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Speaker 2: It's the bread and butter segment. Hm aka the reddit segment.

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Speaker 2: This is where bread and butter is is how the

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Speaker 3: Great, you explained the joke and now it's three times

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Speaker 3: it's funny.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, triple the laughs here on APWSDR.

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Speaker 3: Not the Instagram. You can't make that the instag I'm not.

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Speaker 2: Gonna do it. I didn't even say it. You're the

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Speaker 2: one that brought it up. Fuck, just get real mad.

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Speaker 2: We haven't even started. We can't let me start. Okay,

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Speaker 2: and goofy.

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Speaker 3: Today, my thirty female husband forty three male got me

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Speaker 3: a Homer Simpson sweatshirt from Primark for my thirtieth birthday.

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Speaker 2: Good husband. Yeah, I'm assuming you're a fan of the Simpsons. No, okay,

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Speaker 2: that's the best part. Okay, just going to Walmart fucking

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Speaker 2: me Like, yeah, I get you know what Invader zim

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Speaker 2: I guess. Yeah, I would have loved.

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Speaker 3: That if you gave that to me for my birthday.

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Speaker 3: But it's fine, it's valid. This woman doesn't want to

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Speaker 3: I get you, Okay. I turned thirty last Friday. All

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Speaker 3: my family and friends are in a different country, and

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Speaker 3: I moved here permanently after marrying my husband, so special

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Speaker 3: days always feel a little.

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Speaker 2: Bit lonely to me. Oh that sucks.

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Speaker 3: I also just had my first child at the end

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Speaker 3: of July, so life has been chaos. I've been with

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Speaker 3: my husband for four years, married for nearly two. I've

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Speaker 3: never been the type to make a big fuss about

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Speaker 3: birthdays holidays, but I suppose I felt like my thirtieth

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Speaker 2: That's very yeah, any of the tens, you know, Yeah,

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Speaker 2: it is a big deal.

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Speaker 3: Money is tight, so I never expect I was never

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Speaker 3: expecting some grandiose gift, but he literally only got me

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Speaker 3: a Homer Simpson sweatshirt from Primark. It wasn't even wrapped

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Speaker 3: or in a bag. He just sort of handed it

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Speaker 2: No courtesy, just straight up like, here you go, in

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Speaker 2: the bag with the receipt within it. Birthday, you all

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Speaker 2: feel less chaotic and less lonely Homer Simpson.

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Speaker 3: Dude, I would be so confused if I've never really

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Speaker 3: liked Homer Simpson. And my partner was just like, here

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Speaker 3: you go, and it's like, what is this even about?

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Speaker 3: Oh I forgot it's my birthday.

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Speaker 2: Hey, Hey, Sarah, I know that, like you know, listen,

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Speaker 2: twenty seven is a big number for you. Yeah, I

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Speaker 2: know you really love television. So here's the Sons of Anarchy.

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Speaker 2: I've never watched in my life. Watch. I heard it's good,

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Speaker 2: but I don't know. Maybe you're not gonna like it though,

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Speaker 2: That's exactly okay.

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Speaker 3: I wasn't even It was just sort of handed to me.

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Speaker 3: There's no significance to the shirt either, no inside joke

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Speaker 3: or anything like that. We didn't do anything. There was

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Speaker 3: it just really hurt my feelings. His mom and stepdad's

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Speaker 3: birthdays were both earlier the same month. And we did

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Speaker 3: more financially otherwise for both of them than was done

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Speaker 3: for me.

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Speaker 2: Think you just found out who's a priority and who

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Speaker 3: And it's not like I did the whole say I

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Speaker 3: don't want anything, We'll see you really hoping for something thing.

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Speaker 3: I feel like, especially with my daughter having just arrived,

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Speaker 3: a thoughtful gift would have been really simple this year.

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Speaker 3: I printed out and framed photo of her and I

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Speaker 3: even would have been nice if he'd just suggest we

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Speaker 3: I told him he could do have a redo. It's

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Speaker 3: I don't think it will. My feelings are really are

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Speaker 2: How do I move past this?

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Speaker 3: I feel like I have communicated my feelings about the

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Speaker 3: kind of past now too long. Didn't Rea turn thirty

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Speaker 3: and all? My husband got me was a Homer Simpson sweatshirt.

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Speaker 2: That's so sad. That's really sad. Yeah, you know someone

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Speaker 2: for four years, you moved to a whole different country and.

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Speaker 3: You're just like, I don't know, you want to just

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Speaker 2: The middle of summer. Fucking wait a minute, mid summer

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Speaker 2: if it was this month.

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Speaker 3: But I mean, like still, and if they're in a

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Speaker 3: different country, they might not different. We live in specific weather,

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Speaker 3: you know, but like, that's crazy, that's so wild, it's

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Speaker 3: so weird. My advice because I will say as a

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Speaker 2: It was a making of my own doing.

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Speaker 3: Okay, I did the thing where I was like I

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Speaker 3: the Homer Simpsons sweatshirt. No, you drove me to the beach,

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Speaker 3: which was really nice, and that it made it feel special,

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Speaker 3: the pink donut and the sweatshirt.

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Speaker 2: He went on a monorail. I'm just making Simpsons references now, Okay,

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Speaker 2: I don't know why. I don't know why. That's where

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Speaker 2: my brain's going around okay, whatever, disregard.

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Speaker 3: But yeah, I've been through there, and some other people

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Speaker 3: gave some good advice to this person. Buy something for yourself.

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Speaker 3: Make a point to celebrate yourself and buy yourself a gift,

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Speaker 3: so that at the very least, if you don't, if

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Speaker 2: It does feel like shit, oh for sure.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, But as someone it's like, I don't have extended

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Speaker 3: family that I, you know, will get happy birthdays from.

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Speaker 3: I think it is the one of the first years

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Speaker 3: that your family actually remembered my birthday, Which is not

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Speaker 3: a diss on them, because I we don't interact that although.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and I know, I feel like we're both the

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Speaker 2: kind of people that don't really mention our birthdays to

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Speaker 3: I'm not like texting everyone like it's my.

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Speaker 2: Birthday, you know, I don't do that shit. So it was.

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Speaker 3: Actually very nice this year, Like your dad, your mom,

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Speaker 2: It was really nice.

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Speaker 3: And uh, I think the biggest difference for me was

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Speaker 3: when I'm unhappy, I want to be appreciated more. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: and when I am happy, I'm okay with a smaller celebration. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: but also you do have to give your like, you know,

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Speaker 3: I did hair did the peer. I let you know

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Speaker 3: it was done, and I don't expect anything more, you

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Speaker 3: But the other thing that people are saying is because

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Speaker 3: he did kind of double down and be like, oh,

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Speaker 3: I'm so sorry, you know, and they didn't do anything.

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Speaker 3: Don't give him shit for his birthday. Oh yeah, no,

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Speaker 3: I was gonna say that too. No, or you give

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Speaker 3: him a Mars Simpson. That's what someone said. That's the

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Speaker 3: top Marge Simpson sweatshirt for.

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Speaker 2: I didn't even read this fucking one. My thing with

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Speaker 2: you can't do that. Yeah, you gotta give yourself the

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Speaker 2: this would be for you, but now I like the Simpsons,

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Speaker 3: Yeah, myself or just you know, he's like, oh, it's

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, fuck, let's go to let's go to

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Speaker 2: a dollar tree right now.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I'll get you a don't know, off breast. You

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Speaker 3: want a little paper hat with the fuck huh. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: it's just like yeah, mockery.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, that's crazy your husband for sure. Yeah, that's

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Speaker 2: the advice that I give me. Hell yeah, bully your husband. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: put him in his fucking place.

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Speaker 3: Sometimes this ship does. If he continues, it's kind of.

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Speaker 2: It's a problem. It's a big problem. Yeah. Yeah, you

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Speaker 2: which I mean, I guess it's been a week. But

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Speaker 3: It's one of those things where it's like the beginning

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's it's kind it's a pretty big red flag

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Speaker 2: if it continues. Yeah. God, just the fucking handigu sweater.

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Speaker 2: It's so crazy. There you go. I guess you deserve

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Speaker 3: I think Primark is like our Walmart I assume I

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Speaker 3: don't know what it is. If you have a primark,

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Speaker 3: explain to me what it is in the comments down below.

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Speaker 2: But yeah, no, I feel like that's great. There's like

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Speaker 2: Like it's it's really funny that it's really funny though,

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Speaker 2: And Peter Griffin, none, dude, dude, just be like what

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Speaker 2: Bob from Bob's Broken that is.

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Speaker 3: Such the experience of being a woman is like I

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Speaker 3: moved to this country just to be with you, and

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Speaker 3: we had a baby, and I don't have any of

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Speaker 2: Yeah it's not even like a bit, it's really I got.

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Speaker 2: All I got was a stupid T shirt. Yeah, that's

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Speaker 2: a joke. That's actually a reality. It's a joke because

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Speaker 2: it's shitty. Yeah, could you imagine? But it is? Oh, man,

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Speaker 2: I packed up and moved house and fucking left my

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Speaker 3: And yeah, I think and I think also it's really

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Speaker 3: funny that the reddit is not being like divorced, move

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Speaker 3: out of there because they know how deep of a

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Speaker 3: hole she's in. Yeah, it's more like this is how

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Speaker 3: you deal. Yeah, that's sad. Wow fucking yeah, Jesus, Yeah,

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Speaker 3: that's all that ship. All that ship, bro, Easy peasy,

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Speaker 3: lemon fucking squeeze. I don't know wh I'm saying that

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Speaker 3: so much. I feel like I'm regressing verbosely. Was there

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Speaker 3: don't think so. How is it regressing?

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Speaker 2: Just like my brain's regressing, I think?

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Speaker 3: Oh, like, Okay, I see what you mean.

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Speaker 2: Am I the asshole for telling my sister? Her reaction

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Speaker 2: I don't know how you can make fun of Alana.

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Speaker 2: She told me I was rude and should listen to

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Speaker 3: I'm a little drunk and I've been playing Assassin's Creed three,

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so okay, possible. Uh, there's no reason. I don't

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Speaker 3: No, she's not. She's being over the top.

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Speaker 2: You know. Yeah, there needs to you need to it first.

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Speaker 3: Right unless there's an update where she's like, and I was,

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Speaker 2: Yeah, like a thing explain like you know, like yeah,

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Speaker 2: of Alana on a baby? Yeah? I know.

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Speaker 3: The first thing I think it was a lot of

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Speaker 2: Yeah, exactly, that's that's it. Actually, that's who bullied the

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Speaker 2: It wasn't a lot, It was a lot of peers

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Speaker 3: I the op sister was like, Alana, don't you know

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Speaker 2: Stand or something.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, She's like, how dare you name your completely separate

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Speaker 2: Dare you? Dude?

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Speaker 3: And it was a great name.

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Speaker 2: That's a great name. Yeah. I think it's a it's

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Speaker 2: you know Alana the times, Yeah, it seems like, yeah,

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Speaker 2: you can still use it today. Yeah, it fits regardless

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Speaker 2: of era. Grandma Alana kind of rhymes. It's been nice.

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Speaker 2: You have a fucking hip rap dude, Mama Alana. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: that's cute. It's cute. Yeah, it works. I love it.

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Speaker 2: That's yeah. Let us know your prejudices down below about

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Speaker 2: the name A lot you're unjust fucking stupid ass reasons

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Speaker 2: for hating that name. Yeah, what the fuck? Wird you? Yeah? Why?

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Speaker 2: What's wrong? I don't know, but we solved it. We

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Speaker 2: figured it out ahead. Dude, something in your fucking brain

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Speaker 3: Oh we can get our booster now at CBS.

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Speaker 2: Yay, Yeah, get vaccinated please.

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Speaker 3: Someone tweeted that they love getting their vaccines because it's

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Speaker 3: like a software update for them, and I'm like, you

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Speaker 2: Just you're fucking yeah getting my micro chip update. It's

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Speaker 2: not even a vaccine. It's like a fuck, it's a

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Speaker 2: barcode scan QR code R code on my head. All right,

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Speaker 2: I fuck it up, guys.

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Speaker 3: Holy shit, my female twenty five new friend female twenty

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Speaker 3: four insalted. My wedding band ooh, fucked up, fucked up,

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Speaker 3: A few days ago, I was hanging out with one

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Speaker 2: Who fucking asked? Who asked? I'm so ready, let's go.

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Speaker 3: But she responded that she didn't like it and that

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Speaker 3: I of course don't expect to everyone to like it,

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Speaker 3: because it is very sentimental. Yeah, even though I tried

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Speaker 3: As a joke, I said to her, Uh, well thanks,

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Speaker 2: Being friends with them. You what a great way? What

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Speaker 3: Yeah. Catch more flies with honey than vinegar, Yeah, catch

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Speaker 3: My best friend's a senior year quote. Hell is it

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Speaker 2: That's good.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, okay. Ten minutes after this, she meant she started

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Speaker 3: Just like after this, I told her that I understood

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Speaker 3: Is it too extreme if I cut her off? Is

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Speaker 2: No? No, too long?

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Speaker 3: Didn't read new friend insulted my wedding band and I

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Speaker 2: Is it too extreme?

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Speaker 3: Not?

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Speaker 2: Uh? Not? Not A months months of knowing someone and

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Speaker 3: they're rude to you all the time and they feel

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00:20:43,359 --> 00:20:44,680
Speaker 3: like they can just disrespect you.

435
00:20:44,920 --> 00:20:46,919
Speaker 2: What the fuck's the point then, Yeah, of having a

436
00:20:46,960 --> 00:20:48,600
Speaker 2: friend that's going to be shitty to you, Like.

437
00:20:48,600 --> 00:20:51,640
Speaker 3: I mean, I'm down here, reminded my own fucking business,

438
00:20:51,840 --> 00:20:53,639
Speaker 3: and you come up and you're rude to me for

439
00:20:53,880 --> 00:20:59,120
Speaker 3: some stupid read because you're jealous or you're insecure about yourself. Yeah,

440
00:20:59,160 --> 00:21:03,080
Speaker 3: in your life, dude, chill, I don't need that weird

441
00:21:03,160 --> 00:21:03,920
Speaker 3: drama shit.

442
00:21:04,240 --> 00:21:06,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, Like you don't have to be such a weird

443
00:21:06,280 --> 00:21:09,720
Speaker 2: little freak about like you know, it's just a fucking

444
00:21:09,800 --> 00:21:14,280
Speaker 2: band dude, Like, yeah, who cares? Like who cares? Why

445
00:21:14,320 --> 00:21:18,800
Speaker 2: you have to be so lavish and fucking pompous about God?

446
00:21:18,920 --> 00:21:19,880
Speaker 2: It's It's the.

447
00:21:19,800 --> 00:21:22,399
Speaker 3: Only thing I can think about is like maybe she

448
00:21:22,520 --> 00:21:25,600
Speaker 3: thought she was like flaunting her ring, but it's normal.

449
00:21:25,240 --> 00:21:27,800
Speaker 2: For women to be like, look at you, look look

450
00:21:27,840 --> 00:21:30,359
Speaker 2: at this. Ooh bitch, I got married. It also seems like,

451
00:21:30,400 --> 00:21:32,040
Speaker 2: you know, it wasn't like the first thing in that

452
00:21:32,080 --> 00:21:32,880
Speaker 2: conversation that.

453
00:21:32,960 --> 00:21:35,400
Speaker 3: Reason it was the first fifteen minutes, was the first

454
00:21:35,400 --> 00:21:35,880
Speaker 3: fifty minutes.

455
00:21:35,880 --> 00:21:37,840
Speaker 2: Okay, that's like, yeah, it's a big deal. Yeah, you're

456
00:21:37,840 --> 00:21:40,280
Speaker 2: getting married. You know, that's the big deal. It's not

457
00:21:40,359 --> 00:21:44,280
Speaker 2: the it's not the like ooh look at me, and yeah.

458
00:21:44,160 --> 00:21:45,919
Speaker 3: It's like, yeah, no, I don't want to be friends

459
00:21:45,920 --> 00:21:49,280
Speaker 3: with a jealous bitch that yeah, exactly my wedding ring

460
00:21:49,359 --> 00:21:52,320
Speaker 3: and thinks I'm being like, look at how expensive.

461
00:21:51,760 --> 00:21:52,320
Speaker 2: My ring is.

462
00:21:52,400 --> 00:21:56,760
Speaker 3: No, No, my love my husband in my life. Yeah,

463
00:21:56,920 --> 00:21:58,960
Speaker 3: and I'm sharing a fun moment with.

464
00:21:58,920 --> 00:22:05,640
Speaker 2: You, you know. Nope. Sometimes if you just are negative, yeah,

465
00:22:05,760 --> 00:22:07,800
Speaker 2: to a certain extent, Like I don't know, like if.

466
00:22:07,640 --> 00:22:11,080
Speaker 3: You're everyone knows. Everyone knows that if you're a fucking

467
00:22:11,119 --> 00:22:14,159
Speaker 3: horrible person up in the inside and you just are

468
00:22:14,240 --> 00:22:17,399
Speaker 3: judging everyone else around you, Yeah, because you judge yourself

469
00:22:17,480 --> 00:22:20,679
Speaker 3: very harshly. Not everyone is gonna want to crack that shell.

470
00:22:21,000 --> 00:22:25,040
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, for sure. Some of us have work, some

471
00:22:25,080 --> 00:22:26,200
Speaker 2: of us have to do other shit.

472
00:22:26,320 --> 00:22:28,480
Speaker 3: It's not our job to like make you come out

473
00:22:28,480 --> 00:22:31,920
Speaker 3: of your a nice person. Yeah, Like I don't want

474
00:22:31,920 --> 00:22:34,560
Speaker 3: to do that in my friends with friends anymore. Yeah, exactly.

475
00:22:34,680 --> 00:22:37,199
Speaker 3: It's a very like nineteen twenty year old thing for

476
00:22:37,320 --> 00:22:38,919
Speaker 3: me was I would make friends.

477
00:22:38,640 --> 00:22:40,159
Speaker 2: With the people that were so shitty just because you

478
00:22:40,160 --> 00:22:43,320
Speaker 2: want to have friends, Yeah, and just let them past that. Man. Yeah,

479
00:22:43,320 --> 00:22:46,080
Speaker 2: I got ship to do. Yeah, I don't have fucking time.

480
00:22:46,320 --> 00:22:48,440
Speaker 2: I need to do that. I'm getting married or whatever.

481
00:22:48,720 --> 00:22:58,040
Speaker 2: Yeah fuck getting married. Surprised. No, I don't need it.

482
00:22:58,160 --> 00:23:00,520
Speaker 2: I need this negativity in my fucking life. Get out

483
00:23:00,520 --> 00:23:00,760
Speaker 2: of here.

484
00:23:00,880 --> 00:23:03,040
Speaker 3: And I think it's valid, but I think it's weird.

485
00:23:03,119 --> 00:23:06,800
Speaker 3: It's like it's uh in women friendships. And I only

486
00:23:06,800 --> 00:23:08,480
Speaker 3: say this because I'm a woman and I've tried to

487
00:23:08,480 --> 00:23:11,360
Speaker 3: make friends with women over and I've had this problem

488
00:23:11,400 --> 00:23:14,119
Speaker 3: a lot of times. Yeah, And it's just like, if

489
00:23:14,160 --> 00:23:16,560
Speaker 3: I feel like we're not vibe, we should not talk anymore.

490
00:23:16,960 --> 00:23:20,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, but it's like a you did you know you?

491
00:23:20,520 --> 00:23:21,520
Speaker 2: Blah blah blah, it's.

492
00:23:21,400 --> 00:23:24,480
Speaker 3: A friend breakup or whatever. It's like, no, we just

493
00:23:24,520 --> 00:23:26,400
Speaker 3: aren't on the same wavelength.

494
00:23:26,640 --> 00:23:27,800
Speaker 2: Yeah.

495
00:23:27,880 --> 00:23:31,200
Speaker 3: And also now I'm on the other side where I've

496
00:23:31,240 --> 00:23:34,560
Speaker 3: met people who are like, we don't have to text

497
00:23:34,600 --> 00:23:36,000
Speaker 3: every fucking day.

498
00:23:36,720 --> 00:23:37,480
Speaker 2: God damn it.

499
00:23:37,720 --> 00:23:40,440
Speaker 3: Yeah, and we can take time away from each other

500
00:23:40,480 --> 00:23:42,280
Speaker 3: and be like, hey, it's fine, and we can come

501
00:23:42,320 --> 00:23:45,080
Speaker 3: back and be like and talk about our feelings and

502
00:23:45,119 --> 00:23:49,400
Speaker 3: have like regular conversations yeah, and not worry and even

503
00:23:49,440 --> 00:23:51,560
Speaker 3: have disagreements and be like.

504
00:23:52,680 --> 00:23:54,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, because you know, like you can just readbout stuff.

505
00:23:54,480 --> 00:23:56,800
Speaker 2: I mean yeah, like that's be adults about it. Yeah

506
00:23:56,840 --> 00:23:59,040
Speaker 2: for sure, you know, I mean yeah, it doesn't have

507
00:23:59,080 --> 00:24:01,520
Speaker 2: to shouldn't be over some stupid like a fucking ring

508
00:24:01,800 --> 00:24:04,119
Speaker 2: is like yeah, where it's like, you know, like I

509
00:24:04,160 --> 00:24:06,080
Speaker 2: fucking hate your ring? Yeah, why do you have to

510
00:24:06,080 --> 00:24:10,880
Speaker 2: bring that up? You don't have to fucking do that? Yeah? God, yeah, ridiculous. Man.

511
00:24:10,920 --> 00:24:13,199
Speaker 2: Am I the asshole for making a joke about my

512
00:24:13,240 --> 00:24:17,080
Speaker 2: wife's intelligence? Yes? Well, hold on, I'm.

513
00:24:17,160 --> 00:24:19,080
Speaker 3: King even if she's stupid, you shouldn't do that.

514
00:24:19,280 --> 00:24:22,320
Speaker 2: Yeah. My wife is an extremely big heart and cares

515
00:24:22,359 --> 00:24:23,639
Speaker 2: for everyone around her.

516
00:24:23,680 --> 00:24:26,160
Speaker 3: Which makes it okay that she's stupid as shit.

517
00:24:26,320 --> 00:24:29,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's why I can bully her. She's always my wife,

518
00:24:30,040 --> 00:24:32,639
Speaker 2: love of my life. She always tends to see the

519
00:24:32,720 --> 00:24:35,520
Speaker 2: absolute best in people, which leads to people taking advantage

520
00:24:35,560 --> 00:24:38,440
Speaker 2: of her. She's been robbed because of her optimistic outlook

521
00:24:38,480 --> 00:24:40,879
Speaker 2: on life. My wife is the timid type, never the

522
00:24:40,920 --> 00:24:45,880
Speaker 2: confrontational type, and not the sharpest tool in the shed. Lover,

523
00:24:46,560 --> 00:24:49,159
Speaker 2: I have a very good friend whom I'm referring to

524
00:24:49,200 --> 00:24:52,719
Speaker 2: a stand for anonymity purposes. Stan and I have been

525
00:24:52,720 --> 00:24:57,760
Speaker 2: friends for a very long time. Since poses, I have

526
00:24:57,800 --> 00:24:59,680
Speaker 2: a very good friend who I'm referring to a stand

527
00:24:59,720 --> 00:25:02,840
Speaker 2: for anonymous reasons. There you go. Stand It and I

528
00:25:02,920 --> 00:25:04,879
Speaker 2: have been friends for a very long time, and he

529
00:25:04,920 --> 00:25:07,560
Speaker 2: is an extremely intelligent man with a PhD and a

530
00:25:07,600 --> 00:25:12,119
Speaker 2: professor at Esteemed University. When restrictions eased, Stan came to

531
00:25:12,200 --> 00:25:15,360
Speaker 2: visit me. My wife is very interested in Stan's line

532
00:25:15,400 --> 00:25:17,919
Speaker 2: of work. When I introduced Stan to my wife, she

533
00:25:18,040 --> 00:25:20,720
Speaker 2: began to ask him questions, all related to his career.

534
00:25:21,320 --> 00:25:23,639
Speaker 2: He answered them politely, but it felt more like an

535
00:25:23,720 --> 00:25:26,840
Speaker 2: impromptu interview than two friends catching up. When my wife

536
00:25:26,920 --> 00:25:30,159
Speaker 2: was around, I told my wife that her fascination with

537
00:25:30,200 --> 00:25:33,680
Speaker 2: Stan's career could possibly make him very uncomfortable. I didn't

538
00:25:33,720 --> 00:25:37,080
Speaker 2: ask Stan, though. She apologized and promised to not ask

539
00:25:37,160 --> 00:25:43,080
Speaker 2: questions and only speak when spoken to. Nice awful crazy nice?

540
00:25:43,200 --> 00:25:44,879
Speaker 2: Wait did he say that to her? She said that

541
00:25:45,000 --> 00:25:48,359
Speaker 2: to him? What? She apologized and promised to not ask

542
00:25:48,480 --> 00:25:53,280
Speaker 2: questions and only speak when spoken to. Okay, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, okay.

543
00:25:53,359 --> 00:25:55,480
Speaker 2: I got many things to say a lot of things. Yeah,

544
00:25:55,480 --> 00:25:58,080
Speaker 2: okay yeah. I invited Stan and his wife to a

545
00:25:58,119 --> 00:26:01,800
Speaker 2: friendly dinner and Stan's wife complimented my wife on her

546
00:26:01,880 --> 00:26:05,480
Speaker 2: multi lingualism. My wife is stupid and doesn't but knows

547
00:26:05,560 --> 00:26:10,119
Speaker 2: multiple languages. She's curious, she knows multiple languages. She sounds

548
00:26:10,119 --> 00:26:13,160
Speaker 2: like a wonderfully intelligent person. Yeah, and she's kind and

549
00:26:13,200 --> 00:26:16,040
Speaker 2: she's kind, she's the smartest, most intelligent thing. You got

550
00:26:16,080 --> 00:26:19,080
Speaker 2: a holy trinity right here of good person. Yeah, and

551
00:26:19,119 --> 00:26:22,399
Speaker 2: you're degrading her for no reason. I invited San and

552
00:26:22,440 --> 00:26:24,960
Speaker 2: his wife to a friendly dinner, and San's wife complimented

553
00:26:25,000 --> 00:26:27,680
Speaker 2: my wife on her multi lingualism, and my wife could

554
00:26:27,760 --> 00:26:30,720
Speaker 2: not stop gushing about it when they left. She's very

555
00:26:30,720 --> 00:26:33,320
Speaker 2: insecure in the presence of very intelligent people, and getting

556
00:26:33,320 --> 00:26:37,160
Speaker 2: a compliment from an exteningly intelligent person, especially a linguist.

557
00:26:37,520 --> 00:26:39,679
Speaker 2: Linguist must have boosted her self esteem.

558
00:26:39,760 --> 00:26:42,919
Speaker 3: Yeah, probably because you're tearing her down all the time. Yeah,

559
00:26:43,000 --> 00:26:44,200
Speaker 3: if this is how you think of her.

560
00:26:44,400 --> 00:26:47,520
Speaker 2: I politely asked her to stop talking about my friends,

561
00:26:47,680 --> 00:26:50,680
Speaker 2: but she started rambling about how someone's saying you sound

562
00:26:50,720 --> 00:26:53,159
Speaker 2: like a native is a very meaningful comment. Who are

563
00:26:53,160 --> 00:26:56,040
Speaker 2: considering a bunch of other factors? Absolutely, Oh my god.

564
00:26:56,080 --> 00:26:58,240
Speaker 3: If I learned Spanish to that point and someone said

565
00:26:58,240 --> 00:26:59,560
Speaker 3: that to me, I would be over the moon.

566
00:27:00,240 --> 00:27:03,000
Speaker 2: I made a harmless joke about why she's so surprised

567
00:27:03,000 --> 00:27:07,320
Speaker 2: about someone complimenting her intelligence is because she's not that intelligent.

568
00:27:08,119 --> 00:27:11,080
Speaker 2: Instead of laughing along, she got offended, and I tried

569
00:27:11,119 --> 00:27:13,920
Speaker 2: to explain myself by saying that no normal person would

570
00:27:14,000 --> 00:27:17,600
Speaker 2: keep talking about one compliment that a stranger gave to them,

571
00:27:17,960 --> 00:27:20,760
Speaker 2: and that I knew she was obviously insecure being in

572
00:27:20,760 --> 00:27:23,919
Speaker 2: the presence of very intelligent people, and that compliment is

573
00:27:23,960 --> 00:27:28,080
Speaker 2: acting as quote compensation. I don't know what the fuck that. Okay,

574
00:27:28,119 --> 00:27:30,200
Speaker 2: that's fucking weird. Yeah, I just want to know where

575
00:27:30,200 --> 00:27:35,560
Speaker 2: he is. Yeah, that's all I want to know to

576
00:27:35,600 --> 00:27:37,480
Speaker 2: this guy. That's all I wanted to talk to this guy.

577
00:27:37,680 --> 00:27:40,000
Speaker 2: She's very upset with me, and I've tried to have

578
00:27:40,040 --> 00:27:43,159
Speaker 2: an adult conversation with her, but she's not listening to

579
00:27:43,200 --> 00:27:44,520
Speaker 2: me because she's a child.

580
00:27:44,840 --> 00:27:47,280
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm sorry I keep interrupting, but this one's pissing

581
00:27:47,359 --> 00:27:47,800
Speaker 3: me off.

582
00:27:47,840 --> 00:27:50,800
Speaker 2: So am I the Asshole? Here is an edit? Oh god,

583
00:27:51,480 --> 00:27:54,440
Speaker 2: I get it, I'm an asshole. I'll apologize and try

584
00:27:54,480 --> 00:27:59,159
Speaker 2: to fix this. So the first comment on am I

585
00:27:59,240 --> 00:28:02,119
Speaker 2: the Devil is like like, oh yeah, professors very famously

586
00:28:02,160 --> 00:28:03,680
Speaker 2: don't want to talk about what they're into.

587
00:28:04,080 --> 00:28:08,119
Speaker 3: Yeah, and also, yeah, it's you're stupid. If you're kind,

588
00:28:08,800 --> 00:28:12,000
Speaker 3: you should not be asking questions because that's not something

589
00:28:12,040 --> 00:28:16,920
Speaker 3: that's not smart people do only famously. Smart questions exist

590
00:28:17,359 --> 00:28:22,040
Speaker 3: and stupid questions exist. But and you shouldn't be asking

591
00:28:22,040 --> 00:28:24,480
Speaker 3: the stupid questions to the smart people. Let them talk.

592
00:28:24,800 --> 00:28:26,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, woman speak when spoken to.

593
00:28:27,200 --> 00:28:32,240
Speaker 3: Literally, she was so great. That was the best wittiest response.

594
00:28:32,480 --> 00:28:33,240
Speaker 2: Like, I don't know.

595
00:28:33,320 --> 00:28:37,440
Speaker 3: I think this guy is self conscious about his really

596
00:28:37,480 --> 00:28:40,160
Speaker 3: just projection. Yeah, very upseid that a woman is smarter

597
00:28:40,240 --> 00:28:42,600
Speaker 3: than him. Yeah, like god, why do you have to

598
00:28:42,880 --> 00:28:45,040
Speaker 3: if you know multiple languages, you're smarter than me.

599
00:28:45,320 --> 00:28:48,280
Speaker 2: Yes, I agree with that one hundred percent. Yeah, yeah,

600
00:28:48,800 --> 00:28:51,080
Speaker 2: I can't. I just don't have that processing power. I

601
00:28:51,080 --> 00:28:54,880
Speaker 2: feel like, you know, I've tried many feel like I.

602
00:28:54,800 --> 00:28:57,800
Speaker 3: Still have a little bit remnants. But yeah, sometimes I

603
00:28:57,800 --> 00:28:59,760
Speaker 3: can remember. But it's like literally, if I don't do

604
00:28:59,800 --> 00:29:01,240
Speaker 3: it for a week, uh, it's.

605
00:29:01,080 --> 00:29:04,800
Speaker 2: Gone, gone, got out, Yeah, it is gone. God.

606
00:29:05,600 --> 00:29:09,400
Speaker 3: Yeah, she sounds incredibly smart. And I actually would take

607
00:29:09,480 --> 00:29:12,959
Speaker 3: the opinion of a smart person complimenting another smart person

608
00:29:13,880 --> 00:29:16,480
Speaker 3: over the idea of a guy that goes to Reddit to.

609
00:29:16,480 --> 00:29:20,360
Speaker 2: Dunk on his wife for being that. Yeah, it's really

610
00:29:20,480 --> 00:29:24,760
Speaker 2: wild to me, Like yeah, like god, that's so crazy,

611
00:29:25,000 --> 00:29:28,440
Speaker 2: so fucked up. I can't imagine, Like I don't like

612
00:29:28,480 --> 00:29:31,719
Speaker 2: being with someone you think is just stupid. Yeah, Like

613
00:29:31,760 --> 00:29:35,040
Speaker 2: I like, yeah, what you're just dunking on your wife,

614
00:29:35,080 --> 00:29:37,160
Speaker 2: like you just hate her At this point, I yet know, like,

615
00:29:37,280 --> 00:29:40,320
Speaker 2: fuck fucking weirdre just trying to find any excuse anything

616
00:29:40,360 --> 00:29:43,400
Speaker 2: you could even remotely grapple on. But you're using this weird,

617
00:29:43,520 --> 00:29:46,480
Speaker 2: twisted logic that doesn't make any fucking sense.

618
00:29:46,640 --> 00:29:49,040
Speaker 3: No, And the idea that you have to be smart

619
00:29:49,080 --> 00:29:52,360
Speaker 3: to get a PhD. Oh, no, PhD is just again

620
00:29:52,520 --> 00:29:55,840
Speaker 3: Jordan Peterson has a PhD.

621
00:29:56,040 --> 00:29:57,960
Speaker 2: All a PhD. And I mean, you know, there's a

622
00:29:58,000 --> 00:29:59,400
Speaker 2: lot of different theories about like, you know, I think

623
00:29:59,400 --> 00:30:01,160
Speaker 2: I'm not saying that like a pha's worthless. I'm not

624
00:30:01,160 --> 00:30:03,560
Speaker 2: saying that at all. No, But I think a college

625
00:30:03,560 --> 00:30:06,920
Speaker 2: degree in a PhD is a sign of just working

626
00:30:07,280 --> 00:30:08,280
Speaker 2: on something.

627
00:30:08,200 --> 00:30:12,600
Speaker 3: The ability to pay or to get a thing. You

628
00:30:12,680 --> 00:30:15,400
Speaker 3: have the ability to work on something for a long time,

629
00:30:16,040 --> 00:30:20,080
Speaker 3: and that's great, very good at working. That's what a

630
00:30:20,080 --> 00:30:22,920
Speaker 3: PhD means. It doesn't necessarily mean that you are a

631
00:30:22,960 --> 00:30:25,800
Speaker 3: smart person, or that you are good at learning, or

632
00:30:25,840 --> 00:30:28,720
Speaker 3: that you are continuously good and smart.

633
00:30:28,440 --> 00:30:31,920
Speaker 2: At learning even after college. It doesn't mean shit. I

634
00:30:31,920 --> 00:30:36,000
Speaker 2: remember my like psych teacher from high school once said, like,

635
00:30:36,040 --> 00:30:39,080
Speaker 2: you know, like fucking doctors are sometimes just mechanics, but

636
00:30:39,160 --> 00:30:41,440
Speaker 2: the body. Yeah, they still can't figure out how to

637
00:30:41,480 --> 00:30:44,600
Speaker 2: work a fucking like laundry machine or at like you know,

638
00:30:44,880 --> 00:30:47,280
Speaker 2: because you know, we're not only that too, but like intelligence,

639
00:30:47,320 --> 00:30:50,320
Speaker 2: you know, very is a broad thing, right yeah. It's

640
00:30:50,320 --> 00:30:53,040
Speaker 2: not like if you're really smart, you're really good at everything,

641
00:30:53,160 --> 00:30:55,480
Speaker 2: you're fucking you got the limitless pill, right, No.

642
00:30:55,600 --> 00:30:57,719
Speaker 3: And I think people think that because the people that

643
00:30:57,720 --> 00:31:01,560
Speaker 3: they think are intelligent are inherently cures and want to

644
00:31:01,640 --> 00:31:04,240
Speaker 3: learn about a lot of different Like Hank Green. I

645
00:31:04,280 --> 00:31:06,880
Speaker 3: think he'll I think he's very intelligent, But I think

646
00:31:06,920 --> 00:31:10,080
Speaker 3: also what really if I think about one word that

647
00:31:10,120 --> 00:31:13,720
Speaker 3: describes Hank Green, it's curious. Yes, No, I agree with that,

648
00:31:13,840 --> 00:31:16,240
Speaker 3: and his needs like a wealth of knowledge. There are

649
00:31:16,280 --> 00:31:18,200
Speaker 3: just people out there that are like sponges that.

650
00:31:18,160 --> 00:31:19,800
Speaker 2: Need that shit. No, yeah, for sure.

651
00:31:19,880 --> 00:31:21,480
Speaker 3: And there are people out there that are not, And

652
00:31:21,520 --> 00:31:24,920
Speaker 3: that's also fine. And I don't think a PhD necessarily

653
00:31:24,960 --> 00:31:27,160
Speaker 3: even means that a PhD is you want to learn

654
00:31:27,160 --> 00:31:30,200
Speaker 3: a lot about one very specific thing. That's fine, that's

655
00:31:30,280 --> 00:31:34,680
Speaker 3: completely fine, everything's fine. Yeah, but it doesn't necessarily mean

656
00:31:34,720 --> 00:31:36,680
Speaker 3: that you are a broadly intelligent person.

657
00:31:36,960 --> 00:31:40,120
Speaker 2: Yeah you know what you mean? Yeah, if you, yeah,

658
00:31:40,160 --> 00:31:42,840
Speaker 2: I think. And also I hate people that use it

659
00:31:42,880 --> 00:31:46,840
Speaker 2: as a weapon to mean like, oh, oh this guy's smart. No, like, oh,

660
00:31:46,880 --> 00:31:47,160
Speaker 2: you have.

661
00:31:47,120 --> 00:31:48,280
Speaker 3: To listen to me, I have a PhD.

662
00:31:48,400 --> 00:31:51,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, exactly, No, very clearly, it doesn't even seem like

663
00:31:51,120 --> 00:31:53,680
Speaker 2: that guy's like it too, Like he seems very much

664
00:31:53,760 --> 00:31:57,480
Speaker 2: like he likes talking about his fucking work, you know. Yeah.

665
00:31:57,520 --> 00:31:59,840
Speaker 2: And also if your wife is more interested in your

666
00:32:00,080 --> 00:32:02,960
Speaker 2: friend than you are in your friend, your friend's gonna

667
00:32:03,000 --> 00:32:05,960
Speaker 2: fucking talk to your wife more than you. Yeah, because

668
00:32:06,000 --> 00:32:09,360
Speaker 2: your wife's a better person. I don't know, yeah, like

669
00:32:09,400 --> 00:32:11,200
Speaker 2: I don't know, like yeah, and also like I don't know,

670
00:32:11,280 --> 00:32:13,760
Speaker 2: like getting taken advantage of why are you blaming your

671
00:32:13,840 --> 00:32:17,040
Speaker 2: wife for being taken advantage of? Why people get robbed

672
00:32:17,080 --> 00:32:20,040
Speaker 2: all the time? Oh for sure, Yeah, I still get

673
00:32:20,080 --> 00:32:22,560
Speaker 2: credit card fraud, you know, like fucking yeah, you go

674
00:32:22,640 --> 00:32:25,000
Speaker 2: to one parking garage and use your credit card that's

675
00:32:25,040 --> 00:32:27,720
Speaker 2: how you have you're fucks. I don't know, like shit,

676
00:32:28,880 --> 00:32:30,720
Speaker 2: h and fifty bucks, it's scammed.

677
00:32:30,760 --> 00:32:32,960
Speaker 3: In college, I was just walking and a guy was like,

678
00:32:32,960 --> 00:32:35,400
Speaker 3: how would you like to buy some magazines? And I

679
00:32:35,480 --> 00:32:39,960
Speaker 3: was like, oh, fuck, I know that I'm gonna get scammed.

680
00:32:40,160 --> 00:32:41,160
Speaker 2: I knew immediately.

681
00:32:41,360 --> 00:32:44,200
Speaker 3: I couldn't say no because I was a fucking, you know,

682
00:32:44,400 --> 00:32:45,200
Speaker 3: nineteen year old.

683
00:32:45,280 --> 00:32:49,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, and you're like, you know, socially like shit, it's like, yeah.

684
00:32:49,480 --> 00:32:52,200
Speaker 3: This guy was like, think of the children, this is

685
00:32:52,240 --> 00:32:54,280
Speaker 3: gonna help the children. You know, it's for the children.

686
00:32:54,360 --> 00:32:56,959
Speaker 3: Give me two hundred dollars. And it was straight up,

687
00:32:57,000 --> 00:32:59,880
Speaker 3: like a stick up without a gun, like oh for sure.

688
00:33:00,400 --> 00:33:03,680
Speaker 3: Like I walked me to an ATM and I had

689
00:33:03,720 --> 00:33:05,960
Speaker 3: to be like, I don't have two hundred dollars? Do

690
00:33:06,000 --> 00:33:09,040
Speaker 3: you need what about sixty? I basically just gave this

691
00:33:09,080 --> 00:33:13,320
Speaker 3: guy money. Yeah, And I was just like, you know what, yeah,

692
00:33:13,360 --> 00:33:15,800
Speaker 3: I have sixty dollars. Like if you just asked me

693
00:33:15,840 --> 00:33:18,760
Speaker 3: for money, I would have given you like twenty thirty dollars,

694
00:33:19,120 --> 00:33:21,320
Speaker 3: but no, yeah, you had to do this shit and

695
00:33:21,360 --> 00:33:23,120
Speaker 3: I gave you. I would have just given it to

696
00:33:23,160 --> 00:33:26,440
Speaker 3: you anyway, because I'm stupid with money. But no, it

697
00:33:26,520 --> 00:33:27,920
Speaker 3: was just like I would have given this money to

698
00:33:27,920 --> 00:33:29,680
Speaker 3: you if you just fucking asked and told me that

699
00:33:29,760 --> 00:33:33,200
Speaker 3: you needed it. Yeah, but no, Okay, got scammed.

700
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Speaker 2: Whatever. God, man, fucking ridiculous, Yeah, God, just God. How

701
00:33:39,960 --> 00:33:41,720
Speaker 2: do you hate your wife? Yeah? You hate your wife?

702
00:33:41,760 --> 00:33:45,720
Speaker 2: You just hate your wife, just admit it. Thought it

703
00:33:45,800 --> 00:33:49,920
Speaker 2: my fucking wife, right, my wife leather asking questions about

704
00:33:50,000 --> 00:33:53,480
Speaker 2: things and knowing multiple languages and speaks like a native

705
00:33:54,960 --> 00:33:59,040
Speaker 2: and it's curious, and it is curious. Fucking dumb ass

706
00:33:59,160 --> 00:34:02,680
Speaker 2: kind curious kind kindness means stupid, literally.

707
00:34:02,360 --> 00:34:04,480
Speaker 3: The only two things you have to be to be intelligent.

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