WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Coffee Shop Jordan's

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<v Speaker 1>Second date of today. You know what they say about love,

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<v Speaker 1>It can hit you any place, any time. Yeah, for sure,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't believe, but any you just you don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>It could happen outside the bathroom at an Applebee's I

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<v Speaker 1>hope not. It could happen inside the bathroom at an

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<v Speaker 1>apple outside sounds better. It could happen at a music

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<v Speaker 1>festival that has a nearby Applebee's. Well, I just in

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<v Speaker 1>my experience, love mostly happens within a two hundred yard

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<v Speaker 1>radius of an Applebee's location. Huge degree right, it's very close. Yeah, yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I met my husband at a bar outside, but that's

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<v Speaker 1>where love happens wells. One of our listeners says she

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<v Speaker 1>found love at a coffee shop right across the street

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<v Speaker 1>from an Applebeech. Did I just make that up? Possibly?

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<v Speaker 1>But we may never know, a Sizzler. The only way

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<v Speaker 1>to find out for sure is to ask her, So, Jordan,

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<v Speaker 1>did you find love in outside or near an Applebee's.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I guess there is technically an Applebee's in

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<v Speaker 1>the vicinity. It's the secret, the secret that no dating

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<v Speaker 1>expert knows. Yeah, tell me more about this love that

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<v Speaker 1>you found near the Applebee's who's this guy that you met? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know yet. If it's love, okay, that's good.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm hoping. I'm hoping he's really cute. Okay. So basically

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<v Speaker 1>I'm a creature of habit. I'm one of these people

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<v Speaker 1>that has the same routine every morning. I go to

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<v Speaker 1>the same Starbucks, you know, same order and all this, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>And he was like, really cute guy that was there

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<v Speaker 1>almost every time I went in there, and I would

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<v Speaker 1>try not to let him catch me staring at him,

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<v Speaker 1>but I didn't really have the guts to talk to him.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, but that's cute though, Like you get so

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<v Speaker 1>excited going into it, like if you know the guy

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<v Speaker 1>is going to be there maybe, and then he's there

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<v Speaker 1>and then your heart starts speedy. So were you able

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<v Speaker 1>to actually meet him? What I ended up happening was

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<v Speaker 1>I was there just a few minutes earlier than usual

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<v Speaker 1>one day, and instead of being in my normal spot

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<v Speaker 1>when he walked in, I was still waiting to get

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<v Speaker 1>my drink and they called out my name, Jordan, and

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<v Speaker 1>I went up to get my drink and he went

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<v Speaker 1>up and grabbed it also, And at first I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>this is actually really embarrassing because you know, I've had

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<v Speaker 1>a crush on the guy for ages. But when he

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<v Speaker 1>touched my cup, the first thing I did go, excuse me,

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<v Speaker 1>that's mine, get yours off, my cup of Joe back off.

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<v Speaker 1>So it's like as cute as ease. I immediately went

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<v Speaker 1>into survival mode. I was like, I need, yeah, do

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<v Speaker 1>not get in between a woman and her morning coffee. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so what happened? Yeah, yeah, why did he take your cup?

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<v Speaker 1>It turns out his name is also Jordan, because he

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<v Speaker 1>was like, this is mine and I was like hello,

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<v Speaker 1>they said Jordan, and he was like, my name's Jordan.

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<v Speaker 1>And then it was like, oh my god, where the

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<v Speaker 1>Jordan's If you were a couple, yeah, yeah, I felt

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<v Speaker 1>like it was destiny. So we ended up having our

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<v Speaker 1>coffee together that morning. Oh okay, all right, he forgave

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<v Speaker 1>me for being rude and it went really well. Um

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<v Speaker 1>So I actually ended up inviting him over because when

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<v Speaker 1>we had been having coffee, I was showing him pictures

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<v Speaker 1>in my phone of my dog and he's really into dogs.

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<v Speaker 1>So I was like, okay, I'll use this as like

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<v Speaker 1>a bridge, you know, because I figured that would be

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<v Speaker 1>a signal to him that I was interested. I got

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<v Speaker 1>to say, props on that move, like, I mean, it

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<v Speaker 1>takes a lot of courage to do that. Good on you, right,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean it's kind of baldy, right, I'm like, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>over to my place, So yeah, he'd probably come without

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<v Speaker 1>the dog though, right, Okay, you need an excuse. I

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<v Speaker 1>feel like the dog was my way of saying we're

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<v Speaker 1>not going to get naked. Yeah, really, that's what that means.

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<v Speaker 1>Hang out. So what happened? Okay, so everyone's going great,

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<v Speaker 1>he loves my dog. My dog loves him, which is

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<v Speaker 1>a good sign because my dog really a good judge

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<v Speaker 1>of character. Yeah, and we're just kind of chilling and

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<v Speaker 1>watching TV and talking. It's really natural. And then all

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<v Speaker 1>of a sudden, he was like, oh, I gotta get going,

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<v Speaker 1>and he looked kind of like, I don't really know

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<v Speaker 1>what's He looked tense. I guess, sort of strained. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know if something happened. Did he did he check

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<v Speaker 1>his phone or something? And no, he just said he

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<v Speaker 1>had to go and he left in a really big hurry.

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<v Speaker 1>And I was kind of shocked, so I didn't really ask.

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<v Speaker 1>I just kind of froze up. And then he was gone.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, were there any awkward moments leading up to that? No,

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<v Speaker 1>not really. Everything seemed like it was totally fine. Just

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<v Speaker 1>it was. It was kind of out of the blue,

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<v Speaker 1>and I could see on his face that something was

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<v Speaker 1>definitely wrong. Okay, And since then, I of course still

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<v Speaker 1>go in every morning and get my coffee and I

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<v Speaker 1>have not seen him. Not only did he leave, but

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<v Speaker 1>he's obviously not interested in you. That's weird. It's really weird,

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<v Speaker 1>right because I'm like, what did I do? Like did

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<v Speaker 1>he see a book on my bookshelf or something like

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<v Speaker 1>what's the problem do you have Witchcraft one on one yet? There?

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<v Speaker 1>Because sometimes I have some weird books, but you would

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<v Speaker 1>only know they were weird if you had already read

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<v Speaker 1>them yourself. So right, Well, have you tried to call him?

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<v Speaker 1>I've texted him a few times and I have he

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<v Speaker 1>hasn't returned. I don't really want to pressure him because

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<v Speaker 1>I very well may run into him again. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>want to be like, I'm not mad at the guy.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm kind of concerned and I'm definitely confused. Okay, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>last question before we go, how close is your apartment

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<v Speaker 1>to an Applebee's. It's done. I'm just saying, I'm just

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<v Speaker 1>saying it could be playing into this a little bit.

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<v Speaker 1>If you're not close enough, you might need to move

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<v Speaker 1>ye like a Bermuda triangle. I need to triangulate my

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<v Speaker 1>apartment between Applebee or you go. Yes, you'll always be

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<v Speaker 1>in the neighborhood. So we're going to play a song.

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<v Speaker 1>We'll come back and then we'll call Jordan from you

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<v Speaker 1>and we'll try and get you your second day up date.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, Jordan, thank you so much. All right, hold

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<v Speaker 1>on if you're just tuning in for the second day update.

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<v Speaker 1>One of our listeners, Jordan, recently met a guy at

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<v Speaker 1>a coffee shop and she's seen him there several times

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<v Speaker 1>during her morning routine. Always thought he was cute, but

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<v Speaker 1>she never had the courage to actually go up and

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<v Speaker 1>talk to him until fate intervened. Oh my gosh, it

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<v Speaker 1>was when the barista called out her name one morning

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<v Speaker 1>and said Jordan. They both went to grab the cup

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<v Speaker 1>at the same time, and turns out his name is

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<v Speaker 1>also Jordan. That little encounter led to a day day

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<v Speaker 1>where they had their coffees together. They went back to

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<v Speaker 1>her apartment to meet her dog, who may also be

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<v Speaker 1>named Jordan. We didn't ask. I'm not sure about that.

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<v Speaker 1>But after a while Jordan, the guy started acting a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit strange and said he had to get going. So, Jordan,

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<v Speaker 1>you're ready for us to call the other Jordan as

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<v Speaker 1>ready as Oliver. Oh my god, I just realized that

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<v Speaker 1>when we both get you on the phone at the

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<v Speaker 1>same time, this is going to be really confusing. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>hope his voicesn't sound like yours, because Jordan, oh my god,

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<v Speaker 1>you have a lot on the light. I feel like

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<v Speaker 1>because you put a lot out there, like you were

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<v Speaker 1>very vulnerable and asking him to like come to your

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<v Speaker 1>house and hang out and like for him to just sleep. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm making it bad our time. I agree with you.

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<v Speaker 1>As soon as you introduce a guy to your dog, like,

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<v Speaker 1>that's a big step. Technically, you should really introduce your

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<v Speaker 1>go to your dog right away, because if your dog

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't like someone, there's no point wasting any more time

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<v Speaker 1>on them. I agree, it's a good point. All right, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>let's call the other Jordan and we'll try and get

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<v Speaker 1>you your second date update. You're ready, Yeah, okay, let's

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<v Speaker 1>do this. Okay, here we go. Hello, Hi, is this Jordan? Uh? Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>it was Hi Jordan. My name's Jeffrey from the radio

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<v Speaker 1>show Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning. How you doing,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm doing Okay? Um? Did I like win a prize

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<v Speaker 1>or something? What is what is up? Yeah? Well maybe

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<v Speaker 1>in a way. We're doing a segment on our show

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<v Speaker 1>called the Second Date Update. That's where if you go

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<v Speaker 1>out with somebody and afterwards, if that person's not calling

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<v Speaker 1>you back, you can email us and we'll call that

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<v Speaker 1>person for you to try and figure out the reason why. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>makes sense, Yeah, it makes sense. But why are you

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<v Speaker 1>calling me? Well, we got an email from a woman

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<v Speaker 1>about you recently, and she shares the same name as you. Do.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, I'm talking about actually dating three Jordans. Guess

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<v Speaker 1>who it might be? Yeah, you know what, I actually

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<v Speaker 1>I think I know who you're talking about. But just

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<v Speaker 1>we could probably say it this time. You could just

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<v Speaker 1>tell it I'm not interested. Oh why do you say that?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not trying to like be a jerk here, but

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<v Speaker 1>she's just not an honest persons. Really, I mean, it

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't nice. I know. Well, we spoke to her. She

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<v Speaker 1>came across pretty genuine to us. Well, and the other

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<v Speaker 1>thing is it's like, you guys met at a coffee

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<v Speaker 1>shop and hung out for like an hour, Like how

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<v Speaker 1>much can you lie in that amount of time. It's

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<v Speaker 1>not even like she could catfish you or Okay, so

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<v Speaker 1>she told you about the coffee shop, whatever did she

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<v Speaker 1>tell you? Like, she invited me back to her place, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>to come meet her dog, right, And she did mention

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<v Speaker 1>that after you were hanging out for a while, your

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<v Speaker 1>behavior changed a little bit, but she wasn't sure why. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>my behavior probably changed a lot because I just kind

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<v Speaker 1>of bounced, Yeah what happened. So we're hanging out and

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<v Speaker 1>I saw her keychain on the counter, and I couldn't

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<v Speaker 1>help but notice that it was one of those like

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<v Speaker 1>key chains like with a name on it. So I'm

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<v Speaker 1>like expecting, okay, I'm gonna say Jordan on it, and

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<v Speaker 1>it didn't. It said Monica, Okay, you know. So I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, all right, it's a little weird you have

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<v Speaker 1>a key chain with somebody else's name on it, But

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<v Speaker 1>I'm I'm not gonna like blow up over that. So

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<v Speaker 1>when she went to the bathroom, she had like a

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<v Speaker 1>stack of mail on the counter. I wasn't like going

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<v Speaker 1>to go through with like all her mail and stuff.

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<v Speaker 1>But like you know, I saw the names right on

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<v Speaker 1>it and it said Monica. Oh. I flipped to the

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<v Speaker 1>next one and it also said Monica. So like, this

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<v Speaker 1>chick's name is not Jordan. Her name is Monica. What

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<v Speaker 1>are you sure she doesn't have like a roommate or

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<v Speaker 1>something like It could be somebody else on the bills,

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<v Speaker 1>or or she changed her name or she lives. As

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<v Speaker 1>far as I know, she lived by herself, I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>with her dog. But honestly, I think she made this

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<v Speaker 1>whole Jordan thing up. I think she knew my name

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<v Speaker 1>was Jordan, because I don't know if she's something like stalker,

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<v Speaker 1>like she knew my name was Jordan. She made up

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<v Speaker 1>this whole thing so we'd have like this meat cut

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<v Speaker 1>and like, I don't need that kind of crazy in

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<v Speaker 1>my life. Big allegations, Well, she does go to the

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<v Speaker 1>same coffee shop as you every day, and maybe she

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<v Speaker 1>has noticed before she just used it as a way

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<v Speaker 1>to four it. What's wrong with that? It's why you guys,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think it's her name. I think that there's

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<v Speaker 1>like some other Monica. I think we're jumping to conclusions.

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<v Speaker 1>I think if she wanted to use that as like

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<v Speaker 1>our cute meeting thing, but look like, don't go through

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<v Speaker 1>our whole conversation and then get back to your place, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>and not tell me, well, Jordan's real name is Monica.

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<v Speaker 1>I can tell you're all worked up, and I know

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<v Speaker 1>that you think what you think, but maybe there's an

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<v Speaker 1>explanation or a reasoning behind this. And I think we

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<v Speaker 1>can actually get an explanation right now, because I need

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<v Speaker 1>to tell you Jordan or possibly Monica is actually on

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<v Speaker 1>the other line listening. Jordan, Monica, are you there? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm still here. Oh my god. You guys didn't tell

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<v Speaker 1>me she's on the phone. Well I think I did

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<v Speaker 1>just tell you that she was on the phone. It

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<v Speaker 1>just came out a little bit later than I probably

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<v Speaker 1>should have. Sorry about it. Yeah, great, tons of honest

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<v Speaker 1>people are on here doing awesome. We don't act like that, Jordan.

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<v Speaker 1>He brings up a good point, but yeah, sorry, but female, Jordan,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not a liar, I promise, and I'm not a

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<v Speaker 1>stalker either, So that's usually not very comforting, Like you

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<v Speaker 1>need something else to back that up. What is the deal, then,

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<v Speaker 1>is your name Jordan or not? My name is legally Monica. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>it's hard to explain, you guys. It's m I'm a

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<v Speaker 1>very shy person, you know, and Monica had a crush

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<v Speaker 1>on this guy for a long time and was too

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<v Speaker 1>shot to talk to him. And then I had this

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<v Speaker 1>idea of how I could meet him, and you know what,

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<v Speaker 1>it was awesome and he talked to me and he

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<v Speaker 1>listened to me, and it was great and I got confidence,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, so I started actually going by Jordan because

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<v Speaker 1>it just it was like I got to be somebody

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<v Speaker 1>else you did. Were you trying to go by Jordan

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<v Speaker 1>before we met, or did you just start doing this

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<v Speaker 1>since you found out it was my name. No, it

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<v Speaker 1>was literally like spur the moment, Like I sat there

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<v Speaker 1>that morning and when you came in, I thought, oh

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<v Speaker 1>my gosh, I could just tell them my name is Jordan,

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<v Speaker 1>and then I'd have a reason to talk to him.

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<v Speaker 1>And then after we talked, it was so nice for me,

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<v Speaker 1>Like I don't ever approach strangers, and nobody really ever

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<v Speaker 1>approaches me. You know, I'm very shy and I keep

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<v Speaker 1>to myself, so it was like so different for me

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<v Speaker 1>to talk to a stranger and it went so well,

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<v Speaker 1>and honestly, It's really changed my life for the better

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<v Speaker 1>because now I'm not so shy and now I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>so scared to talk to strangers. So you're going by

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<v Speaker 1>Jordan all the time. Then, yeah, I changed my name

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<v Speaker 1>at work, and I gotta tell you, people are treating

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<v Speaker 1>me differently. Okay, Jordan the man, Jordan, how does this

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<v Speaker 1>make you feel hearing all this. I'm happy for you

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<v Speaker 1>that things seem to be going better and like you're

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<v Speaker 1>finding this new lease on life. But like you didn't

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<v Speaker 1>need to take my name to change. I don't know,

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<v Speaker 1>like your attitude about things, I just I'm a little

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<v Speaker 1>I'm still kind of weirded out. Yeah, but Jordan mail Jordan,

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<v Speaker 1>I told you this is gonna be weird. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>you're already a confident person, so like it's easy for

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<v Speaker 1>you to say that. Yeah, but it's not because my

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<v Speaker 1>name's Jordan, Like right, it could be for whatever reasons

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<v Speaker 1>you're confident. But like, I don't know. Now I'm starting

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<v Speaker 1>to think maybe there's something to the name Jordan. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>kind of wanting to change my name to Jordan right now.

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<v Speaker 1>All I'm saying is I think confidence is like a

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<v Speaker 1>fake it tell you make it type of situation and

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<v Speaker 1>if a name change is what gets you to the

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<v Speaker 1>next level of having a little bit more. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>of all the names Jordan, you know, I'm just saying,

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<v Speaker 1>what about alexis you guys? It's not like I was like, Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm going to change my name to Jordan, everything will

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<v Speaker 1>be different. It was literally like, oh my god, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>just going to tell the Starbucks lady my name is

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<v Speaker 1>Jordan to talk to this cute guy. And then it

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<v Speaker 1>was like a new world opened up to me, and

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<v Speaker 1>I thought, you know what, I like being Jordan better

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<v Speaker 1>than I like being Monica. I think it started as

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<v Speaker 1>kind of a weird thing that has changed your life.

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<v Speaker 1>So I don't know how to feel. Was it spoken

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<v Speaker 1>like a true Jordan there? I think it's time for

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<v Speaker 1>me to ask, oh, how do I do this? Um, well,

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<v Speaker 1>I guess male Jordan, would you be interested in going

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<v Speaker 1>out on another date with female Jordan. We will pay

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<v Speaker 1>for it. I'm gonna be honest. I think if the

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<v Speaker 1>truth had come out when we got back to your house,

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<v Speaker 1>and I think maybe I might have laughed at it

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<v Speaker 1>and kind of thought it was cute. But like I think,

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<v Speaker 1>since I found out on my own. I'm sorry. I

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<v Speaker 1>just like, honestly, he's big with man. I just I

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<v Speaker 1>don't think I can I don't think I can do it. Oh, dude,

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<v Speaker 1>she's shy, Like what was she supposed to do? Like, Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I stopped you at the coffee shop and figured out

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<v Speaker 1>your name and pretended my name was that. You wouldn't

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<v Speaker 1>have liked that. Yeah, and besides, that was Monica. That

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<v Speaker 1>was acting weird, Jordan, Now go out with her, give

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<v Speaker 1>her one more chance. Yeah, sorry, guys, I'm just I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not changing my mind. Done it well, Jordan female Jordan,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry about that. No second date. Honestly, it's it's okay,

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<v Speaker 1>Like I'm glad that I know what happened, and I

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<v Speaker 1>think he definitely misinterpreted the situation. But you know what,

0:15:50.160 --> 0:15:53.080
<v Speaker 1>like that's life. He didn't understand. He didn't know me before.

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<v Speaker 1>He's only spent one hour with me. Look at the

0:15:56.080 --> 0:16:01.920
<v Speaker 1>new Jordan figured it out. She's doing it all. That's right, Jordan,

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<v Speaker 1>you do you? Yeah, I am definitely changing my name

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<v Speaker 1>to Jordan. Jordan. Brooke and Jordan in the Morning Jordan

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<v Speaker 1>and Jordan's Jordan Snatch. Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning