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Speaker 1: It can hit you any place, any time. Yeah, for sure,

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Speaker 1: I don't believe, but any you just you don't know.

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Speaker 1: It could happen outside the bathroom at an Applebee's I

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Speaker 1: hope not. It could happen inside the bathroom at an

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Speaker 1: apple outside sounds better. It could happen at a music

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Speaker 1: festival that has a nearby Applebee's. Well, I just in

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Speaker 1: radius of an Applebee's location. Huge degree right, it's very close. Yeah, yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I met my husband at a bar outside, but that's

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Speaker 1: where love happens wells. One of our listeners says she

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Speaker 1: from an Applebeech. Did I just make that up? Possibly?

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Speaker 1: But we may never know, a Sizzler. The only way

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Speaker 1: to find out for sure is to ask her, So, Jordan,

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Speaker 1: I mean, I guess there is technically an Applebee's in

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Speaker 1: the vicinity. It's the secret, the secret that no dating

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Speaker 1: expert knows. Yeah, tell me more about this love that

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Speaker 1: you found near the Applebee's who's this guy that you met? Well,

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Speaker 1: I don't know yet. If it's love, okay, that's good.

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Speaker 1: I'm hoping. I'm hoping he's really cute. Okay. So basically

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Speaker 1: I'm a creature of habit. I'm one of these people

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Speaker 1: And he was like, really cute guy that was there

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Speaker 1: So it's like as cute as ease. I immediately went

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Speaker 1: so what happened? Yeah, yeah, why did he take your cup?

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Speaker 1: And then it was like, oh my god, where the

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Speaker 1: Jordan's If you were a couple, yeah, yeah, I felt

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Speaker 1: We'll come back and then we'll call Jordan from you

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Speaker 1: and we'll try and get you your second day up date.

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Speaker 1: All right, Jordan, thank you so much. All right, hold

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Speaker 1: on if you're just tuning in for the second day update.

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Speaker 1: One of our listeners, Jordan, recently met a guy at

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Speaker 1: hope his voicesn't sound like yours, because Jordan, oh my god,

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Speaker 1: I'm making it bad our time. I agree with you.

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Speaker 1: As soon as you introduce a guy to your dog, like,

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Speaker 1: do this. Okay, here we go. Hello, Hi, is this Jordan? Uh? Yes,

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Speaker 1: it was Hi Jordan. My name's Jeffrey from the radio

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Speaker 1: show Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning. How you doing,

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Speaker 1: I'm doing Okay? Um? Did I like win a prize

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Speaker 1: person for you to try and figure out the reason why. Okay,

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Speaker 1: makes sense, Yeah, it makes sense. But why are you

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Speaker 1: He brings up a good point, but yeah, sorry, but female, Jordan,

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Speaker 1: So I don't know how to feel. Was it spoken

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Speaker 1: like that's life. He didn't understand. He didn't know me before.

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Speaker 1: new Jordan figured it out. She's doing it all. That's right, Jordan,

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