guy that was there
Speaker 1: almost every time I went in there, and I would
Speaker 1: try not to let him catch me staring at him,
Speaker 1: but I didn't really have the guts to talk to him.
Speaker 1: I mean, but that's cute though, Like you get so
Speaker 1: excited going into it, like if you know the guy
Speaker 1: is going to be there maybe, and then he's there
Speaker 1: and then your heart starts speedy. So were you able
Speaker 1: to actually meet him? What I ended up happening was
Speaker 1: I was there just a few minutes earlier than usual
Speaker 1: one day, and instead of being in my normal spot
Speaker 1: when he walked in, I was still waiting to get
Speaker 1: my drink and they called out my name, Jordan, and
Speaker 1: I went up to get my drink and he went
Speaker 1: up and grabbed it also, And at first I was like,
Speaker 1: this is actually really embarrassing because you know, I've had
Speaker 1: a crush on the guy for ages. But when he
Speaker 1: touched my cup, the first thing I did go, excuse me,
Speaker 1: that's mine, get yours off, my cup of Joe back off.
Speaker 1: So it's like as cute as ease. I immediately went
Speaker 1: into survival mode. I was like, I need, yeah, do
Speaker 1: not get in between a woman and her morning coffee. Okay,
Speaker 1: so what happened? Yeah, yeah, why did he take your cup?
Speaker 1: It turns out his name is also Jordan, because he
Speaker 1: was like, this is mine and I was like hello,
Speaker 1: they said Jordan, and he was like, my name's Jordan.
Speaker 1: And then it was like, oh my god, where the
Speaker 1: Jordan's If you were a couple, yeah, yeah, I felt
Speaker 1: like it was destiny. So we ended up having our
Speaker 1: coffee together that morning. Oh okay, all right, he forgave
Speaker 1: me for being rude and it went really well. Um
Speaker 1: So I actually ended up inviting him over because when
Speaker 1: we had been having coffee, I was showing him pictures
Speaker 1: in my phone of my dog and he's really into dogs.
Speaker 1: So I was like, okay, I'll use this as like
Speaker 1: a bridge, you know, because I figured that would be
Speaker 1: a signal to him that I was interested. I got
Speaker 1: to say, props on that move, like, I mean, it
Speaker 1: takes a lot of courage to do that. Good on you, right,
Speaker 1: I mean it's kind of baldy, right, I'm like, I'm
Speaker 1: over to my place, So yeah, he'd probably come without
Speaker 1: the dog though, right, Okay, you need an excuse. I
Speaker 1: feel like the dog was my way of saying we're
Speaker 1: not going to get naked. Yeah, really, that's what that means.
Speaker 1: Hang out. So what happened? Okay, so everyone's going great,
Speaker 1: he loves my dog. My dog loves him, which is
Speaker 1: a good sign because my dog really a good judge
Speaker 1: of character. Yeah, and we're just kind of chilling and
Speaker 1: watching TV and talking. It's really natural. And then all
Speaker 1: of a sudden, he was like, oh, I gotta get going,
Speaker 1: and he looked kind of like, I don't really know
Speaker 1: what's He looked tense. I guess, sort of strained. I
Speaker 1: don't know if something happened. Did he did he check
Speaker 1: his phone or something? And no, he just said he
Speaker 1: had to go and he left in a really big hurry.
Speaker 1: And I was kind of shocked, so I didn't really ask.
Speaker 1: I just kind of froze up. And then he was gone.
Speaker 1: You know, were there any awkward moments leading up to that? No,
Speaker 1: not really. Everything seemed like it was totally fine. Just
Speaker 1: it was. It was kind of out of the blue,
Speaker 1: and I could see on his face that something was
Speaker 1: definitely wrong. Okay, And since then, I of course still
Speaker 1: go in every morning and get my coffee and I
Speaker 1: have not seen him. Not only did he leave, but
Speaker 1: he's obviously not interested in you. That's weird. It's really weird,
Speaker 1: right because I'm like, what did I do? Like did
Speaker 1: he see a book on my bookshelf or something like
Speaker 1: what's the problem do you have Witchcraft one on one yet? There?
Speaker 1: Because sometimes I have some weird books, but you would
Speaker 1: only know they were weird if you had already read
Speaker 1: them yourself. So right, Well, have you tried to call him?
Speaker 1: I've texted him a few times and I have he
Speaker 1: hasn't returned. I don't really want to pressure him because
Speaker 1: I very well may run into him again. I don't
Speaker 1: want to be like, I'm not mad at the guy.
Speaker 1: I'm kind of concerned and I'm definitely confused. Okay, Well,
Speaker 1: last question before we go, how close is your apartment
Speaker 1: to an Applebee's. It's done. I'm just saying, I'm just
Speaker 1: saying it could be playing into this a little bit.
Speaker 1: If you're not close enough, you might need to move
Speaker 1: ye like a Bermuda triangle. I need to triangulate my
Speaker 1: apartment between Applebee or you go. Yes, you'll always be
Speaker 1: in the neighborhood. So we're going to play a song.
Speaker 1: We'll come back and then we'll call Jordan from you
Speaker 1: and we'll try and get you your second day up date.
Speaker 1: All right, Jordan, thank you so much. All right, hold
Speaker 1: on if you're just tuning in for the second day update.
Speaker 1: One of our listeners, Jordan, recently met a guy at
Speaker 1: a coffee shop and she's seen him there several times
Speaker 1: during her morning routine. Always thought he was cute, but
Speaker 1: she never had the courage to actually go up and
Speaker 1: talk to him until fate intervened. Oh my gosh, it
Speaker 1: was when the barista called out her name one morning
Speaker 1: and said Jordan. They both went to grab the cup
Speaker 1: at the same time, and turns out his name is
Speaker 1: also Jordan. That little encounter led to a day day
Speaker 1: where they had their coffees together. They went back to
Speaker 1: her apartment to meet her dog, who may also be
Speaker 1: named Jordan. We didn't ask. I'm not sure about that.
Speaker 1: But after a while Jordan, the guy started acting a
Speaker 1: little bit strange and said he had to get going. So, Jordan,
Speaker 1: you're ready for us to call the other Jordan as
Speaker 1: ready as Oliver. Oh my god, I just realized that
Speaker 1: when we both get you on the phone at the
Speaker 1: same time, this is going to be really confusing. Yeah,
Speaker 1: hope his voicesn't sound like yours, because Jordan, oh my god,
Speaker 1: you have a lot on the light. I feel like
Speaker 1: because you put a lot out there, like you were
Speaker 1: very vulnerable and asking him to like come to your
Speaker 1: house and hang out and like for him to just sleep. Okay,
Speaker 1: I'm making it bad our time. I agree with you.
Speaker 1: As soon as you introduce a guy to your dog, like,
Speaker 1: that's a big step. Technically, you should really introduce your
Speaker 1: go to your dog right away, because if your dog
Speaker 1: doesn't like someone, there's no point wasting any more time
Speaker 1: on them. I agree, it's a good point. All right, Well,
Speaker 1: let's call the other Jordan and we'll try and get
Speaker 1: you your second date update. You're ready, Yeah, okay, let's
Speaker 1: do this. Okay, here we go. Hello, Hi, is this Jordan? Uh? Yes,
Speaker 1: it was Hi Jordan. My name's Jeffrey from the radio
Speaker 1: show Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning. How you doing,
Speaker 1: I'm doing Okay? Um? Did I like win a prize
Speaker 1: or something? What is what is up? Yeah? Well maybe
Speaker 1: in a way. We're doing a segment on our show
Speaker 1: called the Second Date Update. That's where if you go
Speaker 1: out with somebody and afterwards, if that person's not calling
Speaker 1: you back, you can email us and we'll call that
Speaker 1: person for you to try and figure out the reason why. Okay,
Speaker 1: makes sense, Yeah, it makes sense. But why are you
Speaker 1: calling me? Well, we got an email from a woman
Speaker 1: about you recently, and she shares the same name as you. Do.
Speaker 1: You know, I'm talking about actually dating three Jordans. Guess
Speaker 1: who it might be? Yeah, you know what, I actually
Speaker 1: I think I know who you're talking about. But just
Speaker 1: we could probably say it this time. You could just
Speaker 1: tell it I'm not interested. Oh why do you say that?
Speaker 1: I'm not trying to like be a jerk here, but
Speaker 1: she's just not an honest persons. Really, I mean, it
Speaker 1: doesn't nice. I know. Well, we spoke to her. She
Speaker 1: came across pretty genuine to us. Well, and the other
Speaker 1: thing is it's like, you guys met at a coffee
Speaker 1: shop and hung out for like an hour, Like how
Speaker 1: much can you lie in that amount of time. It's
Speaker 1: not even like she could catfish you or Okay, so
Speaker 1: she told you about the coffee shop, whatever did she
Speaker 1: tell you? Like, she invited me back to her place, yeah,
Speaker 1: to come meet her dog, right, And she did mention
Speaker 1: that after you were hanging out for a while, your
Speaker 1: behavior changed a little bit, but she wasn't sure why. Yeah,
Speaker 1: my behavior probably changed a lot because I just kind
Speaker 1: of bounced, Yeah what happened. So we're hanging out and
Speaker 1: I saw her keychain on the counter, and I couldn't
Speaker 1: help but notice that it was one of those like
Speaker 1: key chains like with a name on it. So I'm
Speaker 1: like expecting, okay, I'm gonna say Jordan on it, and
Speaker 1: it didn't. It said Monica, Okay, you know. So I
Speaker 1: was like, all right, it's a little weird you have
Speaker 1: a key chain with somebody else's name on it, But
Speaker 1: I'm I'm not gonna like blow up over that. So
Speaker 1: when she went to the bathroom, she had like a
Speaker 1: stack of mail on the counter. I wasn't like going
Speaker 1: to go through with like all her mail and stuff.
Speaker 1: But like you know, I saw the names right on
Speaker 1: it and it said Monica. Oh. I flipped to the
Speaker 1: next one and it also said Monica. So like, this
Speaker 1: chick's name is not Jordan. Her name is Monica. What
Speaker 1: are you sure she doesn't have like a roommate or
Speaker 1: something like It could be somebody else on the bills,
Speaker 1: or or she changed her name or she lives. As
Speaker 1: far as I know, she lived by herself, I mean,
Speaker 1: with her dog. But honestly, I think she made this
Speaker 1: whole Jordan thing up. I think she knew my name
Speaker 1: was Jordan, because I don't know if she's something like stalker,
Speaker 1: like she knew my name was Jordan. She made up
Speaker 1: this whole thing so we'd have like this meat cut
Speaker 1: and like, I don't need that kind of crazy in
Speaker 1: my life. Big allegations, Well, she does go to the
Speaker 1: same coffee shop as you every day, and maybe she
Speaker 1: has noticed before she just used it as a way
Speaker 1: to four it. What's wrong with that? It's why you guys,
Speaker 1: I don't think it's her name. I think that there's
Speaker 1: like some other Monica. I think we're jumping to conclusions.
Speaker 1: I think if she wanted to use that as like
Speaker 1: our cute meeting thing, but look like, don't go through
Speaker 1: our whole conversation and then get back to your place, okay,
Speaker 1: and not tell me, well, Jordan's real name is Monica.
Speaker 1: I can tell you're all worked up, and I know
Speaker 1: that you think what you think, but maybe there's an
Speaker 1: explanation or a reasoning behind this. And I think we
Speaker 1: can actually get an explanation right now, because I need
Speaker 1: to tell you Jordan or possibly Monica is actually on
Speaker 1: the other line listening. Jordan, Monica, are you there? Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm still here. Oh my god. You guys didn't tell
Speaker 1: me she's on the phone. Well I think I did
Speaker 1: just tell you that she was on the phone. It
Speaker 1: just came out a little bit later than I probably
Speaker 1: should have. Sorry about it. Yeah, great, tons of honest
Speaker 1: people are on here doing awesome. We don't act like that, Jordan.
Speaker 1: He brings up a good point, but yeah, sorry, but female, Jordan,
Speaker 1: I'm not a liar, I promise, and I'm not a
Speaker 1: stalker either, So that's usually not very comforting, Like you
Speaker 1: need something else to back that up. What is the deal, then,
Speaker 1: is your name Jordan or not? My name is legally Monica. Okay,
Speaker 1: it's hard to explain, you guys. It's m I'm a
Speaker 1: very shy person, you know, and Monica had a crush
Speaker 1: on this guy for a long time and was too
Speaker 1: shot to talk to him. And then I had this
Speaker 1: idea of how I could meet him, and you know what,
Speaker 1: it was awesome and he talked to me and he
Speaker 1: listened to me, and it was great and I got confidence,
Speaker 1: you know, so I started actually going by Jordan because
Speaker 1: it just it was like I got to be somebody
Speaker 1: else you did. Were you trying to go by Jordan
Speaker 1: before we met, or did you just start doing this
Speaker 1: since you found out it was my name. No, it
Speaker 1: was literally like spur the moment, Like I sat there
Speaker 1: that morning and when you came in, I thought, oh
Speaker 1: my gosh, I could just tell them my name is Jordan,
Speaker 1: and then I'd have a reason to talk to him.
Speaker 1: And then after we talked, it was so nice for me,
Speaker 1: Like I don't ever approach strangers, and nobody really ever
Speaker 1: approaches me. You know, I'm very shy and I keep
Speaker 1: to myself, so it was like so different for me
Speaker 1: to talk to a stranger and it went so well,
Speaker 1: and honestly, It's really changed my life for the better
Speaker 1: because now I'm not so shy and now I'm not
Speaker 1: so scared to talk to strangers. So you're going by
Speaker 1: Jordan all the time. Then, yeah, I changed my name
Speaker 1: at work, and I gotta tell you, people are treating
Speaker 1: me differently. Okay, Jordan the man, Jordan, how does this
Speaker 1: make you feel hearing all this. I'm happy for you
Speaker 1: that things seem to be going better and like you're
Speaker 1: finding this new lease on life. But like you didn't
Speaker 1: need to take my name to change. I don't know,
Speaker 1: like your attitude about things, I just I'm a little
Speaker 1: I'm still kind of weirded out. Yeah, but Jordan mail Jordan,
Speaker 1: I told you this is gonna be weird. I mean,
Speaker 1: you're already a confident person, so like it's easy for
Speaker 1: you to say that. Yeah, but it's not because my
Speaker 1: name's Jordan, Like right, it could be for whatever reasons
Speaker 1: you're confident. But like, I don't know. Now I'm starting
Speaker 1: to think maybe there's something to the name Jordan. I'm
Speaker 1: kind of wanting to change my name to Jordan right now.
Speaker 1: All I'm saying is I think confidence is like a
Speaker 1: fake it tell you make it type of situation and
Speaker 1: if a name change is what gets you to the
Speaker 1: next level of having a little bit more. I mean,
Speaker 1: of all the names Jordan, you know, I'm just saying,
Speaker 1: what about alexis you guys? It's not like I was like, Oh,
Speaker 1: I'm going to change my name to Jordan, everything will
Speaker 1: be different. It was literally like, oh my god, I'm
Speaker 1: just going to tell the Starbucks lady my name is
Speaker 1: Jordan to talk to this cute guy. And then it
Speaker 1: was like a new world opened up to me, and
Speaker 1: I thought, you know what, I like being Jordan better
Speaker 1: than I like being Monica. I think it started as
Speaker 1: kind of a weird thing that has changed your life.
Speaker 1: So I don't know how to feel. Was it spoken
Speaker 1: like a true Jordan there? I think it's time for
Speaker 1: me to ask, oh, how do I do this? Um, well,
Speaker 1: I guess male Jordan, would you be interested in going
Speaker 1: out on another date with female Jordan. We will pay
Speaker 1: for it. I'm gonna be honest. I think if the
Speaker 1: truth had come out when we got back to your house,
Speaker 1: and I think maybe I might have laughed at it
Speaker 1: and kind of thought it was cute. But like I think,
Speaker 1: since I found out on my own. I'm sorry. I
Speaker 1: just like, honestly, he's big with man. I just I
Speaker 1: don't think I can I don't think I can do it. Oh, dude,
Speaker 1: she's shy, Like what was she supposed to do? Like, Oh,
Speaker 1: I stopped you at the coffee shop and figured out
Speaker 1: your name and pretended my name was that. You wouldn't
Speaker 1: have liked that. Yeah, and besides, that was Monica. That
Speaker 1: was acting weird, Jordan, Now go out with her, give
Speaker 1: her one more chance. Yeah, sorry, guys, I'm just I'm
Speaker 1: not changing my mind. Done it well, Jordan female Jordan,
Speaker 1: I'm sorry about that. No second date. Honestly, it's it's okay,
Speaker 1: Like I'm glad that I know what happened, and I
Speaker 1: think he definitely misinterpreted the situation. But you know what,
Speaker 1: like that's life. He didn't understand. He didn't know me before.
Speaker 1: He's only spent one hour with me. Look at the
Speaker 1: new Jordan figured it out. She's doing it all. That's right, Jordan,
Speaker 1: you do you? Yeah, I am definitely changing my name
Speaker 1: to Jordan. Jordan. Brooke and Jordan in the Morning Jordan
Speaker 1: and Jordan's Jordan Snatch. Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning